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Love Across the Divide

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  1. Well, as Jeff said at the beginning of the service,

  2. good morning, welcome, especially if you're new.

  3. My name's Tommy, I'm the rector here,

  4. and if we haven't met and you're visiting,

  5. I'll be hanging around after the church service.

  6. I'll be up front for a little while,

  7. and I really hope we get a chance to meet.

  8. Before we have this baptism that we're excited about,

  9. we're gonna spend a little time

  10. looking at God's word together.

  11. A couple of scholars at Vanderbilt

  12. have developed something called the Unity Index,

  13. and it's a way of measuring how divided our society is,

  14. how polarized we are,

  15. and their question was,

  16. is it getting better or is it getting worse?

  17. What would you think they discovered?

  18. Yeah, things are getting worse.

  19. Over the last 40 years,

  20. we've become increasingly divided,

  21. as a society,

  22. and perhaps more so than we've ever been.

  23. And there's a reason why you got that answer correct.

  24. I think that we probably know that.

  25. I think we've probably experienced it.

  26. How many of us have lost friends

  27. over the last few years?

  28. Yeah, how many of us have maybe

  29. lost friends over disagreements

  30. about politics or culture or society?

  31. Maybe you have people that you used to talk to

  32. and then you just don't talk to them anymore.

  33. How many of us have family members

  34. that we avoid?

  35. You don't have to raise your hand for that one.

  36. That we avoid talking to

  37. because we're afraid certain topics might come up.

  38. How many are dreading Thanksgiving this year?

  39. In particular,

  40. it being an election year and all.

  41. Sitting around that table

  42. might be pretty interesting.

  43. And so I don't have to tell you

  44. that we live in a highly pluralistic society.

  45. And the question that confronts us all the time is this.

  46. How can people who have massive differences

  47. when it comes to beliefs and values and lifestyle

  48. live together in society?

  49. When people are distressed

  50. or even offended

  51. by one another's beliefs and values,

  52. are relationships even possible or not?

  53. What we're going to see this morning

  54. is that the gospel

  55. has the power to transform every aspect of life,

  56. including the way we treat

  57. those with whom we disagree.

  58. Time's up.

  59. The way we treat

  60. those with whom we disagree.

  61. And I would actually go a step further

  62. and say I think this is

  63. maybe one of the biggest

  64. or greatest tests

  65. of any belief system,

  66. sacred or religious.

  67. How does your belief system

  68. lead you to treat those

  69. with whom you disagree?

  70. The gospel has the power

  71. to transform this

  72. in the human heart.

  73. And Paul gets into this issue

  74. in 1 Corinthians chapter 8.

    1 Corinthians 8 chapter mention

  75. And actually this is part

  76. of a larger argument

  77. that goes through chapter 11 verse 1.

  78. And then he picks this same issue up

  79. in other places

  80. such as Romans chapter 14.

    Romans 14 chapter mention

  81. So we're going to primarily focus

  82. on the lectionary reading

  83. which is 1 Corinthians 8.

  84. But I'm going to be drawing

  85. from these other places

  86. because it's a larger argument.

  87. And you really need to see

  88. the whole argument

  89. to understand the beauty

  90. of what we're about to discuss.

  91. First we're going to clarify

  92. what Paul is not saying.

  93. And then we're going to look

  94. at what he is saying

  95. and what makes such a thing possible.

  96. Let's pray.

  97. Our Heavenly Father,

  98. we thank you

  99. that your word

  100. is not a dead word

  101. nor is it

  102. merely the product

  103. of human ingenuity

  104. or creativity

  105. that this is a living

  106. and active word

  107. and that as we

  108. gather together

  109. in your name

  110. you speak.

  111. Speak to us

  112. and through the power

  113. of your Holy Spirit

  114. make us receptive

  115. to your word.

  116. We pray this

  117. in Jesus' holy name.

  118. Amen.

  119. So first of all

  120. let me give you

  121. a little context

  122. of what's going on

  123. and why Paul feels

  124. the need to address this.

  125. He gets into this

  126. because there's

  127. major disagreement

  128. in the church

  129. over food

  130. that has been sacrificed

  131. or dedicated

  132. to a pagan deity.

  133. In order to participate

  134. in public life

  135. in Corinth

  136. it was almost impossible

  137. to avoid

  138. food that had been

  139. dedicated

  140. or sacrificed

  141. to some pagan god.

  142. So virtually

  143. all the meat

  144. sold in the meat market

  145. had come out

  146. of the temple sacrifices.

  147. When people

  148. would invite you

  149. over for dinner

  150. you could be

  151. almost assured

  152. that there would be

  153. food that had been

  154. dedicated to

  155. a deity.

  156. If it hadn't been

  157. a part of a temple sacrifice

  158. it could very well be

  159. that your neighbors

  160. if your pagan neighbors

  161. invited you over

  162. for dinner

  163. that they would

  164. offer a blessing

  165. and dedicate

  166. that food

  167. to their pagan deity

  168. before you ate.

  169. At civic meetings

  170. there would usually

  171. be food of some kind

  172. and whoever was

  173. presiding over the meeting

  174. would often bless

  175. or dedicate that food

  176. to a pagan god

  177. or goddess

  178. as a part

  179. of the ceremony.

  180. And so

  181. there are Christians

  182. living in this society

  183. and so they're reacting

  184. different ways.

  185. Some Christians

  186. are saying

  187. hey listen

  188. it's just food

  189. it's just meat.

