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Growing a Healthy Community

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  1. How's everybody doing?

  2. Okay, so we have a, we're trying something for the first time that we've never tried

  3. before, so it's one of the things I love about being a part of this church is we get to try

  4. new things and fail and then see God do amazing things, and so we'll see what God does here.

  5. If you're here for the first time, I want to welcome you to Watermark Community Church.

  6. Um, my name is Tobin Miller. I'm one of the pastors here, teaching pastor, and uh, welcome

  7. back to the students in school. Now, I don't know how you feel when I say that. There was

  8. a part of me as an adult that felt like, well, once my kids get to school, then everything's

  9. good. But what I didn't realize is that when they get to school, I have to help them get

  10. to school. I have to help them get off, and I have to get their clothes ready, and I have

  11. to get every of these things done, and I need to push them out the door and get them

  12. to the bus. And sometimes by the time I start my day, I'm just out of control in my mind,

  13. and I have to spend 15 minutes praying. And then when they come home, I have to help them

  14. with homework and make sure they're doing their homework and making sure they have homework.

  15. And sometimes they say you have homework and they don't have homework. And it's just this

  16. kind of crazy world. And in the midst of this crazy world, one of the things that has

  17. helped us as a family is to come together at night to have dinner together. And so we

  18. try to imperfectly come together for dinner at night and just to kind of have a debriefing

  19. time with our kids. Again, we don't get to do it every night, and sometimes it's an amazing

  20. thing that we can do it. But we feel like it's really important for our kids because we come

  21. down and we kind of debrief their day. It's a day that we, time that we ask them questions

  22. and we get feedback. We try to understand their perspective. And so coming back just

  23. from the States, they have a lot of questions they're asking us about what they experienced

  24. in the States and why don't they experience it here in Hong Kong. And so one of my kids

  25. is always asking me, how come drinks are so expensive in Hong Kong? Because in the States,

  26. drinks are for free or almost for free. And we did this terrible thing this summer. We took

  27. our kids to this restaurant called Chili's. If you have a lot of kids and you go to the States,

  28. never take your kids to Chili's because it will haunt you the rest of your life.

  29. It is amazing food, but they just keep bringing the chips out and the salsa out and the free

  30. drinks out. And my kids are just kind of going crazy. So the chips and salsa and drinks and

  31. refills and refills and it doesn't cost hardly anything. You know, you take them to 7-Eleven

  32. and it costs $1 for a Diet Coke this big and it costs $1.10 for a Diet Coke that big. So

  33. what do you do? How do you choose? And so as we're leaving Chili's and they've had like

  34. 15 drinks of soda and they're jumping off the walls, the stewardess, the waitress looks

  35. at one of my kids and goes, do you want a to-go cup? And my kid goes, a to-go cup? What

  36. is that? And she goes, well, we'll give you this cup full of drink and you can take it

  37. with you as you go. And my kid goes, I love this place. How come Hong Kong doesn't have

  38. a to-go cup? It's amazing. And so we have to debrief about those things. We have to debrief

  39. when my kid comes back last night and they're talking and they said, you know, when I was

  40. at, in America and I was talking to people, we went to camp and they were asking where

  41. I was from and we had to ask, you know, they said, well, we're from Hong Kong. And then

  42. the next question was, do you speak Japanese? My kids don't understand why people think

  43. that when they're from Hong Kong, you have to speak Japanese. And I kept it explaining

  44. to them that Americans are geographically challenged and that we think there's America and everybody

  45. speaks English and then the rest of the world speaks Japanese. And so we have these debriefing

  46. times, but one of the things that's been helpful is it helps us to understand where they're coming,

  47. what they're thinking. And a lot of times we just talk about what does it mean to be a

  48. family? We talk about our values. We talk about the things that are important to us. We talk about

  49. things that we want to be about and how we should act and how we don't want to act. And a lot of

  50. times they ask questions like, these people did these things and yeah, we're like, yeah, that's how

  51. they do it in their family, but maybe we shouldn't do it in our family. What do you think about that?

  52. And maybe as Christians, maybe we should do things differently. And so we have a lot of those

  53. conversations at our dinner table. And you know, the Bible is full of those type of conversations.

  54. That's what the Bible's purpose is. The Bible's purpose has two

  55. purposes. It gets us to God. And it tells us then how we act and how we walk as the family of God.

  56. And today we're looking at a passage in Acts 2. We've actually, the last three weeks, we've looked

  57. at this theme. And this theme is, how do we act or how should we react or how do we live in this

  58. in-between time? That Jesus came, he lived, he died, he rose, and then he went into heaven and he left his

  59. disciples there. And then we had this in-between time, this time of we don't know what to do and if he's

  60. coming back and when he's coming back. And two weeks ago we talked about stewardship and we said that the Bible

  61. says that everything that God gives you, every little jot, your intellect, your ability, your health,

  62. your unhealth, your family, your kids, your wealth, your cars, all these things, all these things are

  63. God's. And he gave them to you and he just wants to bless you with them and you can do whatever you

  64. want with them. But in the end he's going to come back and he's going to ask you what you did with those

  65. things. And we said the theme that he does when he gives us these things is he wants us to use them for

  66. his kingdom. He wants us to make his name great. He wants us to do business for him. He wants to set

  67. up shop so that more people understand about Jesus. But he gives us all these incredible blessings.

  68. Last week we talked about prayer. We said that Jesus told his disciples that when I go away you're

  69. going to be lonely and you're going to be discouraged and the world hates you and it's going to crucify me

  70. and it's going to try to crucify you sometimes. Sometimes you feel like that in your office place

  71. as you try to walk with the Lord. You feel crucified. You feel alone. You feel outnumbered.

  72. And Jesus says that's what's going to happen. And I want you to pray to me because I will be there.

  73. I will meet you in a very special supernatural way. I will come in and I'll be with you and you need

  74. to trust me on this. And so we talked about how some of us have a hard time trusting him on this.

