Sermon
Sharing in Suffering and Comfort
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Well, good morning. I'd like to welcome you here to worship this morning. My name's Jeff. I'm one of the pastors here at Church of the Advent.
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And if this is your first time worshiping with us this morning, you've picked a good Sunday to come.
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Later in the service, we're going to be celebrating some baptisms, which is going to be great.
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And this morning, we are also beginning a new sermon series, which I'm excited about.
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This morning, we are starting a series in the book of 2 Corinthians.
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And we thought that 2 Corinthians would be a good book to study together right now in the life of our church,
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because the central theme of 2 Corinthians is God's power and our weakness.
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That's the title of the sermon series this spring that we're going to be going through, Power and Weakness.
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Two years ago, almost coming up on two years ago, that the world changed completely as we know it.
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And I don't know about you, but the past two years have given me lots of opportunities to confront my own weaknesses and my own limitations.
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I felt my weakness and my lack of control over my circumstances and just life in general.
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I have felt my weaknesses in facing the limitations of my own body and my mortality.
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I felt my weaknesses in facing my own insecurities and fears time and again.
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And I'm sure if we had time this morning, I'm sure we could share all kinds of examples about ways in the past couple years that we've been forced to confront our weaknesses and our limitations.
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And I don't know about you, but I think when it comes to thinking about experiencing the power of God, the presence of God in my life,
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my weaknesses aren't normally at the top of my list for like how to do that.
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I would say that probably my weaknesses are more of an obstacle or more of a hurdle to experiencing the power of God at work in my life.
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But one of the main things that we see when we study the second Corinthians, this letter from Paul,
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is that instead of being obstacles or hurdles to God's power in our life and to God's work in the world,
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we actually see that very often our weaknesses are the very vehicle that God chooses to use.
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We see the apostle Paul come back to this again and again in second Corinthians,
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perhaps the clearest and most memorable instance of this is in chapter 12, verses 8 and 9,
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when he asked the Lord to take away the thorn in his flesh.
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And he says,
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Three times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave me.
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But the Lord said to me,
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My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.
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Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses that the power of Christ may rest on me.
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God's power and our weakness.
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That's what the book of second Corinthians is about.
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And that's really what the Christian life is about.
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And so to kind of orient us to our study of second Corinthians,
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I just want to give us two main pieces of background information.
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Kind of two mental hooks, if you will, that are necessary to frame our study of this book.
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And the first is this.
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Reading second Corinthians is pretty complex.
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Because reading this letter is sort of like reading a pastor's email inbox.
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As you begin to read this letter,
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where you suddenly realize that you're in the middle of this ongoing correspondence
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between Paul and this church that has been taking place over multiple years.
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And so you suddenly realize that you're in the middle of this, you know,
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several years long communication, and you kind of have to put together the pieces.
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So back in Acts chapter 18, Paul, in his second missionary journey,
Acts 18 chapter mention
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he comes to Corinth and he preaches the gospel.
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And people come to faith and he plants the first church there in Corinth.
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And Acts 18 tells us that he stays there for about one and a half years.
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But then he moves on to Ephesus.
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And when he moves on to Ephesus,
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he hears a report about the church in Corinth that there was some conflict going on.
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That some in the church were rejecting his teaching and challenging his authority.
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And so in response, he sends Timothy back to Corinth to address some of these problems.
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And that's when he writes the book of 1 Corinthians.
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That's where we get 1 Corinthians.
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And what we find out is that in between writing 1 Corinthians and 2 Corinthians,
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it appears that the situation didn't get better.
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In fact, it got worse.
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And so when Paul heard about this, he decides to change his travel plans
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and to make an emergency visit back to Corinth.
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But this visit for Paul ended up being a very painful visit.
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Evidently, he was publicly attacked.
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He was humiliated by some in the church.
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And so rather than defend himself in the middle of being publicly attacked,
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he decides to actually just embrace the humiliation and to leave,
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not wishing to cause further pain.
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So he leaves and returns back to Ephesus.
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And afterwards, he writes another letter.
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It's a letter that he describes in 2 Corinthians 2 as a letter that he writes out of much affliction,
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anguish, and tears.
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Scholars normally refer to this letter as the sorrowful letter or the severe letter.
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Paul references this letter multiple times throughout the book of 2 Corinthians.
