Sermon
Choose Gratitude
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Father, your son has told us that there's many different ways that your word can come to us,
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that some of us people, we can be like shallow ground.
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Some can be ground with lots of weeds and thorns.
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And some of us, Father, can be good soil.
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Some of us can be so hard that your word makes no impression whatsoever.
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Father, you know our hearts and you know our minds and you know our wills.
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And we ask, Father, that knowing us as you do and knowing that you still love us,
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Father, in your mercy and in your kindness, would you so pour out your Holy Spirit upon us this morning
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that we will be good soil, that your word will enter deep within our lives,
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deep within our minds and hearts and wills,
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and that as your word comes into us, that it will bear much fruit for your glory.
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This we ask in the name of Jesus. Amen.
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Amen. Please be seated.
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Just as a bit of an aside,
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this Sunday in the blog, which is in your bulletin,
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I talk a little bit about the Catholic Church and what the Creed means,
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and over the next few weeks, different parts of the Creed in particular.
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I'm going to talk about the Church again next week,
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and then I'm going to talk about what it means by remission of sins and all that.
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But if you have any questions, just send me an email,
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and over the next few weeks as I write my weekly blog, I'll try to answer your questions.
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Please take your Bible and turn in your Bibles to 1 Thessalonians chapter 5,
1 Thessalonians 5 chapter mention
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and we're sort of in the middle of a teaching series on practical discipleship.
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And so we're taking a series of different commands in the Bible that are practical,
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and we're looking at one each week.
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And so it's 1 Thessalonians 5 verses 9,
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and we're going to read down to verse 18,
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because verse 18 is the text that I'm going to speak on.
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We're going to look at together this morning.
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And 1 Thessalonians 5, if you've forgotten your Bibles,
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there's always some Bibles up here at the front, and you're welcome to have them.
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Here's how the text goes.
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For God has not destined us for wrath,
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but to obtain salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ,
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who died for us,
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so that whether we are awake or asleep, we might live with him.
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Therefore, encourage one another and build one another up,
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just as you are doing.
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We ask you, brothers and sisters,
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to respect those who labor among you and are over you in the Lord,
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and admonish you,
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and to esteem them very highly in love because of their work.
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Be at peace among yourselves.
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And we urge you, brothers and sisters,
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admonish the disorderly,
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encourage the faint-hearted,
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help the weak,
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be patient with them all,
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see that no one repays anyone evil for evil,
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but always seek to do good to one another and to everyone.
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Rejoice always,
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pray without ceasing,
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give thanks in all circumstances,
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for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
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And the text we're going to examine together today is,
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give thanks in all circumstances,
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for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
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On Thursday,
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I went to my daughter Emma's high school graduation ceremony.
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If you're a guest here,
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I have nine kids.
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Emma's my eighth child,
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so it was my eighth high school graduation ceremony.
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And, you know,
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it's astounding.
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I don't know if,
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like,
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like,
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my oldest son,
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my oldest child,
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I don't know,
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like,
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if he just is,
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like,
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really inferior to Emma and her class,
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but every single time we go to a high school graduation,
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they always tell them that you are the kindest,
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smartest,
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most gifted,
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you know,
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on and on and on class.
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That,
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I mean,
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the principal,
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the presenters,
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they always say that every year.
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So I don't know if that means that,
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like,
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my son was up here,
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and they just,
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every generation just keeps getting better.
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And I don't know,
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before long,
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they'll all be like,
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I don't know,
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like,
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my grandkids will be like gods and goddesses.
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I don't know what's going on.
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But every,
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every year,
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they're always told the same thing.
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I,
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I said the same thing at the eight o'clock service,
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and a man who was going out of the service said,
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you know what,
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I went to my daughter's high school graduation,
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and it's not yours.
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And they told my daughter that her class was the best,
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and brightest,
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and smartest.
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So I don't,
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you know,
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he didn't know what was going on.
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Now,
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I'm not going to make fun of high school graduations,
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and it's definitely better that they say nice things like that
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than mean things.
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True story.
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When I was in my rural parish,
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there was a neighboring church,
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a few kilometers away,
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and the minister had been away on holidays,
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and he'd been away for,
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like,
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for quite a few weeks,
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all on the same,
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he went to one cottage,
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and he went to the same church the whole time.
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And when he came back on,
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the first Sunday he came back in his sermon,
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he said,
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gosh,
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you guys are such a lousy congregation.
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Like,
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where I was before,
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they give more money,
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they work harder,
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they keep the church nicer,
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they love Jesus more,
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they come to the prayer meetings,
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and he went on and on and on,
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and the sermon ended,
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and the whole congregation,
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I'm not making this up,
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the whole congregation got up and walked out.
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Didn't come back.
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So,
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you know,
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it's much better at high school graduations
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that they say nice things than bad things.
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Okay?
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I mean,
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they shouldn't really say,
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the principal shouldn't say,
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I've been a principal for 25 years,
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you're the worst class that I've ever,
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I've had more problems,
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headaches,
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sleepless nights with you than anybody else.
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He shouldn't say that,
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even if it was true.
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However,
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here's the thing,
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at a high school graduation ceremony,
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they'll always as well say all these things like,
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reach the stars,
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you know,
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whatever you can do,
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do it with all your might,
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you know,
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and,
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you know,
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be thankful,
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be kind.
