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Caring For One Another By The Spirit

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  1. Well, when I was in fifth grade, I started playing saxophone in my school band.

  2. And we had a great band director.

  3. His name was Mr. Johnson.

  4. He was patient with us, he had fun with us, but he was also not afraid to work as hard

  5. in preparation for concert season.

  6. I can remember us being in the middle of a song and him yelling over all the din of the

  7. instruments, tempo, keep the tempo.

  8. And he wasn't afraid to call out individual players either in the middle of a song.

  9. Billy, you're speeding us up.

  10. Daniel, play softer.

  11. Sometimes he would resort to banging out the rhythm with his wand on a music stand instead

  12. of conducting us in the air because he wanted us to fall into step with where he was leading

  13. us.

  14. At the beginning of a new semester, we would always sound terrible.

  15. Squeaky, out of tune, hitting wrong notes or hitting, not hitting notes at all.

  16. But by the end of the semester, our conductor, having stuck with us, would lead us into some

  17. pretty good sounding music.

  18. The unity and the harmony of the whole body of instruments would fill the performance hall.

  19. And it was all worth it to see his smile at the end of the concert.

  20. Well, church, we have a conductor too.

  21. We are all individual members of a whole body of instruments.

  22. We are a spiritual orchestra.

  23. And we have one conductor that we must fall into step with.

  24. Or, if we don't, we will miss the beauty and the harmony of where he's leading us, of what

  25. he's intending us to play.

  26. And our conductor, church, is the Holy Spirit.

  27. And although there are many songs that he has for us to play, there's one song that's

  28. pretty close to his heart.

  29. And the name of this song is Love One Another.

  30. It's a tender, gentle, exquisitely beautiful song.

  31. But it's also complicated.

  32. It's messy, even.

  33. It requires close and careful attention to our conductor.

  34. At times, he'll speed us up.

  35. Then he'll slow us back down.

  36. Then we'll change keys.

  37. Here we're loud.

  38. Here we're soft.

  39. And if we don't pay careful attention to where he's taking us, we're going to be hopelessly

  40. lost as we try to play the song.

  41. And so this morning, that's exactly what the Apostle Paul is trying to communicate to the

  42. Galatian churches, starting at chapter 5, verse 25, and through chapter 6, verse 5.

  43. And what he wants them to see, and what the God wants us to see, is this.

  44. That when the church is in step with the Spirit, we will humbly care for one another.

  45. When the church is in step with the Spirit, we will humbly care for one another.

  46. When we, as the body of Christ, are paying close attention to our conductor, the resulting

  47. melody will be humble care for one another.

  48. That's the emphasis in this particular passage.

  49. So let's unpack the passage in the following way.

  50. First, there's a call to action in chapter 5, verse 25.

  51. And then we'll see in 526 through 6.3, sorry, 6.2, that that call is for a community.

  52. And lastly, we can't miss the caution in verses 3 to 5 in chapter 6.

  53. So it's a call for a community with a caution.

  54. Let's start looking at the call to action in chapter 5, verse 25.

  55. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit.

  56. If we live by the Spirit.

  57. Well, what does that mean?

  58. What does it mean to live by the Spirit?

  59. Well, word to the wise, and maybe a quick preview of our word workshop coming up on January 25th.

  60. If you're stuck on what something means in the Bible, take some time to take a look around at the context.

  61. Look for clues around that phrase to help understand what that phrase means.

  62. And that's what we're going to do with live by the Spirit.

  63. Look up to verse 16 for starters.

  64. Paul says, but I say, walk by the Spirit.

  65. Well, that sounds pretty close to live by the Spirit.

  66. That kind of helps us understand what that's about a little bit.

  67. And Pastor Matt last week helped us see that people who have put their trust in Jesus, Christians,

  68. and who have received God's Holy Spirit on the inside of them as His indwelling presence within,

  69. we still have to cultivate a dependence upon the Holy Spirit to be able to live the life that God's called us to.

  70. Right?

  71. That's reinforced in verse 18.

  72. If you are led by the Spirit, okay, that kind of gives us a little bit more understanding.

  73. Walking by the Spirit, there's this kind of plodding mentality, it's activity.

  74. Being led by the Spirit, we have to be leaning into His guidance and His leadership.

  75. So being dependent upon the presence and the power of God's Spirit within us as Christians

  76. is basically what Paul's saying here.

  77. That's what it means to live by the Spirit, to be defined by the Spirit.

  78. Christians are people whose lives are defined by the Holy Spirit.

  79. By what the Spirit produces in them, the holy fruit of Christ's character.

  80. He's the one who provides power to fight against the flesh.

  81. He is the one who gave a spiritual life to the beginning.

  82. So our lives are defined by the Holy Spirit.

  83. So basically he's saying if you're a Christian, if you live by the Spirit,

  84. then, here's the call to action, keep in step with the Spirit.

  85. So yes, we are Spirit-dependent people.

  86. We are Spirit-defined people from beginning to end.

  87. We must rely on His presence and power to live this life that God has called us to in Christ.

  88. So therefore, it makes a lot of sense that we have to put effort into keeping in step with Him.

  89. So just as an orchestra has to pay close attention to its conductor,

  90. the church has to pay close attention to put real effort into following and responding to the Spirit's lead.

  91. This is a call to action.

  92. It's the same way what Pastor Matt preached last week,

  93. only here we're getting a little more nitty-gritty.

  94. It's like keep an eye on Him.

  95. Stay really closely connected to Him.

  96. Now just in case you're not musical and the whole orchestra illustration doesn't work for you,

  97. here's another one.

  98. The Christian life in the Spirit is a lot less like flying a plane

  99. and a lot more like a bicycle race.

