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Love Unfailing and Unshakable
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Good morning.
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My name is Denise Yan.
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I'm part of the San Francisco Community Group and Women Reading Women.
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Today's scripture reading is from the book of Isaiah, chapter 54, verses 1-10, as printed
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in your liturgy.
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Sing, barren women, you who never bore a child.
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Burst into song, shout for joy, you who were never in labor, because more are the children
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of the desolate woman than of her who has a husband, says the Lord.
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Enlarge the place of your tent.
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Stretch your tent curtains wide.
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Do not hold back.
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Lengthen your cords.
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Strengthen your stakes.
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For you will spread out to the right and to the left.
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Your descendants will dispossess nations and settle in their desolate cities.
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Do not be afraid.
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You will not be put to shame.
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Do not fear disgrace.
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You will not be humiliated.
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You will forget the shame of your youth and remember no more the reproach of your widowhood.
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For your maker is your husband.
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The Lord Almighty is his name.
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The Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer.
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He is called the God of all the earth.
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The Lord will call you back as if you were a wife deserted and distressed in spirit.
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A wife who married young, only to be rejected, says your God.
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For a brief moment I abandon you, but with deep compassion I will bring you back.
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In a surge of anger I hid my face from you for a moment, but with everlasting kindness
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I will have compassion on you, says the Lord, your Redeemer.
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To me, this is like the days of Noah, when I swore that the waters of Noah would never
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again cover the earth.
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So now I have sworn not to be angry with you, never to rebuke you again.
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Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will
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not be shaken, nor my covenant of peace be removed, says the Lord, who has compassion
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on you.
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The grass withers and the flowers fade, but the word of our God stands forever.
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Thank you, Denise.
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Good morning.
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It's the fourth Sunday of Advent, our last Sunday that we're going to be in the prophet
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Isaiah, so I'm looking forward to opening up God's word with you.
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Let's go to him in prayer.
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Speak, Lord, in ways that inspire us, in ways that convict us of sin, and most importantly
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in ways that lift our eyes up to your Son, Jesus Christ, the Savior of the world, who came
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and who's coming again.
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Set our hearts on him.
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Let us behold him as the love of God given to us at Christmas.
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In his name we pray, amen.
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So just this past week, my two daughters got these like holiday goodie bags, and in the
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goodie bags were these cute little like maybe like toenail-sized polar bears, little figurines.
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And each of them got two, so we had four in total.
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And my younger daughter, Leah, as soon as she saw these little polar bears, she decided that
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these would be like the perfect Christmas gift for her kindergarten buddies.
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And we were so proud of her for thinking of others, being willing to part with these polar
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bears for the sake of her friends.
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But there was one small problem.
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Leah has three besties, but she only had two polar bears.
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So we all turned to Cammie, our first grader, you know, hoping she'd be mature, hoping she'd
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do the math, be loving, be willing to give up just one of her polar bears so that Leah
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could give three away.
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And so we asked Cammie, hey, JJ, that means big sister in Chinese, can Leah have one of
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yours so she can give gifts to all three of her friends?
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And man, this could have been such a beautiful Christ-like moment, right?
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Both of our girls sacrificing for the sake of others, giving three polar bears away and
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sharing that one in our peaceful household, loving each other as sisters and good little
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pastor's kids.
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But of course, that's not what happened.
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Cammie was like, no, I want it.
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And listen, this is not a story about which daughter I love more or about how frustratingly
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selfish a pastor's kid can be.
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No, this is the story of a pastor and a parent in process.
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Me thinking through, okay, how am I going to play this?
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Because the pastor in me, the biblical counselor in me was like, man, I'm so sad about this
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selfishness I see in my daughter.
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I'm so disappointed.
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And I kind of want to call her out on this right now because she needs to know that selfishness
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is like everything that's wrong with the world.
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And I don't want to guilt or shame her into giving and loving others, but I do want her
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to have an aversion to the selfishness in her heart.
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I want her to hate selfishness and to practice putting it to death in her life.
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It's not the way of Jesus.
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It's not the way of the Holy Spirit.
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It's not something that honors God, and it's definitely not God's best for her.
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And then on top of those thoughts, you know, as a millennial parent, I put on my Dr. Becky
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hat, and I thought to myself, okay, how can I help Cammie in this moment get in touch with
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her good inside, right?
