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  1. All right.

  2. Thank you so much for that reading.

  3. We've been talking a little bit.

  4. If you were here last, actually, you know what?

  5. This cross needs to be closer to the middle.

  6. Because even though this banner is just metal and vinyl,

  7. there's nothing inherently beautiful about metal and vinyl.

  8. The image on it is the cross.

  9. The cross of Jesus Christ.

  10. And that is what our focus is in this series.

  11. This is what our focus is in worship.

  12. And this is going to stand.

  13. And again, there's nothing more sort of special about bringing the cross closer to me,

  14. but just even communion.

  15. Listening to those lyrics, listening to Arnell and Eric lead us.

  16. You know, what heights of love, what depths of peace,

  17. when fears are still, when striving sees in light of the cross.

  18. And if there's one thing I hope we get away from,

  19. we take away from this morning,

  20. is that Jesus Christ is amazing.

  21. And he's everything.

  22. And it's so simple, and you will probably have heard the word Jesus Christ,

  23. the name of Jesus Christ before,

  24. but it's something that we go back to again and again.

  25. So that's even when we did communion,

  26. when we prayed for the kids,

  27. when we listened to Aniko's testimony,

  28. these acts of worship,

  29. again and again responding.

  30. The kids that we sent out,

  31. an act of worship,

  32. saying,

  33. kids, this is so important,

  34. that we're going to actually dedicate our time,

  35. our volunteers,

  36. ourselves as parents,

  37. both biologically and spiritually,

  38. to say,

  39. this is so important,

  40. you need to hear this,

  41. you need to hear the message of Jesus Christ.

  42. So this is what this series,

  43. is about right now,

  44. in Christ,

  45. union with Christ.

  46. And last week,

  47. if you were here,

  48. Chris focused on chapter two of Ephesians,

  49. and what it means for our identity to be completely shaped by Jesus Christ.

  50. And we learned that those,

  51. but whose we are,

  52. this is what he said,

  53. whose we are determines who we are.

  54. In other words,

  55. if we are children of this perfect heavenly father and king of the universe,

  56. whose we are,

  57. if we're these children of this heavenly father,

  58. then we are actually given this status of royalty.

  59. And that shapes who we are.

  60. Just think about a monarchy today.

  61. I know maybe a lot of you guys follow the British royal family, right?

  62. It's not just the fashion,

  63. and the glitz,

  64. and the glamour,

  65. but just,

  66. I guess,

  67. the gossip,

  68. and the exciting news that comes out of there.

  69. Who follows,

  70. who's a fan of Prince Harry here?

  71. It's all right,

  72. don't be bashful,

  73. you can be honest.

  74. What about Prince William?

  75. Who's more of a Prince William fan here?

  76. Prince Harry?

  77. Prince Harry?

  78. Oh!

  79. Yep,

  80. I think I like William a little more too.

  81. Who doesn't really care?

  82. There's a few people who aren't being completely honest here.

  83. But here's the thing,

  84. here's the thing.

  85. Regardless if you're a Harry fan,

  86. or a William fan,

  87. or a Middleton fan,

  88. the truth of the matter is,

  89. when they came into this world,

  90. when they,

  91. you know,

  92. when they came into this world,

  93. little as babies,

  94. they didn't do anything

  95. to earn

  96. that title of Prince.

  97. They didn't do anything.

  98. They literally just came into existence.

  99. They didn't do anything to achieve that,

  100. and in the same way,

  101. when we are born again

  102. into God's family,

  103. we have this new identity,

  104. and God even calls us

  105. a royal priesthood,

  106. that we didn't do anything

  107. to achieve.

  108. So as we move into today's sermon,

  109. we're building on that foundation

  110. that Chris laid last week

  111. about our identity.

  112. In Christ,

  113. we have a new identity,

  114. and that shapes our entire lives,

  115. and our whole lives,

  116. and that's what we're going to turn to

  117. this morning.

  118. So,

  119. if you had met me

  120. during my years

  121. in university,

  122. it's quite a few years ago,

  123. even though I might not,

  124. you might not be able to tell,

  125. and you maybe observed me

  126. for a little while,

  127. and you had talked to me,

  128. you probably would have seen

  129. a pretty solid Christian resume,

  130. a Christian CV,

  131. if you want to put it that way.

  132. I was a leader

  133. in my university ministry.

  134. I prayed a lot.

  135. I read the Bible.

  136. That was the time

  137. when I read the whole Bible

  138. from beginning to end,

  139. and it wasn't just a normal Bible.

  140. It was a study Bible.

  141. So,

  142. it had lots of annotations

  143. and lots of commentary,

  144. and I read all of that, too.

  145. So,

  146. that was a big deal.

  147. I had a regular prayer

  148. and devotional times.

  149. I had gone through

  150. a number of discipleship classes.

