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How Can the Lost Be Found and the Dead Made Alive?
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Good morning.
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My name is August Fern and I am one of your deacons.
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Today's scripture reading is from the Gospel of Luke, chapter 15, verses 1 and 2, and verses
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11 to 32 as printed in your liturgy.
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A reading from the Gospel according to Luke.
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Now the tax collectors and sinners were all gathering around to hear Jesus, but the Pharisees
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and the teacher of the law muttered, this man welcomes sinners and eats with them.
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Jesus continued.
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There was a man who had two sons.
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The younger one said to his father, Father, give me my share of the estate.
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So he divided his property between them.
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Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country, and
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there squandered his wealth in wild living.
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After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he
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began to be in need.
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So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to the fields
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to feed pigs.
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He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave
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him anything.
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When he came to his senses, he said, How many of my father's hired servants have food to
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spare, and here I am starving to death.
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I will set out and go back to my father and say to him, Father, I have sinned against heaven
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and against you.
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I am no longer worthy to be called your son.
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Make me like one of your hired servants.
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So he got up and went to his father.
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But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion
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for him.
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He ran to his son, threw his arms around him, and kissed him.
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The son said to him, Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.
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I am no longer worthy to be called your son.
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But the father said to his servants, Quick, bring the best robe and put it on him.
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Put a ring on his finger and sandal on his feet.
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Bring the fattened calf and kill it.
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Let's have a feast and celebrate.
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For the son of mine was dead and is alive again.
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He was lost and is found.
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So they began to celebrate.
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Meanwhile, the older son was in the field.
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When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing.
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So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on.
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Your brother has come, he replied, and your father has killed the fattened calf because
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he has him back safe and sound.
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The older brother became angry and refused to go in.
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So his father went out and pleaded with him.
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But he answered his father, Look, all these years I've been slaving for you and never disobeyed
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your orders.
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Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends.
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But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with the prostitutes comes home,
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you kill the fattened calf for him?
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My son, the father said, you are always with me and everything I have is yours.
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But we had to celebrate and be glad because this brother of yours was dead and is alive
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again.
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He was lost and is found.
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This is the gospel of the Lord.
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Praise to you, O Christ.
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So there was a man who had two sons.
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It's an amazing opening line.
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And we know when we hear it, we know instinctively that Jesus is a master storyteller because in
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our own experience, like families are complicated.
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Amen?
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Amen?
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Families are sometimes dysfunctional.
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You know, we know how it can go between fathers and mothers and sons and daughters.
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We don't always see eye to eye.
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We don't always get along.
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We don't always live happily ever after.
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And many of us know that personally.
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We know it painfully.
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We also know it biblically and theologically.
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When you open up the Bible to the very first story, Adam had two sons, right?
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Cain and Abel and how did that go?
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It ended in a bloody mess, you know?
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Abraham had two sons, Ishmael and Isaac.
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Isaac had two sons, Esau and Jacob.
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Jacob had 12 sons, but of those 12 sons, he loved two of them more than all the rest.
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And so we don't really have to get much further beyond the first book of the Bible to know that
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when a story begins where the father had two sons, it's going to be, I don't know, complicated.
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It's like starting a story with, it was a dark and stormy night, right?
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And to whom is Jesus telling this amazing story?
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He says in verse 1,
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Jesus goes and he associates with the out group.
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And that means that the spiritually serious and the morally upright are outraged.
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And they're saying,
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And why, Jesus, do you welcome like family around your table these people that don't deserve to be there?
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And Jesus is being severely criticized.
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And he responds to that criticism with something we also all know about,
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which is we probably all lost something that we deeply value.
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Anybody ever lost your phone?
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Or lost your wallet?
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Have any of you ever lost your child?
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Okay, you can ask Catherine about how I lost one of our children at coffee hour.
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But Jesus launches into a story about a shepherd who lost a precious sheep
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and a woman who lost her treasured coin.
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And then he gets to this story,
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this father lost his two beloved sons.
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And I want to look at this under a few headings.
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I want to look at the costly grace for the self-defeated.
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I want to look at pleading grace for the self-righteous.
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And I want to look at reconciling grace for the family of God.
