Sermon
Our Father in Heaven
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Transcript
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Good morning, Watermark.
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All right.
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I love you guys.
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Those are some of the university students.
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All right.
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Yeah, if you don't know me, my name is Alfie,
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and I help out with the university ministry here at Watermark,
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reaching out to HKU.
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And today is actually quite an exciting Sunday for me,
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because I think for the first time in four or five years,
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my whole family is in a church service together.
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And that's really exciting.
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So, please come and say hi and make them feel awkward.
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You know, if you've heard stories about my dad,
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you can ask him if they really are true.
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My dad, my mom, my sister, we all live here in Hong Kong.
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But I don't see my parents that often.
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Usually what happens is, after about the third week,
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my dad will send me a text message and say,
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you know, your mother misses you.
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And so I know it's time to muster up the effort to get on the bus
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and go out into the middle of nowhere to visit them.
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But thankfully, you know, I get to communicate with my parents in other ways.
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You know, just with my telephone, you know, I can send text messages.
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I can call them.
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I can, you know, WhatsApp them.
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I can FaceTime them.
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If I'm really fancy, I can, like, find a website and order some flowers and send it to them.
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There are many ways in which I can communicate with them.
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But not all of them are really quite, like, being there face-to-face
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and seeing them and touching them.
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You know, I really wish I could do that more often.
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And I tell them, you know, if they ever move, you know, closer to the island,
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then maybe I'll consider living with them.
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That hasn't happened yet.
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But I think many of us feel like that when it comes to relating with God.
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Because we know he's there, but he seems a bit far off.
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It's kind of hard to get to.
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And we know we're supposed to pray, but we've been taught about prayer,
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but our experience of it doesn't match up with what we've been taught,
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what we want to expect.
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You know, we feel like we're sending an email that never leaves the computer.
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Or, you know, we're sending a text message,
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and, you know, we're waiting for a ply that's going to come, you know,
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floating in a bottle, and we have to be at the beach at the right time to find it.
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And, you know, I think that even for people who have been Christians for a long time,
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the idea of what prayer is is a bit of a mystery.
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And we have lots of questions about prayer,
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questions that we ask other people,
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questions that we ask God about prayer.
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You might ask God, are you there?
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Do you hear me?
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Am I good enough?
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Have I done enough good things for you to answer my prayer?
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Am I saying the right words?
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Am I formal enough?
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Am I kneeling the right way?
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Do I keep my eyes closed or open?
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You might ask,
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God, I'm sorry that I keep falling asleep
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when I'm trying to pray.
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You might ask,
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what's the formula?
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What's the series of words that I need to say
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to make sure
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that God hears me?
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Sometimes we're angry at God
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and we don't want to pray.
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Is it okay to pray to God when we're angry?
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Can we express what's going on in our hearts to God?
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Even if it means using a few, you know, naughty words?
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How can we be expected to pray without ceasing?
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Why do you tell us to do that?
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I think there's so many questions about prayer
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that I don't even know the answers to
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that many people ask each other,
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they ask of God about prayer.
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What is prayer?
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What does it mean?
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How does it work?
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How can we talk to this amazing, huge God?
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You know, I think I could go on
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asking different questions about prayer.
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And, you know, a lot of them are usually along the theme of,
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you know, what is prayer?
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What am I doing while I'm praying?
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How does it work?
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And the second part is,
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does God care?
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Does God love us?
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Today we're going to be starting a series
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for the next couple of weeks on prayer.
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Myself and a couple of other preachers,
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we're going to be going through the Lord's Prayer
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one bit at a time.
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And we're going to try and talk
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and unwrap this idea of prayer.
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In fact, this is a focus that we'll be doing
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across Watermark for the next couple of weeks.
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You'll see that even the prayer that we do
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before the service is a little bit different.
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So I encourage you to come early,
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come 1010, it starts at 1015,
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and get involved with that.
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Also, we're going through other stuff
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in our community group.
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So if you're not in a community group,
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join a community group.
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You're not going to want to miss
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this journey that we're taking as a church
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in unwrapping prayer.
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Now, as we've been talking about
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why we want to do this focus,
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we've kind of come up with different goals
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of what we hope to achieve
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through this series in prayer.
