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Called To Be Holy

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  1. Finally then, brothers, we ask and urge you in the Lord Jesus

  2. that as you received from us how you ought to walk and to please God,

  3. just as you are doing, that you do so more and more.

  4. For you know what instructions we gave you through the Lord Jesus.

  5. For this is the will of God, your sanctification,

  6. that you abstain from sexual immorality,

  7. that each one of you know how to control his body in holiness and honor,

  8. not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God,

  9. that no one transgress and wrong his brother in this matter,

  10. because the Lord is an avenger in all these things,

  11. as we told you beforehand and solemnly warned you.

  12. For God has not called us for impurity, but in holiness.

  13. Therefore, whoever disregards this disregards not man,

  14. but God who gives his Holy Spirit to you.

  15. Amen.

  16. We've reached a significant turning point in Paul's first letter to the church in Thessalonica.

  17. He is moving here from his desire for the Thessalonians to continue in the faith

  18. to now focusing in on specific instructions for continuing in obedience.

  19. So for the first three chapters, he's really zeroed in on his desire for them to stay faithful,

  20. to persevere in the gospel.

  21. And now that Timothy has returned with his report

  22. and their faith in the gospel and their perseverance in the gospel has been confirmed,

  23. Paul now transitions to speak of a different type of continuance.

  24. He speaks of how they must continue in obedience to the Lord.

  25. And those two ideas are intentionally ordered in the letter.

  26. They're also necessarily linked,

  27. which is made clear in the opening words of verse one.

  28. Paul says,

  29. Finally then, brothers.

  30. Finally, not being an indication that he's closing the letter,

  31. but that he's drawing some conclusions based on everything that he has just said.

  32. Finally then, brothers.

  33. And he moves on with his instruction.

  34. And Paul's instructions and teaching from here to the end of the letter

  35. are based on their understanding of and belief in the gospel of Jesus Christ.

  36. And this is an essential pattern that we actually find in the New Testament.

  37. Paul speaks to them in this passage as speaking to those who have received salvation,

  38. not as if they are those he hopes will receive salvation.

  39. And that is a necessary structure for us to pay attention to.

  40. If you're not a Christian today, I'm glad that you're here,

  41. but I don't want you to misunderstand this text

  42. since we're parachuting in to a portion of the letter.

  43. And you may not be aware of what he's just said before.

  44. Please don't take the instruction of Paul in these eight verses

  45. as the means of becoming a Christian.

  46. That's not what this is.

  47. No, obedience doesn't create a Christian.

  48. It reveals one.

  49. And to become a Christian,

  50. you must trust in Jesus Christ alone for forgiveness and life.

  51. And truly, you must understand your sin before God

  52. and the judgment against you as a result of your rebellion against him

  53. and turning from that sin to faith in Christ.

  54. But I don't want you to come to this text

  55. and this focus we have on Christian instruction.

  56. I don't want you to come to it and think that,

  57. well, if I just live with the kind of morality that Paul mentions here,

  58. then that is the thing that will make me acceptable to God

  59. and earn me eternal salvation.

  60. That's not true.

  61. And that's not the point that Paul is making here.

  62. And we know that because there's three chapters worth of gospel emphasis

  63. leading all the way up to this instruction.

  64. So when Paul instructs them on how to live in righteousness,

  65. he instructs them as those who have already received salvation,

  66. not those whom he hopes will receive it through their obedience.

  67. Belief always affects behavior.

  68. And we should not be surprised that following Jesus

  69. involves submitting to his authority over our lives.

  70. And again, while godly behavior does not contribute to our salvation,

  71. it is actually a consequence of it.

  72. And that is one of the things that comes immediately to the surface

  73. as we begin this text.

  74. Now, the opening verses of chapter 4 make this truth actually abundantly clear.

  75. The text begins Paul's instruction regarding Christian behavior,

  76. and it emphasizes holiness, righteousness, purity

  77. as God's divine will for his people.

  78. In fact, Paul actually goes above and beyond to stress

  79. that the commands in this text do not originate with him,

  80. but they actually originate with God

  81. and are simply delivered through him as God's messenger.

  82. Their holiness is God's desire,

  83. and it is to the Lord that they will answer.

  84. Let's just trace this.

  85. In the text, verse 1, he says,

  86. we ask and urge you in the Lord Jesus.

  87. In other words, we're saying these things with his authority.

  88. Again, in verse 1, how you ought to walk to please God.

  89. In other words, your desire, Thessalonians,

  90. should not be just to please Paul.

  91. This doesn't originate with me.

  92. We want you to please God.

  93. This is his will for your life.

  94. Verse 2, the instructions we gave you through the Lord Jesus.

  95. In other words, he's just repeating what Jesus taught.

  96. Verse 3, this is the will of God.

  97. Verse 5, not like the Gentiles who do not know God.

  98. Verse 6, the Lord is an avenger in all these things.

  99. Verse 7, God has called us in holiness.

  100. Verse 8, disregards God who gives his Holy Spirit.

  101. Now, what am I saying?

  102. The bottom line is, God calls his people,

  103. those whom he saves by faith in Jesus Christ,

  104. to be holy.

  105. Our faith in Christ dramatically affects our behavior before Christ.

  106. And how we live matters to God.

  107. Matters.

  108. He instructs us about his will,

  109. and he enables us by the power of his Holy Spirit

  110. to perform his will,

  111. breaking us free from the bondage of our sin.

