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"A Cup of Cold Water"

St. Peter's by-the-Sea

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  1. Deacon: The holy gospel of our Lord

  2. Deacon: Jesus Christ, according to

  3. Deacon: Matthew.

  4. Bishop Knisely: Glory to you, Lord Christ.

  5. Deacon: Jesus said, whoever welcomes you

  6. Deacon: welcomes me, and whoever

  7. Deacon: welcomes me welcomes the one who

  8. Deacon: sent me.

  9. Deacon: Whoever welcomes a prophet in the name of a prophet will

  10. Deacon: receive a prophet's reward.

  11. Deacon: And whoever welcomes a righteous person in the name of a

  12. Deacon: righteous person will receive the reward of the righteous.

  13. Deacon: And whoever gives even a cup of

  14. Deacon: cold water to one of these

  15. Deacon: little ones in the name of a

  16. Deacon: disciple.

  17. Deacon: Truly, I tell you, none of these will lose their reward.

  18. Deacon: The gospel of the Lord.

  19. Bishop Knisely: Praise to you, Lord Christ.

  20. Bishop Knisely: May I speak to you in the name

  21. Bishop Knisely: of God, who is father, son, and

  22. Bishop Knisely: Holy Spirit.

  23. Bishop Knisely: Amen.

  24. Bishop Knisely: Amen.

  25. Bishop Knisely: Go ahead and now be seated.

  26. Bishop Knisely: One of the things you learn

  27. Bishop Knisely: really early on when you're

  28. Bishop Knisely: ordained is that people sort of

  29. Bishop Knisely: look at what you're wearing and

  30. Bishop Knisely: behave differently.

  31. Bishop Knisely: I notice that if I have to fly and I'm wearing clericals, if

  32. Bishop Knisely: I'm in my black suit or a purple shirt and I go to get on the

  33. Bishop Knisely: airplane, people are either going to be really happy I'm

  34. Bishop Knisely: sitting beside them or they're going to be very uncomfortable.

  35. Bishop Knisely: People will sort of scooch away from you in line at Dunkin

  36. Bishop Knisely: Donuts and at McDonald's.

  37. Bishop Knisely: It's a whole thing, trying to

  38. Bishop Knisely: order your Big Mac and your

  39. Bishop Knisely: French fries.

  40. Bishop Knisely: People project on you because of what you're wearing.

  41. Bishop Knisely: And you learned that early on.

  42. Bishop Knisely: As clergy, and sometimes that's helpful.

  43. Bishop Knisely: And sometimes that can be a challenge.

  44. Bishop Knisely: One of the things you notice when you walk around inner city

  45. Bishop Knisely: inner cities, and I, as a priest, always served in inner

  46. Bishop Knisely: city parishes, is that people will see you walking by and

  47. Bishop Knisely: depending on their circumstances, will come up and

  48. Bishop Knisely: want something from you.

  49. Bishop Knisely: And sometimes that's wonderful.

  50. Bishop Knisely: And sometimes it's like, oh, how

  51. Bishop Knisely: am I going to disappoint you

  52. Bishop Knisely: today?

  53. Bishop Knisely: So when I was living in Phoenix,

  54. Bishop Knisely: my wife and I are not very good

  55. Bishop Knisely: cooks.

  56. Bishop Knisely: And so we're really good at getting prepared foods from

  57. Bishop Knisely: little grocery stores.

  58. Bishop Knisely: We love Dave's.

  59. Bishop Knisely: I just got to tell you, we would

  60. Bishop Knisely: starve to death if it wasn't for

  61. Bishop Knisely: Dave's.

  62. Bishop Knisely: But there was a version of Dave's much smaller called Fresh

  63. Bishop Knisely: and Easy in Phoenix, and I was on my way home from the office

  64. Bishop Knisely: and Karen was still at work and she said, would you swing by

  65. Bishop Knisely: fresh and easy and get some dinner for us?

  66. Bishop Knisely: And I said, sure, sure, sure.

  67. Bishop Knisely: I'm trying to get in and out the fresh and easy.

  68. Bishop Knisely: That was close to where we were living.

  69. Bishop Knisely: It wasn't the best part of

  70. Bishop Knisely: Phoenix and it was kind of

  71. Bishop Knisely: sketchy.

  72. Bishop Knisely: And I'm like, okay, I'll get in.

  73. Bishop Knisely: I'll get into the place.

  74. Bishop Knisely: It was a guy standing around

  75. Bishop Knisely: outside looking at people and,

  76. Bishop Knisely: uh oh.

  77. Bishop Knisely: So I get out of the car, I go

  78. Bishop Knisely: into fresh and easy, I get out,

  79. Bishop Knisely: I don't know what it was

  80. Bishop Knisely: probably something wonderfully

  81. Bishop Knisely: healthy and fulfilling, like

  82. Bishop Knisely: clergy eat.

