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  1. Today's Old Testament lesson comes from the book of Isaiah, chapter 56, verses 3 through 8.

    Isaiah 56:3–8

  2. Let not the foreigner who has joined himself to the Lord say,

  3. The Lord will surely separate me from his people.

  4. And let not the eunuch say, Behold, I am a dry tree.

  5. For thus says the Lord, to the eunuchs who keep my Sabbath,

  6. who choose the things that please me and hold fast to my covenant,

  7. I will give in my house and within my walls a monument and a name better than sons and daughters.

  8. I will give them an everlasting name that shall not be cut off.

  9. And the foreigners who join themselves to the Lord, to minister to him,

  10. to love the name of the Lord and to be his servants,

  11. everyone who keeps the Sabbath and does not profane it and holds fast my covenant,

  12. these I will bring to my holy mountain and make them joyful in my house of prayer.

  13. Their burnt offerings and their sacrifices will be accepted on my altar.

  14. For my house shall be called a house of prayer for all peoples.

  15. The Lord God, who gathers the outcasts of Israel, declares,

  16. I will gather yet others to him besides those already gathered.

  17. This is the word of the Lord.

  18. Thanks be to God.

  19. Well, as I said at the beginning of the service, we're so glad that you are here,

  20. especially if this is your first Sunday with us.

  21. We want to do everything we can to make sure you feel welcome,

  22. and I trust that that has already happened to some extent.

  23. There will be an opportunity to hang around after the service if you'd like a chance to meet some people,

  24. to shake some hands, and to make some connections here before you head out.

  25. Certainly, if I've not met you, I'd love the chance to do so.

  26. We started a series last week called Church, God's Family in the World.

  27. And as the title would indicate, we are looking at these places in the Bible where we see very clearly

  28. that the church, God's people, is really meant to be thought of as a family.

  29. That of all the images that are used to describe God's people,

  30. the image of family is perhaps the most helpful, the most comprehensive.

  31. It runs from the beginning to the end of Scripture.

  32. And we're doing this for a lot of reasons.

  33. I mean, I think, first off, the idea of family or the topic of family is immediately evocative to us all.

  34. A lot of you went and traveled to see your family over the holidays not too long ago.

  35. Maybe you were freshly reminded both of the joy and also the struggle of family.

  36. Maybe some of you had no family to visit.

  37. And maybe every time the concept of family comes up, you feel the ache of that absence.

  38. But certainly family and the idea of family is evocative to us all.

  39. But there's a deeper reason that we're talking about this.

  40. And that is that I personally believe that the church, especially in the West,

  41. has largely lost sight of the fact that we're called to be a family.

  42. Because we don't operate that way.

  43. And what I hope that we will see over the course of these few weeks of looking at this

  44. is that we are called to be a family in the deepest sense of the word.

  45. And so last week we looked at this place where God promises a family.

  46. He comes to a man named Abram in Genesis 12 and he says,

  47. I see all the brokenness in the world.

  48. I see all the tragedy.

  49. I see all the injustice, all the heartbreak.

  50. And here's what I'm going to do about it.

  51. You know, people say, well, what's God's response to the suffering in the world?

  52. God says, here's what I'm going to do.

  53. I'm going to build a family.

  54. It's going to be a new family, a new humanity.

  55. And through this family, all the families of the earth will be blessed.

  56. So that's what we saw last week.

  57. And then this week, we're going to learn a little bit more about what this family's like.

  58. We're looking at Isaiah chapter 56, verses 3 through 8.

    Isaiah 56:3–8

  59. And at this point in Isaiah, Isaiah's just talked in chapters 52 and 53

  60. about this servant who's going to come, the servant of the Lord.

  61. And he's going to suffer on behalf of the world and God's people.

  62. And then in chapters 54 and 55, Isaiah says that because of his suffering,

  63. God is going to pardon and forgive sin.

  64. And that this grace is going to be open to all who come.

  65. Chapter 55.

  66. And so it could end right there.

  67. You know, Isaiah, forgiveness for everybody.

  68. End of the book.

  69. But it goes on.

  70. And chapter 56 begins to show us the so what.

  71. So now that this servant, whom the early church immediately recognized as Jesus,

  72. now that the servant has done this, so what?

  73. What changes?

  74. And that's what chapter 56 is all about.

  75. As a result of the servant of the Lord coming and suffering,

  76. God's family in the world becomes unlike any other family.

  77. And so we're going to see a couple of things about this family.

  78. First, we're going to see why we need a new family.

  79. And then second, we're going to see what's so new about God's family.

  80. What makes it different?

  81. And then at the very end, there'll be a little word on how we join God's family.

  82. So why do we need a new family?

  83. What's so new about God's family?

  84. And then lastly, just a little bit on how we join God's family.

  85. Let's pray.

  86. Lord, we do recognize that this is a topic fraught with emotion, fraught with struggle.

  87. It evokes specific memories.

  88. Lord, as we think about potentially the fragmentation, the division, the brokenness that we experience in our own families here,

  89. those of us with families, and also those of us who struggle because we don't have family, we feel alone in the world.

