Sermon
James 1:13-18
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We are going to continue our James study together.
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We'll study chapter 1.
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We're in James chapter 1.
James 1 chapter mention
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So if you have your Bibles or your device or whatever,
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! James chapter 1 is where we're at.
James 1 chapter mention
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And let me pray before we get started.
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Heavenly Father, I pray that you would give us insight
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into what James has written in this letter.
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Lord, I pray that you would teach us through these words
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and through these verses.
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Lord, may my preparation and study
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and the things that you showed me translate.
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I pray that I can explain that in a careful way
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that honors you.
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In Jesus' name, amen.
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So the heading here in the ESV is testing of your faith,
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starting with verse 2.
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My section is starting with verse 13.
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And so let's start reading there.
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But we will reference this whole section of Scripture
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because it really all works together.
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So let's start with verse 13.
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Let no one say when he is tempted,
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I am being tempted by God.
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For God cannot be tempted with evil,
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and he himself tempts no one.
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But each person is tempted
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when he is lured and enticed by his own desire.
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Then desire, when it has conceived,
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gives birth to sin.
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And sin, when it's fully grown,
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brings forth death.
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Do not be deceived,
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my beloved brothers.
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Every good gift and every perfect gift
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is from above,
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coming down from the Father of lights,
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with whom there is no variation or shadow
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due to change.
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Of his own will,
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he brought us forth by the word of truth,
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that we should be a kind of first fruits
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of his creatures.
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I want to start with a,
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something that happened to me
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this, about a week ago,
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a little over a week ago.
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And,
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well, I guess it was last,
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maybe like Wednesday,
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something like that.
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Anyway,
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and
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I went to Lowe's
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and
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what I needed,
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so I had bought
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a week ago Wednesday,
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I bought a garage door opener.
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And I thought that maybe we,
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as a group of men,
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knowledgeable,
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very
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astute men,
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that we would put this in
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at the,
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at our house.
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We moved recently
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and,
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and I thought they were going to help me do this.
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We took a look at it
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and Judah sort of poured,
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poured it out,
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Judah Powers did,
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onto the ground
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and we looked at all the pieces
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and we said,
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no,
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I don't think we're going to do this.
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And,
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so,
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I went to Lowe's
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and they,
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the guy,
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I talked to the guy,
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he says,
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yes,
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we can do this for you.
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We can install it for you.
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But what we have to do,
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this is in the back of the store.
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He said,
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what we have to do
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is we have to refund you
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your money
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from this
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unit
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and then you have to
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buy it again
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and then we can sign up
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for the installation.
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So,
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I said,
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well,
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that's kind of weird
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but let's do this.
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let's go for it.
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So,
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we,
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he takes a picture
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of the UPC symbol
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of the unit
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that I bought
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and we go to the front
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of the store
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and go
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and,
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to the counter
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where you get help there
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where you do returns
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and there was standing,
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I,
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I,
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Patsy,
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Patsy,
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head cashier
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is what it said.
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That may or may not
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be her name
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just for protection.
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Patsy
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was,
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so,
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she,
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so he gave her
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the information
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of what we needed to do
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which was return this,
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charge me again
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for a new one
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and then sign up the deal.
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Well,
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Patsy said,
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okay,
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put your,
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she entered the information,
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she said,
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put your card
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into the slot
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that you used.
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So,
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I put it in,
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she said,
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nope,
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you didn't use that card.
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Well,
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I know I used that card.
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Absolutely.
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And she said,
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do you have another card?
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And I said,
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well,
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yeah,
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I have another card
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but I'm pretty sure
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I used that card.
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So,
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I put in the other card
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and she said,
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nope,
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you didn't use that card either
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and I'm like,
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I don't have any other cards.
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Let's see,
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it was one of those two
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and I'm pretty sure
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it was that first one.
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And she said,
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nope,
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nope,
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that wasn't it.
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So,
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how about,
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I said,
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well,
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can you look it up
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on my phone number?
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I've seen other things
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from my phone number.
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So,
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she says,
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okay.
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So,
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she puts in my phone number
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and I'm sure
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it's going to show up,
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you know,
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that my purchase will show up
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so we can refund it.
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She says,
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nope,
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it's not here.
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And I said,
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I've seen this list
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because I was in doing a return
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just like a few days earlier.
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I've seen this
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and I said,
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I was here.
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I was here last,
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no,
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you weren't.
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She says,
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I think maybe you need
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to contact your bank.
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I said,
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contact my bank.
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I was here.
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I know I was like,
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you're telling me something
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that I know I did,
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you know.
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Well,
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finally,
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it,
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of course,
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got straightened out
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and they found my receipt
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and those kind of things.
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But,
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I want to use
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this simple trial
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and I'm going to refer back to it
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but there is a simple format
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here
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that I want to use
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as we discuss
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trials and faith.
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Basically,
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what happens
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is there is an issue.
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The issue is
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whatever befalls us,
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it could be a diagnosis,
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it could be a death
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in the family,
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it could be parenting,
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it could be talking
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to Patsy at accounting.
