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Becoming an Accountable Community

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  5. This is a reading from the Gospel according to Matthew, chapter 18, verses 12 to 20.

    Matthew 18:12–20

  6. What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away,

  7. will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go look for the one that wandered off?

  8. And if he finds it, truly I tell you, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off.

  9. In the same way, your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should perish.

  10. If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their faults, just between the two of you.

  11. If they listen to you, you have won them over.

  12. But if they will not listen, take one or two others along,

  13. so that every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.

  14. If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church.

  15. And if they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector.

  16. Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven,

  17. and whatever you lose on earth will be loosed in heaven.

  18. Again, truly I tell you, that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for,

  19. it will be done for them by my Father in heaven.

  20. For where two or three gather in my name, there I am with them.

  21. This is the gospel of the Lord.

  22. Praise to you, O Christ.

  23. Well, thank you for that scripture reading, John.

  24. Good morning, everyone.

  25. My name is Andrew, one of the pastors here.

  26. I feel a little weird because I feel like every time Jonathan preaches,

  27. the turnout the next week is a lot bigger.

  28. And then I notice when I preach, the next week it's a lot smaller.

  29. So I think that's what's happened today.

  30. Jonathan preached last week, and I get to preach to a bigger crowd today.

  31. We're super glad you're here.

  32. Sorry about that, Jonathan.

  33. I'll try hard to make people come back next week.

  34. But I don't want to cut Jonathan too much slack because what happened last week was

  35. Jonathan actually intended to preach this text that was just read to us all the way through verse 20.

  36. He intended to preach that last week.

  37. And he realized, though, last week that he wasn't going to be able to squeeze it all into his sermon,

  38. so he asked me to pick up the rest starting in verse 15 today.

  39. And, you know, I'm a team player, so I typed back to him on Slack.

  40. I said, you got it, boss.

  41. Anything you need.

  42. But then when I realized the passage that he left for me to preach, I was like, yo, of course Jonathan was going to leave me with this passage.

  43. All right?

  44. I mean, the nice title of the sermon today is Becoming an Accountable Community.

  45. Right?

  46. But honestly, you could also title a sermon on this passage, you know,

  47. Four Steps for Removing Someone from Church Membership.

  48. Right?

  49. Or maybe Excommunication According to Jesus.

  50. All right?

  51. So thanks a lot, Jonathan St. Clair.

  52. And here we go.

  53. The sermon, I'm sure that this is why people are flocking here today, a sermon on church discipline.

  54. Something you're all itching to hear about today when you got out of bed, right?

  55. Now, I imagine that this text probably brings up a good amount of discomfort and tons of questions for a number of us.

  56. And I hope to address them throughout this sermon this morning.

  57. But first, I just want to explain Jesus' teaching here on church discipline in case this is a new concept to us.

  58. Look down here.

  59. We're going to go straight into it.

  60. Look down at verses 15 to 17.

  61. It's actually pretty straightforward.

  62. But basically, Jesus is saying in verses 15 to 17, if someone sins, that is, if someone goes against the ways of God,

  63. Jesus says that there is a three-step, four-step process.

  64. Step one, go and call them out on it.

  65. Go and personally, privately seek their repentance.

  66. Seek to get them to turn back to God.

  67. All right?

  68. So that's step number one.

  69. And if they do repent and return back, great.

  70. Mission accomplished.

  71. All right?

  72. But then there's step number two.

  73. If they don't repent, step number two, will then take two or three witnesses and confront them again.

  74. All right?

  75. And if they still refuse to turn back, step three, bring this issue before the church.

  76. And if they still refuse to change their mind and to change their ways, then step four is, Jesus says,

  77. to treat them as a pagan and a tax collector.

  78. Basically, treat them as someone who is now an outsider to your church family.

  79. And this process is what we call the steps of church discipline.

  80. And the final step is excommunication.

  81. Now, if you're wondering what that might look like in real life,

  82. because we are a church that does practice church membership and church discipline here at Christ Church,

  83. let me just share with you what this might look like.

  84. Basically, if Jonathan St. Clair went out and he stole my car, okay?

  85. Let's say Jonathan went out and stole my car.

  86. Jesus is saying that it's actually my personal responsibility as his brother in Christ to confront him about it privately,

  87. before I go off and get the whole church to get behind me and get my car back, all right?

