Sermon
God's New Family
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Transcript
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Just a second.
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If you want, you can open up your Bibles to Mark chapter 3.
Mark 3 chapter mention
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We're going to be looking at Mark chapter 3, verses 31 to 35.
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It's on page 997 of your pew Bible.
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Let me open up my own Bible.
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While you're opening up your Bible, have you ever noticed certain families have definitive
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characteristics?
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Interests?
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Rhythms?
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Like, some families have similar physical characteristics.
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Does anybody know a family with the family unibrow?
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Some families share an interest in politics.
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And so in one family, you can have people on, like, total opposite sides of the spectrum,
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and yet they're all passionate about politics.
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Some families share rhythms together.
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They gather once a month for a meal, or they're regularly getting together to celebrate birthdays
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and holidays.
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I don't think anybody would argue that families are not important.
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They are important.
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Your family, your biological family is where you should be experiencing deep, meaningful love, right?
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Accepted, protected, provided.
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You're trained.
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Sometimes you're corrected.
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You're comforted.
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Well, this morning we're going to see Jesus do something radical.
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He's going to redefine His family from biological ties to theological ties.
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And we're going to see that in Mark 3, 31 through 35.
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We're going to see a new family gathered around Jesus in His house.
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This morning I want you to behold your king with His family, His new family, His theological family around Him.
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Let me get you up to speed.
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At the beginning of Mark 3, verses 1 through 6, Jesus heals the man with a withered hand on the Sabbath day.
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Jesus is going to keep poking the Jewish religious establishment because He is the Lord of the Sabbath,
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and He will do what He wants on the Sabbath.
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And then in Mark 3, 7 through 12, what we start seeing is this massive crowd following Jesus.
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And it starts in verse 8, branching.
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People are coming from Tyre and Sidon, which means now Gentiles are coming to follow Jesus.
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To hear of them, to see what He's doing.
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In verses 13 through 21, Jesus appoints His 12 apostles.
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But in verse 21, we see that not everybody is enthusiastic about Jesus.
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His family thinks that He's out of His mind, and they go to collect Him.
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In verses 22 through 36, we have these scribes, the religious professionals,
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but they come from Jerusalem, which is kind of like Washington, D.C.,
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to send the feds to check out what's going on in your hometown.
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And so they send these scribes to see what's going on.
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And these scribes from Jerusalem, they accuse Jesus of casting out demons by the prince of demons, by Satan.
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And Jesus says, you are blaspheming against the Holy Spirit.
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You are attributing to Satan what the Holy Spirit's doing.
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That is terribly wrong.
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It's unforgivable.
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What we do know is that the Holy Spirit gives people new life.
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Causes them to be born again.
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So what happened is that Jesus, in chapter 3,
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Jesus is gathering a following.
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And it's becoming kind of more visible.
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It's taking on leadership.
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But in addition to a following, He's also causing a stirring of opposition.
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In fact, some people don't believe who He is.
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In Mark 3, 31 through 35, Jesus will need to decide between His theological family and His biological family.
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Have you ever been in that position before?
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Where you feel like you need to decide between the unbelieving blood relatives in your family
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and then the believing non-relatives of your church?
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Have you ever felt like you've been in that position?
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I have.
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Not an easy place to be.
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So let me read Mark 3, 31 through 35.
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And His mother, Jesus' mother, and His brothers,
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He had brothers,
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came and standing outside, they sent to Him and called Him.
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They were standing outside and calling for Jesus.
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And a crowd was sitting around Him.
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And they said to Him,
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Your mother and your brothers are outside seeking you.
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And Jesus answered them,
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Who are my mother and my brothers?
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And looking about at those who sat around Him,
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He said,
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Here, here are my mother and my brothers.
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For whoever does the will of God,
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he is my brother and sister and mother.
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May God bless the hearing of His word.
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I want you to behold three groups of people in this passage.
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Group number one, verse 31.
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Behold the people standing outside.
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Notice who they are.
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Verse 31, His mother.
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Mary.
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This is the woman that miraculously conceived Jesus in her womb by the Holy Spirit.
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Mary gave birth to Him.
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And raised Him.
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She would see Him crucified.
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And she would be one of the first eyewitnesses of His resurrection.
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That Mary.
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And His brothers are there too.
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And you might be like,
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What?
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Jesus had brothers?
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He had brothers.
