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The Grieving Sisters

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  4. Good morning. I am Maddie Duhon and I'm part of Women Reading Women.

  5. Today's scripture reading is from the Gospel of John, chapter 11, verses 1-6 and 17-46 as printed in your liturgy.

    John 11:1–6

  6. A reading from the Gospel according to John.

  7. Now a man named Lazarus was sick.

  8. He was from Bethany, the village of Mary, and her sister Martha.

  9. This Mary, whose brother Lazarus now lay sick, was the same one who poured perfume on the Lord and wiped his feet with her hair.

  10. So the sisters sent word to Jesus,

  11. Lord, the one you love is sick.

  12. When he heard this, Jesus said,

  13. This sickness will not end in death.

  14. No, it is for God's glory so that God's Son may be glorified through it.

  15. Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus.

  16. So when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was two more days.

  17. On his arrival, Jesus found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb for four days.

  18. Now Bethany was less than two miles from Jerusalem,

  19. and many Jews had come to Martha and Mary to comfort them in the loss of their brother.

  20. When Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went out to meet him, but Mary stayed at home.

  21. Lord, Martha said to Jesus,

  22. If you had been here, my brother would not have died.

  23. But I know that even now, God will give you whatever you ask.

  24. Jesus said to her,

  25. Your brother will rise again.

  26. Martha answered,

  27. I know he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day.

  28. Jesus said to her,

  29. I am the resurrection and the life.

  30. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die.

  31. And whoever lives by believing in me will never die.

  32. Do you believe this?

  33. Yes, Lord, she replied.

  34. I believe that you are the Messiah, the Son of God, who is to come into the world.

  35. After she had said this, she went back and called her sister Mary aside.

  36. The teacher is here, she said, and is asking for you.

  37. When Mary heard this, she got up quickly and went to him.

  38. Now Jesus had not yet entered the village, but was still at the place where Martha had met him.

  39. When the Jews who had been with Mary in the house comforting her noticed how quickly she got up and went out,

  40. they followed her, supposing she was going to the tomb to mourn there.

  41. When Mary reached the place where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet and said,

  42. Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.

  43. When Jesus saw her weeping and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping,

  44. he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled.

  45. Where have you laid him?

  46. He asked.

  47. Come and see, Lord, they replied.

  48. Jesus wept.

  49. Then the Jews said, see how he loved him.

  50. But some of them said, could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man have kept this man from dying?

  51. Jesus, once more deeply moved, came to the tomb.

  52. It was a cave with a stone laid across the entrance.

  53. Take away the stone, he said.

  54. But Lord, said Martha, the sister of the dead man, by this time there is a bad odor, for he has been there four days.

  55. Then Jesus said, did I not tell you that if you believe you will see the glory of God?

  56. So they took away the stone.

  57. Then Jesus looked up and said, Father, I thank you that you have heard me.

  58. I knew that you always hear me, but I said this for the benefit of the people standing here, that they may believe that you sent me.

  59. When he had said this, Jesus called in a loud voice, Lazarus, come out.

  60. The dead man came out, his hands and feet wrapped with strips of linen and a cloth around his face.

  61. Jesus said to them, take off the grayed clothes and let him go.

  62. Therefore, many of the Jews who had come to visit Mary and had seen what Jesus did, believed in him.

  63. But some of them went to the Pharisees and told them what Jesus had done.

  64. This is the gospel of the Lord.

  65. Praise to you, Lord Christ.

  66. Thanks, Maddie.

  67. Let's pray.

  68. We pray that your spirit would fall upon us and go forth in the preaching of your word to both confront us and to also comfort us.

  69. We thank you that's what your word does.

  70. We thank you that's what your son does.

  71. And we want to encounter him this morning in the preaching of your word.

  72. So be with us, oh God.

  73. In Jesus' name.

  74. Amen.

  75. Amen.

  76. Amen.

  77. All right.

  78. So I can't believe it's already mid-February.

  79. But in case any of you were wondering, one of my focuses in this new year has been on the concept of time.

  80. I've shared that with some of you, but for the rest of you, that's what I've been trying to work on, my understanding of time personally, theologically.

  81. But more importantly, I'm trying to work out my relationship to time.

  82. You know, living in the bustle of the Bay Area, trying to keep up, you know, trying to grow, trying to hit my KPIs.

  83. And now in the age of AI, where I can get even more done and even less time, I'm thinking about time all the time.

  84. I feel its pressure throughout each day, the weight of my responsibility to manage and steward it well.

  85. And candidly, this shows up in my relationships as well.

  86. Chelsea would tell you her most common criticism of me, and there are many, but her most common criticism of me is how stingy I am with my time and how I like, in her opinion, I pompously act like my time is more valuable than anyone else's.