  100. In a plane, now I might be oversimplifying this if there are any pilots in the room,

  101. but in a plane, once you're up in the air,

  102. you can push the autopilot button

  103. and it basically gets you to where you want to go.

  104. You don't have to do a whole lot.

  105. You kind of relax until you start your descent.

  106. But in a bicycle race, there's no relaxing.

  107. You have to stay on your leader.

  108. You've got to stay with the group.

  109. You've got to be pumping the pedals the whole way,

  110. breathing hard the whole way.

  111. Now there are easy stretches.

  112. There are flat straightaways.

  113. There's downhill slopes.

  114. But even in those parts of the race,

  115. you still have to stay on the leader.

  116. You still have to keep pedaling.

  117. You have to stay with the group.

  118. And when Paul calls us to keep in step with the Spirit,

  119. he's calling us to action.

  120. We need to sit up straight when we hear that call.

  121. We need to feel the urgency of that call.

  122. We need to shake off the slackness that we tend to naturally get

  123. as we run our Christian race,

  124. and we need to prepare ourselves for real, steady, and sustainable action.

  125. Now it's a new year.

  126. This is a great time to begin asking the question,

  127. where am I going?

  128. What am I doing with my life?

  129. How am I doing with my life?

  130. And if this is a time when you realize,

  131. I'm kind of drifting.

  132. I'm coasting.

  133. I'm not really pushing the pedals.

  134. Then hear the call.

  135. Hear the call of action.

  136. Being a Christian does not mean pushing the autopilot button.

  137. It means, okay, roll up my sleeves.

  138. Let's get to work.

  139. That's not how we earn our salvation.

  140. We know that.

  141. We know it's by faith.

  142. But it is a call to work.

  143. It's a call to action.

  144. We need to hear that here.

  145. So if you are a Christian,

  146. if you have the Holy Spirit dwelling within you,

  147. if we, the church, have the Spirit dwelling among us,

  148. if we're defined by the work of the Spirit,

  149. then hear the call to action.

  150. What is the Spirit, our conductor, tapping out for us?

  151. What's His rhythm?

  152. Are we listening?

  153. Are we paying close attention?

  154. Are we leaning into Him?

  155. That has to do with spiritual disciplines.

  156. If you're slack in your prayer,

  157. if you're slack in reading Scripture

  158. and paying close attention to your own heart,

  159. then that's going to mean you're drifting.

  160. You're on autopilot.

  161. So, all right.

  162. Take a moment to say,

  163. all right, this is what the Spirit's calling me to do.

  164. Keep in step with Him.

  165. Lean into Him.

  166. This is whether you're new in the faith

  167. or whether you've been a seasoned saint for many years

  168. or if you're foot sore and you are war weary

  169. or maybe you're discouraged from a lack of growth

  170. or a lack of affection for the Lord

  171. or maybe you are just awash in apathy

  172. or maybe you're stuck in sin.

  173. But wherever you're at,

  174. the Spirit, hear what He's saying to you.

  175. Pick up your instrument

  176. or if you prefer, hop back on your bicycle.

  177. Keep in step with Him.

  178. Resist the temptation to push idle pilot.

  179. There's no drifting or coasting here.

  180. Posture yourself for action.

  181. Roll up your sleeves.

  182. Get ready to work.

  183. Church, we're not home yet.

  184. Just like the song we sang,

  185. Come Thou Fount,

  186. Come My Lord No Longer Tarry,

  187. Bring Your Promises to Pass.

  188. We're not home yet.

  189. We live in between the comings of Jesus,

  190. between His first advent and His second.

  191. And so the time in between

  192. is the life of the Spirit.

  193. We get to participate in the life we have to come

  194. that Christ has promised us,

  195. of full fellowship with Him,

  196. and yet we know that that fullness hasn't come yet.

  197. And so we strive, we move towards Him,

  198. because we know we're still pulled back

  199. into our old ways of the flesh.

  200. And so the time between the comings here

  201. is to be lived in step with the Spirit.

  202. He's our guide to our heavenly home,

  203. to our destination.

  204. So lean into Him.

  205. That's the call to action.

  206. But that's pretty broad.

  207. It's pretty general.

  208. It's not very specific.

  209. So how do we start keeping in step with Him

  210. in practical and specific ways?

  211. Well, this call to action is for a community.

  212. It's a call to action for a community.

  213. And the call to action for the community is this.

  214. Humbly care for each other.

  215. That's the way that we keep in step with the Spirit.

  216. That's the way we roll up our sleeves

  217. and keep in step with our leader

  218. is by humbly caring for each other,

  219. right here, right now, as a body of Christ.

  220. And we're going to spend the majority of our time on this

  221. because that's the real emphasis of this passage.

  222. So let's look at chapter 5, verse 26,

  223. through chapter 6, verse 2.

  224. I want to read it again.

  225. And as I read, I want you to hunt for clues

  226. that Paul is speaking to a community.

  227. Did you see clues pointing to a community?

  228. How about those one another's provoking one another,

  229. envying one another,

  230. bearing one another's burdens?

  231. How about the way he addresses them as a church family?

  232. Brothers, which can be translated easily,

  233. brothers and sisters.

  234. How about the call to restore the sinning member

  235. by other members?

  236. Remember, Paul is writing to a group of churches here.

  237. He is writing to a community.

  238. He's not writing to random individual Christians.

  239. He's writing to groups of people

  240. who have joined themselves together

  241. because of their mutual faith in Christ

  242. for the purpose of accountability and encouragement

  243. to live the life of the Spirit together.

  244. By the way, Christ the King Church,

  245. that's what we are.