  151. I went on retreats.

  152. I shared the gospel with others.

  153. I went on a mission trip.

  154. Big check there.

  155. Went,

  156. actually left

  157. the confines of my country.

  158. Actually used my passport.

  159. Big check.

  160. I gave financially.

  161. Check.

  162. I even wore a WWJD bracelet sometimes.

  163. You guys remember those?

  164. If you don't know what that means,

  165. it stands,

  166. it's an acronym

  167. for What Would Jesus Do?

  168. And it was quite big sometimes.

  169. It might still be big.

  170. I don't know.

  171. I don't really follow that anymore.

  172. But I even had the fashion

  173. to tell me

  174. and to tell others

  175. of who I was.

  176. So,

  177. I did all these things

  178. pretty well

  179. and it felt like

  180. I was growing

  181. as a Christian.

  182. That I was making progress

  183. and I might even venture

  184. to say and tell someone

  185. or at least think

  186. in my own heart,

  187. I was a pretty good Christian.

  188. And if I had read

  189. today's passage

  190. that Esther and Vicki

  191. so beautifully read,

  192. if I had read that today,

  193. I would have been

  194. pretty confident

  195. thinking that I was

  196. putting off the old self

  197. and putting on

  198. the new self

  199. every day.

  200. That was me

  201. in university.

  202. But,

  203. of course,

  204. there's a big but here.

  205. But one day

  206. I got really upset

  207. at a friend.

  208. And honestly,

  209. in hindsight,

  210. it was over something

  211. that was much more

  212. about my personal expectations

  213. than anything.

  214. And after I kind of

  215. just blew up

  216. at them,

  217. I was pretty shocked

  218. at myself.

  219. I realized

  220. that that outward expression

  221. of my anger

  222. was really just,

  223. aside from being

  224. very uncomfortable

  225. and stupid in hindsight,

  226. it was really just

  227. the tip of the iceberg

  228. because inwardly

  229. it had become

  230. so much easier

  231. to be judgmental

  232. towards the people

  233. around me,

  234. especially the Christians.

  235. because I had felt

  236. like I had become

  237. such a good Christian

  238. myself.

  239. And sure,

  240. I was more self-controlled

  241. most of the time

  242. in my outward behavior

  243. towards others,

  244. but inside,

  245. just like Ed was saying

  246. during communion,

  247. it was a cauldron,

  248. a pot of mixed motives.

  249. Some godly,

  250. some very ungodly,

  251. some I didn't even realize.

  252. And basically,

  253. the question I faced

  254. in university

  255. in that incident

  256. and numerous

  257. other little incidents

  258. was this.

  259. Jeremy,

  260. what's the point

  261. of all these things

  262. I do as a Christian,

  263. things I take pride

  264. as evidence,

  265. as fruit of my faith,

  266. when I can still

  267. be such a jerk?

  268. What's the point?

  269. And I had placed

  270. so much value

  271. in those things

  272. I was doing

  273. as a Christian

  274. that I forgot

  275. about being

  276. a Christian

  277. was first and foremost

  278. about my identity,

  279. just like we learned

  280. last Sunday.

  281. So Paul says

  282. in chapter 4,

  283. we just read,

  284. you must no longer

  285. walk as the Gentiles

  286. do in the futility

  287. of their minds,

  288. darkened in their

  289. understanding,

  290. alienated from

  291. the life of God

  292. because of the

  293. ignorance that is

  294. in them

  295. due to the

  296. hardness

  297. in their heart.

  298. And in that context,

  299. Gentile simply means

  300. anyone who's not

  301. following Christ.

  302. And back then,

  303. back in university,

  304. I certainly wouldn't

  305. have considered

  306. myself one of them.

  307. but in hindsight,

  308. I could see that

  309. even as a professing

  310. Christian,

  311. how I was walking

  312. in futility,

  313. in ignorance,

  314. in darkness,

  315. finding my value

  316. and identity

  317. in the things I did.

  318. Some of us here

  319. may have been Christians

  320. for a very long time

  321. and we're still

  322. struggling with

  323. finding our identity

  324. in things we do.

  325. I still struggle

  326. with that today.

  327. I think that's why

  328. I can empathize.

  329. No matter what

  330. your beliefs are

  331. this morning,

  332. whether you're

  333. Christian,

  334. non-Christian,

  335. agnostic,

  336. atheist,

  337. Buddhist,

  338. Hindu,

  339. Muslim,

  340. whatever your

  341. worldview is today,

  342. I think we all

  343. know something

  344. just by virtue

  345. of living in Hong Kong

  346. and living in the world.

  347. it's this.

  348. It's part of the system

  349. to measure what we do

  350. and to ascribe value

  351. to that.

