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How Can the Lost Be Found and the Dead Made Alive?

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  5. Good morning.

  6. My name is August Fern and I am one of your deacons.

  7. Today's scripture reading is from the Gospel of Luke, chapter 15, verses 1 and 2, and verses

    Luke 15:1

  8. 11 to 32 as printed in your liturgy.

  9. A reading from the Gospel according to Luke.

  10. Now the tax collectors and sinners were all gathering around to hear Jesus, but the Pharisees

  11. and the teacher of the law muttered, this man welcomes sinners and eats with them.

  12. Jesus continued.

  13. There was a man who had two sons.

  14. The younger one said to his father, Father, give me my share of the estate.

  15. So he divided his property between them.

  16. Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country, and

  17. there squandered his wealth in wild living.

  18. After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he

  19. began to be in need.

  20. So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to the fields

  21. to feed pigs.

  22. He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave

  23. him anything.

  24. When he came to his senses, he said, How many of my father's hired servants have food to

  25. spare, and here I am starving to death.

  26. I will set out and go back to my father and say to him, Father, I have sinned against heaven

  27. and against you.

  28. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.

  29. Make me like one of your hired servants.

  30. So he got up and went to his father.

  31. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion

  32. for him.

  33. He ran to his son, threw his arms around him, and kissed him.

  34. The son said to him, Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.

  35. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.

  36. But the father said to his servants, Quick, bring the best robe and put it on him.

  37. Put a ring on his finger and sandal on his feet.

  38. Bring the fattened calf and kill it.

  39. Let's have a feast and celebrate.

  40. For the son of mine was dead and is alive again.

  41. He was lost and is found.

  42. So they began to celebrate.

  43. Meanwhile, the older son was in the field.

  44. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing.

  45. So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on.

  46. Your brother has come, he replied, and your father has killed the fattened calf because

  47. he has him back safe and sound.

  48. The older brother became angry and refused to go in.

  49. So his father went out and pleaded with him.

  50. But he answered his father, Look, all these years I've been slaving for you and never disobeyed

  51. your orders.

  52. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends.

  53. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with the prostitutes comes home,

  54. you kill the fattened calf for him?

  55. My son, the father said, you are always with me and everything I have is yours.

  56. But we had to celebrate and be glad because this brother of yours was dead and is alive

  57. again.

  58. He was lost and is found.

  59. This is the gospel of the Lord.

  60. Praise to you, O Christ.

  61. So there was a man who had two sons.

  62. It's an amazing opening line.

  63. And we know when we hear it, we know instinctively that Jesus is a master storyteller because in

  64. our own experience, like families are complicated.

  65. Amen?

  66. Amen?

  67. Families are sometimes dysfunctional.

  68. You know, we know how it can go between fathers and mothers and sons and daughters.

  69. We don't always see eye to eye.

  70. We don't always get along.

  71. We don't always live happily ever after.

  72. And many of us know that personally.

  73. We know it painfully.

  74. We also know it biblically and theologically.

  75. When you open up the Bible to the very first story, Adam had two sons, right?

  76. Cain and Abel and how did that go?

  77. It ended in a bloody mess, you know?

  78. Abraham had two sons, Ishmael and Isaac.

  79. Isaac had two sons, Esau and Jacob.

  80. Jacob had 12 sons, but of those 12 sons, he loved two of them more than all the rest.

  81. And so we don't really have to get much further beyond the first book of the Bible to know that

  82. when a story begins where the father had two sons, it's going to be, I don't know, complicated.

  83. It's like starting a story with, it was a dark and stormy night, right?

  84. And to whom is Jesus telling this amazing story?

  85. He says in verse 1,

  86. Jesus goes and he associates with the out group.

  87. And that means that the spiritually serious and the morally upright are outraged.

  88. And they're saying,

  89. And why, Jesus, do you welcome like family around your table these people that don't deserve to be there?

  90. And Jesus is being severely criticized.

  91. And he responds to that criticism with something we also all know about,

  92. which is we probably all lost something that we deeply value.

  93. Anybody ever lost your phone?

  94. Or lost your wallet?

  95. Have any of you ever lost your child?

  96. Okay, you can ask Catherine about how I lost one of our children at coffee hour.

  97. But Jesus launches into a story about a shepherd who lost a precious sheep

  98. and a woman who lost her treasured coin.

  99. And then he gets to this story,

  100. this father lost his two beloved sons.

  101. And I want to look at this under a few headings.

  102. I want to look at the costly grace for the self-defeated.

  103. I want to look at pleading grace for the self-righteous.

  104. And I want to look at reconciling grace for the family of God.

  105. Costly grace for the self-defeated.

  106. Pleading grace for the self-righteous.

  107. And reconciling grace for the family of God.

  108. Now, we had a staff retreat on Thursday,

  109. an elder retreat on Saturday.

  110. And I had two Duke games this weekend.

  111. So, we'll see about that third point.

  112. I don't know if we'll have time for that.

  113. But, costly grace for the self-defeated.

  114. Let's just go through the story.

  115. It says in verse 12,

  116. the son says to his father,

  117. Father, give me my share of the estate.

  118. Which is the equivalent of saying, drop dead, Dad.

  119. Father, I can't wait for you to die.

  120. In fact, I don't want you.

  121. I want your money.

  122. It's an act of deep disrespect.

  123. And any respectable father in the ancient Near East

  124. would have disowned his son on the spot.