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How can I compassionately, calmly help Cammie think rationally about this?
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It's like maybe, hey, I know you love these polar bears, and they are super cute, but you'll
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still have one.
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Do you really need two?
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And wouldn't you want someone else to share with you?
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Think of how it will make Leah feel.
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Think of how it will make her friends feel.
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Don't you want to spread some kindness and generosity into the world?
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What an opportunity to be a big girl.
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So me and Chels, we just like looked at each other like, hmm, how are we going to play this?
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And we did our best.
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I tried to reason with her and psychologize her into giving just like Dr. Becky would,
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but it didn't work.
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Then I also talked to her about selfishness, and I played the Jesus card, right, about how
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unselfish he was.
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But no, she wouldn't budge.
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And you know, ultimately, we weren't going to force her to give up the polar bear.
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It really was hers.
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It was her choice to make, right?
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You can't force generosity.
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You can't force someone to be loving and sacrificial, right?
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So that night, as I tucked her in, kissed her on the forehead, I left my girl's room thinking
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about this as a parent and as a pastor.
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How is it that people like my daughter, people like all of us, this congregation, how is it
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that people are shaped into people of love?
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How can we help people to a point where their desire to give outweighs the fear of loss?
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Today's the fourth Sunday of Advent, and when we lit that fourth candle this morning, we
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were lighting what's called the love candle.
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We've been moving through Advent from hope to peace to joy, and now we come to love.
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Because that's what hope, peace, and joy inspire in God's people, love.
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And not like love as mere holiday sentiment, like fleeting feelings.
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Not love as obligation, like, you know, buying that Christmas present for certain people, you
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know, that certain person that you just kind of, you buy it for them because it'd feel awkward
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not to.
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No.
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We're talking about real love.
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God's love as the deepest and most anchoring reality in which God wants to form His people.
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Now, the passage today, Isaiah chapter 54 that we're looking at, what this is, is it's
Isaiah 54 chapter mention
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a prophetic call, it's a prophetic vision, it's a prophetic invitation and voice.
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It's Isaiah's voice speaking on behalf of God to God's people, calling them, inviting
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them, imploring them, really, to respond to the greatest thing that God has ever done,
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the greatest image and display of God's love in all of history.
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And we see that actually in the chapter right before, in Isaiah chapter 53, the famous prophetic
Isaiah 53 chapter mention
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image of the suffering servant who had come to save God's people, even after God's people
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had rebelled and chosen infidelity again and again and again.
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Even after they failed to be the servants of God that they were meant to be, Isaiah 53
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is about how God was still resolved to love them and to send forth another servant to bear
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their pain and suffering, to take upon Himself their punishments, their afflictions, to be
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pierced for their transgressions, crushed for their sins, to bear their sins, the sins
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of the lost sheep of Israel, and to be crushed as a substitute lamb, to be wounded in their place
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that they might be healed.
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And yet somehow, at the end of Isaiah 53, you have this suffering, murdered servant
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of God.
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In the last two verses, though, of Isaiah 53, it says that after he suffered, he will see
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the light of life and be satisfied.
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He will justify many.
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Therefore, I will give him a portion among the great, and he will divide the spoils because
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he poured out his life unto death.
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And this is where our text picks up.
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Isaiah 54, in response to this incredible act of God where he saves his people, not by simply
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conquering their enemies, but by sending a servant to suffer in their place for all the
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ways that they'd become their own worst enemies and even enemies of God.
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Isaiah 54 is a prophetic invitation to God's people to behold and respond to this servant who
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was slain for their sins and yet somehow raised to greatness as a blessing for many, countless
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multitudes of undeserving beneficiaries.
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Isaiah 54 calls God's people to respond to this incredible act of sacrificial love and bounty.
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It gives us a picture, a vision of what it looks like to be astounded by the love of God
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in such a way that, like, transforms us and transforms our lives to live radical lives of love as well.
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So let's turn our attention to this poetic image from Isaiah 54 here starting in verse 1.
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Now, I want you to notice in verse 1 that the very first thing that the prophetic voice basically
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calls out and commands the people to, in response to the love of God, it isn't try harder or like,
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oh man, you really owe God, you guys, so you better go do something hard, do something costly for him.
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No, it's just sing.
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Verse 1, sing.