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And sisters.
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Flip in your Bible in Mark,
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to Mark chapter 6,
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verse 3,
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2 and 3.
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Jesus is back in His hometown, Nazareth.
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And a prophet is not welcome in His hometown.
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And so He's in the synagogue,
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preaching on a Sabbath.
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And the people who heard Him are astonished.
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And they're saying,
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What did this...
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Wait, where did this man get these things?
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What is the wisdom given to Him?
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How are such mighty works done by His hand?
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Is this not the carpenter,
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the son of Mary,
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and brother of James,
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and Joseph,
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and Judas,
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and Simon,
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four brothers,
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and are not His sisters?
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Here with us.
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At least two sisters.
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It's plural.
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And they took offense at Him.
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Yeah, Jesus.
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Jesus had brothers and sisters.
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Now you may be like,
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Whoa!
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What does that mean?
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Well, they're half brothers and sisters.
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So Mary gave birth to Jesus.
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And then,
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Mary and Joseph had more children.
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And if you were raised in the Catholic faith,
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what this is pushing against
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is the perpetual virginity of Mary.
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It's not so.
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Not according to the Gospel of Mark.
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Jesus had brothers and sisters.
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Half brothers and sisters.
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Which brings about humanity to Jesus.
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It's kind of like,
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Whoa!
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Could you imagine being raised in a household
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with Jesus as your brother?
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Like, trying to get on His nerves
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would be impossible.
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But that's not the point.
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Here's the point.
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These people standing outside
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of Jesus' house,
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because this is Jesus' house that He's at,
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they're His blood relatives.
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And typically,
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your blood relatives are in your house with you.
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But they're outside.
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I mean,
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these are the people that He's shared a lot of life with,
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a lot of history with,
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but they are outside.
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That's where they are.
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Not inside with Jesus.
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Outside,
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apart from Jesus.
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So who?
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Blood relatives.
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Where?
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Outside.
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Notice what they're doing.
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They're standing.
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You might be like,
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Okay,
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that's fine.
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They're standing.
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But what's going on here in this passage
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is a contrast.
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And this is going to be contrasted to sitting.
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The opposite of standing is sitting.
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And what we're about to see in a minute
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is that sitting is the humble posture of a disciple.
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So,
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we have blood relatives on the outside
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standing apart from Jesus.
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And why are they there?
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Why has His mother and His brothers come?
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Well,
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would you look up to chapter 3,
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verse 20 and 21.
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And Jesus went home to His house in Capernaum.
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This is where He healed the paralytic.
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And the crowd gathered again
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so that they could not even eat.
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And when His family heard it,
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they went out to seize Him,
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for they were saying,
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He's out of His mind.
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His mother and His brothers aren't there
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to follow Him
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and to sit at His feet.
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His mother and His brothers are there
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to bring Him home.
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Hey, Jesus.
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You've gone a little too far.
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It's time to come home.
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They're not there
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to do God's will.
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Now,
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you may be thinking,
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whoa,
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hold on a second.
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Mary's there?
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Doing that?
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How do you explain that?
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Well,
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it would be the same way
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I would explain
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John the Baptist
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sending some of his disciples
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to Jesus
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and asking Jesus,
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are you the Christ?
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I think this is a moment
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of wavering
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in Mary.
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And we can all relate
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with that.
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So,
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who?
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Blood relatives of Jesus.
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Where?
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Outside?
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What are they doing?
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They're standing.
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Why are they there?
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They're there to take Jesus away,
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not to follow Him.
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Does anyone in the room
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have non-Christian
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family members
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who think that you
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are out of your mind
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because you believe
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that Jesus is alive
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and you're following Him?
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I do.
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I have relatives
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who think I'm really crazy.
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You're in good company.
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Your King
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knows exactly
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how you feel.
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He knows the heartache.
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So,
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behold the people
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standing outside.
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Jesus'
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biological family.
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Now,
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let's behold the people
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sitting inside.
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32.
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And a crowd was sitting
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around Him
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and they said,
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your mother and your brothers
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are outside seeking you.
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So,
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here's another group of people
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in this passage
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and it's in contrast
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to the people,
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the biological family
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of Jesus.
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Who are they?
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Well,
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it's a crowd.
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It's unnamed.
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It's unnumbered.
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But they're in Jesus' house.
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They're inside
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with Jesus.
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Jesus.
