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Becoming an Accountable Community
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This is a reading from the Gospel according to Matthew, chapter 18, verses 12 to 20.
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What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away,
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will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go look for the one that wandered off?
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And if he finds it, truly I tell you, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off.
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In the same way, your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should perish.
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If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their faults, just between the two of you.
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If they listen to you, you have won them over.
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But if they will not listen, take one or two others along,
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so that every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.
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If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church.
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And if they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector.
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Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven,
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and whatever you lose on earth will be loosed in heaven.
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Again, truly I tell you, that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for,
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it will be done for them by my Father in heaven.
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For where two or three gather in my name, there I am with them.
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This is the gospel of the Lord.
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Praise to you, O Christ.
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Well, thank you for that scripture reading, John.
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Good morning, everyone.
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My name is Andrew, one of the pastors here.
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I feel a little weird because I feel like every time Jonathan preaches,
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the turnout the next week is a lot bigger.
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And then I notice when I preach, the next week it's a lot smaller.
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So I think that's what's happened today.
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Jonathan preached last week, and I get to preach to a bigger crowd today.
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We're super glad you're here.
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Sorry about that, Jonathan.
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I'll try hard to make people come back next week.
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But I don't want to cut Jonathan too much slack because what happened last week was
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Jonathan actually intended to preach this text that was just read to us all the way through verse 20.
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He intended to preach that last week.
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And he realized, though, last week that he wasn't going to be able to squeeze it all into his sermon,
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so he asked me to pick up the rest starting in verse 15 today.
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And, you know, I'm a team player, so I typed back to him on Slack.
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I said, you got it, boss.
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Anything you need.
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But then when I realized the passage that he left for me to preach, I was like, yo, of course Jonathan was going to leave me with this passage.
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All right?
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I mean, the nice title of the sermon today is Becoming an Accountable Community.
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Right?
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But honestly, you could also title a sermon on this passage, you know,
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Four Steps for Removing Someone from Church Membership.
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Right?
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Or maybe Excommunication According to Jesus.
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All right?
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So thanks a lot, Jonathan St. Clair.
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And here we go.
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The sermon, I'm sure that this is why people are flocking here today, a sermon on church discipline.
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Something you're all itching to hear about today when you got out of bed, right?
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Now, I imagine that this text probably brings up a good amount of discomfort and tons of questions for a number of us.
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And I hope to address them throughout this sermon this morning.
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But first, I just want to explain Jesus' teaching here on church discipline in case this is a new concept to us.
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Look down here.
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We're going to go straight into it.
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Look down at verses 15 to 17.
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It's actually pretty straightforward.
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But basically, Jesus is saying in verses 15 to 17, if someone sins, that is, if someone goes against the ways of God,
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Jesus says that there is a three-step, four-step process.
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Step one, go and call them out on it.
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Go and personally, privately seek their repentance.
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Seek to get them to turn back to God.
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All right?
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So that's step number one.
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And if they do repent and return back, great.
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Mission accomplished.
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All right?
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But then there's step number two.
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If they don't repent, step number two, will then take two or three witnesses and confront them again.
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All right?
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And if they still refuse to turn back, step three, bring this issue before the church.
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And if they still refuse to change their mind and to change their ways, then step four is, Jesus says,
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to treat them as a pagan and a tax collector.
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Basically, treat them as someone who is now an outsider to your church family.
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And this process is what we call the steps of church discipline.
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And the final step is excommunication.
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Now, if you're wondering what that might look like in real life,
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because we are a church that does practice church membership and church discipline here at Christ Church,
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let me just share with you what this might look like.
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Basically, if Jonathan St. Clair went out and he stole my car, okay?
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Let's say Jonathan went out and stole my car.
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Jesus is saying that it's actually my personal responsibility as his brother in Christ to confront him about it privately,
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before I go off and get the whole church to get behind me and get my car back, all right?
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To go to him privately to confront him and seek his restoration.
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That's step one when someone in our church commits a blatant sin,
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personal and private confrontation with the goal of restoration.
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Now, I want to add a big caveat here,
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because these are Jesus' instructions for how to conduct ourselves in the church,
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in the context of the church.