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Whatever the issue is,
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that's how this begins.
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That's how a trial starts.
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Then,
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the second thing
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is our response.
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What do we do?
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How do we deal
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with that trial?
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How do we think about it?
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What is our answer
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to the issue?
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Sometimes,
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it's a very quick answer
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and we come right back
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with whatever it is
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that we decide to do
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when the issue befalls us.
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Sometimes,
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our answer
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actually goes
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over years
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of time
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depending on
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what
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the trial is.
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The third thing,
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so there's the issue,
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our response,
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and then
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an outcome.
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How does it end?
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What's the result?
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What happens
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as a result
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of this trial
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that has
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befallen us?
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Now,
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the issue,
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we really don't have
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much control
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over that,
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do we?
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In life,
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things happen.
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It comes at us
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in every different way.
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Our response,
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do we have control
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over our response?
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We do.
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We have control
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from the very depths
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of our heart
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what kind of response
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we will
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present.
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The third thing,
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the outcome.
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Who has control
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of the outcome?
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The Lord does.
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The Lord's the one
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that has control
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over that.
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If we
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seek Him
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and honor Him,
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aren't there
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many promises
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that He'll take care
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of us?
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That in whatever
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trial it is,
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He will walk
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with us in vain.
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So the outcome
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is up to the Lord.
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The first thing
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I want to talk about
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is James'
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encouragement.
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And if we look
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at this whole passage,
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it all ties together.
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And at the end,
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I want to really
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sort of,
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I was telling Adam,
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it's like a trash bag
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when you have
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the two little things
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and you pull it tight
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and it all comes tight.
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That's what each
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of these paragraphs
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is sort of like.
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It all comes together
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and I'll explain
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as we go.
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But James gives
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encouragement
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in verse 2.
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He says,
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count it all joy.
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Adam shared
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a bit of a poem
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two weeks ago
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and one of the things
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that hit me
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a bit out of that
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was joy
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because of trials
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are evidence
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of God's love.
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Like trials.
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Trials are an evidence
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of God's love.
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Why?
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This testing
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produces steadfastness.
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Hebrews 12, 11,
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Adam brought out.
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For the moment,
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all discipline
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seems painful
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rather than pleasant,
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but later it yields
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the peaceful fruit
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of righteousness
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to those
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who have been
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trained by it.
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Steadfastness
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is endurance,
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fruitful harvest,
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patience,
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ability to bear up
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under difficulty.
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That's what we want
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to grow in.
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Trials are going
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to come
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in all manner.
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And so
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we can count it joy
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because God's
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doing something
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in it
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and we know that.
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So we can stand
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on that initial principle.
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Steadfast
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also in wisdom
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and perspective.
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If you look
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at the second
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paragraph there,
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verse 5,
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if any of you
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lacks wisdom,
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let him ask God.
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How do you get
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through trials?
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With wisdom.
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From his wisdom.
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Not our own.
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We're not going
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to come up
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with the answers.
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We're not going
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to know how
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to navigate
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the trials of life.
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God does.
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The wisdom
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that he gives
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keeps us
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steadfast in that.
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And the third
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thing is the
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perspective.
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Look at verse 9.
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What's he talking
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about there?
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The flower,
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the grass
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will pass away
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for the sun
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rises,
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scorching heat
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and withers
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the grass.
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So also
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will the rich
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man fade away
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in the midst
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of his pursuits.
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So now there's
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perspective.
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So we get
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these encouragements
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in the trial
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that count it
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joy because
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God's working.
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There is
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wisdom to be
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given.
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And there's
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a perspective.
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The trial,
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our lives
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are short
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and the trial
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is even shorter.
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It's shorter
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than our life.
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that one,
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that last part
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of that.
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So the rich,
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so the rich
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man fade away
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in the midst
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of his pursuits.
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Right in the
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middle of the
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things that he's
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planning.
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Right in the
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middle of all
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the plans,
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all the things
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that he thinks
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he's going to
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do.
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Gone.
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It's over.
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It's good
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perspective.
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Verse 12.
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This,
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this whole
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segment,
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James kind of
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talking to us
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and he reminds
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again in
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verse 12,
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blessed
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of the man
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who remains
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steadfast under
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trial.
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Under trial.
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The heading
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of this whole
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section in
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my text,
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ESV,
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is testing
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of your faith
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and I really
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couldn't think
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of a better
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sermon title
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than testing
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of our faith.
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trial.
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The trial does
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that.
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Well,
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one thing
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draws us
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away in
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particular
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from steadfast
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faith and
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that's sin.
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Sin is
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part of our
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potential response
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to the trial.
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That can be
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part of the
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mix and quite
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often in some
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way, shape, or
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form, it is
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part of the
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mix.
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Temptation
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is the
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pull to
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respond out
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of self.
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So, if we
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go back to
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verse 12,
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blessed is the
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man who
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remains steadfast
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under trial,
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for when he
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has stood
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the test, he
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will receive
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the crown
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of life,
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which God
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has promised
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to those
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who love
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him.
