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The Gospel According to Philemon | Philemon 17-25
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Welcome to Ontario Community Church,
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where we're dedicated to encouraging, equipping,
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and engaging lives for Christ.
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Located in Ontario, Oregon,
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Pastor Patrick Daley preaches insightful sermons
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from the Word of God,
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offering practical applications for modern living.
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We're delighted to share this sermon with you.
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Well, good morning Ontario Community Church.
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Let's go ahead and head back to our seats.
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Well, it is great to be with all of you here this morning.
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Fall is here.
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Well, my name is Patrick Daley,
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and I'm the pastor here at Ontario Community Church,
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and it is a privilege to be here with you,
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to serve with you, and to preach from the Word of God.
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Today, we are gonna be finishing up our series
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on the book of Philemon.
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We've been learning about how we go from useless to useful,
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very powerful words.
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And we learn about why we must surrender to Christ.
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To choose Christ, it is the beginning.
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It is not the end.
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We learned about what it means to be refreshed in Christ,
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and how we should pray that people will come to know the Lord.
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That's what we're all about here, my friends.
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The people will come to know Jesus Christ,
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that they will have them at the center of their lives.
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That they'll grow in faith.
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They'll make that decision for Christ.
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We learned about the relationship
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that was between Paul and Onesimus,
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and that Paul is making an appeal to Philemon.
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And so today, I have the title of the slides,
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gonna be up here.
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The Gospel According to Philemon.
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What is that all about?
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How does the book of Philemon, the letter to Philemon
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from the apostle Paul,
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how does that have to do with the Gospel?
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We're gonna learn about that today.
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We saw about how Paul was appealing to,
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or Paul was appealing to Philemon to take back Onesimus,
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not as a slave or a bond-servant,
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but to receive him as a brother in Christ.
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This is so significant in the letter.
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Perhaps it was the will of God that Onesimus,
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although he did wrong, came to know the Lord.
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That's what Paul was writing.
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Onesimus went from being a sinner to free,
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and he is being sent back as a free man.
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And this leads us to today.
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But before we do that, I want us to pray.
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Let's pray before we go any further.
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Father, we pray that as we conclude this little letter
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from the apostle Paul to Philemon,
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that we learn more about you
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and how this letter connects to the Gospel message.
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Maybe learn about your grace and your mercy
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and the love that you have for us.
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For as scripture says, you knew us before we were born,
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and you give us life here on the earth.
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Father, you sent your son Jesus,
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who forgives us for all of our sins
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and paid the debt, the burden of sin.
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All we need to do is to put our faith
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in your son Jesus Christ.
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May we be refreshed in your love today.
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And we say this in the name of Jesus Christ.
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We pray amen.
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Amen.
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So I want to start off with this question.
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We'll put this on the slide.
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Can you think of a time where someone stood up for you
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or when you stood up for someone?
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You can probably think of times
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when you were a young child, right?
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When you were going to school
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and you stood up for someone,
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or maybe as an adult,
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perhaps you can think of a time
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when you saw someone doing wrong.
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Maybe you offered to help a brother or a sister out.
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Maybe there was someone who you helped
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when they were down, a shoulder to cry on,
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just being there to a listening ear for someone.
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Maybe there is a time where you needed to be there
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to help someone out.
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Can you think of a time like that?
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You don't have to raise your hand,
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but I hope that all of us can think of a time
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where we helped someone out or someone helped us out.
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Someone comforted us and was there for us.
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And how did that, how did that change the trajectory
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in your friendship with this person?
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Or how did that affect you?
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I think of times when we're down or we're sad.
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Look, being here on earth isn't perfect.
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There's a lot of overwhelming emotions.
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There's a lot of things that happen in our culture
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that's just, it's like weight that's on our shoulder.
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And sometimes we just need someone to talk to.
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Sometimes we have someone who's there for us
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who is just listening there for us.
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When we think of times where someone comes into our lives
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and helps us, don't we remember it?
