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The Birth of a Church

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  1. For those of you who are just joining us, maybe have not been a part of our community before,

  2. what is happening here is really the culmination of something that started close to three years ago in prayer and dreaming.

  3. It's a collaboration between three churches, Church of the Resurrection, Church of the Advent, Church of the Ascension,

  4. three other churches in the D.C. area who have a dream to start new worshiping communities together.

  5. And when this whole thing started over 10 years ago, we had the hope that one day we would look at a neighborhood like Brooklyn

  6. and that we would see a worshiping community birthed here that would come alongside the other churches that are doing great work to serve the city and to bring glory to God.

  7. And so we're here. This is our inaugural gathering.

  8. Some of us have been meeting and working and planning this for, as I said, two and a half, three years now.

  9. But this is our first time gathering here as a church to worship, to hear the word of God and to share in the Lord's Supper.

  10. So it's a great time to be here.

  11. And as I was thinking about this and praying about it, I was realizing that one of the things that we need to think about as we're gathering together for the first time is our expectations.

  12. You know, what are we expecting of this?

  13. And now that it's here, now that we're here, what should we expect of this community?

  14. And as we go forward, what will it look like?

  15. So we have to do a little expectation management.

  16. For me, that's very important in my life to make sure that my expectations align with reality.

  17. Reality.

  18. And in the vein of that, one of the things that's central to the life of all of our communities, including this one,

  19. is that we want to allow God's word to shape how we think about these things.

  20. We want to pattern our lives as a community after scripture.

  21. And so that's what we're going to do.

  22. And we're going to do that by looking at the book of Acts today.

  23. Acts is written by Luke, who was a physician and a historian.

  24. And it's wonderful because it gives us some eyewitness accounts of the very first churches as they were being born.

  25. And so if we want to understand and have a sense of what to expect here, it's great that we're able to look there.

  26. And in particular, we're going to look at chapter 16 and the beginning of the church in a place called Philippi.

  27. And what's really cool is that we're going to look at the birth of this church this week in Acts chapter 16.

    Acts 16 chapter mention

  28. And then beginning next week, we're actually going to be able to look at a letter that Paul wrote to this church 10 years after it began.

  29. And then we're going to do an in-depth study and try to understand some of the things that Paul had to say to this church 10 years after it began.

  30. But today the focus is Acts chapter 16, the birth of the church in Philippi.

    Acts 16 chapter mention

  31. While there's a lot in this passage that we're not going to be able to cover in depth and a lot that is unique to that culture,

  32. there are some things that we can glean in terms of our central question, which is what should we expect?

  33. And this is for people who have been laboring for this long and hard.

  34. And this is also for people who maybe you just kind of wandered in the door because you smelled coffee.

  35. And you're here wondering what this is all about.

  36. For all of us here, there is a need to understand what is this about?

  37. What should we expect out of our time together as we continue to meet?

  38. And so we're going to first look at a couple of things that we should not expect.

  39. A couple of things that we should not expect.

  40. And then we're going to look at a couple of things that we should expect.

  41. Acts chapter 16.

    Acts 16 chapter mention

  42. Let's pray together.

  43. Our Heavenly Father, all of our planning, all of our striving, all of our strategizing, all of our effort, all of the setup, all the coordinating,

