Sermon
Praying the Foundation
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Good morning.
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Welcome to Church of the Advent.
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My name is Tommy.
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I'm the rector here and delighted to be together this morning.
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We are continuing to look this week at the book of Nehemiah, and the text is printed
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in your bulletin if you'd like to follow along.
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We started a series last week in the book of Nehemiah.
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Now, looking at this man that God has called to do quite an amazing thing, God has called
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Nehemiah to do two things at the same time, to physically lead in the rebuilding of God's
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city and to also lead in the spiritual rebuilding of God's people.
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Both are in need of renovation.
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And we find ourselves in a similar place in the life of our church here at Church of the
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Advent.
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We are physically renovating a building at 5th and Q Northwest so that it can become
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a home for us, a home for worship and spiritual formation and ministry to the wider community.
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And at the same time, this is a year of spiritual renovation and renewal.
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We as a community are preparing for this next season of life.
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We've been through a lot of challenges over this past couple of years as a church, and
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we are in transition and change is hard.
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It's always hard.
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And we're looking ahead and asking what kind of, not only what kind of building do we hope
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to inhabit, but what kind of people will we be when we inhabit that building?
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And will that be good news for the community?
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So this is a year for us to reflect on all of that.
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So we're seeing what we can learn from Nehemiah.
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And here's the thing that we're going to look at this week.
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Nehemiah is often celebrated as an example of effective leadership.
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And to some extent that's true, although as we will see, he is by no means perfect.
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People often overlook what I believe is the most important quality in Nehemiah, which is
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not his leadership style.
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It's his prayer life.
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It's the fact that Nehemiah was a man of prayer above everything else.
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In fact, we have nine recorded prayers from Nehemiah in this book.
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And so we're going to be looking at that first prayer that he prays in the opening verses
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this morning.
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But let me ask you this question as we dive into this.
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How would you answer someone if they were to ask you, how is your prayer life?
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What would come to mind?
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What would you say?
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What would you feel if somebody were to ask you, how is your prayer life?
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I love the writer Anne Lamott.
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I love her honesty.
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And she has a saying.
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She says, the two best prayers I know are help me, help me, help me, and thank you, thank
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you, thank you.
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And I think probably for many of us, that would encapsulate our prayer life, right?
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You get to a point where you're sort of desperate and all else has failed.
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And so you're crying out to God, help me, help me, help me do something.
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And then times when you feel like God comes through, you say, thank you, thank you, thank
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you, you know.
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Not so with Nehemiah.
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Nehemiah has a rich prayer life.
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And we see here in chapter one that the way Nehemiah prays has a distinct shape to it.
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There are distinct elements to his prayer that, as I reflect on my own prayer life, I think
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are often missing from my spontaneous prayers when I pray to the Lord.
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And this is the same general shape that we see in the Lord's prayer that Jesus explicitly
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gives to us as his disciples to teach us how to pray.
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This is essentially going to be prayer 101.
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This is spring training for prayer.
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But if you're anything like me, this is something that I constantly need to come back to again
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and again and again.
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And what we're going to see in the shape of Nehemiah's prayer is a pattern that the people
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use different ways of remembering this.
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Often you come across this when people use the acronym ACTS, A-C-T-S.
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That as we look at Nehemiah's prayer, we see four distinct elements.
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Adoration, confession, thanksgiving, and then finally supplication.
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A-C-T-S.
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And so we're going to look at this.
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And I want to say right off the bat, this is not a magic formula.
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This is not something that we have to follow rigidly.
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On the other hand, if we regularly include all of these elements in our prayer life,
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our prayer will not only have the potential to change the world, but it will actually have
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the power to change us.
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So let's look at this.
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And we're going to ask God to help us as we open His Word together.
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Lord, we come to You in prayer knowing that You desire and You delight to converse with us.
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Lord, that You have spoken through Your Word and Spirit, and You invite us to respond to You,
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Lord.
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And You delight when we come to You.
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You delight when we listen to You.
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You delight when we bring our supplications to You, Lord.
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And so even as we pray, we know that You're a God who above all desires a relationship with us.
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And we pray that this morning we would learn more of what it means to have a relationship
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with You, Lord, to belong to You as we do.
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And we pray that if there are people here who have never prayed in their lives,
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they've never even thought about praying, they don't think they knew how to pray,
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we pray that this morning You would encourage those of us to maybe tentatively reach out to
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You for the first time.
