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Warfare in the Wilderness

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  1. Well, good morning to all of you.

  2. My name's Tommy.

  3. I'm the rector here at Church of the Advent.

  4. And so if I haven't had a chance to welcome you,

  5. hopefully we'll get a chance to at least meet

  6. and shake hands after the service.

  7. I want to make sure you know we do have a newcomer's brunch

  8. right after the service downstairs.

  9. So if you're new, even if this is your first Sunday with us,

  10. we'd love to have you.

  11. So please hang around and come downstairs

  12. and hopefully we'll get a chance to chat.

  13. Many of you are probably familiar

  14. with the story of the Titanic.

  15. A movie came out about it.

  16. If you haven't seen the movie, I'm going to spoil it,

  17. but you had your chance.

  18. But the Titanic, obviously this incredible,

  19. as it was said, feat of engineering

  20. that was celebrated as a marvel of accomplishment,

  21. human technology, and it was said it was virtually unsinkable.

  22. So when they set out on their maiden voyage,

  23. ship full of people, it wasn't even equipped

  24. with enough life rafts for half of the people,

  25. total number of passengers on board,

  26. and that's because they didn't think they would need the lifeboats

  27. because this boat was unsinkable.

  28. Despite warnings about icebergs in the water,

  29. large icebergs that could tear ships apart,

  30. they ignored the warnings.

  31. The lookout didn't even have binoculars to look out for the icebergs.

  32. The captain did not slow down,

  33. but had the ship going full speed through the water

  34. because, again, this ship was celebrated

  35. as being virtually unsinkable,

  36. nothing to worry about.

  37. Unfortunately, that was not the case.

  38. And as many of us know,

  39. a large iceberg tore a gash into the hull of the ship.

  40. Water came in.

  41. The ship eventually sank.

  42. And over 1,500 people lost their lives.

  43. And this story,

  44. and it's just one story.

  45. There are many other examples throughout history

  46. that stories like this illustrate the same thing.

  47. The danger of overconfidence.

  48. The danger of overconfidence.

  49. How when we are overconfident in a situation like that,

  50. it will invariably lead to disaster.

  51. And in the passage we're gonna be looking at this morning,

  52. 1 Corinthians chapter 10,

    1 Corinthians 10 chapter mention

  53. the first 13 verses of chapter 10,

  54. the apostle Paul is making much the same warning.

  55. He's warning us about the dangers of overconfidence

  56. when it comes to temptation.

  57. The message is essentially this,

  58. is that if we are overconfident

  59. when it comes to our ability to face and deal with temptation,

  60. that that road will invariably lead to disaster.

  61. It will lead to catastrophe.

  62. So we're gonna look at this,

  63. and in this passage,

  64. Paul gives us several ways

  65. to be prepared for temptation

  66. when it inevitably comes,

  67. so that we'll know when it comes,

  68. so that we'll know how to face it,

  69. so we'll know how to overcome it together.

  70. So we're gonna look at that.

  71. First, I'm gonna give us a little context

  72. so we know where we are,

  73. and then we're gonna look at what the apostle Paul

  74. has to say to us about overconfidence and temptation.

  75. Let's pray,

  76. and then we'll open God's word.

  77. Lord, we thank you for your word,

  78. and we thank you for this season of Lent.

  79. Lord, this is a time where,

  80. as Jeff said earlier,

  81. we reflect on Jesus' time in the wilderness,

  82. and we go there with him, Lord.

  83. We follow in his footsteps

  84. in this journey to the cross,

  85. to the tomb,

  86. to the resurrection,

  87. to the new life.

  88. Lord, we pray that you would bless us

  89. as we seek to walk with him,

  90. to journey with him.

  91. We pray that you would open these words,

  92. and through these words,

  93. we would come face to face with him

  94. and be united with him.

  95. Lord, that's our prayer,

  96. and we ask this in his holy name,

  97. in Jesus' name.

  98. Amen.

  99. Amen.

  100. So first of all,

  101. let me give you a little context.

  102. We're dropping right into the middle

  103. of a letter here,

  104. chapter 10.

  105. This is a letter that Paul wrote

  106. to the Christians in the city of Corinth.

  107. Corinth was a major urban center.

  108. It was the capital of the province,

  109. a lot like D.C.

  110. It was very cosmopolitan,

  111. and so the early Christians in Corinth

  112. had to ask a lot of the same questions

  113. that those of us who are Christians

  114. ask as we live here in D.C. in 2025.

  115. They were asking,

  116. how do we live lives of faithfulness

  117. in a major city center

  118. with such an incredibly diverse population?

  119. How do we participate in public life

  120. when we are surrounded by people

  121. who have so many different beliefs,

  122. so many different values,

  123. so many different lifestyles?

  124. How do we live lives of faithfulness

  125. in the public square?

  126. And the specific question

  127. that Paul is addressing concerns food.

  128. Should Christians eat meat

  129. that comes from animals

  130. that had previously been sacrificed

  131. as a part of pagan idol worship?

  132. That meat was widely available

  133. in the markets.