  75. Some of us when we look at God we see him more as an unjust God. An unjust judge. Someone who doesn't

  76. want our best at heart. But Jesus kept reminding us that yes he loves us. That God is good. That

  77. he's going to make all things right. All the injustices you feel. All the things bad done to

  78. you. Everything that's happened to you and you're like wow how could that happen if God were really

  79. good and he was here. Jesus said that when God comes back. When Christ comes back. He's going to

  80. make all those things okay. And we have to trust him. He loves us. Today we look at this passage and I

  81. think it's kind of like this seminal passage for us as a church for all churches throughout the

  82. history of Christendom. It's a story of Pentecost. And in Pentecost it's a Jewish holiday. The similarities

  83. are amazing. When you study the Bible it's kind of like stacked on top of each other. So Pentecost means

  84. 50. And so if you go to Israel today on Pentecost they celebrate Pentecost. And it is the celebration

  85. of God sending Moses to come and grab the people out of bondage and out of slavery. He takes them

  86. through the desert. He gets to this hill. This mountain. And he gives them the law. That's Pentecost.

  87. Now 2,000 years ago the story says that we're at Pentecost. And in the temple mound there's over

  88. 500,000 Jews crammed into his place. It's been 50 days since Jesus died. He rose again. And he went

  89. into heaven. The church has been praying. What do we do? There's only 100 people there. 120 people.

  90. And all of a sudden the same thing happens. God took his people out of bondage, out of slavery.

  91. He takes them to this mountain called Golgotha. He dies to free us from our sin and our bondage.

  92. And on Pentecost instead of giving us the law he gives us God's spirit, the Holy Spirit. He gives us

  93. grace. And this spirit comes in and it rushes in. And it changes and transforms everybody.

  94. And so in the passage what you see is that Peter has gone to the temple mound.

  95. The Holy Spirit is in these 120 people. And Peter starts to share. And he shares the very first sermon

  96. of the very first New Testament. Of the very first some people would say church. Though the church had

  97. been around forever. But this different type of church. The Holy Spirit indwelt church.

  98. And Peter shares the gospel. And he says that Jesus came. He is God's only provision for your sin.

  99. It doesn't matter how good you are. It doesn't matter how great you do. It doesn't matter that you don't

  100. hurt people. It doesn't matter that you have this great score list. He says the only thing that brings

  101. you right to God is Jesus and his sacrifice on the cross. Because our sin is so horrendous it separates us

  102. from God. And the minute that people hear that they say what do we need to do then?

  103. Repent. And he says repent and be saved.

  104. And the Holy Spirit comes in and we see from 120 people to 3,000 people come to Christ.

  105. Can you imagine what it would be like in our staff team if we

  106. all of a sudden we had 3,000 people we had to disciple? It would be out of control.

  107. We wouldn't know what to do. And that's what the early church was like. They were out of control.

  108. They had 3,000 hungry new Christians teach us, show us, teach us.

  109. And in Acts 2 it says this is what they did. It said they devoted themselves to four things.

  110. The word devotion is a very deep Greek word. It means to be all in. It means to plant yourself.

  111. It means to give everything. It means to be about it, to be focused on it, to be thinking about it all the time.

  112. It just means, it means just to be all in.

  113. And in the passage it says in verse 24 it says that they're all in on this focus of God's word.

  114. That they're just hungry. Teach us about the Lord. Teach us.

  115. And all they have is the Old Testament, right? They have the Old Testament and they have three years of walking with Jesus.

  116. And so the Bible says that these 3,000 hungry Christians just want to know about God.

  117. And the apostles and disciples are teaching them. They're teaching them the Old Testament.

  118. They're teaching them three years of Jesus. And the people go, tell us more, tell us more.

  119. And it says there was a hunger. There was a thirst.

  120. They hungered for the word of God. They couldn't get God's word enough.

  121. I wonder sometimes if we have that hunger.

  122. If we have that devotion.

  123. What would it look like for us to be a church that would be devoted to God's word?

  124. What would it look like for us to be people who are devoted to God's word that we're hungry for it.

  125. We want to be about it. We want to be all in.

  126. We want to just suck it into our life because we know it's words of life.

  127. What would that look like?

  128. The second thing we see is they come in there.

  129. And in the next verse, they say basically they become devoted to worship.

  130. They start to worship the Lord.

  131. They understand who he is.

  132. And they just focus on what does it mean to worship God?

  133. The passages are verse 42 and 43.

  134. And he basically says they come in and they desire this deep relationship with Jesus.

  135. They have this hunger for Christ.

  136. And they fulfill that hunger in the Lord's Supper.

  137. They take communion together.

  138. And as they take communion, they focus on the cross.

  139. They focus on what Jesus has done.

  140. And this hunger is being satiated.

  141. They have this deep hunger for prayer.

  142. And they're praying all the time.

  143. They're praying wherever they're going.

  144. They're praying in the temple.

  145. They're praying in their houses.

  146. They're always meeting.

  147. They don't just meet on Sunday.

  148. They meet all the time.

  149. Every time they run into each other, they prayer.

  150. And they have this deep awe and hunger and wonder for what God has done.

  151. And I wonder sometimes, if we do, when was the last time we had an awe and wonder of God's mercy and grace?

  152. When was the last time that we just felt this amazement that God came to us and that he sacrificed his own son for us?

  153. When was the last time that we devoted ourselves to worship, to communion, and to prayer?

  154. The next thing the passage says is in verse 47 is that when people came, they knew Christ.

  155. The Holy Spirit filled them.

  156. Their lives were out of control.

  157. It says they had an outward focus.

  158. They focused on the world around them.

  159. They thought about what they could do to fix the things that were broken in the world.

  160. Sometimes we call this evangelism.

  161. Sometimes we call this justice.

  162. But what you see in the passage in verse 47 is that as they did this, as they shared, as they did about God's kingdom,

  163. the church continued to grow and it continued to grow and it started to change society.

