Sermon
Our Solution Pictured: The Law
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It's only a lot.
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I've eaten more than my fair share of turnip cake and chestnut cake and everything else,
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enough to cause a heart attack.
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So I hope you guys have also had a great New Year.
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And I like New Year because if you've broken your New Year's resolutions from the first New Year,
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you've now got another chance.
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So it's good.
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But we've been going through a series in God's story, Our Story.
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And we're coming to the point where we're going to look at the law.
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Now, when I was younger, my parents used to give me, well, they thought Sunday was a special day.
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And they wanted to be different from other days.
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And so what they did, they made a rule that on Sundays, you are not allowed to watch television.
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And so the problem with this rule was that all the best televised football games were on Sunday.
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And this caused some kind of crisis in conscience for me because sometimes in the evenings,
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my parents would go out and I would be left at home and there would be an amazing game on TV.
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And at that point, obedience didn't seem particularly attractive.
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So what I would do was I would draw the curtains and I would turn on the TV, turn the sound down.
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And every few minutes, whenever I heard a car coming past, I'd kind of quickly look out of the curtains just to see that my parents weren't there.
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This went on for year after year.
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And I'm hoping my parents don't listen to this because I haven't even confessed to this day.
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So please, if you ever meet them, don't tell them about this.
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But I thought that obedience for me was a meaningless way to spoil my fun.
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Because football seemed far more attractive than obeying my parents.
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And I think that many of us can see obedience a bit like I did with my parents.
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You know, it's a way to spoil my fun.
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After all, even if I disobey, God will forgive me.
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So it's okay, isn't it, to just disobey a little bit.
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You know, it's not that bad.
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Otherwise, we might sometimes think about obedience or religion in an opposite way.
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If I do keep the rules, if I do obey my parents, then they'll be pleased with me.
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And maybe they won't come and punish me.
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I'll avoid the consequences.
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And God becomes a bit like a parent who's always looking over your shoulder, ready to sneak up on you,
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just when you're not expecting, catching you in the act.
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And then they're going to come down hard on you.
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Those are two ways, I think, we often think about obedience.
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But we're going to look at how the Bible deals with it.
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And we're going to see the Bible deals with obedience in a very different way from both of those two ways.
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So let's kind of recap some of the story we've been looking at so far.
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And on your bulletin, you'll also see there's some little icons at the bottom.
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Those are just reminders for you of where we've gone to in the story.
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So the recap is, if you look at the first icon, you see that God is the king over all of creation.
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And he makes this incredibly beautiful world and a garden which he places humans in where they're to satisfy every longing, every desire.
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And the thing that they need to do is just trust God, obey his word, and everything goes well with them.
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And God gives them a command to go out and to fill the world and multiply.
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Then what happens is people decide, actually, we don't really want to obey you, God.
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Actually, it looks more attractive to kind of make ourselves the one who decide what we're going to do.
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So we're going to disobey.
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We're going to decide that we're going to run our world the way we want to run it.
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We're going to center life around ourselves.
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And the problem is, things begin to break apart.
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The relationship with God breaks apart.
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The relationship with each other breaks apart.
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People, shame comes in.
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Fear comes in.
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Hatred comes in.
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Murder comes in.
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Arrogance, where people start trying to make themselves great, comes in.
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And it's devastating.
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They're no longer concerned about looking outward.
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They're only concerned about making themselves secure and looking inward on themselves.
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And just as you get to the point of the Tower of Babel, where people are trying to make themselves great,
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everything seems to be right at rock bottom.
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Then God comes along, and he makes a promise to a man called Abraham, and he says,
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I will make you great.
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I'm going to promise you three things.
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Three amazing things.
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I'm going to give you a land.
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I'm going to give you a people.
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I'm going to give you a blessing, which is going to go out to the whole of the world.
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Because I'm going to recreate what your original purpose as human beings was.
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And you're going to be my people.
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And we saw last week how God had begun this process of multiplying these people in Egypt.
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They were in slavery.
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And God brought them out and saved them through sacrifice, through the blood of a lamb on the doorposts.
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And he brought them out, and he took them through to a mountain.
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And that's where we come today, to a mountain to give his law to people.
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And we're going to think about this idea of law in just three stages, really.
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A distinctive relationship.
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A distinctive people.
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A distinctive savior.
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Okay?
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Distinctive relationship.