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And from what we can gather, it seems that overall the church responded well to this letter.
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Many had a change of heart, but there was still a minority who remained resistant.
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And so to summarize, we have Paul's initial founding of the church in Acts 18.
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We have conflict.
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We have correspondence in response to this conflict, which includes the 1 Corinthians letter.
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We have Paul's painful visit.
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And then in response to that visit, we have more correspondence, which involves 2 Corinthians.
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And so this is kind of the backdrop.
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This is kind of the backdrop to what's going on in Paul's email inbox.
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And this is important to understand some of Paul's main goals, his main purposes in writing this letter.
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And so this is the second kind of mental hook I want to give us as we think about 2 Corinthians.
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And it's that broadly speaking, broadly speaking, Paul has 4 main goals in this letter.
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And this covers 3 main sections of this letter.
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So in chapters 1 through 7, in chapters 1 through 7, Paul seeks to restore his relationship with the church
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to kind of do some relational repair and restoration and to defend the authenticity of his ministry.
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So he's going to affirm his love for them and his commitment to them.
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He's also going to answer some of those who challenge his authority.
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And then in chapter 8 and 9, he transitions to encouraging their partnership in the gospel through generosity.
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And so he's going to remind them of a previous commitment they had to give generously to other churches who are in need.
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That's chapters 8 and 9.
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And then in chapters 10 through 13, he's going to conclude his letter by addressing and challenging the minority in the church who are still resistant.
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So he's going to lovingly confront those who still need to repent.
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And so that's kind of an overview.
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That's a bird's eye view of the flow of the book of 2 Corinthians.
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And so with that background in mind, with those kind of mental hooks in mind,
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let's turn our attention to chapter 1 as Paul begins his letter.
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In chapter 1, we see a couple of things.
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We see the central theme of God's power in our weakness.
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And we see kind of two of his main goals start to come out.
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We see him seek to restore his relationship with the church and to defend his ministry.
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And Paul does this primarily by talking about suffering.
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He does it by talking about suffering.
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The first half of chapter 1 that Brianna read earlier shows us that one of the primary ways that we experience God's power in our weakness is through suffering.
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All of us eventually face suffering in this life.
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It's an inevitable part of being a human being.
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And when we face suffering, all of us go looking for comfort.
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We all go looking for comfort in all kinds of places.
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Some more healthier than others.
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And Paul shows us here in 2 Corinthians 1 that our greatest comfort,
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he shows us the greatest comfort that we can find in our suffering.
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And he also shows us the greatest comfort that we can offer others in their suffering.
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So that's what we're going to look at this morning.
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We're going to look at the comfort that we receive from God and the comfort that we share with others.
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The comfort we receive from God and the comfort that we share with others.
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So first, the comfort that we receive from God.
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Paul begins the body of his letter in verse 3.
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And he says,
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Blessed be the God and the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,
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the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort,
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who comforts us in all our affliction.
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Paul begins his letter by praising God for something that we see all throughout Scripture,
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starting in the Old Testament, that God is a God of comfort,
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that he comforts people in their suffering.
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Isaiah 51 says,
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For the Lord comforts Zion.
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He makes her wilderness like Eden, her desert like the garden of the Lord.
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Famous Psalm, Psalm 23, about the Lord being our shepherd.
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It says,
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Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
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I will fear no evil, for you are with me.
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Your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
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And this is different from the pantheon of Greek and Roman gods
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that those in Corinth would have been familiar with,
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who are more or less aloof to human pain and suffering.
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The first century Stoic philosopher, Pliny the Elder,
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said the idea that a supreme being pays heed to human affairs
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is a ridiculous notion.
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The idea that a God up there would pay attention to human suffering is ridiculous.
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But the God of the Bible has revealed himself as someone who is just the opposite.
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He hears the cries of his people.
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He is intimately acquainted with their suffering.
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God is a good father.
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He is a good shepherd who comforts his people.
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And the word that Paul uses for comfort here in this chapter
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shows us that the comfort that God provides
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isn't simply just to put us at ease or to make us feel better,
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but it's a comfort that encourages us
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and strengthens us in the midst of our suffering.
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The 2 Corinthians scholar David Garland says this.
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He says,
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The comfort that Paul has in mind
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is not some tranquilizing dose of grace that only dulls the pain,
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but a stiffening agent that fortifies one in heart, mind, and soul.