  87. And then as a dad, too, I'm constantly conflicted about how much time to give to my girls, and especially, you know, in busy seasons, which is pretty much like every season, there are few things that trigger me more than when I feel like my time is being wasted.

  88. So all this is to say that time has been a huge theme for me this year.

  89. I just finished this older book by this theologian, Kosuke Koyama, called The Three Mile-An-Hour God.

  90. I'm also going through this book right now by Oliver Berkman.

  91. It's Wrecking Me.

  92. It's called 4,000 Weeks.

  93. Highly recommend it.

  94. But basically, starting from January 1, I've really been trying to submit my sense of time to the Lord, to embrace my limits, to ask God what it means to be human, what it means to be me.

  95. And to seek the Holy Spirit's guidance on how to use my time, not just for the kingdom of God, but how to inhabit time as a beloved child of God in unhurried communion with my Father in heaven.

  96. And I share all of this, not to get overly autobiographical, but because when I came to John 11, I couldn't help but read it through the lens of time.

  97. Look at our passage.

  98. Jesus gets an urgent message in verse 3.

  99. Lord, the one you love is sick.

  100. But then John tells us something shocking in verse 6.

  101. So, or in the Greek, therefore, when he heard Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was two more days.

  102. Like, because he loved them, he delayed.

  103. Then verse 17, when Jesus arrives, Lazarus has already been dead in the tomb four days.

  104. And so the first words out of Martha and Mary's mouths in verses 21 and 32 are,

  105. Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.

  106. It's almost like they're saying, Lord, if you had been on time.

  107. And the community shares the sentiment in verse 37.

  108. Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man have kept this man from dying?

  109. It's like there was faith in Jesus as a healer so long as he arrived on time.

  110. But now, it's too late.

  111. Don't take away that stone, Lord, Martha says.

  112. It stinketh, right?

  113. It's been too long.

  114. All that's left is the stench of death.

  115. It's too late.

  116. Does that sentiment feel familiar to you?

  117. That feeling that it's just too late, too late for the best case scenario, too late for a happy ending?

  118. Do you carry regret or maybe even resentment over missed chances, opportunities lost, doors that feel permanently closed?

  119. Do you carry grief in your mind, your heart, even your body, grief over something precious that is gone and that cannot be brought back?

  120. Maybe you feel this financially.

  121. You feel behind, unsure how you're going to recover.

  122. Maybe you feel like you chose the wrong career path, the wrong major, the wrong spouse, even.

  123. Maybe you feel like you've damaged a friendship, your marriage, some other relationship in your family.

  124. Maybe you were, you screwed up your kids forever.

  125. Or maybe you feel like you've been deprived of the resources and the love and the support and the opportunities.

  126. You feel you needed to get standing on your own two feet, but now it's too late to go back.

  127. And you resent that you cannot turn back the clock.

  128. In one way or another, I think many of us live with this quiet narrative, it's just too late.

  129. And this shapes how we live more than we realize.

  130. Like we stop expecting to thrive.

  131. We lower our hopes for joy and beauty and glory.

  132. We settle.

  133. We self-protect.

  134. We manage our expectations along with our resentments.

  135. And we medicate and therapize our guilt and regrets.

  136. But what if there's a different way to live?

  137. A way free from the bondage of guilt, regret, and despair over time that has run out?

  138. Well, God's word from John 11 this morning invites us to consider this.

  139. What if?

  140. What if Jesus is Lord even when time runs out?

  141. What if Jesus is Lord even when time seems to have run out?

  142. And more specifically, what if Jesus' delay is not at odds with His love, but actually a surprising, powerful expression of His love?

  143. Because that's another theme in this passage, not just time, but love.

  144. Verse 3, Lord, the one you love is sick.

  145. Verse 5, now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus.

  146. Verses 35 to 36, Jesus wept and they said, see how He loved Him.

  147. John is underlining Jesus' love.

  148. And yet we are hit by this confusing turn between verse 5 and verse 6.

  149. Jesus loved them, so therefore He stayed.

  150. That therefore should bother us.

  151. It certainly bothered Martha and Mary.

  152. It probably bothered the mourners because John is intentionally presenting Jesus as the one who loved them and therefore delayed.

