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Community and Membership

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  1. Good morning.

  2. For those of you who don't know me, my name is Eric.

  3. I'm one of the guys on staff here at Watermark Church.

  4. It's great to be here with you today.

  5. And if you've been here the past few weeks,

  6. you're probably wondering, why are we not in 1 Corinthians still?

  7. And basically what's going on is we've spent the past couple months

  8. looking at the book of 1 Corinthians,

  9. and it was a really messed up church.

  10. They had lots of issues, and Paul was writing this letter to them,

  11. saying, like, you're doing this wrong, you're doing this wrong,

  12. you're doing this wrong.

  13. And we figured it would be a good idea to actually look at,

  14. from the positive side, what is a healthy church?

  15. Because we've been talking about it from the negative side for so long

  16. that we figured it would be worthwhile to take a couple weeks

  17. to talk about, from the positive side,

  18. like, not just what shouldn't we be doing,

  19. but what should we be doing as a church

  20. if we're going to be a healthy church.

  21. So today we're looking at the concept of community

  22. and membership.

  23. And the big question I want us to ask ourselves today

  24. is what does the cross have to do with our community?

  25. What does the cross have to do with our community?

  26. And I think we live in a very individualistic society,

  27. a very me-focused world.

  28. And the church, in many ways, has gone along with this

  29. and said, you know, my walk with God is about me and God.

  30. And it's all about me trusting in Jesus,

  31. me becoming a Christian,

  32. me going to church,

  33. me reading my Bible.

  34. But if we look at the Bible and what it says,

  35. what we'll notice is that actually,

  36. it's about us as well.

  37. That God doesn't just save us as individuals,

  38. but God saves us to form us into a community

  39. that is his people.

  40. And that as we are shaped into this community,

  41. that our community must be shaped by the cross.

  42. And that just as Jesus loved us

  43. and showed us his love sacrificially on the cross,

  44. that he calls us, if we are his people,

  45. to live life in a sacrificial community together,

  46. loving one another as he has loved us.

  47. And so to see that,

  48. we're going to look at the book of Ephesians, chapter 2.

    Ephesians 2 chapter mention

  49. Ephesians is another letter

  50. that the Apostle Paul wrote to a church

  51. in a city called Ephesus.

  52. And one of his big goals in writing this letter

  53. is to help them see the importance of community

  54. in life as a church.

  55. And in today's passage,

  56. he's going to have them remember

  57. their past circumstances,

  58. recognize their present condition,

  59. and then re-evaluate their projected course

  60. based on what they've remembered

  61. and recognized about where they are now.

  62. And so the first step

  63. is to remember their past circumstances.

  64. Paul starts out this passage pretty bleak, right?

  65. He says,

  66. They had three really big problems.

  67. Problem number one,

  68. they were separated from God.

  69. If you follow the storyline of the Bible,

  70. basically,

  71. God created man

  72. to live in a relationship with him.

  73. This is supposed to be

  74. the ultimate power source for our life,

  75. this relationship with God.

  76. And if you follow the storyline of the Bible

  77. a little further,

  78. it tells us that all of us

  79. have rebelled against God.

  80. All of us have cut ourselves off

  81. from that relationship

  82. that we were created to have.

  83. And all of us,

  84. in doing that,

  85. have cut ourselves off

  86. from that power source

  87. of that relationship with God

  88. that's supposed to give us the strength

  89. to go throughout life.

  90. And he's saying,

  91. this is the past condition

  92. of the people in this church.

  93. And not just of them,

  94. but also,

  95. if we're Christians,

  96. of us here today.

  97. That this is our past reality.

  98. Not only are they separated from God,

  99. they're also,

  100. he says,

  101. alienated from the commonwealth of Israel.

  102. Now,

  103. back in the day,

  104. Israel was God's chosen people.

  105. They were the special ones

  106. who had God's revelation

  107. and no one else did.

  108. They had received messages from God

  109. about what it means to follow him

  110. and how he wants us to follow him.

  111. And they were special.

  112. They were privileged.

  113. And they kind of let everyone else know it.

  114. And everyone else

  115. didn't really appreciate that.

  116. Everyone else

  117. fought back against that.

  118. And there were some ethnic tensions

  119. going on in the world.

  120. And what Paul is saying is

  121. the people he's writing to

  122. were not Jews.

  123. They were not part

  124. of that special people

  125. that God had called as his own.

  126. They had no special standing

  127. that could help them

  128. get to this relationship with God.

  129. And so,

  130. there was a separation

  131. that they were not only

  132. separated from God,

  133. but they were separated

  134. from God's people.

  135. And ethnic tensions,

  136. you know,

  137. it's not just something

  138. from the world then,

  139. but it's something that we see

  140. in the world

  141. all the time today.

  142. If you follow the news at all,

  143. you've probably heard stories

  144. the past few months

  145. about black versus white tensions

  146. in the States

  147. and all the violence

  148. that's going on with that.

  149. But it's also something

  150. that happens here

  151. on this side of the world as well.

  152. About a month and a half ago,

  153. I think,

  154. we had a holiday.

  155. The rest of the world

  156. calls it the anniversary

  157. of the end of World War II.

