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Love One Another: “Through Community”

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  4. Reading from the Gospel according to John.

  5. It was just before the Passover festival.

  6. Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father.

  7. Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.

  8. The evening meal was in progress and the devil had already prompted Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus.

  9. Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power and that he had come from God and was returning to God.

  10. So he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist.

  11. After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples' feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.

  12. He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, Lord, are you going to wash my feet?

  13. Jesus replied, you do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand.

  14. No, said Peter, you shall never wash my feet.

  15. Jesus answered, unless I wash you, you have no part with me.

  16. Then Lord Simon Peter replied, not just my feet, but my hands and my head as well.

  17. Jesus answered, those who have had a bath need only to wash their feet.

  18. Their whole body is clean, and you are clean, though not every one of you.

  19. For he knew who was going to betray him, and that was why he said not everyone was clean.

  20. When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place.

  21. Do you understand what I have done for you?

  22. He asked them.

  23. You call me teacher and Lord, and rightly so, for that is what I am.

  24. Now that I, your Lord and teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another's feet.

  25. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you.

  26. Very truly, I tell you, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him.

  27. Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.

  28. A new command I give you, love one another as I have loved you, so you must love one another.

  29. By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.

  30. This is the gospel of the Lord.

  31. Good morning, Christ Church.

  32. If you see some people here today who look like they are part of the same gene pool as me and share my DNA,

  33. your eyes are not playing tricks on you.

  34. We are delighted to have my brother and his family here with us today.

  35. And they have offered, yes, they have offered to host a Q&A after this service

  36. so that you can ask all those questions you have been wanting to know.

  37. Like, what is up with Jonathan?

  38. You all seem so well adjusted.

  39. What happened?

  40. You can ask them later today.

  41. But we are going through the gospel of John, and we are in this kind of like moment

  42. where we are preparing for the 20th birthday of our church.

  43. And we are using some text in the gospel of John to help us renew our sense of our mission

  44. and our commitment to that mission.

  45. And we have said the past few weeks that it is just so important when you sit down

  46. to hammer out your mission, vision, and values of a new organization, a new institution,

  47. that you clearly and adequately capture your core identity and your core purpose.

  48. Who are we?

  49. Why are we here?

  50. What do we exist to do?

  51. And I remember when we were crafting the mission statement of Christ Church,

  52. we were not satisfied to simply say that we exist to lead people

  53. into a deeper relationship with Christ and His church and just kind of leave it there

  54. because we were concerned to add these words through community.

  55. We want to lead people into a deeper relationship with Christ and His church through community.

  56. We didn't want people to think that, you know, you can attend a worship service two or three times a month

  57. or serve once a month on a ministry team and give an occasional financial gift

  58. and that that would be the extent of your involvement in the mission.

  59. We wanted to emphasize the personal relationships, the relational fellowship that a living church

  60. and a dynamic church is meant to experience and express.

  61. And so we wanted to push people.

  62. We wanted you to be thinking about all the aspects of what it means to be part of a dynamic Christian community

  63. that we don't just limit ourselves to a Sunday morning gathering

  64. but rather our community extends Monday to Saturday

  65. that we are a people who break bread together, that we open the Bible together, we pray together,

  66. we bring meals when you get sick and when you have a baby,

  67. we go on a walk when you're discouraged, we drive you to the airport,

  68. we watch each other's kids, we tutor your struggling student,

  69. we visit you in the hospital, we help you move.

  70. And so today I want to kind of bore down on this question,

  71. not just what is a good community, a good human community,

  72. but what is an authentically Christian community?

  73. What does a Christ-centered and Christ-like community feel like

  74. and how do we cultivate such a community?

  75. And I think John 13 is very helpful because Jesus knew that this was the last time

  76. that he would have with his disciples before he went to the cross.

  77. And so he's giving them this intensive graduate level training course.

  78. And John 13 to 17 is the longest single body of Jesus' teaching that we have in the New Testament.

  79. And he addresses some aspects of Christian community that I think are critical for us to get a hold of here in John 13.

  80. And we're going to talk about three things.

  81. First of all, a community of downward mobility,

  82. a community of gracious sacrifice,

  83. and a community of one-anothering love.

  84. A community of downward mobility,

  85. a community of gracious sacrifice,

  86. and a community of one-anothering love.

  87. Let's start with a community of downward mobility.

  88. In verse 1 it says it was just before the Passover festival,

  89. and Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and to go to the Father.

  90. And having loved his own who were in the world,

  91. he loved them to the end.

  92. In less than 24 hours,

  93. Jesus is going to die on the cross.

  94. And by this time,

  95. tomorrow on Good Friday,

  96. the lifeless body of Jesus will be carried to the garden tomb.