  83. Bishop Knisely: And and I came out of the store and the guy looks at me and

  84. Bishop Knisely: says, you're a priest, right?

  85. Bishop Knisely: Like, oh, yes, yes.

  86. Bishop Knisely: He said, I bought two of these.

  87. Bishop Knisely: Take this one.

  88. Bishop Knisely: And he gave me a bag of oranges.

  89. Bishop Knisely: And I thought, well, that's not what I expected.

  90. Bishop Knisely: And I said, well, thank you.

  91. Bishop Knisely: He said, no, no, no, no worries.

  92. Bishop Knisely: And he walked off and I realized he had done something for me,

  93. Bishop Knisely: not because of any relationship I had with him or anything I'd

  94. Bishop Knisely: done to deserve it, or the kindness I had shown him.

  95. Bishop Knisely: He just did it for me because of

  96. Bishop Knisely: a relationship I had with other

  97. Bishop Knisely: people.

  98. Bishop Knisely: I don't know, maybe it was something in the air in Phoenix,

  99. Bishop Knisely: but something similar happened not too long after I came out.

  100. Bishop Knisely: And one of the things you learn

  101. Bishop Knisely: in Phoenix is because of the

  102. Bishop Knisely: heat and everything and the

  103. Bishop Knisely: thorns, you get a lot of flat

  104. Bishop Knisely: tires.

  105. Bishop Knisely: And so I came out to my car and I had a flat tire.

  106. Bishop Knisely: Oh. All right, well, I'm sitting there.

  107. Bishop Knisely: I'll just pop the trunk, get the spare out, change the tire, and

  108. Bishop Knisely: I'm getting ready to do that.

  109. Bishop Knisely: And, and I, I guess a guy was a delivery driver saw me and said,

  110. Bishop Knisely: father, father, let me change your car tire.

  111. Bishop Knisely: I said, no, no, I can do it.

  112. Bishop Knisely: I'm fine.

  113. Bishop Knisely: God bless you.

  114. Bishop Knisely: Thank you.

  115. Bishop Knisely: But I got this.

  116. Bishop Knisely: No no no no no no. Your hands

  117. Bishop Knisely: are the hands that serve at the

  118. Bishop Knisely: altar.

  119. Bishop Knisely: Don't get them dirty or hurt them.

  120. Bishop Knisely: Changing a tire.

  121. Bishop Knisely: Really?

  122. Bishop Knisely: I was not expecting that.

  123. Bishop Knisely: And I tried to talk him out.

  124. Bishop Knisely: He wouldn't hear it.

  125. Bishop Knisely: He said, no, I want to change your tire.

  126. Bishop Knisely: So he changed my tire.

  127. Bishop Knisely: He did a very good job of it, and I'm trying to take out money

  128. Bishop Knisely: and give him a tip or something.

  129. Bishop Knisely: I said, please let me say thank you.

  130. Bishop Knisely: And he wouldn't hear a word of it.

  131. Bishop Knisely: He did that not because he knew me, but because of who I knew.

  132. Bishop Knisely: In the gospel reading today,

  133. Bishop Knisely: Jesus is saying something very

  134. Bishop Knisely: similar.

  135. Bishop Knisely: He's saying that if you do

  136. Bishop Knisely: something kind for someone

  137. Bishop Knisely: because of the relationship they

  138. Bishop Knisely: have with me, Jesus is saying,

  139. Bishop Knisely: you shall get an extraordinary

  140. Bishop Knisely: reward.

  141. Bishop Knisely: He's talking in a crowd of people and he's talking about

  142. Bishop Knisely: the little ones.

  143. Bishop Knisely: You think he's talking about children?

  144. Bishop Knisely: The best we can tell from the text, he's not.

  145. Bishop Knisely: He's talking about the disciples

  146. Bishop Knisely: and the apostles who were with

  147. Bishop Knisely: him as he's going about

  148. Bishop Knisely: teaching.

  149. Bishop Knisely: And he says to the larger crowd,

  150. Bishop Knisely: look, if you give even a cup of

  151. Bishop Knisely: cold water, That's not very much

  152. Bishop Knisely: right?

  153. Bishop Knisely: That's a pretty easy lift for most of us.

  154. Bishop Knisely: If you give even a cup of cold water to one of these people

  155. Bishop Knisely: because of their relationship with me, then you will receive a

  156. Bishop Knisely: reward that is great in heaven.

  157. Bishop Knisely: How do you feel about that?

  158. Bishop Knisely: Because you're one of the little ones.

  159. Bishop Knisely: Think about that, right?

  160. Bishop Knisely: What if someone came up and said, hey, you're a member of

  161. Bishop Knisely: Saint Peter's, right?

  162. Bishop Knisely: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

  163. Bishop Knisely: Have a cup of water on me.

