Sermon
True Identity is Received (Ephesians 2:10, 1 John 3:1)
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Amen. So being a guest guest speaker,
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there's always like a question of of like how, how you know
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how, how, what can I bring up to you guys so that I can make a
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point something that you know, brings you some kind of
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nourishment or inspiration or can I do I say something that's
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controversial, that's pointed and I chose for the kinder,
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gentler message today. OK, so I think and because
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here's the thing, like I even though I'm a pastor, that
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doesn't make me necessarily a professional at these things.
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Amen. It doesn't necessarily mean that
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I don't struggle like you do. Being a pastor doesn't
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necessarily mean I'm an expert at these things or that I
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practice them so much better than everybody else.
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It's some simply not true. There are certain parts of the
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Bible that I've known my entire life and yet I continue to
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transform to struggle. And one of the things that for
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me is difficult is this idea of your identity, yourself worth
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right at the core of who you are.
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The question is, who are you? Who are you?
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OK, so when you get pulled over, you know, the police asks you
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for your driver's license because they want to know
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quickly, who are you, where you live, where you coming from?
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And my driver's license, you look at it says I'm 6 feet, 175
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lbs. I used to be like 2/10 of praise
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God, I lost some weight. Potter just described me what I
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do. You know, I, I am a hospital
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chaplain at a major hospital and then I am also a Hospice
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chaplain on the site. But these are not my core
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identity, OK? Our core identity has to do also
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with our self worth, right? So one of the questions is what
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do we do? A lot of us here who have jobs
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or careers, what do you do? I don't know, when you guys meet
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someone new, often that question comes up, right?
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Like, what do you do? And when I ask somebody what
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they do, I, I find two different reactions usually coming from
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them. Either one is 1 of like pride.
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Oh, like, well, you know, I'm a lawyer, I'm a doctor, right?
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And, and then it's kind of like thinly veiled humility, but you
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know, they're very proud of what they do for sure, right.
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And then there are those who are like, not so proud of what they
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do, right? Oh, So what do you do?
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Oh, you know, I'm, I'm doing Uber right now or like Uber eats
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or, you know, they look crestfallen a little bit.
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They're kind of like their demeanor guys kind of goes.
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Some of them don't have jobs at all, Like, oh, I'm currently
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unemployed and I say, no, you're in between things.
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I'm sure you'll find something. I try to make them feel better.
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A lot of us have this tremendous pride about what you do with
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your life and good for you. No doubt.
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That's awesome. Some of us have a lot of pride
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or identity comes from being a parent, right.
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I realized that once I had my my daughter, my first born at
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Reagan, my life was not my own. I realized, holy smoke, right?
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There was just so much. And now that she's getting older
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and she's she recently just got into a really prestigious
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program. Do you see what I just did
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there? I slipped in my pride as a
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Korean parent, right? But I got to tell you, I'm the
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least Korean parent. As a Korean parent, I received
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so much trauma. So did my wife for my parents
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that we promised that we would not withhold our love because my
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kid got a, a minus. OK, we, we are so like trying so
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hard for Reagan to grow up without that kind of pressure.
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But the weird thing is she's putting that pressure on
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herself. OK, so she's getting into these
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programs and we're like, I can feel a little bit of my pride
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going at first. This is the funniest part.
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When she got into the program, my wife and I were like, are we
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sure that's not a mistake because she needed to pass a
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test and then lottery in. OK, so you got to pass that test
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1st and then you got a lottery. And then in that she got picked
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from the lottery. We're like, I don't know if she
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really got in. And then then she got placed
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into like the highest math class.
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And my daughter takes after me. We don't like math, so I don't
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know how that happens. So she's doing algebra at 6th
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grade, which is too mind blowing to me.
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My wife and I were like, I don't, I think they may have
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made a mistake. That's how we're thinking of it,
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right? But some of us for sure, we get,
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you know, we get this pride going about what our kids
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accomplishments are. We name Job kind of like how I
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did in front of you guys right now, right?
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Some of us are really prideful. We get our identity out of the
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gifts and talents that God has given to us.
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Some of us are very musically inclined, like our brother
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Potter. You know, some people are really
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good at speaking in front of people.
