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Green Pastures, Still Waters

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  1. Well, good afternoon to all of you.

  2. As I was preparing this week, I had to admit, or rather came to realize, something kind

  3. of troubling about myself, which in itself is not a newsworthy event.

  4. But in this case, I think it has particular relevance for what we're going to be talking

  5. about today.

  6. I realize the habit that I have, and that is that a lot of times when I'm talking to people

  7. and people ask me, how you doing?

  8. I respond by referencing whatever else I say.

  9. I reference how busy I am.

  10. How you doing, Tommy?

  11. Well, it's a particularly busy season.

  12. Things have been crazy right now.

  13. I thought the summer would be calming down, but the summer's been actually pretty full.

  14. Things are crazy right now.

  15. It's a Christmas season, so things are always kind of out of control.

  16. Whatever time of year it is, whatever time of day it is, however I'm actually doing, typically

  17. I will make some reference to how busy I am.

  18. And here's the thing.

  19. I'm not just trying to sound important.

  20. I'm not just making things up.

  21. I am, in fact, busy most of the time.

  22. And then most people I talk to seem to do the same thing.

  23. It seems to be a very common sort of language, almost an aspect of the D.C. subculture.

  24. The only acceptable answer to how are you doing is to say, well, I'm all right, but things

  25. are kind of crazy right now.

  26. It's just a norm.

  27. And it got me thinking, why?

  28. Why is this such a common way that we describe our lives?

  29. And if you're anything like me, and I know some of you well enough to know that a lot

  30. of times it's true.

  31. We're pretty busy people.

  32. We live at a pretty frenetic pace.

  33. So last week we started this series looking at Psalm 23.

  34. You may have heard of it.

  35. One of the most well-known psalms in the world, if not the most well-known.

  36. And we started this weekly meditation taking this psalm verse by verse and really trying

  37. to go deep into what it has to say to us about ourselves and about God.

  38. And we know that for hundreds of years, Christians have looked at this psalm and believed that it's

  39. describing Jesus, that when God talks about being the shepherd of his people, that Jesus

  40. is that shepherd.

  41. He's the fulfillment of that promise.

  42. We talked about that last week.

  43. And so this week, last week we looked at verse 1.

  44. This week we're going to look at verse 2.

  45. He makes me lie down in green pastures.

  46. He leads me beside still waters.

  47. And as I looked at this verse and I thought about this aspect of my life, the busyness

  48. and the craziness, I came to ask this question.

  49. Is that just a function of living in D.C.?

  50. Is that just the way it is here?

  51. Or is there a deeper spiritual reason, a problem, the evidence of which is this frenetic lifestyle?

  52. So that's the question I want us to consider.

  53. We're going to look at verse 2 of this psalm and we're going to ask first, what does this

  54. have to tell us about us?

  55. And then second, what does it tell us about Jesus, the one who claims to be our shepherd?

  56. So let's pray.

  57. Our Father, we do recognize that these are merely words generated by a human being, that

  58. these words that we're reading are merely words printed on a page, in a book.

  59. And yet you're a God who's promised to speak to us.

  60. You've said that through your spirit you can illuminate these words.

  61. You can fill them with power.

  62. That you can actually use them to bring us face to face with the living word, Jesus Christ.

  63. And we pray that through everything that happens here this evening, that we would come face

  64. to face with him.

  65. And that the eyes of our hearts would be open to recognize him.

  66. We pray this in your son's holy name.

  67. Amen.

  68. So Psalm 23, verse 2, what does this first have to tell us about us?

    Psalms 23:2

  69. The truth about the human condition.

  70. If you look at these words of David, who was himself a shepherd before he was a soldier

  71. and king.

  72. He says this, the Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.

  73. We looked at that last week.

  74. And then what does that shepherd do?

  75. He makes me lie down in green pastures.

  76. He leads me beside still waters.

  77. Now notice the language there.

  78. The shepherd is doing things for the sheep, which shows us what the sheep need.

  79. What do the sheep need?

  80. Well, sheep need to be made to lie down.

  81. They don't lie down on their own.

  82. And second, they need to be led to clean, still, drinkable water.

  83. They're not very good at finding clean water on their own.

  84. In fact, a lot of times they'll settle for very dirty, polluted water.

  85. So sheep are, in essence, dependent beings.

  86. They need to be made to rest.

  87. They need to be made to eat.

  88. They need to be made to drink.

  89. And if there's no shepherd, the sheep suffer.

  90. So they are very dependent.

  91. They need a shepherd.

  92. And this is essentially what it's telling us about the human condition.

  93. It's saying if we apply this metaphor of sheep to us,

  94. it's saying our deepest need is to know our shepherd,

  95. that we are as dependent as sheep,

  96. and that we need someone to make us lie down.

