Sermon
Lead Us Not Into Temptation
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My name's Chris, for those of you who don't know me.
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It's a beautiful morning outside, and welcome if you're new here.
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I feel like I'm six feet above contradiction here, so it's quite fun.
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Have you ever sat back and thought, why on earth did I do that?
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I bumped into an old friend a while back, and I hadn't seen him for a while,
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and we started talking, and for some reason we started getting on to our childhood.
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We started talking about the crazy things that we had done when we were children.
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He started on a story telling how he'd kind of had this dramatic escape from the police,
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and it was kind of, I don't know, somersaulted over a fence,
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and it was just this amazingly dramatic, exciting story.
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Then it went on to my turn, and I started talking about this story about
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I had started playing tennis when I shouldn't have done at school over the weekend,
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and after a while it just didn't sound particularly exciting.
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You know, wow, crazy childhood.
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And so I thought, okay, let's add a few kind of touches to this
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to make it a little bit more exciting.
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So the caretaker who asked us to leave the tennis court,
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he became someone who chased us down the road like shouting at us.
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And then the hole in the fence that we managed to get through,
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which actually we could stand up in and was huge,
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suddenly became this very small, tiny hole
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that we could only just squeeze through
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before he was about to grab us by the legs and catch us.
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And my friend was impressed.
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I went away.
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And as I was walking along,
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I had this battle inside of me thinking,
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did I lie?
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And I was thinking, well, it's kind of true.
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You know, there was a hole.
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There was a caretaker.
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You know, and maybe that hole was much smaller than I really thought.
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And you know, like the devil and the angel inside.
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You know, so I'm battling inside me,
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going on all this way for about 20 minutes.
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Okay, it's a long walk back.
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And then finally, I think I had a moment of honesty
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where I realized, actually, I think I lied.
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And then I thought, why did I do that?
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Why did I do that?
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And I realized I do the same thing at work.
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You know, I'm looking at some random YouTube video at work.
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I'm sure you would never do that.
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And someone comes past.
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And quickly, I minimize the screen
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and go back to looking as if I'm looking at my work email.
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And if someone asks me,
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oh, what were you looking at?
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I'll just say, oh, just some work stuff.
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You know, just some work stuff.
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And it's stupid because there isn't any strict rule in our office
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about, okay, you can't ever look at a YouTube video.
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But it's because I want to give the impression
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that I'm a hard worker.
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I want to be seen as something.
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I want to be recognized as something.
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So why, with a friend, do I feel the need to lie to them?
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Why do I feel the need to put up an image?
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Well, I think, on reflection,
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it's because I crave the approval of other people.
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And I have a strong conviction that lying is wrong.
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Integrity is very important to me.
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If somebody tells even a small lie to me,
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I will question their integrity
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and look down on them, maybe.
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But what I've realized is,
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over the last few months,
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is if you had asked me,
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do you lie,
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I'd only say, oh, very, very occasionally,
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not really very often.
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But I've realized that if my approval,
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if my recognition,
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if my sense of respect
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in front of other people's eyes is on the line,
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then I can turn into a compulsive liar.
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And it's because I want to maintain this image.
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And deep down in my heart,
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I'm like an orphan
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who wants other people's recognition
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because I've forgotten
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that I have a Father in Heaven
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who loves me,
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who accepts me,
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who delights in me.
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And I have to get someone else's approval
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because God's is not good enough for me.
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And I work for the church.
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So you can fire me if you like.
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And I'm sure none of you do that.
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But we're going through this series on prayer.
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We're kind of coming to the end of the series.
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And we've been saying that prayer
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is like a needy child
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calling out to their loving Heavenly Father
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in response to Him reaching down to them.
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Prayer is essentially a VIP access pass
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available only to family members
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into the presence of the King of all creation.
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It's been paid for with the blood of Jesus Christ.
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And if we trust in Him,
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we can enter into that relationship
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and call our King our Father.
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And we don't get that pass
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by queuing for hours to get a ticket.
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It's our Father who reached down to us in Christ
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and draws us to Himself.
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And prayer is an invitation
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to enjoy this newly bought relationship with Him
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and to find satisfaction in our Father.
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That is what prayer is about.
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And if you look in this prayer,
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in the Lord's Prayer,
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you see our enjoyment of God starts in worship.
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It says,
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Our Father, hallowed be your name.
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Holy be your name above all names.
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Because worship is your response
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to what you see as valuable
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and precious in your life.
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Whatever controls your heart
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is what will worship.
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Whatever consumes your thoughts,
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whatever directs your behavior,
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whatever in those everyday moments
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is shaping you,
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that is what you're worshiping.
