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  1. Well, good morning. I'd like to welcome you here to worship this morning. My name's Jeff. I'm one of the pastors here at Church of the Advent.

  2. And if this is your first time worshiping with us this morning, you've picked a good Sunday to come.

  3. Later in the service, we're going to be celebrating some baptisms, which is going to be great.

  4. And this morning, we are also beginning a new sermon series, which I'm excited about.

  5. This morning, we are starting a series in the book of 2 Corinthians.

  6. And we thought that 2 Corinthians would be a good book to study together right now in the life of our church,

  7. because the central theme of 2 Corinthians is God's power and our weakness.

  8. That's the title of the sermon series this spring that we're going to be going through, Power and Weakness.

  9. Two years ago, almost coming up on two years ago, that the world changed completely as we know it.

  10. And I don't know about you, but the past two years have given me lots of opportunities to confront my own weaknesses and my own limitations.

  11. I felt my weakness and my lack of control over my circumstances and just life in general.

  12. I have felt my weaknesses in facing the limitations of my own body and my mortality.

  13. I felt my weaknesses in facing my own insecurities and fears time and again.

  14. And I'm sure if we had time this morning, I'm sure we could share all kinds of examples about ways in the past couple years that we've been forced to confront our weaknesses and our limitations.

  15. And I don't know about you, but I think when it comes to thinking about experiencing the power of God, the presence of God in my life,

  16. my weaknesses aren't normally at the top of my list for like how to do that.

  17. I would say that probably my weaknesses are more of an obstacle or more of a hurdle to experiencing the power of God at work in my life.

  18. But one of the main things that we see when we study the second Corinthians, this letter from Paul,

  19. is that instead of being obstacles or hurdles to God's power in our life and to God's work in the world,

  20. we actually see that very often our weaknesses are the very vehicle that God chooses to use.

  21. We see the apostle Paul come back to this again and again in second Corinthians,

  22. perhaps the clearest and most memorable instance of this is in chapter 12, verses 8 and 9,

  23. when he asked the Lord to take away the thorn in his flesh.

  24. And he says,

  25. Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me.

  26. But the Lord said to me,

  27. My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.

  28. Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses that the power of Christ may rest on me.

  29. God's power and our weakness.

  30. That's what the book of second Corinthians is about.

  31. And that's really what the Christian life is about.

  32. And so to kind of orient us to our study of second Corinthians,

  33. I just want to give us two main pieces of background information.

  34. Kind of two mental hooks, if you will, that are necessary to frame our study of this book.

  35. And the first is this.

  36. Reading second Corinthians is pretty complex.

  37. Because reading this letter is sort of like reading a pastor's email inbox.

  38. As you begin to read this letter,

  39. where you suddenly realize that you're in the middle of this ongoing correspondence

  40. between Paul and this church that has been taking place over multiple years.

  41. And so you suddenly realize that you're in the middle of this, you know,

  42. several years long communication, and you kind of have to put together the pieces.

  43. So back in Acts chapter 18, Paul, in his second missionary journey,

    Acts 18 chapter mention

  44. he comes to Corinth and he preaches the gospel.

  45. And people come to faith and he plants the first church there in Corinth.

  46. And Acts 18 tells us that he stays there for about one and a half years.

  47. But then he moves on to Ephesus.

  48. And when he moves on to Ephesus,

  49. he hears a report about the church in Corinth that there was some conflict going on.

  50. That some in the church were rejecting his teaching and challenging his authority.

  51. And so in response, he sends Timothy back to Corinth to address some of these problems.

  52. And that's when he writes the book of 1 Corinthians.

  53. That's where we get 1 Corinthians.

  54. And what we find out is that in between writing 1 Corinthians and 2 Corinthians,

  55. it appears that the situation didn't get better.

  56. In fact, it got worse.

  57. And so when Paul heard about this, he decides to change his travel plans

  58. and to make an emergency visit back to Corinth.

  59. But this visit for Paul ended up being a very painful visit.

  60. Evidently, he was publicly attacked.

  61. He was humiliated by some in the church.

  62. And so rather than defend himself in the middle of being publicly attacked,

  63. he decides to actually just embrace the humiliation and to leave,

  64. not wishing to cause further pain.

  65. So he leaves and returns back to Ephesus.

  66. And afterwards, he writes another letter.

  67. It's a letter that he describes in 2 Corinthians 2 as a letter that he writes out of much affliction,

  68. anguish, and tears.