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Don't we remember a friend or maybe even a family member
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who was there for us?
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When someone helps you or protects you,
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maybe defends you.
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I think of the times, the many examples we can think of
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of someone who's bullying someone at school
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and someone stands up to the bully, right?
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It makes a profound impact on our lives.
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And that kind of feeling, that memory that we have
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of a situation like this, it's an example of a connection
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with what we're going to explore
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in our verses in Philemon today.
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We see that the apostle Paul is offering to pay Philemon
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for the wrong that Onesimus has done.
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To charge it onto Paul's account.
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Paul is saying to Philemon,
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whatever wrong Onesimus did, charge it to my account.
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It's a great reminder.
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Doesn't it remind you of the Good Samaritan?
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There's a parallel that exists in this part of in scripture.
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But it also reminds us, and it should remind us
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of the gospel.
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Remind us about how Jesus Christ paid for our sins,
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charged it on his account, if you will,
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by his death on the cross.
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Paul is stepping in on Onesimus's behalf.
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And I would like for us to read the text together.
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Let's go to our Bibles.
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I'll put that on the screen.
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Please turn to the book of Philemon,
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page 1186 in your ESVP Bible.
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Or if you're using NIV, KJV, whatever translation,
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please turn to the book of Philemon.
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And let's follow along.
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We'll start off in verse 17.
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All right, are we ready?
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So if you consider me your partner,
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receive him as you would receive me.
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If he has wronged you at all or owes you anything,
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charge that to my account.
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Now, pretty significant part.
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I, Paul, write this with my own hand.
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I will repay it.
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To say nothing of your owing me, even your own self.
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Yes, brother, I want some benefit from you in the Lord.
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Refresh my heart in Christ.
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A beautiful language.
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I wish to be refreshed.
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Confident of your obedience, I write to you,
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knowing that you will do even more than I say.
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At the same time, prepare a guest room for me.
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For I am hoping that through your prayers,
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I will be graciously given to you.
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Epipharthas, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus,
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sends greetings to you.
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And so do Mark, Architius, Dimas, and Luke,
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my fellow workers.
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The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, be with your spirit.
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So we start off in verse 17.
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If you consider me your partner,
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receive him as you would receive me.
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Well, we start off, we're at the part
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where Paul is continuing to appeal to Philemon.
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The word partner, it's a word that is used
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also in 2 Corinthians chapter eight, verse 23.
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You don't have to turn there.
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But what's happening is there's the mention of Titus
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as a fellow worker, a fellow partner if you will.
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The word partner, it's defined as a associate,
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a companion or a partner.
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So having a partnership if you will.
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So Paul is saying here that if you work with me,
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you should receive Onesimus.
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You should receive my child in Christ if you will.
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You should receive him as a fellow brother in Christ.
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All of this is part of Paul's appeal.
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We then go into verse 18, which says,
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if he has wronged you at all or owes you anything,
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charge that to my account.
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That is such beautiful language that reminds us
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of the good Samaritan and it reminds us of Jesus Christ.
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We see that Paul is, he's that fatherly figure
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towards Onesimus.
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He has that love, he has that bond.
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He's offering to pay off any debt
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that Onesimus has owed to Philemon.
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Now, we don't know exactly what Onesimus did,
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but the language that's being used in here,
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if he has wronged you at all or he owes you anything,
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that language can be used, did Onesimus cheat
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or did he steal from Philemon?
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We don't know the full scope of that.
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But what we do know is that Paul is offering to cover it all.
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And this verse is a reminder of what we find,
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like I said, in the story of the good Samaritan
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and the demonstration of the love that God has for us.
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Remember the good Samaritan,
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a man who is offering to pay at the hotel
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or the inn, if you will, charging it onto his accounts,
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that same kind of language, such beautiful language.
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When you're down or you're sad
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or if you've done something wrong,
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if someone's offering to pay,
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thank you, Paul.
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Thank you, good Samaritan.
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Such beautiful language.