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Let no one
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say when he's
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tempted, I am
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being tempted
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by God, for
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God cannot be
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tempted with
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evil, and he
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himself tempts
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no one.
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But each
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person is
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tempted when
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he is lured
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and enticed
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by his own
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desire.
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In my
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example, which
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again, I want
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to refer back
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to, I was
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tempted to be
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snarky with
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Patsy, I
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will admit.
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I wanted to
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give her my
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thoughts and
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let her know
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how she was
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wrong.
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I was tempted
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to get mad
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at her for
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accusing me of
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things that
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didn't make
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sense, right?
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Like literally
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telling me I
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was not
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there.
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I was there.
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I know I
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was there.
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But for a
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second, I was
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like, I don't
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know.
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Maybe I know.
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Yes, no, I
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know I was
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there.
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But immediately
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that trial starts
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to bring it up
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and the
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temptations
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start to fly.
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way.
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And there's
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you ever see, I
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was thinking of
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a movie,
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Christmas story.
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You know how
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Ralphie, he
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goes back into
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his mind and
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like he sort
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of starts to
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space off and
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sees this whole
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thing transpire
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and then say,
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Ralphie, Ralphie,
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you know, and he
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comes back to
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where he was.
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That's kind of
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what we do in a
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moment's notice
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there.
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We start to
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travel through
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all of the
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options that
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we can carry
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out.
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So when the
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trial or the
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issue is
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presented,
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immediately your
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mind starts going
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through all the
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things that you
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can do and
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discarding the
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things that
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really wouldn't
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be good.
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Because those
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come up too.
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All of these
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things.
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The heart,
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who brought it
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up this morning
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already, the
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heart is
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desperately
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wicked, right?
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And so these
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things are
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going to come
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up in our
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dealings with
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other people.
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Well, plenty
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of those things
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came up.
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Let's look at
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the progression.
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13 through 15
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gives us a
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progression that
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starts with
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actually 14.
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But each person
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is tempted when
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he is lured
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and enticed.
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So first is
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the lured
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and enticed
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by our
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own desire.
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desire.
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It's important
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that we get
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the pieces
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of this
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correct to
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see the
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etymology of
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sin, where
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all this comes
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from.
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Desire is a
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person's
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passions or
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wants.
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The things
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that we think
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that we need
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or that we
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must have
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in whatever
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capacity.
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This desire
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is already
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on board.
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It's in our
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flesh.
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we were
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born with
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it.
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We were
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born with
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a desire
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to serve
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ourselves
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in some
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way.
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1 John
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chapter 2
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verses 15
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through 17
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says,
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Do not love
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the world
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or the things
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in the world.
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If anyone
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loves the
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world,
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the love
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of the
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Father
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is not
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in him.
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For all
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that is
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in the
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world,
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the desires
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of the
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flesh
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and the
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desires
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of the
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eyes
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and pride
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of life
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is not
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from the
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Father,
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but it's
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from the
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world.
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And the
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world is
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passing away
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with its
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desires.
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There's our
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perspective again.
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It's all
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like the
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grass.
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It gets
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burned up.
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It's passing
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away.
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But whoever
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does the
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will of God
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abides
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forever.
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Great
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perspective
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again with
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this thought.
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Desire in
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this context
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of selfishness
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is not
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from the
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Father.
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We're not
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talking about
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like spiritual
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from the
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spirit sort
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of desires.
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We're talking
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about desire
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that's from
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us, that
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starts from
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within.
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And these
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desires are
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passing away.
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And for
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now, they
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lure and
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entice.
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Lure is
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being drawn
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out of a
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right place.
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And in
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my example,
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being out
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of place
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is some
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of the
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things that
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I started
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thinking about.
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Being out
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of my
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rightful
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place, I'm
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a customer,
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you know,
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coming up.
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Being out
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of my
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rightful
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place, I
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started to
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think of
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things like
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I want to
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put Patsy
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in her
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place.
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Maybe even
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deeper, I
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want to
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make Patsy
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realize that
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she is
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wrong.
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I want
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this, you
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know, that's
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inside.
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And maybe
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even a
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little Patsy
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should apologize
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and be a
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good employee.
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Head cashier
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is what her
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card said.
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How is
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this, you
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know.
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But these
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things roll
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through my
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mind.
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And I
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discard them.
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I must
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discard these
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desires,
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right?
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Because I
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think about
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the easy
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outcomes of
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some of
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that, and
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it's no
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good.
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It's no
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good.
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Walking in
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the Spirit,
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we walk in
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a right
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place, and
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we're not
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lured out
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of where we
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should be.
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When we
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walk with
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the Spirit,
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we're with
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Him, and
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the luring is
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getting away
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from that
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right place
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of where we
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should be
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in the
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Spirit.
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Desire
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will lure
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us out of
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that place.
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Entice is
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the second
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one.
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Lured and
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enticed.
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And these
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are very
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similar words.
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Even when
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you dig into
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them, they're
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very similar.
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But entice
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is a little
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different.
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It's being
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baited.
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There's a
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bait there.