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Distinctive people.
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Distinctive savior.
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So let's think about distinctive relationship.
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When God brings his people out of Egypt, he brings them to this mountain.
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And what he's doing, he's bringing them into a kind of marriage ceremony.
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It's what's called a covenant.
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It's a formal relationship between two parties, two people of commitment and responsibility.
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This whole thing that we're reading is like a big marriage that God is doing.
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And if you notice what God says, first of all.
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He says, and you can look in chapter, verse 4.
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You yourselves have seen what I did to the Egyptians.
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How I bore you on eagles' wings.
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And I brought you to myself.
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Now, therefore, if you will indeed obey my voice and keep my covenant, you will be my treasured possession.
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You will be a kingdom of priests and a holy nation.
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Now, did you notice what God said?
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What's the first thing he says?
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Does he say, okay, now you've got to obey me?
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Okay?
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Is that the first thing he says?
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He says, if you've met my standard, if you've lived well enough, then maybe we can kind of work out some kind of relationship here.
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He doesn't say that.
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The first thing he says is, you've seen how I rescued you.
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You've seen how I've saved you.
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You've seen how I swooped down like an eagle, and I came and I rescued you.
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You were slaves.
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You were suffering.
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I heard your cry.
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I snatched you out.
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I brought you to safety.
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It's a bit like if you've seen The Hobbit.
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There's a point in The Hobbit where hobbits are basically cornered into an area.
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They're chased by orcs, these monsters who are running after them, and they're right on the edge of a cliff.
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There's no way out.
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They're backed in.
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They're helpless.
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They're powerless.
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They're just about to be struck down dead when suddenly these eagles swoop in, snatch them out of danger, catch them up, and carry them off to safety.
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That's what God is saying he's doing here.
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He has swooped down, taken them away from danger.
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He has come, and he says, I am a mother eagle who sees my sons, who sees my children.
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I've swept down.
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I've carried you to myself.
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Notice where he was carrying them?
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He wasn't just carrying them to drop them off somewhere to kind of make it by themselves.
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He's carrying them to himself, to relationship with him.
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You see, he takes the initiative.
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God takes it.
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You know, do you see?
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It says he carried them.
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They didn't walk out.
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They didn't say, okay, God, we'll walk out.
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We'll meet you on the other side.
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They didn't do anything.
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They didn't run.
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God carried them.
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They contributed nothing to their salvation.
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And from that point, then God says, now obey me.
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Now obey me.
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In response to what I have done for you, now obey me.
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Because the law was never meant to be given so that you could actually get right with God.
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It was never meant to save you when God gave his law.
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That's not its purpose, because it can't.
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The purpose is God saves you by his grace, so you respond in obedience to his law.
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Think about it.
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What's the beginning of the Ten Commandments?
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What's the beginning of the Ten Commandments?
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Anyone?
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No one wants to get it wrong.
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Anyone?
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Anyone?
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No.
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Alfie says, no other gods.
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No.
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None of you wanted to look stupid, did you?
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No.
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The beginning of the Ten Commandments is, he says, I am the Lord your God, who redeemed and
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rescued you out of Egypt, out of slavery.
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That's the beginning of the Ten Commandments.
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Look what I've done for you.
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Now here's what you're to do.
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We get that so wrong.
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We think God says, here's the commandments, now obey me.
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He doesn't.
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He says, I save you first.
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The commandments and the law is so that you can be free.
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It's not, I've taken you out of slavery, I don't want you to be left in slavery.
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I want you to be free in relationship with me.
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So obedience to God is always a response.
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And you know with a response, in relationship, good relationships need to be reciprocated.
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You know, when I started dating Fiona, first of all, you know, you're trying to get to know
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what each other likes, yeah?
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And so the first birthday present that I bought Fiona, I think, was a book.
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A good theological book.
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Because I like getting books.
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Now she was thrilled by this.
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She wasn't.
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And then later on I decided, maybe I'll try flowers because that seems like a good idea.
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And I got her some flowers.
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And actually the response still wasn't overwhelming.
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And for the next two years, I think, probably pretty much every present that I got, I think
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I ended up using more than she did.
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Which is actually a great thing to do if you're guys and you're single and you don't want to
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feel guilty about getting things for yourself.
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It's great.
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Don't take that.