  97. And Jesus, well aware that this is his certain destiny,

  98. he wants to show his disciples what it means to love them to the end.

  99. And so it says in verse 3,

  100. Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power,

  101. and that he had come from God and was returning to God.

  102. And so he got up from the meal,

  103. took off his outer clothing,

  104. wrapped a towel around his waist.

  105. And after that,

  106. he poured water into a basin

  107. and began to wash his disciples' feet,

  108. drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.

  109. Jesus,

  110. knowing what was at stake

  111. with his disciples,

  112. he wasn't talking with them about the weather,

  113. or sports,

  114. or the NCAA tournament,

  115. or politics,

  116. or international affairs,

  117. or the rising and falling of the stock market.

  118. He was talking with them about the things that were most crucial for their life with God.

  119. In fact,

  120. Jesus actually wasn't even really talking with them at all.

  121. He was showing them something.

  122. And what was he showing them?

  123. Well,

  124. we know that in the other Gospels,

  125. Matthew,

  126. Mark,

  127. and Luke,

  128. this is the moment where Jesus' disciples were arguing with each other about which of them was the greatest disciple.

  129. And Jesus,

  130. in the midst of that argument,

  131. he tells them,

  132. I am among you as the one who serves.

  133. And it was clear in that moment that none of the disciples were prepared to wash the feet of Jesus.

  134. None of them were prepared to wash each other's feet.

  135. And so,

  136. Jesus,

  137. in that moment,

  138. puts himself in the position that they should have been in.

  139. Jesus says he rose from the table,

  140. he took off his outer garments,

  141. and he tied the towel around his waist.

  142. Now, let's just pause there to make a cultural observation

  143. that what Jesus is doing here socially is not just jarring,

  144. but it's offensive.

  145. Because people,

  146. as you know,

  147. they didn't wear socks and shoes like we do.

  148. They wore sandals.

  149. It was hot.

  150. It was arid.

  151. They needed sandals on their feet.

  152. But also,

  153. very few first century homes

  154. had toilets and sewers like ours do.

  155. And so,

  156. they would take the refuse of chamber pots,

  157. and very often those would be dumped out into the streets.

  158. Add on to that the manure of animals going up and down on the streets

  159. and the accumulation of food waste.

  160. An ancient street could be a pretty nasty place.

  161. And so,

  162. when you would arrive at a meal,

  163. you would arrive with pretty stinky,

  164. pretty grimy feet.

  165. And the question is,

  166. who is it that is to wash those feet?

  167. And the answer was,

  168. a slave.

  169. That was the job of a slave.

  170. And not a high-ranking slave,

  171. mind you.

  172. But the lowest of the low.

  173. This was such an undignified and reviled task

  174. that later rabbis would not allow Jews

  175. to carry out this role.

  176. But I want to also not just make a cultural observation.

  177. I want to make a theological observation here

  178. that at this Passover feast,

  179. Jesus is the host.

  180. Jesus is the teacher.

  181. And therefore,

  182. he's a person of high status.

  183. He's a person

  184. with great social honor.

  185. But he's so much more

  186. than just a host and a teacher.

  187. It says again in verse 3,

  188. that Jesus knew the Father

  189. had put all things under his power

  190. and that he had come from God

  191. and was returning to God.

  192. Now, if you and I were to finish that sentence,

  193. that Jesus knew he had all things

  194. put under him,

  195. under his power by God,

  196. that he had come from God

  197. and that he was going to God,

  198. we probably would have finished that sentence

  199. and we would have written,

  200. Jesus then displayed the majesty

  201. of the one

  202. who possesses all authority

  203. in the universe.

  204. And Jesus, of course,

  205. does know that he's co-eternal

  206. with the Father

  207. in dignity and majesty

  208. and glory and power.

  209. He knows that from all eternity,

  210. he's been face to face

  211. with God himself,

  212. that he's been the one

  213. in closest relationship to the Father

  214. and that in just a little while,

  215. he's going back

  216. to sit on the very throne of God.

  217. Jesus knows himself

  218. to be the Lord of all

  219. and yet what does he do

  220. with that power?

  221. He humbles himself.

  222. He becomes the lowest

  223. of the lowest slave

  224. and he begins to wash

  225. the dirty feet

  226. of his disciple community

  227. that frankly was just too self-concerned

  228. about who was the greatest

  229. to wash Jesus' feet,

  230. to untie his sandals.

  231. And in this prophetic action,

  232. in this acted parable,

  233. the Son of the living God,

  234. the King of heaven,

  235. the Lord of glory,

  236. the Word made flesh,

  237. he's giving us a sketch

  238. in miniature

  239. of the larger portrait

  240. of his overall humiliation.

  241. If we can pull up a slide,

  242. I hope we have a slide

  243. that you can see.

