Sermon
Warfare in the Wilderness
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Well, good morning to all of you.
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My name's Tommy.
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I'm the rector here at Church of the Advent.
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And so if I haven't had a chance to welcome you,
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hopefully we'll get a chance to at least meet
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and shake hands after the service.
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I want to make sure you know we do have a newcomer's brunch
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right after the service downstairs.
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So if you're new, even if this is your first Sunday with us,
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we'd love to have you.
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So please hang around and come downstairs
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and hopefully we'll get a chance to chat.
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Many of you are probably familiar
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with the story of the Titanic.
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A movie came out about it.
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If you haven't seen the movie, I'm going to spoil it,
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but you had your chance.
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But the Titanic, obviously this incredible,
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as it was said, feat of engineering
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that was celebrated as a marvel of accomplishment,
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human technology, and it was said it was virtually unsinkable.
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So when they set out on their maiden voyage,
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ship full of people, it wasn't even equipped
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with enough life rafts for half of the people,
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total number of passengers on board,
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and that's because they didn't think they would need the lifeboats
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because this boat was unsinkable.
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Despite warnings about icebergs in the water,
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large icebergs that could tear ships apart,
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they ignored the warnings.
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The lookout didn't even have binoculars to look out for the icebergs.
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The captain did not slow down,
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but had the ship going full speed through the water
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because, again, this ship was celebrated
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as being virtually unsinkable,
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nothing to worry about.
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Unfortunately, that was not the case.
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And as many of us know,
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a large iceberg tore a gash into the hull of the ship.
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Water came in.
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The ship eventually sank.
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And over 1,500 people lost their lives.
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And this story,
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and it's just one story.
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There are many other examples throughout history
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that stories like this illustrate the same thing.
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The danger of overconfidence.
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The danger of overconfidence.
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How when we are overconfident in a situation like that,
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it will invariably lead to disaster.
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And in the passage we're gonna be looking at this morning,
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1 Corinthians chapter 10,
1 Corinthians 10 chapter mention
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the first 13 verses of chapter 10,
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the apostle Paul is making much the same warning.
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He's warning us about the dangers of overconfidence
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when it comes to temptation.
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The message is essentially this,
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is that if we are overconfident
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when it comes to our ability to face and deal with temptation,
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that that road will invariably lead to disaster.
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It will lead to catastrophe.
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So we're gonna look at this,
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and in this passage,
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Paul gives us several ways
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to be prepared for temptation
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when it inevitably comes,
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so that we'll know when it comes,
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so that we'll know how to face it,
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so we'll know how to overcome it together.
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So we're gonna look at that.
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First, I'm gonna give us a little context
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so we know where we are,
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and then we're gonna look at what the apostle Paul
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has to say to us about overconfidence and temptation.
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Let's pray,
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and then we'll open God's word.
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Lord, we thank you for your word,
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and we thank you for this season of Lent.
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Lord, this is a time where,
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as Jeff said earlier,
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we reflect on Jesus' time in the wilderness,
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and we go there with him, Lord.
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We follow in his footsteps
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in this journey to the cross,
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to the tomb,
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to the resurrection,
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to the new life.
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Lord, we pray that you would bless us
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as we seek to walk with him,
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to journey with him.
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We pray that you would open these words,
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and through these words,
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we would come face to face with him
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and be united with him.
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Lord, that's our prayer,
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and we ask this in his holy name,
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in Jesus' name.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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So first of all,
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let me give you a little context.
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We're dropping right into the middle
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of a letter here,
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chapter 10.
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This is a letter that Paul wrote
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to the Christians in the city of Corinth.
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Corinth was a major urban center.
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It was the capital of the province,
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a lot like D.C.
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It was very cosmopolitan,
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and so the early Christians in Corinth
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had to ask a lot of the same questions
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that those of us who are Christians
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ask as we live here in D.C. in 2025.
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They were asking,
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how do we live lives of faithfulness
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in a major city center
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with such an incredibly diverse population?
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How do we participate in public life
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when we are surrounded by people
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who have so many different beliefs,
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so many different values,
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so many different lifestyles?
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How do we live lives of faithfulness
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in the public square?
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And the specific question
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that Paul is addressing concerns food.
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Should Christians eat meat
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that comes from animals
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that had previously been sacrificed
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as a part of pagan idol worship?
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That meat was widely available
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in the markets.