  158. The Chinese government

  159. decides to call it

  160. the anniversary

  161. of the Chinese people's

  162. war of rebellion

  163. against Japanese aggression.

  164. Ignore the fact

  165. that the whole rest of the world

  166. was also involved

  167. in this war.

  168. Ignore the fact

  169. that, you know,

  170. the Communist Party

  171. could never have gotten

  172. into power in China

  173. in the first place

  174. if that hadn't happened.

  175. But they want

  176. to take all this aggression

  177. and point it

  178. against the Japanese people.

  179. They want to take

  180. this ethnic division

  181. and push it

  182. onto their people.

  183. We live in a broken world

  184. where there are ethnic tensions

  185. around us all the time.

  186. Also, if you think back

  187. about a year ago,

  188. there was a lot of tension

  189. between Hong Kong

  190. and the mainland.

  191. I know it's all Chinese,

  192. but there was still

  193. a tension between

  194. different groups

  195. of Chinese people.

  196. There was a professor

  197. in the mainland

  198. who called the Hong Kong people

  199. dogs of the British.

  200. And so a group

  201. of Hong Kongers

  202. went out

  203. and hired a page

  204. in the front page

  205. of a local newspaper

  206. depicting a locust

  207. overlooking the city

  208. and basically said,

  209. if you are a mainlander,

  210. this is what you do

  211. to our city.

  212. You come in,

  213. you wreck it,

  214. you destroy it,

  215. we want nothing

  216. to do with you.

  217. And there were protests

  218. and clashes

  219. of people

  220. who just did not

  221. get along.

  222. In HKU,

  223. there was a student

  224. who posted

  225. on their democracy wall.

  226. He said,

  227. to,

  228. what's the exact quote,

  229. to you brainwashed,

  230. commie-loving mainlanders,

  231. we despise you.

  232. We live in a world

  233. that is full

  234. of alienation

  235. from God.

  236. We live in a world

  237. that is full

  238. of alienation

  239. from each other.

  240. And it makes sense

  241. because when we

  242. cut ourselves off

  243. from this relationship

  244. with God,

  245. the next logical step

  246. is to cut ourselves off

  247. from people

  248. who are made

  249. in God's image.

  250. One person summarized,

  251. he said,

  252. the attitude of the world

  253. in our fallen state

  254. is best expressed

  255. in the phrase,

  256. you're different

  257. from me

  258. and I resent you

  259. for that.

  260. You're different

  261. from me

  262. and I resent you

  263. from that.

  264. And so,

  265. the past condition

  266. of this church

  267. that Paul is saying

  268. they had,

  269. they're separated

  270. from God,

  271. they're cut off

  272. from the power source

  273. that they're supposed

  274. to have for life,

  275. they're separated

  276. from God's people,

  277. they're alienated,

  278. they're estranged,

  279. and there's this

  280. sense of isolation.

  281. Something has gone

  282. horribly, horribly wrong.

  283. And not only that,

  284. but he says

  285. that they were

  286. strangers

  287. to the covenants

  288. of promise.

  289. This is that God

  290. had appeared

  291. and he had told people

  292. about a promise

  293. that he would

  294. restore people

  295. to himself,

  296. that he would come

  297. and he would

  298. rescue us.

  299. And yet,

  300. these promises

  301. had come only

  302. to the Israelites.

  303. And so,

  304. Paul's people

  305. who were receiving

  306. this letter

  307. didn't have

  308. these promises.

  309. They were broken

  310. in their relationship

  311. with God.

  312. They were broken

  313. in their relationship

  314. with others

  315. and they had

  316. no way

  317. to fix it.

  318. And he says

  319. that these three

  320. problems led

  321. to two devastating

  322. effects.

  323. They were without

  324. hope

  325. and they were

  326. without God

  327. in the world.

  328. They were hopeless

  329. and they had

  330. no way

  331. to fix

  332. their situation.

  333. And Paul wants

  334. them to remember

  335. this

  336. because Paul

  337. has amazing

  338. good news

  339. for them.

  340. But this good news

  341. looks far

  342. more beautiful

  343. when seen

  344. against the bad

  345. news that it

  346. contrasts with.

  347. And so,

  348. he says,

  349. take a minute,

  350. step back,

  351. remember who

  352. you used to be.

  353. remember what

  354. God has saved

  355. you from

  356. because when you

  357. see what God

  358. has saved you

  359. from,

  360. what he has

  361. saved you to

  362. will look

  363. far more

  364. beautiful.

  365. And for us

  366. today,

  367. if we're

  368. Christians,

  369. this is our

  370. past as well,

  371. separated from

  372. God,

  373. alienated from

  374. others,

  375. without any

  376. way to fix

  377. ourselves,

  378. without hope,

  379. and without

  380. God in the

  381. world.

  382. We need to see

  383. this and recognize

  384. this if we're

  385. going to appreciate

  386. what God calls

  387. us to in terms

  388. of our life

  389. and community.

  390. Now,

  391. the good news

  392. is the story

  393. doesn't end

  394. there.

  395. If you look at

  396. verse 13,

  397. it says,

  398. but now,

  399. something is

  400. different,

  401. something has

  402. changed.

