Sermon
Worship in All Circumstances: Stress
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Transcript
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Good morning.
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My name is Eric. I'm one of the guys here on staff at Watermark.
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It's great to be here with you today.
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I have never met someone in my entire life who is most content
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when they don't know where their next meal is going to come from.
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Random, maybe, but true.
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As humanity, we have this craving for stability and security.
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It comes in different quantities.
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Some people want to know every part of their life, how structured it will be.
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But even the most bohemian, hippie person you've ever met in your life
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wants some level of security.
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They want to know at least where their next meal is coming from.
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It's a common condition that goes back to the earliest days of humanity.
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If you look back in the book of Genesis in the Bible,
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you have Adam and Eve, the first man and woman,
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and then their sons, Cain and Abel.
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Cain kills his brother, and God says,
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Okay, Cain, as a punishment for your sin,
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you're going to be a restless wanderer and a fugitive on the earth.
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And the first thing Cain does after God tells this to him
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is he goes out, he has a kid, and he builds a city.
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Because family and city mean security and stability.
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It's built into our nature as human beings.
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You fast forward a couple chapters later,
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you're at the city of Babel.
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And the people come together and they say,
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We need to build a tower into the heavens,
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to reach to the heavens,
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so that we will not be scattered across the earth.
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We want stability.
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We want security.
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We want to make sure our friends don't leave.
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We like them around.
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So we need to do what we can to keep them here.
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And this craving for security and stability comes down to today.
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I messaged a number of people from the church this week
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and asked them,
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If you think about you and the people you know,
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what are the greatest causes of stress in your lives or their lives?
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What are the things that keep you awake at night?
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And if you listen to their responses,
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it shows that we still struggle with these issues today.
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One person said,
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We lose sleep because we don't feel we're in control of the situation before us.
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And we always think the worst will happen,
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and any immediate misstep will lead to dire outcomes.
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A lot of people said things like,
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Providing for your family.
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The future, your next job,
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contract renewal at your current job,
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lack of job security in general,
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the thought of losing someone or something that I love,
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finding that special someone,
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or if you've already found them,
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are you on the same page with them?
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You listen to this list,
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and it comes down to security and stability.
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One person said,
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You know, the definition of stress
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is sitting in a room,
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listening to a talk,
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knowing that you can't leave,
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but there are four Pokemon right outside the door.
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Another person said,
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You know, everyone at work must have sleepless nights too,
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but a big part is just not to show it.
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Even when we know
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that the world is going crazy
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and we can't sleep at night,
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we want to put on this show
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that we are stable and secure
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for everyone else to see
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because we crave stability and security.
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And it's not just a watermark issue either.
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It's going on worldwide.
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How do you explain world events like Brexit,
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the election of Duterte in the Philippines,
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and the rise of Trump in America?
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People want stability and security.
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They know that the current political system,
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or they think the current political system
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will not give them the stability and security they want,
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and so they feel this need to take drastic measures to get it.
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It's a common human condition.
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Everyone wants stability and security,
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and when we feel like we don't have it,
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our natural human response is stress.
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And today we're going to continue in our series
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looking at the Psalms
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and worship for all seasons
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and talk about a psalm for when we are stressed.
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And what we're going to see
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is that God gives his people
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all the things we are tempted to stress over
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and become anxious about.
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We're going to have three steps
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that are going to help us see this.
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First, our effort.
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Second, our sleep.
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And third, our hope.
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First, our effort.
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Psalm 127, verse 1,
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says,
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Unless the Lord builds the house,
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those who build it labor in vain.
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Now if you look throughout the Bible,
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it's very clear that God expects us to be working.
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You go back to the Garden of Eve,
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and what does God tell Adam and Eve?
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He says,
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Rule the earth.
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Have dominion.
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Do work.
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If you look at the Ten Commandments,
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God comes and he says,
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You need a day of rest
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because all the other days you're going to be working.
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He expects us to do work.
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He expects us to go to our jobs,
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to do our school.
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In the church,
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he expects us to be making disciples.
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But this verse is clear
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that unless God is behind our work,
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it is in vain.