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There are three of them,
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and the first is that,
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it's right here,
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that we want to teach an attitude of prayer,
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not a form of prayer.
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We don't want Watermark to end up
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two months from now
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with everyone praying the exact same way.
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But we do want Watermark to be a church
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where people are coming
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with the right attitude before God,
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before their Heavenly Father.
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We want to, the second goal is
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we really want to encourage you guys
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to be praying out of a relationship
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with a loving Heavenly Father
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that is based in reality,
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that we're not, you know,
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praying into some, you know,
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unknown spiritual air,
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but that we have a relationship
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with a real Heavenly Father.
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Lastly, we want Watermark to be a church
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that prays more expansively,
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not just praying at mealtimes
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and when we're in trouble,
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but to pray often,
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to pray all the time,
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not just to pray about ourselves,
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but about our community,
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to pray about God's kingdom.
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We want us to be a church
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that's praying about
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more than just asking,
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but also in thanksgiving
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and praise and a confession.
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All right, we want Watermark,
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we want to teach you guys
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an attitude of prayer,
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not a form.
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We want to encourage you to pray
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because of a relationship
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with your Heavenly Father.
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and we want you to pray more
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and more expansively.
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And so, even as you're
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in community groups
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and in this prayer time,
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as you're thinking about prayers,
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you're listening to these sermons,
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look out for some of these things.
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How is our relationship
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with God coming out?
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How are we encouraged
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to pray more expansively?
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Now, before we start,
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really, we should have
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a definition for prayer.
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Now, as many people as you ask,
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you'll have a definition
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for prayer.
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At a community group yesterday,
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my community group
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was talking about this,
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and, you know,
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everyone has a slightly
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different idea of what prayer is.
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And as many books as you read,
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you'll also find
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different definitions,
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except for one book that I read
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where he quoted another guy.
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So, two books, same definition.
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All right.
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But, I'm glad I get to go first
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because I get to pick
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the definition of prayer,
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and everyone else
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has to follow that.
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No, no, no, I'm joking.
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Oh, really, we sat down as a team
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and we talked and we prayed
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and we discussed.
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And we tried to figure out
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a good definition
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that would capture prayer.
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All right.
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Even after we settled on this,
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there was still discussion about,
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ooh, should we change it?
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But we're going to go with this.
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And we hope that,
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at least for this time,
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that this definition
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will help us understand
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and begin thinking
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about what prayer is.
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And so, we'll put it up here.
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And it says that prayer is
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a child calling out
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to their loving,
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heavenly father
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in response to him
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reaching down to them.
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prayer is a child
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calling out
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to their loving,
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heavenly father
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in response
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to them,
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to him
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reaching down to them.
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Today, I'm going to be focusing
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on our relationship
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with God
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as we look at the
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first couple of lines
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in the Lord's Prayer.
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prayer.
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In Matthew chapter 6,
Matthew 6 chapter mention
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Jesus tells the people
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to pray like him.
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And Matthew chapter 6,
Matthew 6 chapter mention
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you'll find is
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right in the middle
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of the Sermon on the Mount.
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In the Sermon on the Mount,
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Jesus is here
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and he's gathered
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his disciples
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and his followers
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and he's telling them
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about how to live their lives.
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And he makes
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some pretty big asks of them
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and he tells them
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that they need to
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turn the other cheek,
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they need to walk
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the extra mile,
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that they should
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love their enemies.
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He asks difficult
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things of them
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and at the end,
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he gets to the gist of it
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and he says that
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all of our lives
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we're living before God.
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Everything that we do
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is before God
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and he wants us
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to live our lives
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in the presence of God.
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And so when we come
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to looking at the Lord's Prayer,
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we're trying to figure out
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how is it that
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as God's people
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in the presence of God
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do we talk to him?
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How do we call out
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to our Heavenly Father
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if our lives
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are being lived
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in his presence?
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Now,
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Jesus uses the idea
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of Father.
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God is our Heavenly Father
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to describe
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the way in which
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we address God.
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And, you know,
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I think everyone
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has a different idea
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of what a father is
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based on our experience
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with our own earthly fathers
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and those
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begin to shape
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the way that
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we look at God.
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Now,
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some of us
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have good experiences
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and some of us
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have bad experiences.