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When you got invited over
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to your friend's house to eat,
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a lot of times you would be eating meat
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that had previously been sacrificed
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as a part of pagan ritual,
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and so the Christians were asking,
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should we eat that meat or not?
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Is it okay or not?
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And so this starts a few chapters earlier
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in chapter eight.
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Paul is trying to address this question.
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Some of the Christians were overly cautious.
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They were teetotalers.
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They said, absolutely not.
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We need to stay far away from that.
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It's gonna corrupt us.
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It's spiritually corrupting.
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Others were more in the opposite end
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of the spectrum.
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They were almost brazenly overconfident.
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They would say, you know,
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Jesus has forgiven all of our sin.
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He's done away with all the dietary restrictions.
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We don't need to worry about that.
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We've been set free.
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We should enjoy our freedom.
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We should be able to eat whatever we want.
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Paul's answer is very interesting.
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He essentially says, not so fast.
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God has set us free.
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Technically, we can eat whatever we want.
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However, the freedom that you have
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can be easily lost if you're not careful.
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It has to be guarded.
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It has to be protected.
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And at the beginning of chapter 10,
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which is our passage this morning,
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Paul is wanting to make sure
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that these Christians have the right perspective
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on their situation.
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You need to start with the right perspective.
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So that's the first thing he gives us
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when it comes to temptation is,
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here's the perspective that helps us make sense
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of our lives and the place that we find ourselves in
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as a part of God's story.
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Paul refers them back to the time of the Exodus.
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Now, if you know about the book of the Exodus,
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it starts with God's people living as slaves in Egypt.
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And then God raises up Moses.
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And through Moses, God demonstrates his absolute power
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over Pharaoh and all the pagan gods of Egypt.
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And ultimately, he sets his people free.
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And God promises that one day he's going to bring them
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to a promised land, a home that he has prepared just for them.
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But here's where we need to pause
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if we're reading and paying attention closely
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and stop and sort of ask,
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why is Paul bringing this up here to these people?
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The church in Corinth was full of Gentiles.
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For the most part, these are not Jews.
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The Exodus was not their story.
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These are Greek and Roman people.
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But Paul is referring to the Israelites in the wilderness
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as their forefathers.
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He says, remember our forefathers.
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I don't want you to be ignorant of our fathers.
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So you understand what he's saying to these Gentiles.
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That was Israel, and that was their story.
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But now that you're Christians,
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you are part of the church.
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And the church is the new Israel.
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So that was Israel, but now you are Israel.
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You are God's people in the world.
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And so what he's doing is he's connecting that story to their story.
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He's saying their story is now your story
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by virtue of the fact that you're in Christ.
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You're the new Israel.
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And this is the perspective that Paul seeks to impart to us as his listeners.
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Even though we live in a different time,
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even though we live in a different place,
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spiritually speaking,
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we are part of the story of Israel,
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which means we are still very much in the wilderness.
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He's saying they were in the wilderness, remember.
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Now as you continue in the wilderness,
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remember what happened to them.
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Now this is extremely important
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as it relates to the topic that we are exploring this morning.
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What does it mean to be in the wilderness?
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Well, spiritually speaking,
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the wilderness is the space between.
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It is a space between freedom and fulfillment.
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There's a space between,
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and we occupy that space.
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That's what the Bible refers to as the wilderness.
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Jesus has set us free.
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We, those of us who are here who are Christians,
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Jesus has set us free from sin and death.
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We've been set free from slavery to sin and death.
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And he has promised that one day he's going to come again,
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and he's going to make all things new.
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He's going to restore the world.
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He's going to bring the heavens and the earth together.
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But he has not fulfilled that promise yet.
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That is still something that we're waiting for.
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And so we occupy this space between having been set free,
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freedom,
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and the fulfillment that one day God will make all things new.
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So until that day comes,
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we are in the spiritual wilderness,
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which means the world is still broken.
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I mean, most people,
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you don't have to try hard to convince them
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that the world is broken.
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I was just having lunch with somebody this week,
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and we were talking about,
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we're both very concerned about the state of things.
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Right now in the world,
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the state of our country right now,
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we're very,
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lots of concerns,
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lots of anxiety.
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We know the world is still broken.
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We still have desires and longings that go unmet.
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We still have to contend with uncertainty,
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and grief,
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and loss,
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and conflict,
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and decay,
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and breakdown.
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In other words,
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being in the wilderness means this world as it is,
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is not our home.
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And that's extremely important to remember.
