Sermon
God Opposes The Proud (James 4:1-10)
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James chapter 4. James is speaking to the Jewish Christians, the Jews among the dispersion, who are professing Christ.
James 4 chapter mention
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! He starts off his chapter by bringing up what is a friendship with the world, a type of worldliness in them that he confronts very directly.
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And we'll see as we go through this how James deals with them and hopefully draw some conclusions for our church this day and age.
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Before we dig into the text, I'm just going to pray and then we'll walk through it. Sound good?
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All right. Lord, I thank you, God, for your word. Thank you, God, that in your word is power.
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Thank you that it is a living word that is alive and active.
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I pray, God, that you would help me to speak truthfully from your word, that you would give me your mouth, Lord, to only speak what you are saying.
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I pray that you would encourage us, Lord, and build us up today, that we would walk away more sanctified, Lord, more trusting of you, more repentant, God.
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In true and earnest repentance, Lord, we would turn back to you where we have gone astray.
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In Jesus' name. Amen.
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Okay, James chapter 4, beginning in verse 1.
James 4 chapter mention
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It says,
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Okay, so there's a lot in here.
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As I was praying and thinking about how I would present this before you.
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James is writing to Christians who are duplicitous in their living and acting as Christians.
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He starts off with a question.
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He says,
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So he poses a question.
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Obviously, there's not perfect unity.
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At least that, you know, he can maybe see.
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He knows that there's tension.
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And then there's a little bit of fighting.
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There's a little bit of arguing.
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There's a little bit of obvious quarreling.
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And he asks the question.
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He's like,
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What causes this?
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Okay.
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And then he almost rhetorically answers just after.
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He says,
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Isn't that this, that your passions are at war within you?
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In other words, you fight because you want to fight from deep within.
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You have a genuine reason for fighting.
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It's not happenstance.
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It's not, well, you know, like, I just don't get along with this person.
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And, you know, so we bicker, you know.
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He clearly gets to the heart of the quarreling and the fighting by saying,
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There's something within us or within you that drives the fighting, and it's your passions.
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He says,
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Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you?
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In Mark 7, verse 14, Jesus says,
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And he called the people again and said to them,
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Hear me, all of you, and understand.
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There's nothing outside a person that by going into him can defile him.
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But the things that come out of a person are what defile him.
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Okay, so Jesus doubles down in a very similar manner to James,
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saying that it's not the externals that frustrate us and cause us to quarrel and fight,
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but the internals.
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Okay, out of our, Jesus later says,
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Out of our heart come all these things, envy and malice and greed and lust,
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and all these things from within, out of our own hearts.
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James is doing the same thing as Jesus.
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He's doubling down and saying,
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I know exactly what's going on here.
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And I think you can see later that they actually do as well,
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but there is a suppression of that truth,
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or maybe a sharing,
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even though they do know the truth that's within them,
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there's a sharing of, or being okay with that,
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that's letting them go on and quarreling and fighting.
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And so, you can see here in Mark 7, when Jesus speaks,
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he's almost reminding the people.
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You can see it, he says,
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he called the people again to himself.
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And then, he's very direct.
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He says, hear me all of you,
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and understand that it's not,
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there's nothing outside a person
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that by going into him can defile him.
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Okay, so he's reiterating, he's like,
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you have to remember something about what comes from within,
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and what issues from within outward,
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not merely outward in.
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Okay, and then he explains
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how that person is guilty from within,
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and not from the outside causes.
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So, a lot of the times with us,
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you know, in our day-to-day life,
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we're tempted to think that
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we get ripped off by
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so many different things.
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You know,
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if only I made more money,
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if only I had,
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you know,
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a different boss,
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maybe different spouse,
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you know,
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if only he understood me,
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if only she didn't nag me,
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all these things.
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I am this way because of the outside.
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Okay?
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Well, Jesus says,
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no, you're not this way.
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These frustrations within you
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aren't merely,
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only causal from the outside.
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There's another acting thing,
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and that's called your passions within you.
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Paul gets at this when he says that
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our passions are aroused by the law.
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So, when the commandment comes,
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sin comes as well.
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It comes alive in us.
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Not in the other person,
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but in us,
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Paul says in Romans 7.
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And so,
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it's really important for us to remember
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as we're reading James,
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is that
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we are the same,
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you know,
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these people were born after Adam
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in sin,
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and so are we.
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So,
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this type of quarreling,
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this type of struggle,
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is the same struggle
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that we are vulnerable to.
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Okay?
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And these aren't
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maybe degenerate unbelievers.
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These are professing Christians.
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So,
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this is our category as well.
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So,
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when we read this,
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let's hear the words of James
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and examine ourselves.
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Amen?
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Amen?
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Okay.
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You see this all the time.
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I think,
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honestly,
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with parenting,
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it's even more clear.
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Parents love to make excuses
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for their children's misbehavior,
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even if there's some truth to them.
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You know,
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I hear a lot,
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you know,
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he just didn't nap.
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Sorry.
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It's just like,
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well,
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yeah,
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it makes sense.
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I would probably be a little crabby
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if I was tired,
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but,
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in the end,
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his lack of napping
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is not the causal agent
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for his screaming.
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Right?
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They come out of the womb
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disobedient,
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and
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it's not merely that
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the world is against them.
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It might be,
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but
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we as parents
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are supposed to teach them
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how to master their passions
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within them.
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Okay?
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You know,
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I was listening to,
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actually,
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an unbelieving parent talk
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to his son,
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probably three or four years old,
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and his son was really fussy,
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would not calm down,
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and all the dad was saying
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is basically,
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son,
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like,
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you ate a lot of sugar.
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You know,
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that's what happens
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when you have too much sugar.
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You know,
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you hit a low,
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and you need to learn from that.