  164. Bishop Knisely: What would you think?

  165. Bishop Knisely: Right?

  166. Bishop Knisely: You belong to Jesus.

  167. Bishop Knisely: If we could see you as the angels see you.

  168. Bishop Knisely: We'd see the shining cross that's there on your forehead.

  169. Bishop Knisely: That was put there when you were baptized.

  170. Bishop Knisely: And the priest drew the sign of

  171. Bishop Knisely: the cross in holy oil on your

  172. Bishop Knisely: forehead.

  173. Bishop Knisely: If we could see with the eyes of angels.

  174. Bishop Knisely: We'd see the cloud of white

  175. Bishop Knisely: light that surrounds you simply

  176. Bishop Knisely: because you are one of the

  177. Bishop Knisely: baptized.

  178. Bishop Knisely: I mean, wow.

  179. Bishop Knisely: What if you could see each other that way?

  180. Bishop Knisely: Or what if you could see the people that you meet every day

  181. Bishop Knisely: and see in them the image of God that they carry simply because

  182. Bishop Knisely: they are human?

  183. Bishop Knisely: The Pope talks about in his latest encyclical, The

  184. Bishop Knisely: Magnificence of Our Humanity.

  185. Bishop Knisely: And he's referring to artificial intelligence.

  186. Bishop Knisely: But but I think he's also just

  187. Bishop Knisely: making the point that one of the

  188. Bishop Knisely: things that's extraordinary

  189. Bishop Knisely: about our incarnate selves, our

  190. Bishop Knisely: fleshy human nature, is that we

  191. Bishop Knisely: carry the image of God within

  192. Bishop Knisely: us.

  193. Bishop Knisely: And because we carry the image

  194. Bishop Knisely: of God, We look like Jesus to

  195. Bishop Knisely: the universe.

  196. Bishop Knisely: We all do.

  197. Bishop Knisely: Simply by being human.

  198. Bishop Knisely: It's extraordinary when you think about what it means to be

  199. Bishop Knisely: made in the image of God, and the recognition that the rest of

  200. Bishop Knisely: the universe gets a blessing simply by our presence in it.

  201. Bishop Knisely: Now, you'd think we'd live up to that, right?

  202. Bishop Knisely: And we'd live our lives in such a way that the relationships we

  203. Bishop Knisely: have would typify the blessing that we are to other people.

  204. Bishop Knisely: But we don't always do that.

  205. Bishop Knisely: I was looking at the comment section of the New York Times

  206. Bishop Knisely: articles this morning.

  207. Bishop Knisely: I should not do that before I go to church.

  208. Bishop Knisely: There was not a whole lot of recognition of the image of God

  209. Bishop Knisely: in those comments.

  210. Bishop Knisely: I got to tell you.

  211. Bishop Knisely: People were arguing and they

  212. Bishop Knisely: were biting, and they were

  213. Bishop Knisely: pulling at each other just as we

  214. Bishop Knisely: humans do.

  215. Bishop Knisely: And in spite of all that, we are still made in the image of God.

  216. Bishop Knisely: But what would it be like if we

  217. Bishop Knisely: could actually live our lives

  218. Bishop Knisely: that way?

  219. Bishop Knisely: What would it be like if we

  220. Bishop Knisely: actually saw each other as being

  221. Bishop Knisely: created in the image of God, and

  222. Bishop Knisely: treated each other with that

  223. Bishop Knisely: kind of respect and dignity that

  224. Bishop Knisely: is ours, not because we deserve

  225. Bishop Knisely: it, but because of who we are in

  226. Bishop Knisely: relationship with.

  227. Bishop Knisely: I mean, that's kind of the point of the ecclesia.

  228. Bishop Knisely: The word ecclesia is the word Paul uses for church.

  229. Bishop Knisely: He uses it in Romans a number of times.

  230. Bishop Knisely: It's not a new word.

  231. Bishop Knisely: He's not making it up.

  232. Bishop Knisely: Ecclesia is a Greek idea, and it means a crowd of people.

  233. Bishop Knisely: And it's usually described by

  234. Bishop Knisely: the teachers and the

  235. Bishop Knisely: philosophers as being a

  236. Bishop Knisely: fractious bunch.

  237. Bishop Knisely: When an ecclesia is gathered, you know, there's going to be

  238. Bishop Knisely: arguments and there's going to be pushing and shoving.

  239. Bishop Knisely: And Paul uses that word for church.

  240. Bishop Knisely: We tend to dress it up and we make it into ecclesiastical and

  241. Bishop Knisely: we use fancy language.

  242. Bishop Knisely: But but it really just means a crowd of grumpy people.

