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What Are You Wearing?

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  1. Well, I just want to make sure you all know who Jiwon Rai is.

  2. So Jiwon, who led us this morning in worship, he and his wife, Caitlin, down here yonder,

  3. they recently came to our church.

  4. Jiwon is from Nepal, and the way we like to think about it is we are praying for a worship leader,

  5. and God sent one from Nepal.

  6. But they are a dear couple. Their son Sammy is precious, and they've been staying with us for a little while.

  7. And so Jiwon and I were riding our bikes over here this morning, and at one point Jiwon says,

  8. looks at my tie and is like, do I need to wear a tie this morning?

  9. And I said, no, of course not.

  10. Have you ever been turned away from somewhere because you weren't wearing the right thing?

  11. Or maybe you've shown up somewhere before and you realized within a second, you're like, I am so overdressed.

  12. Or it's like, oh no, I shouldn't be wearing flip-flops.

  13. Maybe you get, that wasn't aimed at you.

  14. It wasn't aimed at you.

  15. Now, if God wants to do a work, let him do the work.

  16. But it wasn't aimed at you.

  17. Well, maybe you get an invitation somewhere, and the first question you think of is, well, what am I going to wear to this?

  18. Something happened in my life 22 years ago that changed how I dress.

  19. I married Jenny.

  20. With surprising regularity, I get a question on my way out of the house that goes something like this.

  21. Are you really going to wear that?

  22. We all know it's not a question.

  23. God is at work.

  24. Well, this morning, Jesus asks a question via a parable.

  25. And here's the question that he asks.

  26. There's this king in this wedding feast, and a guy walks in, and this king says to him, friend, friend, how did you get in here without a wedding garment?

  27. In other words, did you not know there's a dress code?

  28. Did you not know there's a dress code to this wedding ceremony, this wedding feast?

  29. Brothers and sisters, friends, did you not know there's a dress code to this wedding feast?

  30. To the kingdom of heaven?

  31. In order to enter the kingdom of heaven, there's a dress code.

  32. Do you know what you need to put on in order to enter the kingdom of heaven?

  33. Do you know what to wear in order to come under God's saving reign?

  34. Well, this morning, we're going to look at a parable.

  35. And this parable tells us how to rightly respond to the gospel invitation that God the king is making to all sinners.

  36. And he's saying, come into this party of salvation.

  37. So what are you wearing?

  38. Would you open up your Bibles to Matthew chapter 22, verses 1 through 14?

    Matthew 22:1–14

  39. And I'll just read through this, and then we'll talk about how we're going to proceed.

  40. And again, Jesus spoke to them in parables, saying,

  41. The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who gave a wedding feast for his son.

  42. And sent his servants to call those who were invited to the wedding feast, and they would not come.

  43. Again, he sent other servants, saying, Tell those who were invited, See, I've prepared my dinner.

  44. My oxen and my fat calves have been slaughtered, and everything is ready.

  45. Come to the wedding feast.

  46. But they paid no attention and went off, one to his farm, another to his business,

  47. while the rest seized the servants, treated them shamefully, and killed them.

  48. The king was angry, and he sent his troops and destroyed those murderers and burned their city.

  49. Then he said to his servants, The wedding feast is ready, but those invited were not worthy.

  50. Go therefore to the main roads and invite to the wedding feast as many as you find.

  51. And those servants went out in the roads and gathered all whom they found, both bad and good.

  52. So the wedding hall was filled with guests.

  53. But when the king came in to look at the guests, he saw there a man who had no wedding garment.

  54. And he said to him, Friend, how did you get in here without a wedding garment?

  55. And this man was speechless.

  56. Then the king said to the attendants, Bind him hand and foot and cast him in the outer darkness.

  57. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.

  58. For many are called, but few are chosen.

  59. Listen, this passage is all about how we are to rightly respond to the invitation to come to the party of salvation.

  60. And so here's how we're going to go through this morning.

  61. We're going to, I'm just going to walk you through the parable.

  62. So I want to make sure all of us are on the same page of what Jesus is saying here.

  63. And then we're going to ask the question, what's the point?

  64. What's the point of this parable?

  65. And then we'll close by saying, what does this mean for us today here in Kenosha, 2017?

  66. So what?

  67. Again, this is all about how to respond to God's gracious invitation to come into the wedding feast.

  68. So let's look at this parable.

  69. Let's walk through it.

  70. In 22.1 we see, and again, Jesus spoke to them.

  71. The them are the Jewish leaders, both the religious leaders and civic leaders.

  72. They're in the temple.

  73. We saw this last week.

  74. Jesus is speaking directly to these Jewish leaders.

  75. And it's to them he's going to speak this parable.

  76. Now remember, this is Tuesday of Passion Week.

  77. And it turns out that Tuesday is an extremely long day for Jesus and his teaching.

  78. So he goes back in the temple.

  79. He teaches these three parables.

  80. And then he's going to kind of respond to some questions of these religious leaders.

  81. And then if that weren't enough, he leaves Jerusalem, goes to the Mount of Olives,

  82. and he speaks what's known as the Olivet Discourse, Matthew 24 and 25.

  83. It all happened on Tuesday.

  84. And then three days later, Jesus is going to get railroaded by the Jewish leaders,

  85. and he's going to be hanging on a Roman cross.