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You know, some people are are really good at making money or
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your accounts are really big. So there's like, it got all
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these talents and gifts and you derive a lot of pleasure out of
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that. You know, at my age, I just
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turned 50 not too long ago, and I haven't played basketball in
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something like 20 years. And my friend, some of my
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friends who had, you know, they were really good at basketball,
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man. I mean, they're just so good at
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it. And now they're blowing knees
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and Achilles, they're pulling and stuff.
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And that's like that. That part of their life is
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slowly slipping away. The pride of being such a great
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athlete. Or how about this, Maybe some of
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us have have your identity in Christian morality.
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You have this blessed gift of having a great moral compass.
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You seem to be always doing and saying the right things, right?
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And so that kind of leads some of us into Christian ministry
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where we get a lot of identity and self worth in serving God.
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You're known as somebody who serves the church or does things
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for church or you once did. And so that can even be your
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core identity. But these are all beautiful
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things for sure, all beautiful things, but not your core
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identity. I'm here to tell you two things.
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One, you are God's masterpiece and #2 you are God's beloved
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child. That's the point of my 2
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messages today, right? And so Tim Keller, my second
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favorite Pastor Tim, you got that, OK, You're awake.
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Your identity is received, not achieved.
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Pastor Tim Keller said your identity is received, not
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achieved. You guys hear that and I wish
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I'd made that up. It sounds so amazing.
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That's such a great line. If you remember nothing else
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from this message, I hope that you remember this.
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Your identity is received, not achieved.
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So much of our lives is conditional upon achieving,
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especially for a lot of us who are for Asian American families,
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who, you know, it's, it's constantly striving to achieve,
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to make something of yourself, to bootstrap and and perform at
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a high level. Some of our jobs, you guys are
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some of us are coming into a performance review, right, where
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the manager gets to tell you some things that you can work
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on, right. And you, how do you feel about
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that? You know, in front of the
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manager, like, oh, yeah, thank you.
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Yeah, I'm so grateful. But when you leave, you're like,
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Oh man, right. And like your, your raises, your
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promotions, your place in the company is all, you know,
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predicated on this achieving. And so we're right.
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When you wake up in the morning, your first thing that you think
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about is getting things done, especially for some of the young
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parents. I that's a lot of kids in this
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family in this church. And I love that sound of the
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kids running around with aunties and uncles saying hello.
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And I just love that vibe. So God bless you on that.
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But some of us were parents like it's like hit the ground and
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running. You got to do, you got to feed
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yourself, you got to feed the kids, you got to protect the
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kids, you got to dress the kid. Everything, everything is
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performance based. And then on top of all that,
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there's this constant feeling like nagging feeling like you're
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not doing enough. You're not such a great parent.
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You wish you could be a better parent, but in Jesus, your
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identity is received, not achieved.
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Amen. So number one, the first thing I
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want to say is you are God's masterpiece.
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Ephesians 210 says this. For we are God's workmanship
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created in Christ Jesus for good works, for we are God's
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workmanship. That word workmanship is also
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translated masterpiece or craftsmanship.
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And so each and of us in this room is basically we are God's
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masterpiece. Did you know that when you are
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gone from this earth, there will never be another one like you?
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There's another weird word of saying that that's that means
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you're one-of-a-kind. Amen.
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And when I think of that word masterpiece.
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And by the way, this word workmanship in Greek is poema,
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which is where we get the word poem, which is an artistic or
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skillful written work, right? That's what a poem.
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I'm not a huge poem guy, but I do that does sound very amazing
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and beautiful. But this is the idea of
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something artistically made, skillfully made, beautifully
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made. When I think of masterpieces, I
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start thinking of paintings. Do you guys do that?
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And the painting that I think of most is Van Gogh's Starry Night.
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And I brought it from my house actually today.
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Yeah. You guys know this one, right?
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This is probably one of the most famous.
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I'm going to prop it against this mic stand.
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This particular painting has deeper personal meaning for me
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because on one of my my first real dates with my wife, who
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were my girlfriend at the time, we went to the MO Ma, which was
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in New York, and it was a target free Friday.
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So we got in for free, which makes the date even better.
