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The Loving Discipline Of God

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  1. We're getting to a point in the book of Judges now where the stories are getting longer,

  2. and that's allowing us a unique opportunity.

  3. In fact, this particular text, these 10 verses, allow us to have a very narrow focus on something

  4. that up to this point we've only really dealt with in passing, and that is the loving discipline

  5. of God.

  6. In each and every one of the stories of this book, the judgment of God is present.

  7. That's very clear.

  8. You don't have to look very far to see that, but there is a uniqueness to how it's addressed

  9. here at the start of the Gideon cycle, which would be the next judge that we'll cover.

  10. Not only are we confronted once again by the reality of God's judgment, but here in these

  11. 10 verses, we begin to gain a clearer understanding of God's intentions with judgment.

  12. What His purpose is in it, and I think that we'll find it to be quite instructive to consider

  13. the nature and the process and the purpose of God's disciplinary action.

  14. So up to this point, we've taken the stories really in larger sections, and to give you

  15. a bit of a reprieve this morning from an hour-long sermon, we're going to take just a small section

  16. with a narrow focus, and I think that it will be helpful for us to think about God's discipline.

  17. In chapter 3, I spoke briefly about distinguishing between two dynamics of God's judgment.

  18. On the one hand, we have what we would call retribution.

  19. Retribution is God's punitive action against those who persist in sin and unbelief.

  20. So it's purely punitive. You know what I mean by that? It is really just focused on punishment.

  21. It is you did this, therefore you deserve this, and I'm going to give you the fullness of that consequence.

  22. That's what we're thinking about in terms of retribution.

  23. In the Gideon story, the objects of God's righteous retribution, his punitive action,

  24. is this Midianite coalition. We're just introduced to them here, and we're going to get to how the

  25. story unfolds in the next three or four weeks, but what we find right here, what we at least

  26. need to acknowledge, is that Israel is not the object of God's retribution. Midian is.

  27. And Midian receives the retribution, the punitive action of God, by ultimately being destroyed.

  28. Okay, so that's what we see unfolding in their lives.

  29. Being outside of the covenant relationship with God, Midian faces the Lord's retribution,

  30. which we would say is judgment apart from grace and mercy.

  31. But as we read through these ten verses, we find that God's judgment against Midian stands in stark contrast

  32. to God's judgment of Israel, who is, in fact, in a covenant relationship with God.

  33. Israel is not destroyed like Midian is, though they do endure a tremendous amount of hardship,

  34. more hardship than we've seen them face at any point in Judges up to now, which is, that's saying a lot.

  35. But they're not destroyed. God doesn't deal with them in the same way that he deals with Midian.

  36. They were even guilty of the same kind of sin as the Midianites and the Amalekites and the people of the east.

  37. But instead of facing God's retribution, Israel faces what is best described as God's discipline, his discipline.

  38. Barry Webb is helpful here. He describes these distinctions this way.

  39. This is on the screen if you want to follow along with the quote.

  40. Retribution, he says, which is pure punishment, unmitigated by grace,

  41. is for those who are and remain outside of his covenant.

  42. And he quotes Ephesians 2, they have no hope and they are without God in the world.

  43. But within God's covenant with his people, a different kind of judgment takes place.

  44. The most appropriate term for it is discipline, because it's corrective rather than retributive.

  45. And it is always tempered by grace.

  46. It can be severe, but its aim is always to reclaim rather than to destroy.

  47. That's an important distinction that we need to understand.

  48. Now, what unfolds in terms of God's judgment in these passages,

  49. we need to realize on the surface, is purely physical.

  50. Israel and Midian, they are real historical nations.

  51. The judgment they are facing in Judges 6 is a physical form of judgment

  52. that's related to their existence as a nation and their flourishing as a people.

  53. So we need to keep that in mind.

  54. What God is doing to them, it's purely physical at this point.

  55. But the physical judgment that is recorded here is meant to point us forward to a more significant

  56. and eternal spiritual judgment.

  57. Like these two nations, all of us are guilty before God.

  58. As Romans 3 says, we have all sinned.

  59. We've all fallen short of the glory of God.

  60. Solomon even says in the Old Testament,

  61. there is no one who does not sin,

  62. which means that there is no one who doesn't deserve the retribution of God's righteous anger.

  63. That's all of us.

  64. And God must judge our sins.

  65. If God doesn't judge sin, then God isn't truly holy.

  66. He's not truly just.

  67. And what we must determine, and the question that we must ask ourselves this morning,

  68. is to which of these two groups do we actually belong?

  69. Do we belong to the group that is outside of God's covenant?

  70. The group that is destined only for God's eternal retribution,

  71. his anger, and his wrath in eternal hell?

  72. Is that the group that we belong to?

  73. Or do we belong to this group that is inside the covenant,

  74. represented by Israel here?

  75. That isn't perfect and still falls and still disobeys

  76. and still even faces the discipline of the Lord to some extent,

  77. but they are still safe within the covenant,

  78. having their judgment put on the sinless Son of God instead.