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And even in the course
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of our lives,
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our relationships
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with our fathers
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change.
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You know,
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if you're younger,
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then, you know,
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your fathers are
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paying the rent
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and they're giving you
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food and clothing
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and they're paying
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your school fees
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even though you'd wish
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they'd rather not.
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all right?
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And maybe if you're
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a bit older,
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your parents are
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dependent on you
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and you are caring
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for them
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and you're providing
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and taking care
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of them.
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You know,
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I think each of us
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has such different
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experiences.
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I was talking
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with my brother
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the other day
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about an experience
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that I had had
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with my dad
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and he looked at me
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with this blank expression
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because even though
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we lived in the same house,
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he was completely oblivious
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to my struggle
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with my dad
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at that point in time.
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Even in the same household
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and experiences
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of fathers are different.
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You know,
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I think I had
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a fairly good relationship
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with my dad
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growing up
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except when I was 11,
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13,
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16,
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and 20.
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All right?
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Everything else
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was great.
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Those were some
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rough years.
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But even as I talk
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with different people
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in this congregation,
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I realize that
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you guys have had
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many different experiences.
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many of you
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have had difficult
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experiences
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with abusive fathers
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or absent fathers,
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fathers who didn't love you
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or didn't know
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how to love you.
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You know,
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I think,
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as I look out here,
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I know that,
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you know,
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some of you
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don't love your fathers
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and you find it hard
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to think about
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how do we love
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our Heavenly Father?
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How do we love
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our God
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when our earthly father
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has disappointed us
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and failed us
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in so many ways?
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You know,
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my hope,
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Watermark,
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is that as we're looking
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at these passages
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that we will get to see
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and we'll form
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a different picture
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of our father,
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that we will see
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our Heavenly Father
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as good
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and beautiful
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and amazing
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and loving
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and perfect,
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that even
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my good relationship
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with my father
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doesn't compare
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to the amazing
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Heavenly Father
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that we have
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in God.
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So,
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how do we pray?
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Right at the beginning,
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Jesus says,
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you'll find it
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in verse 9,
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he says,
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pray then like this,
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our Father
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in heaven.
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Now,
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the Bible doesn't
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give us the reaction
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of his disciples,
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but I think
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that the disciples
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would have been surprised,
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would have been shocked
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that Jesus was calling
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God his Father.
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And it's interesting
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because so much
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of Jewish life
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and culture
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was about God
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being with them.
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You know,
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when they were wandering
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in the wilderness,
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the tabernacle,
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the tent
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where God rested
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was right in the middle
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of their camp.
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God was close to them.
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Even when their temple
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is in the middle
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of their city,
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their entire lives
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revolved around
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being close.
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But the Jewish people
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were hooked
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on this idea
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of a transcendent God,
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a holy God,
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a God that is big
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and marvelous
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and untouchable.
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Not that God
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isn't those things,
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but God is also
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a God who is close.
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A God who is near.
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And I think for us,
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even that is a big shift.
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Trying to think about
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God who is
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holy
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and amazing.
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A God who is our savior.
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A God who is the creator.
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But he is also
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our Father.
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Father.
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You know,
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I think the Bible
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tells us about
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the kind of father
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that God is.
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In Ephesians 3,
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it says that God
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is able to do
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far more
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than we ever imagined.
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In Romans 8,
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it tells us that
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he adopts us
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as his children.
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And he gives us
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a spirit to remind us
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of that.
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In Matthew chapter 7,
Matthew 7 chapter mention
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we have this interesting,
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it's right after
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the Lord's Prayer,
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he says that,
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you know,
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which of you,
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as a father,
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as an earthly father,
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gives your child a stone
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when he asks for bread
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or a snake
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when he asks for fish?
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He says,
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if it's earthly fathers,
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you know what is a good gift
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and what is a bad gift.
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How much more
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does our heavenly father know
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what is a good gift
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to give us?
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If you look through the Bible,
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this is a story
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of God's amazing love.
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In its pages,
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you'll see the love
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of a father
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for his children.
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You'll see how God
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loves Joseph
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in his prison cell
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and uses him
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not only to save Egypt,
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but to save his family.