  44. Lord, all of that is mere human effort.

  45. And if our hope was based on that alone, we would have no hope.

  46. But we know that somewhere in all of this, you are here and that you're at work and that you speak.

  47. And so, God, we pray that you would speak to us now through your word because we need desperately to hear from you.

  48. We pray this in your son's holy name.

  49. Amen.

  50. So Acts chapter 16.

    Acts 16 chapter mention

  51. What should we expect?

  52. A couple of things that we should not expect here in Brooklyn as we look at the church in Philippi.

  53. First thing is this.

  54. We should not expect that everything will go according to plan.

  55. We should not expect that everything will go according to plan.

  56. I think that we've learned that.

  57. But it's good to be reminded of that.

  58. Right?

  59. If you look at verses 6 through 10 of Acts 16, what does it say?

  60. It says Paul wanted to go to where?

  61. Asia.

  62. I don't know if we can bring it up here.

  63. I don't know if that's possible.

  64. That's okay.

  65. We'll figure that out.

  66. Hopefully, maybe you have a Bible or an iPhone or something that you can look at if you'd like.

  67. But it says that Paul wants to go to Asia and to Bithynia.

  68. But then what does it say?

  69. The spirit of Jesus prevented it.

  70. Now, I wish I could say, you know, well, according to the commentaries, this is what that actually means.

  71. But that's really all we're given.

  72. Paul wanted to go there and Jesus said, no.

  73. And instead, Paul is given this vision of a man calling them to come into Europe and to preach the gospel there.

  74. And when we say the gospel, we mean the good news about Jesus.

  75. And this man says, come.

  76. We need the gospel here.

  77. And so that's where they go.

  78. And there's no reason given.

  79. We have no reason why.

  80. But Paul obediently goes.

  81. And it's good to be reminded right off the bat that God is the one calling the shots, not us.

  82. Right?

  83. That life in the church, life in God's community is like this dance.

  84. And it's a dance between us and God, between human striving and divine sovereignty.

  85. And God is the one leading the dance.

  86. And, you know, anytime you see, you know, if you watch Dancing with the Stars or anything like that, you know, the one leading the dance has to be very tuned in with and aware of their partner.

  87. And yet they initiate the movement and the partner has to be very tuned into and aware of the lead.

  88. And they need to be able to respond in a way where their movement looks fluid and unified.

  89. So Paul has a sense, God is not leading me here.

  90. He's leading me here.

  91. And so Paul immediately yields to that.

  92. And the dance goes on.

  93. So God is always inviting us into the dance.

  94. He's always inviting us to be a part of what he's doing.

  95. And the question that we always have to ask is, how do we respond?

  96. Do we respond?

  97. How much do we struggle before we allow him to lead the dance?

  98. We had three meeting spaces fall through over two years before our fourth attempt.

  99. And we came here.

  100. It felt in many ways like we were wrestling and struggling with God during that time.

  101. And yet as I look at this, I cannot believe that we have such a wonderful space.

  102. I'm actually more excited about the people we get to work with here than the space.

  103. I mean, the stage is nice and all, but the people that are hosting us, if you haven't had a chance to meet them,

  104. Beth and Royale and all of the team that they're going to be working with us, they're amazing.

  105. And I look at that and I look at God and I just say thank you.

  106. Thank you for this blessing.

  107. Thank you.

  108. Thank you.

  109. Thank you.

  110. Thank you.

  111. If this is your life and these are the terms, then where's the invitation?

  112. because the one thing we know for sure is this,

  113. that God is always continually inviting us into the dance.

  114. If this is your life and these are the terms, where's the invitation?

  115. So we should not always expect that things will go according to our plans.

  116. Often they don't because we are not the ones leading the dance.

  117. The second thing we should not expect is this.

  118. We should not expect this to be easy all the time.

  119. You know, Philippi was a proud Roman city.

  120. There was a kind of a noble military heritage here.

  121. Latin was the official language.

  122. It's a European Roman city.

  123. So if you're a Greek speaker, you're lower class.

  124. If you're a Jew, there are hardly any Jews here.

  125. So you're considered lower class.

  126. So Paul, a Greek-speaking Jew, and his team would have been looked down upon

  127. as soon as they crossed the threshold of the city.

  128. And so you see, even though Paul and Silas are Roman citizens,

  129. once they begin to do ministry,

  130. and once people begin to see the kind of work that they're doing,

  131. they're treated horribly.

  132. And you can read about it in verses 19 to 37.

  133. They're dragged into the marketplace to face the authorities.

  134. They're stripped.

  135. They're severely flogged.

  136. They're thrown into prison without a trial.

  137. They're sent into the maximum security inner cell.

  138. And their feet are put in the stocks.

  139. And the persecution only got worse for this church over time.

  140. Things only got worse for a while before they got better.

  141. So the question becomes, why does this happen?

  142. Why does it happen?

  143. You know, when things get hard for us,

  144. a lot of times we will say,

  145. well, this is probably a sign that we shouldn't be doing it.

  146. But not so here.

  147. See, there are surface reasons why they face these issues,

  148. probably cultural reasons.

  149. But Jesus did say plainly that people,

  150. you know, Jesus said,

  151. people treated me this way,

  152. and they're going to treat you this way.

  153. And yet, they persevere,

  154. Paul and Silas in this church persevere,

  155. and it's amazing to look in another of Paul's letters,

  156. 2 Corinthians chapter 8,

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  157. he actually references this church in Philippi.

  158. And he says this,

  159. for in a severe test of affliction,

  160. their abundance of joy and their extreme poverty

  161. have overflowed in what?

  162. Their abundance of joy and their extreme poverty

  163. have overflowed in a wealth of generosity on their part.

