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  1. Today begins our summer study in Proverbs.

  2. Please follow along in your bulletin as we share a few of these.

  3. Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion.

  4. Better to meet a bear robbed of her cubs than a fool bent on folly.

  5. Some people dig a fork into a pie but are too lazy to raise it to their mouth.

  6. A foolish child is a father's ruin and a quarrelsome wife is like the constant dripping of a leaky roof.

  7. Like the one who grabs a stray dog by the ears is someone who rushes into a quarrel not their own.

  8. Just as a door turns on its hinges so a lazy bones turns back over in bed.

  9. Better to live in a tumble down shack than in a mansion with a nagging spouse.

  10. As a dog returns to its vomit so fools repeat their folly.

  11. Like a broken tooth or lame foot is reliance on the unfaithful in a time of trouble.

  12. Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and a nagging wife.

  13. Do not answer a fool according to his folly or you yourself would be just like him.

  14. But answer a fool according to his folly or he would be wise in his own eyes.

  15. Dreamers fantasize their self-importance.

  16. They think they are smarter than a whole college faculty.

  17. A nagging spouse is like the drip, drip, drip of a leaky faucet.

  18. You can't stop it and you can't get away from it.

  19. Like the useless legs of one who is lame is a proverb in the mouth of a fool.

  20. Like a thorn bush in a drunkard's hand is a proverb in the mouth of a fool.

  21. Good morning, Watermark.

  22. How are you guys doing?

  23. My name is Mike.

  24. I'm working with university students here at Watermark Community Church.

  25. Tobin is out this week and he'll be in Oxford for some more training.

  26. And yeah, so it's just exciting to be here again.

  27. And last time I preached here at Watermarks just a couple weeks ago

  28. was the night after the Champions League final in Europe.

  29. And I preached on idols in our lives.

  30. And I had a really hard time figuring out like do I stay up all night

  31. and would I just watch the game or would I actually do the right thing

  32. and stay in bed and get some rest before preaching.

  33. And I can't believe it's the final of the Euro Cup.

  34. I think Tobin just plans all his traveling around all that

  35. so that he sees how I deal with the idols in my life.

  36. Actually, between the two sermons, I've done a lot of traveling too.

  37. Right after the Champions League final,

  38. we actually took 14 students from Watermark out to the Philippines.

  39. And we worked with the local church north of Manila

  40. and did some outreach there and worked with the Slam kids,

  41. also taught on church planting.

  42. And I just wanted to use the opportunity to say thank you to you guys

  43. for the support and your prayers and your love for the students.

  44. It really brought the students together.

  45. Some of them are here and they're nodding.

  46. And it was really a great week.

  47. And just after the summer, we hope that we can get you an update

  48. on what's going on and the impact that this has.

  49. We just don't want this to be just one trip.

  50. But just continue to build a relationship with people there

  51. and stay in touch with them.

  52. And then after the Philippines,

  53. I actually went to Germany with my wife Katie.

  54. I was just on vacation to see family.

  55. And one of the things you may not know about my hometown

  56. is that it's the place where the brothers Grimm

  57. spent most of their time studying and teaching.

  58. If you don't know who the Grimm's are,

  59. think of fables like Cinderella or Hensel and Gretel

  60. and Rapunzel, Snow White.

  61. Actually, in 1812, exactly 200 years ago,

  62. they published their first book in my hometown.

  63. The book included all these fables and a lot of others.

  64. And when Katie found out that Sleeping Beauty's castle

  65. is only 30 miles away from my hometown,

  66. she really wanted to go.

  67. We didn't make it, but next time I'll take her

  68. and I'll give her a kiss in Sleeping Beauty's castle.

  69. So why do I tell you about the Grimm's?

  70. And we are actually kicking off a new sermon series

  71. on the Proverbs.

  72. And today we'll also talk a little bit about the Grimm's

  73. and how they relate to that, you'll find out.

  74. So for the next five weeks,

  75. we will look at the books of Proverbs.

  76. And in preparation of the sermon series,

  77. I asked a few people what the experience is

  78. with the book of Proverbs.

  79. And a common response I got was

  80. that they haven't really looked at the book before,

  81. so in detail.

  82. Some actually didn't even know

  83. that the Proverbs was a book of the Bible.

  84. So it's something that probably is not really taught

  85. in church very much.

  86. Some actually had skimmed through some of the Proverbs

  87. and studied a little bit,

  88. but never really in depth.

  89. And one response that I got very often

  90. was that Proverbs has a lot of good principles

  91. that we can apply to life.

  92. Now the Proverbs are a part of what we call

  93. the wisdom literature in the Bible.

  94. So for the next five weeks,

  95. we want to see what is that kind of wisdom.

  96. What does it have to offer?

  97. Or is there something that can be applied

  98. to our lives today?

  99. So we will have an introduction today.

  100. We'll dive into Proverbs,

  101. kind of get a feel a little bit for what it's about.

  102. And then the next four weeks,

  103. we will look into specific areas of our lives,

  104. our work life and study life,

  105. our family life.

  106. We'll look at how the Proverbs can be applied

  107. to the words we use in just relating to people.

  108. And one of the things that we would hope for you to do

  109. is to get plugged into community group for that as well.

  110. Our church life doesn't really so much

  111. revolve around Sunday morning.

  112. We really would love for people

  113. to engage deeper with one another,

  114. to not just hear what is said on Sunday morning,

  115. but we have a place to get into community,

  116. to discuss things, ask questions.

  117. And that's what is happening in our community group.

  118. So if that's something you want to do,

  119. we invite you after the service

  120. to talk to the leaders and people outside

  121. and just find a group that is close to you.

  122. We can help you with that.

  123. The book of Proverbs is basically a collection of sayings

  124. containing a lot of insight into life.

