Sermon
Does God Hate Lesbians, Gays and All Other Non-Heterosexuals?
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Transcript
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Father, your word today says some hard words to us.
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And we know, Father, that we know because of Jesus and his death upon the cross
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that even when you say hard words to us, it is because you love us.
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And so, Father, we ask that you would help us.
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We ask that you would gently but very powerfully pour out your Holy Spirit upon us.
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Pour out your Holy Spirit upon our minds, upon our hearts, upon our wills, upon our souls, upon our bodies.
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Father, pour out your Holy Spirit upon us so that as we hear your word and think about your word,
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that your word might enter deep within our lives and then produce much fruit for your glory
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in Ottawa and to the ends of the earth.
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And this we ask in Jesus' name, your Son and our Savior. Amen.
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Please be seated.
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So, just to get right to the elephant in the room, is the Bible hate literature?
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Does God hate lesbians, gays, and all other non-heterosexuals?
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Does God hate people like that?
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And I'll say no.
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And that's the end of the sermon.
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We can all go to the next part.
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And people say, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, George.
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You can't just say no.
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You can't just say no.
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I mean, we just, if you can just imagine if you read that at your work or at the coffee shop out loud
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and then you said, does God hate gays and said no, nobody would be satisfied with that answer.
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So, what does the Bible say?
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Well, here's what we're going to do.
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This week, something happened in my family.
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I had been telling them about my, I'd been watching on Netflix a television series on Netflix.
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And after I'd watched, you know, five or six or seven episodes, I mentioned to my wife and kids that they should watch it,
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that they'd probably really enjoy it.
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And one day, just sort of, it happened to be in the room when it was on for just a couple of minutes.
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And I said, it was an image of a really, you know, attractive young woman, sweet, innocent-looking young woman,
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talking to a guy.
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And I blurted out, she's an assassin.
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And my kids said, oh, Dad, you know, spoiler alert.
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Like, why on earth did you go ahead and tell us that she's an assassin, right?
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They, you know, pushed back, and they should.
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It was a dumb thing for me to do.
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But here's the thing.
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They actually believed me when I said that.
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They didn't say, no, no, no, no, Dad.
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Just look at that image for a moment.
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That woman's not an assassin.
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She's a sweet, you know, attractive, kind, caring young woman who's showing kindness to the young man,
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not actually thinking about whether she should murder him and when.
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And in other words, they believed me when I said, I know how the earlier episodes go and how the story's turning out.
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And they were mad at me because they believed me.
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And so the first thing, before we're going to look at this text, which on the surface, as you said, as I said, I'm not exaggerating, right?
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If we were to say this, if we were to go to Starbucks afterwards and we got everybody's attention, read a passage of the Bible,
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and read that passage of the Bible, we would feel uncomfortable because that's how people would hear the text.
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So let's just see a little bit of the context to see if the context starts to make this text sound a bit different.
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So Andrew, could you put Romans 1, 16 and 17 up on the screen?
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That would be great.
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And those of you who were here other weeks, one of the things last week, this is the second week we're doing Romans,
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one of the things I said was that this verse, the way the book of Romans is written as a book is that Romans 1, 16 and 17,
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Paul, after his introduction and after some welcomes, he basically gives the abstract of the entire book.
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He gives the theme, the basic message of the entire book in two verses.
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And all of the rest of Romans are going to basically show how this verse, what it means in its depth and its riches.
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And so let's, could you read this verse out loud with me at this time?
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For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes,
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to the Jew first and also to the Greek.
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For in the gospel, the righteousness of God is revealed from faith to faith.
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As it is written, the righteous shall live by faith.
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Here's the context.
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The whole book of Romans is all about this text where it says,
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for I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes,
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to the Jew first and also to the Greek.
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So here's the problem for us when we hear this.
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If I was to go out with a couple of you and we were to go to that corner to King Edward and Rito,
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and I was to take this table, take off the communion stuff,
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bring it out there with some of our cardboard takeout coffee things,
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and I was to go there and I was to stack the cups along the table,
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and we were to put a big sign on the table that says,
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great deal, cups of air for a dime.
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Now, I mean, we would probably get people stopping to look at the table, right?
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They'd say, I mean, this is pretty ridiculous, like cup of air for a dime?
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And then they'd say, like, is this one of those things that you see on airplanes
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where they take videos of people doing funny things and see how they react?
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And then if I said, no, no, no, I'm serious.
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I'm selling this for a dime.
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It's a spectacular deal.
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It's only 10 cents.
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It's really cheap.
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You should have some.
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And then, you know, eventually if they realize that you're serious,
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I mean, they'd wonder if you were mentally ill, right?
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That's what people would think.
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They'd wonder if you were mentally ill.
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They'd say, George, I'm breathing for free.
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Even the government hasn't figured out how to tax breathing yet
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or make us pay for every breath.
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It's completely and utterly free.
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I don't need to pay 10 cents for a cup of air.
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Now, here's the issue.
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For just about everybody who walks by that corner in King Edward and Rideau
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in Ottawa today, they would say that their relationship with God
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is exactly the same as their relationship with air.
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They're fine with God.
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And so, George, if you're going to say something about needing righteousness from God
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or to be made right with God by Jesus, they'd say,
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George, just like they'd say about the air, I can breathe fine, George.
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I don't need to buy the air for a dime.
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They'd say, listen, my relationship with God is fine.
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I don't need religion.
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I don't need spirituality.
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I don't need you to tell me what to do.
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I don't need you to sell anything like that because I'm fine.