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God's comfort strengthens weak knees
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and sustains sagging spirits
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so that one faces the troubles of life
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with unbending resolve and unending assurance.
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If you're here this morning
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and you feel like you have weak knees,
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if you feel like you have a sagging spirit,
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the comfort of God is available to you.
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The comfort of God is available to you
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to strengthen you and to encourage you.
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Paul also points out in verse 4
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that God comforts us in all our affliction,
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in all our affliction.
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There is no suffering too big or too small
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for the God of all comfort.
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Whether your suffering comes from your circumstances
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or from a relationship
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or from your own mind and body,
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God's comfort is available for all of it.
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Whatever it is,
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He sees,
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He knows,
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He cares,
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He loves you,
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He's with you.
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So how does,
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how does the comfort of God
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flow into our lives?
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How do we experience God's comfort?
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Paul tells us in verse 5,
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as he continues,
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he says in verse 5,
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for as we share abundantly
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in Christ's sufferings,
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so through Christ
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we share abundantly in comfort too.
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What does it mean to share
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in Christ's sufferings?
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This is kind of an interesting phrase.
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What does it mean to share
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in Christ's sufferings?
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Does it mean that
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somehow we contribute
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to Christ's sacrifice
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on the cross for our sins?
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Know that the rest of the Bible
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is clear on that,
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that Christ suffered
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once and for all for sin,
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that His work on the cross
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is finished and complete.
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Does it mean that
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Christ somehow
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continues to suffer
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in His resurrected body,
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in His glory,
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in His ascension?
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I don't think we can say that either.
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Christ conquered suffering and death
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in His resurrection.
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So what does it mean?
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It means that for believers in Christ,
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all suffering
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is a way to experience
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communion with God
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because God Himself
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has suffered.
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This is an important
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aspect of our
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union with Christ.
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In a little bit,
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we're going to celebrate baptism.
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And baptism is all about
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union with Christ,
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that by faith,
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we're united to Jesus
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in His life,
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in His death,
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in His resurrection,
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such that all that is His
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becomes ours.
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We see this language
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of union with Christ
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all over the New Testament.
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You were,
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you died,
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you were buried,
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you were raised,
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you're hidden with Him,
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you're seeded with Him,
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you have His righteousness,
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you have His inheritance.
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Union with Christ
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means sharing in the
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privileges and benefits
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and status of Jesus.
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And it also means
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that we share
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in His suffering.
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In another place
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in Romans chapter 8,
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Paul says this,
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that the Spirit Himself
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bears witness
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with our spirit
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that we are fellow heirs
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with Christ.
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That's union with Christ's language.
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But then he says this,
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provided we suffer with Him
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in order that we may
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also be glorified with Him.
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Union with Christ
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means both glory
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and suffering.
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And this is important
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as we think back
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to what we said earlier
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about the background
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of what's going on
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in the 2 Corinthians church,
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about the conflict
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that's taking place,
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that there were some people
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who sought to discredit
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Paul's authority
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in his teaching
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by pointing to all the trials
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and difficulties
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that he faced,
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like being put on trial,
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being put in prison,
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being persecuted,
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all the suffering
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that he faced.
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They said that,
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he said,
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well, that invalidates
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Paul's ministry.
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That discredits
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his ministry.
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How could an apostle
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from God
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experience what looks
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like weakness,
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what looks like failure?
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And so to answer
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these critics,
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he actually says,
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no, it's just
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the complete opposite.
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He says that his suffering
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authenticates his ministry.
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His suffering validates
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his ministry
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because it confirms
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his closeness with Jesus.
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And this is something
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that he comes back to
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again and again
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throughout the letter.
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What's true
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of the apostle Paul
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is true of all Christians,
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that anyone who seeks
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to follow Jesus
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will suffer.
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As we follow
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in his footsteps,
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just as Christ's
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sufferings brought
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healing and redemption
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to the world,
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as we follow him
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and continue his life
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in his ministry
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by the power of the Spirit,
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his sufferings
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will flow into our lives.
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But the good news,
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Paul says here
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in 2 Corinthians 1,
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that as we share
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in his sufferings,
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we also share
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in his comfort.
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The great comfort
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that we have
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in Jesus
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is this,
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that all suffering,
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whether big or small,
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is an opportunity
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for deeper intimacy,
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for deeper communion
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with Christ.
