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  1. Well, again, let me say good morning to all of you.

  2. I'm delighted that we can be here together, delighted that we can gather and worship,

  3. and in particular today, kind of remember why we're here.

  4. You know, 14 years ago, we started this church, and when we started the church, we made a

  5. commitment, and that commitment was to love the people in the city of Washington, D.C.

  6. long-term, which by long-term, we mean long-term, multi-generational, right, until Jesus comes

  7. again, as long as the Lord would have us here.

  8. And so today, one of the things that's happening is we are relaunching the home campaign.

  9. We feel that this is the time in the life of our church where we need to find a permanent

  10. home so that we can make good on that long-term commitment.

  11. And we're going to be hearing a little bit more about that later in the service, but

  12. I just want to say this is a huge opportunity for us.

  13. It's a huge opportunity for us.

  14. This is the first time that our church has been through anything like this.

  15. We've really never done anything like this before.

  16. And as I thought about and prayed about this time in the life of our church, which I have

  17. for many, many, many hours of time in prayer, thinking and pondering what this might be in

  18. the life of our church, I would say this.

  19. My greatest hope is not necessarily that we would get a building, although that's certainly

  20. a hope of mine.

  21. But my greatest hope is that this would be a time of tremendous spiritual growth for us,

  22. that this would be a time where we come together as a community and we grow, and in particular,

  23. we learn more about what it means to trust God, because it's the kind of thing that's

  24. going to require an enormous amount of trust.

  25. And so that's what I've really been praying, and in particular, that we would trust God when

  26. it comes to our finances, because this is going to be the single biggest financial decision

  27. we've ever made as a community.

  28. So what we're going to be doing for the next few weeks in light of that and our desire to

  29. grow through this process is to be talking a little bit about stewardship and about how

  30. we think about our finances individually and as a community.

  31. And it's important that we do this because, honestly, in the history of our church, we haven't

  32. really done it all that much.

  33. I mean, I could probably count on one hand the number of times that we have specifically

  34. preached on this topic.

  35. And so we're going to be focusing on that for the next few weeks.

  36. Jesus actually talks more about wealth than almost any other topic.

  37. Just take all the topics that, you know, the kind of more hot-button topics like sex or

  38. heaven or hell.

  39. Jesus talks way more about wealth than any of those other topics.

  40. And one of the reasons, I think, is because the relationship that we have with our stuff is

  41. kind of a spiritual barometer.

  42. It reflects the state of our hearts.

  43. And actually, this week in Luke chapter 2, we're going to see this encounter between

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  44. Jesus and a man who, we might say, has a dysfunctional relationship with his stuff, with his wealth.

  45. And so we're going to see how Jesus responds to this man and what it looks like to have a

  46. healthy, godly relationship with our wealth.

  47. Now, you may hear this and think, well, you know, this doesn't really apply to me because

  48. I'm not really actually that wealthy, you know, so I'm going to kind of tune out.

  49. But what we have to understand is Jesus is teaching a group of people who, by almost every standard,

  50. are dirt poor.

  51. Jesus' original audience in this text is made up mostly of people who are living hands-to-mouth,

  52. right, who may own one additional set of clothing other than what they're wearing.

  53. So, if this would apply to them, certainly I think it would apply to us, at least to me.

  54. So, what we're going to see as we look at Luke chapter 2 is three things.

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  55. We're going to see the symptoms of a dysfunctional relationship with our stuff.

  56. How do we know?

  57. Then we're going to see the underlying source or cause of the dysfunction.

  58. And then finally, we're going to look at the cure, the way out, the way into a healthier

  59. relationship with our stuff.

  60. So, symptoms cause cure.

  61. Let's pray.

  62. Lord, we thank You for Your Word, and we thank You that You're a God who is here, who is living

  63. inactive, who speaks to us.

  64. And Lord, I know that when I hear a topic like this, there's a part of me that recoils.

  65. I don't want to know.

  66. I don't want to hear what You have to say.

  67. And I confess that to You.

  68. And I pray that despite that, Lord, that You would speak words of healing, words of truth,

  69. words of goodness, words of grace, that You would invite us to open our hearts and minds

  70. to what You have to say to us this morning.

  71. I pray this for all of us, Lord.

  72. We all need You this morning in one way or another.

  73. We pray this in Your Son's name.

  74. Amen.

  75. So, first of all, the symptoms of a dysfunctional relationship with our stuff.

  76. The first thing that we see as we begin to dig into this passage, beginning in verse 13,

  77. is that a dysfunctional relationship with money often results in strained relationships.

  78. It stresses our relationships.

  79. It causes tension in our relationships.

  80. This whole scene is set off when a man comes up to Jesus while he's in the middle of teaching

  81. and he interrupts him.

