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"To Judge, Or Not To Judge? Is that the question?"

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  1. If you'd open up your Bibles to Matthew chapter 7, we're going to skip ahead this morning to Matthew chapter 7, 1 through 5.

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  2. Matt Sear next week is going to come back and come back to that wonderful passage in which Jesus addresses our anxiety.

  3. And so I will be preaching out of Matthew 7, 1 through 5.

  4. I was hoping to get to verse 6, but I just, there's not enough time.

  5. So let me read this for you.

  6. You've heard this.

  7. This is the words of Jesus.

  8. Judge not that you be not judged, for with the judgment you pronounced, you will be judged.

  9. And with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

  10. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?

  11. Or how can you say to your brother, let me take the speck out of your eye when there is the log in your own eye?

  12. You hypocrite.

  13. First, take the log out of your own eye.

  14. First, take the log out of your own eye.

  15. And then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.

  16. We are a judgmental bunch.

  17. We have a knack for finding fault in each other.

  18. In fact, there's a story of two pastors.

  19. They didn't know they were pastors, but they happened to be down by the marina together,

  20. and they kind of bumped into one another.

  21. And one of the pastors started a conversation with the other, and it went something like this.

  22. Are you saved or are you unsaved?

  23. Well, I'm saved.

  24. Hallelujah!

  25. Praise the Lord!

  26. Do you believe in believer's baptism or infant baptism?

  27. Well, I believe in believer's baptism.

  28. Hallelujah!

  29. Praise the Lord!

  30. Do you dunk or do you sprinkle?

  31. We dunk.

  32. Oh, hallelujah!

  33. Praise the Lord!

  34. Are you a Calvinist or an Arminian?

  35. Well, I lean towards Calvinism.

  36. Praise the Lord!

  37. Amen!

  38. Are you a complementarian or an egalitarian?

  39. Well, I'm a complementarian.

  40. Amen!

  41. Praise the Lord, brother!

  42. Are you a continuationist or a cessationist?

  43. Well, I'm a continuationist.

  44. Praise the Lord, brother!

  45. Are you old earth or young earth?

  46. Well, I lean towards old earth.

  47. Oh, praise the Lord, brother!

  48. All right!

  49. All right!

  50. Are you pre-mill, post-mill, or aw-mill?

  51. Lean towards pre-mill.

  52. Amen, brother!

  53. Are you hymns only or contemporary worship songs only?

  54. Well, we're both.

  55. Amen, brother!

  56. Are you committed to expository preaching or do you topical stuff?

  57. Well, we do both, but we relatively emphasize expository preaching.

  58. Amen, brother!

  59. Amen!

  60. Do you do small groups or Sunday school?

  61. Well, we do small groups right now, but maybe Sunday school.

  62. Amen, brother!

  63. Do you observe communion weekly or communion monthly?

  64. Well, we observe communion monthly.

  65. What?

  66. And you call yourself a pastor?

  67. And you call yourself a pastor?

  68. And you call yourself a pastor?

  69. And he walks off.

  70. We have a knack for finding fault in each other, don't we?

  71. If it's not doctrinal matters, it's what we wear to church.

  72. If it's not what we wear to church, it's what we sing at church.

  73. And if it's not what we sing at church, it's who's the candidate you're going to vote for on November 8th?

  74. That can be a source of some fault finding.

  75. This morning, Jesus is telling his followers that they are not to be characterized by judgmentalism.

  76. We're not to be harsh in our judgments.

  77. We're to hold our opinions, even our theological convictions, with humility.

  78. So whether it's about what you dress, or the worship music we think we should have, or how are you going to vote,

  79. or whether you're pre-mill, post-mill, or ah-mill, Jesus calls us to a clear-eyed humility.