  244. Many scholars like to point out

  245. the striking parallel

  246. between this text

  247. and Philippians chapter 2.

    Philippians 2 chapter mention

  248. I don't know if we have that or not.

  249. Maybe, maybe not.

  250. Okay.

  251. Don't worry about it.

  252. If you know Philippians chapter 2,

    Philippians 2 chapter mention

  253. the Apostle Paul

  254. is writing there

  255. that Jesus

  256. began in the highest glory of heaven

  257. and that he then came down

  258. into the deepest depths

  259. of the human condition

  260. into a world

  261. full of dirty feet

  262. and grimy souls.

  263. And he emptied himself.

  264. He humbled himself.

  265. He took the lowliest position

  266. of a slave

  267. in order to accomplish

  268. our cleansing from sin

  269. by his death on the cross.

  270. And then the Apostle Paul says

  271. then he was exalted

  272. to the highest place,

  273. to the highest place of honor

  274. at the right hand of the Father.

  275. And this,

  276. in the New Testament,

  277. is the V shape

  278. of God's rescue operation.

  279. There's the downward mobility

  280. of Jesus' humiliation

  281. and then there's the upward mobility

  282. of his exaltation.

  283. The downward mobility

  284. of Jesus' incarnation

  285. and his crucifixion

  286. and the upward mobility

  287. of his resurrection

  288. and his ascension.

  289. And what Jesus is showing us

  290. is that the way up

  291. is actually the way down.

  292. And this foot washing

  293. is not simply

  294. the humble service

  295. of a man to his equals,

  296. nor is it even

  297. the service of a good man

  298. to others less fortunate

  299. than himself.

  300. But rather this foot washing

  301. and the crucifixion

  302. to which it points

  303. is Jesus' way of showing us

  304. who God is

  305. and what God is like.

  306. This is the humble service

  307. of God

  308. to sinful humanity

  309. in need

  310. of cleansing.

  311. There's a downward mobility

  312. in the heart of God.

  313. There's a downward mobility

  314. in the mind

  315. of Christ.

  316. Let's just pause

  317. here

  318. for some application.

  319. What does this mean

  320. for us?

  321. Well,

  322. first of all,

  323. if you're here

  324. exploring Christianity,

  325. I want you to consider

  326. whether or not

  327. the other world religions

  328. have anything like

  329. what is going on

  330. here in this text.

  331. If you read Buddha

  332. and you read Muhammad,

  333. they are repeatedly

  334. and clearly denying

  335. that they are God.

  336. They're very often

  337. pointing away

  338. from themselves

  339. and saying,

  340. that is the light

  341. as far as I understand it,

  342. so follow that.

  343. Follow the light.

  344. And Jesus,

  345. on the other hand,

  346. is pointing to himself

  347. and he's saying,

  348. I am the light

  349. of the world,

  350. follow me.

  351. I'll be the one

  352. to lead you

  353. out of the darkness.

  354. Buddha and Muhammad

  355. are very often saying,

  356. that is the way.

  357. Walk in it.

  358. That is the truth.

  359. Trust it.

  360. That is the life.

  361. Go live that life.

  362. And Jesus,

  363. he's pointing to himself

  364. and saying,

  365. I am the way.

  366. I am the truth.

  367. I am the life.

  368. And no one comes

  369. to the Father

  370. except through me.

  371. Jesus is constantly

  372. making these astonishing

  373. claims that no other

  374. religious leader

  375. has made.

  376. and yet notice

  377. that his foot washing

  378. is the exact opposite

  379. of his claims.

  380. In Jesus Christ,

  381. you have this striking

  382. juxtaposition

  383. between the loftiness

  384. of his claims

  385. and the lowliness

  386. of his behavior.

  387. is there any other

  388. religion in which

  389. you see the master

  390. making such incredible

  391. claims about himself

  392. and yet humbling himself

  393. to wash the feet

  394. of his disciples?

  395. What the gospels

  396. are telling us

  397. is that here

  398. in the stooping figure

  399. of the slave

  400. is revealed for us

  401. the majesty

  402. of the one true God.

  403. The second application

  404. is if you're a Christian,

  405. the early church

  406. said that Jesus'

  407. downward mobility

  408. was to be

  409. a defining mark

  410. of the disciple community.

  411. And they said

  412. this right here

  413. is the measure

  414. of greatness

  415. among us.

  416. The one who most

  417. humbles himself,

  418. the one who goes

  419. the lowest,

  420. the one who gets

  421. the most dirty,

  422. the one who acts

  423. most like a slave,

  424. the one who does

  425. the most menial

  426. of tasks.