  352. And here's what I mean.

  353. Just think about it.

  354. You know,

  355. you're a kid,

  356. you're a young age,

  357. you're in school,

  358. you're getting marks,

  359. you're being assessed,

  360. you move up from grade

  361. to grade,

  362. you know,

  363. you go to university,

  364. GPA,

  365. degrees,

  366. clubs that you have

  367. to join,

  368. high table dinners

  369. if you're in Hong Kong U,

  370. you have that path

  371. for career advancement

  372. and job promotion.

  373. And numbers are everywhere.

  374. We use them

  375. to measure everything

  376. from national economic growth

  377. to the number of reps

  378. you did at the gym yesterday.

  379. right?

  380. Just like Ed was talking about,

  381. the markets,

  382. numbers.

  383. And we live in a culture

  384. that is just saturated

  385. in this idea

  386. of self-improvement.

  387. It's the name of the game.

  388. You know,

  389. browse any major bookstore

  390. and you'll see

  391. just scores and scores

  392. of books,

  393. both Christian

  394. and non-Christian,

  395. that are basically telling you

  396. how to be

  397. a better person.

  398. You know,

  399. our society,

  400. our culture,

  401. at least a lot of what we hope

  402. and aspire to

  403. is built on meritocracy,

  404. this idea that

  405. those who do well,

  406. who perform well,

  407. should advance.

  408. It's only fair, right?

  409. And then we have to devise

  410. these systems

  411. that measure

  412. what it means

  413. to do well.

  414. And so all of that

  415. is ingrained

  416. in us.

  417. Now,

  418. don't get me wrong,

  419. I'm not anti-meritocracy,

  420. I'm not anti-statistics,

  421. I'm not anti-numbers

  422. and metrics.

  423. I happen to think

  424. numbers are very useful

  425. and I use them

  426. every day.

  427. And self-improvement

  428. is a good thing.

  429. And who wouldn't want

  430. to improve

  431. and get better?

  432. But here

  433. is the question

  434. that I think

  435. we're being challenged with

  436. and I certainly have been

  437. as we look at the passage

  438. and we look at

  439. the message

  440. of Ephesians.

  441. Is that

  442. the best way

  443. to describe

  444. the Christian life?

  445. Our walk

  446. as Christians?

  447. Is progress

  448. and growth

  449. the best way

  450. to describe

  451. the Christian life?

  452. And as we look

  453. at the remainder

  454. of the passage,

  455. I think the answer

  456. is quite clearly

  457. no.

  458. So follow with me

  459. in chapter 4.

  460. Paul is contrasting

  461. Gentiles

  462. with Christians.

  463. And this is what he says.

  464. That is not

  465. the way

  466. you learned

  467. Christ.

  468. You have heard

  469. about Him.

  470. You were taught

  471. in Him.

  472. The truth

  473. is in

  474. Jesus.

  475. That is not

  476. the way

  477. you learned

  478. Christ.

  479. You have heard

  480. about Him.

  481. You were taught

  482. in Him.

  483. The truth

  484. is in

  485. Jesus.

  486. And if you've been

  487. part of Watermark

  488. for a decent

  489. amount of time,

  490. you realize

  491. we talk about

  492. Jesus a lot.

  493. He's the reason

  494. why we're called

  495. Christians.

  496. So you've got to figure

  497. he's pretty important,

  498. right?

  499. And we're going

  500. to continue

  501. talking about him

  502. in the coming months

  503. in just different

  504. sermon series

  505. about how

  506. Christ actually

  507. shapes different

  508. dimensions and

  509. aspects of our

  510. lives.

  511. And some of us

  512. are probably

  513. thinking,

  514. what?

  515. Jesus again?

  516. I've heard that

  517. before.

  518. I've heard that

  519. before.

  520. It's like,

  521. I'm sympathetic.

  522. It's like you're

  523. going to school

  524. and year after year

  525. you're just learning

  526. the same thing

  527. over and over

  528. again.

  529. And then you're

  530. like,

  531. did I even

  532. move up a grade?

  533. It's Jesus again?

  534. But Paul makes

  535. it so clear

  536. in Ephesians.

  537. If you remember

  538. last week,

  539. Chris explained

  540. that the first

  541. three chapters

  542. of Ephesians

  543. is basically

  544. about our

  545. identity

  546. in Christ.

  547. And Paul is

  548. hammering that

  549. home.

  550. Remember who

  551. you are.

  552. Remember who

  553. you are,

  554. guys.

  555. Remember who

  556. you are.

  557. And then in the

  558. second half,

  559. he's moving,

  560. he's shifting

  561. towards what

  562. is the result

  563. of that

  564. identity,

  565. that new

  566. identity.

  567. But here

  568. in chapter

  569. four,

  570. at the beginning

  571. of the second

  572. half,

  573. guess what?

  574. It's Jesus

  575. again.

  576. And I'm not

  577. making this up.