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But the scriptures also talk about how we are to conduct ourselves,
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also in the context of civil society.
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And, you know, just because Jesus tells me to confront Jonathan privately for stealing my car,
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it doesn't mean that I can't also, you know, go contact the police.
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And, you know, it's sad that I have to say this,
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but far too many churches have tried to, you know, be their own judge and jury,
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trying to deal with all kinds of things.
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Sexual abuse, domestic abuse, other sins punishable by the law.
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And the churches have often tried to do it on their own,
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without notifying the proper, you know, law-enforcing authority.
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So I just have to say that.
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I want to assure you that that's not what Jesus is saying here, okay?
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He's talking about personal relationships in the context of the church.
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All right, so that's step one.
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Step one for dealing with sin in the context of the church family is personal,
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private confrontation with the hope of repentance and winning that person back to the family.
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But if step one doesn't lead to repentance, if Jonathan won't give me my car back,
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won't even admit that he's wrong, then according to Jesus,
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I should get two or three witnesses to come alongside me to confront him.
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And what I would do is I'd probably get Catherine St. Clair and Constance from our church
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to go with me to confront Jonathan and be like,
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Dad, give Pastor Andrew his car back.
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All right?
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I'm hoping that that would be more convicting for Pastor Jonathan.
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But if Jonathan still refused to give me back my sweet ride, right,
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if he continued in his ways of grand theft auto,
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what the next step would be, step three, would be to tell it to the church.
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Tell the church.
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And this is kind of a scary part, right?
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Now, I have a friend, actually, who unfortunately went through this process of church discipline.
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She ended up in a romantic relationship with a man who was married to someone else in her workplace.
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And she was at a Baptist church.
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And a Baptist church typically has more of a congregationalist way of governing.
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So they actually had her stand before the whole church in a members meeting.
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And they reported her sin to the whole membership, essentially trying to shame her back to God.
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And I don't at all condone what she did.
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But I want you to know that here at Christ Church, that's not exactly how it works,
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according to our book of order, according to our denomination.
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Step three of taking it to the church is a lot more discreet than that.
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And what step three would look like if Jonathan still did not give me my car back,
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step three would mean taking it to the elders of the church.
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It would be me going to Tonya and Karen and Wes and Bill and Jocelyn and to our whole presbytery,
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our regional presbytery, who keeps me and Jonathan accountable,
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and having all of them, this church, confront Jonathan about his stealing of my car.
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But then, if Jonathan still refused to repent, after step three,
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after the whole church came to him and asked him to turn back to God,
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the final step would be to treat him as an outsider to the family of faith.
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And no, this wouldn't mean posting bouncers outside of the church,
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not allowing him to come into the sanctuary,
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but it would mean exclusion from this table right here.
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Exclusion from this sacrament of intimate communion with Christ and his people.
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Jonathan's refusal to repent, even after these first three steps of church discipline,
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would mean that all the members of Christ's church here should take a different view
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about our fundamental relationship to him.
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No longer seeing him as a brother in Christ, but as someone outside the household of God.
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It wouldn't mean that we would love him any less,
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but it would mean that in our eyes,
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there would now be a huge distinction between who he was and who we are.
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A huge distinction between who he belonged to and who we belong to.
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And this isn't just some mind game that we try to play,
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but church discipline is backed, it says here in verses 18 to 20,
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by the very authority of Christ.
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Look down with me at verses 18 through 20.
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When Jesus uses this language here of loosing and binding,
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it's the same language he used early in Matthew chapter 16
Matthew 16 chapter mention
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when he gives Peter the keys to unlock and to lock the kingdom of heaven.
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Basically what Jesus is saying when he says,
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whatever you bind or loose on earth will also be bound or loosened in heaven.
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And what he's doing is he's giving the institution of the local church
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the authority and the role of practicing church membership.
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The role of declaring who is in the kingdom and who is not in the kingdom of heaven.
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And like, I know a lot of times we cite this passage in our prayer meetings like,
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you know, where two or three are gathered in my name, there I am with them.