  190. You know

  191. it went on sale

  192. in the market

  193. I bought it

  194. I don't care

  195. where it came from

  196. and it's just food.

  197. Right?

  198. And other Christians

  199. are very very

  200. scandalized by this.

  201. They refuse

  202. to touch this food

  203. they refuse

  204. to get near it

  205. they're very scrupulous

  206. about making sure

  207. that the food

  208. is spiritually clean

  209. before they eat it

  210. because they're afraid

  211. of being defiled

  212. and there's this sense

  213. that the Christians

  214. who do eat meat

  215. must not be serious

  216. about their faith

  217. and they might even

  218. be tainted by it.

  219. So there was a lot

  220. of argument happening

  221. in the church

  222. over what to do.

  223. And the question is

  224. how can these Christians

  225. who disagree

  226. over a pretty important issue

  227. go to church together?

  228. Right?

  229. How do these Christians

  230. eat together?

  231. What do you bring

  232. to the potluck meal

  233. when you have

  234. these major disagreements

  235. and somebody

  236. might be scandalized?

  237. So here's what

  238. Paul does not say.

  239. Okay.

  240. Paul does not say

  241. well listen

  242. all truth

  243. is relative

  244. and all that matters

  245. is that you live

  246. your truth.

  247. Whatever you feel

  248. is right

  249. you do you

  250. let them do them

  251. and then we can

  252. all get along.

  253. That's not what

  254. Paul says.

  255. In the postmodern world

  256. a lot of people think

  257. that's the way

  258. to overcome

  259. these kinds of divisions.

  260. If we could just

  261. all agree

  262. that there really

  263. isn't any

  264. objective truth

  265. that all truth

  266. is relative

  267. and that even

  268. if there is

  269. an objective truth

  270. it would be

  271. so impossible

  272. to know it

  273. that it would be

  274. better for society

  275. if we all just

  276. live with the idea

  277. that your truth

  278. is your truth

  279. and your truth

  280. is your truth

  281. and my truth

  282. is my truth

  283. and then we can

  284. all get along.

  285. But of course

  286. that does start

  287. to fall apart

  288. a bit.

  289. If you push

  290. the logic

  291. you begin to realize

  292. well that is itself

  293. kind of an absolute

  294. truth right?

  295. You know

  296. the one

  297. absolute truth

  298. that's allowed

  299. to exist

  300. is the truth

  301. that there is

  302. no absolute

  303. truth.

  304. It doesn't really

  305. work.

  306. Paul clearly

  307. believes

  308. that there is

  309. an objective

  310. truth

  311. and Paul

  312. believes that

  313. it is possible

  314. to know

  315. and ascertain

  316. things that are

  317. more true

  318. or less true

  319. according to that

  320. continuum right?

  321. So it's what we

  322. would call a

  323. correspondence theory

  324. of truth.

  325. There is an

  326. objective truth

  327. there is an

  328. objective reality

  329. and what we

  330. believe either

  331. corresponds more

  332. or less

  333. with that

  334. objective reality.

  335. So he believes

  336. there is a truth

  337. and to some

  338. extent it is

  339. knowable.

  340. And in this

  341. particular case

  342. he says

  343. listen in this

  344. particular case

  345. it is totally

  346. okay if you

  347. want to eat

  348. that meat.

  349. If you want

  350. to go to the

  351. market and you

  352. want to buy

  353. that meat

  354. and you want

  355. to eat it

  356. if somebody

  357. invites you

  358. over to their

  359. home it's

  360. okay to eat

  361. the food.

  362. And he lays

  363. out his argument

  364. in verses 4

  365. through 6.

  366. He says listen

  367. we know that

  368. idols don't

  369. actually exist.

  370. We know that

  371. human beings

  372. have created

  373. them that they've

  374. imbued them

  375. with spiritual

  376. significance but

  377. they don't

  378. actually exist.

  379. We know that

  380. there's only

  381. one God.

  382. Now in other

  383. places he says

  384. there's a danger

  385. in idol worship

  386. of corresponding

  387. of relating

  388. to demons.

  389. But that's a

  390. different,

  391. that's a related

  392. but distinct

  393. issue.

  394. He says we

  395. know that

  396. idols themselves

  397. don't actually

  398. exist.

  399. There's only

  400. one true God

  401. and he made

  402. everything including

  403. that food on

  404. the table so

  405. eat it and

  406. you'll be fine.

  407. And he says

  408. in verse 8

  409. you know what

  410. you eat is not

  411. ultimately going

  412. to have an impact

  413. on your

  414. relationship with

  415. God.

  416. Eating certain

  417. foods is not

  418. going to bring

  419. you closer to

  420. God.

  421. You might feel

  422. like it does

  423. if it's really

  424. good food but

  425. it's not going

  426. to ultimately

  427. result in a

  428. better relationship.

  429. And eating other

  430. foods is not going

  431. to push you

  432. further away from

  433. God.

  434. That's not what

  435. this is about.

  436. So Paul's saying

  437. there is a correct

  438. way of thinking

  439. about this issue

  440. but not all

  441. Christians see it.

  442. and there's a

  443. significant number

  444. of Christians

  445. who are very

  446. scandalized by

  447. this.

  448. And he says

  449. you know those

  450. Christians who are

  451. refusing to eat

  452. the meat the

  453. issue is that they

  454. have a weak

  455. conscience.

  456. Now normally

  457. what we think of

  458. as a weak

  459. conscience is the

  460. opposite of what

  461. Paul actually says.

  462. The way Paul

  463. defines weak

  464. conscience is he

  465. says your conscience

  466. is too weak to

  467. protect you from

  468. unnecessary guilt

  469. and superstition.

