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  1. All right. King's Kids, you can go ahead and head out to your King's Kids class. God bless you.

  2. ! And the rest of us, we've been making our way through 1 Thessalonians. That's where we're going to be again this morning.

  3. We were just in chapter 3 last week. We're going to be in chapter 4, verses 1 through 8 this week.

  4. If you are using a pew Bible, that's going to be on page 1173. Now, in the passage this morning,

  5. Paul is going to make a shift in how he's addressing these young but incredibly faithful believers.

  6. Paul has just shared Timothy's good report that their faith has been strong in the midst of persecution,

  7. which is exciting and encouraging for Paul to hear. And now he's going to turn his attention

  8. to some ways that he wants the Thessalonians to grow in their faith and in their character.

  9. So this morning, we'll be in 1 Thessalonians 4, 1 through 8. And here's where we're going as we

  10. look at the passage, just so that we're all on the same page, so to speak. The first move of the

  11. passage this morning is going to be our new aim, okay? Our new aim. Next, Paul is going to give us

  12. three pictures of holiness, three pictures of holiness. And then lastly, we're going to be looking

  13. at three motivations for holiness. So let's hear what Paul has to say to the Thessalonians and to us

  14. as well. Picking up in verse 1. Finally then, brothers, we ask and urge you in the Lord Jesus

  15. that as you received from us how you ought to walk and to please God, just as you are doing,

  16. that you do so more and more. For you know what instructions we gave you through the Lord Jesus.

  17. For this is the will of God, your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality,

  18. that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of

  19. lust like the Gentiles who do not know God, that no one transgress and wrong his brother in this matter,

  20. because the Lord is an avenger in all these things. As we told you beforehand and solemnly warned you,

  21. for God has not called us for impurity but in holiness. Therefore, whoever disregards this

  22. disregards not man but God who gives his Holy Spirit to you.

  23. And may God bless the reading of his word this morning.

  24. All right, so the first move of this passage is our new aim. As we read that, I'm guessing that

  25. what stands out to you as we hear those words is the serious tone that Paul takes in this passage,

  26. especially when we contrast it to what we heard last week in chapter 3, where there's a lot of

  27. celebration that was just going on over the fact that the Thessalonians were standing strong, right?

  28. But now things take a shift in Paul's tone. And that's because he wants the Thessalonians

  29. to take seriously this call to guard against a sin that is a very real threat to their faith.

  30. The Thessalonians, by God's grace, they've been faithful. They've been strong in the midst of

  31. persecution, which is absolutely worth celebrating. But persecution is not the only danger on the

  32. horizon. So there's a seriousness that's happening here. There's sobriety to Paul's words.

  33. But even so, there's still warmth there, right? Notice how Paul begins the passage in verse 1.

  34. Finally then, brothers or brothers and sisters, finally then, brothers and sisters, we ask and urge

  35. you in the Lord Jesus. Even though he's about to talk about the serious call of holiness on the lives

  36. of the Thessalonians, Paul, he doesn't just come out swinging, right? He doesn't come out making

  37. demands. He approaches this with an appeal, which is consistent with how he treated them when he was

  38. with them, how he's spoken to them actually throughout this entire letter. If you remember back in chapter 1,

  39. verses 11 through 12, Paul says,

  40. This is what good dads do, right? Is that even though they wield authority, they seek to win their

  41. kids to the goodness of obedience, to the goodness of listening and following and doing what dad says.

  42. So good dads teach their kids to obey and they win them to obedience.

  43. Why? Because they love their kids.

  44. And Paul loves the church at Thessalonica.

  45. So everything that he says in this letter, in this passage, he calls them to because he loves them.

  46. Okay? That's the heart behind this appeal.

  47. So what is he appealing for?

  48. Verse 1 again.

  49. That as you received from us how to walk and to please God just as you are doing,

  50. that you do so more and more.

  51. However, Paul is calling them to walk in a way that pleases God, to conduct their lives in a way that pleases God.

  52. And encouragingly, he says that they're actually already doing this, but he wants them to press into it more and more,

  53. that you do so more and more.

  54. Now, just as we thought just for a minute on Paul's heart for the Thessalonians, let's pause for a moment and let's ask ourselves,

  55. what kind of God is this that Paul says that they should please?

  56. Because God is, he's all over this passage, right?

  57. Unsurprisingly.

  58. Paul calls the Thessalonians to please God.

  59. He says that their sanctification is the will of God.

  60. He says that the Gentiles who give themselves over to lust reveal that they do not know God.

  61. He says that the Lord God is an avenger.

  62. He says God has called the Thessalonians to holiness, and those who disregard those words disregard God.

  63. So, who is this God who Paul is calling us to orient our lives around pleasing?

  64. And I know this sounds like a very basic question like Christianity 101, but seriously, what kind of person is this God?