  90. May this speak to all of us, Lord, and give us a kind of hope that can only be found in you.

  91. We pray this in your son's holy name.

  92. Amen.

  93. So the first question we want to ask is, why do we even need a new family?

  94. Why would this be good, relevant news for any of us here?

  95. The fact of family is this.

  96. Family is necessary.

  97. To some extent, family is necessary.

  98. It was necessary to bring you into the world.

  99. And it's very important and very central to what it means to be human.

  100. But there's one Achilles heel in every family.

  101. One weakness inherent to all families.

  102. And that is this, that families are by definition exclusive.

  103. By definition, families are exclusive.

  104. What makes you family is that you share a unique family lineage, a unique bloodline, a unique DNA.

  105. And while in some ways you can marry into and be adopted and all of these things,

  106. there's still this sense that blood ties us together more closely than anything else in the world.

  107. And there's no way to get that DNA unless you're born in.

  108. There's no way to really, truly be family in the DNA sense of the word unless you're born into it.

  109. And over the course of human history, what history has shown us, if anything,

  110. is that we have inherited a tendency to prefer people who are like us,

  111. to prefer people who are family,

  112. to prefer people who are similar,

  113. to prefer the closer kinship ties over people who are not.

  114. We give preference to our family over anybody else.

  115. And most people in the world would say, as it should be.

  116. But by definition, family is exclusive.

  117. And that way of thinking had become entrenched in Israel.

  118. They not only preferred personally Israelites to anyone else,

  119. but they had actually come to believe that God was the same way.

  120. That the family of Israel, the nation of Israel,

  121. occupied a special place in God's economy.

  122. That they were uniquely blessed because they were Israelites,

  123. descendants of Abram.

  124. And so we have this place in Isaiah 56,

  125. where God addresses this very thing.

  126. It says this in verse 3,

  127. Let not the foreigner who has joined himself to the Lord say,

  128. The Lord will surely separate me from his people.

  129. And let not the eunuch say,

  130. Behold, I am a dry tree.

  131. So here we have two groups of people,

  132. two categories,

  133. who under the old covenant,

  134. the old standard of relationship between God's people and God.

  135. According to the old covenant,

  136. these are people who were not allowed into the temple.

  137. They were not allowed into the presence of God.

  138. They were not allowed to have fellowship with God's people.

  139. They were excluded from the family of God.

  140. They were on the outside.

  141. And I want to look at each just in a little more detail to help you understand this.

  142. First of all, we have this category of foreigners.

  143. We need to understand that originally God, as we said a moment ago,

  144. God came to Abram and said,

  145. Here's my plan.

  146. I'm going to make out of you a family and a nation.

  147. And through your family, all the families of the earth are going to be blessed.

  148. So it was important for a while to make sure that Abraham's family remained distinct

  149. so that it would be clearly seen when God fulfilled his promise.

  150. If the family became diffuse and ceased to be a family,

  151. how could we ever see whether or not God fulfilled his promise?

  152. And yet, we see this progression.

  153. Abraham and Sarah miraculously get pregnant.

  154. They have kids, and they have kids, and they have kids,

  155. and eventually this becomes a huge family.

  156. Abraham, a small nation.

  157. And so naturally, by Isaiah's time,

  158. many Israelites had come to believe that they were somehow favored by God

  159. because they were related to Abraham, were sons of Abraham.

  160. So their racial identity had become an idol.

  161. Right?

  162. You ask a Jew in Isaiah's day,

  163. What is your hope of salvation?

  164. What's your hope of fellowship with God?

  165. Well, you have to be born an Israelite.

  166. You have to be of the right race.

  167. It's salvation through race.

  168. And if you're not, well, tough luck.

  169. And still today, this doesn't exist in the same form today,

  170. but still today, I would say that the church, God's people,

  171. our world, our society in general, is deeply divided by race.

  172. As we all know, I don't have to make that case for you.

  173. We're reminded of it again and again and again in the news.

  174. We're reminded of it when we look around this room.

  175. Deeply divided by race.

  176. Here in D.C. there are white churches and African-American churches

  177. and Hispanic churches and Korean churches.

  178. Because of our tendency to want to be around people who look and act like we do.

  179. And there's been a tendency all through the history of the church

  180. to assume that God must be with you more.