  97. We need someone to lead us to good drinking water.

  98. Even in the Gospel of Matthew,

  99. Jesus is looking out on a huge crowd of people,

  100. and this is how it describes his reaction.

  101. It says that Jesus had compassion for them

  102. because they were harassed and helpless like what?

  103. Sheep without a shepherd.

  104. This is Jesus' description of the human condition.

  105. Now, I don't know about you,

  106. but being told that I need to think of myself like a sheep

  107. is a kind of negative experience.

  108. I don't hear that well.

  109. I don't think anybody hears that well,

  110. especially if you're a religious or spiritually inclined person.

  111. The idea of being a sheep is anathema

  112. to everything that we value in our society.

  113. We want to be critical thinkers.

  114. We want to be questioning and asking and probing and going deeper

  115. and resisting naivety and having both eyes wide open

  116. and embracing doubt and uncertainty and all of those things.

  117. And being a sheep seems like the opposite of all that.

  118. You know, we think of sheep as these kind of blind, dumb animals

  119. that just follow the flock.

  120. That's the last thing we want to be.

  121. And I agree.

  122. And yet there's something about this metaphor

  123. that David would apply not only to himself,

  124. but to all of us.

  125. And so what I want to do now for the next few minutes

  126. is just consider this claim that we need a shepherd,

  127. that in many ways we're like sheep,

  128. whether we admit it or not,

  129. and just look at our lives and ask,

  130. is there any evidence that should make us consider

  131. that this might be speaking about us?

  132. There's an interesting book that I came across

  133. in my preparation for this

  134. by a guy who's actually a shepherd.

  135. He, I mentioned it last week, if you were here,

  136. he spent years as a shepherd

  137. and then he wrote a book on Psalm 23,

  138. infusing it with all of his reflections

  139. about being a shepherd.

  140. Most of us are city people.

  141. I have no idea what a shepherd lifestyle is like.

  142. And this guy wrote a book from that vantage point.

  143. It's very helpful.

  144. And he looks at this verse,

  145. he makes me to lie down.

  146. And he says there are actually four common reasons

  147. why sheep refuse to lie down.

  148. There are four things that keep them on their feet

  149. and moving, even if they're exhausted.

  150. And helpfully for us, he gives them all an F word,

  151. so there's nice alliteration.

  152. So at least I'm happy with that.

  153. But there's four factors.

  154. Fear, flies, friction, and famine.

  155. One, hunger and thirst, right?

  156. So fear, anxiety about primarily predators.

  157. If you look at sheep, they are 100% prey.

  158. There's nothing predatory about sheep.

  159. They're 100% there to die.

  160. Probably at the hands of another creature, right?

  161. And so they're defenseless.

  162. And so they're constantly on alert for threats

  163. because everything is dangerous.

  164. If you're a sheep.

  165. And it's because they're helpless.

  166. You know, most of their environment they cannot control.

  167. And so they huddle together

  168. and hope to be closer to the center

  169. and less vulnerable, right?

  170. That's basically all you can do if you're a sheep.

  171. The next thing that keeps them on their feet.

  172. So if they're wary about predators,

  173. they're not going to sit down.

  174. They're going to be nervous and restless

  175. and looking around.

  176. They're not going to rest.

  177. The next thing that keeps them on their feet is flies.

  178. Flies and pests and things

  179. and things that are kind of buzzing around them.

  180. These annoyances.

  181. They'll stand and they'll stomp

  182. and they'll shake their heads

  183. and they'll shake their coats

  184. and they'll do everything they can

  185. to keep these bugs at bay.

  186. But they won't rest.

  187. And then the third thing is friction.

  188. And by that, what he means

  189. is there is constant infighting in any flock.

  190. I don't know if you know this.

  191. I didn't.

  192. But there's constant infighting.

  193. Because sheep are very particular

  194. about the hierarchy.

  195. Every flock has a hierarchy.

  196. And every sheep knows their place in the hierarchy.

  197. And these things are pretty specific.

  198. So with chickens, you call it a pecking order.

  199. With sheep, you call it a budding order.

  200. My kids in the morning worship service,

  201. I heard this really loud laugh from my kids

  202. who are four and seven when I said the budding order.

  203. But there is a budding order.

  204. And that means that they will headbutt each other

  205. and use that as a way to establish a hierarchy.

  206. So they're constantly jostling for positions.

  207. So that keeps them on their feet.

  208. And then the last thing is famine.

  209. Hunger and thirst.

  210. If they're hungry or thirsty,

  211. they will go off and wander and scatter

  212. and they will easily get lost.