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See, God's love doesn't just call for like cognitive understanding and agreement from our heads or even
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active busyness and productivity from our hands.
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No, most importantly, it calls for a full and overflowing heart.
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It calls for a singing soul, a response so deep that it's just reflexive and uncontainable.
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Singing is what happens when God's love is not just understood or agreed upon but felt.
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And this is why Christians sing.
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This is why we sing every single Sunday.
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It's so integral to our worship.
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It's an incredibly important spiritual discipline for God's people as we are being formed as people
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of love.
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It's not that, you know, thing that we do here to stall so you can make it to church in time
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to at least hear the sermon, all right?
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Singing isn't that expendable portion of Christian worship.
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No, it's essential to our formation, not just as Christians but as human beings.
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And maybe this sounds weird for some of us because our, you know, contemporary Western culture,
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in this culture, you know, adults rarely sing, right?
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Especially not together, singings largely shifted from being a communal, heartfelt, cultural expression
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of the things that most move us to just something performed by entertainment professionals for
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the rest of us to consume.
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Think of that scene from Elf, my all-time favorite movie, all right?
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Will Ferrell's The Man.
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Not thus saith the Lord, but I do like him a lot.
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Think of that scene, though, where Buddy first shows up to his dad's office in the Empire
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State Building, right?
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Remember, he shows up for the first time and his dad's just, like, expecting a performance
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from him.
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Like, maybe throw his name into Jingle Bells or something like that.
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And Buddy is put on the spot and so he sings, like, the most awkward and cringy song of the
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whole movie.
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It's like, I'm here with my dad and we've never met and he wants me to sing him a song,
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right?
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I love it.
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I love it.
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See, for Buddy, though, Buddy has lived his whole life.
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In his whole life, he's been singing communally with the full-throated Christmas spirit along
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with Santa and all the elves in the North Pole.
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But now in this New York office, with Christmas cheer at an all-time low, Buddy's dad, who actually
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used to love making music back in the days when he was young and in love, now Buddy's
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dad only sees music as a trivial commodity.
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Even after his change of heart toward Buddy, and even after he becomes a believer in Santa,
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we see that he's still too embarrassed to sing in public with his fellow New Yorkers.
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And his refusal to sing actually threatens to ruin Christmas for the entire world.
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But then, eventually what happens?
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It's when he finally raises his voice with all of New York City, that's when Christmas is saved.
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And that's the moment when we're finally convinced that he's been saved, that his heart's been
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transformed by like a newfound love.
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When he finally bursts into song, that's when we know.
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That's when he comes alive and becomes the best, most human, most natural and endearing version
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of himself, with the movie ending with him like leisurely, beautifully, and soulfully making music
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with his family by the Christmas tree, right?
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And this is what Isaiah is getting at.
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This is what he has in mind for the love-soaked, love-transformed people of God
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when he implores them to sing in response to what God has so lovingly done for them.
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Singing is what God's people do.
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It's the natural expression of those who've been astounded by the love of God.
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But what's also intriguing about this passage is not just that it starts with a command
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to sing, but also who it tells to sing.
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Sing, barren woman, you who never bore a child.
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Burst in a song, shout for joy, you who were never in labor.
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Here God's people are being personified by a barren woman.
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And not just a barren woman who never gave birth, but also a desolate woman.
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You could translate that as an appalling, deserted, desolate woman.
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And remember, being barren, unwanted, and deserted in this culture would have been like the greatest
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possible disappointment and shame in this society.
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To not be wanted, to not have a family and bear offspring in that day, to be seen as undesirable
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and unproductive.
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No woman would ever write that story for herself.
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And this is what happened.
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This is what had happened to Israel.
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Israel found herself diminished and undone, exiled, and tossed to and fro by the powers
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that be far from the flourishing vineyard that God meant for her to be.
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And yet, because of the great love with which God loved her, this barren and deserted woman
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is invited here to sing, burst into song, shout for joy.
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Not because God was going to finally make her fertile all of a sudden.
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Look, it says, shout for joy, you who were never in labor.
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So somehow, just as the suffering servant somehow ended up seeing the light of life, God was going
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to make this woman, He was going to make this barren woman fruitful without making her fertile.
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Shout for joy, you who were never in labor, because more are the children of the desolate
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woman than of her who has a husband.