  153. But how are we supposed to make sense of that?

  154. How can both be true?

  155. That Jesus loved them and therefore delayed.

  156. Isn't love quick to respond?

  157. Wouldn't love mean relief, rescue, immediate intervention?

  158. Isn't that how most of us intuitively envision love?

  159. If you love me and you can fix it, fix it now.

  160. If you care, show up ASAP.

  161. And you can sense that expectation in Martha, Mary, and the others here.

  162. Lord, the one you love is sick.

  163. Lord, if you had been here, you could even call this a kind of faith.

  164. They believed Jesus loved them.

  165. They believed He could heal.

  166. But they also believed that His love and His healing should fit in their own preferred timelines.

  167. They assumed that His love would look like urgency.

  168. But see, it's one thing to believe someone is powerful, even all powerful.

  169. And yet it's another thing to trust that person, to use that power wisely and lovingly and at just the right time.

  170. Any parent knows this tension, right?

  171. There are moments when rushing in to fix everything actually keeps a child from seeing something bigger.

  172. Love is not always the fastest, most immediate response.

  173. Sometimes love requires the wiser, slower, more big picture response, right?

  174. And what John begins to show us here is that Jesus is not only the Lord of love, not only the Lord of healing,

  175. but He's also the Lord of time.

  176. And the clue to all of this is something He says here in verse 4.

  177. Look at what He says when He heard the news of Lazarus' sickness.

  178. He says,

  179. This sickness will not end in death, no.

  180. It is for God's glory, so that God's Son may be glorified through it.

  181. Also in verse 15, which it hasn't been printed, He says to His disciples,

  182. For your sake I am glad I was not there, so that you may believe.

  183. And this is so key.

  184. Because see, what this means is that Jesus' primary purpose is not preventing pain,

  185. but revealing the glory of God.

  186. The whole point of God coming in the flesh is not to comfort us with,

  187. Your wish is my command, but to convince us that my glory is for your good.

  188. And this stretches us because many of us quietly believe, right?

  189. If Jesus loved me, this or that would be fixed now.

  190. If Jesus cared, I wouldn't still be waiting.

  191. If Jesus were good, this wouldn't take so long.

  192. Maybe you're here this morning and this is precisely why you don't believe in God.

  193. Because you feel like the good story that you would have written for your life

  194. or for the history of the world is so different

  195. than the story that you see being written out around you.

  196. And surely if there was a God, He would have written the story of your life

  197. and of the world the way you would have written it.

  198. But John 11 invites us to consider,

  199. what if Jesus is doing something bigger than immediate relief?

  200. What if His love is aiming not just at comfort, but at glory

  201. and a deeper faith and at showing us who He really is?

  202. And this is exactly what He does next, right?

  203. When Jesus finally arrives in verse 17.

  204. And it's been four days since Lazarus was buried.

  205. And when Martha comes out to meet Jesus and says to Him in verse 21,

  206. Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died,

  207. but I know that even now God will give you whatever you ask.

  208. You can hear both the faith and the frustration in her greeting.

  209. Faith that if Jesus was here earlier, Lazarus wouldn't have died.

  210. And then in verse 22, scholars debate whether she was expecting

  211. that Jesus might raise Lazarus again.

  212. Surely she had faith, just like every other Orthodox Jewish person,

  213. that at the last day, faithful Lazarus would be raised again.

  214. And you can sense a little bit of curiosity,

  215. a little bit of relief about what Jesus might do here in verse 22.

  216. But you also hear her say later, that it's basically too late.

  217. Don't remove the stone.

  218. We cannot escape the stench of death.

  219. So there's some kind of faith here, but it's a frustrated and a conflicted one.

  220. Like, I still trust you, Lord, but I don't get what you're doing.

  221. Maybe also, I don't understand why you didn't ask God to heal Lazarus from afar.

  222. You've done that before.

  223. And our Father, He gives you whatever you ask.

  224. You can tell that Martha is trying her best

  225. to make sense of all the truths that she believes.

  226. Yes, Jesus loves me.

  227. Yes, Jesus loves Lazarus.

  228. Yes, Jesus is able to heal.

  229. Yes, He is here now, and that's good.

  230. And this is the one whose prayers God always answers.

  231. And yes, I believe that my brother will be raised on the last day.

  232. She's trying to figure out how to hold all these doctrines

  233. in this moment of grief and sorrow.

  234. And so Jesus helps her out,

  235. but not by rationally explaining why He didn't come earlier,

  236. nor by making an excuse like,

  237. hey, look, He's been in the tomb four days now,

  238. and I only lingered for two days,

  239. which means that even if I left right away,

  240. I would have made it on time.

  241. Nor does Jesus feel the need to explain

  242. why He didn't just heal Lazarus from afar

  243. like we've seen Him do in other Gospels.

  244. No, He doesn't explain Himself

  245. so much as He reveals Himself.

  246. Look at what He says.

  247. Now notice what Jesus didn't say.

  248. He didn't say, I can give resurrection.

  249. He says, I am the resurrection.

  250. He doesn't say, I can provide life.

  251. He says, I am the life.

  252. See, Martha was looking for a solution,

  253. but Jesus offers Himself.

  254. She was hoping for a future event,

  255. but Jesus points to a present person.