  427. The apostle Peter

  428. who we'll talk about

  429. in a moment,

  430. he has a front row seat

  431. to this,

  432. he experiences

  433. the foot washing himself.

  434. And he writes

  435. a letter later on

  436. to Christians

  437. who are scattered

  438. throughout the Roman Empire

  439. and he says

  440. in 1 Peter 5,

  441. Peter says,

  442. clothe yourselves

  443. with humility

  444. toward one another.

  445. And that verb

  446. clothe

  447. reflects

  448. the picture

  449. of a slave

  450. who's tying a towel

  451. around his waist.

  452. He says,

  453. clothe yourselves

  454. like Jesus

  455. clothed himself

  456. with humility

  457. toward one another.

  458. Or think about

  459. the apostle Paul.

  460. Anyone know

  461. the first words

  462. that Paul writes

  463. in his magisterial letter

  464. to the church

  465. in Rome?

  466. His first words

  467. are Paul,

  468. a slave

  469. of Christ Jesus.

  470. Can you imagine

  471. waking up tomorrow

  472. morning and saying,

  473. that is who I am,

  474. Jonathan,

  475. a slave

  476. of Christ Jesus.

  477. But Paul goes on

  478. and he writes

  479. to the Christian community

  480. in Corinth

  481. and he says,

  482. he says to them,

  483. we are slaves,

  484. we are your slaves

  485. for Jesus' sake.

  486. So to the,

  487. to a Christian community,

  488. the mark of Christian community

  489. is that we are a people

  490. who kneel down

  491. in our hearts

  492. before our fellow disciples

  493. and by our humble service

  494. we say,

  495. I am your servant

  496. for Jesus' sake.

  497. And that's the test.

  498. That's how you know

  499. that you've come in contact

  500. with an authentically

  501. Christian community.

  502. It's a community

  503. of downward mobility.

  504. It's a community

  505. that says,

  506. I'm a slave

  507. of yours

  508. for Jesus' sake.

  509. But secondly,

  510. not just a community

  511. of downward mobility

  512. but a community

  513. of gracious sacrifice.

  514. I want us to think

  515. about a community

  516. of gracious sacrifice.

  517. In verse five,

  518. again it says,

  519. after that he poured water

  520. into a basin

  521. and began to wash

  522. his disciples' feet,

  523. drying them with a towel

  524. that was wrapped around him.

  525. And I want us to notice

  526. that Jesus is graciously

  527. loving his disciple community

  528. in the face of forces

  529. that would stop most of us

  530. from loving other people

  531. in this moment.

  532. Because I think most of us

  533. would say,

  534. you know,

  535. when I'm under intense stress,

  536. when I'm under incredible

  537. pressure and strain,

  538. I tend to kind of focus

  539. more on myself,

  540. right?

  541. But Jesus knows

  542. that in the next 24 hours

  543. he's going to die.

  544. And yet in the face

  545. of his impending death,

  546. who's he thinking about?

  547. He's thinking about the needs

  548. of each one of his disciples.

  549. And notice that Jesus

  550. loves his disciples

  551. in spite of their unworthiness.

  552. Jesus in a moment

  553. is going to predict

  554. that Judas will betray him

  555. and that Peter will deny him

  556. and that the rest

  557. are going to abandon him.

  558. And we don't know

  559. which of those disciples

  560. Jesus started with

  561. in the foot washing.

  562. We don't know

  563. where he began.

  564. But we do know

  565. that Jesus eventually

  566. washed the guy

  567. who was about

  568. to have him killed.

  569. And then he washed

  570. the feet of each one

  571. who would forsake him

  572. and hurt him terribly

  573. within the next 24 hours.

  574. And Jesus is just

  575. graciously loving

  576. each disciple

  577. without exception.

  578. And he's not doing

  579. what I do

  580. and what you may do sometimes.

  581. He's not doing

  582. a cost-benefit analysis

  583. of his little

  584. disciple community there.

  585. He's not evaluating

  586. each disciple on what,

  587. let's see,

  588. what have they done

  589. for me lately?

  590. How much am I getting

  591. out of this relationship

  592. with this disciple?

  593. At no point

  594. is Jesus saying,

  595. you know,

  596. I'll be in this community

  597. as long as it's

  598. making me happy,

  599. as long as it's

  600. fulfilling my needs.

  601. But the moment it's not,

  602. I'm out of here.

  603. No, Jesus,

  604. it says he loves

  605. his disciples

  606. to the end.

  607. He's not loving them

  608. because they're great,

  609. he's loving them

  610. because he's great.

  611. He's loving them

  612. with the power

  613. of unconditional

  614. electing love.

  615. He's loving them

  616. with a gracious love

  617. that loves to the end.

  618. A love that will

  619. never forsake you,

  620. even when I'm getting

  621. nothing out of the relationship,

  622. even when this relationship

  623. is costing me terribly.