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And so this starry night, Vincent van Gogh is kind of
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close to my heart as being, you know, just a a very novice
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newbie at art. I'm not going to pretend like
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I'm sophisticated. But Van Gogh, I don't know if,
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you know, this was a was it was a Christian.
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And he came from actually a family of pastors.
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He himself actually thought about going to seminary,
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realized that's not his thing. Aren't we so blessed that he
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didn't? Right.
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Right. And I don't know if you guys
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know this, but he considered this painting a failure.
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Yeah, I want to ask, how many of us in this room right now to 1°
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or another sometimes wrestle with that feeling of being a
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failure? Yeah, but Ephesians 210 says we
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are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works.
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We all masterpieces, never to be duplicated again.
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You are one-of-a-kind. That's what makes this painting
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so priceless. You cannot put a price to this.
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Why? Because it's one-of-a-kind, it
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will never be made again. And I don't want to downplay
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this, but it is nothing compared to who you are in Jesus, Amen.
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You are a masterpiece. Turn to your neighbor and say,
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hey, you're a masterpiece. It sounds funny, it sounds
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incredible, it is unbelievable, Amen.
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Which is why we all struggle with the idea.
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We struggle because it's so true and it feels so cheaply had not
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so not cheaply had. Ask your mom, was it easy to
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have you OK? Or the way that God created each
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and everyone. Psalm 13914.
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This is awesome. It says I praise you because I
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am fearfully and wonderfully made.
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Your works are wonderful. I know that full well.
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David had a real deep appreciation for the human body
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and what it could do, what it does, how it restores itself,
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how it repairs itself, how each morning it is able to be
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refreshed. You know, there is so much we
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don't understand about the human body.
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I'm a hospital chaplain, so I get to see all the floors of the
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hospital. You know, the nurses and doctors
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who are in different departments and units, they don't actually
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cross over to other units unless you're a floater.
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But as a chaplain, I go to all these.
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I go to the EDI, go to the ICU. I go to the NICU.
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I go to all these places. And one of the things that's
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really astounding to me is how little medical science can do.
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Don't get me wrong, The technology is amazing, OK?
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Like, now I've seen, you know, X-ray machines.
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You know, back in the day, you had to go to the X-ray room.
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Nowadays, the X-ray come to you. Is there anyone in the
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healthcare industry here? You guys will know what I'm
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talking about, right? Nowadays they push this, the
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X-ray machines, these things are like 20-30, forty, $1000, and
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they come to the room. So technology is amazing, but in
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terms of trying to make sick people, well, sometimes it's
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just like you just got to wait it out.
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They give you some medicines and this and that.
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And especially where I'm working in the ICU, there's just such a
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sense of hopelessness there. There's so little the middle
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size understands and can do. My point is, is that you have
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been fearfully and wonderfully made by our Creator.
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Amen. Yeah.
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There's so how intricate and complex our bodies are.
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And in Hebrew, this word fearfully is yaray.
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Yaray. This word has this essence of
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awe, reverence and deep respect. But how many times, brothers and
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sisters, do you look in the mirror and go, man, amazing,
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right? None of us, right?
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Every time you guys are looking in the mirror, something is
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wrong, right? A freckle, A pimple, a hair out
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of place, right? We're always condemning and
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shaming ourselves when we're looking in the mirror.
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We don't have this deep sense of reverence and respect.
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But think about how little your input was asked for when you
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were made, right? When God created you.
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You didn't ask for your height, your weight.
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You didn't ask for how many fingers or toes.
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And all of this is so wonderfully made, marvelous and
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extraordinary with. And then not just that, that's
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just the human body, right? But think about the things that
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that that make up who you are character wise, personality
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wise, your talents, your passions, your intellect.
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OK, I got it. My daughter Reagan, she's like
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really into crafts right now. She's into little ducks, so
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she's hot gluing ducks on everything.
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Went to Disneyland and she put ducks on her ear, mouse ears.
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And it turned out to be a good thing because she lost her ears
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on the ride. And then when she came back,
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they're like, which one is yours?
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The one with the ducks. And she was immediately able to
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get her ears back. And then my little one, she's
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not so much into her crafts, but she loves to dance, right?
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She's watching all this BTS, you know, black, pink, and then you
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know, Huntrex, you know the whole that golden song, right?