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And desire
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sees something
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that it
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wants or
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that it
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wants to
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deal with.
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And it's
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easy.
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This is why
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I use this
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example.
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God was
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gracious to
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give me
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this example
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with Betsy.
-
But in
-
my example,
-
the way that
-
she accused
-
me.
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Have you
-
ever been
-
accused of
-
something that
-
you didn't
-
do?
-
And you
-
know you
-
didn't do
-
it?
-
That's sort
-
of a button,
-
isn't it?
-
When someone
-
pushes on that
-
button, it
-
sort of gets
-
you dander
-
going.
-
And it did
-
me.
-
looking over
-
her glasses
-
at me,
-
you know,
-
like I
-
had no
-
awareness of
-
my comings
-
and goings.
-
You know,
-
like these
-
are things
-
that it
-
was bait
-
to me.
-
Maybe you
-
guys are a
-
lot better
-
than me,
-
but it
-
was bait.
-
I wanted
-
to get
-
angry with
-
this.
-
Well,
-
in all
-
two common
-
scenarios,
-
the bait
-
looks
-
different.
-
We even
-
use a
-
term,
-
clickbait,
-
right?
-
What is
-
that?
-
It's
-
something,
-
I think
-
I'm going
-
to get
-
something
-
that I
-
want,
-
something
-
that my
-
heart is
-
desiring
-
for some
-
reason.
-
And so
-
I click
-
on it
-
to go
-
there.
-
Pictures,
-
stories,
-
they all
-
call to
-
that desire
-
in our
-
heart that
-
cannot,
-
cannot,
-
must not
-
be answered
-
in that
-
way.
-
Well,
-
these desires,
-
they are
-
in me.
-
Outside
-
influences,
-
temptations,
-
engaging
-
with these
-
evil desires
-
that are
-
already
-
there.
-
To stop
-
this
-
progression,
-
I have
-
to recognize
-
my desires.
-
I have
-
to confess
-
them.
-
Now,
-
here's
-
where we
-
have to be
-
particular
-
with words
-
because
-
temptation
-
and the
-
desires
-
themselves,
-
the things
-
that flash
-
in front
-
of my
-
mind
-
are not
-
necessarily
-
sin.
-
Temptation
-
in and of
-
itself is
-
outside of
-
me.
-
It's not
-
sin.
-
And so,
-
nonetheless,
-
when I
-
realize,
-
standing there,
-
that I want
-
to get angry,
-
I need to
-
confess that
-
right away.
-
Lord,
-
I don't want
-
to get angry.
-
I don't
-
want this
-
to happen.
-
I'm sorry
-
for wanting
-
to go down
-
that track
-
in the first
-
place and
-
confess that,
-
even just how
-
I'm feeling
-
in that
-
moment.
-
Maybe
-
haven't even
-
got to
-
that place
-
yet.
-
But,
-
before it
-
actually gets
-
conceived,
-
I want to
-
deal with it.
-
It looks like
-
just a prayer
-
of thankfulness.
-
Lord,
-
I'm sorry
-
for wanting
-
to click
-
on that
-
picture,
-
but thank
-
you for
-
your grace
-
and your
-
strength
-
to resist
-
the devil
-
in this
-
moment.
-
Stand on
-
faith
-
that has
-
been tested
-
and has
-
produced
-
steadfastness
-
in Christ.
-
In those
-
moments,
-
that's what
-
we do.
-
We've already
-
walked that
-
walk,
-
and we've
-
seen
-
steadfastness
-
grow.
-
Stand in
-
that faith.
-
Second in
-
the progression,
-
look at
-
verse 15.
-
So,
-
we're lured
-
and enticed
-
by our own
-
desire,
-
then desire,
-
when it
-
has conceived,
-
gives birth
-
to sin.
-
Unchecked
-
desire,
-
combined
-
with opportunity,
-
conceives sin.
-
So,
-
I wrestled
-
with this
-
so that we
-
have a
-
picture here.
-
We have
-
an illustration
-
of conception,
-
birth,
-
growth,
-
and death.
-
So,
-
it's sort
-
of a
-
life cycle,
-
isn't it?
-
And so,
-
I thought,
-
well,
-
I camped
-
here for a
-
while on
-
the conception
-
part.
-
Well,
-
generally,
-
we have
-
two things
-
that work
-
together to
-
conceive.
-
Well,
-
what are we
-
talking about
-
here?
-
And we
-
have the
-
desire on
-
board,
-
and when
-
that desire
-
meets an
-
opportunity,
-
then sin
-
is conceived.
-
Then we
-
have
-
unchecked,
-
unrebuked
-
desire
-
makes a
-
way for
-
opportunity.
-
And we
-
find it,
-
and we
-
see it,
-
and it
-
presents,
-
and it's
-
part of
-
the
-
bait.
-
And these
-
things come
-
together,
-
and then
-
that's
-
when we
-
sin.
-
Unrebuked
-
desire.