  82. And he says in verse 13,

  83. Teacher, tell my brother to divide the inheritance with me.

  84. Now, you can understand, you know, Jesus is teaching and this man is like, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,

  85. you can do that later.

  86. This is more important.

  87. I want you to tell my brother to give me what he owes me.

  88. So, this guy's father has probably recently died and instead of grieving,

  89. he's fighting with his siblings over the inheritance.

  90. And, you know, I've known a number of families who have gone through this very thing.

  91. Some sort of wealthy, older, previous generation person passes away

  92. and the entire focus isn't on grieving the death and the loss and coming together in that.

  93. The entire focus is who's going to get what, you know?

  94. And sometimes it's not just a big inheritance.

  95. Sometimes it's like who's going to get that antique armoire?

  96. You know, grandma always said that I was her favorite and I was going to get the antique dining room set

  97. and now you get it, right?

  98. This happens all the time.

  99. And so, it strains our relationships.

  100. You know, money is the number one issue that married couples fight about.

  101. It's probably not a surprise to most of you.

  102. It's definitely been an issue in our marriage

  103. as two people come together and try to figure out how to share expenses

  104. and how to combine accounts and how to prioritize spending

  105. and how to save and where to invest.

  106. And it causes lots of tension.

  107. I've also seen money come between roommates.

  108. When, you know, there's bills aren't getting paid

  109. and you got one person who's super responsible

  110. and they're always on top of paying the bills

  111. and the other person's, you know, always supposed to Venmo their share

  112. but they never do it.

  113. You know, and you have to remind them like 15 times.

  114. It comes between friendships, right?

  115. I see it dividing friends when some start to make more than others.

  116. You know, you graduate from college and you're all kind of at the same level

  117. and then after graduation over the next like 10, 15, 20 years

  118. like some people go into investment banking

  119. and other people go into like non-profit work, you know?

  120. And there starts to be this divide

  121. and then you've got some friends who were like

  122. they go out to eat like six nights a week

  123. and they're always going to like the new place in town.

  124. And you got the other person who's like barely able to pay their bills, you know?

  125. And they want to hang out but they just can't

  126. because they start moving in different circles, right?

  127. Because of that income split, right?

  128. So it causes tension in friendships.

  129. And, you know, dysfunctional relationships with wealth

  130. lead to all kinds of injustice

  131. and much of that we see right here in our city.

  132. You know, a lot of the wealth disparity is very clearly,

  133. you can draw lines on the DC map, right?

  134. Between wealthy and poor depending on where people live

  135. and those lines are there for a reason, right?

  136. There are systemic causes for that disparity.

  137. It also leads to overconsumption and waste

  138. so it hurts our relationship with the world itself.

  139. Our dysfunctional relationship with wealth

  140. causes all kinds of relational tension.

  141. So if that's true for you, if you're like,

  142. man, this has caused stress in some of my relationships,

  143. maybe you have a dysfunctional relationship with your wealth.

  144. So that's the first thing, strained relationships.

  145. The second thing we see is down in verse 22.

  146. Another symptom, excessive anxiety.

  147. Excessive anxiety.

  148. Verse 22, Jesus says,

  149. therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life.

  150. Why does he say that?

  151. Because most of us are anxious about our lives.

  152. He says, don't be anxious about what you're going to eat.

  153. About your body.

  154. What you'll put on.

  155. How much time do you spend worrying about your finances?

  156. It's a good question to reflect on.

  157. How much time do you spend worrying about financial security?

  158. Let me put it another way.

  159. How much does the desire for financial security and stability

  160. drive your decision making?

  161. You know, and if you're hearing this and you're like,

  162. I don't really spend all that much time worrying about my money.

  163. Let me put it yet another way.

  164. Do your financial priorities reflect God's heart

  165. or do they reflect a desire for financial security?

  166. Right?

  167. At the end of the day,

  168. if a friend that you knew and you were close to

  169. was in dire financial need,

  170. would you dip into your retirement account

  171. to help them out?

  172. Right?

  173. Where are your priorities?

  174. Right?

  175. It's something we're thinking.

  176. I don't think I worry about that that much.

  177. Maybe not, but maybe, yeah, maybe you do.

  178. So, excessive anxiety.

  179. Number three, another symptom is what we might think of

  180. as a scarcity mentality.

  181. Scarcity mentality.

  182. We live with a scarcity mentality.

  183. Verse 29,

  184. And do not seek what you are to eat

  185. and what you are to drink, nor be worried.

  186. For all the nations of the world seek after these things.

  187. And we need to understand the phrase seek after

  188. means a kind of single-minded pursuit.

  189. What Jesus is saying is,

  190. don't focus exclusively on worrying

  191. whether or not you're going to have enough.

  192. And that's a scarcity mentality.

  193. A scarcity mentality means we get so focused

  194. on what we don't have

  195. that we begin to lose sight of what we do have.