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I'm kind of thinking,
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like,
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he probably did eat a lot of sugar,
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but that is not the reason
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for why he's acting this way.
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You know,
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in fact,
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if I ate a lot of sugar,
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I would probably be super stoked.
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You know,
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like,
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maybe I'll hit a low later
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and be like him,
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but
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the problem is not
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the externals.
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I think you guys get that,
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but
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it's not merely that,
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you know,
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it's all external,
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but
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we frustrate ourselves,
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you know.
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This dad was trying
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to convince his son
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that he really valued
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not fussing,
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which was pretty much
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pointless for his son
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because his son
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clearly didn't have that
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as a category for value.
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You know,
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he valued sugar,
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you know.
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Not fussing,
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he was cool with not fussing
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because
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he wants something
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completely different.
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That's an easy
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illustration for us,
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but we,
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like children
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in Christ,
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if we are not
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sanctified by the Holy Spirit,
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are not mature
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and are like children,
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okay,
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in that we
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want to do the things
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that we should not
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want to do.
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From within,
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we
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don't have self-control,
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you know.
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We might have
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it put together
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on the outside,
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but where
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is our hearts?
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Are we like children
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in our hearts,
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wanting,
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maybe even lusting,
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as we're going to examine
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the way that James speaks?
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So it's good to ask ourselves
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and even pray,
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Lord,
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make us not like children,
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as the Apostle Paul said.
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Let us grow up
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into maturity.
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Save us from the ways
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that we are
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throwing
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inner tantrums.
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Okay,
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and so
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James says,
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is it not your passions
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that are at war
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within you?
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All right,
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and
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he says,
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you desire,
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so that's the passion element,
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you desire
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and do not have,
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so you murder.
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You can even hear
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James chapter 1
James 1 chapter mention
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in here,
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the progression of sin.
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First comes desire,
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and then
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it gives birth
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to sin.
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It says,
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you desire
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and do not have,
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so you murder.
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You covet
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and cannot obtain,
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so you fight
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and quarrel.
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You do not have
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because you do not ask.
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So we fight
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and quarrel
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because we want to.
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We fight
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also because we're empty.
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Okay,
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notice how
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James says,
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you desire
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and do not have,
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okay,
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emptiness.
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You don't have,
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and so you murder.
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Now,
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emptiness
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doesn't necessarily
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lead to
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only the sin of murder,
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as we can see
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when James says,
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you also covet
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and what?
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And cannot obtain,
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so you don't have
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something again.
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Okay,
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you do not have,
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can't obtain,
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you don't possess,
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because you do not ask.
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So,
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we see James
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is going hard,
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he's saying,
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he's like,
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you fight because
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you want to,
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and you fight
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because you're empty.
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You fight because
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you don't have something.
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The emptiness
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always comes
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from a place
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of not being satisfied.
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It always comes
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from the lack
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of satisfaction,
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lack of having enough,
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and so,
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that makes
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our passions
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eager
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to fill
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the lack,
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right?
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And James
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says,
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you do not have,
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almost shockingly,
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in a way,
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shockingly simple,
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that is,
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you do not have
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simply because
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you don't ask.
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So,
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he turns it away
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from their passions
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and their emptiness
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and now turns it
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towards God.
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You don't,
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you don't have
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something because
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you don't actually
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come to the one
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who possesses it,
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who owns everything,
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who is God,
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who created you
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in this world
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with everything in it.
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You don't have
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because you don't
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come and ask.
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You ask,
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verse,
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in verse 3,
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you ask and do
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not receive
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because you ask
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wrongly.
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Okay,
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now he's doubling
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down on even
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the asking.
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It's not merely
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asking,
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but it's,
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why do you ask?
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What do you ask
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for?
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With what motive?
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He says,
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you do not ask,
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or you ask
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and do not receive
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because you ask
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wrongly
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to spend it
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on your own
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passions.
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He says,
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there is a way
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that you come
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to the Lord
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that's genuine.
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That doesn't say,
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okay, James,
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we get it.
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Pray to the Lord,
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you know,
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and we'll get something.
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I'll pray to the Lord.
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Lord,
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give me what I want.
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You know,
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just,
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just make,
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make my wife
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less this way.
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It's like,
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well,
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the Lord's just like,
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maybe I called you
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to love her,
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right?
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And vice versa.
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We pray all the time.
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Maybe we don't,
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maybe we don't call it prayer.
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Maybe we just offer up
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thoughts to God
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of accusations
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of the things
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in our life.
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But this is an asking,
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this is an asking
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that's wrong.
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This is asking wrongly.
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And we need to watch out
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with how we approach God.
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And we're going to see
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as James walks through this,
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how we actually do truly
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come to the Lord
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and ask genuinely.
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that we receive.
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So he says,
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you ask and do not receive
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because you ask wrongly.
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Spend it
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on your own passions.
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This reminds me of
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when Jesus fed
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the 5,000.
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He gave them all bread,
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performed the miracle.
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And he,
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he brought a crowd with them
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as he left.
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and then he started
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to speak to them
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and he's just like,
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I know why you're seeking me.
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It's because
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you enjoyed the bread
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I gave you
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and you probably want
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some more of that.
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Maybe it wasn't a bad thing,
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but you can kind of hear
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a tone in there
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of
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childlike
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following.
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You're only seeking me
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because I fed you.
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You know,
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you don't really want
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to ask of me
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for my teaching.
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You don't really care
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about my teaching.
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You want to be fed again.
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And that's when he,
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of course,
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says,
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I am the bread of life.
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I am
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the one who comes down
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from heaven
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and feeds you.
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Not in a mere
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temporal sense,
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but I feed your soul.
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You know,
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and so
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you can hear that
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even as James speaks
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with the asking
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of the Lord.
