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Core Values 2024 - Week 3: Connection

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  1. When we're continuing our series Core Values, and this our

  2. twenty twenty four edition of Core Values, and we preach

  3. this every October. We preach through the five values that

  4. we kind of do everything here. We base everything we

  5. do on these five values. If you're looking at me,

  6. some of you're looking at me, I can tell your thinking.

  7. Where is pastor Steve? Well, he is on vacation and

  8. he's coming home soon. So he's out today with his family.

  9. But they went out and we're on vacation this week,

  10. so he'll be back.

  11. No worries.

  12. But I'm excited to preach you today on our core

  13. value of connection.

  14. You know, we started a few weeks ago.

  15. Chief started us off with transparency, and I think transparency

  16. is like the foundation. If you can't be genuine, you

  17. can't be authentic, If you can't be yourself, really be yourself,

  18. I don't think you can do I don't think you

  19. can really operate and the rest of these values.

  20. Last week we talked about generosity.

  21. You know, it's talking about giving to the food bang,

  22. but we talked about generosity and how we adopt that

  23. value in our lives. And I think there are very

  24. few things in the world the very few things you

  25. can do that make you look more like Jesus.

  26. There are very few things other than generosity.

  27. I think that is if we really want to capture

  28. the heart of God, it's being generous that's key to

  29. kingdom living. But today I think I think that this

  30. one really. They're all foundational, but I think this one really,

  31. if we can get connection down, I think that we

  32. can see the revival, and we can see the move God,

  33. and we can see all the things we dream about

  34. come to pass. If we can really get this one down,

  35. let's read our definition. If you're ever wondering what the

  36. definition of our core values are, you can always go

  37. to Seystone dot Church. There's an about section. It has

  38. all the core values listed. There are definition of connection

  39. here at Cornerstone is this. We believe that authentic discipleship

  40. is expressed through our connection with other believers. Connected living

  41. offers the support, accountability and freedom that mankind is desperately

  42. seeking but cannot otherwise attain. That's a lot of cool words.

  43. We like to make it sound good, but here's what

  44. it means. You can't do it by yourself. You can't

  45. do it alone. And you can say, well, what is it. Well,

  46. you could list like a million things to take the

  47. place of the word it there.

  48. But what I mean is life.

  49. You can't do life alone. And when I'm talking about life,

  50. I mean the Biblical definition of life, life where you

  51. glorify God, free from the things that used to hold

  52. you back, while using your gifts and your talents and

  53. your time for the sake of those around you. I

  54. don't know if that sounds familiar to anybody, but we

  55. only do four things. We experience God, we walk in freedom,

  56. we find a place, we live a purpose.

  57. That's real life.

  58. And those four things are completely undermined if we don't

  59. have genuine connection. And why that might sound like a

  60. sales pitch for Cornerstone, I'm not trying to sell you Cornerstone.

  61. You're already here. If you're online, you're maybe trying to

  62. make a decision. That's a pretty good sales pitch, and

  63. we want you to come and connect, We want you

  64. to be part of it. But I'm not trying to

  65. sell you the church. In fact, none of this was

  66. actually our idea. Turn with me to Genesis chapter one.

  67. Genesis chapter one, we're gonna start in verse twenty six.

  68. I'll show you that this wasn't our idea, it was

  69. actually God's idea.

  70. Genesis, Chapter one, verse twenty six.

  71. Then God said, let us make man in our image,

  72. after our likeness, and let them have dominion over the

  73. fish of the sea, and over the birds of the heavens,

  74. and over the livestock, and over all the earth, and

  75. over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.

  76. I love how that's written in the ESV.

  77. There we think creeping thing that creeps, Just in case

  78. you were wondering what creeping things do they creep?

  79. Verse twenty seven.

  80. So God created man in his own image and the

  81. image of God. He created him male and female. He

  82. created them, and God blessed them. And God said to them,

  83. be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth and subdue it,

  84. and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and

  85. over the birds of the heavens, and over every living

  86. thing that moves on the earth. Now this is a

  87. familiar passage. I hope, I hope that we've talked about

  88. this a lot of that you've read this in your

  89. own time. But it's a familiar passage talking about the

  90. creation of man, and God says there are a few

  91. things in this past that I really want you to notice.