  181. That God must prefer your kind of worship music more.

  182. That God must be more glorified by your culture of worship than anyone else.

  183. That God, the way you talk about God, that you must have it more right.

  184. Now, we don't say this, but many of us think it.

  185. On some deep level.

  186. So that's foreigners.

  187. But also, it goes on, and it doesn't just address people who are of other races.

  188. It addresses eunuchs.

  189. Let not the eunuchs say, behold, I am a dry tree.

  190. Now, eunuch in the Bible is a complicated category.

  191. It's a very broad category.

  192. It can refer to any number of situations.

  193. In the ancient Near East, you don't have a free market society.

  194. Right?

  195. You have the entire political and economic sphere was governed largely by kings and emperors.

  196. Who had, you know, it was monarchy.

  197. And many of these rulers had harems.

  198. And one of the ways that you could, if you were just an average guy,

  199. and you wanted to climb the ranks and have success in your career,

  200. one of the ways that you could really put yourself, you know,

  201. one of the things that would make your resume stand out from the pile,

  202. is if you were castrated.

  203. Because if you castrate yourself,

  204. that king who has that harem,

  205. knows, well, I can trust this guy,

  206. not to fool around in the harem.

  207. And so eunuchs would get promoted.

  208. They would be put in positions of great trust and great responsibility.

  209. They were given enormous amounts of power because these monarchs could trust them.

  210. And it was one of the only ways you could climb the ladder of success,

  211. was to castrate yourself.

  212. But beyond that, there's also references, like Jesus says in Matthew 19,

  213. that there are other kinds of eunuchs.

  214. There are eunuchs who have been so from birth, he says.

  215. People who are either asexual, or they lack sexual attraction,

  216. or because of any number of sexual desires other than the opposite sex,

  217. they would never procreate.

  218. And what we need to see here is that in Isaiah,

  219. the focus is really on procreation.

  220. So when we hear the word eunuch,

  221. and we think about people,

  222. we think about any number of people who, for any number of reasons,

  223. will not go on to procreate.

  224. And the reason that that's the focus is because in the ancient Near Eastern culture,

  225. I know I'm giving you a lot of context here,

  226. but it's really important to understand this.

  227. In this culture, family was everything.

  228. Now we can't imagine that really in the same way because of the society we live in.

  229. We're much more individualistic.

  230. But in this society, if you had a family,

  231. if you had kids, if you had a lot of kids,

  232. and you could pass on the family name and the family land,

  233. that was everything.

  234. That was all of your hope.

  235. To not have a family, to not have kids,

  236. to be barren, to be unmarried,

  237. to be a widow,

  238. was a death sentence.

  239. A death sentence.

  240. To not have a family was a death sentence.

  241. You were a nobody.

  242. You were worse than a nobody.

  243. So let's think about how this would apply today.

  244. I mean, luckily today,

  245. castration isn't as necessary

  246. for career success and ascension.

  247. Luckily, that's not really required for most jobs.

  248. But here in D.C.,

  249. here in D.C.,

  250. we still have plenty of people

  251. who have so prioritized career and success

  252. that they have forsaken family.

  253. They're not castrated,

  254. but they're people who have basically said,

  255. I can either choose to invest in a family

  256. and finding somebody and getting married,

  257. or I can invest in my career,

  258. and I choose my career.

  259. And that's a very viable choice today.

  260. More and more and more people are making that choice.

  261. And they get older and older and older,

  262. and at some point,

  263. their ability to get married,

  264. their ability to have kids is gone,

  265. and they're married to their career.

  266. So this happens a lot.

  267. Also, some of us are here and we're single,

  268. and maybe we want to get married,

  269. but for whatever reason,

  270. it hasn't happened.

  271. You just haven't found the right person.

  272. It just hasn't worked out.

  273. And though many people who are single

  274. who want to get married

  275. will end up getting married probably one day,

  276. there will probably be some of us who don't.

  277. And we're looking at life

  278. as a single, unmarried person.

  279. So there's also some people who have been married,

  280. but you got divorced.

  281. And so because you got divorced,

  282. that's the reality that you face,

  283. and you may not ever get remarried.

  284. Some of us are married.

  285. Some of us are married

  286. and we really want to have kids,

  287. but we struggle with infertility.

  288. And no matter what you do,

  289. no matter how hard you try,

  290. no matter what methodology you employ,

  291. no matter how much you research it,

  292. for whatever reason,

  293. doctors don't fully understand it.

  294. You just aren't able to get pregnant.

  295. Now I bring all these things up,

  296. and you do a list like this,

  297. and I want to recognize

  298. each one of these things

  299. is a source of great pain and great struggle.

  300. Great pain and great struggle in our church.

  301. These are very relevant issues

  302. in our community right now.

  303. So whether you've forsaken these things

  304. because of your career,

  305. or you haven't been able to get married

  306. and you want to,

  307. or you were married but divorced,

  308. or you're unable to have children,

  309. they're all categories of people

  310. who would in some way fit

  311. what Isaiah's talking about.

  312. Because here's the thing.

  313. Even though our culture is very individualistic,

  314. I'll make a contention here.

  315. You can feel free to disagree with me.

  316. This is an observation.

  317. Even though we're individualistic,

  318. I think that paradoxically,

  319. we still have a high idolatry

  320. of the nuclear family.

  321. I think they both coexist in our culture,

  322. and it's a weird paradox.