  243. Bishop Knisely: And that's what Paul was

  244. Bishop Knisely: describing and is describing all

  245. Bishop Knisely: of us.

  246. Bishop Knisely: And yet, because we're part of

  247. Bishop Knisely: that crowd, if someone gives us

  248. Bishop Knisely: a drink of water because we're

  249. Bishop Knisely: part of that crowd, they get an

  250. Bishop Knisely: extraordinary reward.

  251. Bishop Knisely: You know, it's not like what it was with Abraham, who had to put

  252. Bishop Knisely: everything on the line for his faith with God.

  253. Bishop Knisely: Everything, everything he had been told, everything he

  254. Bishop Knisely: believed, everything he and Sarah had hung their hopes on.

  255. Bishop Knisely: He was asked to put on the line for God.

  256. Bishop Knisely: And that faith is what makes him a hero.

  257. Bishop Knisely: A hero whose memory has been preserved for all this time.

  258. Bishop Knisely: We have it much easier or much harder.

  259. Bishop Knisely: I don't know, because we have to do an easier thing and believe

  260. Bishop Knisely: that the same consequence applies for us.

  261. Bishop Knisely: We're celebrating our two hundred and fiftieth anniversary

  262. Bishop Knisely: as a nation later this week.

  263. Bishop Knisely: Hooray!

  264. Bishop Knisely: We're not all excited about it.

  265. Bishop Knisely: It's not like seventeen or nineteen seventy six.

  266. Bishop Knisely: I remember what the Bicentennial was like.

  267. Bishop Knisely: I'm older than I look, and I remember how we got dressed up

  268. Bishop Knisely: and the way we celebrated it for the whole year.

  269. Bishop Knisely: And here we are in the two fiftieth, and I feel like my

  270. Bishop Knisely: daughter, who probably won't see the three hundredth, is getting

  271. Bishop Knisely: cheated because she's not seeing the same thing.

  272. Bishop Knisely: It's a moment.

  273. Bishop Knisely: We're divided.

  274. Bishop Knisely: We are at each other's throats.

  275. Bishop Knisely: We're biting and sniping and pulling at each other.

  276. Bishop Knisely: Just like in the comment sections of The New York Times.

  277. Bishop Knisely: And yet that Ecclesia is all made in the image of God.

  278. Bishop Knisely: You want to heal that?

  279. Bishop Knisely: Try treating each other as if

  280. Bishop Knisely: their dignity is not dependent

  281. Bishop Knisely: on what they say or do or how

  282. Bishop Knisely: they behave, but simply because

  283. Bishop Knisely: they exist.

  284. Bishop Knisely: And they were created in the image of God from the beginning.

  285. Bishop Knisely: I have noticed it changes you.

  286. Bishop Knisely: That guy who changed my tire changed my whole week because I

  287. Bishop Knisely: saw myself differently.

  288. Bishop Knisely: I don't usually think of myself

  289. Bishop Knisely: as a person who serves at the

  290. Bishop Knisely: altar.

  291. Bishop Knisely: I think of myself as the person who worries about how we're

  292. Bishop Knisely: going to pay the bills.

  293. Bishop Knisely: He didn't see me that way, and

  294. Bishop Knisely: because he didn't see me that

  295. Bishop Knisely: way, I started to see myself, at

  296. Bishop Knisely: least for a little while, in a

  297. Bishop Knisely: different way.

  298. Bishop Knisely: The guy who waited around outside the grocery store.

  299. Bishop Knisely: I've never forgotten it.

  300. Bishop Knisely: Clearly.

  301. Bishop Knisely: What if you people of Saint Peter's could change?

  302. Bishop Knisely: Maybe not the whole nation.

  303. Bishop Knisely: Just change your neighborhood.

  304. Bishop Knisely: Just change your neighborhood by

  305. Bishop Knisely: treating each other as people

  306. Bishop Knisely: who are worthy of dignity and

  307. Bishop Knisely: respect.

  308. Bishop Knisely: Not because of how you vote or

  309. Bishop Knisely: what you believe, or the flags

  310. Bishop Knisely: you fly or anything else like

  311. Bishop Knisely: that.

  312. Bishop Knisely: But simply because you are a human being and you are a child

  313. Bishop Knisely: of God, and you glow with light by virtue of your baptism, and

  314. Bishop Knisely: there is a shining cross on your forehead that the angels can see

  315. Bishop Knisely: and long to witness.

  316. Bishop Knisely: What if just being human is enough?

  317. Bishop Knisely: That would be something.

  318. Bishop Knisely: It might change your day.

  319. Bishop Knisely: Amen.

  320. Bishop Knisely: Amen.