  164. So, not only did the hardship not overcome the church,

  165. but rather it produced in them a joy

  166. and a generosity and a gratitude

  167. and a worshipfulness.

  168. It's a mystery.

  169. How could persecution and hardship and suffering

  170. make people more joyful,

  171. more generous,

  172. more worshipful?

  173. We'll get more into that next week.

  174. That's the question as we look at Philippians.

  175. Now, let's look at some things that we should expect.

  176. Those are some things that we shouldn't expect.

  177. It's not going to go according to plan.

  178. It's not always going to be easy.

  179. But here's what we should expect

  180. as we move on in the passage.

  181. First thing is this.

  182. We should expect this, friends,

  183. that hearts would be open to God's Word.

  184. That hearts would be opened to God's Word.

  185. The first person we meet here in Philippi

  186. is a woman named Lydia.

  187. She's a dealer in purple goods,

  188. which is the Bible's way of saying

  189. she's a very successful businesswoman.

  190. And she's probably fairly wealthy,

  191. fairly well off,

  192. fairly prominent member of society.

  193. We know that.

  194. We know that she wants a relationship with God.

  195. And the reason we know that

  196. is because, as I said before,

  197. there are not enough Jews in Philippi

  198. to have quorum for a synagogue.

  199. You had to have ten.

  200. They don't have that many.

  201. They have somehow less than that,

  202. less Jewish men anyway.

  203. And so what they did instead,

  204. because they didn't have a synagogue,

  205. is on the Sabbath they would go

  206. and they would essentially have

  207. a time of prayer and Bible study.

  208. So on the Sabbath,

  209. Paul and Silas,

  210. as they always did,

  211. they say, you know,

  212. where are the Jews worshiping?

  213. And they find a small group of people,

  214. sounds like it was mostly women,

  215. reading the Bible together.

  216. And they join in,

  217. and they begin to talk,

  218. and they begin to tell them

  219. about Jesus.

  220. And we know that they were talking

  221. about Jesus in the gospel

  222. because of the very beginning,

  223. the vision,

  224. the man says to Paul,

  225. come and preach the gospel.

  226. So this is what Paul does.

  227. He comes and ostensibly finds Lydia,

  228. finds this group,

  229. and begins to tell them

  230. the gospel about Jesus.

  231. And it says,

  232. it's this amazing thing.

  233. It doesn't say,

  234. Paul made a really compelling case.

  235. Paul's apologetics were watertight.

  236. You know,

  237. Paul gave them

  238. Tim Keller's reason for God,

  239. and they all believed.

  240. It doesn't say that.

  241. Great book, by the way.

  242. That's not a nox.

  243. And God opens her heart

  244. to these words.

  245. And this is a great image

  246. because it's the exact same image

  247. that the Bible uses.

  248. The same language

  249. is used when God opens a womb.

  250. It's the same phrasing.

  251. You know,

  252. in the Bible,

  253. God opens a womb

  254. so that life can be sort of

  255. implanted and grow there.

  256. In the very same language

  257. is used.

  258. God opens Lydia's heart

  259. so that life can be implanted

  260. and grow there.

  261. And it's this great image

  262. of what God does

  263. in Lydia's heart.

  264. And what we see in Lydia

  265. is this.

  266. Lydia already knew about God.

  267. She already had a desire

  268. to know God.

  269. She had an interest,

  270. a curiosity.

  271. She was drawn,

  272. and yet she didn't know

  273. how to actually have

  274. a relationship with God.

  275. And that's the missing piece

  276. that Paul gives her

  277. when he talks about Jesus.

  278. And God opens her heart

  279. to receive this truth

  280. and it says immediately

  281. she believes,

  282. immediately she gets baptized,

  283. and immediately

  284. her whole household

  285. gets baptized.

  286. And she becomes

  287. a huge part of the church.

  288. At the end of the chapter,

  289. we see that she's actually

  290. hosting a church meeting

  291. in her home.

  292. And this is something

  293. that we should expect

  294. to see in this community,

  295. friends.

  296. We should expect

  297. to see hearts opened.

  298. You know,

  299. this is a community

  300. where we can ask questions,

  301. we can share doubts,

  302. we can explore ideas,

  303. and I'll tell you this right now.

  304. Nobody's going to tell you

  305. what to think here.

  306. So if you're here,

  307. if you're new,

  308. if you're not sure

  309. what you believe,

  310. if you're checking things out,

  311. nobody will ever tell you,

  312. hopefully,

  313. I hope nobody will ever tell you

  314. what to think here.

