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Love One Another: “Through Community”
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Reading from the Gospel according to John.
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It was just before the Passover festival.
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Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father.
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Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.
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The evening meal was in progress and the devil had already prompted Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus.
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Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power and that he had come from God and was returning to God.
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So he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist.
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After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples' feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.
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He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, Lord, are you going to wash my feet?
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Jesus replied, you do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand.
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No, said Peter, you shall never wash my feet.
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Jesus answered, unless I wash you, you have no part with me.
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Then Lord Simon Peter replied, not just my feet, but my hands and my head as well.
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Jesus answered, those who have had a bath need only to wash their feet.
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Their whole body is clean, and you are clean, though not every one of you.
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For he knew who was going to betray him, and that was why he said not everyone was clean.
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When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place.
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Do you understand what I have done for you?
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He asked them.
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You call me teacher and Lord, and rightly so, for that is what I am.
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Now that I, your Lord and teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another's feet.
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I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you.
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Very truly, I tell you, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him.
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Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.
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A new command I give you, love one another as I have loved you, so you must love one another.
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By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.
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This is the gospel of the Lord.
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Good morning, Christ Church.
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If you see some people here today who look like they are part of the same gene pool as me and share my DNA,
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your eyes are not playing tricks on you.
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We are delighted to have my brother and his family here with us today.
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And they have offered, yes, they have offered to host a Q&A after this service
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so that you can ask all those questions you have been wanting to know.
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Like, what is up with Jonathan?
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You all seem so well adjusted.
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What happened?
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You can ask them later today.
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But we are going through the gospel of John, and we are in this kind of like moment
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where we are preparing for the 20th birthday of our church.
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And we are using some text in the gospel of John to help us renew our sense of our mission
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and our commitment to that mission.
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And we have said the past few weeks that it is just so important when you sit down
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to hammer out your mission, vision, and values of a new organization, a new institution,
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that you clearly and adequately capture your core identity and your core purpose.
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Who are we?
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Why are we here?
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What do we exist to do?
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And I remember when we were crafting the mission statement of Christ Church,
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we were not satisfied to simply say that we exist to lead people
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into a deeper relationship with Christ and His church and just kind of leave it there
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because we were concerned to add these words through community.
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We want to lead people into a deeper relationship with Christ and His church through community.
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We didn't want people to think that, you know, you can attend a worship service two or three times a month
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or serve once a month on a ministry team and give an occasional financial gift
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and that that would be the extent of your involvement in the mission.
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We wanted to emphasize the personal relationships, the relational fellowship that a living church
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and a dynamic church is meant to experience and express.
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And so we wanted to push people.
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We wanted you to be thinking about all the aspects of what it means to be part of a dynamic Christian community
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that we don't just limit ourselves to a Sunday morning gathering
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but rather our community extends Monday to Saturday
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that we are a people who break bread together, that we open the Bible together, we pray together,
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we bring meals when you get sick and when you have a baby,
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we go on a walk when you're discouraged, we drive you to the airport,
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we watch each other's kids, we tutor your struggling student,
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we visit you in the hospital, we help you move.
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And so today I want to kind of bore down on this question,
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not just what is a good community, a good human community,
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but what is an authentically Christian community?
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What does a Christ-centered and Christ-like community feel like
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and how do we cultivate such a community?
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And I think John 13 is very helpful because Jesus knew that this was the last time
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that he would have with his disciples before he went to the cross.
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And so he's giving them this intensive graduate level training course.
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And John 13 to 17 is the longest single body of Jesus' teaching that we have in the New Testament.
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And he addresses some aspects of Christian community that I think are critical for us to get a hold of here in John 13.
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And we're going to talk about three things.
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First of all, a community of downward mobility,
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a community of gracious sacrifice,
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and a community of one-anothering love.
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A community of downward mobility,
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a community of gracious sacrifice,
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and a community of one-anothering love.
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Let's start with a community of downward mobility.
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In verse 1 it says it was just before the Passover festival,
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and Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and to go to the Father.
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And having loved his own who were in the world,
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he loved them to the end.
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In less than 24 hours,
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Jesus is going to die on the cross.
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And by this time,
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tomorrow on Good Friday,
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the lifeless body of Jesus will be carried to the garden tomb.
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And Jesus, well aware that this is his certain destiny,
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he wants to show his disciples what it means to love them to the end.