  246. We are a group of people

  247. who have joined ourselves together

  248. because of our mutual faith in Christ

  249. so that we can keep each other accountable

  250. and encourage one another

  251. as we live the life of the Spirit together.

  252. So this has a lot to say to us right here,

  253. right now, January 5th, 2020.

  254. I almost said 2019.

  255. Phew, okay, good thing I didn't.

  256. So what is the call to action?

  257. To humbly care for one another,

  258. to demonstrate real Christ-like love

  259. in the power of the Spirit to one another.

  260. In verse two, he gives us a great visual,

  261. bear one another's burdens.

  262. Well, that helps us, doesn't it?

  263. It gets that in our minds.

  264. But before we get to that serving one another part,

  265. the bearing one another's burdens part,

  266. that's what keeping in step with the Spirit

  267. means for us in community.

  268. Let's take a peek in verse 26

  269. of what it doesn't look like.

  270. Paul's great at setting up a negative

  271. before he gets to the positive.

  272. So let's look at verse 26.

  273. Let us not become conceited,

  274. provoking one another, envying one another.

  275. So how do we put effort into keeping in step

  276. with the Spirit in our community of a church?

  277. Put to death your self-important attitude.

  278. That's how.

  279. That word translated conceited in our Bibles

  280. could also be translated literally

  281. empty honor or empty glory.

  282. Paul's warning the community of the church

  283. right on the heels of his call to action

  284. that if they want to stifle the Spirit's

  285. life-giving work in their midst,

  286. then be thirsty for self-importance.

  287. A desire to be recognized and praised for yourself,

  288. to think highly of yourself,

  289. that's how you can quench the Spirit in your midst.

  290. That's how you can not keep in step with the Spirit.

  291. And this appetite for recognition,

  292. for reputation, for being known as something,

  293. produces all kinds of sinful activity

  294. within a community.

  295. For one, those who desire recognition and praise

  296. often provoke others within the community,

  297. basically picking fights,

  298. challenging those who disagree with them,

  299. calling them out,

  300. stirring up dissension and division within the body.

  301. Some of us, perhaps this can get kind of glossed over

  302. with spiritual language,

  303. but it is, if it walks like a duck,

  304. talks like a duck, it's a duck.

  305. Some of us are more prone to this,

  306. especially those of us who have more dominant personalities,

  307. we're go-getters, we're more vocal,

  308. we're more opinionated.

  309. We can tend to be this way.

  310. That is not keeping in step with the Spirit.

  311. But there's also another way.

  312. Do you see that?

  313. Envying one another.

  314. Perhaps this is more common for us.

  315. Self-important person may not necessarily show

  316. their self-importance by picking fights externally,

  317. but it's an internal attitude of envy

  318. or comparison or holding grudges,

  319. and it can poison our attitude toward others

  320. and rob us and them of the life-giving work

  321. of the Spirit at work among us.

  322. For six years, I was a teacher at a Christian school

  323. here in town.

  324. I started as a Spanish teacher,

  325. and then I was really hoping they'd ask me

  326. to teach Bible at some point.

  327. Well, during a staff meeting,

  328. midway through my time there,

  329. it was announced that they had asked another guy

  330. to teach Bible, and they hadn't asked me.

  331. And immediately, my conceit, my self-importance,

  332. my sinful desire for recognition

  333. as a great Bible teacher raised its ugly head,

  334. and it showed up in the form of intense envy

  335. toward my brother in Christ.

  336. It took me a little bit of time to realize

  337. that was what was going on in my heart.

  338. I couldn't quite tell, and then it's like,

  339. oh, wait, that's what's going on.

  340. I'm envying him.

  341. Have you ever had something like that happen to you

  342. in the context of the church or somewhere else?

  343. Hear the call to action.

  344. Self-importance has no place in the community

  345. where the Spirit is in charge.

  346. Put it to death, the Spirit says,

  347. whether in its outward form of picking fights

  348. or dissension or division

  349. or in the slow internal poison of envy

  350. or comparing yourself with others

  351. or bearing grudges against others.

  352. Rather, Paul says,

  353. now that you know what keeping in step

  354. with the Spirit doesn't look like

  355. in the community,

  356. this is what it does look like.

  357. It looks like humbly caring for each other.

  358. It means laying aside your sense of self-importance

  359. and adopting an attitude

  360. that emphasizes the importance of others.

  361. In verse 1, Paul shows us

  362. that not only are we not supposed to sin

  363. against one another,

  364. we're supposed to help restore those who do sin.

  365. We are to care for one another's souls.

  366. So, if anyone is overtaken in a sin,

  367. Paul says,

  368. you who are spiritual are to restore them

  369. in a spirit of gentleness.

  370. In the ESV, it uses the word caught,

  371. but I think the word overtake might be better.

  372. Caught makes us think of, like,

  373. you're caught in the act,

  374. caught red-handed.

  375. That's not, I mean, obviously,

  376. that's going to,

  377. we need to restore folks

  378. who are caught red-handed,

  379. but we also need to restore anyone

  380. who is overtaken in a sin,

  381. and that's all of us.

  382. Sin has a way of sneaking up on us.

  383. Think about the last time you blew it

  384. and you knew it.

  385. You weren't planning on sinning that day,

  386. but a combination of circumstances

  387. caused you to get angry

  388. or to lust

  389. or to be dishonest

  390. or whatever it was.

  391. And just think about,

  392. once you knew that that happened,

  393. despair starts to set in,

  394. shame and condemnation start to come in,

  395. and you're thinking,

  396. whatever,

  397. I just might as well give up.

  398. I just might as well keep on doing this

  399. because there's no hope

  400. in trying to resist this anymore.