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It's crucial for us to keep that perspective
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if we want to make sense of our lives.
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What this means is that,
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you know,
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let's just consider some examples here.
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When it comes to our work,
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we should all try to find stable careers,
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stable work,
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and hopefully that work,
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those of us who feel called to work outside the home,
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seeking paid work,
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hopefully,
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God willing,
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that work is meaningful,
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and we enjoy it,
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and it aligns with our gifts,
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and aptitudes,
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and abilities.
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But no career is ever going to satisfy
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our desire for meaning and purpose completely.
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Because this is the wilderness.
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It's not our home.
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We shouldn't expect that.
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If you're called to marriage,
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you should look for someone who shares your faith
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and your values,
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someone with whom I think maybe this is one of the most important things,
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someone with whom you can develop a deep,
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lasting friendship.
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Very important.
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But even the best marriage is not going to fulfill you.
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There's going to be stretches in your marriage,
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even if it's the best marriage,
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where you still feel lonely.
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There's going to be maybe seasons where you wish that you weren't married.
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There might be moments here and there
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where you wish you were married to somebody else.
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There might be moments where you feel like,
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I have no idea who this person is that I married.
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I thought I knew them, right?
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That is to be expected.
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It's one of the things we do in premarital counseling.
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As we help people understand,
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it's very important to have realistic expectations about marriage.
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This is the wilderness.
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This is not our home.
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So there's no person out there
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who's going to perfectly fulfill and complete you.
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The wilderness is not the place
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where God promises to fulfill
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all of our longings and desires.
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That's going to happen when we're home.
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And the wilderness is the place
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where God prepares his people for their home.
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The wilderness is not a place of fulfillment
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and happiness and contentment.
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The wilderness is a place of profound transformation.
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It's a place where God works
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in the hearts and lives of his people.
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Now, sometimes Christians forget this.
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There are famous, popular Christian leaders out there
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who make it sound as though when you come to Jesus,
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everything's going to get better.
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All of your longings and needs
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are going to be satisfied in him.
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Christianity is about living your best life now.
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It's a very popular message,
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but if you believe that and buy into it,
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you're setting yourself up
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for a lot of disillusionment and disappointment.
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One day that's going to be true.
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We're going to be satisfied in Christ,
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but not yet.
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We're still in the wilderness.
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Now, here's why this is so important.
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This perspective is crucial
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because we need it to make sense of our lives.
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This world is not our home.
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With this reality comes a warning.
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This is the second piece that Paul gives us.
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You have the right perspective.
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We're in the wilderness.
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With that comes a warning.
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The spiritual wilderness is a dangerous place.
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It is a dangerous place
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because the fact that we have unmet needs and longings,
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the fact that this is a place of struggle and hardship
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makes us extremely vulnerable to temptation.
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When you're living your life
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with lots of unmet needs and longings,
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it makes you extremely vulnerable
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to all manner of temptation to sin.
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And Paul essentially makes this point.
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He says, listen, I don't want you to be ignorant.
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By the way, when Paul says,
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I do not want you to be ignorant, brothers,
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he typically, it's a nicer way of saying,
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I think you're pretty ignorant of this.
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And so he says, I don't want you to be ignorant
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about what happened to Israel.
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Think about their story.
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And he's pointing back and he's saying,
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listen, they had every advantage you have.
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They had every advantage you have.
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And it didn't make any difference.
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Look what happened to them.
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So he's saying, just like you,
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God set them free from slavery.
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He, in a very provocative way, says,
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just like you, they had their own versions
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of baptism in the Lord's Supper.
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They passed through the Red Sea.
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They were in covenant relationship
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with God through Moses,
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the covenant that God had established through Moses.
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Just like you, God sustained them
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with spiritual food and spiritual drink.
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Obviously not the bread and wine that we have here,
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but not the bread and wine that we have here.
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In some way, Paul is connecting this meal
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back to God's provision for them in the wilderness.
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God provided for you.
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He gave you manna.
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He gave you quail.
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He made water spring out of the rocks for you.
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And just like you, in a manner of speaking,
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Christ was with them, not in body, but in spirit.
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Christ was with them.
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The presence of God was with them,
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sustaining them, blessing them, providing for them.
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Nevertheless, he says, most of them
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were overthrown in the wilderness.
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Now, that word that he uses, overthrown,
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actually translates more laid low.
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The image that Paul is giving us is,
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imagine a desert landscape littered with bodies.