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And we ask that You would respond, Lord.
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We are here to encounter You, and it's in the name of Your Son, Jesus, that we pray.
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Amen.
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So first of all, as we look at Nehemiah, we see that just the context of this is that
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Nehemiah has just heard devastating news.
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He's just heard news that God's city lies in ruins.
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He's just heard that God's people are destitute.
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And it breaks his heart.
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And it breaks his heart so much that it says he falls to the ground and he weeps.
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And the first thing he does is to pray.
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I mean, it's worth noting that for Nehemiah, prayer is a reflex.
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It's a natural instinct.
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He falls to the ground and he weeps, and what comes out of his mouth is prayer.
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Now look at where he begins when he prays.
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If something this bad happened in my life, if I got the kind of news that made me immediately
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collapse to the ground and start weeping, my first impulse, to be totally honest, would
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probably be to say to God, how could you?
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How dare you?
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Where were you?
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Why me?
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Why this?
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Why now?
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Those are the kinds of prayers that would reflexively come out of my mouth, along with a whole lot
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of other stuff.
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Nehemiah pauses long enough to shift his attention away from the crisis, away from the pressing
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issues, away from himself, away from his needs, which are very real, and he shifts his attention
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for a moment just to focus on God himself.
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He begins by praising God for his character.
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He's just heard horrible news, and yet he begins by praising God for his character and
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his faithfulness.
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He says in verse 5, O Lord, God of heaven, the great and awesome God who keeps covenant
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and steadfast love with those who love him and keep his commandments.
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See, this is so important because it immediately grounds prayer in what is true and real.
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Nehemiah is beginning, he's grounding his prayer in what is true and real.
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By pausing to reflect on who God is, what that does when we do that is by pausing to reflect
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on who God is, it immediately reminds us that God is God and I am not.
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I'm immediately saying, you're God and I'm not God.
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You're the great one, not me.
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You're the awesome one, not me.
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You're the one who keeps your promises.
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I don't always keep my promises.
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You're the one whose love remains constant and steadfast.
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My love can be fickle and conditional.
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It reminds us that we're not the ones here to judge what can happen or should happen.
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It reminds us that we're entirely dependent on him.
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It immediately grounds his prayer in what is true and real.
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It reminds us of something that is extremely important to remember when we face crisis.
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And that is that we can't always understand God's motives.
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We will not always be able to understand God's motives.
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But we can always trust God's character.
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We're not always going to understand God's motives, but we can always trust his character.
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And a relationship with God based on faith doesn't ultimately depend on our ability to understand a God whose ways are higher than our ways.
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It hinges on whether or not we trust him, even when we don't understand the why.
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And Nehemiah, that's where he starts his prayer.
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And I've often found that when I'm feeling anxious about something, if I'm sort of getting worked up and anxious and I'm feeling stressed,
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if I just spend a few minutes simply praising God for his attributes, that will immediately start to bring my anxiety down.
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Because a lot of our anxiety is simply the result of us trying to control things that we can't control.
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And we're trying to get a grip or a grasp.
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We're trying to manage this thing.
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And we can't.
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And it causes anxiety.
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And by pausing to remember who God is, it reminds us, oh, I don't have control over that.
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But God does.
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And I trust his character.
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But even if there were no tangible benefits to this, the more you grow in your faith, the more you grow in maturity,
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the more you realize that the point of prayer is not whether it benefits us or not.
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The point of prayer is connection with God.
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And what Nehemiah does is he begins in a place of praising God partly because he knows that God alone is worthy of our praise.
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God alone is worthy of our adoration.
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And if we were to do nothing in our lives but praise God and praise his attributes,
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we would only be giving God what he is owed.
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So this is the first element of Nehemiah's prayer.
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He pauses long enough to praise God for his character.
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And then what we see is this.
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After you spend time reflecting on God's character, that naturally then turns your attention to seeing your own character by contrast.
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Right?
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So Nehemiah's attention then turns to himself.
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And this is a principle that we come back to again and again and again in the Christian life.
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The more clearly we see God, the more clearly we are then able to see ourselves.
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That's why prayer is really one of the only entryways we have into true self-knowledge.
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Because prayer leads us into a kind of self-knowledge that is rooted in something objective and real.
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When we see who God is, we can then begin to see ourselves more clearly by contrast.
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So Nehemiah praises God for his faithfulness, and then he immediately becomes conscious of his own unfaithfulness and that of God's people.