  470. Isn't that

  471. interesting?

  472. So we would think

  473. of it normally as

  474. the opposite.

  475. A weak conscience

  476. is a person who's

  477. sort of licentious

  478. you know.

  479. But Paul's saying

  480. no no no.

  481. These people have a

  482. weak conscience

  483. because it can't

  484. protect them against

  485. superstitious guilt

  486. and anxiety.

  487. So these are people

  488. who are the weak

  489. Christians are likely

  490. people who are not

  491. as well theologically

  492. informed.

  493. They tend to be

  494. more superstitious

  495. as a result of that.

  496. These are probably

  497. people who like to

  498. have things very

  499. black and white.

  500. They really want

  501. there to be a rule

  502. for everything.

  503. They want somebody

  504. to tell them exactly

  505. what to do and not

  506. to in every situation

  507. which helps them feel

  508. more in control.

  509. Maybe these are people

  510. that tend to overthink

  511. to overanalyze.

  512. Right?

  513. These are the weak

  514. Christians.

  515. And Paul contrasts

  516. those with the strong

  517. Christians.

  518. people who have

  519. a strong conscience.

  520. The reason they're able

  521. to eat the meat

  522. is because the conscience

  523. is strong enough

  524. to resist the unnecessary

  525. guilt and superstition.

  526. Now sometimes guilt

  527. is unnecessary.

  528. But sometimes

  529. I'm sorry

  530. sometimes guilt

  531. is necessary.

  532. It could be a good thing.

  533. But in this case

  534. it's not.

  535. And so Paul says

  536. these are the people

  537. who are probably

  538. more likely to be

  539. theologically informed.

  540. They don't need

  541. all the rules

  542. spelled out.

  543. They have good instincts

  544. about what faithfulness

  545. looks like.

  546. Very important

  547. they probably have

  548. a much higher tolerance

  549. for ambiguity.

  550. Some people have

  551. a really hard time

  552. tolerating ambiguity.

  553. The strong Christians

  554. probably have a much

  555. higher tolerance

  556. for ambiguity

  557. meaning situations

  558. that are very gray

  559. and unclear.

  560. And in Romans chapter 14

    Romans 14 chapter mention

  561. Paul actually

  562. clearly identifies himself

  563. as among the strong.

  564. He basically says

  565. these are the people

  566. this is how I live.

  567. Right?

  568. And presumably

  569. he hopes

  570. that everyone

  571. is going to grow

  572. and get there eventually.

  573. The desire would be

  574. that the weak Christians

  575. eventually

  576. become more

  577. theologically informed

  578. more able to tolerate

  579. ambiguity

  580. less prone to superstition

  581. and that they all

  582. become strong eventually.

  583. So in situations

  584. like this

  585. there is an objective

  586. truth out there.

  587. Paul is not saying

  588. you do you

  589. all truth is relative.

  590. He's saying

  591. there's a way

  592. of thinking about this

  593. that has a greater

  594. correspondence

  595. to what we believe

  596. theologically.

  597. However

  598. not all Christians

  599. are there yet.

  600. They don't all

  601. understand that yet.

  602. Everybody is kind of

  603. at a different place

  604. on their journey

  605. of maturity.

  606. what this means

  607. is that we can't

  608. just in a situation

  609. like this

  610. just pretend like

  611. everybody's truth

  612. is equally valid.

  613. Some people's

  614. beliefs and stances

  615. have a greater

  616. correspondence

  617. to what is true.

  618. But the question is

  619. how do we relate

  620. across those lines

  621. of disagreement

  622. when people are

  623. at different places

  624. in that journey?

  625. How do you relate

  626. to people

  627. when there is

  628. strong disagreement?

  629. think about

  630. the conversations

  631. that you have had

  632. around theology

  633. or social issues

  634. or politics.

  635. Think about people

  636. in your life

  637. who may

  638. send you quotes

  639. or send you articles

  640. or in other ways

  641. sort of convey

  642. that they think

  643. that you're way off base

  644. in what you think

  645. or what you believe

  646. or what you value.

  647. It's very tempting

  648. when somebody's doing that

  649. to just cut them

  650. out of your life.

  651. I mean it's very tempting

  652. just to start

  653. to wall your life off

  654. and only relate

  655. to people

  656. with whom you know

  657. you're going to have

  658. very little conflict

  659. around these issues.

  660. Very understandable

  661. why that would be tempting.

  662. Here's what Paul says.

  663. Here's what Paul says.

  664. Notice that he aims

  665. his correction

  666. not at the weak Christians.

  667. Christians.

  668. The force of this

  669. is aimed

  670. at the strong Christians.

  671. So he says

  672. you know

  673. you guys are correct

  674. but

  675. evidence of a changed heart

  676. is found in two things

  677. according to Paul.

  678. Number one

  679. the way we hold

  680. our convictions.

  681. The way we hold

  682. our convictions.

  683. What do I mean by that?

  684. Chapter 8 verse 1

  685. he says

  686. now concerning food

  687. offered to idols

  688. we know that

  689. all of us

  690. possess knowledge

  691. and then he says

  692. but this knowledge

  693. puffs up.