  134. When you got invited over

  135. to your friend's house to eat,

  136. a lot of times you would be eating meat

  137. that had previously been sacrificed

  138. as a part of pagan ritual,

  139. and so the Christians were asking,

  140. should we eat that meat or not?

  141. Is it okay or not?

  142. And so this starts a few chapters earlier

  143. in chapter eight.

  144. Paul is trying to address this question.

  145. Some of the Christians were overly cautious.

  146. They were teetotalers.

  147. They said, absolutely not.

  148. We need to stay far away from that.

  149. It's gonna corrupt us.

  150. It's spiritually corrupting.

  151. Others were more in the opposite end

  152. of the spectrum.

  153. They were almost brazenly overconfident.

  154. They would say, you know,

  155. Jesus has forgiven all of our sin.

  156. He's done away with all the dietary restrictions.

  157. We don't need to worry about that.

  158. We've been set free.

  159. We should enjoy our freedom.

  160. We should be able to eat whatever we want.

  161. Paul's answer is very interesting.

  162. He essentially says, not so fast.

  163. God has set us free.

  164. Technically, we can eat whatever we want.

  165. However, the freedom that you have

  166. can be easily lost if you're not careful.

  167. It has to be guarded.

  168. It has to be protected.

  169. And at the beginning of chapter 10,

  170. which is our passage this morning,

  171. Paul is wanting to make sure

  172. that these Christians have the right perspective

  173. on their situation.

  174. You need to start with the right perspective.

  175. So that's the first thing he gives us

  176. when it comes to temptation is,

  177. here's the perspective that helps us make sense

  178. of our lives and the place that we find ourselves in

  179. as a part of God's story.

  180. Paul refers them back to the time of the Exodus.

  181. Now, if you know about the book of the Exodus,

  182. it starts with God's people living as slaves in Egypt.

  183. And then God raises up Moses.

  184. And through Moses, God demonstrates his absolute power

  185. over Pharaoh and all the pagan gods of Egypt.

  186. And ultimately, he sets his people free.

  187. And God promises that one day he's going to bring them

  188. to a promised land, a home that he has prepared just for them.

  189. But here's where we need to pause

  190. if we're reading and paying attention closely

  191. and stop and sort of ask,

  192. why is Paul bringing this up here to these people?

  193. The church in Corinth was full of Gentiles.

  194. For the most part, these are not Jews.

  195. The Exodus was not their story.

  196. These are Greek and Roman people.

  197. But Paul is referring to the Israelites in the wilderness

  198. as their forefathers.

  199. He says, remember our forefathers.

  200. I don't want you to be ignorant of our fathers.

  201. So you understand what he's saying to these Gentiles.

  202. That was Israel, and that was their story.

  203. But now that you're Christians,

  204. you are part of the church.

  205. And the church is the new Israel.

  206. So that was Israel, but now you are Israel.

  207. You are God's people in the world.

  208. And so what he's doing is he's connecting that story to their story.

  209. He's saying their story is now your story

  210. by virtue of the fact that you're in Christ.

  211. You're the new Israel.

  212. And this is the perspective that Paul seeks to impart to us as his listeners.

  213. Even though we live in a different time,

  214. even though we live in a different place,

  215. spiritually speaking,

  216. we are part of the story of Israel,

  217. which means we are still very much in the wilderness.

  218. He's saying they were in the wilderness, remember.

  219. Now as you continue in the wilderness,

  220. remember what happened to them.

  221. Now this is extremely important

  222. as it relates to the topic that we are exploring this morning.

  223. What does it mean to be in the wilderness?

  224. Well, spiritually speaking,

  225. the wilderness is the space between.

  226. It is a space between freedom and fulfillment.

  227. There's a space between,

  228. and we occupy that space.

  229. That's what the Bible refers to as the wilderness.

  230. Jesus has set us free.

  231. We, those of us who are here who are Christians,

  232. Jesus has set us free from sin and death.

  233. We've been set free from slavery to sin and death.

  234. And he has promised that one day he's going to come again,

  235. and he's going to make all things new.

  236. He's going to restore the world.

  237. He's going to bring the heavens and the earth together.

  238. But he has not fulfilled that promise yet.

  239. That is still something that we're waiting for.

  240. And so we occupy this space between having been set free,

  241. freedom,

  242. and the fulfillment that one day God will make all things new.

  243. So until that day comes,

  244. we are in the spiritual wilderness,

  245. which means the world is still broken.

  246. I mean, most people,

  247. you don't have to try hard to convince them

  248. that the world is broken.

  249. I was just having lunch with somebody this week,

  250. and we were talking about,

  251. we're both very concerned about the state of things.

  252. Right now in the world,

  253. the state of our country right now,

  254. we're very,

  255. lots of concerns,

  256. lots of anxiety.

  257. We know the world is still broken.

  258. We still have desires and longings that go unmet.

  259. We still have to contend with uncertainty,

  260. and grief,

  261. and loss,

  262. and conflict,

  263. and decay,

  264. and breakdown.

  265. In other words,

  266. being in the wilderness means this world as it is,

  267. is not our home.

  268. And that's extremely important to remember.

  269. It's crucial for us to keep that perspective

  270. if we want to make sense of our lives.

  271. What this means is that,

  272. you know,

  273. let's just consider some examples here.