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We see how God,
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as a father,
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loves his firstborn son,
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Israel,
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and calls him out of Egypt
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and out of slavery.
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The relationship
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of God
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to his children
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is one
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that is surrounded
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by this amazing,
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holy love.
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But us,
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we have this
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poor,
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broken image
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of what a father
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is like.
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we have this
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incomplete picture
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of what a father
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ought to be.
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And even if we try
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to imagine
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what our perfect father
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would be like,
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it wouldn't come close
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to what God,
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our father,
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is really like.
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Imagine you're a villager.
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You're living
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in this island
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and there is
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no one else.
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There's no other island
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within a thousand miles.
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And one day,
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as you're looking
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up at the sky,
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you see the moon.
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Yeah,
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there we go.
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You see the moon
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and you think,
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man,
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the moon is amazing
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because it's this
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little plate.
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It's this plate
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of ice cream
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in the sky.
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You know,
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how big is that?
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You know,
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maybe two feet wide
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and it's attached
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to this curtain
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that moves across
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the sky
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day and night.
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And sometimes
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we see the moon,
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sometimes we see the sun,
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but on this curtain
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is attached
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this plate of ice cream.
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But these strange people
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come and they have
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these little,
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you know,
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devices with glass
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and metal
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and they're playing
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with them all the time
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and they come
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and they tell you,
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oh no,
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that's not ice cream
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up there.
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But it's actually
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this huge rock.
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It's this huge rock
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in the sky.
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The moon isn't
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what you thought it was.
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It is something
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completely different.
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It's not a two feet
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wide plate of ice cream.
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It is a giant
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million mile wide
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rock.
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I don't know
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if it's a million miles wide.
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But it's a huge rock.
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That's the way
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that I think
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we,
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our view of our fathers
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and our view
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of our godly father
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is different like that.
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It's like comparing
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a plate of ice cream
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to the moon.
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They're not the same
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in any kind of way.
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The moon
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of the big rock
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is actually
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far more exciting
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than a plate
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of ice cream
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which is gone
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in a couple of minutes.
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And that's what it's like.
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We have this flawed picture
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of God,
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of our father.
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You know,
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we have this father
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who is good,
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who is perfect,
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who is loving,
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who knows
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his children,
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who gives good gifts
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to his children.
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We have this father
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that throughout
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the history of the Bible
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is calling
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and bringing his people
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towards him
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and inviting him
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into this relationship
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of love.
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And I think
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the love of a father
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is something
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very special,
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very unique.
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I'm not a father,
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but I have some friends
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who are.
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And I was talking
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to some of them
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this week.
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And one of them
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was telling me
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that he started
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to love his child
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the moment he found
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out his wife
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was pregnant.
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The moment he found
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out his wife
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was pregnant,
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he loved his child.
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They didn't have a name.
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They didn't know
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its gender yet.
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They didn't know
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what it would look like.
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But he loved
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his child.
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Right?
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And as his child
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grew and became cute,
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you know,
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he loved his child.
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He loved his child's poop.
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Right?
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But the child
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grew older
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and became whiny
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and moany
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and, you know,
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complaining.
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And he still loves
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his child
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even though
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he was frustrated.
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And, you know,
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God loves us
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in that same way.
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Except, you know,
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God loves us
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from before
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eternity began.
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The Bible says that
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he knew us.
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He knew his children
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from before creation.
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And before creation,
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he loved his children
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who are yet to be.
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And I think a lot of us,
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we spent so much time
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and effort
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trying to please
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our Heavenly Father.
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You know,
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we relate to him
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like we do
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our earthly fathers.
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We try to do good things
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so that we'll be
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rewarded for it.
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We try to avoid
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bad things
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so we don't get in trouble.
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You know,
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we're always worried
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about whether
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our Father
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really loves us.
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Imagine the love
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of our Heavenly Father
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not just while you're alive,
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but in all
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of eternity.
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we look at the story
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of the prodigal son
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where we see
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this picture
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of God's love
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for his children
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where
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this son
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insults his father,
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wishes him dead,
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and says,
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give me my inheritance.
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And after squandering it back,
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he comes
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and he wants to earn
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his father's love.
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And he says,
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let me work as a slave,
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as a servant.
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I don't deserve
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to be your son.
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But the father says,
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no.
