Sermon
Love Across the Divide
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Well, as Jeff said at the beginning of the service,
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good morning, welcome, especially if you're new.
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My name's Tommy, I'm the rector here,
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and if we haven't met and you're visiting,
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I'll be hanging around after the church service.
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I'll be up front for a little while,
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and I really hope we get a chance to meet.
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Before we have this baptism that we're excited about,
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we're gonna spend a little time
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looking at God's word together.
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A couple of scholars at Vanderbilt
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have developed something called the Unity Index,
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and it's a way of measuring how divided our society is,
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how polarized we are,
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and their question was,
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is it getting better or is it getting worse?
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What would you think they discovered?
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Yeah, things are getting worse.
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Over the last 40 years,
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we've become increasingly divided,
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as a society,
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and perhaps more so than we've ever been.
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And there's a reason why you got that answer correct.
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I think that we probably know that.
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I think we've probably experienced it.
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How many of us have lost friends
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over the last few years?
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Yeah, how many of us have maybe
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lost friends over disagreements
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about politics or culture or society?
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Maybe you have people that you used to talk to
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and then you just don't talk to them anymore.
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How many of us have family members
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that we avoid?
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You don't have to raise your hand for that one.
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That we avoid talking to
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because we're afraid certain topics might come up.
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How many are dreading Thanksgiving this year?
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In particular,
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it being an election year and all.
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Sitting around that table
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might be pretty interesting.
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And so I don't have to tell you
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that we live in a highly pluralistic society.
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And the question that confronts us all the time is this.
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How can people who have massive differences
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when it comes to beliefs and values and lifestyle
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live together in society?
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When people are distressed
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or even offended
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by one another's beliefs and values,
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are relationships even possible or not?
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What we're going to see this morning
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is that the gospel
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has the power to transform every aspect of life,
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including the way we treat
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those with whom we disagree.
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Time's up.
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The way we treat
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those with whom we disagree.
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And I would actually go a step further
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and say I think this is
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maybe one of the biggest
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or greatest tests
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of any belief system,
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sacred or religious.
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How does your belief system
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lead you to treat those
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with whom you disagree?
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The gospel has the power
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to transform this
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in the human heart.
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And Paul gets into this issue
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in 1 Corinthians chapter 8.
1 Corinthians 8 chapter mention
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And actually this is part
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of a larger argument
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that goes through chapter 11 verse 1.
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And then he picks this same issue up
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in other places
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such as Romans chapter 14.
Romans 14 chapter mention
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So we're going to primarily focus
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on the lectionary reading
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which is 1 Corinthians 8.
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But I'm going to be drawing
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from these other places
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because it's a larger argument.
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And you really need to see
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the whole argument
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to understand the beauty
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of what we're about to discuss.
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First we're going to clarify
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what Paul is not saying.
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And then we're going to look
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at what he is saying
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and what makes such a thing possible.
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Let's pray.
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Our Heavenly Father,
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we thank you
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that your word
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is not a dead word
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nor is it
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merely the product
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of human ingenuity
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or creativity
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that this is a living
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and active word
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and that as we
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gather together
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in your name
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you speak.
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Speak to us
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and through the power
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of your Holy Spirit
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make us receptive
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to your word.
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We pray this
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in Jesus' holy name.
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Amen.
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So first of all
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let me give you
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a little context
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of what's going on
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and why Paul feels
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the need to address this.
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He gets into this
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because there's
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major disagreement
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in the church
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over food
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that has been sacrificed
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or dedicated
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to a pagan deity.
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In order to participate
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in public life
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in Corinth
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it was almost impossible
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to avoid
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food that had been
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dedicated
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or sacrificed
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to some pagan god.
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So virtually
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all the meat
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sold in the meat market
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had come out
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of the temple sacrifices.
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When people
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would invite you
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over for dinner
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you could be
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almost assured
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that there would be
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food that had been
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dedicated to
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a deity.
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If it hadn't been
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a part of a temple sacrifice
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it could very well be
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that your neighbors
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if your pagan neighbors
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invited you over
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for dinner
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that they would
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offer a blessing
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and dedicate
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that food
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to their pagan deity
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before you ate.
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At civic meetings
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there would usually
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be food of some kind
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and whoever was
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presiding over the meeting
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would often bless
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or dedicate that food
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to a pagan god
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or goddess
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as a part
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of the ceremony.