  80. And this morning, we're going to see Jesus kind of walk through an argument.

  81. So four steps in this argument.

  82. And there's these key words.

  83. He starts by saying, judge not.

  84. A cease and desist order from our king.

  85. So judge not.

  86. And then he says, for, in verse 2.

  87. And he gives us the reason why we're not to judge.

  88. And then he does this whole speck in the eye, log in the eye.

  89. By this kind of ridiculous kind of example.

  90. But he's making a point.

  91. And then, in verse 5, he lands this plane.

  92. And the word, you.

  93. You.

  94. Jesus' followers are not to be characterized by a prideful judgmentalism.

  95. We're to be marked by humility.

  96. And really help people.

  97. So, let's dig in.

  98. Matthew chapter 7, verse 1.

    Matthew 7:1

  99. Two words.

  100. Judge not.

  101. These two words are carrying a lot of weight.

  102. They're coming off the lips of our king.

  103. Judge not.

  104. It's a cease and desist order.

  105. Do you know what a cease and desist order is?

  106. If, like, you're putting a, something on the back of your house.

  107. And you're digging in.

  108. And the city of Kenosha says a cease and desist order.

  109. This is for you.

  110. That means you immediately need to stop your work.

  111. So that they can bring people in.

  112. Make sure it's okay.

  113. Then you can start up again.

  114. Well, this, judge not, is a immediate, urgent, cease and desist order for Jesus' disciples.

  115. Not just in the first century, but in the 21st century.

  116. For us.

  117. He, in all of his authority, is commanding us to stop judging each other.

  118. You'll notice the word brothers repeated throughout this.

  119. He's thinking in-house, among the family.

  120. But here's the deal.

  121. We need to answer this question.

  122. What does Jesus mean by judge?

  123. When he says judge not, what does he mean?

  124. Is he talking about all judging in general?

  125. Or just a certain kind of judging?

  126. Well, that word judge in the Greek language has a range of meanings.

  127. And it all has to do with evaluating.

  128. Sometimes it means discretion.

  129. Sometimes it means condemning somebody.

  130. Sometimes it means judgmentalism.

  131. This over-the-top, critical, kind of dealing with the detail of my new things and making a big deal about it.

  132. And what Jesus is addressing here, and what he is forbidding, is that judgmental spirit that can show up in many of us.

  133. That critical spirit.

  134. Judgmentalism is a manifestation of pride.

  135. Ungracious and unloving.

  136. Judgmentalism is a manifestation of pride.

  137. It comes from the inside.

  138. It's a manifestation of pride that shows up in a quickness to find fault in others.

  139. And if that's not enough, finding fault in others with no intent to help.

  140. Judgmentalism is a readiness to find fault in others.

  141. So what Jesus is forbidding here is this prideful attitude in evaluating one another.

  142. Lifting yourself up over someone else in judgment.

  143. So the question we need to ask now is, how do we know that's the case?

  144. How do we know that that's what Jesus is forbidding right here?

  145. Well, there are some compelling clues from the context that make it clear.

  146. And so if you look at verse 5, we read, you hypocrite, first take the log out from your own eye,

  147. and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.

  148. So what Jesus is saying here is, get the log out so you can judge clearly.

  149. So he's not forbidding all judging here.

  150. He's forbidding a certain kind of judgment.

  151. Log-eye judgment.

  152. And then in verse 6, he goes on to say,

  153. do not give dogs what is holy and do not throw your pearls before pigs.

  154. He's talking about people.

  155. Dogs and pigs.

  156. He's asking us to exercise judgment for those people who are resistant and hostile to the things of God.

  157. It's like, don't give them what's holy.

  158. They don't want it.

  159. In fact, they'll turn on you, shred you, if you do.

  160. He's calling us to exercise judgment.

  161. In chapter 7, verse 15, Jesus tells us to watch out for false prophets

  162. with the expectation we'll be able to judge between true and false prophets.

  163. He's calling us to exercise discretion, to make a judgment, clear judgment.

  164. Perhaps the most compelling clue is back in verse 5.

  165. It's the very beginning.

  166. He says, you hypocrite.

  167. You hypocrite.

  168. First, remove the log from your own eye.

  169. What Jesus is forbidding here is hypocritical judgment.

  170. I mean, he's been going after hypocrisy all throughout the Sermon on the Mount.

  171. We're going to come back to that when we get to verse 5.

  172. So, it seems like the clues from this context are making things pretty clear

  173. that Jesus is forbidding a judgmentalism, not just all judgment.

  174. Which is relieving.

  175. Because that means we still get to exercise wise, loving judgment in discernment.

  176. We just need to steer clear of this prideful judgmentalism.

  177. So, the kind of evaluation that we're being told not to do is fault-finding, selfish, unloving.

  178. Jerry Bridges in his book, Respectable Sins, calls judgmentalism

  179. when we equate our opinions with truth.

