Sermon
The Golden Rule
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Transcript
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All right, well this morning as we continue our way through the Gospel of Luke, we're still
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! in the sermon that Jesus was preaching. The Sermon on the Mount possibly are very similar,
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! if not the same sermon. And we come to some words of Jesus this morning that are so famous
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that probably everyone here can quote it right off the top of your head. The golden rule, which
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is, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Luke chapter 6 verse 31, do to
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others as you would have them do to you. Our tendency when we come to these words in the
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Bible is to read them quickly, think to ourselves, yep, I know what that means, and then just
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move on to the next words of Jesus. It's one of those teachings that's become so familiar
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that we just kind of assume, well I understand that. I've heard that since I was a child, or
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my parents used to say that all the time to me. I've reminded my own kids of that all the
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time. And so let's just carry on to the next thing. And probably most of us do understand
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what it means. But do we live by this golden rule? Martin Lloyd-Jones, an influential pastor
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and preacher in the 20th century said this about it. He said, we all know how easy it is to
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read such a statement, or to listen to an exposition of it, or to read an exposition of it in a book,
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or to see some great picture which conveys it, and to say, yes, wonderful, marvelous,
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and yet to fail completely to put it into practice in actual life and living.
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Amazingly, Lloyd-Jones was one of the only ones I found, I didn't look too hard, but one of the
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only ones I found who dedicated an entire sermon to this golden rule. And I'm sure there's others out
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there who have, but many commentators, many pastors and preachers barely mention it in their teaching
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and writing. Maybe they assume, just like we do, that we already understand it, and so no more comments
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are needed. But let me ask it this way. What's so golden about this rule if we spend so little time
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thinking about it? What's so valuable about it, if we're content to skip over it and keep it on the shelf
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or in the filing cabinet of our minds?
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Is it only a saying useful in situations of parenting
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young, self-centered children?
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Have we all mastered this a long time ago?
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As Christians today,
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sometimes we don't treat the golden rule
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as golden.
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And so I want to start this morning with that very question.
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What's so golden
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about the golden rule? Why is it so valuable?
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On the screen, we have it recorded the way that
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Luke
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recorded it.
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But I want to start by looking actually at the way that Matthew recorded it in his
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gospel. And there's some other details kind of nestled around it that really
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take us to a whole new understanding of this.
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Matthew chapter 7, verse 12.
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Jesus says,
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So in everything,
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do to others what you would have them do to you.
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For this sums up the law
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and the prophets.
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So you notice the differences there
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in Matthew's account.
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What else is there?
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We notice two things.
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First, we notice the introduction.
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So in everything.
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And we also notice the conclusion statement.
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This sums up
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the law
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and the prophets.
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Do you see how Jesus introduces
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this imperative?
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So in everything,
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do to others
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what you would have them do to you.
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In everything,
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do to others
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what you would have them do
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to you.
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And so this isn't just a helpful tool in a toolbox
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that we might reach for
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once in a while.
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This instruction of Jesus,
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we are meant to live
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in everything.
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What does that mean?
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What does in everything mean?
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It means that this imperative
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is to govern our thinking
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and our doing
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in all things.
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In all of life.
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In every situation.
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In all our interactions.
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Anybody.
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And with everybody.
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In everything means
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that this imperative
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is for deciding
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what to say
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to the lady
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at the post office.
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Whether she's having
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a good day
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or a bad day.
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It means it's for deciding
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whether to fish
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or play golf
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for another hour
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or go home
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and help my wife out
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with stuff around the house.
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It means that it's for deciding
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what to serve for dinner
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when company is coming.
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Do to others
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what you would have them
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do to you.
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It's for deciding
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how much to give someone
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who's asking for money.
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Do to others
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what you would have them
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do to you.
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It's for deciding
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how much notice
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to give my employer
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when I quit my job.
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How to respond
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to a text message.
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Whether to respond at all.
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And if I do,
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what should I say?
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Do unto others
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as you would have them
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do unto you.
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It's for deciding
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whether to pick up
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the crumpled beer can
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on someone else's lawn
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as you walk by.
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And there are
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thousands of situations
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we could go on
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and on and on.
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How do you want
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your neighbors
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to treat you
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when you're asleep
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at 2 a.m. in the morning?
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Go and do likewise
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says Jesus.
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How do you want
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your children
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to speak to you
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when they're upset
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with you?
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Go and do likewise
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to them.
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How do you want
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people around town
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to serve you
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when you're paying them
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for that service?
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Go and do likewise
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to them
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in your service
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of them
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in your job
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the people you serve.
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Do you want people
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to go the extra mile
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for you?
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Go the extra mile
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for them.
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Do you want people
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to be quick
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to forgive you
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when you blow it?
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Well then be quick
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to forgive others
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when they blow it.
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In everything
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means that this
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instruction of Jesus
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should be top of mind
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all the time
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in every situation
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in every interaction
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that we have
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with anybody
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and with everybody.
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And this is the first
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reason why this rule
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is golden.
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One simple
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memorable statement
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that Jesus gives us
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is a guide
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for how to live
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in every situation
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in life.