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Do we ask
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in the mere temporal sense
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for a temporal bread,
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so to speak?
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Or are we seeking
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the Lord
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because we want Him?
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We want the satisfaction
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that comes from Him
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as the bread of life.
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So in verse 3,
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he says,
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you ask and do not receive
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because you want
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to spend it wrongly.
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And then James
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keeps going.
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He says,
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you adulterous people.
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He brings His rebuke
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just almost to its antithesis.
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He calls them
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an adulterous people.
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Okay?
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I mean,
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this is,
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so if you're a Jew,
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even if you're a,
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now a Messianic Jew,
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follower of Jesus,
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you don't forget
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all that you were raised
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and born with
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from the Old Testament
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scriptures.
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These people are
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well keyed into the law.
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And that is one,
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as we know,
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one of the Ten Commandments,
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you shall not commit adultery.
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Okay?
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So he just straight up,
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doesn't seem like he
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cuts any corners.
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He spares the temperate speech.
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And he just says,
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you are an adulterous people.
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Okay?
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Sure,
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if I would hear this
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and I had a little bit
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of pride in me,
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I would be very offended.
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So James says,
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you're an adulterous people.
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And both the Old Testament
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and the New Testament
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speaks of God
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in a way,
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many times,
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as our husband,
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we are his bride
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in a covenant,
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in a marriage covenant,
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so to speak,
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spiritually.
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And,
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the Jews know this.
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And so James says,
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you
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are a people
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having an affair.
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there's something
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grossly unfaithful
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about you.
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There's an infidelity
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that has snuck
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into your hearts
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with how you live,
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with how you say,
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I live for the Lord.
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I live for God.
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And he's saying,
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you are an adulterous people.
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You fight and quarrel.
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You let your lust
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and your passions
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rule you.
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Okay?
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We want to say,
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and I would caution
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even myself
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as I read this,
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we want to say,
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surely not me.
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You know?
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Or surely not to
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the degree
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that I would
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put other
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people in the category of.
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You know,
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that's not me.
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I know who it is.
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They're in that category.
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And so,
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I think I'm good
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with the Lord.
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James,
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watch out.
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So as to
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not actually
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be found
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genuinely
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in the category
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that James
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is speaking to.
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The Lord wants
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us to be humble
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and receive
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what the Lord
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is saying
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to James.
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Examine ourselves.
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He spares no expense.
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He says,
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you are an adulterous people,
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unfaithful in the way
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that you are living
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and acting.
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And the reason
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that I know this,
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he says,
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is because you are
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fighting and quarreling.
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Okay?
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Now,
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that doesn't mean
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that we're off the hook
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if you have
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a
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merely
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externally
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non-quarreling
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marriage,
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friendships,
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etc.
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Because remember,
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he doubles down
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on the passions.
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You know,
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there is a way,
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and I'm sure
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all of you
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have experienced this,
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where you can
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hold it together,
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but you are angry
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on the inside.
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Okay?
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James is also
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speaking to us.
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Who know that
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and struggle with that.
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Maybe we'd be humble.
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Okay?
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This is the exact language,
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actually,
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that Jesus uses
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in Matthew 12,
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when he's talking
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to the Pharisees,
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essentially the
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proud ones
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of his day,
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professing Christians,
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maybe,
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they would say,
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or at least
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followers of
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their father Abraham.
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He says,
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an evil
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and adulterous
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generation
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seeks for a sign,
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but no sign
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will be given,
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except the sign
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of the prophet Jonah.
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So he uses,
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again,
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to the Jews,
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this image
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of evil
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and adulterous
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infidelity.
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and we
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must take heed
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that we
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understand
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where James
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is going.
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So,
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moving on,
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what does he say
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after his
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strong abuse?
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Do you not
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know
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that friendship
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with the world
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is enmity
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with God?
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Therefore,
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whoever wishes
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to be a friend
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of the world
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makes himself
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an enemy
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of God.
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in what ways
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do we live
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our lives
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that are,
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that we know,
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what areas
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are we neutral
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to the world
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so that we can
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have
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maybe some
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pleasure
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and mostly,
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we might say,
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living for the Lord,
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that sort of thing.
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I would,
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I would,
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I would press this
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that there is no
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neutrality to the world.
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that we can share.
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Neutrality to the world
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ends
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in serving
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two masters.
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We,
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we can't be neutral.
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We either have to be
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enemies of the world
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so as
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to not be
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drawn in
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by the world.
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Friendship with the world
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is enmity with God.
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You know,
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a lot of examples
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of this is,
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obviously,
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we're put in,
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we're in the world.
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Jesus says,
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you know,
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we're in the world
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but not of the world.
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We're called to preach
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the gospel to the world
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so we have to
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interact with the world,
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much of the world,
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all the time.
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But,
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obviously,
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I hope it's obvious
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that James is speaking
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about the state
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of our souls
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with the world.
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Our souls must remain
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untouched by the stain
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of the world.
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And he's speaking
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of the world
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in this sense,
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not in the
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all-encompassing
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general world
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but the world
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that is in rebellion
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against God
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and the ways of God
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that doesn't accept
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God's Son,
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Jesus Christ.
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And we must watch out
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that we don't
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become
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neutral.
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Obviously,
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not share,
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but the neutrality
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is difficult.
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That is where
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the schemes of the devil
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want to sneak in
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and let us think
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like the world.
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We're born into it.
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We're born into
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actually already
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having a carnal mindset.
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And praise be to God
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that if we're in Christ,
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we are daily
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being sanctified,
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saved from that carnality,
-
but take heed.
-
You know,
-
Corinthians says,
-
if any man thinks
-
he stands,
-
let him take heed
-
lest he fall.
-
Okay?
-
God is saving us,
-
no doubt.