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This is because
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he knows firsthand
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what it's like
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to go through it.
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Isaiah 53 says
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that he was despised
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and rejected by men,
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that he was a man
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of sorrows
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and acquainted
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with grief.
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For a Christian,
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all suffering
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is fellowship
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with a man of sorrows.
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All suffering
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is fellowship
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with the one
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who was acquainted
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with grief.
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Have you ever
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experienced
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physical pain?
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So has Jesus.
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Have you ever
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experienced
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deep agony
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in your soul?
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So has Jesus.
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Have you ever
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been wounded
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by other people?
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So has Jesus.
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Have you ever
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experienced injustice?
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Have you ever
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been betrayed?
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Have you ever
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been lonely?
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So has Jesus.
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Have you ever
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been overwhelmed
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with sadness
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and grief?
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So is Jesus.
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All suffering
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is fellowship
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with a man
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of sorrows.
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John Lennox,
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who's a professor
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of mathematics
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at the University
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of Oxford,
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tells the story
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of when he was
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traveling in
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Eastern Europe
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and one time
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he decided
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to do some
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sightseeing
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and visit
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an old synagogue.
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He joined
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a tour
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of the synagogue
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with some
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other visitors
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there and
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he struck
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up a conversation
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with a woman
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who said
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that she was
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there to
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find out
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more about
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her family
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who had
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lived in
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Eastern Europe
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during World War II
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and during
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the Holocaust.
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And eventually
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the tour
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came to
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the place
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in the synagogue
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that had
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pictures
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from World War II
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and from the
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Holocaust
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and one
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of the
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pictures
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of the
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main gate
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one of the
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pictures
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was of the
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main gate
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of the
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concentration
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camp
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in Auschwitz.
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And John
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says that his
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new friend
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pointed to the
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gate
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and said
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and what
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does your
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religion make
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of this?
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And Lennox
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said at first
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that he was
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speechless.
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What was he
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to say?
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What could
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he say?
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What do you
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say in that
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moment
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when you're
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asked a
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question like
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that?
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But he
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says still
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she stood
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in the
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doorway
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patiently
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waiting
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for an
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answer.
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And this
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is what he
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eventually
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said.
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He said
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I would
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not insult
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the memory
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of your
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parents
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by offering
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simplistic
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answers
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to your
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question.
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I have
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no easy
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answers.
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But what
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I do have
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for me at
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least is a
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doorway into
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an answer.
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She said
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well what
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is it?
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And Lennox
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responded
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well you know
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that I'm a
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Christian which
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means that I
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believe that
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Jesus is the
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Messiah.
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I also
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believe that he
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was God
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incarnate come
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into our
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world as a
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savior.
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Now I know
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that you don't
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agree with me
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on this but
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think about this
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question.
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If Jesus
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really was
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God what
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was God
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doing on
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a cross?
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If Jesus
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really was
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God what
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was God
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doing on
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a cross?
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And the
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woman was
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silent.
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She stood
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there motionless.
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And after
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a moment
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with tears
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in her
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eyes she
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said quietly
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but audibly
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why has
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no one ever
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told me this
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about the
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Messiah before?
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The cross
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of Jesus
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shows us
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something really
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important even
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though this
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side of heaven
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suffering often
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remains a
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great mystery
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to us.
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We may never
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get an answer
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to why God
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doesn't stop
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this or that
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from happening.
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but in the
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cross we can
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still find
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great comfort
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in knowing
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what the
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answer is
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not.
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It's not
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because God
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is angry
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with us
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for sin.
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Look at the
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cross.
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The cross
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is the
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objective
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evidence that
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all of God's
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anger and
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wrath for sin
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has been
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poured out
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on Jesus
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and there's
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none left
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for you and
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I.
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It's not
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because God
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has abandoned
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us.
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Look at the
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cross.
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on the
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cross Jesus
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was forsaken
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by the
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father so
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that you
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and I
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can know
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that we
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would never
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be forsaken.
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It's not
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because God
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doesn't love
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us.
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Look at the
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cross.
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The cross
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is the
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objective
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evidence.
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It's the
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greatest
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demonstration
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of God's
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love for
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us.
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And it's
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not because
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suffering will
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one day win
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because for
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Jesus the
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cross wasn't
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the end of
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the story.