  403. The past

  404. condition is no

  405. longer our

  406. present condition.

  407. Once we've

  408. remembered our

  409. past condition,

  410. he wants us

  411. to move on

  412. and recognize

  413. our current

  414. circumstances

  415. and realize

  416. that they are

  417. totally night

  418. and day

  419. opposite.

  420. If you look

  421. at verses 1

  422. through 10

  423. of this chapter,

  424. he's talking

  425. about our

  426. relationship with

  427. God,

  428. and he talks

  429. about how

  430. desperate our

  431. relationship with

  432. God was.

  433. He says we

  434. were dead in

  435. our trespasses

  436. and sins.

  437. He said that

  438. we were basically

  439. the enemies of

  440. God, that we

  441. were children of

  442. wrath, that

  443. everything was

  444. going wrong for

  445. us.

  446. But then,

  447. he says,

  448. but God,

  449. being rich in

  450. mercy,

  451. because of the

  452. great love

  453. with which he

  454. loved us,

  455. made us alive

  456. in Christ

  457. Jesus.

  458. He says that

  459. when everything

  460. was wrong in

  461. our relationship

  462. with God,

  463. God stepped in

  464. and God

  465. rescued us

  466. and God

  467. changed us

  468. and God

  469. made us

  470. alive and

  471. gave us a

  472. relationship with

  473. God.

  474. And now,

  475. he's looking

  476. not at our

  477. relationship with

  478. God primarily,

  479. but our

  480. relationship with

  481. each other.

  482. And he says,

  483. in the same way,

  484. you were alienated,

  485. you were cut off,

  486. things were going

  487. wrong,

  488. but now,

  489. something has

  490. changed.

  491. Just as your

  492. relationship with

  493. God has been

  494. transformed by

  495. what Jesus did

  496. on the cross,

  497. your relationship

  498. with others and

  499. in this community

  500. needs to be

  501. transformed by

  502. what Jesus has

  503. done on the

  504. cross.

  505. But now,

  506. in Christ Jesus,

  507. you who were

  508. once far off

  509. have been brought

  510. near by the

  511. blood of Christ,

  512. for he himself

  513. is our peace,

  514. who has broken

  515. down in his

  516. flesh the

  517. dividing wall

  518. of hostility

  519. by abolishing

  520. the law of

  521. commandments

  522. expressed in

  523. ordinances that

  524. he might create

  525. in himself one

  526. new man in

  527. place of the

  528. two, so

  529. making peace.

  530. He's saying

  531. that Jesus came

  532. not just to

  533. create peace

  534. between us

  535. and God,

  536. but between

  537. us and each

  538. other as well.

  539. If you were

  540. alive in that

  541. day and you

  542. had ever been

  543. to the temple

  544. in Jerusalem,

  545. there was this

  546. wall called

  547. the Gentiles

  548. wall.

  549. And basically,

  550. there was a

  551. courtyard area

  552. outside that

  553. where any

  554. Gentile,

  555. any non-Jew

  556. who worshipped

  557. God could go

  558. to worship

  559. God, and

  560. then there

  561. was a wall.

  562. And the only

  563. people allowed

  564. beyond that

  565. wall were

  566. the Jewish

  567. people.

  568. And there

  569. were signs

  570. along the

  571. wall.

  572. And they

  573. said,

  574. if you are

  575. a Gentile

  576. and you

  577. cross this

  578. wall,

  579. you are

  580. responsible

  581. for your

  582. own death.

  583. There was

  584. hatred and

  585. strife between

  586. these two

  587. ethnic groups,

  588. and Paul is

  589. saying that

  590. no longer

  591. has a place

  592. among God's

  593. people,

  594. because Jesus

  595. has come,

  596. Jesus has

  597. torn down

  598. the wall

  599. that divides

  600. us,

  601. and Jesus

  602. has taken

  603. the two

  604. groups and

  605. made us

  606. one in

  607. him.

  608. And so

  609. the old

  610. things that

  611. used to

  612. divide us

  613. have no

  614. place among

  615. us anymore.

  616. If you are

  617. a Christian,

  618. then Jesus

  619. died to

  620. unite you

  621. to every

  622. other

  623. Christian

  624. who has

  625. ever lived.

  626. That God

  627. cares

  628. desperately

  629. about our

  630. life as

  631. a community.

  632. Here at

  633. Watermark,

  634. we talk about

  635. community all

  636. the time.

  637. We have it

  638. on the stage

  639. written every

  640. week,

  641. gospel,

  642. community,

  643. mission.

  644. And most

  645. of us,

  646. I hope,

  647. like hanging

  648. out with

  649. each other,

  650. but that's

  651. not the

  652. primary reason

  653. why we

  654. emphasize

  655. community.

  656. We emphasize

  657. it because

  658. God

  659. emphasizes it.

  660. We emphasize

  661. living together

  662. and serving

  663. one another

  664. because the

  665. Bible says

  666. that if we

  667. are Christians,

  668. that is

  669. vitally

  670. important

  671. to our

  672. lives.

  673. That God

  674. wants us

  675. to be a

  676. people who

  677. reflect his

  678. love to

  679. the world.