  196. And we become so focused on what we're afraid

  197. of lacking in the future

  198. that we're oblivious to all of the abundance around us.

  199. And one of the key ways that you know

  200. that you have a scarcity mentality

  201. is that all of your life is lived on zero-sum terms.

  202. You know, your loss is my gain.

  203. My loss is your gain.

  204. That's a scarcity mentality.

  205. So, people with a scarcity mentality

  206. tend to compare themselves to other people constantly.

  207. You know, your friend gets promoted.

  208. And you feel threatened by that.

  209. And so, you have to mentally tear them down

  210. or undercut them in order to feel less threatened by that.

  211. Well, they only got that because they're the favorite.

  212. They only got that because they're constantly kissing up.

  213. Or, you know, they didn't earn it.

  214. You know, if it had been me, I would have deserved it.

  215. That's scarcity mentality.

  216. People with a scarcity mentality

  217. tend to hoard their possessions.

  218. They tend to, not like the show hoarders,

  219. but just kind of, you know, but maybe.

  220. But they tend to kind of hold on to their stuff.

  221. They tend to be stingy.

  222. You know, people with a scarcity mentality

  223. tend to be stingy with their money,

  224. with their stuff, with their time.

  225. People with a scarcity mentality

  226. tend to struggle with perpetual discontentment

  227. because you're always focusing on what you lack

  228. and what other people have.

  229. And if it just had this or that or this or that,

  230. then, right, that's a scarcity mentality.

  231. And Jesus says, you know,

  232. this is the way of the nations.

  233. And what he's saying is, you know,

  234. this is how most people live.

  235. And guess what?

  236. When he says the nations,

  237. he's talking about people who don't believe in God.

  238. So another way of saying it is,

  239. he says, this is how atheists live.

  240. This is how agnostics live.

  241. You know, this is how people

  242. who completely reject the idea of God,

  243. this is how they live.

  244. And his point is, and you believe in God,

  245. you have a special relationship with God,

  246. and yet you're living the same way.

  247. Right?

  248. That's an interesting point Jesus is making.

  249. It probably stung for them to hear that.

  250. Right?

  251. So just to kind of pull this together,

  252. if money has ever put strain or stress

  253. on any of your relationships,

  254. friends, family, roommates, spouse,

  255. if money leads to excessive anxiety

  256. and you begin to realize,

  257. I actually prioritize my financial decisions

  258. to gain stability rather than to reflect

  259. what God might be calling me to do,

  260. if money tends to drive you to live

  261. with a scarcity mentality,

  262. perpetual discontentment,

  263. constant comparison, zero-sum mentality,

  264. chances are you have a dysfunctional relationship

  265. with your stuff.

  266. Now, what's the cause of this dysfunction?

  267. Where is it rooted?

  268. Jesus responds to the man in the crowd

  269. by saying this,

  270. man, who made me a judge over you?

  271. And I love that because it's kind of ironic.

  272. In one sense, Jesus is the judge over him.

  273. He's the judge over all creation.

  274. But what he's saying is,

  275. you want me to adjudicate, right,

  276. this conflict in your life,

  277. but that's not what you really need.

  278. And Jesus, as always,

  279. is after this man's heart.

  280. He's like, what you think you need

  281. is your share of the inheritance.

  282. But then he goes for the heart.

  283. Says in verse 15,

  284. take care and be on your guard

  285. against all,

  286. which means every form of,

  287. all covetousness.

  288. For one's life does not consist

  289. in the abundance of his possessions.

  290. And here's where we see the root of this, right?

  291. What's the root cause of dysfunction

  292. when it comes to the relationship

  293. we have with our stuff?

  294. Jesus names it.

  295. It's what the Bible calls covetousness.

  296. And he says,

  297. be on guard against every form of covetousness.

  298. So what this man really needs

  299. is not more money,

  300. it's a different relationship with money.

  301. He needs the entire dynamic changed.

  302. The cause of his dysfunction

  303. is covetousness, as we said,

  304. which is essentially

  305. an inordinate desire

  306. for material things.

  307. Or, put it another way,

  308. an inordinate focus on material things.

  309. Now, sometimes that takes the form of greed.

  310. You know, often you hear the word covetous

  311. and you think of a greedy person.

  312. Now, sometimes that's true.

  313. Sometimes it's, you know,

  314. wanting more money or nicer things.

  315. Sometimes, though,

  316. covetousness takes the form of envy.

  317. It's not so much that I want, like,

  318. you know, this much more money in my account.

  319. I just want more money than him.

  320. You know?

  321. I want a better job than her.

  322. You know, I want a nicer car than those people.

  323. You know, I want a nicer house.

  324. You know, you get your house

  325. and you love your house

  326. and then you go have dinner

  327. at your friend's house.