  180. We elevate our opinions to a point where we think that they're right all the time.

  181. Judgmentalism is an elevation of oneself over another.

  182. And oftentimes this takes place in majoring on the minors,

  183. making mountains over molehills,

  184. breaking fellowship over how many times a month

  185. you observe communion.

  186. In the middle of this word pride,

  187. because at the heart of judgmentalism is pride,

  188. and at the middle of that word pride,

  189. five-letter word, is the word I.

  190. I is at the middle of pride.

  191. Me is at the center.

  192. Judgmentalism is a manifestation of pride.

  193. And God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.

  194. And so, consider the effects of a judgmental critical spirit.

  195. It demeans the one being judged.

  196. Does God want that?

  197. No.

  198. It puffs up the one who is doing the judging.

  199. Does God want that?

  200. No.

  201. Judgmentalism results not in building up other people,

  202. but tearing them down.

  203. It's not constructive.

  204. It's destructive.

  205. Does God want that among his people?

  206. No.

  207. Over time, a critical spirit will have a withering effect

  208. on those closest to you.

  209. It exasperates people either into forced compliance

  210. or fierce rebellion.

  211. It's either the shrug soldier effect

  212. or it's the raised fist effect.

  213. Does God want either of those?

  214. No.

  215. He wants peace for his people.

  216. He wants unity held together by a bond of peace.

  217. He wants there to be love among his people,

  218. even when we disagree.

  219. We can disagree.

  220. We can disagree.

  221. We can disagree in love.

  222. What we can't do is go judgmental on each other.

  223. So what is Jesus commanding us here?

  224. He's saying, judge not.

  225. Do not be quick to find fault in each other.

  226. Now, if you're sitting there in your pew right now

  227. and you're saying,

  228. whoa, I think Jesus is speaking to me this morning,

  229. what you need to hear is that cease and desist order.

  230. You need to stop that now.

  231. Jesus is saying, judge not.

  232. Stop it.

  233. Are you starting to feel the weight of it?

  234. So that's the first move here.

  235. Jesus says, cease and desist this judgmentalism.

  236. It has no place among my people.

  237. The next step is that Jesus provides a reason

  238. why we're not to be judgmental with one another.

  239. And it's clued in by the word for in verse 2.

  240. So Jesus says, judge not that you be not judged for,

  241. it's a reason,

  242. for with the judgment you pronounce,

  243. you will be judged in the measure you use,

  244. it will be measured to you.

  245. So Jesus is saying this,

  246. don't be merciless in your judgment of others

  247. because you will be judged without mercy.

  248. That's the reason he's giving.

  249. It's a sober reason.

  250. It's a warning.

  251. Jesus is emphasizing this with a play on words

  252. and he can't see it in English.

  253. You can see a little bit of it in English.

  254. In English, we read,

  255. for you, for with the judgment you pronounce,

  256. you will be judged.

  257. You see how the word judge is repeated.

  258. And then we read,

  259. and with the measure you use,

  260. it will be measured to you.

  261. And so you see how the word measure is repeated.

  262. And essentially, judge and measure

  263. are being used synonymously

  264. to talk about this judgmentalism.

  265. But in the original language,

  266. it reads like this.

  267. For with the judgment you judge,

  268. you will be judged.

  269. And with the measure you measure,

  270. you will be measured.

  271. It's even more emphatic.

  272. It's a play on words.

  273. It's a repeating of ideas.

  274. To judge and to measure

  275. are getting at the same thing.

  276. It's a kind of evaluation

  277. with which you evaluate others.

  278. What you evaluate others with,

  279. you will be evaluated with.

  280. So how do you evaluate others?

  281. How do you judge others?

  282. With what do you measure others by?

  283. And then we've got to ask,

  284. well, who's doing the evaluating of me

  285. if I'm evaluating of others?

  286. Is it other people?

  287. Well, it could be.

  288. There's a tendency

  289. when we're critical of others

  290. that other people tend to be critical of us.

  291. Is that who Jesus is talking about?

  292. Well, it's kind of vague.

  293. Because it can also mean God.

  294. And if we keep with the overarching

  295. kind of theme and motif of the passage,

  296. it most likely is God.

  297. And if it is God,

  298. then it should give us considerable pause

  299. when we render judgment on someone.

  300. We are to be slow to judge.

  301. What Jesus is saying here is,

  302. in keeping with what he said

  303. in Matthew 6, verses 14 and 15.