  92. Number One, God says, let us make man in our

  93. image after our likeness. Now, I don't know what that

  94. was like. Maybe the first time you read that, you're

  95. who's God talking about who is our We now understand

  96. that to be God existing in the trinity, God, the Father,

  97. and the Son, the Holy Spirit. God himself was and

  98. remains in a constant state of connection. God created mankind

  99. in his image, I meaning, he created us in his image.

  100. Our desire and our need for connection is actually baked

  101. into our design. It's just the way we're built. We're

  102. built for it. God chose connection. God didn't need it.

  103. God chose it. He chose to be that way. He

  104. chose to create us that way because he wanted it. Now,

  105. I think that's a really powerful thought. If you're wondering

  106. if connection really matters, Well, the Almighty, the infinite, the

  107. creator of all things, the one who is everlasting.

  108. Wanted connection.

  109. It's powerful that he chose it and he chose to

  110. create mankind to experience it with us. And also, I

  111. want you to notice from this passage that we're not

  112. all the same. Now, it's not a sermon on gender identity,

  113. but surprise, there are only two.

  114. I didn't let that sink in.

  115. I feel like I do a little, but uh, it's

  116. not a sermon on that. But God intentionally created these

  117. differences in us. And this is also not a marriage sermon.

  118. But these unique pieces they fit together, and God created

  119. us different so that we could fit together.

  120. And if we were all the same, there would be

  121. no need for connection.

  122. Last thing I want you to notice from Genesis chapter

  123. one here is that God commanded us to be fruitful

  124. and multiply, and that reveals his intent for more and

  125. more connection. He didn't just create Adam and Eve and

  126. say well, that's good enough. It's us three. It's us

  127. three in the Godhead and it's these two humans, and

  128. that's enough connection.

  129. He said, be fruitful, multiply.

  130. I want you to experience more of this that I've

  131. created with each other and with me, More people with

  132. unique experiences. That leads to more interaction, That leads to

  133. more relationships, That leads to more opportunities for his creation

  134. to experience what he who had everything, desired.

  135. So the bottom line is.

  136. This that genuine connection and relationship is God's desire and

  137. his design for us. If you need any more confirmation

  138. on that, you can flip the Genesis chapter two, verse eighteen,

  139. where God explicitly states that it's not good for man

  140. to be alone.

  141. Again.

  142. We often use that scripture, and rightly so, we use

  143. that in the context when we're talking about mariage, we're

  144. doing marriage ceremonies, but it also applies in the broader

  145. context of human relationship. It's not good for you to

  146. be alone. Not only can you not do life alone,

  147. it's just bad for you. I don't know why we

  148. would choose anything that's outright bad for us. So connections

  149. not just a core value for our church. It's not

  150. just a core value for Cornerstone. I mean you might

  151. say that it should be a core value for every church.

  152. I would argue this that any church that doesn't intentionally

  153. encourage and support genuine connection is not a church at all.

  154. You can't just come do the vertical and never do

  155. the horizontal. It's not designed that way. And listen, lots

  156. of people want it to be that way. While I

  157. got me and my Jesus I don't know about that

  158. doesn't seem to match up with scripture. You got to

  159. have you and the Jesus and his people. You have

  160. to have all of that together. It's just the way

  161. we're designed. It should be a core value that every

  162. disciple fosters in their life.

  163. And so it's that important.

  164. It's that important to God, it should be that important

  165. to us, so that we can remember. I've decided to

  166. go a little bit old school in my preaching today

  167. and give you a device to help you remember connection.

  168. And what it's all about. Connection starts with.

  169. The letter C, so we're gonna use alliteration this morning,

  170. and I have three s's of connection. The first is

  171. where we started today. The first sea is crucial. Connection

  172. is crucial. From the beginning of time, God has shown

  173. us that it's best for us to be connected with Him.