  86. This parable is a third parable in a trio of parables that Jesus spoke to these leaders.

  87. And so they are very much confrontational.

  88. They're very much Jesus asserting his messianic authority.

  89. And there's this one other thing I want you to be aware of.

  90. There is this huge kind of sea change going on with Jesus right now.

  91. Up until this point, John the Baptist was the last prophet of the old covenant.

  92. And Jesus' coming has come to initiate a new covenant.

  93. Do you remember in Matthew 26, just a couple days from where Jesus preaches,

  94. he's going to be doing the Passover with his disciples,

  95. and he's going to hold up a cup, and he's going to say,

  96. this cup is the new covenant in my blood.

  97. And so he's inaugurating a new covenant,

  98. a new way in which God will relate with a new people, the church.

  99. And so here we are on this kind of,

  100. the old covenant is gone out,

  101. and the new covenant is coming in,

  102. and Jesus is bringing it in.

  103. So all this to say, there's a lot going on.

  104. And when we turn our attention here to this parable,

  105. you've got to know up front, this is a rather elaborate parable.

  106. In fact, Jesus develops this parable along three stages.

  107. The first stage, he addresses this invitation malfunction,

  108. verses 2 through 10.

  109. And then he addresses this wardrobe malfunction,

  110. in verses 11 through 13.

  111. And then he addresses some thinking malfunction,

  112. in verse 14.

  113. It's his concluding statement.

  114. So let's dig in.

  115. Verse 2, Jesus begins the parable by saying,

  116. the kingdom of heaven can be compared to.

  117. And so, right out of the gate,

  118. we've got to remember that this parable

  119. is making a point about something.

  120. Jesus is using the parable to teach about a reality.

  121. The reality of the kingdom of heaven.

  122. The kingdom of heaven is God's active, saving reign

  123. in which God is bringing people to himself

  124. and entering into a saving, life-giving relationship

  125. with the living God.

  126. When you come under the saving reign of God,

  127. you get rescued.

  128. You're delivered from sin

  129. and delivered into life.

  130. The life of God in Christ.

  131. And so, what we see here is,

  132. Jesus is setting up this whole thing

  133. by saying the kingdom of heaven can be compared to,

  134. and then in verse 2,

  135. we read what he's going to compare it to.

  136. The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king

  137. who gave a wedding feast for his son.

  138. The salvation is being compared to a party!

  139. A wedding party.

  140. And back in the day,

  141. these wedding feasts would go on for days.

  142. They were big deals.

  143. But this is no ordinary wedding feast.

  144. This is a royal wedding feast.

  145. This is a wedding feast a king is giving for his son.

  146. For us, this would be like a once-in-a-lifetime event.

  147. Back in July 1981,

  148. I'm not sure of those of you who would remember this.

  149. Princess Diana,

  150. Prince Charles got married.

  151. Do you remember that?

  152. Big deal for those of you who do.

  153. Remember that?

  154. That was a big deal.

  155. And it wasn't a wedding feast,

  156. but in St. Paul's Cathedral,

  157. there's this video of the guests

  158. who were there,

  159. who were watching Diana come down that red carpet.

  160. And those guests were the privileged invitees

  161. of this wedding event.

  162. Unforgettable.

  163. It was a royal event,

  164. and the whole world watched.

  165. It was once in a lifetime.

  166. And so what is going on here,

  167. this parable of a wedding feast

  168. thrown by a king for his son?

  169. If we were living there,

  170. it would be like this is the event of our lives.

  171. The king's son is getting married,

  172. and it's a picture of salvation.

  173. In verse 3,

  174. we see the king sending out his servants

  175. to call the privileged who had been invited,

  176. literally called,

  177. to this wedding feast.

  178. Now, you've got to remember,

  179. back in the day,

  180. they did not have cell phones.

  181. There was no email,

  182. no watches.

  183. And so what would happen is,

  184. the protocol is,

  185. for an event like this that happened,

  186. you're the host,

  187. you send out invitations,

  188. and then the day of the event,

  189. you send out your servants to say,

  190. hey, it's happening today.

  191. Come on, it's ready.

  192. Let's rock.

  193. And so what we see going on here

  194. is that the invitations have gone out,

  195. the host, the king,

  196. sends out his servants

  197. to go invite,

  198. to call these people to the feast.

  199. Christ.

  200. But the first surprise that we see is,

  201. the privileged invitees

  202. would not come.

  203. They were unwilling to come.

  204. Now, just to give you a sense already

  205. of who the characters are in this parable,

  206. the king, of course, is God the Father,

  207. the son is Jesus,

  208. the guy speaking this.

  209. This is kind of like an autobiographical parable.

  210. You know, he's referring to himself.

  211. The privileged few

  212. who are inviting to the wedding feast

  213. are represented by the Jewish leaders,

  214. the one Jesus is actually speaking to.

  215. And it's them that are unwilling

  216. to come to the party

  217. that the king is throwing for the son.

  218. This wedding feast is a picture of salvation,

  219. and at the center of this feast is the son.

  220. Jesus is at the center of our salvation.

  221. In verse 4,

  222. after the king gets word back

  223. that nobody's coming,

  224. he resends graciously,

  225. reinvites everybody,

  226. sends his servants back out,

  227. and he says,

  228. make sure you make it sound really good

  229. what it is.

  230. He's like,

  231. tell them about the oxen

  232. and the fattened calves,

  233. tell them everything's ready,

  234. it's going to be a blast,

  235. tell them that it's all ready to go.

  236. Come to the wedding feast

  237. in honor of my son.

  238. Make sure they all know.

  239. What we see here is this king

  240. wanting to share,

  241. these people to share in his goodness.