  624. And at some point,

  625. Jesus,

  626. coming around the circle

  627. of all the disciples,

  628. he gets to the leader.

  629. He gets to the leader

  630. of the twelve,

  631. and this is what it says

  632. in verse six.

  633. He came to Simon Peter

  634. who said to him,

  635. Lord,

  636. are you going to wash my feet?

  637. And Jesus replied,

  638. you do not realize now

  639. what I'm doing,

  640. but later you will understand.

  641. And Peter said,

  642. no,

  643. you shall never wash my feet.

  644. Jesus answered,

  645. unless I wash you,

  646. you have no part

  647. with me.

  648. And then,

  649. Lord,

  650. Simon Peter replied,

  651. not just my feet,

  652. but my hands

  653. and my head

  654. as well.

  655. See,

  656. when Jesus gazes

  657. into Peter's eyes

  658. as he's about

  659. to wash him,

  660. Peter protests.

  661. And it's like Peter

  662. saying,

  663. you know,

  664. you shouldn't be doing

  665. the work of a slave.

  666. Isn't there some other

  667. slave around here

  668. that we could get

  669. to do this job?

  670. But I think Peter

  671. is also kind of saying,

  672. hey,

  673. Jesus,

  674. I just took a bath.

  675. I'm not really

  676. that dirty.

  677. Like,

  678. do we have to do

  679. this foot washing?

  680. But Jesus here

  681. is speaking about

  682. a different kind

  683. of dirt.

  684. Right?

  685. When Jesus says,

  686. unless I wash you,

  687. you can have no part

  688. with me in the salvation

  689. that I bring,

  690. he's saying,

  691. Peter,

  692. I'm not talking about

  693. the dirt on your feet.

  694. Peter,

  695. I'm talking about

  696. the fact that you're

  697. spiritually dirty.

  698. I'm talking about

  699. the fact that you are

  700. morally grimy,

  701. that morally you stink.

  702. And Jesus,

  703. I'm sure,

  704. has that phrase

  705. in Psalm 51

  706. that he's memorized

  707. in his mind

  708. in this moment

  709. that says,

  710. wash away

  711. all my iniquity

  712. and cleanse me

  713. from my sin.

  714. And he's saying,

  715. Peter,

  716. that's the kind

  717. of washing,

  718. that's the kind

  719. of cleansing

  720. that you need me

  721. to do for you.

  722. And yet,

  723. Peter here is saying,

  724. I don't think

  725. I'm too dirty.

  726. I don't think

  727. it calls for such

  728. drastic measures,

  729. Jesus.

  730. And perhaps you feel

  731. the same way

  732. about yourself.

  733. That yes,

  734. I've made some mistakes,

  735. but on the whole,

  736. I'm a good

  737. and a decent person.

  738. I've said some things

  739. that I regret.

  740. I've done some things

  741. that I wish I could do

  742. over,

  743. but I'm not really sure

  744. if it's necessary

  745. for me to be washed

  746. by the eternal

  747. Son of God.

  748. And Jesus says

  749. to Peter,

  750. he says in verse 7,

  751. you do not realize

  752. now what I'm doing,

  753. but later

  754. you will understand.

  755. He's saying,

  756. Peter,

  757. what I'm doing now

  758. is pointing

  759. to what I'm going

  760. to do

  761. later on my cross.

  762. This foot washing

  763. is a signpost

  764. to my humiliating

  765. and cleansing death.

  766. And Peter,

  767. if you refuse

  768. the sign

  769. of what I've come

  770. to do,

  771. if you reject

  772. the reality

  773. to which the sign

  774. points,

  775. my dying on the cross

  776. to wash away

  777. your sins,

  778. then you can have

  779. absolutely no share

  780. in the salvation

  781. that I've come

  782. to bring.

  783. And Peter,

  784. you've got to love Peter

  785. because he's got

  786. that personality

  787. that just goes

  788. from one extreme

  789. to the other.

  790. And Peter says,

  791. well, Lord,

  792. not just my feet

  793. but my hands

  794. and my head

  795. as well.

  796. Give me a bath.

  797. Just make my whole body

  798. and my whole soul

  799. clean right here,

  800. right now.

  801. Why do we have to wait

  802. for your cleansing work

  803. on the cross tomorrow?

  804. Let's just do it

  805. here and now.

  806. And I wish we could,

  807. we had the time

  808. to go into what

  809. Jesus says to Peter

  810. but he basically says,

  811. hey,

  812. chill out,

  813. brother.

  814. But let's just pause

  815. for some application

  816. about what this means

  817. for us.