  125. The book has its origin with King Solomon.

  126. And in 1 Kings 4.32, it says

  127. that Solomon spoke 3,000 Proverbs

  128. and his songs numbered 1,005.

  129. And in verse 34 of the same chapter, it says,

  130. from all nations, people came to listen

  131. to Solomon's wisdom,

  132. sent by all the kings of the world

  133. who heard of his wisdom.

  134. So thousands of Proverbs and songs came from Solomon.

  135. Now, how did that really happen?

  136. Did Solomon just have one day a really creative night

  137. and started to sit down and say,

  138. I need to come up with some really smart things

  139. that people can apply to their lives.

  140. And this is, I think, where a little bit of the story

  141. of the Grimms can help us connect

  142. with what really happened there.

  143. So the Grimms published this book 200 years ago

  144. called The Children and Household Tales.

  145. It included 86 stories,

  146. many of which nowadays have been turned into movies

  147. that you know.

  148. But the stories at that time,

  149. the way they came up with them

  150. was not just that they started to write them,

  151. but they collected them.

  152. They studied the culture.

  153. They listened to people.

  154. They tried to see what the stories were

  155. that were passed on to the children.

  156. Then they saw different variations

  157. and they asked why these variations were there.

  158. And then they found out that some of these stories

  159. were really good now for teaching.

  160. So they began to put these stories together

  161. and it wasn't there to entertain,

  162. but also to teach and educate the kids

  163. and to pass on some of the wisdom of the culture

  164. and to let people wrestle a little bit

  165. with the morals of the story.

  166. The first edition that was published 200 years ago

  167. was actually not received very well.

  168. It was called Only the Children's Tales,

  169. but many of those tales were not very suitable for children.

  170. So one of the adjustments that was, for example,

  171. made by the Grimm's to the second edition

  172. was that the mother in the Snow White story

  173. and the Rapunzel story

  174. suddenly turned into a stepmother.

  175. I think the moms didn't really want to read these stories

  176. where the moms plot against their children,

  177. want to kill them,

  178. and that's better for the stepmom to do that.

  179. And also some of these sexual references,

  180. like Rapunzel, a little shady person,

  181. they were removed over time.

  182. So there was some adjustment.

  183. And so in the next years, up to 1857,

  184. he actually began to collect 211 stories.

  185. Things were edited and added and removed.

  186. And then we now still today use the stories for teaching,

  187. but even the movies now have adopted a little bit

  188. to our culture.

  189. So how about the wisdom that we find in the Proverbs?

  190. And what Solomon wrote down,

  191. can the wisdom of someone that lived almost 3,000 years ago

  192. still apply and teach anything to us today?

  193. Is there any relevance for us in the 21st century

  194. in what people said at that time

  195. and what they wrote down

  196. as something that was supposed to teach people?

  197. I think what Solomon did at that time as well

  198. was he listened a lot to people.

  199. He collected the stories of the people around him

  200. and he knew about his culture.

  201. His people, the Israelites,

  202. they were the people of God.

  203. And the nation for centuries was on a journey

  204. to seek more about who God is

  205. and how he invites them to live a life honoring God.

  206. So many of the sayings of the culture

  207. probably were passed on from generation to generation.

  208. But if one of these Proverbs or sayings of the culture,

  209. if they realized that it's not very suitable for teaching,

  210. it is not really honoring God,

  211. then these sayings probably disappeared over time.

  212. But other teachings, they grew over time

  213. and were added to the collection of stories

  214. that were passed on by the culture.

  215. And so Solomon begins to read and learn

  216. and wrestle with that wisdom.

  217. And he looks into what is it that is suitable

  218. for people to see what it means to honor God

  219. and to find that wisdom that is in him.

  220. But the Proverbs are not formulas to better living.

  221. They are not like a list of like

  222. the 10 things you should do to be a better dad

  223. or to be a more ethical businessman.

  224. But maybe in our modern mindset,

  225. we sometimes look at the Proverbs like that.

  226. That, oh, a proverb is a good teaching,

  227. we'll take that,

  228. and we just need to apply it to our life

  229. and everything will be fine.

  230. So the Proverbs are not blueprints to our life.

  231. But how do we then understand the Proverbs

  232. if they are not like a formula

  233. that is easily to be applied?

  234. How do we hack the equation of Proverbs

  235. without formulas?

  236. Over the past year,

  237. I actually have learned a lot of things.

  238. Last year,

  239. I probably learned more about life

  240. than I've ever learned in a year before

  241. because last year I got married.

  242. And one thing I learned is

  243. it wasn't new to me,

  244. but somehow still I had to experience it

  245. before I really believed it.

  246. There is no formula to really understanding your wife.

  247. Guys think there is,

  248. and we've been looking for that formula

  249. from the foundations of the world,

  250. but there is no such formula.

  251. But even though there is no formula there,

  252. there is a lot of wisdom.

  253. There is experiences that people have had

  254. in their marriages,

  255. things that you may pass on

  256. and read in books

  257. of people that have made certain experiences,

  258. but you still have to figure out

  259. how do I take all that

  260. and how do I apply it to my life,

  261. to my spouse,

  262. to the context that I live in.

  263. If, for example,

  264. you plan to apply

  265. any of the proverbs

  266. that were read in our drama

  267. before the sermon,

  268. you have to make sure

  269. that you use them in the right moment

  270. and in the right context.

  271. So do not,

  272. and I just repeat that,

  273. do not end an argument

  274. with your wife or girlfriend

  275. quoting that

  276. it is better to live alone

  277. in a tumble-down shack

  278. than sharing a mention

  279. with a nagging spouse.

  280. You may get some practical experience

  281. in applying the proverb.

  282. Bible scholar,

  283. Tremper Longman,

  284. says that

  285. one feature of a proverb

  286. is that it does not teach

  287. universal truth.