  174. And to one another.

  175. God himself exists in connection, and the Godhead, the Trinity,

  176. he exists in that connection. He created man for that

  177. vertical relationship that we might be in relationship with him.

  178. God wanted to experience connection with his creation, and so

  179. he created us special different from the rest of creation,

  180. so that he might experience this connection. He created woman

  181. to accompany the man. He gave them the command to multiply.

  182. And if you continue on in Genesis. You see God

  183. walked in the garden with them, which to me is

  184. just another beautiful illustration of how much God wants to

  185. connect that he would be there with them. In the

  186. original sin, which we've talked about but gets talked about

  187. a lot. With the original sin, its whole design was

  188. to destroy connection connection to God and to each other.

  189. The serpent put in mity between man and God and

  190. man and wife. He caused problems in the relationship, in

  191. the connection. His intent was to sever that genuine connection,

  192. and he used doubt, and he used deceit, and he

  193. used distrust to break the connection. And since that, since

  194. Genesis chapter three, since the fall of Man, God has

  195. been working on fixing this damaged connection with us and

  196. among us. This is so important to God that he

  197. sent his only son, Christ Jesus to bridge the gap

  198. vertically and to be the example of how we ought

  199. to live with one another.

  200. Turn with me to first John chapter four.

  201. I love the way John puts this, It just to

  202. me is just It's extremely powerful. We might be familiar

  203. with these scriptures, but if we really understand them, it

  204. will change us forever. Chapter four, verse nine says in

  205. this the love of God was made manifest among us.

  206. That God sent his only son into the world so

  207. that we might live through him. In this is love,

  208. not that we have loved God, but that he loved

  209. us and sent his son to be propreciation for our sins.

  210. Verse eleven beloved.

  211. If God so loved us, we also ought to love

  212. one another.

  213. No one has ever seen God.

  214. If we love one another, God abides in us, and

  215. his love is perfected in us. I think it's really

  216. interesting in verse twelve. There the way that's written, no

  217. one has ever seen God. And then immediately John says,

  218. if we love another, God abides in us. You know

  219. how people see God when they see you love each other.

  220. There are there are million, millions and millions and millions

  221. of people who will never step foot into a sanctuary,

  222. who will never be under a sound system with a

  223. preacher and with an incredible band.

  224. They're just not gonna do that.

  225. But they see you at work, they see you at school,

  226. and they see you at the grocery store, and they

  227. see you out and about with your family. And if

  228. they see you love each other the way you're designed to,

  229. then they can see God. But just like the serpent

  230. in the garden. The evil in the world around us.

  231. It wants to ruin that connection. You know, the enemy

  232. has nothing better to offer you. He actually doesn't have

  233. anything better. I mean that's kind of like a duh

  234. pastor Clay. But yet the enemy actually doesn't have anything

  235. better than God. He doesn't have anything that he can

  236. he can offer you that would be better than what

  237. God has for you. So he lies to you, but

  238. he disguises those lies with the same verbiage, the same phrasing,

  239. the same words that we use that God uses in

  240. the truth. The enemy will use those same concepts and

  241. cover up the lies, and it's we start to believe them.

  242. Let me give you an example. Consider how phrases like

  243. be true to yourself. You know that scripture says that

  244. the heart of man is so wicked at its core

  245. is just wicked.

  246. Be true to yourself.

  247. When see when you compare that to the scripture, that

  248. seems like a ridiculous thing to say, and it is.

  249. How about follow your heart? That sounds good? I mean

  250. it does.

  251. It sounds I want I wanna. I'm gonna follow my

  252. heart and do what I'm supposed to do. No, actually,

  253. I'm gonna follow Jesus and find out what I'm supposed

  254. to do. My heart will lead me to hell, it will,

  255. and yours will too. How about this one? This is

  256. another one.