  578. There's something

  579. about this guy

  580. Jesus,

  581. and Paul is

  582. saying we

  583. have to go

  584. back to him

  585. again and

  586. again,

  587. seeking him,

  588. seeing him,

  589. experiencing how

  590. he transforms

  591. every aspect

  592. of your lives.

  593. And this

  594. isn't a school

  595. subject,

  596. because Jesus

  597. is interested

  598. in every

  599. last detail

  600. in your life

  601. right now,

  602. past,

  603. present,

  604. and future.

  605. So the truth

  606. is the answer

  607. for Christians

  608. is always

  609. Jesus.

  610. And though we

  611. joke about that

  612. time,

  613. especially with

  614. the kids,

  615. they just know

  616. that that's the

  617. answer,

  618. regardless of

  619. the question.

  620. Even though we

  621. joke about that,

  622. it's actually

  623. true.

  624. And it's what

  625. makes Christianity

  626. so utterly

  627. unique,

  628. among all the

  629. major world

  630. religions and

  631. worldviews,

  632. because everyone

  633. else points you

  634. to a set of

  635. teachings that

  636. you have to

  637. follow and

  638. get things right

  639. to be good

  640. enough for God,

  641. right?

  642. But the

  643. Christian gospel

  644. points you to

  645. a person,

  646. Jesus,

  647. the only person

  648. who ever got

  649. everything right

  650. because he's

  651. God.

  652. God.

  653. And the gospel

  654. says put your

  655. faith not in

  656. yourself but in

  657. him.

  658. Hold on to

  659. him.

  660. Love him.

  661. Be in

  662. relationship with

  663. him.

  664. Like the image

  665. that Chris gave

  666. us last week,

  667. we're all like

  668. this prostitute,

  669. this sex worker

  670. on the street.

  671. We're starving,

  672. ashamed,

  673. sick, and

  674. broken, and

  675. Christ is the

  676. perfect king

  677. who reaches out

  678. and says,

  679. I love you.

  680. Not because of

  681. anything you did.

  682. Not because of

  683. anything you

  684. didn't do.

  685. I love you,

  686. I choose you,

  687. and you are

  688. beautiful in my

  689. eyes.

  690. And I give you,

  691. I bestow upon

  692. you a new

  693. identity.

  694. This image of

  695. the bride and

  696. the bridegroom is

  697. used over and

  698. over again in

  699. scripture.

  700. scripture.

  701. And even

  702. though we are

  703. so unfaithful to

  704. God, he

  705. faithfully pursues

  706. us like that

  707. perfect king.

  708. If you're not

  709. sure, if you've

  710. never heard about

  711. that before,

  712. just go, when

  713. you go home

  714. tonight, read

  715. the book of

  716. Hosea in the

  717. Old Testament,

  718. and you'll see

  719. what I mean.

  720. So when we

  721. think about our

  722. new identity,

  723. our new life that

  724. we've been

  725. learning about,

  726. it's about a

  727. relationship,

  728. relationship.

  729. The Christian

  730. life is

  731. ultimately about

  732. a relationship

  733. with God.

  734. Not progress,

  735. not growth,

  736. not self-improvement,

  737. not transformation.

  738. It's ultimately

  739. about a

  740. relationship.

  741. And you may

  742. have heard of

  743. all that before,

  744. but remember that

  745. the concept of

  746. being in a

  747. relationship, a

  748. personal relationship

  749. with a personal

  750. God, that's

  751. pretty revolutionary

  752. in human history.

  753. And if we

  754. forget that, if

  755. we take that

  756. for granted,

  757. we're just going

  758. to default back

  759. to our drive,

  760. that ingrained

  761. drive to do

  762. and to measure,

  763. to do things

  764. and to do

  765. better.

  766. Think about a

  767. loving relationship

  768. that you have

  769. right now.

  770. It might be your

  771. relationship with

  772. your husband,

  773. your wife,

  774. a family member,

  775. a best friend,

  776. a close friend.

  777. Is the ultimate

  778. goal of that

  779. relationship to

  780. be a better

  781. person in that

  782. relationship?

  783. No.

  784. Or is the

  785. ultimate goal to

  786. love and to

  787. cherish that

  788. person, to get

  789. to know that

  790. person, to

  791. respond to that

  792. person?

  793. Husbands, when

  794. you propose to

  795. your wives, did

  796. you say, you

  797. know, my love,

  798. after this

  799. journey, I want

  800. to be a better

  801. person.

  802. I just want to

  803. improve myself.

  804. Will you marry

  805. me?

  806. No, right?

  807. And if you did

  808. that and she

  809. still said yes,

  810. man, she is a

  811. keeper.

  812. That'd just be

  813. weird, right?

  814. Parents, do you

  815. say to your

  816. children, son,

  817. daughter, the

  818. real reason I

  819. brought you into

  820. this life is so

  821. that you and

  822. your mom could

  823. have, I mean,

  824. me and my mom,

  825. me and your

  826. mom, me and

  827. your mom.