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In that moment with my friend,
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I was worshiping the idol of approval.
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Because that was what was shaping my heart.
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And even though I could tell you
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with conviction that lying is wrong,
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the worship of my heart
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always directs my behavior
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more than what I think just in my head.
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Which is why the Lord's Prayer
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starts with worship,
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but it finishes with warfare.
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And this is what we're going to look at today.
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Because every day,
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I don't know if you realize it,
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but we're actually in a worship war.
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We're called to be lovers.
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Love God with all your heart,
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soul, mind, and strength.
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Love other people as yourself.
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Lovers of God.
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Lovers of others.
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And yet every day,
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we're in a battle for our affections
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from where we're going to place our love.
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It's a war for what's going to captivate you.
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It's a war for what's going to wrap you up.
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Is it yourself that's going to wrap you up,
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or is it you're going to find satisfaction in God?
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That's why we,
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as a needy child,
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need to be praying this prayer.
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Lead us not into temptation.
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Deliver us.
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Deliver us from evil.
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Deliver means rescue.
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I need rescuing in this war.
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So let's have a little look into
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this idea of temptation a little bit more.
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So we're going to look at what temptation is,
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how we get snared,
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and how we overcome.
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What temptation is,
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how we get snared,
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and how we overcome.
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Okay?
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So what is temptation?
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Okay?
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Well, let's look in this verse.
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Lead us not into temptation,
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but deliver us from evil.
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I don't know if you've read that verse before,
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but if you have,
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and like me,
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I always found that really strange.
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Because think about it.
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Firstly,
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how can a loving father
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lead you into temptation?
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If temptation is meant to be bad,
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why would he lead you into it?
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Strange.
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James 1,
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in the passage we read earlier,
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says,
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God does not tempt anyone.
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So it's just never made sense to me
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why we pray,
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God,
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don't lead me into temptation.
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Strange.
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Secondly,
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am I praying for God
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to remove all temptation from me?
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You know,
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Jesus was tempted by the devil
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in the wilderness,
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and God didn't just remove the temptation.
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Am I asking God
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to make all attractive women or men
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suddenly seem ugly to me?
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Or chocolate smell like durian?
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Do you know,
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is that what we're asking?
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Some people like durian,
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but it's okay.
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We can talk with you later.
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We'll pray for you.
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Yes.
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Deliver us from evil.
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Yes.
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So,
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so to understand temptation,
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I googled it.
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And do you know what I found?
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Temptation
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is a brand of cat treats,
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deodorant,
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chocolates,
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a nail collection,
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sunglasses,
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handbags,
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and a jewelry and fashion store.
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I looked more deeply
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into this topic,
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and I discovered
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that it's a behavior
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which is kind of naughty
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but nice.
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You know,
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it's something maybe
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which prevents you
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getting your goals,
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you know,
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so we overeat,
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it's overspending,
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it's spending too much time
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on Facebook,
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it's procrastinating,
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it's inappropriate sex,
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it's worrying.
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All of these things
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are right at the top of the list
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of what temptation is.
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And they,
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and they can be.
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But the Bible
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has a different definition
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of what temptation is.
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If you look in James 1,
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verse 14,
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it says,
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each person,
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and it's in your bulletin,
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each person is tempted
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when he's lured
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and enticed
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by his own desire.
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That word lured
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and enticed
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means to be literally
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drawn away.
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Temptation
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is anything
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that seeks
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to draw your heart
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away
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from finding
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satisfaction,
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security,
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hope,
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comfort,
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delight in God.
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It could be anything,
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the obvious,
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money,
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work,
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pornography,
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they're on the surface.
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For me,
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lying was my surface
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sin,
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surface temptation,
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but underneath,
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temptation is born
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and birthed
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out of your desire.
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It's a desire
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for approval,
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security,
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control,
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any of those things
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and to find them
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in anything
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other than God.
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But the word
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temptation in the Bible
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also has another meaning.
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And the second meaning
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is to be tried
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or tested.
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In verse 12
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in that passage
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in James,
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it says,
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blessed is the man
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who perseveres
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under trial.
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That word trial
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is the same word
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for temptation.
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temptation.
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And what it means
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is God
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leads us
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in life
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into testing
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situations,
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just like Jesus
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in the wilderness.
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And he does it
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to strengthen us
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and to teach us
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how to trust him
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in those moments.
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But temptation
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comes in
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when we want to
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satisfy our desires
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in the wrong way,
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at the wrong time,
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and apart from God
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and the way he wants
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us to live.