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But you need to know that the direct context for that passage
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is actually Jesus' teaching here on church discipline.
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He's saying that wherever there is a local church gathering of his people,
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even if the church is but two or three people,
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there he is with them, standing behind them
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in their practice of church membership and church discipline.
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Now in case you're wondering,
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Jesus is not saying that the church is infallible or an ultimate authority.
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As one commentator puts it,
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this doesn't mean that God is bound to add his divine sanction
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to just whatever the church does.
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But when the church does faithfully live up to her calling,
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when we practice church membership and church discipline rightly,
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we are exercising the very authority
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and the very presence of Christ in this world.
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So church discipline, this is serious stuff commanded to us,
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commended to us by Christ.
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It's not just an organizational policy or an artificial construct.
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Church discipline is the process that God himself in Christ has given us
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to be the body of Christ in this world in a distinctive way.
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And so there you go.
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That's my best shot at explaining the process
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and the purpose of church membership and church discipline
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according to Jesus' teaching here in Matthew chapter 18.
Matthew 18 chapter mention
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We can close in prayer now, all right?
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Of course not.
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And I imagine, again, that this teaching is quite uncomfortable for a lot of us.
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Probably raises a bunch of questions, right?
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Like maybe you see Jesus' teaching here,
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these four steps leading to the removal of someone from church membership,
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and you're wondering,
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how can Jesus teach his church to be so exclusive
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and so methodically exclusive, right?
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I mean, for our modern Western Bay Area sensibilities,
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this doesn't exactly fit with our value of radical inclusion, does it?
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Jesus, what's up with these boundaries?
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What's up with these lines?
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What's up with these distinctions,
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this distinction between insiders and outsiders?
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Jesus, are you really suggesting that we label other people,
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that we other certain people who believe and who live differently than us?
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And this teaching is not just hard to stomach as inclusive Bay Area progresses,
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but even for those of us who don't necessarily, you know,
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uphold the secular orthodoxy of the Bay Area,
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even for those of us whose primary allegiance is to Jesus,
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this teaching on church discipline can still seem hard to square, right?
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With the Jesus we thought we knew.
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I mean, just last week,
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just a few verses prior here in chapter 18,
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Jesus was just talking about welcoming children and the least and the lowly
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into his kingdom of heaven.
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This is the guy who preached the Sermon on the Mount, right?
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Love your enemies, turn the other cheek,
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judge not lest you be judged.
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But here he's saying that there is a point
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where we should actually treat certain people as outsiders to his kingdom.
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Even like idolatrous pagans and turncoat tax collectors.
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So like, what are we to make of Jesus' teaching on church membership
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and on church discipline when they seem so much intention
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with the inclusivity and the open-hearted love that we all value
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and even that we recognize in Jesus himself and his other teachings?
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And that's what the rest of this sermon is going to be about,
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considering whether Jesus' teaching on church discipline
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is actually opposed to his teaching on inclusion and love.
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All right?
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Are they truly opposed?
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Is church discipline truly outside of the way of Jesus?
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Or is there something more nuanced, more profound
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for us to see in God's word this morning?
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Now the first thing that I want to say is,
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hey, we've got to be honest though.
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Every institution, even the most inclusive by its very nature
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as an institution, it's got to be exclusive at least to some degree, right?
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Every institution has to have some standard for inclusion and exclusion,
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whether it's an Islamic mosque or a Jewish synagogue or a church like ours
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or even like a sports team, a club, a gym,
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a big global publicly traded business like Google.
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I don't think we could name a single institution,
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even the most woke, progressive, radically inclusive institution
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that doesn't have some criteria for inclusion and exclusion.
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It's absolutely just unavoidable if we're going to be honest.
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So if we're going to be intellectually honest,
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it's not so much a matter of being or not being exclusive or inclusive.
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But the more important question is,
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what is the criteria?
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What is the criteria for inclusion and exclusion?
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See, in Jesus' teaching right here,
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he's keeping it real about the criteria of the kingdom.
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And it's really simple.
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It's simple, it's just, it's fair,
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and it's truly an equalizing criteria
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that doesn't specifically discriminate
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against any particular kind of people or people group.