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He says,
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you're my son.
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I love you.
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Come.
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We're going to kill
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the fattened calf.
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We're going to have a feast.
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Here's a ring.
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Here's a cloak.
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Here are sandals
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for your feet.
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I love you.
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And the watermark,
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our Heavenly Father
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loves us.
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And it doesn't matter
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where you've been,
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what you've done,
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how far you've wandered,
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how deep you find yourself
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in sin.
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Our Heavenly Father
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loves us.
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He wants to be
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close to us.
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So when we come
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and we see these words,
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our Father,
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I think we need to learn
-
how to put aside
-
our pictures
-
of our broken,
-
fallen,
-
earthly fathers
-
and look
-
to this amazing
-
Heavenly Father
-
who loves
-
and is calling
-
and bringing us
-
and inviting us
-
into a relationship
-
with Him.
-
inviting us
-
to call Him Father.
-
You know,
-
our childness,
-
our sonship,
-
our daughtership
-
isn't something
-
that we can break
-
by sin
-
or insult.
-
It's not something
-
that death
-
can even hurt.
-
our relationship
-
with our Father
-
ought to be one
-
where we know
-
we can rely
-
on Him
-
and trust Him.
-
that we can call
-
on Him
-
because He is a Father
-
who through Scripture
-
and through our lives
-
is calling to us,
-
is reaching out to us
-
and asking us
-
to call Him
-
our Father.
-
Father.
-
Now,
-
I guess the next question
-
is how do we know
-
that He is our Father?
-
And Jesus says
-
our Father in Heaven
-
but Jesus is Jesus.
-
How can we
-
know that God
-
is our Father?
-
In Romans,
-
in Romans chapter 8,
Romans 8 chapter mention
-
we learn about
-
the spirit of adoption
-
which God gives out.
-
The Bible says that
-
when we trust in Jesus
-
to repair our relationship
-
with God,
-
when we trust in Jesus
-
as the sacrifice
-
for our sins,
-
that we receive
-
the Holy Spirit.
-
In Romans 8,
-
He calls it
-
the spirit of adoption
-
that witnesses
-
to our hearts
-
that we are children of God.
-
If you have faith
-
in Jesus,
-
you are a child
-
of God.
-
And sometimes
-
people say that
-
everything and everybody
-
is a child of God
-
but a tree is not
-
a child of God.
-
It is created by God
-
but it's not His child.
-
If you,
-
if you're not
-
a Christian believer
-
then
-
God
-
isn't your Father.
-
But what the Bible says
-
is that
-
to become
-
God's child
-
is to
-
accept
-
Christ
-
and His sacrifice
-
for us.
-
And you know,
-
that's what Franklin
-
was talking about
-
in communion.
-
His body,
-
His blood
-
that repairs
-
our broken relationship
-
with our Heavenly Father
-
and makes us
-
His children.
-
It says that
-
the Spirit of God
-
witnesses in our spirit
-
and calls out
-
Abba, Father.
-
Abba, Father.
-
that's our Father.
-
Now,
-
even
-
our prayers
-
however,
-
as we
-
relate to our Heavenly Father,
-
as we come to Him
-
and we
-
have this picture
-
of Him
-
as our perfect
-
Heavenly Father
-
who is
-
far away
-
in His heavenly throne
-
but is also
-
close
-
and here
-
with us.
-
You know,
-
sometimes
-
these prayers
-
get tangled up
-
in sin
-
when we don't
-
approach
-
our Father
-
the right way.
-
And we see that
-
in verses 5-9
-
where God,
-
Jesus,
-
gives two examples
-
of how not to pray.
-
He talks about
-
Pharisees
-
who are so excited
-
about their
-
supreme holiness
-
that they can't wait
-
to get to the synagogue,
-
that they stop
-
in the street corners
-
to pray
-
where everyone
-
can see them.
-
And Jesus says
-
don't pray like that
-
because
-
they're not praying
-
for God,
-
they're praying
-
for themselves.
-
They're praying
-
for their approval
-
from other people.
-
And He talks
-
about the pagans
-
who will repeat
-
the same phrase
-
and mantra
-
over and over
-
and over and over
-
again in hopes
-
that God
-
would hear them.