  164. And within about 150 years, the Roman Empire went from a pagan empire to a Christian empire because 55% of the people had faith.

  165. Because the people who came to know Christ were indwelt by his spirit and they had a hunger and they wanted to devote themselves to fixing things, to making things right.

  166. And the last thing that we see in this passage is that in verse 42 is that when they came to know Christ, they had a hunger and a devotion for fellowship.

  167. The word there is a new word.

  168. It's never been used in the New Testament or the Bible before.

  169. The word in Greek is koinonia.

  170. Koinonia.

  171. Can you say it with me?

  172. Koinonia.

  173. So this koinonia came in and what it means is it means other focus.

  174. It means to be focused on other people.

  175. It means to be doing things for other people.

  176. It means to be sharing.

  177. It means to be giving.

  178. It means to be living your life with other people.

  179. It means actually to be in partnership.

  180. Koinonia means to be in partnership with God and to be in partnership with each other.

  181. It means to be working together.

  182. It means to be depending on each other.

  183. It means to be thinking of others first.

  184. I wonder what it would be like if we were a church and people came in and instead of saying the very first thing maybe,

  185. what does this church have to offer me?

  186. How are my needs going to get met?

  187. Yeah, I need to go to another church because it didn't really meet all my needs.

  188. I know I'm going to offend some people, but we want to speak truth here.

  189. What would it be like if we came in and instead of saying those things, we said, how can I serve here?

  190. What has God called me to do here?

  191. What are the gifts that God has given me?

  192. How can I make this a better church?

  193. How can I make this a better fellowship?

  194. How can I make this a better community?

  195. What am I going to be devoted to?

  196. What if our attitude was like that of the early church?

  197. And we thought of others instead of ourselves.

  198. As a church, we are on this mission, and this mission is to pursue this devotion, to pursue this idea of being all in,

  199. to pursue this thought of we're here to worship, to make God's name great, to create fellowship, and to be outwardly focused.

  200. And as we've done it, God has brought some amazing staff to us, some amazing staff.

  201. And so you're going to get a chance to hear from some of them about what does it look like for us to pursue this devotion to the Lord.

  202. So I'm going to ask Natalie and Eric to come up first.

  203. Hello, Mark.

  204. It's so good to be here with you this morning, and this is a really exciting day.

  205. So if any of you went to church growing up, do you remember going from kids to youth?

  206. Does anybody remember that?

  207. Alfie does.

  208. Rick does.

  209. Eric does.

  210. Okay.

  211. It's a big deal.

  212. So that's what's happening today.

  213. Some Watermark kids in our surf class are transitioning to youth.

  214. So we're handing them over to Eric.

  215. And Eric will need your prayers.

  216. So we are going to do a little ceremony right now.

  217. And could I have any surf kid that is going to transition to youth come up here right now?

  218. Awesome.

  219. Thank you.

  220. Thank you.

  221. Thank you.

  222. Thank you.

  223. Thank you.

  224. Thank you.

  225. Thank you.

  226. Thank you.

  227. Thank you.

  228. So before I get started.

  229. So before I get started.

  230. Before we actually talk about this transition and recognize the kids, I wanted to talk about appreciation.

  231. So without our volunteer leaders, these kids would not have grown how they have in the past two years.

  232. And so we want to thank you for the investment that our leaders have made in these kids' lives.

  233. And these kids today stand up in front of you as leaders, as the church's leaders today, and are growing as the church's leaders.

  234. So if you can see, if you look around our church, they do contribute.

  235. So they hand out snacks, and they hand out pamphlets.

  236. And so they are your leaders today.

  237. So we want to recognize them as that.

  238. And as they transition to youth, they are going to become even stronger leaders.

  239. So we're excited about that, and we're excited about how they love Christ and how they're growing in their relationship with Christ.

  240. I also want to charge any of you and encourage you that if you haven't volunteered yet in our kids' program, that we would love for you to just give it a try and come take a look at a class.

  241. Because we do need more leaders.

  242. We pray every week for more leaders.

  243. And it's an amazing investment.

  244. You plant seeds in these kids' lives in order so they can grow to love Jesus and grow to teach others about Jesus.

  245. So we want to just take some time to thank you guys for that.

  246. Eric, do you have a few words?

  247. Yeah.

  248. In terms of the youth ministry, we're super excited to have this many new kids joining us.

  249. Also super terrified.

  250. And I think, yeah, as a church, we have a huge responsibility towards this group of kids.

  251. You know, in terms of the youth ministry, we meet on Friday nights, and we have stuff on Sunday mornings.

  252. And if any of you are interested, there are a lot of kids, so we need lots of help.

  253. But I think even if you're not free to help on those times because you have other ministry commitments and stuff,

  254. we as a church family can definitely invest in the lives of these kids.

  255. Traditionally, youth ministry models said that you want to have one volunteer for every five kids.

  256. But more recent research has actually shown if you really want to impact teenagers for Christ,

  257. you actually want to have five adults investing in every one kid's life.

  258. And it doesn't have to be in terms of like, oh, we have 20 kids at youth groups, so we need 100 adults there.

  259. But just simple things like saying hi to them before and after church, getting to know them, you know,

  260. while we're standing around having coffee, small things like that can make a huge difference in these kids' lives.

  261. So my challenge to you as a church is to welcome these kids and the rest of the youth that are already in the youth group,

  262. to make them feel like part of the family, and not to think of them.

  263. And I think often we say that they're the future of the church.

  264. And so we say we don't really need to worry about them today.

  265. But if you think about it, they're in the church today.

  266. They're very strategically placed in their schools, in their families, among their friends, on sports teams,

  267. to have a huge impact for Christ today.