  694. What's he saying?

  695. The sin of pride

  696. is always there

  697. and it is always lurking

  698. just under the surface

  699. and what Paul is saying

  700. is this

  701. you can have

  702. the right theology

  703. you can be

  704. theologically solid

  705. and you can be

  706. technically correct

  707. in what you believe

  708. but just under the surface

  709. that pride

  710. is simmering away

  711. and in your correct theology

  712. you can start to feel

  713. pretty good about yourself

  714. and you can start to feel

  715. pretty smug

  716. and you see this

  717. all the time

  718. especially online

  719. you know

  720. think about your theological beliefs

  721. or your political beliefs

  722. or your beliefs

  723. about various issues

  724. people with solid views

  725. I see this all the time

  726. people you know

  727. who I rely on

  728. who I look to

  729. I say this person

  730. has really solid thinking

  731. on these issues

  732. and yet

  733. you see them online

  734. like on Twitter

  735. or X

  736. whatever it's called now

  737. treating their opponents

  738. with contempt

  739. right

  740. with smug

  741. condescending

  742. belittling comments

  743. going back and forth

  744. and you ask

  745. how could

  746. this person

  747. be so solid

  748. and yet

  749. there's such

  750. smug

  751. contempt

  752. in the way

  753. they talk to people

  754. do you ever see this

  755. in yourself

  756. right

  757. you ever read

  758. or hear somebody

  759. say something

  760. and your first response

  761. is to roll your eyes

  762. you know

  763. rolling your eyes

  764. is a sign of contempt

  765. you can't believe

  766. anybody would be

  767. so stupid

  768. or so misguided

  769. you know

  770. as somebody

  771. who I find myself

  772. in lots of conversations

  773. about theology

  774. and culture

  775. I constantly

  776. feel this

  777. in myself

  778. that is knowledge

  779. puffing us up

  780. that is that pride

  781. simmering up

  782. bubbling up

  783. to the surface

  784. filling us

  785. with hot

  786. hot air

  787. and so the question is

  788. what do we do about it

  789. and Paul goes on to say

  790. in verse 2

  791. if anyone imagines

  792. that he knows something

  793. in other words

  794. if you think of yourself

  795. as a person

  796. with a good read on things

  797. and you think of yourself

  798. as a person

  799. who knows a lot

  800. right

  801. about the situation

  802. if anyone

  803. you know

  804. if there's an expert

  805. on this issue

  806. I'm probably it

  807. and I probably have

  808. a better understanding

  809. than anybody else

  810. on this issue

  811. and why can't everybody

  812. agree with me

  813. he says

  814. if you're that kind of person

  815. listen

  816. he says

  817. if anyone imagines

  818. that he knows something

  819. he does not yet know

  820. as he ought to know

  821. in other words

  822. if you think you know

  823. everything about a given topic

  824. chances are

  825. that's evidence

  826. that you know very little

  827. right

  828. if you think

  829. that your perspective

  830. is the only one

  831. that's reasonable

  832. that's evidence

  833. that you don't actually

  834. know what you're talking about

  835. in other words

  836. this is a call

  837. to be intellectually humble

  838. evidence of a changed heart

  839. is that you are

  840. intellectually humble

  841. people who have had

  842. their hearts changed

  843. by the gospel

  844. this quality emerges

  845. you know

  846. a person who talks

  847. about this difference

  848. in how we hold knowledge

  849. is the great philosopher

  850. Charles Taylor

  851. he says

  852. there are two ways

  853. that people tend

  854. to hold their views

  855. the first group

  856. assumes their view

  857. is the only plausible view

  858. right

  859. they assume

  860. that what they think

  861. is the only reasonable way

  862. to think

  863. and they cannot imagine

  864. any reasonable person

  865. holding any other view

  866. than their view

  867. and this group

  868. the first group

  869. he says

  870. you can

  871. here's what is interesting

  872. he says

  873. you can find this

  874. on the right

  875. and the left

  876. you can find it

  877. on both sides

  878. of any issue

  879. so

  880. a fundamentalist

  881. from the Bible Belt

  882. might say

  883. there is a God

  884. and anybody

  885. who doesn't think so

  886. is a moron

  887. but then you go

  888. into the secular academy

  889. and you find

  890. a secular academic

  891. there is no God

  892. and anybody

  893. who thinks there is

  894. is a moron

  895. and Taylor would say

  896. you know

  897. they're on different

  898. sides of the issue

  899. but down deep

  900. they're exactly the same

  901. they're both

  902. holding their views

  903. in the same way

  904. mine is the only

  905. reasonable way

  906. to think

  907. and anybody

  908. who disagrees

  909. is clearly an idiot

  910. that's the first group

  911. here's the second group

  912. Taylor says

  913. the second group

  914. is intellectually humble

  915. so they hold on

  916. to their view

  917. and they

  918. they

  919. they

  920. they

  921. they

  922. they believe

  923. what they believe

  924. but they also understand

  925. that their view

  926. is one view

  927. it's a point of view

  928. and they are open

  929. to the possibility

  930. that other points