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Now,
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I kind of want to know
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who these people are.
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But I think
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it's safe to say
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we do some hypothesizing.
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Jesus has just
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appointed His 12 apostles.
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So,
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I think it's pretty safe
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to say that the 12 apostles
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are in the house
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with Him.
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And if you actually
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look back
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at Mark chapter 3,
Mark 3 chapter mention
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starting in
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verses
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16 through 19,
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you have the naming
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of the 12 apostles.
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There are two names.
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I just want to draw
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your attention to.
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First,
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is the name
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in verse 18,
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Matthew.
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Do you know who Matthew was?
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A.K.A. Levi?
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Chapter 2, verse 14,
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Jesus calls him
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to follow Him.
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Do you know what He did
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for a living?
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He was a tax collector.
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You might think,
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well, that's kind of like IRS.
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It's worse.
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What He did was this.
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Matthew was Jewish
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and he was hired
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by the Roman occupiers
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to collect a tax
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from His fellow Jews
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in order to pay
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the Romans.
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And He would make
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He would make
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a lot of jingle
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off that.
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And so,
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He would have been
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perceived
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by His fellow Jews
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as a traitor.
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Here's what makes
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this interesting.
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It's the last name
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in verse 18.
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Simon the Zealot.
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Do you know
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what Zealots did?
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Zealots passionately
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hated the Roman occupiers.
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So do you know
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what this means?
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In Jesus' 12 apostles,
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we have a guy
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that's seen
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as a Jewish traitor
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and we have a guy
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who hated Roman occupiers.
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How about that?
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Having dinner
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with those guys together.
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Two ends
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of the political spectrum.
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This was a diverse crowd.
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Who else?
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I'm guessing
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there were women,
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Mary Magdalene,
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Salome,
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maybe people from
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Tyre and Sidon,
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some Gentiles there.
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We had country folk there.
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We had city folk there.
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It's a diverse crowd.
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I think this is
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the sample congregation
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of Daniel chapter 7
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verses 13 and 14
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where the Ancient of Days
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gives the Son of Man
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an everlasting
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and indestructible kingdom
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of people
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from every nation,
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every tongue.
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I think this is
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a sample of that.
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It's an unusual
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assembly of people
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and you can believe it.
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They had a variety
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of different backgrounds
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and you can bet
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a variety of different baggage.
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Did you notice
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where they are?
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Not outside
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apart from Jesus.
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They are inside
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with Jesus.
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At one point
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they would have been
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outside from Jesus
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but now they're
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inside with Jesus.
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Did you notice
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what they're doing?
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They're sitting.
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They're sitting
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around Jesus.
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They are interacting
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with Jesus.
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Hey Jesus,
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do you know your mom
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and your brothers
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are outside?
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There's relationship
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there.
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There's this contrast
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between the outside people
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and the inside people.
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Why are they there?
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Why is this crowd
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sitting at Jesus' feet?
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It's the same reason
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Mary in Luke 10.37
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sat at Jesus' feet.
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She chose the better way.
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She was learning
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from Jesus.
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I mean,
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he was the greatest
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teacher,
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rabbi ever.
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So they're sitting
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at his feet
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which is this
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humble posture
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of a disciple,
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a learner.
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He's the rabbi.
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They're the learners.
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They're saying
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give us more.
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Teach us.
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So behold the crowd.
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Unrelated to Jesus
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but inside his house
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sitting around him
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and at his feet
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learning from him.
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So do you all
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see the contrast?
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Verse 31,
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Jesus' blood family
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outside.
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Verse 32,
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this crowd
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sitting inside
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at his feet.
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Who will Jesus choose?
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His family's there,
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biological families.
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Hey, Jesus,
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come with us.
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Who's he going to choose?
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The third group of people
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I want you to see,
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well,
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it's not a group.
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It's your king.
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Behold your king.
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In verses 30 through 35,
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who will he decide
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between his biological family
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or this crowd
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sitting around him?
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Let's not forget
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who this is.
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In chapter 1,
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we learn that
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Jesus is the son of God.
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That God the Father
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himself said so.
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Remember at the baptism
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of Jesus,
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the heavens open up,
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the spirit descends,
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and then there's this voice.
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This is my beloved son
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with whom I'm well pleased.
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That's God the Father,
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the ancient of days,
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saying of Jesus,
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you're my son
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and I delight in you.