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But when I finally found a gift that actually she liked and that pleased her, the fact of
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seeing joy in her face gives me joy and pleasure.
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That's why God calls us to obey him.
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That's why God gives us his law.
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Because the law is there to show you God's heart, God's desires, what he likes, so that
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you get his heart.
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So that actually as you obey, his joy becomes your joy.
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Delighting him is what gives you delight.
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That's actually the heart of good relationships.
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That's the heart of love.
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When actually your happiness is intertwined with the other person's happiness.
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That's why the law is given.
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That's why David can say, how I love your law.
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And we think, man, has he read it?
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But no, David knew that this law was revealing what his delighted, beloved God liked.
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And that's where his joy was.
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And as we obey, we deepen our relationship with God.
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So let me ask you a question.
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What is it that God is asking you to obey him in at the moment?
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Is God come out to you, okay, you've got to forgive that person who's hurt you.
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Is it you've got to start blessing your boss or your colleagues rather than cursing them?
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Is it you've got to start reading God's word?
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I don't know what it is for you.
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But think about it.
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How do you think about that command?
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Does it feel like somehow I felt like with my parents' rules?
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That it's just some rule to kind of make me spoil my fun?
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Or, you know, God, don't you know what that person has done to me?
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Don't you know what they like?
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Don't you know?
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It's just unfair.
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I'm not going to forgive them.
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I'm not going to bless that person.
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Because disobedience seems more attractive than obedience.
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But maybe God is wanting us to say,
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God, I know it's really hard to forgive this person or to bless this person.
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But because you love forgiveness, I will forgive.
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Because you love my boss, I will bless him rather than cursing him.
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God, help me.
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I can't do it.
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But actually, I want to do what pleases you.
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Because obedience is about love and growing in my relationship with you.
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Sometimes it feels like duty.
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But, you know, sometimes you actually do,
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dutifully do things for people you love.
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I go shopping with my wife.
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It's not my joy.
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But actually, my wife is my joy, so I will go shopping with her.
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That's why Jesus says,
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If you love me, you'll obey my commands.
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Obedience is God's command to grow,
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and his invitation to grow in relationship with him.
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So that's the distinctive relationship that God is calling them into.
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But this distinctive relationship is then meant to shape and create a distinctive people.
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Amidst all the other nations, they were to be distinctive.
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Look in verse 5, it says,
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As a result of this, they will become God's treasured possession amongst all people.
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This is just a beautiful, beautiful image.
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God, even though the whole world belongs to him,
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he wants to take this people as his beloved,
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as his treasured, precious love.
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God, even though the whole world belongs to him,
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it was looking a complete wreck.
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My dad was about to throw it out.
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My mom came there to him,
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and I tell you, he was not going to throw away that cart.
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Because that cart was precious to her.
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My dad had to take it all the way to the new flat, new house they were moving into,
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even though it was driving him crazy.
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Because that cart was so precious,
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she would not let it be thrown away.
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That's what God is saying here.
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My people, I want to make you so precious.
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Out of everything that I own,
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and I own everything,
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you will be for me that precious one that I'll never throw away.
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That means you're secure in my affection and my love for you.
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Isn't that amazing?
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That actually to be a distinctive people is to be a secure people in his love.
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But there's another image.
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Not just treasured possession.
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You'll also be distinctive because of who you represent.
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You'll be for me a kingdom of priests.
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And the image here is of a whole nation where everybody is a priest.
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And the priests were the people who could walk right into God's presence,
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who had access which was forbidden to everybody else.
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They could come right in.
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And it wasn't just that they had this intimate relationship
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where they could know God in a way that no others could.
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But it was also that they were to go out
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and to teach everybody else what God was like.
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And so,
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if everybody was to be a priest,
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if this community was to be priestly,
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it meant that they were to show through their life
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the way what God was like to everybody else.
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You know, like moths to a light,
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like cockroaches to my flat,
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like Hong Kongers to an investment opportunity.
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Their life was meant to attract people from outside
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to come to know the God who was their God.
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That's why God says,
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don't have any other images.
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He says, you know, that's there, second commandment.
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Don't have any other images, any other idols.
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Why?
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Well, in Deuteronomy 4,
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Moses says this to the people.
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He says,
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God has taken you out and brought you out of the iron furnace,
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out of Egypt,
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to be a people of his own inheritance.
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Do you know what the iron furnace was?