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He says in verse 6,
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Let your ear be attentive and your eyes open to hear the prayer of your servant that I now pray before you day and night for the people of Israel, your servants,
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confessing the sins of the people of Israel, which we have sinned against you.
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Even I and my father's house have sinned.
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We have acted very corruptly against you and have not kept the commandments, the statutes, and the rules that you commanded by your servant Moses.
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Now what's striking about this, what's striking about his confession is that it is not only personal,
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I and my father's house have sinned, but it's also corporate.
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It's a corporate confession.
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He confesses on behalf of the sins of Israel.
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Now this is a concept that's been debated a lot recently because of the conversations around racial injustice in our country
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and to what extent do white Americans bear collective responsibility for the injustice that has been committed in our past and present.
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And what we've seen is that Western people in general have little to no concept of corporate evil.
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Western people, some actively oppose the idea of corporate evil.
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This is something that makes immediate sense in other cultures that are more communal.
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But we tend to be so individualistic in the West that we have a hard time with the notion that we might actually be held accountable for things that we didn't personally do wrong.
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The thing is though, this idea shows up again and again and again in Scripture.
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So it's something that we can't get around.
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We have to figure out how to make sense of it.
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In Joshua chapter 7, Achan sins by stealing things that don't belong to him.
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But his whole family is held responsible.
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In Daniel chapter 9, it goes further.
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Just like Nehemiah, Daniel repents not only on behalf of himself or even his family, but on behalf of his entire race,
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on behalf of the nation of Israel, his ancestors.
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In Romans chapter 5, Paul goes a step further.
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Paul goes way beyond the idea that you're responsible for what other members of your family have done.
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And he goes beyond the idea that you're responsible for your culture or ethnicity or your ancestors.
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The Apostle Paul says that we are responsible and we are condemned for what our first ancestors did.
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Adam and Eve.
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He says we're responsible and guilty because of their sin.
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By virtue, in other words, by virtue of being a member of the human race,
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we are responsible for things that we didn't individually do.
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And the point is, there's a couple points here.
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Number one, we are not simply the product of our individual choices made in a vacuum.
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As much as we would like to think that we are that independent,
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to a large degree, you and I, we are shaped by our family.
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We are shaped by our ethnicity.
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We are shaped by our ancestors.
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I just dug up an Ancestry kit, Ancestry.com kit,
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that somebody gave me, I don't know, like two years ago.
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And I just, I lost it.
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And I didn't think about it again.
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And we were doing some cleaning before the start of the fall.
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And found it, came across it.
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And so I just sent it in.
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And I'm waiting on the results.
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And as I'm waiting on the results,
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I started trying to fill out my family history.
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Something that my mom has always been into,
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but I've never really had much interest in until now.
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And I've started kind of tracing these lines of lineage back to the 14 and 1500s.
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And I'm seeing all kinds of things, all kinds of people.
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And it's had me really reflecting on to what extent do I not know it,
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but to what extent am I a product of things that have happened over time
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in all of these families, dynamics, right?
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The places they occupied in society
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and how that impacted their children and their children and their children, right?
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And it's got me reflecting a lot on that.
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We are the product of our families and our ancestors to a great degree.
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We're a product of the culture that we live in
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and the place that we occupy within that culture.
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But we have to go beyond that.
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When we look at what the apostle Paul is really saying,
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he's saying, listen, we all live inside systems,
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within systems, within systems that are all corrupted by sin.
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And beyond family and culture,
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we are all guilty by virtue of being a part of the human race.
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We've inherited sin.
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We've inherited culpability for sin that on our own we can't deal with.
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And here's why this matters for our prayer life.
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If you spend time reflecting on that,
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it will deepen and it will intensify your confession of sin.
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Because, again, this is just me,
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but I think you're probably maybe at least able to resonate with this.
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If I sit down and I confess,
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say I confess during daily prayer
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or during the Sunday worship service,
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during that time of confession,
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I am very tempted to only think of the things
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that I know I did wrong over the last maybe 24-hour period.
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And I will confess those things.
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But if I'm only confessing the things that I know I've done wrong,
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then that makes it much easier
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for me to continue believing what my heart wants to believe,
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which is that I'm mostly a good person,
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but I occasionally mess up.
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That's what I want to think.
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That's what I want you to think about me.
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But God knows better.
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Right?
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Corporate confession reminds me
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that sin is inescapable apart from Jesus.
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It is hardwired into me on a genetic level
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in a way that I cannot escape.