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Costly grace for the self-defeated.
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Pleading grace for the self-righteous.
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And reconciling grace for the family of God.
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Now, we had a staff retreat on Thursday,
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an elder retreat on Saturday.
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And I had two Duke games this weekend.
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So, we'll see about that third point.
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I don't know if we'll have time for that.
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But, costly grace for the self-defeated.
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Let's just go through the story.
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It says in verse 12,
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the son says to his father,
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Father, give me my share of the estate.
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Which is the equivalent of saying, drop dead, Dad.
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Father, I can't wait for you to die.
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In fact, I don't want you.
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I want your money.
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It's an act of deep disrespect.
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And any respectable father in the ancient Near East
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would have disowned his son on the spot.
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He would have just driven his son out of the family.
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But this father is a gracious father.
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And he gives his son what his son wants.
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Surprisingly, he says to his son,
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Your will be done.
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Right?
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And it lets him go.
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And it says that he divided his property
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between his two sons.
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Literally, it says he divided his bios.
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He divided his life.
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He tore his life apart.
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And it costs the cost of land,
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the cost of his place,
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the cost of his honor and his standing.
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The father bears the agony of,
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and the shame of,
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his son's rejected love.
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Verse 13,
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Not long after that,
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the younger son got together.
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All he had,
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he set off for a distant country,
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and there squandered his wealth
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and wild living.
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In other words,
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he liquidated everything into cash.
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And he went and tried to have it all.
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He tried to have a life without limits.
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And in doing so,
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he wasted his life.
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All of his gifts,
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all of his potential,
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he just burned it to an absolute crisp.
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And it doesn't take very long
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for him to hit rock bottom.
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And Jesus says in verse 14,
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After he'd spent everything,
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there was a severe famine
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in that whole country,
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and he began to be in need.
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So he went and hired himself out
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to a citizen of that country
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who sent him to his fields
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to feed pigs.
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He longed to fill his stomach
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with the pods that the pigs were eating,
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but no one gave him anything.
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How do you like Jesus' analysis
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of our human condition?
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All of us have made this same bid
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for independence from God,
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this bid to be autonomous from God.
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We had no appreciation for the love
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in God's heart
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of the security we had in his home.
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And instead, we demanded to be free,
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to live on our own as we want to live.
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And Jesus says that self-will
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that's in all of us
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can often degenerate into self-indulgence
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and we end up, in various ways,
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squandering our lives.
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And if you're a Jew,
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the absolute worst thing
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that can happen to you
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is that you become a slave.
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And that you become a slave of a Gentile.
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And that you become the slave
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of a Gentile pig farmer.
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This Jewish son smells like pigs
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and he's starving for pig slop.
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Jesus says he's bankrupt,
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he's hungry,
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he's alone,
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he's at the absolute depths of misery.
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And two times in the story,
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we hear this father describe his son
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in verse 24 and in verse 32.
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The father describes his son
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as dead and lost.
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The apostle Paul says that all of us,
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we're dead in our trespasses
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and in our sins.
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That we've all wandered away from God,
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we have flouted his authority,
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we've rejected his and rebuffed his love,
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we've wasted his gifts.
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We've alienated ourselves from God
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and we've also alienated ourselves
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from our true selves.
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We're exiled even within ourselves.
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We have no hope
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because we have no God anymore.
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But Jesus says he came to his senses.
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He came to his senses
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and what wakes him up
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is this memory of his father.
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That his father is actually a wealthy father
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and he's not only a wealthy father
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but he's a generous father.
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It says in verse 17,
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when he came to his senses,
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he said,
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how many of my father's hired servants
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have food to spare
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and here I am starving to death.
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Everyone you meet
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carries within their heart
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some memory of the father,
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some memory of their true home.
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And everybody we meet is,
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their heart is desperately restless
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until they come and find their rest
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in the home of the father.
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And verse 18 says this,
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he says,
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I will set out and go back to my father
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and say to him,
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Father, I've sinned against heaven
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and against you.
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I'm no longer worthy
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to be called your son.
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Make me like one of your hired servants.