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it's not just
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a wise saying
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that sometimes
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applies
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it's a mission
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it's a mandate
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that always
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applies.
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This rule
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I was trying to think
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of an analogy here
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this rule is
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to living life
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as a follower
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of Jesus
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what a tape measure
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is
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to a carpenter.
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We're to keep
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this with us
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always.
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It's needed
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it's useful
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in everything.
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Think about
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how often
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a carpenter
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needs to use
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a tape measure
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even before
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you start
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the project
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you've got to
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measure
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you've got to
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figure out
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what am I
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going to do
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here
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how much
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material do I need
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when you get
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your materials
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from the store
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is this the right
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size
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you've got to
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measure
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while you're
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making your
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cuts
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before every
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cut
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you've got to
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measure
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when spacing
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every supporting
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board or beam
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and deciding
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how long
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of fasteners
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to use
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you've got to
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measure all the
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time
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in everything
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in the project
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and it's the
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same way
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with this
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golden rule
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in everything
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do to others
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what you would
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have them do
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to you
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in any given
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week we have
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a thousand
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opportunities
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to let these
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words of Jesus
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guide our
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treatment of
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others
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whether it's
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our parents
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our siblings
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our children
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our spouse
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our friends
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our neighbors
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our co-workers
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our teammates
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our fellow
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church members
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even strangers
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the guy on the
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phone
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the store clerk
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and as we've
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been seeing from
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Jesus
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even our enemies
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it applies in
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everything
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to every
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interaction
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with another
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human being
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in every
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relationship
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we have
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whether warm
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or frosty
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in everything
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to do to
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others
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what you
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would have
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them
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do to you
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and so
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that's number
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one of why
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it's golden
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why it's
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supremely
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valuable
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because it's
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to be our
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mindset
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and our
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action
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in everything
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reason number
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two that it's
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golden is
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because of what
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Jesus says
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after this
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he says
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for this
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sums up
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the law
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and the
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prophets
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and a little
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slightly
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more word
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for word
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translation
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of this
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this is
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the law
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and the
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prophets
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now that
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phrase
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the law
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and the
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prophets
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it's an
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idiom
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it's a
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figure of
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speech
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for literary
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junkies
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synecdoche
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where you
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refer to the
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parts
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all of
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them
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but really
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what you
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mean is
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the whole
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and that's
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what this
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is here
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in this
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case
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the law
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and the
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prophets
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means the
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entire
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old testament
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revelation
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of God
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everything
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he has
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said
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and revealed
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from the
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very beginning
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until now
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about our
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relationships
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with others
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this one
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statement
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sums it
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all up
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do to
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others
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what you
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would have
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them
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do
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to you
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it's kind
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of another
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way of
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Jesus
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saying the
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second greatest
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commandment
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which we're
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all familiar
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with as
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well
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love your
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neighbor
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as yourself
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we all know
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what it means
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to love
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ourselves
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we all love
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ourselves
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we care for
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ourselves
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we desire
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good for
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ourselves
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we know
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what it is
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to be
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treated
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kindly
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by others
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and so
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we're
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to love
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or to
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treat
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others
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according
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to that
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how we
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want to
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be
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treated
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Jesus
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says this
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imperative
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sums up
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the entire
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old testament
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all of
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God's
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revelation
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from the
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beginning
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till now
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about how
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we're to
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relate to
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one another
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this
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one
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imperative
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sums it
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all up
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Martin
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Lloyd
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Jones
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again
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he put
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it so
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well
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and so
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I'm
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just
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going
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to
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read
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a
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paragraph
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from
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his
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message
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on
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it
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it's
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so
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good
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he said
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the vital
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thing
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after all
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is that
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you love
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that man
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that you
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understand
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him
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and desire
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the well
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being
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of your
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neighbor
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even as
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you desire
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your own
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well being
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that
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is the
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law
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and the
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prophets
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it all
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comes to
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that
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all the
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detailed
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regulations
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given in
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the law
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in the
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Old
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Testament
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what it
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tells you
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to do
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for example
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if you
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see your
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neighbor's
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ox
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straying
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how you
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are to
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bring it
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back to
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him
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or if
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you see
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anything
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wrong
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on his
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farm
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how you
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are to
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inform
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him
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at
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once
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and
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do
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your
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utmost
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to
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help
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him
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all
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the
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detailed
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regulations
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given
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in
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the
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law
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in
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the
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Old
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Testament
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are
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not
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just
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meant
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to
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lead
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you
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to
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say
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well
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the
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law
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says
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that
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not
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at all
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it is
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rather
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that
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you
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may
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say
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to
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yourself
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this
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man
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is
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like
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myself
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and
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it
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will
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be
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a
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grievous
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matter
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and
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a
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loss
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to
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him
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if
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he's
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going
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to
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lose
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that
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ox
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well
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he's
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a
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man
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like
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myself
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and
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how
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grateful
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I
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would
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be
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if
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someone
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returned
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my
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ox
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to
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me
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therefore
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I
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will
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do
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that
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for
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him
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in
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other
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words
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you
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are
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to
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be
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interested
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in
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your
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neighbor
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!
