Sermon
"To Judge, Or Not To Judge? Is that the question?"
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Transcript
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Matt Sear next week is going to come back and come back to that wonderful passage in which Jesus addresses our anxiety.
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And so I will be preaching out of Matthew 7, 1 through 5.
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I was hoping to get to verse 6, but I just, there's not enough time.
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So let me read this for you.
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You've heard this.
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This is the words of Jesus.
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Judge not that you be not judged, for with the judgment you pronounced, you will be judged.
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And with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
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Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?
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Or how can you say to your brother, let me take the speck out of your eye when there is the log in your own eye?
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You hypocrite.
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First, take the log out of your own eye.
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First, take the log out of your own eye.
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And then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.
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We are a judgmental bunch.
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We have a knack for finding fault in each other.
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In fact, there's a story of two pastors.
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They didn't know they were pastors, but they happened to be down by the marina together,
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and they kind of bumped into one another.
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And one of the pastors started a conversation with the other, and it went something like this.
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Are you saved or are you unsaved?
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Well, I'm saved.
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Hallelujah!
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Praise the Lord!
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Do you believe in believer's baptism or infant baptism?
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Well, I believe in believer's baptism.
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Hallelujah!
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Praise the Lord!
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Do you dunk or do you sprinkle?
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We dunk.
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Oh, hallelujah!
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Praise the Lord!
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Are you a Calvinist or an Arminian?
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Well, I lean towards Calvinism.
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Praise the Lord!
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Amen!
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Are you a complementarian or an egalitarian?
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Well, I'm a complementarian.
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Amen!
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Praise the Lord, brother!
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Are you a continuationist or a cessationist?
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Well, I'm a continuationist.
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Praise the Lord, brother!
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Are you old earth or young earth?
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Well, I lean towards old earth.
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Oh, praise the Lord, brother!
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All right!
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All right!
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Are you pre-mill, post-mill, or aw-mill?
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Lean towards pre-mill.
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Amen, brother!
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Are you hymns only or contemporary worship songs only?
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Well, we're both.
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Amen, brother!
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Are you committed to expository preaching or do you topical stuff?
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Well, we do both, but we relatively emphasize expository preaching.
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Amen, brother!
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Amen!
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Do you do small groups or Sunday school?
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Well, we do small groups right now, but maybe Sunday school.
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Amen, brother!
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Do you observe communion weekly or communion monthly?
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Well, we observe communion monthly.
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What?
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And you call yourself a pastor?
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And you call yourself a pastor?
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And you call yourself a pastor?
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And he walks off.
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We have a knack for finding fault in each other, don't we?
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If it's not doctrinal matters, it's what we wear to church.
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If it's not what we wear to church, it's what we sing at church.
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And if it's not what we sing at church, it's who's the candidate you're going to vote for on November 8th?
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That can be a source of some fault finding.
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This morning, Jesus is telling his followers that they are not to be characterized by judgmentalism.
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We're not to be harsh in our judgments.
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We're to hold our opinions, even our theological convictions, with humility.
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So whether it's about what you dress, or the worship music we think we should have, or how are you going to vote,
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or whether you're pre-mill, post-mill, or ah-mill, Jesus calls us to a clear-eyed humility.
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And this morning, we're going to see Jesus kind of walk through an argument.
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So four steps in this argument.
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And there's these key words.
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He starts by saying, judge not.
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A cease and desist order from our king.
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So judge not.
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And then he says, for, in verse 2.
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And he gives us the reason why we're not to judge.
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And then he does this whole speck in the eye, log in the eye.
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By this kind of ridiculous kind of example.
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But he's making a point.
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And then, in verse 5, he lands this plane.
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And the word, you.
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You.
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Jesus' followers are not to be characterized by a prideful judgmentalism.
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We're to be marked by humility.
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And really help people.
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So, let's dig in.
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Matthew chapter 7, verse 1.
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Two words.
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Judge not.
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These two words are carrying a lot of weight.
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They're coming off the lips of our king.
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Judge not.
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It's a cease and desist order.
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Do you know what a cease and desist order is?
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If, like, you're putting a, something on the back of your house.
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And you're digging in.