  242. Come into my celebration over my son.

  243. Come into this wonderful event.

  244. I've provided everything you need.

  245. You just come.

  246. Come into this.

  247. And what's shocking is that

  248. these people don't come.

  249. In fact,

  250. in verses 5 and 6,

  251. we see descriptions

  252. of their not coming.

  253. In verse 5 we read,

  254. but they paid no attention

  255. to the servants,

  256. and they went off,

  257. one to his farm,

  258. another to his business.

  259. It's essentially saying,

  260. you know,

  261. I've got more,

  262. thanks for the invitation,

  263. I'm sure it's going to be a blast,

  264. but really,

  265. I need to get back to my farm.

  266. I need to get back to my business.

  267. That's got priority

  268. over this once-in-a-lifetime event

  269. thrown by the king of all.

  270. I'm just going to say no.

  271. And then the rest

  272. of those invitees,

  273. we read in verse 6,

  274. that they treated

  275. the servants shamefully,

  276. even killing them.

  277. Now that should ring

  278. a little bell from last week

  279. in the parable of the tenants.

  280. In the parable of the tenants,

  281. we have this father

  282. who sends these servants

  283. to the vineyard,

  284. and those working the vineyard,

  285. remember what they do

  286. to the servants?

  287. They beat them up,

  288. they kill them,

  289. like whatever.

  290. And so what we have here

  291. is a thread being Jesus

  292. is pulling through

  293. these parables.

  294. And so what these servants

  295. represent are the Old Testament prophets.

  296. John the Baptist, of course,

  297. was the last prophet

  298. of the Old Covenant.

  299. And do you remember

  300. how he died?

  301. He had his head removed

  302. because he was speaking

  303. to Herod

  304. about the unrighteousness

  305. of taking his brother's wife,

  306. Herodias.

  307. And it was John the Baptist

  308. who was proclaiming,

  309. repent for the kingdom

  310. of heaven is near.

  311. So we see these responses

  312. and they're surprising responses.

  313. And then in verse 7,

  314. if you look at verse 7,

  315. the king was angry

  316. and he sent his troops

  317. and destroyed those murderers

  318. and burned their city.

  319. their rejection

  320. and their treatment

  321. of the servants

  322. kindled the king's wrath.

  323. So in this parable,

  324. we see God's,

  325. this gracious invitation

  326. as well as authoritative justice.

  327. He sends a detachment of soldiers

  328. who kill those people

  329. who murdered the servants

  330. and he sets ablaze their city.

  331. And I don't know about you,

  332. but when I was initially reading

  333. about this,

  334. I'm like, man,

  335. that's a seriously strong reaction

  336. for people not coming

  337. to your party.

  338. But it's more than that.

  339. There's more going on here

  340. than people refusing

  341. a party invitation.

  342. This is more than saying no

  343. to a party.

  344. This is a rejection of authority.

  345. This is a rejection

  346. of the authority of the king.

  347. This is a rejection

  348. of a gracious invitation

  349. from the one king

  350. to come and participate

  351. in the events of the lifetime.

  352. What it is,

  353. is rebellion.

  354. It's insurrection.

  355. The killing of his servants.

  356. It's an unwillingness

  357. to live under the king's reign.

  358. The reference Jesus makes

  359. to the setting ablaze

  360. of the city.

  361. Some theologians believe

  362. that it's an allusion

  363. to the destruction

  364. of Jerusalem,

  365. which will just take place

  366. a couple decades

  367. from Jesus saying this

  368. in 70 AD.

  369. And I'm a little bit,

  370. I'm a little bit,

  371. I lean that way

  372. because Jesus,

  373. on this same day,

  374. on the mountain of olives,

  375. speaks of the destruction

  376. of Jerusalem

  377. in Matthew 24, verse 2.

    Matthew 24:2

  378. There's judgment

  379. in the air

  380. with these words.

  381. And what our sense is,

  382. the backdrop here,

  383. is God is turning away

  384. from the people

  385. under the old covenant

  386. who've refused him

  387. over and over again.

  388. And he's now

  389. turning to a new people

  390. of a new covenant

  391. who will receive him.

  392. But what we see

  393. going on here

  394. is a God who is,

  395. a God who invites,

  396. come to the wedding feast.

  397. And then there are consequences

  398. for rejecting

  399. his invitation.

  400. Verse 8,

  401. the king says to his servants,

  402. the wedding feast is ready,

  403. but those invited

  404. were not worthy.

  405. Referring to all those people

  406. who've rejected the invitation.

  407. They were unwilling to come.

  408. That word worthy

  409. shows up in Matthew

  410. a few different times.

  411. And there's one point

  412. where it shows up

  413. in concentration.

  414. Listen to Matthew chapter 10,

    Matthew 10:37–38

  415. verses 37 through 38.

  416. Whoever loves father or mother

  417. more than me,

  418. this is Jesus speaking,

  419. is not worthy of me.

  420. And whoever loves son

  421. or daughter more than me

  422. is not worthy of me.

  423. And whoever does not

  424. take his cross

  425. and follow me

  426. is not worthy of me.

  427. If you reject

  428. the invitation of God

  429. to come to the wedding feast

  430. of the son,

  431. you're not worthy of the son.

  432. Verse 9,

  433. after rejecting those

  434. who were initially invited,

  435. he says something,

  436. another surprising thing

  437. to his servants.

  438. He's like,

  439. okay,

  440. these folks aren't going.

  441. Let's regroup.

  442. Here's what I want you to do.

  443. Go, therefore,

  444. to the main roads

  445. and invite,

  446. literally call,

  447. to the wedding feast

  448. as many as you find.