  818. Again,

  819. if you're here

  820. and you're exploring

  821. Christianity,

  822. you need to hear

  823. the word that Jesus

  824. says to Peter.

  825. He says,

  826. unless I wash you,

  827. you can have no part

  828. with me.

  829. You need to be

  830. washed

  831. of the filth

  832. of your self-centeredness.

  833. You need to be

  834. washed of the grime

  835. of your inordinate

  836. self-love.

  837. And if you spend

  838. enough time

  839. with Jesus,

  840. you'll realize

  841. that he doesn't just

  842. want to wash you

  843. from head to foot

  844. but he wants to wash

  845. you from the outside

  846. to the inside.

  847. He wants to wash

  848. you in places

  849. you didn't even know

  850. were there.

  851. He wants you to wash

  852. you in places

  853. you didn't even know

  854. were dirty.

  855. But don't make

  856. the mistake

  857. of saying,

  858. well,

  859. if I just follow

  860. Jesus' example,

  861. if I just serve

  862. people enough

  863. and I love people

  864. enough,

  865. then I can kind of

  866. cleanse myself.

  867. No,

  868. before you,

  869. the gospel says

  870. that before you

  871. imitate Jesus

  872. as your example,

  873. you need to trust

  874. Jesus as your Savior.

  875. That as your Savior,

  876. Jesus must come

  877. first perform

  878. a service on you.

  879. He has to cleanse you.

  880. He has to forgive you.

  881. He has to reconcile

  882. you to God.

  883. He has to justify you

  884. in a right relationship

  885. with your Heavenly Father.

  886. He must do that first.

  887. And then,

  888. having served you

  889. as your Savior,

  890. He can then be

  891. your example

  892. and He can show you

  893. how to live out

  894. His salvation

  895. in a transformed life

  896. of service to others.

  897. So the first question

  898. you have to ask yourself

  899. is,

  900. do I need to be washed?

  901. And who will wash me?

  902. Who has the power

  903. to really deeply

  904. wash me?

  905. And who's trustworthy enough?

  906. Who's died for me?

  907. Who's bled for me

  908. and shown

  909. that they love me

  910. that much?

  911. But the second point

  912. of application

  913. is that if you're

  914. a Christian,

  915. the way that we approach

  916. our relationships

  917. in the Christian community

  918. is not,

  919. how is this person

  920. treating me

  921. and then I will

  922. do the same for them?

  923. But rather,

  924. the question is,

  925. how has the Lord Jesus

  926. treated me?

  927. And that is the model

  928. for the way

  929. that I'll treat others.

  930. With Jesus' power,

  931. I will display

  932. the same

  933. gracious sacrifice

  934. that I've received

  935. from Him

  936. that He's shown to me.

  937. If the Lord of glory

  938. has graciously washed

  939. those dirtiest parts

  940. of my soul,

  941. those grimiest parts

  942. of my innermost being,

  943. then it's only appropriate

  944. that I would turn around

  945. and love

  946. the way that I've been

  947. loved by Jesus.

  948. Now,

  949. I don't know

  950. if you're like me,

  951. but I say,

  952. yes,

  953. I'm all about that,

  954. but I also have

  955. kind of a list

  956. of exceptions.

  957. that I will do

  958. what Jesus did for me,

  959. but not for Him.

  960. Surely not for her.

  961. I'm not pointing

  962. to any particular people

  963. right now,

  964. by the way.

  965. He's a difficult person

  966. to love.

  967. She can be

  968. a real pain in the neck.

  969. Why should I serve them?

  970. Why should I kneel down

  971. before them?

  972. They don't deserve it.

  973. But you see,

  974. if Jesus had said,

  975. I'm only going to invest

  976. my time and my energy

  977. to serve people

  978. who will never abandon me,

  979. never betray me,

  980. never deny me,

  981. none of us would be here

  982. today,

  983. would we?

  984. None of the disciples

  985. deserved what Jesus

  986. is giving them here,

  987. and none of us

  988. deserve it either,

  989. but we got it.

  990. He washed away

  991. the dirt

  992. of our self-centeredness.

  993. He bought us

  994. with His blood.

  995. We don't belong

  996. to ourselves anymore,

  997. and so we don't get

  998. to do it the way

  999. we would normally do it

  1000. because we have

  1001. a new master.

  1002. We got to do things

  1003. His way.

  1004. So the Christian community

  1005. is meant to be

  1006. a community

  1007. of downward mobility.

  1008. It's meant to be

  1009. a community

  1010. of gracious sacrifice,

  1011. but let me close

  1012. by talking about

  1013. the way we're to be

  1014. a community

  1015. of one-anothering love.

  1016. We're called to be

  1017. a community

  1018. of one-anothering love.

  1019. Isadora Duncan

  1020. was the mother

  1021. of modern dance?