  125. He would have just driven his son out of the family.

  126. But this father is a gracious father.

  127. And he gives his son what his son wants.

  128. Surprisingly, he says to his son,

  129. Your will be done.

  130. Right?

  131. And it lets him go.

  132. And it says that he divided his property

  133. between his two sons.

  134. Literally, it says he divided his bios.

  135. He divided his life.

  136. He tore his life apart.

  137. And it costs the cost of land,

  138. the cost of his place,

  139. the cost of his honor and his standing.

  140. The father bears the agony of,

  141. and the shame of,

  142. his son's rejected love.

  143. Verse 13,

  144. Not long after that,

  145. the younger son got together.

  146. All he had,

  147. he set off for a distant country,

  148. and there squandered his wealth

  149. and wild living.

  150. In other words,

  151. he liquidated everything into cash.

  152. And he went and tried to have it all.

  153. He tried to have a life without limits.

  154. And in doing so,

  155. he wasted his life.

  156. All of his gifts,

  157. all of his potential,

  158. he just burned it to an absolute crisp.

  159. And it doesn't take very long

  160. for him to hit rock bottom.

  161. And Jesus says in verse 14,

  162. After he'd spent everything,

  163. there was a severe famine

  164. in that whole country,

  165. and he began to be in need.

  166. So he went and hired himself out

  167. to a citizen of that country

  168. who sent him to his fields

  169. to feed pigs.

  170. He longed to fill his stomach

  171. with the pods that the pigs were eating,

  172. but no one gave him anything.

  173. How do you like Jesus' analysis

  174. of our human condition?

  175. All of us have made this same bid

  176. for independence from God,

  177. this bid to be autonomous from God.

  178. We had no appreciation for the love

  179. in God's heart

  180. of the security we had in his home.

  181. And instead, we demanded to be free,

  182. to live on our own as we want to live.

  183. And Jesus says that self-will

  184. that's in all of us

  185. can often degenerate into self-indulgence

  186. and we end up, in various ways,

  187. squandering our lives.

  188. And if you're a Jew,

  189. the absolute worst thing

  190. that can happen to you

  191. is that you become a slave.

  192. And that you become a slave of a Gentile.

  193. And that you become the slave

  194. of a Gentile pig farmer.

  195. This Jewish son smells like pigs

  196. and he's starving for pig slop.

  197. Jesus says he's bankrupt,

  198. he's hungry,

  199. he's alone,

  200. he's at the absolute depths of misery.

  201. And two times in the story,

  202. we hear this father describe his son

  203. in verse 24 and in verse 32.

  204. The father describes his son

  205. as dead and lost.

  206. The apostle Paul says that all of us,

  207. we're dead in our trespasses

  208. and in our sins.

  209. That we've all wandered away from God,

  210. we have flouted his authority,

  211. we've rejected his and rebuffed his love,

  212. we've wasted his gifts.

  213. We've alienated ourselves from God

  214. and we've also alienated ourselves

  215. from our true selves.

  216. We're exiled even within ourselves.

  217. We have no hope

  218. because we have no God anymore.

  219. But Jesus says he came to his senses.

  220. He came to his senses

  221. and what wakes him up

  222. is this memory of his father.

  223. That his father is actually a wealthy father

  224. and he's not only a wealthy father

  225. but he's a generous father.

  226. It says in verse 17,

  227. when he came to his senses,

  228. he said,

  229. how many of my father's hired servants

  230. have food to spare

  231. and here I am starving to death.

  232. Everyone you meet

  233. carries within their heart

  234. some memory of the father,

  235. some memory of their true home.

  236. And everybody we meet is,

  237. their heart is desperately restless

  238. until they come and find their rest

  239. in the home of the father.

  240. And verse 18 says this,

  241. he says,

  242. I will set out and go back to my father

  243. and say to him,

  244. Father, I've sinned against heaven

  245. and against you.

  246. I'm no longer worthy

  247. to be called your son.

  248. Make me like one of your hired servants.

  249. And at first that sounds like good news

  250. but the closer you look at that,

  251. it's actually a self-serving,

  252. self-salvation project

  253. because he doesn't actually care

  254. that he's broken his father's heart.

  255. He just wants to eat better.

  256. He just wants his misery to end.

  257. He just wants to get his life back on track.

  258. And he thinks that

  259. my biggest problem

  260. is that I lost all the money.

  261. And if I hadn't lost the money,

  262. I would have never sinned.

  263. And so I'm going to solve my own problem

  264. with my own effort

  265. by getting some job training

  266. and hiring myself out as a servant

  267. and recovering the money

  268. and earning that lost inheritance

  269. and I will save myself.

  270. The problem isn't the money, is it?

  271. The problem

  272. is that he's dishonored his father.

  273. The problem is he's become estranged

  274. from his father.

  275. The problem is that he's made himself

  276. into a hostile enemy of the father.