  828. The reason we

  829. brought you into

  830. this life, mainly

  831. your mom, the

  832. reason we brought

  833. you into this

  834. world is because

  835. we want to have

  836. better lives.

  837. Do you say that

  838. to your kids?

  839. If you do, stop

  840. doing it.

  841. Because that's

  842. scarring.

  843. It's scarring to

  844. have the weight of

  845. your generations of

  846. expectation on you.

  847. And just remember

  848. that God didn't

  849. give you children so

  850. that you could

  851. fulfill your own

  852. dreams.

  853. So when you

  854. truly love someone,

  855. loving them is the

  856. goal of the

  857. relationship.

  858. And I'm not

  859. talking about

  860. transactional

  861. relationships where

  862. you're just in the

  863. relationship to get

  864. something out of it.

  865. I know I do that

  866. all the time.

  867. I'm sure you can

  868. think of examples

  869. in your own life.

  870. I'm not talking

  871. about those types

  872. of relationships.

  873. I'm talking about

  874. a loving relationship.

  875. And yes, your

  876. personal growth might

  877. become apparent and

  878. develop as a

  879. byproduct of that

  880. loving relationship.

  881. relationship.

  882. But if self-improvement

  883. is your goal,

  884. whether it's

  885. subconscious or a

  886. stated goal, if that

  887. is your goal, you

  888. will have no power for

  889. any real and lasting

  890. change, any real or

  891. lasting transformation.

  892. And that's what I

  893. realized those years in

  894. university.

  895. I could do all the

  896. amazing Christian

  897. activities I wanted,

  898. but my heart was

  899. still like what the

  900. Bible says in

  901. Jeremiah 17.

  902. Deceitful.

  903. Desperately sick.

  904. Beyond understanding.

  905. Because doing things

  906. in the name of Jesus

  907. doesn't make me a

  908. Christian.

  909. Being in a loving

  910. relationship with

  911. Jesus is what makes

  912. me a Christian.

  913. You know that

  914. prostitute who's been

  915. chosen and united

  916. with the king?

  917. She doesn't parade

  918. around trying to find

  919. validation in the

  920. things she does.

  921. She knows that the

  922. status that's been

  923. bestowed on her is

  924. only because the

  925. king chose her to be

  926. his queen.

  927. And the king is with

  928. her.

  929. He's beside her.

  930. He's leading her.

  931. Did you notice in

  932. chapter 4 when Paul

  933. says we are to

  934. learn Christ?

  935. Christ?

  936. To learn Christ?

  937. That idea of

  938. learning a person

  939. is utterly unique.

  940. It's truly unique.

  941. Nowhere else in the

  942. Greek Bible does it

  943. say learn a person.

  944. It doesn't even, as

  945. far as we know, it

  946. isn't even in any

  947. Greek writings before

  948. the Bible at all to

  949. learn a person.

  950. But in Ephesians,

  951. Paul is saying that

  952. Jesus Christ himself

  953. is the content of

  954. what we learn as

  955. Christians.

  956. We welcome him as a

  957. living person.

  958. We're taught in him.

  959. The truth is in Jesus.

  960. And experiencing a

  961. relationship with

  962. Christ is the

  963. ultimate goal of the

  964. Christian life.

  965. God pouring out his

  966. unconditional love to

  967. you and us just

  968. responding in love

  969. towards him.

  970. Our love motivates

  971. us to learn Christ,

  972. to learn what he

  973. loves, what he

  974. cares about, to

  975. learn what honors

  976. and glorifies him,

  977. to learn to be like

  978. him.

  979. And everything we do

  980. as Christians must

  981. come out of that

  982. relationship.

  983. You know, all those

  984. spiritual disciplines I

  985. was practicing back in

  986. university, Bible

  987. study, prayer, fasting,

  988. whatever it is,

  989. they're just ways to

  990. get to know Jesus,

  991. the person I love.

  992. All those acts of

  993. worship and the life

  994. I experienced in

  995. community, that's

  996. just a way to

  997. respond to Jesus,

  998. the person I love.

  999. Genuine change,

  1000. genuine growth,

  1001. genuine progress

  1002. will only come out of

  1003. that love.

  1004. And guys, this is

  1005. actually really, I

  1006. think this is really

  1007. good news when we

  1008. think about our

  1009. spiritual walk.

  1010. Because if progress

  1011. is the ultimate

  1012. goal, and if we're

  1013. honest with ourselves,

  1014. then I think we

  1015. would fail all the

  1016. time because we're

  1017. always going to fall

  1018. short of perfection in

  1019. this lifetime.

