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Worship in All Circumstances: Waiting

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  1. My name is Jeremy.

  2. If you haven't met me before, I am one of the staff leaders here at Watermark.

  3. And even as I was preparing and thinking about this message this morning,

  4. I'm just reminded of Isaiah's words.

  5. Gosh, I'm a man of unclean lips.

  6. And I don't stand here with any sort of, as Oscar was saying,

  7. righteousness that I've somehow earned myself.

  8. God has been preaching to me.

  9. His spirit has been convicting me throughout this week and all the time.

  10. And so this morning, I really want to begin with the tone that the Lord is speaking to all of us as a church.

  11. And although I get the, I guess, this place of speaking to you,

  12. in every single way, I am also speaking to myself.

  13. So as a community, as a church, let's kind of grow together.

  14. So let me just pray for me.

  15. And please pray for me at this time and pray for us as a church.

  16. Heavenly Father, thank you for your word.

  17. Thank you for the psalms that you have so graciously given us to teach us,

  18. to encourage us, to challenge us.

  19. And I pray for my heart right now and the hearts of every single one of us here, Lord,

  20. that we would be receptive,

  21. that our eyes and our hearts would not wander to the distractions so many they may be in the world and our lives,

  22. but we would just look you, look at you, look you in the eye,

  23. set our hearts on you right now,

  24. and be open to what you want to teach us, Lord.

  25. And I pray that for myself, Lord.

  26. Would you even now continue to speak and challenge me, God?

  27. In Jesus' name we pray.

  28. Amen.

  29. So the topic we're looking at today is waiting.

  30. Waiting.

  31. And it's something you do every day.

  32. Some of you here already are waiting for lunchtime.

  33. And your stomachs are telling you.

  34. So I admonish you right now, ignore those voices,

  35. and just for the next 30 minutes or so,

  36. focus on the bread of life, on Jesus.

  37. But waiting is something we do every day.

  38. And some things we wait for, you know, they're a little more trivial.

  39. You know, we wait for the MTR or bus like all of you did coming this morning.

  40. We wait in line at the supermarket.

  41. You know, we wait seemingly endlessly for that person to pick up at customer service.

  42. Hours and hours, it seems like.

  43. And we wait for, I guess, getting to rides in Disneyland, right?

  44. And experts estimate, from what I've seen over the last research,

  45. over the last week or so,

  46. experts estimate that people can spend up to two years in their lifetime

  47. just waiting in line for different things.

  48. It's pretty crazy, right?

  49. Up to two years.

  50. And in our culture today of Internet and social media and instant gratification,

  51. you know, many experts think we're actually becoming more impatient

  52. because we're expecting everything to come in the blink of an eye.

  53. And you want to go on a date?

  54. Tinder.

  55. You want to buy something?

  56. Get same-day delivery online.

  57. Don't want to wait for that ride at Disneyland?

  58. Fast pass.

  59. And I'm not necessarily endorsing any of these things,

  60. but I'm just saying that's what you see in society today.

  61. And a few years ago, one researcher looked at 6.7 million people

  62. and their kind of online viewing habits.

  63. And he found that some people started abandoning their videos

  64. after two seconds of loading because it wasn't fast enough.

  65. And then by the 10-second mark, half of these people ditched their video.

  66. And this was already a few years ago.

  67. Today, I don't even know how fast the Internet speeds are.

  68. But I think that's just a small kind of commentary

  69. on this instant gratification culture that we live in.

  70. And these things can be trivial, but they remind us

  71. that we, collectively, as a developed society,

  72. you know, we are very much expecting convenience.

  73. It's the norm.

  74. But some things we wait for are far from trivial, right?

  75. And that wait can be agonizing.

  76. Students, you are waiting for your exam results.

  77. You wait for that acceptance or rejection letter from a school.

  78. You wait in the hospital waiting room.

  79. You wait for results from a medical test, from a checkup.

  80. You wait for a company to call back after that interview

  81. that you think went great or bombed completely.

  82. And we also might face a lot of adversity in waiting.

  83. At some point in your lifetime,

  84. you will be waiting for some kind of difficulty to pass you by.

  85. You wait for relief from sickness.

  86. You wait for that demoralizing work environment to just change.

  87. You wait for a spouse or a loved one to change from their hurtful ways.

  88. We wait for things to get better.

  89. We wait.

  90. We're going through a series on Psalms

  91. and this idea of God's call for us,

  92. for his people, for all people,

  93. to worship him at all times, in all seasons.

  94. And the Psalms give us a great insight

  95. into how we can genuinely pour out our emotions to God,

  96. how we can be real and honest before him.

  97. Over the last three weeks,

  98. you may have heard how the Psalms call us

  99. to preach to ourselves daily.

  100. And most importantly,

  101. the Psalms tell us,

  102. teach us how in every season,

  103. in every emotion,

  104. we can be worshiping God.

  105. So today we turn to Psalm 62,

  106. a psalm about waiting.

  107. And it's not a long psalm,

  108. so we're just going to kind of look at it

  109. through a few key themes.

  110. Please kind of go,

  111. have your bulletin there,

  112. taking a look at the scripture.

  113. And I'll just highlight

  114. some of the relevant verses for us.

  115. And just to give you an outline

  116. for how you can follow with me,

  117. I'm just going to go through

  118. like three major points.

  119. Firstly, I'm going to talk about

  120. our goals of waiting.

  121. Our goals of waiting.

  122. And secondly,

  123. our process of waiting.

  124. And thirdly,

  125. our model of waiting.

  126. So our goals,

  127. our process,

  128. and our model.

  129. So let's frame that first point

  130. as a question.

