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The Golden Rule

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  1. All right, well this morning as we continue our way through the Gospel of Luke, we're still

  2. ! in the sermon that Jesus was preaching. The Sermon on the Mount possibly are very similar,

  3. ! if not the same sermon. And we come to some words of Jesus this morning that are so famous

  4. that probably everyone here can quote it right off the top of your head. The golden rule, which

  5. is, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Luke chapter 6 verse 31, do to

    Luke 6:31

  6. others as you would have them do to you. Our tendency when we come to these words in the

  7. Bible is to read them quickly, think to ourselves, yep, I know what that means, and then just

  8. move on to the next words of Jesus. It's one of those teachings that's become so familiar

  9. that we just kind of assume, well I understand that. I've heard that since I was a child, or

  10. my parents used to say that all the time to me. I've reminded my own kids of that all the

  11. time. And so let's just carry on to the next thing. And probably most of us do understand

  12. what it means. But do we live by this golden rule? Martin Lloyd-Jones, an influential pastor

  13. and preacher in the 20th century said this about it. He said, we all know how easy it is to

  14. read such a statement, or to listen to an exposition of it, or to read an exposition of it in a book,

  15. or to see some great picture which conveys it, and to say, yes, wonderful, marvelous,

  16. and yet to fail completely to put it into practice in actual life and living.

  17. Amazingly, Lloyd-Jones was one of the only ones I found, I didn't look too hard, but one of the

  18. only ones I found who dedicated an entire sermon to this golden rule. And I'm sure there's others out

  19. there who have, but many commentators, many pastors and preachers barely mention it in their teaching

  20. and writing. Maybe they assume, just like we do, that we already understand it, and so no more comments

  21. are needed. But let me ask it this way. What's so golden about this rule if we spend so little time

  22. thinking about it? What's so valuable about it, if we're content to skip over it and keep it on the shelf

  23. or in the filing cabinet of our minds?

  24. Is it only a saying useful in situations of parenting

  25. young, self-centered children?

  26. Have we all mastered this a long time ago?

  27. As Christians today,

  28. sometimes we don't treat the golden rule

  29. as golden.

  30. And so I want to start this morning with that very question.

  31. What's so golden

  32. about the golden rule? Why is it so valuable?

  33. On the screen, we have it recorded the way that

  34. Luke

  35. recorded it.

  36. But I want to start by looking actually at the way that Matthew recorded it in his

  37. gospel. And there's some other details kind of nestled around it that really

  38. take us to a whole new understanding of this.

  39. Matthew chapter 7, verse 12.

    Matthew 7:12

  40. Jesus says,

  41. So in everything,

  42. do to others what you would have them do to you.

  43. For this sums up the law

  44. and the prophets.

  45. So you notice the differences there

  46. in Matthew's account.

  47. What else is there?

  48. We notice two things.

  49. First, we notice the introduction.

  50. So in everything.

  51. And we also notice the conclusion statement.

  52. This sums up

  53. the law

  54. and the prophets.

  55. Do you see how Jesus introduces

  56. this imperative?

  57. So in everything,

  58. do to others

  59. what you would have them do to you.

  60. In everything,

  61. do to others

  62. what you would have them do

  63. to you.

  64. And so this isn't just a helpful tool in a toolbox

  65. that we might reach for

  66. once in a while.

  67. This instruction of Jesus,

  68. we are meant to live

  69. in everything.

  70. What does that mean?

  71. What does in everything mean?

  72. It means that this imperative

  73. is to govern our thinking

  74. and our doing

  75. in all things.

  76. In all of life.

  77. In every situation.

  78. In all our interactions.

  79. Anybody.

  80. And with everybody.

  81. In everything means

  82. that this imperative

  83. is for deciding

  84. what to say

  85. to the lady

  86. at the post office.

  87. Whether she's having

  88. a good day

  89. or a bad day.

  90. It means it's for deciding

  91. whether to fish

  92. or play golf

  93. for another hour

  94. or go home

  95. and help my wife out

  96. with stuff around the house.

  97. It means that it's for deciding

  98. what to serve for dinner

  99. when company is coming.

  100. Do to others

  101. what you would have them

  102. do to you.

  103. It's for deciding

  104. how much to give someone

  105. who's asking for money.

  106. Do to others

  107. what you would have them

  108. do to you.

  109. It's for deciding

  110. how much notice

  111. to give my employer

  112. when I quit my job.

  113. How to respond

  114. to a text message.

  115. Whether to respond at all.

  116. And if I do,

  117. what should I say?

  118. Do unto others

  119. as you would have them

  120. do unto you.

  121. It's for deciding

  122. whether to pick up

  123. the crumpled beer can

  124. on someone else's lawn

  125. as you walk by.

  126. And there are

  127. thousands of situations

  128. we could go on

  129. and on and on.

  130. How do you want

  131. your neighbors

  132. to treat you

  133. when you're asleep

  134. at 2 a.m. in the morning?

  135. Go and do likewise

  136. says Jesus.

  137. How do you want

  138. your children

  139. to speak to you

  140. when they're upset

  141. with you?

  142. Go and do likewise

  143. to them.

  144. How do you want

  145. people around town

  146. to serve you

  147. when you're paying them

  148. for that service?

  149. Go and do likewise

  150. to them

  151. in your service

  152. of them

  153. in your job

  154. the people you serve.

  155. Do you want people

  156. to go the extra mile

  157. for you?

  158. Go the extra mile

  159. for them.

  160. Do you want people

  161. to be quick

  162. to forgive you

  163. when you blow it?

  164. Well then be quick

  165. to forgive others

  166. when they blow it.

  167. In everything

  168. means that this

  169. instruction of Jesus

  170. should be top of mind

  171. all the time

  172. in every situation

  173. in every interaction

  174. that we have

  175. with anybody

  176. and with everybody.

  177. And this is the first

  178. reason why this rule

  179. is golden.

  180. One simple

  181. memorable statement

  182. that Jesus gives us

  183. is a guide

  184. for how to live

  185. in every situation

  186. in life.

  187. it's not just

  188. a wise saying

  189. that sometimes

  190. applies

  191. it's a mission

  192. it's a mandate

  193. that always

  194. applies.

  195. This rule

  196. I was trying to think

  197. of an analogy here

  198. this rule is

  199. to living life

  200. as a follower

  201. of Jesus

  202. what a tape measure

  203. is

  204. to a carpenter.

  205. We're to keep

  206. this with us

  207. always.

  208. It's needed

  209. it's useful

  210. in everything.