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And so
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there are Christians
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living in this society
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and so they're reacting
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different ways.
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Some Christians
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are saying
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hey listen
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it's just food
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it's just meat.
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You know
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it went on sale
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in the market
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I bought it
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I don't care
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where it came from
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and it's just food.
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Right?
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And other Christians
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are very very
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scandalized by this.
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They refuse
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to touch this food
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they refuse
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to get near it
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they're very scrupulous
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about making sure
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that the food
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is spiritually clean
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before they eat it
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because they're afraid
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of being defiled
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and there's this sense
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that the Christians
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who do eat meat
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must not be serious
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about their faith
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and they might even
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be tainted by it.
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So there was a lot
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of argument happening
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in the church
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over what to do.
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And the question is
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how can these Christians
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who disagree
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over a pretty important issue
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go to church together?
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Right?
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How do these Christians
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eat together?
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What do you bring
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to the potluck meal
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when you have
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these major disagreements
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and somebody
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might be scandalized?
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So here's what
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Paul does not say.
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Okay.
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Paul does not say
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well listen
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all truth
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is relative
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and all that matters
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is that you live
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your truth.
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Whatever you feel
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is right
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you do you
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let them do them
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and then we can
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all get along.
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That's not what
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Paul says.
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In the postmodern world
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a lot of people think
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that's the way
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to overcome
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these kinds of divisions.
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If we could just
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all agree
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that there really
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isn't any
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objective truth
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that all truth
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is relative
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and that even
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if there is
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an objective truth
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it would be
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so impossible
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to know it
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that it would be
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better for society
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if we all just
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live with the idea
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that your truth
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is your truth
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and your truth
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is your truth
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and my truth
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is my truth
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and then we can
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all get along.
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But of course
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that does start
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to fall apart
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a bit.
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If you push
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the logic
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you begin to realize
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well that is itself
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kind of an absolute
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truth right?
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You know
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the one
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absolute truth
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that's allowed
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to exist
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is the truth
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that there is
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no absolute
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truth.
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It doesn't really
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work.
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Paul clearly
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believes
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that there is
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an objective
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truth
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and Paul
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believes that
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it is possible
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to know
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and ascertain
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things that are
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more true
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or less true
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according to that
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continuum right?
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So it's what we
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would call a
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correspondence theory
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of truth.
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There is an
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objective truth
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there is an
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objective reality
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and what we
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believe either
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corresponds more
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or less
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with that
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objective reality.
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So he believes
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there is a truth
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and to some
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extent it is
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knowable.
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And in this
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particular case
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he says
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listen in this
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particular case
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it is totally
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okay if you
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want to eat
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that meat.
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If you want
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to go to the
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market and you
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want to buy
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that meat
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and you want
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to eat it
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if somebody
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invites you
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over to their
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home it's
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okay to eat
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the food.
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And he lays
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out his argument
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in verses 4
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through 6.
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He says listen
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we know that
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idols don't
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actually exist.
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We know that
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human beings
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have created
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them that they've
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imbued them
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with spiritual
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significance but
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they don't
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actually exist.
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We know that
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there's only
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one God.
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Now in other
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places he says
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there's a danger
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in idol worship
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of corresponding
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of relating
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to demons.
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But that's a
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different,
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that's a related
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but distinct
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issue.
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He says we
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know that
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idols themselves
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don't actually
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exist.
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There's only
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one true God
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and he made
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everything including
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that food on
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the table so
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eat it and
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you'll be fine.
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And he says
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in verse 8
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you know what
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you eat is not
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ultimately going
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to have an impact
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on your
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relationship with
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God.
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Eating certain
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foods is not
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going to bring
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you closer to
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God.
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You might feel
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like it does
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if it's really
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good food but
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it's not going
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to ultimately
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result in a
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better relationship.
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And eating other
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foods is not going
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to push you
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further away from
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God.
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That's not what
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this is about.
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So Paul's saying
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there is a correct
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way of thinking
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about this issue
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but not all
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Christians see it.
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and there's a
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significant number
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of Christians
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who are very
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scandalized by
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this.
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And he says
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you know those
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Christians who are
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refusing to eat
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the meat the
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issue is that they
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have a weak
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conscience.