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And at first that sounds like good news
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but the closer you look at that,
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it's actually a self-serving,
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self-salvation project
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because he doesn't actually care
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that he's broken his father's heart.
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He just wants to eat better.
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He just wants his misery to end.
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He just wants to get his life back on track.
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And he thinks that
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my biggest problem
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is that I lost all the money.
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And if I hadn't lost the money,
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I would have never sinned.
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And so I'm going to solve my own problem
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with my own effort
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by getting some job training
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and hiring myself out as a servant
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and recovering the money
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and earning that lost inheritance
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and I will save myself.
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The problem isn't the money, is it?
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The problem
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is that he's dishonored his father.
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The problem is he's become estranged
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from his father.
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The problem is that he's made himself
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into a hostile enemy of the father.
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And despite the fact that
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he deserves to be cut off from his family,
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despite the fact that he's trying to save himself,
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the father sees his loss
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as so great and so valuable
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that he cannot contemplate
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the permanence of that loss.
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He cannot acquiesce to the loss.
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And so we hear in verse 20
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that he got up and he went to his father,
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but while he was still a long way off,
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his father saw him
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and was filled with compassion for him.
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And he ran to his son
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and threw his arms around him
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and kissed him.
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See, day after day,
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this father had gone out
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and he had scanned the horizon
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for his lost son.
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Right?
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He's longing for his son.
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He's patiently and vigilantly
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looking for a sign of his son's return.
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And as soon as he sees his son
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as a speck on the horizon,
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what does this father do?
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It's a beautiful picture
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of free but costly grace
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because the whole village
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knows the shame of this son.
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Right?
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The whole village is expecting
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this pillar of the community
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to stay put on the front porch
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and have the son come groveling back up
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to the house.
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Right?
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Or if this father moves at all,
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for him to kind of slowly
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in a dignified way
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move out to go
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and punish his son
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in the eyes of everybody.
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But this father shows compassion
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by doing what?
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Running.
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We call this the parable
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of the prodigal son,
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but really we should call it
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the parable of the running father.
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The kissing father
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because he takes his,
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the bottom of his robe
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and his hands
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and he does what traditional
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Middle Eastern men
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would absolutely never do
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in public
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and he starts running
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to reach his son
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before his son
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can reach the village.
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And by racing down that road
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in an undignified manner,
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by making an absolute fool
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of himself,
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this father is taking
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all the shame
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and all the humiliation
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that would otherwise
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be heaped upon his son.
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He's having it heaped
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upon himself.
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And he knows that
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this visible demonstration
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of costly grace,
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of sacrificial reconciliation
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with his son in public
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will silence all those voices
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in the village
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that are ready to heap
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criticism and contempt
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upon his boy.
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And when he runs to his son,
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he throws his arms around him
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and he showers him
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with kisses
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before he can even begin
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that well-rehearsed
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self-salvation speech.
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The scriptures actually say
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that he kissed him much.
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He kissed him eagerly.
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He kissed him often.
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He kissed him affectionately.
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And just as the son
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had totally rejected his father,
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the father now totally accepts,
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totally forgives,
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totally restores his son.
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You see, these spiritually serious
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and morally upright people
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are complaining about Jesus
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and they're criticizing Jesus
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for welcoming and eating
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with sinners
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as if they're his family.
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And so Jesus tells this story
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about a father
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who takes the form
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of a servant.
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This father who comes
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out of the house
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and down from the house.
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This father who runs
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outside of the village
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in abject humiliation
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and he takes all of the shame
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on himself
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to seek and to save
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and to reconcile the lost.
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And what is Jesus describing?
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He's illustrating
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what the father
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has sent him to do.
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Right?
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Because elsewhere
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in the gospel of John
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in John 14,
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Jesus says,
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anyone who has seen me
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has seen the father.
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Jesus is saying,
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I've come acting
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in my father's stead.
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I've come as my father's representative.
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I've come so that
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you can see that
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in and through me
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the father's costly grace
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is being demonstrated.
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And Jesus didn't just run
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outside the village.
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Jesus came all the way
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from heaven to earth.
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He not only emptied himself
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of his heavenly glory
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but when he went
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to his cross,
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Jesus was treated
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as an absolute outcast.