-
He says
-
don't pray like that
-
because
-
God is your Father.
-
He knows you.
-
He loves you.
-
Even before you ask
-
what you need,
-
He knows it.
-
You know,
-
I read these sometimes
-
and I think,
-
well,
-
this doesn't really
-
apply to me
-
because I'm not
-
really a hypocrite.
-
I'm not really
-
a Pharisee.
-
And then I stop
-
and I think
-
and I realize,
-
oops,
-
I am.
-
Because I know
-
that, you know,
-
I think growing up
-
in church,
-
you get to hear
-
some amazing prayers.
-
There's some people
-
who pray
-
and it's almost
-
like poetry.
-
There's one old man
-
that I really love
-
and to this day
-
he prays in the
-
King James Version
-
and it's fantastic.
-
But, you know,
-
I like,
-
every now and then
-
I'll hear this phrase
-
or this ending
-
to a prayer
-
and I think,
-
ooh,
-
that sounds really nice.
-
I'm going to start
-
praying that
-
and when people
-
hear me praying
-
they're going to say,
-
oh, Alfie,
-
thank you so much
-
for praying.
-
I was so blessed by it.
-
And here I am thinking,
-
yes,
-
I am a good prayer.
-
But no,
-
I'm not.
-
I'm a terrible prayer
-
because those prayers
-
aren't for God.
-
They're for me.
-
They're for the approval
-
that I want
-
from other people.
-
And then when I go,
-
when I'm alone
-
in my room,
-
my prayers then turn
-
into the prayers
-
of a pagan
-
because there's no one
-
there to listen to me.
-
There's no one there
-
who's going to watch me.
-
And so now all my insecurities
-
I don't have to hide.
-
And you know what?
-
When I'm alone,
-
I'm afraid
-
because I don't trust
-
that God really loves me.
-
I don't trust
-
that God
-
wants to provide for me.
-
I don't trust
-
that God cares for me.
-
And so I'll pray
-
and I'll start,
-
you know,
-
and I'll spend
-
about 10 minutes
-
telling God
-
how amazing He is
-
and how beautiful He is.
-
And then when it comes
-
to asking about
-
what is on my heart,
-
you know,
-
I only ask about 30%
-
because I think
-
if I ask too much,
-
then God just won't
-
give me anything.
-
All right?
-
But I think that's
-
praying like a pagan
-
because I'm not seeing
-
God as my Father.
-
I'm seeing God
-
as this miserly old gentleman
-
who I'm trying to convince
-
that I deserve
-
something from Him.
-
The Bible says,
-
no,
-
the Bible says
-
that He is our Father,
-
that He loves us,
-
that He has great gifts for us,
-
and that when we pray,
-
we don't have to repeat
-
babbling phrases,
-
that we can come to God
-
and simply open our hearts
-
and say,
-
Father,
-
I need help.
-
Father,
-
I need you.
-
I think that one of the most
-
difficult things,
-
and I spent a week praying
-
that I would kind of
-
get this tension right,
-
is that while God
-
is our Heavenly Father,
-
this Creator,
-
this Rule of the Earth,
-
He's also close
-
like a Father.
-
You know,
-
as humans,
-
we're very good
-
at extremes,
-
and I think we can think
-
of God as our
-
earthly Father
-
who is close by,
-
and we can come to Him
-
at any time,
-
and it's like,
-
hey,
-
what's up?
-
I need this,
-
thanks,
-
and get on with our life.
-
Or,
-
we see God
-
as this faraway,
-
holy God
-
who we can't reach
-
and who we are afraid
-
to come before.
-
The Bible says
-
that God
-
is both of these things.
-
That's why
-
when you're seeing
-
the first two lines
-
in the Lord's Prayer,
-
it's our Father
-
in Heaven,
-
our Father
-
who is close
-
and loving.
-
Hallowed
-
be your name.
-
Let your name
-
be made holy.
-
Let me honor
-
your name
-
because you are
-
a great
-
and amazing God.
-
How is it
-
that we keep
-
this tension?
-
This Father
-
that loves us
-
and calls us
-
His children
-
is the same Father
-
that tore down
-
the walls of Jericho.
-
The Father
-
that tells us
-
to call Him
-
Child,
-
to call Him
-
Abba.