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Jesus paid it all through his life, his ministry,
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his death, his burial and resurrection,
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the fulfillment of prophecy.
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In verse 19, I wanna go ahead
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and put this on the screen here.
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What's very interesting about this,
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so it says, I, Paul, write this with my own hand.
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I will repay it.
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To say nothing of your owing me even your own self.
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So you'll see, it's in your notes and on the screen here,
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Paul says this, right?
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He says, I, Paul, write this greeting with my own hand.
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I love what Galatians says here.
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See what large letters I am writing to you,
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which is typically meant that it's hard for him to see,
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so he's writing with large letters, right?
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See with what large letters I am writing to you
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with my own hand.
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Colossians, I write this greeting with my own hand.
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Remember my chains, grace be with you.
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In 2 Thessalonians, I, Paul,
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write this greeting with my own hand.
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Well, the first thing we need to know
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is that it was common back in biblical times
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to have a scribe, to have someone write the letters for you.
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So what would happen here is you would have Paul dictate
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what needed to be written down, right?
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Just like how we have secretaries nowadays,
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they type really fast.
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Or I think of in court when there is a trial
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that's going on, someone's typing really fast.
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They do, what is that called?
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It's a, the transcription, right?
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They write shorthand, right?
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It's a shorter version and they type so fast,
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it's incredible.
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It's just like how, now they didn't have typewriters
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back then or computers,
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but they were writing with their own hand,
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the words of Paul.
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These people would help in the writing
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of divinely inspired texts.
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And I have to take a slight moment here.
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For those of us who've been going to Wednesday Night Bible
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study, we've been going over the role of the Holy Spirit,
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how the Holy Spirit overwhelmed
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the writers of scripture, right?
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So if you can imagine this overwhelming feeling
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from the Holy Spirit coming to Paul and Paul saying,
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hey, you need to write this down.
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And you need to write it down immediately.
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And then writing it down and then I can imagine,
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imagine them being overwhelmed with the Holy Spirit,
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calling up your scribe or your secretary,
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and to make sure that they write down the words
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that you say and make sure it's written correctly.
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That would be, that's some divine inspiration right now.
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As things were written, there would be the need
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for proofreading and to make sure that the letter,
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the letters, right, were written correctly.
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And in these verses, we can see that
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there were times that Paul would write with his own hand.
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Now, if you look at Romans 16-22,
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Tertius wrote down this letter, greet you in the Lord.
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So this could be the only scribe.
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Some historians say this was Paul's scribe.
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There could have been others, but we know of one at least.
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And this is a time where Paul would write it in his own hand.
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So when we literally read that,
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I write this with my own hand, I write greetings.
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It's a way to authenticate a letter as well.
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If you think about when you have a signature,
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you have a printed out document,
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and you sign it with your own hand.
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Doesn't that authenticate the letter?
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It's the same way that of what we're seeing here.
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And the other thing I want to point out here is,
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when we're reading in Philemon,
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he's not greeting Philemon.
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What is he saying?
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He's saying in here, instead of greetings to you,
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he's saying, I will repay it.
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I'm writing this with my own hand.
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I will repay the debt that Onesimus has.
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Can you imagine, instead of writing a greeting,
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the emphasis, the importance to the apostle Paul,
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why he's writing that, I will repay the debt
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that Onesimus has done for you,
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because Onesimus is a changed man in the Lord,
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going from useless to useful,
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from being a bond servant or a slave to being a free man.
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Have you ever known anyone
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who's offered to pay off your debts?
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That's some, if you've experienced that,
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what gratitude you must have, that feeling to have.
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Paul would write with his own hand.
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He's writing to make it known
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that he will repay the debt.
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And he goes on to say,
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to say nothing of your owing me even your own self.
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Now, that's not typical.
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What does he mean going on?
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Okay, that first part, I will repay it,
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to say nothing of your owing me.
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This language, Paul is seeking to remind Philemon
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of the debt, if you will, that Philemon owes to Paul,
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his own self, what do you mean by that?