  274. When it comes to our work,

  275. we should all try to find stable careers,

  276. stable work,

  277. and hopefully that work,

  278. those of us who feel called to work outside the home,

  279. seeking paid work,

  280. hopefully,

  281. God willing,

  282. that work is meaningful,

  283. and we enjoy it,

  284. and it aligns with our gifts,

  285. and aptitudes,

  286. and abilities.

  287. But no career is ever going to satisfy

  288. our desire for meaning and purpose completely.

  289. Because this is the wilderness.

  290. It's not our home.

  291. We shouldn't expect that.

  292. If you're called to marriage,

  293. you should look for someone who shares your faith

  294. and your values,

  295. someone with whom I think maybe this is one of the most important things,

  296. someone with whom you can develop a deep,

  297. lasting friendship.

  298. Very important.

  299. But even the best marriage is not going to fulfill you.

  300. There's going to be stretches in your marriage,

  301. even if it's the best marriage,

  302. where you still feel lonely.

  303. There's going to be maybe seasons where you wish that you weren't married.

  304. There might be moments here and there

  305. where you wish you were married to somebody else.

  306. There might be moments where you feel like,

  307. I have no idea who this person is that I married.

  308. I thought I knew them, right?

  309. That is to be expected.

  310. It's one of the things we do in premarital counseling.

  311. As we help people understand,

  312. it's very important to have realistic expectations about marriage.

  313. This is the wilderness.

  314. This is not our home.

  315. So there's no person out there

  316. who's going to perfectly fulfill and complete you.

  317. The wilderness is not the place

  318. where God promises to fulfill

  319. all of our longings and desires.

  320. That's going to happen when we're home.

  321. And the wilderness is the place

  322. where God prepares his people for their home.

  323. The wilderness is not a place of fulfillment

  324. and happiness and contentment.

  325. The wilderness is a place of profound transformation.

  326. It's a place where God works

  327. in the hearts and lives of his people.

  328. Now, sometimes Christians forget this.

  329. There are famous, popular Christian leaders out there

  330. who make it sound as though when you come to Jesus,

  331. everything's going to get better.

  332. All of your longings and needs

  333. are going to be satisfied in him.

  334. Christianity is about living your best life now.

  335. It's a very popular message,

  336. but if you believe that and buy into it,

  337. you're setting yourself up

  338. for a lot of disillusionment and disappointment.

  339. One day that's going to be true.

  340. We're going to be satisfied in Christ,

  341. but not yet.

  342. We're still in the wilderness.

  343. Now, here's why this is so important.

  344. This perspective is crucial

  345. because we need it to make sense of our lives.

  346. This world is not our home.

  347. With this reality comes a warning.

  348. This is the second piece that Paul gives us.

  349. You have the right perspective.

  350. We're in the wilderness.

  351. With that comes a warning.

  352. The spiritual wilderness is a dangerous place.

  353. It is a dangerous place

  354. because the fact that we have unmet needs and longings,

  355. the fact that this is a place of struggle and hardship

  356. makes us extremely vulnerable to temptation.

  357. When you're living your life

  358. with lots of unmet needs and longings,

  359. it makes you extremely vulnerable

  360. to all manner of temptation to sin.

  361. And Paul essentially makes this point.

  362. He says, listen, I don't want you to be ignorant.

  363. By the way, when Paul says,

  364. I do not want you to be ignorant, brothers,

  365. he typically, it's a nicer way of saying,

  366. I think you're pretty ignorant of this.

  367. And so he says, I don't want you to be ignorant

  368. about what happened to Israel.

  369. Think about their story.

  370. And he's pointing back and he's saying,

  371. listen, they had every advantage you have.

  372. They had every advantage you have.

  373. And it didn't make any difference.

  374. Look what happened to them.

  375. So he's saying, just like you,

  376. God set them free from slavery.

  377. He, in a very provocative way, says,

  378. just like you, they had their own versions

  379. of baptism in the Lord's Supper.

  380. They passed through the Red Sea.

  381. They were in covenant relationship

  382. with God through Moses,

  383. the covenant that God had established through Moses.

  384. Just like you, God sustained them

  385. with spiritual food and spiritual drink.

  386. Obviously not the bread and wine that we have here,

  387. but not the bread and wine that we have here.

  388. In some way, Paul is connecting this meal

  389. back to God's provision for them in the wilderness.

  390. God provided for you.

  391. He gave you manna.

  392. He gave you quail.

  393. He made water spring out of the rocks for you.

  394. And just like you, in a manner of speaking,

  395. Christ was with them, not in body, but in spirit.

  396. Christ was with them.

  397. The presence of God was with them,

  398. sustaining them, blessing them, providing for them.

  399. Nevertheless, he says, most of them

  400. were overthrown in the wilderness.

  401. Now, that word that he uses, overthrown,

  402. actually translates more laid low.

  403. The image that Paul is giving us is,

  404. imagine a desert landscape littered with bodies.

  405. There's bodies everywhere you look.

  406. Most of them were laid low in the dust.

  407. Now, why did this happen?

  408. Well, Paul cites multiple examples of times

  409. when the people of Israel were lured and tempted

  410. away from God into sin and idolatry.