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And so it says in verse 3,
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Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power,
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and that he had come from God and was returning to God.
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And so he got up from the meal,
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took off his outer clothing,
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wrapped a towel around his waist.
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And after that,
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he poured water into a basin
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and began to wash his disciples' feet,
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drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.
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Jesus,
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knowing what was at stake
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with his disciples,
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he wasn't talking with them about the weather,
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or sports,
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or the NCAA tournament,
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or politics,
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or international affairs,
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or the rising and falling of the stock market.
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He was talking with them about the things that were most crucial for their life with God.
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In fact,
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Jesus actually wasn't even really talking with them at all.
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He was showing them something.
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And what was he showing them?
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Well,
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we know that in the other Gospels,
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Matthew,
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Mark,
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and Luke,
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this is the moment where Jesus' disciples were arguing with each other about which of them was the greatest disciple.
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And Jesus,
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in the midst of that argument,
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he tells them,
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I am among you as the one who serves.
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And it was clear in that moment that none of the disciples were prepared to wash the feet of Jesus.
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None of them were prepared to wash each other's feet.
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And so,
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Jesus,
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in that moment,
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puts himself in the position that they should have been in.
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Jesus says he rose from the table,
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he took off his outer garments,
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and he tied the towel around his waist.
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Now, let's just pause there to make a cultural observation
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that what Jesus is doing here socially is not just jarring,
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but it's offensive.
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Because people,
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as you know,
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they didn't wear socks and shoes like we do.
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They wore sandals.
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It was hot.
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It was arid.
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They needed sandals on their feet.
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But also,
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very few first century homes
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had toilets and sewers like ours do.
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And so,
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they would take the refuse of chamber pots,
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and very often those would be dumped out into the streets.
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Add on to that the manure of animals going up and down on the streets
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and the accumulation of food waste.
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An ancient street could be a pretty nasty place.
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And so,
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when you would arrive at a meal,
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you would arrive with pretty stinky,
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pretty grimy feet.
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And the question is,
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who is it that is to wash those feet?
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And the answer was,
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a slave.
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That was the job of a slave.
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And not a high-ranking slave,
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mind you.
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But the lowest of the low.
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This was such an undignified and reviled task
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that later rabbis would not allow Jews
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to carry out this role.
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But I want to also not just make a cultural observation.
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I want to make a theological observation here
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that at this Passover feast,
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Jesus is the host.
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Jesus is the teacher.
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And therefore,
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he's a person of high status.
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He's a person
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with great social honor.
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But he's so much more
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than just a host and a teacher.
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It says again in verse 3,
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that Jesus knew the Father
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had put all things under his power
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and that he had come from God
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and was returning to God.
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Now, if you and I were to finish that sentence,
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that Jesus knew he had all things
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put under him,
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under his power by God,
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that he had come from God
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and that he was going to God,
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we probably would have finished that sentence
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and we would have written,
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Jesus then displayed the majesty
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of the one
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who possesses all authority
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in the universe.
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And Jesus, of course,
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does know that he's co-eternal
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with the Father
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in dignity and majesty
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and glory and power.
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He knows that from all eternity,
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he's been face to face
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with God himself,
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that he's been the one
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in closest relationship to the Father
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and that in just a little while,
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he's going back
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to sit on the very throne of God.
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Jesus knows himself
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to be the Lord of all
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and yet what does he do
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with that power?
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He humbles himself.
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He becomes the lowest
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of the lowest slave
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and he begins to wash
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the dirty feet
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of his disciple community
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that frankly was just too self-concerned
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about who was the greatest
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to wash Jesus' feet,
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to untie his sandals.
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And in this prophetic action,
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in this acted parable,
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the Son of the living God,
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the King of heaven,
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the Lord of glory,
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the Word made flesh,
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he's giving us a sketch
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in miniature
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of the larger portrait
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of his overall humiliation.
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If we can pull up a slide,
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I hope we have a slide
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that you can see.
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Many scholars like to point out
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the striking parallel
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between this text
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and Philippians chapter 2.
Philippians 2 chapter mention
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I don't know if we have that or not.
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Maybe, maybe not.
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Okay.
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Don't worry about it.
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If you know Philippians chapter 2,
Philippians 2 chapter mention
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the Apostle Paul
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is writing there
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that Jesus
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began in the highest glory of heaven
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and that he then came down
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into the deepest depths
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of the human condition
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into a world
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full of dirty feet
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and grimy souls.