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The
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object
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of
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the
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law
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is
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to
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bring
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us
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to
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that
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and
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regulations
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are
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nothing
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but
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illustrations
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of
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that
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great
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central
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principle
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the
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moment
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we
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cease
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to
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realize
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that
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that
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is
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the
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spirit
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of
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the
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law
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and
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the
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purpose
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of
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the
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law
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we
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go
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hopelessly
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astray
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that's
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from
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Lloyd
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Jones
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man
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that
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should
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change
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the
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way
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that
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we
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read
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the
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whole
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Old
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Testament
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right
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we
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should
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see
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love
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for
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our
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neighbor
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all
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over
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the
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Old
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Testament
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law
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and
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the
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prophets
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according
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to
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Jesus
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anything
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and
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everything
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that
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has
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to
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do
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with
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our
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treatment
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of
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others
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was
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written
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to
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teach
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us
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what
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it
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means
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to
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love
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our
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fellow
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man
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and
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so
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this
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is
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the
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second
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reason
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why
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this
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rule
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really
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is
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golden
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can
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you
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imagine
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if
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I
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mean
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this
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is
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kind
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of
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ridiculous
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in our
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day
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but
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if
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back
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in
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the
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day
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in
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school
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grade
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12
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I
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know
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they
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don't
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teach
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the
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Bible
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in
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school
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but
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just
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imagine
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that
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they
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did
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and
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your
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teacher
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gave
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you
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this
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assignment
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I
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want
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you
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to
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read
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the
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entire
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Old
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Testament
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in
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my
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Bible
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it's
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I
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think
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1300
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pages
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large
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print
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single
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column
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yours
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might
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be
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a
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different
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number
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but
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read
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the
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entire
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Old
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Testament
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of
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the
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Bible
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and
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take
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note
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of
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everything
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God
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commands
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about
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how
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we're
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to
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treat
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other
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people
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and
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then
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I
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want
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you
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to
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come up
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with
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one
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pregnant
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command
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that
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sums
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all
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of
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them
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up
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well
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thankfully
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we don't
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have to
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do
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that
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Jesus
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gives
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us
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the
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one
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command
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that
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sums
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them
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all
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up
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do
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to
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others
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what
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you
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would
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have