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And the city of Kenosha says a cease and desist order.
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This is for you.
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That means you immediately need to stop your work.
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So that they can bring people in.
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Make sure it's okay.
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Then you can start up again.
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Well, this, judge not, is a immediate, urgent, cease and desist order for Jesus' disciples.
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Not just in the first century, but in the 21st century.
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For us.
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He, in all of his authority, is commanding us to stop judging each other.
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You'll notice the word brothers repeated throughout this.
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He's thinking in-house, among the family.
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But here's the deal.
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We need to answer this question.
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What does Jesus mean by judge?
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When he says judge not, what does he mean?
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Is he talking about all judging in general?
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Or just a certain kind of judging?
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Well, that word judge in the Greek language has a range of meanings.
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And it all has to do with evaluating.
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Sometimes it means discretion.
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Sometimes it means condemning somebody.
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Sometimes it means judgmentalism.
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This over-the-top, critical, kind of dealing with the detail of my new things and making a big deal about it.
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And what Jesus is addressing here, and what he is forbidding, is that judgmental spirit that can show up in many of us.
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That critical spirit.
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Judgmentalism is a manifestation of pride.
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Ungracious and unloving.
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Judgmentalism is a manifestation of pride.
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It comes from the inside.
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It's a manifestation of pride that shows up in a quickness to find fault in others.
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And if that's not enough, finding fault in others with no intent to help.
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Judgmentalism is a readiness to find fault in others.
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So what Jesus is forbidding here is this prideful attitude in evaluating one another.
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Lifting yourself up over someone else in judgment.
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So the question we need to ask now is, how do we know that's the case?
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How do we know that that's what Jesus is forbidding right here?
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Well, there are some compelling clues from the context that make it clear.
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And so if you look at verse 5, we read, you hypocrite, first take the log out from your own eye,
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and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.
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So what Jesus is saying here is, get the log out so you can judge clearly.
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So he's not forbidding all judging here.
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He's forbidding a certain kind of judgment.
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Log-eye judgment.
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And then in verse 6, he goes on to say,
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do not give dogs what is holy and do not throw your pearls before pigs.
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He's talking about people.
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Dogs and pigs.
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He's asking us to exercise judgment for those people who are resistant and hostile to the things of God.
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It's like, don't give them what's holy.
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They don't want it.
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In fact, they'll turn on you, shred you, if you do.
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He's calling us to exercise judgment.
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In chapter 7, verse 15, Jesus tells us to watch out for false prophets
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with the expectation we'll be able to judge between true and false prophets.
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He's calling us to exercise discretion, to make a judgment, clear judgment.
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Perhaps the most compelling clue is back in verse 5.
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It's the very beginning.
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He says, you hypocrite.
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You hypocrite.
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First, remove the log from your own eye.
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What Jesus is forbidding here is hypocritical judgment.
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I mean, he's been going after hypocrisy all throughout the Sermon on the Mount.
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We're going to come back to that when we get to verse 5.
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So, it seems like the clues from this context are making things pretty clear
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that Jesus is forbidding a judgmentalism, not just all judgment.
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Which is relieving.
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Because that means we still get to exercise wise, loving judgment in discernment.
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We just need to steer clear of this prideful judgmentalism.
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So, the kind of evaluation that we're being told not to do is fault-finding, selfish, unloving.
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Jerry Bridges in his book, Respectable Sins, calls judgmentalism
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when we equate our opinions with truth.
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We elevate our opinions to a point where we think that they're right all the time.
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Judgmentalism is an elevation of oneself over another.
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And oftentimes this takes place in majoring on the minors,
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making mountains over molehills,
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breaking fellowship over how many times a month
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you observe communion.
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In the middle of this word pride,
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because at the heart of judgmentalism is pride,
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and at the middle of that word pride,
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five-letter word, is the word I.
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I is at the middle of pride.
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Me is at the center.
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Judgmentalism is a manifestation of pride.
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And God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.
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And so, consider the effects of a judgmental critical spirit.
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It demeans the one being judged.
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Does God want that?
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No.
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It puffs up the one who is doing the judging.
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Does God want that?
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No.