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In his kingdom, sin and waywardness from God
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constitute the grounds for exclusion.
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And repentance and faith in Christ
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constitute the grounds for inclusion.
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And that's it.
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The same standard for everyone.
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A standard that neither advantages nor disadvantages
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any kinds of people.
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Jesus isn't trying to be any more exclusive than anyone else.
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He's just trying to be clear and real
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about his fair criteria for inclusion and exclusion.
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And besides, let's also not forget
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where exclusion originally came from in the first place, right?
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Who was the first person to draw lines
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and boundaries and distinctions?
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It was us.
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It was humankind when we drew the first line,
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when we chose a different way than God's way.
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And when we ran away from God and hid from him
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and each other,
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from that point on,
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there were two different ways to live.
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Two different teams.
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God's and ours.
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God's original intention was never to exclude,
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but exclusion was born out of our sin.
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And you know what?
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The rest of the story of history is actually Jesus.
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According to Jesus, the rest of the story,
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according to his prophets, according to his apostles,
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is God's plan to actually include those
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who excluded themselves from him.
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And not with some kind of compromised
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or relativistic inclusivity
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that just accepts everyone no matter what
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and without cost,
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but with a principled, inclusive love
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that costs the exclusion of his own son.
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On the cross, Christ was excluded
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so that we might be included.
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On Good Friday, Christ became an outsider
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so that we might become insiders.
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The son became the scapegoat
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sent outside the camp,
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crucified outside the city walls
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so that we might become citizens
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in the new Jerusalem,
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members of God's household.
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This is the free gift of God's inclusive grace
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that's offered to anyone and everyone.
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So you see, even with the real exclusivity
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that exists and characterizes
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the kingdom of Christ,
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there is no other kingdom in history, actually.
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No other institution that has actually been more inclusive
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than the church of Jesus Christ.
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That the household of God
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that's united in him and in him alone.
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It is the most inclusive
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precisely because of the way that it is exclusive.
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See, Jesus is an equal opportunity offender here.
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He excludes all people
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according to the same single standard of sin.
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But at the same time,
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literally anyone,
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any kind of person can enter
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into the kingdom of heaven
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according to the same single standard of faith
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and repentance.
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And so a second and related thing
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I might add to this
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is that, you know,
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the very notion of radical inclusion
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that we so often celebrate
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and so often use to condemn Christianity
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and the church,
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honestly, apart from historic
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and orthodox Christianity,
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honestly, we wouldn't even be able
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to celebrate radical inclusion
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like we do today in the secular West.
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This notion of radical inclusion
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that the secular West so often uses
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to bash the church,
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it got this from the church
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in the first place.
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If you're interested in reading more about this,
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I suggest Rodney Stark.
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He did his PhD here at Cal.
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He taught at UW and Baylor.
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Or there's Tom Holland.
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He's an alumnus of Cambridge.
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He's another historian.
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Jerry Sitzer or Larry Hurtado.
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I recommend all these people
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who've done a lot of work on this.
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And, you know, even with this,
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even with the history of the church,
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the history of its oppression,
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even after all the times
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the church has failed to live up
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to our own standards,
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Christ's standards,
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and Christ's purposes for us,
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still, I think you can make
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a strong argument
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that there's never been
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a more diverse,
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more inclusive institution
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than the Christian church.
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As the great African theologian,
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St. Augustine,
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observed in the 5th century,
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all are astonished to see
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the entire human race
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converging on the crucified one
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from emperors down to beggars
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in their rags.
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And, you know,
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the growth of world Christianity
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and the, you know,
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truly global complexion
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of the church
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has only continued to today.
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Like, did you know
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that Christianity
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is the most evenly dispersed religion
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across the continents?
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As of 2010,
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according to Pew Research,
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25% of Christians
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were in Europe,
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24% were in Africa,
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24% were in South America,
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12% in North America,
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and 13% in Asia.
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So to say that Christ
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and His church
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are not inclusive
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is simply just contrary
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to the facts.
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But now the third thing
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that I want to say
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in regard to this alleged
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exclusivity of Jesus' teaching
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on church discipline,
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you know,
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is this.