  288. On the contrary,

  289. proverbs are true

  290. only if stated

  291. at the right time

  292. and in the right circumstance.

  293. So look at one of the other proverbs

  294. that you heard

  295. in your scripture reading.

  296. Proverbs 26, 4-5,

  297. it says,

  298. do not answer

  299. a fool according to his folly,

  300. or you yourself

  301. we will be just like him.

  302. Answer a fool

  303. according to his folly,

  304. or he will be wise

  305. in his own eyes.

  306. So what is true?

  307. It's a contradiction.

  308. Like what are we supposed

  309. to do with that?

  310. It depends on the circumstance.

  311. We must not only know

  312. the proverb,

  313. but we also need to understand

  314. and read the people

  315. to which it applies.

  316. So proverbs otherwise

  317. are useless,

  318. or they can actually

  319. even be dangerous.

  320. And we all know

  321. what can happen

  322. when people take scriptures,

  323. move them out of context,

  324. and try to apply them to life.

  325. We learn in two other proverbs

  326. in our reading,

  327. in 26, 7,

  328. like the useless legs

  329. of one who is lame

  330. is a proverb

  331. in the mouth of a fool.

  332. Or in 26, 9,

  333. like a thorn bush

  334. in a drunkard's hand

  335. is a proverb

  336. in the mouth of a fool.

  337. The ability to read

  338. the circumstances

  339. and the people around you

  340. is crucial for speaking wisdom.

  341. The proverbs

  342. are not simple formulas

  343. to apply

  344. whenever we feel like it,

  345. but they require wisdom,

  346. and not wisdom from us,

  347. but wisdom from God.

  348. They require

  349. a deep understanding

  350. of people,

  351. of life,

  352. and of circumstances.

  353. Let me tell you a story

  354. that may move us

  355. towards kind of like

  356. seeing more of

  357. what that really means

  358. to find God's wisdom

  359. and acting

  360. according to God's wisdom

  361. and not human understanding.

  362. In 1940,

  363. my home country of Germany

  364. invaded the Netherlands.

  365. One of the families

  366. living there

  367. at the time

  368. was the family Ten Boom.

  369. The Ten Boom

  370. were Christians,

  371. and when they saw

  372. what was happening

  373. all around them,

  374. especially to the Jews,

  375. they felt convicted

  376. that they needed to help,

  377. that they couldn't stand

  378. on the sidelines,

  379. and they decided

  380. to put a shelter

  381. in their home,

  382. a hidden shelter,

  383. a hidden room,

  384. so that they could

  385. hide the Jews there

  386. from persecution

  387. and from the fear

  388. of being deported.

  389. So as they built

  390. the shelter

  391. and they invited people

  392. in there,

  393. more than 100 Jews

  394. over the period

  395. of the next two years

  396. stayed with the Ten Boom

  397. in safety.

  398. They fed them,

  399. they made sure

  400. that they could escape

  401. the country

  402. whenever possible.

  403. But in 1944,

  404. an informant

  405. told the secret police

  406. about their shelter.

  407. And as a result,

  408. the Ten Boom family

  409. was imprisoned

  410. and then later brought

  411. to a concentration camp,

  412. which only Corrie Ten Boom,

  413. the daughter,

  414. survived.

  415. Her father and sister

  416. both died

  417. in the concentration camp.

  418. Corrie Ten Boom

  419. said about her experience,

  420. there are no places

  421. that are safer

  422. than other places.

  423. The center of his will

  424. is our only safety.

  425. His will is our hiding place.

  426. Let us pray

  427. that we will always know it.

  428. The world may have said

  429. to the Ten Boom's,

  430. save your life.

  431. Just don't get involved.

  432. You just need to stay quiet

  433. and wait until it's all over.

  434. It's not your battle to fight.

  435. It's not your responsibility.

  436. But for the Ten Boom's,

  437. they followed God's wisdom.

  438. They followed a higher wisdom

  439. that of the kingdom

  440. that stands for justice

  441. and mercy

  442. and beauty

  443. and goodness

  444. and that mattered

  445. to the Ten Boom's.

  446. There's an image

  447. that Corrie Ten Boom uses.

  448. She talks about a rug

  449. and when you look

  450. at the backside of a rug,

  451. you only see the knots

  452. and you see the threads

  453. dangling down.

  454. It's like the picture

  455. on the right.

  456. They sometimes seem

  457. a little messy.

  458. The colors seem like

  459. they don't really fit

  460. and they are a random mix.

  461. And when the rug is made,

  462. like threads actually

  463. may still be dangling down

  464. and they're not really connected.

  465. And that's how we see the world

  466. and that's how Corrie Ten Boom

  467. described how we may see the world.

  468. That we only see

  469. the unfinished product.

  470. We don't see the beauty

  471. of the picture.

  472. But God,

  473. on the other side,

  474. he looks at life

  475. and he looks from his perspective

  476. and in his wisdom

  477. and all is different.

  478. He has a full understanding

  479. of what is happening

  480. and for him,

  481. that beautiful picture

  482. unfolds of life

  483. and then he draws us into that.

  484. Everything for him

  485. fits together.

  486. The wisdom is found in him.

  487. But we cannot see

  488. from our perspective.

  489. So we want to apply a proverb.

  490. We need to see

  491. a glimpse from God.

  492. A glimpse from his perspective,

  493. from his kingdom

  494. to make sure

  495. that we know

  496. what God is moving us towards.

  497. We need to know

  498. about his kingdom.

  499. We need to know

  500. about his justice and mercy.

  501. We need to know

  502. about how God is restoring

  503. and putting it all together.

  504. We need to know

  505. that we are living

  506. in a broken world

  507. but God is making it whole.