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And he emptied himself.
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He humbled himself.
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He took the lowliest position
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of a slave
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in order to accomplish
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our cleansing from sin
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by his death on the cross.
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And then the Apostle Paul says
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then he was exalted
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to the highest place,
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to the highest place of honor
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at the right hand of the Father.
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And this,
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in the New Testament,
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is the V shape
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of God's rescue operation.
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There's the downward mobility
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of Jesus' humiliation
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and then there's the upward mobility
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of his exaltation.
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The downward mobility
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of Jesus' incarnation
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and his crucifixion
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and the upward mobility
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of his resurrection
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and his ascension.
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And what Jesus is showing us
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is that the way up
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is actually the way down.
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And this foot washing
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is not simply
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the humble service
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of a man to his equals,
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nor is it even
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the service of a good man
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to others less fortunate
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than himself.
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But rather this foot washing
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and the crucifixion
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to which it points
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is Jesus' way of showing us
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who God is
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and what God is like.
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This is the humble service
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of God
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to sinful humanity
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in need
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of cleansing.
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There's a downward mobility
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in the heart of God.
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There's a downward mobility
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in the mind
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of Christ.
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Let's just pause
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here
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for some application.
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What does this mean
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for us?
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Well,
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first of all,
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if you're here
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exploring Christianity,
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I want you to consider
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whether or not
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the other world religions
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have anything like
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what is going on
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here in this text.
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If you read Buddha
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and you read Muhammad,
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they are repeatedly
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and clearly denying
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that they are God.
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They're very often
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pointing away
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from themselves
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and saying,
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that is the light
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as far as I understand it,
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so follow that.
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Follow the light.
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And Jesus,
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on the other hand,
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is pointing to himself
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and he's saying,
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I am the light
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of the world,
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follow me.
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I'll be the one
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to lead you
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out of the darkness.
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Buddha and Muhammad
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are very often saying,
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that is the way.
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Walk in it.
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That is the truth.
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Trust it.
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That is the life.
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Go live that life.
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And Jesus,
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he's pointing to himself
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and saying,
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I am the way.
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I am the truth.
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I am the life.
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And no one comes
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to the Father
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except through me.
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Jesus is constantly
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making these astonishing
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claims that no other
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religious leader
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has made.
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and yet notice
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that his foot washing
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is the exact opposite
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of his claims.
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In Jesus Christ,
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you have this striking
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juxtaposition
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between the loftiness
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of his claims
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and the lowliness
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of his behavior.
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is there any other
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religion in which
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you see the master
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making such incredible
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claims about himself
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and yet humbling himself
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to wash the feet
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of his disciples?
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What the gospels
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are telling us
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is that here
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in the stooping figure
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of the slave
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is revealed for us
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the majesty
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of the one true God.
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The second application
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is if you're a Christian,
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the early church
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said that Jesus'
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downward mobility
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was to be
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a defining mark
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of the disciple community.
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And they said
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this right here
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is the measure
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of greatness
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among us.
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The one who most
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humbles himself,
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the one who goes
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the lowest,
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the one who gets
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the most dirty,
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the one who acts
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most like a slave,
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the one who does
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the most menial
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of tasks.
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The apostle Peter
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who we'll talk about
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in a moment,
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he has a front row seat
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to this,
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he experiences
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the foot washing himself.
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And he writes
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a letter later on
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to Christians
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who are scattered
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throughout the Roman Empire
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and he says
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in 1 Peter 5,
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Peter says,
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clothe yourselves
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with humility
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toward one another.
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And that verb
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clothe
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reflects
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the picture
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of a slave
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who's tying a towel
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around his waist.
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He says,
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clothe yourselves
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like Jesus
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clothed himself
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with humility
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toward one another.
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Or think about
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the apostle Paul.
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Anyone know
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the first words
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that Paul writes
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in his magisterial letter
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to the church
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in Rome?
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His first words
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are Paul,
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a slave
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of Christ Jesus.
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Can you imagine
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waking up tomorrow
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morning and saying,
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that is who I am,
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Jonathan,
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a slave
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of Christ Jesus.
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But Paul goes on
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and he writes
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to the Christian community
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in Corinth
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and he says,
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he says to them,
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we are slaves,
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we are your slaves
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for Jesus' sake.