  131. The question is,

  132. what are you waiting for in life?

  133. What are you waiting for?

  134. Now everyone has things

  135. that they hope to achieve,

  136. and inevitably,

  137. we spend time waiting for them.

  138. I've already listed a few things

  139. at the beginning

  140. of things we wait for,

  141. and Psalm 62 is no different.

  142. It gives us a snapshot

  143. of the goals that people

  144. may have in the process of waiting.

  145. And so in 62,

  146. it seems like the psalmist

  147. is facing adversity.

  148. He's facing challenge from others.

  149. He's waiting for relief.

  150. He's waiting for deliverance.

  151. Verse 3,

  152. how long will all of you

  153. attack a man

  154. to batter him

  155. like a leaning wall,

  156. a tottering fence?

  157. The imagery there

  158. is like a structure

  159. that's been battered,

  160. and it's been rendered unstable,

  161. a tottering fence,

  162. if you can imagine,

  163. that's what the psalmist feels like.

  164. Verse 4,

  165. they only plan to thrust him down

  166. from his high position.

  167. They take pleasure in falsehood.

  168. They bless with their mouths,

  169. but inwardly they curse.

  170. Now, I don't know if any of you

  171. have faced the adversity

  172. that the author of Psalm 62

  173. seems to be experiencing,

  174. but I think we've all,

  175. I'm sure we've all experienced

  176. some kind of attack

  177. or deceit

  178. or hypocrisy

  179. in some shape or form, right?

  180. And in these times

  181. of difficulty,

  182. of challenge,

  183. we want,

  184. we wait for things

  185. to get better.

  186. And then in verses 9 and 10,

  187. they give us

  188. this good perspective

  189. on what people

  190. put their hope in.

  191. Those of low estate

  192. are but a breath.

  193. Those of high estate

  194. are a delusion.

  195. in the balances

  196. they go up,

  197. they are together

  198. lighter than a breath.

  199. That's basically

  200. addressing this issue

  201. of social status.

  202. And the psalmist realizes

  203. that these things

  204. have no weight.

  205. Like if they're in a balance,

  206. they just go up

  207. like a breath.

  208. No matter if you have

  209. a high or low social status,

  210. there is no eternal significance

  211. in those things.

  212. verse 10,

  213. put no trust

  214. in extortion.

  215. Set no vain hopes

  216. on robbery.

  217. If riches increase,

  218. set not your heart

  219. on them.

  220. You know,

  221. many people

  222. wait,

  223. they wait all

  224. their life

  225. to get rich.

  226. They might even

  227. resort to violence,

  228. to robbery,

  229. to extortion.

  230. But the psalmist

  231. sees that wealth

  232. and prosperity,

  233. they're not worth

  234. setting our hearts on.

  235. They too,

  236. like social status,

  237. have no eternal significance.

  238. so the psalmist paints

  239. this picture for us.

  240. He says this,

  241. like basically in life

  242. when you're facing

  243. adversity,

  244. the world tells us

  245. that status

  246. enriches

  247. our solutions

  248. to your problems.

  249. you know,

  250. we work hard

  251. and then we wait

  252. for that hard work

  253. to pay off.

  254. We're waiting all

  255. day

  256. for that day

  257. where we reach

  258. that goal

  259. that we think

  260. will give us

  261. success

  262. and satisfaction.

  263. People spend

  264. their entire lives

  265. waiting for that day

  266. that they'll finally

  267. be happy

  268. and they become

  269. so enamored

  270. and obsessed

  271. with these goals

  272. that they're even

  273. willing to trample

  274. on others,

  275. to batter others,

  276. to step over others.

  277. And when you reach

  278. that goal,

  279. you realize

  280. it's not quite

  281. as satisfying

  282. as I thought.

  283. And then there's

  284. the next goal

  285. and the next goal.

  286. And the psalmist

  287. is basically saying

  288. to us,

  289. those goals

  290. are empty

  291. and you can just

  292. read the news,

  293. look at

  294. your celebrity magazines,

  295. your gossip

  296. and OK Magazine,

  297. whatever,

  298. from the broadsheets

  299. to the tabloids,

  300. countless examples

  301. of people

  302. who are rich

  303. and famous,

  304. who crash

  305. and burn,

  306. who fall into

  307. overdose

  308. and addiction

  309. and suicide

  310. because they have

  311. reached the top

  312. but it was empty.

  313. There's a pithy quote

  314. from Jack Higgins

  315. that I really

  316. found compelling.

  317. Jack Higgins

  318. is a British writer.

  319. His novels

  320. have sold

  321. over 150 million

  322. copies worldwide,

  323. translated into

  324. 55 languages

  325. and as he was

  326. reflecting on his success,

  327. someone asked him,

  328. what would you have

  329. liked to know

  330. as a boy

  331. from when you

  332. were a boy?

  333. And this was his answer

  334. that when you get

  335. to the top,

  336. there's nothing there.

  337. There's nothing there.

  338. But the psalmist

  339. in 62

  340. paints a very

  341. different picture

  342. of what we should

  343. be waiting for.

  344. For God

  345. alone,

  346. my soul

  347. waits in silence.

  348. God himself

  349. is what the psalmist

  350. is waiting for.

  351. Through the psalm,

  352. we see that God

  353. is described

  354. as a rock,

  355. a fortress,

  356. a refuge.

  357. God is the source

  358. of salvation

  359. and glory.

  360. Verses 11 and 12,

  361. we see that power,

  362. power and steadfast love

  363. belong to God.

  364. You know,

  365. the things that we

  366. chase after,

  367. love and power,

  368. are,

  369. they actually

  370. belong to God.