  79. I want you to just think about that for just a second.

  80. Just contemplate sincerely in your heart for just a moment.

  81. If the Lord were to return today,

  82. and we were to all stand in that final judgment before God,

  83. do we stand in the line with the people that are in the covenant?

  84. Or do we stand in the line with the people who are outside of the covenant?

  85. Eternal retribution comes to those who,

  86. through sin and unbelief,

  87. are and remain outside of a relationship with God.

  88. Their destiny is eternal hell,

  89. a pure punishment,

  90. unmitigated by grace,

  91. in the words of Barry Webb.

  92. And of course, we find this all in the Scriptures.

  93. We find it especially in Revelation chapter 20.

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  94. John says that the lake of fire,

  95. what we often refer to as hell,

  96. or our concept of hell,

  97. is the second death.

  98. And if anyone's name was not found written in the book of life,

  99. he was thrown into the lake of fire.

  100. Now what does John mean

  101. by a name being written or not written

  102. in the book of life?

  103. It's just a different way of saying,

  104. you're in the covenant,

  105. or you're out of the covenant.

  106. You belong to God as his child,

  107. or you are an enemy of God,

  108. left in your sin and unbelief.

  109. Which leads us to an important question, doesn't it?

  110. If being in the covenant is what determines whether or not I face ultimately the retribution of God's wrath,

  111. or whether I just experience to some measure the discipline,

  112. the corrective discipline of the Lord in this life,

  113. but ultimately I'm justified,

  114. and heaven is my home,

  115. and I've been forgiven,

  116. and mercy.

  117. But if the covenant is what matters,

  118. then the question is,

  119. how do I get in the covenant, right?

  120. How do I get there?

  121. Who wouldn't want to be in the covenant with God?

  122. And here's the awesome thing about it.

  123. We've seen it in so many different passages already today.

  124. The way you get in the covenant

  125. is by faith.

  126. This is why Jesus is so important.

  127. We understand our sin.

  128. We understand that God must judge our sin.

  129. We understand that the wages of sin is death.

  130. The second death.

  131. The lake of fire.

  132. So why does Jesus matter so much to us?

  133. Because Jesus, the sinless son of God,

  134. comes to this earth,

  135. willingly lays down his life,

  136. in order that he might take

  137. that retribution for us.

  138. That's what's amazing about it.

  139. Paul says in 2 Corinthians,

  140. God has made Christ to be sin for us

  141. so that in Christ,

  142. we might receive his righteousness.

  143. There's this exchange that takes place at the cross

  144. where Jesus, the righteous one,

  145. is imputed unto him.

  146. Your sin.

  147. Your sin.

  148. Your sin.

  149. Is imputed unto the sinless son of God.

  150. And in return to that,

  151. when you come to Christ by faith,

  152. his righteousness is then imputed unto you.

  153. So that when you stand in that judgment

  154. on that great day of the Lord,

  155. the final judgment after the resurrection,

  156. when you stand before the Lord on that day,

  157. the question is not,

  158. did you do your best?

  159. The question is not,

  160. did you try your hardest?

  161. The question is not,

  162. did you go to church and did you give money

  163. and did you remain a good little virgin

  164. until the day of your wedding?

  165. That's not the question.

  166. The question is,

  167. are you paying for your sins

  168. or did Jesus pay for your sins?

  169. And God invites us into this covenant of grace.

  170. And he invites us into it through faith.

  171. Isn't that what Jesus said?

  172. He said,

  173. I'm the bread of life.

  174. We just read it.

  175. I'm the bread of life.

  176. If you're hungry,

  177. spiritually hungry,

  178. if you're spiritually thirsty,

  179. just come to me.

  180. Believe in me.

  181. It's the will of the Father

  182. that the Son be lifted up

  183. and that all who look to the Son

  184. and believe will have life.

  185. It's amazing.

  186. You say,

  187. well,

  188. how do you know that

  189. Jesus' death 2,000 years ago on a cross

  190. is actually that significant?

  191. How do we know that his death

  192. actually does provide forgiveness

  193. so that we should believe in him?

  194. I'm glad you asked.

  195. Because three days later,

  196. he rose from the dead.

  197. The resurrection changes everything.

  198. Literally,

  199. it changes everything.

  200. Peter says in Acts chapter 2

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  201. as he's preaching on the day of Pentecost,

  202. he points to Jesus

  203. and he points to Jesus' resurrection

  204. who at that point,

  205. people couldn't deny.

  206. There's too many witnesses at that point.

  207. They're trying to come up with reasons

  208. to explain it away.

  209. But the truth is,

  210. they knew something was fishy going on

  211. and the disciples were saying,

  212. no, he's alive and we've seen him.

  213. Peter says,

  214. the grave could not hold him.

  215. Why?

  216. It had no claim on him.

  217. Why did the grave have no claim on him?

  218. Because he had no sin.

  219. The resurrection of Jesus proves

  220. that his death was a sufficient payment for ours.

  221. It proves that God was appeased

  222. in his wrath

  223. by what Jesus did

  224. on the cross.