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So to the,
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to a Christian community,
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the mark of Christian community
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is that we are a people
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who kneel down
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in our hearts
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before our fellow disciples
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and by our humble service
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we say,
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I am your servant
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for Jesus' sake.
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And that's the test.
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That's how you know
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that you've come in contact
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with an authentically
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Christian community.
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It's a community
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of downward mobility.
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It's a community
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that says,
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I'm a slave
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of yours
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for Jesus' sake.
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But secondly,
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not just a community
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of downward mobility
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but a community
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of gracious sacrifice.
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I want us to think
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about a community
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of gracious sacrifice.
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In verse five,
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again it says,
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after that he poured water
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into a basin
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and began to wash
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his disciples' feet,
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drying them with a towel
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that was wrapped around him.
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And I want us to notice
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that Jesus is graciously
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loving his disciple community
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in the face of forces
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that would stop most of us
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from loving other people
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in this moment.
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Because I think most of us
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would say,
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you know,
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when I'm under intense stress,
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when I'm under incredible
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pressure and strain,
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I tend to kind of focus
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more on myself,
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right?
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But Jesus knows
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that in the next 24 hours
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he's going to die.
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And yet in the face
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of his impending death,
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who's he thinking about?
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He's thinking about the needs
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of each one of his disciples.
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And notice that Jesus
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loves his disciples
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in spite of their unworthiness.
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Jesus in a moment
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is going to predict
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that Judas will betray him
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and that Peter will deny him
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and that the rest
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are going to abandon him.
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And we don't know
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which of those disciples
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Jesus started with
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in the foot washing.
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We don't know
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where he began.
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But we do know
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that Jesus eventually
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washed the guy
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who was about
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to have him killed.
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And then he washed
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the feet of each one
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who would forsake him
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and hurt him terribly
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within the next 24 hours.
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And Jesus is just
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graciously loving
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each disciple
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without exception.
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And he's not doing
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what I do
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and what you may do sometimes.
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He's not doing
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a cost-benefit analysis
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of his little
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disciple community there.
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He's not evaluating
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each disciple on what,
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let's see,
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what have they done
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for me lately?
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How much am I getting
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out of this relationship
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with this disciple?
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At no point
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is Jesus saying,
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you know,
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I'll be in this community
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as long as it's
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making me happy,
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as long as it's
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fulfilling my needs.
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But the moment it's not,
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I'm out of here.
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No, Jesus,
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it says he loves
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his disciples
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to the end.
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He's not loving them
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because they're great,
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he's loving them
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because he's great.
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He's loving them
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with the power
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of unconditional
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electing love.
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He's loving them
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with a gracious love
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that loves to the end.
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A love that will
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never forsake you,
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even when I'm getting
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nothing out of the relationship,
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even when this relationship
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is costing me terribly.
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And at some point,
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Jesus,
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coming around the circle
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of all the disciples,
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he gets to the leader.
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He gets to the leader
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of the twelve,
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and this is what it says
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in verse six.
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He came to Simon Peter
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who said to him,
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Lord,
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are you going to wash my feet?
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And Jesus replied,
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you do not realize now
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what I'm doing,
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but later you will understand.
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And Peter said,
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no,
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you shall never wash my feet.
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Jesus answered,
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unless I wash you,
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you have no part
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with me.
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And then,
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Lord,
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Simon Peter replied,
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not just my feet,
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but my hands
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and my head
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as well.
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See,
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when Jesus gazes
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into Peter's eyes
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as he's about
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to wash him,
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Peter protests.
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And it's like Peter
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saying,
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you know,
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you shouldn't be doing
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the work of a slave.
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Isn't there some other
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slave around here
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that we could get
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to do this job?
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But I think Peter
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is also kind of saying,
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hey,
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Jesus,
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I just took a bath.
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I'm not really
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that dirty.
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Like,
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do we have to do
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this foot washing?
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But Jesus here
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is speaking about
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a different kind
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of dirt.
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Right?
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When Jesus says,
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unless I wash you,
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you can have no part
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with me in the salvation
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that I bring,
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he's saying,
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Peter,
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I'm not talking about
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the dirt on your feet.
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Peter,
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I'm talking about
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the fact that you're
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spiritually dirty.