  371. So this morning,

  372. whether you're

  373. Christian

  374. or not,

  375. no matter what

  376. your worldview

  377. or your faith,

  378. Psalm 62

  379. is drawing

  380. this stark

  381. contrast

  382. between waiting

  383. for God

  384. and waiting

  385. for everything

  386. else.

  387. God is the

  388. source

  389. of everything

  390. good

  391. while everything

  392. else

  393. passes

  394. like a breath,

  395. like vapor.

  396. So the first

  397. thing for us

  398. to start

  399. thinking about

  400. as we dwell

  401. on Psalm 62

  402. is the question,

  403. what are you

  404. waiting for

  405. in life?

  406. What are your

  407. real goals

  408. if you're honest

  409. about yourself?

  410. The second

  411. question,

  412. the second

  413. point is this,

  414. how are you

  415. waiting?

  416. And this

  417. speaks to

  418. the process

  419. that I was

  420. talking about.

  421. The second

  422. point is the

  423. process

  424. of our

  425. waiting.

  426. So you

  427. can be

  428. waiting for

  429. something

  430. that's a

  431. good thing.

  432. You know,

  433. maybe you're

  434. waiting for

  435. that job

  436. offer.

  437. You're

  438. waiting to

  439. be in

  440. love.

  441. Or you're

  442. waiting for

  443. that loved

  444. one to

  445. come around,

  446. to get

  447. better,

  448. to recover

  449. from illness

  450. perhaps.

  451. Maybe some

  452. of you are

  453. even waiting

  454. for Christ

  455. to return.

  456. Now,

  457. all those

  458. things are

  459. good things

  460. and there's

  461. nothing inherently

  462. bad about

  463. those things.

  464. But if our

  465. focus is solely

  466. on those

  467. specific things,

  468. what happens

  469. is that we

  470. get stressed,

  471. we get

  472. impatient,

  473. we lose

  474. sight of the

  475. process,

  476. we lose

  477. sight of

  478. how we're

  479. waiting,

  480. and our

  481. waiting starts

  482. to become

  483. agonizing

  484. and frustrating.

  485. the New

  486. York Times

  487. reported that

  488. some years

  489. ago,

  490. executives at

  491. a Houston

  492. airport faced

  493. a troubling

  494. customer relations

  495. issue.

  496. The passengers

  497. were lodging

  498. just countless

  499. complaints about

  500. the long waits

  501. at baggage.

  502. Anyone ever

  503. experience that?

  504. Everybody,

  505. right?

  506. in response,

  507. the executives

  508. increased the

  509. number of

  510. baggage handlers,

  511. right?

  512. Very,

  513. very sort of

  514. prudent thing

  515. to do.

  516. And the

  517. plan worked.

  518. The average

  519. wait time fell

  520. to eight

  521. minutes.

  522. And this was

  523. well within

  524. industry benchmarks.

  525. If any of you

  526. guys work within

  527. the aviation

  528. industry,

  529. you'd be like,

  530. yeah,

  531. yeah,

  532. that's really

  533. good.

  534. But the

  535. complaints

  536. persisted,

  537. okay?

  538. And the

  539. executives were

  540. puzzled.

  541. Okay,

  542. what's going

  543. on?

  544. Why are

  545. these complaints

  546. continuing?

  547. So they went

  548. and took a

  549. more careful

  550. on-site analysis

  551. and they found

  552. that it took

  553. passengers one

  554. minute to walk

  555. from the gate

  556. to the baggage

  557. claim.

  558. And then seven

  559. more minutes

  560. to actually get

  561. their bags.

  562. So in other

  563. words,

  564. roughly 90%

  565. of their time

  566. was spent

  567. standing around

  568. and waiting

  569. for their

  570. bags.

  571. So the

  572. airport decided

  573. on a new

  574. approach.

  575. Instead of

  576. reducing wait

  577. times,

  578. it moved

  579. the arrival

  580. gates away

  581. from the

  582. main terminal

  583. and routed

  584. the bags

  585. to the

  586. outermost

  587. carousel.

  588. So the

  589. passengers now

  590. had to walk

  591. six times

  592. longer to

  593. get their

  594. bags.

  595. And guess

  596. what happened?

  597. No more

  598. complaints.

  599. It dropped

  600. to nearly

  601. zero.

  602. So if you

  603. studied

  604. organizational

  605. behavior at

  606. all,

  607. there's

  608. actually a

  609. lot of

  610. examples

  611. like this.

  612. You know,

  613. the notice

  614. in lifts,

  615. you have

  616. lots of

  617. mirrors

  618. around you.

  619. It's a

  620. way for

  621. you to

  622. kind of

  623. look at

  624. yourself

  625. and be

  626. kind of

  627. occupied

  628. or look

  629. at other

  630. people if

  631. you're

  632. creepy like

  633. that.

  634. You know,

  635. all the

  636. candy and

  637. magazines

  638. you see

  639. at the

  640. checkout

  641. aisle

  642. when you're

  643. waiting for

  644. supermarkets?

  645. That's

  646. organizational

  647. behavior there

  648. because you

  649. get annoyed

  650. when you're

  651. waiting.

  652. You're

  653. looking around

  654. to the

  655. people next

  656. to you

  657. and you're

  658. like,

  659. wow,

  660. that's

  661. faster than

  662. me.

  663. That

  664. checkout's

  665. faster.

  666. But if

  667. you're

  668. looking at

  669. the juicy

  670. celebrity

  671. gossip or

  672. thinking about

  673. which candy

  674. to buy,

  675. it's another

  676. way for you

  677. to be

  678. waiting well

  679. in the

  680. perspective of

  681. the supermarket

  682. owners.