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In fact,
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actually,
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if you put up the Bible verse,
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you put up the Bible verse,
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Andrew,
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other than this little bit,
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just say it with me,
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give thanks in all circumstances,
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for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
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In fact,
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often in ceremonies like that,
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they'll actually say something like,
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give thanks in all circumstances,
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because it'll make you happier,
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wiser,
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more successful,
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more fit,
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better looking,
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shinier teeth,
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I mean,
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they don't say all those things,
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but you know what I mean.
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And they'll often say things like that,
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and often in churches and stuff,
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when they have a sermon about giving thanks,
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it often ends up sounding a little bit like it's a high school graduation ceremony,
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that,
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you know,
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just give thanks,
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give thanks,
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give thanks,
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give thanks,
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give thanks,
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but here's the problem with that.
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The problem is Jesus.
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Jesus throws a monkey wrench into all of this talk about give thanks,
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and give thanks,
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and giving thanks is good for you,
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and giving thanks will make you more successful.
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Here's the problem.
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Jesus throws a huge monkey wrench into that whole way of interpreting give thanks in all circumstances.
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You don't believe me?
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Turn in your Bibles to Luke chapter 18.
Luke 18 chapter mention
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Luke chapter 18.
Luke 18 chapter mention
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And we're going to look at verse 10 and following and see what Jesus says here.
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Luke chapter 18,
Luke 18 chapter mention
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beginning at verse 10.
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Luke 18,
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verse 10.
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And if you don't have your Bible,
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and if you don't have your Bible,
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and if you don't have your Bible,
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you can just listen as I read.
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Jesus is talking.
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He says,
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two men went up into the temple to pray,
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one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector.
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The Pharisee standing by himself prayed thus,
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God,
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I thank you
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that I am not like other men,
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extortioners,
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unjust,
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adulterers,
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or even like this tax collector.
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I fast twice a week.
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I give tithes of all that I get.
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But the tax collector standing far off,
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notice he's not going to be thankful at all.
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The tax collector standing far off would not even lift up his eyes to heaven,
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but beat his breast saying,
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God,
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be merciful to me,
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a sinner.
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And Jesus says,
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I tell you,
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this man,
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the tax collector,
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went down to his house justified rather than the other.
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For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled,
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but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.
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So here's the first thing.
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Andrew,
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if you could put it up.
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Sometimes being thankful shows that we are very far from God.
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Sometimes being thankful shows we are very far from God.
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I'm going to have a different number.
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Like I'm going to have a variety of points up here,
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but in some ways,
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this is like the thing I'm going to try to show you a little bit about how to
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understand that when the Bible text says to give thanks in all circumstances,
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that we have to try to understand it in a biblical way so we can put it into
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in practice in a biblical way.
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And the first thing is that while being thankful is,
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good in a right,
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in a certain context,
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Jesus shows us and tells us that sometimes being thankful shows we are very
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far from God.
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Put the scripture text up again,
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Andrew.
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And by the way,
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if you want these points,
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they'll be on the webpage on Monday if you can't write them down quick enough.
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But say this text with me together.
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Say it with me.
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Give thanks in all circumstances,
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for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
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Now,
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here's the other problem that we have with this text is,
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I don't know how many people there are here,
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a hundred people.
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I don't know what the number is.
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I'll figure it out later.
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Chances are that some of you are very sad.
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Some of you are probably depressed.
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Some of you are probably depressed.
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Some of you probably feel very empty.
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Some of you are struggling with loneliness.
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Some of you are struggling with financial problems.
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Some of you are all of the above.
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And you know,
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you hear a Bible text like,
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give thanks in all circumstances.
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And you think to yourself,
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if you think to yourself,
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I came into the church depressed.
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Now I feel worse.
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Because I don't feel thankful at all.
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And I don't feel thankful,
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and it's hard for me.
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And now the Bible tells me
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that it's God's will for me to be thankful,
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and I don't feel thankful at all.
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And inside,
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you're saying,
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George,
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if you knew the financial problems,
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if you knew the pain
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that I was struggling with right now in my body,
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if you knew the constant pain I had,
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if God knew that,
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he wouldn't say that I should be giving thanks
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in all circumstances.
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I feel completely and utterly unthankful.
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Well,
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here's the thing
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about hearing this Bible text.
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If
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the first thing is
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to try to tell us that
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it's not,
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the Bible's not telling us to be like
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a boosterism,
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like just,
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you know,
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give thanks,
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give thanks,
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give thanks,
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and it's a key to success.
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If that's not what the Bible's saying,
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the Bible's also doing something else,
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saying something else
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which is often missed by Christians.
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If you could put the next point up,
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Andrew,
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it's saying this,
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the Bible is not telling me
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to feel thankful.
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The Bible is not telling me
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to feel thankful.
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All you depressed people out there,
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a little bit of weight
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should just come off your shoulders.
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Okay?
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The Bible is not telling me
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to feel thankful.
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I'm not denying the Bible.
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I'm just trying to clarify,
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in fact,
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what those few simple words
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are actually telling us.
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And they're not telling us
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to feel anything.
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The Bible never tells us
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to feel anything,
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which is wise,
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and the Bible is wise,
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because as we all know,
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telling somebody
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to feel something
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basically never works.
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In fact,
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if you tell somebody
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to be more happy,
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you know what it usually creates?
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Anger.
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It doesn't create happiness.
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In fact,
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unless they get happy
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when they're angry,
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that's the only way
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they're happy.
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You know,
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they weren't feeling thankful
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or happy before.
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Now you told them
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to be happy,
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makes them angry.