  315. I don't think Christians

  316. should ever tell people

  317. what to think.

  318. But we will encourage

  319. one another to think,

  320. and to think well,

  321. and to ask good questions,

  322. and to ask questions

  323. hoping for answers.

  324. We'll encourage one another

  325. to do the due diligence

  326. of trying to make sure

  327. that our thinking

  328. is intellectually consistent.

  329. And we do want

  330. to encourage one another

  331. to learn more about Jesus.

  332. We want to create a space

  333. where people can read

  334. and also come to understand

  335. God's Word.

  336. and we do that

  337. hoping and expecting

  338. that God will open

  339. some people's hearts

  340. to the truth of His Word.

  341. So when we come here

  342. and when we gather here,

  343. we should expect that

  344. to happen.

  345. We should hope for that.

  346. We should pray for that

  347. when we pray for this community.

  348. That's what happened to me

  349. when I was 22.

  350. Some of you know my story.

  351. I was very much

  352. against the church

  353. and against the institutional church

  354. and against Christians

  355. and had a lot of my own rhetoric

  356. about how they were all hypocrites.

  357. And it wasn't until somebody said,

  358. have you ever actually read the Bible

  359. and read about Jesus?

  360. And I said, no.

  361. And it was because I sat down

  362. and began to read the Bible

  363. with this guy

  364. who was very patient with me

  365. that I came to really begin

  366. to understand

  367. what Jesus was all about.

  368. And it was as though

  369. it just began to come alive,

  370. just jump off the page

  371. against my struggle.

  372. It began to become real for me.

  373. And we should expect

  374. that this will happen here.

  375. So that's the first thing.

  376. We should expect

  377. that God will open hearts

  378. to His Word.

  379. The second thing

  380. as we move forward

  381. in the passage is this.

  382. We should expect

  383. that the oppressed

  384. would be liberated.

  385. That people who are oppressed,

  386. that God would liberate them.

  387. I, as a pastor,

  388. you'll see why in a second,

  389. I particularly love

  390. this little vignette.

  391. Paul and Silas

  392. begin to be harassed

  393. by this young girl

  394. who's oppressed by a demon.

  395. And people have recognized

  396. that she has this condition

  397. and so they've taken her

  398. as a slave.

  399. They've taken advantage

  400. of her vulnerability.

  401. They've made her a slave

  402. and they're actually

  403. making money off of her.

  404. And we think,

  405. well, that's kind of weird,

  406. a demon-possessed girl,

  407. slave,

  408. and how do I relate to that?

  409. Well, we do have

  410. all kinds of examples

  411. of people

  412. in the very same condition.

  413. People who are oppressed

  414. or enslaved

  415. or addicted

  416. and that makes them vulnerable

  417. and people know that

  418. and they exploit them.

  419. Right?

  420. So there are the major examples

  421. like sex trafficking,

  422. like drugs,

  423. like porn,

  424. like the lottery,

  425. like predatory lending practices.

  426. All of these are examples

  427. of people

  428. who are taking advantage of

  429. and exploiting other people.

  430. And they're able to do it

  431. because those people

  432. are oppressed.

  433. They're oppressed by addiction.

  434. They're oppressed by debt.

  435. They're oppressed

  436. by any number of things.

  437. And then many more of us

  438. are enslaved to things

  439. in our lives,

  440. I think probably more

  441. than we realize.

  442. Right?

  443. So what does it mean

  444. to be a slave?

  445. It means you can't say no.

  446. Right?

  447. If you're,

  448. if you're,

  449. if a slave master

  450. tells you to do something,

  451. you can't say no.

  452. If an employer

  453. tells you to do something,

  454. you can say no.

  455. You may lose your job.

  456. But if you're a slave,

  457. you may lose your life.

  458. You can't say no.

  459. So if you can't stop overeating,

  460. you may be a slave to food.

  461. Right?

  462. I mean,

  463. if you,

  464. if you gave something up

  465. for Lent,

  466. those of you who know

  467. what Lent is,

  468. it's a time when Christians

  469. typically try to fast

  470. from certain things.

  471. If you gave it up

  472. for like a week,

  473. you know,

  474. and you're like,

  475. 40 days is way too long.

  476. You may be more a slave

  477. to that thing

  478. than you realize.

  479. If you can't stop

  480. overspending,

  481. then maybe you're a slave

  482. to shopping

  483. or consumerism

  484. or materialism.