  65. If you look back on chapter 1, verse 4, I think it's on the same pages in your pew Bible.

  66. Paul writes this, 1 verse 4.

  67. For we know, brothers loved by God, that he, that God has chosen you.

  68. That this is a God who has set his love on you.

  69. A God who has chosen you in the midst of your sins to rescue you, and he did not do that begrudgingly.

  70. He does not love you with annoyance and irritation.

  71. He's not a God who just kind of holds his nose around you.

  72. If you are in Christ right now, you are loved with a, and here I quote from the theology tome that is the Jesus Storybook Bible,

  73. that that is God's heart for you.

  74. If you are in Christ.

  75. So, do not lose sight of that God as we hear about our responsibility to honor him in this passage.

  76. Okay?

  77. That God, the God who is worthy of all of the honor and all the glory and all of the praise and who has somehow set his love on us,

  78. not because we deserve it, deserved it, but because he is gracious,

  79. that God is now the controlling center of our lives.

  80. We belong to him, and now his desires are our commands.

  81. Our lives are about pleasing him, no longer about pleasing ourselves.

  82. This is our new aim as Christians, to please God.

  83. He is the one who sets the agenda.

  84. We accept his authority, and we strive to do what honors and makes much of him in every area of our lives,

  85. resting in the fact that he knows what is best.

  86. And there is no component of our lives that does not fall under this call to please God.

  87. And one of the things that pleases God is our sanctification.

  88. So, if you look at verse 3,

  89. For this is the will of God.

  90. Okay, pause really quick.

  91. If you came in today wanting to know God's will for your life, get excited,

  92. because you are about to hear it.

  93. For this is the will of God,

  94. your sanctification.

  95. So, congratulations.

  96. You now get to live the rest of your life knowing exactly what God's will is for you.

  97. It's for you to grow in holiness and in Christ-likeness.

  98. You are welcome.

  99. Now, that word, that word for sanctification,

  100. we can also translate that as holiness, by the way.

  101. Sanctification, holiness.

  102. So, again, verse 3,

  103. For this is the will of God,

  104. your sanctification,

  105. that you abstain from sexual immorality,

  106. that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor,

  107. not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God,

  108. that no one transgress and wrong his brother in this matter.

  109. So, what Paul gives us here is he's giving us three pictures, if you will,

  110. of what holy sexuality looks like.

  111. Remember that our aim as Christians is to please God,

  112. and part of pleasing God is following his will for our bodies and how we use them.

  113. What we do with our bodies sexually matters to God.

  114. So, this isn't something that's off limits.

  115. Okay, we don't get to just take this thing and separate it from our faith.

  116. So, we're going to look at those three pictures,

  117. and then after that, we're going to look at three God-centered motivations for holy sexuality.

  118. So, three pictures of holiness, three motivations for holiness.

  119. That's where we're going to be headed for the rest of this sermon.

  120. All right, first picture of holiness.

  121. This is at the end of verse three.

  122. That you abstain from sexual immorality.

  123. Now, when Paul uses that term, sexual immorality,

  124. you might be wondering what all he has in mind there.

  125. The Greek word that is translated in your Bible as sexual immorality

  126. is the Greek word porneus, which comes from the root for pornea.

  127. And if you're thinking, huh, that sounds an awful lot like one of our words in English.

  128. And you would be absolutely right to think that and make that connection.

  129. Pornea, in the Greek, it functioned as this kind of all-encompassing junk drawer term

  130. that referred to just all sexual activity that happens outside of marriage between a man and a woman.

  131. Okay, so this is everything that goes against the established sexual ethic of the Scriptures.

  132. In Acts chapter 15, when the Jerusalem Council affirms the glorious reality

    Acts 15 chapter mention

  133. that the gospel is not just for the Jews, but also for the Gentiles,

  134. one of the instructions that they give the Gentiles for how to live as believers in the Messiah

  135. is to abstain from sexual immorality, porneus.

  136. It's the same word.

  137. So what Paul is teaching, the Thessalonians here in this letter,

  138. is consistent with the teaching of the apostles in other places,

  139. and it's consistent with what we're taught throughout the rest of the Scriptures as well.

  140. So just to be clear, sex outside of marriage, that is pornea, that is outside of God's good design.

  141. Homosexuality, that would be pornea, that is something that is outside of God's good design.

  142. Prostitution, which was something that was readily available in that culture at that time,

  143. that would be pornea, outside of God's good design.