    Matthew 6:14

  304. Remember that?

  305. He says,

  306. For if you forgive others their trespasses,

  307. your heavenly Father will also forgive you.

  308. But if you do not forgive others their trespasses,

  309. neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

  310. And what he's warning his followers is,

  311. what will happen if they're not forgiving of others?

  312. It's God will not forgive them

  313. because their unforgiving spirit

  314. reveals that they're not followers of Jesus.

  315. And a similar principle is in play here.

  316. If someone persists in judgmentalism,

  317. it reveals their heart

  318. and God will be merciless in his judgment.

  319. He will judge them with the kind of judgment

  320. they have judged others.

  321. Dr. Don Carson,

  322. who is a professor down at Trinity,

  323. said it this way regarding this verse.

  324. A judgmental attitude excludes us from God's pardon

  325. for it betrays our unbroken spirit.

  326. It reveals we have a critical spirit,

  327. not a poverty of spirit.

  328. Blessed are those who are poor in spirit,

  329. for theirs is the kingdom of God.

  330. Now, this kind of judgmentalism

  331. has been happening in churches for a long time.

  332. If you trace it all the way back

  333. to the first century in Rome,

  334. there was a Christian church in Rome,

  335. a bunch of believers.

  336. And they were kind of sniping at each other

  337. because of different foods.

  338. Some said you should eat.

  339. Some said you shouldn't eat.

  340. Different holidays.

  341. Some said you should observe them.

  342. Some said you shouldn't.

  343. In Romans 14.10, Paul rebukes them all.

  344. He says,

  345. Why do you pass judgment on your brother?

  346. Or why do you despise your brother?

  347. And so he's linking this judgmentalism

  348. with despising your brother.

  349. It's unloving.

  350. And then he goes on to remind them,

  351. For we will stand before the judgment seat of God.

  352. So then each of us will give an account

  353. of himself to God.

  354. Each of us will give an account

  355. before our Father.

  356. God himself.

  357. So what we need to keep in mind

  358. and why this reason is so sobering

  359. is that how we treat other people now,

  360. how we judge them and measure them,

  361. that's going to be part of our judgment

  362. when we go before God.

  363. It's really sobering.

  364. Let me illustrate it this way.

  365. So we have these repeated plays on word.

  366. Jesus says,

  367. For with the judgment you judge,

  368. you will be judged.

  369. With the measure you measure,

  370. you will be measured.

  371. So there's these six repeated words.

  372. And here's how I want you to think about them.

  373. Think about these six repeated words

  374. as those orange and white sawhorses in a road.

  375. And they're put there to say,

  376. Watch out!

  377. And what Jesus is saying

  378. with these repeated words is,

  379. Don't go down the road of judgmentalism.

  380. Don't go down that road.

  381. In fact, what he's saying is,

  382. Turn around.

  383. Stop.

  384. Turn around.

  385. That is not a road you want to go down.

  386. You're going to have to face God someday.

  387. So let me ask you this.

  388. Let's say someone calls

  389. your favorite presidential candidate a moron.

  390. What would happen

  391. if when you were tempted

  392. to be critical back,

  393. what came into your mind

  394. was standing before your God

  395. and having to give an account.

  396. This word for

  397. is a sober reason

  398. to stop our judgmentalism.

  399. So Jesus moves from

  400. this sober warning for

  401. to a rather ridiculous example.

  402. In verses 3 and 4,

  403. let's read it.

  404. Why do you see the speck

  405. that is in your brother's eye,

  406. but do not notice the log

  407. that is in your own eye?

  408. Or how can you say to your brother,

  409. Let me take this speck out of your eye

  410. when there is the log in your own eye?

  411. It's almost cartoon-like.

  412. One commentator talked about it

  413. as being Jesus' employing humor here.

  414. But it would be funny

  415. if it were not for it being about judgmentalism,

  416. which is not funny.

  417. What Jesus is saying here

  418. with this very creative illustration

  419. is that those who are being judgmental,

  420. they don't see things clearly.

  421. their view is obstructed.

  422. And even worse,

  423. they tend not to be aware

  424. that they've got a log in their eye.

  425. They're unaware of their obstructed sight.

  426. So if you look at verses 3 and 4,

  427. there's this brother with something in his eye.