  257. Love who you love.

  258. We just love who we love, and everybody should just

  259. be able to love who they love. Are you kidding

  260. when you compare it to the heart of God? It

  261. is just outright evil. The hyper promotion of individualism and

  262. nationalism and sexual and gender identity and political affiliation. We

  263. could go on and on forever right here, and I

  264. really could. But all of that is presented to you

  265. under the banner of unity while they cut you up

  266. into pieces. All but we're coming together. Everybody come together.

  267. Everybody's accepted. That's just not real. But the enemy has

  268. convinced us using the same language that God uses unity

  269. in the body of Christ, and they say something entirely

  270. different with the same words. The underlying intent is to

  271. ruin genuine connection. And listen, if connection wasn't important, that

  272. deception would not be so clever. Because it is. It's

  273. very clever, and lots of people believe it. Perhaps you

  274. there's been times that I have been well, maybe and

  275. maybe I'm wrong. May I should be a little more,

  276. or maybe by accepting things that are wrong, we are

  277. condemning people to a lesser existence and maybe even.

  278. Hell itself. In the name of unity. The devil has

  279. us really confused.

  280. But God has given us so clear in his word,

  281. and we just have to be in it a little

  282. more often, and I think we could really get it.

  283. This is.

  284. To say that connection is not just something that we do.

  285. It's not just something that it's just part of what

  286. we do as a church. It's so crucial as a

  287. core value. And it's especially true the later and later

  288. we get into the end of time. Now. I don't

  289. know how close we are. It could be tomorrow that

  290. Jesus comes back. It could be a thousand years from now.

  291. But I don't know. It feels pretty late. It feels

  292. like the sun's getting pretty low. And the further we

  293. get into the end times, look at what first, Peter

  294. chapter four says. In verse seven, Peter writes, the end

  295. this is first. This is a long time ago.

  296. He wrote this. Okay, the end of all things is

  297. at hand.

  298. Therefore, be self controlled, and so reminded for the sake

  299. of your prayers.

  300. Verse eight.

  301. Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers

  302. a multitude of sins.

  303. So connection is not just this will just make your

  304. life better.

  305. It actually leads to freedom from the sin that so

  306. easily ensnares us. But it's unreasonable to expect everybody to

  307. connect with everybody. You've only got so much time, you

  308. only got so much energy, right, I think a lot

  309. of times we take kingdom concepts and then we try

  310. to just we go gung ho, we just go all

  311. into it, like all right, if I need to connect

  312. with people, I'm connecting with everybody, and then about fifteen

  313. minutes into that where it's so exhausted that we can't

  314. do it anymore.

  315. So connection is crucial.

  316. But when we talk about connection at cornerstone, we intend

  317. for it to be our second see concentrated. You know,

  318. there's scientific research that actually suggests that human beings can

  319. only have one hundred and fifty or so sustainable relatelationships.

  320. One hundred and fifty.

  321. Now we we call that Dunbar's number. There's a British anthropologist,

  322. Oxford professor, really smart guy, much smarter than me, I'm sure,

  323. came up with this, and it's a lot of study

  324. on the way our brains are put together the way

  325. our brains look, and he compares it to other primates,

  326. other animals that are similar to humans, and watch those

  327. social structures. There's a lot of stuff that I don't

  328. understand about it, but the bottom line is this. He

  329. believes that the research says that about one hundred and

  330. fifty sustainable relationships. He's gone on to suggest that we

  331. really can only have five truly intimate friendships in our

  332. life at a given time.

  333. Then we can have it kind of scales out.

  334. We can have about fifteen close friends, about thirty five

  335. good friends, one hundred and fifty stable relationships. Beyond that,

  336. we just those people are acquaintances. They're people we know,

  337. we may know their name, but we don't have of

  338. sustained relationship. Now, if you're like me, you take that

  339. with a grain of salt, because there are a lot

  340. of factors there that's evolutionary science. We're like, ooh, no,

  341. so that's fine, take it with a grain of salt.

  342. But I think it gives us a rough idea because

  343. I think we can all agree that we have a

  344. limit on our relationships. And if you don't believe that,

  345. it's just you just just haven't looked and identified that.