  931. of view

  932. are understandable

  933. that they

  934. they might also

  935. be plausible

  936. there are people

  937. who understand

  938. you know

  939. I've arrived

  940. at my set of convictions

  941. but I understand

  942. how a person

  943. coming from a different

  944. perspective

  945. might

  946. might arrive

  947. at a different place

  948. that doesn't mean

  949. they agree

  950. it doesn't mean

  951. they're saying

  952. it's true

  953. but it means

  954. they can understand

  955. how somebody

  956. would get there

  957. so you can hold

  958. strong convictions

  959. but you remain

  960. open to the possibility

  961. that there are things

  962. maybe that you

  963. don't know

  964. or that there might

  965. be certain aspects

  966. of this

  967. that you are wrong on

  968. now a person

  969. who has had their heart

  970. changed by the gospel

  971. holds their views

  972. with intellectual

  973. humility

  974. it doesn't mean

  975. they lack conviction

  976. and this is a big

  977. misunderstanding here

  978. because we say

  979. well does that mean

  980. that they're weak sauce

  981. right

  982. that they don't

  983. they don't really

  984. have any convictions

  985. absolutely not

  986. right

  987. a person

  988. with a

  989. who's intellectually

  990. humble

  991. can hold very

  992. strongly to their

  993. convictions

  994. they might be

  995. willing to die

  996. for their convictions

  997. under the right

  998. circumstances

  999. but they also

  1000. understand

  1001. the danger

  1002. of pride

  1003. they understand

  1004. what it's like

  1005. to wrestle

  1006. with sin

  1007. and they understand

  1008. the limits

  1009. of their ability

  1010. to understand

  1011. every angle

  1012. of the issue

  1013. because they are

  1014. human beings

  1015. and they understand

  1016. that no human

  1017. is capable

  1018. of knowing

  1019. everything

  1020. and these days

  1021. honestly much

  1022. of what we do know

  1023. especially in the realm

  1024. of culture

  1025. and politics

  1026. is skewed

  1027. by the algorithms

  1028. that literally

  1029. decide the content

  1030. that we consume

  1031. and so there's a certain

  1032. amount of humility

  1033. to understanding

  1034. I live within

  1035. a bit of an echo chamber

  1036. within a point of view

  1037. that is reinforced

  1038. but that's not

  1039. everybody's experience

  1040. so evidence

  1041. of a changed heart

  1042. is down number one

  1043. in the way we hold

  1044. our convictions

  1045. I believe this

  1046. and I would die for it

  1047. and I believe that it

  1048. corresponds to truth

  1049. but I understand

  1050. how and why

  1051. you might disagree

  1052. number two

  1053. the way we receive

  1054. those who disagree

  1055. not just the way

  1056. I hold my convictions

  1057. but the way we receive

  1058. those who disagree

  1059. this is truly breathtaking

  1060. verses 7 to 13

  1061. even though the strong

  1062. Christians are

  1063. theologically correct

  1064. even though Christians

  1065. according to Paul

  1066. have a right to eat

  1067. wherever they want

  1068. to eat whatever they want

  1069. they are completely

  1070. and totally free

  1071. Paul's primary concern

  1072. is the well-being

  1073. of the weak

  1074. brother and sister

  1075. if one of these

  1076. weak Christians

  1077. sees other Christians

  1078. eating food

  1079. sacrificed to idols

  1080. if they're walking

  1081. through the market

  1082. and they look up

  1083. and they see

  1084. in a temple courtyard

  1085. they see Christians

  1086. eating in that temple

  1087. courtyard

  1088. with non-Christians

  1089. and they know

  1090. that that food

  1091. was just sacrificed

  1092. and they see that

  1093. happening

  1094. they're going to be

  1095. deeply scandalized

  1096. by it

  1097. and they might

  1098. stumble in their

  1099. own faith

  1100. they might

  1101. they might then

  1102. go to the temple

  1103. the next day

  1104. and eat the same food

  1105. but they think

  1106. that they're actually

  1107. worshipping that idol

  1108. and that could lead

  1109. to spiritually

  1110. disastrous consequences

  1111. and so Paul says

  1112. the strong Christians

  1113. need to be guided

  1114. by this overarching

  1115. question

  1116. what is the impact

  1117. of my behavior

  1118. on my brothers

  1119. and sisters

  1120. what I choose

  1121. to do

  1122. with my body

  1123. what I choose

  1124. to do

  1125. with my time

  1126. what I choose

  1127. to do

  1128. with my money

  1129. what is the impact

  1130. of that

  1131. on the people

  1132. around me

  1133. including the people

  1134. I disagree with

  1135. right

  1136. and Paul says

  1137. if you ever

  1138. find yourself

  1139. in a situation

  1140. where your choice

  1141. to eat that meat

  1142. may in any way

  1143. scandalize

  1144. we brothers

  1145. and sisters

  1146. don't do it

  1147. verse 13

  1148. he says

  1149. therefore

  1150. if food makes

  1151. my brother stumble

  1152. I will never

  1153. eat meat

  1154. lest I make

  1155. my brother stumble

  1156. I mean

  1157. that is amazing

  1158. when you consider

  1159. how countercultural

  1160. that view is

  1161. so people

  1162. in our culture

  1163. right

  1164. we're all about

  1165. demanding our rights

  1166. right

  1167. we are taught

  1168. and we are encouraged

  1169. to insist