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They get happy
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when they're angry,
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so they're happy,
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but that's not what you meant,
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right?
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You don't want to have
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angry people get more angry.
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And the Bible's not telling us
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to feel anything.
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If you could put
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the Bible text up again,
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Andrew,
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let's say it together.
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Give thanks
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in all circumstances,
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for this is the will of God
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in Christ Jesus
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for you.
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The Bible
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is not all,
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it's also not telling us
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that we have to be thankful
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for every single thing
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that happens to us.
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The Bible
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is not a piece
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of Stoic literature.
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Those of a certain type
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of educational background
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will know what Stoics are.
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The Bible is not telling us
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to be Stoics.
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The Bible does not present
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a God who's sort of distant
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and distant,
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maybe very distant,
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and now sort of operates
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basically by fate,
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and we just have to accept
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everything that happens.
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We don't have to say to God,
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okay, God,
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thank you for my cancer.
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Thank you that I'm bankrupt.
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Thank you that I broke my leg.
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Thank you that,
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you know,
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like that country
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and western song,
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my wife left me,
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my dog left me,
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you know,
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my truck left me,
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and everything left me,
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and thank you for this, God.
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The Bible's not telling us
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that we have to give thanks
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to God
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for everything that happens to us.
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Some really terrible things
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happen to us,
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and it's not our fault,
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and some really bad things
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happen to us
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because it's our fault,
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right?
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I mean,
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for many people,
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if you have,
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I mean,
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I'm not a doctor,
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maybe it's for every person.
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If you have cirrhosis of the liver,
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for many people,
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it's because you have
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excessive drinking
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for a long time,
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and you can't say,
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God,
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thank you so much
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for my excessive drinking
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for a long time,
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and I now have,
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that's not what the text
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is saying at all.
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Here's,
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if you put up the point,
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Andrew,
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here's what the text is saying.
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God calls me
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to turn to him
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and give him thanks
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in my circumstances,
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not for my circumstances.
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That's what the Bible text
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is telling us to do.
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If we clear away
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a little bit
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about what the Bible
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is not telling us to do,
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this is part,
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this is the heart
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of what the Bible
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is telling you
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and me to do.
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God calls me
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to turn to him
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and give him thanks
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in my circumstances,
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not for my circumstances.
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It's a very,
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very important distinction.
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Put the text up again,
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Andrew, please,
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and say it with,
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give thanks
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in all circumstances,
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for this is the will
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of God
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in Christ Jesus
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for you.
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Here's the other thing.
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When I was in my
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previous church,
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one morning I got a call
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from a distraught mom
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and her,
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no,
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so it wasn't the mom,
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it was the wife,
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and her husband
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was in jail
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and she asked me
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if I would go
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to visit him in jail.
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And it was the first time
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I ever went
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to visit somebody
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in jail.
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It was the old jail
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in Pembroke.
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I don't think
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it exists anymore.
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And so I went
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to see this fellow
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in jail.
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It was a very memorable time,
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not only because
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it was the first time
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I ever went to jail,
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but it was the other thing
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that was memorable
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was that when I walked
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into a certain part
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of the jail,
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not only was my parishioner
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there,
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but another parishioner
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was there.
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And I wish I had a camera
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to capture the look
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of surprise on his face
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when I walked in
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because he was trying
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to keep it secret
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that he was doing
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time in jail.
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And anyway,
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so I go see
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my parishioner
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and he had a really
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hard, terrible time.
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It's his own fault.
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He woke up
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that morning
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in the Killaloo
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Detention Center
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and he didn't know
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why he was
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in the Killaloo
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Detention Center.
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He didn't know
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what he'd done.
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But he woke up
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feeling sick
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and with a terrible headache.
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He knew
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the last thing
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he could remember
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was that he was drinking.
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And then he wakes up
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and he's in a jail
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and he asks the guards
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what he's done
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and they won't tell him,
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but they're not
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very friendly to him.
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And they drive him
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to the Pembroke Jail
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and he asks them
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time and time again.
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He doesn't know
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if he's killed somebody.
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True story.
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He doesn't know
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if he's killed somebody.
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They drive him
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to the jail.
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They still don't tell him
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what he's done.
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It's only when he's
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being booked
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into the Pembroke Jail
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that they tell him
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what the charges
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were against him.
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He'd gotten
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ragingly drunk,
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crashed his car,
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and when the police
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came to try
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to deal with him,
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he was a little
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short guy like this,
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little scrawny,
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short,
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hardworking,
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working class guy,
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and he tried
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to take on the cops
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and beat them up.
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And the cops
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were all like this tall
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with shoulders like this,
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but so he got
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overwhelmingly drunk,
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smashed up his car,
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walked away from it,
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started to fight
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and kicked
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and fought the cops
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as hard as he could
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until they finally
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subdued him,
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put him in the car,
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passed out,
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threw up in the car,
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I mean the whole bit.
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You can understand
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why the cops
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didn't want to talk to him.
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But he was very subdued
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when I met with him.
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And here's the thing.
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If you could put
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the next point up,
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Andrew,
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here's the thing.
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God calls me
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to turn to him
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and speak to him
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and one of the things
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I am to do
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is to give thanks.
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I'll explain why
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the Bible text
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tells us this.
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God calls me
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to turn to him
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and speak to him
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and one of the things
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I am to do
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is to give thanks,
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but it's not the only thing
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I am to do.