  268. And the things that we can invest in them today aren't just things that are going to bear fruit 20 years down the road,

  269. but they're things that can impact today or tomorrow in schools and in families around Hong Kong.

  270. So I challenge you as a church family, get to know these kids, invest in them, find out what they love to do,

  271. find out what their family life and school life is like.

  272. Just be a friend to them and welcome them as part of your family.

  273. And so, Eric, would you like to pray for our kids and youth?

  274. And then kids and youth, you will be dismissed after this.

  275. Thank you, church.

  276. All right, let's pray.

  277. Dear Father, we thank you for all of the kids and youth that you have brought to Watermark.

  278. We thank you, especially today, for this group of kids that's moving up into youth.

  279. We thank you for the ways that you've been teaching them and working through the church to help them to know you.

  280. And we pray that for all of our kids and youth that as we continue into the new school year

  281. and as we start up new programs and have kids in new classes,

  282. that it would be a time for them to grow in their knowledge of you and their love for you.

  283. And that we as a church family would come around them and support them and love them

  284. and help them in their journey as they continue to grow.

  285. In Jesus' name, amen.

  286. Good morning.

  287. Good morning, Watermark.

  288. Relationships are the key to a healthy life.

  289. We were made for relationships.

  290. And relationships are the key to what we were really meant to be in our lives.

  291. And for Christians, when Jesus died, he died for people whose relationships had broken down because of sin had turned us in on ourselves,

  292. in on our own desires, needs, and not towards others and towards God.

  293. When Jesus died, what he did, he broke down and he began a restoration project.

  294. A restoration of relationship between us and God and relationships between each other.

  295. And what you see when we're looking in the book of Acts is this.

  296. You begin to see a glimpse of what Jesus' restoration project, Jesus' death has accomplished.

  297. You begin to see what it was always meant to be.

  298. A glimpse of the way our lives were meant to be in restored relationships.

  299. These relationships which are not just centered on ourselves, but are outward focused.

  300. And as you look in Acts, maybe you think, as I do, wow, that looks amazing.

  301. You see how they're devoted to one another, how they just seem to be sharing everything.

  302. And it sounds like, I wish that could be true.

  303. I would really long to see a community that was like that.

  304. But then you walk out of the door and the reality of Hong Kong life just hits you.

  305. And you settle for the same old way of doing church that you've always done.

  306. And yet, why are we like this?

  307. Why, when Jesus' death is meant to change everything, is life sometimes so like that?

  308. In Hong Kong, life can often be so busy because what you're doing is, and what I'm doing,

  309. and what we're all doing is, we're filled up with so many different things.

  310. We have, if you're a Christian, there are so many meetings to go to.

  311. There are Bible studies to go to.

  312. There are ministries to be involved with.

  313. And on top of that, you have social gatherings.

  314. You have kids' classes.

  315. You have X, Y, and Z.

  316. There are so many different things.

  317. And then when you hear us talking about community group,

  318. and what it means to be involved in a community like you see in Acts,

  319. it feels like, okay, maybe I have to go to community group.

  320. But community group becomes just a meeting you go to.

  321. Maybe just you attend it for a couple of hours.

  322. It's nice.

  323. Maybe you have a couple of social gatherings outside.

  324. But we don't necessarily invest our lives in each other.

  325. No one really knows my issues.

  326. No one really knows what's really going on in my heart.

  327. No one knows me deeply.

  328. And I'm not investing deeply in other relationships.

  329. And so what we see is the community that Jesus died to create,

  330. which was meant to be a glimpse to the rest of the world

  331. of how amazing Jesus' death has been in restoring us,

  332. what we see is sometimes we can be just like everybody else in Hong Kong,

  333. just busy,

  334. and not investing in those deep relationships like we see in Acts.

  335. But imagine,

  336. imagine if we stop seeing church as simply a meeting we go to for a couple of hours a week,

  337. or even a community group meeting where we just go,

  338. we talk about Jesus for a couple of hours,

  339. and then we go and live the rest of our lives the way we do.

  340. Imagine if we saw church as people and relationships.

  341. Think about your family.

  342. Imagine if you in your family,

  343. you said,

  344. okay,

  345. 3pm till 5pm Sunday we're going to be family.

  346. Now maybe that happens in your family,

  347. but that's not a healthy family.

  348. But often that's the way we view church.

  349. And yet God's vision is far bigger.

  350. So sometimes we make that division between our lives and church,

  351. and we say,

  352. church is asking me to do a lot of things at the moment.

  353. Because we haven't understood that actually church is people and relationships.

  354. And when we become a Christian,

  355. we become part of God's family.

  356. And that means we have family responsibilities to one another.

  357. Responsibilities to invest in each other's lives.

  358. At Watermark,

  359. how are we going to grow these deep relationships like we see in Acts?

  360. Well, our vehicle for doing that in Watermark is our community groups.

  361. This is where you can invest in people's lives.

  362. Not just go to take,

  363. but go to invest.

  364. And Alistair's going to just share something about what it could look like

  365. to be investing in relationships.

  366. Yeah, so Chris has shared with us about how we can see what happens in Acts,

  367. that people are devoted to the apostles' teaching,

  368. to the fellowship,

  369. to the breaking of bread,

  370. and to prayer,

  371. how we can see that come into our church life.

  372. So as he said,

  373. we want to take the responsibility not just to turn up,

  374. but to invest in each other's lives.

  375. And so I'm going to talk a little bit about what that might look like,

  376. how we could do that.

  377. So you know that in investing,

  378. there's a cost that's involved.

  379. You actually have to put something in to invest,

  380. and then you seed it there,

  381. and it germinates,

  382. and it grows,

  383. and then you get a reward out of it.

  384. You reap something from what you sow.

  385. And so with investment in people,

  386. we also need to spend the time that there is for us,

  387. what seems like a cost that's involved.