  401. Well, that's where God's saying here,

  402. community to the rescue.

  403. That's why we have each other, church.

  404. There are men in this church

  405. that God has used to restore me

  406. when I have been overtaken in sin,

  407. and they did it in a spirit of gentleness.

  408. And I am very thankful for those men.

  409. And don't think for one minute

  410. that that word spiritual

  411. means only pastors and leaders.

  412. It's a temptation we have, I think,

  413. in the American church.

  414. Uh-uh.

  415. That word spiritual

  416. could just be translated,

  417. you spirit people.

  418. Same thing back up in verse 25.

  419. If we live by the spirit.

  420. Well, that's Christians.

  421. If you are a Christian,

  422. you are a spirit person.

  423. You are spiritual

  424. because you have the Holy Spirit.

  425. And you are being called upon here

  426. to help restore your brother or sister

  427. who falls into sin.

  428. This is not something

  429. we should slough off

  430. to the professionals

  431. because, guess what?

  432. There are no professional Christians.

  433. We are all the body of Christ

  434. indwelled by the spirit,

  435. and he has laid on us

  436. the responsibility

  437. to humbly care for one another

  438. and help each other

  439. follow Christ together.

  440. So if someone in this body

  441. has a sin problem,

  442. then that should concern you.

  443. It is,

  444. falls on you

  445. to be concerned about them

  446. because you are one with them

  447. in Christ.

  448. You are members

  449. one of another.

  450. That doesn't mean

  451. you're responsible

  452. for their sin

  453. nor ultimately responsible

  454. for their well-being,

  455. but you are being called upon

  456. to humbly care for them

  457. by helping to restore them

  458. in some way.

  459. Now you might be wondering

  460. how this works,

  461. practically speaking.

  462. This is maybe a little bit tricky.

  463. What do you do

  464. if someone confesses sin to you?

  465. Well, you remind that sinner

  466. that they have a friend

  467. and his name is Jesus.

  468. He is the friend of sinners.

  469. So speak 1 John 1, 9 to them.

  470. If anyone confesses their sin,

  471. God is faithful and just

  472. to forgive them of their sin

  473. and to cleanse them

  474. of all unrighteousness.

  475. So speak words of gospel truth to them,

  476. of forgiveness

  477. and assurance of pardon.

  478. And you get to be

  479. the Spirit's agent

  480. to help heal their soul.

  481. What an awesome privilege.

  482. Don't shy away from that

  483. just because you don't feel

  484. like you're a professional.

  485. Now if it's a matter

  486. that feels pretty heavy,

  487. like an addiction

  488. or maybe a sin

  489. involving lots of people

  490. that's rather complicated

  491. or a sin that's pretty grievous

  492. and serious,

  493. well then talk to that person

  494. and to see about involving

  495. a pastor or an elder

  496. or some other life group leader,

  497. some other mature Christian

  498. who can help maybe shed light

  499. on a complicated issue.

  500. So be careful,

  501. be humble,

  502. speaking into situations

  503. you don't understand well necessarily,

  504. but don't let that keep you

  505. from participating

  506. in restoring a brother or a sister.

  507. Now life group leaders,

  508. life group members,

  509. you need to hear this.

  510. If something like this

  511. comes up in your group,

  512. lean into it.

  513. Don't overwhelm the person

  514. with lots of words,

  515. just listen sympathetically,

  516. ask good questions,

  517. and speak weighty words

  518. of gospel truth,

  519. of forgiveness

  520. and assurance to them.

  521. But don't do the other error.

  522. Don't paint their sin

  523. in a good light.

  524. Don't sugar coat things.

  525. Call a spade a spade.

  526. If it's sin, it's sin.

  527. Deal with it head on

  528. with the gospel.

  529. So treat others

  530. how you would like them

  531. to treat you

  532. if you're confessing sin.

  533. Gently, truthfully, lovingly

  534. point them to Jesus.

  535. And you will be

  536. an agent of restoration.

  537. But you also need to hear this.

  538. Whether you're in life group or not,

  539. this is what the community is for.

  540. We exist to help each other do this.

  541. So if you are the one

  542. overtaken in a sin,

  543. don't stay quiet.

  544. The Psalms talks about

  545. if I kept my sin within myself

  546. and my bones started rotting.

  547. Sin has a way of rotting us

  548. from the inside out.

  549. Speak it.

  550. Confess it.

  551. Go to someone in service.

  552. Go to someone in your life group.

  553. Go to someone you know well

  554. who would be able

  555. to speak God's truth to you.

  556. Risk the transparency

  557. in order to keep in step

  558. with the Spirit.

  559. Obey James 5.16.

  560. Confess your sins

  561. one to another

  562. and pray for one another

  563. so that you may be healed.

  564. Sometimes this might mean

  565. having to confront someone gently.

  566. That's scary.

  567. But along the lines of Matthew 18,

  568. we're called to do this too.

  569. If you see or become aware

  570. of a sinful behavior

  571. and another believer,

  572. then we are called upon

  573. to humbly care

  574. for that brother or sister

  575. in the spirit of gentleness

  576. by asking them about it.

  577. Much humility is needed here.

  578. Not self-righteous judgment.

  579. We're not trying to accuse.

  580. We're trying to restore.

  581. And you've got to be careful.

  582. Remember Jesus used

  583. the log in the eye

  584. and the speck of sawdust

  585. in the eye illustration.

  586. Approaching someone's eye

  587. to get a speck of sawdust out

  588. is a very delicate process.