  680. And so

  681. we cannot

  682. separate our

  683. salvation and

  684. our relationship

  685. with God

  686. from our

  687. life in

  688. community

  689. as a

  690. part of

  691. his body.

  692. He says

  693. that Christ's

  694. work is so

  695. extreme that

  696. he takes

  697. the two

  698. different groups

  699. and makes

  700. one new

  701. man out

  702. of the

  703. two.

  704. You can

  705. think of

  706. it as

  707. sort of

  708. like a

  709. third race.

  710. You've

  711. got the

  712. Jews,

  713. you've

  714. got the

  715. Gentiles,

  716. and then

  717. you've

  718. got something

  719. different.

  720. You've

  721. got Christians.

  722. And Paul's

  723. saying in

  724. the early

  725. church,

  726. you could

  727. be a

  728. Jew and

  729. you could

  730. become a

  731. Jewish

  732. Christian.

  733. You could

  734. be a

  735. Gentile and

  736. become a

  737. Gentile

  738. Christian.

  739. But whether

  740. you're a

  741. Jewish

  742. Christian or

  743. a Gentile

  744. Christian,

  745. the most

  746. important thing

  747. is that you're

  748. a Christian,

  749. not that you're

  750. a Jew or

  751. Gentile.

  752. Today we

  753. might think

  754. you can be

  755. a Chinese

  756. Christian or

  757. an American

  758. Christian.

  759. The most

  760. important thing

  761. is that you're

  762. a Christian,

  763. not that you're

  764. Chinese or

  765. American,

  766. because Christ

  767. has died to

  768. make one

  769. new group

  770. out of all

  771. the other

  772. groups that

  773. existed

  774. beforehand.

  775. It doesn't

  776. mean that our

  777. previous identities

  778. are totally

  779. wiped out,

  780. but it

  781. means that

  782. the identity

  783. that we

  784. now have

  785. as a

  786. Christian

  787. is far,

  788. far,

  789. far more

  790. foundational

  791. than any

  792. identity that

  793. we otherwise

  794. could hold.

  795. I was

  796. listening to

  797. a pastor

  798. from Washington,

  799. D.C.

  800. do a talk

  801. here in

  802. Hong Kong

  803. this week,

  804. and he

  805. said,

  806. you know,

  807. someone who's

  808. a Christian

  809. living in

  810. Washington,

  811. D.C.

  812. has far

  813. more in

  814. common with

  815. a Christian

  816. living in

  817. Nigeria

  818. than they

  819. do with

  820. their

  821. non-Christian

  822. neighbor

  823. in D.C.,

  824. because the

  825. things that

  826. unite us

  827. in Christ

  828. are far

  829. more

  830. important

  831. to who

  832. we are

  833. than being

  834. American

  835. or than

  836. having the

  837. same

  838. background

  839. culture.

  840. If you

  841. are a

  842. Christian,

  843. the Bible

  844. says your

  845. most

  846. foundational

  847. identity

  848. is your

  849. identity

  850. as a

  851. person

  852. in God's

  853. family.

  854. family.

  855. I have

  856. two stories

  857. to sort of

  858. illustrate this

  859. from opposite

  860. angles.

  861. I have one

  862. friend,

  863. he's Chinese,

  864. his parents

  865. are Christians,

  866. he's a

  867. Christian,

  868. and he

  869. told me

  870. one time

  871. that his

  872. parents

  873. one time

  874. sat him

  875. down,

  876. and they

  877. had a

  878. talk with

  879. him,

  880. and they

  881. said,

  882. son,

  883. if you

  884. honor us

  885. in the

  886. way that

  887. the Bible

  888. says to

  889. honor your

  890. father and

  891. mother,

  892. you will

  893. marry an

  894. Asian

  895. girl.

  896. not a

  897. joke.

  898. But here's

  899. the thing,

  900. Paul is

  901. saying that

  902. has no

  903. place in

  904. the church.

  905. Paul is

  906. saying that

  907. attitude has

  908. no place

  909. in light of

  910. what Christ

  911. has done for

  912. us because

  913. Christ came

  914. to tear down

  915. our divisions

  916. and to make

  917. us one

  918. new people.

  919. That your

  920. identity as a

  921. Christian is

  922. far more

  923. important than

  924. the color of

  925. your skin or

  926. the country

  927. that you

  928. were born

  929. in.

  930. The other

  931. story, I

  932. have a

  933. friend who's

  934. Japanese.

  935. He has a

  936. son, I

  937. think the

  938. son is

  939. older than

  940. me, but

  941. obviously the

  942. son is also

  943. Japanese.

  944. And the

  945. son, when

  946. he was in

  947. his 20s,

  948. went out and

  949. he met

  950. this girl,

  951. this Korean

  952. girl, they

  953. started dating,

  954. they fell in

  955. love.

  956. The Korean

  957. girl went

  958. home and

  959. she told

  960. her parents,

  961. I have

  962. met this

  963. boy, he's

  964. wonderful, he's

  965. amazing, I

  966. love him, I

  967. think I want

  968. to marry him, and

  969. oh by the

  970. way, he's

  971. Japanese.

  972. And her

  973. dad's response

  974. was, do you

  975. know what his

  976. people did to

  977. our people?