  213. Sheep have a horrible sense of direction.

  214. And so they will just get lost

  215. looking for food and drink.

  216. And he says, of particular danger is the drink part.

  217. Because there are lots of little polluted potholes

  218. in places with stagnant, nasty water.

  219. And sheep don't really know the difference.

  220. And if they can't find clean water,

  221. they'll just settle for the polluted water.

  222. And so they get parasites and nematodes

  223. and things like that.

  224. So he says, all of these are reasons

  225. why sheep will, instead of lying down and resting,

  226. they will wander and scatter and stomp and shake

  227. and bud each other

  228. until they're utterly exhausted and depleted.

  229. And more vulnerable to die.

  230. And so he says, these are problems.

  231. And he says, unless all of them are dealt with,

  232. unless all of them are dealt with,

  233. sheep won't lie down.

  234. And so as I looked at this list,

  235. I did start to reflect on my life.

  236. And I started to think,

  237. what are the things that might have parallels

  238. into my life?

  239. Is there evidence that I'm actually living

  240. like a sheep without a shepherd?

  241. And I wonder if you might ask the same question.

  242. As we look at the same four categories applied to us.

  243. First category is what?

  244. Fear.

  245. You know, we talked a lot about fear and anxiety last week.

  246. I've realized actually recently

  247. that I'm more anxious than I thought I was.

  248. I didn't used to think of myself as an anxious person.

  249. But man, I had this crazy dream this morning.

  250. I woke up at about five o'clock in the morning.

  251. I dreamed that I was in this tiny pond

  252. and I was on this really big wave runner.

  253. I don't know.

  254. It started out as a fun dream.

  255. And I was, all I could do was one big circle.

  256. So I was just going,

  257. yeah, yeah, yeah, around this tiny little pond.

  258. And then I lose my balance.

  259. And I fall.

  260. And I fall near the shore,

  261. but I'm too far to kind of reach the shore.

  262. And I fall into the water.

  263. And if you've ever jumped into a pond,

  264. you know the bottom can often be real slimy

  265. and you can sink down into it.

  266. Well, I jump in the water

  267. and I sink down into the slime under the water.

  268. And I sink down so far that I get stuck.

  269. And in my dream, I'm holding my breath

  270. and I'm panicking

  271. and I'm completely stuck in the mire

  272. and I'm looking up out of the water,

  273. but I can't get out of water.

  274. And I'm feeling like any minute I'm going to drown.

  275. And I wake up throwing my pillows off

  276. and gasping for air.

  277. What does it mean?

  278. Can somebody tell me?

  279. Can somebody analyze that?

  280. Well, whatever else it means,

  281. I think there's some anxiety going on in here.

  282. And I think we all wrestle with that.

  283. I think we all wrestle with the sense

  284. that most things in life we cannot control.

  285. Outcomes and other people's opinions

  286. and the future and other people's choices

  287. and our own health

  288. and the health of people that we love.

  289. We can't control these things.

  290. We are helpless.

  291. It produces tremendous fear.

  292. You know, I was just at the hospital

  293. visiting a couple.

  294. Their child, they've done everything they can

  295. for their child,

  296. but the child is in the intensive care unit

  297. because there are health issues

  298. outside of their control

  299. and they feel helpless.

  300. They're right.

  301. We're helpless.

  302. So there's fear and anxiety.

  303. I think that makes us restless.

  304. And you say,

  305. well, I lay down at night.

  306. I get good sleep.

  307. That doesn't keep me from lying down.

  308. Well, I think what this is really talking about

  309. and pointing to

  310. is not physically lying down.

  311. When does your soul lie down?

  312. When does your heart lie down?

  313. How long has it been

  314. since you had a sustained period

  315. of feeling contentment?

  316. I'm at peace.

  317. I'm content.

  318. My heart is at rest.

  319. My soul is lying down.

  320. I think fear and anxiety drive us.

  321. They churn away, right?

  322. Now let's go to the next one.

  323. Flies.

  324. Again, I don't think many of us

  325. have to literally deal with flies.

  326. Actually, we were away for vacation

  327. and when we came back,

  328. our house was infested with flies.

  329. I don't know why.

  330. It's horrible.

  331. It's like a biblical plague.

  332. We've killed most of them.

  333. But I think what this is talking about,

  334. as it applies to us,

  335. is not literal flies.

  336. I think it's the effect

  337. that flies have on sheep,

  338. which is perpetual distraction.

  339. They're perpetually distracted.

  340. They're so distracted

  341. that they can't lie down.