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The iron furnace is where you make idols.
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Where you make images of the gods.
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God is saying,
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I don't want any other idols.
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I don't want any other images
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because I already have an image.
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My people are my image.
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When people are to see what is your God like,
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they don't want to look at a little statue.
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They're to look at your lives
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as a community and say,
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that is what our God is like.
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You see,
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that's precisely what Genesis 1,
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where God says he made man in his image,
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what's to be all about.
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He's recreating it.
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And you see,
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when the church,
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when we just simply copy
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what everybody else is doing around us,
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whether it's in our leadership styles,
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our marketing strategies,
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and in our sense of big is beautiful,
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whatever it is,
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if we're just doing it
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because everyone else is doing it,
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then we may well have gone a long way wrong
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for what God has called us to be as his church.
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Because everyone else may do things that way,
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but everyone else isn't a community
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which is to image the living God
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like we are.
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God's law is to make us his treasured possession
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secure in him.
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It's to make us this people
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who image him to the world.
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And how are we to do that?
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We're to be,
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here's the next image,
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a holy nation.
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How do we image him?
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We are this nation.
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Now what's a nation?
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It's a society of people
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who are gathered and organized
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under a ruler,
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under in those times,
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under a king.
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And holy means reserved for a special purpose.
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If I took a diet Coke and said,
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this Coke is holy to Tobin,
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that would mean it was reserved for his use,
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for his enjoyment,
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for his pleasure only.
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When God says,
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you are a holy nation,
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it means you are reserved for God and his pleasure.
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That means they would be a people
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who were distinctive amongst all the other nations,
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had their gods.
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And you reflect your gods.
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But this nation was to reflect Yahweh,
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the God of Israel.
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They would be different from everyone else.
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Now it's,
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it's no accident that God brings them to a mountain.
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Mountains are a big theme in the Bible.
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It's no accident.
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Because all the nations around,
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and archaeologists have discovered this,
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that most of the major cities,
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the first cities in the world,
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were built in this area in the Middle East.
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And you know what cities would be built around?
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They would center them on a mountain or a hill,
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where they would put a temple,
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or they put an altar at the top.
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And if they didn't have a natural hill or a mountain,
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then what they would do is they'd man-make one.
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That's probably what the Tower of Babel was.
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It's what we sometimes call a ziggurat,
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something where,
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if you've seen pictures of them,
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they're stepped towers.
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And the idea was that you wanted this at the center,
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because at the top was a bit like a kind of,
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a free trade zone between you and God.
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You know,
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a bit like the EU,
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but it might work.
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Do you know?
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And,
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and you would just have to,
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you would just have to walk up this,
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and,
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and you know,
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it's hot,
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so you'd be sweating up the steps,
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carrying your offering.
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Okay.
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Here's Patrick the pagan.
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He's there.
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He's walking up,
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carrying his fruit,
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carrying his,
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his lamb,
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carrying his,
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even his children,
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as an offering to their gods.
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And it,
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what,
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what Patrick would be doing at this point,
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maybe with his family,
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would be,
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he would be saying,
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look how hard I've worked for you.
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Look at the sweat that's on me now.
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It's all for you.
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Look at the gifts that I've given you.
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Look at all the effort I've given.
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Look at my devotion.
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Now you need to bless me.
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And so you'd have this whole community,
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which was trying to offer these things,
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showing,
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working hard to get their God to bless them.
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It's a bit like if you go down to Wong Tai Sin Temple.
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Have you seen them at Chinese New Year?
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You go down there.
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What do you do?
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You give your offerings.
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You give your gifts,
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because what do you want?
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I've done my bit.
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Now,
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God,
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can you give me a bit of blessing back?
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And the reason you would do that
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was because your God
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was either a temperamental,
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angry tyrant
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who you had to make sure
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you kept him appeased,
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because otherwise,
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you know,
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he might come and send some evil spirits
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on your turnic cape or something,
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or he'd come
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and he'd do something to your family.
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So you had to keep him happy.
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So he's either a tyrant
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or he's a genie.
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You know,
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he's the kind of,
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you rub him,
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you manipulate him the right way.
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You know,
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you go and you kind of flatter him a bit.
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You know,
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you go to the God of the sun
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and you say,
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wow,
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you're looking hot today.
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And,
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and,
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you know,
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and you do these things
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because,
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because if you just manipulate enough,
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they'll say,
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oh,
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wow,
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what a good person.