  589. You've got to be very gentle.

  590. You've got to have confidence.

  591. They need to have confidence in you.

  592. But if Jesus is our Lord

  593. and our Master

  594. and we are His servants,

  595. we must be willing

  596. to approach another servant

  597. in gentleness

  598. if they're doing something

  599. that does not please

  600. or bring honor to the Master.

  601. And this is for all of us.

  602. This is not just for pastors,

  603. not just for leaders.

  604. Now before we move on

  605. to other ways

  606. we can care for one another,

  607. look at the end of verse 1.

  608. Keep watch on yourself

  609. lest you too be tempted.

  610. When helping restore

  611. a fellow sinner,

  612. we are often tempted

  613. to fall into sin ourselves.

  614. We are tempted

  615. to conceited self-righteousness.

  616. Like thinking,

  617. I would never sin like that.

  618. We are tempted to frustration

  619. and impatience

  620. with our brother or sister,

  621. especially if they're not changing

  622. or especially if their sin

  623. affects us negatively.

  624. We might be tempted

  625. to join them in their sin

  626. in some way.

  627. Coming into contact with sin

  628. can sometimes soften

  629. our hearts to it

  630. and tempt us toward it.

  631. So just think about Johnny Cash.

  632. Walk in the line.

  633. I keep a close watch

  634. on this heart of mine.

  635. I keep my eyes wide open

  636. all the time.

  637. Keep a close eye

  638. on your own heart

  639. when you're in the process

  640. of doing this.

  641. It helps us do this

  642. in humility and gentleness.

  643. So restoring a sinning

  644. family member

  645. is a way we humbly care

  646. for one another

  647. and keep in step

  648. with the Spirit.

  649. But it's not the only way

  650. we keep in step

  651. with the Spirit

  652. in community.

  653. Look at verse 2.

  654. Paul tells the Galatians

  655. to bear one another's burdens

  656. and so fulfill

  657. the law of Christ.

  658. This includes

  659. bearing the burdens

  660. of those who've sinned

  661. and need restoration,

  662. but it's broader than that.

  663. It means lending

  664. your strength,

  665. skill,

  666. time,

  667. energy,

  668. resources

  669. to help another believer

  670. through difficulty.

  671. As Paul says

  672. somewhere else,

  673. when one member hurts,

  674. the whole body does.

  675. That's because

  676. the Spirit

  677. binds us together.

  678. We have Him

  679. in common.

  680. So therefore,

  681. when we become aware

  682. of a difficulty

  683. that another member

  684. of the church

  685. is going through,

  686. then we ought

  687. to have an impulse

  688. to help shoulder

  689. that burden.

  690. That's what

  691. keeping in step

  692. with the Spirit

  693. looks like

  694. in the community

  695. of the Spirit.

  696. We get to humbly

  697. care for one another

  698. and bear one another's

  699. burdens

  700. in a variety of ways.

  701. It can be acts

  702. of service.

  703. This summer,

  704. my wife had

  705. shoulder surgery.

  706. So many of you

  707. cared for us

  708. in very practical

  709. and needed ways.

  710. Y'all bared,

  711. you bared,

  712. you bore our

  713. burdens with us.

  714. Thank you.

  715. That's exactly,

  716. and this church

  717. is so good at that.

  718. Our deacons

  719. are so fantastic

  720. at being able

  721. to find ways

  722. to care for

  723. body members

  724. that are hurting.

  725. But we also bear

  726. one another's burdens

  727. when we sit

  728. and we listen

  729. and we share

  730. God's Word together

  731. and encourage

  732. one another.

  733. When someone's

  734. going through

  735. a difficult time,

  736. we have one another

  737. over for dinner

  738. and we ask

  739. good questions.

  740. We take time

  741. after service

  742. to hunt down

  743. people we know

  744. are going through

  745. a rough patch

  746. to be able

  747. to ask them

  748. how they're doing

  749. and pray for them.

  750. That's bearing

  751. one another's burdens

  752. as a body.

  753. And speaking of praying,

  754. that's probably

  755. the most wonderful,

  756. most effective,

  757. and maybe hardest

  758. way to bear

  759. one another's burdens

  760. is to take

  761. intentional time

  762. to pray

  763. and care for

  764. one another's burdens

  765. in prayer.

  766. So when we do

  767. this burden bearing

  768. in all of its forms,

  769. we fulfill

  770. the law of Christ.

  771. what does Paul

  772. mean by that?

  773. Look back up

  774. to chapter 5,

  775. verse 13 and 14.

  776. Do not use

  777. your freedom

  778. as an opportunity

  779. for the flesh,

  780. but through love

  781. serve one another.

  782. For the whole law

  783. is fulfilled

  784. in one word.

  785. You shall love

  786. your neighbor

  787. as yourself.

  788. This is very similar

  789. to the command

  790. that Jesus gave

  791. his church,

  792. the disciples,

  793. in John 13.

  794. A new command

  795. I give you

  796. that you love

  797. one another.

  798. Just as I have loved you,

  799. you are to love

  800. one another.

  801. So we fulfill

  802. the whole law

  803. of the Old Testament

  804. in one sense

  805. by just doing this,

  806. by bearing

  807. one another's burdens

  808. in practical,

  809. real,

  810. meaningful ways.

  811. So in one sense,

  812. it's what

  813. the law of Christ

  814. is what he's spoken

  815. to us,

  816. love one another.

  817. But it's also

  818. the model

  819. he's provided

  820. for us.

  821. Church,

  822. the only reason

  823. we exist

  824. as a body

  825. is because Christ

  826. bore our burdens

  827. on Calvary.

  828. We sang of it earlier

  829. in How Great Thou Art.

  830. Christ bore our burdens

  831. to the cross.

  832. As Paul says

  833. in Philippians 2,

  834. Jesus took on

  835. the form of a servant.