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What that means
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is that Jesus,
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the son of God,
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is totally God
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and totally man.
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That's who is
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in the house here.
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but it's not just
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the son of God.
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Chapter 2,
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we learn that he's
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the son of man.
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A king
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with whom the ancient of days,
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God the Father,
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would give an eternal
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and indestructible kingdom
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made up of peoples
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and nations
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and languages.
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A diverse crowd,
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if you will.
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It's this Jesus,
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the son of God
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and the son of man
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who has been put
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into a position
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of having to decide
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between those outside
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and those inside.
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And so what do you think
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he's going to do?
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He's going to teach.
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Jesus, remember,
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is a rabbi.
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He's a teacher.
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And he sees
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the teaching moment
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and takes it.
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And so what we're
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about to see him do
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is classic rabbinical
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teaching technique.
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He's going to ask
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a question
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then answer it.
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So the question
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is in verse 33.
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Remember what's happened.
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His blood,
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his biological family
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is outside.
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Hey, where's Jesus?
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His crowd on the inside
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and around him
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saying,
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Jesus, hey,
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your mother
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and your brothers,
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they're outside.
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They want you to come.
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And then to which
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Jesus says,
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to the people inside,
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who are my mother
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and my brothers?
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Now, if you were there,
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you would know,
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you would know instinctively
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that Jesus is getting
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at something bigger
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than genetics.
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You would know that.
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What Jesus is doing
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is challenging
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the common idea
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about family.
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The common idea
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of being bound
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by biological blood
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and birth.
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He's challenging that.
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Anybody hear the expression
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blood is thicker than water?
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That means family first.
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We put an emphasis
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on who our birth parents are.
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And what Jesus is doing
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is he's raising
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the possibility
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of a different kind of family
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with different kinds of bonds
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that prioritize it
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over a biological family.
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That's what Jesus is doing.
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So there's the question.
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Who are my mothers
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and my brothers?
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And then in verse 34
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and 35,
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he gives an answer.
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But I think that there's
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this like dramatic moment.
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In verse 34.
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So he asks the question,
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who are my mother
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and my brothers?
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And he says,
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and looking about
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at those who sat around him,
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this is what I think
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he's doing right there.
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I think he's making eye contact
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with everyone
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in the house.
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Who are my mother
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and my brothers?
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Pause.
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Looking into the eyes
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of everybody around him.
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And then he says,
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with hand motions,
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here,
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here are my mother,
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my brothers,
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while making eye contact
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with everyone in the house.
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Here is my family.
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Here are my people.
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What he's doing here is,
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he's saying,
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we're united by a different blood,
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a different birth,
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for a different purpose.
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The different blood,
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of course,
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is not biological.
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It's the blood of Jesus.
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A different birth,
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of course,
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is the birth of the Spirit of God.
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Born again.
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And the purpose is,
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verse 35,
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for whoever does the will of God,
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he is my brother
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and sister and mother.
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He's just redefined
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who his family is.
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Radical.
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Not those folks outside.
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Not the lady that gave me birth.
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Not my brothers.
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Y'all.
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Blood-bought.
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Spirit-born.
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Doers of God the Father's will.
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You're my family.
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The definitive family trait
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of the family of God.
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Is to do our Father's will.
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To do the will of God.
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That's the definitive trait
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of who we are.
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We're blood-bought.
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Born of the Spirit.
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And our aim is to do the will
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of God our Father.
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Jesus is saying,
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those in my family,
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obey my Father.
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Because Jesus' Father
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is our Father.
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Behold your King.
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He has just spoken
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a definitive word
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on what characterizes
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his family.
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Obedience to the will
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of the Father.
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Now, I started this sermon
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by talking about
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different families
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sharing different
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kind of characteristics.
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You know,
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the unibrow
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and politics.
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Some families
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are foodie families.
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Other families
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are musician families.
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Some families
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are packer families.
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Some families
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are bear families.
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According to Jesus,
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the definitive,
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non-negotiable
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characteristic
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of His family
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is doing the will
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of our Heavenly Father.
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Does this sound familiar?
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Our Father who art in Heaven.
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Hallowed be your name.
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Your kingdom come.
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Your will be done.
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On earth,
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in our lives,
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as it is in Heaven.
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You see,
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Jesus has already
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decided
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who His people are.
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Not those outside,
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standing.