  508. And the Proverbs

  509. invite us to take part

  510. in that healing

  511. and the redemption

  512. and moves us towards

  513. the beautiful picture

  514. of that kingdom.

  515. But when we don't have

  516. this perspective,

  517. if we have no glimpse

  518. of what he is inviting us into,

  519. then we are trying

  520. to make sense of things

  521. by our own strength.

  522. We are trying to explain things

  523. in our own understanding.

  524. And that is the way

  525. it is in our world.

  526. We often rely on

  527. the wisdom

  528. that is found in our world

  529. and in our context

  530. all around us

  531. and it leaves us

  532. sometimes as fools.

  533. When I think of Hong Kong,

  534. we also write

  535. our own Proverbs.

  536. We have Proverbs

  537. written by human wisdom

  538. of the city

  539. and the people in the city

  540. and they are based

  541. on an incomplete picture

  542. of the messy picture

  543. that does not value

  544. what God values.

  545. The Proverbs

  546. we have created ourselves,

  547. they may look like this.

  548. Gather as many resources

  549. as you can.

  550. Take what you can.

  551. It's all about

  552. what you have.

  553. Or a proverb

  554. of Hong Kong

  555. may sound like

  556. study hard,

  557. it will give you

  558. a good job

  559. and that will give you

  560. money

  561. and that will give you

  562. happiness.

  563. happiness.

  564. Or a proverb

  565. may say

  566. your self-worth

  567. is just found

  568. in how respected

  569. and loved you feel.

  570. Be successful,

  571. get status,

  572. get power

  573. and you will be respected.

  574. That is how

  575. the Proverbs look

  576. when we don't see

  577. a glimpse of the kingdom

  578. interpreting our Proverbs.

  579. God is calling us

  580. into seeing

  581. his kingdom

  582. and moving

  583. towards that.

  584. Let's look deeper

  585. into one or two

  586. of the examples

  587. of that tension

  588. between God's wisdom

  589. and human wisdom.

  590. Between us trying

  591. to look at life

  592. from the backside

  593. rather than

  594. asking God

  595. to reveal

  596. what he has for us.

  597. Let's take the example

  598. of relationships.

  599. I think anyone

  600. can relate to that

  601. on some level.

  602. So if you want to

  603. find the right person

  604. or you found

  605. the right person,

  606. what does your culture

  607. say or human wisdom

  608. say that you

  609. should look for?

  610. Maybe find someone

  611. on the same social status

  612. that you are.

  613. It's important

  614. that you can provide

  615. for each other,

  616. that you can keep

  617. your living standard

  618. and maybe make sure

  619. that she looks

  620. presentable,

  621. not just for your own sake

  622. but also for what

  623. people may think

  624. about you

  625. like when you associate

  626. with the person

  627. that's with you.

  628. Hong Kong

  629. is quite shame-based.

  630. So what happens

  631. when things

  632. don't work out

  633. the way

  634. that you thought

  635. the relationship

  636. would look like

  637. once you enter one?

  638. Divorce is not

  639. really the best option

  640. and so

  641. maybe ignoring

  642. each other

  643. is better

  644. and just live

  645. in a miserable

  646. relationship.

  647. Maybe actually

  648. an affair

  649. is culturally

  650. even more appropriate

  651. than just getting

  652. divorced.

  653. At least it keeps

  654. the appearance

  655. to the outside

  656. and you still

  657. get the respect

  658. or love

  659. that you're longing

  660. for.

  661. And when you hear

  662. a proverb

  663. like the ones

  664. we heard before,

  665. we may only hear

  666. the Bible

  667. saying,

  668. oh,

  669. when there's

  670. a quarrelsome

  671. wife,

  672. it's better

  673. to actually

  674. just be gone,

  675. just pack your

  676. stuff and go.

  677. But when we look

  678. through the eyes

  679. of God's wisdom,

  680. we realize

  681. that it's a very

  682. dangerous way

  683. to apply a proverb.

  684. When we separate

  685. it from the movement

  686. towards the kingdom

  687. and what the kingdom

  688. of God stands for,

  689. it is dangerous

  690. to apply it

  691. in that way.

  692. So if we look

  693. at it in a different

  694. light,

  695. we first of all

  696. see that the kingdom

  697. of God

  698. is about

  699. reconciliation

  700. and redemption,

  701. also our

  702. relationships.

  703. So in the first

  704. place,

  705. we have to see

  706. that God

  707. in Christ

  708. is redeeming

  709. everything

  710. and he calls

  711. us for all

  712. relationships

  713. to be reconciled.

  714. So here's the

  715. challenge,

  716. the first challenge

  717. to see a proverb

  718. like this

  719. in a different

  720. light,

  721. to realizing

  722. that we are

  723. called

  724. at first

  725. to redeem

  726. and work

  727. towards

  728. solving

  729. problem

  730. and conflict

  731. within our

  732. relationships

  733. to honor God.

  734. If God

  735. calls us

  736. to restore

  737. our relationship,

  738. we cannot

  739. separate that

  740. from the way

  741. we should

  742. interpret

  743. proverbs

  744. from that

  745. calling.

  746. Also,

  747. we may read

  748. these proverbs

  749. and feel like,

  750. oh,

  751. that's a great

  752. quote that I

  753. should give

  754. to my wife.

  755. I should quote

  756. that every time

  757. we have some

  758. problems,

  759. not all of them

  760. but some.

  761. In a way,

  762. it's a good

  763. way to put

  764. down your

  765. woman,

  766. but

  767. the reality

  768. is that the

  769. proverbs

  770. were written

  771. not as

  772. something that

  773. you learn

  774. to memorize

  775. to quote

  776. to your

  777. wife,

  778. but they

  779. were actually

  780. written for

  781. the man

  782. to study

  783. and to

  784. gain deeper

  785. insight about

  786. life.