  342. And think about our lives.

  343. How many of you,

  344. how many of us,

  345. are perpetually distracted?

  346. You know, this past Friday,

  347. Laura and I celebrated

  348. ten years of marriage.

  349. Ten years of marriage.

  350. Fantastic.

  351. Very excited about that.

  352. Some of you here,

  353. that's like a drop in the bucket.

  354. So thankful for you.

  355. But for ten years,

  356. that's a long time.

  357. It feels like we're no longer newlyweds.

  358. And we,

  359. and that was great.

  360. And yet, you know,

  361. we got married in 2007.

  362. That was a big year.

  363. Why?

  364. Well,

  365. that was also the year

  366. that the first iPhone was released.

  367. And so,

  368. some of you weren't even born then.

  369. But the first iPhone came out.

  370. And,

  371. and,

  372. and,

  373. and I remember,

  374. it came out about a month

  375. before our wedding,

  376. which was late July.

  377. It came out like late June.

  378. And I remember not long after

  379. we got back from our honeymoon,

  380. we went out to get new devices.

  381. I guess one of the things you do

  382. is newlyweds.

  383. Whatever.

  384. And we,

  385. and Laura got,

  386. I got a new iPhone

  387. and Laura got a Blackberry,

  388. which,

  389. you know,

  390. we called a Crackberry back then.

  391. Because they were all the rage.

  392. But this new iPhone thing

  393. had come out

  394. and I remember sitting in bed that night

  395. and like most newlywed couples are doing,

  396. we're looking at our devices.

  397. And,

  398. and,

  399. Laura is,

  400. has her Blackberry

  401. and she's kind of,

  402. and I have my iPhone

  403. and I remember Laura kind of looking

  404. and looking back and looking

  405. and then kind of setting hers aside

  406. and leaning over and being like,

  407. wow,

  408. it can do that?

  409. And then the next day

  410. we went back to the store

  411. and swapped her Crackberry out for an iPhone.

  412. And we've been an iPhone family ever since.

  413. And I'm not saying that proudly.

  414. Because ten years in,

  415. honestly,

  416. we look back and we wonder,

  417. how different would our marriage be?

  418. How different would our home life be

  419. if we hadn't made that decision?

  420. If we had said no,

  421. right?

  422. Now we couldn't have known then

  423. where the world would be now.

  424. We couldn't have known

  425. what our life would be like.

  426. But we wonder,

  427. are we better off?

  428. There's a man,

  429. big deal in Silicon Valley

  430. named Tony Fidel.

  431. You may have heard of him.

  432. He founded Nest

  433. and before that

  434. he was a senior VP with Apple

  435. and he is called

  436. the father of the iPod

  437. because he was largely responsible

  438. for the iPod's existence.

  439. And then later he was instrumental

  440. in bringing the iPhone

  441. into every home.

  442. So he's a big deal.

  443. And he gave a talk recently

  444. at a design conference.

  445. They're talking about

  446. the power of design.

  447. And he expressed

  448. significant regret

  449. over these devices.

  450. He says,

  451. I wake up in cold sweats

  452. every so often

  453. thinking,

  454. what did we bring to the world?

  455. And he says that

  456. our world is now one

  457. in which screens are everywhere.

  458. And they're distracting us.

  459. And they're interrupting

  460. what's important.

  461. And at the same time

  462. they're promoting

  463. a culture of self-aggrandizement.

  464. And he says ultimately

  465. that all of this addiction

  466. and distraction

  467. and kind of perpetual,

  468. you know,

  469. that all of that

  470. is actually designed

  471. into the devices.

  472. And so he says

  473. this is a design problem.

  474. If you know anything

  475. about Silicon Valley

  476. and the history

  477. of the culture there,

  478. back in the 60s,

  479. there was a lot of idealism

  480. in Silicon Valley

  481. about this new thing

  482. called the internet

  483. and how the internet

  484. was going to transform

  485. the world

  486. by bringing people together.

  487. It was going to result

  488. in this kind of utopian vision

  489. being realized

  490. where people all around the world

  491. are connected as one

  492. and it's this community building

  493. relationship enhancing technology.

  494. And then Fidel says

  495. all of that changed.

  496. All of it changed.

  497. That got scrapped.

  498. Why?

  499. The designers.

  500. Who was designing

  501. these products?

  502. Mostly young,

  503. white,

  504. unmarried men

  505. in their early

  506. to mid-twenties.

  507. They were the designers.

  508. And he said

  509. a lot of these guys

  510. did not have

  511. community building

  512. and connection

  513. and relationship

  514. on their mind.

  515. And so the products

  516. got designed

  517. around values

  518. like individual empowerment

  519. and personal freedom.