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It touches and it corrupts every aspect of my life,
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even when I think I'm at my best
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and my most altruistic, selfless, loving version of myself.
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Sin is warping that to some extent.
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Sin is warping that to some extent.
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That's the kind of confession we need.
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Because the good news is this.
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Not only is there such a thing as corporate sin,
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there's such a thing as corporate salvation.
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See, not only are we held responsible for sin
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we didn't personally commit,
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we are also saved by righteousness
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that we didn't personally earn.
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And when it comes to that,
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our only hope is to allow somebody to represent us.
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Right?
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Not only in sin, but also in salvation.
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We're saved simply by being associated with Jesus Christ.
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His righteousness is transferred to us.
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It's not a result of anything that we personally did,
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but we are beneficiaries of it regardless.
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Right?
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So here's how it works.
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The more seriously we take sin in our lives,
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the more powerfully we will experience grace and forgiveness.
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And there are a lot of people
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who are sort of sleepy Christians,
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sleepy, nominal, half-awake Christians,
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who it's been a very long time
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since they've experienced any real sense of God's grace or love,
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and that's because it's been a really long time
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since they've ever really reflected on the sin in their lives.
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And if you want to experience this in your own life,
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if you want to experience spiritual revival,
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one of the first things you can do
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is to spend time in confession.
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Really confessing.
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Right?
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This is why,
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if you look at all the great revivals throughout history,
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if you look at all the great revivals,
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they all have lots of things that are very unique to them.
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Like, each revival is kind of different and unique in a lot of ways.
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One thing they all share in common,
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they all were preceded
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by a great spirit-driven movement of repentance.
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They're all preceded by God's people being heartbroken over their sin
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and crying out to God for mercy.
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And then the Holy Spirit floods in and revival happens.
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So that's confession.
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So we have adoration, we have confession.
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Then we see Nehemiah move to thanksgiving,
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clinging to God's promises.
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So just to remind you, here's where we are.
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There is a crisis in Jerusalem.
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Nehemiah is heartbroken and he's weeping.
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And yet he has not even mentioned it in his prayer.
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After taking time to praise God
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and then to confess his own sin
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and the sin of his people,
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he then turns his attention
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to give thanks for God's deliverance
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and to give thanks for God's promises.
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He's saying, God, remember these wonderful promises
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that you've given your people.
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And this may seem counterintuitive.
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You know, when you're facing a crisis,
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the first thing you do is to turn to God and say thank you.
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But it's exactly what we need in times of crisis.
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Because a lot of us, when we are facing stress,
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when things are getting hard,
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we're facing hardship and adversity,
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most of us instinctively shift
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into what we can think of as a scarcity mindset.
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You know, you're stressed out and you're overwhelmed
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and you immediately circle the wagons
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and you immediately pull in your resources
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and you immediately hunker down
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and you shift into a scarcity mindset.
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What does that mean?
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It means you start to become more and more preoccupied
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with the things that you perceive that you lack.
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So you start focusing on not having enough time,
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not having enough money,
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not having enough resources.
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You know, so you start thinking a scarcity mindset.
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You're thinking, you know, I don't have enough time
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to do my job well and to be a good parent.
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And I'm failing at both.
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You know, I just don't have enough time in the day.
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And so I'm failing in my job and I'm failing as a parent.
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Or you focus on, you know,
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I don't have enough money to even make a dent in this debt.
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So what's the point of even trying to pay it down?
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Or I'm not capable enough to do what's being asked of me,
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so why even try?
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There's no way I would ever be able to succeed at that,
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so why even put my name in the hat, right?
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And of course, the more we think this way,
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the worse we feel, right?
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We begin thinking in hopeless, trapped ways,
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and that leads to feelings of hopelessness,
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feelings of being trapped.
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And then we act out of those feelings
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and we do things that reinforce it, right?
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And people who get stuck in a scarcity mindset,
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they tend to be people who compare themselves
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constantly to other people.
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People who they perceive have more than them
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in these various ways.
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They tend to feel threatened when their friends
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or people around them, their peers, are successful.
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They're threatened by that
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because it highlights their scarcity.
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They tend to be very stingy with their money
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and with their time
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because they don't feel like they have enough of it.
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They tend to struggle with feelings of anxiety
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and depression caused by these loops of thinking, right?
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This defeatist way of thinking.
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And you ask again,
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well, what does this have to do with prayer?