  144. Adultery, pornea, you get the point.

  145. And for the Christians in Thessalonica, the idea of holy sexuality,

  146. a sexuality that stays exclusively within the context of the marriage between a man and a woman,

  147. this would have been a difficult concept for the Greek believers to get on board with

  148. because the culture in Thessalonica was, shall we say, sexually loose.

  149. Just about the only sexual act that that culture would have disagreed with was adultery,

  150. and it was because of how that messed with the family lineage.

  151. Okay, don't mess up my family line, right?

  152. Just about everything else outside of that was mostly considered fair game.

  153. So this idea of sexual holiness, this would have been a significant adjustment for many Greeks

  154. who God had rescued out of a pagan and a sexually loose culture,

  155. which should encourage us because our culture is also quite broken when it comes to sex and gender.

  156. So there is a lot that we can relate to here with our brothers and sisters in Thessalonica,

  157. even though we're 2,000 years removed from them.

  158. Now, before we go on, I want to draw attention to a few things that can fly under the radar

  159. that we need to acknowledge, that I think would be helpful for us to acknowledge.

  160. If you're here this morning and you are a committed follower of Christ,

  161. these are some areas where I think that you're most likely to fall into the temptation of sexual immorality.

  162. We're capable of falling into anything apart from God's grace,

  163. but I think that these are probably the strongest temptations for us.

  164. First off, men, men in the room, you and I know this,

  165. pornography has an incredible draw,

  166. and it's incredibly, incredibly accessible.

  167. If you have a smartphone, you are maybe three clicks away

  168. from seeing anything that your sinful mind can imagine or desire.

  169. That's how accessible this abomination is.

  170. And let me also just say that this does not have to have the word porn attached to it

  171. in order for it to be sin,

  172. because you can get the same lustful high off of a music video or a scene in a movie,

  173. and just because it doesn't have the word porn to it

  174. does not mean that it is outside of God's design.

  175. So here's the reality.

  176. If what you are seeing on a screen

  177. awakens in you a desire for any person other than your wife,

  178. it is pornea.

  179. It's outside of God's command.

  180. And if you're single and you don't have a spouse,

  181. it's still pornea.

  182. Okay?

  183. It is something that is off limits.

  184. Now, if that happens to be you this morning,

  185. and you are hiding,

  186. and you love your Lord,

  187. and you want to stop dishonoring Him through this sin,

  188. then you have got to bring it to the light.

  189. You've got to confess it.

  190. And honestly, you can come tell me.

  191. You can come and tell one of our elders.

  192. And I can promise you this,

  193. that we are not going to shame you.

  194. Satan wants to shame men that are stuck in this sin.

  195. And that is not how God changes sinners.

  196. He changes them with forgiving and empowering grace,

  197. and that's what we want to help you latch onto.

  198. Okay?

  199. That's where we're going to point you

  200. if you get this thing out in the light.

  201. We're going to point you to God's grace

  202. as the means of fighting this thing.

  203. Okay?

  204. And that same thing,

  205. that goes for any kind of sexual sin

  206. that any of us might be caught in right now.

  207. I want everybody in the room to hear that.

  208. So if you are dating,

  209. and your significant other,

  210. and you are doing things that God has said not to,

  211. let's get that out in the open.

  212. Let us resist that with God's grace.

  213. Confess it,

  214. and let's work against it.

  215. If you are experiencing homosexual desires,

  216. and you are afraid of other Christians

  217. knowing about that,

  218. let's get that out in the open,

  219. and let's work through that with God's grace.

  220. Talk to one of us pastors and elders.

  221. Talk to your life group leader.

  222. And then lastly on this point,

  223. I want to say to my dear sisters in the room

  224. that you need to be careful

  225. with the novels and the stories that you read.

  226. I know that there's growing numbers of women

  227. who are struggling with visual pornography,

  228. so I just want to acknowledge that.

  229. But by and large,

  230. for women,

  231. the main issue, I think,

  232. is probably going to be in the stories

  233. that you choose to read.

  234. And I'll just say the same thing

  235. that I said to the men,

  236. which is that if you read something

  237. that awakens a desire in you

  238. for a man who is not your husband,

  239. then that is pornea.

  240. That is something that is against

  241. the command of the Lord.

  242. And again, I would say,

  243. get it out into the open.

  244. Bring a mature sister into that

  245. and fight it with God's grace.

  246. So flee, abstain,

  247. distance yourself from sexual immorality.

  248. And by the way,

  249. extreme measures on this are not extreme.