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Somehow, this barren, desolate woman is going to have more children than the ancient trad wife.
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All right?
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And in light of this, this barren woman is being called by God not only to sing with joy about
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what He's going to do, but to live and to make plans in light of all the children, all the
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descendants shall eventually have in the future.
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Verse 2, enlarge the place of your tent, stretch out your tent curtains wide, do not hold back,
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lengthen your cords, strengthen your stakes.
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Basically, build a bigger house.
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Do the work of planning for God's abundance.
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Start now.
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Make room for all that God wants to do in your life, all that God wants to give you beyond
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what you could ever imagine.
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Verse 3, for you will spread out to the right and to the left.
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Your descendants will even dispossess nations and settle in their desolate cities.
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He's saying, you are going to have a victorious, sprawling offspring across the whole earth.
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What Isaiah 54 is saying to God's people is that no matter how barren we may feel, no matter
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how desolate, appalling, deserted, no matter how much scarcity and limitation we face, God's
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always got a better plan and future for us because of His suffering and risen servant.
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And not only are we encouraged to sing of that great comfort and hope, but even today, even
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before we see the fulfillment of the promise, we are called to enlarge our tents, to live
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into God's future now as though it's already arrived.
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We're called to make room, make space now for God's abundance in our lives.
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And listen, I'm not preaching the prosperity gospel here.
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Actually, that God is saying these things to the barren and desolate woman, that somehow
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she'll have more children than the woman with the husband, even though never going into labor,
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that's actually proof that God's not promising the barren woman here the storyline she would
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have chosen or written for herself.
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No, He's promising her a fruitfulness she never could have conceived or engineered, a better
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story than the one she'd ever have written for herself.
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When God says, enlarge your tent, make room for my abundance in your life, He's not saying,
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all right, start maxing out those credit cards, set yourself up for that dream life.
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No, He's saying, prepare yourself for my perfect and better future for you, my better plan for
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you.
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We talked about this on the first Sunday Advent, that this God, He's a God of hope, right,
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which means that He is a God of surprises, the ultimate author of our lives who orchestrates
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fruitfulness out of our perceived barrenness in ways that, like, defy our limited imaginations.
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So the application question is, are we willing to accept this?
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God's better plans to make us fruitful His way, even without making us fertile in the way
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maybe we initially hoped.
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You know, all the way back in 1916, there were these two African-American girls.
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They were 15 years old, and they had been going through a Bible study with this young German-American
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woman named Lillian Crager, and eventually they became Christians.
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They converted to Christianity.
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Now, Lillian belonged to a church in Midtown Manhattan.
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And so the two girls, they were willing to commute from Harlem down to Midtown Manhattan.
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They just wanted to be part of the church that Lillian belonged to, so they sought membership
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there.
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But because of the color of their skin, these two girls were denied membership.
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So what these girls did was they asked Lillian, well, would you be willing to come up to Harlem
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to continue leading us in Bible study so we could learn more, so we could reach more of our
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friends here in Harlem?
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And that's what Lillian did.
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She went up to Harlem every week, and she led a Bible study for them.
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She commuted uptown to Harlem, away from her family, right?
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But the thing was, Lillian's family was very displeased with this.
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They ostracized her and how she was mixing with colored people, and not just her, like,
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immediate household, but she was actually also engaged.
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So her fiancé, he threatened to call off the wedding if she continued her ministry in Harlem.
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So as you could imagine, Lillian agonized over this, the sense of calling to these girls
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in Harlem, and yet also her good, her good natural desire to be married, to become a mom,
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to start a family.
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But as the story goes in Lillian Crager's inner conflict, God spoke a clear word to her,
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and she came upon this very text that we're looking at this morning, Isaiah 54,
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more are the children of the desolate woman than of her who has a husband.
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And that was it for her.
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She chose the 15-year-old converts from Harlem over her family, over her fiancé, over the future
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she thought she was about to have.
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And it cost her dearly.
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But within a year, there was a group of 12 Christians now in Harlem gathered as a result
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of her Bible studies.
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They launched a church called Bethel Gospel Assembly.
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And in this church, Bethel Gospel Assembly, Lillian Crager soon became known as Mother Crager.
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And this church eventually blew up to 1,200 members.
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See, Lillian Crager could have settled down with a nice home, a nice nuclear family in
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midtown Manhattan, but instead she chose to enlarge her tent.