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I'll bless you.
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See,
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that's what it's all about.
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You've got to prove
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how good you are.
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You've got to prove
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yourself,
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how hard you've worked
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to get them to bless you.
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I think that's the way
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we work in Hong Kong,
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actually.
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Think about
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work,
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career.
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A career can be an idol.
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And what do you do
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to get and move on
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in your career?
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Well,
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you come with your,
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your time,
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your effort,
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those long overtime hours
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which you didn't have to work
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but you were just trying
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to please your boss.
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Those social,
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those meetings outside,
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those networking things
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which you never wanted
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to go to,
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but you'll come and offer them.
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You'll laugh at your boss's jokes
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even though they're terrible
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just because if you offer them,
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you hope that you'll get
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a promotion back.
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If I give you enough,
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then you'll give me something back.
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Or maybe,
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you've got an idol of comfort.
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And you know,
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the idol of comfort
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we want to just manipulate
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because you want to be around people
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who just make you happy.
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You want about people like you,
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people you feel comfortable with.
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And so,
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you'll give your offering
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of your time,
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of your relationship
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just as long
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as they give you something back,
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as they kind of stroke your ego,
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as they meet your social needs.
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But if you happen to be with somebody,
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maybe in your community group,
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who just talks too much,
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who's just not like you,
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who is just a little bit annoying sometimes,
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then we'll be right out of there.
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We'll be maybe gossiping about,
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we'll smile to them in their face,
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but then we'll gossip about them afterwards.
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Because,
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well,
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you're not working my manipulation game.
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And
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that's not the way
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my
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religion works.
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much of Hong Kong society,
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much of life
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is based around those principles.
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You scratch my back,
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I'll scratch yours.
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But God
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comes to a mountain
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to his people.
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He says,
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I'm making you a nation,
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but you know what?
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I'm neither a tyrant
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that you have to appease,
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nor am I
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a genie
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that you have to manipulate.
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I'm the one
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who swooped down
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on eagle's wings
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to draw you to myself.
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You don't have to say,
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man,
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I've had a hard week,
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maybe I've done something wrong,
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maybe God's angry at me.
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You don't have to live with that
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because you
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have
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a God of grace
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who's taken the initiative
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to come
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to be
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our God,
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our love.
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His grace
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is about,
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is the center
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of our community life.
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That's distinctive.
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Now,
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to be a distinctive nation,
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he then gives his law.
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And in his law,
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he gives
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commandments.
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But the commandments,
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you can categorize
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in two things.
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The law
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is to help you
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to have boundaries
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to be a holy nation.
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But there's two things
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that these laws
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are really all about.
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They're all about
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love God,
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love other people.
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That's what this community,
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that's what God's people
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should be characterized with.
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That's what,
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I mean,
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Jesus says that.
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You can summarize
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all the commandments
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in two things.
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Love the Lord your God
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with all your heart,
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soul,
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mind,
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and strength,
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and love your neighbor
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as yourself.
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Jesus does a pretty good summary
-
because actually,
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if you take the Ten Commandments,
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the first three,
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four are actually
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all about love for God.
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The next six
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are all about love for neighbor.
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But the order
-
of the commandments is,
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and that's why
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we just had the first one
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up there.
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You see the first one?
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The first one,
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Alfie,
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is
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no other gods.
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Correct.
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Give him a round of applause.
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There you go.
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There you go.
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We don't just humiliate
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Alfie during this time.
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It's great.
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All the other commandments
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flow from this one
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because if you get
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this one wrong,
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everything else
-
falls apart
-
because God's saying,
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don't put anyone else
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before me
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because if you love me first,
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you'll love other people.
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If you put anything else
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before me,
-
you'll actually end up
-
not loving other people.
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Even if you put
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your family
-
before me,
-
you'll end up
-
not loving your family
-
as I want you to
-
and you should
-
because
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you've not put me first.
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rest.
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Here's an example.
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The Sabbath.
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Fourth commandment.
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One day in the week
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for you to rest.
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Why?
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Well,
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there's a number of reasons
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but
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one of the reasons is
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here's a society
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which is an agricultural society
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and your whole life
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is based on your crops growing.
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So if you
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for one day
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stop
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and don't work,
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do you know what can happen
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to your crops?
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There are things like birds.