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Now normally
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what we think of
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as a weak
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conscience is the
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opposite of what
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Paul actually says.
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The way Paul
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defines weak
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conscience is he
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says your conscience
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is too weak to
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protect you from
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unnecessary guilt
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and superstition.
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Isn't that
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interesting?
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So we would think
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of it normally as
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the opposite.
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A weak conscience
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is a person who's
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sort of licentious
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you know.
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But Paul's saying
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no no no.
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These people have a
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weak conscience
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because it can't
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protect them against
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superstitious guilt
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and anxiety.
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So these are people
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who are the weak
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Christians are likely
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people who are not
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as well theologically
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informed.
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They tend to be
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more superstitious
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as a result of that.
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These are probably
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people who like to
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have things very
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black and white.
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They really want
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there to be a rule
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for everything.
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They want somebody
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to tell them exactly
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what to do and not
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to in every situation
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which helps them feel
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more in control.
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Maybe these are people
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that tend to overthink
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to overanalyze.
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Right?
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These are the weak
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Christians.
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And Paul contrasts
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those with the strong
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Christians.
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people who have
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a strong conscience.
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The reason they're able
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to eat the meat
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is because the conscience
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is strong enough
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to resist the unnecessary
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guilt and superstition.
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Now sometimes guilt
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is unnecessary.
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But sometimes
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I'm sorry
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sometimes guilt
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is necessary.
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It could be a good thing.
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But in this case
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it's not.
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And so Paul says
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these are the people
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who are probably
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more likely to be
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theologically informed.
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They don't need
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all the rules
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spelled out.
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They have good instincts
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about what faithfulness
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looks like.
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Very important
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they probably have
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a much higher tolerance
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for ambiguity.
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Some people have
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a really hard time
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tolerating ambiguity.
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The strong Christians
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probably have a much
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higher tolerance
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for ambiguity
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meaning situations
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that are very gray
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and unclear.
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And in Romans chapter 14
Romans 14 chapter mention
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Paul actually
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clearly identifies himself
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as among the strong.
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He basically says
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these are the people
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this is how I live.
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Right?
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And presumably
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he hopes
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that everyone
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is going to grow
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and get there eventually.
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The desire would be
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that the weak Christians
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eventually
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become more
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theologically informed
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more able to tolerate
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ambiguity
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less prone to superstition
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and that they all
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become strong eventually.
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So in situations
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like this
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there is an objective
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truth out there.
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Paul is not saying
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you do you
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all truth is relative.
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He's saying
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there's a way
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of thinking about this
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that has a greater
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correspondence
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to what we believe
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theologically.
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However
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not all Christians
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are there yet.
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They don't all
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understand that yet.
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Everybody is kind of
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at a different place
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on their journey
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of maturity.
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what this means
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is that we can't
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just in a situation
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like this
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just pretend like
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everybody's truth
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is equally valid.
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Some people's
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beliefs and stances
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have a greater
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correspondence
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to what is true.
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But the question is
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how do we relate
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across those lines
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of disagreement
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when people are
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at different places
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in that journey?
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How do you relate
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to people
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when there is
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strong disagreement?
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think about
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the conversations
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that you have had
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around theology
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or social issues
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or politics.
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Think about people
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in your life
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who may
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send you quotes
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or send you articles
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or in other ways
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sort of convey
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that they think
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that you're way off base
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in what you think
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or what you believe
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or what you value.
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It's very tempting
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when somebody's doing that
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to just cut them
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out of your life.
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I mean it's very tempting
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just to start
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to wall your life off
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and only relate
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to people
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with whom you know
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you're going to have
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very little conflict
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around these issues.
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Very understandable
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why that would be tempting.
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Here's what Paul says.
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Here's what Paul says.
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Notice that he aims
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his correction
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not at the weak Christians.
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Christians.
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The force of this
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is aimed
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at the strong Christians.
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So he says
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you know
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you guys are correct
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but
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evidence of a changed heart
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is found in two things
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according to Paul.
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Number one
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the way we hold
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our convictions.
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The way we hold
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our convictions.
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What do I mean by that?
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Chapter 8 verse 1
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he says
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now concerning food
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offered to idols
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we know that
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all of us
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possess knowledge
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and then he says
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but this knowledge
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puffs up.
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What's he saying?