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What I want to say is,
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what if Jesus' teaching here
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on church discipline
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is actually way more inclusive
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than we originally realized?
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I want to show you
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that it's actually
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way more inclusive
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than we actually realized.
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Now look down with me here
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at verses 12 through 14.
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Because it's really important
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to see these verses
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as the context
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for what follows
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in verses 15 through 20
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when Jesus talks
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about church discipline.
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Because, like,
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Jesus doesn't just,
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you know,
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out of the blue
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launch into giving instructions
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for how to kick people
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out of church.
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That's not what He's doing here
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in Matthew chapter 18.
Matthew 18 chapter mention
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If we look at verses 12 through 14,
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we see that Jesus' instructions
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for removing people
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from the church membership,
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it actually flows
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out of His exhortation
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to the church
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to be a pursuing people of God.
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In verse 12,
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Jesus says,
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He says this first,
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What do you think?
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If a man owns a hundred sheep
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and one of them wanders away,
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will he not leave
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the 99 on the hills
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and go to look for the one
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that wandered off?
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And if he finds it,
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truly I tell you,
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he is happier
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about that one sheep
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than about the 99
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that did not wander off
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in the same way
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your Father in heaven
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is not willing
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that any of these little ones
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should perish.
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And to just,
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to give some context
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for Jesus' original hearers
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in the ancient Near East,
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this would have been
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absolutely ludicrous,
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alright?
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Like what wise,
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what responsible shepherd
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would leave 99 of his sheep
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on a hill,
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put 99% of his wealth
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at risk
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to go after
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one wayward sheep,
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to preserve
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that tiny 1%
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of his wealth
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that is a particular
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headache to him,
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prone to wander
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again and again and again,
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and that might not
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even return with him.
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The original hearers
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of Jesus' teaching
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probably would have
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thought to themselves,
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maybe just leave that one
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to the wolves.
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99% is still pretty good.
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But see,
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what Jesus is saying here
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is that no matter
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how small,
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no matter how insignificant,
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and no matter
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how full his sheep fold,
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even at 99% capacity,
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God's heart
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is to pursue
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the one
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who is lost
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and far from home.
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And Jesus is saying
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that this should be
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the heart of God's people
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as well,
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the church.
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Like,
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we must never be
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so preoccupied
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with the faithful 99
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that we neglect
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to pursue
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the wayward one.
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And it is out of this context
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that we come
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to verse 15
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and Jesus' instructions
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not on just
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how to get someone
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out of the church,
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but really,
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these are Jesus' instructions
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for how to win someone back
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into the fold.
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That's what church discipline
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is about.
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Look at verse 15.
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If your brother or sister,
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if someone in your church family,
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he's saying,
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if someone who you are
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personally bound to
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and responsible for
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in your covenant community,
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if they sin,
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go, Jesus says.
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Be that pursuing people of God
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that you're supposed to be
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to that one person.
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Go in the name
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of your good shepherd
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after that straying sheep
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and point out their fault.
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And not to shame them publicly,
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but out of love
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and out of compassion
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and in privacy
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just between the two of you,
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Jesus says.
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And I love this part.
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If they listen to you,
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this is the goal.
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You have won them over.
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You have won them over.
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Like, pay attention to that.
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This is, you know,
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this supposedly super exclusive
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teaching of Jesus
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is not primarily
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about excluding people.
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It's about winning them.
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Winning them back
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by the means
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of church discipline.
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Even when they've sinned
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and turned their backs
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on the family
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and the community
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and wandered far from God,
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Jesus says,
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don't forget about them.
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Don't just focus
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on the easy remaining 99.
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No, you go
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and you have the hard
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and often awkward conversation
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of pointing out
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that person's sin.
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And you call them
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to repentance.
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And you fight.
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You fight the costly fight
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for their inclusion
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back into the fold.
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And see, this,
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this is the heart
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of Jesus' teaching
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on church discipline.
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It's actually
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for the sake
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of inclusion.
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Its goal
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is to win people
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and that no one
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be left behind.