  225. You say,

  226. I don't want to face the retribution of God.

  227. How do I get into the covenant?

  228. You believe Christ.

  229. You trust him.

  230. You trust what he's done.

  231. You turn from your sin.

  232. You cry out to him.

  233. You follow him as Lord and Savior.

  234. Jesus himself said in John 3,

  235. we quote this verse all the time,

  236. don't we?

  237. God so loved the world

  238. that he gave his only son,

  239. that whoever believes in him

  240. should not perish,

  241. should not die,

  242. but instead should have eternal life.

  243. For God did not send his son

  244. into the world

  245. to condemn the world,

  246. but in order that the world

  247. might be saved through him.

  248. Whoever believes in him

  249. is not condemned,

  250. but whoever does not believe

  251. is condemned already,

  252. he says,

  253. because he has not believed

  254. in the name of the only son of God.

  255. What's the significance here?

  256. What else we do?

  257. Believe.

  258. Believe.

  259. Just turn from your sin and believe,

  260. and he will give you this life.

  261. Now,

  262. all of that being said,

  263. the focus of our attention this morning

  264. is not on God's retribution.

  265. The focus of our attention this morning

  266. in this text

  267. is actually on the nature,

  268. process,

  269. and purpose

  270. of God's discipline

  271. toward those who are

  272. in the covenant.

  273. We would say,

  274. in New Testament terms,

  275. those who are Christians.

  276. That's what we're really focused on,

  277. and looking at how the Lord

  278. worked in and through Israel,

  279. we can more clearly understand

  280. how he works in and through us,

  281. and I think you'll find this instructive.

  282. Just three main points

  283. that I want to point out to you

  284. as we go through.

  285. The first thing is this.

  286. I want you to see the nature

  287. of divine discipline.

  288. The nature of divine discipline.

  289. And I have three things

  290. underneath this, okay?

  291. The first one is this.

  292. Here's what you need to acknowledge

  293. about divine discipline.

  294. It is real.

  295. Divine discipline is real.

  296. Look at verse one.

  297. The people of Israel

  298. did what was evil

  299. in the sight of the Lord,

  300. and the Lord gave them

  301. into the hand of Midian

  302. seven years.

  303. All right?

  304. It's very simple, isn't it?

  305. Israel sinned,

  306. and God corrected them.

  307. He gave them

  308. into the hand of Midian.

  309. Now, here's the thing.

  310. We face hardships

  311. and difficulties in our lives,

  312. and so many Christians

  313. interpret every hardship

  314. in their life

  315. as one of two things.

  316. They'll either say,

  317. this is Satan

  318. that's just really

  319. on my back right now.

  320. You heard people,

  321. maybe you've said that before.

  322. You've heard people say it.

  323. You say,

  324. how's your week been,

  325. John?

  326. And John might reply,

  327. well, you know,

  328. Satan's just really been after me.

  329. It's been a tough week.

  330. Right?

  331. We make statements like that.

  332. Or we would say,

  333. we wouldn't necessarily

  334. blame Satan

  335. for the hardship

  336. that we're facing,

  337. but we would just say,

  338. well, you know,

  339. this is just life

  340. in a fallen world, right?

  341. And maybe I'm just

  342. going through it right now

  343. because it's just,

  344. I'm going through it,

  345. and that's all

  346. that there really is.

  347. Now, here's the problem.

  348. It's not that those things

  349. aren't true.

  350. They are true.

  351. They actually have a role

  352. to play in our lives.

  353. The problem is,

  354. we always try to,

  355. as Christians,

  356. we seem to always

  357. take the hardships

  358. and the difficulties

  359. that we face

  360. and put them into

  361. one of those two boxes.

  362. But the fact is

  363. that there's a third category.

  364. And a third category

  365. for our hardship

  366. and our difficulty in life

  367. or our circumstances

  368. is that God does actively

  369. discipline his children.

  370. He disciplines us.

  371. Now, I want you to notice it

  372. in the text in verse one.

  373. Notice that nothing

  374. about Israel's circumstance

  375. was coincidental.

  376. No.

  377. It's not coincidental.

  378. This wasn't just bad luck.

  379. Right?

  380. This wasn't,

  381. that what they were facing

  382. with Midian

  383. was not just the result

  384. of living in a fallen world.

  385. That's not what's happening

  386. with Israel here.

  387. Neither is Satan said

  388. to have been involved

  389. in the process.

  390. This is not an oppression

  391. that they are facing

  392. similar to what Job

  393. dealt with in the book of Job.

  394. You remember,

  395. it wasn't that Job

  396. had sinned against the Lord.

  397. It's that the Lord

  398. was testing him

  399. and he was allowing Satan

  400. to actually do this work

  401. to test his servant Job.

  402. Okay?

  403. That's not what's happening

  404. here either.

  405. What's happening then?

  406. Their circumstance

  407. was the direct result

  408. of them doing

  409. what was evil

  410. in the sight of the Lord

  411. and God himself

  412. delivered them

  413. into the hands of Midian.

  414. It's clear as day.

  415. They did what was evil

  416. in the sight of the Lord

  417. and the Lord

  418. gave them

  419. into the hand

  420. of Midian

  421. for seven years.