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Calvin,
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who was the
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great French reformer,
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he used to say,
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said this about this verse.
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He said,
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you know,
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there are temptations
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on your right hand
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and temptations
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on the left hand.
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He said,
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on the right hand,
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you've got temptations
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of success,
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riches,
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approval,
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when everything
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seems to be going well.
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And you are tempted
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in those moments
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to think,
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I can do it.
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I can rely on myself.
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I'm pretty good,
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aren't I?
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Look at the way
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I manage to do things.
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And I don't really
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need God in my life.
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That's the ones
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on the right hand.
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I can satisfy myself
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my way.
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But then on the left hand,
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there's temptations
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when everything
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seems to be going wrong,
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when you're not getting
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what you want,
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when there's suffering,
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when there's insecurity,
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when you fail,
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when there's rejection,
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all those other things.
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And we're tempted
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to worry,
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tempted to complain,
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tempted to find
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the security
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he would long for
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in anything
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other than God.
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I don't know
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where you are
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right now.
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It's 2016,
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but God has led you
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to where you are
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right now.
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And I don't know
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whether everything's
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going really well
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for you,
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or everything's
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just out of control.
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You know,
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you may have got
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your bonus,
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you may have got
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your pay rise,
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you just think
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things are great.
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Or you're struggling,
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you look at the
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financial situation
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in 2016,
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you look at your work,
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you look at your health,
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you look at your kids,
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and you're stressed out.
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I don't know which it is,
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but God has led you
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right here,
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and he's calling to you,
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and the question is,
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where are you looking
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for right now
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for your security,
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for your comfort,
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for your pleasure,
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for your approval,
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for control?
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Every day,
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we're tempted to find
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those things in our work,
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in other people's opinions,
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in our great plans,
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in our families,
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in our spouses.
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And if you want to know
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where temptation is lurking,
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just look at the things
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which stress you out.
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Look at the things
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which make you fearful,
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make you frustrated
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and angry,
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because lurking underneath,
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you may find
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that temptation
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has got you.
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But temptation
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is not sin in itself.
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Otherwise,
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Jesus would have sinned
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when he was tempted.
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Having a thought
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entering your mind
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isn't sin.
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We have people
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putting thoughts
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in our minds
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all the time,
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you know,
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colleagues,
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parents,
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media,
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Satan,
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all kinds of things,
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but the key word here
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is have we entered
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into temptation,
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or are we refusing
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to let it in?
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In Genesis 4,
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I don't know,
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you know the story
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of Cain and Abel,
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God says to Cain,
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who's just had
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his sacrifice rejected,
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and he's feeling jealous,
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he's feeling angry,
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he's feeling like,
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oh,
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my brother,
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it's not fair,
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life's not good,
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and God says to him,
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you know what,
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in this moment,
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you have a choice,
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because sin
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is crouching,
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like a lion,
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waiting to pounce,
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and he says,
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it wants to master you,
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but you must rule over it,
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that's what God says to us
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with our temptations,
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when I was a kid,
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every Christmas,
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there used to be this movie
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called Chitty Chitty Bang Bang,
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I don't know if anyone
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has seen it,
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there's a few people,
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okay,
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go ahead and watch it,
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but there was one character
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who just really freaked me out,
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in fact,
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he's been voted
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one of the scariest
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children's characters
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in a movie,
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he was called
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the Child Snatcher,
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and he would ride
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into town on a cart,
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and he'd get out
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of the cart,
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and he'd call
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for all the children
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in the town to come,
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and he'd offer them
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free ice cream
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and lollipops,
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and though the kids
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knew that they shouldn't
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go out to see him,
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the offer of free sweets
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was too much,
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and they were drawn
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out of their home,
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and they were lured
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into his cart
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with the ice cream,
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and as soon as
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they went in,
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he would slam the door,
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and he would reveal
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that it was actually
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a cage that were
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inside of,
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and then he would
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ride off with them
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imprisoned.
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Can you see how I was
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scared as a kid,
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you know?
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I'm still traumatized
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by it,
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you know,
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but that's what
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entering into temptation
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is.
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It imprisons you,
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it ensnares you,
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and this prayer,
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lead us not
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into temptation,
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is saying,
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Dad,
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Father,
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right now,
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with the circumstances
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that you have placed me in,
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with the temptations
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around me
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to just drawing me
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to find my satisfaction
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in anything other than you,
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don't let me entertain them,
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don't let me be
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captivated by them,
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don't let me be
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drawn away from you
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in these situations,
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don't let that lion
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that's waiting to pounce
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steal my joy in you,
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because my relationship
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with you
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is more important
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than anything else.