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Judgmentalism results not in building up other people,
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but tearing them down.
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It's not constructive.
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It's destructive.
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Does God want that among his people?
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No.
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Over time, a critical spirit will have a withering effect
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on those closest to you.
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It exasperates people either into forced compliance
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or fierce rebellion.
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It's either the shrug soldier effect
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or it's the raised fist effect.
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Does God want either of those?
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No.
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He wants peace for his people.
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He wants unity held together by a bond of peace.
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He wants there to be love among his people,
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even when we disagree.
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We can disagree.
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We can disagree.
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We can disagree in love.
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What we can't do is go judgmental on each other.
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So what is Jesus commanding us here?
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He's saying, judge not.
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Do not be quick to find fault in each other.
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Now, if you're sitting there in your pew right now
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and you're saying,
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whoa, I think Jesus is speaking to me this morning,
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what you need to hear is that cease and desist order.
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You need to stop that now.
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Jesus is saying, judge not.
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Stop it.
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Are you starting to feel the weight of it?
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So that's the first move here.
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Jesus says, cease and desist this judgmentalism.
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It has no place among my people.
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The next step is that Jesus provides a reason
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why we're not to be judgmental with one another.
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And it's clued in by the word for in verse 2.
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So Jesus says, judge not that you be not judged for,
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it's a reason,
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for with the judgment you pronounce,
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you will be judged in the measure you use,
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it will be measured to you.
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So Jesus is saying this,
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don't be merciless in your judgment of others
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because you will be judged without mercy.
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That's the reason he's giving.
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It's a sober reason.
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It's a warning.
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Jesus is emphasizing this with a play on words
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and he can't see it in English.
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You can see a little bit of it in English.
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In English, we read,
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for you, for with the judgment you pronounce,
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you will be judged.
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You see how the word judge is repeated.
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And then we read,
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and with the measure you use,
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it will be measured to you.
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And so you see how the word measure is repeated.
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And essentially, judge and measure
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are being used synonymously
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to talk about this judgmentalism.
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But in the original language,
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it reads like this.
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For with the judgment you judge,
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you will be judged.
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And with the measure you measure,
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you will be measured.
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It's even more emphatic.
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It's a play on words.
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It's a repeating of ideas.
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To judge and to measure
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are getting at the same thing.
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It's a kind of evaluation
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with which you evaluate others.
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What you evaluate others with,
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you will be evaluated with.
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So how do you evaluate others?
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How do you judge others?
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With what do you measure others by?
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And then we've got to ask,
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well, who's doing the evaluating of me
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if I'm evaluating of others?
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Is it other people?
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Well, it could be.
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There's a tendency
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when we're critical of others
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that other people tend to be critical of us.
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Is that who Jesus is talking about?
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Well, it's kind of vague.
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Because it can also mean God.
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And if we keep with the overarching
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kind of theme and motif of the passage,
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it most likely is God.
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And if it is God,
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then it should give us considerable pause
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when we render judgment on someone.
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We are to be slow to judge.
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What Jesus is saying here is,
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in keeping with what he said
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in Matthew 6, verses 14 and 15.
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Remember that?
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He says,
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For if you forgive others their trespasses,
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your heavenly Father will also forgive you.
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But if you do not forgive others their trespasses,
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neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
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And what he's warning his followers is,
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what will happen if they're not forgiving of others?
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It's God will not forgive them
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because their unforgiving spirit
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reveals that they're not followers of Jesus.
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And a similar principle is in play here.
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If someone persists in judgmentalism,
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it reveals their heart
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and God will be merciless in his judgment.
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He will judge them with the kind of judgment
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they have judged others.
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Dr. Don Carson,
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who is a professor down at Trinity,
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said it this way regarding this verse.
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A judgmental attitude excludes us from God's pardon
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for it betrays our unbroken spirit.
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It reveals we have a critical spirit,
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not a poverty of spirit.
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Blessed are those who are poor in spirit,
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for theirs is the kingdom of God.
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Now, this kind of judgmentalism
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has been happening in churches for a long time.
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If you trace it all the way back
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to the first century in Rome,
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there was a Christian church in Rome,
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a bunch of believers.