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The sin of pride
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is always there
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and it is always lurking
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just under the surface
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and what Paul is saying
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is this
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you can have
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the right theology
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you can be
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theologically solid
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and you can be
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technically correct
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in what you believe
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but just under the surface
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that pride
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is simmering away
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and in your correct theology
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you can start to feel
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pretty good about yourself
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and you can start to feel
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pretty smug
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and you see this
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all the time
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especially online
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you know
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think about your theological beliefs
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or your political beliefs
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or your beliefs
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about various issues
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people with solid views
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I see this all the time
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people you know
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who I rely on
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who I look to
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I say this person
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has really solid thinking
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on these issues
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and yet
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you see them online
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like on Twitter
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or X
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whatever it's called now
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treating their opponents
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with contempt
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right
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with smug
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condescending
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belittling comments
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going back and forth
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and you ask
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how could
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this person
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be so solid
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and yet
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there's such
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smug
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contempt
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in the way
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they talk to people
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do you ever see this
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in yourself
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right
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you ever read
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or hear somebody
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say something
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and your first response
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is to roll your eyes
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you know
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rolling your eyes
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is a sign of contempt
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you can't believe
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anybody would be
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so stupid
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or so misguided
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you know
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as somebody
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who I find myself
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in lots of conversations
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about theology
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and culture
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I constantly
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feel this
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in myself
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that is knowledge
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puffing us up
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that is that pride
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simmering up
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bubbling up
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to the surface
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filling us
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with hot
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hot air
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and so the question is
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what do we do about it