  1170. on our rights

  1171. our constitutional rights

  1172. our civil rights

  1173. human rights

  1174. our rights

  1175. as Christians

  1176. our rights

  1177. as Christians

  1178. right

  1179. those of us here

  1180. who are Christians

  1181. I would say

  1182. Christians

  1183. are as loud

  1184. and as insistent

  1185. about this

  1186. as anyone

  1187. out there

  1188. but what's

  1189. the motivation

  1190. behind all

  1191. of the clamoring

  1192. for our rights

  1193. what is the motivation

  1194. behind the marches

  1195. what is the motivation

  1196. behind the political

  1197. alliances

  1198. is it insecurity

  1199. at no longer

  1200. being the majority

  1201. is it a fear

  1202. of irrelevance

  1203. is it wounded pride

  1204. is it a fear

  1205. of losing

  1206. maybe some of the freedoms

  1207. that we have enjoyed

  1208. as long as we can remember

  1209. you know

  1210. the New Testament

  1211. scholar

  1212. N.T. Wright

  1213. says this

  1214. and by the way

  1215. he would fully affirm

  1216. the value

  1217. the importance

  1218. of rights

  1219. he would say

  1220. that these are things

  1221. that we need to be

  1222. grateful for

  1223. but here's also

  1224. what he says

  1225. insisting on one's rights

  1226. even insisting

  1227. on one's rights

  1228. as a Christian

  1229. is a sign

  1230. that something else

  1231. other than the true God

  1232. is being worshipped

  1233. saying

  1234. when that is your

  1235. sole focus

  1236. what is really

  1237. motivating you

  1238. a heart

  1239. that has truly

  1240. been transformed

  1241. by the gospel

  1242. is motivated

  1243. not by fear

  1244. not by insecurity

  1245. not by pride

  1246. but by sacrificial love

  1247. so when it comes

  1248. to our rights

  1249. we should be

  1250. thankful for them

  1251. we should praise

  1252. God for them

  1253. we should hope

  1254. to exercise them

  1255. freely

  1256. as often

  1257. as we can

  1258. but

  1259. we should always

  1260. ask

  1261. what the impact

  1262. of our free

  1263. exercise of rights

  1264. has

  1265. on the people

  1266. around us

  1267. and Paul says

  1268. if there's a chance

  1269. that we may do harm

  1270. we should be ready

  1271. to relinquish

  1272. our rights

  1273. immediately

  1274. out of love

  1275. for others

  1276. there was a recent

  1277. there's lots of examples

  1278. we could give of this

  1279. there was one recent

  1280. example of this

  1281. that came in the early

  1282. days of the

  1283. COVID pandemic

  1284. we were learning

  1285. more and more

  1286. about the virus

  1287. staying up late

  1288. at night

  1289. reading as much

  1290. as we possibly

  1291. could

  1292. there was a fear

  1293. that large public

  1294. gatherings could

  1295. accelerate the spread

  1296. of COVID

  1297. the word that people

  1298. used was the

  1299. super spreader

  1300. events

  1301. and because of that

  1302. they said that

  1303. big public gatherings

  1304. would put the more

  1305. vulnerable members

  1306. of society

  1307. the immunocompromised

  1308. the elderly

  1309. at greater risk

  1310. and therefore

  1311. local authorities

  1312. said churches

  1313. should temporarily

  1314. stop gathering

  1315. in person

  1316. until the transmission

  1317. rates go down

  1318. right

  1319. and Christians

  1320. were up in arms

  1321. about this

  1322. because we have a

  1323. right to gather

  1324. for worship

  1325. and the government

  1326. has no right

  1327. to tell us

  1328. that we can't do that

  1329. it's a fundamental

  1330. right in our society

  1331. and because of passages

  1332. like this

  1333. we chose as a church

  1334. to stop meeting

  1335. in person

  1336. as hard

  1337. as it was

  1338. not out of fear

  1339. of COVID

  1340. not out of fealty

  1341. to local governments

  1342. but because we looked

  1343. at passages

  1344. like this

  1345. and we decided

  1346. to temporarily

  1347. relinquish our right

  1348. to meet in person

  1349. in order to demonstrate

  1350. our love

  1351. and concern

  1352. for the broader

  1353. community

  1354. and it doesn't mean

  1355. that we don't

  1356. think that that right

  1357. is important

  1358. and it doesn't mean

  1359. that under certain

  1360. circumstances

  1361. we wouldn't fight

  1362. for that right

  1363. but in this case

  1364. we allow this ethic

  1365. from places like

  1366. 1 Corinthians 8

  1367. to govern

  1368. our conduct

  1369. and I would say

  1370. if you're hearing this

  1371. and you disagree

  1372. I can point you

  1373. to a sermon

  1374. about how to interact

  1375. with people

  1376. you disagree with

  1377. and you can listen

  1378. to it

  1379. but it was a very

  1380. hard issue

  1381. it was a very

  1382. gray issue

  1383. I mean I understood

  1384. both sides

  1385. but at the time

  1386. we decided

  1387. this is the kind

  1388. of thing

  1389. that Paul

  1390. would call us

  1391. to do

  1392. and if you follow

  1393. Paul's argument

  1394. through the end

  1395. of chapter 10

  1396. where it picks up

  1397. and then Romans

    Romans 14 chapter mention

  1398. chapter 14

  1399. we actually see

  1400. that we're called

  1401. to go even further

  1402. than this

  1403. not only should

  1404. I have a willingness

  1405. at times

  1406. to relinquish

  1407. my rights

  1408. for the well-being

  1409. of my brothers

  1410. and sisters