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And they were kind of sniping at each other
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because of different foods.
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Some said you should eat.
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Some said you shouldn't eat.
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Different holidays.
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Some said you should observe them.
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Some said you shouldn't.
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In Romans 14.10, Paul rebukes them all.
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He says,
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Why do you pass judgment on your brother?
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Or why do you despise your brother?
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And so he's linking this judgmentalism
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with despising your brother.
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It's unloving.
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And then he goes on to remind them,
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For we will stand before the judgment seat of God.
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So then each of us will give an account
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of himself to God.
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Each of us will give an account
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before our Father.
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God himself.
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So what we need to keep in mind
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and why this reason is so sobering
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is that how we treat other people now,
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how we judge them and measure them,
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that's going to be part of our judgment
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when we go before God.
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It's really sobering.
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Let me illustrate it this way.
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So we have these repeated plays on word.
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Jesus says,
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For with the judgment you judge,
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you will be judged.
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With the measure you measure,
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you will be measured.
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So there's these six repeated words.
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And here's how I want you to think about them.
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Think about these six repeated words
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as those orange and white sawhorses in a road.
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And they're put there to say,
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Watch out!
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And what Jesus is saying
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with these repeated words is,
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Don't go down the road of judgmentalism.
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Don't go down that road.
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In fact, what he's saying is,
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Turn around.
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Stop.
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Turn around.
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That is not a road you want to go down.
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You're going to have to face God someday.
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So let me ask you this.
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Let's say someone calls
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your favorite presidential candidate a moron.
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What would happen
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if when you were tempted
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to be critical back,
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what came into your mind
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was standing before your God
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and having to give an account.
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This word for
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is a sober reason
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to stop our judgmentalism.
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So Jesus moves from
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this sober warning for
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to a rather ridiculous example.
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In verses 3 and 4,
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let's read it.
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Why do you see the speck
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that is in your brother's eye,
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but do not notice the log
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that is in your own eye?
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Or how can you say to your brother,
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Let me take this speck out of your eye
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when there is the log in your own eye?
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It's almost cartoon-like.
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One commentator talked about it
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as being Jesus' employing humor here.
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But it would be funny
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if it were not for it being about judgmentalism,
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which is not funny.
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What Jesus is saying here
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with this very creative illustration
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is that those who are being judgmental,
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they don't see things clearly.
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their view is obstructed.
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And even worse,
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they tend not to be aware
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that they've got a log in their eye.
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They're unaware of their obstructed sight.
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So if you look at verses 3 and 4,
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there's this brother with something in his eye.
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Jesus calls it a speck.
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It's probably a speck of sawdust.
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Remember, Jesus was a carpenter by trade.
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He knew what it was like to cut wood.
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And I'm guessing he probably got
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a speck of sawdust in his eye.
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And so what Jesus is not denying
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is there's going to be situations
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where we need to help one another
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get specks out of our eyes.
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And so Jesus is saying
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there's not a place for that.
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There is a place for that.
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But the problem is
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that the one who volunteers to help,
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look at verse 4,
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or how can you say to your brother,
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let me take the speck out of your eye.
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The problem is the one who volunteers
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has a log in his eye.
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Now that word log
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is not referring to a 2x4.
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It's referring to a support beam.
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A support beam.
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In a first century Palestinian home
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that held up the roof,
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it would be the equivalent for us
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as an eye beam.
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Or two 2x12s nailed together
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in order to hold
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a considerable amount of weight.
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It is a ridiculous picture to imagine.
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Someone walking around
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with an eye beam in their eye?
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A support beam?
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Jesus is obviously making a contrast
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between the speck and the beam.
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And in the contrast,
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what it's bringing out is
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the seriousness of judgmentalism.
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Because that's what the log is.
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And notice that though the brother
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with the speck in the eye
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apparently knows he's got a speck in his eye,
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the brother with the log in his eye
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is completely unaware of it.
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That's the effect of pride.
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Pride blinds us.
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Those who are judgmental
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are often blind to their own judgmentalism.
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Let me ask you a question.
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Of those two brothers,
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which one is in the greatest need?
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The one with the log in his eye.