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Suffering the infinite cost
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of his own life
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so that we
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could be brought
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into God's family
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by grace.
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By free but costly grace.
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All of that inheritance
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that we squandered,
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all of that potential
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that we wasted,
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Jesus came to pay
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that unpayable debt
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on the cross
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and in our place.
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And there he cried out,
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my God, my God,
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why?
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Why have you forsaken me?
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And you see,
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Jesus took that forsakenness
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upon himself
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so that we could have
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the hug
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and the kisses
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of the father.
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Verse 21 says this,
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the son said to him,
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father,
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I've sinned against heaven
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and against you.
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I'm no longer worthy
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to be called your son.
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But the father said
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to his servants,
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quick,
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bring the best robe
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and put it on him.
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Put a ring on his finger
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and sandals on his feet.
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Bring the fattened calf
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and kill it.
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Let's have a feast
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and celebrate.
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And you see,
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Jesus was stripped
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of all of his dignity.
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Jesus was covered
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with the filth
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of all of our sin
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and our shame
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so that we could be clothed
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with that robe
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of his beautiful
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and perfect righteousness,
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a dignity
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and a status
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and a standing
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that we absolutely
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do not deserve.
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See,
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Jesus had his hands
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and his feet
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nailed to that cross
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of shame
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so that we could receive
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that signet ring
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of the father
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that says we're his sons
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and we're his daughters
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so that we could
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have those feet
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that are barefoot
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like slaves
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so that our feet
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could have sandals
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put on them
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and we could know
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that we belong
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in the father's house.
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That we have
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the father's power.
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We have the father's
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authority.
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We have the father's
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acceptance in his love.
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You see,
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Jesus went
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and he drank
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that cup
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of God's
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eternal justice
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so that we
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could drink
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the cup
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of the father's joy
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so that we could feast
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at the father's
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banqueting table.
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And friends,
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there's no other way
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to come back home.
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There's no other way
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for the father
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to bring us in.
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Jesus had to go
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and he had to
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experience
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the darkness.
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He had to
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come into that
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uttermost place
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of despair
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and spiritual
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alienation
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in our place.
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He had to take
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the full curse
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of our human rebellion.
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He had to experience
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our cosmic
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homelessness
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and alienation
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so that we
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could enter back
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into the village
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where we belong
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under the protective
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care
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of the father's
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acceptance
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so we could be
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welcomed back
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into our
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true home.
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And when you,
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when you,
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are you moved
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by that?
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When you see
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what it costs
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for the father
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to do this
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for you,
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when you see
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what it costs
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for Jesus
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to come
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and to bring us
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back into the
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father's house,
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to bring us back
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into our true home
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where we can
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finally fully be
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at rest,
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does that move
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your heart?
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Can you believe,
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can you even
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half believe today
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that the hug
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of the father
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is for you?
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That his kisses
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are often
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and they are
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affectionate
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and they are
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for you?
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Jesus is telling us
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about costly grace
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for the self-defeated,
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people who've
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wasted their gifts,
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people who've
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squandered their
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potential,
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that they too,
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even them,
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can have a fresh
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start and a new
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beginning.
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But he's not just
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telling us about
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the costly grace
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for the self-defeated,
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he's talking about
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pleading grace
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for the self-righteous,
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pleading grace
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for the self-righteous.
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He says in verse 23,
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bring the fattened
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calf and kill it,
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let's have a feast
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and celebrate,
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for the son of mine
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was dead and is
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alive again,
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he was lost
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and is found,
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so they began
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to celebrate.
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You see this father,
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he's so overjoyed,
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he's so overjoyed
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when just one person,
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one sinner repents.
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The son who had
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been spiritually dead
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has been raised
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to life.
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The son who'd been
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morally lost,
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he's been found
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and he says,
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so let's spare
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no expense
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to celebrate.
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The best meat,
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we're gonna barbecue,
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we're gonna invite
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all the village
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to come
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and we're gonna have
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a feast with music
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and dancing
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and glad rejoicing
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because the father
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is so happy
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that his son is home
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safe and sound.
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Now many people
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stop right there
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and they call this
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the parable
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of the prodigal son
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but how many sons
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does his father have?