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Well, Paul helped Philemon come to Christ,
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coming to Christ, right?
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Now, here's the thing, when you come to Christ,
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your debts are forgiven, right?
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You are washed clean by Jesus Christ.
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It is the realizing, it's the reminder, if you will,
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that Jesus paid it all.
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So can Philemon pay back Paul?
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Not really, it's just saying,
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hey look, well you owe me, right?
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Well, it's not like a debt you can actually pay.
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So Paul is reminding Philemon
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that your sins are forgiven,
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you are washed clean, if you will.
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The debt has been paid by Jesus Christ.
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You can't pay that back, Philemon, you simply can't.
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So that's the reminder of Jesus Christ.
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Jesus paid it all in full,
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and even a wealthy man, such as Philemon,
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can't even pay that.
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That's humbling words right there.
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And it's also a reminder, my friends,
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that when we read this, salvation is not for sale.
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I know I made mention last week
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of how there are some churches
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that still offer indulgences,
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which is sad because some of my fellow Catholic brothers
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and sisters, it was outlawed,
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but yet there's some churches that still do it.
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That's very unfortunate.
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We need to be reminded that salvation is not something
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that we can earn by the works that we do,
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nor is it something that if we raise up enough money,
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I can buy your way into heaven.
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Can you imagine if heaven was like that, though?
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We need to raise $10,000 for John's ticket to heaven,
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and what if you don't have $10,000?
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Can you imagine if heaven was full of the wealthy?
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Man, I don't know if I wanna be a part
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of that kind of heaven,
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because salvation is free,
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it is available to all who believe in Christ through faith.
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That makes it available to everyone,
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not just the rich, not just the poor,
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not just the Gentile or the Jew.
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I'm also reminded of the Wednesday night study
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when we were talking about the mystery of Christ
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or the mystery of the gospel being revealed.
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Well, the mystery is the fact
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that salvation is available for all
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and not just for God's chosen people.
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So it's this expansion.
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That is the beauty of Christianity, my friends.
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That salvation is that free gift.
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It is available to all who believe.
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The physical debt of retribution will be paid by Paul.
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The wrong that Onesimus did, Paul,
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saying, I'm gonna pay this off.
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Let this be a reminder of your salvation,
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that your debts were paid off by Jesus Christ,
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and we as Christians need to be reminded of that,
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and those who are not Christian,
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come to realize that when you come to Jesus Christ,
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the debt of sin, the burden of sin is gone.
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It's paid in full.
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Onesimus and Philemon, they are brothers.
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It's no longer a slave and servant or a bond servant.
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It's not this separation of socioeconomics, if you will.
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It's no longer about rich versus poor.
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They are now brothers in Christ.
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You have any idea how revolutionary that was,
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especially in biblical times?
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To be viewed upon as an equal?
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Oh, you're below me.
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No, you're not.
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In Christ, you are equal, period.
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That's important.
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And it reminds me, some of you will think of the verse
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in Galatians chapter three, verse 28,
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there is neither Jew nor Greek.
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There is neither slave nor free.
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There is no male and female, for you are all what?
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One in Jesus Christ.
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Verse 20, yes, brother, I want some benefit
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from you and the Lord, refresh my heart in Christ.
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And Paul wishes to be refreshed by Philemon.
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Remember how earlier in the letter,
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we were learning about Paul wishes to receive the benefit.
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It's not financial gain or monetary value.
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He wants to receive that joy and comfort
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when he was hearing about Philemon
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and how hearts were refreshed in Christ.
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And we went over this whole idea of what does that mean
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to be refreshed in Christ?
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To have your hearts refreshed is beautiful language
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because even us as Christians, we get worn down at times.
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And to have another brother or sister in Christ
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who refreshes you, rejuvenates you, beautiful language.
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Verse 21, confident of your obedience,
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I write to you knowing that you will do even more
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than I say.