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I'm fine.
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That's how it is in Ottawa.
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That's how it is in Canada.
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And so, what that means is that when people look at Romans 1, 16, and 17,
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which we're going to read again in a moment, they'd say, I don't need anything like that.
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I don't need anything in that text, George.
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Nothing in that text do I need because I'm fine with God.
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So, can you put it up again, Andrew?
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There is even the version that we're all going to read together and memorize.
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Could you say this with me again, folks?
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That would be very helpful.
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For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes,
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to the Jew first and also to the Greek.
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For in the gospel, the righteousness of God is revealed from faith to faith.
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As it is written, the righteous shall live by faith.
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So, that's the text.
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And now, Paul is going to start with verse 18.
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And what you have to understand is from 118, and this is going to be over the next two sermons after this,
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from 118 to 320, Paul is trying to tell you that the relationship with God is not like your relationship with air.
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He's going to try to build a case that you need to pay attention to this verse.
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And he begins, and now you listen, he goes right from that to verse 18 in your Bibles, Romans 118, for.
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In other words, because, okay?
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Listen to that, for.
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The wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men,
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who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth.
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For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them.
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For his invisible attributes.
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Is my mic going in and out, by the way?
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It's fine?
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Okay.
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For his invisible attributes, namely his eternal power and divine nature,
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have been clearly perceived ever since the creation of the world in the things that have been made.
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So they are without excuse.
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For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him.
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But they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened.
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Claiming to be wise, they became fools and exchanged the glory of the immortal God
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for images resembling mortal man and birds and animals and creeping things.
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So Paul is going to begin in this chapter with just talking about the basic human condition.
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In the next two parts, which we'll talk in other weeks,
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he's going to talk about how religion and spirituality and moralism and institutions
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deals with this whole thing and just how it deals with it.
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But right now he's talking about sort of the basic level human condition.
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And he's in verse 18 when it says,
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For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness
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of human beings, of men and women, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth.
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What he's talking about there, if we could think of it as vertical sins and horizontal sins.
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In other words, ungodliness means that all of the different ways that we turn our back on God,
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that we try to belittle God, that we demean God, that we try to tame God,
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that we try to put God in his place, that we try to just ignore him, live our life without him,
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tell him, did you really say this?
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And it's all the vertical.
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And unrighteousness refers to the horizontal sins.
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And in fact, actually, it's a fine word, but it actually says that all the things that we do
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that violate or transgress God's created order.
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So it actually would involve things like cruelty to animals, pollution, like other types of things.
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But it's referring to how we relate to the created order, in particular human beings.
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And he's saying that God's wrath is revealed because we have both broken this vertical relationship
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and broken these horizontal relationships and God's wrath is revealed.
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And some of you might say, George, I don't, like, what does that mean, George?
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Are you saying that, I don't know, I tell a lie and God zaps me with a thunder, you know, a lightning bolt?
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Like, that doesn't happen, George.
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Like, are you talking about sometimes, are you saying that if, you know, one of those other places,
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there's a flood or something like that, and that's all God's judgment and all the bad people there?
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Is that what that text is saying, George?
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Because that's like a pretty weird way of understanding and viewing the world.
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Like, that's pretty weird, George.
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Is that what that text is saying?
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It's not saying that at all.
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Well, it's saying something that might touch on that, but it's actually trying to get at a far more different point.
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And I'm going to use another two movie analogies.
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Sorry, folks.
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I don't know how many of you have watched the movie I Am Legend or World War Zed or those zombie films.
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But, you know, for those of you who aren't familiar with it, there's often these films where something,
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some virus or some illness or some contagion gets unleashed on human beings, gets released to human beings,
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and human beings get infected by this contagion.
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And then eventually it turns everybody into, like, vampires or zombies or, you know,
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like, people with, like, hyper rabies who like to eat each other, like something really, really bad.
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And what usually happens in those types of movies is the movies begin with just the few little hearty survivors,
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you know, trying to hide or fight the vampire zombies or whatever it is that the contagion is.
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But often as the movie progresses, there's flashbacks to either what the world was like before the contagion
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or usually to the early days of the contagion when different weird things were happening,
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but nobody realized that they had the contagion.
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All of these movies are based on the same type of idea.
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You know, in the Will Smith movie I Am Legend, you know, they go back,
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and in fact, it's originally something that I think was going to cure cancer.
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And then there starts to be these odd little symptoms,
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and people didn't realize that these odd little symptoms were, in fact, an early warning sign,
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a symptom of a contagion that was going to consume the individual and consume society.
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And so what Paul is going to do in Romans 1.18 at the end of the chapter
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is he's telling us four different signs that human beings have a contagion.
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And right in those movies, in a sense, the contagion is the beginning,
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like the early symptoms mean you have it.
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You just see an early symptom of it,
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and by the time you're watching the rest of the movie,
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you see what happens when it completely takes over the person
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and completely obliterates society.
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So what Paul is doing here is he's going to give you four examples
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of the fact that human beings have a contagion,
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that our relationship with God is not like our relationship with air.
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And the first contagion was in this section,
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and it had to do with human beings knowing that God exists,
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but suppressing that and acting as if that's not the case.
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And people here might say,
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George, I could never convince people in our society that that's true.
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But here, I'm going to give you another movie.
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I think it's my final movie analogy.
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It's not from any movie.
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It's a movie that I would love to make someday.
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I'll never make it.
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But here, imagine, this is a science fiction movie.
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Imagine that, you know, we figured out wormholes or hyperdrive or time,
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you know, whatever.