  69. Scholars normally refer to this letter as the sorrowful letter or the severe letter.

  70. Paul references this letter multiple times throughout the book of 2 Corinthians.

  71. And from what we can gather, it seems that overall the church responded well to this letter.

  72. Many had a change of heart, but there was still a minority who remained resistant.

  73. And so to summarize, we have Paul's initial founding of the church in Acts 18.

  74. We have conflict.

  75. We have correspondence in response to this conflict, which includes the 1 Corinthians letter.

  76. We have Paul's painful visit.

  77. And then in response to that visit, we have more correspondence, which involves 2 Corinthians.

  78. And so this is kind of the backdrop.

  79. This is kind of the backdrop to what's going on in Paul's email inbox.

  80. And this is important to understand some of Paul's main goals, his main purposes in writing this letter.

  81. And so this is the second kind of mental hook I want to give us as we think about 2 Corinthians.

  82. And it's that broadly speaking, broadly speaking, Paul has 4 main goals in this letter.

  83. And this covers 3 main sections of this letter.

  84. So in chapters 1 through 7, in chapters 1 through 7, Paul seeks to restore his relationship with the church

  85. to kind of do some relational repair and restoration and to defend the authenticity of his ministry.

  86. So he's going to affirm his love for them and his commitment to them.

  87. He's also going to answer some of those who challenge his authority.

  88. And then in chapter 8 and 9, he transitions to encouraging their partnership in the gospel through generosity.

  89. And so he's going to remind them of a previous commitment they had to give generously to other churches who are in need.

  90. That's chapters 8 and 9.

  91. And then in chapters 10 through 13, he's going to conclude his letter by addressing and challenging the minority in the church who are still resistant.

  92. So he's going to lovingly confront those who still need to repent.

  93. And so that's kind of an overview.

  94. That's a bird's eye view of the flow of the book of 2 Corinthians.

  95. And so with that background in mind, with those kind of mental hooks in mind,

  96. let's turn our attention to chapter 1 as Paul begins his letter.

  97. In chapter 1, we see a couple of things.

  98. We see the central theme of God's power in our weakness.

  99. And we see kind of two of his main goals start to come out.

  100. We see him seek to restore his relationship with the church and to defend his ministry.

  101. And Paul does this primarily by talking about suffering.

  102. He does it by talking about suffering.

  103. The first half of chapter 1 that Brianna read earlier shows us that one of the primary ways that we experience God's power in our weakness is through suffering.

  104. All of us eventually face suffering in this life.

  105. It's an inevitable part of being a human being.

  106. And when we face suffering, all of us go looking for comfort.

  107. We all go looking for comfort in all kinds of places.

  108. Some more healthier than others.

  109. And Paul shows us here in 2 Corinthians 1 that our greatest comfort,

  110. he shows us the greatest comfort that we can find in our suffering.

  111. And he also shows us the greatest comfort that we can offer others in their suffering.

  112. So that's what we're going to look at this morning.

  113. We're going to look at the comfort that we receive from God and the comfort that we share with others.

  114. The comfort we receive from God and the comfort that we share with others.

  115. So first, the comfort that we receive from God.

  116. Paul begins the body of his letter in verse 3.

  117. And he says,

  118. Blessed be the God and the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,

  119. the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort,

  120. who comforts us in all our affliction.

  121. Paul begins his letter by praising God for something that we see all throughout Scripture,

  122. starting in the Old Testament, that God is a God of comfort,

  123. that he comforts people in their suffering.

  124. Isaiah 51 says,

  125. For the Lord comforts Zion.

  126. He makes her wilderness like Eden, her desert like the garden of the Lord.

  127. Famous Psalm, Psalm 23, about the Lord being our shepherd.

  128. It says,

  129. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,

  130. I will fear no evil, for you are with me.

  131. Your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

  132. And this is different from the pantheon of Greek and Roman gods

  133. that those in Corinth would have been familiar with,

  134. who are more or less aloof to human pain and suffering.

  135. The first century Stoic philosopher, Pliny the Elder,

  136. said the idea that a supreme being pays heed to human affairs

  137. is a ridiculous notion.

  138. The idea that a God up there would pay attention to human suffering is ridiculous.

  139. But the God of the Bible has revealed himself as someone who is just the opposite.

  140. He hears the cries of his people.

  141. He is intimately acquainted with their suffering.

  142. God is a good father.

  143. He is a good shepherd who comforts his people.

  144. And the word that Paul uses for comfort here in this chapter

  145. shows us that the comfort that God provides

  146. isn't simply just to put us at ease or to make us feel better,

  147. but it's a comfort that encourages us

  148. and strengthens us in the midst of our suffering.

  149. The 2 Corinthians scholar David Garland says this.

  150. He says,

  151. The comfort that Paul has in mind

  152. is not some tranquilizing dose of grace that only dulls the pain,

  153. but a stiffening agent that fortifies one in heart, mind, and soul.