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If you look at the title of this psalm,
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it says that it's written by Solomon.
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And it says,
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Unless the Lord builds the house.
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Solomon built a very famous house.
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It's called the temple.
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It was the place,
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the dwelling place of God on earth.
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Solomon did lots of work
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to take this temple,
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make it a beautiful, beautiful building.
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They put a lot of time into it,
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a lot of money into it.
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And that's quite possibly
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what he is referring to in this verse.
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But what he is saying is,
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we built this elaborate,
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beautiful, intricate,
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expensive building.
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We put in our time
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and our effort
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and our energy,
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but if God's not in it,
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it's wasted.
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It's useless.
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This word labor in this verse
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isn't just the word
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that we would typically think of
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when we think of work.
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It can actually be translated
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more along the lines of toil,
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trouble,
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work that leaves us
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just feeling empty
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and exhausted
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at the end of the day.
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And he's saying that
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if we don't have God in our work,
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all of our work
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is going to be
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that kind of work,
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the kind of work
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that leaves us empty,
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the kind of work
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that leaves us stressed.
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Unless the Lord
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builds the house,
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those who build it
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labor in vain.
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What does it mean
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for a house
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to be built in vain?
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There's a pastor
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in the States
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named John Piper
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and he lists four ways
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that a house
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can be built in vain.
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He says,
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first off,
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you can build the house
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and you just never
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complete the construction.
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Sort of like
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the Tower of Babel
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in the Bible.
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You start building,
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you never actually
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complete the house.
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It's built in vain.
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It can't be used
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like it's meant to be.
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Second off,
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you build the house,
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you get it,
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it's beautiful.
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You move in,
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you live there
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for a couple years
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and then all of a sudden
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the house collapses.
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Sort of like
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the foolish man
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that Jesus talked about
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who built his house
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on the sand.
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The storms came,
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they knocked out the house.
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If you build your house
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and two years later
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it collapses,
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the house has been built
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in vain.
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The third way
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that the house
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can be built in vain
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is that you build the house,
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it's beautiful,
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you oversee it,
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the construction finishes
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and the day that you're
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meant to move in,
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you dropped out
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of a heart attack
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and you never get to enjoy
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the fruit of your labor.
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The writer of Ecclesiastes
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in the Bible
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talks about this,
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the man who
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does all this work
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and prepares everything
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just for someone else
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to enjoy it.
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And then finally,
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the fourth way
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that the house
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can be built in vain
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and I think this one
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is one that is all too
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common in our culture.
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You build the house,
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it's beautiful,
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you get everything ready,
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you move in
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and the house,
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once you move into it,
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becomes a house
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of pain and mourning
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filled with broken marriages,
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rebellious children,
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marble shelves
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that hold meaningless trinkets.
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and why?
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Why?
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Why is this type
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of building vanity?
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Because when we build
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a house
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or really do any
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venture in life,
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start a business,
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start a church,
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start a family,
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and we do it
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without God in it,
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everything involved
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in the process
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starts and ends
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with us.
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we toil,
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we labor,
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we work with power
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that comes from us.
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We complete a project
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and the glory goes to us.
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We celebrate
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what we have accomplished.
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We get consumed
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with ourselves
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and that's that.
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And if we can't enjoy it,
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it's over.
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We never get to be
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a part of something
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bigger than ourselves.
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But what does it look like
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on the flip side
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if God is the one
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building the house?
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Well,
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when God is the one
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building the house,
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the power and energy
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to build it
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comes from him
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and the glory for it
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goes to him.
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A historical example
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of this would be
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the temple,
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this house that Solomon built.
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If you think about
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the temple,
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they brought in
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this team of people
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with incredible skills
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who contributed
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to the work.
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They did
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incredible,
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intricate artwork,
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carvings,
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sculptures,
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architecture
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to build
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this incredible building
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and many of them
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never even actually
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got to see
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the completed fruit
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of their labor.
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There were rooms
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in the temple
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that certain people,
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only certain people
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could go into.
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In fact,
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in the Holy of Holies,
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the most sacred place
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in the temple,
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only one person
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could go in there
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one time per year.