  277. And despite the fact that

  278. he deserves to be cut off from his family,

  279. despite the fact that he's trying to save himself,

  280. the father sees his loss

  281. as so great and so valuable

  282. that he cannot contemplate

  283. the permanence of that loss.

  284. He cannot acquiesce to the loss.

  285. And so we hear in verse 20

  286. that he got up and he went to his father,

  287. but while he was still a long way off,

  288. his father saw him

  289. and was filled with compassion for him.

  290. And he ran to his son

  291. and threw his arms around him

  292. and kissed him.

  293. See, day after day,

  294. this father had gone out

  295. and he had scanned the horizon

  296. for his lost son.

  297. Right?

  298. He's longing for his son.

  299. He's patiently and vigilantly

  300. looking for a sign of his son's return.

  301. And as soon as he sees his son

  302. as a speck on the horizon,

  303. what does this father do?

  304. It's a beautiful picture

  305. of free but costly grace

  306. because the whole village

  307. knows the shame of this son.

  308. Right?

  309. The whole village is expecting

  310. this pillar of the community

  311. to stay put on the front porch

  312. and have the son come groveling back up

  313. to the house.

  314. Right?

  315. Or if this father moves at all,

  316. for him to kind of slowly

  317. in a dignified way

  318. move out to go

  319. and punish his son

  320. in the eyes of everybody.

  321. But this father shows compassion

  322. by doing what?

  323. Running.

  324. We call this the parable

  325. of the prodigal son,

  326. but really we should call it

  327. the parable of the running father.

  328. The kissing father

  329. because he takes his,

  330. the bottom of his robe

  331. and his hands

  332. and he does what traditional

  333. Middle Eastern men

  334. would absolutely never do

  335. in public

  336. and he starts running

  337. to reach his son

  338. before his son

  339. can reach the village.

  340. And by racing down that road

  341. in an undignified manner,

  342. by making an absolute fool

  343. of himself,

  344. this father is taking

  345. all the shame

  346. and all the humiliation

  347. that would otherwise

  348. be heaped upon his son.

  349. He's having it heaped

  350. upon himself.

  351. And he knows that

  352. this visible demonstration

  353. of costly grace,

  354. of sacrificial reconciliation

  355. with his son in public

  356. will silence all those voices

  357. in the village

  358. that are ready to heap

  359. criticism and contempt

  360. upon his boy.

  361. And when he runs to his son,

  362. he throws his arms around him

  363. and he showers him

  364. with kisses

  365. before he can even begin

  366. that well-rehearsed

  367. self-salvation speech.

  368. The scriptures actually say

  369. that he kissed him much.

  370. He kissed him eagerly.

  371. He kissed him often.

  372. He kissed him affectionately.

  373. And just as the son

  374. had totally rejected his father,

  375. the father now totally accepts,

  376. totally forgives,

  377. totally restores his son.

  378. You see, these spiritually serious

  379. and morally upright people

  380. are complaining about Jesus

  381. and they're criticizing Jesus

  382. for welcoming and eating

  383. with sinners

  384. as if they're his family.

  385. And so Jesus tells this story

  386. about a father

  387. who takes the form

  388. of a servant.

  389. This father who comes

  390. out of the house

  391. and down from the house.

  392. This father who runs

  393. outside of the village

  394. in abject humiliation

  395. and he takes all of the shame

  396. on himself

  397. to seek and to save

  398. and to reconcile the lost.

  399. And what is Jesus describing?

  400. He's illustrating

  401. what the father

  402. has sent him to do.

  403. Right?

  404. Because elsewhere

  405. in the gospel of John

  406. in John 14,

  407. Jesus says,

  408. anyone who has seen me

  409. has seen the father.

  410. Jesus is saying,

  411. I've come acting

  412. in my father's stead.

  413. I've come as my father's representative.

  414. I've come so that

  415. you can see that

  416. in and through me

  417. the father's costly grace

  418. is being demonstrated.

  419. And Jesus didn't just run

  420. outside the village.

  421. Jesus came all the way

  422. from heaven to earth.

  423. He not only emptied himself

  424. of his heavenly glory

  425. but when he went

  426. to his cross,

  427. Jesus was treated

  428. as an absolute outcast.

  429. Suffering the infinite cost

  430. of his own life

  431. so that we

  432. could be brought

  433. into God's family

  434. by grace.

  435. By free but costly grace.

  436. All of that inheritance

  437. that we squandered,

  438. all of that potential

  439. that we wasted,

  440. Jesus came to pay

  441. that unpayable debt

  442. on the cross

  443. and in our place.

  444. And there he cried out,

  445. my God, my God,

  446. why?

  447. Why have you forsaken me?

  448. And you see,

  449. Jesus took that forsakenness

  450. upon himself

  451. so that we could have

  452. the hug

  453. and the kisses

  454. of the father.

  455. Verse 21 says this,

  456. the son said to him,

  457. father,

  458. I've sinned against heaven

  459. and against you.

  460. I'm no longer worthy

  461. to be called your son.

  462. But the father said

  463. to his servants,

  464. quick,

  465. bring the best robe

  466. and put it on him.