  154. God's comfort strengthens weak knees

  155. and sustains sagging spirits

  156. so that one faces the troubles of life

  157. with unbending resolve and unending assurance.

  158. If you're here this morning

  159. and you feel like you have weak knees,

  160. if you feel like you have a sagging spirit,

  161. the comfort of God is available to you.

  162. The comfort of God is available to you

  163. to strengthen you and to encourage you.

  164. Paul also points out in verse 4

  165. that God comforts us in all our affliction,

  166. in all our affliction.

  167. There is no suffering too big or too small

  168. for the God of all comfort.

  169. Whether your suffering comes from your circumstances

  170. or from a relationship

  171. or from your own mind and body,

  172. God's comfort is available for all of it.

  173. Whatever it is,

  174. He sees,

  175. He knows,

  176. He cares,

  177. He loves you,

  178. He's with you.

  179. So how does,

  180. how does the comfort of God

  181. flow into our lives?

  182. How do we experience God's comfort?

  183. Paul tells us in verse 5,

  184. as he continues,

  185. he says in verse 5,

  186. for as we share abundantly

  187. in Christ's sufferings,

  188. so through Christ

  189. we share abundantly in comfort too.

  190. What does it mean to share

  191. in Christ's sufferings?

  192. This is kind of an interesting phrase.

  193. What does it mean to share

  194. in Christ's sufferings?

  195. Does it mean that

  196. somehow we contribute

  197. to Christ's sacrifice

  198. on the cross for our sins?

  199. Know that the rest of the Bible

  200. is clear on that,

  201. that Christ suffered

  202. once and for all for sin,

  203. that His work on the cross

  204. is finished and complete.

  205. Does it mean that

  206. Christ somehow

  207. continues to suffer

  208. in His resurrected body,

  209. in His glory,

  210. in His ascension?

  211. I don't think we can say that either.

  212. Christ conquered suffering and death

  213. in His resurrection.

  214. So what does it mean?

  215. It means that for believers in Christ,

  216. all suffering

  217. is a way to experience

  218. communion with God

  219. because God Himself

  220. has suffered.

  221. This is an important

  222. aspect of our

  223. union with Christ.

  224. In a little bit,

  225. we're going to celebrate baptism.

  226. And baptism is all about

  227. union with Christ,

  228. that by faith,

  229. we're united to Jesus

  230. in His life,

  231. in His death,

  232. in His resurrection,

  233. such that all that is His

  234. becomes ours.

  235. We see this language

  236. of union with Christ

  237. all over the New Testament.

  238. You were,

  239. you died,

  240. you were buried,

  241. you were raised,

  242. you're hidden with Him,

  243. you're seeded with Him,

  244. you have His righteousness,

  245. you have His inheritance.

  246. Union with Christ

  247. means sharing in the

  248. privileges and benefits

  249. and status of Jesus.

  250. And it also means

  251. that we share

  252. in His suffering.

  253. In another place

  254. in Romans chapter 8,

    Romans 8 chapter mention

  255. Paul says this,

  256. that the Spirit Himself

  257. bears witness

  258. with our spirit

  259. that we are fellow heirs

  260. with Christ.

  261. That's union with Christ's language.

  262. But then he says this,

  263. provided we suffer with Him

  264. in order that we may

  265. also be glorified with Him.

  266. Union with Christ

  267. means both glory

  268. and suffering.

  269. And this is important

  270. as we think back

  271. to what we said earlier

  272. about the background

  273. of what's going on

  274. in the 2 Corinthians church,

  275. about the conflict

  276. that's taking place,

  277. that there were some people

  278. who sought to discredit

  279. Paul's authority

  280. in his teaching

  281. by pointing to all the trials

  282. and difficulties

  283. that he faced,

  284. like being put on trial,

  285. being put in prison,

  286. being persecuted,

  287. all the suffering

  288. that he faced.

  289. They said that,

  290. he said,

  291. well, that invalidates

  292. Paul's ministry.

  293. That discredits

  294. his ministry.

  295. How could an apostle

  296. from God

  297. experience what looks

  298. like weakness,

  299. what looks like failure?

  300. And so to answer

  301. these critics,

  302. he actually says,

  303. no, it's just

  304. the complete opposite.

  305. He says that his suffering

  306. authenticates his ministry.

  307. His suffering validates

  308. his ministry

  309. because it confirms

  310. his closeness with Jesus.

  311. And this is something

  312. that he comes back to

  313. again and again

  314. throughout the letter.

  315. What's true

  316. of the apostle Paul

  317. is true of all Christians,

  318. that anyone who seeks

  319. to follow Jesus

  320. will suffer.