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The resurrection
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is.
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And union
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with him
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means the
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same as
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true for
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us that
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no matter
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what your
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story is
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headed towards
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resurrection.
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Suffering and
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sadness and
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grief doesn't
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get the last
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word in your
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story.
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Jesus does.
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Anxiety and
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depression don't
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get the last
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word in your
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story.
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Jesus does.
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Cancer doesn't
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get the last
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word.
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Death doesn't
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get the last
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word in your
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story.
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Jesus does
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and he is
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making all
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things new.
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And what
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that means is
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that no
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matter what
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your story
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is headed
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towards
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resurrection.
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If we
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share in
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his
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sufferings,
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we share
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with him,
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we share
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in his
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glory.
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And this
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is the
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comfort that
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strengthens
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our weak
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needs and
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sustains our
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sagging
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spirits.
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The weakness
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of our
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suffering is
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not an
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obstacle,
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it's not a
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hurdle to
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experiencing the
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power and
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presence of
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God in
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our life.
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It may,
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in fact,
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be the
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vehicle.
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Because we
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have a
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God who
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is present
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and powerful
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on the
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cross.
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And if
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God was
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present and
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powerful on
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the cross,
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then he
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can be
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present and
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powerful in
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your suffering
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and in your
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weakness.
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So that's the
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comfort that we
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receive from
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God.
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Secondly,
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the comfort
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that we
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share with
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others.
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In the next
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few verses,
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Paul shows
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us that this
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comfort that
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we receive by
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sharing in the
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fellowship,
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the sufferings of
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Christ,
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isn't meant to
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stop with us.
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In verse 6,
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he says,
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if we are
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comforted,
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it is for
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your comfort.
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Verse 7,
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if you share
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in our
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sufferings,
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you will also
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share in our
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comfort.
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Because we're
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united to Jesus
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and because we're
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united to one
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another by his
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spirit, not only
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do we share in
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his suffering and
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comfort, but we
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share in one
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another's suffering
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and comfort.
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In the next few
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verses, Paul
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actually puts this
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on display for
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us.
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He actually shows
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what this looks
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like.
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He models what
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he teaches by
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giving us an
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example from his
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own life that he
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hopes will be a
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source of comfort
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to the Corinthians.
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In verse 8,
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he says,
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for we do not
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want you to be
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unaware, brothers,
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of the affliction
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that we experienced
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in Asia.
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For we were so
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utterly burdened
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beyond our
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strength that we
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despaired of
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life itself.
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Indeed, we felt
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that we had
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received the
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sentence of
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death.
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We don't know
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specifically the
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circumstances that
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Paul is referring
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to, but whatever
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they were, they
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were dire.
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He despaired even
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of life.
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For Paul, it was
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a place of
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extreme weakness.
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But then he
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says in verse 9,
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but that was to
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make us rely not
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on ourselves, but
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on God who
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raises the dead.
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He delivered us
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from such a
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deadly peril, and
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he will deliver
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us.
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On him we have
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set our hope that
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he will deliver us
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again.
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Paul says it
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was in a place of
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extreme weakness
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that I experienced
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the power of God.
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As an apostle, I'm
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tempted to rely on
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my own strength,
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my own giftings,
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my own ingenuity,
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but that's not
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where true power
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lies.
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It lies in the
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God who raises
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the dead.
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In a place of
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great weakness,
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Paul experienced
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deep trust and
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confidence in the
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Lord.
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And just like
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Paul here in
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2 Corinthians 1,
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God often uses
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the difficult
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things in our
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lives to be a
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place of ministry
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for others.
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He often uses
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the difficulty in
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our lives to be
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a means of
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ministry for other
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people.
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I love the way
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my friend Victor
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Sheldon puts it.
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He says that
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God's purpose in
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our lives, in
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all of our lives,
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is that we would
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become wounded
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healers.
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God's purpose in
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our lives is that
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we would become
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wounded healers.
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You know, one of
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the hallmarks of
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the Healthy Church
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is that it's a
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place where people
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who are suffering
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can come and
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experience comfort
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and healing.
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Because people in
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that church have
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learned what it
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is to be a
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wounded healer.
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How do you
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become a wounded
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healer?
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How do you
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allow the
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difficulty in your
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life to be a
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place of ministry
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for others?
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How do you do
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that?