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He has two sons
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and we haven't even
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gotten to his main
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point yet
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because Jesus
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is telling the story
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for the spiritually
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serious and the morally
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upright,
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these older brothers
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and sisters
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who see the father's
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costly grace,
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they see his
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uncalculating generosity
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toward these undeserving
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younger brothers
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and younger sisters
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and instead of rejoicing,
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they're muttering
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and instead of joy,
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they feel anger
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and Jesus is saying
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that these brothers
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represent two different
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kinds of people,
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two different kind
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of ways to live,
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right?
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Two paths
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of finding happiness
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and worth,
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two different ways
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of addressing
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what's wrong
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with the world,
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two different ways
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of defining
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what's right
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and what's wrong
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and the younger brother
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represents
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that rebel spirit,
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that free spirit,
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right?
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His is the way
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of self-discovery.
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He says the world
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would be a better place
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if tradition
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and authority
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and all the barriers
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to personal freedom
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were just removed,
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right?
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And he says,
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I'm gonna be the only one
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who decides what's right
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and what's wrong for me
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and I'm gonna go find
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true,
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my true self,
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I'm gonna go find happiness
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by living the way
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I wanna live
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and that's one way.
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But the other way
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is the way
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of the older brother,
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he's responsible,
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he's honorable,
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his is the way
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of moral conformity.
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He says the world
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would be a better place
-
if all of us
-
had more self-control,
-
if all of us
-
had more discipline,
-
if we all just put
-
other people ahead
-
of our own individual
-
fulfillment
-
and self-expression.
-
He says,
-
I'm not gonna do
-
what I wanna do,
-
he says,
-
I'm gonna do
-
what God wants me to do,
-
what my parents
-
want me to do,
-
what other people
-
want me to do
-
and Jesus' question
-
when we look
-
at these two brothers
-
is to say,
-
which way is more
-
self-centered
-
and which way
-
is more
-
self-destructive?
-
Because the reality is
-
both of these sons
-
are alienated
-
from their father.
-
Both of these sons
-
shockingly
-
are spiritually dead
-
and morally lost.
-
Both of them
-
need the father
-
to go out
-
and invite them
-
into the feast.
-
And the younger son
-
comes into the feast
-
but the older son
-
does not.
-
On the outside,
-
that older son,
-
he seems all put together,
-
he seems like
-
there's nothing wrong
-
with him
-
but on the inside,
-
Jesus says,
-
he's actually
-
full of sin.
-
And Jesus says,
-
do you see
-
that older son
-
in yourself?
-
Does Jesus'
-
description of his heart
-
resonate
-
with what lies
-
beneath the surface
-
of your own heart?
-
Listen to what
-
verse 28 says,
-
the older brother
-
became angry
-
and he refused
-
to go in.
-
You see,
-
there's a fire
-
of self-righteous anger
-
that's burning
-
on the inside
-
against his brother's
-
unforgivable
-
irresponsibility
-
and against the father's
-
uncalculating
-
grace
-
and generosity.
-
And this older son,
-
he actually feels
-
not just superior
-
to his younger brother,
-
he feels superior
-
to his father.
-
He's openly
-
insulting his father,
-
he's refusing
-
to join in the father's
-
feast
-
and we can see
-
like his relationship
-
with the father,
-
he seems fine
-
but his relationship
-
is broken.
-
He's run just as far
-
away from his younger
-
brother
-
even though he's
-
right there at home.
-
It's just so much
-
more subtle,
-
it's more inward,
-
it's more hidden
-
and therefore
-
it's more dangerous.
-
The older brother
-
became angry,
-
it says in verse 28,
-
he refused to go in
-
so his father went out
-
and pleaded with him
-
but he answered his father,
-
look,
-
all these years
-
I've been slaving
-
for you
-
and I've never
-
disobeyed
-
your orders.
-
His resentment
-
and his bitterness
-
indicate that he
-
sees himself less
-
as a beloved son
-
and more
-
as a beholden slave.
-
He says,
-
I've never disobeyed you,
-
I've worked hard
-
to live up
-
to your standards,
-
I've been a good person
-
so now you owe me
-
and you gotta do things
-
in my life
-
the way I want you
-
to do them.