  88. To go to him privately to confront him and seek his restoration.

  89. That's step one when someone in our church commits a blatant sin,

  90. personal and private confrontation with the goal of restoration.

  91. Now, I want to add a big caveat here,

  92. because these are Jesus' instructions for how to conduct ourselves in the church,

  93. in the context of the church.

  94. But the scriptures also talk about how we are to conduct ourselves,

  95. also in the context of civil society.

  96. And, you know, just because Jesus tells me to confront Jonathan privately for stealing my car,

  97. it doesn't mean that I can't also, you know, go contact the police.

  98. And, you know, it's sad that I have to say this,

  99. but far too many churches have tried to, you know, be their own judge and jury,

  100. trying to deal with all kinds of things.

  101. Sexual abuse, domestic abuse, other sins punishable by the law.

  102. And the churches have often tried to do it on their own,

  103. without notifying the proper, you know, law-enforcing authority.

  104. So I just have to say that.

  105. I want to assure you that that's not what Jesus is saying here, okay?

  106. He's talking about personal relationships in the context of the church.

  107. All right, so that's step one.

  108. Step one for dealing with sin in the context of the church family is personal,

  109. private confrontation with the hope of repentance and winning that person back to the family.

  110. But if step one doesn't lead to repentance, if Jonathan won't give me my car back,

  111. won't even admit that he's wrong, then according to Jesus,

  112. I should get two or three witnesses to come alongside me to confront him.

  113. And what I would do is I'd probably get Catherine St. Clair and Constance from our church

  114. to go with me to confront Jonathan and be like,

  115. Dad, give Pastor Andrew his car back.

  116. All right?

  117. I'm hoping that that would be more convicting for Pastor Jonathan.

  118. But if Jonathan still refused to give me back my sweet ride, right,

  119. if he continued in his ways of grand theft auto,

  120. what the next step would be, step three, would be to tell it to the church.

  121. Tell the church.

  122. And this is kind of a scary part, right?

  123. Now, I have a friend, actually, who unfortunately went through this process of church discipline.

  124. She ended up in a romantic relationship with a man who was married to someone else in her workplace.

  125. And she was at a Baptist church.

  126. And a Baptist church typically has more of a congregationalist way of governing.

  127. So they actually had her stand before the whole church in a members meeting.

  128. And they reported her sin to the whole membership, essentially trying to shame her back to God.

  129. And I don't at all condone what she did.

  130. But I want you to know that here at Christ Church, that's not exactly how it works,

  131. according to our book of order, according to our denomination.

  132. Step three of taking it to the church is a lot more discreet than that.

  133. And what step three would look like if Jonathan still did not give me my car back,

  134. step three would mean taking it to the elders of the church.

  135. It would be me going to Tonya and Karen and Wes and Bill and Jocelyn and to our whole presbytery,

  136. our regional presbytery, who keeps me and Jonathan accountable,

  137. and having all of them, this church, confront Jonathan about his stealing of my car.

  138. But then, if Jonathan still refused to repent, after step three,

  139. after the whole church came to him and asked him to turn back to God,

  140. the final step would be to treat him as an outsider to the family of faith.

  141. And no, this wouldn't mean posting bouncers outside of the church,

  142. not allowing him to come into the sanctuary,

  143. but it would mean exclusion from this table right here.

  144. Exclusion from this sacrament of intimate communion with Christ and his people.

  145. Jonathan's refusal to repent, even after these first three steps of church discipline,

  146. would mean that all the members of Christ's church here should take a different view

  147. about our fundamental relationship to him.

  148. No longer seeing him as a brother in Christ, but as someone outside the household of God.

  149. It wouldn't mean that we would love him any less,

  150. but it would mean that in our eyes,

  151. there would now be a huge distinction between who he was and who we are.

  152. A huge distinction between who he belonged to and who we belong to.

  153. And this isn't just some mind game that we try to play,

  154. but church discipline is backed, it says here in verses 18 to 20,

  155. by the very authority of Christ.

  156. Look down with me at verses 18 through 20.

  157. When Jesus uses this language here of loosing and binding,

  158. it's the same language he used early in Matthew chapter 16

    Matthew 16 chapter mention

  159. when he gives Peter the keys to unlock and to lock the kingdom of heaven.