  1020. You know, we might

  1021. think we've overcome

  1022. this one kind of nasty

  1023. plant of selfishness,

  1024. righteousness and

  1025. pride and self-righteousness,

  1026. but like any weed, it

  1027. just pops up again in

  1028. another shape, another

  1029. form, another

  1030. circumstance.

  1031. You know, I like to

  1032. think of sin in terms of

  1033. both things we commit,

  1034. you know, things we do

  1035. that we shouldn't do, but

  1036. also things we omit,

  1037. things that we should do,

  1038. but we fail to do.

  1039. And I know I tend to

  1040. think about the first,

  1041. just things that it's

  1042. like a big list of

  1043. don'ts.

  1044. But just think, even if

  1045. you were somehow able

  1046. to, quote unquote,

  1047. remove all the bad

  1048. things from your life,

  1049. what about all the good

  1050. things that you should

  1051. be doing?

  1052. Because true goodness

  1053. and perfection includes

  1054. all the good things that

  1055. God has called us to do

  1056. and to be.

  1057. And then it's not our

  1058. own sinfulness that we

  1059. just have to reckon

  1060. with.

  1061. In this broken and

  1062. fallen world, we also

  1063. have to reckon with the

  1064. sin of others and just

  1065. sickness.

  1066. You know, when sickness,

  1067. suffering, and other

  1068. things in life interrupt

  1069. you, it can feel like

  1070. your whole plan for

  1071. progress and self-improvement

  1072. is just thwarted.

  1073. And all your plans are

  1074. thrown out the window.

  1075. Your first plan in every

  1076. contingency plan out the

  1077. window.

  1078. So you see, there will

  1079. always be something that

  1080. pops up.

  1081. You know, something in

  1082. your life that you

  1083. struggle with.

  1084. And if you dwell upon

  1085. everything that could

  1086. potentially go wrong,

  1087. both from the inside or

  1088. from the outside, you're

  1089. just going to always have

  1090. that nagging insecurity.

  1091. If you live your life as

  1092. if it's ultimately about

  1093. progress, you're either

  1094. going to be disappointed

  1095. perpetually, or you're

  1096. going to somehow have to

  1097. live in ignorant denial of

  1098. how sinful you really are.

  1099. If you're thinking that

  1100. I'm, oh, Jeremy's just a

  1101. Debbie Downer.

  1102. Oh, just, why is he so

  1103. cynical and pessimistic?

  1104. Well, I don't think I am.

  1105. I'll be honest, because I

  1106. wrestled with that.

  1107. Am I just being cynical as

  1108. I get older?

  1109. I've been inspired by what

  1110. Paul says.

  1111. The Apostle Paul, the author

  1112. of this letter, Ephesians,

  1113. the author of like half the

  1114. New Testament, is the man

  1115. that God used to write all

  1116. these books and plant all

  1117. these churches.

  1118. If there ever was a hero of

  1119. the faith, the Apostle Paul

  1120. was.

  1121. If there was ever someone who

  1122. could live out that life of

  1123. Christian progress, that was

  1124. the Apostle Paul.

  1125. But towards the end of his

  1126. life, he writes some pretty

  1127. interesting things.

  1128. Writing to the Roman church, he

  1129. says this.

  1130. Just listen carefully.

  1131. He says, I am unspiritual, sold

  1132. as a slave to sin.

  1133. I do not understand what I do.

  1134. For what I want to do, I do not

  1135. do.

  1136. But what I hate to do, I do.

  1137. I have the desire to do what is

  1138. good, but I cannot carry it out.

  1139. For I do not do the good I want to

  1140. do.

  1141. But the evil I don't want to do,

  1142. this I keep on doing.

  1143. And it just seems like he's

  1144. laboring this point over and

  1145. over and over.

  1146. There's this disconnect.

  1147. And later he even tells his

  1148. protege, Timothy, that I'm the

  1149. worst of all sinners.

  1150. And this is a man towards the

  1151. end of his life reflecting on

  1152. this life of being a prophet,

  1153. of being the mouthpiece of God,

  1154. of seeing a vision of God

  1155. himself, planning churches,

  1156. writing all this scripture.

  1157. And so I don't think Paul was

  1158. expressing some kind of false

  1159. humility.

  1160. That's not the Paul we see in

  1161. all his writings.

  1162. I think for all the progress that

  1163. the apostle Paul saw in his life,

  1164. at the end when he looked back,

  1165. he really grasped the depths of

  1166. sin within the human heart and

  1167. how desperately he needed God's

  1168. grace.

  1169. In a culture fixated with progress,

  1170. the constant temptation is to

  1171. think of our spiritual growth

  1172. mainly in a linear way.

  1173. You've probably just consciously

  1174. or subconsciously thought of it

  1175. that way.

  1176. It's just like a straight line

  1177. graph.

  1178. You're just improving.

  1179. There's a line, the trajectory

  1180. towards more holiness, more purity,

  1181. more sanctification.