  256. And while she believed in resurrection someday,

  257. eternal life later,

  258. Jesus says, resurrection is standing right in front of you.

  259. I am the resurrection and the life.

  260. And by the way, these are two related yet distinct things.

  261. Resurrection speaks to the future.

  262. Victory over death at the last day,

  263. and Martha already believed this,

  264. but life, life speaks to a present,

  265. forever and ongoing communion with the living God.

  266. Life now and always with God.

  267. Life that begins from the moment you know Him,

  268. and life that cannot be taken away from you.

  269. I love how this 19th century theologian put it.

  270. He wrote,

  271. See, Jesus isn't comforting her with later life,

  272. someday life.

  273. He's comforting her with abundant life,

  274. today and every day,

  275. not just bios life,

  276. zoe life.

  277. Because see, eternal life is not so much about the quantity,

  278. but it's about quality.

  279. It's less about length of time,

  280. more about relationship,

  281. knowing God.

  282. This is what Jesus says to Mary.

  283. He's revealing Himself to her.

  284. I am the resurrection and the life.

  285. By saying this,

  286. He's reframing so much of how Martha

  287. and so much of how most of us think about time

  288. and the fullness of life.

  289. See, Martha and Mary and everyone else assumed

  290. what Lazarus needed was more time, right?

  291. More time for Jesus to arrive,

  292. more time for healing.

  293. And if we're honest,

  294. we often think the same.

  295. We often think that our biggest problem

  296. is not enough time.

  297. We just need more time to fix things,

  298. more time to get our lives together.

  299. But if we're really honest,

  300. that assumption itself is a kind of privilege.

  301. It assumes time can save us.

  302. But think about how arrogant

  303. and how naive we've become

  304. to get to this point in history

  305. as comfortable, productive,

  306. high-achieving,

  307. technologically advanced,

  308. modern Westerners

  309. for whom time is really

  310. our only limiting factor, right?

  311. Just give AI enough time.

  312. It's going to solve

  313. all of our biotech issues and problems,

  314. cure cancer, right?

  315. Just Brian Johnson,

  316. he's going to figure out

  317. how to live forever.

  318. Just follow his routine, right?

  319. Elon's going to get us, right,

  320. to become an interplanetary species.

  321. So we can consume more

  322. even outside of planet Earth.

  323. But Jesus is saying here,

  324. time is not your Savior.

  325. I am.

  326. Because resurrection is not about

  327. having more time.

  328. Resurrection is about having Jesus.

  329. Eternal life isn't about

  330. stretching your timeline.

  331. Eternal and abundant life

  332. is about knowing God.

  333. So Jesus says,

  334. John 17, 3,

  335. eternal life is knowing

  336. the life-giving God.

  337. So what Jesus does next

  338. is he asks Martha,

  339. do you believe this?

  340. Verse 25,

  341. I am the resurrection

  342. and the life.

  343. The one who believes in me

  344. will live even though they die.

  345. And whoever lives by believing in me

  346. will never die.

  347. Do you believe this?

  348. Not do you understand this?

  349. Not can you explain this?

  350. But do you trust me?

  351. That I am who I am,

  352. the resurrection and the life.

  353. And this question,

  354. do you trust me,

  355. is not just for Martha,

  356. it's for all of us.

  357. Remember earlier,

  358. we saw that it's one thing

  359. to believe in Jesus' power,

  360. but another to trust

  361. his timing.

  362. Well, now Jesus brings it

  363. even closer.

  364. Like, it's one thing

  365. to believe he can do things

  366. for you,

  367. but it's another thing

  368. to entrust yourself

  369. to him.

  370. Martha believed

  371. the right doctrine,

  372. but now Jesus is drawing

  373. something deeper

  374. out of her.

  375. Do you trust me

  376. when you don't understand me?

  377. When my timing

  378. confuses you?

  379. When it feels too late

  380. for a happy ending?

  381. And I want you to notice

  382. Martha's answer here.

  383. It's not,

  384. yes, I believe,

  385. because I get it now.

  386. Thanks for explaining it

  387. to me, Lord.

  388. No, it's verse 27.

  389. Yes, Lord,

  390. I believe you are

  391. the Messiah,

  392. the Son of God

  393. who has come

  394. into the world.

  395. She's not saying,

  396. I believe you'll fix this,

  397. but simply,

  398. I believe in you.

  399. I trust in you.

  400. And that's real faith

  401. right there.

  402. So much more

  403. than right doctrine,

  404. it's right dependence.

  405. See, faith isn't having

  406. every answer,

  407. it's trusting a person.

  408. And if you're here

  409. this morning

  410. exploring Christianity,

  411. honestly seeking,

  412. hear this,

  413. Jesus is not asking you

  414. to turn your brain off.