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Well, the single number one best way
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to break out of a scarcity mindset
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is gratitude.
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It's gratitude.
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It's gratitude.
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It's taking a moment
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to look at all of the things in your life
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that represent God's blessing
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and God's provision for you.
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The fact that you woke up this morning.
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The fact that you have breath in your lungs.
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The last meal that you ate.
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The people closest to you in your life.
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You know, there was a study done recently
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in which people were asked to spend one week,
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just one week,
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where over the course of that week,
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they would take five minutes a day
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to write down three things they're thankful for.
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So just one week, five minutes a day,
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write down three things you're thankful for.
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They didn't have to be big things.
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They didn't have to be epic things.
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They just had to be concrete and specific.
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So I'm thankful for the delicious Thai takeout
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I had last night.
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You know, I'm thankful that my daughter gave me a hug.
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I'm thankful that my boss actually noticed
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and complimented my work.
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You know, whatever it may be.
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The point is it had to be three specific things
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each day for one week.
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A month later after this was concluded,
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the researchers followed up
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and they found that those who practiced gratitude
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were significantly happier
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and less depressed than the control group.
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Incredibly, after six months,
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those effects remained.
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So six months later,
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after just spending one week,
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five minutes a day doing that,
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six months later,
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the effects remained.
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And the researchers had to explain this
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and the simplest explanation is this,
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that the simple practice of giving thanks each day
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over the course of a week
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primed their minds
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to focus on the good things they have
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rather than on the things they think they lack.
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It got them out of the scarcity mindset.
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It just, it refocused their attention
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away from the lack and the scarcity
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and it refocused their attention
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toward the things that they have.
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So they just started noticing
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the blessings and provision
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rather than the absences.
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That's the only difference.
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So this is just five minutes a day for one week.
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Imagine how different our lives would be.
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Imagine how different your outlook would be
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if we did this every time we prayed.
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If we simply took some time to thank God
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for the things that He has given us.
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And again, it's wonderful that this is beneficial.
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But even if it weren't beneficial,
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even if there were no psychological
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or emotional benefits at all,
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the truth is,
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we should be thanking God
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every single day continually
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because everything that we have comes from Him.
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Right?
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This is all His.
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He's entrusted things to us as stewards,
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but it belongs to Him.
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So we have adoration.
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We have confession.
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We have thanksgiving.
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Now finally we come to Nehemiah's request.
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Supplication.
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Which simply means bringing our needs
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and requests before the Lord.
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Now I want you to do an experiment.
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You don't have to do it right now.
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Sometime over the next few days,
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here's what I want you to do.
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The next time you sit down to pray,
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and if you've never prayed before,
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try sitting down to pray.
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The next time you pray,
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before you pray,
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right?
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And this works especially well
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if you know what you're praying for.
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Maybe there's a test coming up
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or a big presentation you have to give
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or something that you're waiting on, right?
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And you want to pray about it.
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Before you pray,
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take out a little piece of paper
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and write down all of the things
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that you're going to ask God for.
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All your supplications.
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Write that out first.
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Then put that to the side.
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And then spend some time
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adoring and praising God
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for His character,
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confessing your sin
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on as deep a level as you can,
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and then thanking God
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for all the ways
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that He has blessed
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and provided for you.
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And then come back
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to supplication.
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And see if there isn't a shift
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between what you would have said,
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what you would have asked God for,
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if you just went right into it,
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versus where your heart is now.
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You will be surprised
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how often what you end up
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asking God for
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changes significantly
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if you take time
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to do these other things.
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And I think maybe
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that's why Nehemiah prays
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such a massive, bold prayer.
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Nehemiah asks God
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to give him favor
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with this pagan king
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who could have him tortured
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and killed like that.
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And he asks God
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to give him favor
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so that this pagan king
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will let Nehemiah
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leave the court,
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take Persian money
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and resources,
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and go lead
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in the rebuilding
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of the city of Jerusalem,
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which represents a nation
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that the Persians dominate.
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He's saying,
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God, make it possible
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that this king
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will simply hear this request
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and say,
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sounds good,
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instead of having him
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flayed and killed.
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To even suggest such a thing
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puts Nehemiah's life in danger.
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We're going to look more
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at that next week.
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But here's the thing I think.
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I think Nehemiah knows
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that our God
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is someone to whom
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we can bring
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any and every supplication
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no matter how big or small.
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Right?