  683. waiting,

  684. it's another

  685. thing.

  686. It's another

  687. thing that

  688. is going to

  689. be able to

  690. have to

  691. get to

  692. the

  693. money.

  694. But hear me out

  695. here.

  696. I'm not saying

  697. that what we

  698. should do is

  699. just distract

  700. ourselves with

  701. these trivial

  702. things.

  703. But what these

  704. examples tell us

  705. and tell you

  706. from the

  707. experts,

  708. from people who

  709. make a living

  710. out of

  711. waiting and

  712. processing lines,

  713. is that the

  714. actual process of

  715. waiting is

  716. just as

  717. important,

  718. if not more

  719. important,

  720. than the

  721. actual time

  722. you spend

  723. waiting.

  724. So your

  725. perspective on

  726. your waiting is

  727. critical from

  728. every perspective

  729. of these

  730. experts.

  731. I was thinking

  732. about this for

  733. myself.

  734. I'm studying to

  735. get my seminary

  736. degree right now

  737. and people often

  738. ask me,

  739. some of you have

  740. done this

  741. yourselves,

  742. they ask me

  743. when I'll

  744. finish.

  745. And because

  746. I'm doing a

  747. part-time,

  748. it's going to

  749. take a

  750. while,

  751. kind of just

  752. chipping away

  753. at this

  754. statue.

  755. It's going to

  756. take quite a

  757. few years and

  758. if I'm honest,

  759. sometimes I

  760. think,

  761. man,

  762. this is going

  763. to take

  764. forever.

  765. And there's

  766. this creeping

  767. kind of feeling

  768. that,

  769. oh,

  770. I just wish

  771. it was over

  772. now.

  773. I just want

  774. to get it

  775. over and

  776. done with.

  777. But the

  778. issue is if

  779. I'm focusing

  780. on that

  781. specific end

  782. of getting

  783. that degree,

  784. I might

  785. get discouraged.

  786. But in

  787. this process,

  788. God's been

  789. reminding me

  790. little by

  791. little that

  792. every little

  793. class I

  794. take,

  795. every chapter,

  796. every book,

  797. every paper,

  798. that in and

  799. of itself is

  800. part of the

  801. process.

  802. And there's

  803. inherent value

  804. in every little

  805. step on the

  806. journey.

  807. But if I'm

  808. only fixated on

  809. the prospect of

  810. getting that

  811. degree,

  812. inevitably I'm

  813. going to get

  814. frustrated.

  815. I'll miss

  816. out on really

  817. enjoying and

  818. growing in

  819. the moment.

  820. You see,

  821. the Christian

  822. has a very

  823. unique process

  824. of waiting.

  825. The psalmist

  826. declares,

  827. for God

  828. alone,

  829. my soul

  830. waits in

  831. silence.

  832. The psalmist

  833. not only

  834. recognizes that

  835. God is the

  836. only one

  837. waiting for.

  838. He also

  839. recognizes that

  840. we should

  841. wait for

  842. God in

  843. silence.

  844. Now, I

  845. don't know if

  846. you really

  847. picked up on

  848. that, but

  849. when I first

  850. read it, I

  851. was like,

  852. what does

  853. that mean?

  854. Why is it

  855. in silence?

  856. And the

  857. Hebrew word

  858. for silence

  859. carries this

  860. idea of

  861. stillness,

  862. of rest.

  863. It carries

  864. this idea of

  865. a quiet

  866. confidence.

  867. confidence.

  868. So when we

  869. wait for

  870. God, we're

  871. not doing it

  872. with some

  873. kind of

  874. wishful,

  875. hopeful

  876. thinking.

  877. We wait

  878. with confidence

  879. because, like

  880. the psalmist

  881. says, power

  882. and steadfast

  883. love belong

  884. to God.

  885. The God we

  886. wait for is

  887. powerful and

  888. faithful, and

  889. when we wait

  890. for God, we're

  891. waiting with

  892. trust in

  893. his character.

  894. Now, you

  895. might be

  896. thinking to

  897. yourself, well,

  898. Jeremy, it's

  899. easy to wait

  900. when you're

  901. doing something,

  902. you know, like

  903. building towards

  904. a degree.

  905. You're taking

  906. these classes.

  907. It's very

  908. active.

  909. You're doing.

  910. It's hands-on.

  911. You're thinking.

  912. You're looking

  913. at yourself in

  914. the mirror.

  915. It's very

  916. active.

  917. You love

  918. looking at

  919. yourself.

  920. These are

  921. very active

  922. things that

  923. engage us, but

  924. what about the

  925. hard things in

  926. life?

  927. The things

  928. that don't

  929. seem like

  930. there's anything

  931. active I can

  932. be doing?

  933. What about

  934. things that

  935. I have no

  936. control over?

  937. What about

  938. those really

  939. big things

  940. that keep me

  941. anxious at

  942. night?

  943. It's not

  944. something like

  945. waiting in a

  946. checkout line.

  947. That's so

  948. trivial.

  949. What about

  950. relief from

  951. the suffering

  952. and anxiety

  953. that we

  954. experience?

  955. I'm not here

  956. today to just

  957. give you some

  958. kind of formula.

  959. about waiting

  960. through hard

  961. times.

  962. But Psalm

  963. 62, it gives

  964. us some really

  965. good indicators

  966. about how we

  967. should be

  968. waiting.

  969. You know,

  970. when we face

  971. adversity, it

  972. can seem a lot

  973. of times that

  974. we're just

  975. waiting around.

  976. There's nothing

  977. we can do

  978. about it.

  979. We're just

  980. waiting

  981. passively.

  982. But the

  983. psalmist shows

  984. here that he

  985. is waiting in

  986. a very active

  987. sense.