  321. As we follow

  322. in his footsteps,

  323. just as Christ's

  324. sufferings brought

  325. healing and redemption

  326. to the world,

  327. as we follow him

  328. and continue his life

  329. in his ministry

  330. by the power of the Spirit,

  331. his sufferings

  332. will flow into our lives.

  333. But the good news,

  334. Paul says here

  335. in 2 Corinthians 1,

  336. that as we share

  337. in his sufferings,

  338. we also share

  339. in his comfort.

  340. The great comfort

  341. that we have

  342. in Jesus

  343. is this,

  344. that all suffering,

  345. whether big or small,

  346. is an opportunity

  347. for deeper intimacy,

  348. for deeper communion

  349. with Christ.

  350. This is because

  351. he knows firsthand

  352. what it's like

  353. to go through it.

  354. Isaiah 53 says

  355. that he was despised

  356. and rejected by men,

  357. that he was a man

  358. of sorrows

  359. and acquainted

  360. with grief.

  361. For a Christian,

  362. all suffering

  363. is fellowship

  364. with a man of sorrows.

  365. All suffering

  366. is fellowship

  367. with the one

  368. who was acquainted

  369. with grief.

  370. Have you ever

  371. experienced

  372. physical pain?

  373. So has Jesus.

  374. Have you ever

  375. experienced

  376. deep agony

  377. in your soul?

  378. So has Jesus.

  379. Have you ever

  380. been wounded

  381. by other people?

  382. So has Jesus.

  383. Have you ever

  384. experienced injustice?

  385. Have you ever

  386. been betrayed?

  387. Have you ever

  388. been lonely?

  389. So has Jesus.

  390. Have you ever

  391. been overwhelmed

  392. with sadness

  393. and grief?

  394. So is Jesus.

  395. All suffering

  396. is fellowship

  397. with a man

  398. of sorrows.

  399. John Lennox,

  400. who's a professor

  401. of mathematics

  402. at the University

  403. of Oxford,

  404. tells the story

  405. of when he was

  406. traveling in

  407. Eastern Europe

  408. and one time

  409. he decided

  410. to do some

  411. sightseeing

  412. and visit

  413. an old synagogue.

  414. He joined

  415. a tour

  416. of the synagogue

  417. with some

  418. other visitors

  419. there and

  420. he struck

  421. up a conversation

  422. with a woman

  423. who said

  424. that she was

  425. there to

  426. find out

  427. more about

  428. her family

  429. who had

  430. lived in

  431. Eastern Europe

  432. during World War II

  433. and during

  434. the Holocaust.

  435. And eventually

  436. the tour

  437. came to

  438. the place

  439. in the synagogue

  440. that had

  441. pictures

  442. from World War II

  443. and from the

  444. Holocaust

  445. and one

  446. of the

  447. pictures

  448. of the

  449. main gate

  450. one of the

  451. pictures

  452. was of the

  453. main gate

  454. of the

  455. concentration

  456. camp

  457. in Auschwitz.

  458. And John

  459. says that his

  460. new friend

  461. pointed to the

  462. gate

  463. and said

  464. and what

  465. does your

  466. religion make

  467. of this?

  468. And Lennox

  469. said at first

  470. that he was

  471. speechless.

  472. What was he

  473. to say?

  474. What could

  475. he say?

  476. What do you

  477. say in that

  478. moment

  479. when you're

  480. asked a

  481. question like

  482. that?

  483. But he

  484. says still

  485. she stood

  486. in the

  487. doorway

  488. patiently

  489. waiting

  490. for an

  491. answer.

  492. And this

  493. is what he

  494. eventually

  495. said.

  496. He said

  497. I would

  498. not insult

  499. the memory

  500. of your

  501. parents

  502. by offering

  503. simplistic

  504. answers

  505. to your

  506. question.

  507. I have

  508. no easy

  509. answers.

  510. But what

  511. I do have

  512. for me at

  513. least is a

  514. doorway into

  515. an answer.

  516. She said

  517. well what

  518. is it?

  519. And Lennox

  520. responded

  521. well you know

  522. that I'm a

  523. Christian which

  524. means that I

  525. believe that

  526. Jesus is the

  527. Messiah.

  528. I also

  529. believe that he

  530. was God

  531. incarnate come

  532. into our

  533. world as a

  534. savior.

  535. Now I know

  536. that you don't

  537. agree with me

  538. on this but

  539. think about this

  540. question.

  541. If Jesus

  542. really was

  543. God what

  544. was God

  545. doing on

  546. a cross?

  547. If Jesus

  548. really was

  549. God what

  550. was God

  551. doing on

  552. a cross?

  553. And the

  554. woman was

  555. silent.

  556. She stood

  557. there motionless.