  415. No, bring your questions,

  416. bring your doubts,

  417. bring your objections,

  418. bring them to Alpha,

  419. Thursday night,

  420. 6.30, free dinner,

  421. fun discussion, all right?

  422. But please,

  423. if you really want

  424. to explore Christianity,

  425. if you really want

  426. to engage with Jesus

  427. on His terms

  428. and not simply

  429. on your own,

  430. as if He really

  431. might be the Lord,

  432. don't relate to Jesus

  433. only as an idea

  434. to critique.

  435. Relate to Him

  436. as a person

  437. to encounter

  438. and embrace.

  439. And if not

  440. for any other reason,

  441. then to whom else

  442. will you go?

  443. What else

  444. or who else

  445. would claim to be

  446. the resurrection

  447. and the life?

  448. And who else

  449. has done that

  450. and also changed

  451. the world

  452. with the story

  453. of Him raising Lazarus

  454. and with the story

  455. of Him

  456. and His own empty tomb?

  457. This is the truth

  458. He calls us

  459. to trust.

  460. But get this,

  461. He isn't just

  462. coming toward us

  463. with truth

  464. as He did

  465. with Martha.

  466. This isn't a God

  467. who just commands us

  468. to trust Him

  469. and His power.

  470. No, He is at the same time

  471. a God who comes toward us

  472. with tears

  473. and tenderness.

  474. After Martha

  475. and Jesus' exchange,

  476. she goes,

  477. she gets her sister Mary,

  478. the teacher is here,

  479. He is asking for you,

  480. and whereas Martha

  481. went out to Jesus,

  482. Jesus asks for Mary,

  483. He invites her to Himself.

  484. And then when she comes to Him,

  485. she says the exact same words

  486. as her sister,

  487. Lord, if you had been here,

  488. my brother would not have died.

  489. But whereas Martha said this

  490. trying to piece various truths

  491. together in her head,

  492. Mary says this,

  493. not so much with truths

  494. on her mind,

  495. but with tears

  496. in her eyes.

  497. And verse 32 says

  498. that when she saw Him,

  499. she fell at His feet

  500. and wept,

  501. these same feet

  502. that she will later anoint

  503. with the pure nard

  504. of her dowry.

  505. She covers these feet

  506. first in tears.

  507. But now notice

  508. how Jesus responds.

  509. To Martha,

  510. He dispensed teaching

  511. and truth,

  512. but for Mary,

  513. it's tenderness and tears.

  514. Verse 33,

  515. when Jesus saw her weeping

  516. and the Jews

  517. who had come along

  518. with her also weeping,

  519. He was deeply moved

  520. in spirit and troubled.

  521. The word here

  522. for deeply moved

  523. has a sense of outrage

  524. and indignation,

  525. anger at the curse of death

  526. and all the pain

  527. it inflicts upon

  528. the creation of God,

  529. this creation that God loves.

  530. It's this image

  531. of a snorting stallion

  532. flaring its nostrils

  533. in fury.

  534. It's probably what God felt

  535. in the Garden of Eden.

  536. When after Adam and Eve

  537. first succumbed to temptation

  538. and plunged the human race

  539. into sin and death,

  540. God was furious,

  541. but not first and foremost

  542. at them.

  543. No, He cursed the serpent

  544. first,

  545. with the very first,

  546. with the greatest,

  547. with the most irreversible,

  548. unredeemable curse.

  549. Because our God

  550. hates that which harms

  551. the ones He loves.

  552. This is what Jesus feels

  553. about death.

  554. He hates it

  555. with deep emotion.

  556. And He has come

  557. to make war

  558. against death.

  559. But not only does He come

  560. with indignation

  561. and fury at death,

  562. but also with empathy

  563. and grief.

  564. Verse 34,

  565. where have you laid Him?

  566. His first words to Mary

  567. and the mourners.

  568. In the Greek,

  569. it's only three words.

  570. Like,

  571. only three words He could utter.

  572. Where lay Him?

  573. So they say,

  574. come and see, Lord.

  575. Come and see.

  576. Whereas Jesus' come and see

  577. is always an invitation

  578. to come and see abundant life.

  579. Theirs is an invitation

  580. to come and see death.

  581. Come and see the end.

  582. Come and see what can't be fixed.

  583. Come and see what's too late.

  584. And as Jesus takes up

  585. this invitation to come

  586. and see death and despair,

  587. He not only snorts

  588. at their great and powerful enemy,

  589. but He enters their grief.

  590. This is the shortest

  591. and possibly the most poignant verse

  592. in all of the Scriptures.

  593. Verse 35,

  594. Jesus wept.

  595. And this is not just crying,

  596. not just sobbing.