-
And we should have
-
assurance
-
on God's promises
-
that he will indeed
-
cleanse us,
-
but God does not want
-
us to be
-
unaware
-
and passive.
-
And so,
-
that leads me to
-
the next part of James
-
where James
-
starts to begin
-
his solution
-
to their problem.
-
He kind of just went
-
on a mini saga
-
of explaining,
-
diagnosing,
-
and then rebuking
-
them hardcore
-
for what's going on.
-
And he says
-
in
-
verse 6,
-
right there,
-
yeah,
-
verse 6,
-
but he gives more grace.
-
Therefore,
-
it says,
-
God opposes the proud
-
but gives grace
-
to the humble.
-
This is the first part
-
of his portion
-
that we kind of get
-
a little bit of a lift,
-
right?
-
At least on the back
-
end of that.
-
He says,
-
God opposes
-
the proud
-
but gives grace
-
to the humble.
-
A lot of this
-
comes from
-
simply not
-
knowing God
-
as he truly is
-
and
-
the pride
-
of life
-
as 1 John says,
-
the love of the world,
-
things like money,
-
things like just
-
ways of thinking
-
that are carnal.
-
all these things
-
are desirable
-
but when we actually
-
think about God,
-
we seldom have
-
a true fear
-
that extinguishes
-
our pride.
-
If we truly
-
feared the Lord,
-
we would regard
-
the ways
-
and the methods
-
of the world
-
as nothing
-
in comparison
-
to the ways
-
of God.
-
God,
-
as in the prophets,
-
I think Isaiah
-
the prophet says
-
that
-
the Lord says
-
that I
-
am not like you.
-
My thoughts,
-
what I think
-
as God,
-
are not your thoughts.
-
We are not God.
-
Now a lot of us
-
may be like,
-
well duh,
-
we're not God.
-
But
-
we act
-
as though
-
we have
-
the final say,
-
that we are
-
the masters
-
of our own destiny,
-
so to speak.
-
We determine
-
the ways
-
and methods
-
of our life.
-
But let me remind us
-
that God
-
is not like us.
-
Okay?
-
God is not
-
like us.
-
God is not a man
-
that he should
-
lie,
-
the scripture says.
-
We lie
-
to ourselves
-
and are tempted
-
by the king
-
of lies,
-
the devil.
-
He speaks
-
and we listen.
-
Okay?
-
God is not like us.
-
God is so far
-
different from us.
-
And
-
make no mistake,
-
God is condescended
-
to where we
-
can know him
-
and become like us
-
in the sense that
-
in the face
-
of Jesus Christ
-
that we can know God.
-
But make no mistake
-
that God
-
is not
-
one of us.
-
Okay?
-
God is completely other.
-
He is completely holy
-
without stain,
-
without threat
-
of neutrality
-
to the world.
-
He would have to
-
not be God
-
to lay down
-
his divine
-
nature
-
in order to
-
be like us.
-
And I'm saying
-
all these things
-
that are the fundamental
-
things in Christianity
-
that we should
-
yes and amen
-
and even
-
you know
-
in the general sense
-
we do.
-
But I'm reminding us
-
because we're forgetful.
-
Okay?
-
It means that
-
all of our
-
methods,
-
all of our
-
principles,
-
all of our
-
practices,
-
beliefs,
-
opinions,
-
preferences,
-
tastes,
-
styles,
-
must
-
in the end
-
come into subjection
-
and must bow
-
prostrate before
-
the true and living God.
-
Okay?
-
His name
-
is the King
-
of Kings.
-
And
-
he will have that
-
written on his thigh
-
when he comes.
-
We're forgetful.
-
The reason I bring this up
-
is because
-
to not
-
live and regard
-
God as such
-
is to be proud.
-
Okay?
-
James says
-
in verse 6,
-
but he gives more
-
grace.
-
Therefore it says
-
God opposes the proud
-
but gives grace
-
to the humble.
-
So,
-
this is also
-
another weighty
-
verse.
-
God opposes
-
the proud.
-
God straight up
-
opposes our
-
prideful selves.
-
I don't know
-
about you,
-
but I do not
-
want to be
-
opposed by God.
-
Even as we
-
build this church,
-
it would be
-
a lot of sorrow
-
if in our pride
-
God opposed
-
Christ's church.
-
Lord,
-
save us
-
and help us
-
that we be not
-
lifted up
-
in our own souls.
-
That we not
-
care so much
-
for the things
-
of the world
-
or the thoughts
-
of men
-
that we
-
care less
-
about the thoughts
-
of God.
-
God
-
So,
-
let's really
-
consider the
-
severity of this.
-
It's not merely
-
that our spouses
-
oppose us,
-
our friends
-
when we're
-
prideful or
-
in some general
-
way that life
-
is of less
-
quality and
-
worse for us
-
because of our
-
pride,
-
but it's
-
actually,
-
maybe all those
-
things are true,
-
but it's actually
-
that the almighty
-
true and living
-
God who created
-
us opposes us
-
in some way.
-
God stands
-
against us
-
when we're proud.
-
You see this
-
throughout scripture
-
many times.
-
I mean,
-
you could even
-
say that that
-
was the origin
-
of evil.
-
It was the pride
-
of Lucifer
-
that made him
-
be cast down.
-
It was the pride
-
of Adam and Eve
-
in the garden
-
that brought
-
humanity with
-
him into the grave.
-
It was the pride
-
of Saul
-
that he became
-
wise in his own
-
eyes,
-
Samuel said,
-
and he lifted
-
himself up
-
that he was
-
removed as
-
God's anointed.
-
This lives
-
very close
-
at hand.
-
O Christ
-
Church,
-
may we not
-
build God's
-
house with
-
pride in our
-
hearts,
-
for God
-
will not
-
build with
-
us.