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EJ and them. And she's she, she can memorize
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all the lyrics. She's only 6.
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And I'm looking at her and like my wife and I are like, I don't
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know if that comes for you or from me, but just amazing how we
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have these different talents and gifts and passions into a
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physical body that builds, restores and repairs itself.
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We are God's craftsmanship, one-of-a-kind and original.
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But you may say, oh, John, Pastor John, I don't feel like
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an amazing masterpiece. I'm not doing well in school.
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I'm not Maybe I'm you're not doing well in your job or, or
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marriage, or maybe a lack of a marriage.
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You're looking to get married. I've made so many mistakes, you
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may say, or you may say. I've been hurt so much by
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others. But none of your failures and
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mistakes and hurts changes how God sees you.
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You are his masterpiece. Allow me to share this one
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illustration. It's a special form of Japanese
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art. It is the art of imperfection.
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I'd be impressed if anyone knows what this is.
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Anyone know what it is? Very good.
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Who said that? Very good.
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Very good. That's right.
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It's called Kinsugi, OK. It's basically art of
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imperfection. Is beauty out of the broken.
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OK, So basically it's a way of restoring broken pottery.
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And the way they restore it is with this rare SAP of a tree.
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And SAP is another word of saying blood, OK?
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It's like the rare blood of trees.
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And then what you do is you dust it with gold.
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Now here's the crazy part. Once the broken pottery is
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restored, it becomes more valuable and more beautiful than
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before. Amen.
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Yeah. And who is that?
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That's you and me, brothers and sisters.
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Our sin in our hurts, in our wounds and our mistakes are
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restored not with tree sapping gold, but with the precious
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blood of Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.
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A new creation is what Paul calls it, right?
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We are new creation in Christ and He is so close to those that
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are broken hearted, the imperfect, the misfits, that's
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you and me. But God sees us as a
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masterpiece. Isn't that good?
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OK #2 who are you? What is your core identity?
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Number one, we said you are God's masterpiece in Christ
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Jesus #2 who are you? You are God's dearly beloved
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child. Have you ever thought about this
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question? Like what is the point of all of
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us? Like why are we here?
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Why did God create us? Why did God create us, right?
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It's so that we can go to church and read the Bible and and pray.
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Some of our holy rollers can go to like, you know, morning
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service, you know, like if you're really holy.
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And so God created us so that we could do all these things for
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him. That is not why God created us.
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God created us for the same reason why families want to have
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children is to share their love, right?
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Is to create a family. God created us to build a
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family. Amen.
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First John 31 says this. See what great love the Father
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has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God
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and that is what we are. That is your core identity.
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Says read it again. See what great love the Father
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has lavished on us that we should be called children of God
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and that is what we are, our core identity.
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It's not wrapped up in what you do with your life.
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It's not how much money you have.
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It's not how handsome or beautiful you are.
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Your core identity is in Jesus because of his great love for
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us. We are his children.
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And I love this word lavish. Do we use, We don't use this
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word that often, but I love it. I love this word lavish.
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It means basically spending or giving more than is necessary to
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give in excess or extravagantly. OK, when I think of lavish, I, I
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think of my brother-in-law. He works for Disney.
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So we get the, we get a chance to go to, to Disneyland and
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pretty often I, I would say more often than we should actually
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get real tired. But so we went this past Friday
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and every time we go, my, my brother-in-law, he, you know, he
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lets us in, you know, which is a great gift upon itself.
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But then, you know, he, he buys us food and with my daughters
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that we go into a store and he buys them whatever they want in
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the store, not whatever they want, but within reason.
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And to me, that feels like so much like, like lavish love,
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right? I feel like a parent's job is to
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unspoil their children and uncles and aunties are there to
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spoil children. You see what I'm saying?
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And and they just, he just lavishes on them with all these
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extravagant gifts. Here's the thing.
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How did the Father lavish us with great love?
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John 316 We all know it. For God so loved the world that
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he gave his one and only Son. Amen.
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He lavished his love in this. Because here's the thing, love
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causes us to give, OK? Love causes us to give.
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The greater the love, the greater the give.
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I remember when my grandparents were still with us.