  485. If you hold grudges,

  486. if you just kind of

  487. hold on to things,

  488. then maybe you're

  489. a slave to anger.

  490. You know,

  491. if you,

  492. if you,

  493. if you can't say no

  494. to people

  495. and you feel like

  496. people are constantly

  497. walking all over you

  498. and taking advantage of you,

  499. then maybe you're a slave

  500. to people's approval

  501. if you can't set

  502. healthy boundaries.

  503. But chances are,

  504. if you look at your life,

  505. we probably have things

  506. that come very close

  507. to being slave masters.

  508. So what's needed here?

  509. What do we need?

  510. What does this woman need?

  511. Here's an interesting difference

  512. between Lydia,

  513. the first woman,

  514. the business woman.

  515. She just needs

  516. the truth of God

  517. explained to her.

  518. But this woman

  519. needs something different.

  520. Lydia needed truth.

  521. She needs Paul

  522. to explain the truth

  523. of the gospel to her.

  524. But here's the interesting thing.

  525. And I remember

  526. reading this years ago

  527. and really trying

  528. to get into it.

  529. And it is fascinating

  530. because this woman,

  531. this demon-possessed girl,

  532. she knows the truth

  533. about Jesus.

  534. I mean,

  535. if you read what it says,

  536. she knows her theology

  537. is correct.

  538. Isn't that fascinating?

  539. She's got the right theology,

  540. but that's not enough.

  541. What's more,

  542. here's why I'm comforted

  543. by this as a pastor.

  544. Paul doesn't exactly

  545. handle this situation well.

  546. There's no way

  547. to get around

  548. what it says, you know?

  549. Like when the Greek says

  550. annoyed,

  551. what it really means

  552. is pastorally concerned.

  553. I've been trying

  554. to convince people

  555. that that's true for years.

  556. And, you know,

  557. no, I wasn't angry.

  558. I was just really passionate,

  559. you know?

  560. Paul's annoyed.

  561. He's ticked off.

  562. She's following them

  563. for days,

  564. harassing them,

  565. screaming at them,

  566. drawing huge,

  567. unwanted attention to them.

  568. And finally,

  569. he's like,

  570. I can't take it, Silas.

  571. And he turns around

  572. and he's like,

  573. no of her, you know?

  574. And you can imagine him

  575. just kind of blowing up.

  576. But God doesn't.

  577. So it's not the right theology.

  578. It's not the right

  579. pastoral response.

  580. I think Paul

  581. misfires here.

  582. You know?

  583. He doesn't do,

  584. he doesn't handle it well.

  585. The power of God,

  586. the power of God

  587. was still at work.

  588. You know,

  589. we think so often

  590. that it's about

  591. getting the right theology

  592. or having the right

  593. pastoral response

  594. that we forget

  595. it's not actually about us.

  596. That our entire faith

  597. is based on amazing things

  598. that God does

  599. in our lives.

  600. Things that we can't predict,

  601. things that we don't deserve,

  602. but God entering in,

  603. breaking it,

  604. and doing incredible things.

  605. Liberating people.

  606. Liberating people

  607. who don't have it all together,

  608. who don't even really

  609. fully understand

  610. who he is.

  611. He comes in and says,

  612. be free.

  613. And that's what he does

  614. for this woman.

  615. And it's incredible to see.

  616. So we should expect

  617. the power of God

  618. to be at work

  619. in this church.

  620. Sometimes in,

  621. in,

  622. in step with us,

  623. oftentimes in spite of us,

  624. right?

  625. We should expect

  626. to see people be freed

  627. from addiction here.

  628. We should expect

  629. to see people be freed

  630. from resentment

  631. and anger

  632. and all the things

  633. that we've come to depend on

  634. and love more than God.

  635. We should see people liberated.

  636. And we should come

  637. every week thinking

  638. when we gather together

  639. and when we sing

  640. and when we pray

  641. and when we share this meal

  642. and when we read

  643. from this word

  644. and when we do all the things

  645. that we're doing,

  646. that the power

  647. and the presence of God

  648. are at work here.

  649. And we should expect

  650. that regularly

  651. people will come

  652. and their hearts

  653. will be released.

  654. What we're doing here,

  655. invoking the very presence

  656. of God,

  657. hearing him in the word,

  658. proclaiming and experiencing

  659. him in the bread

  660. and the wine,

  661. we believe in the real presence

  662. of Christ in this meal,

  663. that somehow

  664. as we receive this meal

  665. in faith,

  666. we are receiving

  667. the very presence of Christ

  668. into our being.