  597. In the Greek,

  598. the emphasis is on His tears.

  599. So even while knowing

  600. what He was about to do,

  601. even while having all the power

  602. in His pinky finger

  603. to change all these

  604. miserable circumstances,

  605. He doesn't strut in here

  606. like a gangster

  607. with swagger,

  608. with a smirk on His face.

  609. Like, relax guys,

  610. I got this.

  611. It's all good.

  612. No, the one who said,

  613. I am the resurrection

  614. and the life

  615. is also the one who wept.

  616. Truth for Martha,

  617. tears for Mary.

  618. And do you realize

  619. what this means?

  620. Well, first of all,

  621. it means that Jesus truly

  622. is the wonderful counselor,

  623. the Spirit-led counselor

  624. who knows exactly

  625. what we need

  626. and when we need it

  627. and who meets us

  628. where we are

  629. in all the diversity

  630. of our circumstances

  631. and our personalities

  632. and our needs.

  633. But secondly,

  634. and more importantly,

  635. right here,

  636. when it tells us

  637. that the Son of God,

  638. even knowing what He

  639. was about to do,

  640. He still,

  641. with Mary and the others,

  642. wept like real,

  643. non-performative tears.

  644. This means that God

  645. is not indifferent

  646. to our grief.

  647. And man,

  648. this should blow our minds

  649. that the immovable,

  650. unchangeable,

  651. invulnerable God

  652. in Christ

  653. became vulnerable

  654. and even shed tears.

  655. Reflect on that

  656. for a second,

  657. that God Himself

  658. shed tears

  659. and not just over

  660. His own wounds

  661. and pains

  662. but over others.

  663. Think about that

  664. for a second.

  665. God,

  666. like imagine

  667. if you were God,

  668. if you were the Almighty,

  669. if you could choose

  670. never to cry

  671. or grieve

  672. or experience pain

  673. or suffering

  674. ever

  675. in the whole history

  676. of your existence,

  677. wouldn't you?

  678. And yet here in Christ,

  679. when the Bible

  680. says that Jesus wept,

  681. what this is saying

  682. is that while God

  683. did have that choice

  684. for Himself,

  685. the choice to never cry,

  686. to never hurt,

  687. to never shed a tear,

  688. He did not take that choice

  689. for Himself.

  690. He came to be God

  691. with us

  692. in every way,

  693. including with us

  694. in our sorrows.

  695. This isn't some far-off,

  696. detached deity.

  697. He is the God-man,

  698. Jesus,

  699. who wept

  700. with us

  701. and for us.

  702. And this tells us

  703. something we dare not miss,

  704. that even if we don't have

  705. answers for all the pain

  706. and suffering

  707. in this world,

  708. the answer cannot be

  709. that He is far away

  710. and out of touch.

  711. The answer cannot be

  712. that He is not with us

  713. and for us.

  714. The answer cannot be

  715. that He does not love us.

  716. No.

  717. Jesus wept.

  718. truth for Martha,

  719. tears for Mary.

  720. But here's the thing.

  721. If all Jesus brought

  722. were teachings

  723. about some supposedly

  724. future resurrection

  725. and life,

  726. and or if all Jesus came with

  727. were tears

  728. for our pain

  729. and love in His heart,

  730. what real comfort

  731. and hope

  732. would that actually bring?

  733. See,

  734. we don't just need

  735. a God who teaches us

  736. about some future

  737. or merely spiritual hope,

  738. and we don't just need

  739. a God who empathizes

  740. with us in tears.

  741. No,

  742. we need a God

  743. who is strong enough

  744. to save us

  745. now and forever

  746. and who can defeat

  747. our great enemy,

  748. the final boss,

  749. death.

  750. And this is where

  751. things begin to turn

  752. because see,

  753. Jesus didn't come

  754. all this way

  755. just to talk about

  756. resurrection

  757. and cry about death.

  758. No,

  759. He came to confront death

  760. as the resurrection

  761. and the life.

  762. Whereas most of us

  763. try not to think

  764. about death,

  765. right?

  766. And rather successfully,

  767. thanks to all of our

  768. distractions,

  769. all of our technology,

  770. all of our preoccupations,

  771. we distract ourselves,

  772. we stay busy,

  773. we optimize our time,

  774. we build careers

  775. and portfolios

  776. and bucket lists.

  777. As Ernest Becker wrote

  778. and argued in his 1973

  779. Pulitzer Prize winner,

  780. The Denial of Death,

  781. we,

  782. you know,

  783. privileged,

  784. modern,

  785. Bay Area folks like us

  786. have really become

  787. masters

  788. at distracting

  789. ourselves from death.