  160. Basically what Jesus is saying when he says,

  161. whatever you bind or loose on earth will also be bound or loosened in heaven.

  162. And what he's doing is he's giving the institution of the local church

  163. the authority and the role of practicing church membership.

  164. The role of declaring who is in the kingdom and who is not in the kingdom of heaven.

  165. And like, I know a lot of times we cite this passage in our prayer meetings like,

  166. you know, where two or three are gathered in my name, there I am with them.

  167. But you need to know that the direct context for that passage

  168. is actually Jesus' teaching here on church discipline.

  169. He's saying that wherever there is a local church gathering of his people,

  170. even if the church is but two or three people,

  171. there he is with them, standing behind them

  172. in their practice of church membership and church discipline.

  173. Now in case you're wondering,

  174. Jesus is not saying that the church is infallible or an ultimate authority.

  175. As one commentator puts it,

  176. this doesn't mean that God is bound to add his divine sanction

  177. to just whatever the church does.

  178. But when the church does faithfully live up to her calling,

  179. when we practice church membership and church discipline rightly,

  180. we are exercising the very authority

  181. and the very presence of Christ in this world.

  182. So church discipline, this is serious stuff commanded to us,

  183. commended to us by Christ.

  184. It's not just an organizational policy or an artificial construct.

  185. Church discipline is the process that God himself in Christ has given us

  186. to be the body of Christ in this world in a distinctive way.

  187. And so there you go.

  188. That's my best shot at explaining the process

  189. and the purpose of church membership and church discipline

  190. according to Jesus' teaching here in Matthew chapter 18.

    Matthew 18 chapter mention

  191. We can close in prayer now, all right?

  192. Of course not.

  193. And I imagine, again, that this teaching is quite uncomfortable for a lot of us.

  194. Probably raises a bunch of questions, right?

  195. Like maybe you see Jesus' teaching here,

  196. these four steps leading to the removal of someone from church membership,

  197. and you're wondering,

  198. how can Jesus teach his church to be so exclusive

  199. and so methodically exclusive, right?

  200. I mean, for our modern Western Bay Area sensibilities,

  201. this doesn't exactly fit with our value of radical inclusion, does it?

  202. Jesus, what's up with these boundaries?

  203. What's up with these lines?

  204. What's up with these distinctions,

  205. this distinction between insiders and outsiders?

  206. Jesus, are you really suggesting that we label other people,

  207. that we other certain people who believe and who live differently than us?

  208. And this teaching is not just hard to stomach as inclusive Bay Area progresses,

  209. but even for those of us who don't necessarily, you know,

  210. uphold the secular orthodoxy of the Bay Area,

  211. even for those of us whose primary allegiance is to Jesus,

  212. this teaching on church discipline can still seem hard to square, right?

  213. With the Jesus we thought we knew.

  214. I mean, just last week,

  215. just a few verses prior here in chapter 18,

  216. Jesus was just talking about welcoming children and the least and the lowly

  217. into his kingdom of heaven.

  218. This is the guy who preached the Sermon on the Mount, right?

  219. Love your enemies, turn the other cheek,

  220. judge not lest you be judged.

  221. But here he's saying that there is a point

  222. where we should actually treat certain people as outsiders to his kingdom.

  223. Even like idolatrous pagans and turncoat tax collectors.

  224. So like, what are we to make of Jesus' teaching on church membership

  225. and on church discipline when they seem so much intention

  226. with the inclusivity and the open-hearted love that we all value

  227. and even that we recognize in Jesus himself and his other teachings?

  228. And that's what the rest of this sermon is going to be about,

  229. considering whether Jesus' teaching on church discipline

  230. is actually opposed to his teaching on inclusion and love.

  231. All right?

  232. Are they truly opposed?

  233. Is church discipline truly outside of the way of Jesus?

  234. Or is there something more nuanced, more profound

  235. for us to see in God's word this morning?

  236. Now the first thing that I want to say is,

  237. hey, we've got to be honest though.

  238. Every institution, even the most inclusive by its very nature

  239. as an institution, it's got to be exclusive at least to some degree, right?