  1411. with whom I disagree

  1412. but Paul calls us

  1413. to go much

  1414. much much further

  1415. in Romans chapter 14

    Romans 14 chapter mention

  1416. because see

  1417. these days

  1418. it is very common

  1419. for people to say

  1420. this

  1421. when it comes

  1422. to disagreement

  1423. people will say

  1424. this

  1425. agree with me

  1426. and then I might

  1427. accept you

  1428. but unless we disagree

  1429. I don't think

  1430. that we can be

  1431. in relationship

  1432. and so

  1433. I don't know

  1434. if you've noticed

  1435. this but a lot

  1436. of times

  1437. I find myself

  1438. in conversations

  1439. where the first

  1440. few comments

  1441. or questions

  1442. people are kind

  1443. of feeling

  1444. each other out

  1445. they're kind

  1446. of making

  1447. little references

  1448. and they're seeing

  1449. how you respond

  1450. and what they're

  1451. trying to do

  1452. is to sort you

  1453. and I do the same

  1454. thing

  1455. we're trying

  1456. to sort

  1457. each other

  1458. to figure out

  1459. is there a chance

  1460. that we agree

  1461. on the issues

  1462. that we see

  1463. the world

  1464. in the same way

  1465. or not

  1466. and many times

  1467. when people

  1468. start to get a sense

  1469. that I don't think

  1470. that we're coming

  1471. from the same place

  1472. there's kind

  1473. of a polite

  1474. distancing

  1475. where I'm not

  1476. going to talk

  1477. to that person

  1478. anymore

  1479. and it happens

  1480. all the time

  1481. because we have

  1482. the sense

  1483. that unless

  1484. we have a kind

  1485. of agreement

  1486. around the basics

  1487. I'm not sure

  1488. we can be

  1489. in relationship

  1490. Romans 14

  1491. says the opposite

  1492. it says

  1493. that when we

  1494. encounter someone

  1495. with whom we

  1496. strongly disagree

  1497. before we try

  1498. to correct them

  1499. before we try

  1500. to argue with them

  1501. Paul says

  1502. the first thing

  1503. that you should do

  1504. is to welcome them

  1505. and the word

  1506. in Greek

  1507. means much

  1508. much more

  1509. than just

  1510. you're welcome

  1511. to sit at my table

  1512. or you're welcome

  1513. to interact with me

  1514. John Stott writes

  1515. this means more

  1516. than to accept

  1517. people in the sense

  1518. of acquiescing

  1519. in their existence

  1520. or even in their

  1521. right to belong

  1522. it means more

  1523. even than to receive

  1524. or accept

  1525. in one's society

  1526. or into one's home

  1527. or circle of acquaintances

  1528. here's what

  1529. he goes further

  1530. than all of that

  1531. this isn't just

  1532. yeah you can come

  1533. you can be a part

  1534. of the group

  1535. you can be among

  1536. my kind of acquaintances

  1537. he says no no

  1538. it means to welcome

  1539. into one's fellowship

  1540. and into one's heart

  1541. it implies the warmth

  1542. and the kindness

  1543. of genuine love

  1544. I welcome you in

  1545. with warmth

  1546. and kindness

  1547. and genuine love

  1548. and then maybe

  1549. down the road

  1550. we start to sort out

  1551. where we agree

  1552. and disagree

  1553. it's a completely

  1554. different posture

  1555. and just take a moment

  1556. and imagine

  1557. how different

  1558. would our society be

  1559. if Christians

  1560. just Christians

  1561. regularly responded

  1562. this way

  1563. to people

  1564. who disagree

  1565. with us

  1566. not only within

  1567. Christian circles

  1568. but in the broader

  1569. society

  1570. it doesn't mean

  1571. we have soupy

  1572. convictions

  1573. but it means

  1574. the posture

  1575. is one of

  1576. open warm embrace

  1577. first

  1578. there are plenty

  1579. of places

  1580. where Paul

  1581. highlights

  1582. the importance

  1583. of correct theology

  1584. and working through

  1585. and making sure

  1586. to correct people

  1587. who are led astray

  1588. right

  1589. absolutely

  1590. right

  1591. but the ethic

  1592. says

  1593. the first thing

  1594. that you do

  1595. the posture

  1596. is

  1597. foregrounds

  1598. love

  1599. welcome

  1600. embrace

  1601. and in that context

  1602. differences can be

  1603. explored

  1604. imagine how different

  1605. it would go

  1606. at your Thanksgiving

  1607. table

  1608. if this were the

  1609. ethic

  1610. this Paul says

  1611. is evidence

  1612. of a heart

  1613. that has been

  1614. transformed by the

  1615. gospel

  1616. and we read this

  1617. and quite frankly

  1618. I think it raises

  1619. a question

  1620. how is such a thing

  1621. even possible

  1622. how could anyone

  1623. be expected

  1624. to be willing

  1625. to relinquish

  1626. their rights

  1627. or to welcome

  1628. and embrace

  1629. their enemies

  1630. with such

  1631. extravagant love

  1632. and the key

  1633. to the whole argument

  1634. is found in Romans

    Romans 15:7

  1635. chapter 15

  1636. verse 7

  1637. where he says

  1638. welcome others

  1639. as Christ

  1640. has welcomed

  1641. you

  1642. why should we

  1643. be willing

  1644. to relinquish

  1645. our rights

  1646. to love people

  1647. who disagree

  1648. with us

  1649. because once

  1650. we stood

  1651. condemned

  1652. as enemies

  1653. of God

  1654. in our sin

  1655. and yet Jesus

  1656. the eternal

  1657. son of God

  1658. who had all

  1659. of the rights

  1660. who had all