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and Paul goes on to say
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in verse 2
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if anyone imagines
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that he knows something
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in other words
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if you think of yourself
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as a person
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with a good read on things
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and you think of yourself
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as a person
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who knows a lot
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right
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about the situation
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if anyone
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you know
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if there's an expert
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on this issue
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I'm probably it
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and I probably have
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a better understanding
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than anybody else
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on this issue
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and why can't everybody
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agree with me
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he says
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if you're that kind of person
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listen
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he says
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if anyone imagines
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that he knows something
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he does not yet know
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as he ought to know
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in other words
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if you think you know
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everything about a given topic
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chances are
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that's evidence
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that you know very little
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right
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if you think
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that your perspective
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is the only one
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that's reasonable
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that's evidence
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that you don't actually
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know what you're talking about
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in other words
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this is a call
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to be intellectually humble
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evidence of a changed heart
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is that you are
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intellectually humble
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people who have had
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their hearts changed
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by the gospel
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this quality emerges
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you know
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a person who talks
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about this difference
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in how we hold knowledge
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is the great philosopher
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Charles Taylor
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he says
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there are two ways
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that people tend
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to hold their views
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the first group
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assumes their view
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is the only plausible view
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right
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they assume
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that what they think
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is the only reasonable way
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to think
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and they cannot imagine
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any reasonable person
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holding any other view
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than their view
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and this group
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the first group
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he says
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you can
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here's what is interesting
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he says
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you can find this
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on the right
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and the left
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you can find it
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on both sides
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of any issue
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so
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a fundamentalist
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from the Bible Belt