  250. If our Lord Jesus said to tear out your eye

  251. and throw it from you

  252. in order to avoid lusting,

  253. it is not crazy to toss out your smartphone

  254. and get a dumb phone.

  255. That would not be crazy.

  256. What would be crazy

  257. would be not treating the sin

  258. like the spiritual disease that it is.

  259. That would be crazy.

  260. Okay?

  261. So abstain from sexual immorality.

  262. The second picture of holiness.

  263. Control your body in holiness

  264. as one who knows the Lord.

  265. Control your body in holiness

  266. as one who knows the Lord.

  267. Verse four.

  268. That each one of you

  269. know how to control his own body

  270. in holiness and honor,

  271. not in the passion of lust

  272. like the Gentiles

  273. who do not know God.

  274. Now that word know

  275. for know how to control,

  276. Paul isn't talking about

  277. just knowing information

  278. like you know the capital of Wisconsin

  279. or you know the freezing temperature of water.

  280. That's not the kind of knowing

  281. that he's talking about.

  282. He is talking about knowing

  283. like it's a life skill.

  284. It's a learned competency

  285. which involves intentionality.

  286. Nobody stumbles and falls

  287. into sanctification.

  288. Okay?

  289. That doesn't happen.

  290. It comes from building

  291. a momentum of holiness

  292. and growing in knowing

  293. how to control yourself

  294. so you can use your body

  295. to glorify God

  296. and not for your sinful pleasure.

  297. Which is the exact opposite

  298. of the culture

  299. that these Greek Christians came from.

  300. Paul says that the Thessalonians

  301. should not be like the Gentiles

  302. who do not what?

  303. That they do, yes,

  304. that do not know God.

  305. Those who don't know God

  306. do not have an issue

  307. with handing themselves over

  308. to the passion of lust

  309. which makes sense

  310. because if you don't know God

  311. your primary aim in life

  312. whether you know it or not

  313. is to please yourself.

  314. But if you know God,

  315. truly know Him

  316. like you know your closest friend

  317. then the natural result of that

  318. is going to be

  319. an increasing and growing holiness

  320. that aims at pleasing God.

  321. This is the beauty of 2 Corinthians 3.18

  322. And we all

  323. with unveiled face

  324. beholding the glory of the Lord

  325. seeing Him, knowing Him

  326. are being transformed

  327. into the same image

  328. from one degree of glory

  329. to another.

  330. Getting transformed

  331. by seeing Jesus

  332. by knowing Jesus.

  333. Or in Ephesians

  334. where Paul says

  335. that the ministry of the church

  336. is to build up

  337. the body of Christ

  338. until we all attain

  339. to the unity

  340. of the faith

  341. of the knowledge

  342. of the Son of God

  343. to mature manhood

  344. to the measure

  345. of the stature

  346. of the fullness of Christ.

  347. Ephesians 4.12-13

  348. So here's the point.

  349. Knowing God

  350. transforms you.

  351. Knowing God

  352. transforms

  353. the very structure

  354. of our hearts

  355. so that we come

  356. to love the things

  357. that God loves.

  358. So we control

  359. our bodies

  360. as is right

  361. for those who know

  362. the living God.

  363. Final picture

  364. of holiness.

  365. Sexual sin

  366. is never private.

  367. Sexual sin

  368. is never private.

  369. This is verse 6.

  370. That no one

  371. transgress

  372. and wrong

  373. his brother

  374. in this matter.

  375. Now I think

  376. that the most

  377. direct application

  378. of this verse

  379. is a prohibition

  380. against adultery.

  381. That is no doubt

  382. something that Paul

  383. has prominently

  384. in mind

  385. in this verse

  386. but note at the end

  387. that he says

  388. that no one

  389. wronged his brother

  390. in this matter

  391. and the matter

  392. that Paul

  393. is addressing

  394. right now

  395. is how every aspect

  396. of our sexuality

  397. needs to be submitted

  398. to the aim

  399. of pleasing

  400. the Lord.

  401. So adultery

  402. is not the only

  403. sin

  404. that's in view

  405. in this verse

  406. which means

  407. that this verse

  408. points us

  409. to the reality

  410. that our

  411. sexual sin

  412. regardless

  413. of who is

  414. or is not

  415. aware of it

  416. always

  417. does damage

  418. to the church.

  419. that sexual

  420. sin

  421. is never

  422. private

  423. it always

  424. impacts

  425. more

  426. than just

  427. you.

  428. By God's

  429. good design

  430. you are part

  431. of a local

  432. body

  433. of believers

  434. and when

  435. you sin

  436. even if it's

  437. something as

  438. private

  439. as pornography

  440. you do not

  441. just wrong

  442. yourself

  443. you wrong

  444. your brothers

  445. and sisters

  446. in Christ.