  240. Every institution has to have some standard for inclusion and exclusion,

  241. whether it's an Islamic mosque or a Jewish synagogue or a church like ours

  242. or even like a sports team, a club, a gym,

  243. a big global publicly traded business like Google.

  244. I don't think we could name a single institution,

  245. even the most woke, progressive, radically inclusive institution

  246. that doesn't have some criteria for inclusion and exclusion.

  247. It's absolutely just unavoidable if we're going to be honest.

  248. So if we're going to be intellectually honest,

  249. it's not so much a matter of being or not being exclusive or inclusive.

  250. But the more important question is,

  251. what is the criteria?

  252. What is the criteria for inclusion and exclusion?

  253. See, in Jesus' teaching right here,

  254. he's keeping it real about the criteria of the kingdom.

  255. And it's really simple.

  256. It's simple, it's just, it's fair,

  257. and it's truly an equalizing criteria

  258. that doesn't specifically discriminate

  259. against any particular kind of people or people group.

  260. In his kingdom, sin and waywardness from God

  261. constitute the grounds for exclusion.

  262. And repentance and faith in Christ

  263. constitute the grounds for inclusion.

  264. And that's it.

  265. The same standard for everyone.

  266. A standard that neither advantages nor disadvantages

  267. any kinds of people.

  268. Jesus isn't trying to be any more exclusive than anyone else.

  269. He's just trying to be clear and real

  270. about his fair criteria for inclusion and exclusion.

  271. And besides, let's also not forget

  272. where exclusion originally came from in the first place, right?

  273. Who was the first person to draw lines

  274. and boundaries and distinctions?

  275. It was us.

  276. It was humankind when we drew the first line,

  277. when we chose a different way than God's way.

  278. And when we ran away from God and hid from him

  279. and each other,

  280. from that point on,

  281. there were two different ways to live.

  282. Two different teams.

  283. God's and ours.

  284. God's original intention was never to exclude,

  285. but exclusion was born out of our sin.

  286. And you know what?

  287. The rest of the story of history is actually Jesus.

  288. According to Jesus, the rest of the story,

  289. according to his prophets, according to his apostles,

  290. is God's plan to actually include those

  291. who excluded themselves from him.

  292. And not with some kind of compromised

  293. or relativistic inclusivity

  294. that just accepts everyone no matter what

  295. and without cost,

  296. but with a principled, inclusive love

  297. that costs the exclusion of his own son.

  298. On the cross, Christ was excluded

  299. so that we might be included.

  300. On Good Friday, Christ became an outsider

  301. so that we might become insiders.

  302. The son became the scapegoat

  303. sent outside the camp,

  304. crucified outside the city walls

  305. so that we might become citizens

  306. in the new Jerusalem,

  307. members of God's household.

  308. This is the free gift of God's inclusive grace

  309. that's offered to anyone and everyone.

  310. So you see, even with the real exclusivity

  311. that exists and characterizes

  312. the kingdom of Christ,

  313. there is no other kingdom in history, actually.

  314. No other institution that has actually been more inclusive

  315. than the church of Jesus Christ.

  316. That the household of God

  317. that's united in him and in him alone.

  318. It is the most inclusive

  319. precisely because of the way that it is exclusive.

  320. See, Jesus is an equal opportunity offender here.

  321. He excludes all people

  322. according to the same single standard of sin.

  323. But at the same time,

  324. literally anyone,

  325. any kind of person can enter

  326. into the kingdom of heaven

  327. according to the same single standard of faith

  328. and repentance.

  329. And so a second and related thing

  330. I might add to this

  331. is that, you know,

  332. the very notion of radical inclusion

  333. that we so often celebrate

  334. and so often use to condemn Christianity

  335. and the church,

  336. honestly, apart from historic

  337. and orthodox Christianity,

  338. honestly, we wouldn't even be able

  339. to celebrate radical inclusion

  340. like we do today in the secular West.

  341. This notion of radical inclusion

  342. that the secular West so often uses

  343. to bash the church,

  344. it got this from the church

  345. in the first place.

  346. If you're interested in reading more about this,

  347. I suggest Rodney Stark.

  348. He did his PhD here at Cal.

  349. He taught at UW and Baylor.

  350. Or there's Tom Holland.

  351. He's an alumnus of Cambridge.

  352. He's another historian.

  353. Jerry Sitzer or Larry Hurtado.

  354. I recommend all these people

  355. who've done a lot of work on this.