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And so we have some spaceship, the good spaceship,
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and the shuttle from the good ship Enterprise,
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and we're in some far corner of the universe,
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and there's a small crew.
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There's like 12 of us or 10 of us,
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and we come across a ship, a spaceship,
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a spectacular spaceship drifting in space.
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And as we come across this spaceship drifting in space,
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we look at it, and we realize there's no life forms on it,
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and it just seems to be just floating along.
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And so I'm the captain, and I stay in the ship,
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and the nine of you, the rest of you from the shuttle,
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you all go over to the other ship to try to figure out what's going on.
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And one of you goes in, and you press a button and turn a lever,
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and all of a sudden, woo, the lights come on.
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All of a sudden, woo, the oxygen comes on.
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All of a sudden, woo, the gravity's working.
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Okay, and I'm here on the ship, and I'm talking to you guys,
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and you're walking around the ship saying,
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oh, wow, the powers come on, the oxygens come on, all these things.
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And then all of a sudden, one of the people talking to me says,
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you know, I think this ship is a result of an explosion
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on that planet that's just dust and rock,
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and I think this ship is a result of an explosion there,
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and it's as when the particles came into space,
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they all banged together, and they made this ship.
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And then the next, I'm thinking, what?
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That doesn't make any sense.
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And then the next thing you know, a second person, third person,
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all of a sudden, they're all saying this.
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And I start saying to you folks, one moment,
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how could particles banging together make oxygen and gravity
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and complicated machines, and how could it paint
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and put letters and symbols on it?
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That's not right.
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And they keep saying, no, no, no, no, no,
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we're completely convinced this is a result of an explosion.
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By chance, it's completely remarkable.
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And I would go, Captain's log, date, star date,
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1, 5, 3, whatever, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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I should have looked that up.
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There is some contagion on this ship,
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and I am not sure whether I should let the crew back on the ship
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lest I get it as well.
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They are under a profound delusion
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that that ship has been caused by an accident.
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Right?
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Let me tell you.
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Human DNA is vastly more complicated than a spaceship.
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Your eyeball, your brain, vastly more complicated than a spaceship.
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And not just that, you know, if you think about,
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even whatever you think about the theory of evolution,
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whatever that's going to mean, you know,
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before there was any life at the level of just straight matter,
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the idea that matter could come together as a result of just the fact that, you know,
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matter has an attraction to each other,
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that the different chemicals could come into existence,
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that it could all just come from nothing,
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and that it could create something as complicated
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at the molecular and the chemical level of an eyeball or of your DNA.
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It's vastly more complicated than a spaceship.
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And we think that God doesn't exist.
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And so Paul's going to say the very, very first sign
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that there's a contagion in human beings
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is the fact that they suppress this idea of the existence of God
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that has created them and designed them.
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And that, in fact, the fundamental problem for human beings
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is they don't think of themselves as being made.
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They think of themselves as being gods with a small g.
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And it's a commonplace amongst human beings
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that we think that we're like gods with small g,
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rather than every day waking up and saying,
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isn't it remarkable that there is a creator that created me?
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And Paul's going to say this is the first sign
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that there is a contagion in human beings.
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I mean, you know, you just think about it for a second
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before we get to the next couple.
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Ottawa is one of the safest, richest, freest countries, cities, places
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in the history of the planet.
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We are.
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We are one of the richest, most prosperous,
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safest places that human beings have ever congregated.
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Could anybody with a straight face look at Ottawa and say,
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it's obvious from Ottawa that every person in Ottawa is completely right with God?
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I mean, just this week in the Ottawa Valley,
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this man who's released from jail with a long history of violence against women
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murdered three women.
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Can anyone actually, with a straight face,
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actually believe that Ottawa is a sign?
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If you look at Ottawa, you see evidence that human beings are completely and utterly right with God.
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And in fact, just before we go to the next thing,
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isn't it the case that every time we watch a movie
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where there seems to be utopia presented,
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instantly we know that that means that there's a great evil behind the utopia,
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that the utopia is not real.
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But why is it that we think that we're fundamentally good
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or that our relationship with God is fundamentally right all by itself?
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Like, why is that?
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Is it possible that human beings have a contagion
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that will lead to them being consumed and destroy them
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and that we need something from outside of ourselves
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to make ourselves right with God?
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Is it possible that human beings are not relating to God like we relate to air,
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but that it is something like I am legend or World War Zed
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and we have a contagion that will consume us unless God does something?
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So all of a sudden you think, okay, so, oh, that's a very different way of,
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okay, George, that sort of caught me by surprise.
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It sort of caught me by surprise a little bit.
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But, well, let's see how Paul, he, this is in fact exactly what Paul's trying to get at.
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So I'm going to skip the two parts about sexuality.
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I am going to get it.
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I'm not going to avoid the question of does God hate gays and lesbians.
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But let's slip to the end of the passage to see how Paul continues.
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So, in fact, I'm going to suggest that in Romans 1, 18 to 32,
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Paul gives four examples to try to get us to realize
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that there's a contagion present in human beings that means that they need God.
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Let's look at the end one, verses 28 to 32.
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And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God,
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God gave them over to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done.
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Just sort of an aside, there's a bit of a, there's a word play in Greek.
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Like if you were to translate it quite literally, what it says is,
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and since they did not consider it worthwhile to know God,
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God gave them up to a not worthwhile mind.
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It's actually like a bit of a pun in Greek that our minds are not worthwhile.
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Verse 28, they were filled with all manner of unrighteousness.