  211. Think about

  212. how often

  213. a carpenter

  214. needs to use

  215. a tape measure

  216. even before

  217. you start

  218. the project

  219. you've got to

  220. measure

  221. you've got to

  222. figure out

  223. what am I

  224. going to do

  225. here

  226. how much

  227. material do I need

  228. when you get

  229. your materials

  230. from the store

  231. is this the right

  232. size

  233. you've got to

  234. measure

  235. while you're

  236. making your

  237. cuts

  238. before every

  239. cut

  240. you've got to

  241. measure

  242. when spacing

  243. every supporting

  244. board or beam

  245. and deciding

  246. how long

  247. of fasteners

  248. to use

  249. you've got to

  250. measure all the

  251. time

  252. in everything

  253. in the project

  254. and it's the

  255. same way

  256. with this

  257. golden rule

  258. in everything

  259. do to others

  260. what you would

  261. have them do

  262. to you

  263. in any given

  264. week we have

  265. a thousand

  266. opportunities

  267. to let these

  268. words of Jesus

  269. guide our

  270. treatment of

  271. others

  272. whether it's

  273. our parents

  274. our siblings

  275. our children

  276. our spouse

  277. our friends

  278. our neighbors

  279. our co-workers

  280. our teammates

  281. our fellow

  282. church members

  283. even strangers

  284. the guy on the

  285. phone

  286. the store clerk

  287. and as we've

  288. been seeing from

  289. Jesus

  290. even our enemies

  291. it applies in

  292. everything

  293. to every

  294. interaction

  295. with another

  296. human being

  297. in every

  298. relationship

  299. we have

  300. whether warm

  301. or frosty

  302. in everything

  303. to do to

  304. others

  305. what you

  306. would have

  307. them

  308. do to you

  309. and so

  310. that's number

  311. one of why

  312. it's golden

  313. why it's

  314. supremely

  315. valuable

  316. because it's

  317. to be our

  318. mindset

  319. and our

  320. action

  321. in everything

  322. reason number

  323. two that it's

  324. golden is

  325. because of what

  326. Jesus says

  327. after this

  328. he says

  329. for this

  330. sums up

  331. the law

  332. and the

  333. prophets

  334. and a little

  335. slightly

  336. more word

  337. for word

  338. translation

  339. of this

  340. this is

  341. the law

  342. and the

  343. prophets

  344. now that

  345. phrase

  346. the law

  347. and the

  348. prophets

  349. it's an

  350. idiom

  351. it's a

  352. figure of

  353. speech

  354. for literary

  355. junkies

  356. synecdoche

  357. where you

  358. refer to the

  359. parts

  360. all of

  361. them

  362. but really

  363. what you

  364. mean is

  365. the whole

  366. and that's

  367. what this

  368. is here

  369. in this

  370. case

  371. the law

  372. and the

  373. prophets

  374. means the

  375. entire

  376. old testament

  377. revelation

  378. of God

  379. everything

  380. he has

  381. said

  382. and revealed

  383. from the

  384. very beginning

  385. until now

  386. about our

  387. relationships

  388. with others

  389. this one

  390. statement

  391. sums it

  392. all up

  393. do to

  394. others

  395. what you

  396. would have

  397. them

  398. do

  399. to you

  400. it's kind

  401. of another

  402. way of

  403. Jesus

  404. saying the

  405. second greatest

  406. commandment

  407. which we're

  408. all familiar

  409. with as

  410. well

  411. love your

  412. neighbor

  413. as yourself

  414. we all know

  415. what it means

  416. to love

  417. ourselves

  418. we all love

  419. ourselves

  420. we care for

  421. ourselves

  422. we desire

  423. good for

  424. ourselves

  425. we know

  426. what it is

  427. to be

  428. treated

  429. kindly

  430. by others

  431. and so

  432. we're

  433. to love

  434. or to

  435. treat

  436. others

  437. according

  438. to that

  439. how we

  440. want to

  441. be

  442. treated

  443. Jesus

  444. says this

  445. imperative

  446. sums up

  447. the entire

  448. old testament

  449. all of

  450. God's

  451. revelation

  452. from the

  453. beginning

  454. till now

  455. about how

  456. we're to

  457. relate to

  458. one another

  459. this

  460. one

  461. imperative

  462. sums it

  463. all up

  464. Martin

  465. Lloyd

  466. Jones

  467. again

  468. he put

  469. it so

  470. well

  471. and so

  472. I'm

  473. just

  474. going

  475. to

  476. read

  477. a

  478. paragraph

  479. from

  480. his

  481. message

  482. on

  483. it

  484. it's

  485. so

  486. good

  487. he said

  488. the vital

  489. thing

  490. after all

  491. is that

  492. you love

  493. that man

  494. that you

  495. understand

  496. him

  497. and desire

  498. the well

  499. being

  500. of your

  501. neighbor

  502. even as

  503. you desire

  504. your own

  505. well being

  506. that

  507. is the

  508. law

  509. and the

  510. prophets

  511. it all

  512. comes to

  513. that

  514. all the

  515. detailed

  516. regulations

  517. given in

  518. the law

  519. in the

  520. Old

  521. Testament

  522. what it

  523. tells you

  524. to do

  525. for example

  526. if you

  527. see your

  528. neighbor's

  529. ox

  530. straying

  531. how you

  532. are to

  533. bring it

  534. back to

  535. him

  536. or if

  537. you see

  538. anything

  539. wrong

  540. on his

  541. farm

  542. how you

  543. are to

  544. inform

  545. him

  546. at

  547. once

  548. and

  549. do

  550. your

  551. utmost

  552. to

  553. help

  554. him

  555. all

  556. the

  557. detailed

  558. regulations

  559. given

  560. in

  561. the

  562. law

  563. in

  564. the

  565. Old

  566. Testament

  567. are

  568. not

  569. just

  570. meant

  571. to

  572. lead

  573. you

  574. to

  575. say

  576. well

  577. the

  578. law

  579. says

  580. that

  581. not

  582. at all

  583. it is

  584. rather

  585. that

  586. you

  587. may

  588. say

  589. to

  590. yourself

  591. this

  592. man

  593. is

  594. like

  595. myself

  596. and

  597. it

  598. will

  599. be

  600. a

  601. grievous

  602. matter

  603. and

  604. a

  605. loss

  606. to

  607. him

  608. if

  609. he's

  610. going

  611. to

  612. lose

  613. that

  614. ox

  615. well

  616. he's

  617. a

  618. man

  619. like

  620. myself

  621. and

  622. how

  623. grateful

  624. I

  625. would

  626. be

  627. if

  628. someone

  629. returned

  630. my

  631. ox

  632. to

  633. me

  634. therefore

  635. I

  636. will

  637. do

  638. that

  639. for

  640. him

  641. in

  642. other

  643. words

  644. you

  645. are

  646. to

  647. be

  648. interested

  649. in

  650. your

  651. neighbor

  652. !