  447. we live

  448. in a culture

  449. that wants

  450. us to believe

  451. that what we

  452. do with our

  453. bodies

  454. as long

  455. as it is

  456. consensual

  457. that it's

  458. nobody's

  459. business

  460. except our

  461. own

  462. and that it

  463. doesn't affect

  464. anyone else

  465. but that's

  466. not true

  467. because sin

  468. always does

  469. collateral

  470. damage.

  471. It always

  472. does

  473. collateral

  474. damage.

  475. Now as

  476. important as

  477. all this is

  478. to know

  479. these

  480. things

  481. that we

  482. just talked

  483. about

  484. in and of

  485. themselves

  486. knowing

  487. these

  488. things

  489. is

  490. not

  491. sufficient

  492. to cause

  493. us

  494. to

  495. change.

  496. It's

  497. crucial that

  498. we know

  499. what our

  500. target

  501. of

  502. sexual

  503. holiness

  504. is

  505. but

  506. defining

  507. sexual

  508. sin

  509. knowing

  510. that we

  511. should

  512. control

  513. our

  514. bodies

  515. and

  516. recognizing

  517. that sin

  518. is never

  519. private

  520. those

  521. three

  522. things

  523. aren't

  524. going

  525. to

  526. in

  527. and

  528. of

  529. themselves

  530. help

  531. us

  532. to

  533. get

  534. to

  535. the

  536. target

  537. knowing

  538. those

  539. things

  540. is not

  541. going

  542. to

  543. inspire

  544. permanent

  545. change

  546. within

  547. our

  548. hearts

  549. which is

  550. why

  551. Paul

  552. ends

  553. his

  554. plea

  555. for

  556. holiness

  557. by

  558. drawing

  559. the

  560. Thessalonians

  561. attention

  562. to the

  563. triune

  564. God

  565. because

  566. at the

  567. end of

  568. the

  569. day

  570. you

  571. and

  572. I

  573. are

  574. incapable

  575. in

  576. our

  577. own

  578. strength

  579. of

  580. living

  581. out

  582. the

  583. holiness

  584. that

  585. the

  586. Lord

  587. calls

  588. us

  589. to

  590. in

  591. this

  592. passage

  593. we

  594. are

  595. totally

  596. dependent

  597. on

  598. the

  599. forgiving

  600. and

  601. transforming

  602. power

  603. of the

  604. triune

  605. God

  606. in order

  607. to

  608. live

  609. this

  610. way

  611. so

  612. let's

  613. follow

  614. along

  615. with

  616. Paul

  617. and

  618. let's

  619. hear

  620. the

  621. three

  622. God

  623. centered

  624. motivations

  625. for

  626. pursuing

  627. sexual

  628. holiness

  629. motivation

  630. number

  631. one

  632. God

  633. is an

  634. avenger

  635. God

  636. is an

  637. avenger

  638. verse

  639. six

  640. that

  641. no one

  642. transgress

  643. and wrong

  644. his brother

  645. in this

  646. matter

  647. because

  648. the

  649. Lord

  650. is an

  651. avenger

  652. in all

  653. these

  654. things

  655. as

  656. we

  657. told

  658. you

  659. beforehand

  660. and

  661. solemnly

  662. warned

  663. you

  664. so

  665. Paul

  666. says

  667. that

  668. God

  669. is an

  670. avenger

  671. of

  672. sexual

  673. sin

  674. and

  675. that

  676. should

  677. motivate

  678. us

  679. to

  680. pursue

  681. holiness

  682. in other

  683. words

  684. God

  685. will

  686. bring

  687. justice

  688. on

  689. all

  690. sexual

  691. sin

  692. when

  693. we

  694. stand

  695. before

  696. the

  697. judgment

  698. seat

  699. of

  700. Christ

  701. which

  702. I'm

  703. guessing

  704. is

  705. not

  706. a

  707. typical

  708. motivation

  709. that

  710. we

  711. think

  712. about

  713. when

  714. we

  715. think

  716. about

  717. our

  718. sanctification

  719. this

  720. idea

  721. that

  722. God

  723. is

  724. an

  725. avenger

  726. and

  727. part

  728. of the

  729. reason

  730. that

  731. we

  732. don't

  733. think

  734. of

  735. that

  736. as

  737. a

  738. primary

  739. motivator

  740. is

  741. that

  742. throughout