  422. And here's my point

  423. with all of that.

  424. Divine discipline

  425. is a reality

  426. that we need

  427. to acknowledge

  428. if we're ever

  429. going to grow

  430. and mature

  431. as God's people.

  432. If you never

  433. acknowledge the fact

  434. that God actively

  435. disciplines you

  436. in your life,

  437. how are you ever

  438. going to learn

  439. to turn away

  440. from the sinful behaviors

  441. that he's judging you for?

  442. If everything we face

  443. is just automatically

  444. put in one of those

  445. other two boxes,

  446. how are we going to grow

  447. and mature as Christians?

  448. Answer,

  449. we won't.

  450. We need to acknowledge

  451. that God's discipline

  452. is a reality.

  453. The next time

  454. you're tempted to say

  455. that the devil's

  456. been on your back,

  457. stop to consider

  458. whether or not

  459. it's actually God

  460. who's afflicted you.

  461. Number two,

  462. divine discipline

  463. can be severe.

  464. So we're underneath

  465. the nature of divine discipline

  466. still.

  467. Okay, sorry about that.

  468. First,

  469. divine discipline is real.

  470. Second,

  471. divine discipline,

  472. it actually can be

  473. quite severe.

  474. Verses two through six,

  475. look at it with me.

  476. the hand of Midian

  477. overpowered Israel.

  478. Because of Midian,

  479. the people of Israel

  480. made for themselves

  481. the dens that are in

  482. the mountains

  483. and the caves

  484. and the strongholds.

  485. Whenever the Israelites

  486. planted crops,

  487. the Midianites

  488. and the Amalekites

  489. and the people of the east

  490. would come up against them.

  491. They didn't camp against them

  492. and devour the produce

  493. of the land

  494. as far as Gaza

  495. and leave no sustenance

  496. in Israel,

  497. no sheep,

  498. no ox,

  499. no donkey.

  500. for they would come up

  501. with their livestock

  502. and their tents.

  503. They would come like

  504. locusts in number.

  505. Both they and their camels

  506. could not be counted

  507. so that they laid waste

  508. the land as they came in.

  509. And Israel was brought

  510. very low

  511. because of Midian.

  512. And they cried out

  513. for help to the Lord.

  514. Divine discipline

  515. can be severe.

  516. Look,

  517. the discipline of God

  518. in this text,

  519. it is far more

  520. than a slap on the wrist.

  521. This is not a slap on the wrist

  522. kind of judgment.

  523. It was the shortest

  524. time frame

  525. of judgment

  526. that we've seen

  527. thus far

  528. in the book of Judges.

  529. But it's also

  530. the worst oppression

  531. that we've seen

  532. so far

  533. in the book of Judges.

  534. There's this coalition

  535. of eastern nomadic tribes

  536. led by

  537. the Midianite people.

  538. They differed

  539. from all of Israel's

  540. other enemies.

  541. They didn't seek

  542. to occupy

  543. and conquer the land

  544. as the others had done.

  545. Instead,

  546. they functioned

  547. like marauders.

  548. For seven years straight,

  549. they entered Canaan

  550. with more people

  551. and camels

  552. than could be numbered.

  553. This is a show

  554. of force

  555. that would be foolish

  556. for the simple

  557. Israelite people

  558. to attempt

  559. to fight against.

  560. That's what this is about.

  561. The writer says

  562. that they came in

  563. like locusts.

  564. If you study

  565. other parts

  566. of the Old Testament,

  567. you'll see that

  568. locusts is often

  569. a judgment

  570. from God.

  571. When these waves

  572. of locusts came in,

  573. how is it normally

  574. described?

  575. You see this described

  576. even in modern times.

  577. It's like the sky

  578. darkening.

  579. There's so many of them,

  580. right?

  581. When they finally

  582. pass through

  583. and leave,

  584. what's left?

  585. Nothing.

  586. That's how the author

  587. is describing

  588. this Midianite coalition.

  589. Every year

  590. for seven years straight,

  591. harvest time comes

  592. and guess what?

  593. Israelite knows.

  594. It's like clockwork.

  595. More people

  596. than they can count.

  597. They come into the land,

  598. they set up their camp,

  599. they steal all their food,

  600. they steal all their sheep,

  601. they take all their donkeys,

  602. they take all their oxen,

  603. they leave nothing behind.

  604. The Israelites

  605. have to abandon

  606. their homes,

  607. they have to go live

  608. in caves.

  609. This is a miserable

  610. existence

  611. for seven years.

  612. Kicked out of their houses,

  613. left nearly to starve.

  614. So that in verse six,

  615. the author just says,

  616. they were brought

  617. very low.

  618. They're brought very,

  619. very low.

  620. And it was all the result

  621. of God's discipline.

  622. God did this

  623. to Israel.

  624. God did it to Israel.

  625. You see,

  626. sometimes divine discipline

  627. can be severe.

  628. Sometimes we go through

  629. circumstances in our lives

  630. that we would never,

  631. never really understand,

  632. never really quite fathom

  633. exactly or imagine

  634. how hard things

  635. have actually gotten

  636. in our lives.