  790. But underneath it all,

  791. we all know

  792. what's there,

  793. the quiet fear

  794. that time

  795. is running out.

  796. But whereas most of us

  797. prefer to avoid death,

  798. Jesus here,

  799. He walks straight toward

  800. the one thing

  801. we spend most of our lives

  802. trying to avoid.

  803. He walks toward that tomb.

  804. And verse 38 says,

  805. Jesus once more

  806. deeply moved,

  807. He came to the tomb,

  808. He doesn't avoid it,

  809. He doesn't soften it,

  810. He doesn't spiritualize it,

  811. He stands in front

  812. of death itself.

  813. And then,

  814. He says something shocking,

  815. take away that stone.

  816. And Martha protests,

  817. Lord,

  818. by this time

  819. there is a bad odor.

  820. Translation,

  821. this is too far gone,

  822. this is irreversible,

  823. this is beyond fixing.

  824. Again,

  825. it's too late.

  826. What does Jesus say

  827. in verse 40?

  828. Did I not tell you

  829. that if you believe,

  830. you will see

  831. the glory of God?

  832. Like Martha,

  833. this was never about you,

  834. or Mary,

  835. or even Lazarus.

  836. And there was never

  837. a second in which

  838. I,

  839. even with my tears,

  840. was not in control

  841. of the situation.

  842. It's always ever been

  843. about the glory of God.

  844. And now,

  845. let me show you.

  846. Verse 41 says,

  847. that just like He did

  848. at the feeding of the 5,000,

  849. He looked up.

  850. He gave thanks.

  851. Father,

  852. I thank You

  853. that You have heard me.

  854. Apparently,

  855. He'd been talking

  856. to His Father

  857. about this already

  858. the whole time.

  859. I knew You always hear me,

  860. but I said this

  861. for the benefit

  862. of the people standing here

  863. that they may believe

  864. that You sent me.

  865. This is the whole purpose.

  866. Again,

  867. to reveal who He is

  868. and who sent Him.

  869. See,

  870. He's the main event.

  871. And it's all about His glory.

  872. And so,

  873. what He's about to do,

  874. this is just a sign.

  875. And so,

  876. with a loud voice,

  877. He cries out,

  878. Lazarus,

  879. come out!

  880. And He did,

  881. by the word of His power

  882. and in collaboration

  883. with His Father in heaven.

  884. And thus,

  885. the story has gone

  886. from truth for Martha

  887. to tears for Mary

  888. to now triumph

  889. for Lazarus.

  890. And not just for Lazarus,

  891. but for everyone

  892. who is in Christ.

  893. Because see,

  894. when Jesus says,

  895. I am the resurrection

  896. and the life,

  897. and then raises Lazarus here,

  898. He's not giving

  899. just a spiritual metaphor,

  900. He's issuing a preview.

  901. A preview of what happens

  902. when resurrection Himself

  903. comes face to face

  904. with death.

  905. Jesus is saying,

  906. death does not get

  907. the final word.

  908. The tomb does not get

  909. the final word.

  910. Time does not get

  911. the final word.

  912. I do.

  913. I am the Lord.

  914. Because see,

  915. if Jesus is the resurrection

  916. and the life,

  917. then there is no such thing

  918. as too late for Him.

  919. It's like when Gandalf

  920. says to Frodo

  921. that a wizard

  922. is never late

  923. nor early,

  924. but always arrives

  925. precisely when he means to.

  926. Because Jesus

  927. is the resurrection

  928. and the life,

  929. it's never too late

  930. for Him

  931. to be the Lord

  932. of our dreams.

  933. Lazarus was four days dead,

  934. buried,

  935. mourned,

  936. stinking,

  937. and yet Jesus still says

  938. to him,

  939. come out.

  940. And His invitation

  941. is to all of us

  942. to remove the stone,

  943. to open ourselves up

  944. to the possibility,

  945. the reality

  946. of real resurrection power

  947. in our lives now

  948. over all the things

  949. we feel are too late

  950. to fix.

  951. Do you hear God's word

  952. to you this morning

  953. that it is not too late

  954. for your story,

  955. it is not too late

  956. for your soul,

  957. it is not too late

  958. for your family,

  959. it is not too late

  960. for God to work

  961. in your life?

  962. No, resurrection

  963. means God does

  964. some of His best work

  965. when we think

  966. our story is over.

  967. But do you believe this?

  968. Will you trust Him

  969. as your resurrection,

  970. as your eternal

  971. and abundant life?

  972. It's yours

  973. if you will have it.

  974. He's yours

  975. if you will have Him.

  976. And it's completely free.

  977. It's completely free.

  978. Well, at least free

  979. for you and for me,

  980. not for Him.