  743. the

  744. New

  745. Testament

  746. the

  747. emphasis

  748. in

  749. strengthening

  750. and empowering

  751. the pursuit

  752. of holiness

  753. is

  754. God's

  755. grace

  756. and love

  757. and

  758. mercy

  759. that's

  760. the thing

  761. that gets

  762. the emphasis

  763. in

  764. scripture

  765. and gloriously

  766. so

  767. but

  768. there's

  769. still

  770. a

  771. category

  772. in

  773. the

  774. New

  775. Testament

  776. for

  777. letting

  778. judgment

  779. day

  780. fuel

  781. our

  782. holiness

  783. in

  784. the

  785. here

  786. and

  787. now

  788. that's

  789. a

  790. category

  791. of

  792. thinking

  793. and

  794. that's

  795. the

  796. category

  797. that

  798. Paul

  799. is

  800. pointing

  801. us

  802. to

  803. here

  804. in

  805. 1 Thessalonians

  806. 4

  807. 6

  808. here's

  809. another

  810. passage

  811. in that

  812. same

  813. category

  814. to show you

  815. some other

  816. places

  817. that this

  818. shows up

  819. 2 Corinthians

  820. 5

  821. 10

  822. for

  823. we

  824. must

  825. all

  826. appear

  827. before

  828. the

  829. judgment

  830. seat

  831. of

  832. Christ

  833. so

  834. that

  835. each

  836. one

  837. may

  838. receive

  839. what

  840. is

  841. due

  842. for

  843. what

  844. he

  845. has

  846. done

  847. in

  848. the

  849. body

  850. whether

  851. good

  852. or

  853. evil

  854. so

  855. every

  856. single

  857. person

  858. Christian

  859. or not

  860. is going

  861. to stand

  862. before

  863. the

  864. judgment

  865. seat

  866. of

  867. Christ

  868. one

  869. day

  870. everyone

  871. shows

  872. up

  873. in

  874. the

  875. courtroom

  876. of

  877. heaven

  878. and

  879. when

  880. we

  881. do

  882. our

  883. sexual

  884. sin

  885. is

  886. something

  887. that's

  888. going

  889. to be

  890. on

  891. the

  892. table

  893. that's

  894. according

  895. to

  896. 1

  897. Thessalonians

  898. 4

  899. 6

  900. another

  901. verse

  902. in this

  903. category

  904. of

  905. thinking

  906. James

  907. 3

  908. 1

  909. James

  910. says

  911. not

  912. many

  913. of

  914. you

  915. should

  916. become

  917. teachers

  918. my

  919. brothers

  920. for

  921. you

  922. know

  923. that

  924. we

  925. who

  926. teach

  927. will

  928. be

  929. judged

  930. with

  931. greater

  932. strictness

  933. that

  934. verse

  935. is

  936. in

  937. the

  938. scriptures

  939. to

  940. motivate

  941. teachers

  942. in

  943. God's

  944. word

  945. to

  946. teach

  947. faithfully

  948. and

  949. to

  950. prevent

  951. people

  952. from

  953. flippantly

  954. pursuing

  955. becoming

  956. Bible

  957. teachers

  958. and

  959. in

  960. a

  961. similar

  962. way

  963. in

  964. this

  965. verse

  966. Paul

  967. is

  968. soberly

  969. and

  970. seriously

  971. motivating

  972. us

  973. towards

  974. sexual

  975. holiness

  976. because

  977. God

  978. himself

  979. will

  980. one

  981. day

  982. judge

  983. all

  984. sexual

  985. sin

  986. !

  987. dens

  988. which

  989. means

  990. that

  991. based

  992. on

  993. Christ's

  994. faithfulness

  995. we

  996. do

  997. not

  998. look

  999. at

  1000. judgment

  1001. day

  1002. with

  1003. the

  1004. fear

  1005. of

  1006. hell

  1007. that

  1008. is

  1009. not

  1010. how

  1011. Christians

  1012. look

  1013. at

  1014. judgment

  1015. day

  1016. because

  1017. we

  1018. know

  1019. that

  1020. the

  1021. joy

  1022. of

  1023. heaven

  1024. is

  1025. on

  1026. the

  1027. other

  1028. side

  1029. of

  1030. that

  1031. day

  1032. but

  1033. we

  1034. still

  1035. strive

  1036. so

  1037. that

  1038. on

  1039. that

  1040. day

  1041. we

  1042. get

  1043. to

  1044. hear

  1045. those

  1046. words

  1047. of well done, good and faithful servant.