-
So what are
-
some examples
-
of pride?
-
There's so many
-
examples of
-
pride.
-
When I was
-
praying
-
specifically for
-
our body
-
and the Lord
-
to speak,
-
like,
-
Lord,
-
if you
-
would convict
-
us of this
-
sin of
-
elevation and
-
loftiness in
-
our own
-
selves and in
-
our own
-
pride,
-
what would
-
it be?
-
And a couple
-
things came to
-
mind that I
-
think maybe
-
aren't concrete
-
but could be
-
for our body.
-
One of them
-
is when we
-
have a culture
-
that speaks
-
the truth in
-
love,
-
as we should,
-
or we
-
confront one
-
another as
-
we should,
-
there's
-
kind of two
-
acting parts
-
in that
-
equation.
-
One is the
-
deliverer,
-
right?
-
Pride in
-
bringing the
-
confrontation,
-
pride in
-
getting it
-
across,
-
right?
-
Trusting in
-
yourself to
-
make something
-
happen,
-
right?
-
So that's
-
pride in the
-
deliverer.
-
But also,
-
let's say
-
there is
-
true speaking
-
the truth in
-
love.
-
So that is
-
without pride.
-
That's truly
-
loving the
-
person,
-
truly caring
-
for them.
-
But then
-
there's the
-
other side
-
of the
-
reception,
-
the receiver
-
of the
-
word.
-
Oftentimes
-
what can
-
happen,
-
I think
-
it's always
-
the case
-
where I'm
-
tempted when
-
I'm confronted
-
with pride,
-
is to
-
immediately
-
be offended.
-
Immediately
-
say,
-
you know,
-
you're wrong,
-
or even
-
if you're
-
right,
-
you're still
-
wrong.
-
You know,
-
kind of
-
attitude.
-
A type
-
of cringe
-
that pushes
-
you to
-
go with
-
your passions,
-
right?
-
And I
-
think this
-
is a way
-
that God
-
would warn
-
us as a
-
church when
-
we are
-
confronted,
-
even with
-
small things,
-
seemingly
-
small things,
-
not to be
-
lifted up
-
in our
-
pride,
-
so as
-
not to
-
receive
-
what the
-
Lord might
-
be saying.
-
Okay?
-
It might
-
seem like
-
on the
-
outside,
-
like,
-
everything
-
can be
-
cordial and
-
temperate and
-
good,
-
but examine
-
our hearts
-
with how we
-
actually believe
-
when someone
-
comes to us
-
and say,
-
hey,
-
I think
-
this might
-
be a little
-
off,
-
or I think
-
there might
-
be,
-
maybe even
-
not like
-
straight up
-
confrontation
-
of sin
-
per se,
-
but maybe
-
even just
-
bringing up
-
our personal
-
ways,
-
bringing up
-
a better
-
method of
-
something,
-
a better
-
way of
-
doing
-
things.
-
If we
-
bring something
-
up and say,
-
hey,
-
I think it
-
would be best
-
to do
-
something this
-
way,
-
X,
-
Y,
-
and Z,
-
insert your
-
own scenario,
-
and the
-
other person
-
is just like,
-
nah,
-
my way is
-
better,
-
kind of
-
reaction in
-
your heart,
-
or,
-
this guy
-
doesn't know
-
what he's
-
talking about,
-
like,
-
I think
-
I'm,
-
you know,
-
my way is
-
better,
-
and your
-
way might
-
be better,
-
but your
-
heart is
-
not,
-
okay,
-
and watch
-
out lest
-
we lift
-
ourselves up,
-
even in
-
the small
-
things,
-
even in
-
the ways
-
and the
-
methods
-
and the
-
principles,
-
okay,
-
the Lord
-
stands
-
against the
-
pride of
-
our hearts,
-
and so,
-
are we
-
immediately
-
offended,
-
do we
-
stay offended,
-
do we
-
provide
-
ourselves
-
with a
-
sort of
-
purgatory,
-
a time
-
where,
-
you know,
-
I'm offended
-
until I'm
-
not,
-
you know,
-
a certain
-
amount of
-
time passed,
-
or my
-
relationship's
-
bad right now,
-
but it'll get
-
good type of
-
attitude,
-
it's like,
-
no,
-
make it right,
-
confess your
-
sin,
-
resist your
-
sin,
-
resist those
-
feelings that
-
rise up
-
within you,
-
okay,
-
we're all
-
susceptible to
-
this,
-
I know
-
myself that
-
I'm tempted
-
many times
-
to be
-
offended,
-
and to
-
think,
-
to elevate
-
my way
-
above others,
-
and God
-
forgive me,
-
and give me a
-
heart after
-
his,
-
lack of
-
submission
-
to God,
-
or the
-
authority that
-
God has
-
appointed,
-
either authority
-
in the church,
-
or authority
-
in the home,
-
husbands,
-
and wives
-
that relationship,
-
one of the
-
worst,
-
one of the
-
worst things
-
to be
-
is a
-
person in
-
authority
-
that although
-
someone
-
submits to
-
your authority
-
and yet
-
disagrees,
-
is kind of
-
begrudgingly
-
goes along
-
in that
-
sort of
-
submission.
-
That's not
-
submission,
-
because full
-
submission actually
-
says,
-
I'm stating
-
what I
-
disagree,
-
if it's not,
-
you know,
-
obviously sin,
-
and things that
-
God tells you
-
to oppose,
-
but if it's
-
mainly things
-
that you have
-
differing opinions,
-
methods,
-
principles,
-
one of the
-
things that's
-
the worst
-
is when
-
you say,
-
you know what,
-
I'll go along
-
with you because
-
you're the guy
-
in authority,
-
you're my
-
husband,
-
but I'm not
-
going to be
-
happy the
-
whole time.