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might say
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there is a God
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and anybody
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who doesn't think so
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is a moron
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but then you go
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into the secular academy
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and you find
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a secular academic
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there is no God
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and anybody
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who thinks there is
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is a moron
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and Taylor would say
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you know
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they're on different
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sides of the issue
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but down deep
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they're exactly the same
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they're both
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holding their views
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in the same way
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mine is the only
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reasonable way
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to think
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and anybody
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who disagrees
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is clearly an idiot
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that's the first group
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here's the second group
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Taylor says
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the second group
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is intellectually humble
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so they hold on
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to their view
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and they
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they
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they
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they
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they
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they believe
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what they believe
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but they also understand
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that their view
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is one view
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it's a point of view
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and they are open
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to the possibility
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that other points
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of view
-
are understandable
-
that they
-
they might also
-
be plausible
-
there are people
-
who understand
-
you know
-
I've arrived
-
at my set of convictions
-
but I understand
-
how a person
-
coming from a different
-
perspective
-
might
-
might arrive
-
at a different place
-
that doesn't mean
-
they agree
-
it doesn't mean
-
they're saying
-
it's true
-
but it means
-
they can understand
-
how somebody
-
would get there
-
so you can hold
-
strong convictions
-
but you remain
-
open to the possibility
-
that there are things
-
maybe that you
-
don't know
-
or that there might
-
be certain aspects
-
of this
-
that you are wrong on
-
now a person
-
who has had their heart
-
changed by the gospel
-
holds their views
-
with intellectual
-
humility
-
it doesn't mean
-
they lack conviction
-
and this is a big
-
misunderstanding here
-
because we say
-
well does that mean
-
that they're weak sauce
-
right
-
that they don't
-
they don't really
-
have any convictions
-
absolutely not
-
right
-
a person
-
with a
-
who's intellectually
-
humble
-
can hold very
-
strongly to their
-
convictions
-
they might be
-
willing to die
-
for their convictions
-
under the right
-
circumstances
-
but they also
-
understand
-
the danger
-
of pride
-
they understand
-
what it's like
-
to wrestle
-
with sin
-
and they understand
-
the limits
-
of their ability
-
to understand
-
every angle
-
of the issue
-
because they are
-
human beings
-
and they understand
-
that no human
-
is capable
-
of knowing
-
everything
-
and these days
-
honestly much
-
of what we do know
-
especially in the realm
-
of culture
-
and politics
-
is skewed
-
by the algorithms
-
that literally
-
decide the content
-
that we consume
-
and so there's a certain
-
amount of humility
-
to understanding
-
I live within
-
a bit of an echo chamber
-
within a point of view
-
that is reinforced
-
but that's not
-
everybody's experience
-
so evidence
-
of a changed heart
-
is down number one
-
in the way we hold
-
our convictions
-
I believe this
-
and I would die for it
-
and I believe that it
-
corresponds to truth
-
but I understand
-
how and why
-
you might disagree
-
number two
-
the way we receive
-
those who disagree
-
not just the way
-
I hold my convictions
-
but the way we receive
-
those who disagree
-
this is truly breathtaking
-
verses 7 to 13
-
even though the strong
-
Christians are
-
theologically correct
-
even though Christians
-
according to Paul
-
have a right to eat
-
wherever they want
-
to eat whatever they want
-
they are completely
-
and totally free
-
Paul's primary concern
-
is the well-being
-
of the weak
-
brother and sister
-
if one of these
-
weak Christians
-
sees other Christians
-
eating food
-
sacrificed to idols
-
if they're walking
-
through the market
-
and they look up
-
and they see
-
in a temple courtyard
-
they see Christians
-
eating in that temple
-
courtyard
-
with non-Christians
-
and they know
-
that that food
-
was just sacrificed
-
and they see that
-
happening
-
they're going to be
-
deeply scandalized
-
by it
-
and they might
-
stumble in their
-
own faith
-
they might