  787. So if I

  788. would rewrite

  789. the proverb

  790. 1122,

  791. the first proverb

  792. in your bulletin,

  793. it may basically

  794. say,

  795. why would you

  796. men fall

  797. for the beauty

  798. of a woman

  799. if you already

  800. know that her

  801. character is a

  802. disaster?

  803. Why would you

  804. enter a relationship

  805. in the first

  806. place?

  807. If you would

  808. not be

  809. blinded by

  810. the world

  811. and the

  812. standards and

  813. the values

  814. of this

  815. world,

  816. and instead

  817. see through

  818. God's eyes,

  819. you would

  820. see it's

  821. like a

  822. golden ring

  823. in a

  824. pig snout.

  825. Would you

  826. be blinded

  827. by that?

  828. You need

  829. to see

  830. clearly and

  831. get your

  832. priorities

  833. right.

  834. So here

  835. we see

  836. that when

  837. we begin

  838. to look

  839. from the

  840. lens of

  841. the kingdom

  842. of God

  843. at the

  844. proverb,

  845. we see

  846. that it

  847. draws us

  848. towards

  849. something.

  850. Let's

  851. look at

  852. another

  853. proverb

  854. in 1712,

  855. the next one.

  856. it's

  857. better to

  858. meet a

  859. bear

  860. robbed of

  861. her cubs

  862. than a

  863. fool

  864. bent by

  865. folly.

  866. I've made

  867. some pretty

  868. bad choices

  869. in my life

  870. about people

  871. that I

  872. have allowed

  873. to step

  874. deeply into

  875. my life.

  876. Especially

  877. when I was

  878. working still

  879. in banking

  880. and the

  881. investment

  882. world,

  883. I looked

  884. more for

  885. the status

  886. and the

  887. power and

  888. the money

  889. people had

  890. so that I

  891. would be

  892. associated

  893. with who

  894. they are

  895. and the

  896. power they

  897. had,

  898. than ever

  899. looking at

  900. their

  901. character.

  902. I invested

  903. into

  904. friendships

  905. that went

  906. never very

  907. deep,

  908. would go

  909. out and

  910. have a

  911. good time,

  912. but I

  913. should have

  914. seen that

  915. when you

  916. surround yourself

  917. with people

  918. that have

  919. no accountability

  920. to other

  921. people,

  922. that have

  923. no transparency

  924. about the

  925. troubles they

  926. go through

  927. in their

  928. life with

  929. anybody in

  930. their lives,

  931. people that

  932. are driven

  933. by their

  934. insecurities,

  935. that when

  936. you surround

  937. yourself with

  938. it,

  939. you ultimately

  940. become a

  941. part of

  942. that and

  943. your own

  944. problems come

  945. out and

  946. your own

  947. insecurities

  948. come out.

  949. And it's

  950. true even

  951. in church,

  952. that sometimes

  953. we adopt

  954. the standards

  955. of the

  956. world and

  957. we look

  958. more for

  959. the business

  960. success and

  961. the status

  962. and the

  963. name card

  964. that people

  965. have,

  966. the influence

  967. that people

  968. have,

  969. and then

  970. we put

  971. people in

  972. leadership,

  973. but the

  974. reality is

  975. that when

  976. we look at

  977. the Proverbs,

  978. we see that

  979. they are very

  980. different

  981. standards that

  982. stand for

  983. God's

  984. wisdom.

  985. I call it

  986. toxic people.

  987. Toxic people

  988. are people when

  989. you step into

  990. a relationship

  991. where you get

  992. burned and

  993. hurt.

  994. And I think

  995. the first

  996. question we

  997. need to ask

  998. ourselves,

  999. are we toxic

  1000. people?

  1001. To the people

  1002. around us and

  1003. the people that

  1004. we enter in

  1005. relationship.

  1006. Just think back

  1007. of who did

  1008. you spend time

  1009. with last

  1010. week?

  1011. Who do you

  1012. share your

  1013. meals with?

  1014. Who do you

  1015. share your

  1016. time with?

  1017. who is there

  1018. that you

  1019. allow to

  1020. step deeply

  1021. into your

  1022. life,

  1023. to know

  1024. you,

  1025. to know

  1026. you deeply

  1027. and walk

  1028. with you?

  1029. The

  1030. Proverbs

  1031. warns us

  1032. that we

  1033. rather should

  1034. face a

  1035. crazy

  1036. grizzly

  1037. than people

  1038. driven by

  1039. their own

  1040. wisdom,

  1041. their selfishness

  1042. and their

  1043. destructive

  1044. motives.

  1045. And if you

  1046. see the

  1047. underlying

  1048. message of

  1049. God's

  1050. kingdom in

  1051. this

  1052. proverb,

  1053. it also

  1054. calls us

  1055. not to be

  1056. fools

  1057. ourselves.

  1058. So in

  1059. that

  1060. proverb,

  1061. are we

  1062. maybe the

  1063. fool that

  1064. people should

  1065. not meet?

  1066. For the

  1067. next five

  1068. weeks,

  1069. we will

  1070. go deeper

  1071. into the

  1072. proverbs.

  1073. We'll dive

  1074. deeper into

  1075. what it

  1076. means to

  1077. see the

  1078. proverbs

  1079. through the

  1080. eyes of

  1081. God's

  1082. kingdom.

  1083. We'll look

  1084. into proverbs

  1085. relating to

  1086. our work

  1087. and our

  1088. study life,

  1089. our family

  1090. life,

  1091. and different

  1092. elements of

  1093. our personal

  1094. life,

  1095. and we'll

  1096. try to see

  1097. how they

  1098. can be

  1099. applied to

  1100. our lives,

  1101. not through

  1102. our own

  1103. wisdom,

  1104. but through

  1105. God's

  1106. wisdom.