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There's bodies everywhere you look.
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Most of them were laid low in the dust.
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Now, why did this happen?
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Well, Paul cites multiple examples of times
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when the people of Israel were lured and tempted
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away from God into sin and idolatry.
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Through the Old Testament, in places like Exodus
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and the Psalms, you see these references
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to being lured and enticed.
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And one of the words that you see showing up again and again
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around the sin of the people of Israel
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is the word ensnared.
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They became ensnared by various things.
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Now, what has ensnared me?
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When I was a kid, my uncle told me
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that if I wanted to catch a bird,
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what I had to do was to sneak up behind the bird,
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maybe you've heard this,
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and to pour a little salt on its tail.
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Anybody heard this?
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Maybe it's just my family.
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Sneak up behind the bird, pour salt on its tail,
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and then my uncle said,
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well, salt will mean that the bird can't fly,
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and then you can catch the bird.
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So I put on camouflage,
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and I went out in the woods behind our house,
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and I spent hours, if I'm honest, days,
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belly crawling around the woods
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with a salt shaker in my hand,
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trying to sneak up on birds.
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Now, maybe I'm not the brightest bulb in the box,
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but I eventually realized
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that's not how you catch a bird.
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My uncle was a bit of a joke.
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It turns out, if you want to catch a bird,
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there's a better way to do it.
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You need a snare.
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There's a reference in the Bible
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to the fowler's snare.
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A snare is essentially a loop of wire or string.
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Typically, it has a slipknot
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so that it'll tighten up,
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and it's attached to a bent branch
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or a bent tree or some other spring mechanism.
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Maybe the boys will learn how to do this in trail life.
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Maybe you've already learned how to do this in trail life,
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but you lay the loop down,
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and you kind of maybe put some leaves over it
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so that you don't really notice it,
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and then you cover it with seed.
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You cover it with whatever the food is
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that the animal that you're trying to catch,
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and so the animal will come along,
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the bird will come along,
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and it becomes so focused on the food
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laying there in a nice pile on the ground
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that it doesn't notice the snare
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until it starts to eat,
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and it springs the trap,
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and it gets caught,
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and then it can't fly away,
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and it just has to hang there
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waiting to be killed and eaten.
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That's the fowler's snare.
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And this, my friends,
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is how the Bible talks about temptation.
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And the Apostle James actually tells us how it works.
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He says,
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each person is tempted
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when he is lured and enticed.
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Again, those Greek words
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are actually hunting and fishing terms.
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He says,
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lured and enticed by his own desire.
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Then desire, when it is conceived,
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gives birth to sin.
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And sin, when it is fully grown,
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brings forth death.
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So he's painting a picture
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of what it looks like
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to be lured and enticed
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until we become ensnared.
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You start off with a need or a desire.
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It could be hunger or sexual longing
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or loneliness
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or the desire for safety or comfort.
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And these desires
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are not inherently evil on their own.
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They're just desires.
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It's a part of what it means
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to be a human being
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living in the wilderness.
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We have desires.
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And so we have this desire,
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and then we come across,
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either in person
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or in our own imagination,
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that pile of food.
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You know,
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some way of satisfying that desire.
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And we come across
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a way of satisfying that desire
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that runs contrary to God's will.
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Right?
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And you know in your mind
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that this God
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does not want me to do this,
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but it looks so good.
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It looks so satisfying.
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It's just right there.
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It would be so easy to take.
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Right?
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That's like the bird seed
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being spread over the ground.
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And at this point,
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by the way,
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there's still no sin.
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You've noticed it.
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It's there.
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You feel the desire.
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That would be a possibility for you.
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But at this point,
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there's still no sin.
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But then at some point,
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James says,
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we allow ourselves
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to be lured
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and enticed.
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We sort of give ourselves
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to that longing.
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We begin to imagine
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what it would be like
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to have that thing.
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We begin to fantasize,
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to indulge the desire,
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to nurse it,
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to kindle the craving.
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So this is like the hungry bird.
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We're lured closer and closer,
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and then the trap is sprung,
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and before we know it,
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at some point along the way,
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we went from just beginning
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to give ourselves
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to that desire
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to before we know it,
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we're ensnared,
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we're dangling,
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waiting to be killed
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and eaten by,
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as he references at one point,
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the destroyer,
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the evil one
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who is behind all of this.