-
I've lived a good life
-
so you should be
-
giving me a good life.
-
Any of you ever
-
judge God like that?
-
Verse 29,
-
he says,
-
look,
-
all these years
-
I've been slaving
-
for you,
-
I've never disobeyed
-
your orders
-
and yet
-
you never gave me
-
even a young goat
-
so I could celebrate
-
with my friends.
-
But when the son
-
of yours
-
who squandered
-
your property
-
with prostitutes
-
comes home,
-
you kill the fattened
-
calf for him.
-
You see,
-
he's using
-
his moral life
-
thinking that it
-
gives him leverage
-
and control
-
over the father.
-
he says,
-
you know what,
-
I've actually earned
-
the right to tell you
-
how to run the household
-
and to instruct you
-
on how all the stuff
-
in your estate
-
ought to be deployed.
-
And here he is
-
with this incredible
-
opportunity
-
to delight the father,
-
to celebrate his brother
-
by going into the feast
-
and yet
-
in just absolute
-
resentment
-
and refusal
-
we can see
-
that on the inside
-
he really has
-
a hard
-
and a cold heart.
-
And the goal
-
of his obedience
-
all along
-
it hasn't been love,
-
it's been control.
-
This older son
-
wants the same thing
-
that the younger son
-
wants,
-
he just wants it
-
in a different way.
-
The younger son
-
he's chafed
-
at partaking
-
of the family's assets
-
under the father's
-
supervision
-
and so he wants
-
to just make
-
his own decisions.
-
He wants to be free,
-
he wants to be
-
unfettered
-
and so he defiantly
-
declares
-
his independence
-
from the father.
-
But you know
-
this older son
-
is just as resentful
-
because he too
-
wants the father's goods
-
rather than the father himself.
-
Neither son
-
loved the father
-
for himself.
-
Both of these sons
-
are using the father
-
for self-centered ends
-
rather than loving the father
-
for his own sake,
-
rather than delighting
-
in the father
-
and enjoying the father
-
and serving the father
-
just simply
-
for who he is.
-
Are you not shocked
-
by this message
-
of Jesus
-
because he says
-
you can become
-
alienated from God
-
by breaking
-
all the rules
-
or you can become
-
just as alienated
-
from God
-
by keeping
-
all the rules
-
carefully
-
and diligently.
-
And Jesus says
-
do you see
-
and do you hear
-
this older brother
-
in your heart?
-
He's never left home
-
but he has this
-
slavish obedience
-
that's driven him
-
just as far away
-
from his father
-
as his younger brother
-
ever was
-
in that pagan
-
pigsty.
-
And how does the father
-
respond to the hard
-
and resistant heart
-
of his older son?
-
Well he says
-
it says in verse 28
-
or verse 31
-
it says
-
my son
-
the father said
-
you are always
-
with me
-
and everything
-
I have
-
is yours.
-
The father goes out
-
and he's pleading
-
with his son
-
you know
-
if it had been me
-
I would have said
-
hey
-
why don't you
-
stay outside
-
and we'll just
-
have this party
-
without you.
-
You know
-
if it were up
-
to all the villagers
-
they would have said
-
you should disown
-
this rebellious son
-
right here on the spot.
-
But this father
-
who's been
-
painfully humiliated
-
earlier in the day
-
by running
-
to his younger son
-
he does the same
-
for his older
-
lost son.
-
For the second time
-
in one day
-
he goes out
-
in a costly demonstration
-
of unexpected grace
-
and he goes
-
not to scold
-
he goes not to rebuke
-
as we might expect
-
this is a kissing father.
-
It says
-
he goes out
-
in verse 28
-
to plead with his son
-
and he says
-
my son
-
you are always
-
with me
-
and everything
-
I have
-
is yours.