  467. Put a ring on his finger

  468. and sandals on his feet.

  469. Bring the fattened calf

  470. and kill it.

  471. Let's have a feast

  472. and celebrate.

  473. And you see,

  474. Jesus was stripped

  475. of all of his dignity.

  476. Jesus was covered

  477. with the filth

  478. of all of our sin

  479. and our shame

  480. so that we could be clothed

  481. with that robe

  482. of his beautiful

  483. and perfect righteousness,

  484. a dignity

  485. and a status

  486. and a standing

  487. that we absolutely

  488. do not deserve.

  489. See,

  490. Jesus had his hands

  491. and his feet

  492. nailed to that cross

  493. of shame

  494. so that we could receive

  495. that signet ring

  496. of the father

  497. that says we're his sons

  498. and we're his daughters

  499. so that we could

  500. have those feet

  501. that are barefoot

  502. like slaves

  503. so that our feet

  504. could have sandals

  505. put on them

  506. and we could know

  507. that we belong

  508. in the father's house.

  509. That we have

  510. the father's power.

  511. We have the father's

  512. authority.

  513. We have the father's

  514. acceptance in his love.

  515. You see,

  516. Jesus went

  517. and he drank

  518. that cup

  519. of God's

  520. eternal justice

  521. so that we

  522. could drink

  523. the cup

  524. of the father's joy

  525. so that we could feast

  526. at the father's

  527. banqueting table.

  528. And friends,

  529. there's no other way

  530. to come back home.

  531. There's no other way

  532. for the father

  533. to bring us in.

  534. Jesus had to go

  535. and he had to

  536. experience

  537. the darkness.

  538. He had to

  539. come into that

  540. uttermost place

  541. of despair

  542. and spiritual

  543. alienation

  544. in our place.

  545. He had to take

  546. the full curse

  547. of our human rebellion.

  548. He had to experience

  549. our cosmic

  550. homelessness

  551. and alienation

  552. so that we

  553. could enter back

  554. into the village

  555. where we belong

  556. under the protective

  557. care

  558. of the father's

  559. acceptance

  560. so we could be

  561. welcomed back

  562. into our

  563. true home.

  564. And when you,

  565. when you,

  566. are you moved

  567. by that?

  568. When you see

  569. what it costs

  570. for the father

  571. to do this

  572. for you,

  573. when you see

  574. what it costs

  575. for Jesus

  576. to come

  577. and to bring us

  578. back into the

  579. father's house,

  580. to bring us back

  581. into our true home

  582. where we can

  583. finally fully be

  584. at rest,

  585. does that move

  586. your heart?

  587. Can you believe,

  588. can you even

  589. half believe today

  590. that the hug

  591. of the father

  592. is for you?

  593. That his kisses

  594. are often

  595. and they are

  596. affectionate

  597. and they are

  598. for you?

  599. Jesus is telling us

  600. about costly grace

  601. for the self-defeated,

  602. people who've

  603. wasted their gifts,

  604. people who've

  605. squandered their

  606. potential,

  607. that they too,

  608. even them,

  609. can have a fresh

  610. start and a new

  611. beginning.

  612. But he's not just

  613. telling us about

  614. the costly grace

  615. for the self-defeated,

  616. he's talking about

  617. pleading grace

  618. for the self-righteous,

  619. pleading grace

  620. for the self-righteous.

  621. He says in verse 23,

  622. bring the fattened

  623. calf and kill it,

  624. let's have a feast

  625. and celebrate,

  626. for the son of mine

  627. was dead and is

  628. alive again,

  629. he was lost

  630. and is found,

  631. so they began

  632. to celebrate.

  633. You see this father,

  634. he's so overjoyed,

  635. he's so overjoyed

  636. when just one person,

  637. one sinner repents.

  638. The son who had

  639. been spiritually dead

  640. has been raised

  641. to life.

  642. The son who'd been

  643. morally lost,

  644. he's been found

  645. and he says,

  646. so let's spare

  647. no expense

  648. to celebrate.

  649. The best meat,

  650. we're gonna barbecue,

  651. we're gonna invite

  652. all the village

  653. to come

  654. and we're gonna have

  655. a feast with music

  656. and dancing

  657. and glad rejoicing

  658. because the father

  659. is so happy

  660. that his son is home

  661. safe and sound.

  662. Now many people

  663. stop right there

  664. and they call this

  665. the parable

  666. of the prodigal son

  667. but how many sons

  668. does his father have?

  669. He has two sons

  670. and we haven't even

  671. gotten to his main

  672. point yet

  673. because Jesus

  674. is telling the story

  675. for the spiritually

  676. serious and the morally

  677. upright,

  678. these older brothers

  679. and sisters

  680. who see the father's

  681. costly grace,

  682. they see his

  683. uncalculating generosity

  684. toward these undeserving

  685. younger brothers

  686. and younger sisters

  687. and instead of rejoicing,

  688. they're muttering

  689. and instead of joy,

  690. they feel anger

  691. and Jesus is saying

  692. that these brothers

  693. represent two different

  694. kinds of people,

  695. two different kind

  696. of ways to live,

  697. right?