  346. But there are there is a there's a point where

  347. you're like, I just can't spend any more time with

  348. that person because I got to take care of these people.

  349. I just I can't do.

  350. And we as we go through phases of life, we

  351. people that were really important to us kind of fall

  352. away and we have those relationships change. Right, we have

  353. new people that are more important to us depending on

  354. our season of life. But take all that with a

  355. grain of salt because of the science. Don't take this

  356. with a grain of salt. Take this straight, no chaser.

  357. Let's look at Christ and based on the accounts in

  358. the Gospels say, based on what we see Jesus, we

  359. can reasonably assume he knew a lot of people. Jesus

  360. was very, very popular at one point, and even before

  361. his ministry started. I mean, I don't know, Son of

  362. God incarnate. I just feel like he was pretty pleasant

  363. to be around. I'm sure he was well liked. I'm

  364. sure a lot of people knew him. He had family

  365. that he was close with. But when he started his ministry,

  366. he ministered a thousands, but he chose twelve to spend

  367. most of his time with should give us a clue,

  368. because even within the twelve Disciples, there were three that

  369. he spent even more time with and did certain things

  370. with that he didn't do with the others. So even

  371. Christ shows us that there's a limit we can only

  372. reasonably sustain a certain amount of relationships. Let's take our

  373. common experience into account too, that we're really confused because

  374. in our modern world with social media, you know, I

  375. don't know how many friends you got on Facebook, but

  376. I got like a several thousand or something.

  377. I don't know those people.

  378. I knew them maybe, and maybe we were classmates, maybe

  379. we were at the college together, maybe we worked together

  380. at one point, but I don't have sustained relationship. Those

  381. numbers are so inflated by our online presence that we think, oh, yeah,

  382. I've got fifteen hundred friends.

  383. No, you don't, I.

  384. Mean, you might think so, I get it, I mean,

  385. but our actual numbers are so much smaller. You know,

  386. if you're like me, you know there's only a handful

  387. of people you can really call on in the midnight hour,

  388. even fewer still that you trust enough to tell them

  389. your secrets and trust them with the parts of your life.

  390. That we keep hidden from everybody else. That's a very

  391. small number of people. My point is this, that's why

  392. we define connection with the second see of concentrated.

  393. It's why we have groups.

  394. It's why we try to because in this room with

  395. this many people, well, there's no way we can reasonably

  396. know every person to the point where we would put

  397. our dirty laundry out there in a sanctuary of people.

  398. But in a group, which we try to limit to

  399. twelve or.

  400. Less, the ability for you to share deep parts of

  401. your life and walk in freedom is the ability for that.

  402. The probability for that is much higher.

  403. That's why we try to keep it twelve or less

  404. because it only takes one person that's untrustworthy to ruin

  405. a group's potential, only one. If there's just one person

  406. that everybody's kind of like, I don't know if I

  407. want to tell them that because they got quick Twitter fingers,

  408. or they're going to call and tell so and so,

  409. and I can't have so and so knowing.

  410. I'm just thankful they're not in this group, right.

  411. That's why we try to keep it small, because that

  412. layer of trust is so important. The point I'm making

  413. is this, that real connection has to be concentrated. The

  414. connection we have to our fifteen thousand friends online is

  415. not deep shallow, but we're talking about real, genuine, deep connection.

  416. It must be concentrated for your own protection and for

  417. the benefit of those around you, because you can only

  418. give so much, and guess what, you can only receive

  419. so much. Eventually we get full. Trust me, I know,

  420. I've been to Korean barbecue.

  421. I get full.

  422. It takes a little while, but we get there. You

  423. can only receive so much. You can only allow certain

  424. people in so far. And it's not just about your capacity,

  425. about how much you can receive and how much you

  426. can give, it's also about the quality of your company.

  427. And when you're talking about thousands of people, the quality, well,

  428. let's just say the cream rises to the top for

  429. a reason, right, and that's just a small portion that

  430. rises to the top. Who you choose to connect with matters.