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Which means
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anyone involved
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in building that room
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never got to take
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their wife and their friends
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to go say,
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check out this work
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that I did here.
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Isn't this a great carving?
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Isn't this a cool sculpture?
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No, none of that.
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You can never show them
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what you had done,
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but everyone did it.
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Everyone joined in
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because they knew
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that their work
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was going towards
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the worship of God.
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Their work was not in vain.
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Their work was part
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of something bigger.
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Their work was part
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of glorifying
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and worshiping God.
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And now most of us
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won't be involved
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in something like
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building the temple
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in our lifetime.
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So what does this look like
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in a modern context?
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When I was a little kid,
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my dad actually built
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our house in the States.
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He went out to the woods,
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chopped down trees,
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milled, like literally
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milled the wood himself,
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brought it back
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and built it,
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had some friends come over
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to help him stand up the walls.
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He built it from the ground up
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and we moved in there
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when I was two years old.
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And over the years,
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in that house,
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my parents have raised
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four boys,
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constantly pointing us
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towards Jesus,
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constantly teaching us
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to love him
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and worship him.
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In that house,
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over the years,
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numerous people
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have come over
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and talked to my parents
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during difficult times
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in their life
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and found encouragement,
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found encouragement
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to go back to Christ
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in those difficult times.
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In that house,
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the kitchen has been used
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to cook,
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I can't even guess
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how many meals
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for people who are sick,
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for people who have
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just had babies,
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for people who are mourning.
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In that house,
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when I was about 12,
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we had a homeless family
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come live with us
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for six months.
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Literally,
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out of the homeless shelter,
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they came and took my bedroom
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and I had to go stay
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with my brothers
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in their bedroom.
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In that house,
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amazing ministry
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has happened for God
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over the years.
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Yes, my dad built the house,
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but I believe that God
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also built that house
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and has used it
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to make an impact
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that will last
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for eternity
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for him.
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But again,
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most of us
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aren't actually
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going to literally
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build our houses
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in Hong Kong,
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you know?
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It just doesn't happen here.
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But everyone has a place
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that we live.
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And what does it look like
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for us to use
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the places
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that God has given us
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for this season
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in our life
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to make
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an eternal impact
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for him?
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You know,
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I had some friends,
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they used to go out
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every Saturday night.
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They had a couple kids
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from the streets
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that they would bring in
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and these kids
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would spend the night
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at their house.
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My friends would give them
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a healthy meal to eat.
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My friends would hang out
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with these kids,
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teach them life skills
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and discipline.
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My friends would teach
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these kids about Jesus,
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give them a safe place
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to spend the night.
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In the morning,
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they would eat breakfast
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together,
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and then they would bring
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the kids to church.
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I think God built
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that household.
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God used it.
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Even though they were
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only in that apartment
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for a couple years,
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God used their time
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in that household.
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He built that house
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to make a difference
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for eternity.
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And the fact is
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that if God is not
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building our house,
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whether it's in our homes,
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in our businesses,
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in our church,
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those who build it
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labor in vain.
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Like I said,
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it's true even in the church.
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We can have,
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we could save up
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lots of money,
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build this great building,
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have a great speaker,
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and gather together
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to hear talks
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all about how great we are,
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and just get focused
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on ourselves,
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lose our sight
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for the gospel,
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for helping the world
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around us,
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and all the work
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that's gone into
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making this incredible,
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beautiful church
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is in vain.
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I don't think we're there
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right now at Watermark,
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but it very easily
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could happen in the future
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if God is not in it.
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And it's true
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not only in the church,
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but in our jobs.
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We can go to work,
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we can stay up
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all night long
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trying to get
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this deal done,
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trying to get
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the work done,
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anxious.
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It can be true
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what's said of us
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in verse 2,
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it's in vain
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that you rise up early
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and go late to rest
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eating the bread
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of anxious toil.
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How many of us
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does that describe
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staying up late
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because we're stressed
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about work
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and then waking up
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as early as we can
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in the morning
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because we feel
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like everything
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is dependent on us,
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the power comes
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from us,
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and the glory
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goes to us
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for a job
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that we're doing
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in vain.