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There's a lot that
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we could say in
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our time this
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morning, but I
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want to offer, I
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want to suggest a
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few reflections
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here from this
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text in 2
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Corinthians 1
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about what it
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looks like to be
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a wounded healer.
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And the first is
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this.
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The first is that
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you can't give
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what you haven't
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received.
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You can't give
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what you haven't
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received.
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If this morning,
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if you're in the
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place of experiencing
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some difficulty in
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your life, your
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primary job is
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probably just to
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receive.
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Just to receive.
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Before your
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suffering can
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become a place
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of ministry, you
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must first receive
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the ministry of
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the church for
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however long it
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takes.
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God knows the
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timeline of your
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healing process, and
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he's not expecting
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you to rush it.
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He's not expecting
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you to skip steps.
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Maybe your job is
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to simply just
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receive the
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ministry of the
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church.
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And if you're
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here this morning,
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and you are in a
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place of difficulty,
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you're suffering,
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I want you to
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know that your
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suffering is not a
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burden.
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It's not a
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burden.
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I know that in
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times of difficulty
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in my life, sometimes
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I feel like the
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hardship that I'm
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going through is
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somehow a burden to
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other people, but
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it's not.
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There are people
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here who would
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love to walk
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alongside you and
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pray with you.
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They would consider
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it a privilege to
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sit with you and
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listen to you and
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hear your story.
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And it's not just
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because people here
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are nice, although
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we have some nice
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people in our
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church.
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It goes deeper
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than that.
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This is true because
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what we've seen
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here in this
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text is that our
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suffering brings us
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in fellowship with
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Christ and it
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brings us in
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fellowship with one
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another.
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For those of us who
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maybe are more in a
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position to offer
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comfort, I think
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there's a temptation
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that we sometimes
-
face when we seek to
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comfort others and
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their suffering.
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And the temptation
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is that we would
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offer a kind of
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comfort that isn't
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based in our
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experience.
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purpose.
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I cringe when I
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think back to ways
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that I did this
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early on in my
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ministry as a 22
-
year old campus
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intern when I was
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trying to figure out
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ministry.
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And I remember
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being eager to help
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students who were
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going through a hard
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time, maybe they
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were going through a
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breakup.
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I remember wanting
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to help people but
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not really knowing
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what help meant.
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Maybe you can
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resonate with this.
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I was quick to
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speak and slow to
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listen.
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I was quick to
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give answers and
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explanations.
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But this is exactly
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the mistake that
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Job's friends made
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being miserable
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counselors.
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They offered to
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Job lots of
-
explanations when
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what Job probably
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needed most was
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their presence and
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their questions and
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perhaps even their
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tears.
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I'm still a work in
-
progress but hopefully
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by God's grace I
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have become a
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grown to become
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less of a miserable
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counselor partially
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by receiving
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counseling myself but
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also through experience.
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Knowing what has
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comforted me in my
-
suffering has equipped
-
me to offer comfort
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to others in their
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suffering.
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So first you can't
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give what you haven't
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first received but
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secondly we learn to
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offer comfort first
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just by being present.
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Just by being present.
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The most important
-
thing that you have to
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offer somebody is your
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presence.
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And that's because
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offering comfort is
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first and foremost
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about sitting together
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with someone and
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sharing in the
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sufferings of Christ.
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And the only way to
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do that is to learn
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how to be present.
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There's a reason why
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Paul says a few times
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in this letter that he
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is eager to come see
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the Corinthians again
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because he knows that
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that comfort is
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presence and
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presence is comfort.
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most often the best
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thing that you can do
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is just sit with
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somebody and listen
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and hear their story
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and ask questions and
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listen some more and
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pray with them.
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And if you get to the
-
place where you have
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absolutely no idea what
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to say next chances are
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you're probably doing it
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right.
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If Job's friends would
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have listened they just
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they would have been far
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more useful.
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And I think if you're
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here this morning and
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I think there's a lot of
-
us who maybe look at
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people who might be
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going through a hard
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time and we think that
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that we have nothing to
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offer them.
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It's not true.
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You already have the
-
most important thing.
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You already have your
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presence to offer people
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and that's the most
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important thing.
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So you can't give what
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you haven't received but
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what you can give is your
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presence.
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Is your presence.