-
I'm just
-
going to go
-
along with
-
you because
-
I have to,
-
and you know
-
what,
-
I disagree,
-
so I don't
-
have to be
-
happy about
-
it.
-
Well,
-
that's not
-
real submission.
-
That's simply
-
trying to
-
appease God
-
and the
-
person you're
-
under just
-
to get
-
by,
-
and the
-
Lord wants
-
us actually
-
to submit
-
with joy,
-
to say,
-
you know what,
-
this is not
-
on me.
-
God has
-
appointed the
-
authorities that
-
be,
-
and I am
-
going to
-
champion their
-
way,
-
even though I
-
disagree,
-
even though it's
-
not how I
-
want it,
-
but I will
-
with joy
-
support them
-
because in
-
doing so,
-
I am
-
obeying the
-
Lord.
-
And when we
-
say we have
-
submission,
-
when we say
-
we,
-
you know,
-
we are
-
obeying,
-
when in
-
reality our
-
hearts are
-
far from
-
obedience,
-
we betray
-
our own
-
selves and
-
the Lord.
-
Another area
-
I think pride
-
can sneak
-
in,
-
or maybe
-
just,
-
this is a
-
little bit
-
at a
-
different
-
angle,
-
but discounting
-
yourself and
-
your gifting.
-
We have
-
some exceptional
-
people in
-
this room,
-
exceptionally
-
gifted people
-
by the
-
Lord.
-
the Lord
-
has given
-
people gifts
-
in this
-
room.
-
And I
-
think
-
sometimes
-
we can
-
discount
-
ourselves
-
and say,
-
no,
-
the Lord,
-
you know,
-
the Lord
-
uses people,
-
but probably
-
not so much
-
me,
-
and I'm
-
fine with
-
that,
-
and maybe
-
I'll just
-
kind of
-
just sit
-
my whole
-
life type
-
of thing.
-
that sounds
-
slightly
-
humble,
-
but the
-
problem is
-
if the
-
Lord gifts
-
you,
-
if it's
-
the Lord
-
who gives
-
and you
-
say,
-
no,
-
I won't,
-
you can
-
see the
-
pride in
-
that,
-
right?
-
You can
-
see the
-
disobedient
-
aspect towards
-
how the
-
Lord gifts
-
us.
-
And so
-
don't
-
discount
-
yourself.
-
If the
-
Spirit of
-
God truly
-
lives in
-
us,
-
then we
-
will want
-
His Spirit
-
to be
-
dispensed
-
from us.
-
Okay?
-
And so
-
where are we
-
at?
-
I think I'm
-
still on
-
verse 6.
-
It says,
-
God opposes
-
the proud,
-
but gives
-
grace to
-
the humble.
-
Submit
-
yourselves
-
therefore to
-
God,
-
resist the
-
devil,
-
and he
-
will flee
-
from you.
-
Draw near to
-
God,
-
and he
-
will draw
-
near to
-
you.
-
Cleanse
-
your hands,
-
you sinners.
-
Purify
-
your hearts,
-
you double-minded.
-
So,
-
he opposes
-
the proud,
-
but he
-
gives grace
-
to the
-
humble.
-
Now we're
-
getting into
-
the good
-
news of
-
this passage,
-
which James
-
prepares us
-
for,
-
I think,
-
in exposing.
-
Every time
-
the gospel
-
comes with
-
good news,
-
it always
-
comes with
-
conviction,
-
with a
-
type of
-
repentance.
-
If the
-
gospel is
-
good news
-
to you,
-
but your
-
sin is
-
nowhere in
-
sight,
-
and there's
-
no evidence
-
of repentance,
-
it's merely
-
good news.
-
It's not the
-
gospel.
-
And so,
-
he says,
-
God opposes
-
the proud,
-
but he gives
-
grace to the
-
humble.
-
So when we
-
know that
-
we're sinners,
-
when we know
-
that we lift
-
ourselves up,
-
what do we
-
do?
-
Do we stay
-
there,
-
like I said,
-
or do we
-
humble
-
ourselves?
-
Humility is
-
always way
-
easier and
-
way better.
-
I mean,
-
easier in the
-
sense where
-
it's not easy
-
that you have
-
to deny your
-
pride,
-
because that's
-
hard to do,
-
but it always
-
goes better.
-
It always is
-
easier in the
-
sense where
-
humility,
-
when someone
-
genuinely
-
confronts you,
-
for example,
-
and says,
-
hey,
-
you sinned in
-
this area,
-
or hey,
-
you're not
-
great at this,
-
you know,
-
speaks the truth
-
and love to
-
you,
-
and you have
-
an option.
-
Do I be
-
lifted up?
-
Do I entertain
-
my pride and
-
offense?
-
Or do I say,
-
this is an
-
opportunity for
-
me to be
-
humble?
-
I can be
-
humble right
-
now.
-
I can say,
-
you're right,
-
I did do
-
that,
-
or yes,
-
that's not
-
my strength.
-
Thank you
-
for bringing
-
this to me.
-
I'll pray
-
about this,
-
you can pray
-
for me,
-
and I'm
-
going to
-
seek the
-
Lord and
-
be better.
-
That's
-
humility.
-
That's
-
humility.
-
That always
-
brings the
-
Lord into
-
it.
-
There's no
-
opposition from
-
God on that.
-
God does
-
not oppose
-
that person
-
that bows
-
and says,
-
Lord,
-
you know
-
you're right,
-
I am
-
but a
-
man,
-
and you
-
are
-
God.
-
Okay?
-
James
-
in verse
-
7 says,
-
submit
-
yourselves
-
therefore
-
to God.
-
After he
-
says all
-
this,
-
he says,
-
what do
-
we do
-
now?