  653. The

  654. object

  655. of

  656. the

  657. law

  658. is

  659. to

  660. bring

  661. us

  662. to

  663. that

  664. and

  665. regulations

  666. are

  667. nothing

  668. but

  669. illustrations

  670. of

  671. that

  672. great

  673. central

  674. principle

  675. the

  676. moment

  677. we

  678. cease

  679. to

  680. realize

  681. that

  682. that

  683. is

  684. the

  685. spirit

  686. of

  687. the

  688. law

  689. and

  690. the

  691. purpose

  692. of

  693. the

  694. law

  695. we

  696. go

  697. hopelessly

  698. astray

  699. that's

  700. from

  701. Lloyd

  702. Jones

  703. man

  704. that

  705. should

  706. change

  707. the

  708. way

  709. that

  710. we

  711. read

  712. the

  713. whole

  714. Old

  715. Testament

  716. right

  717. we

  718. should

  719. see

  720. love

  721. for

  722. our

  723. neighbor

  724. all

  725. over

  726. the

  727. Old

  728. Testament

  729. law

  730. and

  731. the

  732. prophets

  733. according

  734. to

  735. Jesus

  736. anything

  737. and

  738. everything

  739. that

  740. has

  741. to

  742. do

  743. with

  744. our

  745. treatment

  746. of

  747. others

  748. was

  749. written

  750. to

  751. teach

  752. us

  753. what

  754. it

  755. means

  756. to

  757. love

  758. our

  759. fellow

  760. man

  761. and

  762. so

  763. this

  764. is

  765. the

  766. second

  767. reason

  768. why

  769. this

  770. rule

  771. really

  772. is

  773. golden

  774. can

  775. you

  776. imagine

  777. if

  778. I

  779. mean

  780. this

  781. is

  782. kind

  783. of

  784. ridiculous

  785. in our

  786. day

  787. but

  788. if

  789. back

  790. in

  791. the

  792. day

  793. in

  794. school

  795. grade

  796. 12

  797. I

  798. know

  799. they

  800. don't

  801. teach

  802. the

  803. Bible

  804. in

  805. school

  806. but

  807. just

  808. imagine

  809. that

  810. they

  811. did

  812. and

  813. your

  814. teacher

  815. gave

  816. you

  817. this

  818. assignment

  819. I

  820. want

  821. you

  822. to

  823. read

  824. the

  825. entire

  826. Old

  827. Testament

  828. in

  829. my

  830. Bible

  831. it's

  832. I

  833. think

  834. 1300

  835. pages

  836. large

  837. print

  838. single

  839. column

  840. yours

  841. might

  842. be

  843. a

  844. different

  845. number

  846. but

  847. read

  848. the

  849. entire

  850. Old

  851. Testament

  852. of

  853. the

  854. Bible

  855. and

  856. take

  857. note

  858. of

  859. everything

  860. God

  861. commands

  862. about

  863. how

  864. we're

  865. to

  866. treat

  867. other

  868. people

  869. and

  870. then

  871. I

  872. want

  873. you

  874. to

  875. come up

  876. with

  877. one

  878. pregnant

  879. command

  880. that

  881. sums

  882. all

  883. of

  884. them

  885. up

  886. well

  887. thankfully

  888. we don't

  889. have to

  890. do

  891. that

  892. Jesus

  893. gives

  894. us

  895. the

  896. one

  897. command

  898. that

  899. sums

  900. them

  901. all

  902. up

  903. do

  904. to

  905. others

  906. what

  907. you

  908. would

  909. have

  910. them

  911. do

  912. to

  913. you

  914. and

  915. so

  916. do

  917. you

  918. see

  919. how

  920. valuable

  921. this

  922. imperative

  923. !