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You see,
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that young guy,
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if he was to listen
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to give thanks
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in all circumstances,
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he has to turn to God,
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he has to say
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some things to God,
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but he shouldn't
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only say thank you.
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Right?
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He needs to probably say,
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dear God,
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I really messed up,
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I really did wrong things.
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Isn't that what he has to say?
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I mean,
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some of us,
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if we're
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in a terrible situation,
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maybe we're in a terrible
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family situation,
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and we take this text
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to heart,
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we're not to say to God,
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dear God,
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thank you so much
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that nobody in my family
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will ever talk to me again.
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That's not what the Bible
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is telling us to say.
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One of the things
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that we might have to say
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is, dear God,
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please forgive me
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that I am so angry
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and unforgiving.
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Please help me
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with my unforgiveness.
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That might be one of the things
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we have to say.
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You see,
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if you put up the text again,
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Andrew,
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here's the thing,
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in the original language,
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in English,
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they have to translate English,
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give thanks in all circumstances
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for this is the will of God
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in Christ Jesus for you.
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In the original language,
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the word the isn't there.
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It doesn't make any sense
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in English,
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so they have to add it
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in English.
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And what it means is,
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if the word the was there,
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it might mean that literally
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in these circumstances,
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that's the thing you have,
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you always have to be thankful.
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Like,
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it has to be the substance
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of your talk,
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the main thing of your talk.
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But what this is saying
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is that what,
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the text is saying
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is that you're not giving
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thanks to God
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for everything that's happened
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to you,
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but whatever your situation is,
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you turn to God
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and talk to him
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and there's going to be
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maybe a whole range of things
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that you're going to have to say.
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Maybe you're going to have to say,
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you know,
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forgive me for this
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and forgive me for this
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and help me with this
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and show me this
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and give me wisdom about this.
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But out of all of the things
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that you say,
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one of the things
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that you must say
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is give thanks.
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In light of your situation,
-
but it's not the only thing,
-
but it's one thing,
-
it's an important thing
-
in terms of your relationship
-
and my relationship with God,
-
is to give thanks.
-
You see,
-
this is really,
-
really helpful for us.
-
You know,
-
the Bible,
-
just like a brief bit of a thing,
-
but the Bible tells you
-
lots of things about,
-
has a very,
-
very rich and nuanced
-
understanding of suffering
-
and trials
-
and things like that
-
that go on in lives.
-
There's a whole range of stories
-
and the Bible is very deep
-
and very,
-
very wise
-
and it's,
-
you can spend your whole life
-
studying the Bible
-
and the Bible,
-
God will continue to speak
-
into your life
-
in new ways
-
as you open the scriptures
-
and you go from cover to cover.
-
And,
-
you know,
-
sometimes we're in a period
-
of just things
-
that are happening to us
-
or just very bad
-
and it might just be
-
that we have to call out to God
-
and one of the things
-
that we might have to say to God
-
is,
-
Father,
-
is this happening to me
-
because I've sinned?
-
Are these things happening to me
-
because,
-
you know,
-
that I've sinned?
-
Father,
-
do I have to come to you
-
or is it a sin of commission
-
or a sin of omission?
-
Father,
-
please reveal that to me
-
and Father,
-
if it is something going on
-
in my life
-
that,
-
you know,
-
I in a sense am bringing on
-
because of what I've done,
-
show it to me,
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Father,
-
and then,
-
Father,
-
please help me,
-
help me to understand,
-
help me to seek amendment of life
-
and to say that I'm sorry
-
or,
-
or Father,
-
are you showing me
-
that,
-
is this happening to me
-
because there's something
-
you want me to know?
-
Is this happening to me
-
because there's something
-
that you want me to become?
-
Is this happening to me
-
because there's some new thing
-
you want me to do
-
in a new direction in my life
-
and,
-
Father,
-
and here's,
-
and here's,
-
you see,
-
maybe,
-
so you see all these things,
-
you pour out your heart to God.
-
God wants us
-
in the middle of every situation
-
and every circumstance
-
to stop in a sense
-
at least at one time
-
during this situation,
-
this circumstance,
-
and turn to him
-
and speak as God.
-
And in the midst of the range
-
of questions
-
and requests
-
that you say to God,
-
one of the things,
-
and,
-
you know,
-
in terms of,
-
it might be this.
-
You might then have to say something,
-
Father,
-
I thank you
-
that I don't have to deal
-
with this alone.
-
I thank you
-
that you are with me.
-
I thank you
-
that you are wise.
-
I thank you
-
that you are power.
-
And I don't,
-
I don't,
-
I'm going to try to list
-
the things
-
that you're to thank God for.
-
Pour out your circumstance,
-
your heart to God
-
and your circumstance.
-
And I'm not just giving you
-
bad things.
-
It could be good things
-
as well,
-
you know,
-
and it could be good things
-
to go,
-
Father,
-
thank you so much
-
for blessing me with this.
-
Father,
-
please,
-
please deliver me
-
from any type of pride
-
or vanity
-
or arrogance about this.
-
But Father,
-
thank you.
-
You've been so kind to me.
-
I'm so thankful for you,
-
to you,
-
for what you've done.
-
So it's not only
-
just bad situations,
-
it's in every circumstance
-
to turn to God.
-
And you know,
-
when we're depressed
-
or we're despondent
-
or we're in pain
-
or we're just unbelievably sad
-
or we're in mourning,
-
it might be very hard
-
because we don't feel thankful
-
to think of what we
-
can say thank you
-
to God for.