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So, you know,
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an example of this,
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think of a classic example
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of David out on the roof
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seeing Bathsheba,
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who's married to
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one of his best friends, Uriah.
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David is out there,
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a lot of commentators say,
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why is he out on the roof?
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What's he doing out on the roof?
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Was he hoping
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he might see something?
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And he's out there,
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and he's looking around,
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sees Bathsheba.
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At this point,
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there's no sin,
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but instead of turning away,
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instead of immediately
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turning away
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and going back in,
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saying,
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that's,
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I shouldn't be doing that,
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he continues to look.
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He begins to fantasize
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about being with her,
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and then he summons her,
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and then he sleeps with her,
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and he's ensnared.
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And then that just leads
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to more and more and more sin.
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Ultimately,
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this leads to David
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arranging to have
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his best friend Uriah killed
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in order to cover up the affair,
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the affair that,
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by the way,
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everybody at this point
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already knows about.
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So here's what Paul is saying.
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He says,
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when we're still
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in the wilderness,
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which means we have
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all of these unmet desires
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and longings,
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the wilderness,
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we have to recognize,
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is a very dangerous place.
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And it makes us
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extremely vulnerable
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to temptation.
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You're going along,
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and there are all kinds
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of promises
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of things that will fulfill
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these various desires.
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And he says,
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these are snares,
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and you have to recognize them
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for what they are.
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It may not be obvious to you,
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but they're there.
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Right?
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Just to give one more example,
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maybe we,
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you know,
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what are some of the things
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we long for?
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A success,
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beauty,
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talent,
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influence,
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normal human desires.
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But then you start
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comparing yourself.
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Right?
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You have this kind of temptation
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to comparison.
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And maybe it's online,
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maybe it's just your friends,
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the people you know,
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your coworkers,
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people who seem to be advancing
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more quickly than you,
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or you have all this instability
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in your job,
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and they have this rock-solid career,
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or you don't have a family,
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and they have the family
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that you want,
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or they're off having
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these fun adventures
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while you're raising
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these young kids,
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or whatever it may be,
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you start comparing yourself
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to their life.
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And they seem to have
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more of the things
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that you want.
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And then you allow yourself
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to be lured and enticed
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into jealousy and envy.
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And before you know it,
-
your mind is looping
-
on these things,
-
and before you know it,
-
you're ensnared
-
by jealousy and envy.
-
And what you begin to notice
-
is at that point,
-
the joy and the gratitude
-
are slowly strangled
-
out of your life.
-
The slipknot of envy
-
strangles all of the gratitude
-
out of your life.
-
You no longer focus
-
on what you have,
-
on the ways that you've been blessed
-
or provided for.
-
You're only focusing
-
on what you lack,
-
on what you don't have.
-
And then over time,
-
joy and gratitude
-
are replaced slowly
-
by bitterness and resentment.
-
And sometimes you may even
-
get to the point
-
where you're mentally
-
tearing down
-
or invalidating
-
the good things
-
in somebody else's life
-
to make them seem smaller,
-
to make yourself feel bigger.
-
See, there are countless examples
-
that we could give
-
when it comes to lust
-
or anger
-
or bitterness
-
or envy
-
or all of the things
-
that we struggle with.
-
But here's the warning.
-
He pulls it together
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in verse 12.
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Let anyone who thinks
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that he stands
-
take heed
-
lest he fall.
-
In other words,
-
do not underestimate
-
the danger of temptation
-
in the wilderness
-
and do not overestimate
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your ability to resist it.
-
Do not underestimate
-
the danger of it
-
and do not overestimate
-
your ability to resist it.
-
The good news is
-
Paul is not about
-
to leave us high and dry.
-
That's not the end
-
of the passage.
-
There is tremendous comfort
-
to be found
-
in this passage as well.
-
So we have perspective.
-
We have a warning.
-
Now the Apostle Paul
-
leaves us
-
with some tremendous comfort.
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We have three great resources
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to help us live lives
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of faithfulness
-
in the wilderness
-
so that we don't end up
-
like Israel.
-
The first
-
is we have the Scriptures.
-
The Apostle Paul says
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in verse 11,
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now these things happen to them
-
as an example
-
but they were written down
-
for our instruction.
-
He says,
-
thank God we have
-
all of this written down
-
and we can go back to it
-
and learn from it.
-
The point is this,
-
the more that we read
-
and understand
-
and apply Scripture
-
to our lives,
-
one of the things
-
that happens is
-
the more we do that,
-
the more you begin
-
to understand
-
your own nature.