-
they might then
-
go to the temple
-
the next day
-
and eat the same food
-
but they think
-
that they're actually
-
worshipping that idol
-
and that could lead
-
to spiritually
-
disastrous consequences
-
and so Paul says
-
the strong Christians
-
need to be guided
-
by this overarching
-
question
-
what is the impact
-
of my behavior
-
on my brothers
-
and sisters
-
what I choose
-
to do
-
with my body
-
what I choose
-
to do
-
with my time
-
what I choose
-
to do
-
with my money
-
what is the impact
-
of that
-
on the people
-
around me
-
including the people
-
I disagree with
-
right
-
and Paul says
-
if you ever
-
find yourself
-
in a situation
-
where your choice
-
to eat that meat
-
may in any way
-
scandalize
-
we brothers
-
and sisters
-
don't do it
-
verse 13
-
he says
-
therefore
-
if food makes
-
my brother stumble
-
I will never
-
eat meat
-
lest I make
-
my brother stumble
-
I mean
-
that is amazing
-
when you consider
-
how countercultural
-
that view is
-
so people
-
in our culture
-
right
-
we're all about
-
demanding our rights
-
right
-
we are taught
-
and we are encouraged
-
to insist
-
on our rights
-
our constitutional rights
-
our civil rights
-
human rights
-
our rights
-
as Christians
-
our rights
-
as Christians
-
right
-
those of us here
-
who are Christians
-
I would say
-
Christians
-
are as loud
-
and as insistent
-
about this
-
as anyone
-
out there
-
but what's
-
the motivation
-
behind all
-
of the clamoring
-
for our rights
-
what is the motivation
-
behind the marches
-
what is the motivation
-
behind the political
-
alliances
-
is it insecurity
-
at no longer
-
being the majority
-
is it a fear
-
of irrelevance
-
is it wounded pride
-
is it a fear
-
of losing
-
maybe some of the freedoms
-
that we have enjoyed
-
as long as we can remember
-
you know
-
the New Testament
-
scholar
-
N.T. Wright
-
says this
-
and by the way
-
he would fully affirm
-
the value
-
the importance
-
of rights
-
he would say
-
that these are things
-
that we need to be
-
grateful for
-
but here's also
-
what he says
-
insisting on one's rights
-
even insisting
-
on one's rights
-
as a Christian
-
is a sign
-
that something else
-
other than the true God
-
is being worshipped
-
saying
-
when that is your
-
sole focus
-
what is really
-
motivating you
-
a heart
-
that has truly
-
been transformed
-
by the gospel
-
is motivated
-
not by fear
-
not by insecurity
-
not by pride
-
but by sacrificial love
-
so when it comes
-
to our rights
-
we should be
-
thankful for them
-
we should praise
-
God for them
-
we should hope
-
to exercise them
-
freely
-
as often
-
as we can
-
but
-
we should always
-
ask
-
what the impact
-
of our free
-
exercise of rights
-
has
-
on the people
-
around us
-
and Paul says
-
if there's a chance
-
that we may do harm
-
we should be ready
-
to relinquish
-
our rights
-
immediately
-
out of love
-
for others
-
there was a recent
-
there's lots of examples
-
we could give of this
-
there was one recent
-
example of this
-
that came in the early
-
days of the
-
COVID pandemic
-
we were learning
-
more and more
-
about the virus
-
staying up late
-
at night
-
reading as much
-
as we possibly
-
could
-
there was a fear
-
that large public
-
gatherings could
-
accelerate the spread
-
of COVID
-
the word that people
-
used was the
-
super spreader
-
events
-
and because of that
-
they said that
-
big public gatherings
-
would put the more
-
vulnerable members
-
of society
-
the immunocompromised
-
the elderly
-
at greater risk
-
and therefore
-
local authorities
-
said churches
-
should temporarily
-
stop gathering
-
in person
-
until the transmission
-
rates go down
-
right
-
and Christians
-
were up in arms
-
about this
-
because we have a
-
right to gather
-
for worship
-
and the government
-
has no right
-
to tell us
-
that we can't do that
-
it's a fundamental
-
right in our society
-
and because of passages
-
like this
-
we chose as a church
-
to stop meeting
-
in person
-
as hard
-
as it was
-
not out of fear
-
of COVID
-
not out of fealty
-
to local governments
-
but because we looked
-
at passages
-
like this
-
and we decided
-
to temporarily
-
relinquish our right
-
to meet in person
-
in order to demonstrate
-
our love
-
and concern
-
for the broader
-
community
-
and it doesn't mean
-
that we don't
-
think that that right
-
is important
-
and it doesn't mean
-
that under certain
-
circumstances
-
we wouldn't fight
-
for that right
-
but in this case
-
we allow this ethic
-
from places like
-
1 Corinthians 8
-
to govern
-
our conduct
-
and I would say
-
if you're hearing this
-
and you disagree
-
I can point you
-
to a sermon
-
about how to interact
-
with people
-
you disagree with
-
and you can listen
-
to it
-
but it was a very
-
hard issue
-
it was a very
-
gray issue
-
I mean I understood
-
both sides
-
but at the time
-
we decided
-
this is the kind
-
of thing
-
that Paul
-
would call us
-
to do
-
and if you follow
-
Paul's argument
-
through the end
-
of chapter 10
-
where it picks up
-
and then Romans
Romans 14 chapter mention
-
chapter 14
-
we actually see
-
that we're called
-
to go even further
-
than this
-
not only should
-
I have a willingness
-
at times
-
to relinquish
-
my rights
-
for the well-being
-
of my brothers
-
and sisters
-
with whom I disagree
-
but Paul calls us
-
to go much
-
much much further
-
in Romans chapter 14
Romans 14 chapter mention
-
because see
-
these days
-
it is very common
-
for people to say
-
this
-
when it comes
-
to disagreement
-
people will say
-
this
-
agree with me
-
and then I might
-
accept you
-
but unless we disagree
-
I don't think
-
that we can be
-
in relationship
-
and so
-
I don't know
-
if you've noticed
-
this but a lot
-
of times
-
I find myself
-
in conversations
-
where the first
-
few comments
-
or questions
-
people are kind
-
of feeling
-
each other out
-
they're kind
-
of making
-
little references
-
and they're seeing
-
how you respond
-
and what they're
-
trying to do
-
is to sort you
-
and I do the same
-
thing
-
we're trying
-
to sort
-
each other
-
to figure out
-
is there a chance
-
that we agree
-
on the issues
-
that we see
-
the world
-
in the same way
-
or not
-
and many times
-
when people
-
start to get a sense
-
that I don't think
-
that we're coming
-
from the same place
-
there's kind
-
of a polite
-
distancing
-
where I'm not
-
going to talk
-
to that person
-
anymore
-
and it happens
-
all the time
-
because we have
-
the sense
-
that unless
-
we have a kind
-
of agreement
-
around the basics