  1048. Enter into the joy of your master.

  1049. So by God's grace, that's the thing that we're striving for.

  1050. We're striving for that kind of faithfulness.

  1051. So that's the first motivation in this passage.

  1052. God is an avenger.

  1053. Motivation number two, God has called us in holiness.

  1054. God has called us in holiness.

  1055. Verse seven, for God has not called us for impurity, but in holiness.

  1056. So that's that glorious reminder.

  1057. God has called us.

  1058. He has chosen us, but he has not just chosen us for salvation.

  1059. The story of the Christian life is not believe in Jesus and be saved from your sins and then

  1060. wait around until you die and go to heaven.

  1061. Okay, that's not the story of the Christian life.

  1062. When God saves you, he saves you onto a path of relationship with the triune God that goes

  1063. from now until all of eternity.

  1064. And the path that you're on right now is a path in which you are called to grow in your personal

  1065. holiness before the Lord.

  1066. No one earns their way to heaven, but we are on a path of growing and increasing holiness

  1067. that honors God.

  1068. This is 1 Peter 1.16.

  1069. For you shall be holy, for I am holy.

  1070. Right?

  1071. This is Ephesians 1.4.

  1072. God chose us in him before the foundation of the world that we should be holy and blameless

  1073. before him.

  1074. One of the commentators that I read this week says that when God called us as Christians,

  1075. he called us into the sphere where sanctification takes place.

  1076. That he calls us into a realm where God graciously starts to shape us more and more into his image

  1077. and likeness, making our character his character in the context of a personal relationship with

  1078. him.

  1079. So when God saved you, he called you into a lifelong pursuit of holiness and sanctification.

  1080. He called you to strive towards maturity as you walk with him, rooted in his love and grace.

  1081. And I can guarantee you, God's word guarantees you that this path of holiness is better than

  1082. any sexual sin that God calls you to lay down.

  1083. So whatever it is, you can name whatever struggle, anything that you are facing, whatever that thing

  1084. is that you don't want to give up, whatever desire that you want to hold on to, it is not going

  1085. to be as satisfying or as fulfilling as walking in the holiness that God has called you to,

  1086. this God who loved you and gave himself up for you.

  1087. That is going to be far more satisfying than anything that the world has to offer you.

  1088. We've been called in holiness.

  1089. Last motivation in this passage.

  1090. If you disregard this, you disregard God.

  1091. Verse 8, therefore whoever disregards this disregards not man but God who gives his Holy Spirit to you.

  1092. Throughout this passage, even though he is appealing to the Thessalonians in love, Paul makes it quite

  1093. clear that the holiness that he is describing, it comes from an authority that is other than himself.

  1094. That these words are not guidelines or suggestions or opinions.

  1095. And that's because the ultimate source of this sexual ethic is God himself.

  1096. In verse 1, Paul says, we ask and urge you in the Lord Jesus.

  1097. So they are making their appeal not on the basis of their own authority.

  1098. They're making it on the basis of the authority of Christ.

  1099. Then in verse 2, for you know what instructions we gave you through the Lord Jesus.

  1100. The instructions, the commands, the marching orders, if you will, of this passage are instructions

  1101. that come ultimately from the Lord.

  1102. And I apologize, I lost my place.

  1103. There we are.

  1104. And then finally at the end of this passage, we're going to the last verse now, okay?

  1105. Verse 8, we have the clearest claim of authority of all, which is what we just read.

  1106. Therefore, whoever disregards this disregards not man, but God who gives his Holy Spirit to you.

  1107. So if you belong to the living God, Paul is not delivering a TED Talk, okay?

  1108. Nor is this sermon meant to function as one.

  1109. For Christians who ignore what the Bible teaches on sexuality, Paul says quite clearly that they are not disregarding men,

  1110. but that they are disregarding God, the God who claimed us and has rescued us.

  1111. When we come to Christ, God's views on sex and gender and marriage, those things become our views.

  1112. Because again, we're a people who care about pleasing God.

  1113. We are a people who care about God's will and not our own.

  1114. And so that means that we lay everything down at his feet and we say, you are God and we are not.

  1115. Give us wisdom.

  1116. So that's the posture of the Christian is sitting underneath the word of God.

  1117. Before we close, there's one final thing that I want to point out in this passage.

  1118. It's the last thing that Paul says.

  1119. And I think that this is hugely significant for this very serious topic that I hope will encourage you.

  1120. Paul says, God who gives his Holy Spirit to you.

  1121. God who gives his Holy Spirit to you.

  1122. So what's the significance of the fact that God gives his Holy Spirit to us?

  1123. How does he, the Holy Spirit, how does he relate to this whole conversation surrounding our holiness?

  1124. The fact that God gives his Holy Spirit means that God does not leave us to pursue holiness in our own strength.

  1125. He does not abandon us to our sinful desires and expect us to live holy lives through sheer force of will.

  1126. He in his kindness has given us his Holy Spirit.

  1127. So work harder and do better is not the Christian path to transformation.

  1128. Okay, that is not it.

  1129. The Christian path to transformation is striving in the grace and the strength of the Holy Spirit.

  1130. That's what Christian transformation looks like.

  1131. In his high priestly prayer, praise God that this passage is in your Bible.

  1132. John 14, 15 through 17.

  1133. Jesus said this,

  1134. If you love me, you will keep my commandments.

  1135. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another helper to be with you forever.