  698. Two paths

  699. of finding happiness

  700. and worth,

  701. two different ways

  702. of addressing

  703. what's wrong

  704. with the world,

  705. two different ways

  706. of defining

  707. what's right

  708. and what's wrong

  709. and the younger brother

  710. represents

  711. that rebel spirit,

  712. that free spirit,

  713. right?

  714. His is the way

  715. of self-discovery.

  716. He says the world

  717. would be a better place

  718. if tradition

  719. and authority

  720. and all the barriers

  721. to personal freedom

  722. were just removed,

  723. right?

  724. And he says,

  725. I'm gonna be the only one

  726. who decides what's right

  727. and what's wrong for me

  728. and I'm gonna go find

  729. true,

  730. my true self,

  731. I'm gonna go find happiness

  732. by living the way

  733. I wanna live

  734. and that's one way.

  735. But the other way

  736. is the way

  737. of the older brother,

  738. he's responsible,

  739. he's honorable,

  740. his is the way

  741. of moral conformity.

  742. He says the world

  743. would be a better place

  744. if all of us

  745. had more self-control,

  746. if all of us

  747. had more discipline,

  748. if we all just put

  749. other people ahead

  750. of our own individual

  751. fulfillment

  752. and self-expression.

  753. He says,

  754. I'm not gonna do

  755. what I wanna do,

  756. he says,

  757. I'm gonna do

  758. what God wants me to do,

  759. what my parents

  760. want me to do,

  761. what other people

  762. want me to do

  763. and Jesus' question

  764. when we look

  765. at these two brothers

  766. is to say,

  767. which way is more

  768. self-centered

  769. and which way

  770. is more

  771. self-destructive?

  772. Because the reality is

  773. both of these sons

  774. are alienated

  775. from their father.

  776. Both of these sons

  777. shockingly

  778. are spiritually dead

  779. and morally lost.

  780. Both of them

  781. need the father

  782. to go out

  783. and invite them

  784. into the feast.

  785. And the younger son

  786. comes into the feast

  787. but the older son

  788. does not.

  789. On the outside,

  790. that older son,

  791. he seems all put together,

  792. he seems like

  793. there's nothing wrong

  794. with him

  795. but on the inside,

  796. Jesus says,

  797. he's actually

  798. full of sin.

  799. And Jesus says,

  800. do you see

  801. that older son

  802. in yourself?

  803. Does Jesus'

  804. description of his heart

  805. resonate

  806. with what lies

  807. beneath the surface

  808. of your own heart?

  809. Listen to what

  810. verse 28 says,

  811. the older brother

  812. became angry

  813. and he refused

  814. to go in.

  815. You see,

  816. there's a fire

  817. of self-righteous anger

  818. that's burning

  819. on the inside

  820. against his brother's

  821. unforgivable

  822. irresponsibility

  823. and against the father's

  824. uncalculating

  825. grace

  826. and generosity.

  827. And this older son,

  828. he actually feels

  829. not just superior

  830. to his younger brother,

  831. he feels superior

  832. to his father.

  833. He's openly

  834. insulting his father,

  835. he's refusing

  836. to join in the father's

  837. feast

  838. and we can see

  839. like his relationship

  840. with the father,

  841. he seems fine

  842. but his relationship

  843. is broken.

  844. He's run just as far

  845. away from his younger

  846. brother

  847. even though he's

  848. right there at home.

  849. It's just so much

  850. more subtle,

  851. it's more inward,

  852. it's more hidden

  853. and therefore

  854. it's more dangerous.

  855. The older brother

  856. became angry,

  857. it says in verse 28,

  858. he refused to go in

  859. so his father went out

  860. and pleaded with him

  861. but he answered his father,

  862. look,

  863. all these years

  864. I've been slaving

  865. for you

  866. and I've never

  867. disobeyed

  868. your orders.

  869. His resentment

  870. and his bitterness

  871. indicate that he

  872. sees himself less

  873. as a beloved son

  874. and more

  875. as a beholden slave.

  876. He says,

  877. I've never disobeyed you,

  878. I've worked hard

  879. to live up

  880. to your standards,

  881. I've been a good person

  882. so now you owe me

  883. and you gotta do things

  884. in my life

  885. the way I want you

  886. to do them.

  887. I've lived a good life

  888. so you should be

  889. giving me a good life.

  890. Any of you ever

  891. judge God like that?

  892. Verse 29,

  893. he says,

  894. look,

  895. all these years

  896. I've been slaving

  897. for you,

  898. I've never disobeyed

  899. your orders

  900. and yet

  901. you never gave me

  902. even a young goat

  903. so I could celebrate

  904. with my friends.

  905. But when the son

  906. of yours

  907. who squandered

  908. your property

  909. with prostitutes

  910. comes home,

  911. you kill the fattened

  912. calf for him.

  913. You see,

  914. he's using

  915. his moral life

  916. thinking that it

  917. gives him leverage

  918. and control

  919. over the father.

  920. he says,

  921. you know what,

  922. I've actually earned

  923. the right to tell you

  924. how to run the household

  925. and to instruct you

  926. on how all the stuff

  927. in your estate

  928. ought to be deployed.