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They were filled with all manner of unrighteousness,
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with all manner of evil, of greed or covetousness, and of malice.
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We are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, and maliciousness.
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We are filled with gossips, slanderers, god-haters, insolent, arrogant or haughty.
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We are boastful, and human beings invent ways of doing evil.
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That's another way of saying inventors of evil.
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And we are disobedient to parents.
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And then the last four, where it says foolish, faithless, heartless, and ruthless,
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and actually in the original language, it says that we have no understanding.
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We have no fidelity.
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In other words, we don't keep faith and covenant and promises with others.
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We have no love, and we have no mercy.
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Though they know God's decree that those who practice such things deserve to die,
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they not only do them, but give approval to those who practice them.
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So, here's the thing.
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Actually, I missed putting up my...
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Here's the thing.
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We all know people who give themselves up to these things.
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And when it talks about the wrath of God is revealed,
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in the original language, what it's saying is it's not saying that God has...
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that God is short-tempered, cranky, or anger-driven.
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In fact, being short-tempered, cranky, and anger-driven describes idols and demons.
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And the Bible's not saying that God's anger is like human anger,
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that usually human anger is rooted in pride, greed, hatred, insecurity.
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And when the Bible says that God's wrath is being revealed,
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it's not saying that God's anger comes from any of those things.
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Once again, that actually describes idols and demons.
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God's wrath ultimately develops out of his love, his goodness, and his beauty.
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It describes God's calm opposition to evil,
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that he will always be opposed to sin and evil,
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and that he's completely and utterly, calmly opposed to it.
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And his opposition to evil flows out of the fact,
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not that he's insecure, anger-driven,
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but it flows out of the fact that he is love.
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He is goodness itself.
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He is beauty itself.
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And so things that mar the beauty of the created order,
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the beauty of other people,
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things that hurt other people or the creation,
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or that out of his love and goodness and beauty,
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he cannot stop being himself,
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and he is just calmly, always, resolutely opposed to it.
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And the beginning of God's wrath, in a sense, is the sin itself.
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But it's possible that that sin itself can grow.
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Every single one here in the room tells lies.
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If you tell me that you've never told a lie in your life,
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I would believe you're lying.
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You would too, right?
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Anybody who tells you they've never told a lie,
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you'd say that you just lied.
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Right?
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Wouldn't believe anybody who said they've never told a lie.
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But not only have we met,
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do we all tell lies,
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but you and I have probably met people
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who their lying has become something like a habit.
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And in fact, you might have met people
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that their lying is so much like a habit
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that you, anytime they talk to you,
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you don't really trust them.
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And in fact, probably all of us have met people
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who not only do they lie all the time,
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but you start to wonder,
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do they actually now even know the difference
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between the truth and the lie?
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Has their entering into lying
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robbed them of their ability to even know the truth?
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And when you meet a person like that,
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don't you pity them?
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Like, many of us, every one of us boasts.
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If you told me you'd never boast,
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I'd think you're boasting.
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You'd think the same thing.
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We would take it as a boast that we never boast.
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But haven't we met people
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who seem to boast all the time
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and who seem to believe they're boasting?
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Haven't we met people
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who they can't even talk to you apart from boasting?
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And they're so completely and utterly consumed with boasting
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that you don't even like being with them
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because they never ask you how you're doing,
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they never want to talk to you,
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all they want to do is just tell you how great they are.
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And not only do they only want to tell you
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how great they are,
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but don't you start to wonder
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that they actually believe that stuff?
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And don't you pity them?
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Don't you hope that you would never be like them?
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Don't you hope that if your wife
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or your boyfriend or your kids
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start to be like that,
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wouldn't that be something you would pray against?
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And you see, this is the idea here
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that Paul is trying to get at,
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the Bible is trying to get at,
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he's trying to get at
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that our relationship with God
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is not like our relationship with air,
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that human beings have a contagion within them,
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and that God,
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not that he's petty or, you know,
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spoiled or needs to get his own way
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or stamps his little feet
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and bangs his hand and screams and yells
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if he doesn't get his own way,
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that God, who is the good,
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who is the true,
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who is the beautiful,
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who is always himself,
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who has no needs,
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who's always self-contained and self-controlled,
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he is just calmly, unalterably opposed
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to anything which is not good,
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not of love and not of beauty,
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and that's just who he is and what he is,
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and that when human beings
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suppress the truth that God exists
-
and believe that they are gods themselves,
-
and when they give themselves
-
to the different things that they,
-
now that they've turned their back on God,
-
and they give themselves
-
to their dreams of always being able
-
to be over other people
-
or being able to have this
-
or have that or not have that,
-
and when they start to tell lies
-
and then get addicted to lies,
-
and you have a sense that every lie
-
or every boast,
-
in some ways it's its own punishment,
-
even if sometimes that lie
-
or that boasting is successful
-
or makes you feel good at the time,
-
that in some ways,
-
when we look at what happens,
-
if lies become a habit,
-
we start to understand
-
that the lie itself
-
is its own punishment
-
and a sign
-
that human beings have a problem,
-
that I have a contagion.
-
So, actually, Andrew,
-
if you could put up the first point.
-
I got mixed up in my points.
-
Here's the first point.
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Every person has an idol problem.
-
I sort of said that a few minutes ago.
-
In other words,
-
what the Bible is saying
-
is that when you stop believing
-
and you suppress the idea
-
that there is a God that does exist,
-
it doesn't mean that you become an atheist.