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Oh, yeah, we go visit them and then when we say, oh, we have to
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go, and then my grandmother starts opening up a bag and
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starts throwing in whatever she sees around her, a bag of
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peanuts and like Bengay or like whatever's around, right?
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She just loves us so much. She just, or she'll still take
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out a bunch of like Korean food and start stuffing into bags
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because the greater the love, the greater the give, right?
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And in our father, he gives us his most precious thing.
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It doesn't say that God had ten sons.
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It says that he had one son, and our Father in his great love
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gives us the most precious one and only son.
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That's what we celebrate Christmas for.
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We can say happy holidays blue in the face, but we're all
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trying to say Merry Christmas, Amen.
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When we all celebrate God's greatest gift, which is why
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we're giving gifts to each other, because we're remembering
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how God gave us his most precious gift.
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Amen. Yeah.
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The greatest gift of all. That's why we're giving gifts to
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each other. You ever thought about that?
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Why are we giving gifts to each other?
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Yeah, it's because we are remembering God's gift to us.
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If you guys know who Tony Dungy is, he's now a commentator, but
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he used to be a Super Bowl winning coach of the
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Indianapolis Colts and once. I don't know if you guys know
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this, but he's a big Christian. He's a believer.
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He said this. If God were to ask for my son in
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exchange to save the world, I would have to say, I'm sorry,
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Lord, I cannot give up my son to save the world.
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But that is what God did. He gave up his son so that we
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might be saved. Think about that folks for a
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second, especially those of us who are parents in this room,
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right? What parent would willingly give
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up their child to die for someone else?
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I'm a pastor and all, but I'm sorry, that's not something I'm
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going to do. I will not give up my child for
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someone else. But that's exactly what God does
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for us. Romans 5 says very rarely will
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anyone die for a righteous person, though for a good
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person, someone might possibly dare to die, right?
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But God demonstrates his own love for us in this while we
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were sinners, Christ died for us.
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Amen. That means what does that mean?
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That's that means that God did not send Jesus to die for us
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when we were doing really good, morally upright and virtuous
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things. He died when we were at our
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worst. The amazing thing about this is
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this, and we don't actually run across this anywhere in the
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world. Only in God do we find this word
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unconditional love, unconditional love.
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This gets thrown around a lot, but basically what it means is a
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fancy way of saying God loves you no matter what.
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Amen. No matter what, no matter what,
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He cannot love you anymore or any less than he does right now.
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Amen. Isn't that good?
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You can read your Bible backwards and forwards 100 times
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and come to, you know, every. There's no religious or virtuous
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thing can you ever do that makes God love you more?
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Amen. Gosh, on the other side, there's
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no sin that you can do as much as you do that making God love
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you any less. Hey man, imagine trying that at
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your work. I'm going to go to work when I
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feel like it. See how that works out, right?
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I think you just do whatever you want at work.
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Never. It's always conditional.
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Every single thing is conditional.
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Even in schools, everything is conditional, right?
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Don't go to class. See how that works?
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Stuff is exactly what I did in my life in high school.
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I got kicked out of high school because I ditched so much.
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I didn't end up graduating high school.
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You're looking at probably one of the few Koreans.
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I'm a Unicorn, guys. OK, You've not met a Korean guy
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that did not graduate high school?
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I have a GED. It's not the same thing.
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It's a good enough diploma, OK? I should have just taken my
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freshman year and just get it out of the way.
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And I went to junior college. I went to UCLA.
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OK, So my children, friends here.
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Little misled crowd. OK, Yes.
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You're good at football. Good for you.
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All right, Good for you. OK.
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All right. But what it means is that no
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matter what, God cannot love you anymore or less than he already
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does right now. In fact.
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In fact, it is a love so great and amazing it takes 66 books to
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tell us of his love. Essentially, the Bible is a
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giant love letter. Amen.
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It's a giant love letter, isn't it?
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Isn't that nice kind of like frame it that way instead of a
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religious book on got to read my Bible, right like blue in the
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face right all the past telling you to read your Bible.
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But when I tell you that truth be told, the Bible is a giant
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love letter, kind of changes things, doesn't it?
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Kind of reframe it. It's not religious anymore.
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It's relationship. Imagine if your mom or dad died
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and wrote you a letter before they died.
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Would you read that letter? How would you treat that letter?