  411. Through the Old Testament, in places like Exodus

  412. and the Psalms, you see these references

  413. to being lured and enticed.

  414. And one of the words that you see showing up again and again

  415. around the sin of the people of Israel

  416. is the word ensnared.

  417. They became ensnared by various things.

  418. Now, what has ensnared me?

  419. When I was a kid, my uncle told me

  420. that if I wanted to catch a bird,

  421. what I had to do was to sneak up behind the bird,

  422. maybe you've heard this,

  423. and to pour a little salt on its tail.

  424. Anybody heard this?

  425. Maybe it's just my family.

  426. Sneak up behind the bird, pour salt on its tail,

  427. and then my uncle said,

  428. well, salt will mean that the bird can't fly,

  429. and then you can catch the bird.

  430. So I put on camouflage,

  431. and I went out in the woods behind our house,

  432. and I spent hours, if I'm honest, days,

  433. belly crawling around the woods

  434. with a salt shaker in my hand,

  435. trying to sneak up on birds.

  436. Now, maybe I'm not the brightest bulb in the box,

  437. but I eventually realized

  438. that's not how you catch a bird.

  439. My uncle was a bit of a joke.

  440. It turns out, if you want to catch a bird,

  441. there's a better way to do it.

  442. You need a snare.

  443. There's a reference in the Bible

  444. to the fowler's snare.

  445. A snare is essentially a loop of wire or string.

  446. Typically, it has a slipknot

  447. so that it'll tighten up,

  448. and it's attached to a bent branch

  449. or a bent tree or some other spring mechanism.

  450. Maybe the boys will learn how to do this in trail life.

  451. Maybe you've already learned how to do this in trail life,

  452. but you lay the loop down,

  453. and you kind of maybe put some leaves over it

  454. so that you don't really notice it,

  455. and then you cover it with seed.

  456. You cover it with whatever the food is

  457. that the animal that you're trying to catch,

  458. and so the animal will come along,

  459. the bird will come along,

  460. and it becomes so focused on the food

  461. laying there in a nice pile on the ground

  462. that it doesn't notice the snare

  463. until it starts to eat,

  464. and it springs the trap,

  465. and it gets caught,

  466. and then it can't fly away,

  467. and it just has to hang there

  468. waiting to be killed and eaten.

  469. That's the fowler's snare.

  470. And this, my friends,

  471. is how the Bible talks about temptation.

  472. And the Apostle James actually tells us how it works.

  473. He says,

  474. each person is tempted

  475. when he is lured and enticed.

  476. Again, those Greek words

  477. are actually hunting and fishing terms.

  478. He says,

  479. lured and enticed by his own desire.

  480. Then desire, when it is conceived,

  481. gives birth to sin.

  482. And sin, when it is fully grown,

  483. brings forth death.

  484. So he's painting a picture

  485. of what it looks like

  486. to be lured and enticed

  487. until we become ensnared.

  488. You start off with a need or a desire.

  489. It could be hunger or sexual longing

  490. or loneliness

  491. or the desire for safety or comfort.

  492. And these desires

  493. are not inherently evil on their own.

  494. They're just desires.

  495. It's a part of what it means

  496. to be a human being

  497. living in the wilderness.

  498. We have desires.

  499. And so we have this desire,

  500. and then we come across,

  501. either in person

  502. or in our own imagination,

  503. that pile of food.

  504. You know,

  505. some way of satisfying that desire.

  506. And we come across

  507. a way of satisfying that desire

  508. that runs contrary to God's will.

  509. Right?

  510. And you know in your mind

  511. that this God

  512. does not want me to do this,

  513. but it looks so good.

  514. It looks so satisfying.

  515. It's just right there.

  516. It would be so easy to take.

  517. Right?

  518. That's like the bird seed

  519. being spread over the ground.

  520. And at this point,

  521. by the way,

  522. there's still no sin.

  523. You've noticed it.

  524. It's there.

  525. You feel the desire.

  526. That would be a possibility for you.

  527. But at this point,

  528. there's still no sin.

  529. But then at some point,

  530. James says,

  531. we allow ourselves

  532. to be lured

  533. and enticed.

  534. We sort of give ourselves

  535. to that longing.

  536. We begin to imagine

  537. what it would be like

  538. to have that thing.

  539. We begin to fantasize,

  540. to indulge the desire,

  541. to nurse it,

  542. to kindle the craving.

  543. So this is like the hungry bird.

  544. We're lured closer and closer,

  545. and then the trap is sprung,

  546. and before we know it,

  547. at some point along the way,

  548. we went from just beginning

  549. to give ourselves

  550. to that desire

  551. to before we know it,

  552. we're ensnared,

  553. we're dangling,

  554. waiting to be killed

  555. and eaten by,

  556. as he references at one point,

  557. the destroyer,

  558. the evil one

  559. who is behind all of this.

  560. So, you know,

  561. an example of this,

  562. think of a classic example

  563. of David out on the roof

  564. seeing Bathsheba,

  565. who's married to

  566. one of his best friends, Uriah.

  567. David is out there,

  568. a lot of commentators say,

  569. why is he out on the roof?