  1107. As I

  1108. want to

  1109. close,

  1110. I want to

  1111. look at

  1112. 1 Corinthians

  1113. 1.27.

  1114. There it

  1115. says,

  1116. but God

  1117. chose what

  1118. the world

  1119. considers

  1120. nonsense

  1121. to put

  1122. wise people

  1123. to shame.

  1124. God

  1125. chose what

  1126. the world

  1127. considers

  1128. weak to

  1129. put what

  1130. is strong

  1131. to shame.

  1132. We see

  1133. the wisdom

  1134. of God

  1135. most clearly

  1136. in the

  1137. foolishness

  1138. of the

  1139. cross.

  1140. When God,

  1141. who is all

  1142. wisdom and

  1143. who is

  1144. everything,

  1145. steps into

  1146. human history,

  1147. when he

  1148. leaves everything

  1149. behind and

  1150. lives among

  1151. us in the

  1152. person of

  1153. Jesus Christ,

  1154. and he

  1155. shows his

  1156. love to us

  1157. on the

  1158. earth through

  1159. his death

  1160. on the

  1161. cross,

  1162. his great

  1163. wisdom about

  1164. redeeming the

  1165. world.

  1166. When the

  1167. one who has

  1168. everything

  1169. humbles

  1170. himself to

  1171. become

  1172. nothing,

  1173. and walks

  1174. in obedience

  1175. to the

  1176. Father,

  1177. and even

  1178. in obedience

  1179. to the

  1180. death on

  1181. the cross,

  1182. we see

  1183. God's

  1184. full wisdom

  1185. revealed.

  1186. Over the

  1187. next few

  1188. weeks,

  1189. we want to

  1190. see that

  1191. more clearly.

  1192. We want to

  1193. dive into

  1194. what it

  1195. really means

  1196. that Christ

  1197. is the

  1198. wisdom that

  1199. helps us

  1200. interpret

  1201. Proverbs

  1202. and apply

  1203. them correctly

  1204. to our

  1205. lives.

  1206. The Proverbs

  1207. point us

  1208. to how

  1209. God is

  1210. doing his

  1211. work of

  1212. restoration,

  1213. to restore

  1214. relationships

  1215. and to

  1216. live by

  1217. wisdom.

  1218. So we

  1219. invite you

  1220. guys to

  1221. join us

  1222. for the

  1223. five years.

  1224. So again,

  1225. join a

  1226. community

  1227. group,

  1228. begin to

  1229. discuss

  1230. that with

  1231. people,

  1232. because

  1233. ultimately,

  1234. as we

  1235. go into

  1236. the

  1237. Proverbs,

  1238. we don't

  1239. just want

  1240. you to

  1241. think about

  1242. it and

  1243. it being

  1244. wisdom in

  1245. terms of

  1246. something smart

  1247. that you

  1248. learned,

  1249. but it's

  1250. something that

  1251. we all

  1252. go on a

  1253. journey on

  1254. to apply

  1255. to our

  1256. lives,

  1257. that it

  1258. begins to

  1259. impact our

  1260. personal lives.

  1261. that it

  1262. begins to

  1263. impact our

  1264. families,

  1265. that we

  1266. take that

  1267. wisdom and

  1268. God's

  1269. perspective on

  1270. life to

  1271. begin to

  1272. impact our

  1273. workplace and

  1274. our neighborhood,

  1275. our communities

  1276. and our city.

  1277. So let's

  1278. pray as we

  1279. close and as

  1280. we begin this

  1281. journey on

  1282. the Proverbs.

  1283. Father, you

  1284. are the

  1285. great wisdom

  1286. and we

  1287. just confess

  1288. that so

  1289. many times

  1290. we rely

  1291. on our

  1292. own wisdom,

  1293. our own

  1294. strengths and

  1295. we think we

  1296. have it all

  1297. figured out and

  1298. that we

  1299. often fall

  1300. prey to

  1301. the idols

  1302. of this

  1303. city that

  1304. promise us

  1305. wisdom and

  1306. a different

  1307. way of

  1308. life and

  1309. they have

  1310. nothing to

  1311. do with

  1312. your

  1313. values.

  1314. So let's

  1315. pray that

  1316. you would

  1317. begin in

  1318. this journey

  1319. to touch

  1320. our hearts

  1321. and you

  1322. would stir

  1323. a conversation

  1324. within us

  1325. as a

  1326. community to

  1327. see you

  1328. more clearly,

  1329. to see what

  1330. you have for

  1331. us in the

  1332. fullness of

  1333. your wisdom.

  1334. And Father,

  1335. we pray that

  1336. in that

  1337. journey we

  1338. would see

  1339. the wisdom

  1340. of Christ

  1341. more clearly,

  1342. that we

  1343. would see

  1344. the foolishness

  1345. of the

  1346. cross,

  1347. we see it

  1348. as your

  1349. wisdom,

  1350. as the

  1351. invitation of

  1352. grace and

  1353. forgiveness to

  1354. invite the

  1355. world back

  1356. into a

  1357. relationship

  1358. with you

  1359. and to

  1360. enter the

  1361. journey of

  1362. restoration.

  1363. Father,

  1364. we just

  1365. pray that

  1366. you just

  1367. do your

  1368. work in

  1369. this church

  1370. and through

  1371. this church

  1372. that we

  1373. would just

  1374. not take

  1375. this message

  1376. for ourselves

  1377. as something

  1378. that changes

  1379. us as a

  1380. community,

  1381. but that we

  1382. would see

  1383. your longing

  1384. to restore

  1385. this city

  1386. and that we

  1387. would just

  1388. be ready to

  1389. take part in

  1390. that and be

  1391. willing to be

  1392. the hands and

  1393. feet in this

  1394. world.