  428. Jesus calls it a speck.

  429. It's probably a speck of sawdust.

  430. Remember, Jesus was a carpenter by trade.

  431. He knew what it was like to cut wood.

  432. And I'm guessing he probably got

  433. a speck of sawdust in his eye.

  434. And so what Jesus is not denying

  435. is there's going to be situations

  436. where we need to help one another

  437. get specks out of our eyes.

  438. And so Jesus is saying

  439. there's not a place for that.

  440. There is a place for that.

  441. But the problem is

  442. that the one who volunteers to help,

  443. look at verse 4,

  444. or how can you say to your brother,

  445. let me take the speck out of your eye.

  446. The problem is the one who volunteers

  447. has a log in his eye.

  448. Now that word log

  449. is not referring to a 2x4.

  450. It's referring to a support beam.

  451. A support beam.

  452. In a first century Palestinian home

  453. that held up the roof,

  454. it would be the equivalent for us

  455. as an eye beam.

  456. Or two 2x12s nailed together

  457. in order to hold

  458. a considerable amount of weight.

  459. It is a ridiculous picture to imagine.

  460. Someone walking around

  461. with an eye beam in their eye?

  462. A support beam?

  463. Jesus is obviously making a contrast

  464. between the speck and the beam.

  465. And in the contrast,

  466. what it's bringing out is

  467. the seriousness of judgmentalism.

  468. Because that's what the log is.

  469. And notice that though the brother

  470. with the speck in the eye

  471. apparently knows he's got a speck in his eye,

  472. the brother with the log in his eye

  473. is completely unaware of it.

  474. That's the effect of pride.

  475. Pride blinds us.

  476. Those who are judgmental

  477. are often blind to their own judgmentalism.

  478. Let me ask you a question.

  479. Of those two brothers,

  480. which one is in the greatest need?

  481. The one with the log in his eye.

  482. That's the worst problem of the two.

  483. And what's crazy about this

  484. is that the one in greatest need

  485. with the eye beam in his eye

  486. is actually trying to help out

  487. the one with the speck in his eye.

  488. It's completely ridiculous.

  489. And that's Jesus' point.

  490. For a Christian who is blinded

  491. by their own judgmentalism

  492. to try to help a brother or sister in Christ

  493. with a speck in their eye,

  494. it's ridiculous

  495. because it's presumptuous.

  496. So from these two verses

  497. we can draw out that judgmentalism,

  498. this quickness,

  499. quickness to find fault in one another.

  500. It's a serious problem.

  501. It's eye beam problem.

  502. It blinds Christians from seeing themselves.

  503. It's what pride does.

  504. It prevents Christians

  505. from really helping one another.

  506. Do you really think that someone

  507. with an eye beam

  508. is going to be able to help someone

  509. with a speck in their eye?

  510. So let me ask you a question.

  511. Have you ever thought about judgmentalism this way?

  512. Are you starting to feel the weight of it?

  513. How serious this is in God's sight?

  514. So in this ridiculous example,

  515. Jesus' point is

  516. how ridiculous judgmentalism is in God's eyes.

  517. I mean, after all,

  518. God alone knows what's going on in each of us.

  519. So now in verse 5,

  520. Jesus in this last step

  521. calls us to a clear-sighted humility.

  522. The solution to log-eye syndrome,

  523. this judgmentalism,

  524. is a humble repentance.

  525. So in verse 5, Jesus says,

  526. you hypocrite.

  527. First take the log out of your own eye

  528. and then you will see clearly

  529. to take the speck out of your brother's eye.

  530. So let's just say that you're sitting there

  531. and you're realizing you have a tendency

  532. of being judgmental with other people,

  533. with other Christians.

  534. And with that growing sense,

  535. you have this also kind of growing weight

  536. that that is grievous in God's sight.

  537. That's actually a good thing.

  538. God is doing a work in your heart.

  539. He wants to help you.

  540. He wants to rid you of something.

  541. That's his kindness to you.

  542. And so you're realizing you tend to rush

  543. into making harsh,

  544. unmerciful judgments about others.

  545. Remember, judgmentalism is,

  546. it's a temptation common to man

  547. because it's got pride at its root.

  548. We equate our own opinions with the truth.

  549. So we've got to ask the question,

  550. what must we do?

  551. What step do we take

  552. in order to obey Jesus'

  553. cease and desist order?