  449. Those main roads,

  450. those would be like

  451. the distance road.

  452. That's like the,

  453. that would be like

  454. the intersection

  455. on 94 and 75.

  456. Way out there.

  457. That big intersection,

  458. those crossroads,

  459. the byways

  460. and the highways.

  461. Jesus is like,

  462. you guys go out.

  463. The king's saying,

  464. you go out

  465. and you get as many

  466. as you're willing

  467. to fill this,

  468. this marriage hall

  469. to celebrate

  470. this wedding feast

  471. of my son.

  472. In verse 10,

  473. we see the servants

  474. go out into the roads,

  475. into the crossroads,

  476. and they gather

  477. whom they found.

  478. And what Jesus

  479. in this parable

  480. makes clear is

  481. they're both

  482. bad and good.

  483. And what that

  484. is getting at is

  485. there's a mix

  486. of guests

  487. in the wedding hall.

  488. They have responded.

  489. They have come,

  490. but it's a mix

  491. of people

  492. in the wedding hall.

  493. So the king

  494. fills the wedding hall

  495. in verse 10

  496. with those

  497. who've responded

  498. to this second invitation

  499. to a bigger group

  500. of people.

  501. And by this point

  502. in the parable,

  503. we've had three surprises.

  504. Surprise number one,

  505. those who were

  506. originally invited

  507. refused to come.

  508. Second,

  509. those who refused

  510. to come

  511. were destroyed.

  512. Third,

  513. their judgment

  514. and destruction,

  515. their refusing,

  516. it opens the door

  517. to a whole new group

  518. of people

  519. on the crossroads

  520. to be invited

  521. to the wedding feast.

  522. the first invitation

  523. to that original group.

  524. Think of that

  525. as like the old covenant

  526. established in Moses.

  527. And this second invitation

  528. is the new covenant,

  529. the gospel invitation

  530. that goes to everyone

  531. on the planet.

  532. The parable doesn't end

  533. here though.

  534. The parable continues.

  535. So there's a second stage

  536. of the parable

  537. and that's in verses

  538. 11 through 13.

  539. Verse 11,

  540. the king comes

  541. to the wedding hall

  542. to survey all the guests

  543. that his servants

  544. have brought.

  545. He wants to check it out.

  546. And the part

  547. of the parable,

  548. this part of the parable

  549. has some similarities

  550. with some other parables

  551. in Matthew,

  552. Matthew 13.

  553. The parable of the weeds

  554. in the parable

  555. of the dragnet.

  556. And what happens

  557. in those parables

  558. is that there's

  559. this big harvest

  560. of something

  561. and it's a mixed harvest

  562. and as a result

  563. there is a sifting out,

  564. a sorting out.

  565. And so what it looks

  566. like is going on here

  567. is there's a bringing together

  568. of a mixed group

  569. of people

  570. and now what we're going

  571. to see this king do

  572. is do a little sorting out.

  573. It happens

  574. when the king's eyes

  575. fall on those invited

  576. and one stands out

  577. because he's not wearing

  578. a wedding garment.

  579. Now, I'm sure you've got

  580. an invitation before

  581. to go somewhere.

  582. And on those invitations,

  583. oftentimes,

  584. there's some instructions

  585. for what you should wear.

  586. For example,

  587. you might read something

  588. like business casual dress

  589. requested

  590. or formal attire

  591. necessary

  592. or just come as you are,

  593. very casual.

  594. The attire

  595. of a first century

  596. royal wedding feast

  597. would be

  598. you wear

  599. a wedding garment.

  600. you wear

  601. something different

  602. than your normal

  603. everyday work clothes.

  604. You've got to change

  605. out of your sweat outfit

  606. and you've got to change

  607. into

  608. some clothing

  609. that's appropriate

  610. for this event.

  611. And so,

  612. as the word went out

  613. to invite

  614. all of these people

  615. from the byways

  616. and highways

  617. and crossways,

  618. it would have been

  619. understood

  620. that to come

  621. to a royal

  622. wedding feast,

  623. you've got to change

  624. before you come in.

  625. You've got to put

  626. something else on.

  627. Well,

  628. if you didn't,

  629. it would insult

  630. the host.

  631. It's like this

  632. man at this wedding feast

  633. is saying,

  634. hey man,

  635. I don't have to change

  636. for you.

  637. Oh,

  638. but you know what?

  639. Those bacon wrapped

  640. water chestnuts,

  641. I love them.

  642. I'll have another one

  643. of those,

  644. but I'm not changing.

  645. In verse 12,

  646. look at what the king does.

  647. He asks

  648. for an explanation.

  649. He asks

  650. for an accounting.

  651. He starts with

  652. friend.

  653. How did you get in here

  654. without a wedding garment?

  655. Did you not know

  656. about the dress code?

  657. Did you not know

  658. that a wedding garment

  659. is required

  660. to enter

  661. this wedding hall

  662. in order to celebrate

  663. the wedding

  664. of my son?

  665. And what we read

  666. in verse 12

  667. is that this man's

  668. response is

  669. he was speechless

  670. and the original

  671. language behind that

  672. is he's muzzled.

  673. He didn't have

  674. anything to say

  675. and it wasn't

  676. a speechlessness

  677. like,

  678. oh,

  679. I had no idea.

  680. Mom's the word.

  681. Not that kind

  682. of speechlessness.

  683. It's not the kind

  684. of speechlessness

  685. that comes from saying

  686. he couldn't afford

  687. his wedding garments.