  112. Now, two instructions flow out of Paul's argument in the text.

  113. The first is broad, general.

  114. Christians should seek to please God.

  115. The second instruction is narrow and specific.

  116. Christians should seek to please God through sexual purity.

  117. And then he concludes at the end

  118. that rejecting this instruction for purity

  119. is tantamount to rejecting God himself.

  120. Okay?

  121. So that's the aim of what we're doing.

  122. We want to see the broad instruction

  123. that our aim as God's people

  124. should be to please God in all things.

  125. We want to see the narrow instruction

  126. that God calls us to obey him in specific things.

  127. And in this text, that's sexual purity.

  128. And then we want to understand concluding thoughts

  129. that if we disregard this instruction on sexual purity,

  130. we disregard God.

  131. So let's first look at the broad instruction.

  132. Christians are called to please God.

  133. They're called to please God.

  134. Look at verses one and two again.

  135. Finally then, brothers, we ask and urge you in the Lord Jesus

  136. that as you received from us how you ought to walk

  137. and to please God, just as you are doing,

  138. that you do so more and more.

  139. For you know what instructions we gave you

  140. through the Lord Jesus.

  141. Now this first instruction for living as a Christian

  142. is broad, isn't it?

  143. He doesn't address any specific area of life here.

  144. He considers godliness holistically.

  145. Righteousness holistically.

  146. There is an urgency to what he's saying.

  147. He literally uses the term urge here.

  148. But there's also divine authority behind what he's saying.

  149. He urged them in the Lord Jesus

  150. with instructions that came from the Lord Jesus.

  151. But what is it exactly that Paul is instructing them

  152. with the authority of Christ to do?

  153. Well, very simply, he instructed them to live a life

  154. that pleases God.

  155. Live a life that pleases God.

  156. In other words, before he confronted any specific area

  157. of sin in their lives, he begins his argument by saying

  158. that their entire lives were to be oriented

  159. to glorifying and obeying God.

  160. A necessary starting point for any of us.

  161. Before we ever dive into specific areas of our lives

  162. that we need to correct or change or transform

  163. in obedience to God, we need to start from the understanding

  164. that we're actually called just to obey God

  165. with all of our lives.

  166. That there is no part of our life

  167. that God does not care about.

  168. And of course, if you're a Christian,

  169. you should understand this to be God's purpose

  170. in saving you.

  171. He created each of us in his image

  172. so that we might display his glory

  173. in the created world.

  174. However, because of our sin,

  175. that image is marred.

  176. We all fall short of God's glory.

  177. So what did God do?

  178. He sent his son in human flesh,

  179. Jesus Christ, to do what?

  180. To redeem us from sin

  181. and to restore us to glory.

  182. By the blood of Christ, our sins are forgiven.

  183. And by the power of his spirit,

  184. God breaks us free from the bondage of sin

  185. so that we might indeed please him,

  186. fulfilling the purpose for which he created us,

  187. his own glory.

  188. This is the transformational work

  189. that God does in those who trust in Jesus.

  190. And pleasing him in all of life

  191. should be our desire

  192. and it should actually be our delight.

  193. We are saved by faith unto works,

  194. which is made clear for us in Ephesians 2.

  195. Paul says,

  196. for by grace,

  197. you have been saved through faith.

  198. This is not your own doing.

  199. It's the gift of God,

  200. not a result of works,

  201. so that no one may boast.

  202. But then he follows that up with,

  203. but you are his workmanship,

  204. created in Christ Jesus

  205. for good works,

  206. which God prepared beforehand

  207. that we should walk in them.

  208. Now there's two implications

  209. of Paul's opening instruction

  210. that I want to highlight

  211. before we get to his narrow instruction.

  212. The first thing I want you to understand here

  213. or see here is the reality of progress.

  214. The reality of progress.

  215. Look at what Paul says.

  216. As you receive from us

  217. how you ought to walk and to please God.

  218. And then notice what he says.

  219. Just as you're doing,

  220. that you will do so more and more.

  221. There's progress here, isn't there?

  222. Based on Timothy's report,

  223. Paul recognized that the Thessalonian Christians

  224. were indeed actively seeking

  225. to please the Lord with their lives.

  226. They received Paul's instruction from the Lord.

  227. They received it as from the Lord.

  228. And they were presently aiming

  229. to please God in the way that they lived.

  230. What Paul urged them to do in this moment

  231. was to increase in that godliness

  232. more and more.

  233. In other words, he says,

  234. you're pursuing God.

  235. You're pursuing obedience now.

  236. You're doing it.

  237. We praise the Lord for that.

  238. Keep doing it.

  239. Do it more.

  240. This introduces us to the reality

  241. of progress in the grace of God.

  242. Holiness, it's a lifelong work of God's grace.

  243. We should expect to grow in it.

  244. We should expect that

  245. in the progressive work of God's grace

  246. that we're more obedient to the Lord today

  247. than what we were a year ago

  248. or five years ago

  249. or 10 years ago.

  250. But there's another side to this, isn't there?

  251. The reality of progress

  252. might bring comfort,

  253. at least in this regard,

  254. that we ought not be surprised

  255. that we do indeed still fail.

  256. God calls us to pursue holiness.

  257. But in the end,

  258. he is the one

  259. who will bring it to completion.