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them
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do
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to
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you
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and
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so
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do
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you
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see
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how
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valuable
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this
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imperative
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!
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it's
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like
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a
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hundred
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percent
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old
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testament
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concentrate
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it's
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everything
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God
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has
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said
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for
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thousands
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of
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years
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about
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how
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we
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should
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treat
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our
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fellow
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man
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distilled
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into
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one
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breath
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one
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word
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one
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imperative
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along
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with the
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greatest
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commandment
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of
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loving
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God
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with
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all
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our
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heart
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soul
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mind
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and
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strength
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if
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we
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as
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followers
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of
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Jesus
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just
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focused
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on
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this
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this
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golden
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rule
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we
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would
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be
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and
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do
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exactly
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what
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Jesus
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longs
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for
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us
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to
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be
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and
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do
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it
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sums
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up
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everything
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that
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he's
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asked
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of
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his
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people
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for
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centuries
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how
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we
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should
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live
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with
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regard
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to
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our
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fellow
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man
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well
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let's
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now
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go
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back
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to
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Luke
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let's
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look
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at
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the
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context
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a bit
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here
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let's
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deepen
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our
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understanding
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of
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this
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imperative
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what's
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the
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context
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of
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this
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command
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as
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we
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see
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in
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Luke
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we've
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been
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working
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through
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Jesus
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has
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been
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talking
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about
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how
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we
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are
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to
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live
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differently
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than
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the
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people
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of
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the
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world
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as
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his
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followers
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we're
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to
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live
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different
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from
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the
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usual
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and
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what's
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the
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usual
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that
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we
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see
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in
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our
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world
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it's
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that
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we
-
hate
-
our
-
enemies
-
it's
-
that
-
we
-
only
-
do
-
good
-
to
-
those
-
who
-
are
-
good
-
to
-
us
-
it's
-
that
-
when
-
someone
-
does
-
something
-
mean
-
or
-
unkind
-
to
-
us
-
we
-
return
-
that
-
to
-
them
-
the
-
normal
-
response
-
in
-
our
-
world
-
and
-
what
-
we
-
feel
-
tempted
-
to
-
do
-
because
-
of
-
our
-
sinful
-
nature
-
is
-
to
-
pay
-
back
-
evil
-
for
-
evil
-
it's
-
to
-
get
-
revenge
-
it's
-
to
-
get
-
even
-
if
-
someone
-
insults
-
us
-
insult
-
them
-
back
-
if
-
someone
-
strikes
-
us
-
as
-
we
-
talked
-
about
-
last
-
week
-
hit
-
them
-
back
-
but
-
Jesus
-
has been
-
instructing
-
us
-
instead
-
to do
-
the
-
opposite
-
of the
-
usual
-
as
-
his
-
followers
-
to
-
love
-
our
-
enemies
-
to
-
do
-
good
-
to
-
those
-
who
-
hate
-
us
-
to
-
bless
-
those
-
who
-
curse
-
us
-
even
-
to
-
pray
-
for
-
those
-
who
-
mistreat
-
us
-
to
-
turn
-
to
-
turn
-
the
-
other
-
cheek
-
when
-
someone
-
lashes
-
out
-
at
-
us
-
and
-
then
-
this
-
imperative
-
the golden
-
rule
-
is nestled
-
in all
-
this
-
right at
-
the
-
end
-
do
-
to
-
others
-
as
-
you
-
would
-
have
-
them
-
do
-
to
-
you
-
and
-
so
-
how
-
does
-
that
-
fit
-
how
-
is
-
that
-
different
-
what's
-
the
-
usual
-
not
-
the
-
golden
-
rule
-
but
-
what's
-
the
-
common
-
rule
-
do
-
to
-
others
-
as
-
they
-
do
-
to
-
you
-
treat
-
others
-
as
-
they
-
treat
-
you
-
be
-
good
-
be
-
kind
-
be
-
patient
-
to
-
those
-
who
-
are
-
good
-
and
-
kind
-
and
-
patient
-
to
-
you
-
but
-
Jesus
-
is
-
saying
-
I
-
want
-
you
-
to
-
live
-
differently
-
as
-
my
-
disciples
-
I
-
don't
-
want
-
you
-
to
-
factor
-
into
-
how
-
you
-
treat
-
them
-
how
-
they
-
have
-
treated
-
you
-
I
-
want
-
to
-
give
-
you
-
a
-
whole
-
different
-
standard
-
how
-
do
-
you
-
want
-
them
-
to
-
treat
-
you
-
treat
-
them
-
that
-
way
-
instead
-
regardless
-
of how
-
they have
-
treated
-
you
-
whether
-
they've
-
been
-
a
-
friend
-
or
-
an
-
enemy
-
whether
-
they've
-
been
-
kind
-
or
-
unkind
-
whether
-
they've
-
been
-
grateful
-
or
-
ungrateful
-
don't
-
think
-
about
-
whether
-
they are
-
deserving
-
of a
-
certain
-
treatment
-
imagine
-
that you
-
were in
-
their
-
shoes
-
how
-
would
-
you
-
want
-
to
-
be
-
treated
-
treat
-
them
-
accordingly
-
this
-
is
-
radical
-
and
-
actually
-
to
-
live
-
like
-
this
-
is
-
far
-
more
-
difficult
-
than
-
just
-
to
-
understand
-
the
-
rule
-
this
-
actually
-
requires
-
a lot
-
of
-
deliberate
-
reflection
-
in
-
every
-
situation
-
it
-
requires
-
pause
-
in
-
each
-
conversation
-
before
-
I
-
respond
-
to
-
them
-
I
-
need
-
to
-
stop
-
and
-
think
-
if
-
the
-
situation
-
was
-
reversed
-
here
-
what
-
would
-
I
-
hope
-
they
-
would
-
do
-
or
-
say
-
to
-
me
-
and
-
then
-
before
-
I
-
do
-
or
-
say
-
anything
-
to
-
them
-
I
-
need
-
to
-
first
-
figure
-
out
-
what
-
that
-
is
-
and
-
then
-
I
-
need
-
to
-
do
-
that
-
to
-
them
-
that's
-
what
-
it
-
means
-
to
-
love
-
this
-
person
-
we
-
need
-
some
-
tangible
-
concrete
-
examples
-
so
-
here's
-
just
-
a
-
couple
-
from
-
my
-
week
-
I'm
-
sitting
-
at the
-
table
-
with my
-
family
-
eating
-
lunch
-
the
-
meal's
-
basically
-
over
-
except
-
for my
-
three-year-old
-
who's
-
still
-
finishing
-
her
-
food
-
and
-
I've
-
got
-
20
-
minutes
-
left
-
before
-
I need
-
to get
-
back
-
to the
-
church
-
office
-
for
-
work
-
I
-
look
-
around
-
the
-
kitchen
-
and
-
the
-
table
-
and
-
I
-
see
-
all
-
the
-
mess
-
that's
-
resulted
-
from
-
the
-
meal
-
and
-
the
-
preparation
-
of
-
the
-
meal
-
and
-
what
-
am
-
I
-
going
-
to
-
do
-
now
-
well
-
I
-
would
-
love
-
to
-
just
-
go
-
sit
-
down
-
on
-
the
-
couch
-
or
-
out
-
on
-
the
-
deck
-
and
-
relax
-
but
-
now
-
if
-
I
-
was
-
my
-
wife
-
what
-
would
-
I
-
hope
-
that
-
my
-
husband
-
did
-
after
-
finishing
-
his
-
meal
-
well
-
if
-
I
-
was
-
my
-
wife
-
I
-
would
-
hope
-
that
-
my
-
husband
-
would
-
not
-
only
-
put
-
his
-
dishes
-
!