  558. And after

  559. a moment

  560. with tears

  561. in her

  562. eyes she

  563. said quietly

  564. but audibly

  565. why has

  566. no one ever

  567. told me this

  568. about the

  569. Messiah before?

  570. The cross

  571. of Jesus

  572. shows us

  573. something really

  574. important even

  575. though this

  576. side of heaven

  577. suffering often

  578. remains a

  579. great mystery

  580. to us.

  581. We may never

  582. get an answer

  583. to why God

  584. doesn't stop

  585. this or that

  586. from happening.

  587. but in the

  588. cross we can

  589. still find

  590. great comfort

  591. in knowing

  592. what the

  593. answer is

  594. not.

  595. It's not

  596. because God

  597. is angry

  598. with us

  599. for sin.

  600. Look at the

  601. cross.

  602. The cross

  603. is the

  604. objective

  605. evidence that

  606. all of God's

  607. anger and

  608. wrath for sin

  609. has been

  610. poured out

  611. on Jesus

  612. and there's

  613. none left

  614. for you and

  615. I.

  616. It's not

  617. because God

  618. has abandoned

  619. us.

  620. Look at the

  621. cross.

  622. on the

  623. cross Jesus

  624. was forsaken

  625. by the

  626. father so

  627. that you

  628. and I

  629. can know

  630. that we

  631. would never

  632. be forsaken.

  633. It's not

  634. because God

  635. doesn't love

  636. us.

  637. Look at the

  638. cross.

  639. The cross

  640. is the

  641. objective

  642. evidence.

  643. It's the

  644. greatest

  645. demonstration

  646. of God's

  647. love for

  648. us.

  649. And it's

  650. not because

  651. suffering will

  652. one day win

  653. because for

  654. Jesus the

  655. cross wasn't

  656. the end of

  657. the story.

  658. The resurrection

  659. is.

  660. And union

  661. with him

  662. means the

  663. same as

  664. true for

  665. us that

  666. no matter

  667. what your

  668. story is

  669. headed towards

  670. resurrection.

  671. Suffering and

  672. sadness and

  673. grief doesn't

  674. get the last

  675. word in your

  676. story.

  677. Jesus does.

  678. Anxiety and

  679. depression don't

  680. get the last

  681. word in your

  682. story.

  683. Jesus does.

  684. Cancer doesn't

  685. get the last

  686. word.

  687. Death doesn't

  688. get the last

  689. word in your

  690. story.

  691. Jesus does

  692. and he is

  693. making all

  694. things new.

  695. And what

  696. that means is

  697. that no

  698. matter what

  699. your story

  700. is headed

  701. towards

  702. resurrection.

  703. If we

  704. share in

  705. his

  706. sufferings,

  707. we share

  708. with him,

  709. we share

  710. in his

  711. glory.

  712. And this

  713. is the

  714. comfort that

  715. strengthens

  716. our weak

  717. needs and

  718. sustains our

  719. sagging

  720. spirits.

  721. The weakness

  722. of our

  723. suffering is

  724. not an

  725. obstacle,

  726. it's not a

  727. hurdle to

  728. experiencing the

  729. power and

  730. presence of

  731. God in

  732. our life.

  733. It may,

  734. in fact,

  735. be the

  736. vehicle.

  737. Because we

  738. have a

  739. God who

  740. is present

  741. and powerful

  742. on the

  743. cross.

  744. And if

  745. God was

  746. present and

  747. powerful on

  748. the cross,

  749. then he

  750. can be

  751. present and

  752. powerful in

  753. your suffering

  754. and in your

  755. weakness.

  756. So that's the

  757. comfort that we

  758. receive from

  759. God.

  760. Secondly,

  761. the comfort

  762. that we

  763. share with

  764. others.

  765. In the next

  766. few verses,

  767. Paul shows

  768. us that this

  769. comfort that

  770. we receive by

  771. sharing in the

  772. fellowship,

  773. the sufferings of

  774. Christ,

  775. isn't meant to

  776. stop with us.

  777. In verse 6,

  778. he says,

  779. if we are

  780. comforted,

  781. it is for

  782. your comfort.

  783. Verse 7,

  784. if you share

  785. in our

  786. sufferings,

  787. you will also

  788. share in our

  789. comfort.

  790. Because we're

  791. united to Jesus

  792. and because we're

  793. united to one

  794. another by his

  795. spirit, not only

  796. do we share in

  797. his suffering and

  798. comfort, but we

  799. share in one

  800. another's suffering

  801. and comfort.

  802. In the next few

  803. verses, Paul

  804. actually puts this

  805. on display for

  806. us.

  807. He actually shows

  808. what this looks

  809. like.

  810. He models what

  811. he teaches by

  812. giving us an

  813. example from his

  814. own life that he

  815. hopes will be a

  816. source of comfort

  817. to the Corinthians.