  431. That's why it has to be concentrated. And there are

  432. many places in the scripture that confirm this. But I

  433. want to look at Proverbs chapter thirteen, verse twenty. It

  434. says it very plainly, whoever walks with the wise becomes wise,

  435. But the companion of fools will suffer harm.

  436. I know which one I'd rather have.

  437. Paul in First Corinthians, he's just absolutely just blasting the

  438. Corinthian Church because they're doing some crazy stuff. First Corinthians,

  439. Chapter fifteen, Starting verse thirty three, he says, bad company

  440. ruins good morals. It doesn't get much clearer than that.

  441. It's so important to Paul Lock what he says. In

  442. verse thirty four, he says, wake up from your drunken stupor,

  443. as is right, and do not go on sinning, for

  444. some have no knowledge of God.

  445. I say this to your shame.

  446. Paul was so dead serious about the quality of your company.

  447. That he just insulted him to get his point across.

  448. And look, that doesn't mean you have to reject interaction

  449. with everybody that doesn't fit the right criteria. Right, We're

  450. still called to love all and to reach all that

  451. we can with the truth of the Gospel. You need

  452. to keep telling your story, you need to keep living

  453. on purpose. But spreading the truth of the Gospel is

  454. different than connecting. You're still called to do that. But

  455. in fact, I think that's what Paul's that's Paul's real

  456. point here. In verse thirty four, some people don't know God,

  457. and they can't see him when we're running with bad

  458. company because we're all broken and we're all busted a

  459. little bit. And when we get around more broken and busted,

  460. we tend to become that.

  461. Companion of fools suffer harm.

  462. But if I get around wise people, if I connect

  463. with people who are on the right track, I will

  464. get on the right track. So when it comes to

  465. the core value connection, we must be focused and intentional.

  466. And since connection our first two s's, is crucial and concentrated,

  467. surely you can guess what the last one is.

  468. I'm just kidding. There's like a million c words. It

  469. could be right.

  470. The last one, though, is something I often say just

  471. about every sermon.

  472. I think. I say this.

  473. Like most things that are in the Kingdom of God,

  474. like most things that matter, it takes effort.

  475. See Christ has done the hardest work.

  476. For us by dying on the cross and taking on

  477. the penalty of sin and paying bridging the gap back

  478. to God. But we still have a responsibility. There's still

  479. effort we have to put into kingdom living. See, connection

  480. does not just happen, nor is it simply given. In fact,

  481. we are commanded to create it, our last see is created,

  482. and Clinton the band can get ready. I want to

  483. close with what I think might be one of my

  484. favorite passages of Scripture. Ever, that's hard to say because

  485. there's a lot. There are lots of good ones, right,

  486. But now, I just when I think about relationships, when

  487. I think about connection, when I think about you guys,

  488. I think about our family as a church, and I

  489. think about what we're supposed to be who were called

  490. to be. I just I always come back to this

  491. passage Romans chapter fifteen. Starting in verse one, Paul writes this,

  492. we who are strong have an obligation to bear with

  493. the failings of the week, and not to please ourselves.

  494. Let each of us please.

  495. His neighbor for his good, to build him up. For

  496. Christ did not please himself. But as it is written,

  497. the reproaches of those who reproached you fell on.

  498. Me verse four.

  499. For whatever was written in former days was written for

  500. our instruction, that through endurance and through the encouragement of

  501. the scriptures, we might have hope. May the God of

  502. endurance and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony

  503. with one another, in accord with Christ Jesus, that together

  504. you may with one voice, glorify the God and Father

  505. of our Lord.

  506. Jesus Christ.

  507. Therefore, welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you.

  508. For the glory of God.

  509. Romans very very dense book of the Bible, and it's

  510. often looked at as a kind of a one of

  511. the more deep theological books that we get a lot

  512. of a lot of ideas about God and how God works.