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Third and finally
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as you learn to be
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present ask the Lord for
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opportunities to share
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your story of his power
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at work in your
-
weakness.
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Paul gives us a great
-
model here for this in
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verses 8 to 10 of what
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it looks like to share
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our story as a means of
-
offering comfort to other
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people.
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In verses 8 through 10 he
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shares what he went
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through.
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He shares his own
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weakness and what it felt
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like to go through it.
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And he shares how
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despite all of that
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that the power of God
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was present in his life.
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God is the hero of
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Paul's story not him.
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What story do you have
-
in your life that can be
-
a source of comfort to
-
other people?
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What story of difficulty
-
in your story can be a
-
way to help bring comfort
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to somebody as they're
-
walking through their own
-
journey?
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I would encourage you and
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invite you to ask the
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Lord to give you an
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opportunity to share that,
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to open a door for that.
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And if you pray for that,
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I would say get ready
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because he loves to answer
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that prayer request.
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And so as we close, I just
-
want to acknowledge that
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all of us are probably in
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very different places as we
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come into talking about
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suffering as a heavy topic.
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And we're probably in all
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kinds of different places
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all across this room.
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And so the first thing that
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I want to say as we close is
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that the truth is that all of
-
us have something in our
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lives that we're bringing in to
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this morning that's hard.
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It could be big.
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It could be small.
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But no matter how big or
-
small that thing is, the
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invitation for us this
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morning is to see that
-
thing as an opportunity to
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experience fellowship with
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Christ, as an opportunity to
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experience fellowship with a
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man of sorrows.
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Some of us today may
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especially be in the place of
-
just needing to receive
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comfort.
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And if that's you, that's a
-
great place to be.
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There's people here who would
-
love to pray with you, who
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would love to listen to you
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and walk alongside you.
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Maybe one place to start is
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the prayer ministers who are
-
available during the
-
Eucharist.
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During the Eucharist, there'll
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be prayer ministers outside
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those doors who would love
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to just pray with you.
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So as you take the Eucharist,
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you can head back out there
-
and there'll be someone who
-
would love to just pray with
-
you and be with you.
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Others of us may need to just
-
continue to learn what it
-
means to be present with other
-
people.
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Maybe we feel like we want to
-
offer comfort to others in
-
their suffering, but we're
-
like, we don't know how.
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And maybe we just need to
-
learn what it means to sit
-
next to someone who's going
-
through a hard time and to
-
learn and to experience what
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it feels like to listen and to
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have no clue what to say.
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And I would put myself in that
-
category.
-
I need to continue to learn what
-
it means to be present in other
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people's lives.
-
And if that's you, that's also a
-
great place to be.
-
And maybe for others of us,
-
maybe you're thinking about
-
something in your life that God
-
has brought to mind.
-
And maybe for you, it's a
-
matter of asking the Lord for
-
opportunities to share that part
-
of your story.
-
How is he calling you to offer
-
comfort to others through your
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story of his power at work and
-
your weakness?
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But regardless of where we're at,
-
regardless of how we're coming in
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to worship this morning, none of us
-
can do any of this without first
-
realizing that whatever that we have
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to receive and whatever we have to
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offer, it all flows out of our
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relationship with the ultimate
-
wounded healer.
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All suffering is fellowship with a
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man of sorrows.
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All ministry is partnership with a
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man of sorrows.
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It's by his wounds that we're
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healed.
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It is by his wounds that we're
-
comforted.
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And as Paul says in verses 9 and 10,
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he is the one who has the power to
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raise the dead.
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He is the one on whom we set our
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hope.
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And he is the one who is making all
-
things new.
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Let's pray together.
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God of all comfort, we come to you
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this morning.
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We praise you and thank you that
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whatever we're going through this
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morning, we thank you that it is
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partnership with you or that it is
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fellowship with you.
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What I pray for all of those who are
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going through a difficult time this
-
morning, we pray that you would be
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the God of all comfort to them.
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They would experience your love,
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your comfort in their life.
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Lord, I pray that you would equip us
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to be a church of wounded healers,
-
a church that is able to offer
-
comfort to other people based on
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Jesus, what you have done in our
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lives.
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Lord, thank you so much, Lord, for you
-
revealing yourself to be this God,
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to be this God who is not allude from
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our pain, but a God who dwells in it.
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I pray this in Christ's name.
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Amen.