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I'm talking about
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the fact that you are
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morally grimy,
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that morally you stink.
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And Jesus,
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I'm sure,
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has that phrase
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in Psalm 51
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that he's memorized
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in his mind
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in this moment
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that says,
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wash away
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all my iniquity
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and cleanse me
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from my sin.
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And he's saying,
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Peter,
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that's the kind
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of washing,
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that's the kind
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of cleansing
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that you need me
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to do for you.
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And yet,
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Peter here is saying,
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I don't think
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I'm too dirty.
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I don't think
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it calls for such
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drastic measures,
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Jesus.
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And perhaps you feel
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the same way
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about yourself.
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That yes,
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I've made some mistakes,
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but on the whole,
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I'm a good
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and a decent person.
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I've said some things
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that I regret.
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I've done some things
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that I wish I could do
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over,
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but I'm not really sure
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if it's necessary
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for me to be washed
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by the eternal
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Son of God.
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And Jesus says
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to Peter,
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he says in verse 7,
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you do not realize
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now what I'm doing,
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but later
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you will understand.
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He's saying,
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Peter,
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what I'm doing now
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is pointing
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to what I'm going
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to do
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later on my cross.
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This foot washing
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is a signpost
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to my humiliating
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and cleansing death.
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And Peter,
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if you refuse
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the sign
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of what I've come
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to do,
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if you reject
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the reality
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to which the sign
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points,
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my dying on the cross
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to wash away
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your sins,
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then you can have
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absolutely no share
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in the salvation
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that I've come
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to bring.
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And Peter,
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you've got to love Peter
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because he's got
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that personality
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that just goes
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from one extreme
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to the other.
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And Peter says,
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well, Lord,
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not just my feet
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but my hands
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and my head
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as well.
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Give me a bath.
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Just make my whole body
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and my whole soul
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clean right here,
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right now.
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Why do we have to wait
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for your cleansing work
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on the cross tomorrow?
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Let's just do it
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here and now.
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And I wish we could,
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we had the time
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to go into what
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Jesus says to Peter
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but he basically says,
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hey,
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chill out,
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brother.
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But let's just pause
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for some application
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about what this means
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for us.
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Again,
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if you're here
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and you're exploring
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Christianity,
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you need to hear
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the word that Jesus
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says to Peter.
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He says,
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unless I wash you,
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you can have no part
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with me.
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You need to be
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washed
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of the filth
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of your self-centeredness.
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You need to be
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washed of the grime
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of your inordinate
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self-love.
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And if you spend
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enough time
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with Jesus,
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you'll realize
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that he doesn't just
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want to wash you
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from head to foot
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but he wants to wash
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you from the outside
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to the inside.
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He wants to wash
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you in places
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you didn't even know
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were there.
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He wants you to wash
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you in places
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you didn't even know
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were dirty.
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But don't make
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the mistake
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of saying,
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well,
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if I just follow
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Jesus' example,
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if I just serve
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people enough
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and I love people
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enough,
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then I can kind of
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cleanse myself.
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No,
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before you,
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the gospel says
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that before you
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imitate Jesus
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as your example,
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you need to trust
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Jesus as your Savior.
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That as your Savior,
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Jesus must come
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first perform
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a service on you.
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He has to cleanse you.
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He has to forgive you.
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He has to reconcile
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you to God.
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He has to justify you
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in a right relationship
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with your Heavenly Father.
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He must do that first.
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And then,
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having served you
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as your Savior,
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He can then be
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your example
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and He can show you
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how to live out
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His salvation
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in a transformed life
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of service to others.
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So the first question
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you have to ask yourself
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is,
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do I need to be washed?
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And who will wash me?
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Who has the power
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to really deeply
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wash me?
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And who's trustworthy enough?
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Who's died for me?
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Who's bled for me
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and shown
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that they love me
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that much?
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But the second point
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of application
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is that if you're
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a Christian,
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the way that we approach
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our relationships
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in the Christian community
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is not,
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how is this person
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treating me
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and then I will
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do the same for them?
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But rather,
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the question is,
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how has the Lord Jesus
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treated me?
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And that is the model
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for the way
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that I'll treat others.
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With Jesus' power,
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I will display
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the same
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gracious sacrifice
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that I've received
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from Him
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that He's shown to me.