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That's the worst problem of the two.
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And what's crazy about this
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is that the one in greatest need
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with the eye beam in his eye
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is actually trying to help out
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the one with the speck in his eye.
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It's completely ridiculous.
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And that's Jesus' point.
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For a Christian who is blinded
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by their own judgmentalism
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to try to help a brother or sister in Christ
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with a speck in their eye,
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it's ridiculous
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because it's presumptuous.
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So from these two verses
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we can draw out that judgmentalism,
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this quickness,
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quickness to find fault in one another.
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It's a serious problem.
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It's eye beam problem.
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It blinds Christians from seeing themselves.
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It's what pride does.
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It prevents Christians
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from really helping one another.
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Do you really think that someone
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with an eye beam
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is going to be able to help someone
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with a speck in their eye?
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So let me ask you a question.
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Have you ever thought about judgmentalism this way?
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Are you starting to feel the weight of it?
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How serious this is in God's sight?
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So in this ridiculous example,
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Jesus' point is
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how ridiculous judgmentalism is in God's eyes.
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I mean, after all,
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God alone knows what's going on in each of us.
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So now in verse 5,
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Jesus in this last step
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calls us to a clear-sighted humility.
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The solution to log-eye syndrome,
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this judgmentalism,
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is a humble repentance.
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So in verse 5, Jesus says,
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you hypocrite.
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First take the log out of your own eye
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and then you will see clearly
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to take the speck out of your brother's eye.
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So let's just say that you're sitting there
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and you're realizing you have a tendency
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of being judgmental with other people,
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with other Christians.
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And with that growing sense,
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you have this also kind of growing weight
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that that is grievous in God's sight.
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That's actually a good thing.
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God is doing a work in your heart.
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He wants to help you.
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He wants to rid you of something.
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That's his kindness to you.
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And so you're realizing you tend to rush
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into making harsh,
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unmerciful judgments about others.
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Remember, judgmentalism is,
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it's a temptation common to man
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because it's got pride at its root.
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We equate our own opinions with the truth.
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So we've got to ask the question,
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what must we do?
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What step do we take
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in order to obey Jesus'
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cease and desist order?
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What do we need to do
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in order to judge not?
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If the heart of judgmentalism is pride,
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some kind of inflated view of yourself,
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the solution will be humbling yourself,
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seeing yourself as God sees you.
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So Jesus calls us to humble himself.
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And this passage,
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he says something that is difficult to hear.
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Remember, Jesus is speaking to his disciples.
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And Jesus, in the movement of this passage,
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he starts in verses 1 and 2 by saying,
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y'all.
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He's talking to all of his disciples.
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And then in verse 3,
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he goes from y'all to you.
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And in verse 5, he says,
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you hypocrite.
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If you're being judgmental,
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regularly giving vent to critical,
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a critical spirit to others,
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or gossiping about others,
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Jesus is saying,
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you are a hypocrite.
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Now, can you imagine Jesus himself
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calling you out as a hypocrite?
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If you are judging others ungraciously,
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that's exactly what he's doing.
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And what you need to understand is that
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judgmentalism is hypocrisy.
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Let's ask this question.
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It's a basic question.
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What is so hypocritical about judgmentalism?
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Do you remember the word hypocrite
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comes from the Greek theater
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in which actors would change from character to character
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by putting different masks over their face?
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And so they would put a different face on
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depending on who their character was.
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So what Jesus is saying is
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judgmentalism is putting on a false face.
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It's thinking that you are healthy
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and able to help others with their specs
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when in fact,
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you're the one in greatest need of help.
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You're the one in greatest danger.
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You've got the bigger problem.
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That's the hypocrisy.
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And it would do us all well to take heed of it.
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If you struggle with judgmentalism,
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and I have, I do,
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the first thing you need to know
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is that it is hypocritical.
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But it's not enough to know it.
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There's a step of humility
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of confessing it.
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Confessing it to God.
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Keith, earlier when we were worshiping,
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quoted 1 John 1.9.
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If we confess our sins,
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he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins
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and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
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We have an advocate, Jesus.
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He is our propitiation.
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That word confess,
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it literally means same word.