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Those inside,
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sitting around Him.
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Now, could you imagine
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if you were there
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and you heard
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Jesus say this
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and He made eye contact
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with you?
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You heard Him say that?
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Here are my mother
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and my brothers
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and He's looking at you.
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That's exactly the point.
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You mean,
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you're more committed to me
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than your own mom
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and brothers?
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That's exactly the point.
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This is the new family of God.
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So this morning, Christian,
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as a blood-bought,
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spirit-born,
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doer of God's Word,
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you need to hear
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what Jesus is saying to you.
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Here are my mother
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and my brothers
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and my sisters.
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You all.
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By His grace,
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you are part
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of His kingdom.
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You are part
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of His family.
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You're beloved.
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You're a member.
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You have a new father.
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God the Father
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who loves you dearly.
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And you have a new family,
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the church.
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So now let's bring this to bear.
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Just as our King
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prioritized
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His new family
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over His old family,
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so must we.
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We must prioritize
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our church,
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our new family in Christ,
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blood-bought,
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spirit-born,
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doers of the Father's will.
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Just as He prioritized us,
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we prioritize us.
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We have
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been united
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by His blood.
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We've been united
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by the Spirit's birth.
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We've been united
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now in a purpose
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to do the will
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of God our Father.
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So the question
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now becomes, right,
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what does that look like?
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How do you go about
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prioritizing
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the new family of God?
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Let me try to apply this
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in a couple different ways.
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The first way
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is to think differently
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about one another.
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The classic thing
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that we do
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is when we see each other,
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we focus on our
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external appearance.
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We need to think
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biblically about one another.
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We need to see each other
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fully for who we are
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in light of God's Word.
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Now let me ask you a question.
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Do you think Jesus,
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do you think He thought
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less of His mother
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and His brothers
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standing outside?
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I don't think so.
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He just knew
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they weren't inside.
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I don't think He thought
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less of them,
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but He definitely
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thought differently
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of those inside
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sitting around Him.
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So this morning,
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I want you to hear this.
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I'm not calling you
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based on God's Word.
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I'm not calling you
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to think less
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of your non-Christian parents,
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to think less
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of your non-Christian siblings,
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to think less
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of your non-Christian children.
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That's not how we apply this.
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To be honest with you,
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if you have
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non-Christian parents,
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there's heartache there.
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If you have
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non-Christian siblings,
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there's heartache there.
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If you have
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non-Christian children,
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there's heartache there.
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You spend a lot of time
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praying for your
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non-Christian children.
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It's one of the biggest
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burdens you carry.
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So we're not to think
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less of the non-Christians
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of our lives,
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or love them less.
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That's not the application
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of this.
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What we do need to do
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is prioritize
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the family of faith more.
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That's the application.
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And it begins
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with thinking differently
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about one another.
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And I've already
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given you some categories
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to be thinking
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about each other.
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Just imagine this.
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Let's say you walk
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into the sanctuary
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and you bump into
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a brother in the Lord
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and three things
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come through your head.
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Oh, blood-bought,
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spirit-born,
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doer of the will of God.
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Whoa, hey!
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That'd be cool.
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You bump into a sister
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at festival.
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The categories that
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come through your mind
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is, man, she is my
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blood-bought sister,
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spirit-born sister,
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and she too is doing
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the will of our Father.
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You know what's
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going to happen?
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We will esteem
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each other more highly.
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We will consider
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others better
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than ourselves.
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We will hold
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each other
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in higher regard
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because we're
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seeing each other
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as God sees
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one another.
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We share
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the greatest thing
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in common.
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Any image
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bearer
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can.
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We have been
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united by the
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triune God
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and brought
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into His family.
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Blood-bought,
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spirit-born,
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doers of the will
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of our Father.
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So the first
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application is
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let's not
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focus on
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externals
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as much
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as remembering
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who our
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brothers and
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sisters are
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in Christ.
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Another way
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to prioritize
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one anothering
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the family
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of God,
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God,
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well,
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the picture
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is right here
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in the passage.
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We gather
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together.
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We come
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together.
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We see it
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right there
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in verse 32.
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And a crowd
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was sitting
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around Him.
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A diverse
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crowd
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united together
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around Jesus.
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Every Sunday
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at 10 a.m.,
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we're living
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out Mark 3.32.
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A crowd
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gathered around
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Jesus.