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Is that, you know, when I have time, you know, I'll read it.
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You know, let me let you know. Let me just let me put this away
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while I'm doing other stuff. No way you would cherish that
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thing, right? You start memorizing and quoting
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it, right, wouldn't you? You understand my illustration
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right now, right? Why we're always saying we need
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to understand the word of God and read the word of God.
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Why? Because you won't know God's
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love unless you read the love letter, Amen?
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Isn't it a way better frame that way?
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Because now you don't have to feel condemned or guilty, You
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know, if you only read a little or read a lot, it's OK.
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Just read what you can, Amen? But you got to get the love
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letter in you, otherwise the world is going to crush your
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spirit. You guys hear what I'm saying?
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You go to work, you go to schools, you go to all these
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things, and you're constantly being measured, right about how
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well you do. And that's not who you are,
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Amen. You are a child, precious child
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of God. That's the truth.
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And if that gets inside of you, the love of God, and to the
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degree that you let it get in you by personal worship, by
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prayer, by singing praise right and letting it get in you, two
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things begin to happen. OK, Number one, right, You
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stopped searching for praise and affirmation from the world,
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Amen. That's powerful.
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OK? Number two thing it does is you
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don't get offended as easily, OK, You take criticism, OK, all
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right, that's something to work on.
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I got you right. But when you forget the love of
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God inside of you, the core identity, and you let that bloom
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inside of your heart, real deep, real deep and the criticisms and
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the weaknesses, the things you got to work on, it doesn't mean
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so much. You see what I'm saying?
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It's like one of the things I remember when I was watching K
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dramas and by the way, I'm old enough to remember like the
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original Cage. I'm like bullish again, like
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Tutu. Anyone know what those you guys
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don't even know what those are, right?
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I don't think you were even born then.
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OK, OK. But those are like the original
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Cage dramas. I remember watching this and
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like, after a while, I start to feel like this.
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Like, I start to feel like I can't measure up to these
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people. These are like, the most, like,
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spotless human beings ever, right?
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Like they're carrying their grandma 50, you know, 50 miles,
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You know, like, they're going to do any of this stuff, right?
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Like, you constantly measure yourself to other people, do you
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not? You know what happens when you
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compare yourself to other people?
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We talked about this years ago, right?
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When I was at your retreat. When you compare your life to
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other people, two things happen. Either 1.
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You get proud you're doing better than them, right?
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Or you feel bad because you're not doing as well, right?
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It's awful. It's an awful game.
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You cannot win, OK? But when you get filled with the
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love of God, you know where yourself worth comes from.
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It's not how much I make or what kind of car I drive or how big
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my house is if I have a house, right?
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It's about God's love for me showing through Jesus Christ.
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Amen. When that happens, then you feel
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so much lighter and happier and joyful.
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That's called the fruit of the Spirit.
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Amen. Isn't the more we understand
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God's love, the more we appreciate God's love, the more
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we let it get inside of our hearts, the more bulletproof you
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become. Isn't that great?
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The side of the, what happens in all of this is we become, we
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become bulletproof and the world does not, is not able to touch
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us and harm us the way it used to.
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All right. My, my, my wife has friends, you
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know, who are doing very well in life, OK.
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And, and I don't know if you have this phenomenon happening
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to you where maybe you're not doing it as well.
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And you can't go with them when they're going on vacation, some
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of these extravagant vacations, you know, they're going to a
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five star resorts and they're inviting us.
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But we all know back of their minds and back of our minds, we
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ain't going. We simply can't afford it, you
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know? And if, if I were, if, if, if
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my, my, if myself worth my entity identity was all wrapped
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up into how much I make as a provider, I would feel so bad,
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right? I would feel awful.
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I wouldn't want to kill myself, right?
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But I don't. I'm like, yeah, have fun, you
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know? That's great.
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You know, I'll see you back around here.
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Some parts. We'll go to San Diego or
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something, or something I can afford, you know what I mean?
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But so easily you, we are all made to feel lesser than because
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we can't keep up with the Joneses.
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All right? And if you ask them how they're
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doing, they're probably thinking on another level.
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You see what I'm saying? Oh, we're only going to this
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five star resort here. But my other friend, they're
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going to tell you that, you know what I'm saying?