  328. And then you're like,

  329. I don't like my house anymore.

  330. I need a better house.

  331. Right?

  332. And this is how it works.

  333. Sometimes covetousness takes the form of fear.

  334. Right?

  335. Covetousness can manifest as a constant fear

  336. of not having enough,

  337. a fear of running out.

  338. But however it manifests itself,

  339. the lie under all forms of covetousness is this.

  340. Here's the lie of covetousness.

  341. If I just had more,

  342. then I would arrive.

  343. It's like just over the horizon is satisfaction.

  344. And I'm almost there.

  345. It's like a carrot.

  346. And if I could just get a little more,

  347. if I could just have a little more,

  348. then I will arrive.

  349. Then I'll be okay.

  350. Then I'll be content.

  351. Then I won't want anymore.

  352. If I could just get to here,

  353. then I'll be okay.

  354. That's kind of the lie.

  355. And it just, like a carrot,

  356. it just keeps us going and going and going and going.

  357. You know?

  358. It's like when you're hiking

  359. and you think you get to the top of the mountain

  360. and you come over that hill

  361. and then there's just more trail and more hill.

  362. And you're like, oh.

  363. And then you just keep going, right?

  364. And every time you think you're at the top,

  365. it's like, nah, man, you're just getting started.

  366. Keep climbing.

  367. And that's what covetousness says.

  368. Keep climbing.

  369. You're almost there.

  370. Keep climbing, baby.

  371. You're almost there.

  372. Right?

  373. So this is the source.

  374. So then the question becomes,

  375. what do we do about it?

  376. You know, because we could be idealistic

  377. and say get rid of everything,

  378. but the truth is we need some stuff.

  379. We need some stuff.

  380. We value hospitality.

  381. It's nice to have a home to invite people into

  382. if you value hospitality.

  383. We need a place to live.

  384. We need food.

  385. We need clothing.

  386. Most of you couldn't do your jobs.

  387. I probably couldn't do my job

  388. without a computer and a phone of some kind.

  389. So we need some stuff.

  390. So how do we deal with this?

  391. You can't live in the world without any possessions.

  392. And I would argue that I don't think

  393. there's anywhere in Scripture

  394. that tells us to live in the world

  395. without any possessions.

  396. So what we need is what this man needs.

  397. We need a different relationship with our stuff.

  398. So the cure for our dysfunction

  399. is as we look at this text,

  400. we begin to see where Jesus is pointing our hearts.

  401. And it's essentially this,

  402. that we have to find a way

  403. to change the relationship that we have with our stuff.

  404. And in this passage,

  405. that means at least three things.

  406. Number one,

  407. we have to begin to recognize the truth about our wealth,

  408. recognize the truth about our stuff.

  409. This man who has interrupted Jesus,

  410. who wants his inheritance,

  411. he believes that if he gets more of that inheritance,

  412. then he's going to arrive and be satisfied.

  413. He'll be at the top of the wealth mountain,

  414. and he won't need any more.

  415. And so Jesus responds to this man

  416. by telling a parable about another man

  417. who finally does arrive.

  418. He's like,

  419. let me tell you about a guy

  420. who got where you want to get.

  421. He finally arrived.

  422. Rich man had a great year.

  423. This is the parable.

  424. He ends up with more than he ever knew what to do with.

  425. You can imagine the guy with the inheritance

  426. being like,

  427. that would be so amazing.

  428. I want to be that guy, right?

  429. And so what does this man in the parable decide to do?

  430. Well, he decides to build bigger barns.

  431. He essentially adds to his already bulging retirement account.

  432. He just adds to it.

  433. And he decides that when he looks at his retirement account,

  434. when he looks at the stock market

  435. and everything's trending in the right direction,

  436. he's like,

  437. I can retire early.

  438. And so that's what he does.

  439. And listen to how this man perceives all of his stuff.

  440. In verse 17,

  441. and he thought to himself,

  442. what shall I do?

  443. For I have nowhere to store my crops.

  444. And he said,

  445. I will do this.

  446. I will tear down my barns and build larger ones.

  447. And there I will store all my grain and my goods.

  448. And I will say to my soul,

  449. soul,

  450. you have ample goods laid up for many years.

  451. Relax,

  452. eat,

  453. drink,

  454. be merry.

  455. And you can see the emphasis that Luke is putting in that passage.

  456. Me,

  457. me,

  458. me,

  459. my,

  460. my,

  461. my,

  462. my.

  463. Have you ever seen Brian Regan,

  464. the me monster?

  465. Just Google it.

  466. He's a comedian.

  467. It's hysterical.

  468. Me,

  469. me,

  470. me,

  471. me.

  472. This,

  473. this is that guy.

  474. It's me.

  475. It's mine.

  476. My barns,

  477. my stuff.

  478. And,

  479. you know,

  480. we laugh.

  481. And I love that,

  482. that bit from Brian Regan.