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That's this.
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That's who we are.
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That's what we're
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doing.
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It's happening
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almost 2,000
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years later
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when this was
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written.
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In a very
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different place.
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But it's
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happening.
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A crowd
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of diverse
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people
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gathered
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together
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around Jesus.
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Brothers and
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sisters,
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we gather
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together
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on a Sunday
-
morning
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because of
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Jesus.
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Because of
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His blood.
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Because we've
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been born of
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the Spirit
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to do
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God's will.
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We gather
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to behold
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Jesus.
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We gather
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in order
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to live
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for Jesus.
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The reason
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for our
-
gathering
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is Jesus.
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Together
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following Jesus.
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That's who we are.
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That's what we do.
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And in 3.32,
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we see God's
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new family
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gather together
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around Jesus
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too.
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That becomes
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something that
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we can now
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say, okay,
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that's what God
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wants for us.
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This is His
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will for us.
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Good things
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happen when
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God's family
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gets together.
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God things
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happen when
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God's family
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gets together.
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So,
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here's how I
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want you to
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think about
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our Sunday
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morning
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gatherings.
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Think of
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them as
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a family
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reunion
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once a
-
week.
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Sunday
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at 10 a.m.
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A family
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reunion of
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brothers and
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sisters in
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Christ coming
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together around
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Jesus to hear
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Him speak,
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to worship
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Him, to sit
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at His feet,
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to wait for
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what comes
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next.
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You know
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what the
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question becomes?
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The question
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becomes this.
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how many
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Sundays is
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enough?
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How many
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Sundays is
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enough to
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gather together?
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I mean, is
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one Sunday a
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month enough?
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Is two
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Sundays enough
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for us to
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gather?
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Would that be
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God's will for
-
us?
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I think the
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real question
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is this.
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How important
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is it for
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God's family
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to gather?
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That's the
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question.
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And what we
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see throughout
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the Bible
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is it's
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extremely
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important.
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This is
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gathering around
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our King,
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our Lord,
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together.
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Let me try
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to spell
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this out
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for you.
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I actually
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did this
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at a wedding
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recently
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and thought,
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man, I want
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to do that
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on a Sunday
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morning.
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If you meet
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once a month,
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gather with
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God's family
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once a month,
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if you prioritize
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it at once a
-
month,
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do you know
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how many
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times a year
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you gather
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with God's
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people?
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Twelve.
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Do you know
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how many times
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you gather
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with God's
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people over
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50 years?
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600.
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Now that
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might sound
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like a lot,
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but over
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50 years,
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there's a lot
-
more things
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that are going
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to be formative
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in your life
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than the
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gathering with
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your church.
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How about
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two times a
-
month?
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24 times a
-
year?
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Over 50
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years,
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that's 1,200
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gatherings over
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that span.
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Better than
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600.
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But how
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about if
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you're aiming
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at every
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Sunday?
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Let's just
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say 50
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Sundays a
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year.
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Over 50
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years,
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that's 2,500
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gatherings with
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your family
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of faith.
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Now let me
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ask you this
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question.
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what will
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be more
-
formative?
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What will
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be more
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spiritual
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healthy for
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you,
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for your
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biological
-
family,
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and for
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your
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theologically
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family?
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What would
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be healthier
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over that
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span?
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Of course,
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the more
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frequent the
-
better.
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Good things
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happen.
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God things
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happen when
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God's people
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get together.
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So here's
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what I'm
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going to
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urge you.
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Don't
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settle for
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minimal.
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Aim at
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maximum.
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Let's aim
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high, not
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settle for
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low.
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Let's seek
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to gather
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together because
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we have been
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united by the
-
greatest thing
-
possible, the
-
triune God.
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We're blood
-
bought, spirit
-
born, seeking
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to do God's
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will together.
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Let's aim for
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every Sunday
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because we're
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a family.
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want to be
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together.
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There's a
-
classic mistake
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that Christians
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make.
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It's thinking
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that church is
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for me.
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I go to
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church for
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me.
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And yes,
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in one level
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you do.
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But do you
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also know that
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you go to
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church for
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your family?
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For us?
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Here's some
-
obstacles.
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Children's
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sports have
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encroached
-
upon Sunday
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morning.
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We all
-
know it.
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Parents,
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it's an
-
opportunity to
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train your
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kids.
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To help
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them understand
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priorities and
-
important things.