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If we call judgmentalism
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the same word that God calls it,
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we're confessing it as sin.
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And what does God call judgmentalism?
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He calls it hypocrisy.
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He calls it hypocrisy.
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And so the first step of humility here,
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after being confronted with this,
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you hypocrite,
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is to confess it.
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Is to say,
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oh Lord Jesus,
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you are right.
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You're right.
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I'm prone to it.
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Even I've given myself to it.
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You're right.
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It's wrong.
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It's hypocritical.
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So you call it sin.
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And then you realize
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what this same Jesus has done for you.
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This same Jesus,
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who says you hypocrite,
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on the cross,
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said,
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it is finished.
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I paid for that.
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Forgiven in full.
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So you call it sin.
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You call it forgiven.
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And you call on God to change you.
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And so the next step,
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after confessing it to God,
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calling it what it is,
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the next step
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is to take the log out of your own eye.
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Once you've confessed it,
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you've positioned yourself
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to remove it.
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Because if you don't see
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judgmentalism
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as sin
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against God,
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you're not going to be compelled
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to do anything about it.
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But if you see it
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as God sees it,
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you're going to be compelled
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to get rid of it.
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Or what the Apostle Paul says,
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to put it to death.
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It's a step of humility.
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It's a step of coming under
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what God says.
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So when we remove
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remove the log
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out of our own eye,
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we are repenting
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of judgmentalism.
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And in order for you
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to see the log,
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I want to help you.
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I want to help you to see it.
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I want to help you see
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judgmentalism in your own life.
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So I've got three questions for you.
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Three questions that are
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intended to help you see
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judgmentalism in your life.
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In your life.
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Don't be thinking
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your spouse's life.
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Don't be thinking
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your children's life.
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Don't be thinking
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your pastor's life.
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Be thinking your life.
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Evaluate yourself.
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Three questions.
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First one is this.
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Ask yourself,
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what are the topics
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in which I'm tempted
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to be quick
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to find fault in others?
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What are the topics?
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Maybe it's politics.
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Maybe it's social issues.
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Maybe it's sports.
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Someone says something
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about your pack
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and man,
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you are like
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pulling your sword out.
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Maybe it's how you dress
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on a Sunday morning.
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Maybe it's the songs
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we sing on a Sunday morning.
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Maybe it is your favorite
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theological point.
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Maybe it's the roles
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of men and women
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in the church.
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Maybe it's do the gifts
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exist or not.
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Maybe it's you hear
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the word predestination
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and you want to fight.
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Here's a big clue
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as to paying attention
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of where you will be tempted
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to be critical.
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What are the things
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that you value most?
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What are the topics
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that are near and dearest
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to your heart?
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Be paying attention
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to those things.
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Second question.
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Ask yourself,
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who are the people
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I'm tempted to harshly
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criticize most frequently?
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Who are the people?
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Do you have a regular
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set of targets?
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Your spouse,
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your children,
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your church,
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your elders,
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your life group leader?
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Maybe it's your supervisor
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at work.
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Maybe it's your parents
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or your siblings.
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Maybe it's your teachers.
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Or maybe it's your
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government officials.
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Or maybe it's your Facebook friends.
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Who are the people
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that you're tempted
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to harshly criticize?
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That will help you
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kind of narrow the field down.
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It's an area to consider
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when you'll be tempted
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to criticize.
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Third area.
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Ask yourself,
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what's going on inside of you
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when you're tempted
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to be critical?
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For example,
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are you tired?
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Or are you stressed out?
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Are you impatient?
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When you are sharp,
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when you're harsh,
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when you're rash,
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ungracious,
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what's going on inside of you?
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Do you feel insecure?
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If you feel insecure,
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sometimes the way
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that you push back
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is by unfair criticism.
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Do you feel angry?
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Do you feel out of control?
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Are you disgusted by someone?
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Do you feel overlooked?
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Are you offended?
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These are all ripe opportunities
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to get critical real fast.
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Now, if you're experiencing
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any of these,
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do not be surprised
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that you'll be tempted
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in those moments
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to react harshly
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and to criticize
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in a manner
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that's unpleasing to God.