-
And that's what is so important
-
because it calls us
-
to think about who God is
-
and what he's done for us.
-
And often that,
-
that's very,
-
very important
-
because,
-
you know,
-
our self is talking to us
-
and saying all of these things
-
and in a sense
-
that God is just saying
-
that comes a time,
-
George,
-
where you've just got to stop
-
and in a sense
-
try to shut off
-
all that conversation
-
that's coming into your head
-
and turn and look to me
-
and think of who I am
-
and what I've done
-
and just think of me.
-
And as you think of me
-
and as you think of all
-
of who I am,
-
I want you to also
-
be thankful
-
for some of who I am.
-
And that's what the Bible
-
is telling us to do.
-
If you put up the text again,
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oh, sorry,
-
there,
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let's say it together.
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Give thanks in all circumstances
-
for this is the will of God
-
in Christ Jesus for you.
-
Now,
-
what I've just described
-
of stopping
-
and giving thanks to God
-
is always very hard.
-
Almost always very hard.
-
It's hard to sustain it.
-
And the reason is,
-
if you could put up the point,
-
here's the reason is,
-
I am not a God in process.
-
I am a fallen creature.
-
In our culture,
-
it makes worse
-
something that already goes on
-
in every one of our souls
-
and minds
-
and hearts and wills.
-
It's easy for us to think
-
that we are like a God
-
in process,
-
but we are not
-
a God in process.
-
We are fallen creatures.
-
I'll give you an example
-
and then I'll show you
-
how it fits in
-
with this text.
-
One of the common pieces
-
of advice that you see,
-
I read lots of novels
-
and stuff,
-
read newspapers,
-
watch movies
-
and all that.
-
And one of the very common
-
things you say,
-
and I've actually heard
-
Christians say this
-
to other Christians,
-
is that you need to learn
-
to forgive yourself.
-
Okay?
-
I'm going to shock you all
-
right now,
-
but I'm going to tell you this.
-
Don't forgive yourself.
-
In fact,
-
I'm going to make you
-
even more shocked.
-
Never forgive yourself.
-
Never forgive yourself.
-
Now I got your attention.
-
It's completely opposite
-
of what the world says.
-
Let me tell you this.
-
Do it as an experiment.
-
Go all the way
-
through the Bible.
-
Look every time
-
that the word forgiveness
-
is or forgive
-
and see if it ever
-
in the Bible
-
tells you to forgive yourself.
-
Not once.
-
Never tells you
-
to do that.
-
Why doesn't it tell you
-
to do that?
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God,
-
you're not a God.
-
You're not God.
-
I don't want to depress you.
-
You're not God.
-
I'm not God.
-
My sin
-
is against God
-
and against the person
-
I've wronged.
-
And I might have to go
-
to the person I've wronged
-
and I might have to ask
-
them for forgiveness
-
because I've wronged.
-
And every act
-
of wrongdoing
-
against another person
-
or against myself
-
is also an act
-
of wrongdoing
-
against God
-
and I need to get
-
his forgiveness.
-
I am not a God
-
to give myself forgiveness.
-
And you see,
-
this is how it fits in
-
with gratitude
-
and thankfulness.
-
I am not a God.
-
I'm not supposed
-
to come before God
-
and say,
-
oh God,
-
I thank you so much
-
that I have the right views
-
on eschatology.
-
I'm not like
-
all those foolish,
-
fill in the blank,
-
premillennialists,
-
dispensationalists,
-
amillennialists,
-
postmillennialists.
-
I thank you, God,
-
that I have the right view
-
on abortion.
-
I have the right view
-
on same-sex marriage.
-
I give you thanks
-
and praise God
-
that I have the correct views
-
on politics.
-
And you know,
-
really all of these things,
-
what you're doing
-
is actually what you're doing
-
is congratulating yourself.
-
And just as the Bible
-
doesn't tell us
-
to forgive ourselves,
-
the Bible doesn't tell us
-
to congratulate ourselves.
-
If we congratulate ourselves,
-
it's because we think
-
that we're a God
-
in process.
-
And I don't want
-
to depress you,
-
but the truth
-
is never depressing.
-
The fact of the matter
-
is you and I
-
are not gods
-
in process.
-
Process.
-
We are fallen creatures.
-
Fallen creatures.
-
This has a very
-
important consequence,
-
but let's look
-
at the text again,
-
Andrew.
-
Put it up, please.
-
Say it with me.
-
Give thanks
-
in all circumstances,
-
for this is the will
-
of God
-
in Christ Jesus
-
for you.
-
What the text
-
is saying
-
about being,
-
about,
-
when I said earlier
-
that we're not
-
a God in process
-
but fallen creatures,
-
what it's telling us,
-
the Bible is,
-
it's so deeply
-
imbued in the Bible.
-
I mean,
-
it's taught in
-
Genesis chapter 1
Genesis 1 chapter mention
-
and 2
-
and 3,
-
but it's so deeply
-
throughout the Bible
-
that we miss it
-
because nothing
-
in the Bible
-
makes sense without it.
-
I could have you
-
read Genesis 1 and 2,
-
but it's all the way
-
through the Bible
-
that we're creatures.
-
We're creatures.
-
We're completely
-
and utterly dependent.
-
I'm dependent
-
upon the earth
-
spinning on its axis
-
at a precise rate.
-
I'm dependent
-
upon the sun
-
spinning around,
-
the earth spinning
-
around the sun
-
at a precise speed.
-
I'm dependent
-
upon the earth
-
being a specific
-
distance from the sun.