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There are things like insects.
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There are things like animals
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which can come in
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and could devastate
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your crops in one day
-
if you're not
-
constantly
-
keeping an eye out
-
for them.
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You know,
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it's a life or death situation
-
but God comes
-
and he says,
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no,
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I want you to rest
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on one day.
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I want you to trust me.
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To trust that I
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will provide
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for you.
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Because I will.
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You don't have to be
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a workaholic
-
because you think
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you've got to
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provide everything
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for yourself.
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Trust me.
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That's love for God.
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But the repercussions
-
of that love for God
-
are actually communal.
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They're society.
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Because,
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do you know what
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it says in that commandment?
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You know,
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it says
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everybody should rest.
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It says
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your son,
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your daughter,
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it says
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your servant,
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your foreign workers,
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everybody should rest.
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Because why?
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Because the community
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I'm making
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is one where
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you don't exploit anybody.
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Because you
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don't work them
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to the bone
-
so they have nothing less.
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You see,
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when you love God,
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you actually start loving
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and respecting people.
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Because that's the society
-
where you're not driven
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by your work.
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And you're not driven
-
to exploit people.
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Think about it.
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How many of us,
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do you,
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if you have a helper,
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do you make them work
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on their day off?
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If you work long,
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busy hours,
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and then you come home
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at night,
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or you come home,
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and even though you're at home
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with your family
-
or with your community group,
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you're still thinking
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all about work all the time.
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You're consumed with it.
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Do you know what will happen?
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You'll stop loving other people
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the way you should.
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Because work has maybe
-
become your idol.
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Because maybe you haven't
-
trusted God
-
with saying,
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God,
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here's what I can do.
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I give the rest to you.
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Because when you put God first,
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not your career,
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not just getting things done,
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you see what?
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You start loving other people.
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That's the community
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that we have to have.
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And this community,
-
you see,
-
these laws are not just
-
about individuals.
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They're about making us
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as a people.
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And you can't be
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the people of loving people
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if you're not
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in deep relationships
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with others.
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Because that's the kind
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of God he is.
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He wants relationship with us
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so we have relationship
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with each other.
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All of the 613 laws
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that there are
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are all about
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in the areas of sex,
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in the areas of money,
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in the areas of property,
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in the areas of relationships,
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in the areas of all these things.
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How do I love God
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and how do I love other people?
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That's what it's all about.
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Because you ought to be
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a holy nation.
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You ought to be different
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from the way
-
everybody else does things
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because you've got
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a different God.
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So let's think about it.
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In Watermark,
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if we ought to be
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a people who are characterized
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by loving relationships,
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love for God,
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love for others,
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how do we be distinctive?
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An idol of comfort
-
will tell us
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just be with the people
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who are like you.
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Just be in the community
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with the people
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who you like to be with.
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But being distinctive
-
may be being with people
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who are not like you.
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What about if marrieds
-
spent time,
-
invited singles
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to come for lunch with them?
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Why don't you go
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and try to look out
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for people who are single
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if you're married
-
and vice versa?
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That's distinctive.
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What about if
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helpers and employers
-
were able to talk together
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without any sense
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of inferiority
-
or superiority
-
but just because
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we're brothers and sisters?
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That's distinctive.
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What about if you're
-
an introvert
-
and extroverts
-
and they drive you nuts
-
but actually you're willing
-
to look out for them,
-
these weird people
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who are totally different
-
because
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we're a holy nation
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and we have a God
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who is like that.
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We have a God
-
who is like that.
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It's one of the reasons
-
why we have community groups
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to help you connect
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with people
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so you can learn
-
how to love people
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because that's what
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church is about.
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It's not about coming
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just on a Sunday
-
and sitting here
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and feeling like
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you'd like to sleep
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for 30 minutes
-
while I'm talking
-
and then going.
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It's not that.
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It's about loving relationships.
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So let me ask you a question.
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Who in this church
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would say
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that they know
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that they are loved by you?
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Who in this church
-
would know
-
that they are loved by you?
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Or if you're from
-
another church,
-
who in that church
-
would know
-
that they are loved by you?
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Who in this church community
-
is God calling you
-
to love?
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To take the initiative
-
in the relationships
-
because that's what God does.
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For us.
-
God calls you to obedience
-
by loving people.
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It's because he's calling you
-
deeper into relationship
-
with him.