-
It means that you worship an idol,
-
that you trust in something,
-
believe in something,
-
your imagination is formed by something,
-
that you serve something,
-
that you get value in something,
-
you understand your self-worth
-
in relationship to something
-
that's not God,
-
that's an idol,
-
and every human being
-
has an idol problem.
-
And the second thing,
-
if you could put it up, Andrew,
-
that sin and evil
-
show that every person
-
is fallen in rebellion against God
-
and cannot make themselves right with God.
-
That's what Paul's doing here in this.
-
Rather than relating to God
-
like we relate to air,
-
Paul, the Bible's trying to show us
-
that sin and evil exist in us,
-
in every single person,
-
in religious people,
-
in irreligious people,
-
in secular people,
-
in very, very devout people,
-
in people inside the church
-
and outside the church,
-
in mosques,
-
and in temples,
-
and in parliament,
-
and in capitalist centers,
-
and in Bridgehead,
-
and in Starbucks,
-
and amongst street people,
-
and amongst billionaires,
-
that every single human being,
-
that there is sin and evil in them,
-
and that it shows
-
that human beings are fallen.
-
It means that we have,
-
in a sense,
-
made ourselves bent and twisted.
-
And the image of God,
-
that we were made,
-
so that we were made in the image of God,
-
to reflect God,
-
and to be connected to God,
-
and be connected to the God,
-
and who we were made in image,
-
that's now become bent,
-
and it's become twisted.
-
And that's what it means to be fallen.
-
And that every single human being
-
is in rebellion against God.
-
That every single person has a time,
-
even the most humble of us,
-
even those who are most willing
-
to accept correction or reproof,
-
that there's every single one of us,
-
if a time comes,
-
and we get called on the lie,
-
we get called on the boasting,
-
we get called on something we do,
-
that we do not like it.
-
Do not like it.
-
Even if we have good manners
-
to cover it up,
-
we don't like it.
-
We're rebellion against God.
-
And that we cannot make ourselves
-
right with God.
-
In light of that,
-
let's look at sex.
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Let's look at sex.
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Let's look at verses 24 to 25.
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Once again, remember I said
-
this section's talking about
-
the human condition.
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And so the first thing,
-
because I've sort of got it out of order,
-
the first thing is our suppression
-
of the truth about the existence of God.
-
The fourth thing was just the reality
-
of all these other things,
-
of deceit, of covetous, of greed,
-
of slander, of gossip,
-
and all of those types of things.
-
Let's go back up to the second one,
-
verse 24.
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Therefore God gave them up
-
in the lusts of their hearts
-
to sexual impurity.
-
That's what the word means.
-
It's translated as impurity,
-
and you have to add the word sexual
-
so that we understand
-
that that's what it's meant.
-
To the dishonoring of their bodies
-
among themselves,
-
because they exchanged the truth
-
about God for a lie
-
and worshipped and served
-
the creature rather than the creator
-
who is blessed forever.
-
Amen.
-
That's the second sign.
-
What the Bible here is telling us
-
is that every single one of us
-
in this room
-
are sexually bent and twisted.
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I stand before you
-
as a fallen man.
-
I stand before you
-
as a man
-
who is not sexually whole.
-
And I'm addressing
-
a room of people
-
who are not sexually
-
whole and perfect.
-
This text
-
is not a text
-
that says,
-
in here
-
we're pure,
-
out there
-
they're bad.
-
And times
-
when that creeps
-
into the church's thinking
-
it is profoundly unbiblical.
-
Profoundly against the gospel.
-
In fact,
-
the book of,
-
the book of,
-
the Bible begins
-
in Genesis 1 and 2
-
with the creation
-
and then Genesis 3
-
is the fall.
-
And immediately
-
as soon as human beings
-
are falled
-
we see that there's
-
a breakdown
-
of the relationship
-
between the sexes.
-
We immediately see
-
that Adam and Eve
-
are conscious
-
of their nakedness.
-
We immediately see
-
that Adam and Eve
-
passing the blame.
-
We immediately see
-
disharmony in the relationship.
-
We immediately see
-
the entering
-
into the world
-
after they deal
-
with murder
-
of polygamy,
-
of violating
-
this idea
-
of that God's
-
intention in creation
-
is faithfulness
-
in heterosexual marriage
-
or sexual absence.
-
abstinence.
-
That's the consistent
-
teaching of the Bible.
-
To be faithful
-
in one man
-
with one woman
-
and if that is,
-
if you're a man
-
and you're not married
-
to a woman
-
then God calls you
-
to sexual abstinence.
-
If you're a woman
-
and you're not married
-
to a man
-
God calls you
-
to sexual abstinence.
-
Another way to put it
-
is that there is
-
to be no sexual knowledge
-
or sexual stimulation
-
outside of the relationship
-
of one man
-
to one woman.
-
And,
-
you know,
-
the fact of the matter is
-
it doesn't matter
-
if you're a soccer mom
-
in Canada,
-
it doesn't matter
-
if you're a stay-at-home dad
-
living in one of the
-
expensive condos
-
in Ottawa,
-
that we have problems.
-
We idolize our kids.
-
We idolize
-
childlessness.
-
We idolize our body.
-
We idolize
-
maybe our marriage.
-
We make an idol
-
of the other person.
-
We make an idol
-
of ourselves
-
and we demand
-
that the other person
-
think of us
-
in a particular way.