-
We
-
submit.
-
We
-
come
-
underneath
-
the
-
Lord.
-
We
-
agree
-
with
-
the
-
Lord.
-
We
-
agree
-
that
-
only
-
the
-
Lord
-
is
-
right.
-
Submit
-
yourselves
-
therefore
-
to
-
God.
-
Resist
-
the
-
devil
-
and
-
he
-
will
-
flee
-
from
-
you.
-
The
-
author
-
of
-
pride
-
you might
-
even
-
say,
-
the devil
-
tempts us
-
to be
-
proud,
-
tempts us
-
to come
-
in,
-
agrees and
-
partners with
-
our flesh
-
to lift
-
us up.
-
James
-
says,
-
resist him
-
and he'll
-
leave.
-
That's
-
a promise.
-
If you
-
say,
-
I will
-
be
-
humble,
-
even
-
though
-
it's
-
painful,
-
even
-
though
-
my
-
offense
-
is
-
real
-
and
-
strong,
-
I
-
will
-
submit
-
to
-
the
-
Lord
-
and
-
Satan
-
must
-
be
-
gone.
-
He
-
will
-
flee
-
from
-
that
-
person.
-
Verse
-
8,
-
draw near
-
to God
-
and he
-
will
-
draw near
-
to
-
you.
-
Cleanse
-
your hands
-
you
-
sinners
-
and
-
purify
-
your
-
hearts
-
you
-
double
-
minded.
-
This is
-
one of
-
my
-
favorite
-
verses
-
in
-
James,
-
honestly,
-
in the
-
whole
-
Bible.
-
It's
-
a
-
promise.
-
If we
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
God,
-
he
-
will
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
us.
-
Okay?
-
How many
-
times
-
are we
-
tempted
-
to
-
feel
-
distant
-
from
-
the
-
Lord,
-
alienated
-
from
-
God,
-
when the
-
scripture
-
says,
-
in fact,
-
that if
-
we
-
were in
-
Christ,
-
we
-
were
-
once
-
alienated,
-
Ephesians
-
says,
-
but now
-
we
-
have
-
been
-
brought
-
near.
-
Okay?
-
Draw
-
near to
-
God,
-
and he
-
will
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
you.
-
Malachi
Malachi 3 chapter mention
-
chapter
-
3,
-
7
-
says,
-
return
-
to
-
me,
-
Lord
-
speaks
-
to
-
Israel,
-
return
-
to
-
me,
-
and I
-
will
-
return
-
to
-
you,
-
says
-
the
-
Lord
-
of
-
hosts.
-
Similar
-
thing,
-
right?
-
And
-
someone
-
will
-
say
-
to
-
me,
-
well,
-
how
-
do
-
I
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
God?
-
How
-
do
-
you
-
do
-
that?
-
You
-
know,
-
like,
-
what's
-
the
-
way?
-
And
-
the
-
way
-
is
-
through
-
the
-
gospel.
-
At
-
one
-
time,
-
we
-
were
-
alienated,
-
far
-
from
-
God,
-
but
-
now,
-
you
-
don't
-
have
-
to,
-
there's
-
no amount
-
of
-
works
-
you
-
could
-
do,
-
no
-
amount
-
of
-
sacrifices
-
to
-
offer,
-
there
-
is
-
no
-
holy
-
site
-
that
-
you
-
could
-
travel
-
to
-
and
-
do
-
a
-
pilgrimage
-
to.
-
In
-
fact,
-
actually,
-
you
-
can
-
come
-
to
-
the
-
Lord
-
now,
-
presently.
-
That's
-
the
-
good news
-
of the
-
gospel,
-
is that
-
you
-
don't
-
have
-
to
-
rely
-
on
-
your
-
good
-
works,
-
you
-
don't
-
have
-
to
-
rely
-
on
-
someone
-
else
-
to
-
mediate
-
for
-
you,
-
but
-
the
-
gospel
-
preaches
-
to our
-
hearts
-
and
-
says,
-
you
-
can
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
God
-
now,
-
presently.
-
And
-
someone
-
will
-
say,
-
how do
-
I
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
God
-
now?
-
Well,
-
thankfully
-
the Bible
-
explains to
-
us how.
-
In
-
Hebrews
-
chapter
-
11
-
verse
-
6
-
says,
-
and
-
without
-
whoever
-
would
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
God,
-
okay,
-
for
-
whoever
-
would
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
God
-
must
-
believe
-
that
-
he
-
exists
-
and
-
that
-
he
-
rewards
-
those
-
who
-
seek
-
him.
-
So
-
how do
-
we
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
God?
-
Whoever
-
would
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
God,
-
you
-
must
-
believe
-
that
-
you
-
are
-
drawing
-
near
-
to
-
a
-
God
-
who
-
is
-
there,
-
who
-
is
-
approachable,
-
and
-
you
-
must
-
expect
-
something
-
from
-
him,
-
that
-
he
-
would
-
give
-
you
-
something.
-
You
-
can
-
see
-
that
-
throughout
-
all
-
of
-
James
-
speaking.
-
You
-
don't
-
have
-
because
-
you
-
don't
-
ask.
-
Go
-
get
-
what
-
the
-
Lord
-
has.
-
If
-
you
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
the
-
Lord
-
and
-
believe
-
that
-
he
-
will
-
give
-
it
-
to
-
you,
-
in
-
other
-
words,
-
he
-
rewards
-
those
-
who
-
seek
-
him,
-
then
-
you
-
will
-
draw
-
near.
-
He
-
will
-
give
-
it
-
to
-
you.
-
And
-
so
-
you
-
can't
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
God
-
unless
-
you
-
believe
-
that
-
he
-
exists.