-
I'm not sure
-
we can be
-
in relationship
-
Romans 14
-
says the opposite
-
it says
-
that when we
-
encounter someone
-
with whom we
-
strongly disagree
-
before we try
-
to correct them
-
before we try
-
to argue with them
-
Paul says
-
the first thing
-
that you should do
-
is to welcome them
-
and the word
-
in Greek
-
means much
-
much more
-
than just
-
you're welcome
-
to sit at my table
-
or you're welcome
-
to interact with me
-
John Stott writes
-
this means more
-
than to accept
-
people in the sense
-
of acquiescing
-
in their existence
-
or even in their
-
right to belong
-
it means more
-
even than to receive
-
or accept
-
in one's society
-
or into one's home
-
or circle of acquaintances
-
here's what
-
he goes further
-
than all of that
-
this isn't just
-
yeah you can come
-
you can be a part
-
of the group
-
you can be among
-
my kind of acquaintances
-
he says no no
-
it means to welcome
-
into one's fellowship
-
and into one's heart
-
it implies the warmth
-
and the kindness
-
of genuine love
-
I welcome you in
-
with warmth
-
and kindness
-
and genuine love
-
and then maybe
-
down the road
-
we start to sort out
-
where we agree
-
and disagree
-
it's a completely
-
different posture
-
and just take a moment
-
and imagine
-
how different
-
would our society be
-
if Christians
-
just Christians
-
regularly responded
-
this way
-
to people
-
who disagree
-
with us
-
not only within
-
Christian circles
-
but in the broader
-
society
-
it doesn't mean
-
we have soupy
-
convictions
-
but it means
-
the posture
-
is one of
-
open warm embrace
-
first
-
there are plenty
-
of places
-
where Paul
-
highlights
-
the importance
-
of correct theology
-
and working through
-
and making sure
-
to correct people
-
who are led astray
-
right
-
absolutely
-
right
-
but the ethic
-
says
-
the first thing
-
that you do
-
the posture
-
is
-
foregrounds
-
love
-
welcome
-
embrace
-
and in that context
-
differences can be
-
explored
-
imagine how different
-
it would go
-
at your Thanksgiving
-
table
-
if this were the
-
ethic
-
this Paul says
-
is evidence
-
of a heart
-
that has been
-
transformed by the
-
gospel
-
and we read this
-
and quite frankly
-
I think it raises
-
a question
-
how is such a thing
-
even possible
-
how could anyone
-
be expected
-
to be willing
-
to relinquish
-
their rights
-
or to welcome
-
and embrace
-
their enemies
-
with such
-
extravagant love
-
and the key
-
to the whole argument
-
is found in Romans
-
chapter 15
-
verse 7
-
where he says
-
welcome others
-
as Christ
-
has welcomed
-
you
-
why should we
-
be willing
-
to relinquish
-
our rights
-
to love people
-
who disagree
-
with us
-
because once
-
we stood
-
condemned
-
as enemies
-
of God
-
in our sin
-
and yet Jesus
-
the eternal
-
son of God
-
who had all
-
of the rights
-
who had all
-
of the glory
-
and all
-
of the power
-
relinquished
-
all of that
-
gave up
-
all of his
-
rights
-
to come
-
and to die
-
the death
-
of a common
-
criminal
-
out of love
-
for us
-
why should
-
I relinquish
-
my rights
-
because he
-
relinquished
-
his rights
-
for me
-
right
-
why should
-
we enter
-
into the world
-
and embrace
-
people who
-
disagree with us
-
because this
-
is what it
-
means to
-
welcome
-
this is what
-
John
-
this is what
-
it means
-
to welcome
-
others
-
right
-
you encounter
-
somebody
-
you disagree
-
with
-
what does
-
it mean
-
to love
-
and embrace
-
them
-
well
-
you enter
-
intellectually
-
into their
-
world
-
you work
-
to try to
-
understand
-
and sympathize
-
with their
-
viewpoint
-
their point
-
of view
-
right
-
a fundamental
-
rule of
-
debate is
-
you should
-
be able
-
to articulate
-
you should
-
be able
-
to articulate
-
the point
-
of view
-
of your
-
opponent
-
better than
-
they can
-
and you
-
should be
-
able to do
-
that before
-
you respond
-
so what I
-
hear you
-
saying is
-
and you
-
should do
-
when you
-
get done
-
they should
-
look at you
-
and be like
-
wow
-
that yes
-
that's exactly
-
what I
-
I couldn't
-
have said it
-
better myself
-
right
-
that's what
-
it means
-
to welcome
-
and to embrace
-
you enter
-
fully
-
and you
-
understand
-
their
-
perspective
-
you love
-
them as a
-
friend
-
even though
-
you disagree
-
Paul says
-
why should
-
we be willing
-
to do that
-
for the sake
-
of somebody
-
else
-
because that's
-
exactly what
-
Jesus Christ
-
did
-
the eternal
-
son of God
-
takes on
-
flesh
-
he enters
-
into our
-
world
-
he becomes
-
in every
-
way
-
exactly
-
like us
-
he takes
-
on our
-
weakness
-
he experiences
-
the human
-
condition
-
from the
-
inside
-
right
-
in every
-
way
-
he is
-
tempted
-
as we
-
are
-
and yet
-
without
-
sin
-
why does
-
he become
-
in every
-
way
-
like us
-
so that
-
one day
-
we might
-
become
-
in every
-
way
-
like him
-
and when
-
that truth
-
when the
-
truth of
-
the gospel
-
is driven
-
into your
-
heart
-
when you
-
recognize
-
that you
-
are the
-
one who
-
deserved
-
to be
-
cut off
-
and yet
-
Jesus Christ
-
was willing
-
to relinquish
-
his rights
-
and enter
-
into your
-
world
-
and welcome
-
you
-
and embrace
-
you
-
that fundamentally
-
transforms
-
the way you
-
see those
-
with whom
-
you disagree
-
and you
-
cannot help
-
but love
-
them as
-
Jesus has
-
loved you
-
let's pray
-
Lord we thank
-
you for your
-
word and we
-
thank you for
-
the gospel
-
and we thank
-
you that you're
-
a God who
-
doesn't sit
-
sternly and
-
distantly
-
away waiting
-
for us to get
-
our act
-
together
-
you're not
-
a God
-
who confronts
-
us with
-
all of the
-
ways that we
-
have fallen
-
short and
-
then leaves
-
us there
-
to wallow
-
hopelessly
-
but you're a
-
God who
-
cares about
-
holiness
-
above all
-
else
-
you care about
-
our holiness
-
above all
-
else
-
and yet you
-
are willing
-
to set
-
aside your
-
rights and
-
your power
-
and your
-
glory and
-
enter into
-
our space
-
to embrace
-
us while we
-
were still
-
sinners
-
Lord to
-
renew us
-
from the
-
inside out
-
Lord we
-
pray that
-
this would
-
govern
-
that this
-
would transform
-
the way we
-
see ourselves
-
that it
-
would transform
-
the way we
-
see people
-
across those
-
lines of
-
difference
-
that it
-
would give
-
us a new
-
set of
-
priorities
-
that it
-
would reorient
-
our hearts
-
to a posture
-
of sacrificial
-
love
-
we pray this
-
that we might
-
be as a
-
community
-
Lord a
-
beacon of
-
hope and
-
peace building
-
and reconciliation
-
in this city
-
that we might
-
bring you
-
glory
-
we pray this
-
in your son's
-
holy name
-
amen