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If the Lord of glory
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has graciously washed
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those dirtiest parts
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of my soul,
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those grimiest parts
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of my innermost being,
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then it's only appropriate
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that I would turn around
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and love
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the way that I've been
-
loved by Jesus.
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Now,
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I don't know
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if you're like me,
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but I say,
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yes,
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I'm all about that,
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but I also have
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kind of a list
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of exceptions.
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that I will do
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what Jesus did for me,
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but not for Him.
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Surely not for her.
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I'm not pointing
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to any particular people
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right now,
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by the way.
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He's a difficult person
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to love.
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She can be
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a real pain in the neck.
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Why should I serve them?
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Why should I kneel down
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before them?
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They don't deserve it.
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But you see,
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if Jesus had said,
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I'm only going to invest
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my time and my energy
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to serve people
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who will never abandon me,
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never betray me,
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never deny me,
-
none of us would be here
-
today,
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would we?
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None of the disciples
-
deserved what Jesus
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is giving them here,
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and none of us
-
deserve it either,
-
but we got it.
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He washed away
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the dirt
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of our self-centeredness.
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He bought us
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with His blood.
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We don't belong
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to ourselves anymore,
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and so we don't get
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to do it the way
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we would normally do it
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because we have
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a new master.
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We got to do things
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His way.
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So the Christian community
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is meant to be
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a community
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of downward mobility.
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It's meant to be
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a community
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of gracious sacrifice,
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but let me close
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by talking about
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the way we're to be
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a community
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of one-anothering love.
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We're called to be
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a community
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of one-anothering love.
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Isadora Duncan
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was the mother
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of modern dance?
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I think she lived
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here in San Francisco,
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and she would often
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quip, she would say,
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if I could say it,
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I wouldn't have
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to dance it.
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If I could say it,
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I wouldn't have
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to dance it,
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and in some ways
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that's what Jesus
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is doing.
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He's saying,
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let me show you
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the dance,
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and then let me
-
explain the dance.
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I'll show you
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the dance,
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and then we'll talk
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about the why
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of the dance
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and the how
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of the dance.
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And so it says
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in verse 12,
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when Jesus had
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finished washing
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their feet,
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he put on his clothes
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and he returned
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to his place
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and he said,
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do you understand
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what I have done
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for you?
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You call me
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teacher and Lord,
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and rightly so,
-
for that is what I am.
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Now that I,
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your Lord and teacher,
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have washed your feet,
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you also should wash
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one another's feet.
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I have set you
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an example that you
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should do
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as I have done
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for you.
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And down in verse 34,
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a new command,
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I give you love
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one another
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as I have loved you,
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so you must love
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one another.
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Quick Greek lesson.
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The Greek verb phileo
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is about the affectionate
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love between friends.
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And the Greek verb erao
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is about the passionate
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love between a husband
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and a wife.
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And the Greek verb stergo
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is about the familial love
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between a parent
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and a child.
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But Jesus right now,
-
he's preparing his disciples
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for some tumultuous days ahead,
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for some really hard
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decades ahead.
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And so he says,
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you're going to need
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a love that's more potent
-
than any of those loves.
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And so the word he uses here
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is agapao.
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This is the unconditional
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self-giving love
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that sacrificially seeks
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what is best for the other.
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It's the divine love
-
at the heart of the Trinity.
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It's this unselfish love,
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this giving love
-
that is to define
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the relationships
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in Jesus' disciple community.
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And what Jesus is saying here,
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he says,
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agapao each other
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as I have agapao'd you.
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Love each other
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out of the love
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that I'm showing you.
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And he says,
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I've set you an example.
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And that word example
-
really pictures a child
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who doesn't know
-
how to write, right?
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They're sitting down,
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they're learning their letters.
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And the teacher
-
comes up to the board,
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the teacher writes a word,
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the teacher writes a sentence,
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and then the child
-
copies the pattern
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of the sentence.
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And now I want you
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to learn my dance moves.
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I want you to follow
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my dance steps.
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Jesus is saying,
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I've taken
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that most shameful place
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as a servant of sinners.
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And that means
-
that you owe me a debt
-
having taken
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that place for you.
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But what he's saying
-
is that now the debt
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you owe to me
-
is to be discharged
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by your subjection
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to one another
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in loving service.
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That the people
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in these pews,
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the people in your
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community group,
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the people in your
-
discipleship group,
-
these are the appointed ones.