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It says,
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not only unless
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the Lord builds
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the house,
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but unless the Lord
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watches over the city,
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the watchman
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stays awake
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in vain.
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We're dependent
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on God
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for getting things
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started and built,
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but we're dependent
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on God
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for them maintaining
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and sustaining
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into the future
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as well.
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You can get
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your house built,
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but if God's not
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watching over the city,
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then an entire
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city worth
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of houses
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can be destroyed
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in one night.
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Again,
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that's true
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for the church.
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We can have
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a healthy church
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today,
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but if God's
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not watching
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over it,
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giving can stop,
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attendance can stop,
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the church
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no longer exists.
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Or,
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giving can go up,
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attendance can go up,
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and we lose sight
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of the gospel,
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and the church
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continues on
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years and years
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to come,
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and no one's life
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is impacted by it.
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Unless the Lord
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watches over the city,
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the watchman
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stays awake
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in vain.
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So God expects us
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to work,
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but ultimately,
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every endeavor
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in our lives
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is dependent
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on God's work
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for its success
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or its failure.
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That is,
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our effort.
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Next up,
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our sleep.
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It says,
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in the end
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of verse 2,
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he gives
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to his beloved
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sleep.
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Sleep comes
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from our trust
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in God's provision.
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If we believe
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that God is a good
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father who loves us
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and takes care of us,
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then we will sleep.
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And if we don't believe
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that God is a good
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father who loves us
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and takes care of us,
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we're going to stay up
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all night long
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trying to provide
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for ourselves
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because obviously
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God's not going to
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provide for us
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and everything's
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going to go wrong
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if I don't.
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But God gives
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to his beloved
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sleep.
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I love the movie
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Gladiator.
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Anyone here love
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the movie Gladiator?
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Yes?
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Thank you.
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It's a great movie.
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If you haven't seen it,
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you should.
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In Gladiator,
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there's this scene.
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It's great.
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Commodus is ruling
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over the Roman Empire,
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but he's stressed.
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He's afraid
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that all of his work
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to take over the country
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is going to be in vain,
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that it's going to fall apart,
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that he's going to lose
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his power.
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It's late at night.
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He's wide awake,
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and he's standing
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in the doorway
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to his nephew's bedroom
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watching his nephew sleep.
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And his sister
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walks up behind him,
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and he turns to her,
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and he says,
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he sleeps so well
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because he knows
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that he is loved.
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He sleeps so well
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because he knows
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that he is loved.
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If we are Christians,
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and we have a God
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who takes care of us
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and provides for us,
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that's what the world
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should be saying about us.
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Those Christians,
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they sleep so well
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because they know
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that they're loved.
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If we look at this passage again,
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this part that says,
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he gives to his beloved sleep,
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there's actually
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a possible alternate translation
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for this line.
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It can,
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if you look at
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the original language,
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it could also be translated,
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he gives to his beloved
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in their sleep.
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Slight change,
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but a slightly different
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meaning as well.
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It's not just that
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God gives us sleep,
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but that as we sleep,
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God gives us all the things
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that we would have been
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stressing over
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if we had stayed awake.
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We could stay up all night
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stressing about
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whether the business deal
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is going to go through,
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or we can go to sleep.
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And God is capable
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of making that happen
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while we are asleep.
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Now, it's not going to happen
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every single night
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that amazing things happen,
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but God provides for us
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in our sleep,
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which is why we are able
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to sleep.
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A picture of this
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happens in the Bible
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in the book of Acts.
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The apostle Peter,
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he's arrested.
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He's in prison,
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and he's going to be executed
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the next day.
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I don't know about you,
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but I feel like
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if I was in prison
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about to be executed
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the next day,
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I would be awake,
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plotting,
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hey, maybe I could get
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this guard's key off of him
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while he sleeps
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and unlock everything.
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Do you think that
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would wake them up?
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Maybe.
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I'm not really sure,
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but then there's the other guard
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I also have to get past.
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What can I do?
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What can I do?
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Maybe my friends will jump me
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while I'm being transported
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tomorrow to the execution place.
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I'm not really sure.
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But Peter sleeps.