  637. Sometimes it's severe.

  638. Sometimes God has to bring

  639. us very low

  640. to get our attention.

  641. Third thing underneath

  642. the nature of divine discipline,

  643. it's real.

  644. It can be severe.

  645. Divine discipline,

  646. this is going to blow your mind,

  647. you're going to disagree

  648. with me at first.

  649. It's offensive,

  650. isn't it?

  651. Divine discipline is loving.

  652. It's loving.

  653. How in the world

  654. is that actually possible?

  655. Look at how difficult

  656. and miserable

  657. their lives were.

  658. You see,

  659. it's a misunderstanding

  660. of love

  661. that leads many people

  662. to conclude

  663. that love

  664. and discipline

  665. are incompatible

  666. with one another.

  667. This starts

  668. when we're just

  669. really young kids,

  670. doesn't it?

  671. From very early

  672. in our childhood,

  673. we equate love

  674. with expressions

  675. of affection,

  676. don't we?

  677. Harper, come here.

  678. Harper, if you were

  679. to come in today,

  680. Harper's my daughter

  681. if you don't know,

  682. I'm allowed to do this,

  683. and I just walked in,

  684. you didn't say anything

  685. to me,

  686. and I just said,

  687. Harper, you know what?

  688. Come give me a hug,

  689. I just want a hug.

  690. Now, why would I do that?

  691. Because I love you.

  692. Now, if you came in

  693. and I immediately

  694. spanked you instead,

  695. what would you say?

  696. Why don't you love me

  697. anymore, Dad?

  698. What happened

  699. to the hugs, Dad?

  700. What happened

  701. to the fun things

  702. that we did, Dad?

  703. Why are you harming

  704. me now, Dad?

  705. Where'd the love go?

  706. Right?

  707. You can go sit down,

  708. sweetheart.

  709. When we're kids,

  710. we start to equate love

  711. with expressions of affection,

  712. and then as we become teenagers,

  713. it gets even worse, right?

  714. Because now we actually

  715. start to say things

  716. like, I hate you,

  717. and you don't love me,

  718. you never did love me,

  719. you're just a big liar,

  720. and all the kinds of things

  721. we say those things

  722. as teenagers, right?

  723. And then we get to be adults,

  724. and we do the same thing,

  725. don't we?

  726. It's so hard for us,

  727. even when we're adults,

  728. to recognize that sometimes

  729. authentic love

  730. involves confrontation,

  731. sometimes it involves

  732. disagreement,

  733. sometimes it even

  734. involves carrying out

  735. the consequences

  736. of an action.

  737. Remember years ago,

  738. someone in our church,

  739. our previous church,

  740. they had an adult daughter

  741. that was just really struggling

  742. with a lot of drug addiction,

  743. and stealing,

  744. there's just a lot of things

  745. going on in her life,

  746. and over and over and over,

  747. her parents just kind of

  748. bailed her out,

  749. and finally she got caught again,

  750. and they said,

  751. you know what,

  752. we're just going to let her

  753. sit in jail now.

  754. You know,

  755. that was a loving act

  756. on the part of those parents.

  757. We don't think of it

  758. that way often,

  759. do we?

  760. So it's not surprising

  761. that when facing hardship,

  762. we're tempted to question

  763. the genuine love of God.

  764. We go through something difficult,

  765. we get really terrible news,

  766. or we find out that there's an issue

  767. in our bodies maybe,

  768. we're sick,

  769. or we find that

  770. something's just not going right

  771. in our marriage,

  772. or it's not going right

  773. with our kids,

  774. or something's not going right

  775. with our finances,

  776. or our home,

  777. or whatever it is,

  778. and we think,

  779. God,

  780. why don't you love me?

  781. You're supposed to care about me,

  782. why are you letting

  783. these things happen

  784. to me?

  785. And really that comes

  786. from a misunderstanding

  787. of what love really is.

  788. We need to understand

  789. that God disciplines us,

  790. not as a cruel tyrant,

  791. but according to the scriptures,

  792. he does this as a loving father.

  793. Proverbs chapter three,

  794. my son,

  795. do not despise

  796. the Lord's discipline,

  797. do not be weary

  798. of his reproof,

  799. for the Lord reproves

  800. him whom he loves,

  801. as a father,

  802. the son in whom he delights.

  803. It's God's love

  804. that drives his discipline,

  805. it's his desire

  806. for what's best for us

  807. that brings about his reproof,

  808. and if you face his discipline

  809. as a believer,

  810. rejoice,

  811. he treats you as a son,

  812. not an enemy.

  813. Wouldn't you rather be Israel?

  814. The Midian in this circumstance?

  815. The nature of divine discipline.

  816. Number two,

  817. the process of divine discipline.

  818. Now God does something

  819. really weird here,

  820. doesn't he?

  821. Verse seven,

  822. when the people of Israel

  823. cried out to the Lord

  824. on account of the Midianites,

  825. look what the Lord does,

  826. this is so weird.

  827. The Lord sent a prophet

  828. to the people of Israel.