  924. it's

  925. like

  926. a

  927. hundred

  928. percent

  929. old

  930. testament

  931. concentrate

  932. it's

  933. everything

  934. God

  935. has

  936. said

  937. for

  938. thousands

  939. of

  940. years

  941. about

  942. how

  943. we

  944. should

  945. treat

  946. our

  947. fellow

  948. man

  949. distilled

  950. into

  951. one

  952. breath

  953. one

  954. word

  955. one

  956. imperative

  957. along

  958. with the

  959. greatest

  960. commandment

  961. of

  962. loving

  963. God

  964. with

  965. all

  966. our

  967. heart

  968. soul

  969. mind

  970. and

  971. strength

  972. if

  973. we

  974. as

  975. followers

  976. of

  977. Jesus

  978. just

  979. focused

  980. on

  981. this

  982. this

  983. golden

  984. rule

  985. we

  986. would

  987. be

  988. and

  989. do

  990. exactly

  991. what

  992. Jesus

  993. longs

  994. for

  995. us

  996. to

  997. be

  998. and

  999. do

  1000. it

  1001. sums

  1002. up

  1003. everything

  1004. that

  1005. he's

  1006. asked

  1007. of

  1008. his

  1009. people

  1010. for

  1011. centuries

  1012. how

  1013. we

  1014. should

  1015. live

  1016. with

  1017. regard

  1018. to

  1019. our

  1020. fellow

  1021. man

  1022. well

  1023. let's

  1024. now

  1025. go

  1026. back

  1027. to

  1028. Luke

  1029. let's

  1030. look

  1031. at

  1032. the

  1033. context

  1034. a bit

  1035. here

  1036. let's

  1037. deepen

  1038. our

  1039. understanding

  1040. of

  1041. this

  1042. imperative

  1043. what's

  1044. the

  1045. context

  1046. of

  1047. this

  1048. command

  1049. as

  1050. we

  1051. see

  1052. in

  1053. Luke

  1054. we've

  1055. been

  1056. working

  1057. through

  1058. Jesus

  1059. has

  1060. been

  1061. talking

  1062. about

  1063. how

  1064. we

  1065. are

  1066. to

  1067. live

  1068. differently

  1069. than

  1070. the

  1071. people

  1072. of

  1073. the

  1074. world

  1075. as

  1076. his

  1077. followers

  1078. we're

  1079. to

  1080. live

  1081. different

  1082. from

  1083. the

  1084. usual

  1085. and

  1086. what's

  1087. the

  1088. usual

  1089. that

  1090. we

  1091. see

  1092. in

  1093. our

  1094. world

  1095. it's

  1096. that

  1097. we

  1098. hate

  1099. our

  1100. enemies

  1101. it's

  1102. that

  1103. we

  1104. only

  1105. do

  1106. good

  1107. to

  1108. those

  1109. who

  1110. are

  1111. good

  1112. to

  1113. us

  1114. it's

  1115. that

  1116. when

  1117. someone

  1118. does

  1119. something

  1120. mean

  1121. or

  1122. unkind

  1123. to

  1124. us

  1125. we

  1126. return

  1127. that

  1128. to

  1129. them

  1130. the

  1131. normal

  1132. response

  1133. in

  1134. our

  1135. world

  1136. and

  1137. what

  1138. we

  1139. feel

  1140. tempted

  1141. to

  1142. do

  1143. because

  1144. of

  1145. our

  1146. sinful

  1147. nature

  1148. is

  1149. to

  1150. pay

  1151. back

  1152. evil

  1153. for

  1154. evil

  1155. it's

  1156. to

  1157. get

  1158. revenge

  1159. it's

  1160. to

  1161. get

  1162. even

  1163. if

  1164. someone

  1165. insults

  1166. us

  1167. insult

  1168. them

  1169. back

  1170. if

  1171. someone

  1172. strikes

  1173. us

  1174. as

  1175. we

  1176. talked

  1177. about

  1178. last

  1179. week

  1180. hit

  1181. them

  1182. back

  1183. but

  1184. Jesus

  1185. has been

  1186. instructing

  1187. us

  1188. instead

  1189. to do

  1190. the

  1191. opposite

  1192. of the

  1193. usual

  1194. as

  1195. his

  1196. followers

  1197. to

  1198. love

  1199. our

  1200. enemies

  1201. to

  1202. do

  1203. good

  1204. to

  1205. those

  1206. who

  1207. hate

  1208. us

  1209. to

  1210. bless

  1211. those

  1212. who

  1213. curse

  1214. us

  1215. even

  1216. to

  1217. pray

  1218. for

  1219. those

  1220. who

  1221. mistreat

  1222. us

  1223. to

  1224. turn

  1225. to

  1226. turn

  1227. the

  1228. other

  1229. cheek

  1230. when

  1231. someone

  1232. lashes

  1233. out

  1234. at

  1235. us

  1236. and

  1237. then

  1238. this

  1239. imperative

  1240. the golden

  1241. rule

  1242. is nestled

  1243. in all

  1244. this

  1245. right at

  1246. the

  1247. end

  1248. do

  1249. to

  1250. others

  1251. as

  1252. you

  1253. would

  1254. have

  1255. them

  1256. do

  1257. to

  1258. you

  1259. and

  1260. so

  1261. how

  1262. does

  1263. that

  1264. fit

  1265. how

  1266. is

  1267. that

  1268. different

  1269. what's

  1270. the

  1271. usual

  1272. not

  1273. the

  1274. golden

  1275. rule

  1276. but

  1277. what's

  1278. the

  1279. common

  1280. rule

  1281. do

  1282. to

  1283. others

  1284. as

  1285. they

  1286. do

  1287. to

  1288. you

  1289. treat

  1290. others

  1291. as

  1292. they

  1293. treat

  1294. you

  1295. be

  1296. good

  1297. be

  1298. kind

  1299. be

  1300. patient

  1301. to

  1302. those

  1303. who

  1304. are

  1305. good

  1306. and

  1307. kind

  1308. and

  1309. patient

  1310. to

  1311. you

  1312. but

  1313. Jesus

  1314. is

  1315. saying

  1316. I

  1317. want

  1318. you

  1319. to

  1320. live

  1321. differently

  1322. as

  1323. my

  1324. disciples

  1325. I