-
After
-
all
-
there's
-
the
-
kitchen
-
clean
-
up
-
to
-
do
-
there's
-
the
-
baby
-
to
-
nurse
-
there's
-
his
-
diaper
-
to
-
change
-
he
-
has
-
to
-
be
-
put
-
down
-
for
-
a
-
nap
-
and
-
maybe
-
I
-
should
-
look
-
at
-
the
-
calendar
-
and
-
see
-
what's
-
coming
-
on
-
my
-
wife's
-
schedule
-
that
-
she
-
have
-
some
-
kind
-
of
-
a
-
commitment
-
right
-
after
-
lunch
-
here
-
that
-
helping
-
her
-
with
-
the
-
cleanup
-
would
-
just
-
enable
-
her
-
to
-
be
-
able
-
to
-
!
-
do
-
that
-
even
-
easier
-
so
-
what
-
should
-
I
-
do
-
relax
-
or
-
help
-
with
-
the
-
kitchen
-
cleanup
-
before
-
I
-
go
-
back
-
to
-
work
-
I
-
think
-
we
-
all
-
know
-
the
-
answer
-
doing
-
unto
-
my
-
wife
-
as
-
I
-
would
-
have
-
her
-
do
-
unto
-
me
-
means
-
helping
-
her
-
out
-
and
-
not
-
leaving
-
it
-
all
-
to
-
her
-
but
-
that
-
doesn't
-
mean
-
that
-
I
-
can't
-
enlist
-
the
-
help
-
of
-
the
-
kids
-
in
-
the
-
kitchen
-
!
-
Right
-
guys?
-
Oh
-
but
-
all
-
of
-
them
-
except
-
the
-
three
-
year
-
old
-
and
-
the
-
baby
-
are
-
gone
-
they're
-
off
-
playing
-
somewhere
-
either
-
downstairs
-
or
-
around
-
the
-
yard
-
how
-
can
-
I
-
get
-
them
-
to
-
come
-
and
-
help
-
my
-
first
-
instinct
-
is
-
to
-
yell
-
as
-
loudly
-
as
-
I
-
can
-
hoping
-
they
-
will
-
hear
-
it
-
and
-
if
-
not
-
well
-
I
-
guess
-
I'll
-
just
-
yell
-
a
-
little
-
bit
-
louder
-
and
-
louder
-
and
-
louder
-
and
-
I
-
expect
-
of
-
course
-
that
-
they
-
will
-
immediately
-
drop
-
whatever
-
they're
-
doing
-
and
-
just
-
come
-
and
-
do
-
this
-
thing
-
that
-
I
-
would
-
like
-
help
-
with
-
right
-
now
-
but
-
what
-
if
-
I
-
were
-
them
-
is
-
that
-
how
-
I
-
would
-
like
-
to
-
be
-
called
-
to
-
come
-
to
-
the
-
kitchen
-
to
-
help
-
with
-
the
-
cleanup
-
in
-
fact
-
I
-
still
-
remember
-
being
-
a
-
kid
-
myself
-
and
-
I
-
always
-
appreciated
-
the
-
times
-
my
-
parents
-
simply
-
came
-
to
-
me
-
and
-
spoke
-
in
-
a
-
calm
-
voice
-
asking
-
me
-
to
-
come
-
and
-
change
-
the
-
garbages
-
or
-
whatever
-
it
-
was
-
and
-
if
-
I
-
was
-
in
-
the
-
middle
-
of
-
something
-
I
-
always
-
appreciated
-
just
-
having
-
another
-
minute
-
to
-
finish
-
up
-
what
-
I
-
was
-
doing
-
or
-
just
-
that
-
one
-
last
-
little
-
bit
-
of
-
that
-
thing
-
before
-
I
-
page
-
or
-
can
-
I
-
just
-
finish
-
putting
-
this
-
thing
-
away
-
I
-
am
-
almost
-
done
-
I
-
guess
-
I
-
should
-
probably
-
grant
-
them
-
that
-
too
-
after
-
all
-
they're
-
individuals
-
just
-
like
-
me
-
trying
-
to
-
live
-
their
-
lives
-
trying
-
to
-
do
-
the
-
things
-
that
-
are
-
meaningful
-
and
-
important
-
to
-
them
-
the
-
world
-
doesn't
-
just
-
revolve
-
around
-
me
-
and
-
my
-
priorities
-
they
-
have
-
their
-
hopes
-
and
-
desires
-
and
-
plans
-
as
-
well
-
this
-
is
-
the
-
level
-
that
-
we
-
need
-
to
-
go
-
to
-
with
-
these
-
words
-
of
-
Jesus
-
to
-
live
-
them
-
out
-
and
-
we
-
might
-
be
-
thinking
-
wow
-
that's
-
extreme
-
to
-
dive
-
into
-
every
-
little
-
situation
-
and
-
interaction
-
in
-
life
-
and
-
think
-
through
-
all
-
this
-
every
-
time
-
well
-
in case
-
there's
-
any
-
doubt
-
about
-
this
-
let's
-
just
-
look
-
back
-
to
-
Matthew's
-
gospel
-
at
-
the
-
context
-
for a
-
second
-
here
-
this
-
is
-
how
-
Jesus
-
starts
-
the
-
section
-
in
-
Matthew's
-
gospel
-
he
-
says
-
which
-
of
-
you
-
if
-
your
-
son
-
asks
-
for
-
bread
-
will
-
give
-
him
-
a
-
stone
-
or
-
if
-
he
-
asks
-
for
-
a
-
fish
-
will
-
give
-
him
-
a
-
snake
-
if
-
you
-
then
-
though
-
you
-
are
-
evil
-
know
-
how
-
to
-