-
When we
-
don't arrest
-
it,
-
when we
-
don't confess
-
it,
-
when we
-
don't turn
-
to God,
-
when it
-
shows up,
-
then it
-
is unrebuked,
-
and then it
-
runs rampant,
-
and then it
-
does what it
-
wants to
-
do.
-
And the
-
more it
-
grows,
-
the more
-
we say
-
within,
-
how can
-
I find
-
a way
-
to exercise
-
this desire?
-
How can
-
I make
-
an opportunity?
-
I need
-
the opportunity
-
with that
-
desire for
-
sin to
-
conceive.
-
Proverbs
-
110 says,
-
My son,
-
if sinners
-
entice you,
-
do not
-
consent.
-
And a
-
little later
-
on,
-
verse 16,
-
he says,
-
for their
-
feet run
-
to evil.
-
They plan,
-
they find,
-
they make
-
that opportunity
-
to carry
-
out what
-
they want
-
to do,
-
and that
-
can be
-
our
-
structure
-
as well.
-
They're
-
quick to
-
find and
-
run to
-
evil,
-
the mind
-
that is
-
left to
-
itself,
-
the debased
-
mind,
-
that I
-
look around
-
this room
-
and I
-
know your
-
testimonies
-
and I've
-
heard of
-
your
-
testimonies,
-
and we're
-
believers,
-
confess that
-
we believe
-
and trust
-
in Christ,
-
but there
-
are people,
-
Romans 1
-
talks about,
-
that God
-
gives them
-
over to
-
this debased
-
mind,
-
this mind
-
that only
-
pursues its
-
desires and
-
nothing else.
-
And we know
-
from the next
-
part of
-
verse 15,
-
where does it
-
lead?
-
To death.
-
It leads
-
to death.
-
Eternal
-
death.
-
death.
-
So we
-
must put
-
to death
-
both sides
-
of this
-
equation
-
that
-
conceives
-
sin.
-
Deal
-
swiftly
-
with
-
desire
-
and
-
say it
-
out loud.
-
Tell
-
somebody
-
else.
-
Share it
-
on the
-
box line.
-
Talk to
-
another
-
believer.
-
Avoid
-
opportunity
-
and sacrifice
-
the wicked
-
plans.
-
Let me
-
give you
-
an example.
-
On lots
-
of occasions
-
in life,
-
we find
-
that maybe
-
we need
-
to be
-
more careful
-
with the
-
budget.
-
And what
-
is generally
-
the first
-
thing to go,
-
one of the
-
first things,
-
there's maybe
-
many,
-
but one
-
thing that
-
goes first
-
a lot of
-
times is
-
eating out.
-
And because
-
that just
-
takes a lot
-
of money,
-
and if you're
-
watching the
-
budget,
-
that's kind
-
of the thing
-
that needs
-
to go.
-
Because
-
it's an
-
easy fix.
-
So what
-
happens,
-
though,
-
at 630
-
in the
-
evening,
-
when everyone's
-
looking at
-
each other
-
and nothing's
-
taken out of
-
the freezer,
-
and you're
-
thinking about
-
the chips and
-
salsa at the
-
Mexican place,
-
you know,
-
all of a sudden,
-
now we're going
-
to eat out.
-
Well,
-
was that
-
planned?
-
Did we
-
maybe forget
-
to take the
-
such and such
-
out of the
-
freezer so we
-
could have
-
dinner tonight?
-
Did we
-
maybe make
-
a little
-
opportunity
-
there to
-
break our
-
budget?
-
Probably,
-
right?
-
Because we're
-
smart and we
-
do these
-
things and
-
we're smarter
-
than our own
-
good,
-
probably,
-
truth be
-
told,
-
a lot of
-
times.
-
But that's
-
just a simple
-
example,
-
but it plays
-
out in all
-
kinds of
-
scenarios.
-
When our
-
desire wants
-
to draw
-
us into
-
sinful
-
thoughts,
-
sinful
-
actions,
-
we'll find
-
a way a
-
lot of
-
times.
-
Think about
-
areas and
-
scenarios like
-
gossip,
-
lust,
-
anger,
-
unforgiveness,
-
selfishness,
-
conceit.
-
These are all
-
ways that if
-
we want to
-
do these
-
things,
-
we'll find
-
a way.
-
We'll find
-
a way.
-
We'll get
-
upset with
-
somebody.
-
We'll be
-
too sensitive
-
over something
-
or other.
-
And we'll
-
find a way.
-
When desire
-
rules,
-
opportunities
-
are found
-
and sin
-
follows.
-
So the
-
third thing
-
in the
-
progression
-
is sin
-
grows.
-
So it's
-
conceived,
-
it's born,
-
and then it
-
grows.
-
And when
-
it becomes
-
fully grown,
-
it leads to
-
death.
-
But sin
-
begins by
-
being,
-
quote,
-
born in
-
this
-
illustration.
-
And so
-
in other
-
words,
-
it's young.
-
It's
-
fresh,
-
if you
-
will.
-
And at
-
that time,
-
it's easy
-
to see
-
against the
-
backdrop of
-
a righteous
-
life.