  260. And we see that finally in chapter five.

  261. If you just set your eyes on it.

  262. In Paul's prayer at the end of the letter

  263. in verse 23 of chapter five,

  264. now may the God of peace himself

  265. sanctify you completely,

  266. make you holy completely.

  267. Bring this work of grace

  268. that he's started in your life.

  269. May he bring it to full completion.

  270. When?

  271. At the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.

  272. And then just to make sure

  273. that they understood

  274. the comfort of that statement,

  275. he follows it up by saying,

  276. he is faithful.

  277. He will do it.

  278. I hope that's an encouragement to you.

  279. I hope it's an evaluative tool

  280. that you examine your life

  281. and hopefully there's a progress

  282. of grace and obedience there

  283. since the day that you came to Christ.

  284. But I hope it's a comfort to you

  285. to know that you're not

  286. going to be perfect today

  287. and you're not going to be perfect tomorrow

  288. unless tomorrow is the time

  289. that the Lord returns.

  290. He is doing this work.

  291. He is faithful to do it.

  292. And one day he's going to complete that work.

  293. And we should rest in that

  294. as we pursue it in our daily lives.

  295. So the reality of progress.

  296. I also want you to see here

  297. the necessity of Christian community.

  298. The necessity of Christian community.

  299. Now I want to belabor the point

  300. because we've talked about it a lot

  301. in the previous chapter.

  302. But just as God used Paul and his team

  303. to strengthen the faith of the Thessalonians,

  304. he uses them here

  305. to increase their obedience as well.

  306. As we discovered in chapter 3,

  307. verses 11 to 13,

  308. Paul expected that through their ministry

  309. to one another,

  310. God would establish the church

  311. in holiness

  312. until the return of the Lord.

  313. Just set your eyes on it again

  314. in chapter 3 and verse 12.

  315. May the Lord make you increase

  316. and abound in love for one another

  317. and for all as we do for you

  318. so that through your love for one another,

  319. he may establish your hearts

  320. blameless in holiness

  321. at the coming of the Lord.

  322. Our sanctification is a progressive work

  323. of God's grace

  324. that God accomplishes,

  325. in part at least,

  326. through our ministry to one another.

  327. We need one another in this.

  328. When our feet begin to slip

  329. in a particular area,

  330. we need Christians

  331. who love God

  332. and love us

  333. to come alongside of us

  334. and say,

  335. hey,

  336. let me just remind you

  337. to walk to please God.

  338. Isn't that the work that God does?

  339. Isn't that how he uses us

  340. in one another's lives?

  341. Now, the church didn't need for Paul

  342. to rehearse every instruction

  343. that he had given them before.

  344. I think that's the implication of verse 2.

  345. He says,

  346. you know what instructions we gave you.

  347. You're aware of those things.

  348. Keep doing them.

  349. Keep growing in them.

  350. But there were some areas

  351. he believed needed to be

  352. specifically addressed

  353. for this church.

  354. And that brings us

  355. to the narrow instruction

  356. of the next few verses.

  357. Let's look at it together.

  358. The narrow instructions.

  359. What is it?

  360. Christians are called to please God

  361. in sexual purity.

  362. Now, in verses 3 to 7,

  363. Paul moves from this broad instruction again

  364. to please God holistically

  365. to a narrow instruction

  366. to please God specifically.

  367. And the specific area of holiness

  368. he addressed

  369. is sexual purity.

  370. But significant to the way

  371. he addresses it

  372. is that he confronted the issue

  373. by bookending it

  374. with two explicit statements

  375. of God's will

  376. for their holiness.

  377. He does the sandwich effect here,

  378. doesn't he?

  379. He starts with God's desire

  380. for their holiness.

  381. He ends with God's desire

  382. for their holiness.

  383. And sandwiched in between

  384. those two affirmations

  385. is the instruction

  386. on sexual purity.

  387. Just look at verse 3

  388. and verse 7.

  389. He says,

  390. for this is the will of God.

  391. This is God's will.

  392. Your sanctification.

  393. Verse 7,

  394. God has not called us

  395. for impurity.

  396. God's will,

  397. God's call,

  398. is holiness.

  399. Now, what's translated

  400. in verse 3

  401. as sanctification

  402. and translated

  403. as holiness

  404. in verse 7,

  405. it's the same exact word.

  406. Same exact one.

  407. It refers, of course,

  408. to the concept

  409. of moral purity.

  410. And in the broad sense,

  411. holiness refers

  412. to a life

  413. that is set apart

  414. for God's glory.

  415. That's a part

  416. of that transformational

  417. work in the gospel.

  418. God takes a sinner,

  419. he redeems the sinner,

  420. and he transforms

  421. the sinner,

  422. sets them apart

  423. for his own glory

  424. to display his glory

  425. to the watching world.

  426. Paul uses the term here

  427. narrowly

  428. to refer specifically

  429. to sexual purity.

  430. So on the front end,

  431. he reminds us

  432. that holiness

  433. through sexual purity

  434. is God's will.

  435. And on the back end,

  436. his charge is followed up

  437. with the assertion

  438. that in calling us

  439. to salvation,

  440. God doesn't call us

  441. to impurity,

  442. but to holiness.

  443. What am I saying?

  444. As a Christian,

  445. God calls you

  446. to live a life

  447. that is pleasing to him.

  448. and living in sexual purity

  449. is one such way

  450. that we fulfill

  451. his divine will.