  356. And, you know, even with this,

  357. even with the history of the church,

  358. the history of its oppression,

  359. even after all the times

  360. the church has failed to live up

  361. to our own standards,

  362. Christ's standards,

  363. and Christ's purposes for us,

  364. still, I think you can make

  365. a strong argument

  366. that there's never been

  367. a more diverse,

  368. more inclusive institution

  369. than the Christian church.

  370. As the great African theologian,

  371. St. Augustine,

  372. observed in the 5th century,

  373. all are astonished to see

  374. the entire human race

  375. converging on the crucified one

  376. from emperors down to beggars

  377. in their rags.

  378. And, you know,

  379. the growth of world Christianity

  380. and the, you know,

  381. truly global complexion

  382. of the church

  383. has only continued to today.

  384. Like, did you know

  385. that Christianity

  386. is the most evenly dispersed religion

  387. across the continents?

  388. As of 2010,

  389. according to Pew Research,

  390. 25% of Christians

  391. were in Europe,

  392. 24% were in Africa,

  393. 24% were in South America,

  394. 12% in North America,

  395. and 13% in Asia.

  396. So to say that Christ

  397. and His church

  398. are not inclusive

  399. is simply just contrary

  400. to the facts.

  401. But now the third thing

  402. that I want to say

  403. in regard to this alleged

  404. exclusivity of Jesus' teaching

  405. on church discipline,

  406. you know,

  407. is this.

  408. What I want to say is,

  409. what if Jesus' teaching here

  410. on church discipline

  411. is actually way more inclusive

  412. than we originally realized?

  413. I want to show you

  414. that it's actually

  415. way more inclusive

  416. than we actually realized.

  417. Now look down with me here

  418. at verses 12 through 14.

  419. Because it's really important

  420. to see these verses

  421. as the context

  422. for what follows

  423. in verses 15 through 20

  424. when Jesus talks

  425. about church discipline.

  426. Because, like,

  427. Jesus doesn't just,

  428. you know,

  429. out of the blue

  430. launch into giving instructions

  431. for how to kick people

  432. out of church.

  433. That's not what He's doing here

  434. in Matthew chapter 18.

    Matthew 18 chapter mention

  435. If we look at verses 12 through 14,

  436. we see that Jesus' instructions

  437. for removing people

  438. from the church membership,

  439. it actually flows

  440. out of His exhortation

  441. to the church

  442. to be a pursuing people of God.

  443. In verse 12,

  444. Jesus says,

  445. He says this first,

  446. What do you think?

  447. If a man owns a hundred sheep

  448. and one of them wanders away,

  449. will he not leave

  450. the 99 on the hills

  451. and go to look for the one

  452. that wandered off?

  453. And if he finds it,

  454. truly I tell you,

  455. he is happier

  456. about that one sheep

  457. than about the 99

  458. that did not wander off

  459. in the same way

  460. your Father in heaven

  461. is not willing

  462. that any of these little ones

  463. should perish.

  464. And to just,

  465. to give some context

  466. for Jesus' original hearers

  467. in the ancient Near East,

  468. this would have been

  469. absolutely ludicrous,

  470. alright?

  471. Like what wise,

  472. what responsible shepherd

  473. would leave 99 of his sheep

  474. on a hill,

  475. put 99% of his wealth

  476. at risk

  477. to go after

  478. one wayward sheep,

  479. to preserve

  480. that tiny 1%

  481. of his wealth

  482. that is a particular

  483. headache to him,

  484. prone to wander

  485. again and again and again,

  486. and that might not

  487. even return with him.

  488. The original hearers

  489. of Jesus' teaching

  490. probably would have

  491. thought to themselves,

  492. maybe just leave that one

  493. to the wolves.

  494. 99% is still pretty good.

  495. But see,

  496. what Jesus is saying here

  497. is that no matter

  498. how small,

  499. no matter how insignificant,

  500. and no matter

  501. how full his sheep fold,

  502. even at 99% capacity,

  503. God's heart

  504. is to pursue

  505. the one

  506. who is lost

  507. and far from home.

  508. And Jesus is saying

  509. that this should be

  510. the heart of God's people

  511. as well,

  512. the church.