  520. And so what you have

  521. is this whole community building

  522. aspect pushed to the side

  523. and you have devices

  524. that create

  525. tiny little

  526. microspheres

  527. of individualism.

  528. And that's the net impact

  529. that they have

  530. on us.

  531. They atomize society.

  532. And so he says

  533. a lot,

  534. and this is really interesting,

  535. a lot of those

  536. same designers

  537. are now older

  538. and they're married

  539. and they're having kids

  540. and they're looking back

  541. and they're rethinking

  542. these design decisions

  543. and saying,

  544. like Fidel,

  545. what did we do?

  546. Right?

  547. So the point is,

  548. I think,

  549. regardless of what's happened,

  550. we can't go back now.

  551. We can't change that

  552. and the impact

  553. that it's had.

  554. But I think the reality

  555. that we need to admit

  556. is that I think

  557. we are all addicted

  558. more or less

  559. to the internet.

  560. We're all addicted

  561. more or less

  562. to the devices

  563. in our lives.

  564. And what that means is

  565. we live in a constant state

  566. of perpetual distraction

  567. all of the time.

  568. And the longer this goes on,

  569. the more it deeply worries me.

  570. It deeply worries me.

  571. It's not that these technologies

  572. haven't done good things

  573. to the world.

  574. It's not that they haven't helped

  575. or benefited society.

  576. But there's a huge cost

  577. that I don't think

  578. we're fully aware of.

  579. Because what it means

  580. is that we experience,

  581. if you're anything like me,

  582. we experience the most

  583. wonderful aspects of life,

  584. like our spouses

  585. and our kids

  586. and our friends

  587. and the people

  588. that we're dating

  589. and love

  590. and the wonderful dinner parties

  591. and great food

  592. and nature

  593. and beautiful sunsets

  594. and amazing music

  595. and all of the things

  596. that God built into creation

  597. to make this world beautiful,

  598. that we experience all of that

  599. in a state of perpetual distraction.

  600. I'm never fully present

  601. with my kids.

  602. I'm never fully present

  603. with my wife.

  604. I'm never fully present

  605. in any moment

  606. because there's constantly

  607. something pulling my attention away,

  608. distracting me ever so briefly.

  609. There's a cumulative effect of that.

  610. So I like to say

  611. I'm not like a sheep

  612. and I'm not bothered

  613. by the distraction of flies,

  614. but I would say,

  615. if I'm honest,

  616. I am.

  617. Only the buzzing isn't out here.

  618. It's in my pocket.

  619. But there's a constant buzzing

  620. in my life.

  621. Perpetual distraction.

  622. The third thing I think

  623. that we should think about

  624. as it applies to us

  625. is friction.

  626. Friction.

  627. Why don't I lie down?

  628. Is it partly because

  629. I'm so wrapped up

  630. in establishing

  631. the hierarchy around me?

  632. What do I mean by that?

  633. I mean

  634. comparing myself.

  635. You know?

  636. How do I measure up?

  637. You know,

  638. I'm turning 40 in a month

  639. and I told you last week

  640. it's kind of freaking me out

  641. and one of the things

  642. that when you reach

  643. a milestone age like 40

  644. and you're basically dying

  645. is you look around

  646. and you say,

  647. well, you know,

  648. what have I done

  649. in my life up to this point

  650. and then what do I hope

  651. to accomplish,

  652. you know,

  653. before I die?

  654. And then you look

  655. at other people

  656. who are 40

  657. or 35

  658. or 30

  659. or 25

  660. and you look at

  661. all the amazing things

  662. they've done

  663. and you look at yourself

  664. and you look at them

  665. and you're like,

  666. oh my gosh,

  667. I'm wasting my life,

  668. right?

  669. That person is so much

  670. more beautiful than I am.

  671. That person is so much

  672. more successful than I am.

  673. That person is so much

  674. more,

  675. they're a better parent

  676. than I am.

  677. They're a better husband

  678. or wife than I am.

  679. That person is

  680. so much more educated.

  681. They're so much more articulate.

  682. They're so much more gifted.

  683. However you play this game,

  684. social media makes it

  685. that much easier.

  686. But it's that discontentment,

  687. that unwillingness

  688. to lie down

  689. because we're constantly

  690. feeling like failures

  691. when we compare ourselves

  692. to other people.

  693. Living in a place like D.C.,

  694. it feels like everybody's smarter,

  695. everybody's job is cooler,

  696. everybody's doing amazing things

  697. and you're like,

  698. man,

  699. my life is just kind of

  700. a disappointment

  701. compared to that.