  554. What do we need to do

  555. in order to judge not?

  556. If the heart of judgmentalism is pride,

  557. some kind of inflated view of yourself,

  558. the solution will be humbling yourself,

  559. seeing yourself as God sees you.

  560. So Jesus calls us to humble himself.

  561. And this passage,

  562. he says something that is difficult to hear.

  563. Remember, Jesus is speaking to his disciples.

  564. And Jesus, in the movement of this passage,

  565. he starts in verses 1 and 2 by saying,

  566. y'all.

  567. He's talking to all of his disciples.

  568. And then in verse 3,

  569. he goes from y'all to you.

  570. And in verse 5, he says,

  571. you hypocrite.

  572. If you're being judgmental,

  573. regularly giving vent to critical,

  574. a critical spirit to others,

  575. or gossiping about others,

  576. Jesus is saying,

  577. you are a hypocrite.

  578. Now, can you imagine Jesus himself

  579. calling you out as a hypocrite?

  580. If you are judging others ungraciously,

  581. that's exactly what he's doing.

  582. And what you need to understand is that

  583. judgmentalism is hypocrisy.

  584. Let's ask this question.

  585. It's a basic question.

  586. What is so hypocritical about judgmentalism?

  587. Do you remember the word hypocrite

  588. comes from the Greek theater

  589. in which actors would change from character to character

  590. by putting different masks over their face?

  591. And so they would put a different face on

  592. depending on who their character was.

  593. So what Jesus is saying is

  594. judgmentalism is putting on a false face.

  595. It's thinking that you are healthy

  596. and able to help others with their specs

  597. when in fact,

  598. you're the one in greatest need of help.

  599. You're the one in greatest danger.

  600. You've got the bigger problem.

  601. That's the hypocrisy.

  602. And it would do us all well to take heed of it.

  603. If you struggle with judgmentalism,

  604. and I have, I do,

  605. the first thing you need to know

  606. is that it is hypocritical.

  607. But it's not enough to know it.

  608. There's a step of humility

  609. of confessing it.

  610. Confessing it to God.

  611. Keith, earlier when we were worshiping,

  612. quoted 1 John 1.9.

  613. If we confess our sins,

  614. he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins

  615. and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

  616. We have an advocate, Jesus.

  617. He is our propitiation.

  618. That word confess,

  619. it literally means same word.

  620. If we call judgmentalism

  621. the same word that God calls it,

  622. we're confessing it as sin.

  623. And what does God call judgmentalism?

  624. He calls it hypocrisy.

  625. He calls it hypocrisy.

  626. And so the first step of humility here,

  627. after being confronted with this,

  628. you hypocrite,

  629. is to confess it.

  630. Is to say,

  631. oh Lord Jesus,

  632. you are right.

  633. You're right.

  634. I'm prone to it.

  635. Even I've given myself to it.

  636. You're right.

  637. It's wrong.

  638. It's hypocritical.

  639. So you call it sin.

  640. And then you realize

  641. what this same Jesus has done for you.

  642. This same Jesus,

  643. who says you hypocrite,

  644. on the cross,

  645. said,

  646. it is finished.

  647. I paid for that.

  648. Forgiven in full.

  649. So you call it sin.

  650. You call it forgiven.

  651. And you call on God to change you.

  652. And so the next step,

  653. after confessing it to God,

  654. calling it what it is,

  655. the next step

  656. is to take the log out of your own eye.

  657. Once you've confessed it,

  658. you've positioned yourself

  659. to remove it.

  660. Because if you don't see

  661. judgmentalism

  662. as sin

  663. against God,

  664. you're not going to be compelled

  665. to do anything about it.

  666. But if you see it

  667. as God sees it,

  668. you're going to be compelled

  669. to get rid of it.

  670. Or what the Apostle Paul says,

  671. to put it to death.

  672. It's a step of humility.

  673. It's a step of coming under

  674. what God says.

  675. So when we remove

  676. remove the log

  677. out of our own eye,

  678. we are repenting

  679. of judgmentalism.

  680. And in order for you

  681. to see the log,

  682. I want to help you.

  683. I want to help you to see it.

  684. I want to help you see

  685. judgmentalism in your own life.

  686. So I've got three questions for you.

  687. Three questions that are

  688. intended to help you see

  689. judgmentalism in your life.