  818. In verse 8,

  819. he says,

  820. for we do not

  821. want you to be

  822. unaware, brothers,

  823. of the affliction

  824. that we experienced

  825. in Asia.

  826. For we were so

  827. utterly burdened

  828. beyond our

  829. strength that we

  830. despaired of

  831. life itself.

  832. Indeed, we felt

  833. that we had

  834. received the

  835. sentence of

  836. death.

  837. We don't know

  838. specifically the

  839. circumstances that

  840. Paul is referring

  841. to, but whatever

  842. they were, they

  843. were dire.

  844. He despaired even

  845. of life.

  846. For Paul, it was

  847. a place of

  848. extreme weakness.

  849. But then he

  850. says in verse 9,

  851. but that was to

  852. make us rely not

  853. on ourselves, but

  854. on God who

  855. raises the dead.

  856. He delivered us

  857. from such a

  858. deadly peril, and

  859. he will deliver

  860. us.

  861. On him we have

  862. set our hope that

  863. he will deliver us

  864. again.

  865. Paul says it

  866. was in a place of

  867. extreme weakness

  868. that I experienced

  869. the power of God.

  870. As an apostle, I'm

  871. tempted to rely on

  872. my own strength,

  873. my own giftings,

  874. my own ingenuity,

  875. but that's not

  876. where true power

  877. lies.

  878. It lies in the

  879. God who raises

  880. the dead.

  881. In a place of

  882. great weakness,

  883. Paul experienced

  884. deep trust and

  885. confidence in the

  886. Lord.

  887. And just like

  888. Paul here in

  889. 2 Corinthians 1,

  890. God often uses

  891. the difficult

  892. things in our

  893. lives to be a

  894. place of ministry

  895. for others.

  896. He often uses

  897. the difficulty in

  898. our lives to be

  899. a means of

  900. ministry for other

  901. people.

  902. I love the way

  903. my friend Victor

  904. Sheldon puts it.

  905. He says that

  906. God's purpose in

  907. our lives, in

  908. all of our lives,

  909. is that we would

  910. become wounded

  911. healers.

  912. God's purpose in

  913. our lives is that

  914. we would become

  915. wounded healers.

  916. You know, one of

  917. the hallmarks of

  918. the Healthy Church

  919. is that it's a

  920. place where people

  921. who are suffering

  922. can come and

  923. experience comfort

  924. and healing.

  925. Because people in

  926. that church have

  927. learned what it

  928. is to be a

  929. wounded healer.

  930. How do you

  931. become a wounded

  932. healer?

  933. How do you

  934. allow the

  935. difficulty in your

  936. life to be a

  937. place of ministry

  938. for others?

  939. How do you do

  940. that?

  941. There's a lot that

  942. we could say in

  943. our time this

  944. morning, but I

  945. want to offer, I

  946. want to suggest a

  947. few reflections

  948. here from this

  949. text in 2

  950. Corinthians 1

  951. about what it

  952. looks like to be

  953. a wounded healer.

  954. And the first is

  955. this.

  956. The first is that

  957. you can't give

  958. what you haven't

  959. received.

  960. You can't give

  961. what you haven't

  962. received.

  963. If this morning,

  964. if you're in the

  965. place of experiencing

  966. some difficulty in

  967. your life, your

  968. primary job is

  969. probably just to

  970. receive.

  971. Just to receive.

  972. Before your

  973. suffering can

  974. become a place

  975. of ministry, you

  976. must first receive

  977. the ministry of

  978. the church for

  979. however long it

  980. takes.

  981. God knows the

  982. timeline of your

  983. healing process, and

  984. he's not expecting

  985. you to rush it.

  986. He's not expecting

  987. you to skip steps.

  988. Maybe your job is

  989. to simply just

  990. receive the

  991. ministry of the

  992. church.

  993. And if you're

  994. here this morning,

  995. and you are in a

  996. place of difficulty,

  997. you're suffering,

  998. I want you to

  999. know that your

  1000. suffering is not a

  1001. burden.

  1002. It's not a

  1003. burden.

  1004. I know that in

  1005. times of difficulty

  1006. in my life, sometimes

  1007. I feel like the

  1008. hardship that I'm

  1009. going through is

  1010. somehow a burden to

  1011. other people, but

  1012. it's not.

  1013. There are people

  1014. here who would

  1015. love to walk

  1016. alongside you and

  1017. pray with you.

  1018. They would consider

  1019. it a privilege to

  1020. sit with you and

  1021. listen to you and

  1022. hear your story.

  1023. And it's not just

  1024. because people here

  1025. are nice, although

  1026. we have some nice

  1027. people in our

  1028. church.

  1029. It goes deeper

  1030. than that.