  929. And here he is

  930. with this incredible

  931. opportunity

  932. to delight the father,

  933. to celebrate his brother

  934. by going into the feast

  935. and yet

  936. in just absolute

  937. resentment

  938. and refusal

  939. we can see

  940. that on the inside

  941. he really has

  942. a hard

  943. and a cold heart.

  944. And the goal

  945. of his obedience

  946. all along

  947. it hasn't been love,

  948. it's been control.

  949. This older son

  950. wants the same thing

  951. that the younger son

  952. wants,

  953. he just wants it

  954. in a different way.

  955. The younger son

  956. he's chafed

  957. at partaking

  958. of the family's assets

  959. under the father's

  960. supervision

  961. and so he wants

  962. to just make

  963. his own decisions.

  964. He wants to be free,

  965. he wants to be

  966. unfettered

  967. and so he defiantly

  968. declares

  969. his independence

  970. from the father.

  971. But you know

  972. this older son

  973. is just as resentful

  974. because he too

  975. wants the father's goods

  976. rather than the father himself.

  977. Neither son

  978. loved the father

  979. for himself.

  980. Both of these sons

  981. are using the father

  982. for self-centered ends

  983. rather than loving the father

  984. for his own sake,

  985. rather than delighting

  986. in the father

  987. and enjoying the father

  988. and serving the father

  989. just simply

  990. for who he is.

  991. Are you not shocked

  992. by this message

  993. of Jesus

  994. because he says

  995. you can become

  996. alienated from God

  997. by breaking

  998. all the rules

  999. or you can become

  1000. just as alienated

  1001. from God

  1002. by keeping

  1003. all the rules

  1004. carefully

  1005. and diligently.

  1006. And Jesus says

  1007. do you see

  1008. and do you hear

  1009. this older brother

  1010. in your heart?

  1011. He's never left home

  1012. but he has this

  1013. slavish obedience

  1014. that's driven him

  1015. just as far away

  1016. from his father

  1017. as his younger brother

  1018. ever was

  1019. in that pagan

  1020. pigsty.

  1021. And how does the father

  1022. respond to the hard

  1023. and resistant heart

  1024. of his older son?

  1025. Well he says

  1026. it says in verse 28

  1027. or verse 31

  1028. it says

  1029. my son

  1030. the father said

  1031. you are always

  1032. with me

  1033. and everything

  1034. I have

  1035. is yours.

  1036. The father goes out

  1037. and he's pleading

  1038. with his son

  1039. you know

  1040. if it had been me

  1041. I would have said

  1042. hey

  1043. why don't you

  1044. stay outside

  1045. and we'll just

  1046. have this party

  1047. without you.

  1048. You know

  1049. if it were up

  1050. to all the villagers

  1051. they would have said

  1052. you should disown

  1053. this rebellious son

  1054. right here on the spot.

  1055. But this father

  1056. who's been

  1057. painfully humiliated

  1058. earlier in the day

  1059. by running

  1060. to his younger son

  1061. he does the same

  1062. for his older

  1063. lost son.

  1064. For the second time

  1065. in one day

  1066. he goes out

  1067. in a costly demonstration

  1068. of unexpected grace

  1069. and he goes

  1070. not to scold

  1071. he goes not to rebuke

  1072. as we might expect

  1073. this is a kissing father.

  1074. It says

  1075. he goes out

  1076. in verse 28

  1077. to plead with his son

  1078. and he says

  1079. my son

  1080. you are always

  1081. with me

  1082. and everything

  1083. I have

  1084. is yours.