  669. I can't explain that.

  670. I don't know how it happens,

  671. but I know that it's

  672. the power of God at work.

  673. So this is the second thing

  674. that we should expect

  675. that as we gather

  676. every week

  677. that people would be

  678. liberated from oppression.

  679. Hearts would be open,

  680. people would be liberated.

  681. The third thing is this,

  682. that we should expect

  683. that relationships

  684. in this community

  685. would be marked

  686. by mercy and compassion.

  687. Mercy and compassion.

  688. So Paul and Silas,

  689. a little later in the story,

  690. they've been beaten

  691. because of this interaction

  692. with this woman,

  693. because she's no longer

  694. financially valuable

  695. to her owners.

  696. They're beaten,

  697. they're stripped,

  698. they're wrongfully accused,

  699. they're put in prison

  700. without a trial,

  701. feet in the stocks,

  702. it's incredibly uncomfortable,

  703. they undoubtedly had stripes

  704. and scars across their back.

  705. God miraculously rescues them.

  706. Earthquake, doors swing open,

  707. right?

  708. The jailer comes down,

  709. what happened,

  710. what happened,

  711. sees all the doors open,

  712. immediately assumes that

  713. all the prisoners have escaped,

  714. right?

  715. Immediately thinks,

  716. oh my goodness,

  717. I failed in my duty,

  718. this guy's a civil servant,

  719. we know that because,

  720. and we know that he was

  721. a former soldier

  722. because all of these kinds

  723. of jobs,

  724. like being a jailer,

  725. those were only given

  726. to former soldiers.

  727. So we know that he's a man

  728. who really cares about duty,

  729. he really cares about

  730. doing his job well,

  731. and he sees I failed,

  732. so what does he do?

  733. He draws his sword deeper,

  734. because he knows

  735. he's going to be killed

  736. when they find out

  737. that he's failed,

  738. so he wants to do

  739. the honorable thing

  740. and take his own life.

  741. He's about to commit suicide,

  742. Paul comes out and says,

  743. no, no, no, wait, stop!

  744. And he says,

  745. look, we're all here,

  746. nobody left.

  747. What's Paul's concern here?

  748. His primary concern

  749. is the welfare of the jailer.

  750. Can you believe that?

  751. So this is the man

  752. who's responsible

  753. for all of the suffering

  754. that they've endured.

  755. He's responsible

  756. for all of this wrongful,

  757. undeserved suffering

  758. that has come upon

  759. Paul and his team.

  760. And yet when they come

  761. face to face,

  762. and Paul sees the sword

  763. in the guy's hand,

  764. getting ready to kill himself,

  765. I mean, most people would say,

  766. here, I'll do that for you.

  767. Take the sword,

  768. you know, do it yourself.

  769. Paul says, no, no, no,

  770. no need for that.

  771. We're all here.

  772. We stayed here

  773. to make sure that you were okay.

  774. It's an amazing act

  775. of mercy and compassion.

  776. And it says that this man

  777. is so struck

  778. by the mercy and compassion

  779. that he just cries out.

  780. And how does he know

  781. to cry this out?

  782. Well, it says that Paul

  783. and Silas have been singing

  784. and praising God

  785. and singing hymns and psalms

  786. all night,

  787. and it says that everybody

  788. was listening to them.

  789. They're singing about Jesus.

  790. They're singing about salvation.

  791. They're singing about mercy,

  792. all the things that we sing about.

  793. And the jailers heard all this.

  794. And when he sees this act

  795. of mercy and compassion,

  796. he says,

  797. what do I have to do

  798. to be a part of this?

  799. What hope is there for me?

  800. Right now,

  801. I'm at the end of my rope.

  802. I'm about to kill myself.

  803. How do,

  804. how do,

  805. where do I go from here?

  806. Paul tells him about Jesus.

  807. And it says,

  808. he and his entire household

  809. become followers of Jesus.

  810. And they're so excited about this

  811. that it says that the passage

  812. ends with him praising God

  813. that they had believed in him.

  814. You know,

  815. yesterday we were coming back

  816. from a conference

  817. that we had to be at,

  818. some of us,

  819. Dan and Josh and I.

  820. And we were driving

  821. through Pennsylvania.

  822. And as we were driving through,

  823. I was thinking about the events

  824. roughly 10 years ago.