  388. And indeed that was the case for God as well.

  389. As he came and invested in us,

  390. it cost him the life of his own son.

  391. But as we invest in relationships,

  392. we will begin to reap the gospel community,

  393. a beautiful community that will arise out of that.

  394. A community like we see in the book of Acts.

  395. If you're not already in a community group,

  396. then let me encourage you to have a look around

  397. and find one and join one.

  398. At the back, each Sunday,

  399. Chris is there with a list of community groups

  400. that are all arranged by location,

  401. and you can find one that is close to you

  402. that you can come to.

  403. And if you really struggle to make one of the meeting nights,

  404. then don't just give up at that point and say,

  405. well, it's obviously not for me.

  406. Think about it as people,

  407. not just an event that you go to.

  408. You can meet up with people,

  409. one or two people from within that particular community group,

  410. and get to know people from there at different times.

  411. Arrange to have lunch with them on Sundays.

  412. Remember, it is the relationship that we're looking for,

  413. and not just a meeting.

  414. You can so seed by joining a community group.

  415. But if you join with just a transactional mindset,

  416. an attitude that says,

  417. I'm coming to take what I can from this group,

  418. and then I can discard it,

  419. then that's not investing.

  420. Join it.

  421. Join a community group.

  422. But join it with a view

  423. to wanting to invest in relationships

  424. with people that are there.

  425. And even if it seems like the group is too big

  426. for you to get to know everyone at once,

  427. well, get to know one or two people in it,

  428. and spend the time there,

  429. and then let the relationship spread out.

  430. For those of you who are already in community groups,

  431. community group members,

  432. or ICF members,

  433. for you guys in university,

  434. are you actively engaged

  435. in inviting other people to join your community?

  436. Whether they're a member of this church,

  437. and yet not part of community,

  438. or whether they don't come to this church at all.

  439. They don't know Jesus.

  440. People are more likely to feel welcome

  441. if they have a personal invitation from somebody

  442. to come along to join them.

  443. And so if you meet someone at church over lunch,

  444. or someone you know who is not yet part of community,

  445. then take the opportunity to invite them along

  446. to one of your gatherings,

  447. or one of your social outings,

  448. with no strings attached.

  449. People can come,

  450. and if they like it,

  451. they can keep coming.

  452. I want to talk a little bit about listening as well.

  453. How often do we spend so much time speaking

  454. that we actually don't get a chance

  455. to listen to one another?

  456. How well do you know the stories

  457. of people in your community group?

  458. The stories of those around you,

  459. those you know at church.

  460. You might know them on a superficial basis,

  461. but do you know what they struggle with?

  462. Do you know what drives them?

  463. What they fear?

  464. What they really enjoy?

  465. Take an opportunity to invite somebody out for a meal

  466. and get to know them in this way.

  467. Ask them these things.

  468. What do they enjoy,

  469. and what do they struggle with?

  470. What can you pray for for them?

  471. Sow a seed by taking the time to listen

  472. and to get to know people?

  473. In these things,

  474. what we often find is that

  475. everybody's waiting for somebody else to ask, right?

  476. And so let's break that cycle

  477. where everybody's waiting for everybody else

  478. by you taking the initiative to ask.

  479. And while we're at it,

  480. we don't just listen to one another's stories.

  481. As a church community that is centered around Christ

  482. and what he's done,

  483. we listen to God's story

  484. and find ourselves as part of his story.

  485. So when we meet up with each other,

  486. then why don't we take the opportunity also

  487. to share and to listen to God's story

  488. and our experience of being part of that story.

  489. In Sydney,

  490. we used to do something called

  491. the One Minute Bible Study.

  492. I'll explain it.

  493. So we used to have groups

  494. that would meet before work

  495. or during lunchtime

  496. with people kind of in our building

  497. or close by,

  498. and we would meet to share

  499. to encourage one another

  500. to pray for our colleagues

  501. who didn't yet know Jesus.

  502. And what we would also do

  503. is we would have this One Minute Bible Study

  504. where everybody would bring to the group

  505. something to share for one minute

  506. on one verse

  507. that had touched them during the week

  508. that they might have read or heard somewhere.

  509. And it was just something easy and simple

  510. that we could do.

  511. So yeah, that's something that you could try.

  512. I also want to talk about

  513. leisure

  514. because everybody needs to eat

  515. and everybody has

  516. time kind of they spend

  517. with friends, family and so on.

  518. And this is time

  519. that we can actually invite other people in.

  520. It really struck Chris and I

  521. as we were looking at that Bible verse

  522. that the early Christians

  523. were devoted to the breaking of bread.

  524. They were devoted to eating

  525. with one another.

  526. It sounds a bit like

  527. kind of what we do in Hong Kong, right?

  528. Devoted to eating.

  529. Well, why don't we take the opportunity

  530. to invite people along

  531. as we share in it together?

  532. Not just the same people all the time

  533. but different people

  534. that we might not have met yet

  535. or might not know as well.

  536. People from within the church,

  537. from within the community group,

  538. from a neighbouring community group,

  539. from those who are not part of our church.

  540. Or invite them to enjoy

  541. the things that you enjoy.

  542. Invite them into the craziness

  543. of your family time.

  544. If you go to the beach,

  545. if you go swimming,

  546. if you play badminton or squash,

  547. feel free to invite people along.

  548. Another family or another person

  549. from church, a community group

  550. or neighbouring community group.

  551. Our own group is planning

  552. to kind of reorganise ourselves

  553. around these things.

  554. Breaking bread,

  555. sharing and fellowship,

  556. teaching and so on.

  557. And one of the things we're going to do

  558. is we're going to spend time each month

  559. gathering socially together,

  560. doing something around Hong Kong

  561. so that we can invite people along to it.

  562. Keep sowing those seeds

  563. of investing in relationships.