  988. If you

  989. recall in

  990. previous messages

  991. in this series,

  992. we've talked

  993. about how

  994. psalms are a

  995. lot about

  996. preaching to

  997. yourself.

  998. See that very

  999. clearly here.

  1000. So verse

  1001. one, for God

  1002. alone my soul

  1003. waits in

  1004. silence.

  1005. And then

  1006. it's repeated

  1007. in verse

  1008. five.

  1009. But notice

  1010. it's a little

  1011. different.

  1012. It says,

  1013. for God

  1014. alone,

  1015. oh my

  1016. soul,

  1017. wait in

  1018. silence,

  1019. for my

  1020. hope is

  1021. from him,

  1022. from the

  1023. Lord.

  1024. You see

  1025. how it

  1026. switches?

  1027. And you're

  1028. directly

  1029. addressing

  1030. your own

  1031. soul.

  1032. You're

  1033. telling your

  1034. soul,

  1035. soul,

  1036. heart,

  1037. mind,

  1038. wait in

  1039. silence,

  1040. in confidence,

  1041. for the

  1042. Lord.

  1043. So when

  1044. you're

  1045. waiting for

  1046. God,

  1047. you're

  1048. actively

  1049. preaching

  1050. to

  1051. yourself.

  1052. And that's

  1053. very,

  1054. very important

  1055. when we're

  1056. going through

  1057. the psalms.

  1058. You're

  1059. reminding

  1060. yourself.

  1061. When you're

  1062. doing

  1063. communion,

  1064. you're not

  1065. just putting

  1066. a cracker

  1067. and juice

  1068. into your

  1069. mouth.

  1070. You are

  1071. reminding

  1072. yourself

  1073. and preaching

  1074. to yourself

  1075. of what

  1076. God has

  1077. done.

  1078. Notice

  1079. all these

  1080. action words

  1081. in the

  1082. psalm.

  1083. Verse

  1084. 8,

  1085. trust,

  1086. trust in

  1087. him at

  1088. all times.

  1089. Pour

  1090. out your

  1091. heart to

  1092. him.

  1093. You know,

  1094. there's

  1095. nothing

  1096. passive

  1097. about this

  1098. kind of

  1099. waiting.

  1100. God is

  1101. telling you

  1102. to be

  1103. brutally

  1104. honest with

  1105. him because

  1106. you don't

  1107. need to

  1108. sugarcoat

  1109. your

  1110. feelings.

  1111. You don't

  1112. need to

  1113. sugarcoat

  1114. your

  1115. frustrations

  1116. with some

  1117. kind of

  1118. Christian

  1119. bubble wrap

  1120. because God

  1121. already knows

  1122. everything

  1123. good and

  1124. bad that's

  1125. swirling around

  1126. in the depths

  1127. of your

  1128. heart.

  1129. For

  1130. Christians,

  1131. the process

  1132. of waiting

  1133. can be

  1134. an active

  1135. opportunity

  1136. to rely

  1137. on God

  1138. and ask

  1139. him,

  1140. God,

  1141. God,

  1142. what are you

  1143. teaching me

  1144. through this?

  1145. What can I

  1146. learn from

  1147. you?

  1148. how can I

  1149. grow through

  1150. this season

  1151. of waiting?

  1152. So next

  1153. time you're

  1154. waiting in

  1155. that lift

  1156. for seemingly

  1157. endless,

  1158. endless time

  1159. and you're

  1160. looking in

  1161. that mirror,

  1162. instead of

  1163. being fixated

  1164. on yourself,

  1165. just think

  1166. about how

  1167. you're made

  1168. in the image

  1169. of God.

  1170. Think about

  1171. the God

  1172. who fashioned

  1173. you,

  1174. who created

  1175. you,

  1176. who loves

  1177. you.

  1178. that you're

  1179. precious to

  1180. him.

  1181. I also

  1182. want you to

  1183. notice that

  1184. in this

  1185. section,

  1186. not only

  1187. is the

  1188. psalmist

  1189. preaching to

  1190. himself,

  1191. he's calling

  1192. out to the

  1193. people around

  1194. him,

  1195. guys,

  1196. listen,

  1197. people,

  1198. trust in

  1199. God.

  1200. And I

  1201. can't stress

  1202. this enough

  1203. because it's

  1204. not just

  1205. that you're

  1206. preaching to

  1207. yourself.

  1208. The reason

  1209. why God

  1210. gave us

  1211. a church,

  1212. a community,

  1213. is for the

  1214. very precise

  1215. reason that

  1216. we were

  1217. never designed

  1218. to live

  1219. and grow

  1220. as individuals

  1221. isolated.

  1222. That's why

  1223. we're called

  1224. Watermark

  1225. Community

  1226. Church.

  1227. That's why

  1228. you go to

  1229. your community

  1230. groups and

  1231. you meet

  1232. and you check

  1233. up on each

  1234. other and

  1235. you remind

  1236. each other

  1237. because the

  1238. psalmist is

  1239. telling you

  1240. that it's not

  1241. enough to

  1242. just preach

  1243. to yourself

  1244. because we

  1245. are forgetful.

  1246. people.

  1247. And as we

  1248. see God

  1249. working in

  1250. each other's

  1251. lives,

  1252. as we

  1253. hear of

  1254. God's

  1255. faithfulness,

  1256. as you

  1257. tell each

  1258. other in

  1259. your community

  1260. groups how

  1261. good God

  1262. is that you

  1263. should trust

  1264. in him,

  1265. I can't tell

  1266. you how many

  1267. times I've

  1268. just been

  1269. reminded and

  1270. encouraged and

  1271. challenged by

  1272. the people I

  1273. see in my

  1274. life, by my

  1275. community group

  1276. hearing about

  1277. God at

  1278. work.