  978. They have

  979. attacked us,

  980. they have

  981. hurt us, they

  982. have destroyed

  983. us, but you

  984. love Jesus, and

  985. he loves

  986. Jesus.

  987. And there's

  988. something about

  989. your core

  990. identity that

  991. has changed so

  992. that we cannot

  993. define this

  994. boy by what

  995. his nation

  996. has done to

  997. our nation.

  998. And her

  999. parents said,

  1000. we approve

  1001. of you

  1002. marrying this

  1003. boy, even

  1004. though we

  1005. as Koreans

  1006. have been so

  1007. hurt by the

  1008. Japanese people

  1009. in the past.

  1010. There is a

  1011. new identity

  1012. that's a part

  1013. of you and a

  1014. new identity

  1015. that is part

  1016. of him.

  1017. And because

  1018. you are both

  1019. Christians, the

  1020. things that

  1021. unite you are

  1022. so much

  1023. stronger than

  1024. the things that

  1025. would divide

  1026. you as

  1027. Koreans and

  1028. Japanese.

  1029. And my

  1030. Japanese friend's

  1031. son married

  1032. this Korean

  1033. girl with the

  1034. blessing of

  1035. her parents.

  1036. And that is

  1037. what Paul is

  1038. saying Jesus

  1039. came to

  1040. accomplish.

  1041. Something

  1042. beautiful,

  1043. something that

  1044. in the world's

  1045. eyes is

  1046. different and

  1047. crazy, but

  1048. something that

  1049. shows a

  1050. radical, radical

  1051. transformative

  1052. power at

  1053. work in

  1054. our lives.

  1055. And why is

  1056. this transformation

  1057. happening?

  1058. Well, Paul

  1059. says that what's

  1060. happened is that

  1061. in Christ all

  1062. of us are being

  1063. brought near to

  1064. God.

  1065. So if we look

  1066. over there and

  1067. we see like

  1068. Bernard sitting

  1069. over in the

  1070. corner, hi.

  1071. And we look

  1072. over there and

  1073. we see like

  1074. David sitting in

  1075. the corner, hi.

  1076. What Paul is

  1077. saying is that

  1078. previously all of

  1079. us are far away

  1080. from each other.

  1081. But in Christ,

  1082. God is drawing

  1083. us near to

  1084. himself.

  1085. So if God

  1086. was like here

  1087. and the Jews

  1088. were way over

  1089. where David is

  1090. and the Gentiles

  1091. were way over

  1092. where Bernard is

  1093. and each of

  1094. them stood up

  1095. and took five

  1096. steps towards

  1097. God, not only

  1098. are each of

  1099. them five steps

  1100. closer to God,

  1101. they're also ten

  1102. steps closer to

  1103. each other.

  1104. And Paul is

  1105. saying the

  1106. closer we get

  1107. to God, the

  1108. closer we as

  1109. his people will

  1110. get to each

  1111. other.

  1112. Because if we

  1113. are all drawing

  1114. near to God,

  1115. then the

  1116. proximity that we

  1117. have to God

  1118. will bring us

  1119. close to one

  1120. another as

  1121. well.

  1122. And as we

  1123. come close to

  1124. one another as

  1125. God's people,

  1126. we need to

  1127. interact with

  1128. love.

  1129. We need to

  1130. interact sacrificially.

  1131. We need to

  1132. have our

  1133. interaction be

  1134. shaped and

  1135. marked by the

  1136. cross.

  1137. Paul goes on

  1138. and he continues

  1139. to say that

  1140. God is building

  1141. us into a

  1142. temple for

  1143. himself.

  1144. Now a

  1145. temple is a

  1146. place where

  1147. God lives.

  1148. What Paul is

  1149. saying is that

  1150. God wants to

  1151. live among

  1152. us, not just

  1153. within us as

  1154. individuals, but

  1155. among us as a

  1156. group as a

  1157. whole.

  1158. It's God's

  1159. temple, not

  1160. ours, so he

  1161. gets to decide

  1162. who's in it and

  1163. what it looks

  1164. like.

  1165. What he says

  1166. is that God

  1167. wants to join

  1168. us together so

  1169. that as we

  1170. come together,

  1171. there is a

  1172. beautiful,

  1173. beautiful place

  1174. for him to

  1175. dwell in our

  1176. midst.

  1177. And this has

  1178. huge, huge

  1179. implications for

  1180. our life in

  1181. community.

  1182. You know, it's

  1183. one thing to

  1184. say that we're

  1185. equal and I'm

  1186. no better than

  1187. you and you're

  1188. no better than

  1189. me.

  1190. It means that I

  1191. can't mistreat

  1192. you.

  1193. It means that I

  1194. can't really look

  1195. down on you, but

  1196. it doesn't force me

  1197. to be nice to

  1198. you.

  1199. I can just stay

  1200. neutral towards

  1201. you if we're

  1202. equal.

  1203. But if we're

  1204. joined together,

  1205. then something

  1206. different is going

  1207. on there.

  1208. Right?

  1209. Justine and I,

  1210. we're married.

  1211. We're joined

  1212. together for life.