  1395. We pray this

  1396. in Christ's

  1397. name.

  1398. Amen.

  1399. You may be

  1400. seated.

  1401. We have a

  1402. few announcements.

  1403. The first

  1404. thing is, if

  1405. you were here

  1406. last week, we

  1407. introduced you

  1408. to Pastor

  1409. Aldrin.

  1410. If you are

  1411. here, can you

  1412. stand up?

  1413. Oh, there he is.

  1414. So Pastor

  1415. Aldrin is here

  1416. with us for a

  1417. few months to

  1418. work on a

  1419. vision of how

  1420. and if we

  1421. can plant a

  1422. Filipino

  1423. congregation or

  1424. church with

  1425. us.

  1426. And so after

  1427. the service,

  1428. there will be a

  1429. vision meeting

  1430. and you

  1431. find information

  1432. in the

  1433. bulletin.

  1434. So if you

  1435. are interested

  1436. in participating

  1437. or just dreaming

  1438. and envisioning

  1439. what that would

  1440. look for,

  1441. Watermark, to

  1442. be part of

  1443. that, and

  1444. you don't

  1445. need to be

  1446. Filipino.

  1447. Everybody is

  1448. welcome, right?

  1449. To dream and

  1450. envision, a

  1451. lunch will be

  1452. provided.

  1453. So please come

  1454. and see Pastor

  1455. Aldrin after

  1456. church and read

  1457. the information in

  1458. the bulletin.

  1459. And the second

  1460. thing is that in

  1461. August, we will

  1462. have a VBS.

  1463. So we just

  1464. want to give you

  1465. a heads up that

  1466. if you're planning

  1467. your schedule for

  1468. your kids, then

  1469. you can talk to

  1470. Natalie or

  1471. Melanie and

  1472. people involved

  1473. in the children's

  1474. program.

  1475. Finally, if you're

  1476. new to Watermark,

  1477. you probably have

  1478. noticed that we

  1479. don't really pass

  1480. an offering back

  1481. around here.

  1482. We believe that

  1483. the offering and

  1484. money is just a

  1485. part of worship.

  1486. And so we

  1487. would just ask you

  1488. to go to the

  1489. kiosk if you

  1490. feel called to

  1491. give back to

  1492. God.

  1493. And it's just a

  1494. big island in our

  1495. lives and we want

  1496. to allow you to

  1497. wrestle with that

  1498. on your time and

  1499. how you want to

  1500. just respond to

  1501. that part of your

  1502. worship.

  1503. Actually, there's

  1504. something that's

  1505. connected to your

  1506. giving.

  1507. A little over a

  1508. year ago, we had

  1509. a special offering

  1510. towards a church

  1511. in Tokyo after the

  1512. tsunami.

  1513. And we want to

  1514. invite Roger here

  1515. and he's pastor

  1516. there at the

  1517. church, right?

  1518. The worship

  1519. musician there.

  1520. And he'll just

  1521. come up and share

  1522. a little bit about

  1523. what has happened

  1524. since then.

  1525. So I just want to

  1526. invite you up.

  1527. Good morning,

  1528. everybody.

  1529. It's an honor to

  1530. be able to worship

  1531. with you this

  1532. morning.

  1533. I send greetings

  1534. from Grace City

  1535. Church, Tokyo,

  1536. your sister church

  1537. in Tokyo and

  1538. nation of Japan.

  1539. We're only a little

  1540. over two years old,

  1541. so we're not very

  1542. old and we're

  1543. definitely not this

  1544. big.

  1545. We're well under

  1546. 100 people,

  1547. about 65 or so.

  1548. But we are

  1549. encouraged because

  1550. God is working

  1551. there and we

  1552. see the gospel

  1553. working in the

  1554. hearts of the

  1555. Japanese people.

  1556. As you can

  1557. imagine, it's

  1558. been quite a

  1559. year.

  1560. I mean, we

  1561. have been a

  1562. church less than

  1563. a year when we

  1564. found ourselves

  1565. faced with one of

  1566. the biggest

  1567. disasters in human

  1568. history.

  1569. One of our

  1570. pastors,

  1571. Seema Oyagi,

  1572. had just moved

  1573. in three days

  1574. before the

  1575. earthquake, so he

  1576. had boxes

  1577. everywhere.

  1578. And for months

  1579. afterwards, his

  1580. family had to live

  1581. out of boxes.

  1582. And yet, we

  1583. were encouraged

  1584. by your prayers.

  1585. Thank you.

  1586. And for your

  1587. extreme generosity

  1588. of giving, which

  1589. allowed us to go up

  1590. north and bring

  1591. food, water, and

  1592. supplies to people

  1593. who really needed

  1594. it.

  1595. The earthquake

  1596. happened on a

  1597. Friday.

  1598. On Sunday, we

  1599. were able to

  1600. collect goods from

  1601. our church and

  1602. other churches.

  1603. And then on

  1604. Monday, we

  1605. headed up in a

  1606. truck.

  1607. Me, Seema Oyagi,

  1608. that other

  1609. pastor, and

  1610. another missionary.

  1611. It was kind of

  1612. like a scouting

  1613. trip.

  1614. You know, we

  1615. didn't know if we

  1616. were going to be

  1617. able to get up

  1618. there.

  1619. We didn't know if

  1620. the roads were

  1621. passable.

  1622. All of the

  1623. highways had been

  1624. shut down, so we

  1625. had to take little

  1626. mountain roads,

  1627. driving all night

  1628. long.

  1629. There were a lot

  1630. of traffic as

  1631. everybody was

  1632. fleeing south.

  1633. The roads, some

  1634. of them had been

  1635. washed out.

  1636. There was big

  1637. gaps between the

  1638. steel structure of

  1639. the bridges and

  1640. the ground.