  483. I think it's funny.

  484. And,

  485. and you kind of can sneer at this guy a bit.

  486. But how many of us see our stuff that way?

  487. I mean,

  488. you know,

  489. if I'm totally honest,

  490. I know I do.

  491. And this is really a seed of covetousness,

  492. and this is what Jesus is getting at.

  493. The seed of covetousness is,

  494. this is,

  495. you're living under the illusion that all this stuff belongs to you.

  496. And this parable shatters that illusion like a hammer striking a glass table.

  497. Just bam.

  498. Because God says,

  499. fool.

  500. God says that to you.

  501. It's,

  502. it's not good news.

  503. Fool.

  504. This night,

  505. your soul will be required of you.

  506. And all this stuff,

  507. whose will it be then?

  508. Right?

  509. The truth is,

  510. we're never going to arrive

  511. because none of this stuff belongs to us.

  512. We don't even own our own soul.

  513. Everything,

  514. even your body,

  515. your soul,

  516. belongs to God.

  517. And ultimately,

  518. He has the final word

  519. in what we have

  520. and receive

  521. and what is ultimately taken away from us.

  522. We don't have that kind of say.

  523. And that's a hard truth to swallow,

  524. but it can set us free.

  525. Right?

  526. So this is the first way to begin to gain,

  527. come out of the dysfunction.

  528. We begin to recognize the truth about our stuff.

  529. It doesn't belong to us.

  530. We're never going to arrive.

  531. The second thing

  532. is we begin to learn

  533. how to rest

  534. in God's abundant generosity.

  535. We begin to rest

  536. in God's abundant generosity.

  537. This is where Jesus begins to say,

  538. consider the ravens.

  539. You know,

  540. they're sitting there

  541. and there are ravens,

  542. probably,

  543. and Jesus is pointing to them.

  544. Consider the ravens over there.

  545. They don't plant at all,

  546. and yet God provides for them.

  547. And then He says,

  548. consider the lilies.

  549. They neither toil nor spin,

  550. and yet I tell you,

  551. even Solomon in all His glory

  552. was not arrayed like one of these.

  553. They're more beautiful,

  554. these lilies,

  555. than Solomon ever was.

  556. Now, why the reference to Solomon?

  557. You know, that's interesting.

  558. For a long time,

  559. I didn't pick up

  560. on the significance of that.

  561. But it's actually not by accident.

  562. Solomon spent,

  563. anybody remember,

  564. how many years did Solomon spend

  565. building the temple for God,

  566. the dwelling place

  567. for the Lord to honor God?

  568. How long did he spend

  569. building the temple?

  570. It was seven years.

  571. How long did Solomon spend

  572. building his own house?

  573. Thirteen years.

  574. So how much more time

  575. and energy and sweat

  576. and money

  577. do we pour into

  578. our own security?

  579. Do we pour into

  580. our own lifestyle?

  581. Over and above

  582. the things that we pour

  583. into what God is calling us

  584. to be a part of.

  585. Right?

  586. So this reference

  587. is very deliberate.

  588. And Jesus is saying,

  589. Solomon spent 13 years

  590. building his house.

  591. He only spent seven

  592. building the Lord's house,

  593. and yet,

  594. this lily

  595. growing here in the ground

  596. on the side of the road

  597. is more beautiful

  598. than anything Solomon

  599. ever did.

  600. A scarcity mentality

  601. focuses on what we don't have.

  602. Jesus invites us

  603. into an abundance mindset

  604. where instead of focusing

  605. on what we lack

  606. or think we lack,

  607. we focus on God's

  608. abundant generosity

  609. all around us.

  610. Right?

  611. We begin to notice

  612. and to see the things

  613. that God is doing

  614. in our lives

  615. and the ways He's blessing us

  616. rather than the things

  617. that we think we lack.

  618. And when we begin

  619. to do that,

  620. we begin to understand

  621. how worthy

  622. and valuable

  623. we are to Him.

  624. Right?

  625. So we begin to rest

  626. in God's abundant generosity.

  627. Number three,

  628. way to kind of begin

  629. to right this

  630. dysfunctional relationship

  631. with wealth

  632. is that we begin

  633. to actively cultivate

  634. a lifestyle

  635. of generosity.

  636. Jesus says in verse 33,

  637. sell your possessions,

  638. give to the needy,

  639. provide yourselves

  640. with money bags

  641. that do not grow old

  642. with a treasure

  643. in the heavens

  644. that does not fail.

  645. So He's saying

  646. invest in things

  647. that will last for eternity

  648. rather than ending up

  649. in a trash dump.

  650. Right?

  651. Invest in things

  652. that are meant to last.

  653. You know,

  654. we live in a world

  655. full of things

  656. that have a kind of

  657. engineered obsolescence.

  658. You know,

  659. they're made to break,

  660. they're made to wear out.