-
And if actually God
-
could just for one
-
week's period
-
put all of the thoughts
-
and all of the impressions
-
and all of the ideas
-
and all of the imagination
-
and all of the fantasies
-
that go on
-
in our head
-
just in the relationship,
-
just in terms
-
of sexual relations,
-
no single,
-
and if that could be put up
-
on that screen today,
-
even the best one of you
-
would be horrified
-
at what the rest of us
-
would see went on
-
in your mind.
-
And the Bible is saying
-
that this is the second sign
-
that we have a contagion.
-
And then the third sign
-
that we have a contagion
-
is a subset
-
of sexual brokenness.
-
and it's the relationship
-
that some people have
-
that they,
-
a man,
-
men desire men,
-
women desire women,
-
or other things
-
that depart
-
from a man
-
sexually designing a woman
-
or a woman
-
sexually designing a man.
-
It's in verses 26 and 27.
-
For this reason,
-
God gave them up
-
to dishonorable passions.
-
For their women
-
exchanged natural relations
-
for those that are
-
contrary to nature.
-
And the men likewise
-
gave up natural relations
-
with women
-
and were consumed
-
with passion
-
for one another.
-
Men committing shameless
-
acts with men
-
and receiving in themselves
-
the due penalty
-
for their error.
-
Remember what Paul is doing?
-
He's giving four signs
-
of contagion.
-
The first is in terms
-
of our knowledge of God.
-
The second is in sexual sin.
-
Generally,
-
this is the third one
-
and then the fourth one
-
was the long list of vices
-
which come immediately
-
after that.
-
you know,
-
over the last
-
35 years,
-
40 years,
-
there's been a profound attack
-
on reading this
-
in this particular way.
-
There's the normal way
-
that it should be understood
-
in the Greek
-
and it's been always understood
-
by the church.
-
There's been attempts
-
to say that it's not
-
talking about that.
-
It's talking about
-
men and boys
-
or it's talking about
-
abusive relationships
-
between two men
-
or abusive relationships
-
between two women
-
or that it's men
-
who are heterosexual
-
engaging in gay sex
-
or other types of things
-
but all of those
-
revisionist attempts,
-
they're all completely
-
and utterly wrong.
-
Like,
-
they're all wrong.
-
There's word games
-
that are not,
-
they're not right.
-
And just as a bit
-
of an aside
-
for those of us
-
who are Christians,
-
you know,
-
given that this verse here
-
is saying that
-
not that men
-
who desire
-
to sexually know
-
another man
-
or a woman
-
who desires to sexually
-
know another woman
-
is the worst sinner.
-
It's not saying that.
-
Not saying that at all.
-
In fact,
-
actually,
-
we Christians
-
have a lot to repent of
-
in terms of dealing,
-
those of us
-
who do not find
-
that,
-
you know,
-
like,
-
that we desire
-
people of the same sex
-
or that we desire
-
to be a different sex.
-
Like,
-
we have a lot
-
to repent of
-
in terms of
-
our relationship
-
with people
-
who do struggle
-
with those things.
-
You know,
-
because often
-
people who struggle
-
with those things,
-
they sense
-
how we
-
who don't struggle
-
with those things
-
pull away
-
as if somehow
-
we're better.
-
And somehow
-
we can easily
-
fall into talking
-
about them being,
-
like,
-
perverted or something.
-
And yet,
-
we don't say
-
that somebody
-
who is a Mercedes
-
driving,
-
fully devoted
-
servant of mammon
-
has a debased mind.
-
I'm not insulting.
-
If you drove here
-
in a Mercedes,
-
I didn't mean
-
to insult you.
-
Like,
-
why is it
-
that we could,
-
we might pray
-
that we would get
-
close to this
-
Mercedes driving,
-
fully devoted
-
servant of greed
-
and be terrified
-
about actually
-
drawing close
-
to a member
-
in our congregation
-
who struggles
-
with attraction
-
to the same sex?
-
Like,
-
where do we get
-
that from the Bible?
-
Like,
-
where does that
-
fit here?
-
Folks,
-
it should break
-
our hearts
-
if we do that.
-
It should bring us
-
on our knees
-
in repentance
-
if we find
-
that we have
-
no problem
-
associating
-
with a Mercedes
-
driving,
-
fully devoted
-
servant to greed,
-
but feel
-
uncomfortable
-
talking to ones
-
who struggle
-
with a different
-
type of sin.
-
it should break
-
your heart
-
and mine.
-
We should pray
-
that that not
-
characterize our church.
-
The same token,
-
churches that say
-
that being attracted
-
to a member
-
of the same sex
-
is a sign
-
of God's blessing
-
and it should be
-
honored and celebrated,
-
that becomes
-
a gospel issue.
-
All of this
-
is written
-
so that we realize
-
we need a Savior,
-
not that we believe
-
that we don't need
-
a Savior
-
and that Jesus
-
should pat us
-
on the back.
-
And for a church
-
to say that it means
-
that Jesus should
-
pat us on the back,
-
it is a profound
-
rejection
-
of the gospel.
-
A profound
-
rejection
-
of the gospel.
-
See,
-
here's what God
-
wants us to understand.
-
If you could put up
-
the final point,
-
Andrew.
-
I'm sorry,
-
it's 41 minutes.
-
I'll wrap this up
-
quickly now.
-
Only God
-
can act rightly
-
to make ordinary
-
people
-
right with himself.
-
The Bible
-
wants us
-
to come to realize
-
that there's
-
something like
-
a contagion
-
in my life
-
and yours
-
and that
-
only God,
-
only God,
-
only the creator,
-
only the sustainer,
-
only he
-
can act
-
in the right way,
-
which we'll get
-
to see clear
-
as the weeks go on,
-
to make ordinary
-
people right
-
with himself.