  323. But we still have a kind of paradoxical

  324. idolatry

  325. idolatry

  326. of the ideal

  327. of getting married and having kids.

  328. It's as though

  329. the only valid way

  330. to grow up

  331. is to get married and have kids.

  332. I don't know if that resonates with you at all,

  333. but I know that

  334. at least in the conservative church world,

  335. this is very much encouraged,

  336. this way of thinking.

  337. Not overtly,

  338. I think largely unintentionally.

  339. But in the conservative church,

  340. Christians have perpetuated this.

  341. They've put the vision

  342. of traditional family

  343. kind of up on this pedestal.

  344. And it said,

  345. here's this ideal,

  346. and they've defended it

  347. from onslaught,

  348. from all sides, right?

  349. And what this does unintentionally

  350. is it sends a message.

  351. It says,

  352. the only valid way

  353. to become a grown-up

  354. is to get married and have kids.

  355. But,

  356. unless you're marriageable

  357. and fertile,

  358. this is not for you.

  359. And so then the question becomes,

  360. well, what is there for me?

  361. Silence.

  362. Well,

  363. I don't know.

  364. You can join our singles ministry.

  365. So if you're single or divorced,

  366. or you're married but you're infertile,

  367. or you're a gay or lesbian person

  368. or transgender person

  369. who's chosen to remain unmarried,

  370. or you're an orphan,

  371. you're a widow,

  372. if you diverge in any way

  373. from the ideal,

  374. then you're made to feel

  375. somehow incomplete,

  376. like a second-class citizen,

  377. like there's really not a place

  378. for you here,

  379. like you're somehow less than.

  380. So this is why God,

  381. from the beginning,

  382. promised to establish

  383. an entirely new kind of family.

  384. This is why

  385. the concept of nuclear family,

  386. as good as it is,

  387. is not good enough.

  388. Because there are

  389. way too many people in the world

  390. for whom that's not going

  391. to be a reality.

  392. That's a huge need

  393. right here in this city,

  394. right here in our congregation.

  395. So that leads us

  396. to the second question,

  397. what's so new

  398. about God's family?

  399. And I just want

  400. to read you this.

  401. Remember,

  402. in light of the fact

  403. that the servant

  404. of the Lord has come,

  405. in light of the fact

  406. that Jesus has come,

  407. here's what God says.

  408. To the eunuchs

  409. who keep my Sabbath,

  410. who choose the things

  411. that please me

  412. and hold fast my covenant.

  413. In other words,

  414. to those who bind themselves

  415. to the Lord

  416. and say,

  417. your way is my way,

  418. I trust you,

  419. I want to belong to you.

  420. To those people,

  421. I will give in my house

  422. and within my walls

  423. a monument and a name

  424. better than sons and daughters.

  425. I will give them

  426. an everlasting name

  427. that shall not be cut off.

  428. So in other words,

  429. you're worried about

  430. not having kids?

  431. In my house,

  432. in my family,

  433. in the family of God,

  434. you're going to have

  435. so many kids,

  436. you're not going to know

  437. what to do with them.

  438. You're worried about your name

  439. not being passed

  440. to the next generation?

  441. I will give you a name

  442. and a monument

  443. greater than sons and daughters.

  444. Whatever blessing you think

  445. that you might have

  446. through a nuclear family,

  447. you're going to find

  448. so much more

  449. in the family of God.

  450. And then he goes on

  451. and says,

  452. and the foreigners

  453. who join themselves

  454. to the Lord

  455. to minister to him,

  456. to love the name of the Lord

  457. and be his servants,

  458. everyone who keeps the Sabbath

  459. and does not profane it

  460. and holds fast my covenant,

  461. these I will bring

  462. to my holy mountain

  463. and make them joyful

  464. in my house of prayer.

  465. So what's he saying here?

  466. Jesus came to establish

  467. a new family.

  468. And it's a family

  469. that unlike nuclear families

  470. is radically inclusive

  471. in a way that no other family

  472. on earth could be.

  473. And you see this

  474. regarding foreigners,

  475. regarding racial division.

  476. Regarding racial division,

  477. this is why when Jesus came,

  478. one of the first things he did,

  479. and he did this multiple times,

  480. in John's gospel,

  481. he does it early,

  482. in the other gospels,

  483. he does it later in his ministry,

  484. and what that means is

  485. he probably did it multiple times.

  486. He goes straight

  487. to the temple in Jerusalem,

  488. and he goes into the area

  489. called the Court of the Gentiles,

  490. where foreigners

  491. were allowed to come.

  492. You couldn't come in the temple,

  493. but you could come

  494. to the Court of the Gentiles.

  495. It had been filled

  496. with money lenders

  497. and vendors

  498. and animal sellers,

  499. and so the Gentiles

  500. couldn't get in to pray.

  501. And so Jesus comes

  502. and he kicks all those people out,

  503. and what does he do?