  1326. don't

  1327. want

  1328. you

  1329. to

  1330. factor

  1331. into

  1332. how

  1333. you

  1334. treat

  1335. them

  1336. how

  1337. they

  1338. have

  1339. treated

  1340. you

  1341. I

  1342. want

  1343. to

  1344. give

  1345. you

  1346. a

  1347. whole

  1348. different

  1349. standard

  1350. how

  1351. do

  1352. you

  1353. want

  1354. them

  1355. to

  1356. treat

  1357. you

  1358. treat

  1359. them

  1360. that

  1361. way

  1362. instead

  1363. regardless

  1364. of how

  1365. they have

  1366. treated

  1367. you

  1368. whether

  1369. they've

  1370. been

  1371. a

  1372. friend

  1373. or

  1374. an

  1375. enemy

  1376. whether

  1377. they've

  1378. been

  1379. kind

  1380. or

  1381. unkind

  1382. whether

  1383. they've

  1384. been

  1385. grateful

  1386. or

  1387. ungrateful

  1388. don't

  1389. think

  1390. about

  1391. whether

  1392. they are

  1393. deserving

  1394. of a

  1395. certain

  1396. treatment

  1397. imagine

  1398. that you

  1399. were in

  1400. their

  1401. shoes

  1402. how

  1403. would

  1404. you

  1405. want

  1406. to

  1407. be

  1408. treated

  1409. treat

  1410. them

  1411. accordingly

  1412. this

  1413. is

  1414. radical

  1415. and

  1416. actually

  1417. to

  1418. live

  1419. like

  1420. this

  1421. is

  1422. far

  1423. more

  1424. difficult

  1425. than

  1426. just

  1427. to

  1428. understand

  1429. the

  1430. rule

  1431. this

  1432. actually

  1433. requires

  1434. a lot

  1435. of

  1436. deliberate

  1437. reflection

  1438. in

  1439. every

  1440. situation

  1441. it

  1442. requires

  1443. pause

  1444. in

  1445. each

  1446. conversation

  1447. before

  1448. I

  1449. respond

  1450. to

  1451. them

  1452. I

  1453. need

  1454. to

  1455. stop

  1456. and

  1457. think

  1458. if

  1459. the

  1460. situation

  1461. was

  1462. reversed

  1463. here

  1464. what

  1465. would

  1466. I

  1467. hope

  1468. they

  1469. would

  1470. do

  1471. or

  1472. say

  1473. to

  1474. me

  1475. and

  1476. then

  1477. before

  1478. I

  1479. do

  1480. or

  1481. say

  1482. anything

  1483. to

  1484. them

  1485. I

  1486. need

  1487. to

  1488. first

  1489. figure

  1490. out

  1491. what

  1492. that

  1493. is

  1494. and

  1495. then

  1496. I

  1497. need

  1498. to

  1499. do

  1500. that

  1501. to

  1502. them

  1503. that's

  1504. what

  1505. it

  1506. means

  1507. to

  1508. love

  1509. this

  1510. person

  1511. we

  1512. need

  1513. some

  1514. tangible

  1515. concrete

  1516. examples

  1517. so

  1518. here's

  1519. just

  1520. a

  1521. couple

  1522. from

  1523. my

  1524. week

  1525. I'm

  1526. sitting

  1527. at the

  1528. table

  1529. with my

  1530. family

  1531. eating

  1532. lunch

  1533. the

  1534. meal's

  1535. basically

  1536. over

  1537. except

  1538. for my

  1539. three-year-old

  1540. who's

  1541. still

  1542. finishing

  1543. her

  1544. food

  1545. and

  1546. I've

  1547. got

  1548. 20

  1549. minutes

  1550. left

  1551. before

  1552. I need

  1553. to get

  1554. back

  1555. to the

  1556. church

  1557. office

  1558. for

  1559. work

  1560. I

  1561. look

  1562. around

  1563. the

  1564. kitchen

  1565. and

  1566. the

  1567. table

  1568. and

  1569. I

  1570. see

  1571. all

  1572. the

  1573. mess

  1574. that's

  1575. resulted

  1576. from

  1577. the

  1578. meal

  1579. and

  1580. the

  1581. preparation

  1582. of

  1583. the

  1584. meal

  1585. and

  1586. what

  1587. am

  1588. I

  1589. going

  1590. to

  1591. do

  1592. now

  1593. well

  1594. I

  1595. would

  1596. love

  1597. to

  1598. just

  1599. go

  1600. sit

  1601. down

  1602. on

  1603. the

  1604. couch

  1605. or

  1606. out

  1607. on

  1608. the

  1609. deck

  1610. and

  1611. relax

  1612. but

  1613. now

  1614. if

  1615. I

  1616. was

  1617. my

  1618. wife

  1619. what

  1620. would

  1621. I

  1622. hope

  1623. that

  1624. my

  1625. husband

  1626. did

  1627. after

  1628. finishing

  1629. his

  1630. meal

  1631. well

  1632. if

  1633. I

  1634. was

  1635. my

  1636. wife

  1637. I

  1638. would

  1639. hope

  1640. that

  1641. my

  1642. husband

  1643. would

  1644. not

  1645. only

  1646. put

  1647. his

  1648. dishes

  1649. !

  1650. After

  1651. all

  1652. there's

  1653. the

  1654. kitchen

  1655. clean

  1656. up

  1657. to

  1658. do

  1659. there's

  1660. the

  1661. baby

  1662. to

  1663. nurse

  1664. there's

  1665. his

  1666. diaper

  1667. to

  1668. change

  1669. he

  1670. has

  1671. to

  1672. be

  1673. put

  1674. down

  1675. for

  1676. a

  1677. nap

  1678. and

  1679. maybe

  1680. I

  1681. should

  1682. look

  1683. at

  1684. the

  1685. calendar

  1686. and

  1687. see

  1688. what's

  1689. coming

  1690. on

  1691. my

  1692. wife's

  1693. schedule

  1694. that

  1695. she

  1696. have

  1697. some

  1698. kind

  1699. of

  1700. a

  1701. commitment

  1702. right

  1703. after

  1704. lunch

  1705. here

  1706. that

  1707. helping

  1708. her

  1709. with

  1710. the

  1711. cleanup

  1712. would

  1713. just

  1714. enable

  1715. her

  1716. to

  1717. be

  1718. able

  1719. to

  1720. !