  452. It's not an option.

  453. It's not a request.

  454. It is the explicit command

  455. of God

  456. for our lives.

  457. and if you are

  458. indeed a Christian,

  459. that will mean something

  460. to you

  461. as you come

  462. to this text.

  463. Now,

  464. I probably don't have

  465. to convince you

  466. of the relevance

  467. of this instruction

  468. for us today.

  469. The dominant thought

  470. in our day

  471. is not only

  472. that sexuality

  473. is a matter

  474. of preference,

  475. but that is

  476. an issue

  477. of identity.

  478. It's understood

  479. by many

  480. not simply

  481. as something

  482. an individual

  483. does,

  484. but as crucial

  485. to who they are

  486. as a person.

  487. So,

  488. to acknowledge

  489. certain sexual behaviors

  490. as sins

  491. against God

  492. is received

  493. immediately

  494. as a personal attack

  495. against the individual

  496. himself.

  497. This is a corrupt

  498. worldview.

  499. We understand that.

  500. But the corruption

  501. of it

  502. has actually

  503. infiltrated the church.

  504. There's many

  505. professing Christians

  506. who are actively

  507. waging war

  508. against the will

  509. of God

  510. that they claim

  511. to know

  512. and worship.

  513. It is to the Christian

  514. who excuses

  515. and engages

  516. in sexual sin

  517. that God

  518. aims his words

  519. in this text.

  520. And the instructions,

  521. there's three elements

  522. to them,

  523. each expanding

  524. a little bit further

  525. on the previous one.

  526. The first one

  527. is this.

  528. God's call

  529. to abstain

  530. from sexual sin.

  531. God's call

  532. to abstain

  533. from sexual sin.

  534. Look at verse 3.

  535. For this

  536. is the will

  537. of God,

  538. your sanctification,

  539. your holiness,

  540. your purity.

  541. Number one,

  542. that you abstain

  543. from sexual

  544. immorality.

  545. Now,

  546. this needs

  547. a point of clarity,

  548. doesn't it?

  549. The command

  550. here

  551. is not

  552. to abstain

  553. from sex.

  554. That's not

  555. the command.

  556. Christians

  557. through the centuries

  558. have mistook

  559. this

  560. and they have

  561. treated sex

  562. as if it's a disease,

  563. as if it's a problem

  564. that by its nature

  565. is something wrong

  566. and dirty.

  567. That is not

  568. what the scripture

  569. teaches at all.

  570. The call

  571. for abstention

  572. is not from sex

  573. itself.

  574. It is from

  575. sexual behavior

  576. that is out

  577. of line

  578. with God's

  579. design

  580. and therefore

  581. disobedient

  582. to God's demands.

  583. Now,

  584. to understand

  585. the prohibition

  586. fully,

  587. we need to

  588. grasp the fact

  589. that sex

  590. is God's idea

  591. and he has

  592. given it to mankind

  593. as a wonderful

  594. blessing.

  595. He created it

  596. as a conduit

  597. for human

  598. pleasure,

  599. for procreation

  600. and also

  601. for promise.

  602. But he also

  603. set the terms

  604. for how this

  605. blessing is to

  606. be enjoyed.

  607. And I want

  608. to just point

  609. out three

  610. dynamics of

  611. God's design

  612. from creation.

  613. And I'll just

  614. get you started

  615. on this and

  616. you can run

  617. with it in

  618. your own study.

  619. First,

  620. I want you

  621. to notice

  622. that God

  623. sets the

  624. parameters

  625. biologically.

  626. He sets

  627. the parameters

  628. biologically.

  629. Genesis

    Genesis 1:27

  630. chapter 1

  631. verse 27.

  632. So God

  633. created man

  634. in his own

  635. image.

  636. In the image

  637. of God,

  638. he created

  639. him.

  640. Male and

  641. female,

  642. he created

  643. them.

  644. God created

  645. humans with

  646. two distinct

  647. genders,

  648. male and

  649. female.

  650. And he

  651. fashioned their

  652. bodies so that

  653. they might

  654. naturally engage

  655. in this

  656. blessing.

  657. God's design

  658. for sex,

  659. therefore,

  660. is made

  661. clear in

  662. human biology

  663. in the way

  664. that he has

  665. created us.

  666. But we can't

  667. stop at

  668. biology,

  669. can we?

  670. If we just

  671. stop at

  672. biology,

  673. we might get

  674. the male and

  675. female part

  676. right,

  677. but then we

  678. might assume

  679. that,

  680. well,

  681. it's permissible

  682. then to

  683. participate in

  684. this kind of

  685. behavior with

  686. any male or

  687. any female or

  688. in any

  689. combination.

  690. So we can't

  691. just stop at

  692. biology,

  693. we have to

  694. move forward.

  695. And we learn,

  696. secondly,

  697. that he sets

  698. the parameters

  699. relationally.

  700. He sets the

  701. parameters

  702. relationally.

  703. Genesis 2,

    Genesis 2:24

  704. verse 24,

  705. therefore,

  706. a man shall

  707. leave his

  708. father and

  709. mother and

  710. hold fast to

  711. his wife,

  712. and they

  713. shall become

  714. one flesh.

  715. God designed

  716. the blessing

  717. of sex to

  718. be freely

  719. enjoyed within

  720. the bonds

  721. of covenant

  722. marriage.