  702. And time's running out.

  703. I'm dying.

  704. I'm falling apart.

  705. What do I do?

  706. Work harder.

  707. Try harder.

  708. Make a change,

  709. right?

  710. Not lie down.

  711. Time's running out.

  712. So I think that friction

  713. is there,

  714. right?

  715. And then underneath

  716. these three,

  717. the fear

  718. and the flies

  719. and the friction,

  720. I think the last one

  721. is maybe the most fundamental.

  722. You know,

  723. what he refers to as famine,

  724. hunger and thirst.

  725. Now hopefully,

  726. praise God,

  727. many of us are not dealing

  728. with actual hunger

  729. and thirst.

  730. But I think deep down,

  731. the way this applies

  732. is there is a deep hunger

  733. for fulfillment.

  734. There's a longing

  735. for meaning

  736. and satisfaction.

  737. And remember what he said

  738. about sheep.

  739. If they don't find

  740. the clean, pure,

  741. clear water to drink,

  742. they'll find a pothole

  743. and they don't care

  744. if it's polluted,

  745. they will drink from it.

  746. And I think we're the same way.

  747. We start to look

  748. for fulfillment.

  749. And we take things,

  750. maybe good things

  751. in our lives,

  752. but we begin to try

  753. to draw fulfillment

  754. from them

  755. and it's drinking

  756. polluted water.

  757. And you can do this

  758. with really good things,

  759. but when you try

  760. to suck meaning

  761. out of those things,

  762. they pollute you, right?

  763. So if it's your job,

  764. you know,

  765. well my job is really

  766. the thing that gives me meaning.

  767. That's the thing

  768. that makes me valuable

  769. and worthwhile.

  770. What happens?

  771. Well,

  772. either you change jobs

  773. every two years

  774. because no job

  775. can ever fully fulfill you

  776. or you become

  777. a workaholic

  778. and you work

  779. 80 hours a week,

  780. which many of us do.

  781. Looking for that,

  782. this is the thing

  783. that gives me value.

  784. I've got to succeed.

  785. If I fail,

  786. what does that say

  787. about me?

  788. I can't fail.

  789. Or you can take

  790. really great things

  791. like your spouse,

  792. like your kids.

  793. Yeah,

  794. I don't care about work.

  795. I would never make that

  796. my source of meaning.

  797. I'm a family man.

  798. I most care about my spouse.

  799. I most care about my kids.

  800. That's where

  801. my meaning lies.

  802. Do you know what will happen

  803. to those people

  804. if you look to them

  805. to give you meaning?

  806. You will crush them

  807. because your expectations

  808. will be so high.

  809. They'll be inhumanly high

  810. and nobody can ever

  811. live up to that.

  812. No marriage can live up to that.

  813. No marriage can give you meaning.

  814. No marriage can satisfy you fully.

  815. No human being can do that.

  816. You'll crush that person.

  817. You'll crush your kids

  818. because you'll need them

  819. to measure up.

  820. You'll need them

  821. to be everything for you.

  822. You'll crush them.

  823. They're humans.

  824. They can't sustain that.

  825. Whatever it is we look to

  826. and say,

  827. this will give me meaning.

  828. It'll end up making us sick.

  829. It'll make everybody

  830. around us sick.

  831. So anything in life

  832. can become that.

  833. So pulling all this together,

  834. David in Psalm 23 verse 2,

    Psalms 23:2

  835. he's reflecting on

  836. what he believes

  837. our deepest need is

  838. as human beings.

  839. He's saying,

  840. we need to know

  841. our shepherd.

  842. The one who can make us

  843. lie down.

  844. The one who can lead us

  845. to good, still, clear water.

  846. So what's the evidence

  847. that we are sheep

  848. without a shepherd?

  849. If you look at your life,

  850. how do you know

  851. whether or not

  852. this applies to you?

  853. Well,

  854. do fear and anxiety

  855. cause you to

  856. to churn?

  857. Right?

  858. Do you wake up at night

  859. restless?

  860. Do you

  861. do these things haunt you?

  862. Right?

  863. Do you have weird dreams

  864. about being sucked

  865. into the slime

  866. under the water?

  867. I don't know.

  868. Maybe your dreams

  869. are different.

  870. Do these things haunt you?

  871. Are we perpetually distracted?

  872. Why do we allow ourselves

  873. to be perpetually distracted?

  874. Are you dealing

  875. with interpersonal strife

  876. or envy

  877. or jealousy

  878. or bitterness

  879. or resentment?

  880. And of course,

  881. how do you deal

  882. with your hunger

  883. and need for fulfillment?

  884. Where do you go?

  885. What do you look to?

  886. That's what it tells us

  887. about us.