  1721. do

  1722. that

  1723. even

  1724. easier

  1725. so

  1726. what

  1727. should

  1728. I

  1729. do

  1730. relax

  1731. or

  1732. help

  1733. with

  1734. the

  1735. kitchen

  1736. cleanup

  1737. before

  1738. I

  1739. go

  1740. back

  1741. to

  1742. work

  1743. I

  1744. think

  1745. we

  1746. all

  1747. know

  1748. the

  1749. answer

  1750. doing

  1751. unto

  1752. my

  1753. wife

  1754. as

  1755. I

  1756. would

  1757. have

  1758. her

  1759. do

  1760. unto

  1761. me

  1762. means

  1763. helping

  1764. her

  1765. out

  1766. and

  1767. not

  1768. leaving

  1769. it

  1770. all

  1771. to

  1772. her

  1773. but

  1774. that

  1775. doesn't

  1776. mean

  1777. that

  1778. I

  1779. can't

  1780. enlist

  1781. the

  1782. help

  1783. of

  1784. the

  1785. kids

  1786. in

  1787. the

  1788. kitchen

  1789. !

  1790. Right

  1791. guys?

  1792. Oh

  1793. but

  1794. all

  1795. of

  1796. them

  1797. except

  1798. the

  1799. three

  1800. year

  1801. old

  1802. and

  1803. the

  1804. baby

  1805. are

  1806. gone

  1807. they're

  1808. off

  1809. playing

  1810. somewhere

  1811. either

  1812. downstairs

  1813. or

  1814. around

  1815. the

  1816. yard

  1817. how

  1818. can

  1819. I

  1820. get

  1821. them

  1822. to

  1823. come

  1824. and

  1825. help

  1826. my

  1827. first

  1828. instinct

  1829. is

  1830. to

  1831. yell

  1832. as

  1833. loudly

  1834. as

  1835. I

  1836. can

  1837. hoping

  1838. they

  1839. will

  1840. hear

  1841. it

  1842. and

  1843. if

  1844. not

  1845. well

  1846. I

  1847. guess

  1848. I'll

  1849. just

  1850. yell

  1851. a

  1852. little

  1853. bit

  1854. louder

  1855. and

  1856. louder

  1857. and

  1858. louder

  1859. and

  1860. I

  1861. expect

  1862. of

  1863. course

  1864. that

  1865. they

  1866. will

  1867. immediately

  1868. drop

  1869. whatever

  1870. they're

  1871. doing

  1872. and

  1873. just

  1874. come

  1875. and

  1876. do

  1877. this

  1878. thing

  1879. that

  1880. I

  1881. would

  1882. like

  1883. help

  1884. with

  1885. right

  1886. now

  1887. but

  1888. what

  1889. if

  1890. I

  1891. were

  1892. them

  1893. is

  1894. that

  1895. how

  1896. I

  1897. would

  1898. like

  1899. to

  1900. be

  1901. called

  1902. to

  1903. come

  1904. to

  1905. the

  1906. kitchen

  1907. to

  1908. help

  1909. with

  1910. the

  1911. cleanup

  1912. in

  1913. fact

  1914. I

  1915. still

  1916. remember

  1917. being

  1918. a

  1919. kid

  1920. myself

  1921. and

  1922. I

  1923. always

  1924. appreciated

  1925. the

  1926. times

  1927. my

  1928. parents

  1929. simply

  1930. came

  1931. to

  1932. me

  1933. and

  1934. spoke

  1935. in

  1936. a

  1937. calm

  1938. voice

  1939. asking

  1940. me

  1941. to

  1942. come

  1943. and

  1944. change

  1945. the

  1946. garbages

  1947. or

  1948. whatever

  1949. it

  1950. was

  1951. and

  1952. if

  1953. I

  1954. was

  1955. in

  1956. the

  1957. middle

  1958. of

  1959. something

  1960. I

  1961. always

  1962. appreciated

  1963. just

  1964. having

  1965. another

  1966. minute

  1967. to

  1968. finish

  1969. up

  1970. what

  1971. I

  1972. was

  1973. doing

  1974. or

  1975. just

  1976. that

  1977. one

  1978. last

  1979. little

  1980. bit

  1981. of

  1982. that

  1983. thing

  1984. before

  1985. I

  1986. page

  1987. or

  1988. can

  1989. I

  1990. just

  1991. finish

  1992. putting

  1993. this

  1994. thing

  1995. away

  1996. I

  1997. am

  1998. almost

  1999. done

  2000. I

  2001. guess

  2002. I

  2003. should

  2004. probably

  2005. grant

  2006. them

  2007. that

  2008. too

  2009. after

  2010. all

  2011. they're

  2012. individuals

  2013. just

  2014. like

  2015. me

  2016. trying

  2017. to

  2018. live

  2019. their

  2020. lives

  2021. trying

  2022. to

  2023. do

  2024. the

  2025. things

  2026. that

  2027. are

  2028. meaningful

  2029. and

  2030. important

  2031. to

  2032. them

  2033. the

  2034. world

  2035. doesn't

  2036. just

  2037. revolve

  2038. around

  2039. me

  2040. and

  2041. my

  2042. priorities

  2043. they

  2044. have

  2045. their

  2046. hopes

  2047. and

  2048. desires

  2049. and

  2050. plans

  2051. as

  2052. well

  2053. this

  2054. is

  2055. the

  2056. level

  2057. that

  2058. we

  2059. need

  2060. to

  2061. go

  2062. to

  2063. with

  2064. these

  2065. words

  2066. of

  2067. Jesus

  2068. to

  2069. live

  2070. them

  2071. out

  2072. and

  2073. we

  2074. might

  2075. be

  2076. thinking

  2077. wow

  2078. that's

  2079. extreme

  2080. to

  2081. dive

  2082. into

  2083. every

  2084. little

  2085. situation

  2086. and

  2087. interaction

  2088. in

  2089. life

  2090. and

  2091. think

  2092. through

  2093. all

  2094. this

  2095. every

  2096. time

  2097. well

  2098. in case

  2099. there's

  2100. any

  2101. doubt

  2102. about

  2103. this

  2104. let's

  2105. just

  2106. look

  2107. back

  2108. to

  2109. Matthew's

  2110. gospel

  2111. at

  2112. the

  2113. context

  2114. for a

  2115. second

  2116. here

  2117. this

  2118. is

  2119. how

  2120. Jesus

  2121. starts

  2122. the

  2123. section

  2124. in

  2125. Matthew's

  2126. gospel

  2127. he

  2128. says

  2129. which

  2130. of

  2131. you

  2132. if

  2133. your

  2134. son

  2135. asks

  2136. for

  2137. bread

  2138. will

  2139. give

  2140. him

  2141. a

  2142. stone

  2143. or

  2144. if

  2145. he

  2146. asks

  2147. for

  2148. a

  2149. fish

  2150. will

  2151. give

  2152. him

  2153. a

  2154. snake

  2155. if

  2156. you

  2157. then

  2158. though

  2159. you

  2160. are

  2161. evil

  2162. know

  2163. how

  2164. to

  2165. give

  2166. good

  2167. gifts

  2168. to

  2169. your

  2170. children

  2171. how

  2172. much

  2173. more

  2174. will

  2175. your

  2176. father

  2177. in

  2178. heaven

  2179. give

  2180. good

  2181. gifts

  2182. to

  2183. those

  2184. who

  2185. ask

  2186. him

  2187. so

  2188. in

  2189. everything

  2190. do

  2191. to

  2192. others

  2193. what

  2194. you

  2195. would

  2196. have

  2197. them

  2198. do

  2199. to

  2200. you

  2201. notice

  2202. the

  2203. examples

  2204. Jesus

  2205. gives

  2206. that

  2207. lead

  2208. into

  2209. this

  2210. statement

  2211. of

  2212. the

  2213. golden

  2214. rule

  2215. if

  2216. your

  2217. son

  2218. asks

  2219. for

  2220. bread

  2221. so

  2222. yes

  2223. it

  2224. applies

  2225. even

  2226. in

  2227. the

  2228. little

  2229. day

  2230. to

  2231. day

  2232. stuff

  2233. of

  2234. life

  2235. those

  2236. moments

  2237. where

  2238. you

  2239. hear

  2240. those

  2241. words

  2242. dad

  2243. I'm

  2244. hungry

  2245. can

  2246. I

  2247. have

  2248. something

  2249. to

  2250. eat

  2251. we're

  2252. meant

  2253. to

  2254. think

  2255. of

  2256. this

  2257. rule

  2258. do

  2259. unto

  2260. others

  2261. do

  2262. to

  2263. him

  2264. as

  2265. I

  2266. would

  2267. want

  2268. done

  2269. to

  2270. me

  2271. in