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Sometimes you will spend time
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adoring, confessing,
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thanking God,
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and then you realize,
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I don't actually need
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to ask God for anything
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because all I needed
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was to be reminded
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of who God is.
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And now that I remember
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that I trust Him,
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I don't even need
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to ask for anything.
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Other times it might
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be the opposite though.
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Other times you might do that
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and you might say,
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the thing that I was going
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to ask God for
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is way too small.
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Why do I think God
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is so limited
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in what He can do?
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Now that I've reflected
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on who He is
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and all that He's done
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in history,
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my prayers need to get
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a whole lot bigger.
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And I think that's what
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happens here with Nehemiah.
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And Nehemiah realizes
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you can bring any prayer
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to God,
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any supplication,
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no matter how big or small.
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Because when you pray
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to the God of the Bible,
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you're not asking God
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to do something for you
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on the basis of your merit.
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You're asking God
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to do something for you
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on the basis of His mercy.
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And there is a vast difference.
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And this is something
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we need to be reminded of
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again and again and again
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because I think a lot of times
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we default into an approach
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to God that assumes
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it's based on our merit.
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So maybe you come to God
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and you say,
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God,
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I've done all these things
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for you.
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I've gone to church faithfully.
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I serve at the homeless shelter.
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I give 10% of my money
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away to mission and ministry.
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I pray every day.
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The least you could do
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for me is this.
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I've done all these things
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for you, God.
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The least you could do.
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Can you please just give me this one?
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I've never asked you
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for anything, God.
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This is the only thing
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I'll ever ask you for
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and I've done all this for you.
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Give it to me.
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That's coming to God
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on the basis of merit.
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Or we might also say,
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God, I know I've been
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a horrible Christian
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and I know you're really
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fed up with me.
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And I know I don't go to church.
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I don't pray.
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I don't do any of that.
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If you do this thing,
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I'm so sorry
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and if you do this thing for me,
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I promise that from now on
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I'll go to church every week.
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I'll pray.
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I'll give my money away.
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That's also a merit-based request, right?
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God, on the basis of my merit,
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on the basis of my goodness,
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please give me X, Y, Z.
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But our God, unlike other religions,
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doesn't deal with us
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according to our merit.
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I mean, if He did,
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we wouldn't have any hope.
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God deals with us
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on the basis of mercy.
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And here's the difference, right?
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Merit, and this is how
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virtually all other religions work,
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ancient or modern.
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Merit-based prayer says this.
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God, give me what I deserve
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because of my goodness.
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Give me what I deserve
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because of my goodness.
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Give me what I'm owed.
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Mercy-based prayer says,
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God, give me what I don't deserve
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because of Your goodness.
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It's completely opposite.
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And God's goodness has no limits.
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If I'm asking on the basis
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of what I've done,
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I don't have a right to ask.
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If I'm asking God
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on the basis of His goodness,
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there's no limit to what I can ask.
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There's no limit
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because His goodness is limitless.
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So there's no request
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that is too small.
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God, help me find a parking place.
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I do pray for that.
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You live in D.C.?
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I do pray for that.
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And I will tell you,
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the most consistent answer
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of prayer in my life
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is probably parking spots.
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I experience God goodness
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every day on the streets of D.C.
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But there's no request too big.
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You know, I love that.
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I love that phrase
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that comes out of the
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Harvard Business Review
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or something.
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You know, I can't remember
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who first coined it.
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Y'all probably do.
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Big, hairy, audacious goals, right?
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That we should always set
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these big, hairy, audacious goals
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for our businesses, right?
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I love the idea
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of a big, hairy, audacious prayer.
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Just the biggest, craziest prayer
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you could possibly think to pray.
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Why not?
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God's goodness is limitless.
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It doesn't mean
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He's going to give it to you.
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God doesn't give us
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everything that we ask for.
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He gives us the things
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we would ask for
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if we knew everything He knows.
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But here's the thing.
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Every time you come to God
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with your supplications
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because you know He's good,
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you honor Him.
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You honor His goodness.
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It glorifies His name
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when you come to Him
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with your supplications.
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Every single time.
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It delights Him.
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And how much more
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are these things true
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for those of us
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who know Jesus Christ?
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We have access to God
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in a way that Nehemiah
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never could have imagined.
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Jesus says,
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because of what He's done,
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when we come to God,
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we can say,
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oh Lord, oh awesome one,
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that's great,
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but Jesus says,
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no, call Him Father.
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Every time you pray,
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you're crawling
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into the arms of your Father.