  513. Like,

  514. we must never be

  515. so preoccupied

  516. with the faithful 99

  517. that we neglect

  518. to pursue

  519. the wayward one.

  520. And it is out of this context

  521. that we come

  522. to verse 15

  523. and Jesus' instructions

  524. not on just

  525. how to get someone

  526. out of the church,

  527. but really,

  528. these are Jesus' instructions

  529. for how to win someone back

  530. into the fold.

  531. That's what church discipline

  532. is about.

  533. Look at verse 15.

  534. If your brother or sister,

  535. if someone in your church family,

  536. he's saying,

  537. if someone who you are

  538. personally bound to

  539. and responsible for

  540. in your covenant community,

  541. if they sin,

  542. go, Jesus says.

  543. Be that pursuing people of God

  544. that you're supposed to be

  545. to that one person.

  546. Go in the name

  547. of your good shepherd

  548. after that straying sheep

  549. and point out their fault.

  550. And not to shame them publicly,

  551. but out of love

  552. and out of compassion

  553. and in privacy

  554. just between the two of you,

  555. Jesus says.

  556. And I love this part.

  557. If they listen to you,

  558. this is the goal.

  559. You have won them over.

  560. You have won them over.

  561. Like, pay attention to that.

  562. This is, you know,

  563. this supposedly super exclusive

  564. teaching of Jesus

  565. is not primarily

  566. about excluding people.

  567. It's about winning them.

  568. Winning them back

  569. by the means

  570. of church discipline.

  571. Even when they've sinned

  572. and turned their backs

  573. on the family

  574. and the community

  575. and wandered far from God,

  576. Jesus says,

  577. don't forget about them.

  578. Don't just focus

  579. on the easy remaining 99.

  580. No, you go

  581. and you have the hard

  582. and often awkward conversation

  583. of pointing out

  584. that person's sin.

  585. And you call them

  586. to repentance.

  587. And you fight.

  588. You fight the costly fight

  589. for their inclusion

  590. back into the fold.

  591. And see, this,

  592. this is the heart

  593. of Jesus' teaching

  594. on church discipline.

  595. It's actually

  596. for the sake

  597. of inclusion.

  598. Its goal

  599. is to win people

  600. and that no one

  601. be left behind.

  602. So my question,

  603. my question is,

  604. are you down for this?

  605. Christ Church,

  606. are we down for this?

  607. To practice

  608. church membership

  609. and church discipline

  610. with intentionality

  611. in the way of Jesus.

  612. Are we down

  613. to hold others accountable?

  614. To pursue them?

  615. To confront them

  616. in their sin?

  617. And even if you are down,

  618. do you even have

  619. a close enough relationship

  620. with people in this church

  621. to do that?

  622. To know what people

  623. are struggling with?

  624. To know how you might

  625. call others out

  626. and back into relationship

  627. with Christ?

  628. To engage in the hard

  629. and messy

  630. and complicated

  631. but truly loving work

  632. of church discipline

  633. together

  634. as a family in Christ.

  635. You know,

  636. earlier this week,

  637. I got a really

  638. discouraging text

  639. from a member

  640. in our church

  641. who's been away

  642. for almost six months.

  643. I've been reaching out

  644. to this person

  645. every few weeks

  646. and they texted me

  647. back this week

  648. and told me that

  649. apart from my texts,

  650. they've been really

  651. disappointed

  652. that no one's really

  653. reached out

  654. and no one's really

  655. pursued them.

  656. And I don't say that

  657. to make anyone here

  658. guilty,

  659. but it did break my heart.

  660. It broke my heart.

  661. And sure,

  662. this person has

  663. their own responsibility

  664. in their connection

  665. to this church,

  666. but it broke my heart

  667. to read that text.

  668. And I so pray

  669. for such a revival

  670. in this church

  671. that we would be

  672. a people who love

  673. and pursue one another,

  674. that we would be

  675. a church that is

  676. discontent

  677. to let people

  678. wander far away

  679. from a deeper

  680. relationship with Christ

  681. and His church.

  682. You know,

  683. I don't just pray

  684. for us to be

  685. a pursuing church,

  686. but to be a truly

  687. communing,

  688. life-on-life church.