  1182. And I'm not saying that can't

  1183. happen.

  1184. But practically speaking, the

  1185. Christian life is more circular.

  1186. And what I mean is that it's a simple

  1187. process of repentance and faith

  1188. again and again.

  1189. We see the sinfulness in our lives

  1190. and we repent, turning back to the arms

  1191. of Christ, the loving arms of Christ.

  1192. Putting our faith back in this daily process

  1193. of knowing God, responding to him.

  1194. The linear might happen,

  1195. but you're not worried about that

  1196. because each day there is a moment

  1197. for repentance and faith.

  1198. Each moment there's a moment for repentance

  1199. and faith, even right now as you're sitting

  1200. in your chairs.

  1201. And let me be clear, spiritual growth

  1202. will happen.

  1203. And that's where I can be hopeful.

  1204. But like physical fruit, the fruit of the

  1205. spirit doesn't just sprout out before your

  1206. eyes.

  1207. You know, if you just stand there and stare

  1208. at a fruit trying to measure your growth,

  1209. you're going to be bored out of your mind.

  1210. Because you're not going to see it.

  1211. And if you're focusing so much on the fruit,

  1212. the plant will probably start dying.

  1213. Right?

  1214. But if you make sure that the plant stays

  1215. connected to the source of life,

  1216. to a loving relationship with our Savior Jesus,

  1217. the fruit will grow.

  1218. And sooner or later you will see it.

  1219. And more importantly, the people around you

  1220. will see it.

  1221. So just as a side of encouragement,

  1222. you know, when you see fruit in people's lives,

  1223. when you see them growing,

  1224. affirm them.

  1225. Affirm their growth,

  1226. their relationship in Christ.

  1227. And that's what community is about,

  1228. for us to encourage one another.

  1229. I want to conclude by applying all of this

  1230. to our lives right now.

  1231. And we're going to use the cross chart

  1232. to help us.

  1233. And I know,

  1234. I know we've shown this to you many times

  1235. before.

  1236. But today I want to explain it in a slightly different way.

  1237. So this is your relationship with Christ.

  1238. And every day you're looking backward

  1239. and you're looking forward.

  1240. Communion, which we observed earlier,

  1241. it calls us to remember that at a point in history,

  1242. at the very far left of the chart,

  1243. Jesus Christ came into our lives,

  1244. into history.

  1245. He lived a perfect life to die for our sins

  1246. so that we can be forgiven.

  1247. And then there was a point in time,

  1248. or maybe a few points even,

  1249. if you don't remember a specific time,

  1250. but clearly where there was a turn,

  1251. a conversion point.

  1252. When you realize that,

  1253. you realize what Jesus came and did on the cross.

  1254. And then you accepted that gift of grace,

  1255. that gift of forgiveness.

  1256. And you chose to follow him,

  1257. and the relationship began.

  1258. That point might be today for some of you.

  1259. It can be today.

  1260. And then at the same time,

  1261. looking forward,

  1262. in communion,

  1263. Paul also says,

  1264. as often as you eat this bread

  1265. and drink this cup,

  1266. you proclaim my death

  1267. until I return.

  1268. And that's eternity,

  1269. looking forward to the future.

  1270. So you're looking to the past,

  1271. to what Christ has done.

  1272. You're looking towards the future,

  1273. to eternity,

  1274. when Jesus will return

  1275. in victory and glory,

  1276. and he'll make everything new.

  1277. He'll make us new.

  1278. He'll make us perfect again.

  1279. And between those two points,

  1280. looking back and looking forward,

  1281. is today.

  1282. your relationship with him

  1283. every day.

  1284. You're walking in a loving relationship

  1285. with Christ

  1286. every day.

  1287. And you're constantly aware

  1288. of how sinful you really are,

  1289. just like the Apostle Paul did.

  1290. And you're constantly aware

  1291. of how God really is,

  1292. how holy and perfect

  1293. he really is.

  1294. but you're also constantly aware

  1295. of how amazing Jesus is.

  1296. And that mercy

  1297. and that relationship

  1298. through Christ.

  1299. And every moment

  1300. is shaped by that cross.

  1301. That's your relationship.

  1302. That cross today,

  1303. that's your relationship

  1304. with Christ.

  1305. You see,

  1306. the beauty of understanding

  1307. your relationship

  1308. with Christ

  1309. and that it's

  1310. not about progress,

  1311. but it's about

  1312. a relationship.

  1313. The beauty of that

  1314. is you don't have to worry

  1315. about whether you're

  1316. making progress today

  1317. or whether you're not

  1318. making progress today.

  1319. Because every last circumstance

  1320. in your life

  1321. is an opportunity

  1322. to experience

  1323. that relationship.

  1324. relationship.

  1325. Because that's the real goal

  1326. to experience,

  1327. to cherish

  1328. that relationship

  1329. in the cross.