  1641. And so if we

  1642. weren't careful, we

  1643. would break the

  1644. axle of our car.

  1645. There were fears

  1646. of nuclear

  1647. radiation.

  1648. If you remember

  1649. those early days,

  1650. every day the

  1651. news seemed to

  1652. be getting worse

  1653. and worse.

  1654. Saturday, Sunday,

  1655. Monday, Tuesday,

  1656. a new fire, a new

  1657. explosion, fears of

  1658. meltdown.

  1659. Yet, despite all

  1660. this, nothing had

  1661. prepared us for what

  1662. we actually saw when

  1663. we got to the

  1664. tsunami area, there

  1665. were entire towns

  1666. that had been wiped

  1667. away.

  1668. There were boats the

  1669. size of probably the

  1670. middle part of this

  1671. room here, as big,

  1672. sitting right in the

  1673. middle of busy

  1674. intersections, what

  1675. used to be busy

  1676. intersections, in the

  1677. middle of town.

  1678. I saw automobiles on

  1679. top of four-story

  1680. buildings.

  1681. And I saw raw

  1682. displays of emotion

  1683. that I'll never

  1684. forget.

  1685. Of course, Japan is

  1686. not like that now.

  1687. You know, by the

  1688. end of the summer

  1689. last year, most of

  1690. the debris had been

  1691. cleared out.

  1692. And so now we're

  1693. focused on trying to

  1694. get people back into

  1695. their homes, getting

  1696. their homes fixed,

  1697. trying to restore

  1698. neighborhoods and

  1699. communities.

  1700. We're also trying to

  1701. get people back to

  1702. work.

  1703. The economy was

  1704. extremely hurt by the

  1705. tsunami.

  1706. All the businesses

  1707. were wiped away.

  1708. And so what one

  1709. business owner at a

  1710. time are trying to

  1711. help get them the

  1712. equipment they need

  1713. is so that they can

  1714. expand, so they can

  1715. hire people, and so

  1716. the economy of the

  1717. region can come

  1718. back.

  1719. Now, it's interesting

  1720. when you think most

  1721. of the area where the

  1722. tsunami hit were

  1723. actually heavily in the

  1724. fishing industry.

  1725. And I think back of

  1726. Jesus coming to

  1727. fishing villages,

  1728. taking fishermen,

  1729. making them fishers of

  1730. men.

  1731. And we long for that

  1732. in Japan.

  1733. We want to see

  1734. churches planted where

  1735. the tsunami hit.

  1736. And we are seeing

  1737. that and are

  1738. encouraged by it.

  1739. In fact, we're seeing

  1740. more people come to

  1741. Christ in Ishimaki,

  1742. one city we're

  1743. focusing on, well

  1744. above what you see in

  1745. the rest of Japan.

  1746. And so we look

  1747. expectantly to see

  1748. what God continues to

  1749. do in the disaster

  1750. area, in Tokyo, in the

  1751. whole nation.

  1752. So please, we covet

  1753. your continued prayers

  1754. for Japan.

  1755. We need them.

  1756. So thank you.

  1757. God bless.

  1758. Thank you.

  1759. Thank you.

  1760. Thank you.

  1761. Thank you.

  1762. Thank you.

  1763. Thank you.

  1764. Thank you.

  1765. Thank you.

  1766. Thank you.

  1767. Thank you.

  1768. Thank you.

  1769. Thank you.

  1770. Thank you.

  1771. Thank you.

  1772. Thank you.

  1773. Thank you.

  1774. Thank you.

  1775. I think all of us

  1776. here remembered that

  1777. Friday pretty well, too.

  1778. And I think something

  1779. that we were able to do

  1780. as a church was,

  1781. on that Sunday, we

  1782. decided to spend some

  1783. time to pray for Japan

  1784. and to pray for

  1785. northern Japan and

  1786. what happened.

  1787. And what we did was

  1788. we sang the chorus

  1789. from Mighty to Save

  1790. in Japanese.

  1791. And I think we sang it

  1792. in Japanese because

  1793. we wanted to, I

  1794. guess, proclaim that

  1795. these truths that are

  1796. true here in English

  1797. or in Chinese or

  1798. whatever, that these

  1799. truths remain true in

  1800. Japan as well.

  1801. And it doesn't matter

  1802. what language we sing

  1803. them in.

  1804. It doesn't matter what

  1805. country we're in.

  1806. That our Savior can

  1807. move mountains and

  1808. that our Savior is

  1809. mighty to save.

  1810. Thank you so much

  1811. for your update.

  1812. And I hope maybe we

  1813. can all stand together

  1814. and sing this again.

  1815. And let's pray for

  1816. the nation of Japan.

  1817. Let's pray for

  1818. Ishinomaki and let's

  1819. pray for Tokyo and

  1820. Japan.

  1821. So we're just going to

  1822. sing this and try it

  1823. in Japanese.

  1824. Receive the

  1825. benediction as we

  1826. leave.

  1827. Father, we just pray

  1828. that as we leave

  1829. this place that we

  1830. would not be the same,

  1831. that we would seek

  1832. your wisdom.

  1833. Father, that we

  1834. would love God,

  1835. love beauty,

  1836. live life to the

  1837. fullest and participate

  1838. in your work of

  1839. redemption and

  1840. restoration of all

  1841. things.

  1842. Father, we thank you

  1843. for the reminder of

  1844. how you are restoring

  1845. in the midst of

  1846. disaster in Japan and

  1847. how you long to

  1848. redeem a city that's

  1849. broken.

  1850. So God, may we take

  1851. that challenge, may we

  1852. take your calling to

  1853. bring back things to

  1854. the kingdom.

  1855. we pray this in

  1856. Christ's name.

  1857. Amen.