  723. And within

  724. this relational

  725. boundary from

  726. the very

  727. beginning of

  728. creation,

  729. we are free

  730. to reap the

  731. benefits and

  732. blessings of

  733. pleasure and

  734. procreation and

  735. promise.

  736. But there's one

  737. more dynamic to

  738. understand.

  739. And of course,

  740. we have to

  741. understand this,

  742. especially as

  743. Christians.

  744. God sets the

  745. parameters biologically,

  746. he sets the

  747. parameters

  748. relationally,

  749. he sets the

  750. parameters

  751. spiritually,

  752. spiritually.

  753. And we might

  754. return to

  755. Genesis 2 to

  756. the one flesh

  757. statement as

  758. being created by

  759. God and

  760. ordained by

  761. God.

  762. That's enough

  763. for us.

  764. Let me just

  765. read a New

  766. Testament passage

  767. in relation to

  768. this.

  769. Hebrews 13,

    Hebrews 13:4

  770. verse 4,

  771. let marriage

  772. be held in

  773. honor among

  774. all,

  775. and let the

  776. marriage bed

  777. be undefiled,

  778. for God will

  779. judge the

  780. sexually immoral

  781. and adulterous.

  782. Now what am I

  783. saying?

  784. The one flesh

  785. union is more

  786. profound than a

  787. physical act.

  788. It's more than

  789. that.

  790. Sex is the

  791. physical fusion

  792. of a deeply

  793. spiritual union

  794. between a man

  795. and woman under

  796. God.

  797. God has

  798. designed it to

  799. connect the two

  800. consenting

  801. individuals in

  802. ways that go

  803. well beyond the

  804. physical act.

  805. And we understand

  806. that intuitively.

  807. There is a

  808. spiritual nature

  809. to this.

  810. There is an

  811. emotional,

  812. psychological link

  813. that comes

  814. through this

  815. act.

  816. And God

  817. created it so.

  818. He designed

  819. it to do

  820. this.

  821. It is not

  822. merely a

  823. physical activity.

  824. It is a

  825. spiritual one

  826. that is to

  827. be kept

  828. sacred,

  829. holy.

  830. Or in the

  831. terms of

  832. Hebrews 13,

  833. it should not

  834. be defiled.

  835. Biologically,

  836. man and

  837. woman only.

  838. Relationally,

  839. a specific

  840. man and

  841. woman only.

  842. spiritually,

  843. a sacred

  844. act to be

  845. held in

  846. honor.

  847. Now back

  848. to 1 Thessalonians

  849. 4.

  850. This term

  851. sexual

  852. immorality,

  853. we need to

  854. understand it.

  855. All of

  856. God's

  857. commands

  858. regarding

  859. sexual

  860. behavior in

  861. the Bible,

  862. they are

  863. not there

  864. to oppress

  865. you.

  866. They are

  867. not there

  868. merely to

  869. withhold from

  870. you something

  871. that you think

  872. is good.

  873. He gave

  874. them graciously

  875. to us in

  876. order that

  877. He might

  878. protect the

  879. sanctity of

  880. marriage and

  881. the marriage

  882. bed.

  883. That's His

  884. design.

  885. And His

  886. design for

  887. human flourishing

  888. is always the

  889. greatest good.

  890. Sexual

  891. immorality,

  892. then,

  893. refers broadly

  894. to any

  895. sexual activity

  896. that is

  897. outside of

  898. God's

  899. design and

  900. protective

  901. demands.

  902. It includes

  903. unnatural

  904. behavior that

  905. violates His

  906. biological

  907. design.

  908. Homosexuality.

  909. The Bible

  910. enumerates

  911. bestiality.

  912. There's weird

  913. things happening

  914. with artificial

  915. intelligence now

  916. that we need to

  917. pay attention to

  918. in our world

  919. and in our

  920. culture.

  921. We cannot

  922. excuse that.

  923. God does not

  924. excuse that.

  925. It also

  926. includes

  927. extramarital

  928. behavior that

  929. violates God's

  930. relational design.

  931. The biblical

  932. terms for this

  933. are fornication

  934. and adultery

  935. primarily.

  936. Sex before

  937. you're married,

  938. sex with

  939. someone that

  940. you're not

  941. married to.

  942. Of course,

  943. we understand

  944. this to

  945. include

  946. pornography.

  947. All of

  948. these things

  949. would be a

  950. violation of

  951. God's relational

  952. design.

  953. It also

  954. includes

  955. irreverent

  956. behavior that

  957. profanes His

  958. spiritual design.

  959. That this is

  960. something to be

  961. held in honor,

  962. sacred,

  963. respectful,

  964. which means

  965. that anything

  966. that cheapens

  967. or dishonors

  968. even within

  969. the bond of

  970. marriage

  971. is prohibited

  972. by God's

  973. design.

  974. Loved

  975. ones,

  976. God calls

  977. us

  978. to holiness,

  979. which means

  980. that He

  981. calls us

  982. to purity.

  983. It's not

  984. merely an

  985. option on the

  986. table that we

  987. can take or

  988. leave.

  989. It is the

  990. command of

  991. God given

  992. for our

  993. good and

  994. for His

  995. glory,

  996. and we

  997. must obey

  998. it if we

  999. are to

  1000. please Him.

  1001. And He

  1002. has made

  1003. it abundantly

  1004. clear.

  1005. It's not

  1006. debatable.