-
is the same
-
Father
-
that flooded
-
the earth
-
when Noah
-
built the ark.
-
I think that
-
one of the most
-
difficult things
-
and something
-
that I'm trying
-
to learn
-
is
-
how do I pray
-
keeping
-
both of God's
-
characteristics
-
in mind?
-
This
-
holy,
-
amazing,
-
huge God
-
and this
-
close
-
Father.
-
how do we
-
hallow God's
-
name?
-
How do we
-
make God's
-
name holy?
-
How do we
-
honor God's
-
name?
-
And I think
-
when Jesus
-
teaches His
-
disciples to
-
pray,
-
that He
-
teaches them
-
to honor God's
-
name in the
-
way that they
-
pray
-
and in the
-
way that
-
reflects in our
-
lives lived
-
out.
-
God's
-
God's
-
name
-
when we're
-
concerned about
-
His kingdom.
-
When we say
-
Your kingdom
-
come,
-
we're not just
-
saying it,
-
that our lives
-
reflect that in
-
the things that
-
we do.
-
That when we
-
pray,
-
we honor God's
-
name when we
-
confess our
-
sins by
-
striving to
-
live holy,
-
righteous lives.
-
We honor
-
our Father
-
when we pray
-
that we
-
forgive the
-
debts of
-
others when
-
we go out
-
and we do
-
forgive and
-
love the
-
people around
-
us.
-
You know,
-
I grew up
-
with an
-
African father
-
and I think
-
that taught me
-
something a
-
little bit about
-
reverence because
-
as a child,
-
when we were
-
playing, if my
-
dad called for
-
us, we
-
turned up
-
immediately.
-
None of this
-
like, oh, I'll
-
be there in a
-
minute.
-
You know, if
-
dad called, you
-
were there.
-
It doesn't
-
matter what
-
level in the
-
video game you
-
were, it
-
doesn't matter if
-
you were texting
-
your girlfriend,
-
whatever.
-
You were there.
-
And I think, you
-
know, even today
-
that still happens.
-
Dad called, yes,
-
I'm there.
-
But that's the
-
way we show
-
reverence to our
-
Father, that we
-
do the things that
-
he tells us, that
-
we are loving to
-
people as he
-
asks us to be.
-
That we honor
-
him when we
-
follow through on
-
the prayers that
-
we're praying.
-
Irreverence is
-
not to do
-
that.
-
It's to come to
-
God and expect
-
him to give us
-
things left, right,
-
and center while
-
we spend the rest
-
of our lives
-
ignoring his
-
commands.
-
You know,
-
irreverence is
-
throwing his name
-
and reputation
-
in the mud.
-
Irreverence is
-
treating God like
-
a genie who is
-
there at our
-
beck and call to
-
give us the things
-
that we need.
-
Irreverence is
-
having our holy
-
time with God
-
and living the rest
-
of our lives in an
-
unholy manner.
-
prayer.
-
The Sermon on the
-
Mount, the Lord's
-
Prayer, is not
-
just about the
-
holy moments in
-
our lives.
-
We don't just come
-
to God as our
-
Father in community
-
group and at
-
church.
-
But we come to
-
him in all of our
-
life, in our work,
-
in our relationships,
-
in our relaxation,
-
with our money,
-
in our faith,
-
with our forgiveness.
-
all of these
-
things.
-
These are things
-
that we honor
-
our God with.
-
We show our
-
Heavenly Father
-
that he is holy
-
when we honor him
-
in all of our
-
lives.
-
When we say,
-
hallowed be your
-
name,
-
does that show up
-
in our lives?
-
When we say,
-
our Father in
-
Heaven,
-
is that reflected
-
in our prayers?
-
You know,
-
this Lord's Prayer
-
is more than just
-
a script,
-
something to say
-
that will let us
-
know this is the
-
way to pray.
-
Pray it and
-
everything is great.
-
But it's a call
-
for us to live
-
lives, to pray
-
prayers that are
-
different because
-
of our relationship
-
with God.
-
You know,
-
for some of us
-
today,
-
we don't like to
-
come before God.
-
We don't like to
-
call him Father
-
because of the
-
hurt we've
-
experienced from
-
our own fathers.
-
Look to God.