  1279. work.

  1280. So this

  1281. process of

  1282. waiting is

  1283. meant to be

  1284. done in

  1285. community, not

  1286. in isolation.

  1287. So we have

  1288. to think about

  1289. our goal in

  1290. waiting.

  1291. We have to

  1292. think about

  1293. what we're

  1294. waiting for in

  1295. life.

  1296. We also

  1297. think about

  1298. how we

  1299. wait.

  1300. We think

  1301. about the

  1302. process of

  1303. waiting.

  1304. waiting.

  1305. But I

  1306. don't want

  1307. us to hear

  1308. these things

  1309. and just

  1310. think, okay,

  1311. I just need

  1312. to do a

  1313. better job

  1314. focusing on

  1315. God, and

  1316. I just need

  1317. to do a

  1318. better job

  1319. waiting.

  1320. I just need

  1321. to have

  1322. better waiting

  1323. techniques.

  1324. I don't want

  1325. you guys to

  1326. think of that

  1327. because ultimately

  1328. the beauty of

  1329. the gospel is

  1330. that God has

  1331. also given

  1332. us a model

  1333. for waiting,

  1334. a model of

  1335. waiting that

  1336. provides us

  1337. with everything

  1338. we need to

  1339. wait throughout

  1340. our lives.

  1341. So that's

  1342. our third

  1343. point, a

  1344. model of

  1345. waiting.

  1346. You see,

  1347. you know,

  1348. when you're

  1349. waiting, you're

  1350. always modeling

  1351. your hope after

  1352. someone or

  1353. something.

  1354. Maybe you

  1355. see someone in

  1356. your life or

  1357. you read about

  1358. somebody, you

  1359. see someone who

  1360. has something

  1361. you want, and

  1362. you see how

  1363. they've waited

  1364. for it, and

  1365. they finally get

  1366. it.

  1367. Maybe it's

  1368. that story

  1369. that a lot

  1370. of us have

  1371. read, you

  1372. know, that

  1373. story of

  1374. that hot

  1375. single person

  1376. was waiting

  1377. for that

  1378. special someone.

  1379. But first

  1380. he learned to

  1381. find contentment

  1382. and singleness,

  1383. and then God

  1384. provided, and

  1385. he got married.

  1386. You know, those

  1387. are great

  1388. testimonies, and

  1389. I'm not knocking

  1390. that at all.

  1391. I've seen that

  1392. happen, and

  1393. it's amazing.

  1394. God doesn't

  1395. promise that we'll

  1396. get exactly what

  1397. we want just

  1398. because we wait

  1399. long enough or

  1400. pray long enough.

  1401. The story, the

  1402. testimony could

  1403. just go, just as

  1404. well go like this.

  1405. The single person

  1406. learned contentment.

  1407. He continued to

  1408. grow in contentment

  1409. for the rest of

  1410. his life.

  1411. He trusted that

  1412. God knows what's

  1413. best for him, and

  1414. that testimony would

  1415. be just as

  1416. wonderful just as

  1417. God glorifying.

  1418. So my point is,

  1419. when we're

  1420. modeling our

  1421. waiting, we have

  1422. to remember that

  1423. waiting is not a

  1424. way to manipulate

  1425. God.

  1426. It's not a way to

  1427. earn what we

  1428. want.

  1429. It's not a way to

  1430. earn what we think

  1431. we want.

  1432. we deserve.

  1433. That's not what the

  1434. psalmist means when

  1435. he says that God

  1436. will render to a

  1437. man according to

  1438. his work.

  1439. Psalm 62 and

  1440. the whole Bible,

  1441. it's about

  1442. salvation.

  1443. It's the reality

  1444. that we as human

  1445. beings need to be

  1446. saved.

  1447. We need to be

  1448. saved because we

  1449. have rejected the

  1450. only thing that

  1451. matters.

  1452. God.

  1453. God.

  1454. We've turned away

  1455. from having eternal

  1456. life in a loving

  1457. relationship with

  1458. him, the one who

  1459. created us.

  1460. So when I read

  1461. Psalm 62, that God

  1462. is my salvation, I'm

  1463. declaring that my

  1464. salvation rests on

  1465. God.

  1466. That's what the

  1467. psalmist is saying.

  1468. It rests on God, not

  1469. anything that I've

  1470. done, not any

  1471. technique that I've

  1472. applied in my

  1473. waiting.

  1474. Everything is

  1475. resting on God and

  1476. because of that,

  1477. because I'm relying on

  1478. God, God will give me

  1479. according to the work

  1480. of relying on him.

  1481. Psalm 62 shows us

  1482. that there is a real

  1483. model of waiting.

  1484. It's no one that you've

  1485. seen in your life.

  1486. It's nothing that you've

  1487. seen in the world.

  1488. The model for waiting

  1489. is God's faithfulness.

  1490. It's his character.

  1491. It's what he did

  1492. throughout the entire

  1493. Old Testament, from

  1494. Genesis to Revelation.

  1495. Saving people, Exodus,

  1496. bringing the people out

  1497. of captivity.

  1498. And as a Christian

  1499. today, looking at the

  1500. psalm, we have an even

  1501. clearer model.

  1502. And that model is

  1503. Jesus Christ.

  1504. In Jesus Christ, God

  1505. became a human being.

  1506. He experienced

  1507. everything we

  1508. experience today.

  1509. He waited in every

  1510. way that you wait

  1511. today.