  2272. that

  2273. situation

  2274. if

  2275. I

  2276. was

  2277. the

  2278. one

  2279. hungry

  2280. and

  2281. I

  2282. hadn't

  2283. eaten

  2284. in

  2285. four

  2286. hours

  2287. and

  2288. I'm

  2289. just

  2290. a

  2291. little

  2292. guy

  2293. dad

  2294. is

  2295. busy

  2296. working

  2297. on

  2298. something

  2299. as

  2300. he

  2301. always

  2302. is

  2303. and

  2304. he

  2305. can

  2306. go

  2307. a

  2308. long

  2309. time

  2310. without

  2311. taking

  2312. a

  2313. break

  2314. I

  2315. would

  2316. hope

  2317. that

  2318. my

  2319. dad

  2320. would

  2321. get

  2322. me

  2323. something

  2324. even

  2325. just

  2326. to

  2327. snack

  2328. on

  2329. or

  2330. to

  2331. tide

  2332. me

  2333. over

  2334. till

  2335. we

  2336. can

  2337. have

  2338. supper

  2339. and

  2340. so

  2341. no

  2342. this

  2343. golden

  2344. rule

  2345. isn't

  2346. just

  2347. for

  2348. the

  2349. big

  2350. or

  2351. difficult

  2352. decisions

  2353. and

  2354. moments

  2355. in

  2356. life

  2357. it

  2358. really

  2359. is

  2360. meant

  2361. to

  2362. permeate

  2363. our

  2364. lives

  2365. even

  2366. down

  2367. to

  2368. the

  2369. little

  2370. moments

  2371. the

  2372. seemingly

  2373. insignificant

  2374. moments

  2375. of life

  2376. should

  2377. I

  2378. change

  2379. Joseph's

  2380. poopy

  2381. diaper

  2382. right

  2383. now

  2384. or

  2385. should

  2386. I

  2387. wait

  2388. 15

  2389. minutes

  2390. till

  2391. I

  2392. feel

  2393. more

  2394. like

  2395. it

  2396. well

  2397. do

  2398. you

  2399. like

  2400. sitting

  2401. in

  2402. your

  2403. own

  2404. poo

  2405. for

  2406. 15

  2407. minutes

  2408. probably

  2409. neither

  2410. does

  2411. he

  2412. then

  2413. maybe

  2414. that's

  2415. a

  2416. significant

  2417. part

  2418. of

  2419. why

  2420. he's

  2421. a

  2422. little

  2423. cranky

  2424. and

  2425. squirmy

  2426. at

  2427. the

  2428. moment

  2429. and

  2430. doesn't

  2431. know

  2432. what

  2433. to

  2434. do

  2435. with

  2436. himself

  2437. the

  2438. golden

  2439. rule

  2440. is

  2441. so

  2442. simple

  2443. that

  2444. we

  2445. might

  2446. be

  2447. tempted

  2448. to

  2449. just

  2450. call

  2451. it

  2452. common

  2453. sense

  2454. but

  2455. as

  2456. I

  2457. said

  2458. at

  2459. the

  2460. beginning

  2461. the

  2462. challenge

  2463. is

  2464. not

  2465. with

  2466. understanding

  2467. what

  2468. it

  2469. means

  2470. the

  2471. challenge

  2472. is

  2473. with

  2474. actually

  2475. living

  2476. like

  2477. this

  2478. it's

  2479. with

  2480. wrestling

  2481. our

  2482. own

  2483. sinful

  2484. desires

  2485. and

  2486. selfishness

  2487. to

  2488. the

  2489. ground

  2490. and

  2491. then

  2492. doing

  2493. the

  2494. thing

  2495. that

  2496. we

  2497. would

  2498. like

  2499. done

  2500. to

  2501. us

  2502. to

  2503. others

  2504. but

  2505. just

  2506. think

  2507. for a

  2508. moment

  2509. think

  2510. about

  2511. how

  2512. the

  2513. temperature

  2514. the

  2515. atmosphere

  2516. in your

  2517. home

  2518. or in

  2519. your

  2520. relationships

  2521. could

  2522. improve

  2523. if

  2524. everyone

  2525. in your

  2526. family

  2527. by faith

  2528. tried to

  2529. live out

  2530. this

  2531. golden

  2532. rule

  2533. to one

  2534. another

  2535. maybe

  2536. you have

  2537. a difficult

  2538. or strained

  2539. or distant

  2540. relationship

  2541. in the

  2542. family

  2543. right now

  2544. this is

  2545. arguably

  2546. the best

  2547. place to

  2548. start

  2549. with

  2550. improving

  2551. it

  2552. to start

  2553. asking

  2554. that

  2555. question

  2556. what

  2557. would

  2558. I

  2559. want

  2560. done

  2561. to

  2562. me

  2563. in

  2564. this

  2565. situation

  2566. are

  2567. they

  2568. a

  2569. child

  2570. or

  2571. teenager

  2572. in

  2573. your

  2574. family

  2575. why

  2576. not

  2577. focus

  2578. on

  2579. just

  2580. deliberately

  2581. treating

  2582. them

  2583. as you

  2584. would

  2585. want

  2586. to

  2587. be

  2588. treated

  2589. were

  2590. you

  2591. that

  2592. kid

  2593. or

  2594. you

  2595. that

  2596. teenager

  2597. most

  2598. of us

  2599. who are

  2600. adults

  2601. still

  2602. remember

  2603. what

  2604. it

  2605. was

  2606. like

  2607. to

  2608. be

  2609. a

  2610. kid

  2611. or

  2612. a

  2613. teenager

  2614. and

  2615. now

  2616. of

  2617. course

  2618. this

  2619. doesn't

  2620. mean

  2621. that

  2622. we

  2623. just

  2624. think

  2625. of

  2626. what

  2627. they

  2628. want

  2629. and

  2630. then

  2631. do

  2632. that

  2633. to

  2634. them

  2635. or

  2636. give

  2637. that

  2638. to

  2639. them

  2640. especially

  2641. if

  2642. what

  2643. they

  2644. want

  2645. is

  2646. wrong

  2647. if

  2648. your

  2649. teen

  2650. or

  2651. young

  2652. adult

  2653. is

  2654. in

  2655. a

  2656. bad

  2657. relationship

  2658. they

  2659. might

  2660. want

  2661. you

  2662. as

  2663. a

  2664. parent

  2665. to

  2666. bless

  2667. that

  2668. relationship

  2669. to

  2670. encourage

  2671. them

  2672. to

  2673. express

  2674. approval

  2675. of

  2676. it

  2677. but

  2678. that

  2679. wouldn't

  2680. be

  2681. helpful

  2682. or

  2683. loving

  2684. to

  2685. them

  2686. especially

  2687. if

  2688. it

  2689. is

  2690. indeed

  2691. a

  2692. bad

  2693. relationship

  2694. the

  2695. golden

  2696. rule

  2697. is

  2698. not

  2699. do

  2700. to

  2701. others

  2702. what

  2703. they

  2704. want

  2705. you

  2706. to

  2707. do

  2708. to

  2709. them

  2710. that's

  2711. just

  2712. people

  2713. pleasing

  2714. no

  2715. the

  2716. golden

  2717. rule

  2718. is

  2719. do

  2720. to

  2721. others

  2722. what

  2723. you

  2724. would

  2725. have

  2726. them

  2727. do

  2728. to

  2729. you

  2730. and

  2731. deep

  2732. down

  2733. inside

  2734. would

  2735. you

  2736. want

  2737. someone

  2738. to

  2739. warn

  2740. you

  2741. and

  2742. tell

  2743. you

  2744. about

  2745. the

  2746. danger

  2747. they

  2748. see

  2749. in

  2750. the

  2751. path

  2752. that

  2753. you're

  2754. taking

  2755. even

  2756. if

  2757. it's

  2758. maybe

  2759. not

  2760. what

  2761. you

  2762. want

  2763. to

  2764. hear

  2765. I

  2766. think

  2767. that's

  2768. the

  2769. kind

  2770. of

  2771. love

  2772. and

  2773. friendship

  2774. that

  2775. we

  2776. all

  2777. desire

  2778. from

  2779. others

  2780. neither

  2781. should

  2782. we

  2783. think

  2784. of

  2785. our

  2786. own

  2787. unhealthy

  2788. desires

  2789. if

  2790. we

  2791. have

  2792. an

  2793. unhealthy

  2794. thing

  2795. that

  2796. we

  2797. want

  2798. we

  2799. shouldn't

  2800. expect

  2801. others

  2802. to

  2803. treat

  2804. us

  2805. in

  2806. that

  2807. way

  2808. either

  2809. !