-
You
-
can't
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
God
-
if
-
you
-
believe
-
that
-
he
-
will
-
give
-
you
-
nothing.
-
You
-
have
-
to
-
draw
-
near
-
because
-
you
-
know
-
that
-
he
-
is
-
good
-
essentially.
-
And
-
when we
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
God
-
we
-
should
-
do
-
what
-
the
-
apostle
-
did
-
what
-
Paul
-
did
-
in
-
Romans
-
8.
-
He
-
says
-
in
-
verse
-
32
-
he
-
who
-
did
-
not
-
spare
-
His
-
own
-
son
-
but
-
gave
-
him
-
up
-
for
-
us
-
all
-
!
-
How
-
things
-
okay
-
he
-
will
-
give
-
us
-
all
-
things
-
if
-
we
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
him
-
through
-
faith.
-
In
-
Luke 11
-
he
-
says
-
for
-
whoever
-
asks
-
receives
-
and
-
the one
-
who
-
seeks
-
finds
-
and
-
to
-
the
-
one
-
who
-
knocks
-
it
-
will
-
be
-
open
-
what
-
father
-
among
-
you
-
if
-
his
-
son
-
asks
-
for
-
fish
-
will
-
instead
-
give
-
him
-
a
-
serpent
-
or
-
if
-
he
-
asks
-
for
-
an
-
egg
-
will
-
give
-
him
-
a
-
scorpion
-
if
-
you
-
then
-
who
-
are
-
evil
-
know
-
how
-
to
-
give
-
good
-
gifts
-
to
-
your
-
children
-
how
-
much
-
more
-
will
-
your
-
heavenly
-
father
-
give
-
the
-
holy
-
spirit
-
to
-
those
-
who
-
ask
-
him
-
and
-
so
-
James
-
is
-
bringing
-
it
-
all
-
the
-
way
-
back
-
to
-
true
-
repentance
-
if
-
we
-
find
-
ourselves
-
proud
-
if
-
we
-
find
-
ourselves
-
lifted
-
up
-
he
-
says
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
God
-
he
-
says
-
to
-
cleanse
-
your
-
hands
-
okay
-
this
-
means
-
we
-
actually
-
have
-
about
-
our
-
sin
-
if
-
you
-
find
-
yourself
-
after
-
you
-
sin
-
saying
-
it's
-
all
-
good
-
God
-
forgives
-
me
-
moving
-
on
-
almost
-
as if
-
you
-
forget
-
God
-
I
-
think
-
James
-
is
-
kind
-
of
-
like
-
not
-
true
-
repentance
-
okay
-
we're
-
not
-
into
-
condemnation
-
we're
-
not
-
into
-
beating
-
yourself
-
up
-
but
-
the
-
Lord
-
wants
-
us
-
to
-
be
-
serious
-
about
-
our
-
sin
-
he
-
wants
-
us
-
to
-
genuinely
-
cleanse
-
our
-
hands
-
he
-
says
-
let
-
your
-
laughter
-
be
-
turned
-
to
-
gloom
-
in
-
other
-
words
-
we
-
have
-
to
-
be
-
seriously
-
sorrowful
-
that
-
we
-
have
-
sinned
-
against
-
the
-
holy
-
God
-
and
-
then
-
the
-
promise
-
comes
-
in
-
verse
-
10
-
humble
-
yourselves
-
before
-
the
-
Lord
-
and
-
he
-
will
-
exalt
-
you
-
or
-
in
-
other
-
words
-
and
-
he
-
will
-
lift
-
you
-
up
-
Jesus
-
says
-
whoever
-
exalts
-
himself
-
will
-
be
-
humbled
-
!
-
God
-
will
-
come
-
with
-
sincerity
-
in
-
our
-
hearts
-
and
-
we
-
could
-
ask
-
the
-
Lord
-
earnestly
-
to
-
cleanse
-
us
-
in
-
our
-
humility
-
and
-
he
-
will
-
and
-
so
-
I
-
would
-
exhort
-
you
-
guys
-
if
-
any
-
of
-
you
-
be
-
in
-
pride
-
in
-
any
-
way
-
even
-
if
-
you
-
deem
-
it
-
to
-
be
-
small
-
do
-
not
-
deem
-
it
-
small
-
enough
-
so
-
that
-
you
-
do
-
nothing
-
repent
-
cleanse
-
your
-
hands
-
and ask
-
the
-
Lord
-
to
-
forgive
-
you
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
him
-
who
-
gives
-
grace
-
and
-
he
-
will
-
draw
-
near
-
to
-
you
-
I
-
pray
-
that
-
Christ's
-
church
-
is
-
built
-
that
-
this
-
church
-
is
-
built
-
off
-
of
-
a
-
foundation
-
of
-
humility
-
before
-
the
-
Lord
-
and
-
I
-
believe
-
that
-
the
-
Lord
-
will
-
do
-
that
-
I
-
close
-
with
-
Hebrews
Hebrews 10 chapter mention
-
chapter
-
10
-
it
-
says
-
let us
-
draw
-
near
-
with a
-
true
-
heart
-
in
-
full
-
assurance
-
of
-
faith
-
with
-
our
-
hearts
-
sprinkled
-
clean
-
from an
-
evil
-
conscience
-
and
-
their
-
bodies
-
washed
-
with
-
pure
-
water
-
let us
-
hold fast
-
the confession
-
of our
-
hope
-
without
-
wavering
-
for he
-
who
-
promised
-
is
-
faithful
-
and let
-
us consider
-
how to stir
-
one another
-
up to love
-
and good
-
works
-
not neglecting
-
to meet
-
with each
-
other
-
as
-
is the
-
habit
-
of some
-
but encouraging
-
one another
-
as we
-
see
-
the
-
day
-
drawing
-
near
-
as