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and He delights,
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He delights in that.
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When we confess our sin
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to this God
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because of Jesus,
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we're confessing to a God
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who has already forgiven that sin.
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He's already paid the price for it.
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He's already dealt with it.
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When we give thanks,
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we're giving thanks
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not only for the blessing
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and provision we see in our lives,
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but we're looking back
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and we're giving thanks
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for the cross,
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which secures our safety,
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secures our belongingness to God,
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secures our future.
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And ultimately,
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when we bring our supplications,
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we're bringing our supplications
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to a God
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who has already secured
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our eternal inheritance,
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who's already told us
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how the story's gonna end.
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So we have an access to God
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that Nehemiah
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could never even imagine.
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I thought it was extremely important
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for us to talk about prayer
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and I'm so delighted
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that Nehemiah chapter one
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brings us immediately
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into one of his prayers
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to help us do that
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because this year,
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above all else,
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my hope and my prayer
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is that this is a year
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of prayer for us.
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Prayer is always an emphasis
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in our church,
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as it should be,
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but this year,
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we're going to be calling
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all of you to join together
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to make this a year of prayer.
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First of all,
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just as a direct ask,
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I wanna ask that
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if you're a regular part
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of this church,
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that you would commit
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to praying every day
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and that part of your prayer
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would be praying
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for this community
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and praying for where we are
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and where we're going,
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that we would just be praying
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together every day.
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In addition to that,
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I'm gonna invite you
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if you would like,
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Nehemiah prays
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and he fasts
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and we didn't have time
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to get into fasting,
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but we are gonna be sending out
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some resources
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on fasting this week.
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The clergy,
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the pastoral team,
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we have been already,
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because it's been
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a challenging year
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and because we feel like
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there's a lot
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of spiritual warfare,
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we actually committed
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some time ago
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to fasting on Fridays
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from either lunch
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or breakfast and lunch
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or the whole day,
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but to fasting together
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on Fridays
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and to using that time
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to intercede
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for our church.
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So every Friday
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we fast and we pray.
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And so I would just like
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to extend the invitation
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to you,
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if you would like
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to start practicing
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a weekly fast
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and you wanna do that
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on Fridays with us,
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please join in.
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If that day doesn't work,
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but you wanna pick another day,
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that's great too.
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You don't have to do it,
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but we would like
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to call our church
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to fast and pray
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throughout this year,
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this year of preparation.
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And then there,
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in addition to that,
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there's gonna be
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monthly opportunities
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to do prayer walks
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in the Shaw neighborhood.
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So every month
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there'll be an opportunity
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to go and to walk
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not only around the building,
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but around the neighborhood
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and just praying
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for what God might do,
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praying for what God
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is already doing.
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And then we're gonna be
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sending out a prayer guide,
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sort of a prayer
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and devotional guide
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that's based on Nehemiah,
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that's gonna help us
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take some of these themes
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and pray through them together
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as a church community.
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So I hope,
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this is an encouragement to you,
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and I hope you know
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how much I've been praying
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for you.
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And I would,
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and last thing I'll say,
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I would really greatly appreciate it
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if you would pray for me
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and pray for our team
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because we feel it
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and we need it
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and we are grateful for it.
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Let's pray.
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Lord, we thank you
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for your word
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and we thank you
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for this example of Nehemiah
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and we thank you
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ultimately for Jesus,
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the true and better Nehemiah.
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Lord, and we pray
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that even as this city
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and this people,
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they were rebuilt
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through prayer.
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Lord, we pray
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that we would be rebuilt
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and reconstituted
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through prayer,
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that you would meet us
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in our prayers,
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that in our times of prayer,
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we would encounter you
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in powerful,
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maybe new ways.
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We pray for your Holy Spirit
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to bring a fresh life
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and vitality
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to our community.
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We pray that in our prayers,
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we would come to see you
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more clearly,
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come to see ourselves
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more clearly.
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Lord, that we would be convicted,
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but that also we would be
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washed clean
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with your grace
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in ways that maybe go beyond
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what we've ever experienced before.
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We pray that this would be
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a praying community,
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that this would be something
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that we're known for, Lord,
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that we are on our knees
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interceding.
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Lord, we pray that this would be
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a work of your Spirit
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and something that ultimately
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glorifies you
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and recognizes that you are the one
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upon whom we depend
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for all things.
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We pray this in your Son's
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holy name.
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Amen.
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