  1022. I think she lived

  1023. here in San Francisco,

  1024. and she would often

  1025. quip, she would say,

  1026. if I could say it,

  1027. I wouldn't have

  1028. to dance it.

  1029. If I could say it,

  1030. I wouldn't have

  1031. to dance it,

  1032. and in some ways

  1033. that's what Jesus

  1034. is doing.

  1035. He's saying,

  1036. let me show you

  1037. the dance,

  1038. and then let me

  1039. explain the dance.

  1040. I'll show you

  1041. the dance,

  1042. and then we'll talk

  1043. about the why

  1044. of the dance

  1045. and the how

  1046. of the dance.

  1047. And so it says

  1048. in verse 12,

  1049. when Jesus had

  1050. finished washing

  1051. their feet,

  1052. he put on his clothes

  1053. and he returned

  1054. to his place

  1055. and he said,

  1056. do you understand

  1057. what I have done

  1058. for you?

  1059. You call me

  1060. teacher and Lord,

  1061. and rightly so,

  1062. for that is what I am.

  1063. Now that I,

  1064. your Lord and teacher,

  1065. have washed your feet,

  1066. you also should wash

  1067. one another's feet.

  1068. I have set you

  1069. an example that you

  1070. should do

  1071. as I have done

  1072. for you.

  1073. And down in verse 34,

  1074. a new command,

  1075. I give you love

  1076. one another

  1077. as I have loved you,

  1078. so you must love

  1079. one another.

  1080. Quick Greek lesson.

  1081. The Greek verb phileo

  1082. is about the affectionate

  1083. love between friends.

  1084. And the Greek verb erao

  1085. is about the passionate

  1086. love between a husband

  1087. and a wife.

  1088. And the Greek verb stergo

  1089. is about the familial love

  1090. between a parent

  1091. and a child.

  1092. But Jesus right now,

  1093. he's preparing his disciples

  1094. for some tumultuous days ahead,

  1095. for some really hard

  1096. decades ahead.

  1097. And so he says,

  1098. you're going to need

  1099. a love that's more potent

  1100. than any of those loves.

  1101. And so the word he uses here

  1102. is agapao.

  1103. This is the unconditional

  1104. self-giving love

  1105. that sacrificially seeks

  1106. what is best for the other.

  1107. It's the divine love

  1108. at the heart of the Trinity.

  1109. It's this unselfish love,

  1110. this giving love

  1111. that is to define

  1112. the relationships

  1113. in Jesus' disciple community.

  1114. And what Jesus is saying here,

  1115. he says,

  1116. agapao each other

  1117. as I have agapao'd you.

  1118. Love each other

  1119. out of the love

  1120. that I'm showing you.

  1121. And he says,

  1122. I've set you an example.

  1123. And that word example

  1124. really pictures a child

  1125. who doesn't know

  1126. how to write, right?

  1127. They're sitting down,

  1128. they're learning their letters.

  1129. And the teacher

  1130. comes up to the board,

  1131. the teacher writes a word,

  1132. the teacher writes a sentence,

  1133. and then the child

  1134. copies the pattern

  1135. of the sentence.

  1136. And now I want you

  1137. to learn my dance moves.

  1138. I want you to follow

  1139. my dance steps.

  1140. Jesus is saying,

  1141. I've taken

  1142. that most shameful place

  1143. as a servant of sinners.

  1144. And that means

  1145. that you owe me a debt

  1146. having taken

  1147. that place for you.

  1148. But what he's saying

  1149. is that now the debt

  1150. you owe to me

  1151. is to be discharged

  1152. by your subjection

  1153. to one another

  1154. in loving service.

  1155. That the people

  1156. in these pews,

  1157. the people in your

  1158. community group,

  1159. the people in your

  1160. discipleship group,

  1161. these are the appointed ones.

  1162. These are the ones

  1163. I've appointed

  1164. to receive everything

  1165. that you owe to me

  1166. and your master.

  1167. I want you to give

  1168. to them.

  1169. Agapao them.

  1170. Become a copy

  1171. of me

  1172. to him.

  1173. Become a copy

  1174. of me

  1175. to her.

  1176. And this brings me

  1177. to your little bookmark

  1178. that you received today.

  1179. It's a wonderful,

  1180. wonderful book

  1181. by Gerald Sitzer

  1182. and it's wonderful

  1183. to read

  1184. with your community group

  1185. or with your family

  1186. because it explores

  1187. this agapao,

  1188. self-giving love

  1189. in all of its

  1190. multifaceted dimensions.

  1191. But I'll just mention

  1192. a few of these

  1193. aspects of love.