  570. What's he doing out on the roof?

  571. Was he hoping

  572. he might see something?

  573. And he's out there,

  574. and he's looking around,

  575. sees Bathsheba.

  576. At this point,

  577. there's no sin,

  578. but instead of turning away,

  579. instead of immediately

  580. turning away

  581. and going back in,

  582. saying,

  583. that's,

  584. I shouldn't be doing that,

  585. he continues to look.

  586. He begins to fantasize

  587. about being with her,

  588. and then he summons her,

  589. and then he sleeps with her,

  590. and he's ensnared.

  591. And then that just leads

  592. to more and more and more sin.

  593. Ultimately,

  594. this leads to David

  595. arranging to have

  596. his best friend Uriah killed

  597. in order to cover up the affair,

  598. the affair that,

  599. by the way,

  600. everybody at this point

  601. already knows about.

  602. So here's what Paul is saying.

  603. He says,

  604. when we're still

  605. in the wilderness,

  606. which means we have

  607. all of these unmet desires

  608. and longings,

  609. the wilderness,

  610. we have to recognize,

  611. is a very dangerous place.

  612. And it makes us

  613. extremely vulnerable

  614. to temptation.

  615. You're going along,

  616. and there are all kinds

  617. of promises

  618. of things that will fulfill

  619. these various desires.

  620. And he says,

  621. these are snares,

  622. and you have to recognize them

  623. for what they are.

  624. It may not be obvious to you,

  625. but they're there.

  626. Right?

  627. Just to give one more example,

  628. maybe we,

  629. you know,

  630. what are some of the things

  631. we long for?

  632. A success,

  633. beauty,

  634. talent,

  635. influence,

  636. normal human desires.

  637. But then you start

  638. comparing yourself.

  639. Right?

  640. You have this kind of temptation

  641. to comparison.

  642. And maybe it's online,

  643. maybe it's just your friends,

  644. the people you know,

  645. your coworkers,

  646. people who seem to be advancing

  647. more quickly than you,

  648. or you have all this instability

  649. in your job,

  650. and they have this rock-solid career,

  651. or you don't have a family,

  652. and they have the family

  653. that you want,

  654. or they're off having

  655. these fun adventures

  656. while you're raising

  657. these young kids,

  658. or whatever it may be,

  659. you start comparing yourself

  660. to their life.

  661. And they seem to have

  662. more of the things

  663. that you want.

  664. And then you allow yourself

  665. to be lured and enticed

  666. into jealousy and envy.

  667. And before you know it,

  668. your mind is looping

  669. on these things,

  670. and before you know it,

  671. you're ensnared

  672. by jealousy and envy.

  673. And what you begin to notice

  674. is at that point,

  675. the joy and the gratitude

  676. are slowly strangled

  677. out of your life.

  678. The slipknot of envy

  679. strangles all of the gratitude

  680. out of your life.

  681. You no longer focus

  682. on what you have,

  683. on the ways that you've been blessed

  684. or provided for.

  685. You're only focusing

  686. on what you lack,

  687. on what you don't have.

  688. And then over time,

  689. joy and gratitude

  690. are replaced slowly

  691. by bitterness and resentment.

  692. And sometimes you may even

  693. get to the point

  694. where you're mentally

  695. tearing down

  696. or invalidating

  697. the good things

  698. in somebody else's life

  699. to make them seem smaller,

  700. to make yourself feel bigger.

  701. See, there are countless examples

  702. that we could give

  703. when it comes to lust

  704. or anger

  705. or bitterness

  706. or envy

  707. or all of the things

  708. that we struggle with.

  709. But here's the warning.

  710. He pulls it together

  711. in verse 12.

  712. Let anyone who thinks

  713. that he stands

  714. take heed

  715. lest he fall.

  716. In other words,

  717. do not underestimate

  718. the danger of temptation

  719. in the wilderness

  720. and do not overestimate

  721. your ability to resist it.

  722. Do not underestimate

  723. the danger of it

  724. and do not overestimate

  725. your ability to resist it.

  726. The good news is

  727. Paul is not about

  728. to leave us high and dry.

  729. That's not the end

  730. of the passage.

  731. There is tremendous comfort

  732. to be found

  733. in this passage as well.

  734. So we have perspective.

  735. We have a warning.

  736. Now the Apostle Paul

  737. leaves us

  738. with some tremendous comfort.

  739. We have three great resources

  740. to help us live lives

  741. of faithfulness

  742. in the wilderness

  743. so that we don't end up

  744. like Israel.

  745. The first

  746. is we have the Scriptures.

  747. The Apostle Paul says

  748. in verse 11,

  749. now these things happen to them

  750. as an example

  751. but they were written down

  752. for our instruction.

  753. He says,

  754. thank God we have

  755. all of this written down

  756. and we can go back to it

  757. and learn from it.

  758. The point is this,

  759. the more that we read

  760. and understand

  761. and apply Scripture

  762. to our lives,

  763. one of the things

  764. that happens is

  765. the more we do that,

  766. the more you begin

  767. to understand

  768. your own nature.

  769. You begin to understand

  770. your own vulnerabilities.