-
I am dependent
-
upon air.
-
I'm dependent
-
upon the chemicals
-
in my head
-
being correctly balanced.
-
I'm dependent
-
upon the little neurons
-
firing in the right order
-
in the right way.
-
There's not a single thing
-
in me
-
that is not dependent
-
on something else
-
and external
-
because
-
I am a creature
-
and so are you.
-
And our culture
-
wants to make us
-
think that we are
-
like gods,
-
but we're not.
-
I'm not.
-
You're not.
-
I'm a creature.
-
In fact,
-
if you put this up,
-
one way that we could
-
rename ourselves
-
as human beings,
-
Andrew,
-
is to say,
-
who am I?
-
I am only need.
-
That's who I am.
-
I'm only need.
-
I need oxygen.
-
I need food.
-
I need water.
-
I need my body
-
to work right.
-
I need the planet
-
to spin.
-
I need the stars
-
to be where they are.
-
I am only need.
-
And who is God?
-
What's another name
-
you could have for God?
-
God,
-
another name for God
-
is never need,
-
only give,
-
only love.
-
It's another name
-
for God.
-
Never need,
-
only give,
-
only love.
-
God has no environment.
-
He has nothing
-
that he needs.
-
But he only gives
-
because he's only love
-
in it as of the nature
-
of love to give.
-
And that's why,
-
you see,
-
when the Bible
-
is saying that
-
it's to give thanks
-
because it's the will
-
of God in Christ Jesus
-
for you,
-
it's because it's just
-
the Bible's telling us
-
not to become
-
some type of,
-
as I've already said,
-
you know,
-
to feel a certain way
-
all the time.
-
Drugs make you feel
-
the same way
-
all the time,
-
and drugs ruin you
-
if you take drugs
-
to make you feel
-
the same way
-
all the time.
-
Right?
-
That's what they do.
-
And it's not telling us
-
to be a masochist,
-
and it's not telling us
-
to tell lies,
-
and it's not telling us
-
to be self-congratulatory.
-
The Bible's assuming
-
that we understand
-
that we're creatures
-
and that we're fallen creatures,
-
and that who we are
-
is only need
-
because I am creature.
-
And who is God?
-
God is never need,
-
only give,
-
only love.
-
That's who God is.
-
And so,
-
in a sense,
-
the deepest sense,
-
since I am only need
-
and God is never need,
-
it means that in truth,
-
I should be always grateful.
-
And there should be
-
an almost limitless number
-
of things
-
that I could give thanks for.
-
The physicists amongst us
-
could literally say
-
in their prayers,
-
Father,
-
thank you that the earth is,
-
and you actually know
-
the distance from the sun,
-
thank you that the earth
-
is traveling at this speed,
-
thank you that the earth
-
rotates at this rate,
-
thank you for the ozone layer,
-
and scientists could take
-
all the scientific stuff
-
we know about
-
what it means to be creatures
-
and what it means
-
to have life on earth,
-
and that could be
-
a list of thanks to God.
-
Let's say the biblical text
-
again together.
-
Give with me,
-
give thanks in all circumstances,
-
for this is the will of God
-
in Christ Jesus for you.
-
My wife is a dog walker,
-
she walks her dogs,
-
and I'm a runner.
-
And here's one of the differences
-
between runners and dog walkers,
-
is runners don't talk
-
to each other.
-
I mean, maybe if you have
-
a running buddy
-
and you run with your buddy,
-
you talk with that,
-
but runners don't talk
-
to each other,
-
because you're running.
-
And actually,
-
between trying to fight
-
for breath,
-
and trying to deal
-
with the pain
-
all over your body
-
from running,
-
you wouldn't even be able
-
to have much of a conversation
-
anyway,
-
because you're trying
-
to deal with all those things.
-
But things about dog walkers,
-
is dog walkers meet each other,
-
the dogs,
-
you know,
-
sniff and all that stuff.
-
And then the people talk.
-
So one day,
-
my wife was telling me
-
this afterwards.
-
She was out walking to the dog.
-
She met this older lady.
-
They spent some time talking.
-
And she was really worried
-
about her son,
-
who was estranged from her.
-
And not only was her son
-
estranged from her,
-
like not close to her
-
and sort of ignoring her.
-
And I'm not making
-
a political comment
-
on this, by the way.
-
I'm just,
-
it's just a story,
-
a true story.
-
So I'm not making
-
a political point.
-
But one of her complaints
-
about her son
-
and worries about her son
-
is that he'd become
-
very right wing.
-
And he viewed himself
-
as a self-made man.
-
And he looked down his nose
-
on other people
-
who he thought
-
didn't work hard enough
-
and try hard enough.
-
And she said to my wife,
-
but you know what?
-
He grew up
-
in a stable,
-
secure home
-
with books.
-
We gave him
-
every type of opportunity
-
to learn and develop.
-
We sent him to a really
-
good university.
-
And while he was at
-
that good university,
-
we paid for every penny
-
for his tuition,
-
every penny for his residence,
-
every penny for things
-
in between school years,
-
so that he could have
-
every opportunity.
-
And that when he was
-
starting out,
-
we paid every penny
-
for him to get set up
-
and established.
-
And here he thinks
-
that he's a self-made man
-
and looks down his nose
-
on people
-
who maybe don't have
-
much money
-
and aren't as successful
-
as he is.
-
And he thinks
-
that if they just tried
-
like he tried,
-
they would be successful.