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And Paul is confident, that's pretty self-explanatory.
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Paul is confident in Philemon as a brother in Christ.
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He is confident that Philemon will do more
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than what is expected of him.
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Do you think that Philemon is gonna accept
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Dona Semis back?
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Do you think that Philemon's heart
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will be moved by the fact that the apostle Paul,
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the man that contributed or completely led him to Christ,
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would be moved by that?
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That's something to think about.
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Verse 22, at the same time, prepare a guest room for me
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for I'm hoping that through your prayers,
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I will be graciously given to you.
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It's most likely that Paul is in prison
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when he's writing this.
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It's written around the time of Colossians.
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We can clearly see that Paul is wishing to see Philemon.
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So it's not like Paul is writing this letter saying,
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hey, you know, I'm making this appeal to you,
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but we're not good after that.
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There is this, hey, I would like to see you again.
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I'd like you to take Dona Semis back as a brother in Christ,
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and I can't wait to see you.
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We see here that Paul is wishing for Philemon
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or Philemon's continued prayer
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that Paul will be able to come and see him in person.
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So whether Paul was literally in prison,
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or if he was just saying I am a prisoner in Christ,
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well, regardless, it's still the prayer
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that from Philemon or from Paul to each other
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that they will see each other again.
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Verse 23 through 24, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus,
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greetings to you.
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You have all these names,
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just like how in the beginning of the letter,
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we saw all these names of people, what's going on?
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So let's put that on the slide.
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So we see Et Fras, the fellow prisoner,
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and we're not gonna go over all these verses,
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but these are the verses where these other people are mentioned.
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Mark, we have Demas, the fellow work, we have Luke,
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we have Archacus, fellow worker.
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Now you'll notice that most of them are fellow workers,
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and you see the differentiation for a fellow prisoner.
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We find that Paul is mentioning someone
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who is a fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus.
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Now this can mean someone who's been in prison,
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just like the apostle Paul,
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or someone who has been suffering for Jesus Christ.
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I tend to think, and a lot of scholars tend to think,
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this individual was also in prison.
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Someone who's been in prison with Paul around the time,
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it's beautiful language though,
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a fellow worker, a fellow prisoner,
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people who are suffering for the cause of Christ,
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or working for the cause of Christ.
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It certainly appears that the apostle Paul
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is making mention of Et Fras differently than the others,
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and so to be put in prison physically or figuratively,
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they are experiencing the same common bond with each other,
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because back in early Christianity,
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to be a Christian was revolutionary,
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but that also reminds me how Christianity
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is very different than what the world has to offer.
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Verse 25, the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ
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be with your spirit.
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And this is where we see the end of the letter of Philemon,
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the closing of the book where Paul is wishing
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that God's grace be with their spirit.
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Now for some of you, you may have a Catholic background
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when you hear the Lord be with you and also with you,
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or nowadays in Catholicism,
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the Lord be with you and with your spirit.
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That is a cultural echo, if you will,
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from verses like this.
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So Paul is wishing for God to be with the essence
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of the person, with their very being
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of who they are of holistically.
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May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ
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be with you holistically, with your spirit,
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with all that you are.
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So Paul is wishing for God to be with them.
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And that's the book of Philemon.
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We've gone over thematically,
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we've gone over verse by verse in the book of Philemon.
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Looking over the closing of the book,
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I wanna ask you, how does this letter to Philemon,
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how does this impact our lives today?
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What do we do with this letter?
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Perhaps there's been something that has stuck out to you,
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whether you've been here once
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or you've been here the entire time.
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We've gone over the idea and the foundational belief
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that we go from useless to useful,
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what heavy language, I don't wanna be called useless.
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I wanna be called useful in the eyes of God.
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And there's one more thing that we can learn,
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we can implement in our life.
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It is to say, we see that in our verses,
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the apostle Paul offering to pay off the debt
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that was owed from Onesimas.
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The beautiful thing that Paul is offering to Philemon.
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It's a reminder of the love that God has for us.