  690. In your life.

  691. Don't be thinking

  692. your spouse's life.

  693. Don't be thinking

  694. your children's life.

  695. Don't be thinking

  696. your pastor's life.

  697. Be thinking your life.

  698. Evaluate yourself.

  699. Three questions.

  700. First one is this.

  701. Ask yourself,

  702. what are the topics

  703. in which I'm tempted

  704. to be quick

  705. to find fault in others?

  706. What are the topics?

  707. Maybe it's politics.

  708. Maybe it's social issues.

  709. Maybe it's sports.

  710. Someone says something

  711. about your pack

  712. and man,

  713. you are like

  714. pulling your sword out.

  715. Maybe it's how you dress

  716. on a Sunday morning.

  717. Maybe it's the songs

  718. we sing on a Sunday morning.

  719. Maybe it is your favorite

  720. theological point.

  721. Maybe it's the roles

  722. of men and women

  723. in the church.

  724. Maybe it's do the gifts

  725. exist or not.

  726. Maybe it's you hear

  727. the word predestination

  728. and you want to fight.

  729. Here's a big clue

  730. as to paying attention

  731. of where you will be tempted

  732. to be critical.

  733. What are the things

  734. that you value most?

  735. What are the topics

  736. that are near and dearest

  737. to your heart?

  738. Be paying attention

  739. to those things.

  740. Second question.

  741. Ask yourself,

  742. who are the people

  743. I'm tempted to harshly

  744. criticize most frequently?

  745. Who are the people?

  746. Do you have a regular

  747. set of targets?

  748. Your spouse,

  749. your children,

  750. your church,

  751. your elders,

  752. your life group leader?

  753. Maybe it's your supervisor

  754. at work.

  755. Maybe it's your parents

  756. or your siblings.

  757. Maybe it's your teachers.

  758. Or maybe it's your

  759. government officials.

  760. Or maybe it's your Facebook friends.

  761. Who are the people

  762. that you're tempted

  763. to harshly criticize?

  764. That will help you

  765. kind of narrow the field down.

  766. It's an area to consider

  767. when you'll be tempted

  768. to criticize.

  769. Third area.

  770. Ask yourself,

  771. what's going on inside of you

  772. when you're tempted

  773. to be critical?

  774. For example,

  775. are you tired?

  776. Or are you stressed out?

  777. Are you impatient?

  778. When you are sharp,

  779. when you're harsh,

  780. when you're rash,

  781. ungracious,

  782. what's going on inside of you?

  783. Do you feel insecure?

  784. If you feel insecure,

  785. sometimes the way

  786. that you push back

  787. is by unfair criticism.

  788. Do you feel angry?

  789. Do you feel out of control?

  790. Are you disgusted by someone?

  791. Do you feel overlooked?

  792. Are you offended?

  793. These are all ripe opportunities

  794. to get critical real fast.

  795. Now, if you're experiencing

  796. any of these,

  797. do not be surprised

  798. that you'll be tempted

  799. in those moments

  800. to react harshly

  801. and to criticize

  802. in a manner

  803. that's unpleasing to God.

  804. Oftentimes,

  805. the first thing we go

  806. when we're not getting

  807. something we want

  808. is we want to blame somebody.

  809. You're the reason for this.

  810. So we've identified

  811. some areas where

  812. you'll likely be tempted

  813. to judge sinfully, right?

  814. And if you take that

  815. whole list together,

  816. it might be overwhelming.

  817. So just pick one.

  818. Start somewhere.

  819. Start paying attention to it.

  820. And now what I want you to do

  821. is I want to help you

  822. to know how to humbly fight

  823. this prideful judgmentalism

  824. because I'm guessing

  825. it's going to come up

  826. later today

  827. or sometime this week.

  828. I want to help you to fight.

  829. Humbly fight.

  830. But before I do,

  831. let me just say this.

  832. This is about removing

  833. the log from your eye

  834. so that you can see clearly

  835. and help people out.

  836. So God wants to get

  837. something done here

  838. for the building up

  839. of our body.

  840. So with that said,

  841. I'm going to wrap up

  842. by pointing you to

  843. four things,

  844. four recommendations

  845. to remove the log

  846. out of your eye

  847. so you can help others.

  848. First one is this.

  849. Ask God to weed out

  850. your prideful,

  851. critical spirit

  852. and to plant in its place

  853. a poverty of spirit.