  688. That's not the issue here.

  689. He was speechless

  690. because he thought

  691. he could skip

  692. over the need

  693. to change

  694. and he didn't think

  695. anyone would notice.

  696. But who noticed?

  697. The king noticed.

  698. It's another snapshot

  699. of judgment.

  700. There's a requirement

  701. to enter into the

  702. wedding feast

  703. of the son.

  704. There's a requirement

  705. to enter the kingdom

  706. of heaven

  707. into salvation.

  708. What is it?

  709. Do I have to do

  710. good works?

  711. Do I need to show

  712. myself as worthy

  713. and so live

  714. this perfect life

  715. and maybe

  716. he'll let me in?

  717. John the Baptist

  718. and Jesus,

  719. when they started

  720. their public ministries,

  721. they started preaching

  722. the same thing.

  723. Repent

  724. for the kingdom

  725. of heaven

  726. is at hand.

  727. Repent.

  728. Repentance

  729. is a kind

  730. of change.

  731. Repentance

  732. is a change

  733. of heart

  734. from trusting

  735. in something

  736. that is unable

  737. to save you.

  738. In fact,

  739. if you're trusting it,

  740. it condemns you

  741. and so you move

  742. from trusting

  743. in something

  744. other than God

  745. to trusting

  746. in the only one

  747. who can save you.

  748. It shows up

  749. in things like

  750. from trusting

  751. in alcohol

  752. to make everything

  753. just right.

  754. You turn from that,

  755. you repent of that

  756. from trusting

  757. and buying things

  758. in order to scratch

  759. that itch

  760. you got inside.

  761. That's not going

  762. to save you.

  763. Trusting in the next

  764. sexual encounter,

  765. that's not going

  766. to fulfill your life.

  767. You've got to turn

  768. from trusting

  769. in your own obedience

  770. to God's commands

  771. in order to make you

  772. acceptable in God's sight.

  773. You've got to repent

  774. of that kind of thinking.

  775. This man is in

  776. the wedding hall

  777. but he's not wearing

  778. the right clothes.

  779. He didn't come in right.

  780. He didn't come in

  781. with the right clothes,

  782. posture of heart.

  783. His confidence

  784. was in something else.

  785. His sense of calling

  786. was somewhere else.

  787. He wasn't there

  788. for the wedding feast

  789. of the Son.

  790. In Matthew 16,

  791. Jesus talks about this

  792. as, hey,

  793. if anyone would come

  794. after me,

  795. they need to deny themselves.

  796. Deny yourself.

  797. Take up your cross

  798. and follow me.

  799. This is another way

  800. of talking,

  801. hey, are you willing

  802. to deny yourself

  803. to be a follower

  804. of Jesus?

  805. Jesus?

  806. And in verse 13,

  807. what the king does next

  808. is somewhat surprising.

  809. He has his servants

  810. bind this wrongly dressed man

  811. and cast him out

  812. of the wedding feast

  813. into outer darkness

  814. where there's weeping

  815. and gnashing of teeth.

  816. And we've come across

  817. that phrase before

  818. in the Gospel of Matthew.

  819. And what that phrase

  820. talks about

  821. is the agony and pain

  822. that takes place

  823. in the place

  824. of eternal judgment.

  825. And so this is one

  826. of those points

  827. in this parable

  828. where this parable

  829. bleeds into reality.

  830. The consequences

  831. of trying to enter

  832. the kingdom of heaven

  833. without repenting.

  834. Trying to come in

  835. on my terms,

  836. not the king's terms.

  837. The consequences

  838. of that is so severe.

  839. Our legal system

  840. in the United States

  841. is broken.

  842. I think we realize that.

  843. Different people

  844. are treated differently

  845. based upon who they are.

  846. We know that.

  847. But still,

  848. there is an intention

  849. in our legal system

  850. to make sure

  851. a punishment

  852. fits the crime.

  853. So part of what

  854. the job of a judge

  855. is to make sure

  856. a punishment

  857. fits a crime,

  858. fits an offense.

  859. And so this morning,

  860. let's just ask the question,

  861. does this guy

  862. getting kicked out

  863. of this wedding feast

  864. because he's wearing

  865. the wrong clothes,

  866. is that fitting?

  867. Is that fair?

  868. If the wedding garments

  869. represent repentance,

  870. then yes,

  871. it is fair.

  872. The punishment

  873. does fit the crime.

  874. There's more going on here

  875. than just a wardrobe

  876. malfunction.

  877. It's a posture of heart.

  878. It's a willingness

  879. to say,

  880. there is no way

  881. I can get into this party

  882. on my own.

  883. There's nothing

  884. I can do.

  885. In fact,

  886. all the things

  887. I've done

  888. would keep me out.

  889. I've got to turn

  890. from those.

  891. Recognize those.

  892. So if you're unwilling

  893. to turn from your sin,

  894. what Jesus is saying

  895. is you're not allowed

  896. into the wedding feast.

  897. You must acknowledge

  898. your sin before God

  899. so that you can be saved.

  900. So the second stage

  901. of the parable

  902. focuses on one guy

  903. who responded

  904. to the invitation

  905. for anyone to come,

  906. but he did not

  907. respond rightly.

  908. He came in

  909. thinking he wouldn't

  910. be noticed.

  911. He came in

  912. skipping the thought

  913. that he needs

  914. to actually

  915. change his clothes.

  916. And by doing so,

  917. he offends

  918. the king.