  1085. This father

  1086. is so good

  1087. he tenderly

  1088. bypasses

  1089. all the bitterness

  1090. all the arrogance

  1091. all the insults

  1092. all the distortion

  1093. of facts

  1094. all the unjust

  1095. accusations

  1096. the attacks

  1097. on his character

  1098. the rejection

  1099. of his love

  1100. and this father

  1101. is just graciously

  1102. pleading

  1103. with his son

  1104. who thinks

  1105. he's a slave

  1106. and this father

  1107. of all grace

  1108. he says

  1109. I just want you

  1110. to know two things

  1111. number one

  1112. you're always with me

  1113. and I'm always

  1114. with you

  1115. and you can count

  1116. on me

  1117. I'm

  1118. totally trustworthy

  1119. and I'm absolutely

  1120. reliable

  1121. and I'm

  1122. completely

  1123. a faithful

  1124. father to you

  1125. and secondly

  1126. not only

  1127. are you always

  1128. with me

  1129. but everything

  1130. I have

  1131. is yours

  1132. because

  1133. of your

  1134. relationship

  1135. with me

  1136. you have

  1137. a massive

  1138. inheritance

  1139. you have

  1140. an abundance

  1141. of riches

  1142. don't you

  1143. realize

  1144. that I've

  1145. graciously

  1146. already

  1147. given you

  1148. all things

  1149. how much

  1150. more

  1151. could I

  1152. possibly

  1153. give you

  1154. don't you

  1155. know

  1156. all the

  1157. privileges

  1158. that you're

  1159. already

  1160. living in

  1161. you see

  1162. the father

  1163. hopes

  1164. that he'll

  1165. soften

  1166. this hard

  1167. heart

  1168. and he'll

  1169. liberate

  1170. this

  1171. slavish

  1172. heart

  1173. and he'll

  1174. deliver

  1175. this

  1176. self-righteous

  1177. heart

  1178. that's

  1179. become

  1180. more about

  1181. performance

  1182. and more

  1183. about

  1184. outward

  1185. appearance

  1186. and more

  1187. about

  1188. control

  1189. than it

  1190. really is

  1191. about

  1192. relationship

  1193. than it

  1194. really is

  1195. about

  1196. the loving

  1197. bonds

  1198. of affection

  1199. friends

  1200. do you

  1201. hear the

  1202. father's

  1203. pleading

  1204. grace

  1205. for you

  1206. it's

  1207. this

  1208. invitation

  1209. that's

  1210. for us

  1211. to say

  1212. father

  1213. in my

  1214. self-righteousness

  1215. !