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So my question,
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my question is,
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are you down for this?
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Christ Church,
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are we down for this?
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To practice
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church membership
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and church discipline
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with intentionality
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in the way of Jesus.
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Are we down
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to hold others accountable?
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To pursue them?
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To confront them
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in their sin?
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And even if you are down,
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do you even have
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a close enough relationship
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with people in this church
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to do that?
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To know what people
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are struggling with?
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To know how you might
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call others out
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and back into relationship
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with Christ?
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To engage in the hard
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and messy
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and complicated
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but truly loving work
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of church discipline
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together
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as a family in Christ.
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You know,
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earlier this week,
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I got a really
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discouraging text
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from a member
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in our church
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who's been away
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for almost six months.
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I've been reaching out
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to this person
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every few weeks
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and they texted me
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back this week
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and told me that
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apart from my texts,
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they've been really
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disappointed
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that no one's really
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reached out
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and no one's really
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pursued them.
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And I don't say that
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to make anyone here
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guilty,
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but it did break my heart.
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It broke my heart.
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And sure,
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this person has
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their own responsibility
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in their connection
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to this church,
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but it broke my heart
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to read that text.
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And I so pray
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for such a revival
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in this church
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that we would be
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a people who love
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and pursue one another,
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that we would be
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a church that is
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discontent
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to let people
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wander far away
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from a deeper
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relationship with Christ
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and His church.
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You know,
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I don't just pray
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for us to be
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a pursuing church,
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but to be a truly
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communing,
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life-on-life church.
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This week,
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I had coffee
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with a new couple
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who's visiting
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Christ Church.
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They're deciding
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between our church
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and another church
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and they asked me
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straight up,
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how deep is the
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community here
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at Christ Church?
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They said,
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is this the kind
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of church where
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people are really
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invested in each
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other's lives,
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in the thick
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of each other's
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messes?
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Is this the kind
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of church where
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people are confessing
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sins to each other
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regularly and holding
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each other accountable?
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You know,
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I don't say this
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at all,
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again,
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to make us feel
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guilty,
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but my honest
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answer and my
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honest assessment
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was that that was
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more the exception
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than the norm here.
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And I told them
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that I see glimmers,
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I see pockets,
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I see a slowly
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emerging culture
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of real discipleship
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and accountability,
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but ultimately I told
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them that we are
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far, far from where
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we ought to be
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as a church.
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And so my question
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for us,
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Christ Church,
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is will we be
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a pursuing people
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of God?
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Will we be a family
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that takes spiritual
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responsibility?
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And I think that's
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the key word of the
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year for our church.
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Will we be a people
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that takes spiritual
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responsibility for
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one another?
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And if so,
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then who are the
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two or three people
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that God might be
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calling you to,
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to pursue and to
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invest in,
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in this church
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this year?
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Who are the two
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or three people
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in this church
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who you think
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might pursue you
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and invest in you?
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Are you even down
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to be vulnerable
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and held accountable
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in this church?
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Like maybe your next
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step is simply
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becoming a member.
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Sure, maybe you've
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been a faithful
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attender for a long
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time, but are you
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ready to let the
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church be the church
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in your life?
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To officially keep
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you accountable?
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The scriptures say
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that the Lord
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disciplines those
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he loves.
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And it's the same
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way with the church.
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The church,
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we discipline
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those whom we
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love.
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But we cannot
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love you fully
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as your church
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unless you're an
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accountable member
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here.
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That's subject to
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the discipline of
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the church.
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And I know that
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sounds crazy, right?
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So countercultural,
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so counterintuitive,
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like why would
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anyone put themselves
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in a situation
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to be disciplined
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by the church?
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And I fully
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acknowledge the
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countless cases
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of spiritual abuse
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that the church
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has inflicted.
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The crusades
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were real.
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The inquisition
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was real.
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Colonization
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was real.
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Story after story
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of abusive
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authoritarian shepherds
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who used their
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rods not to
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comfort and protect
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their flock but to
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threaten and punish.
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I know that's real.
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But friends, I'm not
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ultimately asking you
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to trust the church.