  1031. This is true because

  1032. what we've seen

  1033. here in this

  1034. text is that our

  1035. suffering brings us

  1036. in fellowship with

  1037. Christ and it

  1038. brings us in

  1039. fellowship with one

  1040. another.

  1041. For those of us who

  1042. maybe are more in a

  1043. position to offer

  1044. comfort, I think

  1045. there's a temptation

  1046. that we sometimes

  1047. face when we seek to

  1048. comfort others and

  1049. their suffering.

  1050. And the temptation

  1051. is that we would

  1052. offer a kind of

  1053. comfort that isn't

  1054. based in our

  1055. experience.

  1056. purpose.

  1057. I cringe when I

  1058. think back to ways

  1059. that I did this

  1060. early on in my

  1061. ministry as a 22

  1062. year old campus

  1063. intern when I was

  1064. trying to figure out

  1065. ministry.

  1066. And I remember

  1067. being eager to help

  1068. students who were

  1069. going through a hard

  1070. time, maybe they

  1071. were going through a

  1072. breakup.

  1073. I remember wanting

  1074. to help people but

  1075. not really knowing

  1076. what help meant.

  1077. Maybe you can

  1078. resonate with this.

  1079. I was quick to

  1080. speak and slow to

  1081. listen.

  1082. I was quick to

  1083. give answers and

  1084. explanations.

  1085. But this is exactly

  1086. the mistake that

  1087. Job's friends made

  1088. being miserable

  1089. counselors.

  1090. They offered to

  1091. Job lots of

  1092. explanations when

  1093. what Job probably

  1094. needed most was

  1095. their presence and

  1096. their questions and

  1097. perhaps even their

  1098. tears.

  1099. I'm still a work in

  1100. progress but hopefully

  1101. by God's grace I

  1102. have become a

  1103. grown to become

  1104. less of a miserable

  1105. counselor partially

  1106. by receiving

  1107. counseling myself but

  1108. also through experience.

  1109. Knowing what has

  1110. comforted me in my

  1111. suffering has equipped

  1112. me to offer comfort

  1113. to others in their

  1114. suffering.

  1115. So first you can't

  1116. give what you haven't

  1117. first received but

  1118. secondly we learn to

  1119. offer comfort first

  1120. just by being present.

  1121. Just by being present.

  1122. The most important

  1123. thing that you have to

  1124. offer somebody is your

  1125. presence.

  1126. And that's because

  1127. offering comfort is

  1128. first and foremost

  1129. about sitting together

  1130. with someone and

  1131. sharing in the

  1132. sufferings of Christ.

  1133. And the only way to

  1134. do that is to learn

  1135. how to be present.

  1136. There's a reason why

  1137. Paul says a few times

  1138. in this letter that he

  1139. is eager to come see

  1140. the Corinthians again

  1141. because he knows that

  1142. that comfort is

  1143. presence and

  1144. presence is comfort.

  1145. most often the best

  1146. thing that you can do

  1147. is just sit with

  1148. somebody and listen

  1149. and hear their story

  1150. and ask questions and

  1151. listen some more and

  1152. pray with them.

  1153. And if you get to the

  1154. place where you have

  1155. absolutely no idea what

  1156. to say next chances are

  1157. you're probably doing it

  1158. right.

  1159. If Job's friends would

  1160. have listened they just

  1161. they would have been far

  1162. more useful.

  1163. And I think if you're

  1164. here this morning and

  1165. I think there's a lot of

  1166. us who maybe look at

  1167. people who might be

  1168. going through a hard

  1169. time and we think that

  1170. that we have nothing to

  1171. offer them.

  1172. It's not true.

  1173. You already have the

  1174. most important thing.

  1175. You already have your

  1176. presence to offer people

  1177. and that's the most

  1178. important thing.

  1179. So you can't give what

  1180. you haven't received but

  1181. what you can give is your

  1182. presence.

  1183. Is your presence.

  1184. Third and finally

  1185. as you learn to be

  1186. present ask the Lord for

  1187. opportunities to share

  1188. your story of his power

  1189. at work in your

  1190. weakness.

  1191. Paul gives us a great

  1192. model here for this in

  1193. verses 8 to 10 of what

  1194. it looks like to share

  1195. our story as a means of

  1196. offering comfort to other

  1197. people.

  1198. In verses 8 through 10 he

  1199. shares what he went

  1200. through.

  1201. He shares his own

  1202. weakness and what it felt

  1203. like to go through it.

  1204. And he shares how

  1205. despite all of that

  1206. that the power of God

  1207. was present in his life.

  1208. God is the hero of

  1209. Paul's story not him.

  1210. What story do you have

  1211. in your life that can be

  1212. a source of comfort to

  1213. other people?