-
And as the woman
-
told the story,
-
it's a very, very,
-
and we can understand it.
-
But here's the thing.
-
In a sense,
-
I am,
-
you and I
-
are that young man,
-
no longer a young man.
-
You and I
-
are that man.
-
Andrew put up
-
the next theory.
-
I am completely
-
dependent upon God
-
and completely estranged
-
from God.
-
Remember,
-
my first point
-
was that
-
I am not
-
a God in process,
-
but I am
-
a fallen creature.
-
and on one hand,
-
I am only need
-
and God
-
is never need,
-
only give,
-
only love.
-
And the great mystery
-
of my existence
-
is that
-
I am completely
-
and utterly
-
dependent upon God
-
and yet at the same time
-
in my flesh
-
I am estranged
-
from him.
-
God is the one
-
who has the neurons
-
fire
-
and the brain
-
work properly
-
and I use my brain
-
to tell him
-
to stay out
-
of my affairs.
-
God is the one
-
that gives me
-
the will
-
and the mind
-
to work
-
and provides
-
an environment
-
and maybe has me.
-
I could have been
-
born in Iraq.
-
I could have been
-
born in North Korea,
-
but I'm born
-
here in Canada.
-
I had nothing
-
to do with that.
-
And I have
-
all these advantages
-
and at the same time
-
that I receive
-
advantage after advantage
-
and gift after gift
-
and need is met
-
after need is met
-
and I say,
-
God,
-
how dare you,
-
how dare you
-
have those views?
-
How dare you ask me
-
to do this?
-
Stay away from me,
-
God.
-
I'm not interested
-
in you, God.
-
I don't think
-
you exist, God.
-
And every single thing
-
that I do like that,
-
even if it's just
-
ignoring God,
-
I'm dependent
-
upon God
-
to ignore him.
-
And so are you.
-
You see,
-
that's why
-
when we turn to God
-
in every circumstance,
-
in every situation,
-
it's not just important
-
that we turn to God
-
in every situation
-
and that we say
-
a variety of things
-
to him,
-
but what needs
-
to form us
-
as we turn to him
-
is not just
-
an acknowledgement
-
that God is great
-
and that he's full
-
of glory,
-
that God is never need,
-
only good,
-
only love,
-
and that he provides
-
for me,
-
he gives me the gift
-
of existence,
-
he,
-
you couldn't list
-
all of the things
-
that we're dependent
-
upon that God gives,
-
but it's not just
-
that we do that,
-
that would just be
-
like deism,
-
it's also that I,
-
I need to turn
-
to him
-
in light
-
of what God,
-
see,
-
here's the mystery
-
of the gospel,
-
that the same God
-
who even as I am
-
estranged from him
-
provides me air
-
and food
-
and just,
-
he,
-
all of my,
-
he just provides
-
at the same time
-
when I'm estranged
-
from him,
-
he provides
-
for that truth,
-
that too,
-
and he provides
-
it all
-
with nothing
-
left over,
-
with nothing
-
added by me.
-
In 1 Thessalonians
-
5 verses 9 and 10
-
which sort of
-
frames this text,
-
it says,
-
for God has not
-
destined us
-
for wrath,
-
but to obtain
-
salvation
-
through our Lord
-
Jesus Christ
-
who died for us
-
so that whether
-
we are awake
-
or asleep
-
we might live
-
with him.
-
And notice
-
what it says,
-
for God has not
-
destined us
-
for wrath,
-
but to obtain
-
salvation.
-
salvation.
-
It's something
-
we receive
-
that God
-
who gives
-
all things,
-
he,
-
through the death
-
of his son
-
upon the cross,
-
gives salvation
-
and it's something
-
that I am
-
to obtain,
-
that I am
-
to receive.
-
And as the hymn
-
said at the beginning,
-
you might have missed it,
-
but it's not in part,
-
but in whole.
-
The salvation
-
that God
-
is going to give
-
is whole
-
and complete.
-
Why?
-
I am
-
only need.
-
And even
-
when I rebel
-
against him
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and even
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though I think
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that he doesn't
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exist and I'm
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estranged from him,
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I never am
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anything other
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than only need.
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So even
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salvation
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has to be
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something
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that the one
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who needs
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nothing
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and only
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gives
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and only
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loves,
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he has
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to do it
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all.
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And he does
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it all
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through the gift
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of his son
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who dies
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upon the cross
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that I am
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estranged from him
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and he
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comes to me.
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He crosses
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that infinite
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distance
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that I cannot
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begin to cross
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and he
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comes
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to me.
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and what
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Jesus does
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for me
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on the cross
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is something
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complete and
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utter that God
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does in Jesus
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for me.
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And I
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can only
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obtain it.
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I can only
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receive it.
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I can never
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earn it or
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accomplish it
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or work for it.
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I can never
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be a self
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made man.
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I can only
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receive what
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Jesus does
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on the cross
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because that
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is the means
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by which God
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can give
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salvation.
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And at the end
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of all these
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practical disciples
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disciplines,
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how is the text
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framed verses
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23 and 24
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to bring the
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point home
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again?
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Now may the
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God of peace
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himself
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sanctify you
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completely
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and may your
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whole spirit
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and soul
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and body
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be kept
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blameless
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at the coming
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of our Lord
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Jesus Christ.
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God keeps it
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blameless.
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God sanctifies.
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He who calls
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you is faithful.
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He will surely
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do it.
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And so it is.