  888. All of this

  889. is evidence.

  890. It's all signs

  891. and symptoms

  892. of a life lived

  893. without a shepherd.

  894. So if that's the case,

  895. then I want to just spend

  896. our last few minutes

  897. asking,

  898. if that's the life

  899. without a shepherd,

  900. then what is

  901. the shepherded life?

  902. What does that look like?

  903. And what does this tell us

  904. about Jesus

  905. as our shepherd?

  906. We said that all

  907. of these F words,

  908. fear, flies, famine,

  909. that they all need

  910. to be dealt with

  911. before sheep will lie down.

  912. Well, the author

  913. of this book

  914. I was telling you about,

  915. he says that there's

  916. only one thing

  917. that's needed

  918. to deal with all

  919. of the fear,

  920. the flies,

  921. the famine,

  922. all of it.

  923. There's only one thing

  924. that's needed.

  925. It's the presence

  926. of the shepherd.

  927. He says with his flock,

  928. the minute he would

  929. come in among his flock,

  930. the minute they would

  931. see him,

  932. realize that he was there,

  933. all these issues

  934. would go away.

  935. They would become

  936. palpably more relaxed

  937. and many of them

  938. would just,

  939. immediately when they

  940. saw him,

  941. they would just lay down.

  942. The shepherd is here.

  943. It's okay.

  944. The shepherd is here.

  945. All the infighting,

  946. all the headbutting

  947. would stop

  948. because they're no longer

  949. looking at each other,

  950. they're looking at him.

  951. And there's this

  952. wonderful encounter

  953. in John chapter 4

    John 4 chapter mention

  954. between Jesus

  955. and a Samaritan woman.

  956. You know,

  957. we said a moment ago

  958. that unless we know

  959. where to find clean,

  960. pure water,

  961. we, like sheep,

  962. are going to drink

  963. from polluted water.

  964. If we can't find clean water,

  965. we'll drink from polluted water.

  966. Well,

  967. this Samaritan woman

  968. in John 4

  969. is such a person,

  970. right?

  971. She's looking for fulfillment.

  972. She doesn't know

  973. where to find it

  974. and so she's not looking

  975. at her job

  976. or at her kids.

  977. She's looking to

  978. the attention of men,

  979. right?

  980. She's looking to

  981. the sexual desire of men.

  982. If there are men

  983. out there who desire me,

  984. then I have value,

  985. then I have worth

  986. as long as I feel desired,

  987. right?

  988. It's what somebody I know

  989. called lady lust.

  990. She goes,

  991. you know,

  992. I don't often lust

  993. after men.

  994. Like,

  995. I don't look at them

  996. and think,

  997. wow,

  998. I really want to have

  999. sex with that person.

  1000. She says,

  1001. you know,

  1002. most often I look at men

  1003. and I say,

  1004. wow,

  1005. I really want that guy

  1006. to really want to have

  1007. sex with me.

  1008. That's my version of lust.

  1009. And this woman is thinking,

  1010. as long as I can be desired,

  1011. then I have worth

  1012. and value and meaning.

  1013. And so she encounters

  1014. Jesus at a well,

  1015. which is not a coincidence,

  1016. and Jesus says,

  1017. give me a drink.

  1018. And that enters them

  1019. into this conversation.

  1020. And at one point,

  1021. Jesus says to her,

  1022. in verse 13,

  1023. everyone who drinks

  1024. of this water

  1025. will be thirsty again.

  1026. And of course,

  1027. what's he talking about?

  1028. He's not talking about

  1029. the well water.

  1030. He's talking about

  1031. the men in her life.

  1032. As long as you keep drinking

  1033. from that polluted stream,

  1034. it's going to make you sick.

  1035. And you're just going

  1036. to be more thirsty.

  1037. It's not going to satisfy you.

  1038. It's amazingly insightful.

  1039. And he says,

  1040. but whoever drinks

  1041. of the water

  1042. that I will give him

  1043. will never be thirsty again.

  1044. He says,

  1045. you've been with five men,

  1046. and the one that you're

  1047. living with now

  1048. is not your husband,

  1049. and that's a polluted stream.

  1050. And of course,

  1051. as we hear his language

  1052. and we think about

  1053. this encounter,

  1054. and she's a Samaritan,

  1055. he's a Jew,

  1056. she is bracing herself

  1057. to be condemned.

  1058. But what does he do?

  1059. He doesn't condemn her.

  1060. This is not a condemnation.

  1061. This is an invitation.

  1062. He doesn't say,

  1063. I can't believe

  1064. that you are sleeping

  1065. with all these people

  1066. and you need to,

  1067. you know,

  1068. become a secondary virgin

  1069. and put your purity ring

  1070. back on and promise me

  1071. that you're never

  1072. going to do it again.