  825. I think in October

  826. it'll be 10 years.

  827. The events in Lancaster County,

  828. Pennsylvania,

  829. when a man named

  830. Charles Carl Roberts IV

  831. walked into an Amish schoolhouse

  832. in Lancaster County

  833. and he was armed to the teeth

  834. and he shot eight girls

  835. and he killed five

  836. and then he took his own life

  837. before anybody could intervene.

  838. You know,

  839. you read a story like this

  840. and it's just,

  841. it's the worst kind of tragedy

  842. you can possibly imagine.

  843. One room schoolhouse,

  844. you know,

  845. armed to the teeth man

  846. against these unarmed kids.

  847. Girls, nonetheless.

  848. Within hours,

  849. you know the story,

  850. within hours,

  851. the Amish,

  852. not just the Amish community

  853. but the parents of the victims,

  854. the families of the victims,

  855. within hours the same day

  856. were reaching out

  857. to Charles' family.

  858. They came to make sure,

  859. Charles' family said,

  860. we gotta get out of here.

  861. They said,

  862. no,

  863. we want you to stay.

  864. There are stories of,

  865. within an hour of the events,

  866. the word of the events

  867. that one grandfather

  868. of one of the girls who died

  869. was overheard saying,

  870. well,

  871. we mustn't harbor anger

  872. against this family.

  873. There are stories

  874. of one of the other fathers

  875. of one of the girls

  876. who died

  877. holding Charles' father

  878. as he sobbed for an hour.

  879. They began to serve

  880. and to care for Charles' family,

  881. the killer's family.

  882. And the Amish community

  883. even set up a fund

  884. to make sure

  885. that they would be okay.

  886. And it radically,

  887. you can read the stories

  888. in the news,

  889. it radically changed,

  890. radically transformed

  891. the Shooters' family.

  892. So you read stories like this,

  893. it's the amazing impact

  894. of the gospel.

  895. It's the same pattern.

  896. These people come face to face

  897. with the family of a man

  898. who caused them

  899. tremendous undeserved suffering,

  900. and yet they respond

  901. not with anger,

  902. but with mercy and compassion.

  903. And here's the thing, friends,

  904. Christian communities

  905. should be marked

  906. by mercy and compassion.

  907. They aren't always.

  908. Some of you bear scars

  909. from communities

  910. that aren't,

  911. or weren't.

  912. But they should always

  913. be marked by mercy

  914. and compassion.

  915. And the reason is simple,

  916. it's because at the very core

  917. of our faith

  918. is a God who

  919. prayed for,

  920. cared for,

  921. attended to our

  922. deepest needs,

  923. and even gave His life

  924. for us

  925. as we were actively

  926. causing Him to suffer.

  927. Right?

  928. And so this is the pattern

  929. of our God,

  930. and so it becomes

  931. the pattern

  932. of God's people.

  933. So we should hope

  934. and expect this

  935. to be true of us.

  936. We should hope

  937. and expect that

  938. every week when we gather,

  939. this liturgy,

  940. all the words,

  941. that may be totally new to you.

  942. Do you know what we're doing?

  943. We are embodying

  944. and enacting

  945. the story of the gospel together.

  946. The story of our sin,

  947. the story of our creation,

  948. the story of our sin,

  949. the story of God's forgiveness,

  950. and the story that God

  951. is restoring

  952. and renewing

  953. this place

  954. and us

  955. right now.

  956. And we are

  957. embodying that story together,

  958. and as we do that,

  959. the hope is

  960. it shapes us,

  961. and it shapes our hearts,

  962. and that we become

  963. more and more

  964. merciful and compassionate

  965. as our God

  966. is merciful

  967. and compassionate.

  968. So we should expect this.

  969. And the last thing

  970. really quickly is this.

  971. The fourth thing,

  972. the last thing

  973. that we should expect

  974. as we gather every week,

  975. friends,

  976. is that this would be

  977. a community

  978. where strangers

  979. become family.

  980. Where strangers

  981. become family.

  982. At the very end,

  983. verse 40,

  984. it says,

  985. Paul and Silas

  986. are getting ready

  987. to leave,

  988. and it says,

  989. they go to visit Lydia again,

  990. and then it says,

  991. they went to see thee,

  992. and in the Greek,

  993. it's adelphous.

  994. It comes from adelphos,

  995. and it's a word

  996. that in this context

  997. means the brothers

  998. and sisters.

  999. The brothers and sisters.

  1000. In other words,

  1001. they went to see the family.