  504. He quotes this passage.

  505. For it is written,

  506. my house shall be a prayer,

  507. a house of prayer

  508. for all people.

  509. In other words,

  510. he's blatantly accusing them

  511. of racism.

  512. He's saying,

  513. you're racist.

  514. You've forgotten

  515. what you're about.

  516. You've forgotten

  517. that this is meant

  518. to be for everybody,

  519. not just you,

  520. but a global family.

  521. Let not the foreigners say,

  522. I am a second-class citizen

  523. in God's family.

  524. And the early Christians

  525. got this,

  526. and it's so beautiful

  527. when you see

  528. how the early church

  529. lived this out.

  530. I've said this before,

  531. but one of my favorite

  532. illustrations of this

  533. is the story of Antioch,

  534. which is the place

  535. where Christians

  536. were first called Christians,

  537. and it was a derogatory term.

  538. But in the city of Antioch,

  539. when they built Antioch,

  540. they didn't just build walls

  541. around the city,

  542. but they built large walls

  543. to separate all of the ethnic groups

  544. from one another.

  545. And so there were at least

  546. 18 distinct

  547. walled-off sectors

  548. of the city.

  549. So life was completely divided

  550. along racial and ethnic lines.

  551. Now, if you looked at a map of D.C.,

  552. now we don't have physical walls,

  553. but you could probably draw

  554. some pretty strong lines,

  555. and you'd see the same thing.

  556. And guess what?

  557. Until the Christian gospel came,

  558. that was the way it was.

  559. But when the Christian gospel

  560. hit Antioch,

  561. what the Christians began to do,

  562. because they recognized

  563. that the purpose

  564. of the family of God

  565. was to be a family

  566. inclusive of all people,

  567. they began to climb

  568. over the walls.

  569. And they began to share

  570. the good news of Jesus

  571. with everybody.

  572. And so that's why

  573. in that great place in Acts,

  574. when we see the leaders,

  575. the leaders who represent

  576. the church in Antioch,

  577. it's leaders from

  578. all different races,

  579. all different backgrounds,

  580. who represented the leadership

  581. of the church in Antioch.

  582. And you know,

  583. this is especially important

  584. to remember on this weekend,

  585. Martin Luther King weekend

  586. of all weekends,

  587. and to recognize

  588. how much work

  589. there is still to do.

  590. So there was an overcoming

  591. of racial division

  592. because God's family

  593. was never meant to be limited

  594. to one race,

  595. one ethnicity,

  596. one culture,

  597. one country.

  598. All of the rhetoric

  599. about America being

  600. God's kind of chosen

  601. Christian nation,

  602. it completely

  603. loses sight of this.

  604. But then he goes on

  605. and it talks about

  606. all the people

  607. who for various reasons

  608. don't have a nuclear family

  609. or a spouse

  610. or they're not going to have

  611. kids of their own.

  612. It says,

  613. let not the eunuch

  614. say I'm a dry tree.

  615. So it's saying this,

  616. to all of us

  617. who are single

  618. or who are infertile

  619. or who are divorced

  620. or who have lost

  621. our parents,

  622. for whatever reason

  623. we don't have

  624. a nuclear family,

  625. God is saying this,

  626. that even the best family

  627. in the world

  628. is only a shadow

  629. of what the family

  630. of God is

  631. and is becoming

  632. and will be.

  633. Even the best family

  634. in the world

  635. is only a shadow,

  636. a preview

  637. of what God's family

  638. is going to be

  639. in the world.

  640. The family,

  641. the church,

  642. is our family.

  643. The reality

  644. of the church

  645. is this,

  646. everybody around you

  647. who's a part of the church,

  648. this is your family.

  649. So all of the people

  650. who are older than you,

  651. those are your mothers

  652. and your fathers.

  653. They took this literally.

  654. All of the people

  655. who are younger than you,

  656. those are your children.

  657. You didn't know

  658. you had so many children.

  659. Why do you think

  660. every week we pray

  661. for our children together?

  662. Have you ever thought

  663. about what we pray?

  664. We pray together

  665. for our children

  666. and then we pray

  667. for ourselves

  668. that we would be able

  669. to raise them

  670. knowing the Lord

  671. and loving the Lord

  672. because we recognize

  673. that we share

  674. in the responsibility

  675. for raising our kids.

  676. So when my five-year-old

  677. is dancing up here,

  678. for those of you

  679. who can see him,

  680. you know,

  681. everybody should be thinking,

  682. I wonder if he should

  683. be doing that, right?

  684. Not just me.

  685. But I think it's great.

  686. I love to see him dance.

  687. But we should all

  688. have a sense of responsibility

  689. over one another's kids.

  690. The people who are

  691. your same age,

  692. those are your brothers

  693. and sisters.

  694. You have many, many,

  695. many brothers and sisters.

  696. Everybody in here,

  697. if you keep the Sabbath,

  698. in other words,

  699. if you have put your life

  700. in God's hands

  701. in Jesus Christ,

  702. we are family.