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That's what this prayer
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is saying.
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Provide me a way
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to overcome.
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So what's tempting you
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at the moment?
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Do you know?
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Do you know?
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That's what temptation is.
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How do we get snared
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and trapped?
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Genesis 3,
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before Cain's story,
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The Fall of Man
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is a great passage
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just to show
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how temptation works.
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God gives a command.
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He says,
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don't eat from the fruit
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of the tree
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of the knowledge
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and good and evil.
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I want you to trust me.
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I want you to depend on me.
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I don't want you
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to be independent.
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I want you to stay close to me.
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But then Satan comes
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with a lie.
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And all temptation
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starts with a lie.
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Satan says,
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did God really say,
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did he really say,
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you can't eat from any tree
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in the garden?
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God hadn't said that at all,
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but he'd said,
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only one tree.
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But all temptation
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works like this.
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It starts with placing doubt
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as to whether God
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is really good
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and whether you can
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really trust him.
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God's holding something
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back from you.
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You won't die,
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Satan says.
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You won't be imprisoned.
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God knows that if you eat
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from this tree,
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you'll be like him.
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You'll be satisfied.
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You'll be powerful.
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You'll have approval.
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You'll have security.
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You'll have everything
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that you want
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if you just do this thing.
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God is trying
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to stop you habit.
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You obey God
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and you're going
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to miss out.
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That's the lie
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that's coming in.
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That's the lies
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in my story
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at the beginning.
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I can't rely on God
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for my approval.
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I need it from someone else
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because that's what's
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going to satisfy me.
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But it never does.
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You know?
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The people I crave
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their approval
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spend very little time
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worrying about me.
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I spend more time
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worrying about
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what they think about me.
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And even if they think
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I'm great today,
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well then tomorrow
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they may even think
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I'm an idiot.
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But it starts with a lie
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that that's what
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will satisfy us.
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But it starts with a lie
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and then it moves on
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to a desire
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that you dwell on.
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The woman sees
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the tree
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is good for food
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and a delight
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to the eyes
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and it's desired
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to make you wise.
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Now,
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I don't know
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if you've thought
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about that story
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if you know it
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but
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the woman
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didn't just kind of
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glance at the tree
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and oh that looks
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really good for food.
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No.
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She stops
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to linger.
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She gazes on it.
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She starts
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to salivate.
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Wow.
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Oh, that fruit looks good.
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And that
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then leads
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over a process
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to then
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she eats it.
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You know,
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some of you
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will know
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Mark 6 is tomorrow
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or Tuesday I think.
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Do you know
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what the prize is?
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A hundred
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million dollars.
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Oh.
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Now,
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I don't do Mark 6.
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Never have.
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But when I heard
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about it
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you know
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what went on
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in my mind.
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My mind
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went for a little wonder.
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I started wondering
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well,
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what would I do
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if I had
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a hundred million dollars?
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And obviously
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I'd give a large amount
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to the church
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and to charity
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but just think
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about the holidays,
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the houses,
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the cars.
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And you know,
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I had a little while
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just kind of
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dwelling on it
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and you know,
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talk a little while
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with some other people
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about it
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and you know,
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after a little while
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I suddenly started
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to realize something.
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My heart
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was slowly beginning
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to get captivated
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by the thought of it.
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And the crazy thing is
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I might proudly
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proclaim to you
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that I have never
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bought
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a Mark 6 ticket
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and I wouldn't be
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so greediest
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to do that.
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But in my heart
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I've been captivated
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and greed
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has begun
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to pounce
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and I'm walking
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into the cage
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and if I allow
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those thoughts
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to just continue
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and just drift
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and just wander
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a little longer
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you know,
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my heart
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bit by bit
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will no longer
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see giving
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for example
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on a Sunday
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as a joy
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but it will feel
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a bit like
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I'm losing out.
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You know,
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I could have that money
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for so many other things.
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And when my heart
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begins to get
-
captivated
-
by finding pleasure
-
and security
-
in money
-
or in relationships
-
or in achievements
-
or anything else
-
that could be
-
dwelling in your mind,
-
the less
-
I will find joy
-
in Christ
-
as my pleasure
-
and the less
-
in my life
-
I will be generous
-
and joyful
-
about it.
-
The Bible says
-
you can't serve
-
God and money
-
but it's just
-
a thought,
-
you know,
-
it's just a thought
-
we say.
-
John Owen,
-
the 16th century
-
English preacher,
-
he said this
-
and this was
-
convicting,
-
he said,
-
you've entered
-
into temptation
-
not just when
-
you've actually
-
committed
-
the outward sin
-
but right
-
when your heart
-
secretly begins
-
to like
-
the temptation
-
and you're happy
-
to feed it.