  829. Don't you find that curious?

  830. He sent a prophet

  831. before he sent

  832. a savior.

  833. A sermon

  834. before salvation.

  835. This is like the talk

  836. that you get from your parents

  837. when you get in trouble

  838. as a kid.

  839. This is the worst part of it,

  840. isn't it?

  841. Isn't the worst part

  842. about being disciplined

  843. by your parents?

  844. It's not the actual

  845. disciplinary action mostly.

  846. It's when you're forced

  847. to go and sit down

  848. in the living room

  849. across from them

  850. in the other chair

  851. and for an hour,

  852. two hours,

  853. however long it is,

  854. you just gotta listen.

  855. You just gotta hear

  856. why you're wrong

  857. and why it was wrong

  858. and why you need to change

  859. and why you shouldn't

  860. have done that

  861. and all those.

  862. Isn't that the worst part of it?

  863. It's painful, isn't it?

  864. We just want to take

  865. our punishment.

  866. We want to be relieved

  867. of the punishment

  868. and move on with our lives.

  869. But good parents,

  870. they take time

  871. to expose

  872. and confront the error

  873. that led to the consequences,

  874. right?

  875. In God's plan,

  876. what we see unfolding here,

  877. in God's plan,

  878. the consequences

  879. are meant to get us

  880. to that conversation

  881. where we have to actually

  882. deal with the issue

  883. of our sin.

  884. Israel comes to God

  885. and they say,

  886. Lord, help us.

  887. Send us a deliverer.

  888. And so God says,

  889. okay, here's a prophet.

  890. Listen to a sermon first.

  891. It's so important

  892. for us to understand

  893. the necessity

  894. of this part

  895. of God's process

  896. because we're typically

  897. only interested

  898. in our circumstances

  899. getting better

  900. and so we attempt

  901. to leapfrog

  902. God's message

  903. to get what we think

  904. will be a quick

  905. and easy solution.

  906. You know,

  907. the times that

  908. we're really struggling

  909. with sin in our lives

  910. are going through

  911. a difficulty,

  912. you know,

  913. often those are

  914. the hardest times

  915. to go to church,

  916. aren't they?

  917. Those are the hardest days

  918. to open up your Bible

  919. and have a private

  920. devotional time

  921. with the Lord.

  922. Those are the hardest days

  923. to pray sometimes.

  924. Those are the hardest times

  925. to actually be around

  926. other Christian people.

  927. You know why?

  928. Because we know

  929. what's going to happen.

  930. We know that

  931. to actually have to

  932. sit across the table

  933. from the Lord

  934. with the word open

  935. means that we're going

  936. to have to be confronted.

  937. We're just going

  938. to have to deal

  939. with what we've done.

  940. We don't want to deal

  941. with what we've done.

  942. We just want to get

  943. to the solution,

  944. right?

  945. We need pastors

  946. to help us view

  947. our circumstances

  948. through the lens

  949. of God's word.

  950. That's what this is about

  951. in application.

  952. We need pastors

  953. and elders

  954. to help us

  955. see our lives

  956. not just simply

  957. through our perspective

  958. but through God's perspective

  959. through the word.

  960. We need mature

  961. Christian friends

  962. in our lives

  963. who will use

  964. their Bibles

  965. to lovingly say

  966. to us the things

  967. that are hard to hear.

  968. Because often

  969. it takes a prophet

  970. to point us

  971. toward the Savior.

  972. Often it takes

  973. a sermon

  974. to get us

  975. to the true message

  976. of salvation.

  977. We desperately

  978. need to be confronted

  979. by God's word

  980. in this process.

  981. We can't overlook it.

  982. We can run to lawyers

  983. when things are going bad.

  984. They'll just take

  985. advantage of our pain.

  986. We can run to a therapist

  987. when things

  988. aren't going very well

  989. but they're not going

  990. to deal with the

  991. heart of the problem

  992. of our pain.

  993. We can run to

  994. unbelieving friends

  995. because we know

  996. that they're probably

  997. going to justify

  998. our decisions

  999. no matter how bad

  1000. they actually are.

  1001. But what happens

  1002. when we come

  1003. to the word

  1004. and to other people

  1005. of the word?

  1006. It's hard.

  1007. It's a struggle.

  1008. But it's best.

  1009. Of course we can't

  1010. discount the Bible's

  1011. role in simply

  1012. helping us to

  1013. evaluate our

  1014. circumstances.

  1015. See there's another

  1016. layer to this

  1017. isn't there?

  1018. In this text

  1019. we're referring

  1020. to corrective discipline.

  1021. You know there's

  1022. another type of

  1023. discipline that

  1024. belongs to God?

  1025. There's corrective

  1026. discipline.

  1027. That's mainly

  1028. what we think about.

  1029. There's also

  1030. what we would

  1031. call formative

  1032. discipline.

  1033. Formative discipline

  1034. is what the

  1035. athlete does

  1036. to prepare

  1037. their body

  1038. for competition.

  1039. They go to the

  1040. gym every day.