-
You begin to understand
-
your own vulnerabilities.
-
You begin to understand
-
and see more clearly
-
your own weaknesses.
-
As we are reading Scripture,
-
we should always be
-
asking the question,
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is God saying this to me?
-
Is God talking about me?
-
Is God wanting me
-
to hear this
-
for any particular reason?
-
There should always
-
be a question,
-
how is God speaking to me?
-
What is God trying
-
to tell me through this?
-
The more we do that,
-
the more we understand ourselves,
-
the more prepared
-
we're going to be
-
for life in the wilderness.
-
You know,
-
the great Harvard psychiatrist,
-
Robert Coles,
-
he spent his entire career
-
studying human behavior.
-
Entire career
-
at one of the greatest
-
universities in the world
-
and here's what he says.
-
Nothing I have discovered
-
about the makeup
-
of human beings
-
contradicts in any way
-
what I've learned
-
from Scripture.
-
Anything that I can say
-
as a result of my research
-
into human behavior
-
is a mere footnote
-
to those lives
-
in the Old and New Testament.
-
I mean,
-
that's amazing,
-
right?
-
We have in the Scripture
-
the best diagnosis,
-
the best understanding
-
of the human condition
-
available.
-
And the more we internalize it,
-
the more prepared
-
we're going to be.
-
So we have the Scriptures.
-
Number two,
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we have community.
-
We have community.
-
Verse 13
-
is tremendously comforting.
-
No temptation
-
has overtaken you
-
that is not common to man.
-
That's an amazing
-
thing to say.
-
You're not going to face
-
anything
-
that the people around you
-
have not faced.
-
God's not going to single you out
-
and say,
-
I'm going to pour some temptation
-
on this person.
-
I'm going to make it
-
extra hard for them.
-
He says,
-
everything that you experience,
-
everything that you go through,
-
it's all common
-
to the people around you.
-
There are people
-
who know what it's like.
-
Now,
-
on the surface,
-
our lives may look different,
-
but underneath,
-
we all struggle
-
with the same temptations.
-
And these are the same struggles
-
that human beings
-
have faced throughout history,
-
which means,
-
and here's the good news,
-
we can help.
-
We should help one another.
-
It means this,
-
whatever you're going through
-
right now,
-
whatever you're wrestling with,
-
whatever's bubbling in your mind
-
as you're sitting here right now
-
listening to this,
-
chances are
-
there are people in this room
-
who either have gone through that,
-
are going through it right now
-
at the same time you are,
-
or will go through it.
-
We have no hope
-
of overcoming temptation
-
if we try to go it alone.
-
So you need at least
-
a few people in your life
-
who know you well enough
-
to be able to step in
-
when you need help,
-
who know you well enough
-
to know when they might need
-
to step in
-
even when you're not asking for help.
-
People you're close enough with
-
that they know
-
they have permission
-
to speak into your life.
-
They don't have to dance around
-
and say,
-
hey,
-
I gotta bring something up,
-
it's gonna be hard,
-
are you gonna be okay,
-
is it gonna jeopardize
-
our friendship,
-
and I don't wanna offend you,
-
that you don't have to do
-
any of that dancing around.
-
You can say,
-
we need to talk,
-
I got something
-
I wanna bring up.
-
Take it or leave it,
-
pray about it,
-
but I'm concerned.
-
And you say,
-
okay,
-
that's what friends do.
-
You know,
-
there's that great story
-
from Homer's Odyssey
-
where Odysseus is warned
-
about the power
-
of the siren song.
-
He's warned
-
that if he gets too close
-
and he hears the song,
-
he's gonna go mad
-
with desire
-
and he's gonna
-
run his ship
-
into the rocks
-
and like so many
-
other unfortunate sailors,
-
they will all die at sea.
-
So he tells his men,
-
before we get too close
-
to the sirens,
-
I want you to plug your ears
-
with beeswax,
-
but I wanna hear
-
the siren song,
-
but in order to keep us safe,
-
I want you to lash me
-
to the mast
-
so that when I hear
-
the song of the sirens,
-
no matter what I say,
-
no matter how much
-
I threaten you,
-
do not let me go
-
until we're clear
-
of their song.