  703. And again,

  704. the early church got this

  705. and it radically changed

  706. their lives.

  707. You know,

  708. Rodney Stark,

  709. the sociologist,

  710. historian,

  711. researched the early church

  712. and he says,

  713. this is one of the main reasons

  714. the church grew so quickly

  715. in Rome.

  716. It's because they took in

  717. and cared for widows

  718. and orphans

  719. and eunuchs

  720. and slaves,

  721. people who didn't have

  722. a family.

  723. The Christians said,

  724. we will be your family.

  725. Right?

  726. So they would say to widows,

  727. you don't have to remarry

  728. unless you want to

  729. because we will

  730. be family for you.

  731. They said to the orphans,

  732. we will be your mothers

  733. and your fathers.

  734. You know,

  735. they said to the eunuchs,

  736. here you're going to have

  737. more children

  738. than you know

  739. what to do with.

  740. And they believed it

  741. and they lived it out.

  742. Christian households

  743. were full of people

  744. who were not just

  745. biological family,

  746. but people who had been

  747. taken in and adopted

  748. and become a part

  749. of their household.

  750. This is a vision

  751. for what the church

  752. needs to be today.

  753. It's a commitment

  754. to rethinking

  755. what it means

  756. to be family.

  757. See,

  758. most of us think,

  759. I have a family

  760. and I go to church.

  761. This is saying,

  762. no, no, no, no, no.

  763. The church is your family.

  764. That is the source,

  765. that is the locus

  766. of your primary loyalty

  767. if you're a Christian,

  768. is to the Christian community.

  769. Now,

  770. if you have a family,

  771. that's great,

  772. but that's a part

  773. of a larger thing.

  774. And that's why

  775. it's so amazing

  776. when you see guys

  777. like Stanley Hauerwas

  778. talking about

  779. how radically

  780. this redefined

  781. the concept of family.

  782. He says,

  783. the thing that made

  784. Christianity unique

  785. among all the

  786. traditional religions

  787. is that this is

  788. the only place

  789. where you see

  790. singleness

  791. and marriage

  792. as two equally

  793. viable vocations.

  794. No longer

  795. is marriage necessary.

  796. No longer

  797. is it the only vision

  798. for a way

  799. to be an adult

  800. in the world.

  801. Then all of a sudden

  802. you have singleness

  803. and marriage

  804. and they both

  805. represent something

  806. about God

  807. and they both

  808. represent something

  809. about the Christian community

  810. and they're both

  811. necessary.

  812. And in fact,

  813. a lot of the early writers,

  814. the church fathers

  815. would say that

  816. singleness was preferable

  817. to marriage

  818. for all of these reasons

  819. because they recognized

  820. that in the church

  821. they had gained

  822. a family

  823. that is unimaginably

  824. large

  825. and inclusive

  826. more than you could

  827. ever dream of.

  828. There's a great example

  829. of this in C.S. Lewis'

  830. The Great Divorce.

  831. If you haven't read

  832. The Great Divorce,

  833. it's a shorter book.

  834. It's essentially

  835. about a field trip

  836. that some people

  837. take from hell

  838. to heaven

  839. and it essentially

  840. becomes a kind

  841. of character study

  842. and you see

  843. a series of characters

  844. excuse me

  845. you see a set

  846. of characters

  847. who are all

  848. kind of on the edge

  849. of a choice

  850. between the self-absorption

  851. of hell

  852. and the joyful loss

  853. of self found

  854. in heaven.

  855. And so the narrator

  856. is witnessing

  857. all of these people

  858. and also seeing

  859. these heavenly beings.

  860. And at one point

  861. the narrator turns

  862. and sees this

  863. beautiful procession.

  864. You know,

  865. think of the greatest

  866. bridal possession

  867. you've ever seen.

  868. It's this glorious

  869. procession with singing

  870. and dancing

  871. and all of this

  872. and down either side

  873. of the street

  874. streams of children.

  875. Boys on one side,

  876. girls on the other,

  877. these children dancing.

  878. And at the very center

  879. of it all

  880. is this beautiful woman

  881. who's surrounded

  882. by attendants.

  883. And so he says,

  884. he asks who she is

  885. and his guide

  886. says this,

  887. his guide says,

  888. it's someone

  889. you'll never have

  890. heard of.

  891. Her name on earth

  892. was Sarah Smith

  893. and she lived

  894. at Golders Green.

  895. And the narrator

  896. says,

  897. well she seems

  898. to be a person

  899. of particular importance.

  900. And the narrator

  901. says,

  902. aye,

  903. she is one

  904. of the great ones.

  905. You've heard

  906. that fame

  907. in this country

  908. and fame on earth

  909. are two quite

  910. different things.

  911. So the narrator

  912. says,

  913. and who are

  914. all these young men

  915. and women

  916. on either side?

  917. Who are all

  918. these children?

  919. And the guide

  920. responds,

  921. they're her sons

  922. and daughters.