  689. This week,

  690. I had coffee

  691. with a new couple

  692. who's visiting

  693. Christ Church.

  694. They're deciding

  695. between our church

  696. and another church

  697. and they asked me

  698. straight up,

  699. how deep is the

  700. community here

  701. at Christ Church?

  702. They said,

  703. is this the kind

  704. of church where

  705. people are really

  706. invested in each

  707. other's lives,

  708. in the thick

  709. of each other's

  710. messes?

  711. Is this the kind

  712. of church where

  713. people are confessing

  714. sins to each other

  715. regularly and holding

  716. each other accountable?

  717. You know,

  718. I don't say this

  719. at all,

  720. again,

  721. to make us feel

  722. guilty,

  723. but my honest

  724. answer and my

  725. honest assessment

  726. was that that was

  727. more the exception

  728. than the norm here.

  729. And I told them

  730. that I see glimmers,

  731. I see pockets,

  732. I see a slowly

  733. emerging culture

  734. of real discipleship

  735. and accountability,

  736. but ultimately I told

  737. them that we are

  738. far, far from where

  739. we ought to be

  740. as a church.

  741. And so my question

  742. for us,

  743. Christ Church,

  744. is will we be

  745. a pursuing people

  746. of God?

  747. Will we be a family

  748. that takes spiritual

  749. responsibility?

  750. And I think that's

  751. the key word of the

  752. year for our church.

  753. Will we be a people

  754. that takes spiritual

  755. responsibility for

  756. one another?

  757. And if so,

  758. then who are the

  759. two or three people

  760. that God might be

  761. calling you to,

  762. to pursue and to

  763. invest in,

  764. in this church

  765. this year?

  766. Who are the two

  767. or three people

  768. in this church

  769. who you think

  770. might pursue you

  771. and invest in you?

  772. Are you even down

  773. to be vulnerable

  774. and held accountable

  775. in this church?

  776. Like maybe your next

  777. step is simply

  778. becoming a member.

  779. Sure, maybe you've

  780. been a faithful

  781. attender for a long

  782. time, but are you

  783. ready to let the

  784. church be the church

  785. in your life?

  786. To officially keep

  787. you accountable?

  788. The scriptures say

  789. that the Lord

  790. disciplines those

  791. he loves.

  792. And it's the same

  793. way with the church.

  794. The church,

  795. we discipline

  796. those whom we

  797. love.

  798. But we cannot

  799. love you fully

  800. as your church

  801. unless you're an

  802. accountable member

  803. here.

  804. That's subject to

  805. the discipline of

  806. the church.

  807. And I know that

  808. sounds crazy, right?

  809. So countercultural,

  810. so counterintuitive,

  811. like why would

  812. anyone put themselves

  813. in a situation

  814. to be disciplined

  815. by the church?

  816. And I fully

  817. acknowledge the

  818. countless cases

  819. of spiritual abuse

  820. that the church

  821. has inflicted.

  822. The crusades

  823. were real.

  824. The inquisition

  825. was real.

  826. Colonization

  827. was real.

  828. Story after story

  829. of abusive

  830. authoritarian shepherds

  831. who used their

  832. rods not to

  833. comfort and protect

  834. their flock but to

  835. threaten and punish.

  836. I know that's real.

  837. But friends, I'm not

  838. ultimately asking you

  839. to trust the church.

  840. I'm asking you to

  841. trust Christ and the

  842. process that he has

  843. given to us, the

  844. process that he has

  845. instituted in the

  846. church for our good

  847. and for his glory

  848. and for our witness

  849. to the world.

  850. And I get it.

  851. Binding oneself as a

  852. member of a church

  853. to be held accountable

  854. by a community of

  855. fallible people

  856. seems so

  857. counterintuitive.

  858. I get it.

  859. But what if church

  860. membership was like,

  861. what if it was like

  862. Odysseus, right?

  863. Odysseus tying himself

  864. to the mast of the

  865. ship, knowing that

  866. he would be enticed

  867. by the ultimately

  868. destructive siren

  869. songs.

  870. And what if

  871. membership was like

  872. his shipmates with

  873. beeswax in their

  874. ears, rowing hard to

  875. get him away from

  876. danger, ignoring his

  877. pleas for freedom,

  878. freedom to jump and

  879. swim toward his doom,

  880. even as he tore his

  881. own flesh trying to

  882. break free from the

  883. mast.