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These are the ones
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I've appointed
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to receive everything
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that you owe to me
-
and your master.
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I want you to give
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to them.
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Agapao them.
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Become a copy
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of me
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to him.
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Become a copy
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of me
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to her.
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And this brings me
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to your little bookmark
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that you received today.
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It's a wonderful,
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wonderful book
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by Gerald Sitzer
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and it's wonderful
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to read
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with your community group
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or with your family
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because it explores
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this agapao,
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self-giving love
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in all of its
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multifaceted dimensions.
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But I'll just mention
-
a few of these
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aspects of love.
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He says,
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you know,
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when we welcome
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one another,
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it's all about,
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in the church context,
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it's all about
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seeing that stranger
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that walks
-
into the door
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and not saying,
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oh, there's a stranger,
-
but saying,
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oh, there's a friend
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that I have not yet met.
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It means that
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you take the initiative
-
and you go to them
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and you open your heart
-
to them
-
and you open your home
-
to them
-
and you ask their name
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and you remember their name
-
and you welcome them
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and you say,
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you're not a stranger,
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you're a brother.
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You're not a stranger,
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you're a sister.
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And Sitzer says
-
that prayer,
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prayer is perhaps
-
the greatest service
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we can render
-
to the disciple community
-
because prayer is the thing
-
that touches us
-
at the deepest part
-
of our lives
-
in those places
-
that we cannot touch.
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It's a way that we love
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and we serve each other
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by praying for each other.
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He says that another way
-
that we serve people
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is that we give them our time.
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And here in the Bay Area,
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time is often much harder
-
to give even than our money,
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right?
-
We're so busy.
-
And time,
-
giving our time
-
means that we've got to
-
simplify our lives.
-
We've got to
-
sacrificially release
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more and more
-
of our time
-
to serve this person
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or to encourage this person.
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You can't serve someone,
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you can't encourage them
-
without giving them
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your time.
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And Sitzer says that
-
when you see these things
-
working in a Christian community,
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welcoming and praying
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and serving
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and encouraging,
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he says,
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you will recognize
-
the most Christ-like person
-
in your midst
-
by the ease
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and the spontaneity
-
with which
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they do those little
-
annoying and messy things
-
that no one else
-
wants to do.
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They do the kind of things
-
that in the ancient world
-
a slave would do.
-
Right?
-
They do the kind of things
-
that we are secretly hoping
-
somebody else will do
-
because I just really don't
-
want to waste my time.
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Jesus says,
-
you know,
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I want you to do
-
this for each other
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because I've already
-
done that for you.
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And why should we do this?
-
What's the motivation
-
to do this?
-
Jesus ends,
-
he says in verse 35,
-
by this everyone
-
will know that you
-
are my disciples
-
if you love one another.
-
It's just inevitable
-
that people are going
-
to form their view
-
of the Lord Jesus
-
from your life
-
and my life.
-
Whether we like it or not.
-
And Jesus is telling us
-
that the embodied expression
-
of this agapao love
-
that Jesus has for us,
-
when that's operative
-
in the life of our community,
-
everyone will identify it
-
as belonging to Jesus.
-
And so the question is,
-
have you committed yourself
-
have you committed yourself
-
yet to a community
-
of people here
-
with whom you can
-
live out these
-
one another commands?
-
People with whom
-
you can pray
-
and serve
-
and encourage
-
and comfort
-
and admonish
-
in all the ways,
-
all the multifaceted ways
-
Jesus wants us
-
to love one another
-
because he says,
-
not only will you be blessed
-
if you do these things,
-
but Jesus says,
-
this is how everyone
-
around us,
-
everyone in our networks,
-
everyone in our city
-
is going to know
-
what the love of Jesus
-
is like when they see it
-
embodied among us.
-
And friends,
-
we can kneel down
-
before one another
-
and we can say to each other,
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I am your servant
-
for Jesus' sake
-
precisely because
-
the greatest power
-
in the universe
-
has already knelt down.
-
And he's not just knelt down
-
to wash our feet,
-
he knelt all the way down
-
to the cross
-
to bleed for us,
-
to die for us,
-
to serve us,
-
and to save us.
-
And so he says,
-
now that you know
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I've done that for you,
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please,
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agapao,
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one another.
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In the name of the Father,
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Son, and Holy Spirit,
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amen.
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Amen.