  513. But you know, Paul spends a lot of time and.

  514. It is that, but Paul spends a lot of time

  515. in Romans talking about how we are supposed to treat

  516. each other. Now, I think that's pretty indicative of how

  517. important connection is. That one of the most theological books

  518. in Scripture is also very keen on instructing us how

  519. to treat each other to understand and live the life

  520. God has called us to live. We have to get

  521. this value of connection down. How you treat each other

  522. is so so connected.

  523. To what God is trying to.

  524. Do in the world through you. Christ's example again is

  525. the most compelling. You see, when we when we're feeling weak,

  526. when we're feeling tired, our natural tendency is to isolate.

  527. I mean to think of even in just the most

  528. simple of situations. A nap almost makes everything better, right,

  529. If I could just go take a nap, I could

  530. just go be by myself for a few minutes recover right, right,

  531. And that that does work. But we do it when

  532. we shouldn't as well. We tend to week. I'm tired,

  533. I just need to get away. We tend to isolate

  534. when we're strong. Our natural tendency is to please ourselves.

  535. Paul writes it right here. And when we please ourselves,

  536. we're avoiding those who are weak, because if I'm feeling strong,

  537. I want to keep that rolling. Baby, I can't get around.

  538. If I get around the week that's gonna jump on

  539. me or something which would make me question if you're

  540. really strong.

  541. But when we're strong, we tend to do that.

  542. We try to find strength to strength to strength when

  543. we avoid the week. But as Paul points out here,

  544. Jesus did the opposite. He took on our failures that

  545. we might be made strong.

  546. And that's the goal of the core value of connection.

  547. That's the whole reason that we put it in here

  548. to be part of the core values. That cornerstone is

  549. that when.

  550. You're doing great, you can help those who are not

  551. doing great. When you're doing and bad, you got others

  552. around you who help you do.

  553. Better and get through it.

  554. And when we do this consistently and continually, Paul says,

  555. we're able to glorify God with one voice in real unity.

  556. That's unity when you're connected, when you're loving one another

  557. and people can see God because they're looking at you

  558. and how you love each other.

  559. That's when we're in unity.

  560. And that's when God is glorified with one voice. Peace

  561. and harmony with each other that Paul says, right here,

  562. that puts us in a chord with Christ.

  563. Jesus. That means it puts us right in the same

  564. line with Christ. That's where I want to be so powerful.

  565. This connection is what we're called to create as we

  566. follow Jesus. Example, we're about to worship, and we're doing

  567. a particular song for this reason. But connection is intertwined

  568. with worship. That's what this passage Romans fifteen is about.

  569. That connection actually leads to you worshiping better. You actually

  570. worship better when you're together. It's why we spend over

  571. half the service doing it here together. Because you actually

  572. worship better when you're connected. You can glorify God to

  573. a greater extent when you're together, when you're in unity.

  574. Connection allows us to maintain our strength as a whole

  575. so that we might continue to bring God the glory

  576. that he deserves. And through doing that, we share the

  577. truth with the world around us because people see it.

  578. This takes effort, but it takes aid from.

  579. God himself too, And that's the other powerful thing about

  580. this passage. Paul reminds us that we're obligated to do this.

  581. You're supposed to do this.

  582. You're supposed to be together, you're supposed to connect. And

  583. then right there verse five, he says, may the God

  584. of endurance and encouragement grant you, meaning you can't do

  585. this by yourself either. You need God's endurance and strength.

  586. Because connection is hard. It requires us to be vulnerable,

  587. it requires us to invest time, It requires.

  588. Us to be open in ways that we probably would

  589. prefer not to.

  590. It's very difficult, but I promise you it's worth it.

  591. Creating and maintaining biblical connection is not easy. But I

  592. don't want you to despair. If you will stand with

  593. me all across the road, I don't want you to

  594. check out now. Oh well, well, it's just too hard,

  595. but rather not At a lot of time, we get jaded.

  596. We get disillusioned because part of it is that we

  597. we exist online so much and we think that, well,

  598. that surface level is that's enough. I'm posting scripture on

  599. my feed. I'm I'm not arguing as much on there.