  836. He took on the burden

  837. of human flesh.

  838. He was born

  839. as one of us.

  840. In being found

  841. in human form,

  842. he humbled himself

  843. by becoming obedient

  844. to the point of death,

  845. even death

  846. on a cross.

  847. So we are to

  848. humbly care

  849. for one another

  850. and bear

  851. one another's burdens

  852. in the same way

  853. Jesus bore

  854. our burdens

  855. and because

  856. Jesus bore

  857. our burdens.

  858. He did the same

  859. for us.

  860. And if we belong

  861. to him

  862. and we have

  863. his spirit

  864. within and among us,

  865. how can we act

  866. any differently?

  867. So friends,

  868. if we are

  869. spirit-defined people,

  870. if we are people

  871. who have the spirit

  872. and live by the spirit,

  873. let us keep in step

  874. with him.

  875. We need to be about

  876. the priority

  877. in community

  878. of humbly caring

  879. for one another

  880. and by doing so,

  881. we keep in step

  882. with him.

  883. Our conductor

  884. is tapping out

  885. his rhythm

  886. to a song of love

  887. and we have

  888. to keep our eyes

  889. on him.

  890. So let me just

  891. give you a few

  892. brief and concrete

  893. ways to do this.

  894. First, examine

  895. your heart

  896. for self-importance.

  897. There is no better

  898. way to keep

  899. a community

  900. from following

  901. the spirit's lead

  902. than to be concerned

  903. about yourself

  904. as your first priority.

  905. Jesus came

  906. to free us

  907. from that destructive

  908. tendency of our

  909. human hearts.

  910. So ask yourself

  911. Philippians 2

    Philippians 2:3

  912. verse 3

  913. in question form.

  914. How does God

  915. want me to

  916. humbly consider

  917. others as more

  918. significant than

  919. myself?

  920. I'm guessing

  921. there are probably

  922. a few people

  923. within the church

  924. that you have

  925. a hard time

  926. interacting with

  927. without self-important

  928. pride showing up

  929. in your heart

  930. and yet they are

  931. your spiritual family.

  932. So ask the Lord

  933. to help you

  934. put your self-importance

  935. to death

  936. and the Holy Spirit

  937. will be glad

  938. to assist you.

  939. Secondly,

  940. move towards

  941. other people.

  942. Move towards

  943. other people.

  944. Do you hear

  945. the movement

  946. in that?

  947. Do you hear

  948. the action

  949. in that?

  950. Move toward

  951. other people.

  952. This is a call

  953. to action.

  954. Bearing one

  955. of those burdens

  956. assumes you

  957. have relationship

  958. with people.

  959. So move

  960. towards people.

  961. Now this is

  962. harder for some

  963. people than

  964. for others.

  965. I get that.

  966. And it doesn't

  967. mean you have

  968. to be best friends

  969. with everybody

  970. or even know

  971. everybody in the

  972. church.

  973. But it does

  974. mean that your

  975. posture is toward

  976. people,

  977. not away from

  978. them.

  979. It means a

  980. willingness to

  981. engage in

  982. conversation with

  983. people,

  984. even the people

  985. you're not

  986. naturally attracted

  987. to.

  988. And not just in

  989. conversation about

  990. you, but also in

  991. conversation about

  992. them.

  993. Ask good questions.

  994. It's a way we bear

  995. one of those burdens

  996. and care for each

  997. other.

  998. Discover what's

  999. going on in their

  1000. lives.

  1001. Be listening for

  1002. ways you can help.

  1003. It might mean

  1004. praying with them

  1005. on the spot

  1006. after service

  1007. today.

  1008. It might mean

  1009. intentionally praying

  1010. for them throughout

  1011. the week.

  1012. It might mean

  1013. texting them.

  1014. It might mean

  1015. getting together

  1016. with them through

  1017. the week to hear

  1018. how they're doing

  1019. or to help restore

  1020. them when they've

  1021. sinned.

  1022. It might mean

  1023. showing up at

  1024. their house to

  1025. fix their dryer

  1026. or with a cooked

  1027. meal.

  1028. There are a

  1029. zillion ways we

  1030. can bear one

  1031. of those burdens.

  1032. But we must be

  1033. willing to move

  1034. towards people to

  1035. find out what

  1036. those burdens are.

  1037. Well, I'm

  1038. guessing you've

  1039. heard the call

  1040. to action.

  1041. And you've

  1042. heard what that

  1043. looks like in

  1044. community.

  1045. But there's one

  1046. more thing we

  1047. need to pay

  1048. attention to.

  1049. It's the

  1050. caution that's

  1051. attached to

  1052. the call in

  1053. verses 4 to

  1054. 5.

  1055. Sorry, 3 to

  1056. 5.

  1057. And the

  1058. caution is

  1059. this.

  1060. Don't forget

  1061. that the only

  1062. one God will

  1063. hold accountable

  1064. for you is

  1065. you.

  1066. Don't forget

  1067. that the only

  1068. one God will

  1069. hold accountable

  1070. for you is

  1071. you.

  1072. Verse 3.

  1073. For if anyone

  1074. thinks he is

  1075. something when he

  1076. is nothing, he

  1077. deceives himself.

  1078. But let each

  1079. one test his

  1080. own work, and

  1081. then his reason

  1082. to boast will

  1083. be in himself

  1084. alone and not

  1085. in his neighbor.

  1086. For each will

  1087. have to bear

  1088. his own load.

  1089. Notice that

  1090. little word

  1091. for in verse

  1092. 3.

  1093. That should

  1094. signal to us

  1095. that Paul's

  1096. connecting this

  1097. caution to the

  1098. community call in

  1099. the previous part

  1100. of the passage.