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She chose to live into the future more than into the present.
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Instead of living into the German-American dream of 1916 with maybe like five kids in a
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four-bedroom apartment, she chose to live into the new creation future.
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As a citizen of the kingdom of heaven where her family consisted of people from every nation,
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tribe, and tongue, of every skin color and culture.
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That's what people do when they are secure in the love of God.
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They love without abandon, even at great cost, because they are no longer afraid of what they
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might lose.
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And that brings us to verse four where the prophet has more to say about how to respond to the
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sacrificial love of God.
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He says, sing, barren woman, enlarge your tent.
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And then here in verse four, he says, do not be afraid.
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You will not be put to shame.
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Do not fear disgrace.
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You will not be humiliated.
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You will forget the shame of your youth and remember no more the reproach of your widowhood.
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See, barrenness isn't our only problem.
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For many of us, we don't just feel barren and empty and infertile, but also, and maybe worse,
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we feel ashamed, disgraced, disqualified, and fearful of God's wrath.
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Because we know we've fallen short.
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There's no mistake about it.
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Israel had fallen far, far short of God's standards.
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We know all the ways that we've screwed up and failed to live up to even just our own
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standards, let alone God's standards.
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And so it makes sense to us that God would be angry, that we've forfeited a peaceful and
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loving relationship with our Creator because of all the pollution that we've introduced
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into His creation.
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All the words we've spoken that we wish we could unsay.
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All the relationships we've damaged, left unrepaired, and have to kind of anxiously navigate,
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especially during the holiday season.
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All the patterns we promised ourselves and we promised God that we would give up, that
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we were done with, but that actually linger in our lives.
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This is what the Bible calls sin, unrighteousness, unfaithfulness.
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And we all have a ton of it on our records, just as the people of Israel, who God did angrily
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abandon and hide His face from.
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As it says here in verse 7, God admits, I did abandon you, I did hide my face from you
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because sin is real, and God is right and righteous to be angry with sin and to forsake
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the unfaithful.
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So this record of sin, it actually makes us all wonder, right?
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Not just whether God can bring a brighter future out of our barren circumstances, but
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also whether our past has put us beyond the reach of God's love for us.
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And it's to this sensible feeling of shame, disgrace, and fear that God speaks to us through
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the prophet.
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Not with denial, not with the minimization of our flaws, but with the promise.
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Do not be afraid.
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You will not be put to shame.
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How?
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Why not?
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Verse 5, for your maker is your husband.
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This isn't don't be afraid because what you did isn't that bad.
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You'll do better next time.
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No, this is do not be afraid because of who I am to you and for you.
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I'm your maker.
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The one who knit you in your mother's womb, brought you into existence.
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The one who knows you inside and out, up and down.
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And the one who didn't just have the power to create you, but the one who also still has
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the power to recreate you.
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And I've chosen to be more than a maker to you.
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I've chosen to bind myself to you in love.
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As a husband, to a wife, the Lord Almighty, literally the Lord of hosts.
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All the hosts of heaven are at my disposal.
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I'm more powerful than you could ever imagine.
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And I choose you.
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I'm committed to you always and forever.
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And not only is your maker your husband, but the holy one, it says.
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The one of a kind.
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Holy, holy, holy.
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Standard of purity himself.
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The holy one is also your redeemer.
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The one who claims you as his own.
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Takes responsibility for you.
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Purchases you at a cost and publicly declares your worth.
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The God of all the earth, it says here.
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The one to whom all creation belongs.
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He says, I am still willing to pay for you in addition to all that I already have.
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Your maker is your husband.
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And the holy one is your redeemer.
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This isn't just abstract, like theological God language.
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This is personal.
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This is I am yours and you are mine forever.
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Forever.
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This is God saying, I will have you.
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I will cover you.
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I will bind my future to yours.
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This is what God says to his people.
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You are worth redeeming to me.
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You are worth loving to me.
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And I wonder if that's the word you need to hear this morning.
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Maybe something you've heard before, but something you need to hear fresh.
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That God loves you.
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God loves you.
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You, the holy one, the maker.
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He's willing to pay the price, bear the cost for you, to redeem you.
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You, us, poor, wretched, barren, and bumbling, sinful, rebellious, unfaithful, ungrateful, us.