give
-
good
-
gifts
-
to
-
your
-
children
-
how
-
much
-
more
-
will
-
your
-
father
-
in
-
heaven
-
give
-
good
-
gifts
-
to
-
those
-
who
-
ask
-
him
-
so
-
in
-
everything
-
do
-
to
-
others
-
what
-
you
-
would
-
have
-
them
-
do
-
to
-
you
-
notice
-
the
-
examples
-
Jesus
-
gives
-
that
-
lead
-
into
-
this
-
statement
-
of
-
the
-
golden
-
rule
-
if
-
your
-
son
-
asks
-
for
-
bread
-
so
-
yes
-
it
-
applies
-
even
-
in
-
the
-
little
-
day
-
to
-
day
-
stuff
-
of
-
life
-
those
-
moments
-
where
-
you
-
hear
-
those
-
words
-
dad
-
I'm
-
hungry
-
can
-
I
-
have
-
something
-
to
-
eat
-
we're
-
meant
-
to
-
think
-
of
-
this
-
rule
-
do
-
unto
-
others
-
do
-
to
-
him
-
as
-
I
-
would
-
want
-
done
-
to
-
me
-
in
-
that
-
situation
-
if
-
I
-
was
-
the
-
one
-
hungry
-
and
-
I
-
hadn't
-
eaten
-
in
-
four
-
hours
-
and
-
I'm
-
just
-
a
-
little
-
guy
-
dad
-
is
-
busy
-
working
-
on
-
something
-
as
-
he
-
always
-
is
-
and
-
he
-
can
-
go
-
a
-
long
-
time
-
without
-
taking
-
a
-
break
-
I
-
would
-
hope
-
that
-
my
-
dad
-
would
-
get
-
me
-
something
-
even
-
just
-
to
-
snack
-
on
-
or
-
to
-
tide
-
me
-
over
-
till
-
we
-
can
-
have
-
supper
-
and
-
so
-
no
-
this
-
golden
-
rule
-
isn't
-
just
-
for
-
the
-
big
-
or
-
difficult
-
decisions
-
and
-
moments
-
in
-
life
-
it
-
really
-
is
-
meant
-
to
-
permeate
-
our
-
lives
-
even
-
down
-
to
-
the
-
little
-
moments
-
the
-
seemingly
-
insignificant
-
moments
-
of life
-
should
-
I
-
change
-
Joseph's
-
poopy
-
diaper
-
right
-
now
-
or
-
should
-
I
-
wait
-
15
-
minutes
-
till
-
I
-
feel
-
more
-
like
-
it
-
well
-
do
-
you
-
like
-
sitting
-
in
-
your
-
own
-
poo
-
for
-
15
-
minutes
-
probably
-
neither
-
does
-
he
-
then
-
maybe
-
that's
-
a
-
significant
-
part
-
of
-
why
-
he's
-
a
-
little
-
cranky
-
and
-
squirmy
-
at
-
the
-
moment
-
and
-
doesn't
-
know
-
what
-
to
-
do
-
with
-
himself
-
the
-
golden
-
rule
-
is
-
so
-
simple
-
that
-
we
-
might
-
be
-
tempted
-
to
-
just
-
call
-
it
-
common
-
sense
-
but
-
as
-
I
-
said
-
at
-
the
-
beginning
-
the
-
challenge
-
is
-
not
-
with
-
understanding
-
what
-
it
-
means
-
the
-
challenge
-
is
-
with
-
actually
-
living
-
like
-
this
-
it's
-
with
-
wrestling
-
our
-
own
-
sinful
-
desires
-
and
-
selfishness
-
to
-
the
-
ground
-
and
-
then
-
doing
-
the
-
thing
-
that
-
we
-
would
-
like
-
done
-
to
-
us
-
to
-
others
-
but
-
just
-
think
-
for a
-
moment
-
think
-
about
-
how
-
the
-
temperature
-
the
-
atmosphere
-
in your
-
home
-
or in
-
your
-
relationships
-
could
-
improve
-
if
-
everyone
-
in your
-
family
-
by faith
-
tried to
-
live out
-
this
-
golden
-
rule
-
to one
-
another
-
maybe
-
you have
-
a difficult
-
or strained
-
or distant
-
relationship
-
in the
-
family
-
right now
-
this is
-
arguably
-
the best
-
place to
-
start
-
with
-
improving
-
it
-
to start
-
asking
-
that
-
question
-
what
-
would
-
I
-
want
-
done
-
to
-
me
-
in
-
this
-
situation
-
are
-
they
-
a
-
child
-
or
-
teenager
-
in
-
your
-
family
-
why
-
not
-
focus
-
on
-
just
-
deliberately
-
treating
-
them
-
as you
-
would
-
want
-
to
-
be
-
treated
-
were
-
you
-
that
-
kid
-
or
-
you
-
that
-
teenager
-
most
-
of us
-
who are
-
adults
-
still
-
remember
-
what
-
it
-
was
-
like
-
to
-
be
-
a
-
kid
-
or
-
a
-
teenager
-
and
-
now
-
of
-
course
-
this
-
doesn't
-
mean
-
that
-
we
-
just
-
think
-
of
-
what
-
they
-
want
-
and
-
then
-
do
-
that
-
to
-
them
-
or
-
give
-
that
-
to
-
them
-
especially
-
if
-
what
-
they
-
want
-
is
-
wrong
-
if
-
your
-
teen
-
or
-
young
-
adult
-
is
-
in
-
a
-
bad
-
relationship