  919. He wasn't coming in

  920. on the king's

  921. terms.

  922. The king noticed.

  923. He notices you.

  924. He knows

  925. your thinking.

  926. He knows

  927. your posture

  928. of heart.

  929. He knows

  930. what you're wearing.

  931. In both of these

  932. stages of this parable,

  933. we have two examples

  934. of what keeps

  935. people out

  936. of the kingdom.

  937. The first

  938. are those who don't

  939. even respond.

  940. The second

  941. is one who responds

  942. but doesn't respond

  943. according to God's

  944. requirements.

  945. Repent

  946. for the kingdom

  947. of heaven

  948. is near.

  949. And therefore,

  950. both are excluded

  951. from the kingdom.

  952. They're all invited

  953. but only a few

  954. get in.

  955. Which brings us

  956. to 14.

  957. Jesus

  958. concluding

  959. summary of this

  960. parable.

  961. He says,

  962. for many are called

  963. but few are chosen.

  964. This idea

  965. of being called

  966. is the sense

  967. of being invited.

  968. And we see it

  969. throughout the whole

  970. parable.

  971. Invitation

  972. after invitation

  973. to varying groups

  974. of people.

  975. Come to the wedding

  976. feast.

  977. Come.

  978. Come.

  979. Under the new covenant,

  980. God extends

  981. the invitation

  982. to everyone.

  983. Everyone

  984. from everywhere

  985. is welcome

  986. to come into,

  987. invited to come

  988. into the party

  989. of salvation

  990. with Jesus

  991. at the center

  992. of it.

  993. Many have been

  994. invited.

  995. Theologically

  996. speaking,

  997. this is known

  998. as the general

  999. call of the gospel.

  1000. The gospel

  1001. is sent out

  1002. generally.

  1003. You don't know

  1004. who's going to respond.

  1005. You proclaim it

  1006. and it goes out

  1007. to everyone

  1008. you can.

  1009. That's what we

  1010. want to do

  1011. here in this church.

  1012. We want to get

  1013. the gospel out.

  1014. We don't know

  1015. who will respond

  1016. but we want to get

  1017. it out

  1018. to every nook

  1019. and cranny

  1020. of the city.

  1021. We don't know

  1022. how people

  1023. are going to respond

  1024. and so from our

  1025. perspective,

  1026. the general call

  1027. goes out

  1028. and we're extending

  1029. the invitation

  1030. of the king

  1031. to come to the

  1032. wedding feast

  1033. of the son.

  1034. Many are called.

  1035. Many.

  1036. But few are chosen.

  1037. The few

  1038. that Jesus

  1039. is speaking about

  1040. is a subset

  1041. of the many.

  1042. Of the many

  1043. invited

  1044. to the wedding feast

  1045. only a fraction

  1046. will come in.

  1047. Only a few

  1048. will be saved.

  1049. And this should

  1050. maybe ring a bell

  1051. from Matthew chapter 7.

    Matthew 7 chapter mention

  1052. Enter by the narrow gate

  1053. for the gate is wide

  1054. and the way is easy

  1055. that leads to destruction

  1056. and those who enter

  1057. by it

  1058. are many.

  1059. For the gate is narrow

  1060. and the way is hard

  1061. that leads to life

  1062. and those who find it

  1063. are few.

  1064. Many.

  1065. Few.

  1066. Many are invited.

  1067. Few are chosen.

  1068. And that word chosen

  1069. gets at this sense

  1070. that these are the

  1071. legit of God.

  1072. These are the ones

  1073. God himself knows

  1074. belong to him.

  1075. We see the same word

  1076. show up in Matthew 24.

  1077. There it's used

  1078. in terms of the word

  1079. elect.

  1080. And when Jesus uses it

  1081. in Matthew 24 that way

  1082. he's talking about

  1083. those God knows

  1084. who are generally

  1085. his.

  1086. Those who belong to him.

  1087. These are the folks

  1088. that Jesus talks about

  1089. in Matthew 11

  1090. where

  1091. he has chosen

  1092. to reveal the father to

  1093. that

  1094. Jesus chooses

  1095. to do that.

  1096. In theological terms

  1097. this is getting at the

  1098. idea of

  1099. effectual call.

  1100. When the gospel

  1101. is proclaimed

  1102. those to whom

  1103. the son has chosen

  1104. to reveal the father

  1105. they will respond

  1106. in repentance

  1107. and faith.

  1108. God knows that

  1109. he has elected them

  1110. from the before

  1111. the foundation

  1112. of the world.

  1113. When the gospel

  1114. is proclaimed

  1115. to all

  1116. in general

  1117. only some

  1118. will respond

  1119. effectually.

  1120. those whom

  1121. the son

  1122. has chosen

  1123. to reveal

  1124. the father.

  1125. And so what

  1126. Jesus is saying

  1127. here is

  1128. hey

  1129. many are called

  1130. this parable

  1131. shows as many

  1132. are called

  1133. but few

  1134. are actually

  1135. chosen.

  1136. Few actually

  1137. belong

  1138. to God.

  1139. And so what

  1140. Jesus seems to be

  1141. saying here is

  1142. don't confuse

  1143. the invitation

  1144. with the response.

  1145. And for

  1146. those

  1147. Jews

  1148. who are hearing

  1149. Jesus say that

  1150. he is radically

  1151. shifting their

  1152. understanding.

  1153. You're not chosen.

  1154. You've rejected

  1155. the son.

  1156. So what is this

  1157. point of this

  1158. parable?