  1216. I too

  1217. have sinned

  1218. against heaven

  1219. against you

  1220. and I'm

  1221. no longer

  1222. worthy to be

  1223. called

  1224. your son

  1225. in this

  1226. first son

  1227. we see

  1228. costly

  1229. grace

  1230. for the

  1231. self-defeated

  1232. in the

  1233. second son

  1234. we see

  1235. pleading

  1236. grace

  1237. for the

  1238. self-righteous

  1239. but I want

  1240. to say

  1241. just a

  1242. final word

  1243. as we

  1244. come to

  1245. this

  1246. family

  1247. meal

  1248. together

  1249. this

  1250. family

  1251. feast

  1252. of joy

  1253. because I

  1254. think

  1255. there's a

  1256. word here

  1257. about

  1258. reconciling

  1259. grace

  1260. for the

  1261. family

  1262. of God

  1263. and again

  1264. the more

  1265. time I have

  1266. on a

  1267. sermon

  1268. the shorter

  1269. it is

  1270. so I'm

  1271. sorry

  1272. Duke's

  1273. going to

  1274. the final

  1275. four

  1276. and I

  1277. just haven't

  1278. had the

  1279. time

  1280. the past

  1281. few days

  1282. but listen

  1283. to what

  1284. the father

  1285. says

  1286. here at

  1287. the end

  1288. and think

  1289. about its

  1290. implications

  1291. for what

  1292. we're to be

  1293. as a

  1294. family

  1295. the family

  1296. of God

  1297. he says

  1298. my son

  1299. the father

  1300. said

  1301. you are

  1302. always

  1303. with me

  1304. and everything

  1305. I have

  1306. is yours

  1307. but he

  1308. says

  1309. we

  1310. not just

  1311. I

  1312. but we

  1313. had to

  1314. celebrate

  1315. and be

  1316. glad

  1317. because

  1318. this

  1319. brother

  1320. of yours

  1321. not just

  1322. this son

  1323. of mine

  1324. but this

  1325. brother

  1326. of yours

  1327. was dead

  1328. and is

  1329. alive again

  1330. he was

  1331. lost

  1332. and he's

  1333. found

  1334. we don't

  1335. really know

  1336. how the

  1337. story

  1338. ends

  1339. right

  1340. Jesus

  1341. again

  1342. curtain

  1343. falls

  1344. cliffhanger

  1345. open ending

  1346. is this

  1347. son

  1348. coming

  1349. inside

  1350. or not

  1351. is he

  1352. going to

  1353. stay a

  1354. slave

  1355. or is he

  1356. going to

  1357. become

  1358. free

  1359. is he

  1360. going to

  1361. live in

  1362. self-righteous

  1363. resentment

  1364. and bitterness

  1365. or is he

  1366. going to

  1367. have the

  1368. father's

  1369. joy

  1370. but it

  1371. closes

  1372. he's

  1373. still

  1374. dead

  1375. and he's

  1376. still

  1377. lost

  1378. and the

  1379. implication

  1380. of this

  1381. open ending

  1382. for us

  1383. as the

  1384. family

  1385. of God

  1386. is

  1387. Jesus

  1388. is calling

  1389. us

  1390. to have

  1391. God's

  1392. own

  1393. beating

  1394. heart

  1395. for

  1396. sinners

  1397. he wants

  1398. the heart

  1399. of God

  1400. to be

  1401. our heart

  1402. and so the

  1403. question as we

  1404. come to this

  1405. table

  1406. and we

  1407. commit ourselves

  1408. and renew

  1409. our relationship

  1410. with this

  1411. amazing

  1412. gracious

  1413. good

  1414. generous

  1415. and glorious

  1416. father

  1417. the question

  1418. for us

  1419. is if God

  1420. the father

  1421. is daily

  1422. scanning

  1423. the horizon

  1424. he's daily

  1425. seeking

  1426. for the

  1427. lost to be

  1428. found

  1429. and the

  1430. dead

  1431. to be

  1432. made

  1433. alive

  1434. and for

  1435. people

  1436. that are

  1437. far off

  1438. in a

  1439. far

  1440. country

  1441. coming

  1442. back

  1443. to their

  1444. true

  1445. home

  1446. how can

  1447. we

  1448. as

  1449. sons

  1450. of the

  1451. father

  1452. and daughters

  1453. of the

  1454. father

  1455. not also

  1456. be seeking

  1457. those same

  1458. people

  1459. that the

  1460. father

  1461. is seeking

  1462. and if

  1463. God

  1464. himself

  1465. is running

  1466. down the

  1467. road

  1468. for

  1469. alienated

  1470. sinners

  1471. with

  1472. undeserved

  1473. costly

  1474. grace

  1475. to welcome

  1476. them

  1477. warmly

  1478. into

  1479. his

  1480. feast

  1481. the question

  1482. is how

  1483. could we

  1484. do

  1485. anything

  1486. less

  1487. and if

  1488. God

  1489. is embracing

  1490. all the

  1491. strangers

  1492. around you

  1493. if you look

  1494. around you

  1495. there's probably

  1496. a few people

  1497. that you just

  1498. don't even

  1499. know

  1500. absolute

  1501. strangers

  1502. if God

  1503. is embracing

  1504. all the

  1505. strangers

  1506. who are

  1507. sitting around

  1508. you with

  1509. compassion

  1510. and calling

  1511. them his

  1512. sons and

  1513. his daughters

  1514. how can

  1515. we not

  1516. embrace them

  1517. as well

  1518. and reach

  1519. out to them

  1520. and begin

  1521. to build

  1522. relationships

  1523. with them

  1524. to say

  1525. well you're

  1526. a son

  1527. of the

  1528. father

  1529. so you're

  1530. my brother

  1531. and you're

  1532. a daughter

  1533. of the

  1534. father

  1535. so you're

  1536. my sister

  1537. you know

  1538. if God

  1539. has declared

  1540. someone

  1541. in his

  1542. family

  1543. forgiven

  1544. who

  1545. are we

  1546. to not

  1547. also

  1548. forgive

  1549. them

  1550. if God

  1551. if God

  1552. looks at the

  1553. person that's

  1554. sitting next

  1555. to you

  1556. today

  1557. or the

  1558. person

  1559. sitting

  1560. next to

  1561. you

  1562. later

  1563. this

  1564. week

  1565. in your

  1566. community

  1567. group

  1568. and he

  1569. he's

  1570. declared

  1571. that person

  1572. is no longer

  1573. lost but

  1574. they're found

  1575. they're no longer

  1576. dead but

  1577. they're alive

  1578. and if he's

  1579. rejoicing over

  1580. that person

  1581. then who are

  1582. we to have

  1583. a cold

  1584. and a hard

  1585. heart

  1586. toward them

  1587. who are

  1588. we to be

  1589. lacking

  1590. in joy

  1591. who are

  1592. we to

  1593. refuse

  1594. the father's

  1595. joy that

  1596. he has

  1597. for that

  1598. other

  1599. person

  1600. you see

  1601. if God

  1602. has accepted

  1603. people who

  1604. are coming

  1605. to this

  1606. table

  1607. with his

  1608. most precious

  1609. gifts

  1610. if God

  1611. has spared

  1612. no expense

  1613. to restore

  1614. them from

  1615. absolute shame

  1616. to the

  1617. highest place

  1618. of honor

  1619. if God

  1620. has given

  1621. them his

  1622. robe and

  1623. his ring

  1624. and his

  1625. sandals

  1626. and his

  1627. fattened

  1628. calf

  1629. then how

  1630. can we

  1631. not also

  1632. accept

  1633. and honor

  1634. those

  1635. whom God

  1636. has accepted

  1637. and honored

  1638. at great

  1639. cost

  1640. to himself

  1641. Paul says

  1642. the apostle

  1643. Paul in

  1644. Romans 12

  1645. he says

  1646. be devoted

  1647. to one

  1648. another

  1649. and honor

  1650. one another

  1651. above yourselves

  1652. another translation

  1653. says love

  1654. one another

  1655. with mutual

  1656. affection

  1657. and outdo

  1658. one another

  1659. in showing

  1660. honor

  1661. you see the

  1662. father's not

  1663. only seeking

  1664. to reconcile

  1665. his sons

  1666. to himself

  1667. but what he

  1668. wants to do

  1669. is reconcile

  1670. his sinful

  1671. kids

  1672. with each

  1673. other

  1674. and the

  1675. question of

  1676. this parable

  1677. is will

  1678. this family

  1679. of the

  1680. father

  1681. be reunited

  1682. in love?

  1683. Will this

  1684. family of the

  1685. father live

  1686. together in

  1687. unity

  1688. and joy

  1689. and peace?

  1690. Will we

  1691. as the people

  1692. of God

  1693. learn how to

  1694. live happily

  1695. ever after

  1696. given all

  1697. that God

  1698. has done

  1699. to make

  1700. that possible?

  1701. So I want

  1702. you to think

  1703. about that

  1704. as we come

  1705. to this table

  1706. in the name

  1707. of the father

  1708. son and

  1709. holy spirit

  1710. amen