-
And the men are good men
-
and they do exactly
-
what he says
-
and sure enough,
-
he's lashed to the mast
-
and they get close
-
and he begins to hear the song
-
and he immediately
-
loses his mind
-
and he starts begging them
-
to release them
-
and he's begging them
-
and pleading with them
-
to go to the sirens,
-
to go to the rocks,
-
but his men are good men
-
and they don't listen to him
-
and instead,
-
they tie him even tighter
-
to the mast
-
until they're free of the song
-
and then he regains his mind.
-
And of course,
-
the reason he tells them
-
to do that
-
is because he knows
-
that there's probably
-
gonna come a point
-
where he loses his mind,
-
he's not in his right mind
-
and at that point,
-
he needs them to step in.
-
The point is,
-
we need people like that
-
in our lives
-
who can tie us to the mast
-
when necessary.
-
You know,
-
when you're not
-
when you've just had
-
a massive
-
just guts out
-
on the floor fight
-
and you're like,
-
I am done,
-
I am out of here,
-
I'm through this marriage,
-
I'm never going back,
-
I can't do it another day,
-
I'm out of here.
-
You need somebody
-
to tie you to the mast.
-
Or when you're
-
in an incredibly abusive,
-
harmful relationship
-
and you're like,
-
I can change this person,
-
I can save this relationship,
-
I can hang in there
-
for one more day,
-
I can endure it,
-
it's not that bad.
-
Maybe you need
-
to get out of the relationship
-
and you need somebody
-
to tie you to the mast
-
and say,
-
no,
-
it's time for you to leave.
-
When you're ready
-
to throw your life away
-
for some stupid obsession
-
that doesn't seem stupid
-
at the time
-
because you've lost your mind,
-
you need somebody
-
to tie you to the mast,
-
right?
-
There are times
-
when you need somebody
-
to step in your life
-
and say,
-
no,
-
I'm gonna tie this down tighter
-
until you come back
-
to your senses.
-
We need people like that
-
in our lives.
-
So the next time
-
you're going on a work trip
-
and you know
-
that you tend to struggle
-
with lust
-
and there's a chance
-
that you might wanna
-
go out and meet somebody
-
because you're in a place
-
where nobody knows you
-
and there's no accountability,
-
line up a couple of people
-
to talk to on the phone
-
while you're on that trip.
-
You know,
-
if you tend
-
towards self-pity
-
and adopting
-
a victim posture,
-
deputize a couple
-
of people
-
to help you notice
-
when you're going
-
down that road
-
of self-pity
-
so they can say,
-
hey,
-
is there anything
-
that you should
-
take responsibility
-
for here
-
or is everything
-
somebody else's fault?
-
Maybe,
-
and we all have
-
different tendencies.
-
You need people
-
who know those tendencies
-
so they can step in
-
when they need to step in
-
and we do this precisely
-
because we know
-
that sometimes
-
we're not gonna be
-
in our right mind.
-
So these are the resources
-
we have.
-
We have scripture,
-
we have community.
-
Lastly,
-
we have God's amazing promise
-
in this passage.
-
Verse 13,
-
God is faithful
-
and he will not let you
-
be tempted
-
beyond your ability
-
but with the temptation
-
he will also provide
-
the way of escape
-
that you may be able
-
to endure it.
-
This means we can never say,
-
you know,
-
I would have resisted
-
but God just poured it
-
on too heavy.
-
That in fact,
-
God says,
-
you're never gonna be
-
in a place
-
where there is not
-
some way out
-
if you choose it.
-
I'm never gonna put you
-
in a situation
-
where there is not
-
some way out
-
if you're willing
-
to choose it.
-
He always gives us
-
a way out.
-
So God always gives us
-
a way to persevere
-
in that situation
-
without having to resort
-
to sin.
-
He never puts us
-
in a position
-
where we have to sin,
-
where there's no other way.
-
In other words,
-
victory over temptation
-
is possible
-
in this life.
-
And I think this is
-
an extremely important
-
note to end on
-
because up until now,
-
I think it's been a lot
-
of hard stuff to hear.
-
But it ends with this promise
-
that actually victory
-
over temptation
-
is possible.
-
We should expect
-
to have victory
-
in this life.
-
And this is something
-
that we always need to hear.
-
But the reason
-
that victory is possible
-
is ultimately
-
because God is faithful.
-
It's because God is faithful.
-
God is not a spectator
-
waiting to see
-
if we're gonna screw up again.
-
God is our greatest ally
-
in the fight.
-
God is for us.