-
See the kind
-
of Father that
-
he is.
-
See the perfect,
-
loving Father.
-
that he is.
-
The great
-
Father who
-
brings his
-
children close
-
and says,
-
you're my child.
-
It doesn't matter
-
how you are.
-
I love you.
-
I think for some
-
of us today,
-
we're not sure
-
that God is
-
our Father.
-
And let me
-
invite you to
-
come and step
-
into this journey
-
and this family
-
and this relationship
-
with your
-
Heavenly Father.
-
To call on
-
him as a
-
child.
-
To trust in
-
Jesus and
-
become his
-
heir, the
-
heir to his
-
kingdom with
-
Jesus.
-
others of
-
us, I
-
think we
-
know we're
-
God's child
-
and we
-
don't have
-
that relational
-
struggle.
-
But when we
-
live our lives,
-
we don't honor
-
the God we
-
claim to be
-
praying to
-
when we pray
-
our Father in
-
heaven.
-
Amen.
-
I want you
-
guys, I
-
want all of
-
us, it
-
doesn't matter
-
where you
-
are, to
-
come and
-
marvel at
-
this.
-
That the
-
God that
-
created the
-
heavens and
-
the earth,
-
the God
-
that sent
-
his own
-
son to
-
die for
-
us, would
-
call us
-
his child
-
and call
-
us to
-
call him
-
Father.
-
God
-
I've
-
gone on
-
for a
-
while and
-
I think I
-
could go
-
for much
-
longer.
-
But there
-
is so much
-
in prayer.
-
There's so
-
much in the
-
Lord's prayer
-
for us to
-
learn.
-
And we're
-
not all going
-
to do it
-
today, but
-
really let me
-
encourage you
-
one more time
-
to join a
-
community group
-
this week and
-
join the study
-
in prayer.
-
Come to
-
Watermark for
-
the next couple
-
of weeks and
-
hear how prayer
-
changes our
-
lives.
-
What does it
-
mean for
-
Christ's kingdom
-
to come?
-
What does it
-
mean for us
-
to have our
-
daily bread?
-
What does it
-
mean for God
-
to lead us
-
out of
-
temptation?
-
Watermark,
-
when we see
-
our Father
-
as heavenly
-
and holy
-
and also
-
close
-
and loving,
-
when we pray
-
in wanting
-
his kingdom
-
because it's
-
his glory
-
in our
-
inheritance,
-
when we
-
pray trusting
-
him because
-
he is our
-
Father,
-
when we
-
pray trusting
-
his forgiveness,
-
when we
-
pray relying
-
on his
-
protection from
-
evil,
-
when we pray
-
to our
-
Father we
-
can rest
-
and be
-
secure
-
because nothing
-
can separate
-
us from
-
his love.
-
Nothing on
-
earth and in
-
heaven can
-
separate us
-
from the love
-
of our
-
Father
-
who is in
-
heaven.
-
Let's pray
-
together.
-
Dearest
-
heavenly
-
Father,
-
you are
-
amazing.
-
You are
-
amazing and
-
great and
-
holy and
-
I'm amazed
-
that you
-
invite us
-
to call you
-
Father,
-
to be a
-
part of
-
this close
-
relationship
-
with you
-
and I
-
confess that
-
I don't
-
always come
-
with this
-
attitude of
-
awe and
-
reverence and
-
love and
-
security.
-
I confess
-
that I
-
project broken
-
images of
-
my Father
-
onto you.
-
I confess
-
that I
-
ignore you
-
as my
-
perfect
-
heavenly
-
Father.
-
God, I
-
thank you
-
that you
-
are loving
-
and forgiving
-
and I
-
thank you
-
for the
-
comfort of
-
knowing that
-
you hear
-
us,
-
that you
-
love us,
-
that you
-
see us,
-
that you
-
give us
-
good and
-
perfect
-
gifts.
-
Help us
-
Father to
-
pray to
-
you,
-
to pray to
-
you often,
-
to pray to
-
you earnestly.
-
to pray
-
plainly and
-
simply because
-
you are our
-
Father in
-
heaven,
-
to pray in
-
reverence and
-
in confidence
-
because your
-
name is
-
holy.
-
In Jesus'
-
name,
-
amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.