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Whether I'm
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having it
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fantastic
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circumstances
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right now,
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things are going
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really, really
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well, or maybe
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there's things
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that are really
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not going
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very well,
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the Bible
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is inviting
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us in every
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circumstance
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and in every
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situation
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to turn to
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God.
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And as we
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turn to God,
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we're to dwell
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on his greatness
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and his glory.
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And we are to
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dwell on the
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fact that even
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when we are
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estranged,
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Jesus Christ
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crucified is the
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means provided
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by God
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completely,
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utterly,
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thoroughly,
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with nothing
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left over,
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that provides
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the means by
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which I can
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become God's.
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The estrangement
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is removed.
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And all I can
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do is receive it,
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never earn it,
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never attain it,
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never work for it,
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just receive it.
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And as I am in
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my circumstances,
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as I'm praying
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about my
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circumstances,
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as I'm asking
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for wisdom,
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as I'm asking
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for help,
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as I'm asking
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for direction,
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as I'm repenting
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in the midst
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of all of these
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things,
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I'm to still
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turn and thank
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him in light
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of his greatness
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and glory and
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in light of what
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his son has done
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for me on the
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cross.
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And here's this
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final thing.
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Let's say the text
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and then I'll show
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you the final point.
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Let's say it
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together.
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Give thanks in
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all circumstances
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for this is the
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will of God in
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Christ Jesus for
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you.
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Here's the thing
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that we are to
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understand when we
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turn to God in
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whatever situation
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we're in.
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If you put it
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up on the screen,
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Andrew,
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God is unchangeably
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wise and powerful.
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Sorry, God is
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unchangeable.
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He's wise and
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powerful, kind and
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good, true and
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loving, wild and
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untamed.
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Who knows what
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he's going to do?
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Can't put him in a
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box, can't tame him,
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can't put him on a
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leash, can't pat him
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on the head, say he's
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a good boy.
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And on one hand,
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it's the most
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frightening thing in
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the world to think
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that when you
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turn to God in
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your circumstances
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and your
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situations, you're
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turning to the
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God who has no
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needs and is
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completely and
-
utterly wild and
-
untamed.
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And our only
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confidence is that
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he's wise and
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powerful, kind and
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good, true and
-
loving.
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And that he sent
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his son to die
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upon the cross.
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He himself provides
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all of salvation and
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we are to receive it.
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God.
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And so it is, that
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is the God and
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that is the context
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that we are to turn
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to in every
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circumstance and
-
situation.
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And amongst the
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many things we say,
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one of them is thank
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you.
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And his greatness and
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his glory and the
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gift of Jesus and
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him being wild and
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untamed is the
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context of our
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thankfulness to him.
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Please stand.
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Let's just bow our
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heads in prayer.
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Father, we give you
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thanks and praise that
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you know every single
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person here in this
-
room and you know us
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completely and utterly
-
perfectly.
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We thank you,
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Father, that you
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know, not only do
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you see the mask we're
-
wearing right now, you
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know every mask we
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have in our arsenal.
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You know how, you
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know even the way we
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go from mask to mask
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to mask to mask.
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You see every mask,
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every maneuver, and
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you see us as we
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really are.
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You see us, Father,
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and you know even the
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dreams at night that we
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don't remember.
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Father, you know all of
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those.
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You know us perfectly.
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And still you love us.
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And still you sent your
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son to die upon the
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cross for us.
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And still, Father, when
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we come to Jesus and
-
accept him as our
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Savior and Lord and
-
receive what he has
-
done for us, what only
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you can accomplish and
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what you accomplish in
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your son.
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Father, we thank you
-
for this.
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We thank you for it.
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And we ask, Father, that
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your Holy Spirit would
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move and work deeply in
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our lives so that in
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every circumstance and
-
situation that we would
-
pause and turn to you
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and that we would dwell on
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your greatness, that we
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would dwell on your
-
glory, that we would
-
dwell on your wisdom,
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and we would dwell on
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your power, and we
-
would dwell on what your
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son did for us on the
-
cross, what he won for
-
us on the cross, and
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what you offer us through
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the cross and through
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your son.
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And, Father, we ask that
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that would form us as we
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turn to you and talk to
-
you.
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And in all of our pouring
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out of our heart to you,
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Father, and we ask that
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you would teach us and
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help us to pour out our
-
heart to you.
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We ask as well, Father,
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that we would give you
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thanks in our different
-
circumstances.
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Father, make us a
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prayerful people.
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Make us disciples gripped
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by the gospel, living for
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your glory.
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And this we ask in Jesus'
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name.
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Amen.
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Please take a posture of
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prayer as we enter into a
-
time of intercession.
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As we enter this time of
-
prayer, please feel free to
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take whatever position helps
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you to communicate with God
-
our Father.
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Heavenly Father, Lord Jesus,
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precious Holy Spirit, our
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wonderful triune God, we
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praise and thank you for your
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love and care for us.
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As our country prepares to
-
celebrate our national day, we
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praise and thank you for our
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temporal home here in Canada
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and all the freedoms we
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enjoy.
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We pray that you will bless all
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our leaders, federal,
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provincial, and municipal, and
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that you grant them open and
-
willing hearts to seek your
-
will for the good of all.
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Bless and keep those in all the
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services, both at home and
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abroad, whose role it is to
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keep us safe from harm.
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And help us to choose
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gratitude, especially for our
-
salvation.
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Let us pray.
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Dear God, may the leaders of the
-
nations rule with righteousness
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and may they...