  564. As we do,

  565. we will reap

  566. a beautiful and genuine

  567. community life here

  568. at Watermark in Hong Kong.

  569. And it's that genuine community

  570. that adorns the gospel

  571. and it attracts outsiders.

  572. Because as Jesus himself said,

  573. this is how everyone will know

  574. that you are my disciples

  575. if you love one another.

  576. Thank you, Alistair.

  577. A large part of being the church

  578. is not only to worship

  579. in these weekly worship services,

  580. not even just to be in community,

  581. but to actually worship God

  582. and serve God

  583. by being a community

  584. that serves

  585. the broader community around us.

  586. The community you see in Hong Kong

  587. outside of the walls of your home,

  588. your workplace,

  589. and all of that.

  590. And that is a big part

  591. of Watermark's vision.

  592. You know, for many of us,

  593. our daily lives

  594. don't really involve

  595. brushing shoulders

  596. and engaging

  597. those who are poor,

  598. those who are hungry,

  599. the homeless.

  600. The abandoned,

  601. the outcast,

  602. the marginalized,

  603. the lowest rungs

  604. of the social ladder,

  605. so to speak.

  606. But God tells us

  607. that religion

  608. that he accepts

  609. as pure and faultless

  610. is this,

  611. to look after orphans

  612. and widows

  613. in their distress.

  614. And in the early church,

  615. those people represented

  616. the most vulnerable groups

  617. of society.

  618. You know,

  619. we may not see it regularly,

  620. but there actually

  621. are genuine physical needs

  622. in Hong Kong,

  623. even in a relatively

  624. wealthy area

  625. like the West Island area.

  626. In the Central

  627. and Western District alone,

  628. over 26,000 people

  629. have a monthly income

  630. of less than $10,000.

  631. Hong Kong.

  632. Over 14,000 households

  633. have a monthly household income

  634. of less than $10,000.

  635. So an entire household.

  636. There are nearly 7,000

  637. single-parent households.

  638. And as we should know,

  639. the reality is that

  640. whether you're rich materially

  641. or you're poor materially,

  642. the underlying poverty

  643. is spiritual.

  644. There's an emptiness

  645. in the human heart

  646. that only God's love

  647. can fill.

  648. And so one of the community groups

  649. in Watermark

  650. saw this reality,

  651. and they've been responding

  652. by supporting an organization

  653. called St. Barnabas Society.

  654. And it's a Christian non-profit

  655. that serves the poor

  656. and the needy

  657. all across the Western District

  658. and Central as well.

  659. And out of the dedication

  660. of this one community group,

  661. we, as the body at large,

  662. now have an amazing opportunity

  663. to begin planting seeds

  664. in something so much greater

  665. than any of us could imagine.

  666. So basically,

  667. we want to help St. Barnabas

  668. expand beyond serving

  669. the elderly and the homeless.

  670. As important as that is,

  671. we want to begin reaching out

  672. to disadvantaged children

  673. as well as their families.

  674. Their community center

  675. actually has an upper floor

  676. that isn't really being used right now.

  677. It's a bit dilapidated.

  678. It's kind of unrenovated.

  679. And we want to take that place

  680. and turn it into a dedicated space

  681. where kids can come get tutored,

  682. they can come learn and hang out,

  683. and even have their parents join in

  684. so that they can actually be served

  685. a family meal together

  686. and be united around that.

  687. And in other words,

  688. this is a huge opportunity

  689. for us as Watermark

  690. to bring children,

  691. at-risk children,

  692. into a safe,

  693. nurturing environment.

  694. You know,

  695. to give disadvantaged kids

  696. actually a chance

  697. of better education,

  698. to unite parents

  699. and children together,

  700. even if it's over one meal.

  701. And really, ultimately,

  702. to speak and show God's love

  703. to every vulnerable group

  704. and individual in that group,

  705. the kids.

  706. And nuts and bolts,

  707. you can find out more

  708. about how you can get involved

  709. by going to the church website,

  710. pens, iPads, paper, whatever.

  711. Please just write down

  712. watermarkchurch.hk

  713. slash community service.

  714. watermarkchurch.hk

  715. slash community service.

  716. And of course,

  717. you can speak to myself

  718. or Mike Rivalin

  719. from the Kennedy Town

  720. community group.

  721. And as you walk

  722. on this journey with us,

  723. as you look into this,

  724. this idea of community service,

  725. I really want to encourage you,

  726. don't,

  727. please don't just serve

  728. because, you know,

  729. you're presented directly

  730. with opportunities.

  731. We really encourage you

  732. to pray and be sensitive

  733. to the things

  734. that God is also

  735. burdening your hearts with,

  736. things that he's speaking to you.

  737. Talk within your community groups.

  738. About things you can explore

  739. as a family.

  740. You know,

  741. what might it look like

  742. for you to plant a seed

  743. in your community?

  744. You know,

  745. what might it look like

  746. for an entire church

  747. of community groups

  748. on a mission together

  749. all across Hong Kong?

  750. I want to close with this.

  751. Matthew 5,

  752. Jesus says,

  753. you are the light of the world.

  754. A city set on a hill

  755. cannot be hidden,

  756. nor do people light a lamp

  757. and put it on a basket,

  758. under a basket.

  759. But they light

  760. the lamp

  761. and put it on a stand

  762. so that it gives light

  763. to all in the house.

  764. In the same way,

  765. let your light shine

  766. before others

  767. that they may see

  768. your good works

  769. and give glory

  770. to your Father

  771. who is in heaven.

  772. And what this means to me

  773. is ultimately,

  774. community service

  775. is not ultimately

  776. about doing good

  777. or alleviating poverty.

  778. It's not even about

  779. just taking care

  780. of the vulnerable.

  781. It's really about

  782. worshiping God.