-
Andrew,
-
can you put up
-
Romans 1,
-
16 to 17 again,
-
please?
-
Want to read this
-
with me?
-
Remember,
-
this is all
-
in service of this.
-
Read it with me,
-
please.
-
For I am not
-
ashamed of the gospel,
-
for it is the power
-
of God
-
for salvation
-
to everyone
-
who believes,
-
to the Jew first
-
and also to the Greek.
-
For in the gospel,
-
the righteousness
-
of God
-
is revealed
-
from faith
-
to faith.
-
As it is written,
-
the righteous
-
shall live
-
by faith.
-
There are several
-
responses we will
-
have to this sermon.
-
I know,
-
I'm sorry,
-
I'm just going to
-
go a few minutes
-
over my time,
-
but listen,
-
here's one of our
-
responses.
-
Some of you might
-
hear this and say,
-
God should just
-
get out of my face.
-
He should just
-
leave me alone.
-
George,
-
how dare that
-
say that in the Bible?
-
You know,
-
that's why people
-
don't go to church
-
anymore.
-
Like,
-
either God
-
should get with
-
the project
-
of my life
-
and should be
-
supportive of
-
what I'm going
-
through and
-
what I desire,
-
and if he doesn't
-
get supportive
-
with me,
-
I don't want
-
anything to do
-
with him.
-
He has no right
-
getting involved
-
with this in my life.
-
Some of you
-
might have noticed
-
that all the way
-
through this text,
-
it says,
-
God gave them up.
-
God gave them up.
-
God gave them up.
-
And if we react
-
by saying that
-
to God,
-
then we've just,
-
I'm not saying
-
this to insult you.
-
It's a description
-
of hell.
-
You're just,
-
you're asking
-
that that lie
-
that you give yourself
-
for those who are liars,
-
that that lie
-
just becomes
-
your identity
-
and takes over you.
-
The whole image
-
of God gave them up,
-
it's an image
-
of captivity.
-
It's an image
-
of common grace.
-
It's an image
-
as if there's a river
-
and there's a boat
-
tied up to a dock
-
on the river
-
and the river,
-
the current of the river
-
keeps wanting
-
to pull the boat away,
-
pull the boat away,
-
pull the boat away,
-
but God,
-
by his common grace,
-
stops the boat
-
from going
-
and then you say,
-
I don't want God
-
to get involved
-
in my life.
-
I want God
-
to leave me alone.
-
I want to be able
-
to do the things
-
I want to do.
-
I want to pursue
-
my projects
-
and if God can't
-
affirm me,
-
I want him
-
to just let me go.
-
I want him
-
to get out of my way,
-
out of my life,
-
I'm completely
-
and utterly fine
-
by myself
-
and God unties
-
the moored boat
-
from the river
-
and lets the boat
-
be carried away
-
by the river
-
and God gave them up
-
as a sign of his wrath.
-
It's a sign
-
of contagion.
-
I implore you
-
in response to this
-
not to react that way
-
and some of you
-
might say,
-
George,
-
okay,
-
especially those of you
-
who struggle
-
with same-sex attraction,
-
George,
-
you know,
-
if you just knew,
-
if you just knew
-
how strong
-
that drive was in me
-
and George,
-
if you just understood
-
and know
-
how many times
-
people condemn me,
-
they don't know
-
that I have
-
these attractions
-
or maybe they do
-
and they say snide things
-
and they make jokes
-
about people
-
like myself
-
and George,
-
if you just knew
-
how my dad
-
used to treat me,
-
if you just knew
-
how my dad
-
would look at me
-
and how my coach
-
would look at me
-
and how my pastor
-
would look at me
-
and how godly people
-
would look at me
-
and how people on TV
-
would look at me
-
and if you just knew
-
all those things,
-
all the wrath,
-
all the anger,
-
all the put-downs
-
that I have to endure,
-
then George,
-
you would not say that
-
because George,
-
sometimes in the face
-
of all the wrath
-
and all the anger
-
that seems to befall me
-
and I seem to sometimes
-
feel myself
-
and it's only when I embrace
-
my same-sex attraction
-
or my same-sex,
-
that it's only then
-
that I seem to get
-
some type of release
-
because George,
-
if you just knew
-
the anger and the wrath
-
and the setting aside
-
and turning the back on
-
that just characterized my life,
-
you not,
-
God wouldn't say that,
-
you wouldn't say that.
-
When we read about
-
the wrath of God
-
at the beginning,
-
Paul is setting up
-
one of the most
-
spectacular promises
-
promises in the whole
-
book of Romans.
-
If you just turn
-
in your Bibles,
-
those of you have Bibles,
-
if you don't,
-
you can just listen.
-
Turn to Romans 3,
-
verse 21 and 26.
-
Remember I said
-
that from 118
-
to chapter 3,
-
verse 20,
-
you might not remember this,
-
that Paul is painting
-
the picture
-
that there's a contagion
-
amongst human beings
-
that means that
-
we need a Savior
-
and when he comes
-
to an end,
-
this is how he triumphantly
-
brings it to an end
-
in verse 21.
-
I mean,
-
he's going to explain it
-
more throughout
-
the rest of the book.
-
We're going to look at
-
in a couple of weeks,
-
but here's what he says.
-
But now the righteousness
-
of God has been manifested
-
apart from the law,
-
although the law
-
and prophets
-
bear witness to it.