  600. I quit cussing in the comments back to those people

  601. that don't agree with I mean, okay, I guess, but

  602. we're called to so much more than that, so much

  603. greater than those surface level things that we often find

  604. ourselves spending so much time in. So I don't want

  605. you to let disillusionment. Oh well, I'm connected enough or

  606. I've done this before, Pastor Clay, I've gone to group.

  607. I don't feel it, I don't get it. I don't

  608. want us to be jaded. God's God's doing something new today.

  609. I believe we can hop on right here. And I

  610. also don't want you to be lazy, because this is

  611. this is the temptation that, well, if it's hard, then, Pastor,

  612. I have no more margin, I got no more energy,

  613. I got nothing, I got nothing less in the tank.

  614. I can't do this. I gotta.

  615. Maybe maybe we need to trim the fat. Maybe We've

  616. got some things going on, and things we're involved in

  617. that are not actually leading us to where God's trying

  618. to take us. They could be good things. Listen to me,

  619. I love you. They could be good things. Fat is good.

  620. You had a steak recently. I love a good I

  621. love a good uh New York strip. I love that

  622. fat cap on it. I just just flay you sear

  623. that thing down. Fat is delicious. I'm not saying that

  624. you have bad things in your life necessarily. Sometimes trimming

  625. the fat is trimming off the good so that the

  626. great can take its place. Sometimes we got to get

  627. rid of some of the shallow things so that some

  628. deep things can take rude. And then some of us

  629. still here this morning are pushing back sayings, not because

  630. we're lazy, not because we're jaded, but because we're afraid.

  631. And look, I get that. Maybe you've been burned before.

  632. Maybe you did this. Maybe I tried that. I opened

  633. up and I thought I could trust that person. I

  634. thought I could trust that group. I thought I could

  635. trust that church.

  636. And they let me down.

  637. And they went behind my back and I was betrayed

  638. and I was hurt, and I was and I'm so sorry,

  639. but that's not a reason to give up. Now we

  640. have an opportunity to step forward and leave that behind

  641. and try again. Don't let fear hold you back from

  642. what God's trying to do either. And I want to

  643. encourage you to go back to our very first thought

  644. this morning, this last c connection is created. It does

  645. mean that you created, We created with effort. But I

  646. will also want to remind you you were created for it.

  647. This is what you were built to do, and to

  648. ignore that would be to ignore the way we're designed.

  649. That would be to ignore God. I don't want to

  650. do that.

  651. So, whether you're feeling jaded, you're feeling like AH, or

  652. you're feeling tired, lazy, you're feeling fearful, whatever that is,

  653. this morning, I want our alter team to come and

  654. prepare themselves. Unless you're responding, if you need to pray

  655. through those things this morning as we sing this last song,

  656. I want you to do that. If you just need

  657. some encouragement. Look, these people in this altar, these are

  658. the most There are elite encouragers to the elite squad

  659. of encouragers, and if nothing else, they're going to speak

  660. life into you because God's speaking life into them and

  661. they're letting that flow through them. So whatever you need

  662. this morning, if you just need a jolt of energy

  663. to get you back, I just don't believe in that connection.

  664. Maybe you need inspiration, or I just don't have the time,

  665. I'm too tired.

  666. You need energy, or you're fearful and afraid to open

  667. up again because you've been hurt before. I want you

  668. to respond to this altar call, find somebody to pray

  669. with you, and we're going to sing adoption song because

  670. I believe that the overarching thing here is that God

  671. has adopted us in who his family he is. He

  672. did what he did from creation to the cross and

  673. to the end of time. God did what he did

  674. so he could be connected to you because he wanted

  675. to be a relationship with his creation. He's been trying

  676. to fix it, and we have the opportunity to step

  677. into it at a new level today to whatever it

  678. may be.

  679. I want you to respond. We're going to sing together.

  680. Father, have your way or move and work in these

  681. next few moments, connect us deeper with you and with

  682. one another.

  683. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray Amen.