  1101. He's connecting

  1102. it.

  1103. And what he's

  1104. warning against in

  1105. verse 3 is that

  1106. we won't be able

  1107. to bear the

  1108. burdens of

  1109. others properly

  1110. without an

  1111. honest and

  1112. humble view of

  1113. ourselves before

  1114. God.

  1115. This caution has

  1116. a lot to do with

  1117. what Paul says at

  1118. the end of verse

  1119. 1.

  1120. When you're

  1121. restoring someone

  1122. who sinned, keep

  1123. a close eye on

  1124. yourself so that

  1125. you too are not

  1126. tempted.

  1127. He's saying, hey,

  1128. pay attention to

  1129. yourself too.

  1130. The caution is

  1131. also related to his

  1132. command to put

  1133. self-importance to

  1134. death back in

  1135. verse 26.

  1136. It's very easy

  1137. to serve others

  1138. self-importantly.

  1139. At times, our

  1140. conceit and our

  1141. self-importance

  1142. prevents us from

  1143. serving others

  1144. because we're

  1145. picking fights with

  1146. them or envying

  1147. them.

  1148. But at other

  1149. times, our

  1150. self-importance

  1151. makes us think

  1152. that we're stronger

  1153. and healthier than

  1154. we actually are.

  1155. And then we think

  1156. we're something when

  1157. we're actually nothing

  1158. and we deceive

  1159. ourselves.

  1160. And out of that

  1161. self-deceit, we

  1162. serve others

  1163. but really, we're

  1164. doing it for

  1165. ourselves and not

  1166. out of obedience

  1167. for Christ or out

  1168. of love for

  1169. others.

  1170. Some of us just

  1171. need to be needed.

  1172. We want to be

  1173. wanted.

  1174. It makes us feel

  1175. stronger when we

  1176. feel needed or

  1177. wanted.

  1178. It makes us feel

  1179. healthier than we

  1180. actually are.

  1181. And so when we

  1182. actually stop serving

  1183. and things get

  1184. quiet and we start

  1185. honestly assessing

  1186. where we're at

  1187. spiritually,

  1188. we start realizing

  1189. maybe I'm not as

  1190. strong or healthy

  1191. as I think I am.

  1192. And this is

  1193. something that

  1194. leaders are

  1195. particularly prone

  1196. to.

  1197. Life group leaders,

  1198. elders, deacons,

  1199. pastors.

  1200. We serve and help

  1201. bear burdens and

  1202. teach and lead but

  1203. secretly, sometimes

  1204. if we're honest, we

  1205. can keep busy doing

  1206. these things because

  1207. we don't want to

  1208. acknowledge that we're

  1209. not as healthy as we

  1210. think we are.

  1211. Or because we find

  1212. our identity too much

  1213. in serving and not

  1214. enough in who we are

  1215. in Christ and how

  1216. he has loved us and

  1217. accomplished our

  1218. salvation for us.

  1219. But look at the

  1220. solution at verse 4.

  1221. How are we to not

  1222. think ourselves

  1223. something when we're

  1224. nothing?

  1225. Test your own work.

  1226. Test your own work

  1227. before God.

  1228. What Paul means here

  1229. is that we need to

  1230. ask ourselves whether

  1231. our work is just for

  1232. show or actually has

  1233. good quality to it.

  1234. Jess and I recently

  1235. watched the movie

  1236. Ford versus Ferrari.

  1237. It's a great movie.

  1238. At one point, the

  1239. Ford executives in

  1240. the movie unveiled the

  1241. exciting new Mustang

  1242. GT as its new racing

  1243. model.

  1244. And everyone in the

  1245. showroom is very

  1246. impressed.

  1247. It looks sleek.

  1248. It's slick.

  1249. It's very exciting.

  1250. It looks like a race

  1251. car on the outside.

  1252. But one of the

  1253. characters, one of the

  1254. main characters in the

  1255. movie, he's a veteran

  1256. mechanic and race car

  1257. driver.

  1258. He saw right through

  1259. the show.

  1260. And he told the

  1261. executives, this thing

  1262. is not going to race

  1263. well.

  1264. Its engine and its

  1265. design are not going

  1266. to keep it up with

  1267. how it looks on the

  1268. outside.

  1269. It's just not going to

  1270. perform.

  1271. And the same is true

  1272. with our caring for

  1273. each other.

  1274. We need to be humble

  1275. and honest about our

  1276. efforts to serve

  1277. others, whether they're

  1278. just for show, whether

  1279. we're longing for

  1280. recognition or whether

  1281. the engine that drives

  1282. them is of good

  1283. quality.

  1284. This is also keeping

  1285. in step with the

  1286. spirit.

  1287. He is concerned whether

  1288. we're serving others,

  1289. that's for sure.

  1290. He's also concerned why

  1291. and how we serve

  1292. others.

  1293. He has a way of getting

  1294. our serving out onto

  1295. the racetrack and

  1296. testing it out for

  1297. quality.

  1298. And we need to be

  1299. along with him in

  1300. that.

  1301. That's what he means by

  1302. boasting there in verse

  1303. four.

  1304. He's not talking about

  1305. self-important boasting.

  1306. Rather, this is kind of

  1307. the spiritual equivalent of

  1308. a good, healthy, taking

  1309. pride in your own work,

  1310. of satisfaction with

  1311. excellence.

  1312. It's kind of stepping

  1313. back and looking at the

  1314. floor you just mopped or

  1315. the meal you just made or

  1316. the car you just fixed and

  1317. saying, yep, that feels

  1318. good.