  1159. The point is this.

  1160. You've got to

  1161. rightly

  1162. respond

  1163. to the gracious

  1164. invitation

  1165. to the

  1166. wedding feast

  1167. of the son.

  1168. It's all

  1169. about

  1170. how

  1171. you respond.

  1172. God's

  1173. gracious

  1174. invitation

  1175. calls for

  1176. an appropriate

  1177. response.

  1178. how we respond

  1179. to the king's

  1180. invitation

  1181. matters.

  1182. The first

  1183. group

  1184. they rejected

  1185. the invitation

  1186. and they

  1187. suffered a

  1188. severe

  1189. justice

  1190. for it.

  1191. The second

  1192. group

  1193. represented by

  1194. the one

  1195. who was not

  1196. wearing

  1197. the wedding

  1198. garments.

  1199. He was

  1200. invited.

  1201. He came.

  1202. He showed

  1203. up.

  1204. But he

  1205. wasn't

  1206. wearing

  1207. the right

  1208. clothes.

  1209. He wasn't

  1210. responding

  1211. in repentance.

  1212. You think he

  1213. could get in

  1214. on his own

  1215. terms.

  1216. How you

  1217. respond to

  1218. the king's

  1219. invitation

  1220. matters.

  1221. You must

  1222. respond

  1223. rightly.

  1224. And so what

  1225. does this mean

  1226. for us today?

  1227. What does

  1228. this mean?

  1229. What is this

  1230. parable?

  1231. How does

  1232. this show

  1233. up in our

  1234. lives today?

  1235. Well here's

  1236. how.

  1237. The God

  1238. that Jesus

  1239. was referring

  1240. to in

  1241. this parable

  1242. is the

  1243. same God

  1244. today.

  1245. He's a

  1246. God who

  1247. is gracious

  1248. and is

  1249. extending

  1250. the invitation

  1251. to the

  1252. wedding feast

  1253. to everyone

  1254. today.

  1255. To you.

  1256. He's inviting

  1257. you to come

  1258. into his

  1259. celebration

  1260. of his

  1261. son.

  1262. Come.

  1263. If you

  1264. have not

  1265. responded to

  1266. the invitation

  1267. by God

  1268. himself to

  1269. come into

  1270. the kingdom

  1271. of heaven,

  1272. come into

  1273. the kingdom.

  1274. Respond.

  1275. Say yes,

  1276. I'm coming.

  1277. He's a

  1278. gracious,

  1279. wonderful God

  1280. who invites

  1281. all to

  1282. come.

  1283. But the

  1284. same God

  1285. is a God

  1286. of authority

  1287. and justice.

  1288. For those

  1289. who reject

  1290. the invitation,

  1291. he speaks

  1292. of it as

  1293. destruction,

  1294. casting into

  1295. outer darkness.

  1296. To reject

  1297. his invitation

  1298. outright or

  1299. to try to

  1300. twist it to

  1301. make it fit

  1302. your life

  1303. is met

  1304. with severe

  1305. justice.

  1306. God.

  1307. But there's

  1308. one thing

  1309. else I want

  1310. to point

  1311. you to

  1312. about this

  1313. God that

  1314. Jesus speaks

  1315. of in

  1316. this parable.

  1317. This king

  1318. is a father

  1319. who delights

  1320. in his son.

  1321. This king

  1322. is a father

  1323. who delights

  1324. in his son.

  1325. We see it in

  1326. the other

  1327. parables as

  1328. well.

  1329. The parable

  1330. of those two

  1331. sons,

  1332. there's father-son

  1333. theme.

  1334. The parable

  1335. of the tenants,

  1336. there's a father

  1337. sending his son

  1338. theme.

  1339. And here,

  1340. we have a father

  1341. delighting in

  1342. his son.

  1343. In fact,

  1344. God the father

  1345. set a plan

  1346. in place

  1347. from before

  1348. the foundation

  1349. of the world

  1350. to unite

  1351. all things

  1352. together

  1353. in his son

  1354. Jesus.

  1355. It's the

  1356. greatest party

  1357. ever.

  1358. So you've

  1359. got to remember

  1360. that the God

  1361. of this

  1362. parable

  1363. is the God

  1364. who is

  1365. reigning today.

  1366. The second

  1367. thing I want

  1368. to call you

  1369. to,

  1370. is to

  1371. honestly

  1372. examine

  1373. yourself.

  1374. To take

  1375. stock

  1376. of yourself.

  1377. It's possible

  1378. to delude

  1379. yourself

  1380. into thinking

  1381. that,

  1382. hey,

  1383. I'm in.

  1384. Maybe you're

  1385. not.

  1386. What are you

  1387. wearing?

  1388. What are you

  1389. wearing?

  1390. In 2 Corinthians

  1391. 13, 5,

  1392. Paul writes

  1393. to a church,

  1394. a people

  1395. who profess

  1396. to be followers

  1397. of Jesus.

  1398. Jesus.

  1399. And he

  1400. urges them

  1401. to examine

  1402. themselves

  1403. to see

  1404. if they're

  1405. in the

  1406. faith,

  1407. to see

  1408. if they

  1409. are in

  1410. Christ,

  1411. to see

  1412. if they're

  1413. in the

  1414. kingdom.

  1415. them.

  1416. Paul were

  1417. to use

  1418. the words

  1419. of this

  1420. parable,

  1421. he's like,

  1422. hey,

  1423. are you

  1424. guys sure

  1425. you're

  1426. wearing the

  1427. right stuff?