-
So if
-
you're just
-
moving through
-
life and
-
then all
-
of a sudden
-
desires or
-
temptation and
-
you give
-
in, when
-
that doesn't
-
normally
-
exist,
-
it's easy
-
to see.
-
If I put
-
a giant
-
purple spot
-
on this,
-
is this
-
grayish?
-
On this
-
grayish wall,
-
it's easy to
-
see because
-
it stands
-
out.
-
If I've
-
got 50
-
purple spots,
-
all of a
-
sudden that
-
first one
-
doesn't stand
-
out so much
-
anymore.
-
when it's
-
young,
-
don't let
-
it go any
-
further.
-
Confess,
-
repent.
-
That's when
-
it should be
-
put to death,
-
right then,
-
because we
-
know the
-
outcome.
-
God tells
-
us the
-
outcome is
-
death.
-
Otherwise,
-
sin as it
-
grows gets
-
more invasive
-
and it's
-
evil.
-
Allowing it
-
to grow,
-
there's a
-
few things
-
that if
-
we're going
-
to allow
-
the sin
-
to grow,
-
which is a
-
bad thing.
-
We don't
-
want to do
-
that, but
-
when we
-
do, the
-
first thing
-
that we do
-
is we
-
protect it.
-
So the
-
desire and
-
opportunity
-
says, this
-
is what I
-
want.
-
I'm not
-
going to
-
change my
-
mind.
-
I'm going
-
to keep
-
seeking this
-
particular sin.
-
So the
-
first thing I
-
do is I
-
protect it.
-
And I
-
don't let
-
anybody else
-
in.
-
I don't let
-
anyone tell
-
me it's
-
wrong.
-
I don't
-
let the
-
very words
-
of God
-
tell me
-
it's wrong.
-
I'm going
-
to protect
-
that sin
-
and just
-
keep putting
-
layers over
-
it as time
-
goes to
-
where it
-
just tends
-
to get
-
deeper and
-
deeper and
-
more a part
-
of who I
-
am.
-
The second
-
thing, if
-
you're going
-
to, if
-
this sin
-
grows, you
-
have to
-
feed it.
-
And the
-
feeding is
-
continuing to
-
go back.
-
Like you
-
think about
-
long-term
-
unforgiveness
-
maybe.
-
When you
-
have trouble
-
forgiving
-
somebody.
-
Every time
-
they do
-
something that
-
you don't
-
like or
-
the way
-
they say
-
something, it
-
just feeds
-
that unforgiveness
-
and allows
-
that sin to
-
exist and
-
go further
-
and further.
-
the third
-
thing for
-
believers
-
is a
-
self-deception.
-
A self-deception
-
that somehow
-
is okay
-
and somehow
-
I'm right.
-
And there's
-
a deception
-
that can take
-
scripture and
-
distort it
-
into saying
-
this is
-
right.
-
I stand
-
in a right
-
place.
-
That person's
-
wrong.
-
I'm right
-
and I
-
technically
-
deceive myself
-
into thinking
-
this.
-
Like a
-
tree, it
-
sets in
-
roots and
-
grows.
-
And if it's
-
not confessed
-
and repented,
-
it will just
-
continue to
-
get bigger
-
and the
-
roots deeper.
-
Sin earns
-
death.
-
Romans 6
-
23, the
-
wages of
-
sin is
-
death.
-
But the
-
gift of
-
God is
-
eternal
-
life in
-
Jesus
-
Christ our
-
Lord.
-
Death,
-
eternal
-
destruction
-
is at
-
the end
-
of a
-
life of
-
sin.
-
Well,
-
desire
-
tells us
-
a few
-
lies.
-
There's a
-
few lies
-
that that
-
desire
-
that's
-
within
-
us
-
tells us.
-
Number
-
one,
-
it tells
-
us that
-
what I
-
want
-
is good.
-
that
-
desire
-
inside
-
says what
-
I want
-
is good.
-
And
-
from my
-
standpoint,
-
it says
-
this would
-
be beneficial
-
to me.
-
Whatever
-
that might
-
be.
-
In my
-
example,
-
standing
-
there with
-
Patsy,
-
I said
-
in
-
some of
-
these
-
scenarios,
-
right,
-
I said
-
something
-
in my
-
mind like
-
I don't
-
want to
-
feel
-
disregarded
-
and
-
disrespected.
-
Well,
-
now,
-
that's a
-
common
-
thing,
-
right?
-
But that
-
should not
-
drive a
-
desire to
-
be mean
-
to Patsy
-
or not
-
compassionate
-
to Patsy.
-
It's a
-
lie.
-
Second
-
thing,
-
I should
-
have what
-
I want.
-
What I
-
want is
-
good,
-
and I
-
should have
-
what I
-
want.
-
And my
-
flesh thinks
-
it should
-
get what
-
it wants.
-
And that's
-
the point
-
at which
-
maybe you
-
steamroll
-
people or
-
you make
-
decisions you
-
shouldn't
-
make because
-
I should
-
have what
-
I want.