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The night before his execution,
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he is asleep.
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And in the middle of the night,
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an angel appears,
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his chains fall off,
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the prison door breaks open,
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and he's able to walk right out,
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free.
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Peter was able to sleep
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because in his sleep,
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God provided his rescue.
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God gives to his beloved
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in their sleep.
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We can sleep at night
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because while we sleep,
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God still cares for us,
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God still provides for us,
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God still takes care of us.
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We can stay up,
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anxious,
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stressed,
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worried,
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or we can rest,
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sleep,
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because we have a God
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who loves us.
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Looking down at verse 3,
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behold,
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children are a heritage
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from the Lord,
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the fruit of the womb,
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a reward.
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If we think about
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what we stress about in life,
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so much of it relates
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to kids and the future.
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How are their grades?
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Where are they going to go to school?
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Can we afford to have kids?
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Can we even have kids?
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But then,
-
in the midst of all our stress,
-
all our worry,
-
comes the statement
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that God gives us kids.
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This happens on a physical level,
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that God physically gives children,
-
and it says here
-
that he gives them as a gift,
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not a burden,
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by the way.
-
I think our culture often
-
sees them as more of a burden,
-
but it says here
-
that they are a gift.
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And really,
-
if God's big enough
-
to give us children,
-
then surely he's going
-
to be big enough
-
to provide for those children
-
throughout their life.
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God gives children
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as a blessing for his people.
-
If you think about the context
-
that this was written in,
-
this is written during
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the Old Testament,
-
which means that it's,
-
God's promises
-
at this point in time
-
were made to the nation of Israel
-
through Abraham.
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Abraham was the founding father
-
of the nation of Israel,
-
if you go way,
-
way back in time.
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And God made a promise
-
to Abraham.
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He said that he would
-
give him three things.
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He said that he would
-
bless him,
-
said that he would give him
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a land for his descendants
-
to live in,
-
and he said that he would
-
give him descendants,
-
that he would multiply him
-
and make him into
-
a great nation.
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And this promise
-
followed the descendants
-
down the line.
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If you were an Israelite
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and you had kids,
-
that meant God
-
was blessing you.
-
God loves you.
-
God has provided you
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with children.
-
God has kept his promise
-
to Abraham through you.
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If you don't have kids,
-
maybe there's something wrong.
-
If you don't have kids,
-
maybe God's withholding
-
his blessing from you.
-
And so,
-
what he's saying here
-
is that kids were a sign
-
that God was keeping
-
his promise.
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Kids were a sign
-
that God was giving
-
his blessing.
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That is why kids
-
are a heritage
-
or an inheritance
-
from the Lord.
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But what about people
-
who can't have kids?
-
Whether it's a married couple
-
who's just physically
-
unable to,
-
or a single person
-
who can't have kids
-
because in obedience
-
to God,
-
they're living a celibate life
-
and they can't have kids.
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In the New Testament,
-
Paul talks about
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the advantages
-
of a single life
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for a Christian.
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And how can it be
-
that if children
-
are a blessing
-
and single people
-
living in obedience
-
God can't have kids,
-
that that's a good thing?
-
Well, if you look
-
at these promises
-
that God gave
-
to Old Testament Israel,
-
what you see
-
is that in the New Testament,
-
these promises
-
are fulfilled in Christ.
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That through Christ,
-
God is forming
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a people for himself.
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That through Christ,
-
God has established
-
a kingdom
-
that will last forever.
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That through Christ,
-
God has given
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his blessing
-
to the entire world.
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Which means
-
that these promises
-
that God gave
-
to Abraham
-
actually still apply
-
to Christians today,
-
but we interpret
-
them differently
-
through the lens
-
of Christ.
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Which means
-
that the family of God
-
is now
-
a spiritual family.
-
Yes, there's a people
-
of God,
-
but the thing
-
that unites us
-
is not our literal
-
physical bloodlines,
-
but the blood of Christ,
-
our common faith
-
in him.
-
And so the Bible
-
tells us
-
that if we are Christians,
-
we are all brothers
-
and sisters
-
with one another.