  771. You begin to understand

  772. and see more clearly

  773. your own weaknesses.

  774. As we are reading Scripture,

  775. we should always be

  776. asking the question,

  777. is God saying this to me?

  778. Is God talking about me?

  779. Is God wanting me

  780. to hear this

  781. for any particular reason?

  782. There should always

  783. be a question,

  784. how is God speaking to me?

  785. What is God trying

  786. to tell me through this?

  787. The more we do that,

  788. the more we understand ourselves,

  789. the more prepared

  790. we're going to be

  791. for life in the wilderness.

  792. You know,

  793. the great Harvard psychiatrist,

  794. Robert Coles,

  795. he spent his entire career

  796. studying human behavior.

  797. Entire career

  798. at one of the greatest

  799. universities in the world

  800. and here's what he says.

  801. Nothing I have discovered

  802. about the makeup

  803. of human beings

  804. contradicts in any way

  805. what I've learned

  806. from Scripture.

  807. Anything that I can say

  808. as a result of my research

  809. into human behavior

  810. is a mere footnote

  811. to those lives

  812. in the Old and New Testament.

  813. I mean,

  814. that's amazing,

  815. right?

  816. We have in the Scripture

  817. the best diagnosis,

  818. the best understanding

  819. of the human condition

  820. available.

  821. And the more we internalize it,

  822. the more prepared

  823. we're going to be.

  824. So we have the Scriptures.

  825. Number two,

  826. we have community.

  827. We have community.

  828. Verse 13

  829. is tremendously comforting.

  830. No temptation

  831. has overtaken you

  832. that is not common to man.

  833. That's an amazing

  834. thing to say.

  835. You're not going to face

  836. anything

  837. that the people around you

  838. have not faced.

  839. God's not going to single you out

  840. and say,

  841. I'm going to pour some temptation

  842. on this person.

  843. I'm going to make it

  844. extra hard for them.

  845. He says,

  846. everything that you experience,

  847. everything that you go through,

  848. it's all common

  849. to the people around you.

  850. There are people

  851. who know what it's like.

  852. Now,

  853. on the surface,

  854. our lives may look different,

  855. but underneath,

  856. we all struggle

  857. with the same temptations.

  858. And these are the same struggles

  859. that human beings

  860. have faced throughout history,

  861. which means,

  862. and here's the good news,

  863. we can help.

  864. We should help one another.

  865. It means this,

  866. whatever you're going through

  867. right now,

  868. whatever you're wrestling with,

  869. whatever's bubbling in your mind

  870. as you're sitting here right now

  871. listening to this,

  872. chances are

  873. there are people in this room

  874. who either have gone through that,

  875. are going through it right now

  876. at the same time you are,

  877. or will go through it.

  878. We have no hope

  879. of overcoming temptation

  880. if we try to go it alone.

  881. So you need at least

  882. a few people in your life

  883. who know you well enough

  884. to be able to step in

  885. when you need help,

  886. who know you well enough

  887. to know when they might need

  888. to step in

  889. even when you're not asking for help.

  890. People you're close enough with

  891. that they know

  892. they have permission

  893. to speak into your life.

  894. They don't have to dance around

  895. and say,

  896. hey,

  897. I gotta bring something up,

  898. it's gonna be hard,

  899. are you gonna be okay,

  900. is it gonna jeopardize

  901. our friendship,

  902. and I don't wanna offend you,

  903. that you don't have to do

  904. any of that dancing around.

  905. You can say,

  906. we need to talk,

  907. I got something

  908. I wanna bring up.

  909. Take it or leave it,

  910. pray about it,

  911. but I'm concerned.

  912. And you say,

  913. okay,

  914. that's what friends do.

  915. You know,

  916. there's that great story

  917. from Homer's Odyssey

  918. where Odysseus is warned

  919. about the power

  920. of the siren song.

  921. He's warned

  922. that if he gets too close

  923. and he hears the song,

  924. he's gonna go mad

  925. with desire

  926. and he's gonna

  927. run his ship

  928. into the rocks

  929. and like so many

  930. other unfortunate sailors,

  931. they will all die at sea.

  932. So he tells his men,

  933. before we get too close

  934. to the sirens,

  935. I want you to plug your ears

  936. with beeswax,

  937. but I wanna hear

  938. the siren song,

  939. but in order to keep us safe,

  940. I want you to lash me

  941. to the mast

  942. so that when I hear

  943. the song of the sirens,

  944. no matter what I say,

  945. no matter how much

  946. I threaten you,

  947. do not let me go

  948. until we're clear

  949. of their song.

  950. And the men are good men

  951. and they do exactly

  952. what he says

  953. and sure enough,

  954. he's lashed to the mast

  955. and they get close

  956. and he begins to hear the song

  957. and he immediately

  958. loses his mind

  959. and he starts begging them

  960. to release them

  961. and he's begging them

  962. and pleading with them

  963. to go to the sirens,

  964. to go to the rocks,

  965. but his men are good men

  966. and they don't listen to him

  967. and instead,

  968. they tie him even tighter

  969. to the mast

  970. until they're free of the song

  971. and then he regains his mind.