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This is the gospel.
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This is the good news of Christianity.
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That God loves you.
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This is the news that inspires our songs and our courage to live in love no matter the cost.
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The news that casts out all fear, erases all shame.
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This is the God of the Bible.
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A God who does not wait for you to find your way home, but calls, pursues, initiates.
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Can you hear his voice to you this morning?
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God loves you.
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Even if you feel far from him.
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You haven't been in his presence in quite a while.
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Verse 6 says,
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That's what he's focused on.
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That's what he wants, to show you that he loves you.
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He will ever and always be calling back to himself the ones that he loves at great cost,
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at cost of energy and patience, at great emotional cost.
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But he's your redeemer.
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He's willing to spend it on you.
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Even after you've gone after other lovers,
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even in your barrenness and undesirability,
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he runs toward the rejected.
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He's a God whose compassion runs deeper than his dismay.
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Verse 7,
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For a brief moment, I did abandon you, he says,
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but with deep compassion, I will bring you back.
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Likewise, verse 8,
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In a surge, in a quick outburst of anger or wrath,
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I did hide my face from you briefly.
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For a moment, he says,
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But with everlasting kindness, I will have compassion on you, says the Lord, your Redeemer.
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Do you see the contrast here in verses 7 and 8?
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Do you see the asymmetry between his real anger, absence, and judgment,
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and his massively outsized love?
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Abandonment for a brief moment,
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but deep, deeper compassion that brings you back.
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A surge of wrath, a moment of hiding his face,
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but everlasting kindness and love.
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The glory of the gospel is that God's wrath is real, but it's not ultimate.
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His compassion is greater, his love lasts longer, and his commitment runs deeper.
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And I wonder, do you know that kind of love?
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This love unfailing and unshakable that can survive our barrenness,
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at last our rebellion, overwhelm our shame.
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If we want to be who God made us to be,
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if we want to be people of love,
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if we want this kind of radical, self-giving, sacrificial love to flow from us,
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if that is how we want to show up in this broken world,
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where selfishness far outweighs our selflessness,
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we have to be captured, we have to be captivated by this amazing love of God,
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the absolutely unique love of God that was lavished upon us
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when Jesus Christ, the suffering servant, bore our sins,
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took on himself the punishment our sins deserved,
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and brought us healing by his wounds.
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This is the only way we will ever be formed into people of love.
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You know, recently I sat down with a pastor
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that we just wanted to get to know each other,
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and this pastor, he basically lived like my worst nightmare.
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And honestly, in more ways than one,
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but one of the ways was that his wife had an affair.
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She cheated on him.
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And from what I could tell, man, this pastor did everything right.
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He loved his wife.
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They actually had a great relationship.
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It wasn't like he fell into any of the normal traps
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that you hear all these other pastors falling into.
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No, this was a man who kept God first.
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He devoted himself to prayer and fasting.
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He was loved by his people.
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In fact, his people still miss him as their pastor.
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This church that he planted, right, 15 years ago,
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he invested 15 years of his life in this church.
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But ultimately, long story short, this pastor's wife's infidelity
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cost him his job.
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It nearly broke his family.
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It buried him in questions of shame, like,
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was I not enough for her?
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And what does this say about me as a pastor?
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He had all the potential to break him,
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all the potential to silence his singing,
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push him into self-protection mode,
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and let him waste away in shame.
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But the pastor I met was not a man
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wallowing in self-pity or victimhood.
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Yes, he's got scars, but he held his head high,
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and he's forgiven his wife,
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and they're still together three years later.
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He speaks no ill of her.
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In fact, he remains her greatest defender and supporter.
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He's still able to celebrate who she is,
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who she's becoming.
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In fact, he told me that their marriage today,
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three years after the incident, after the affair,
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is better than it's ever been.
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And I was just blown away to hear this.
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And then you know what he said to me?
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He said to me,
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there is absolutely no way I could have survived any of this.
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No way I could have forgiven her.
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No way my family could have weathered this.
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Apart from the gospel.
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Apart from the cross.
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Apart from knowing, trusting, and wanting to live out
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what Jesus has done for me.
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Can you imagine if the world was filled
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with this kind of love?
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These kinds of loving people.
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So secure in the love of Christ
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that we could love anyone in any circumstance
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because of Christ's steadfast love for us.