-
in the book
-
of Corinthians,
-
Paul talks about
-
how he became
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their father
-
in Christ
-
when he shared
-
with them about Jesus
-
and they trusted
-
in him.
-
And what the Bible
-
tells us
-
is that God,
-
whether we have
-
physical children
-
or not,
-
whether we're married
-
or single,
-
young or old,
-
that God wants us
-
and expects us
-
to be spiritual parents,
-
to be people
-
who share his word
-
with others
-
so that they can
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come to know him,
-
so that they can be
-
brought into the family
-
through us.
-
And God gives us
-
children today,
-
physically and spiritually,
-
as a blessing,
-
as a way of
-
building his family,
-
that physical children,
-
yes,
-
but also spiritual children
-
are a heritage
-
from the Lord
-
because God uses us
-
to impact
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their eternity.
-
and if you look at it,
-
it says that children
-
are supposed to be
-
arrows.
-
I don't know if you've
-
ever thought much
-
about arrows
-
and the life
-
of an arrow.
-
Arrows are made
-
to be sent out.
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I know a lot of parents
-
who really want
-
their kids
-
to have a perfectly
-
safe life,
-
to stay close to home,
-
to be comfortable,
-
but God says
-
children are meant
-
to be arrows.
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Arrows are weapons
-
used in war
-
and hunting.
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The life of an arrow
-
is not a safe life.
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If your goal
-
for your kids
-
is nothing more
-
for them to stay safe,
-
then I want to ask you today,
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do you have the same plans
-
for your kids
-
as God does?
-
God wants us
-
to raise up children,
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physically and spiritually,
-
who will make an impact
-
for him in the world.
-
Children who will go out
-
and serve in their communities,
-
maybe even go overseas
-
as missionaries.
-
Children who will be
-
lights for him,
-
who will be arrows
-
that pierce the darkness
-
of the world.
-
So if you have kids
-
here today,
-
how are you preparing
-
your arrows
-
to be released?
-
You know,
-
the amazing thing
-
about an arrow
-
is that if it's aimed
-
properly,
-
it can do great damage
-
to the enemy.
-
If it's aimed poorly,
-
it can do great damage
-
to your own side.
-
If you're an arrow,
-
or if you're a parent
-
here today,
-
and you put the same
-
amount of effort
-
into your job
-
as you do
-
into your parenting,
-
would you still
-
have a job tomorrow?
-
If your friends
-
were to watch
-
the way that you
-
interact with your family
-
and the way that
-
you lead them,
-
would they think
-
that you're more concerned
-
about where your kids
-
go to college
-
or where they spend
-
eternity?
-
God has given us
-
children as a blessing,
-
but he's also given us
-
to them as an incredible
-
tool to be used
-
for his kingdom.
-
And are we using
-
them responsibly?
-
And again,
-
just as with everything
-
else in life,
-
how our kids turn out
-
ultimately is dependent
-
on God.
-
But he expects us
-
to be working
-
alongside of him
-
to raise them up
-
towards him.
-
There's a pastor
-
in the States
-
named Matt Chandler,
-
and I love his description
-
of their parenting.
-
He says,
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you know,
-
my wife and I,
-
we constantly
-
talk to our kids
-
about Jesus.
-
We bring them
-
to church every week,
-
we pray with them,
-
we read the Bible
-
with them,
-
but we also try
-
to do things
-
to remind them
-
that God is good
-
and that he loves them.
-
So when I ask my daughter
-
what's her favorite color
-
and she says pink,
-
I say,
-
do you know where
-
pink comes from?
-
And I tell her,
-
God made the color pink
-
because he loves
-
beautiful things
-
and he wants to create
-
a beautiful world
-
for you to enjoy.
-
Or he tells stories
-
about how they'd put
-
their kids to bed at night,
-
get them all settled down,
-
and then 10 minutes later
-
go back and wake the kids up
-
and take them out
-
for a late night donut run
-
to remind their kids
-
that it's not all about rules,
-
that we as parents love you
-
and even more,
-
God as your heavenly father
-
loves you.