  1002. And you've got to

  1003. check this out.

  1004. At the beginning

  1005. of the chapter,

  1006. you have three

  1007. incredibly different people.

  1008. Successful businesswoman,

  1009. oppressed slave girl,

  1010. now a former slave girl,

  1011. and then a civil servant,

  1012. former soldier.

  1013. In Roman society,

  1014. these people

  1015. would have never

  1016. commingled.

  1017. Totally different

  1018. social circles.

  1019. Totally different

  1020. socioeconomic status.

  1021. And yet here,

  1022. here,

  1023. at the end

  1024. of the chapter,

  1025. this is the amazing

  1026. impact of the gospel.

  1027. By the end,

  1028. they and many others

  1029. have become

  1030. brothers and sisters.

  1031. They've become

  1032. a family.

  1033. Total strangers

  1034. who turn to Jesus

  1035. for forgiveness,

  1036. what happens?

  1037. They become,

  1038. as the Bible says,

  1039. spiritually adopted

  1040. by God.

  1041. They become

  1042. God's children,

  1043. which means

  1044. they become

  1045. brothers and sisters.

  1046. And I believe

  1047. that the early church

  1048. recognized

  1049. the significance

  1050. of this.

  1051. As people came

  1052. to know Jesus

  1053. in their community,

  1054. and you can read

  1055. about this,

  1056. the early historians

  1057. and people like,

  1058. people have written

  1059. and tried to explain

  1060. people like Rodney Stark.

  1061. As people came

  1062. to know Jesus,

  1063. they took in

  1064. all kinds of people

  1065. who didn't have

  1066. nuclear families,

  1067. people who,

  1068. for whatever reason,

  1069. didn't have

  1070. immediate biological families.

  1071. And the church

  1072. again and again

  1073. and again said,

  1074. we will be

  1075. your family now

  1076. because God

  1077. has already made

  1078. us into one

  1079. great family.

  1080. So Psalm 68,

  1081. 6 says,

  1082. God sets the lonely

  1083. in families.

  1084. Who in the world

  1085. is he talking about

  1086. if not the church?

  1087. We are that family.

  1088. And if we're not

  1089. that family,

  1090. I wonder if we're

  1091. failing in our calling

  1092. to be the church.

  1093. So if you're here

  1094. and you're lonely,

  1095. if you're here

  1096. and you don't know

  1097. anybody,

  1098. if you're here

  1099. and you don't

  1100. have a family,

  1101. and I mean this

  1102. as sincerely

  1103. as I possibly can,

  1104. we want to be

  1105. a family for you.

  1106. We want to be

  1107. that kind of family.

  1108. Even if you do

  1109. have a family

  1110. and you're here,

  1111. you can't cut it alone.

  1112. Your family needs

  1113. to be a part

  1114. of a larger family.

  1115. Your marriage

  1116. needs support.

  1117. Your parenting

  1118. needs support.

  1119. You need friends

  1120. in that.

  1121. It's a very recent

  1122. modern invention

  1123. that we do

  1124. all of this alone

  1125. as siloed off

  1126. nuclear families.

  1127. It does not reflect

  1128. most of human history.

  1129. So as we begin

  1130. this community together,

  1131. as we begin

  1132. this church

  1133. worship gathering

  1134. together,

  1135. what are we expecting?

  1136. Well, we shouldn't

  1137. expect everything

  1138. to go according to plan.

  1139. We know that very well.

  1140. We shouldn't expect

  1141. it to be easy

  1142. and at times

  1143. it's going to be

  1144. really hard.

  1145. But we should expect

  1146. that people's hearts

  1147. would be open

  1148. to God's word.

  1149. We should expect

  1150. that people who

  1151. are oppressed

  1152. would be liberated

  1153. week after week

  1154. after week.

  1155. We should expect

  1156. that our relationships

  1157. would be marked

  1158. with the same

  1159. mercy and compassion

  1160. that Jesus

  1161. has shown us.

  1162. And we should expect

  1163. that ours would be

  1164. a community

  1165. where strangers

  1166. are able to come in

  1167. and to belong

  1168. and to become

  1169. family.

  1170. So I hope

  1171. and pray

  1172. as we gather together

  1173. week after week

  1174. that we would come

  1175. each week

  1176. with a sense

  1177. of expectancy

  1178. and hope

  1179. and excitement

  1180. over what God

  1181. might do in our midst.

  1182. Let's pray.

  1183. Our Heavenly Father,