  1213. And so that

  1214. means that the

  1215. way that I

  1216. treat her has

  1217. much bigger

  1218. implications than

  1219. they would if we

  1220. were just equals.

  1221. That if I serve

  1222. her and love her

  1223. and she feels

  1224. loved, then that's

  1225. going to have an

  1226. impact on the way

  1227. that she treats

  1228. me.

  1229. And if I ignore

  1230. her and neglect

  1231. her and she

  1232. doesn't feel

  1233. loved, that also

  1234. is going to have

  1235. a reciprocal

  1236. effect.

  1237. Back on me.

  1238. When we are

  1239. joined together,

  1240. then our actions

  1241. towards one

  1242. another impact

  1243. much further

  1244. down the road

  1245. than just that

  1246. one relationship.

  1247. And Paul is

  1248. saying that we

  1249. are being joined

  1250. together into a

  1251. place for God

  1252. to live.

  1253. And that we,

  1254. because we're

  1255. part of God's

  1256. people, have to

  1257. form this building

  1258. in a way that is

  1259. honoring to God,

  1260. not in the way

  1261. necessarily that we

  1262. want to do it,

  1263. but in the way

  1264. that God wants

  1265. us to do it.

  1266. And he tells us

  1267. that Jesus is the

  1268. cornerstone.

  1269. Now the cornerstone

  1270. in ancient

  1271. architecture is a

  1272. huge rock.

  1273. And they would

  1274. cut all the angles

  1275. and the sides

  1276. perfectly, and they

  1277. would place it in

  1278. one of the corners

  1279. of the foundation

  1280. of the building,

  1281. and all of the

  1282. measurements of the

  1283. building would be

  1284. made based on the

  1285. measurements of that

  1286. rock.

  1287. So if the rock

  1288. points in this way,

  1289. then they would

  1290. extend that line

  1291. out and they would

  1292. build the wall in a

  1293. straight line,

  1294. perfectly in line

  1295. with the cornerstone.

  1296. If the line goes

  1297. this way, they'd

  1298. point it out and

  1299. build the building

  1300. that way in the

  1301. direction of the

  1302. cornerstone.

  1303. And every measurement

  1304. in the building was

  1305. made against the

  1306. measurements of the

  1307. cornerstone.

  1308. So when Paul says

  1309. that Jesus is the

  1310. cornerstone, he says

  1311. everything about the

  1312. life of the church

  1313. must be built on

  1314. and modeled on who

  1315. Jesus is for us,

  1316. who Jesus is in us,

  1317. how Jesus commands

  1318. us to live as a

  1319. community, and that

  1320. is our standard.

  1321. Society's norms cannot

  1322. be our standard.

  1323. What we feel like in

  1324. our heart might be the

  1325. right thing to do

  1326. cannot be our

  1327. standard.

  1328. We must allow Jesus

  1329. himself to be our

  1330. standard.

  1331. And so we have now

  1332. recognized, or we've

  1333. now remembered,

  1334. our previous

  1335. conditions.

  1336. We've recognized the

  1337. present state that

  1338. we're in, and we

  1339. must now, in light of

  1340. that, re-evaluate our

  1341. future.

  1342. We must think, what

  1343. must we do?

  1344. How must our lives be

  1345. different because of

  1346. these truths, because of

  1347. this radical change that

  1348. has happened where God

  1349. has brought us near not

  1350. only to himself, but

  1351. also to each other?

  1352. my first application

  1353. point here, I think, is

  1354. aimed primarily at

  1355. non-Christians.

  1356. You know, if you're here

  1357. today and you're a

  1358. non-Christian, then these

  1359. past things that we're

  1360. supposed to remember are

  1361. still a present reality

  1362. for you.

  1363. Separation from God,

  1364. separation from God's

  1365. people without hope and

  1366. without God in the world.

  1367. I know that sounds

  1368. harsh of me to say, but

  1369. if the Bible is true,

  1370. then telling you that is

  1371. the most loving thing

  1372. that I can do today.

  1373. because God offers you a

  1374. chance for that to not be

  1375. your reality anymore.

  1376. God offers to come and

  1377. rescue you, to give you a

  1378. new relationship with

  1379. himself, to give you a new

  1380. relationship with his

  1381. people, and he wants that

  1382. to happen today.

  1383. So if you're here today and

  1384. you're not a Christian, my

  1385. plea to you is that you

  1386. would trust in Jesus, that

  1387. you would see how amazing

  1388. and wonderful and beautiful

  1389. the salvation he offers

  1390. to us is, and that you

  1391. would accept that as your

  1392. own today.

  1393. If you don't quite

  1394. understand all of what

  1395. that implies, find one of

  1396. us and talk to us after

  1397. service.

  1398. Turn and ask the person

  1399. next to you when we're

  1400. done, because this is

  1401. important.

  1402. If we are a Christian

  1403. today, this also has

  1404. implications for our

  1405. lives.

  1406. The first one, I think,

  1407. applies to some of us,

  1408. not necessarily all of us,

  1409. but an amazing first step

  1410. towards living as the

  1411. people of God is being

  1412. willing to identify

  1413. yourself as part of the

  1414. people of God through

  1415. baptism.

  1416. You know, we're having a

  1417. baptism today.