-
But then he says,
-
after having done
-
everything that I possibly can
-
to raise my kids properly
-
and point them towards God,
-
I put them to bed
-
at the end of the night
-
and I walk around
-
to each of their rooms
-
and I beg for God
-
to save their souls.
-
He mixes his metaphors
-
and talks a little bit
-
about it like a bonfire.
-
He says,
-
what I do
-
is I take all this kindling
-
and I wood
-
and I pile it up
-
and then I douse it
-
with gasoline
-
and I pray for God
-
to send a spark
-
that will light it
-
so that,
-
but in the meantime
-
while I wait,
-
I build that pile
-
as big as I can
-
so that when the spark comes,
-
it will burn
-
as bright
-
and as long
-
as possible.
-
Children are a heritage
-
from the Lord,
-
a great blessing
-
but a great responsibility.
-
And again,
-
just like anything else,
-
our parenting is dependent
-
on God's work
-
but
-
when we've done
-
all that we can
-
to raise our kids
-
and point them
-
towards Christ,
-
we can go to bed
-
at the end of the night
-
and sleep
-
because we have
-
a good Father
-
who loves us
-
and cares for us
-
and provides for us.
-
So we've seen our effort,
-
we've seen our sleep,
-
finally,
-
our hope.
-
You know,
-
this idea of
-
being able to sleep
-
and not needing
-
to be anxious
-
and not needing
-
to be stressed,
-
it's a great idea
-
in theory
-
but is it practical?
-
Can we live it
-
in the real world?
-
Ultimately,
-
that comes down
-
to one question.
-
Is God for us
-
or against us?
-
Because if God is for us,
-
then we can.
-
We can sleep,
-
we can rest
-
because we know
-
that he's going to provide
-
and take care of us.
-
And if God's against us,
-
then we're probably
-
not going to succeed,
-
definitely won't succeed,
-
but we still need
-
to try everything
-
we anxiously can,
-
give up sleep,
-
to try,
-
try to make it work
-
because we don't have
-
a Heavenly Father
-
who's going to take care of us.
-
Is God for us
-
or against us?
-
And how can we know?
-
How can we know for sure
-
whether he is for us
-
or against us?
-
The answer comes
-
from the cross.
-
See, at the cross,
-
Jesus,
-
fully God
-
and fully man,
-
came to earth
-
when we were in
-
rebellion against God,
-
when we had said to God,
-
we hate you,
-
we want nothing
-
to do with you,
-
stay away from us,
-
let us live our lives
-
the way that we want,
-
we had declared ourselves
-
as enemies against God
-
and we were deserving
-
of his destruction.
-
Jesus came down
-
to the earth
-
as fully God
-
and fully man
-
and he bore
-
all of the punishment
-
that we deserve
-
for our rebellion
-
at the cost
-
of his own life.
-
At the cross,
-
God provided
-
for our greatest need
-
at the greatest cost
-
possible
-
to himself.
-
And if God
-
is going
-
to provide
-
for our greatest need
-
at the greatest cost
-
possible to himself,
-
then surely
-
he's going to provide
-
for all of our other needs
-
as well.
-
Romans chapter 8
-
verses 31
-
and 32
-
says,
-
if God is for us,
-
who can be
-
against us?
-
He who did not
-
spare his own son
-
but gave him up
-
for us all,
-
how will he not
-
also with him
-
graciously give us
-
all things?
-
Modern translation,
-
if God loved us
-
enough to give up
-
his son for us,
-
he's going to love us
-
enough to give up
-
anything else for us
-
that we possibly
-
could need.
-
If you have kids,
-
think about this
-
for a second.
-
How many people
-
on earth are there
-
that you would
-
sacrifice your
-
child's life
-
to save?
-
I'm guessing
-
for most of you
-
that list is like
-
zero,
-
maybe one.
-
But you think
-
about whoever
-
possibly made
-
that list
-
of people
-
that you would
-
sacrifice your
-
child's life
-
to save.
-
If that person
-
came up to you
-
and asked you
-
for a meal,
-
would you say
-
no to them?
-
Of course not.
-
You love them
-
enough to give up
-
the most valuable
-
thing in the world
-
to you,
-
you're going to
-
give them a meal,
-
you're going to
-
give them a place
-
to stay,
-
because you love
-
them,
-
because you care
-
for them.