-
Do you know
-
why I didn't resist
-
that thought?
-
Because I like it
-
and I'm happy
-
to feed the lion
-
and the lie
-
I'm believing
-
is that money
-
can give me
-
satisfaction
-
and security
-
in life
-
and I've forgotten
-
that I have a good
-
heavenly father
-
who says
-
he will satisfy
-
me with good things
-
and I can trust
-
him to provide
-
what I and my
-
family need.
-
Lead me
-
not into temptation.
-
What have you
-
been dwelling on
-
in your mind
-
this week?
-
What's been running
-
around there
-
captivating your
-
thoughts
-
and your heart?
-
Where are you
-
outwardly doing
-
the right thing
-
but inwardly
-
the idea
-
of your heavenly
-
father
-
satisfying
-
your desires
-
just seems
-
a little bit
-
crazy.
-
It seems
-
totally out
-
of your
-
current reality
-
because
-
maybe
-
you're in
-
the cage
-
and Christ
-
is wanting
-
to set you
-
free
-
to see
-
that he
-
can be
-
those things
-
that your
-
heart desires.
-
Temptation
-
is anything
-
that draws
-
us away
-
from Christ.
-
We get
-
snared
-
when we
-
believe lies
-
and when
-
we dwell
-
on temptation.
-
How do
-
we overcome
-
temptation?
-
Third thing.
-
The problem
-
with temptation
-
Oscar Wilde
-
the playwright
-
summed it up
-
very well.
-
He said
-
I can resist
-
everything
-
except temptation.
-
You see
-
temptation
-
is all around
-
you.
-
I just look
-
on the MTR
-
and there are
-
pictures of
-
beautiful women
-
which will
-
either tempt
-
you to lust
-
or to despair.
-
There are
-
pictures of
-
Facebook
-
of everyone's
-
happy life
-
which will
-
tempt you
-
to just
-
look at
-
your own
-
and be
-
dissatisfied.
-
You go
-
into the
-
office,
-
you go
-
into the
-
playground,
-
the behavior
-
of your
-
colleagues,
-
it tempts
-
you to
-
get mad,
-
fearful,
-
look down
-
on them,
-
crave their
-
approval,
-
want to be
-
like them.
-
It's all
-
around wherever
-
you go.
-
Even this
-
morning you
-
may have had
-
some temptation
-
on the way.
-
And so
-
monks for
-
over a thousand
-
years thought
-
the solution
-
to this
-
must be
-
we've got
-
to escape
-
the world.
-
So they
-
built
-
monasteries up
-
on mountains
-
way away
-
from people
-
to escape
-
this dangerous
-
evil world.
-
But the
-
problem was
-
the monasteries
-
became as
-
sinful and
-
filled with
-
lust and
-
greed and
-
drunkenness
-
as everywhere
-
else.
-
So our
-
society has
-
come up with
-
a different
-
solution.
-
And this
-
was great,
-
I found
-
this on
-
Friday in
-
our office.
-
This is just
-
preacher's dream.
-
It was like
-
Special K.
-
On the
-
back it
-
says,
-
let's hear
-
it for
-
willpower.
-
It says
-
here,
-
a new
-
way to
-
conquer
-
temptation.
-
When cravings
-
sneak into
-
your day,
-
turn to
-
new,
-
positively
-
delicious
-
Special K.
-
Here we
-
go.
-
This is the
-
solution.
-
Okay.
-
Underneath it
-
says,
-
tell us
-
how you
-
beat
-
temptation
-
and share
-
encouragement
-
on Facebook.
-
So do you
-
know what I
-
did?
-
I went on
-
to Facebook
-
because I
-
wanted to
-
tell you a
-
great story
-
about how
-
someone had
-
been helped
-
by Special
-
K.
-
And I
-
went on
-
there.
-
I didn't
-
find a
-
single
-
testimony
-
about the
-
greatness of
-
Special K
-
in beating
-
temptation.
-
I was very
-
disappointed.
-
I don't
-
know if
-
you
-
take
-
Special K
-
but maybe
-
it helps
-
you.
-
You should
-
write in
-
if it
-
does.
-
But David
-
Brooks of
-
the New York
-
Times,
-
he says,
-
the fact that
-
we fail to
-
keep most of
-
our New
-
Year's
-
resolutions
-
struggle to
-
lose weight
-
shows us
-
that willpower
-
isn't the
-
solution to
-
temptation.