-
they
-
might
-
want
-
you
-
as
-
a
-
parent
-
to
-
bless
-
that
-
relationship
-
to
-
encourage
-
them
-
to
-
express
-
approval
-
of
-
it
-
but
-
that
-
wouldn't
-
be
-
helpful
-
or
-
loving
-
to
-
them
-
especially
-
if
-
it
-
is
-
indeed
-
a
-
bad
-
relationship
-
the
-
golden
-
rule
-
is
-
not
-
do
-
to
-
others
-
what
-
they
-
want
-
you
-
to
-
do
-
to
-
them
-
that's
-
just
-
people
-
pleasing
-
no
-
the
-
golden
-
rule
-
is
-
do
-
to
-
others
-
what
-
you
-
would
-
have
-
them
-
do
-
to
-
you
-
and
-
deep
-
down
-
inside
-
would
-
you
-
want
-
someone
-
to
-
warn
-
you
-
and
-
tell
-
you
-
about
-
the
-
danger
-
they
-
see
-
in
-
the
-
path
-
that
-
you're
-
taking
-
even
-
if
-
it's
-
maybe
-
not
-
what
-
you
-
want
-
to
-
hear
-
I
-
think
-
that's
-
the
-
kind
-
of
-
love
-
and
-
friendship
-
that
-
we
-
all
-
desire
-
from
-
others
-
neither
-
should
-
we
-
think
-
of
-
our
-
own
-
unhealthy
-
desires
-
if
-
we
-
have
-
an
-
unhealthy
-
thing
-
that
-
we
-
want
-
we
-
shouldn't
-
expect
-
others
-
to
-
treat
-
us
-
in
-
that
-
way
-
either
-
!
-
like
-
if
-
I
-
just
-
want
-
to
-
be
-
left
-
alone
-
that's
-
what
-
I
-
want
-
I
-
wish
-
they
-
would
-
leave
-
me
-
alone
-
does
-
that
-
mean
-
I
-
should
-
just
-
leave
-
others
-
in
-
a
-
similar
-
frame
-
of
-
mind
-
alone
-
to
-
struggle
-
of
-
course
-
not
-
that's
-
a
-
misapplication
-
of
-
the
-
golden
-
rule
-
we
-
talked
-
a
-
little
-
bit
-
about
-
how
-
it
-
applies
-
in
-
the
-
parent
-
relationship
-
with
-
kids
-
think
-
of
-
the
-
marriage
-
relationship
-
for
-
those
-
of
-
you
-
who
-
are
-
married
-
sometimes
-
we
-
get
-
ourselves
-
into
-
a
-
place
-
where
-
things
-
are
-
just
-
not
-
as
-
we
-
wish
-
they
-
were
-
in
-
our
-
marriage
-
maybe
-
the
-
intimacy
-
isn't
-
what
-
it
-
has
-
been
-
maybe
-
there's
-
a
-
coldness
-
or
-
a
-
distance
-
what
-
better
-
place
-
to
-
start
-
in
-
improving
-
this
-
golden
-
rule
-
perhaps
-
as
-
your
-
spouse
-
begins
-
to
-
feel
-
the
-
warmth
-
of
-
your
-
love
-
in
-
all
-
kinds
-
of
-
ways
-
little
-
and
-
big
-
as
-
you
-
filter
-
your
-
actions
-
and
-
your
-
words
-
through
-
this
-
imperative
-
it
-
may
-
rekindle
-
what's
-
grown
-
cold
-
in
-
their
-
heart
-
we
-
could
-
talk
-
about
-
the
-
workplace
-
we
-
could
-
talk
-
about
-
teammates
-
we
-
could
-
talk
-
about
-
the
-
playground
-
and
-
school
-
every
-
situation
-
I
-
hope
-
this
-
is
-
stirring
-
us
-
I
-
hope
-
this
-
is
-
getting
-
us
-
thinking
-
about
-
how
-
we
-
have
-
been
-
living
-
do
-
we
-
have
-
this
-
golden
-
mindset
-
is
-
it
-
really
-
working
-
itself
-
out
-
in
-
our
-
lives
-
in
-
golden
-
living
-
a
-
loving
-
life
-
towards
-
anybody
-
and
-
everybody
-
is
-
there
-
anyone
-
in
-
particular
-
that
-
we
-
have
-
been
-
content
-
to
-
withhold
-
our
-
love
-
from
-
because
-
we
-
feel
-
they
-
don't
-
deserve
-
it
-
as we've
-
been
-
hearing
-
these
-
commands
-
of
-
Christ
-
are
-
not
-
just
-
a
-
matter
-
of
-
obedience
-
they are
-
also
-
in addition
-
to that
-
a way
-
that we
-
can
-
testify
-
to
-
Christ
-
through
-
our
-
living
-
in other
-
words
-
living
-
like this
-
is
-
demonstrating
-
the heart
-
of the
-
gospel
-
to others
-
around
-
us
-
it's
-
showing
-
it's
-
showing
-
the
-
very
-
love
-
of
-
God
-
that
-
we
-
have
-
come
-
to
-
know
-
to
-
others
-
how
-
has
-
God
-
dealt
-
with
-
us
-
it
-
says
-
just
-
down
-
the
-
page
-
in
-
Luke
Luke 6 chapter mention
-
chapter
-
6
-
that
-
he
-
has
-
been
-
merciful
-
to
-
us
-
that's
-
true
-
he
-
has
-
not
-
treated
-
us
-
as
-
we
-
deserve
-
!