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It's like the goal post keeps moving.
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You see what I'm saying? You achieve one and then it
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keeps moving forward. You're never able to be content
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with what you have. And Paul actually says
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contentment is great gain. Think on that for a second.
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Contentment is great gain. You know, we just celebrated
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Thanksgiving. I wonder how many of us are
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really, truly appreciative for the things that we have.
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There are people in the world who wish they could be you.
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They dream about it. I wish I could be in America.
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I wish I could be in California. I wish I could be in Torrance.
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Here that just constantly keeps going.
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But but for us, it's so easy when we don't have the love of
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God within us, then we begin to derive our identity from all
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these different places that the world tells us we need to have.
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We need to look like this. We got to drive that car.
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We got to have, you know, all these, these accomplishments,
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you know, So yeah, I didn't, I didn't graduate high school, but
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I got into UCLA, right, Right. And I was like so happy.
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And then once you get a certain time, like nobody cares what
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school you went to. Really.
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Nobody cares. Like my entire life, I thought
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my whole I did it, I thought my destiny.
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I thought when I got into UCLA, my whole life would be like, oh,
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yes, I finally made it. My life is going to be like easy
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from now on. Nobody cares.
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Nobody cares. And in this day and age, it
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seems to me like the colleges mean less and less, you know, as
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time seems to go by. My point is, of course, is that
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if we do not receive our core identity from God, we will begin
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to have core identities that are faults that are around us.
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There is only one place that is God's love, which is
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unconditional, which you'll always have.
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God's love is totally opposite from the world where love is
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totally conditional. People love you only if you're
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beautiful, rich, accomplished. We chase the love and approvable
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of people rather than soak in the amazing love of God that is
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always available to us. Amen, always available to US.
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One of the trippy parts of of Mark in the very beginning,
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there's a story where Jesus comes up out of the water and
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this it says the heavens tore open and the spirit came upon
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Jesus like a dev note. And then there was a voice.
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I said, you are my son whom I love, and in you I'm well
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pleased Jesus hadn't done anything.
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This is the first chapter you see that how Jesus's heart was
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so full of God's love and affirmation that it made it
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possible for him to walk through life and eventually go to the
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cross for us and then come back for three days later to show us
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that it's not the end. I'm going to wrap this up with a
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final story from one of my favorite Christian authors, name
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is Philip Yancey. He's not theologically deep, but
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he tells really great stories. And so here's one of the stories
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and we'll finish today. I quote, I remember few of the
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many sermons I have ever heard in my life.
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An exception being the only sermon I heard preached by an
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Ian Pitt Watson, a professor at Fuller Seminary.
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His sermon had one point, not 3, which may explain why I still
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remember it. Some things are loved because
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they are worthy. Some things are worthy because
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they are loved. Pitt Watson began with examples
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of things we love because of their inherent worth.
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Gorgeous supermodels, gifted athletes, brilliant scientists,
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priceless works of art. Then he mentioned an object of
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no intrinsic worth that was greatly loved regardless.
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He told of his daughter Rosemary's rag doll.
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Dirty, threadbare, but the most precious of all her possessions.
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Like Linus with his blanket, Rosemary could not bear to face
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life without her rag doll. When the Pitt Watsons relocated
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from Scotland across the ocean to America, each member of the
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family carefully selected what possessions to bring along.
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Rosemary chose just one article, her rag doll.
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When she replaced misplaced the rag doll in the airport,
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Rosemary became so distraught that the family considered
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postponing their flight. Found at last, the doll had
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magical powers to calm the little girl.
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It had little worth in itself, but much worth in her eyes.
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Pitt Watson proceeded to make the biblical application.
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God's love, thankfully, is not based on our intrinsic worth.
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It comes by grace, a priceless yet free gift that bestows worth
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on the most unlovable object. Some things are loved because
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they are worthy, and some are worthy because they are loved.
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Theologically, we fit the latter category.
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In the words of Saint Augustine, by loving the unlovable, you
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made me lovable. Let us pray.
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And I want to give you guys just a few minutes to connect with
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the the love that you have been waiting for your whole life.
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It is love of God in Christ Jesus.
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You are God's masterpiece. You are God's dearly beloved
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child.