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Well, God loved us so much that he sent his son,
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Jesus Christ, to pay for our debts,
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to charge it to his account.
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So that all who believe, will they perish?
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No, so that they don't perish,
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but have everlasting life, have eternal life.
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Whoever believes shall not perish, but have eternal life.
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That's the focal point of Christianity.
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That is the most important thing as the body of Christ,
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as fellow believers, to encourage people
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to come to know the Lord and make that decision
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for Jesus Christ.
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We see a brother in Christ offering to pay off the debt
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that was collected from another man who did wrong.
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We are seen as the equal in the eyes of God.
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There is neither Jew nor Greek,
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there is neither slave nor free.
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There is no male and female for you are all in Christ, Jesus.
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All that we need to do is believe in the Lord, Jesus.
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Receive that free gift of salvation.
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It's not about how much money I make.
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It's not about what status or how tall or how short I am.
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It doesn't matter what skin color I am.
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What matters is that I believe
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and that you believe in Jesus Christ.
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The mystery of Christ is the revelation
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that salvation is free for all.
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Every person who calls upon the name of the Lord
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will be saved, our sin debt.
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Can we pay that off ourselves?
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Can we do it?
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We can't do it on our own.
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We simply cannot.
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We can't, that debt is paid by the blood of the Lamb,
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by Christ the atoning sacrifice.
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Consider your own life.
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And I wanna ask you,
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do you know anyone who represents onus seamus in your life?
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Maybe there is someone who has entered your life
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and you've seen a transformational change in their life.
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Do you know anyone like that?
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Do you know anyone who maybe they came to Christ
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and their trajectory in their life,
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they were going towards death
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and now they're going to life.
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They're making that as people say
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that spiritual U-turn.
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Maybe if you met someone who has to face the consequences
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for their actions, but you can help them along the way.
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You know anyone like that?
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Think about it.
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Maybe there's someone in your life
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where you need to share the good news of the gospel
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like the apostle Paul did with onus seamus.
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Maybe you need to share in your testimony
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and how God is working in your life,
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just like how God works in all of our lives.
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Maybe you need to let people know that their debt is paid
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by making a decision for Christ.
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We think of the connection with the good Samaritan,
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someone who offered to help another in need.
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Paul offered to help not just a stranger,
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but a changed man.
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We thank God for paying the price of our sin
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through Jesus Christ's death on the cross, his resurrection.
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This gives us trust and confidence in God
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that we find comfort in God's grace.
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May we find that we have, look,
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maybe this is a call for us to remember
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that we are all equal in the eyes of God.
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Brothers and sisters in Christ,
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what are we doing fighting amongst each other?
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Maybe it's a reminder of that.
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We're all made in the image of God
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and our calling is to come to Christ.
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We're called to have that relationship from him
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and from that salvation,
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we are called to share in the good news of the gospel.
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We're to exhibit that same kind of love to others,
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even if they're not a believer.
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They will know we are Christians by our love, by our love.
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Yes, they'll know we are Christians by our love.
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Maybe they'll see the peace that surpasses all understanding.
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Let me tell you, being a Christian,
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you'll find other Christians,
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something tragic or terrible has happened in their life,
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but yet they're calm, they're full of peace,
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that everything will be okay.
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You just lost your house, you just lost a family member.
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Your friends cut you off,
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your mother wants nothing to do with you.
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How are you so calm?
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I don't understand that.
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Well, to an unbeliever, they don't understand it,
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but we understand it though,
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that there's a peace, there's joy from the Lord.
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Let us be a church that is united in Christ
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and that we come together as Christians
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on the things that unite us
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and not the things that divide us,
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that we believe in this,
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that the holy Bible, that the word of God
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is divinely inspired
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and that the Holy Spirit guided the writers
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into writing or dictating to their scribes
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what is going to be written.
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And the fact that we have the Bible here today is powerful.
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The connections that we find in scripture is wonderful.