  783. God.

  784. I know that for every

  785. homeless person

  786. you and I feed,

  787. every lonely grandmother

  788. you and I spend time with,

  789. every disadvantaged child

  790. that I tutor,

  791. whatever it is

  792. that you and I can do,

  793. our God is a God

  794. who loves them

  795. infinitely more

  796. than we do.

  797. And so we just need

  798. to serve our God.

  799. We just need to give him

  800. everything that he's given

  801. to us

  802. so that he may be glorified.

  803. God is the same God

  804. over all people,

  805. rich and poor,

  806. those who are content

  807. and those who feel unworthy.

  808. So may we give freely,

  809. may we give without fear

  810. or discrimination.

  811. And as we worship

  812. in here this morning,

  813. my prayer is that

  814. this worship

  815. would really overflow

  816. into the poorest

  817. and darkest corners

  818. of Hong Kong.

  819. So you've heard

  820. a little bit about

  821. the old

  822. in the New Testament church.

  823. You've heard a little bit

  824. about what it means

  825. for them to be devoted

  826. to what God is doing.

  827. You've heard a little bit

  828. about what God is,

  829. we feel like God's doing

  830. in Watermark here,

  831. what we feel like

  832. he's called us to be about,

  833. what we're praying

  834. that everyone will be about here

  835. as we walk with the Lord.

  836. Let me ask you a question.

  837. And this isn't in the sermon

  838. at the beginning

  839. this morning

  840. as I was praying through it,

  841. I just feel like

  842. I need to ask this

  843. because I need to ask

  844. myself this question.

  845. I hope that you listen

  846. to what I say

  847. very carefully

  848. because I know

  849. that it will be

  850. misunderstood maybe.

  851. But what if you're

  852. in here right now

  853. and you're listening

  854. to this passage

  855. about how the church

  856. was going to come together

  857. and they came to Christ

  858. and the Spirit filled them

  859. and all of a sudden

  860. they started to

  861. worship the Word

  862. and worship

  863. the Lord

  864. and to serve each other

  865. and to give

  866. and to be outwardly focused.

  867. What if you've heard

  868. these passages

  869. right now

  870. and you're hitting

  871. here right now

  872. but you have

  873. no desire

  874. to do that?

  875. I mean,

  876. what if you

  877. prayed the prayer

  878. long ago

  879. and you invited Jesus

  880. into your life

  881. or maybe your mom

  882. prayed it with you

  883. or maybe

  884. you went to a youth group

  885. and you were baptized

  886. or your parents told you

  887. you were always raised up

  888. in a Methodist

  889. or a Catholic

  890. or a Protestant

  891. or a Lutheran church

  892. and so that's who you are

  893. but what if you

  894. don't have a desire

  895. for that?

  896. I mean,

  897. what if you have

  898. no desire

  899. and no push

  900. to devote yourself

  901. to serve?

  902. What if you have

  903. no desire

  904. to devote yourself

  905. to hear God's Word

  906. and to devour it

  907. and to understand

  908. what it means

  909. to be a follower

  910. of Christ?

  911. What if you have

  912. no desire

  913. to worship the Lord?

  914. What if you're sitting here

  915. and you're saying,

  916. yeah,

  917. I've heard these things,

  918. I see these things

  919. but you know,

  920. I just,

  921. I have no desire

  922. to do that.

  923. I don't want to do that

  924. and I've never done that.

  925. I don't want to be

  926. other focused.

  927. I don't want to be

  928. a steward of the resources.

  929. What if I've never tithed?

  930. What if I never realized

  931. that all the money

  932. that I have

  933. isn't really my money

  934. but it's really

  935. God's money?

  936. And I hear these messages

  937. and I say,

  938. so what?

  939. I'm going to keep it

  940. to myself

  941. because God isn't good

  942. and He won't take care of me.

  943. What if you're here

  944. right now

  945. and you feel that way?

  946. What if you're listening

  947. to this passage

  948. and you realize

  949. that you used to do

  950. these things?

  951. I mean,

  952. you came to Christ

  953. one time in your life

  954. and you were all hungry

  955. for God's word

  956. and you used to hunger

  957. for His word.

  958. You used to love

  959. to come to worship.

  960. You used to pray

  961. unceasingly.

  962. You used to look at ways

  963. that you could serve

  964. in the church.

  965. You used to be other focused.

  966. You used to use your money

  967. because you knew

  968. it wasn't your money

  969. but it was God's money

  970. and you used to be

  971. a steward of that.

  972. You used to pray

  973. for other people.

  974. You used to be concerned

  975. about the world around you

  976. but now you're not.

  977. What about us?

  978. The passage here

  979. says really clearly

  980. that the walk

  981. with the Lord,

  982. the Christian life

  983. is about a relationship

  984. with God.

  985. It's not about doing

  986. or being

  987. but it's about

  988. knowing

  989. the risen Lord.

  990. And the scripture

  991. is really clear

  992. that if we know God

  993. and His spirit

  994. is in us

  995. that our life

  996. will start to manifest

  997. these things.

  998. We'll start to be

  999. other focused.

  1000. We start to be

  1001. other thinking.

  1002. We will start to serve.

  1003. We start to give.

  1004. We start to realize

  1005. that our money

  1006. isn't our money

  1007. but it's God's money.

  1008. We start to worship Him.

  1009. We start to know

  1010. and read His word

  1011. because that's where

  1012. He meets us

  1013. and that's where

  1014. He changes our hearts.

  1015. And if we're not

  1016. doing that

  1017. the Bible

  1018. basically says

  1019. that you

  1020. and I

  1021. we have a heart problem.

  1022. And we need to come back

  1023. to the Lord

  1024. and see

  1025. do we really

  1026. understand

  1027. what it means

  1028. to walk with the Lord?

  1029. Do we really understand

  1030. what it means

  1031. to be called

  1032. a child of God?