  884. As the psalmist says,

  885. let a righteous person

  886. strike me, it is

  887. kindness.

  888. Let him rebuke me, it

  889. is oil for my head.

  890. Let my head not

  891. refuse it.

  892. Christchurch, we must

  893. not choose niceness

  894. over holiness.

  895. We must not confuse

  896. niceness for love.

  897. In his classic book,

  898. Life Together,

  899. Dietrich Bonhoeffer

  900. wrote this,

  901. nothing can be more

  902. cruel than the

  903. leniency which

  904. abandons others to

  905. their sin.

  906. And nothing can be

  907. more compassionate

  908. than the severe

  909. reprimand which

  910. calls another

  911. Christian in one's

  912. community back from

  913. the path of sin.

  914. So again, this is not

  915. about kicking people

  916. out of the church.

  917. Or even about the

  918. preservation of our

  919. self-righteous purity

  920. in this church.

  921. What church membership,

  922. what church discipline

  923. is about?

  924. It's about displaying

  925. the good news of

  926. God's love.

  927. And not just his

  928. bare love like any

  929. other kind of love,

  930. but his holy love.

  931. Church discipline is

  932. how the church displays

  933. God's costly love to

  934. the world.

  935. By practicing church

  936. membership, the

  937. exclusivity of church

  938. membership, not

  939. tolerating sin, but

  940. holding people

  941. accountable and

  942. demanding faith and

  943. repentance for entrance

  944. into our community,

  945. we bear witness to

  946. what is ultimately

  947. and rightly

  948. exclusive, the

  949. holiness of God.

  950. God's holy

  951. incompatibility with

  952. God's holy presence.

  953. And at the same time,

  954. by practicing church

  955. discipline and pursuing

  956. people just like our

  957. good shepherd pursued us,

  958. inviting back anyone who

  959. is willing to turn to

  960. him, even when it's hard

  961. and costly and

  962. inconvenient and awkward,

  963. we pursue them and we

  964. get them to come home.

  965. The stray sheep.

  966. When we lovingly practice

  967. church discipline and

  968. pursue our brothers and

  969. sisters in Christ, we

  970. bear witness not just to

  971. the exclusivity of church

  972. membership, but the

  973. inclusivity, the ultimate

  974. inclusivity of our

  975. exclusively holy God,

  976. who paid the greatest

  977. cost to win us back

  978. into the family of God.

  979. Church discipline is our

  980. illustration to the

  981. world of the Son of God

  982. who is treated like a

  983. pagan and a tax

  984. collector in order that

  985. we might be treated as

  986. sons and daughters in the

  987. family of our Father in

  988. heaven.

  989. That's what I want to

  990. commend to us this

  991. morning.

  992. Nothing that Jesus has

  993. not asked us to do, but

  994. to enter into this

  995. church with a heart for

  996. this church membership and

  997. church discipline,

  998. manifesting not just the

  999. exclusivity of the

  1000. church, but God's

  1001. radical inclusivity in

  1002. Christ.

  1003. Will you pray with me?

  1004. Lord, our understandings of

  1005. freedom and inclusion and

  1006. exclusion and bondage and

  1007. oppression can be so

  1008. distorted.

  1009. So Holy Spirit, would you

  1010. open our eyes to the

  1011. liberty of being slaves to

  1012. Christ, to the liberty of

  1013. being covenanted, committed

  1014. to the church, even as

  1015. fallible as we are.

  1016. Help us, O God, to be the

  1017. church that you want us to

  1018. be.

  1019. And we thank you that you

  1020. promised that you would

  1021. build your church, that the

  1022. gates of Hades would not

  1023. prevail against it.

  1024. We want to be that.

  1025. We want to see that.

  1026. We want to experience that,

  1027. O God.

  1028. So fill us with your spirit

  1029. and fix our eyes on Jesus,

  1030. the author and perfecter of

  1031. our faith, the rock, our

  1032. cornerstone, O God.

  1033. Thank you for hearing us

  1034. and thank you for what

  1035. you're doing here at

  1036. Christ Church.

  1037. Lord, would you multiply it

  1038. a thousandfold, we pray,

  1039. in Jesus' name.

  1040. Amen.