  1661. of the glory

  1662. and all

  1663. of the power

  1664. relinquished

  1665. all of that

  1666. gave up

  1667. all of his

  1668. rights

  1669. to come

  1670. and to die

  1671. the death

  1672. of a common

  1673. criminal

  1674. out of love

  1675. for us

  1676. why should

  1677. I relinquish

  1678. my rights

  1679. because he

  1680. relinquished

  1681. his rights

  1682. for me

  1683. right

  1684. why should

  1685. we enter

  1686. into the world

  1687. and embrace

  1688. people who

  1689. disagree with us

  1690. because this

  1691. is what it

  1692. means to

  1693. welcome

  1694. this is what

  1695. John

  1696. this is what

  1697. it means

  1698. to welcome

  1699. others

  1700. right

  1701. you encounter

  1702. somebody

  1703. you disagree

  1704. with

  1705. what does

  1706. it mean

  1707. to love

  1708. and embrace

  1709. them

  1710. well

  1711. you enter

  1712. intellectually

  1713. into their

  1714. world

  1715. you work

  1716. to try to

  1717. understand

  1718. and sympathize

  1719. with their

  1720. viewpoint

  1721. their point

  1722. of view

  1723. right

  1724. a fundamental

  1725. rule of

  1726. debate is

  1727. you should

  1728. be able

  1729. to articulate

  1730. you should

  1731. be able

  1732. to articulate

  1733. the point

  1734. of view

  1735. of your

  1736. opponent

  1737. better than

  1738. they can

  1739. and you

  1740. should be

  1741. able to do

  1742. that before

  1743. you respond

  1744. so what I

  1745. hear you

  1746. saying is

  1747. and you

  1748. should do

  1749. when you

  1750. get done

  1751. they should

  1752. look at you

  1753. and be like

  1754. wow

  1755. that yes

  1756. that's exactly

  1757. what I

  1758. I couldn't

  1759. have said it

  1760. better myself

  1761. right

  1762. that's what

  1763. it means

  1764. to welcome

  1765. and to embrace

  1766. you enter

  1767. fully

  1768. and you

  1769. understand

  1770. their

  1771. perspective

  1772. you love

  1773. them as a

  1774. friend

  1775. even though

  1776. you disagree

  1777. Paul says

  1778. why should

  1779. we be willing

  1780. to do that

  1781. for the sake

  1782. of somebody

  1783. else

  1784. because that's

  1785. exactly what

  1786. Jesus Christ

  1787. did

  1788. the eternal

  1789. son of God

  1790. takes on

  1791. flesh

  1792. he enters

  1793. into our

  1794. world

  1795. he becomes

  1796. in every

  1797. way

  1798. exactly

  1799. like us

  1800. he takes

  1801. on our

  1802. weakness

  1803. he experiences

  1804. the human

  1805. condition

  1806. from the

  1807. inside

  1808. right

  1809. in every

  1810. way

  1811. he is

  1812. tempted

  1813. as we

  1814. are

  1815. and yet

  1816. without

  1817. sin

  1818. why does

  1819. he become

  1820. in every

  1821. way

  1822. like us

  1823. so that

  1824. one day

  1825. we might

  1826. become

  1827. in every

  1828. way

  1829. like him

  1830. and when

  1831. that truth

  1832. when the

  1833. truth of

  1834. the gospel

  1835. is driven

  1836. into your

  1837. heart

  1838. when you

  1839. recognize

  1840. that you

  1841. are the

  1842. one who

  1843. deserved

  1844. to be

  1845. cut off

  1846. and yet

  1847. Jesus Christ

  1848. was willing

  1849. to relinquish

  1850. his rights

  1851. and enter

  1852. into your

  1853. world

  1854. and welcome

  1855. you

  1856. and embrace

  1857. you

  1858. that fundamentally

  1859. transforms

  1860. the way you

  1861. see those

  1862. with whom

  1863. you disagree

  1864. and you

  1865. cannot help

  1866. but love

  1867. them as

  1868. Jesus has

  1869. loved you

  1870. let's pray

  1871. Lord we thank

  1872. you for your

  1873. word and we

  1874. thank you for

  1875. the gospel

  1876. and we thank

  1877. you that you're

  1878. a God who

  1879. doesn't sit

  1880. sternly and

  1881. distantly

  1882. away waiting

  1883. for us to get

  1884. our act

  1885. together

  1886. you're not

  1887. a God

  1888. who confronts

  1889. us with

  1890. all of the

  1891. ways that we

  1892. have fallen

  1893. short and

  1894. then leaves

  1895. us there

  1896. to wallow

  1897. hopelessly

  1898. but you're a

  1899. God who

  1900. cares about

  1901. holiness

  1902. above all

  1903. else

  1904. you care about

  1905. our holiness

  1906. above all

  1907. else

  1908. and yet you

  1909. are willing

  1910. to set

  1911. aside your

  1912. rights and

  1913. your power

  1914. and your

  1915. glory and

  1916. enter into

  1917. our space

  1918. to embrace

  1919. us while we

  1920. were still

  1921. sinners

  1922. Lord to

  1923. renew us

  1924. from the

  1925. inside out

  1926. Lord we

  1927. pray that

  1928. this would

  1929. govern

  1930. that this

  1931. would transform

  1932. the way we

  1933. see ourselves

  1934. that it

  1935. would transform

  1936. the way we

  1937. see people

  1938. across those

  1939. lines of

  1940. difference

  1941. that it

  1942. would give

  1943. us a new

  1944. set of

  1945. priorities

  1946. that it

  1947. would reorient

  1948. our hearts

  1949. to a posture

  1950. of sacrificial

  1951. love

  1952. we pray this

  1953. that we might

  1954. be as a

  1955. community

  1956. Lord a

  1957. beacon of

  1958. hope and

  1959. peace building

  1960. and reconciliation

  1961. in this city

  1962. that we might

  1963. bring you

  1964. glory

  1965. we pray this

  1966. in your son's

  1967. holy name

  1968. amen