-
Your willpower
-
is not like
-
a dam
-
that can
-
block the
-
torrent of
-
self-indulgence.
-
It's more
-
like a muscle
-
which tires
-
easily.
-
Moreover,
-
you're a
-
social being.
-
If everybody
-
around you
-
is overeating,
-
you'll probably
-
do so too.
-
Willpower,
-
doesn't matter
-
how hard you
-
try,
-
is not the
-
solution.
-
And even if
-
you think you've
-
got the
-
willpower,
-
listen,
-
I can walk
-
along a
-
street without
-
having to look
-
constantly at my
-
phone.
-
Occasionally.
-
And I feel
-
very proud about
-
the self-control
-
that I exercise.
-
Sometimes even
-
when a WhatsApp
-
goes off,
-
I will resist.
-
And then I
-
walk along and
-
I see these
-
people who
-
don't have the
-
same amount of
-
self-discipline
-
that I have,
-
and they bump
-
into me.
-
And I look at
-
them and I
-
think,
-
why can't you
-
be as
-
disciplined as
-
me?
-
Can't you
-
just have a
-
little bit of
-
self-control,
-
a little bit
-
of willpower,
-
just to not
-
be a slave
-
to your phone?
-
And the
-
thing is,
-
where I feel
-
I have strong
-
willpower,
-
do you know
-
what it does?
-
I have little
-
patience for
-
those who
-
seem to be
-
weaker than
-
me in that.
-
And the
-
love in my
-
heart for
-
them shrivels.
-
And do you
-
know what?
-
I've actually
-
entered into
-
another temptation,
-
that of pride
-
and self-righteousness.
-
You rely on
-
willpower,
-
you'll have
-
entered into
-
temptation of
-
self-righteousness.
-
Now, don't get
-
me wrong,
-
in the moment,
-
willpower,
-
you have to use
-
willpower to
-
resist.
-
Like, if you
-
want to shout
-
at somebody,
-
now, me,
-
anyone,
-
okay,
-
count to
-
ten,
-
hold your
-
tongue,
-
punch something,
-
not a person,
-
the wall,
-
okay,
-
use every
-
ounce of
-
your willpower
-
to resist.
-
Absolutely.
-
But you've
-
got to realize
-
that the
-
problem,
-
ultimately,
-
is not your
-
will that's
-
the issue,
-
it's your
-
heart that's
-
the issue,
-
and willpower
-
can't change
-
your heart.
-
Because
-
the lying,
-
the anger,
-
the greed,
-
the lust
-
that drives
-
you,
-
is not
-
there because
-
you're not
-
disciplined
-
enough.
-
It's there
-
because your
-
heart has
-
been captivated
-
by something
-
other than
-
God.
-
That's why.
-
Special K,
-
on their
-
website,
-
say,
-
you are
-
strong,
-
and we are
-
here to help
-
you stay
-
that way.
-
the Lord's
-
prayer says,
-
you are
-
weak,
-
you need
-
a savior,
-
you need
-
a deliverer,
-
you're a
-
child,
-
you need
-
a father,
-
we are
-
sinful,
-
we need
-
someone to
-
rescue us.
-
That is why
-
this prayer,
-
lead us not
-
into temptation,
-
should be
-
constantly on
-
our lips,
-
because it
-
recognizes our
-
weaknesses.
-
I can't resist
-
temptation by
-
myself.
-
I might stop
-
gambling on
-
Mark 6,
-
but I can't
-
change the
-
greed in my
-
heart to
-
love God
-
more by
-
myself.
-
You know,
-
there's an
-
old Greek
-
myth about
-
the sirens,
-
who are kind
-
of mermaid-like
-
creatures,
-
whose beautiful
-
voices lured
-
sailors to
-
steer their
-
ships towards
-
the sound,
-
and then they
-
would dash
-
themselves on
-
the rocks,
-
and be
-
destroyed.
-
Time and
-
again,
-
the sailors
-
sailed past
-
the sirens,
-
they would put
-
their fingers
-
in the ears,
-
they would do
-
anything to
-
stop the
-
sound,
-
yet every
-
time it was
-
too much for
-
them,
-
and they would
-
steer their
-
ship,
-
and they would
-
dash into
-
the rocks.
-
Then one day,
-
a ship came
-
along,
-
and the
-
siren voices,
-
these beautiful
-
voices,
-
called out,
-
and the sailors
-
were going
-
crazy trying
-
to resist,
-
and then a
-
guy called
-
Orpheus,
-
he gets out
-
his lyre,
-
and he starts
-
to play this
-
beautiful song,
-
and the song
-
was so beautiful
-
that it drowned
-
out the voices
-
of the sirens,
-
and the ship
-
carried on and
-
sailed past.