  1418. It's an exciting and

  1419. awesome time.

  1420. It's a time for people to

  1421. publicly declare that they

  1422. are part of God's family.

  1423. It doesn't have any special

  1424. power to save them or to

  1425. change them or to earn them

  1426. points in heaven.

  1427. But it does have an amazing

  1428. ability to declare to the

  1429. world that they are part of

  1430. this family.

  1431. And if God calls us to live

  1432. the way that we've been

  1433. talking about as a family

  1434. today, but we're not willing

  1435. to identify ourselves

  1436. publicly as part of that

  1437. family, we're going to have a

  1438. really tough time living

  1439. properly as part of that

  1440. family.

  1441. family.

  1442. You know, when Justine and

  1443. I got married, we gave each

  1444. other these rings.

  1445. I know the ring is a

  1446. cultural thing, so not

  1447. everyone here necessarily

  1448. wears them, but in the

  1449. culture that we come from,

  1450. a ring is very important

  1451. for signifying that you are

  1452. married to one another.

  1453. And if I just went up to

  1454. Justine one day and I said,

  1455. hey, babe, I know we're

  1456. married, but I don't want to

  1457. wear this ring anymore.

  1458. You know, I don't want to

  1459. make too big of a deal about

  1460. the fact that we're married.

  1461. If people ask me about it,

  1462. I won't lie about it, but I

  1463. just don't feel the need to

  1464. like promote it.

  1465. That would mean something was

  1466. wrong with my marriage.

  1467. Because although the sign has

  1468. no power to make me her

  1469. husband, it's a symbol to the

  1470. world of the fact that I am

  1471. her husband, and it shows

  1472. others that I love her and

  1473. that I'm married to her and

  1474. that I care about her.

  1475. In the same way, baptism is a

  1476. sign to the world of the fact

  1477. that we are a part of God's

  1478. family.

  1479. It's an act of obedience to

  1480. God to declare to the members

  1481. of the church and the people

  1482. outside the church that God

  1483. has done something amazing in

  1484. our lives, and God has made us

  1485. a part of his family, and we

  1486. want to celebrate and rejoice in

  1487. that fact.

  1488. And so if you're here today and

  1489. you're a Christian and you have

  1490. not been baptized yet, I

  1491. encourage you, get baptized.

  1492. Declare to the church that you

  1493. are one of us, that you're in

  1494. for this thing.

  1495. Declare to the world around you

  1496. that there's been a change in

  1497. your life and that you are now a

  1498. part of God's people.

  1499. That's a vital first step to

  1500. living properly in life like Paul

  1501. tells us to live it here.

  1502. A second step would be getting

  1503. deeply involved in each other's

  1504. lives.

  1505. And I know we have a tendency to

  1506. like group with people who are

  1507. similar to us, whether that's by

  1508. age or by socioeconomic status or

  1509. stage in life or however, but get

  1510. deeply involved in each other's

  1511. lives with people like you and

  1512. with people different from you.

  1513. Because Jesus died not only to

  1514. unite us with people like us in

  1515. the church, but also so that we

  1516. would love and interact with

  1517. people who we have nothing in

  1518. common with except for Jesus.

  1519. Jesus wants our community to be

  1520. something that the world looks at

  1521. and goes, huh?

  1522. Because it doesn't make sense to

  1523. them.

  1524. Because they look at this person

  1525. and this person and this person

  1526. and there is no logical reason why

  1527. they should be hanging out or like

  1528. each other.

  1529. And yet they do.

  1530. And the world looks at this and

  1531. they're like, what is different?

  1532. What is going on here?

  1533. And it gives us an amazing

  1534. opportunity to show the world how

  1535. Jesus has transformed our community.

  1536. Here at Watermark, we have community

  1537. groups that are encouraged, that are

  1538. intended to create this type of

  1539. community.

  1540. We try and do community groups

  1541. geographically based as much as

  1542. possible so that you're forced to be

  1543. with people who are different than

  1544. you.

  1545. Because if we didn't do it

  1546. geographically based, then all the

  1547. young people would go together, all the

  1548. old people would go together and all

  1549. the parents with teenage kids would

  1550. group together.

  1551. But geographically based means that in

  1552. my community group, there are people

  1553. old enough to be my parents.

  1554. And there are people old enough to be my

  1555. grandparents.

  1556. And there are people with young kids

  1557. and people with no kids and single

  1558. people.

  1559. And am I going to get in trouble for

  1560. that one?

  1561. Maybe.

  1562. Maybe I will.

  1563. It's okay.

  1564. There are people from all different

  1565. walks of life.

  1566. There are people who are retired, people

  1567. who are just starting out, and people

  1568. who are still studying.

  1569. There are people who are Western, people

  1570. who are Asian, people, you name it, we've

  1571. got all this variety.

  1572. And if you were to look at our group

  1573. gathered on a Thursday night and say,

  1574. why are all these people brought

  1575. together?

  1576. There is no earthly explanation that

  1577. you could give other than the fact that

  1578. something has changed inside of us, that

  1579. there is a God who has loved us and who

  1580. has transformed us and who has created

  1581. us into this community who can love one

  1582. another.