-
This father
-
is so good
-
he tenderly
-
bypasses
-
all the bitterness
-
all the arrogance
-
all the insults
-
all the distortion
-
of facts
-
all the unjust
-
accusations
-
the attacks
-
on his character
-
the rejection
-
of his love
-
and this father
-
is just graciously
-
pleading
-
with his son
-
who thinks
-
he's a slave
-
and this father
-
of all grace
-
he says
-
I just want you
-
to know two things
-
number one
-
you're always with me
-
and I'm always
-
with you
-
and you can count
-
on me
-
I'm
-
totally trustworthy
-
and I'm absolutely
-
reliable
-
and I'm
-
completely
-
a faithful
-
father to you
-
and secondly
-
not only
-
are you always
-
with me
-
but everything
-
I have
-
is yours
-
because
-
of your
-
relationship
-
with me
-
you have
-
a massive
-
inheritance
-
you have
-
an abundance
-
of riches
-
don't you
-
realize
-
that I've
-
graciously
-
already
-
given you
-
all things
-
how much
-
more
-
could I
-
possibly
-
give you
-
don't you
-
know
-
all the
-
privileges
-
that you're
-
already
-
living in
-
you see
-
the father
-
hopes
-
that he'll
-
soften
-
this hard
-
heart
-
and he'll
-
liberate
-
this
-
slavish
-
heart
-
and he'll
-
deliver
-
this
-
self-righteous
-
heart
-
that's
-
become
-
more about
-
performance
-
and more
-
about
-
outward
-
appearance
-
and more
-
about
-
control
-
than it
-
really is
-
about
-
relationship
-
than it
-
really is
-
about
-
the loving
-
bonds
-
of affection
-
friends
-
do you
-
hear the
-
father's
-
pleading
-
grace
-
for you
-
it's
-
this
-
invitation
-
that's
-
for us
-
to say
-
father
-
in my
-
self-righteousness
-
!
-
I too
-
have sinned
-
against heaven
-
against you
-
and I'm
-
no longer
-
worthy to be
-
called
-
your son
-
in this
-
first son
-
we see
-
costly
-
grace
-
for the
-
self-defeated
-
in the
-
second son
-
we see
-
pleading
-
grace
-
for the
-
self-righteous
-
but I want
-
to say
-
just a
-
final word
-
as we
-
come to
-
this
-
family
-
meal
-
together
-
this
-
family
-
feast
-
of joy
-
because I
-
think
-
there's a
-
word here
-
about
-
reconciling
-
grace
-
for the
-
family
-
of God
-
and again
-
the more
-
time I have
-
on a
-
sermon
-
the shorter
-
it is
-
so I'm
-
sorry
-
Duke's
-
going to
-
the final
-
four
-
and I
-
just haven't
-
had the
-
time
-
the past
-
few days
-
but listen
-
to what
-
the father
-
says
-
here at
-
the end
-
and think
-
about its
-
implications
-
for what
-
we're to be
-
as a
-
family
-
the family
-
of God
-
he says
-
my son
-
the father
-
said
-
you are
-
always
-
with me
-
and everything
-
I have
-
is yours
-
but he
-
says
-
we
-
not just
-
I
-
but we
-
had to
-
celebrate
-
and be
-
glad
-
because
-
this
-
brother
-
of yours
-
not just
-
this son
-
of mine
-
but this
-
brother
-
of yours
-
was dead
-
and is
-
alive again
-
he was
-
lost
-
and he's
-
found
-
we don't
-
really know
-
how the
-
story
-
ends
-
right
-
Jesus
-
again
-
curtain
-
falls
-
cliffhanger
-
open ending
-
is this
-
son
-
coming
-
inside
-
or not
-
is he
-
going to
-
stay a
-
slave
-
or is he
-
going to
-
become
-
free
-
is he
-
going to
-
live in
-
self-righteous
-
resentment
-
and bitterness
-
or is he
-
going to
-
have the
-
father's
-
joy
-
but it
-
closes
-
he's
-
still
-
dead
-
and he's
-
still
-
lost
-
and the
-
implication
-
of this
-
open ending
-
for us
-
as the
-
family
-
of God
-
is
-
Jesus
-
is calling
-
us
-
to have
-
God's
-
own
-
beating
-
heart
-
for
-
sinners
-
he wants
-
the heart
-
of God
-
to be
-
our heart
-