  2810. like

  2811. if

  2812. I

  2813. just

  2814. want

  2815. to

  2816. be

  2817. left

  2818. alone

  2819. that's

  2820. what

  2821. I

  2822. want

  2823. I

  2824. wish

  2825. they

  2826. would

  2827. leave

  2828. me

  2829. alone

  2830. does

  2831. that

  2832. mean

  2833. I

  2834. should

  2835. just

  2836. leave

  2837. others

  2838. in

  2839. a

  2840. similar

  2841. frame

  2842. of

  2843. mind

  2844. alone

  2845. to

  2846. struggle

  2847. of

  2848. course

  2849. not

  2850. that's

  2851. a

  2852. misapplication

  2853. of

  2854. the

  2855. golden

  2856. rule

  2857. we

  2858. talked

  2859. a

  2860. little

  2861. bit

  2862. about

  2863. how

  2864. it

  2865. applies

  2866. in

  2867. the

  2868. parent

  2869. relationship

  2870. with

  2871. kids

  2872. think

  2873. of

  2874. the

  2875. marriage

  2876. relationship

  2877. for

  2878. those

  2879. of

  2880. you

  2881. who

  2882. are

  2883. married

  2884. sometimes

  2885. we

  2886. get

  2887. ourselves

  2888. into

  2889. a

  2890. place

  2891. where

  2892. things

  2893. are

  2894. just

  2895. not

  2896. as

  2897. we

  2898. wish

  2899. they

  2900. were

  2901. in

  2902. our

  2903. marriage

  2904. maybe

  2905. the

  2906. intimacy

  2907. isn't

  2908. what

  2909. it

  2910. has

  2911. been

  2912. maybe

  2913. there's

  2914. a

  2915. coldness

  2916. or

  2917. a

  2918. distance

  2919. what

  2920. better

  2921. place

  2922. to

  2923. start

  2924. in

  2925. improving

  2926. this

  2927. golden

  2928. rule

  2929. perhaps

  2930. as

  2931. your

  2932. spouse

  2933. begins

  2934. to

  2935. feel

  2936. the

  2937. warmth

  2938. of

  2939. your

  2940. love

  2941. in

  2942. all

  2943. kinds

  2944. of

  2945. ways

  2946. little

  2947. and

  2948. big

  2949. as

  2950. you

  2951. filter

  2952. your

  2953. actions

  2954. and

  2955. your

  2956. words

  2957. through

  2958. this

  2959. imperative

  2960. it

  2961. may

  2962. rekindle

  2963. what's

  2964. grown

  2965. cold

  2966. in

  2967. their

  2968. heart

  2969. we

  2970. could

  2971. talk

  2972. about

  2973. the

  2974. workplace

  2975. we

  2976. could

  2977. talk

  2978. about

  2979. teammates

  2980. we

  2981. could

  2982. talk

  2983. about

  2984. the

  2985. playground

  2986. and

  2987. school

  2988. every

  2989. situation

  2990. I

  2991. hope

  2992. this

  2993. is

  2994. stirring

  2995. us

  2996. I

  2997. hope

  2998. this

  2999. is

  3000. getting

  3001. us

  3002. thinking

  3003. about

  3004. how

  3005. we

  3006. have

  3007. been

  3008. living

  3009. do

  3010. we

  3011. have

  3012. this

  3013. golden

  3014. mindset

  3015. is

  3016. it

  3017. really

  3018. working

  3019. itself

  3020. out

  3021. in

  3022. our

  3023. lives

  3024. in

  3025. golden

  3026. living

  3027. a

  3028. loving

  3029. life

  3030. towards

  3031. anybody

  3032. and

  3033. everybody

  3034. is

  3035. there

  3036. anyone

  3037. in

  3038. particular

  3039. that

  3040. we

  3041. have

  3042. been

  3043. content

  3044. to

  3045. withhold

  3046. our

  3047. love

  3048. from

  3049. because

  3050. we

  3051. feel

  3052. they

  3053. don't

  3054. deserve

  3055. it

  3056. as we've

  3057. been

  3058. hearing

  3059. these

  3060. commands

  3061. of

  3062. Christ

  3063. are

  3064. not

  3065. just

  3066. a

  3067. matter

  3068. of

  3069. obedience

  3070. they are

  3071. also

  3072. in addition

  3073. to that

  3074. a way

  3075. that we

  3076. can

  3077. testify

  3078. to

  3079. Christ

  3080. through

  3081. our

  3082. living

  3083. in other

  3084. words

  3085. living

  3086. like this

  3087. is

  3088. demonstrating

  3089. the heart

  3090. of the

  3091. gospel

  3092. to others

  3093. around

  3094. us

  3095. it's

  3096. showing

  3097. it's

  3098. showing

  3099. the

  3100. very

  3101. love

  3102. of

  3103. God

  3104. that

  3105. we

  3106. have

  3107. come

  3108. to

  3109. know

  3110. to

  3111. others

  3112. how

  3113. has

  3114. God

  3115. dealt

  3116. with

  3117. us

  3118. it

  3119. says

  3120. just

  3121. down

  3122. the

  3123. page

  3124. in

  3125. Luke

    Luke 6 chapter mention

  3126. chapter

  3127. 6

  3128. that

  3129. he

  3130. has

  3131. been

  3132. merciful

  3133. to

  3134. us

  3135. that's

  3136. true

  3137. he

  3138. has

  3139. not

  3140. treated

  3141. us

  3142. as

  3143. we

  3144. deserve

  3145. !

  3146. He

  3147. has

  3148. not

  3149. treated

  3150. us

  3151. according

  3152. to

  3153. how

  3154. we've

  3155. treated

  3156. him

  3157. he's

  3158. loved

  3159. us

  3160. while

  3161. we

  3162. were

  3163. his

  3164. enemies

  3165. he's

  3166. given

  3167. us

  3168. a way

  3169. to be

  3170. saved

  3171. at

  3172. great

  3173. cost

  3174. to

  3175. himself

  3176. did

  3177. we

  3178. deserve

  3179. it

  3180. not

  3181. at

  3182. all

  3183. and

  3184. yet

  3185. he

  3186. has

  3187. been

  3188. rich

  3189. in

  3190. mercy

  3191. toward

  3192. us

  3193. he's

  3194. offered

  3195. us

  3196. a

  3197. full

  3198. pardon

  3199. for

  3200. every

  3201. wrong

  3202. that

  3203. we

  3204. have

  3205. done

  3206. to

  3207. him

  3208. and

  3209. he's

  3210. given

  3211. us

  3212. every

  3213. blessing

  3214. imaginable

  3215. in

  3216. Christ

  3217. and

  3218. now

  3219. Jesus

  3220. is

  3221. saying

  3222. as we

  3223. see

  3224. here

  3225. in

  3226. verse

  3227. 36

  3228. be

  3229. merciful

  3230. just

  3231. as

  3232. your

  3233. father

  3234. is

  3235. merciful

  3236. don't

  3237. just

  3238. treat

  3239. others

  3240. according

  3241. to

  3242. what

  3243. they

  3244. deserve

  3245. based

  3246. on

  3247. how

  3248. they

  3249. have

  3250. treated

  3251. you

  3252. rather

  3253. treat

  3254. them

  3255. with

  3256. love

  3257. kindness

  3258. compassion

  3259. in

  3260. everything

  3261. just

  3262. as you

  3263. would

  3264. want

  3265. them

  3266. to

  3267. treat

  3268. you

  3269. when

  3270. we

  3271. live

  3272. the

  3273. golden

  3274. rule

  3275. we

  3276. demonstrate

  3277. the

  3278. gospel

  3279. love

  3280. we

  3281. show

  3282. others

  3283. through

  3284. our

  3285. actions

  3286. and

  3287. words

  3288. that

  3289. the

  3290. love

  3291. of

  3292. God

  3293. is

  3294. real

  3295. and

  3296. powerful

  3297. let's

  3298. pray

  3299. and ask

  3300. the

  3301. Lord

  3302. for

  3303. help

  3304. to

  3305. live

  3306. this

  3307. out

  3308. father

  3309. in

  3310. heaven

  3311. we

  3312. want

  3313. to

  3314. begin

  3315. by

  3316. confessing

  3317. all

  3318. of

  3319. our

  3320. countless

  3321. many

  3322. failures

  3323. to

  3324. live

  3325. this

  3326. way

  3327. to

  3328. you

  3329. Lord

  3330. so many

  3331. times

  3332. we have

  3333. put

  3334. ourselves

  3335. first

  3336. we have

  3337. done

  3338. only as

  3339. we

  3340. wanted

  3341. please

  3342. forgive

  3343. us

  3344. please

  3345. cleanse

  3346. us

  3347. please

  3348. wash

  3349. us

  3350. of

  3351. all

  3352. those

  3353. moments

  3354. all

  3355. those

  3356. times

  3357. where

  3358. we

  3359. have

  3360. not

  3361. loved

  3362. others

  3363. like

  3364. this

  3365. we

  3366. thank

  3367. you

  3368. for

  3369. the

  3370. cross

  3371. we

  3372. thank

  3373. you

  3374. that

  3375. you

  3376. died

  3377. Jesus

  3378. to

  3379. atone

  3380. for

  3381. all

  3382. of

  3383. our

  3384. shortcomings

  3385. and

  3386. failures

  3387. and

  3388. sins

  3389. that

  3390. we

  3391. don't

  3392. have

  3393. to

  3394. walk

  3395. around

  3396. guilty

  3397. in

  3398. life

  3399. thinking

  3400. back

  3401. to

  3402. all

  3403. the

  3404. moments

  3405. where

  3406. we

  3407. have

  3408. fallen

  3409. short

  3410. of

  3411. this

  3412. Lord

  3413. you

  3414. have

  3415. cleansed

  3416. us

  3417. and

  3418. forgiven

  3419. us

  3420. forever

  3421. and

  3422. we

  3423. want

  3424. to

  3425. live

  3426. like

  3427. this

  3428. not

  3429. just

  3430. as

  3431. a

  3432. matter

  3433. of

  3434. obedience

  3435. but

  3436. just

  3437. as

  3438. a

  3439. way

  3440. to

  3441. bring

  3442. glory

  3443. to

  3444. your

  3445. name

  3446. for

  3447. you

  3448. are

  3449. the

  3450. one

  3451. who

  3452. has

  3453. loved

  3454. us

  3455. like

  3456. this

  3457. and

  3458. so

  3459. we

  3460. ask

  3461. for

  3462. grace

  3463. we

  3464. ask

  3465. for

  3466. power

  3467. we

  3468. ask

  3469. for

  3470. your

  3471. Holy

  3472. Spirit

  3473. to

  3474. work

  3475. in

  3476. us

  3477. and

  3478. teach

  3479. us

  3480. to

  3481. walk

  3482. in

  3483. this

  3484. way

  3485. guide

  3486. our

  3487. thinking

  3488. in

  3489. all

  3490. these

  3491. situations

  3492. that

  3493. we

  3494. face

  3495. in

  3496. all

  3497. our

  3498. relationships

  3499. help

  3500. us

  3501. to

  3502. know

  3503. and

  3504. to

  3505. we

  3506. ask

  3507. this

  3508. in

  3509. your

  3510. name

  3511. amen

  3512. I

  3513. invite

  3514. the

  3515. worship

  3516. team

  3517. to

  3518. come

  3519. and

  3520. lead

  3521. us

  3522. in

  3523. a

  3524. closing

  3525. song