  661. Now,

  662. Jesus says a lot of things

  663. in the world are like this,

  664. but not everything.

  665. And in fact,

  666. a lot of this world

  667. is going to be remade.

  668. It's going to be recreated.

  669. And there are many things

  670. in this world

  671. that are meant

  672. to last for eternity.

  673. First and foremost,

  674. human beings.

  675. You're going to last forever.

  676. The people around you

  677. are going to last forever.

  678. These bodies

  679. were made for eternity.

  680. Invest in things

  681. that last.

  682. Invest in things

  683. that will extend

  684. beyond a couple of years

  685. before they become

  686. obsolete.

  687. What we begin to see

  688. is that generosity,

  689. the active aspect

  690. of generosity,

  691. not just thinking

  692. I want to be generous,

  693. but the act

  694. of being generous,

  695. begins to cure

  696. covetousness

  697. in our hearts

  698. because generosity

  699. and covetousness

  700. can't coexist

  701. in the heart.

  702. Every time

  703. you give something away,

  704. it reminds you

  705. that it was never yours

  706. to begin with.

  707. And over time,

  708. those acts of giving

  709. chip away.

  710. They chip away

  711. at that illusion

  712. and that lie.

  713. Right?

  714. So it takes

  715. this kind of active,

  716. repetitive,

  717. habitual generosity.

  718. I know I've told

  719. this story before,

  720. but I've got to tell you

  721. again,

  722. this, you know,

  723. Bill and Aida Spencer,

  724. two of my professors

  725. in seminary

  726. and kind of,

  727. you know,

  728. they were sort of,

  729. I really looked up

  730. to them

  731. as a young Christian

  732. and I remember

  733. this was in Massachusetts

  734. and, you know,

  735. we think it's cold here.

  736. It gets pretty cold

  737. in Massachusetts as well,

  738. sometimes a little colder

  739. than it was this morning.

  740. And imagine living

  741. in weather like this

  742. and the long winters

  743. up there,

  744. living in a house

  745. that's only heated

  746. by a wood stove.

  747. They lived in a house

  748. together,

  749. a tiny little house

  750. that was only heated

  751. by a wood stove.

  752. They've both written books

  753. and all this stuff,

  754. conferences,

  755. that's where they live.

  756. And part of the reason

  757. they lived that way

  758. is because they had committed

  759. when they first got married

  760. to giving as sacrificially

  761. as they could.

  762. And when they started out,

  763. they were students

  764. and they couldn't do much

  765. and so they'd try to give,

  766. you know,

  767. I don't know,

  768. you know,

  769. maybe six,

  770. seven percent of,

  771. because most of what

  772. they were spending

  773. was kind of borrowed

  774. or whatever.

  775. But slowly over time,

  776. they began to increase it.

  777. And when I met them

  778. and was known to them,

  779. they were at a point

  780. where they were giving away

  781. 50 percent of everything

  782. they brought in.

  783. You know,

  784. so their whole way

  785. of thinking about tithing,

  786. right,

  787. was how can we increase?

  788. How can we increase?

  789. How can we increase?

  790. And so they're living

  791. in a house

  792. as heated by a wood stove

  793. in Massachusetts

  794. because their goal,

  795. their main priority

  796. is to give away

  797. 50 percent of everything.

  798. And they were saying,

  799. hopefully in the next few years

  800. we can get that up to 55 percent.

  801. And I just remember thinking

  802. as kind of a young student

  803. living off loans

  804. and couldn't even imagine

  805. that kind of thing,

  806. just being floored by that.

  807. Generosity cures covetousness.

  808. So,

  809. for all of us

  810. who have a dysfunctional

  811. relationship

  812. with our stuff,

  813. and I would definitely

  814. put myself in that camp,

  815. we have to do

  816. something

  817. to right that dysfunction.

  818. And Jesus says,

  819. recognize that nothing

  820. that you have

  821. belongs to you.

  822. It's all God's.

  823. Rest in God's

  824. abundant generosity,

  825. which we see

  826. all around us,

  827. and cultivate a lifestyle

  828. of generosity.

  829. Convert that

  830. into action,

  831. right?

  832. But there's still

  833. something missing.

  834. All of this requires

  835. trust.

  836. At the end of the day,

  837. the real

  838. $64,000 question,

  839. do you trust God enough

  840. to live this way?

  841. Do you trust God enough

  842. to be the owner

  843. of your stuff?

  844. Do you trust God enough

  845. to begin to cultivate

  846. a lifestyle of generosity,

  847. giving things away

  848. that you may never get back?

  849. All of this boils down

  850. to this question,

  851. do I trust God?

  852. Verse 32,

  853. we begin to see

  854. this answer

  855. to this fundamental question

  856. of how do I know

  857. I can trust God?

  858. How do I know?

  859. He says,

  860. fear not,

  861. little flock,

  862. for it is your Father's

  863. good pleasure

  864. to give you

  865. the kingdom.