  1041. They're like

  1042. Brian Baker.

  1043. They're up at

  1044. like 3.30 in the

  1045. morning to go

  1046. pump the iron

  1047. or whatever it

  1048. is and they

  1049. go to the gym.

  1050. They punish

  1051. themselves not

  1052. because they've

  1053. done something

  1054. wrong.

  1055. They're disciplining

  1056. themselves aren't

  1057. they?

  1058. Why?

  1059. So they can be

  1060. stronger.

  1061. So that they can

  1062. perform better.

  1063. There is a type

  1064. of discipline

  1065. that the Lord

  1066. takes us through.

  1067. It's not corrective.

  1068. It's formative.

  1069. Sometimes this is

  1070. what James was

  1071. talking about in

  1072. James chapter 1

    James 1 chapter mention

  1073. when he said

  1074. count it all joy

  1075. when you fall

  1076. into various

  1077. trials and

  1078. temptations

  1079. because the Lord

  1080. brings us through

  1081. difficult times

  1082. sometimes.

  1083. Sometimes he

  1084. allows us to go

  1085. through really

  1086. hard things in

  1087. order to make

  1088. us stronger,

  1089. in order to make

  1090. us more faithful.

  1091. There's a formative

  1092. kind of discipline

  1093. that the Lord

  1094. takes us through.

  1095. Now, formative

  1096. discipline and

  1097. corrective discipline,

  1098. what comes as a

  1099. result of those

  1100. things often look

  1101. the same, don't

  1102. they?

  1103. If we're just

  1104. trying to evaluate

  1105. it on our own,

  1106. how are we going

  1107. to know whether

  1108. or not the Lord's

  1109. just trying to

  1110. build me up right

  1111. now through formative

  1112. discipline or there's

  1113. actually something in

  1114. my life that he's

  1115. trying to get my

  1116. attention about?

  1117. How will you know

  1118. unless you have a

  1119. pastor or a

  1120. Christian friend or

  1121. somebody you can sit

  1122. down with who

  1123. will take the

  1124. Bible and help

  1125. you look at your

  1126. life and circumstance

  1127. through the lens of

  1128. God's word?

  1129. We need the prophet

  1130. before we need the

  1131. deliverer.

  1132. We need the sermon

  1133. before we need

  1134. the solution.

  1135. The process of

  1136. divine discipline is

  1137. not complete without

  1138. a confrontation from

  1139. God's word.

  1140. And we need to stop

  1141. trying to circumvent

  1142. God's process.

  1143. There's the nature of

  1144. divine discipline,

  1145. the process of

  1146. divine discipline.

  1147. Finally, and this is

  1148. the best part, there's

  1149. the purpose of

  1150. divine discipline, the

  1151. purpose of it.

  1152. Look with me at

  1153. verses 8 through 10.

  1154. The prophet said to

  1155. them, thus says the

  1156. Lord, the God of

  1157. Israel, I led you up

  1158. from Egypt and brought

  1159. you out of the house

  1160. of slavery.

  1161. I delivered you from

  1162. the hand of the

  1163. Egyptians and from the

  1164. hand of all who

  1165. oppressed you and

  1166. drove them out before

  1167. you and gave you

  1168. their land.

  1169. And I said to you, I

  1170. am the Lord your God.

  1171. This is an identifying

  1172. marker.

  1173. I am Yahweh your God.

  1174. You shall not fear the

  1175. gods of the Amorites in

  1176. whose land you dwell, but

  1177. you have not obeyed my

  1178. words.

  1179. Now if you'll hang with

  1180. me, this gets good here,

  1181. okay?

  1182. I want to summarize God's

  1183. message in two simple

  1184. statements, okay?

  1185. Here's what God is

  1186. saying to Israel through

  1187. this and what I believe

  1188. he's saying to believers

  1189. through this, through his

  1190. discipline.

  1191. Number one, he says, you

  1192. are mine.

  1193. You're mine.

  1194. Look at it.

  1195. Thus says who?

  1196. The Lord.

  1197. This is the covenant name

  1198. of God.

  1199. This is Yahweh.

  1200. And then what does it

  1201. say?

  1202. How is Yahweh described?

  1203. The God of Israel.

  1204. Look again at verse 10.

  1205. And I said to you, I am

  1206. the Lord, your God.

  1207. First thing God says

  1208. through corrective

  1209. discipline, he says,

  1210. you're mine.

  1211. You belong to me.

  1212. I belong to you.

  1213. This is that covenant

  1214. relationship, right?

  1215. Notice that God's

  1216. correction is based on his

  1217. relationship to Israel.

  1218. He does not deliver a

  1219. message like this to

  1220. Midian.

  1221. He delivers it to his

  1222. people.

  1223. And twice he reminds them

  1224. that he is their God.

  1225. They are his people.

  1226. God chose them.

  1227. He revealed himself to

  1228. them.

  1229. He delivered them from

  1230. bondage in Egypt.

  1231. He fought for them as

  1232. they journeyed into the

  1233. land of promise.

  1234. That's what he says.

  1235. He says, you're mine and

  1236. remember what I have done

  1237. for you to make you mine.