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See, this kind of love,
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it doesn't come from personality or willpower
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or wishful optimism.
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It doesn't make sense.
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It doesn't make sense unless,
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unless the love of Christ is real and true
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and at work in us.
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It doesn't make sense unless we are sure
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that justice has been paid
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and every repentant sin covered
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and atoned for by the blood of Jesus Christ.
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Yet this is exactly the kind of love
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that the world needs.
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This is what each of us desperately needs.
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The security of the love of God
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so secure we can sing in any circumstance,
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so secure we can even enlarge our tense
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in anticipation of God's promises,
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so secure that our shame and disgrace,
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are overshadowed by His compassionate pursuit of us.
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It's not a love that overlooks our sin,
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but a love that overcomes our sin
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by the sacrificial work of Christ.
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Look at verse nine.
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God says here, yeah, your sins are bad.
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So bad I could and should have blot you out for them.
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To me, this is just like the days of Noah.
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Your sins are that bad.
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They demand a cosmic flood.
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But again, the beauty of the gospel
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is that God is more committed to saving
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than slaughtering.
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And He is far better at saving
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than even we are at sinning.
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So just like He swore in mercy
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that the waters of Noah would never again cover the earth,
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He says here,
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so now I have sworn not to be angry.
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You can translate,
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not to be wrathful with you,
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never to rebuke you again.
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And this is just incredible.
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Basically, God is comparing His love for you
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to one of the most solemn and solid oaths
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He has ever made in human history.
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And then He says something even stronger in verse 10.
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Though the immovable mountains be shaken
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and the steadfast hills be removed,
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yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken,
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nor my covenant of peace be removed.
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Can you think of a greater oath,
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a more trustworthy promise,
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a firmer foundation?
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God doesn't swear by something greater than Himself
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because there is nothing greater.
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He is the Lord.
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He is Yahweh the I Am.
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And I love how it's put in Hebrews,
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in the Hebrew here in verse 10 where He says,
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again,
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though the mountains be shaken
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and the hills be removed,
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yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken,
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nor my covenant of peace be removed,
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says,
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and literally in the Hebrew,
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says,
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the compassion toward you,
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Lord.
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That's how it reads here,
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literally in the Hebrew.
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Not just says the Lord,
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says the compassion toward you,
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Lord.
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Like all He ever had to be
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was the Lord,
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Yahweh,
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but out of love,
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out of sacrificial,
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unfailing,
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and unshakable love.
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He has committed Himself
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to not just being the Lord,
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but the compassion toward you,
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Lord.
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By entering into this oath and covenant,
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He has literally taken on an identity
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that has you,
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that includes you in who He is.
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And He hasn't just sworn a covenant of love
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and peace with us,
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but He's proven it in Christ.
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His love is sworn,
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and His Son's been slain.
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So how could we not live
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in the unfailing,
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unshakable love of God,
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singing even in our barrenness,
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enlarging our tents
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according to God's future perfect promises,
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being honest about our sin,
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and yet without descending into fear or shame,
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but rather pouring ourselves out in love
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because God's love for us
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has been sworn,
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proven,
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and can never be taken from us.
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See,
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this,
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this is what happens
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when people are shaped
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and transformed
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into people of love.
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God's love frees us
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to give our polar bears away.
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It's a love unfailing and unshakable.
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So this Advent,
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this Christmas,
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let's spend ourselves freely
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because this love we did not earn
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is also love we cannot lose.
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Let's pray.
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Let's pray.
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Oh Lord,
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we love the gospel.
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It is good news
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that you've loved us
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not because of anything in us,
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but as you said to your people of old,
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you just loved us
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because you loved us
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because you loved us.
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It's all about who you are
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and not who we are.
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But in that,
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Lord,
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you've given us worth.
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You've given us an identity.
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And just as we did not earn it,
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oh Lord,
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we celebrate that we cannot lose it,
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your love toward us.
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So let us live out of it,
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Lord,
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as sacrificial people,
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as the body of Christ,
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as those who see
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and believe
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that what he's done
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is the most beautiful thing
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in all of history,
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as those who want to share
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his good news
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and shine his light
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and bring his hope,
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bring his hope to the world,
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God.
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Would you do that in us
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by your spirit,
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by your word,
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we pray
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in Jesus' name.
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Amen.