-
It was the only
-
ship that survived.
-
This is how our
-
hearts will resist
-
temptation.
-
the way to resist
-
is to have a
-
more beautiful
-
song that is
-
playing in your
-
hearts,
-
a more beautiful
-
song than the
-
things around us
-
that captivate us
-
are telling us.
-
It's to find our
-
approval and our
-
comfort and our
-
recognition and our
-
satisfaction in
-
Christ,
-
in his death who
-
has brought us
-
into his presence
-
to be loved by the
-
one whose love is
-
boundless.
-
And here's the
-
thing, listen,
-
you will only live
-
for Christ if you
-
are satisfied in
-
him.
-
You will only live
-
for Christ if
-
you're satisfied
-
in him.
-
You will not drink
-
from a muddy
-
puddle if you
-
realize that there
-
is a fountain
-
there that you
-
can drink from.
-
And the gospel of
-
Jesus Christ is
-
that more beautiful
-
song.
-
this Hebrews
-
passage that we
-
read out, it
-
says, we don't
-
have a high priest
-
who is unable to
-
sympathize with our
-
weaknesses, but we
-
have one who's been
-
tempted in every
-
way and yet
-
without sin.
-
Let us then
-
approach the
-
throne of grace
-
with confidence
-
to find grace
-
and mercy in our
-
time of need.
-
for a liar and an
-
approval freak like
-
me, Christ came
-
down.
-
He was tempted
-
like you and I
-
were, tempted to
-
be his own savior,
-
tempted to seek his
-
own glory, and yet
-
when I get lured into
-
that cage, he
-
didn't.
-
He resisted.
-
resisted.
-
He stayed totally
-
dependent, loving and
-
obedient to his
-
father because he
-
found his satisfaction
-
and approval in
-
pleasing his father
-
because he knew his
-
love.
-
And though he resisted
-
every temptation, he
-
doesn't look on you
-
and me with self-righteousness
-
upon our weakness as we
-
fail and say, can't you
-
do any better?
-
Look, I can do it.
-
Why can't you?
-
He doesn't say that.
-
But with compassion,
-
with sympathy, he
-
says, run to me.
-
Turn to me.
-
And I have grace
-
enough to satisfy
-
your soul in any
-
moment of need.
-
So the lure of
-
whatever is tempting
-
you at the moment
-
loses its appeal.
-
And it's not just
-
grace, there is
-
mercy for those of
-
us who have
-
stumbled, even this
-
week.
-
who is in that
-
cage of temptation.
-
His mercy is
-
vaster than the
-
ocean.
-
If your sin is like
-
a dripping tap, his
-
mercy is like the
-
Niagara Falls.
-
It is incessant.
-
It is constant.
-
It is there
-
available.
-
He asks us to run.
-
That is why he says,
-
pray to me.
-
Run to me.
-
Will you run?
-
Turn.
-
Repent.
-
Turn to him and
-
find that there is
-
somebody who loves
-
you more than
-
you could imagine.
-
Because he's a
-
father who wants
-
to hold you.
-
He's a father who
-
will supply all of
-
your needs.
-
He says, if I have
-
given my life for
-
you, how am I going
-
to hold back anything
-
good that will
-
satisfy your soul?
-
There's that song,
-
you know, he's got
-
the whole world in
-
his hands.
-
Well, he's got your
-
2016 in his hands.
-
He's got the stock
-
market in his hands.
-
He's got your health.
-
He's got your kids.
-
He's got your
-
relationships in his
-
hands.
-
So will you trust him
-
with them?
-
Because there's no
-
other hands in this
-
universe who's a more
-
loving, more strong,
-
more faithful than his.
-
God.
-
And he gave his son so
-
that we might find
-
satisfaction in him.
-
I don't need to crave
-
approval from people if I
-
keep singing that song
-
reminding that my father
-
accepts me.
-
We don't need to rely on
-
our jobs for security if
-
we know that he is the
-
most secure one in the
-
world and he's got it all
-
in his hands.
-
And he says, I love you.
-
You can trust me.
-
That's the gospel.
-
And that's what we need
-
to keep singing to
-
ourselves.
-
We need to keep singing
-
to each other daily.
-
I am more sinful and
-
weaker than I can
-
possibly imagine, but I
-
am more loved and more
-
accepted than I could
-
dare comprehend.
-
So do we sing that to
-
each other daily?
-
I mean, if you don't
-
sing well like me, then
-
say it to each other.