  1428. And this

  1429. morning,

  1430. I just want

  1431. to give you

  1432. two questions

  1433. to be asking

  1434. yourself to

  1435. examine

  1436. yourself to

  1437. see if,

  1438. in fact,

  1439. you are

  1440. in the

  1441. kingdom.

  1442. Here are

  1443. the two

  1444. questions.

  1445. Question

  1446. number one,

  1447. where is

  1448. your confidence?

  1449. What does

  1450. your salvation

  1451. depend on?

  1452. If you think

  1453. that your

  1454. salvation depends

  1455. upon your

  1456. work and

  1457. actions to

  1458. get you into

  1459. the wedding

  1460. feast, you've

  1461. got the

  1462. wrong clothes

  1463. on.

  1464. Your

  1465. confidence is

  1466. not in what

  1467. you do,

  1468. it's what

  1469. the Son has

  1470. done.

  1471. Three days

  1472. from what

  1473. Jesus speaks

  1474. this parable,

  1475. he will be

  1476. hanging on a

  1477. cross and

  1478. he will be

  1479. bearing the

  1480. wrath of God

  1481. for the sins

  1482. of all those

  1483. who would

  1484. believe in

  1485. him.

  1486. That's the

  1487. work.

  1488. That's the

  1489. confidence.

  1490. you must

  1491. turn from

  1492. trusting in

  1493. yourself and

  1494. set your

  1495. heart on

  1496. Jesus.

  1497. Where's your

  1498. confidence?

  1499. What's your

  1500. calling?

  1501. Second question,

  1502. what's your

  1503. calling?

  1504. What's your

  1505. aim in life?

  1506. If your aim

  1507. is to advance

  1508. yourself,

  1509. you're wearing

  1510. the wrong

  1511. clothes.

  1512. If your aim

  1513. is Christ's

  1514. glory,

  1515. welcome to

  1516. the kingdom.

  1517. Come on

  1518. in.

  1519. What's your

  1520. confidence?

  1521. What's your

  1522. calling?

  1523. Repentance

  1524. means turning

  1525. away from

  1526. trusting in

  1527. yourself to

  1528. get into the

  1529. kingdom.

  1530. It turns away

  1531. living for

  1532. yourself.

  1533. Whoever would

  1534. follow me must

  1535. deny himself,

  1536. take up his

  1537. cross and

  1538. follow me.

  1539. take stock

  1540. of yourself.

  1541. There's one

  1542. other piece

  1543. of application

  1544. here.

  1545. And it's

  1546. secondary but

  1547. significant.

  1548. Do you

  1549. remember what

  1550. happened when

  1551. Jesus was

  1552. speaking this

  1553. parable and

  1554. that initial

  1555. group that was

  1556. invited to the

  1557. kingdom, they

  1558. rejected the

  1559. invitation?

  1560. The king

  1561. sent out the

  1562. invitation to

  1563. anyone.

  1564. We see

  1565. God's heart

  1566. to invite

  1567. anyone

  1568. into the

  1569. wedding feast

  1570. of the

  1571. son.

  1572. Here's what

  1573. that means for

  1574. us.

  1575. There are

  1576. people all

  1577. over the

  1578. city that

  1579. are waiting

  1580. on an

  1581. invitation.

  1582. and we

  1583. get to

  1584. say, hey,

  1585. do you

  1586. want to

  1587. come to

  1588. the wedding

  1589. feast?

  1590. Do you

  1591. want to

  1592. come to

  1593. the wedding

  1594. feast?

  1595. God

  1596. over all

  1597. has invited

  1598. you to

  1599. come to

  1600. the wedding

  1601. feast.

  1602. And all

  1603. you need to

  1604. do is wear

  1605. the right

  1606. clothes.

  1607. And what

  1608. those clothes

  1609. are is to

  1610. humbly

  1611. acknowledge your

  1612. need for

  1613. God.

  1614. To repent

  1615. and trust

  1616. him.

  1617. This

  1618. morning, maybe

  1619. you're realizing

  1620. that you

  1621. have been

  1622. responding to

  1623. God's gracious

  1624. invitation on

  1625. your own

  1626. terms.

  1627. Well, you

  1628. don't need to

  1629. be speechless

  1630. like the guy

  1631. that we saw

  1632. in the

  1633. parable.

  1634. To respond

  1635. rightly to

  1636. God's gracious

  1637. invitation is

  1638. to deny

  1639. yourself, take

  1640. up your

  1641. cross, and

  1642. follow Jesus.

  1643. And all

  1644. that you need

  1645. to say is,

  1646. Lord Jesus,

  1647. change me,

  1648. change me,

  1649. and welcome

  1650. me in.

  1651. Let's pray.

  1652. God in

  1653. heaven,

  1654. we do

  1655. thank you so

  1656. much that

  1657. you are a

  1658. gracious God

  1659. who warmly

  1660. invites sinners

  1661. into the

  1662. kingdom of

  1663. heaven.

  1664. God, you

  1665. part of that

  1666. invitation is a

  1667. call to

  1668. repent, to

  1669. don the right

  1670. clothes to

  1671. enter in.

  1672. God, would you

  1673. help us to see

  1674. ourselves as you

  1675. see us and to

  1676. respond rightly.

  1677. God, for those

  1678. of us who by

  1679. your mercy and

  1680. grace have come

  1681. into your kingdom,

  1682. all glory and

  1683. praise and

  1684. honor to

  1685. your name.

  1686. Jesus, we

  1687. say to you,

  1688. thank you.

  1689. Amen.