-
He
-
has
-
not
-
treated
-
us
-
according
-
to
-
how
-
we've
-
treated
-
him
-
he's
-
loved
-
us
-
while
-
we
-
were
-
his
-
enemies
-
he's
-
given
-
us
-
a way
-
to be
-
saved
-
at
-
great
-
cost
-
to
-
himself
-
did
-
we
-
deserve
-
it
-
not
-
at
-
all
-
and
-
yet
-
he
-
has
-
been
-
rich
-
in
-
mercy
-
toward
-
us
-
he's
-
offered
-
us
-
a
-
full
-
pardon
-
for
-
every
-
wrong
-
that
-
we
-
have
-
done
-
to
-
him
-
and
-
he's
-
given
-
us
-
every
-
blessing
-
imaginable
-
in
-
Christ
-
and
-
now
-
Jesus
-
is
-
saying
-
as we
-
see
-
here
-
in
-
verse
-
36
-
be
-
merciful
-
just
-
as
-
your
-
father
-
is
-
merciful
-
don't
-
just
-
treat
-
others
-
according
-
to
-
what
-
they
-
deserve
-
based
-
on
-
how
-
they
-
have
-
treated
-
you
-
rather
-
treat
-
them
-
with
-
love
-
kindness
-
compassion
-
in
-
everything
-
just
-
as you
-
would
-
want
-
them
-
to
-
treat
-
you
-
when
-
we
-
live
-
the
-
golden
-
rule
-
we
-
demonstrate
-
the
-
gospel
-
love
-
we
-
show
-
others
-
through
-
our
-
actions
-
and
-
words
-
that
-
the
-
love
-
of
-
God
-
is
-
real
-
and
-
powerful
-
let's
-
pray
-
and ask
-
the
-
Lord
-
for
-
help
-
to
-
live
-
this
-
out
-
father
-
in
-
heaven
-
we
-
want
-
to
-
begin
-
by
-
confessing
-
all
-
of
-
our
-
countless
-
many
-
failures
-
to
-
live
-
this
-
way
-
to
-
you
-
Lord
-
so many
-
times
-
we have
-
put
-
ourselves
-
first
-
we have
-
done
-
only as
-
we
-
wanted
-
please
-
forgive
-
us
-
please
-
cleanse
-
us
-
please
-
wash
-
us
-
of
-
all
-
those
-
moments
-
all
-
those
-
times
-
where
-
we
-
have
-
not
-
loved
-
others
-
like
-
this
-
we
-
thank
-
you
-
for
-
the
-
cross
-
we
-
thank
-
you
-
that
-
you
-
died
-
Jesus
-
to
-
atone
-
for
-
all
-
of
-
our
-
shortcomings
-
and
-
failures
-
and
-
sins
-
that
-
we
-
don't
-
have
-
to
-
walk
-
around
-
guilty
-
in
-
life
-
thinking
-
back
-
to
-
all
-
the
-
moments
-
where
-
we
-
have
-
fallen
-
short
-
of
-
this
-
Lord
-
you
-
have
-
cleansed
-
us
-
and
-
forgiven
-
us
-
forever
-
and
-
we
-
want
-
to
-
live
-
like
-
this
-
not
-
just
-
as
-
a
-
matter
-
of
-
obedience
-
but
-
just
-
as
-
a
-
way
-
to
-
bring
-
glory
-
to
-
your
-
name
-
for
-
you
-
are
-
the
-
one
-
who
-
has
-
loved
-
us
-
like
-
this
-
and
-
so
-
we
-
ask
-
for
-
grace
-
we
-
ask
-
for
-
power
-
we
-
ask
-
for
-
your
-
Holy
-
Spirit
-
to
-
work
-
in
-
us
-
and
-
teach
-
us
-
to
-
walk
-
in
-
this
-
way
-
guide
-
our
-
thinking
-
in
-
all
-
these
-
situations
-
that
-
we
-
face
-
in
-
all
-
our
-
relationships
-
help
-
us
-
to
-
know
-
and
-
to
-
we
-
ask
-
this
-
in
-
your
-
name
-
amen
-
I
-
invite
-
the
-
worship
-
team
-
to
-
come
-
and
-
lead
-
us
-
in
-
a
-
closing
-
song