  1583. And the amazing thing is that coming

  1584. from different backgrounds allows us

  1585. when we interact to see things in each

  1586. other's lives that we would never

  1587. otherwise see.

  1588. It allows us to give help to one

  1589. another in ways that we could never

  1590. help one another if we were all just a

  1591. homogenous group.

  1592. And so it actually does have beautiful

  1593. side effects in a positive way in this

  1594. world.

  1595. But even if it didn't, it's a way of

  1596. showing the world around us the amazing,

  1597. wonderful love that God has shown to us.

  1598. And for that, it is worth it.

  1599. So please, if you're not in a community

  1600. group, join a community group.

  1601. And a third way that I think this should

  1602. impact our lives is membership.

  1603. Now, I know Paul doesn't talk explicitly

  1604. about membership in this passage or really

  1605. anywhere in the New Testament.

  1606. But remember, Paul lived in a different

  1607. world than we do.

  1608. In Paul's day, becoming a Christian and

  1609. getting baptized was basically putting

  1610. your life on the line.

  1611. If you were to become a Christian in the

  1612. time when Paul was writing and you were

  1613. to get baptized, there was a very real

  1614. risk that you were going to be burned

  1615. alive or have your head chopped off

  1616. because of it.

  1617. And so in that world, in that situation,

  1618. when you get baptized, you are committed.

  1619. You are in.

  1620. There are no questions about whether you're

  1621. really in on this thing.

  1622. In our world today, people are transient.

  1623. They come and go from the city.

  1624. They jump around from church to church

  1625. while they're here.

  1626. People, you know, who might not actually

  1627. care about having a relationship with

  1628. Jesus or people in the church label

  1629. themselves as Christians to get networking

  1630. connections.

  1631. It's a lot harder to tell whether people

  1632. are committed or not today.

  1633. And in a church like Watermark, where people

  1634. are constantly coming and going, we have a

  1635. group of men called elders who are

  1636. responsible for the spiritual oversight

  1637. of this church community.

  1638. And in order to oversee the spiritual life

  1639. of our community, something very important

  1640. for them is just knowing who is a part of

  1641. that community.

  1642. And so becoming a member is a great way of

  1643. saying to the elders, you know, we're in.

  1644. We're committed to this church.

  1645. We're with you guys.

  1646. We want you to hold us accountable.

  1647. And we're going to commit to holding up our

  1648. friend of making this church work as well.

  1649. It's not something that necessarily Paul

  1650. talks about here, but I think it's right

  1651. in line with what Paul is talking about.

  1652. This commitment to God's people.

  1653. This willingness to sacrifice for the good

  1654. of the whole.

  1655. And maybe you're here today and you say,

  1656. hey Eric, I'm already a Christian.

  1657. I'm already baptized.

  1658. I'm in a community group and I'm a member

  1659. here.

  1660. I've got it all.

  1661. We're good.

  1662. My challenge to you would be sometime this

  1663. week, read through this passage again.

  1664. And as you do, think to yourself,

  1665. who are the people in the church that I find

  1666. it hard to love?

  1667. And how would properly understanding this

  1668. passage transform the way that I interact

  1669. with them?

  1670. Because I know for me, I'm a member.

  1671. I'm baptized.

  1672. I'm in a community group.

  1673. But this passage still has a lot to say to me

  1674. about the way that I interact with people

  1675. in the church and about the way that I see

  1676. others who are different than me.

  1677. It tells me that I can't think of myself as

  1678. better than anyone.

  1679. I can't even think of myself as separated from

  1680. anyone, separate but equal.

  1681. It doesn't work in the body of Christ.

  1682. Because we are joined together.

  1683. And the way that we interact with each other

  1684. within the church must be marked by the same

  1685. type of sacrificial love that Jesus showed

  1686. to us on the cross.

  1687. And so Paul wants us to remember who we used

  1688. to be.

  1689. He wants us to recognize what Christ has done

  1690. for us.

  1691. And he wants us to re-evaluate where we're

  1692. going based on those truths.

  1693. Are we going to be a church that lets the cross

  1694. shape our community?

  1695. Or are we going to be a church that says,

  1696. no, I want it to be just about me.

  1697. Maybe me and God.

  1698. Are we going to be a church that allows our

  1699. community to be a light to the world around us

  1700. of how beautiful and amazing our God's love is

  1701. for us?

  1702. I hope the answer is yes.

  1703. Let's pray.

  1704. Father, we thank you so much for your love for us.

  1705. We thank you that when we were undeserving and we

  1706. were helpless and we were unable to do anything to

  1707. change our state, that you sent Jesus down to rescue

  1708. us.

  1709. Now, you didn't just rescue us to give us a

  1710. relationship with yourself, but you rescued us to

  1711. transform us into a community of people who love you

  1712. together.

  1713. God, I pray that we would be willing to identify ourselves as

  1714. part of your people, that we'd be willing to sacrifice for one

  1715. another, that we'd be willing to do hard things for the good of

  1716. others within this body.

  1717. We thank you again for your love for us, for your grace towards

  1718. us.

  1719. We pray that you would give us the strength to live as the people

  1720. that you have called us to be.

  1721. In Jesus' name, amen.

  1722. Amen.