-
God gave up
-
his son
-
for us.
-
He's going to
-
provide everything
-
else that we
-
need.
-
And,
-
you know,
-
I talked earlier
-
about if God
-
doesn't build
-
the church,
-
you know,
-
in addition,
-
God has promised
-
to build the
-
church as well.
-
Now,
-
it's not a
-
categorical promise
-
that watermark's
-
just going to
-
exist forever,
-
but it means
-
that while we're
-
here,
-
the things that
-
we're doing
-
for God's
-
kingdom are
-
going to have
-
an eternal
-
impact,
-
that God's
-
going to use
-
the preaching
-
of his word
-
and the lives
-
that we live,
-
to spread
-
his kingdom
-
in the earth.
-
So what
-
difference does
-
this make
-
in our lives?
-
If you're not
-
a Christian,
-
trust in Jesus.
-
You know,
-
these things that
-
I've been saying
-
about how God
-
loves us,
-
how God gave
-
up his son
-
for us,
-
how God is
-
on our side
-
and not against
-
us,
-
if we are
-
still declaring
-
ourselves as
-
enemies against
-
God by refusing
-
to trust in
-
Jesus,
-
then God
-
says,
-
okay,
-
you're still
-
enemies.
-
But he still
-
wants us
-
to be his
-
children and
-
his friends
-
and he offers
-
us today
-
that if you
-
have never
-
trusted in
-
Jesus to
-
forgive you
-
for your
-
rebellion against
-
God,
-
that you can
-
have forgiveness,
-
you can have
-
new life,
-
all you have
-
to do is
-
ask.
-
So if you
-
have never
-
done that
-
before,
-
I encourage
-
you to do
-
that today.
-
And if
-
you're here
-
and you
-
are a
-
Christian,
-
if you
-
trust in
-
this God
-
who is so
-
big,
-
so loving,
-
so powerful,
-
what difference
-
does this make
-
in our lives?
-
Let's sleep
-
this week.
-
You know,
-
we say we
-
worship a God
-
who's all
-
powerful,
-
who loves
-
us,
-
who provides
-
for us,
-
even when
-
we sleep,
-
and yet for
-
so many of
-
us,
-
we stay up
-
late,
-
we stay up
-
anxious and
-
stressed.
-
but this
-
week,
-
let's view
-
climbing into
-
bed as an
-
act of
-
worship.
-
Probably never
-
thought of it
-
that way before,
-
but let's view
-
climbing into
-
bed as an
-
act of
-
worship.
-
It's an
-
intentional
-
step where
-
we can say,
-
God,
-
I know there's
-
more I can
-
do.
-
I know there's
-
more I could
-
stress out about
-
and be anxious
-
about.
-
I know I could
-
stay up later
-
and do more
-
work,
-
but I'm
-
trusting in
-
you,
-
and I'm
-
climbing into
-
bed.
-
I'm going
-
to get a
-
good night's
-
sleep because
-
I know,
-
God,
-
that you are
-
a good
-
father who
-
loves me,
-
who cares
-
for me,
-
who's on
-
my side,
-
and who
-
provides for
-
me.
-
Let's pray.
-
Father,
-
we thank you
-
that you are
-
a good
-
father.
-
We thank you
-
that in the
-
times where
-
we turn to
-
stress,
-
when we turn
-
to anxiety,
-
that you're
-
there,
-
and you're
-
aware of
-
everything that's
-
going on in
-
our hearts,
-
in our minds,
-
and in the
-
world around
-
us,
-
and that you
-
care.
-
We thank you
-
that you have
-
provided for our
-
greatest need at
-
the greatest
-
possible cost to
-
yourself that there
-
is,
-
and that you've
-
promised to
-
provide for all
-
of our other
-
needs as well.
-
We pray that we
-
be a church that
-
trusts that,
-
that is able to
-
sleep,
-
sleeping so well
-
because we know
-
that we are
-
loved.
-
Thank you that
-
you're good.
-
We thank you
-
that you love
-
us.
-
In Jesus' name,
-
amen.