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It is the glory of God to conceal a matter
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and it is the glory of kings to find that matter
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or discover a matter.
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Culture divides us.
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It divides us into turning against brother
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and sister in Christ.
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Culture seeks to divide that which is united,
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that which is holy.
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We have to stand firm in the word of God
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and deal in love.
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Our closing question,
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how can we stand as a beacon of hope,
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of reconciliation and grace?
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Let me ask that again.
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How can we be, how can we stand
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as a beacon of hope, of reconciliation and grace?
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I wanna share a story with you.
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It's not just one, but it's many stories.
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Maybe you've had the same pattern.
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There are many times in my life
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where I had to willingly choose to forgive someone,
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someone who really hurt me, someone who did me wrong.
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Sometimes it was someone close.
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Sometimes it was a close friend,
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someone you grew up with.
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Maybe it was someone you worked with.
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As I was writing this, I thought of three individuals.
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That's why I'm writing it as sometimes
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it's a family member, sometimes it's a friend.
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Sometimes it was someone I interacted with.
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But something happened.
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Something happened, this person did me wrong.
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Might have been bitterness,
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it might have been misunderstanding.
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When I was hurt, I wanted to retaliate.
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But time and time and again,
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the Lord, family, other friends,
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they comforted me.
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They made me realize that I need to offer
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the same kind of love that God offers
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to those who have hurt me.
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Turn the other cheek.
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Oh, I wanna retaliate for some of the wrongs
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that you have done or whoever it was.
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But to still exhibit love, to offer,
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to offer love instead of hatred.
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Oh, it's hard to do.
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But let me tell you, that is the same kind of love
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that God gives to us.
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Think of all the wrong that we've done in the eyes of God,
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that God still loves us and God still forgives us.
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And every time this has happened, it wasn't easy to do.
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But when I forgave them,
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it felt like a weight was lifted off of me.
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I needed to let go of that anger.
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Why do you think God wants us to live lives that are holy?
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Do you realize that the closer you come to God,
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the simpler your life will be?
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I don't mean easy, I mean simple.
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I mean that God wants you to be at peace.
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God wants you to be comforted,
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even when bad things happen to you,
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even when people do you wrong,
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God wants you to still exhibit that love.
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Now that doesn't change the fact that it hurt.
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Oh boy, does it hurt.
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But to still offer that love.
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And sometimes in these situations,
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I parted ways with this person.
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Other times I didn't.
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And maybe you can think of a situation that way.
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No matter what the situation,
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extending forgiveness is critical.
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And that's what we see in fight, Lehman.
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That is one of the lessons.
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Yes, from useless to useful,
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but also the reminder of the gospel,
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that Jesus Christ saves us.
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All we need to do is believe.
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If you flip this on its head,
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there are times where we,
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or even myself, I need to ask for forgiveness
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for the wrong that I've done.
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I've mentioned, look, there's people that have wronged me,
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but I've also wronged people.
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We've all wronged people.
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Do you ask for forgiveness?
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Now it's not an easy thing to do, I understand.
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It's just a reminder for us.
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I too am a sinner.
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I am imperfect.
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But I believe in God who forgives me,
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who loves me, no matter how much I mess up,
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no matter how much I screw things up.
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He's still there.
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Maybe you identify with Paul.
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You see a man come to the Lord and be on a better path.
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Maybe you need to make an appeal for someone.
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Maybe you need to say,
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hey, look, this person's changed, you should see it.
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Maybe you identify with Philemen.
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Someone did wrong to you and you need to forgive them.
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Or maybe you identify or relate with Onesimus,
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who needs to make things right,
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even though he's a changed man.
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Still needs to go have a conversation with Philemen.
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And this week, I challenge you to take a step of bold faith.
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Is there a relationship that I need to work on?
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Is there a conversation that I need to have?
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Maybe it's a family member.
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Maybe it's a coworker.
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Maybe it's a friend that you wronged a long time ago.
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Oh, those are fun.
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Having those conversations.