  1512. But instead of

  1513. sinning, instead of

  1514. falling short,

  1515. instead of becoming

  1516. unrighteous, Jesus

  1517. lived a perfect life.

  1518. He should never

  1519. have died.

  1520. But he chose to

  1521. die in our place.

  1522. And he was

  1523. resurrected with

  1524. the new

  1525. heavenly body.

  1526. So guys,

  1527. today, if

  1528. your faith

  1529. is in

  1530. what Jesus Christ

  1531. did for you,

  1532. you're in

  1533. relationship with

  1534. God.

  1535. You're waiting for

  1536. eternal life.

  1537. And in that

  1538. eternal life, God

  1539. will render to

  1540. you

  1541. according to

  1542. your work

  1543. today.

  1544. When we

  1545. model our

  1546. waiting after

  1547. Christ, we

  1548. have this amazing

  1549. assurance that is

  1550. just incomparable.

  1551. No matter what

  1552. you're waiting for

  1553. right now, no

  1554. matter how long

  1555. you've waited for

  1556. it, you can be

  1557. absolutely certain

  1558. that God is your

  1559. heavenly Father,

  1560. that He loves you.

  1561. unconditionally, He

  1562. knows what's best

  1563. for you.

  1564. He's promised you

  1565. eternal life when

  1566. everything will be

  1567. made right.

  1568. There's a lot of

  1569. good things to be

  1570. waiting for in life,

  1571. and I'm not telling

  1572. you now to just

  1573. kind of give up

  1574. waiting for them.

  1575. but Jesus gives

  1576. us this ultimate

  1577. model for waiting

  1578. in His life,

  1579. death, and

  1580. resurrection, that

  1581. we are actually

  1582. waiting for

  1583. eternal life,

  1584. heavenly bodies

  1585. in a new

  1586. creation with

  1587. no sickness,

  1588. sorrow, or

  1589. pain.

  1590. All of your

  1591. waiting today,

  1592. small or big,

  1593. it all ties back

  1594. into this grand

  1595. story of waiting

  1596. waiting for

  1597. the ultimate

  1598. redemption,

  1599. ultimate

  1600. restoration.

  1601. And we have to

  1602. see this big

  1603. picture to

  1604. understand how

  1605. every step of

  1606. waiting is part

  1607. of a greater

  1608. waiting that

  1609. Jesus points us

  1610. to.

  1611. But the amazing

  1612. thing is unlike

  1613. anything else you

  1614. wait for in life,

  1615. anything in this

  1616. world that you

  1617. might wait for,

  1618. the amazing thing

  1619. is you don't ever

  1620. have to wonder if

  1621. this kind of

  1622. waiting, a

  1623. waiting that's

  1624. modeled after

  1625. Jesus, you

  1626. don't have to

  1627. worry that it

  1628. won't pay off

  1629. or it won't

  1630. result in

  1631. anything.

  1632. You know for

  1633. sure that God

  1634. will give

  1635. eternal life

  1636. because he

  1637. showed us

  1638. factually,

  1639. historically,

  1640. in Jesus

  1641. dying on the

  1642. cross.

  1643. This isn't

  1644. something that

  1645. we just conjured

  1646. up to create a

  1647. hopeful thing.

  1648. This is historical.

  1649. This is truth

  1650. that Jesus died

  1651. and resurrected.

  1652. He is our

  1653. model for

  1654. waiting.

  1655. Jesus is our

  1656. rock.

  1657. Jesus is our

  1658. salvation, our

  1659. refuge, our

  1660. glory.

  1661. So if you're

  1662. following Christ

  1663. today, when you

  1664. think about your

  1665. goals of waiting,

  1666. when you contemplate

  1667. the process and

  1668. how you are

  1669. waiting, you can

  1670. be sure that you're

  1671. not just waiting for

  1672. God in some

  1673. abstract sense.

  1674. happiness, it's

  1675. not the power of

  1676. positive thinking.

  1677. You're not putting

  1678. your hope in some

  1679. general made-up idea

  1680. of God's goodness.

  1681. You are putting

  1682. your hope on

  1683. Jesus.

  1684. It's based on the

  1685. truth of the

  1686. gospel.

  1687. If you're not a

  1688. Christian today, the

  1689. question that Psalm

  1690. 62 continues to

  1691. pose to you is

  1692. this, what are you

  1693. waiting for in

  1694. life?

  1695. Is it something of

  1696. this world that

  1697. will pass like

  1698. vapor, that will

  1699. disappear inevitably

  1700. on your deathbed?

  1701. Or is it something

  1702. everlasting that can

  1703. only come from the

  1704. God who created you,

  1705. who loves you,

  1706. who wants to spend

  1707. eternity with you?

  1708. I want to close

  1709. with just a little

  1710. bit more research

  1711. on waiting that I

  1712. came across.

  1713. There are two

  1714. recent studies from

  1715. some top-tier

  1716. universities that I

  1717. came across.

  1718. We're talking about

  1719. big names.

  1720. University of

  1721. Chicago, Cornell,

  1722. UC Berkeley.

  1723. And one study

  1724. found that, this

  1725. is the main

  1726. conclusion that it

  1727. found, it found

  1728. that waiting

  1729. actually makes us

  1730. more patient

  1731. because we

  1732. place a higher

  1733. value on what

  1734. we're waiting for.

  1735. Okay?

  1736. And the other

  1737. found that waiting

  1738. can actually make

  1739. us happy because

  1740. if we're waiting,

  1741. especially if we're

  1742. waiting for an

  1743. experience, the

  1744. data actually

  1745. showed that the

  1746. waiting for that

  1747. experience made

  1748. people happy.