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I'm asking you to
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trust Christ and the
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process that he has
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given to us, the
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process that he has
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instituted in the
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church for our good
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and for his glory
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and for our witness
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to the world.
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And I get it.
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Binding oneself as a
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member of a church
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to be held accountable
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by a community of
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fallible people
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seems so
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counterintuitive.
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I get it.
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But what if church
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membership was like,
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what if it was like
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Odysseus, right?
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Odysseus tying himself
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to the mast of the
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ship, knowing that
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he would be enticed
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by the ultimately
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destructive siren
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songs.
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And what if
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membership was like
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his shipmates with
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beeswax in their
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ears, rowing hard to
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get him away from
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danger, ignoring his
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pleas for freedom,
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freedom to jump and
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swim toward his doom,
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even as he tore his
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own flesh trying to
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break free from the
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mast.
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As the psalmist says,
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let a righteous person
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strike me, it is
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kindness.
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Let him rebuke me, it
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is oil for my head.
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Let my head not
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refuse it.
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Christchurch, we must
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not choose niceness
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over holiness.
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We must not confuse
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niceness for love.
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In his classic book,
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Life Together,
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Dietrich Bonhoeffer
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wrote this,
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nothing can be more
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cruel than the
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leniency which
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abandons others to
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their sin.
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And nothing can be
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more compassionate
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than the severe
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reprimand which
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calls another
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Christian in one's
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community back from
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the path of sin.
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So again, this is not
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about kicking people
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out of the church.
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Or even about the
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preservation of our
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self-righteous purity
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in this church.
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What church membership,
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what church discipline
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is about?
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It's about displaying
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the good news of
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God's love.
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And not just his
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bare love like any
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other kind of love,
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but his holy love.
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Church discipline is
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how the church displays
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God's costly love to
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the world.
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By practicing church
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membership, the
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exclusivity of church
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membership, not
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tolerating sin, but
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holding people
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accountable and
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demanding faith and
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repentance for entrance
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into our community,
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we bear witness to
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what is ultimately
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and rightly
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exclusive, the
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holiness of God.
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God's holy
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incompatibility with
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God's holy presence.
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And at the same time,
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by practicing church
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discipline and pursuing
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people just like our
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good shepherd pursued us,
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inviting back anyone who
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is willing to turn to
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him, even when it's hard
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and costly and
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inconvenient and awkward,
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we pursue them and we
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get them to come home.
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The stray sheep.
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When we lovingly practice
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church discipline and
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pursue our brothers and
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sisters in Christ, we
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bear witness not just to
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the exclusivity of church
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membership, but the
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inclusivity, the ultimate
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inclusivity of our
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exclusively holy God,
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who paid the greatest
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cost to win us back
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into the family of God.
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Church discipline is our
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illustration to the
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world of the Son of God
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who is treated like a
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pagan and a tax
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collector in order that
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we might be treated as
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sons and daughters in the
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family of our Father in
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heaven.
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That's what I want to
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commend to us this
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morning.
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Nothing that Jesus has
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not asked us to do, but
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to enter into this
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church with a heart for
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this church membership and
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church discipline,
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manifesting not just the
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exclusivity of the
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church, but God's
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radical inclusivity in
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Christ.
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Will you pray with me?
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Lord, our understandings of
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freedom and inclusion and
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exclusion and bondage and
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oppression can be so
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distorted.
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So Holy Spirit, would you
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open our eyes to the
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liberty of being slaves to
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Christ, to the liberty of
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being covenanted, committed
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to the church, even as
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fallible as we are.
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Help us, O God, to be the
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church that you want us to
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be.
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And we thank you that you
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promised that you would
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build your church, that the
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gates of Hades would not
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prevail against it.
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We want to be that.
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We want to see that.
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We want to experience that,
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O God.
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So fill us with your spirit
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and fix our eyes on Jesus,
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the author and perfecter of
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our faith, the rock, our
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cornerstone, O God.
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Thank you for hearing us
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and thank you for what
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you're doing here at
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Christ Church.
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Lord, would you multiply it
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a thousandfold, we pray,
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in Jesus' name.
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Amen.