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What's more
-
important?
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Getting to
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your kids
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games or
-
getting to
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church?
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What will
-
form them
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over time?
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It's not
-
if you're
-
forming your
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kids, it's
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how you're
-
forming your
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kids.
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Maybe you
-
have a work
-
issue.
-
You can't
-
get to our
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Sunday morning
-
gathering regularly
-
because of a
-
work commitment.
-
Well, maybe you
-
need to ask your
-
manager, hey, can I
-
take Sundays
-
off so I can
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be at church
-
with my
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family of
-
faith?
-
And if it's
-
like, no, maybe
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you should be
-
saying, maybe I
-
should be looking
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for another
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job.
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It's that
-
important.
-
Maybe you're
-
kind of like,
-
well, I'll
-
tell you what,
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I've got a
-
house full of
-
kids and trying
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to get them in
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the minivan and
-
they get to the
-
church building and
-
then get them
-
into places and
-
then they get
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off their
-
schedule, they
-
miss their
-
naps, it is
-
so inconvenient.
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It is.
-
The question
-
is, is it
-
worth it to
-
gather together
-
as a family
-
of faith?
-
Yes, it is.
-
And form them
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over time.
-
How about just
-
a classic
-
selfishness?
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Sunday morning
-
is me time.
-
It's my
-
opportunity to
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sleep in.
-
I only get
-
one morning a
-
week to sleep
-
in.
-
Sunday morning
-
is it.
-
It's the one
-
time I can
-
catch up on
-
doing some
-
things around
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the house.
-
How about you
-
move me time
-
to we time?
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We the
-
church.
-
Your family's
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gathering.
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Come gather
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with us.
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If you would
-
open up your
-
Bible to
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Hebrews chapter
-
10 verse 24
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and 25.
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It's on page
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1194 of your
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pew Bible.
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We read
-
this.
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And let us
-
consider how
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to stir up
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one another
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to love
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and good
-
works.
-
Well, how
-
do you do
-
that?
-
Well, we're
-
told how not
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to do that.
-
What gets
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in the way
-
of that?
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25.
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Not neglecting
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to meet
-
together as
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the habit
-
of son.
-
You see,
-
not gathering
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frequently gets
-
in the way of
-
stirring one
-
another up to
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love and good
-
deeds.
-
But encouraging
-
one another
-
by gathering
-
together.
-
together.
-
And all
-
the more
-
as you see
-
the day
-
drawing near.
-
We
-
prioritize
-
one another
-
as God's
-
family by
-
gathering
-
together as
-
often as
-
we can.
-
Good things
-
happen when
-
God's people
-
come together.
-
Good things
-
happen.
-
He forms
-
us.
-
Maybe you
-
are not in
-
God's family
-
yet.
-
But
-
the first
-
thing you
-
need to do
-
is come
-
to Jesus.
-
Repent
-
and believe
-
the gospel.
-
Claim
-
him as
-
your Lord
-
and Savior.
-
And then
-
you get
-
to be
-
welcomed
-
into the
-
family of
-
the blood
-
bought.
-
The family
-
of the
-
spirit born.
-
The family
-
of those
-
doing the
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Father's
-
will.
-
Who love
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to gather
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together as
-
often as
-
we can.
-
In
-
conclusion,
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Mark 3,
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31-35.
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we
-
behold our
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king.
-
And he
-
is standing
-
in the
-
middle of
-
his new
-
family.
-
Jesus has
-
radically,
-
radically
-
redefined his
-
family.
-
He doesn't
-
think of his
-
family primarily
-
as a
-
biological
-
family.
-
He's thinking
-
more about
-
this group
-
as his
-
theological
-
family.
-
United
-
by his
-
blood.
-
United by
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the birthing
-
of the spirit.
-
United by
-
doing God's
-
will.
-
Here
-
are my
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mother
-
and
-
brothers
-
and
-
sisters.
-
Amen.
-
Lord Jesus,
-
would you
-
do a
-
work in
-
us where
-
your will
-
be done.
-
Would you
-
add to our
-
number like
-
minded brothers
-
and sisters
-
who want
-
to gather
-
and who
-
want to
-
live for
-
you.
-
Father,
-
hallowed be
-
your name,
-
your kingdom
-
come,
-
your will
-
be done
-
on earth
-
as it is
-
in heaven.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.