  854. Ask God to weed it out.

  855. To remove the pride

  856. and replace it with humility.

  857. Remember,

  858. a critical spirit

  859. and a poverty of spirit

  860. do not coexist.

  861. Kick one out

  862. so that God

  863. can cultivate the other.

  864. Blessed are the poor

  865. in spirit,

  866. the humble,

  867. for they shall see,

  868. for theirs is the kingdom of God.

  869. So ask God

  870. to weed it out

  871. and to plant in humility.

  872. Two,

  873. slow your judgment down.

  874. Slow that train down.

  875. If you're quick

  876. to find fault

  877. in other people,

  878. humility means

  879. slowing it down.

  880. Believe the best.

  881. Seek to understand.

  882. Get the right weight

  883. on the issue.

  884. If you find yourself

  885. harsh,

  886. humility means

  887. being gentle.

  888. A tender hearted.

  889. See others

  890. as God sees them.

  891. Not as your enemies.

  892. Don't demonize them.

  893. See them

  894. as God sees them.

  895. Get perspective.

  896. Slow the judgment train down.

  897. Third recommendation.

  898. You know,

  899. we went through

  900. that list of people

  901. that you would be tempted

  902. to be critical of.

  903. You know that list?

  904. Start praying

  905. God's fullness

  906. of blessing

  907. and peace

  908. on that person.

  909. The person

  910. you're tempted

  911. to be critical of,

  912. ask God

  913. to bless them

  914. richly.

  915. Go number six,

  916. 24 through 26,

  917. that God,

  918. would you cause

  919. your face

  920. to shine upon

  921. this person

  922. all the days

  923. of their life?

  924. Go show them

  925. your goodness.

  926. It's really hard

  927. to be critical

  928. and angry

  929. with somebody

  930. you're praying

  931. for like that.

  932. You're seeking

  933. to love them

  934. with your praying.

  935. finally,

  936. remember this

  937. and remember

  938. this often

  939. that you yourself,

  940. you were under

  941. God's holy judgment

  942. for your judgmentalism.

  943. He sees it

  944. for what it is.

  945. And Jesus

  946. bore all

  947. of God's wrath

  948. for your

  949. critical spirit.

  950. The one

  951. who spoke

  952. the words

  953. you hypocrite

  954. also spoke

  955. the words

  956. it is finished.

  957. Paid and full.

  958. Jesus died

  959. for your

  960. judgmentalism.

  961. He hung

  962. on the cross

  963. for it.

  964. Remember

  965. the gospel.

  966. Major

  967. on the major.

  968. First things

  969. first.

  970. Paul says

  971. in 1 Corinthians 15

  972. I present

  973. to you

  974. that which

  975. is of first

  976. importance.

  977. Christ died

  978. for your sins

  979. was buried

  980. and on the third

  981. day was raised

  982. from the dead

  983. according to

  984. the scriptures.

  985. That's the main

  986. thing.

  987. Keep the main

  988. thing

  989. the main thing.

  990. And it puts

  991. what we

  992. have opinions

  993. on

  994. whether it's

  995. what we

  996. wear

  997. or the

  998. kind of

  999. music

  1000. we

  1001. want

  1002. to

  1003. sing

  1004. by

  1005. our

  1006. preferred

  1007. candidate

  1008. or our

  1009. theological

  1010. hobby

  1011. horses

  1012. it puts

  1013. it in

  1014. the right

  1015. perspective.

  1016. So when you

  1017. remember often

  1018. what God

  1019. has done

  1020. for you

  1021. in Christ

  1022. that's the

  1023. sweet spot

  1024. that will

  1025. keep you

  1026. humble

  1027. and that

  1028. will help

  1029. you remove

  1030. the log

  1031. so you

  1032. see clearly.

  1033. Let's pray.

  1034. Lord Jesus

  1035. would you

  1036. help us

  1037. to remove

  1038. the logs

  1039. in our

  1040. eyes

  1041. so that

  1042. we can

  1043. see clearly

  1044. and so

  1045. that we

  1046. can actually

  1047. help one

  1048. another

  1049. and build

  1050. one another

  1051. up.

  1052. God we

  1053. entrust this

  1054. to you

  1055. in the name

  1056. of Jesus

  1057. we pray

  1058. Amen.