-
The righteousness of God
-
through faith in Jesus Christ
-
for all who believe,
-
for there is no distinction,
-
for all have sinned
-
and fall short
-
of the glory of God
-
and are justified
-
by his grace
-
as a gift
-
through the redemption
-
that is in Christ Jesus,
-
whom God put forward
-
as a propitiation
-
by his blood
-
to be received by faith.
-
This was to show
-
God's righteousness
-
because in his divine
-
forbearance
-
he had passed over
-
former sins.
-
It was to show
-
his righteousness
-
at the present time
-
so that he might be just
-
and the justifier
-
of the one
-
who has faith in Jesus.
-
Look back up
-
to verse 25,
-
whom God put forward
-
as a propitiation
-
by his blood.
-
What does that mean?
-
What does propitiation mean?
-
the wrath
-
that I deserve,
-
Jesus comes
-
and says,
-
George,
-
if the wrath
-
that is coming upon you,
-
if it comes upon you,
-
it will completely unmake you.
-
Let me take your place
-
and let the wrath
-
that is falling on you
-
fall on me
-
and I will take
-
every drag
-
of wrath,
-
every drag
-
of hostility,
-
every drag
-
of putting aside
-
and belittling
-
and diminishing
-
and demeaning
-
and I will take
-
every drag
-
with nothing
-
left over
-
and I will take
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that upon
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myself
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for you.
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that is what
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I have done
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for you
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on the cross,
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George.
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Don't embrace
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sin,
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embrace me.
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Embracing sin
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does not take away
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the wrath
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or the anger
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or the diminishment.
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Embrace me
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and let that
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fall on me.
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I will do it
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for you
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out of love
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for you
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to make
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you right
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with God.
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My death
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for you
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upon the cross
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is a power
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that comes
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from God
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that swallows
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wrath
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so you
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can be right
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with God
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and be free.
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Do not
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embrace
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your sin.
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Embrace
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me.
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Andrew,
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could you put it
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Romans 1,
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16 to 17
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one final time?
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Can we all
-
stand please?
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That's what
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Paul's talking
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about here.
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Can you say it
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with me one
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more time
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please?
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For I am not
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ashamed of the
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gospel
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for it is the
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power of God
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for salvation
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to everyone
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who believes
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to the Jew
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first and also
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to the Greek
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for in the
-
gospel the
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righteousness of
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God is revealed
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from faith
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to faith
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as it is
-
written
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the righteous
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shall live
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by faith.
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Faith means
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you come
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with empty
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hands
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you don't
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surrender
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you don't
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tell God
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to go away
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you come
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to that
-
point
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where you
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say only
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God
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only you
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can act
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in a way
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that's right
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that will
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make me
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right with
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yourself
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only you
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will do
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it
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and you
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will do
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it for
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the religious
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and the
-
irreligious
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the spiritual
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and not
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spiritual
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the greedy
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and the
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people who
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give things
-
away
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the people
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who are
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sexually
-
broken
-
terribly
-
and those
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who are
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hardly
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sexually
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broken
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at all
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that you
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will give
-
it for
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ordinary
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people
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that it's
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a gift
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that God
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gives
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and offers
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to you
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and there's
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no better
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time than
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today
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to once
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again say
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Jesus
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I don't
-
understand
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all there
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is about
-
this text
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but whatever
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this is
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talking about
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I want to
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have that
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I want to
-
embrace that
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I want to
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have that
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as my
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identity
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I want to
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have that
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as the
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ground
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of my
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life
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I want
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to have
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that
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enter
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into
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my
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life
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Jesus
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that
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for me
-
and me
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for that
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may that
-
be the story
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of my life
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that begins
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today or is
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deep in
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let's bow
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our heads
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in prayer
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Jesus
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we thank
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you for
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dying on
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the cross
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for us
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we thank
-
you Jesus
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that on
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the cross
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you took
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my place
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you took
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the place
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of people
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who are
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here
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we thank
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you Jesus
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that on
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the cross
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that you
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not only
-
took the
-
wrong things
-
that we've
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done upon
-
yourself
-
but the
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proper
-
anger
-
that God
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and others
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and the
-
whole created
-
order
-
have at
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the things
-
that we've
-
done
-
to mar
-
goodness
-
and love
-
and beauty
-
that you
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took that
-
proper
-
anger
-
upon
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yourself
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for us
-
that you
-
took it
-
all right
-
to the
-
dregs
-
with nothing
-
left over
-
Jesus
-
we thank
-
you for
-
what you
-
have done
-
for us
-
on the
-
cross
-
please
-
Jesus
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pour out
-
your
-
Holy Spirit
-
upon me
-
help me
-
Jesus
-
to be
-
grounded
-
to receive
-
this
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to be
-
grounded
-
in this
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to be
-
shaped
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by this
-
to have
-
this
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grip me
-
so that
-
it
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so that
-
I
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Jesus
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help me
-
not to
-
turn
-
and embrace
-
my sin
-
but embrace
-
what you
-
have done
-
for me
-
on the
-
cross
-
and
-
that you
-
have made
-
me right
-
with God
-
and that
-
nothing can
-
take that
-
away
-
because you
-
have done
-
it for me
-
it's your
-
power not
-
mine
-
Jesus
-
make me
-
a disciple
-
of yours
-
gripped by
-
this gospel
-
who now
-
lives for
-
your glory
-
and this
-
I ask
-
in the name
-
of Jesus
-
your son
-
and our
-
savior
-
amen
-
to
-
him
-
to
-
him
-
he
-
can
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you
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he
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can
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go
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him
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in
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bye