  981. Let me close

  982. with one last reason

  983. why you can trust

  984. and why you should trust

  985. Jesus as your resurrection

  986. and as your life,

  987. and it's this.

  988. What does resurrection

  989. presuppose?

  990. Death.

  991. Not just Lazarus.

  992. Because John wants you

  993. to see something

  994. sobering here,

  995. the moment Lazarus

  996. comes out of the tomb,

  997. Jesus starts marching

  998. toward His own.

  999. Look at verse 45.

  1000. Therefore,

  1001. many of the Jews

  1002. who had come to visit Mary

  1003. and had seen what Jesus did

  1004. believed in Him.

  1005. And wouldn't it be awesome

  1006. if the story just ended there?

  1007. But it doesn't.

  1008. Verse 46 says,

  1009. But some of them

  1010. went to the Pharisees

  1011. and told them

  1012. what Jesus had done.

  1013. Then verse 53,

  1014. which is not printed for you,

  1015. John says it plainly,

  1016. So from that day on,

  1017. they plotted to take

  1018. His life.

  1019. Do you realize

  1020. what this means?

  1021. The price of Lazarus'

  1022. resurrection

  1023. was the cost

  1024. of Jesus' death.

  1025. This sign

  1026. doesn't just create faith,

  1027. it also creates fury.

  1028. It forces a decision.

  1029. Because once you see

  1030. a man walk out of a tomb

  1031. at the command of Jesus,

  1032. you can't keep Jesus

  1033. as just a nice teacher.

  1034. You either fall down

  1035. and worship Him

  1036. or you try to get rid of Him.

  1037. And Jesus knows it.

  1038. He knows exactly

  1039. what He's doing here.

  1040. He knows that calling Lazarus out

  1041. is like signing

  1042. His own death warrant.

  1043. He knows

  1044. He's only two miles

  1045. from Jerusalem, right?

  1046. Two miles closer

  1047. to the cross.

  1048. That's what it says here.

  1049. And still He says,

  1050. Take away the stone.

  1051. Still He says,

  1052. Lazarus, come out.

  1053. Which means

  1054. the tenderness of Jesus

  1055. is not sentimental,

  1056. it's costly.

  1057. His tears are not the tears

  1058. of someone who means well

  1059. but can't help.

  1060. His tears are the tears

  1061. of a Savior

  1062. who is about to step

  1063. into the line of fire.

  1064. Because here's the deeper

  1065. pattern of the gospel.

  1066. Lazarus gets to come out

  1067. because Jesus is willing

  1068. to go in.

  1069. Lazarus is unbound

  1070. because Jesus will be bound.

  1071. Lazarus gets his life back

  1072. because Jesus will lay

  1073. his life down.

  1074. And on the cross,

  1075. Jesus doesn't merely

  1076. sympathize with our grief.

  1077. He enters the very thing

  1078. that causes it.

  1079. Sin, curse, death.

  1080. The wages of sin is death

  1081. and Jesus pays those wages

  1082. for us with His blood.

  1083. He doesn't just stand

  1084. outside the tomb

  1085. and shout resurrection.

  1086. He goes through death itself

  1087. so that resurrection

  1088. can become ours.

  1089. So that He can truly say,

  1090. I am the resurrection

  1091. and the life.

  1092. He doesn't just claim it

  1093. with His lips.

  1094. He proves it with His blood.

  1095. He seals it with His empty tomb.

  1096. So will we trust Him?

  1097. Will you trust Him?

  1098. Will you take away that stone?

  1099. Open yourself up to Him?

  1100. Because the one who weeps

  1101. with you is the one

  1102. who walked into death

  1103. for you

  1104. and who walked out again

  1105. with all who will hope in Him.

  1106. And that means

  1107. it is never too late

  1108. for Jesus to be Lord.

  1109. And in particular,

  1110. the Lord of your story,

  1111. which He promises

  1112. will end

  1113. in His glory

  1114. and our good

  1115. if we will trust Him.

  1116. Let's pray.

  1117. Lord, we thank You.

  1118. There is no other God like You.

  1119. There is no God like our God.

  1120. There is no rock like our rock.

  1121. There is no Savior

  1122. like our Lord and Savior

  1123. who is the resurrection

  1124. and the life.

  1125. And who is the resurrection

  1126. and the life

  1127. because He went to death

  1128. on a cross for us.

  1129. God, if we do not already trust Him,

  1130. would You fill us

  1131. with that kind of faith?

  1132. Help us to make that comparison.

  1133. What could be better?

  1134. Who could be better?

  1135. What other Savior

  1136. is there out there?

  1137. What other life

  1138. is out there on offer

  1139. that is better than the life

  1140. that He offers us?

  1141. Lord, turn our eyes to Him.

  1142. Turn our hearts toward Him.