-
And you
-
hear the
-
selfishness
-
in that.
-
You hear
-
the selfishness
-
in that
-
sort of
-
desire
-
lie.
-
In my
-
example,
-
Patsy
-
should not
-
act this
-
way.
-
I'm
-
important.
-
I should
-
get what
-
I want.
-
And Patsy
-
should comply
-
with my
-
reality.
-
She's trying
-
to tell me
-
something,
-
but she
-
should go
-
with me.
-
She should
-
comply with
-
me.
-
That's what
-
I want.
-
A third
-
lie is it
-
is right
-
that I
-
get what
-
I want.
-
It is
-
right.
-
I have
-
justified
-
my desire.
-
Somehow,
-
in those
-
times,
-
I twist
-
truth
-
into
-
accommodating
-
my own
-
sense of
-
justice.
-
In other
-
words,
-
I take
-
God's
-
spot and
-
I say,
-
I'm going
-
to decide
-
what's
-
right here.
-
I'm going
-
to disregard
-
what God
-
says,
-
how I
-
should react
-
to Patsy,
-
and I'm
-
going to
-
say Patsy
-
should pay
-
for what
-
she's done
-
here.
-
Somehow,
-
right?
-
Maybe I
-
talked to
-
her manager.
-
I don't
-
know.
-
Patsy
-
should pay.
-
It sounds
-
crazy,
-
but come
-
on.
-
This is
-
how we
-
think,
-
isn't
-
it?
-
My own
-
sense of
-
justice.
-
It's
-
right that
-
I get
-
what I
-
want.
-
Fourth
-
lie is
-
God is
-
being good
-
to me
-
when I
-
get what
-
I want.
-
Now,
-
that's
-
really
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twisted
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because it
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leads into
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all kinds
-
of troubles,
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like a
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phrase like,
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I'm blessed
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when I
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get what
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my desire
-
says it
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needs.
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That is
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so twisted
-
and distorted.
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In my
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desire,
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my example,
-
desire may
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say,
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I should
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not have been
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spoken to by
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Patsy that
-
way,
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and if I
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set her
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right,
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maybe she'll
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be a better
-
employee down
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the line.
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Isn't that
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righteous of
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me?
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Isn't that
-
good?
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I'm
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bringing
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about
-
God's
-
plan.
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No,
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I'm
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not.
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In that
-
example,
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I would
-
have just
-
twisted
-
God's
-
word for
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my own
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use.
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And then
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I've
-
defined
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good,
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and it's
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not God's
-
definition
-
of good
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because it
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came from
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me.
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And I
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am not
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the giver
-
of gifts.
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I am
-
not the
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good,
-
gracious
-
giver
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of gifts.
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Look at
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verse 16.
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Look at
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the first
-
words.
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He says,
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do not
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be deceived.
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Do not
-
be deceived.
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Every
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good gift
-
and every
-
perfect gift
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is from
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above,
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coming down
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from the
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Father of
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lights,
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with whom
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there is
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no variation
-
or shadow
-
due to
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change.
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Do not
-
be deceived
-
about what?
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About the
-
fact that
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God
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gives good
-
gifts.
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That the
-
fact that
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I'm standing
-
there with
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Patsy,
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sorting
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this in
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my mind,
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this trial,
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this issue
-
is actually
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a good
-
gift from
-
God.
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And I,
-
at this
-
moment,
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get to
-
exercise
-
faith as
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I deal
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with this
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individual.
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And I
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get to
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exercise
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God's
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truth in
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compassion
-
and love
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and mercy
-
for this
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woman who
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doesn't
-
understand
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her
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software.
-
her.
-
Right?
-
She's
-
struggling
-
with it.
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I can
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give her
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space
-
there.
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And that's
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a good
-
gift.
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That's a
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good gift
-
that God
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gave me
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in that
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small
-
trial,
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in that
-
moment.
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James
-
reminds his
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dispersion
-
readers that
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good and
-
perfect gifts
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are from
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our Father.
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And remember,
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he doesn't
-
tempt us
-
and cannot
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be tempted
-
by evil.
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So,
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he doesn't
-
give any
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bad gifts.
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How do
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you tell
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when you're
-
leaning on
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your own
-
idea of a
-
good gift?
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Well,
-
is your
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idea of a
-
good gift,
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is it
-
scriptural?
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Do others
-
agree that
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it's
-
scriptural?
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Does the
-
spirit agree?
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this is
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the wicket
-
you have
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to run
-
that
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through.
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Trials
-
give us
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these
-
opportunities.
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And I
-
think that's
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one of the
-
things that
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as you
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escalate the
-
trial,
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it's harder
-
to believe
-
that.
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It's harder
-
because as
-
the trial
-
escalates,
-
as the
-
difficulty
-
in life
-
escalates,
-
it's the
-
same,
-
God's
-
saying,
-
the same
-
thing to
-
us here.
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That there
-
is an
-
issue,
-
that there
-
is a
-
response,
-
and there
-
is an
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outcome.
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Will we
-
trust him
-
in it?
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Will we
-
find joy
-
in it?