  866. Now,

  867. earlier he said,

  868. seek the kingdom.

  869. Now he's saying,

  870. but don't worry,

  871. God,

  872. God,

  873. it's his great delight

  874. to give you the kingdom.

  875. Now,

  876. what's that pointing us to?

  877. How could God

  878. take people like us

  879. who have a dysfunctional

  880. relationship with wealth,

  881. who don't trust him,

  882. who live with a scarcity

  883. mentality,

  884. who constantly envy

  885. one another

  886. and compare ourselves

  887. and live this kind of

  888. discontented,

  889. anxious,

  890. fearful lifestyle?

  891. How could God

  892. take people like that

  893. and say,

  894. here's the kingdom,

  895. it's all yours?

  896. Jesus Christ,

  897. to whom

  898. all things belong,

  899. Jesus Christ,

  900. who is the owner

  901. of all things,

  902. willingly gave it all up

  903. and died on the cross

  904. so that God

  905. could give us a place

  906. in his kingdom.

  907. And this right here

  908. is the greatest act

  909. of generosity

  910. in history.

  911. It's not something

  912. that we do for God.

  913. The ultimate act

  914. of generosity

  915. is something that God

  916. has already done

  917. for us

  918. on the cross.

  919. And what this does

  920. in your heart

  921. is this,

  922. if God has freely

  923. and joyfully

  924. given his son,

  925. and if he has freely

  926. and joyfully given

  927. everything necessary

  928. to invite us in

  929. so that we can live

  930. with him

  931. for all of eternity,

  932. how can we not

  933. trust him

  934. to give us

  935. what we need

  936. in this life?

  937. Right?

  938. If he's given us

  939. everything for eternity,

  940. how can I not trust

  941. that he's going to

  942. take care of me

  943. over the next few weeks?

  944. It's all about trust.

  945. You know,

  946. my oldest son

  947. is a great swimmer now,

  948. but I remember

  949. teaching him how to swim.

  950. And we did it in a lake.

  951. And I remember

  952. I was in the water

  953. and there was this dock

  954. and I remember him

  955. coming out on the dock

  956. in his little bathing suit

  957. and he's there,

  958. you know,

  959. kind of shivering

  960. on the dock.

  961. And I held out my arms

  962. and I said,

  963. okay, now I'm going

  964. to count to three

  965. and I want you to jump

  966. and I'm going to catch you.

  967. And he's like,

  968. okay.

  969. And I go,

  970. okay, one, two, three.

  971. And he just stands there

  972. and I say,

  973. I say,

  974. okay,

  975. let's try that again.

  976. One, two, three.

  977. And he's just,

  978. and I said,

  979. hey man,

  980. you know,

  981. you want to jump in?

  982. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

  983. Do you trust me?

  984. Oh yeah, yeah.

  985. You trust that I'm going

  986. to catch you?

  987. Yeah, dad,

  988. I trust you, dad.

  989. You sure?

  990. So when you jump,

  991. you know that I'm going

  992. to, as soon as you hit

  993. the water,

  994. your head's not even

  995. going to go

  996. and I'm going to grab you.

  997. Yeah, dad,

  998. I trust you,

  999. I trust you.

  1000. Are you ready to jump?

  1001. And he's like,

  1002. nah,

  1003. I don't think so.

  1004. Right?

  1005. And there's that gap

  1006. between saying

  1007. you trust somebody

  1008. and actually coming

  1009. off the dot.

  1010. And I would say,

  1011. I think trust

  1012. doesn't really become

  1013. trust until you let

  1014. go of the dot.

  1015. At some point,

  1016. you can say it

  1017. all you want,

  1018. but at some point

  1019. you've got to let go.

  1020. And then you're

  1021. going to find out.

  1022. Then you're going

  1023. to find out,

  1024. is he going to catch

  1025. me or not?

  1026. That's when

  1027. it becomes trust.

  1028. And I think a lot

  1029. of us are like that

  1030. in our lives.

  1031. I've been reflecting

  1032. on this.

  1033. And,

  1034. you know,

  1035. I wonder how much

  1036. of my life

  1037. I am clinging

  1038. to the dot.

  1039. You know,

  1040. and God is sort

  1041. of sitting there

  1042. in this ocean

  1043. of blessing

  1044. saying,

  1045. come on,

  1046. I got you.

  1047. And I'm clinging

  1048. to the dot.

  1049. And I'm praying,

  1050. I trust you,

  1051. I trust you,

  1052. I trust you,

  1053. but I'm not

  1054. really letting

  1055. go.

  1056. You know,

  1057. I think we want

  1058. to trust God,

  1059. we love the idea

  1060. of trusting God,

  1061. but at some point

  1062. we've got to let go.