  1007. It's clear.

  1008. Second,

  1009. Paul shows

  1010. us what it

  1011. takes to

  1012. abstain from

  1013. sexual sin.

  1014. What it

  1015. takes to

  1016. abstain from

  1017. sexual sin.

  1018. Look at

  1019. verses 4

  1020. and 5.

  1021. He expands

  1022. on that first

  1023. instruction.

  1024. He says

  1025. that each

  1026. one of

  1027. you will

  1028. do this

  1029. by knowing

  1030. how to

  1031. control

  1032. his own

  1033. body

  1034. in holiness

  1035. and honor,

  1036. not in the

  1037. passion of

  1038. lust like

  1039. the Gentiles

  1040. who do not

  1041. know God.

  1042. Now just

  1043. quickly,

  1044. the pathway

  1045. to sexual

  1046. purity that

  1047. pleases the

  1048. Lord is

  1049. self-control.

  1050. Self-control.

  1051. And what's

  1052. so helpful

  1053. on this

  1054. point is

  1055. the comparison

  1056. that Paul

  1057. uses to

  1058. drive this

  1059. home.

  1060. The Christian

  1061. self-control

  1062. that you may

  1063. know how to

  1064. control your

  1065. body in

  1066. holiness,

  1067. the Christian

  1068. self-control

  1069. is set here

  1070. against those

  1071. who do not

  1072. know God

  1073. and are

  1074. therefore

  1075. mastered

  1076. by their

  1077. passions.

  1078. Now whether

  1079. Paul is

  1080. using Gentile

  1081. here in the

  1082. technical sense

  1083. of a non-Jew

  1084. or in the

  1085. figurative sense

  1086. of an unbeliever,

  1087. the point

  1088. remains the

  1089. same.

  1090. Sexual sin

  1091. is the

  1092. mark of

  1093. someone who

  1094. is either

  1095. ignorant of

  1096. or rebellious

  1097. to God

  1098. and his

  1099. word.

  1100. But the

  1101. one who

  1102. has been

  1103. graciously

  1104. freed from

  1105. the bondage

  1106. of sin,

  1107. that has

  1108. the ability

  1109. of the

  1110. control

  1111. that God

  1112. commands here.

  1113. Oh, he's

  1114. marked by

  1115. self-control.

  1116. He masters

  1117. his passions

  1118. rather than

  1119. having his

  1120. passions master

  1121. him.

  1122. And that

  1123. doesn't mean

  1124. that a

  1125. genuine

  1126. Christian will

  1127. never be

  1128. guilty of

  1129. sexual sin.

  1130. That's not

  1131. the point

  1132. Paul's

  1133. making.

  1134. After all,

  1135. Paul confronts

  1136. it in

  1137. Thessalonica

  1138. after having

  1139. just

  1140. acknowledged

  1141. confirming

  1142. that they

  1143. are indeed

  1144. in Christ.

  1145. He says,

  1146. I know,

  1147. I'm confident

  1148. that you are

  1149. chosen of

  1150. God.

  1151. I've seen

  1152. his work

  1153. and the

  1154. perseverance

  1155. of your

  1156. faith is

  1157. what proves

  1158. it.

  1159. He's speaking

  1160. to people

  1161. that he

  1162. believes to

  1163. be genuine

  1164. Christians

  1165. who have

  1166. a serious

  1167. weakness

  1168. of sexual

  1169. sin in

  1170. their lives

  1171. and in

  1172. their midst.

  1173. So he

  1174. does not

  1175. mean to

  1176. say that

  1177. the presence

  1178. of sexual

  1179. sin itself

  1180. means that

  1181. you're not

  1182. a real

  1183. Christian.

  1184. But the

  1185. point is

  1186. clear that

  1187. at the

  1188. very least

  1189. engaging in

  1190. sexual sin

  1191. is to

  1192. live as

  1193. if you

  1194. do not

  1195. know God.

  1196. So in

  1197. the grace

  1198. and power

  1199. of the

  1200. Spirit,

  1201. we need

  1202. to learn

  1203. self-control,

  1204. to take

  1205. our thoughts

  1206. captive,

  1207. to employ

  1208. the help

  1209. and the

  1210. prayer and

  1211. the assistance

  1212. of others

  1213. in our

  1214. Christian

  1215. community

  1216. to help

  1217. us through

  1218. this,

  1219. to be

  1220. committed

  1221. first to

  1222. pleasing the

  1223. Lord holistically

  1224. so that we

  1225. might endeavor

  1226. to learn

  1227. self-control

  1228. in the

  1229. specifics of

  1230. sexual

  1231. purity.

  1232. Third,

  1233. he shows

  1234. us the

  1235. consequences

  1236. of engaging

  1237. in sexual

  1238. sin.

  1239. Verse 6,

  1240. that no one

  1241. transgress or

  1242. wrong his

  1243. brother in

  1244. this matter

  1245. because the

  1246. Lord is an

  1247. avenger in

  1248. all these

  1249. things as

  1250. we told you

  1251. beforehand

  1252. and solemnly

  1253. warned you.

  1254. Paul takes

  1255. his argument

  1256. one step

  1257. further here.

  1258. He reminds

  1259. us that

  1260. sexual

  1261. immorality

  1262. is not

  1263. only a

  1264. sin against

  1265. God,

  1266. it's a

  1267. sin against

  1268. others.