  1319. It's good work.

  1320. And the reason that the

  1321. spirit wants that for us

  1322. is because at the end of

  1323. the day, the only one that

  1324. God is going to hold

  1325. accountable for you is

  1326. you.

  1327. God will not ask your

  1328. brother who can vouch

  1329. that you helped him

  1330. through a rough time, nor

  1331. will he ask your sister

  1332. who will tell him on

  1333. judgment day that you

  1334. fixed her a meal when

  1335. she had a baby.

  1336. The only one who can

  1337. truly answer for your

  1338. motives and attitudes of

  1339. your heart is you.

  1340. Ultimately, God will hold

  1341. you accountable for you

  1342. for how and why you

  1343. served others.

  1344. He will weigh the

  1345. attitudes and intentions

  1346. of your heart.

  1347. He sees right through us.

  1348. Therefore, in our

  1349. serving, we don't do it

  1350. for others, we do it for

  1351. him as an act of worship

  1352. and service because you

  1353. have offered your life to

  1354. him in gratitude as a

  1355. living sacrifice, as Paul

  1356. says in Romans 12.

  1357. When Paul says in verse

  1358. 5 that each one must

  1359. carry his own load, it

  1360. could be talking about

  1361. making sure that you've

  1362. got your own life in

  1363. order before you help

  1364. others.

  1365. That's a pretty valid

  1366. interpretation.

  1367. It's hard to serve others

  1368. when your own life is in

  1369. disarray.

  1370. But more likely and more

  1371. importantly, it's a

  1372. reference to the day when

  1373. you stand before God to

  1374. give account for your

  1375. life.

  1376. life.

  1377. Everyone is only

  1378. accountable for themselves

  1379. on that day.

  1380. It means that God will

  1381. hold you accountable for

  1382. you.

  1383. So therefore, test your

  1384. work now so it may prove

  1385. to be of good quality

  1386. then.

  1387. This is also keeping in

  1388. step with the Spirit.

  1389. And here's what you test

  1390. for.

  1391. Ask yourself why you are

  1392. desiring to serve others.

  1393. Is it because you need

  1394. to be needed?

  1395. You want to be wanted?

  1396. Is it because you find

  1397. your identity not in

  1398. Christ's love for you but

  1399. in others' love for you

  1400. when you serve them?

  1401. Is it because it makes you

  1402. think that God loves you

  1403. more when you serve

  1404. others?

  1405. Is it because being around

  1406. hurting or less mature

  1407. believers reinforces a

  1408. self-righteous attitude in

  1409. you that you are a pretty

  1410. good Christian indeed?

  1411. Or is it this?

  1412. Do you joyfully bear the

  1413. burdens of others because

  1414. Christ has done the same

  1415. for you?

  1416. And you are eager to

  1417. follow his example.

  1418. Do you serve out of

  1419. gratitude for what Jesus

  1420. has accomplished for you

  1421. and the awesome privilege

  1422. that you have to be his

  1423. instrument for good, the

  1424. good of others?

  1425. Do you serve others

  1426. because you want to offer

  1427. your life to him as a

  1428. living sacrifice out of

  1429. joyful thanks for his

  1430. grace?

  1431. That's the ideal.

  1432. That's what we're

  1433. striving for.

  1434. That's what we need to

  1435. aim at.

  1436. That's the quality work

  1437. that will prove itself on

  1438. judgment day.

  1439. So let's aim for that.

  1440. Something that's not just

  1441. for show but has the

  1442. right kind of engine in

  1443. it.

  1444. But one word before we

  1445. move toward a close.

  1446. None of us does this

  1447. well.

  1448. We are all failures.

  1449. Not just in our lack of

  1450. serving, our lack of care,

  1451. but in the way that we

  1452. actually do it.

  1453. There is much grace for

  1454. those who are failures in

  1455. the way that we don't

  1456. serve or the poor way that

  1457. we do serve.

  1458. If you're feeling a

  1459. particular hopelessness in

  1460. this, particularly if you're

  1461. in a hard season of serving

  1462. a lot and it feels more

  1463. out of obligation than

  1464. anything else, continue to

  1465. press into the grace of

  1466. Jesus.

  1467. He is enough for you now,

  1468. today, and he will be

  1469. enough for you tomorrow

  1470. too.

  1471. This is the kind of humble

  1472. care that we need to have

  1473. for one another and it

  1474. will happen as we keep in

  1475. step with our conductor.

  1476. conductor.

  1477. Let's hear the words of our

  1478. spirit conductor today.

  1479. Let's pay careful attention to

  1480. the rhythm that he's tapping

  1481. out for us.

  1482. Let's keep our eyes on him so

  1483. that we can play beautiful

  1484. music together and it will all

  1485. be worth it to see the smile on

  1486. his face at the end.

  1487. Let's pray.

  1488. Let's pray.

  1489. Lord, I'm sure that many of us

  1490. can hear this and get excited,

  1491. eager to roll up our sleeves and

  1492. get to work and keep in step with

  1493. you, Jesus, by your spirit.

  1494. But Lord, I know that some of us

  1495. are weary.

  1496. Father, I pray particularly that

  1497. you would grant strength and

  1498. grace to those of us who are

  1499. weary in our serving and in our

  1500. caring for others.

  1501. Lord, especially if it's chronic

  1502. and seemingly unending situations,

  1503. would you grant much grace?

  1504. Father, fulfill every resolve we

  1505. have to do good.

  1506. And keep our eyes on you as you

  1507. lead us to your heavenly kingdom.

  1508. We will be with you forever and

  1509. faith will be sight.

  1510. Help us to strive after your smile

  1511. on that day, Jesus.

  1512. In your name, amen.