  972. And of course,

  973. the reason he tells them

  974. to do that

  975. is because he knows

  976. that there's probably

  977. gonna come a point

  978. where he loses his mind,

  979. he's not in his right mind

  980. and at that point,

  981. he needs them to step in.

  982. The point is,

  983. we need people like that

  984. in our lives

  985. who can tie us to the mast

  986. when necessary.

  987. You know,

  988. when you're not

  989. when you've just had

  990. a massive

  991. just guts out

  992. on the floor fight

  993. and you're like,

  994. I am done,

  995. I am out of here,

  996. I'm through this marriage,

  997. I'm never going back,

  998. I can't do it another day,

  999. I'm out of here.

  1000. You need somebody

  1001. to tie you to the mast.

  1002. Or when you're

  1003. in an incredibly abusive,

  1004. harmful relationship

  1005. and you're like,

  1006. I can change this person,

  1007. I can save this relationship,

  1008. I can hang in there

  1009. for one more day,

  1010. I can endure it,

  1011. it's not that bad.

  1012. Maybe you need

  1013. to get out of the relationship

  1014. and you need somebody

  1015. to tie you to the mast

  1016. and say,

  1017. no,

  1018. it's time for you to leave.

  1019. When you're ready

  1020. to throw your life away

  1021. for some stupid obsession

  1022. that doesn't seem stupid

  1023. at the time

  1024. because you've lost your mind,

  1025. you need somebody

  1026. to tie you to the mast,

  1027. right?

  1028. There are times

  1029. when you need somebody

  1030. to step in your life

  1031. and say,

  1032. no,

  1033. I'm gonna tie this down tighter

  1034. until you come back

  1035. to your senses.

  1036. We need people like that

  1037. in our lives.

  1038. So the next time

  1039. you're going on a work trip

  1040. and you know

  1041. that you tend to struggle

  1042. with lust

  1043. and there's a chance

  1044. that you might wanna

  1045. go out and meet somebody

  1046. because you're in a place

  1047. where nobody knows you

  1048. and there's no accountability,

  1049. line up a couple of people

  1050. to talk to on the phone

  1051. while you're on that trip.

  1052. You know,

  1053. if you tend

  1054. towards self-pity

  1055. and adopting

  1056. a victim posture,

  1057. deputize a couple

  1058. of people

  1059. to help you notice

  1060. when you're going

  1061. down that road

  1062. of self-pity

  1063. so they can say,

  1064. hey,

  1065. is there anything

  1066. that you should

  1067. take responsibility

  1068. for here

  1069. or is everything

  1070. somebody else's fault?

  1071. Maybe,

  1072. and we all have

  1073. different tendencies.

  1074. You need people

  1075. who know those tendencies

  1076. so they can step in

  1077. when they need to step in

  1078. and we do this precisely

  1079. because we know

  1080. that sometimes

  1081. we're not gonna be

  1082. in our right mind.

  1083. So these are the resources

  1084. we have.

  1085. We have scripture,

  1086. we have community.

  1087. Lastly,

  1088. we have God's amazing promise

  1089. in this passage.

  1090. Verse 13,

  1091. God is faithful

  1092. and he will not let you

  1093. be tempted

  1094. beyond your ability

  1095. but with the temptation

  1096. he will also provide

  1097. the way of escape

  1098. that you may be able

  1099. to endure it.

  1100. This means we can never say,

  1101. you know,

  1102. I would have resisted

  1103. but God just poured it

  1104. on too heavy.

  1105. That in fact,

  1106. God says,

  1107. you're never gonna be

  1108. in a place

  1109. where there is not

  1110. some way out

  1111. if you choose it.

  1112. I'm never gonna put you

  1113. in a situation

  1114. where there is not

  1115. some way out

  1116. if you're willing

  1117. to choose it.

  1118. He always gives us

  1119. a way out.

  1120. So God always gives us

  1121. a way to persevere

  1122. in that situation

  1123. without having to resort

  1124. to sin.

  1125. He never puts us

  1126. in a position

  1127. where we have to sin,

  1128. where there's no other way.

  1129. In other words,

  1130. victory over temptation

  1131. is possible

  1132. in this life.

  1133. And I think this is

  1134. an extremely important

  1135. note to end on

  1136. because up until now,

  1137. I think it's been a lot

  1138. of hard stuff to hear.

  1139. But it ends with this promise

  1140. that actually victory

  1141. over temptation

  1142. is possible.

  1143. We should expect

  1144. to have victory

  1145. in this life.

  1146. And this is something

  1147. that we always need to hear.

  1148. But the reason

  1149. that victory is possible

  1150. is ultimately

  1151. because God is faithful.

  1152. It's because God is faithful.

  1153. God is not a spectator

  1154. waiting to see

  1155. if we're gonna screw up again.

  1156. God is our greatest ally

  1157. in the fight.

  1158. God is for us.

  1159. He's not sitting there

  1160. just saying,

  1161. ah, there's no way

  1162. they're gonna make it.

  1163. He's with us.

  1164. He's for us.

  1165. He wants us to succeed.

  1166. And it means

  1167. we can always count

  1168. on his help.

  1169. All we need to do

  1170. is ask.