  1269. when we

  1270. engage in

  1271. it,

  1272. we violate

  1273. the purity

  1274. of those

  1275. with whom

  1276. we engage.

  1277. And that

  1278. he mentions

  1279. this as a

  1280. warning or

  1281. wronging of

  1282. a brother,

  1283. he introduces

  1284. the potential

  1285. of Christians

  1286. engaging in

  1287. this behavior

  1288. together,

  1289. wronging one

  1290. another and

  1291. transgressing one

  1292. another before

  1293. God.

  1294. And whatever

  1295. the precise

  1296. cultural context

  1297. was in Paul's

  1298. mind,

  1299. and there's

  1300. many that

  1301. could have

  1302. been in

  1303. the forefront

  1304. of his

  1305. mind,

  1306. he doesn't

  1307. explain that,

  1308. but the

  1309. fact remains

  1310. that sexual

  1311. sin is a

  1312. sin against

  1313. God and

  1314. it's a sin

  1315. against others,

  1316. which means

  1317. that the

  1318. warning here

  1319. is serious.

  1320. It's serious.

  1321. The Lord is

  1322. an avenger in

  1323. all these

  1324. things.

  1325. He avenges

  1326. those who

  1327. are sinned

  1328. against in

  1329. this way.

  1330. the Lord

  1331. will judge

  1332. those who

  1333. engage in

  1334. sexual sin

  1335. transgressing

  1336. others in

  1337. the process.

  1338. Jesus himself

  1339. said,

  1340. it would be

  1341. better that

  1342. you wrap a

  1343. millstone around

  1344. your neck and

  1345. jump into the

  1346. sea than it

  1347. would be for

  1348. you to cause

  1349. one of mine

  1350. to sin.

  1351. Warning,

  1352. warning,

  1353. warning.

  1354. Judgment

  1355. awaits those

  1356. who engage

  1357. in this.

  1358. Judgment

  1359. in this

  1360. letter always

  1361. refers to the

  1362. day of judgment

  1363. at Christ's

  1364. return.

  1365. Again,

  1366. that doesn't

  1367. mean a

  1368. Christian who

  1369. sins will

  1370. have his or

  1371. her salvation

  1372. taken away

  1373. and will be

  1374. forced now to

  1375. endure God's

  1376. wrath.

  1377. That's not what

  1378. this means,

  1379. but the

  1380. implication is

  1381. that those

  1382. who willfully

  1383. participate

  1384. prove

  1385. not to be

  1386. saved.

  1387. And they

  1388. will stand

  1389. before God's

  1390. judgment in

  1391. the end.

  1392. Our behavior

  1393. doesn't save

  1394. us, but it

  1395. does expose

  1396. us in many

  1397. ways.

  1398. So Paul

  1399. issues the

  1400. warning.

  1401. The Lord is

  1402. an avenger on

  1403. these things.

  1404. The Lord will

  1405. judge those

  1406. who willfully,

  1407. rebelliously

  1408. engage in

  1409. sin against

  1410. God and

  1411. against his

  1412. brother.

  1413. Finally,

  1414. we get to

  1415. the weighty

  1416. conclusion of

  1417. verse 8,

  1418. which is

  1419. summarized in

  1420. this statement.

  1421. To disregard

  1422. the call

  1423. is to

  1424. disregard

  1425. God.

  1426. To disregard

  1427. the call

  1428. is to

  1429. disregard

  1430. God.

  1431. It's

  1432. straightforward.

  1433. Verse 8,

  1434. therefore,

  1435. it indicates

  1436. he's drawing

  1437. one massive

  1438. conclusion to

  1439. everything he's

  1440. just said.

  1441. therefore,

  1442. whoever

  1443. disregards

  1444. this,

  1445. disregards

  1446. not man,

  1447. but God,

  1448. who gives

  1449. us his

  1450. Holy Spirit.

  1451. A huge

  1452. portion of

  1453. this text is

  1454. given to the

  1455. specific issue

  1456. of sexual

  1457. sin.

  1458. I said at the

  1459. beginning that

  1460. the main

  1461. emphasis is that

  1462. God calls us

  1463. to be holy,

  1464. not just about

  1465. sex, but in

  1466. all of life.

  1467. I pointed

  1468. out how many

  1469. times Paul

  1470. stressed that

  1471. the imperatives

  1472. he gave came

  1473. from God,

  1474. and then here

  1475. at the end,

  1476. he drives the

  1477. emphasis all the

  1478. way home.

  1479. Now, some of

  1480. our consciences

  1481. are bothered

  1482. when we

  1483. disobey people

  1484. that we respect

  1485. or love or

  1486. that have some

  1487. authority in

  1488. our lives,

  1489. but generally,

  1490. it doesn't

  1491. affect us too

  1492. deeply to go

  1493. against the

  1494. commands of

  1495. men, does

  1496. it?

  1497. Some of us

  1498. enjoy it,

  1499. but when it

  1500. comes to the

  1501. commands of

  1502. the Bible,

  1503. it's not man

  1504. we disregard.

  1505. It's God

  1506. himself.

  1507. Lest the

  1508. Thessalonians

  1509. shrug off

  1510. Paul's instruction

  1511. and say,

  1512. oh, you know

  1513. how Paul is.

  1514. He's not

  1515. married, he's

  1516. celibate, he's

  1517. given his whole

  1518. life to this

  1519. ministry thing,

  1520. I get that

  1521. he's on about

  1522. this thing, but

  1523. it's really not

  1524. that big a deal.