  1214. What story of difficulty

  1215. in your story can be a

  1216. way to help bring comfort

  1217. to somebody as they're

  1218. walking through their own

  1219. journey?

  1220. I would encourage you and

  1221. invite you to ask the

  1222. Lord to give you an

  1223. opportunity to share that,

  1224. to open a door for that.

  1225. And if you pray for that,

  1226. I would say get ready

  1227. because he loves to answer

  1228. that prayer request.

  1229. And so as we close, I just

  1230. want to acknowledge that

  1231. all of us are probably in

  1232. very different places as we

  1233. come into talking about

  1234. suffering as a heavy topic.

  1235. And we're probably in all

  1236. kinds of different places

  1237. all across this room.

  1238. And so the first thing that

  1239. I want to say as we close is

  1240. that the truth is that all of

  1241. us have something in our

  1242. lives that we're bringing in to

  1243. this morning that's hard.

  1244. It could be big.

  1245. It could be small.

  1246. But no matter how big or

  1247. small that thing is, the

  1248. invitation for us this

  1249. morning is to see that

  1250. thing as an opportunity to

  1251. experience fellowship with

  1252. Christ, as an opportunity to

  1253. experience fellowship with a

  1254. man of sorrows.

  1255. Some of us today may

  1256. especially be in the place of

  1257. just needing to receive

  1258. comfort.

  1259. And if that's you, that's a

  1260. great place to be.

  1261. There's people here who would

  1262. love to pray with you, who

  1263. would love to listen to you

  1264. and walk alongside you.

  1265. Maybe one place to start is

  1266. the prayer ministers who are

  1267. available during the

  1268. Eucharist.

  1269. During the Eucharist, there'll

  1270. be prayer ministers outside

  1271. those doors who would love

  1272. to just pray with you.

  1273. So as you take the Eucharist,

  1274. you can head back out there

  1275. and there'll be someone who

  1276. would love to just pray with

  1277. you and be with you.

  1278. Others of us may need to just

  1279. continue to learn what it

  1280. means to be present with other

  1281. people.

  1282. Maybe we feel like we want to

  1283. offer comfort to others in

  1284. their suffering, but we're

  1285. like, we don't know how.

  1286. And maybe we just need to

  1287. learn what it means to sit

  1288. next to someone who's going

  1289. through a hard time and to

  1290. learn and to experience what

  1291. it feels like to listen and to

  1292. have no clue what to say.

  1293. And I would put myself in that

  1294. category.

  1295. I need to continue to learn what

  1296. it means to be present in other

  1297. people's lives.

  1298. And if that's you, that's also a

  1299. great place to be.

  1300. And maybe for others of us,

  1301. maybe you're thinking about

  1302. something in your life that God

  1303. has brought to mind.

  1304. And maybe for you, it's a

  1305. matter of asking the Lord for

  1306. opportunities to share that part

  1307. of your story.

  1308. How is he calling you to offer

  1309. comfort to others through your

  1310. story of his power at work and

  1311. your weakness?

  1312. But regardless of where we're at,

  1313. regardless of how we're coming in

  1314. to worship this morning, none of us

  1315. can do any of this without first

  1316. realizing that whatever that we have

  1317. to receive and whatever we have to

  1318. offer, it all flows out of our

  1319. relationship with the ultimate

  1320. wounded healer.

  1321. All suffering is fellowship with a

  1322. man of sorrows.

  1323. All ministry is partnership with a

  1324. man of sorrows.

  1325. It's by his wounds that we're

  1326. healed.

  1327. It is by his wounds that we're

  1328. comforted.

  1329. And as Paul says in verses 9 and 10,

  1330. he is the one who has the power to

  1331. raise the dead.

  1332. He is the one on whom we set our

  1333. hope.

  1334. And he is the one who is making all

  1335. things new.

  1336. Let's pray together.

  1337. God of all comfort, we come to you

  1338. this morning.

  1339. We praise you and thank you that

  1340. whatever we're going through this

  1341. morning, we thank you that it is

  1342. partnership with you or that it is

  1343. fellowship with you.

  1344. What I pray for all of those who are

  1345. going through a difficult time this

  1346. morning, we pray that you would be

  1347. the God of all comfort to them.

  1348. They would experience your love,

  1349. your comfort in their life.

  1350. Lord, I pray that you would equip us

  1351. to be a church of wounded healers,

  1352. a church that is able to offer

  1353. comfort to other people based on

  1354. Jesus, what you have done in our

  1355. lives.

  1356. Lord, thank you so much, Lord, for you

  1357. revealing yourself to be this God,

  1358. to be this God who is not allude from

  1359. our pain, but a God who dwells in it.

  1360. I pray this in Christ's name.

  1361. Amen.