  1330. You know,

  1331. if things are going great

  1332. right now,

  1333. then you celebrate

  1334. with Jesus first.

  1335. If things are going bad

  1336. in your life right now

  1337. and you've messed up,

  1338. weep and mourn

  1339. with Jesus first.

  1340. And if someone

  1341. on the street

  1342. annoys you,

  1343. turn to Jesus first.

  1344. If someone's hurt you,

  1345. turn to your friend

  1346. Jesus first.

  1347. Turn to your father first.

  1348. Every moment

  1349. is a chance

  1350. to learn Christ,

  1351. to know him,

  1352. to trust him,

  1353. to receive his love,

  1354. to respond in love.

  1355. And inevitably,

  1356. that relationship

  1357. will become more

  1358. and more precious

  1359. to you.

  1360. So at the end

  1361. of the passage

  1362. in chapter four,

  1363. Paul tells us

  1364. to put off

  1365. the old self

  1366. and to put on

  1367. the new self.

  1368. That new self

  1369. is a completely

  1370. new identity

  1371. and the original

  1372. language actually

  1373. suggests that we

  1374. have already

  1375. put off the old self

  1376. and we've already

  1377. put on

  1378. the new self.

  1379. And since you already

  1380. have this new identity

  1381. and that new identity

  1382. is going to be

  1383. perfected in eternity,

  1384. then why don't we

  1385. just start living

  1386. that out today?

  1387. That's right.

  1388. Last week,

  1389. we learned that

  1390. our identity

  1391. is Christ.

  1392. And today,

  1393. our walk

  1394. is Christ.

  1395. Our Christian walk

  1396. is Christ.

  1397. That relationship

  1398. is our spiritual walk.

  1399. Christ is our life.

  1400. It's everything

  1401. we need.

  1402. And that's why

  1403. those martyrs

  1404. in the past

  1405. when they were persecuted,

  1406. they could walk

  1407. to the gallows

  1408. to be hung.

  1409. They could walk

  1410. to the stake

  1411. to be burned

  1412. singing God's praises

  1413. because they knew

  1414. they would not be measured

  1415. by any achievement

  1416. they did.

  1417. They would be measured

  1418. by the love

  1419. and relationship

  1420. that they had in Christ.

  1421. That's why they could

  1422. praise God

  1423. walking to the gallows.

  1424. And so think about this

  1425. with me

  1426. as you respond.

  1427. As we pray,

  1428. how are you experiencing

  1429. that relationship

  1430. with Christ today?

  1431. Do you know,

  1432. do you feel,

  1433. do you recognize

  1434. that he's with you?

  1435. Has that relationship

  1436. even begun

  1437. for you today?

  1438. And if not,

  1439. let that be the beginning.

  1440. Let today be the beginning

  1441. of that relationship.

  1442. More specifically,

  1443. what's going on

  1444. in your life right now?

  1445. What is that circumstance

  1446. or ten circumstances

  1447. that God

  1448. is using

  1449. to point you back

  1450. to that relationship

  1451. with him?

  1452. To that relationship

  1453. of unconditional love

  1454. and acceptance?

  1455. Let's actually

  1456. take a moment

  1457. right now

  1458. to reflect on that.

  1459. And just invite you

  1460. to close your eyes

  1461. and pray.

  1462. Reflect on what

  1463. is going on

  1464. in your life today.

  1465. in the light

  1466. of your relationship

  1467. with Christ.

  1468. God, we're going to keep reflecting

  1469. on you on the cross.

  1470. And this isn't the end of the sermon.

  1471. This is just the beginning

  1472. of recognizing day after day

  1473. that we need you.

  1474. And our lives are defined

  1475. by the relationship that we have with you.

  1476. So God, I pray that

  1477. whatever circumstances are happening,

  1478. whatever is going on,

  1479. those circumstances

  1480. instead of drawing them away

  1481. from you, Lord,

  1482. they would point us back

  1483. to the relationship we have with you, God.

  1484. Lord, whatever it is

  1485. that you need us to see this morning,

  1486. pray that your spirit would prompt us,

  1487. would convict us.

  1488. God, if I walked

  1489. to the gallows this morning

  1490. because of persecution,

  1491. because of

  1492. those who hate you,

  1493. Lord, would it be

  1494. my praise,

  1495. the praise on my lips

  1496. that says,

  1497. it is the love that I have from you.

  1498. It is this relationship

  1499. that I walk with you

  1500. that has defined me.

  1501. God, I pray that you continue

  1502. to illuminate, Lord,

  1503. those circumstances

  1504. in our lives.

  1505. Whatever it is

  1506. we're going through, Lord,

  1507. we know you're with us, God.

  1508. So we respond to you now

  1509. in praise

  1510. and prayer

  1511. and repentance

  1512. and in faith.

  1513. Amen.