  923. And he says,

  924. well she must have

  925. had a very large

  926. family, sir.

  927. And listen to

  928. what the guide

  929. says,

  930. every young man

  931. or boy

  932. that met her

  933. became her son.

  934. Even if it was

  935. only the boy

  936. that brought the meat

  937. to her back door,

  938. every girl

  939. that met her

  940. was like her daughter.

  941. And the narrator

  942. still not fully

  943. getting it says,

  944. isn't that a bit

  945. hard on their

  946. own parents?

  947. No,

  948. says the guide.

  949. There are those

  950. that steal

  951. other people's

  952. children.

  953. But her motherhood

  954. was of a different

  955. kind.

  956. Those on whom

  957. it fell

  958. went back

  959. to their natural

  960. parents loving

  961. them more.

  962. And here at the

  963. end,

  964. here is the

  965. summation,

  966. the explanation

  967. of how this

  968. is possible.

  969. The abundance

  970. of life she

  971. has in Christ

  972. from the

  973. father

  974. flows over

  975. into them.

  976. So what is he

  977. saying here?

  978. That there's this

  979. woman who nobody

  980. had heard of,

  981. who likely

  982. didn't even

  983. have kids.

  984. We meet her

  985. husband,

  986. but we hear

  987. no mention

  988. of them

  989. having children.

  990. Her husband

  991. is a little

  992. wispy ghost

  993. who ends up

  994. choosing hell

  995. rather than

  996. choosing to

  997. remain with her

  998. in heaven.

  999. And,

  1000. but we never

  1001. hear of any

  1002. earthly kids,

  1003. and yet in

  1004. the heavenly

  1005. reality,

  1006. which is

  1007. more real

  1008. than the

  1009. earthly reality.

  1010. That's one of

  1011. the things

  1012. about this

  1013. book,

  1014. that the

  1015. heavenly reality

  1016. is more

  1017. real.

  1018. She has

  1019. countless

  1020. sons and

  1021. daughters.

  1022. Why?

  1023. Because of the

  1024. way she loved

  1025. them.

  1026. They weren't

  1027. biologically her

  1028. own children,

  1029. but the love of

  1030. Christ flowed

  1031. through her

  1032. into them

  1033. and joined

  1034. them to her

  1035. as a family,

  1036. a family that

  1037. is more real

  1038. than her

  1039. nuclear family.

  1040. We see her

  1041. husband

  1042. disappearing,

  1043. withering,

  1044. into this

  1045. hellish existence.

  1046. But we see

  1047. her as this

  1048. beautiful,

  1049. radiant queen

  1050. attended by

  1051. children for

  1052. miles and

  1053. miles and

  1054. miles.

  1055. Let not the

  1056. eunuch say I'm

  1057. a dry tree.

  1058. See,

  1059. though Jesus

  1060. Christ has

  1061. established,

  1062. or through

  1063. Jesus Christ,

  1064. God has

  1065. established an

  1066. entirely new

  1067. kind of

  1068. family.

  1069. So the

  1070. question becomes,

  1071. how do we

  1072. become a part

  1073. of this

  1074. family?

  1075. And I said

  1076. this would be

  1077. very quick

  1078. because we're

  1079. out of time.

  1080. I knew we

  1081. would be out

  1082. of time.

  1083. So how do we

  1084. join God's

  1085. family?

  1086. I'm not

  1087. going to get

  1088. into all

  1089. kinds of

  1090. bullet points.

  1091. I just want

  1092. to tell you

  1093. a story.

  1094. I want to

  1095. remind us

  1096. as we close

  1097. here of the

  1098. story that we

  1099. see in Acts

    Acts 8 chapter mention

  1100. chapter 8.

  1101. You heard it

  1102. read a little

  1103. while ago.

  1104. I just want

  1105. to remind you

  1106. of the story.

  1107. Here's how you

  1108. become a part

  1109. of this

  1110. family.

  1111. You read

  1112. Acts chapter 8

    Acts 8 chapter mention

  1113. and you see

  1114. the story of

  1115. this Ethiopian

  1116. eunuch.

  1117. Double whammy,

  1118. he's a foreigner

  1119. and he's a

  1120. eunuch.

  1121. And we see

  1122. that he's this

  1123. great high

  1124. official in the

  1125. Ethiopian court.

  1126. He's over all

  1127. the money.

  1128. Israel.

  1129. And he's

  1130. obviously been

  1131. reading and

  1132. hearing about

  1133. this God of

  1134. Israel.

  1135. And he's been

  1136. studying and so

  1137. he wants to

  1138. come and see

  1139. is there anything

  1140. that this God

  1141. has to offer me?

  1142. Is there anything

  1143. that this God

  1144. has that's

  1145. relevant to me?

  1146. And if you know

  1147. anything about that

  1148. journey, it was

  1149. incredibly long,

  1150. incredibly perilous,

  1151. incredibly dangerous,

  1152. incredibly expensive.