  1525. After all, Christ

  1526. has forgiven us,

  1527. right?

  1528. Paul says, look,

  1529. if you're going to

  1530. engage in this,

  1531. don't think that

  1532. you're shrugging

  1533. off my command.

  1534. This is not my

  1535. command.

  1536. This is coming

  1537. from the Lord

  1538. himself.

  1539. To reject God's

  1540. will is tantamount

  1541. to rejecting God

  1542. himself.

  1543. To willfully

  1544. violate his

  1545. commands is to

  1546. quench his

  1547. spirit by whom

  1548. he writes his

  1549. law upon the

  1550. table of our

  1551. hearts.

  1552. And particularly

  1553. with sexual

  1554. sin, it is to

  1555. profane the

  1556. temple of the

  1557. Holy Spirit,

  1558. which is our

  1559. bodies.

  1560. So we cannot

  1561. dismiss the

  1562. biblical instructions

  1563. on holiness.

  1564. It's what God

  1565. calls us to, and

  1566. we must seek to

  1567. please him in all

  1568. things.

  1569. Now I want to

  1570. finish the way I

  1571. started.

  1572. Paul was

  1573. intentional in the

  1574. ordering of his

  1575. material.

  1576. We can't escape

  1577. that, and we

  1578. mustn't dismiss it.

  1579. The emphasis on

  1580. righteous living

  1581. comes after he

  1582. recognized the

  1583. genuine faith of

  1584. the Thessalonian

  1585. Christians.

  1586. He rejoiced

  1587. confidently in

  1588. their conversion,

  1589. not because they

  1590. were morally

  1591. upright.

  1592. clearly they had

  1593. some moral

  1594. problems.

  1595. No, he

  1596. rejoiced because

  1597. they trusted

  1598. Christ as Lord

  1599. and Savior.

  1600. Many people begin

  1601. to get this

  1602. backwards, supposing

  1603. that the way to

  1604. salvation is

  1605. morality.

  1606. However, no

  1607. present or future

  1608. moral effort will

  1609. ever be enough to

  1610. satisfy God's

  1611. perfect standard,

  1612. which has already

  1613. been broken by all

  1614. of us.

  1615. It's in our

  1616. nature.

  1617. In fact, you

  1618. come to a text

  1619. like this, and

  1620. you may sense the

  1621. weight of that

  1622. reality, recognizing

  1623. that if pleasing

  1624. God requires this

  1625. kind of purity,

  1626. there's no way that

  1627. you'll ever be able

  1628. to please him.

  1629. And let me remind

  1630. you that the weight

  1631. of the law is a

  1632. burden that not

  1633. one of us can

  1634. actually bear.

  1635. We're crushed

  1636. beneath it.

  1637. All of us are

  1638. sinners before him.

  1639. All of us destined

  1640. for his wrath.

  1641. So what's the

  1642. solution then?

  1643. If the solution

  1644. isn't just to try

  1645. to get things in

  1646. order and hope

  1647. that God says,

  1648. ah, you tried

  1649. hard enough, I

  1650. guess I'll let you

  1651. in.

  1652. If that doesn't

  1653. work, what will?

  1654. In his great love,

  1655. God sent his

  1656. son, who perfectly

  1657. fulfilled all of

  1658. his law.

  1659. He lived the life

  1660. we were meant to

  1661. live, never sinning

  1662. even one time.

  1663. But then he paid

  1664. the penalty of God's

  1665. wrath for sin in our

  1666. place.

  1667. On the cross,

  1668. Jesus became the

  1669. sacrificial lamb

  1670. pictured in the

  1671. Old Testament.

  1672. And then God

  1673. raised him from the

  1674. dead, showing that

  1675. his atonement, his

  1676. death was sufficient.

  1677. That it did

  1678. everything that we

  1679. needed for it to

  1680. do.

  1681. We need to add

  1682. nothing to it now.

  1683. He is enough.

  1684. And then he turns

  1685. and he says,

  1686. come to me,

  1687. if you will come

  1688. to me,

  1689. and receive this

  1690. mercy.

  1691. Mercy is all that

  1692. you will receive.

  1693. On the cross,

  1694. God treated his

  1695. son as if he had

  1696. sinned,

  1697. so that in the

  1698. judgment at the

  1699. end, he might

  1700. might treat us

  1701. as if we have

  1702. not.

  1703. That's the hope.

  1704. So if you're not a

  1705. Christian, what are you

  1706. supposed to do with

  1707. this?

  1708. I want you to

  1709. recognize that Jesus

  1710. is your only hope.

  1711. You'll never be good

  1712. enough, but you don't

  1713. have to be.

  1714. He was good for you.

  1715. Turn from the

  1716. ignorance and

  1717. rebellion.

  1718. Why wouldn't you?

  1719. This is a great

  1720. gospel.

  1721. There's none like it.

  1722. And if you are a

  1723. Christian,

  1724. and perhaps you've

  1725. fallen in this way

  1726. and it's a struggle

  1727. for you,

  1728. can I just remind

  1729. you that Christ's

  1730. mercy is greater

  1731. than your sin.

  1732. His mercy is great.

  1733. But I urge you,

  1734. however,

  1735. to live

  1736. to please God

  1737. and do not

  1738. disregard what he

  1739. has said.

  1740. Let's pray.

  1741. through the