  1194. He says,

  1195. you know,

  1196. when we welcome

  1197. one another,

  1198. it's all about,

  1199. in the church context,

  1200. it's all about

  1201. seeing that stranger

  1202. that walks

  1203. into the door

  1204. and not saying,

  1205. oh, there's a stranger,

  1206. but saying,

  1207. oh, there's a friend

  1208. that I have not yet met.

  1209. It means that

  1210. you take the initiative

  1211. and you go to them

  1212. and you open your heart

  1213. to them

  1214. and you open your home

  1215. to them

  1216. and you ask their name

  1217. and you remember their name

  1218. and you welcome them

  1219. and you say,

  1220. you're not a stranger,

  1221. you're a brother.

  1222. You're not a stranger,

  1223. you're a sister.

  1224. And Sitzer says

  1225. that prayer,

  1226. prayer is perhaps

  1227. the greatest service

  1228. we can render

  1229. to the disciple community

  1230. because prayer is the thing

  1231. that touches us

  1232. at the deepest part

  1233. of our lives

  1234. in those places

  1235. that we cannot touch.

  1236. It's a way that we love

  1237. and we serve each other

  1238. by praying for each other.

  1239. He says that another way

  1240. that we serve people

  1241. is that we give them our time.

  1242. And here in the Bay Area,

  1243. time is often much harder

  1244. to give even than our money,

  1245. right?

  1246. We're so busy.

  1247. And time,

  1248. giving our time

  1249. means that we've got to

  1250. simplify our lives.

  1251. We've got to

  1252. sacrificially release

  1253. more and more

  1254. of our time

  1255. to serve this person

  1256. or to encourage this person.

  1257. You can't serve someone,

  1258. you can't encourage them

  1259. without giving them

  1260. your time.

  1261. And Sitzer says that

  1262. when you see these things

  1263. working in a Christian community,

  1264. welcoming and praying

  1265. and serving

  1266. and encouraging,

  1267. he says,

  1268. you will recognize

  1269. the most Christ-like person

  1270. in your midst

  1271. by the ease

  1272. and the spontaneity

  1273. with which

  1274. they do those little

  1275. annoying and messy things

  1276. that no one else

  1277. wants to do.

  1278. They do the kind of things

  1279. that in the ancient world

  1280. a slave would do.

  1281. Right?

  1282. They do the kind of things

  1283. that we are secretly hoping

  1284. somebody else will do

  1285. because I just really don't

  1286. want to waste my time.

  1287. Jesus says,

  1288. you know,

  1289. I want you to do

  1290. this for each other

  1291. because I've already

  1292. done that for you.

  1293. And why should we do this?

  1294. What's the motivation

  1295. to do this?

  1296. Jesus ends,

  1297. he says in verse 35,

  1298. by this everyone

  1299. will know that you

  1300. are my disciples

  1301. if you love one another.

  1302. It's just inevitable

  1303. that people are going

  1304. to form their view

  1305. of the Lord Jesus

  1306. from your life

  1307. and my life.

  1308. Whether we like it or not.

  1309. And Jesus is telling us

  1310. that the embodied expression

  1311. of this agapao love

  1312. that Jesus has for us,

  1313. when that's operative

  1314. in the life of our community,

  1315. everyone will identify it

  1316. as belonging to Jesus.

  1317. And so the question is,

  1318. have you committed yourself

  1319. have you committed yourself

  1320. yet to a community

  1321. of people here

  1322. with whom you can

  1323. live out these

  1324. one another commands?

  1325. People with whom

  1326. you can pray

  1327. and serve

  1328. and encourage

  1329. and comfort

  1330. and admonish

  1331. in all the ways,

  1332. all the multifaceted ways

  1333. Jesus wants us

  1334. to love one another

  1335. because he says,

  1336. not only will you be blessed

  1337. if you do these things,

  1338. but Jesus says,

  1339. this is how everyone

  1340. around us,

  1341. everyone in our networks,

  1342. everyone in our city

  1343. is going to know

  1344. what the love of Jesus

  1345. is like when they see it

  1346. embodied among us.

  1347. And friends,

  1348. we can kneel down

  1349. before one another

  1350. and we can say to each other,

  1351. I am your servant

  1352. for Jesus' sake

  1353. precisely because

  1354. the greatest power

  1355. in the universe

  1356. has already knelt down.

  1357. And he's not just knelt down

  1358. to wash our feet,

  1359. he knelt all the way down

  1360. to the cross

  1361. to bleed for us,

  1362. to die for us,

  1363. to serve us,

  1364. and to save us.

  1365. And so he says,

  1366. now that you know

  1367. I've done that for you,

  1368. please,

  1369. agapao,

  1370. one another.

  1371. In the name of the Father,

  1372. Son, and Holy Spirit,

  1373. amen.

  1374. Amen.