  1063. And,

  1064. you know,

  1065. as we,

  1066. I think,

  1067. think about this

  1068. home campaign,

  1069. this image has been

  1070. coming into my mind

  1071. because I think

  1072. in many ways

  1073. our church is sort

  1074. of standing

  1075. on the dock

  1076. right now.

  1077. You know,

  1078. we're like,

  1079. man,

  1080. we have never

  1081. done anything

  1082. like this,

  1083. we've never

  1084. taken a risk

  1085. like this,

  1086. we've never

  1087. made a financial

  1088. decision even

  1089. close to this.

  1090. We've got to

  1091. figure out

  1092. how long

  1093. we're going to

  1094. stand on the dock

  1095. and at one point

  1096. are we going to

  1097. let go as a community

  1098. and trust that God's

  1099. got us,

  1100. that He's going to

  1101. continue to provide

  1102. for us the way He

  1103. has for 14 years

  1104. since we started

  1105. in a living room.

  1106. And you know,

  1107. 14 years ago,

  1108. as I said at the

  1109. beginning,

  1110. we made this

  1111. commitment to love

  1112. the people of D.C.

  1113. long term

  1114. for multiple

  1115. generations.

  1116. and what I've

  1117. been amazed at

  1118. is to see how

  1119. many people

  1120. over those 14

  1121. years came to

  1122. D.C.,

  1123. started coming

  1124. to Advent

  1125. and they thought,

  1126. you know,

  1127. maybe I'll be

  1128. in D.C.

  1129. for two,

  1130. three,

  1131. four years

  1132. until the end

  1133. of my internship

  1134. or the end of,

  1135. you know,

  1136. the next administration

  1137. or something like

  1138. that and then

  1139. they end up

  1140. changing their

  1141. plans,

  1142. they end up

  1143. passing up

  1144. job opportunities

  1145. to stay

  1146. because they feel

  1147. God calling them

  1148. to make that

  1149. commitment.

  1150. And I've been

  1151. amazed and humbled

  1152. by that.

  1153. And so,

  1154. those people

  1155. have decided,

  1156. many people

  1157. over the years

  1158. have decided

  1159. to put down

  1160. roots.

  1161. Now it's time

  1162. for our church

  1163. to put down

  1164. roots.

  1165. Now it's time

  1166. for us to find

  1167. a permanent

  1168. home,

  1169. which means a

  1170. space that we

  1171. don't only use

  1172. on Sundays

  1173. for worship,

  1174. but a space

  1175. that we use

  1176. seven days a

  1177. week,

  1178. right,

  1179. for ministry

  1180. to serve

  1181. the community

  1182. around us,

  1183. for discipleship

  1184. and formation,

  1185. a space that

  1186. not only meets

  1187. our needs,

  1188. but a space

  1189. that can be used

  1190. to serve

  1191. the surrounding

  1192. community in

  1193. all kinds of

  1194. ways.

  1195. You know,

  1196. as I said,

  1197. it's going to be

  1198. the biggest

  1199. financial decision

  1200. we've ever made,

  1201. and now we're

  1202. sort of standing

  1203. on the dock,

  1204. and we're looking

  1205. at this God

  1206. who has provided

  1207. for us faithfully

  1208. for 14 years,

  1209. and we have to

  1210. decide,

  1211. are we going to

  1212. keep clinging

  1213. to the dock,

  1214. or are we going

  1215. to trust God,

  1216. let go,

  1217. and dive in?

  1218. Let's pray.

  1219. Lord, we thank

  1220. you for your word,

  1221. and we thank you

  1222. for your provision,

  1223. and we thank you

  1224. ultimately for the

  1225. cross.

  1226. And Lord,

  1227. as we look to

  1228. the cross,

  1229. we see not some

  1230. requirement that we

  1231. have to meet,

  1232. not some standard

  1233. that we have to

  1234. live up to,

  1235. Lord,

  1236. not some amount

  1237. that we have to be

  1238. willing to sacrifice

  1239. for you.

  1240. We see an

  1241. unfathomable,

  1242. incalculable sacrifice

  1243. that you made for us.

  1244. Lord,

  1245. and I pray that

  1246. whatever we do,

  1247. and however we move

  1248. forward from this day,

  1249. I pray that the

  1250. wellspring of our

  1251. generosity would be

  1252. the cross.

  1253. I pray that would

  1254. be the place where

  1255. that living water

  1256. pours into us,

  1257. and soothes our

  1258. fear and anxiety,

  1259. and fills us with

  1260. trust.

  1261. And I pray that

  1262. every time we're

  1263. tempted to doubt

  1264. you, you would

  1265. turn our eyes to

  1266. the cross and

  1267. remind us again

  1268. what kind of God

  1269. you really are.

  1270. We pray this in

  1271. your Son's holy name.

  1272. Amen.

  1273. Amen.