-
You won't grow
-
in your relationship
-
with God
-
if you don't get into
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deep relationships
-
with people.
-
That's the way it works.
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So we've looked
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at a distinctive relationship.
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Distinctive people
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which is shaped
-
by that relationship.
-
But if you just got
-
to the point of saying,
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okay, now I've just got
-
to love a little bit more.
-
I've just got to do
-
a little bit more loving.
-
Well, hold on a minute
-
because there's something else
-
which shapes this community.
-
It's a distinctive saviour.
-
Because if you think
-
that you can actually love
-
the way that God
-
calls you to love,
-
well, the law was written
-
to show you
-
that you can't.
-
Because Moses writes down
-
the laws for all the people.
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This is in chapter 24.
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And the final part,
-
this is the marriage ceremony.
-
The final part of this
-
kind of marriage ceremony
-
covenant
-
is the taking of the vows.
-
It's the formal signing
-
of the register.
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Now, they didn't sign a register.
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What they did,
-
they had a sacrifice.
-
They would cut
-
an animal in two.
-
But before the cutting
-
of the animal,
-
what happens is
-
Moses says,
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will you take God
-
to be your husband,
-
to love him,
-
to honor him,
-
to obey him?
-
And what do the people say?
-
They say,
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we will.
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We'll do everything
-
that God has said.
-
We'll obey.
-
That's pretty stupid.
-
Because
-
I think
-
if you read
-
the rest of the story,
-
you'll realize
-
why that's pretty stupid.
-
They had too high
-
an estimation of themselves.
-
They thought
-
they could obey
-
perfectly what God
-
had told them to.
-
But you know what?
-
When it came
-
to cutting the animal,
-
and they took the blood,
-
and you see what they did?
-
They threw the blood.
-
Moses threw the blood
-
over them.
-
And so when they would
-
go home,
-
they would still have
-
the blood on them.
-
And what that blood
-
was to say was,
-
may this be,
-
if I disobey
-
this covenant,
-
this relationship,
-
if I disobey,
-
may this be my blood.
-
May I die
-
rather than
-
disobey.
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Do you know what
-
happens next in the story?
-
It's quite depressing.
-
You know,
-
just a few days later,
-
they've made this
-
amazing marriage
-
covenant,
-
beautiful ceremony,
-
okay,
-
and then
-
a few days later,
-
Moses is up the mountain.
-
They go off,
-
and they build
-
a golden calf.
-
You know,
-
straight after the marriage,
-
and they worship
-
this idol.
-
Straight after the marriage
-
ceremony,
-
they're right in bed
-
with another lover.
-
They've committed adultery
-
within a few days.
-
And do you know what?
-
What's the sentence
-
if you break the covenant?
-
It's death.
-
God institutes sacrifices
-
temporally to kind of
-
keep them
-
from knowing
-
the full force
-
of his anger
-
so that he can
-
live with them.
-
But you know,
-
1,500 years
-
later,
-
God comes down
-
to another mountain.
-
He comes down
-
to a hill
-
outside of Jerusalem.
-
And he comes
-
and he swoops down,
-
but this time
-
he's not carrying
-
his people
-
on eagles' wings.
-
He's carrying them
-
on the palms
-
of his hands,
-
engraved
-
with six-inch nails
-
driven in
-
because he became
-
the sacrifice,
-
the punishment
-
that the people
-
for their adultery
-
deserved.
-
He was the one
-
who came
-
and who took
-
that death sentence.
-
And do you know
-
what he did?
-
He said,
-
at the communion meal,
-
and notice
-
after they do
-
the covenant,
-
they have a meal.
-
Meals are symbols
-
of fellowship,
-
of relationship,
-
of acceptance.
-
And do you know
-
what communion
-
Jesus says
-
at the last supper?
-
He says,
-
this is my blood
-
of the new covenant
-
shed for you
-
for forgiveness
-
of sins.
-
Because we could
-
never keep
-
the covenant
-
by ourselves.
-
What God has
-
called us to be,
-
we cannot be
-
by ourselves.
-
We need
-
a savior.
-
Sometimes I think
-
I forget that.
-
We think,
-
okay,
-
I can obey
-
God fully.
-
No.
-
Do you know
-
why you can't?
-
It's because
-
you need to know
-
that God
-
is your only hope.