  1171. That's why when people

  1172. are recovering from addiction,

  1173. one of the first things

  1174. they learn is

  1175. they're powerless.

  1176. The first steps

  1177. are about admitting

  1178. that you're completely powerless.

  1179. You can't do it

  1180. on your own

  1181. and you need God

  1182. in order to be able

  1183. to do anything.

  1184. Right?

  1185. The first thing

  1186. you need to do

  1187. is to learn

  1188. how to cry out to God

  1189. for help.

  1190. You just have to ask.

  1191. And the reason

  1192. that we know

  1193. that God is faithful

  1194. is because we see this

  1195. embodied in Jesus Christ.

  1196. Right?

  1197. we need only look to Jesus

  1198. who was tempted

  1199. in every way

  1200. as we are.

  1201. We see Jesus

  1202. going into the wilderness

  1203. enduring and facing

  1204. all manner of temptation.

  1205. And you know

  1206. the temptation

  1207. didn't end

  1208. after 40 days.

  1209. It continued

  1210. all the way through

  1211. the Garden of Gethsemane

  1212. and the desire

  1213. to not drink that cup

  1214. all the way

  1215. through the cross.

  1216. At any moment

  1217. he could have gotten down

  1218. but he chose to remain.

  1219. The author of Hebrews says

  1220. Jesus was tempted

  1221. in every way

  1222. as we are

  1223. and yet was without sin.

  1224. And through his death

  1225. on the cross

  1226. Jesus defeated sin and death

  1227. as we said earlier

  1228. so that one day

  1229. we will be free

  1230. from temptation and sin.

  1231. We won't have to contend

  1232. with this anymore.

  1233. This is just

  1234. a light momentary affliction

  1235. compared to that life.

  1236. But because of the cross

  1237. even when we do fail

  1238. even when we do find ourselves

  1239. ensnared by sin

  1240. we know that God

  1241. will always forgive us.

  1242. That God will always

  1243. restore us.

  1244. In the words of Psalm 103

  1245. and for wilderness people

  1246. who are going to fail

  1247. as often as we succeed

  1248. we need words like this

  1249. again and again and again.

  1250. God is the one

  1251. who forgives

  1252. all your iniquity.

  1253. Who heals

  1254. all your diseases.

  1255. Who redeems

  1256. your life from the pit.

  1257. Who crowns you

  1258. with steadfast love

  1259. and mercy.

  1260. Who satisfies you

  1261. with good

  1262. so that your youth

  1263. is renewed

  1264. like the eagles.

  1265. Let's pray.

  1266. Lord what a great comfort

  1267. it is to know

  1268. that you are a God

  1269. who desires our freedom.

  1270. Who has given us

  1271. that freedom.

  1272. Who protects us

  1273. and seeks to help

  1274. safeguard that freedom.

  1275. And who will one day

  1276. fulfill your promise

  1277. to fulfill

  1278. and restore us

  1279. and make all things new.

  1280. and we pray Lord

  1281. that in the strength

  1282. of your Holy Spirit

  1283. Lord

  1284. and through the finished work

  1285. of your son Jesus Christ

  1286. that you would give us

  1287. the strength

  1288. to live faithfully

  1289. here and now.

  1290. Lord between

  1291. between the cross

  1292. and the new creation.

  1293. We pray that you would

  1294. give us the strength

  1295. especially Lord

  1296. that we now lift up

  1297. those who are

  1298. particularly struggling

  1299. right now.

  1300. Lord either because of

  1301. stress and anxiety

  1302. or grief

  1303. related to their

  1304. to their work

  1305. to their job

  1306. to their finances.

  1307. Lord people who are

  1308. overwhelmed by despair

  1309. or hopelessness.

  1310. People who are caught

  1311. in the trap

  1312. of addiction.

  1313. Lord

  1314. people who are

  1315. on the edge

  1316. of hopelessness.

  1317. People who are

  1318. struggling in their

  1319. vocation of singleness.

  1320. Struggling in their

  1321. vocation of marriage.

  1322. Struggling in their

  1323. vocation of parenting.

  1324. Struggling in their

  1325. desire to be parents.

  1326. Lord struggling

  1327. in whatever way

  1328. we are struggling now

  1329. Lord we lift

  1330. we lift these struggles

  1331. up to you.

  1332. We cry out

  1333. just as we said

  1334. and we ask that you

  1335. would you would

  1336. give us the comfort

  1337. of your presence.

  1338. Remind us of your

  1339. faithfulness.

  1340. Lord empower us

  1341. and strengthen us

  1342. with your Holy Spirit

  1343. to stand.

  1344. Lord if there are

  1345. people here who need

  1346. others in their life

  1347. who need that kind

  1348. of community that

  1349. we are talking about

  1350. Lord I pray that you

  1351. would bring those

  1352. people to mind now.

  1353. I pray that you

  1354. would open people's

  1355. hearts to one another.

  1356. That we would be

  1357. willing to share

  1358. our struggles and

  1359. burdens and bear

  1360. them together.

  1361. Lord we lift all

  1362. of this up to you

  1363. and ask this

  1364. in Jesus' name.

  1365. Amen.