-
He's not sitting there
-
just saying,
-
ah, there's no way
-
they're gonna make it.
-
He's with us.
-
He's for us.
-
He wants us to succeed.
-
And it means
-
we can always count
-
on his help.
-
All we need to do
-
is ask.
-
That's why when people
-
are recovering from addiction,
-
one of the first things
-
they learn is
-
they're powerless.
-
The first steps
-
are about admitting
-
that you're completely powerless.
-
You can't do it
-
on your own
-
and you need God
-
in order to be able
-
to do anything.
-
Right?
-
The first thing
-
you need to do
-
is to learn
-
how to cry out to God
-
for help.
-
You just have to ask.
-
And the reason
-
that we know
-
that God is faithful
-
is because we see this
-
embodied in Jesus Christ.
-
Right?
-
we need only look to Jesus
-
who was tempted
-
in every way
-
as we are.
-
We see Jesus
-
going into the wilderness
-
enduring and facing
-
all manner of temptation.
-
And you know
-
the temptation
-
didn't end
-
after 40 days.
-
It continued
-
all the way through
-
the Garden of Gethsemane
-
and the desire
-
to not drink that cup
-
all the way
-
through the cross.
-
At any moment
-
he could have gotten down
-
but he chose to remain.
-
The author of Hebrews says
-
Jesus was tempted
-
in every way
-
as we are
-
and yet was without sin.
-
And through his death
-
on the cross
-
Jesus defeated sin and death
-
as we said earlier
-
so that one day
-
we will be free
-
from temptation and sin.
-
We won't have to contend
-
with this anymore.
-
This is just
-
a light momentary affliction
-
compared to that life.
-
But because of the cross
-
even when we do fail
-
even when we do find ourselves
-
ensnared by sin
-
we know that God
-
will always forgive us.
-
That God will always
-
restore us.
-
In the words of Psalm 103
-
and for wilderness people
-
who are going to fail
-
as often as we succeed
-
we need words like this
-
again and again and again.
-
God is the one
-
who forgives
-
all your iniquity.
-
Who heals
-
all your diseases.
-
Who redeems
-
your life from the pit.
-
Who crowns you
-
with steadfast love
-
and mercy.
-
Who satisfies you
-
with good
-
so that your youth
-
is renewed
-
like the eagles.
-
Let's pray.
-
Lord what a great comfort
-
it is to know
-
that you are a God
-
who desires our freedom.
-
Who has given us
-
that freedom.
-
Who protects us
-
and seeks to help
-
safeguard that freedom.
-
And who will one day
-
fulfill your promise
-
to fulfill
-
and restore us
-
and make all things new.
-
and we pray Lord
-
that in the strength
-
of your Holy Spirit
-
Lord
-
and through the finished work
-
of your son Jesus Christ
-
that you would give us
-
the strength
-
to live faithfully
-
here and now.
-
Lord between
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between the cross
-
and the new creation.
-
We pray that you would
-
give us the strength
-
especially Lord
-
that we now lift up
-
those who are
-
particularly struggling
-
right now.
-
Lord either because of
-
stress and anxiety
-
or grief
-
related to their
-
to their work
-
to their job
-
to their finances.
-
Lord people who are
-
overwhelmed by despair
-
or hopelessness.
-
People who are caught
-
in the trap
-
of addiction.
-
Lord
-
people who are
-
on the edge
-
of hopelessness.
-
People who are
-
struggling in their
-
vocation of singleness.
-
Struggling in their
-
vocation of marriage.
-
Struggling in their
-
vocation of parenting.
-
Struggling in their
-
desire to be parents.
-
Lord struggling
-
in whatever way
-
we are struggling now
-
Lord we lift
-
we lift these struggles
-
up to you.
-
We cry out
-
just as we said
-
and we ask that you
-
would you would
-
give us the comfort
-
of your presence.
-
Remind us of your
-
faithfulness.
-
Lord empower us
-
and strengthen us
-
with your Holy Spirit
-
to stand.
-
Lord if there are
-
people here who need
-
others in their life
-
who need that kind
-
of community that
-
we are talking about
-
Lord I pray that you
-
would bring those
-
people to mind now.
-
I pray that you
-
would open people's
-
hearts to one another.
-
That we would be
-
willing to share
-
our struggles and
-
burdens and bear
-
them together.
-
Lord we lift all
-
of this up to you
-
and ask this
-
in Jesus' name.
-
Amen.