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Offer your burdens to God, though,
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for his love is everlasting.
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And never forget that God's grace is greater.
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It's like that song, grace greater than our sin.
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If you trust in Jesus, you will be forgiven.
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You will be saved and you will be set free from sin.
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We have confidence in knowing this,
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the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
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Maybe you're hearing this message today
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and you realize that you need God's grace in your life.
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If that is you, you can receive forgiveness
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and new life in Jesus Christ today.
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All you need to do is admit you're a sinner,
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believe in Jesus Christ and confess Him as Lord.
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Think of the thief on the cross.
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The thief cried out,
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Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom
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and Christ said to him, truly I say to you,
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today you will be with me in paradise.
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It is the believing in Jesus Christ, right?
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Do you think the thief knew he did wrong?
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Do you think that when you're about to die
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and you see Jesus the Christ right there
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and you know you did wrong,
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wouldn't you want to admit to yourself
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the wrong that you did
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and then believing that Jesus Christ is Lord,
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believing in Him?
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That's some faith right there.
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Remember me when you go into your kingdom?
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That's a call to the Lord and Jesus answered.
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And again, it's not about what you do.
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It's about believing in Him
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and recognizing what Christ has done for you.
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I didn't say, I'm not the first one to say this,
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but religion will say it's all about what you do.
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But in Christianity, it's about what Christ has done.
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It's not about the direction of what,
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where are you going to pray?
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How often are you going to pray?
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What type of prayer you're going to pray?
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It's not about how much money I give.
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It's not one of those things.
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It's about belief, having faith in Christ.
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And in closing, I want to share this prayer with you.
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It's a, we have a slide for that.
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You know what? That's okay.
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In your notes on the back, there's a prayer.
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It's, some of you may know it, some of you may not.
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It's a known as the prayer of St. Francis.
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It says in here, there are verses to support this
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because I want to make sure that prayers like this
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are biblically backed up.
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Oh, there it is.
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Lord, make me an instrument of peace.
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Doesn't God make us instruments of peace?
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He gives us peace.
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Where there is hatred, let me show love.
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Where there is injury, pardon.
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Where there is doubt, let there be faith.
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Where there is despair, hope.
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Where there is darkness, light.
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Where there is sadness, joy.
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Seeking to console, understand in love.
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For it is in forgiving.
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For it is in giving that we receive.
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It is in pardoning that we are pardoned.
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And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
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And this is part of that transformation
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that happens in our lives when we make a decision for Christ.
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Extending love to each other.
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And certainly, when people are in despair,
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may we offer them hope.
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Where there is doubt, may we show them
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and share our faith with them.
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I just thought that in conclusion to this book of Philemon
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and the connection with the gospel,
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I thought it was appropriate to share this prayer with you.
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That we may be instruments of peace.
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That we will be instruments of love.
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And with that, I'd like for us to close in prayer.
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Father, we have concluded our time in Philemon.
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We ask that we come to know you.
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Choose a life in you through faith.
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And as we believe in you and we become brother and sister
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no longer separated by class or skin color
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or whatever, may we grow in you.
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May we go in your holy name to do good in your name.
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We are saved by grace through faith in Jesus Christ
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so that we can do good in your name.
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We ask that you give us the strength to forgive
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and let us be forgiven for the wrong we may have done.
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We know you forgive us, Lord.
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We know that you're that constant in this fog of culture,
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this ever-changing world that we live in.
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When the world changes and values seem to change
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by culture standards, you, God, are constant.
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We ask that you are with us this week.
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Let us know you're unfailing, you're everlasting,
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you're unconditional agape love
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and may we exhibit that to others.
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We thank you for your love for us.
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Be with us, be with us.
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It is in Jesus' name that we pray
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and we all say together, amen, amen.
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Thank you for tuning in
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to the Ontario Community Church sermon podcast.
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and how you can get involved or support our mission,
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please visit ontariocommunitychurch.org.
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May God's blessings be with you.