  1033. Do we really understand

  1034. that everything

  1035. that He's given us

  1036. is an amazing blessing

  1037. especially His Son?

  1038. But we're not to hoard it

  1039. or to give it

  1040. to other people.

  1041. And if we don't

  1042. understand that

  1043. and if we don't do that

  1044. this passage

  1045. and all the rest

  1046. of the Bible

  1047. says you have

  1048. a heart problem.

  1049. And you probably

  1050. don't have the relationship

  1051. with God

  1052. that you think you do.

  1053. And we don't want you

  1054. to leave here

  1055. thinking that

  1056. everything is alright

  1057. when God's word says

  1058. but it's probably not.

  1059. And you need to do

  1060. some serious thinking

  1061. and coming before

  1062. the Lord

  1063. and praying.

  1064. Our prayer is

  1065. that you wouldn't

  1066. leave this time

  1067. you wouldn't leave

  1068. the meal

  1069. that we're about

  1070. to go into

  1071. without doing that.

  1072. There's going to be elders

  1073. and there's going to be

  1074. leaders

  1075. and there's going to be

  1076. staff

  1077. who would love

  1078. to talk to you

  1079. and they'd love

  1080. to talk to you

  1081. about what it means

  1082. to come to know

  1083. the Lord

  1084. and what it talks

  1085. about

  1086. what it means

  1087. to trust Him

  1088. and go on a journey

  1089. with Him.

  1090. What it talks about

  1091. what it means

  1092. to talk about

  1093. planting the seed.

  1094. You know we place

  1095. these things

  1096. these bookmarks

  1097. in your chair

  1098. because this is a verse

  1099. that's meant a lot

  1100. to us as a staff

  1101. because the very fact

  1102. that you're here

  1103. right now

  1104. when we started

  1105. this church

  1106. 43 people came over

  1107. from another church

  1108. now about 30 of them

  1109. aren't here anymore

  1110. they've been shipped

  1111. out to London

  1112. and other countries

  1113. but the very fact

  1114. that you're here

  1115. right now

  1116. is because they

  1117. invested their lives

  1118. they invested

  1119. their finances

  1120. they invested

  1121. their gifting

  1122. for that little time

  1123. that God

  1124. had them here

  1125. and this church

  1126. is here now

  1127. that you're taking

  1128. part of

  1129. and our prayer

  1130. is that you

  1131. would think

  1132. and pray

  1133. and think about

  1134. what it means

  1135. for you to go

  1136. on a journey

  1137. with the Lord

  1138. what does it mean

  1139. for you to be

  1140. all in

  1141. what it means

  1142. for you to give

  1143. everything that He's

  1144. given you

  1145. for His service

  1146. and for those

  1147. who don't know Him

  1148. and for this world

  1149. that's lost

  1150. and needs to be redeemed

  1151. what would it look

  1152. like for you

  1153. to go all in

  1154. and to plant a seed

  1155. these next four months

  1156. just for four months

  1157. I'm going to get

  1158. in a Bible study

  1159. we're going to start

  1160. some studies right now

  1161. my wife and other people

  1162. are doing these Bible studies

  1163. for new beginners

  1164. and for old beginners

  1165. and they're going to be

  1166. being rolled out here

  1167. again it's not a program

  1168. but we just want to get

  1169. people deep

  1170. what if you decide

  1171. hey we want to serve

  1172. what if we want to

  1173. get into a community group

  1174. what if you just do that

  1175. for four months

  1176. and you trust in the Lord

  1177. for that

  1178. would your life be different

  1179. we think it would be

  1180. because the Bible says

  1181. that as the church

  1182. did these things

  1183. as they worshipped

  1184. as they prayed

  1185. as they gave

  1186. as they served

  1187. as they sacrificially

  1188. went to other people

  1189. as they did these things

  1190. society and the world

  1191. changed

  1192. and it changed mostly

  1193. because of a relationship

  1194. the relationship

  1195. was what they had

  1196. with Christ

  1197. and the relationship

  1198. was what they had

  1199. with each other

  1200. and when people saw that

  1201. it changed everything

  1202. and so we're praying

  1203. for all of us

  1204. as a church family

  1205. that we would be all in

  1206. that we would realize

  1207. that God is good

  1208. that we can trust him

  1209. that he gave the most

  1210. precious thing to us

  1211. his son

  1212. and that the life

  1213. he wants for us

  1214. is so much greater

  1215. and far beyond

  1216. anything that we are

  1217. experiencing right now

  1218. Father we thank you

  1219. for this day

  1220. and we come before you

  1221. and we worship you

  1222. we desire a relationship

  1223. with you

  1224. because we know

  1225. that if that relationship

  1226. is not there

  1227. no matter how much

  1228. we try to perform

  1229. no matter how much

  1230. we try to do

  1231. no matter how much

  1232. we try to create

  1233. it is just cosmetics

  1234. because our heart

  1235. stays the same

  1236. and so we thank you

  1237. that you gave your son

  1238. to deal with the true

  1239. problem of the universe

  1240. it's not poverty

  1241. and it's not corruption

  1242. and it's not unfairness

  1243. and it's not unequal

  1244. distribution of resources

  1245. the true problem

  1246. of the universe

  1247. is sin

  1248. in our broken hearts

  1249. because if that was fixed

  1250. then all the other things

  1251. would be taken care of

  1252. as it was

  1253. in your early church

  1254. and so we pray

  1255. Lord that you would

  1256. meet us

  1257. and change us

  1258. and convict us

  1259. and heal us

  1260. and we're so thankful

  1261. that you are merciful

  1262. for your grace

  1263. and your mercy

  1264. and that you never

  1265. give up on us

  1266. you always come towards us

  1267. you are the God

  1268. of second chances

  1269. and so we worship you

  1270. this day

  1271. we pray all these things

  1272. in your son Jesus name

  1273. Amen