  1153. Travels all the way

  1154. to Jerusalem.

  1155. What would have

  1156. happened when he

  1157. got to the temple?

  1158. Can't come in.

  1159. Sorry.

  1160. So Acts 8 tells

  1161. us that he's

  1162. returning from this

  1163. trip and he's

  1164. reading in Isaiah.

  1165. He's reading in the

  1166. chapter in around

  1167. the 50s.

  1168. No chapter

  1169. numbers back

  1170. then, but he's

  1171. reading around the

  1172. 50s where we are

  1173. in Isaiah.

  1174. Why is he reading

  1175. Isaiah?

  1176. Because he's trying

  1177. to figure out why

  1178. they wouldn't let

  1179. him in.

  1180. And he's reading

  1181. it and he's

  1182. reading about this

  1183. suffering servant in

  1184. chapters 52 and

  1185. 53.

  1186. And it says he's

  1187. reading about this

  1188. person and surely

  1189. he's read a little

  1190. bit later when it

  1191. says, because of

  1192. this servant, because

  1193. of what the servant

  1194. has done, let not

  1195. the eunuch say, I'm a

  1196. dry tree.

  1197. I will give the

  1198. eunuch a name and

  1199. a monument.

  1200. And so you can

  1201. imagine him reading

  1202. that, going back to

  1203. the servant, reading

  1204. that, going back to

  1205. the servant, and

  1206. wondering who in the

  1207. world is this servant?

  1208. And so Philip shows

  1209. up and he says, do you

  1210. understand what you're

  1211. reading?

  1212. And he says, no I

  1213. don't because I need

  1214. somebody to explain it

  1215. to me.

  1216. And I almost think

  1217. that's a veiled

  1218. reference to the

  1219. people in Jerusalem.

  1220. I want to understand

  1221. this.

  1222. And they slam the

  1223. door in my face.

  1224. Who is this servant?

  1225. And he says, is it the

  1226. prophet or is he

  1227. talking about somebody

  1228. else?

  1229. And what does

  1230. Philip do?

  1231. And Philip began

  1232. to share with him

  1233. the good news of

  1234. Jesus Christ.

  1235. And what does the

  1236. eunuch do at the

  1237. end when he hears

  1238. about Jesus?

  1239. He sees water, maybe

  1240. nothing more than a

  1241. little puddle on the

  1242. side of the road.

  1243. And he says, well

  1244. there's water.

  1245. Baptize me right

  1246. now.

  1247. Now why does he say

  1248. that?

  1249. Because of what it

  1250. says in Isaiah 56.

  1251. Let the eunuch who

  1252. binds himself to me, who

  1253. throws his lot in with

  1254. me, who says I want

  1255. your way to be my

  1256. way, I want your

  1257. people to be my

  1258. people, I want your

  1259. name to be my name, to

  1260. replace my name.

  1261. Let not that person

  1262. say, behold I'm a dry

  1263. tree, I will give you

  1264. a monument better than

  1265. sons and daughters, an

  1266. everlasting name.

  1267. And he says, I want

  1268. that, I need that, and

  1269. Jesus can give that to

  1270. me, and what does it

  1271. require of me?

  1272. It requires that I

  1273. repent, that I accept

  1274. his forgiveness, and

  1275. that I'm baptized.

  1276. Why?

  1277. Because baptism is what

  1278. marks our entry into the

  1279. family of God.

  1280. It's baptism.

  1281. baptism.

  1282. That's the distinguishing

  1283. family characteristic.

  1284. And so he says, I want

  1285. that right now.

  1286. So what we see here is

  1287. this, the new family of

  1288. God is not a family of

  1289. blood, it's a family of

  1290. faith.

  1291. And what this story shows

  1292. us here is this profound

  1293. truth that we're going to

  1294. continue to unpack over the

  1295. next several weeks, that in

  1296. God's family, water is

  1297. thicker than blood.

  1298. Water is thicker than

  1299. blood.

  1300. God, let's pray.

  1301. Our Father, we're talking

  1302. about things that are big

  1303. and maybe even seemingly

  1304. abstract.

  1305. May we not hear this and

  1306. simply think it's something

  1307. curious to ponder, but

  1308. rather, Lord, I pray that

  1309. whatever of this is from

  1310. you, that it would strike

  1311. us, that it would strike

  1312. our hearts, that we would

  1313. look at our own houses, our

  1314. own families, our own

  1315. friendships, that we would

  1316. look, those of us who are

  1317. a part of this church, that

  1318. we would look at the way we

  1319. think about this community

  1320. and that this would kindle

  1321. and inspire our imaginations

  1322. to wonder what would it look

  1323. like if we lived this out?

  1324. What might our church, what

  1325. might our community, our

  1326. friendships, how might our

  1327. houses look different if this

  1328. became more real to us?

  1329. We pray this in your son's

  1330. holy name.

  1331. Amen.

  1332. Amen.