-
Will we
-
trust that
-
even the
-
difficult
-
ones,
-
the most
-
difficult
-
ones you
-
can think
-
of,
-
can be
-
a gift
-
from God
-
that he
-
uses in
-
our life?
-
Count it
-
all joy
-
when you
-
meet
-
trials?
-
Because God
-
gives those
-
good gifts.
-
Well,
-
this is not
-
just a moment
-
like standing
-
there with
-
Patsy.
-
It's not
-
just a
-
moment in
-
a string
-
of bad
-
things.
-
sometimes
-
we kind
-
of look
-
at one
-
issue
-
after another
-
and think,
-
man,
-
it's just
-
like a
-
bad day
-
or a
-
bad week
-
or things
-
are doing
-
just giving
-
me all
-
kinds of
-
trouble.
-
But this
-
is really
-
a heavenly
-
father giving
-
loving
-
tests
-
of sorts.
-
And
-
without
-
these type
-
of things,
-
how do
-
we grow?
-
Without
-
these trials,
-
without the
-
things that
-
press us
-
into having
-
to make
-
decisions to
-
honor the
-
Lord,
-
how do
-
we grow?
-
As
-
partners,
-
we intentionally
-
bring about
-
these moments
-
in a way.
-
We
-
speak to
-
one another.
-
Open
-
hearts,
-
open home,
-
open schedule,
-
right?
-
Well,
-
when we do
-
that,
-
we're
-
automatically
-
opening
-
ourselves up
-
to the
-
potential
-
of what
-
might be
-
a trial
-
because of
-
what somebody
-
says.
-
But we
-
do that
-
on purpose
-
because we
-
know that
-
good gifts
-
come from
-
that and
-
growth comes
-
from that.
-
Count it
-
all joy
-
in these
-
trials of
-
all kinds.
-
We get
-
into each
-
other's
-
lives,
-
ask the
-
questions,
-
talk about
-
the areas
-
of sin
-
and where
-
desire is
-
trying to
-
get a
-
foothold
-
into
-
our
-
life.
-
And
-
before
-
we
-
give
-
it
-
opportunity,
-
we
-
end it
-
right
-
there.
-
So do
-
not be
-
deceived.
-
God
-
does not
-
change
-
or vary
-
in his
-
word.
-
He
-
loves
-
us
-
and
-
provides
-
good
-
and
-
perfect
-
gifts
-
to
-
us.
-
And
-
he
-
wants
-
us
-
to
-
exist
-
and
-
bring
-
glory
-
to
-
himself.
-
That
-
last
-
part
-
there
-
of
-
18.
-
Of
-
his
-
own
-
will,
-
he
-
brought
-
us
-
forth
-
by
-
the
-
word
-
of
-
truth.
-
It
-
was
-
his
-
will.
-
He
-
loves
-
us.
-
He
-
loves
-
us.
-
He
-
made
-
us a
-
new
-
creation
-
to
-
open
-
our
-
eyes
-
through
-
faith
-
in
-
Christ.
-
Well,
-
let me
-
now
-
cinch
-
this
-
kitchen
-
trash
-
bag
-
together.
-
Right?
-
And
-
pull
-
these,
-
look at
-
these
-
paragraphs.
-
And
-
just
-
quick
-
bullet
-
points,
-
but think
-
of it
-
in a
-
big
-
idea
-
here
-
that
-
James
-
is
-
saying.
-
He
-
says
-
to
-
this
-
group,
-
trials
-
are
-
upon
-
you.
-
Trials
-
are
-
now
-
upon
-
you,
-
but take
-
joy
-
because
-
God
-
works
-
in
-
them
-
and
-
produces
-
steadfastness.
-
And
-
by the
-
way,
-
we don't
-
navigate
-
these
-
trials
-
alone.
-
We
-
don't
-
do it
-
alone.
-
Wisdom
-
is
-
required
-
and God's
-
going to
-
give
-
freely
-
to you
-
when you
-
ask in
-
faith.
-
And
-
remember,
-
guys,
-
life is
-
short,
-
but these
-
trials are
-
shorter.
-
they
-
don't
-
go on
-
forever.
-
And
-
the
-
Lord's
-
going to
-
take
-
care
-
of
-
you.
-
And
-
blessed
-
are
-
you
-
who
-
remain
-
steadfast
-
in
-
these
-
trials.
-
You'll
-
be
-
blessed.
-
And
-
the
-
way to
-
remain
-
steadfast
-
is to
-
put the
-
desires
-
of the
-
flesh
-
to
-
death.
-
Don't
-
be
-
deceived.
-
Don't
-
exchange
-
truth
-
for a
-
lie
-
in the
-
desires.
-
Don't
-
get
-
twisted
-
on that.
-
Don't
-
exchange
-
this
-
something
-
bad for
-
God's
-
good
-
gift.
-
Because
-
he gives
-
you these
-
good
-
gifts,
-
and
-
the
-
trial
-
itself
-
is a
-
good
-
gift
-
for
-
you.
-
Let's
-
pray.