-
You know, this is the
-
reason why we sing
-
songs.
-
You know, this is the
-
reason why we read God's
-
word.
-
This is the reason why we
-
have community groups.
-
Because we need to
-
constantly have that song
-
in a world which is
-
singing so many other
-
songs to us.
-
Because if you are not
-
having that song, let me
-
tell you, Owen will say
-
you're already in the
-
cage.
-
You're already in
-
temptation.
-
If God's word is not
-
something that is your
-
dwelling on, you're
-
delighting in, you need
-
to pray, God, help me to
-
delight in your word,
-
because otherwise you're
-
going to be ensnared.
-
Did you notice this
-
prayer is lead us, us, not
-
into temptation?
-
Not just me.
-
It's us.
-
We talk a lot about
-
community here at
-
Watermark.
-
But I think we're in
-
danger sometimes of
-
missing what that means.
-
It's not just a social
-
group.
-
It's not just the
-
American club.
-
It's a group of weak and
-
broken people who are
-
pointing each other to
-
Christ in the normal
-
things of everyday life.
-
life.
-
How does it happen?
-
We share our temptations
-
with each other.
-
I don't know.
-
Have you shared what is
-
tempting you this week with
-
anybody?
-
Because you probably see a
-
pattern in your life.
-
And some of us who know
-
that we're right in that
-
cage of temptation, the
-
first step that you and I
-
need to take is to actually
-
go and admit it to somebody,
-
a Christian brother or
-
sister, because that's going
-
to be the first step of
-
having somebody else
-
alongside you.
-
Because if you're like me,
-
sometimes I forget,
-
sometimes I'm so attracted
-
that I need somebody else
-
to sing that song to me.
-
And if nobody knows what
-
the song is that I need to
-
hear, then how are they
-
going to sing it to me?
-
Some of you need to admit
-
where you're struggling,
-
where you're actually
-
wading deep in temptation.
-
And in our CGs, if we truly
-
believe that relationship
-
with Christ is where we find
-
our satisfaction, then we
-
should know the temptations
-
of at least one person in our
-
CG and we should be praying
-
for them regularly, daily.
-
Not as someone who's better,
-
but as a fellow struggler in
-
this fight, in this war,
-
knowing that Christ has won
-
the victory.
-
The elders need you to pray
-
for them.
-
I need you to pray for me.
-
Your CG members need you
-
to pray for them.
-
Pray not just for our
-
physical needs, but because
-
my heart is so tempted to go
-
astray.
-
So here's what you can pray.
-
Chris is going to work today.
-
He's going to be tempted to
-
crave the approval of others,
-
to think that money will
-
ultimately satisfy him.
-
And that can lead him to
-
lying, to cheating, to
-
envying, to losing his joy in
-
you.
-
Father, would you help him
-
know that you will be his
-
acceptance, his satisfaction?
-
Don't let his heart be led
-
away this week.
-
Let him see that you are the
-
Father in heaven who supplies
-
all his needs.
-
He will satisfy him.
-
God, we need you to
-
pray for him.
-
Because this is the way we
-
start praying.
-
This is the way we love each
-
other.
-
So let's be a church that
-
loves each other enough to
-
pray this prayer.
-
Our Father, hallowed be your
-
name.
-
You are worthy of our
-
worship.
-
Your kingdom come.
-
Your will be done.
-
It's all about you.
-
Give us today our daily bread.
-
We need you to provide.
-
Would you forgive us for where
-
we keep getting our hearts
-
captured by so many other
-
things?
-
And forgive those who have
-
hurt us so we're not
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tempted to hold on to
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bitterness.
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And would you enable us to
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keep you at the center of our
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affections?
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Don't lead us into temptation.
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Provide a way out.
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Give us the strength that we
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may honor you, that we may
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glorify you.
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And that in this church, people
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would see that Christ is our
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satisfaction, our delight, and
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he's our joy.
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Let's pray.
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Father, there are so many,
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so many things which draw us
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and pull us.
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And sometimes I admit I don't
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even know that they're pulling
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me.
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I don't realize I dwell on
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things.
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I pray now for each one of us.
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You would show us where we're
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dwelling on things which are not
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you.
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Help us to see what the things
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we feel like we can't do
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without.
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And to realize that you are the
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one who we can't do without.
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And though everything else may
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crumble and fall, if we have you,
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we have what we need.
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Help us to see that not just as a
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theory, but in the practical
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everyday things of life.
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When we go to our office, or go
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to our families, or we go to our
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friends, when we go on the
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internet this week, would we see,
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would we see that you are
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satisfying for us?
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In your name.
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Amen.