  1749. And as I was

  1750. kind of thinking

  1751. about these

  1752. studies, it

  1753. hit me, it's

  1754. great that these

  1755. top-tier schools

  1756. and institutions

  1757. and top minds

  1758. are thinking

  1759. about this issue

  1760. and they're

  1761. researching these

  1762. topics in the

  1763. 21st century.

  1764. But with a lot

  1765. of things, God's

  1766. word addressed

  1767. that about 2,000

  1768. years ago.

  1769. In the book of

  1770. Romans, God tells

  1771. us that the

  1772. sufferings of the

  1773. present are not

  1774. worth comparing

  1775. to future glory.

  1776. We read in

  1777. Romans 8 that

  1778. all of creation,

  1779. it's groaning

  1780. and waiting

  1781. eagerly for

  1782. freedom.

  1783. We're waiting

  1784. for our bodies

  1785. to be made

  1786. new.

  1787. And then God

  1788. tells us something

  1789. interesting.

  1790. He says,

  1791. hope that is

  1792. seen is not

  1793. hope.

  1794. For who hopes

  1795. in what he

  1796. sees?

  1797. But if we

  1798. hope for what

  1799. we do not

  1800. see, we

  1801. wait for it

  1802. with patience.

  1803. If we hope

  1804. for what we

  1805. do not see,

  1806. we wait for it

  1807. with patience.

  1808. That sounds

  1809. like some of

  1810. these conclusions

  1811. that people are

  1812. finally coming to

  1813. today.

  1814. Because we

  1815. don't know

  1816. exactly what

  1817. eternity will

  1818. look like.

  1819. We don't know

  1820. exactly what

  1821. eternal life

  1822. will look like,

  1823. but God

  1824. promises us

  1825. that it

  1826. will be

  1827. amazing.

  1828. So God,

  1829. along with

  1830. these top

  1831. tier universities,

  1832. they're telling

  1833. us that we

  1834. can find joy

  1835. even in

  1836. waiting.

  1837. Even in

  1838. waiting because

  1839. the most

  1840. amazing

  1841. eternal

  1842. experience is

  1843. ours to have

  1844. through Jesus.

  1845. All the

  1846. waiting,

  1847. all the

  1848. wondering,

  1849. all the

  1850. suffering in

  1851. this

  1852. lifetime,

  1853. the Lord

  1854. says,

  1855. it is worth

  1856. it.

  1857. The

  1858. psalmist

  1859. calls us

  1860. to wait,

  1861. to hold

  1862. fast to

  1863. the Lord's

  1864. word,

  1865. and follow

  1866. Christ to

  1867. the end.

  1868. I'm going to

  1869. invite the

  1870. band to come

  1871. back up right

  1872. now.

  1873. But before

  1874. jumping right

  1875. into just

  1876. singing again,

  1877. I think

  1878. there's

  1879. something in

  1880. what the

  1881. psalmist is

  1882. telling us,

  1883. to wait in

  1884. silence.

  1885. And I

  1886. don't know

  1887. if you do

  1888. that often.

  1889. But to

  1890. wait in

  1891. silence in

  1892. that

  1893. confident

  1894. rest.

  1895. Let's take

  1896. a minute to

  1897. do that right

  1898. now because

  1899. every single

  1900. one of us

  1901. here is

  1902. waiting for

  1903. something.

  1904. And I

  1905. can't speak

  1906. to exactly

  1907. what it

  1908. is.

  1909. Some of

  1910. you in

  1911. here may

  1912. be waiting

  1913. for very

  1914. good things,

  1915. but they're

  1916. not just

  1917. good things,

  1918. they've

  1919. become your

  1920. ultimate

  1921. things.

  1922. And that

  1923. waiting is

  1924. causing you

  1925. anxiety and

  1926. frustration.

  1927. Because even

  1928. though they're

  1929. good things,

  1930. things that

  1931. you will enjoy,

  1932. that God may

  1933. even desire

  1934. for you,

  1935. you have

  1936. made them

  1937. your ultimate.

  1938. and you're

  1939. no longer

  1940. waiting for

  1941. eternal life

  1942. in God's

  1943. presence,

  1944. you're just

  1945. waiting on

  1946. God to

  1947. give you

  1948. stuff.

  1949. Some of

  1950. you may be

  1951. waiting for

  1952. God intently

  1953. and God

  1954. tells you to

  1955. wait in

  1956. silence because

  1957. He will

  1958. return,

  1959. He will

  1960. provide,

  1961. He will

  1962. assure you,

  1963. you never

  1964. know when

  1965. He will

  1966. return.

  1967. And He

  1968. says wait

  1969. patiently,

  1970. wait

  1971. expectantly,

  1972. wait with

  1973. hope and

  1974. trust.

  1975. Some of

  1976. you may

  1977. have no

  1978. idea what

  1979. you're waiting

  1980. for this

  1981. morning.

  1982. So take

  1983. this time to

  1984. just reflect,

  1985. what is it

  1986. really that

  1987. you're waiting

  1988. for, if

  1989. you're honest?

  1990. Is it just

  1991. that promotion?

  1992. Is it just

  1993. that special

  1994. someone?

  1995. Is it a

  1996. child?

  1997. Is it

  1998. having kids?

  1999. Is it

  2000. that next

  2001. vacation?

  2002. And where

  2003. does that

  2004. fall within

  2005. God's call

  2006. to wait for

  2007. Him and

  2008. wait for

  2009. eternity?

  2010. So just

  2011. take this

  2012. time to

  2013. reflect and

  2014. close your

  2015. eyes if you

  2016. want,

  2017. meditate,

  2018. and Julie

  2019. and the band

  2020. will lead us

  2021. when we're

  2022. ready to go.