-
You need to know
-
that his grace
-
is the only thing
-
which is going
-
to sustain you.
-
It's the only thing
-
which is going
-
to sustain
-
this community.
-
It's the only thing
-
which is going
-
to really make
-
us distinctive
-
in society,
-
in Hong Kong,
-
because loving
-
people is hard work.
-
People are annoying.
-
Do you know
-
that?
-
If you really
-
love someone,
-
people are just
-
like frustrating.
-
They don't answer
-
your emails.
-
They don't reply
-
when you want
-
them to.
-
They say the most
-
inappropriate things.
-
Loving people
-
is hard.
-
And you know
-
what will happen
-
is you'll get
-
to the point
-
where you don't
-
want to love people
-
so you want
-
to withdraw.
-
But you know,
-
when you begin
-
to see actually
-
the lack of love
-
in your heart,
-
you have to run
-
somewhere.
-
You're either
-
going to be
-
trying to run
-
up the mountain
-
like Patrick the
-
pagan,
-
trying to say,
-
okay, God,
-
I've got to do
-
a bit more
-
to please you.
-
Or you're going
-
to say,
-
God, I need,
-
I'm so grateful
-
that on the cross
-
you swooped down
-
and you took
-
the initiative
-
and you have
-
died for me.
-
grace is to
-
characterize all
-
our relationships
-
so that when you
-
know it for yourself,
-
you extend it
-
to that annoying
-
person over there.
-
You extend it
-
to that person
-
in your community
-
group who you
-
want to avoid.
-
You extend it
-
to the introvert
-
that you think
-
you just don't
-
want to hang around
-
or the extrovert
-
who just talks
-
so much.
-
Because grace,
-
Hong Kong doesn't
-
need a perfect
-
people.
-
We're not going
-
to be distinctive
-
by being perfect.
-
We're going
-
to be distinctive
-
by being gracious.
-
and knowing
-
that we are secure
-
because we're
-
his treasured
-
possession.
-
Knowing that we
-
are his image
-
to the world.
-
Knowing that we
-
are his distinct
-
people.
-
That's God's plan
-
for this city.
-
That's God's
-
mission strategy.
-
We are.
-
Not just you
-
as an individual.
-
We as a people.
-
So are you
-
willing to engage
-
in relationships?
-
Are you,
-
who are you
-
going to take
-
the initiative
-
to love
-
in this community?
-
Because God
-
has taken
-
the initiative
-
to bring you
-
into relationship
-
with him.
-
Let's pray.
-
let's just think
-
for a moment.
-
How do I view
-
the people
-
in this church?
-
Who is it
-
that God
-
has called me
-
to love
-
in this church?
-
Even as you
-
go out
-
straight after
-
this,
-
are there people
-
that you can
-
just say hi
-
to?
-
Who has God
-
called me
-
to love?
-
Maybe you
-
need to repent
-
and ask God
-
to forgive you.
-
Maybe you've
-
been thinking
-
that you've
-
got to prove
-
yourself to God.
-
That you've
-
not been good
-
enough for him.
-
That he's waiting
-
there to punish
-
you if you
-
if you just
-
slip up.
-
Father,
-
thank you
-
that this
-
church
-
and the churches
-
all around
-
the world
-
are your
-
delight.
-
I don't know
-
why you delight
-
in us
-
because we're
-
messed up.
-
But you
-
have initiated
-
this relationship
-
with us.
-
You made
-
the first
-
move.
-
I pray
-
that as a
-
people we
-
begin to
-
understand
-
that we
-
cannot save
-
ourselves.
-
We cannot
-
even obey
-
you ourselves.
-
We're like
-
the Israelites.
-
We're quickly
-
in bed with
-
somebody else
-
when we should
-
be having
-
you as our
-
only lover.
-
But help us
-
to see,
-
Lord,
-
what you've
-
called us
-
to be.
-
In this
-
city,
-
in Hong
-
Kong,
-
to the
-
people around
-
us.
-
Help us
-
to love
-
as you
-
love.
-
Show us
-
how we
-
can grow
-
deeper in
-
our relationship
-
with you,
-
to live
-
to delight
-
your heart,
-
to live
-
to please
-
you.
-
Not because
-
we have to
-
earn anything,
-
but because
-
it's our
-
response to
-
your amazing,
-
amazing grace.
-
Thank you,
-
Father.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.