  1238. Their relationship with God

  1239. was the foundation of his

  1240. correction.

  1241. And it should have been the

  1242. motivation for their

  1243. repentance.

  1244. Is this not how God

  1245. intends to speak to us

  1246. through discipline?

  1247. Is not his discipline of us

  1248. who are in Christ, is not

  1249. that discipline rooted in his

  1250. relationship with us?

  1251. Just like Israel, he chose us

  1252. by his grace.

  1253. Just like Israel, he revealed

  1254. himself to us in the person of

  1255. Jesus Christ.

  1256. He delivered us from the bondage

  1257. of sin through the power of his

  1258. Holy Spirit.

  1259. And he fights for us as we

  1260. journey on our way to the

  1261. ultimate promised land, to the

  1262. heavens in this life.

  1263. His discipline is his way of

  1264. saying, hey, you're mine.

  1265. And look what I did to get

  1266. you.

  1267. Look at my son.

  1268. And it should serve as a

  1269. motivation for us to obey.

  1270. But it's not the only thing he

  1271. says here.

  1272. This is important.

  1273. He says, you're mine, but it's

  1274. only because they're mine that

  1275. he can now say this next thing

  1276. to them.

  1277. He says, and you've sinned.

  1278. You've sinned.

  1279. Verse 10, I'm the Lord your

  1280. God, is what he had told them.

  1281. And you shall not fear the gods

  1282. of the Amorites in whose land

  1283. you dwell.

  1284. But you have not obeyed my voice.

  1285. You know, I don't feel all that

  1286. bad about disobeying some people.

  1287. But there's a uniqueness to the

  1288. times in my life when I've

  1289. disobeyed my dad.

  1290. It feels different, doesn't it?

  1291. Ashlyn and Harper, I would say,

  1292. probably are a bit embarrassed if

  1293. one of you were to ask them to do

  1294. something and they were to disobey

  1295. that instruction.

  1296. They would probably feel embarrassed

  1297. by that, but they wouldn't feel all

  1298. that bad.

  1299. You know, when they disobey me,

  1300. though, it carries a different

  1301. weight, doesn't it?

  1302. God says, you're mine.

  1303. You've sinned.

  1304. This is the modern, this is the

  1305. ancient equivalent of, I'm so

  1306. disappointed in you.

  1307. At the heart of Israel's sin was

  1308. idolatry.

  1309. They were following after the gods

  1310. of the Canaanites, conforming to

  1311. their culture in ways that God had

  1312. expressly forbidden.

  1313. In fact, everything that they faced

  1314. here with Midian is exactly what God

  1315. said they would face in Deuteronomy

  1316. 28.

  1317. You can read that later if you write

  1318. it in your margin.

  1319. Deuteronomy 28, 29, and 31.

  1320. God sent his messenger to the people

  1321. so that they would understand that

  1322. their enemy ultimately wasn't Midian.

  1323. Their enemy was their sin.

  1324. And a military victory wouldn't finally

  1325. solve their problem.

  1326. Only repentance could do that.

  1327. Thus, we discover the purpose of divine

  1328. discipline is this.

  1329. God disciplines us in order to lead us

  1330. to repentance because it is through

  1331. repentance that our fellowship with the

  1332. gracious God is restored.

  1333. Isn't that why all of this is rooted in

  1334. their covenant relationship?

  1335. He disciplines to lead us to repentance

  1336. because it's only through repentance

  1337. that the sweetness of fellowship and joy

  1338. inside the covenant is restored.

  1339. Now, to go all the way back to the beginning

  1340. now, if you try to pass off every hardship

  1341. of your life as either bad luck or the work

  1342. of the devil, and God is actually disciplining

  1343. you to bring you to repentance, you're never

  1344. going to experience the fullness of fellowship

  1345. and joy within his covenant that you could.

  1346. If you never get to the word, how will you

  1347. understand the dynamic of your sin?

  1348. How will you understand the love of God?

  1349. So that when you do come and confess your sins

  1350. to him and turn from your sin to experience

  1351. that, how will you know?

  1352. This is what it's about.

  1353. In the end, discipline is grace.

  1354. It's grace.

  1355. It's loving.

  1356. A loving discipline of God, it's not only a reality,

  1357. it's a necessity.

  1358. It's never easy.

  1359. But for a Christian, it's always good.

  1360. It's always good.

  1361. And understanding the nature and process

  1362. and purpose of it is what will move us from

  1363. a position of despising the discipline of the Lord

  1364. to rejoicing in the discipline of the Lord.

  1365. Hebrews chapter 12.

    Hebrews 12 chapter mention

  1366. He disciplines us for our good

  1367. that we may share in his holiness.

  1368. For the moment, all discipline seems painful

  1369. rather than pleasant.

  1370. But later, it yields the peaceful fruit

  1371. of righteousness to those who have been trained

  1372. by it.

  1373. Don't despise it.

  1374. Rejoice in it.

  1375. God doesn't treat you as an enemy.

  1376. If you're in Christ,

  1377. he treats you as a son.

  1378. His son.

  1379. Rejoice in his grace.

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