  1073. He doesn't say any of that.

  1074. He says,

  1075. he says what?

  1076. You're drinking

  1077. from polluted water.

  1078. I can show you

  1079. where to find clean water.

  1080. I can show you

  1081. where to find

  1082. life-giving water.

  1083. He's saying,

  1084. you're living like

  1085. a sheep without a shepherd,

  1086. but I'm here now.

  1087. It's okay.

  1088. I'm the shepherd

  1089. and I'm here

  1090. and so you can lie down.

  1091. He's saying,

  1092. I'm the one

  1093. that can make you lie down,

  1094. cause you to lie down.

  1095. I'm the one

  1096. who can lead you

  1097. to the good water.

  1098. Why?

  1099. Because I am that water

  1100. and you don't have

  1101. to wander anymore

  1102. or drink polluted water

  1103. because I'm here.

  1104. So Jesus is the true shepherd

  1105. who has come

  1106. to call his flock

  1107. to himself

  1108. and so I think

  1109. this psalm

  1110. is an invitation

  1111. to all of us

  1112. to come into

  1113. the shepherd's presence

  1114. even as he is present

  1115. with us.

  1116. There's a,

  1117. one final image

  1118. that I'll share with you

  1119. before we close

  1120. and it's an image

  1121. that I heard last week

  1122. after the service.

  1123. Steve Arpey,

  1124. the priest who serves,

  1125. the retired priest

  1126. who's a part of our community

  1127. and many of you know him

  1128. because he's up front

  1129. from time to time.

  1130. But he told me

  1131. this wonderful detail.

  1132. He and his wife

  1133. lived in the Middle East

  1134. for years and years and years.

  1135. A lot of their ministry

  1136. was spent there

  1137. and in that time

  1138. they got to see

  1139. shepherds firsthand

  1140. and he said last week,

  1141. you know,

  1142. there's a big difference

  1143. between the Western

  1144. approach to sheep herding

  1145. and Middle Eastern shepherds.

  1146. And he said,

  1147. you know,

  1148. in the West,

  1149. like what we think of

  1150. as is driving the sheep.

  1151. You have the sheep dogs

  1152. and maybe even people

  1153. on horses

  1154. and you're driving the sheep

  1155. and you're behind them

  1156. and it's fear driven,

  1157. right?

  1158. You're driving the sheep forward.

  1159. Maybe that's why images

  1160. like God as being a shepherd

  1161. is not necessarily

  1162. a comforting image for us

  1163. because if we think

  1164. about fear

  1165. and condemnation

  1166. and being driven

  1167. in a certain direction.

  1168. But that's not how

  1169. a Middle Eastern shepherd operates

  1170. and that's not the image

  1171. of Psalm 23.

  1172. That's not how Jesus operates.

  1173. In the Middle East,

  1174. shepherds lead their sheep.

  1175. And you know how?

  1176. They go out in front of them.

  1177. You know how they lead them?

  1178. They call to them.

  1179. They speak their names.

  1180. Many times,

  1181. they'll even sing to them.

  1182. So they're led by the voice

  1183. of the shepherd.

  1184. They go,

  1185. not because they're driven

  1186. out of fear,

  1187. but because they're called.

  1188. They're wooed.

  1189. They're summoned.

  1190. And they respond.

  1191. Out of trust and love.

  1192. And this is how Jesus,

  1193. I believe,

  1194. calls to us.

  1195. In the midst of the fear

  1196. and the anxiety

  1197. and the busyness

  1198. and the buzzing

  1199. and all the craziness,

  1200. I think the voice of Jesus

  1201. is always calling to us.

  1202. It may be through a movie

  1203. or a poem

  1204. or a conversation

  1205. or a sunset

  1206. or a service like this.

  1207. But I think the voice

  1208. is always there.

  1209. He's always singing.

  1210. He's always calling.

  1211. He's always drawing.

  1212. He's always calling us.

  1213. And so my prayer for us all

  1214. is as we continue

  1215. in this service,

  1216. we're about to have

  1217. an amazing baptism.

  1218. I'm very excited about that.

  1219. As we spend some time

  1220. in prayer,

  1221. as we come to the Lord's table

  1222. together,

  1223. that we would all

  1224. have our ears opened

  1225. to cut through the noise

  1226. and to hear and respond

  1227. to the voice of our shepherd

  1228. even as he calls to us.

  1229. Let's pray.

  1230. Yes.

  1231. Amen.

  1232. Good morning.