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Oftentimes,
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the first thing we go
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when we're not getting
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something we want
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is we want to blame somebody.
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You're the reason for this.
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So we've identified
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some areas where
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you'll likely be tempted
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to judge sinfully, right?
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And if you take that
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whole list together,
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it might be overwhelming.
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So just pick one.
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Start somewhere.
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Start paying attention to it.
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And now what I want you to do
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is I want to help you
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to know how to humbly fight
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this prideful judgmentalism
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because I'm guessing
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it's going to come up
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later today
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or sometime this week.
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I want to help you to fight.
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Humbly fight.
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But before I do,
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let me just say this.
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This is about removing
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the log from your eye
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so that you can see clearly
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and help people out.
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So God wants to get
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something done here
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for the building up
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of our body.
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So with that said,
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I'm going to wrap up
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by pointing you to
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four things,
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four recommendations
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to remove the log
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out of your eye
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so you can help others.
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First one is this.
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Ask God to weed out
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your prideful,
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critical spirit
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and to plant in its place
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a poverty of spirit.
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Ask God to weed it out.
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To remove the pride
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and replace it with humility.
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Remember,
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a critical spirit
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and a poverty of spirit
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do not coexist.
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Kick one out
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so that God
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can cultivate the other.
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Blessed are the poor
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in spirit,
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the humble,
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for they shall see,
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for theirs is the kingdom of God.
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So ask God
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to weed it out
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and to plant in humility.
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Two,
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slow your judgment down.
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Slow that train down.
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If you're quick
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to find fault
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in other people,
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humility means
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slowing it down.
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Believe the best.
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Seek to understand.
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Get the right weight
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on the issue.
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If you find yourself
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harsh,
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humility means
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being gentle.
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A tender hearted.
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See others
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as God sees them.
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Not as your enemies.
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Don't demonize them.
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See them
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as God sees them.
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Get perspective.
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Slow the judgment train down.
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Third recommendation.
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You know,
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we went through
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that list of people
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that you would be tempted
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to be critical of.
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You know that list?
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Start praying
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God's fullness
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of blessing
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and peace
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on that person.
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The person
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you're tempted
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to be critical of,
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ask God
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to bless them
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richly.
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Go number six,
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24 through 26,
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that God,
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would you cause
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your face
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to shine upon
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this person
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all the days
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of their life?
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Go show them
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your goodness.
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It's really hard
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to be critical
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and angry
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with somebody
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you're praying
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for like that.
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You're seeking
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to love them
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with your praying.
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finally,
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remember this
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and remember
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this often
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that you yourself,
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you were under
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God's holy judgment
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for your judgmentalism.
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He sees it
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for what it is.
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And Jesus
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bore all
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of God's wrath
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for your
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critical spirit.
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The one
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who spoke
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the words
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you hypocrite
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also spoke
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the words
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it is finished.
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Paid and full.
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Jesus died
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for your
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judgmentalism.
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He hung
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on the cross
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for it.
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Remember
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the gospel.
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Major
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on the major.
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First things
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first.
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Paul says
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in 1 Corinthians 15
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I present
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to you
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that which
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is of first
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importance.
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Christ died
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for your sins
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was buried
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and on the third
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day was raised
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from the dead
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according to
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the scriptures.
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That's the main
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thing.
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Keep the main
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thing
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the main thing.
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And it puts
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what we
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have opinions
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on
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whether it's
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what we
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wear
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or the
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kind of
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music
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we
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want
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to
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sing
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by
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our
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preferred
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candidate
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or our
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theological
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hobby
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horses
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it puts
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it in
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the right
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perspective.
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So when you
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remember often
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what God
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has done
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for you
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in Christ
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that's the
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sweet spot
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that will
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keep you
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humble
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and that
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will help
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you remove
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the log
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so you
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see clearly.
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Let's pray.
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Lord Jesus
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would you
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help us
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to remove
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the logs
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in our
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eyes
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so that
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we can
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see clearly
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and so
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that we
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can actually
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help one
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another
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and build
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one another
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up.
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God we
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entrust this
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to you
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in the name
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of Jesus
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we pray
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Amen.