  1136. Even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive because it neither sees him nor knows him.

  1137. You know him.

  1138. Why?

  1139. For he dwells with you and will be with you.

  1140. Which means that every believer in Christ in this room is indwelled with the Holy Spirit.

  1141. Every single one of us.

  1142. Just pause.

  1143. Just be amazed at that for a moment.

  1144. That the Spirit of the living God dwells in you to strengthen you and to help you in your fight for holiness.

  1145. Whatever that is.

  1146. It could be sexual holiness.

  1147. It could be any other way.

  1148. Any other sin that you are trying to put to death.

  1149. There is no step of the Christian life that you walk apart from his empowering strength upholding you.

  1150. Which means that there is always hope for holiness.

  1151. Always.

  1152. Always.

  1153. If you have made a mess of your life through sexual sin, there is hope for holiness.

  1154. Don't sit in self-pity.

  1155. Don't fall for the accusations of your enemy.

  1156. Don't fall for the lie that this is a sin that you cannot gain victory in.

  1157. Because God is so unbelievably for you that he gave you his Spirit.

  1158. And the Holy Spirit is in you to strengthen you in this fight.

  1159. So do not give up.

  1160. Now what I'm not saying is that all you have to do is believe more in the power of the Holy Spirit.

  1161. And then snap.

  1162. Everything is going to be better.

  1163. Okay?

  1164. So that's not what I'm saying.

  1165. I'm not saying that the fight for holiness should be easy.

  1166. Because it's not.

  1167. And it's especially not going to be easy if you have built up a momentum of sin in your life that you're trying to stop.

  1168. That is something that is going to take time.

  1169. It's going to take hard and painful work in denying yourself and putting your sin to death.

  1170. But if you have the Holy Spirit at work in you, then you should abound in the hope that a new momentum of holiness is possible.

  1171. If it was just up to you, then sure.

  1172. Change is just like a pipe dream.

  1173. Like not going to happen.

  1174. But if it's up to you living in the indwelling power of the Holy Spirit and striving in the strength that God provides,

  1175. then you can kick despair and self-loathing to the curb.

  1176. And you can say, you don't have a place here.

  1177. You tell your downcast heart those words from Psalm 42.

  1178. Why are you downcast, O my soul?

  1179. And why are you in turmoil within me?

  1180. Hope in God.

  1181. For I shall again praise him.

  1182. My salvation and my God.

  1183. We serve a God who has given his Holy Spirit to us.

  1184. And so as we strive for holiness, we have all the reason to boldly hope for change.

  1185. Amen?

  1186. Amen.

  1187. So let's acknowledge the fact that God is an avenger of sin.

  1188. Let's remember that God's calling on our lives involves our holiness.

  1189. And let's give all regard to the God who has graciously given us his Holy Spirit as we seek to live lives that are pleasing to him in accordance with his will.

  1190. Let's pray.

  1191. Amen.

  1192. Let's pray.

  1193. From Psalm 119, 33 through 40.

  1194. Teach me, O Lord, the way of your statutes, and I will keep it to the end.

  1195. Give me understanding that I may keep your law and observe it with my whole heart.

  1196. Lead me in the path of your commandments, for I delight in it.

  1197. Incline my heart to your testimonies and not to selfish gain.

  1198. Turn my eyes away from looking at worthless things and give me life in your ways.

  1199. Confirm to your servant your promise that you may be feared.

  1200. Turn away the reproach that I dread, for your rules are good.

  1201. Behold, I long for your precepts.

  1202. In your righteousness, give me life.

  1203. Heavenly Father, would you help us to trust that your way is best?

  1204. Would you help us to live lives of integrity?

  1205. We want to walk faithfully, Lord God, but we cannot do that alone.

  1206. Thank you for giving your Holy Spirit to us.

  1207. Thank you for not leaving us to our own strength.

  1208. Thank you for being both our Savior and our strength, Father.

  1209. Would you continue doing a work in our church so that we might grow in our faithfulness to you.

  1210. And it's in Jesus' name that we pray.

  1211. Amen.

  1212. Amen.