and so the
-
question as we
-
come to this
-
table
-
and we
-
commit ourselves
-
and renew
-
our relationship
-
with this
-
amazing
-
gracious
-
good
-
generous
-
and glorious
-
father
-
the question
-
for us
-
is if God
-
the father
-
is daily
-
scanning
-
the horizon
-
he's daily
-
seeking
-
for the
-
lost to be
-
found
-
and the
-
dead
-
to be
-
made
-
alive
-
and for
-
people
-
that are
-
far off
-
in a
-
far
-
country
-
coming
-
back
-
to their
-
true
-
home
-
how can
-
we
-
as
-
sons
-
of the
-
father
-
and daughters
-
of the
-
father
-
not also
-
be seeking
-
those same
-
people
-
that the
-
father
-
is seeking
-
and if
-
God
-
himself
-
is running
-
down the
-
road
-
for
-
alienated
-
sinners
-
with
-
undeserved
-
costly
-
grace
-
to welcome
-
them
-
warmly
-
into
-
his
-
feast
-
the question
-
is how
-
could we
-
do
-
anything
-
less
-
and if
-
God
-
is embracing
-
all the
-
strangers
-
around you
-
if you look
-
around you
-
there's probably
-
a few people
-
that you just
-
don't even
-
know
-
absolute
-
strangers
-
if God
-
is embracing
-
all the
-
strangers
-
who are
-
sitting around
-
you with
-
compassion
-
and calling
-
them his
-
sons and
-
his daughters
-
how can
-
we not
-
embrace them
-
as well
-
and reach
-
out to them
-
and begin
-
to build
-
relationships
-
with them
-
to say
-
well you're
-
a son
-
of the
-
father
-
so you're
-
my brother
-
and you're
-
a daughter
-
of the
-
father
-
so you're
-
my sister
-
you know
-
if God
-
has declared
-
someone
-
in his
-
family
-
forgiven
-
who
-
are we
-
to not
-
also
-
forgive
-
them
-
if God
-
if God
-
looks at the
-
person that's
-
sitting next
-
to you
-
today
-
or the
-
person
-
sitting
-
next to
-
you
-
later
-
this
-
week
-
in your
-
community
-
group
-
and he
-
he's
-
declared
-
that person
-
is no longer
-
lost but
-
they're found
-
they're no longer
-
dead but
-
they're alive
-
and if he's
-
rejoicing over
-
that person
-
then who are
-
we to have
-
a cold
-
and a hard
-
heart
-
toward them
-
who are
-
we to be
-
lacking
-
in joy
-
who are
-
we to
-
refuse
-
the father's
-
joy that
-
he has
-
for that
-
other
-
person
-
you see
-
if God
-
has accepted
-
people who
-
are coming
-
to this
-
table
-
with his
-
most precious
-
gifts
-
if God
-
has spared
-
no expense
-
to restore
-
them from
-
absolute shame
-
to the
-
highest place
-
of honor
-
if God
-
has given
-
them his
-
robe and
-
his ring
-
and his
-
sandals
-
and his
-
fattened
-
calf
-
then how
-
can we
-
not also
-
accept
-
and honor
-
those
-
whom God
-
has accepted
-
and honored
-
at great
-
cost
-
to himself
-
Paul says
-
the apostle
-
Paul in
-
Romans 12
-
he says
-
be devoted
-
to one
-
another
-
and honor
-
one another
-
above yourselves
-
another translation
-
says love
-
one another
-
with mutual
-
affection
-
and outdo
-
one another
-
in showing
-
honor
-
you see the
-
father's not
-
only seeking
-
to reconcile
-
his sons
-
to himself
-
but what he
-
wants to do
-
is reconcile
-
his sinful
-
kids
-
with each
-
other
-
and the
-
question of
-
this parable
-
is will
-
this family
-
of the
-
father
-
be reunited
-
in love?
-
Will this
-
family of the
-
father live
-
together in
-
unity
-
and joy
-
and peace?
-
Will we
-
as the people
-
of God
-
learn how to
-
live happily
-
ever after
-
given all
-
that God
-
has done
-
to make
-
that possible?
-
So I want
-
you to think
-
about that
-
as we come
-
to this table
-
in the name
-
of the father
-
son and
-
holy spirit
-
amen