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Worship in All Circumstances: Stress

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  1. Good morning.

  2. My name is Eric. I'm one of the guys here on staff at Watermark.

  3. It's great to be here with you today.

  4. I have never met someone in my entire life who is most content

  5. when they don't know where their next meal is going to come from.

  6. Random, maybe, but true.

  7. As humanity, we have this craving for stability and security.

  8. It comes in different quantities.

  9. Some people want to know every part of their life, how structured it will be.

  10. But even the most bohemian, hippie person you've ever met in your life

  11. wants some level of security.

  12. They want to know at least where their next meal is coming from.

  13. It's a common condition that goes back to the earliest days of humanity.

  14. If you look back in the book of Genesis in the Bible,

  15. you have Adam and Eve, the first man and woman,

  16. and then their sons, Cain and Abel.

  17. Cain kills his brother, and God says,

  18. Okay, Cain, as a punishment for your sin,

  19. you're going to be a restless wanderer and a fugitive on the earth.

  20. And the first thing Cain does after God tells this to him

  21. is he goes out, he has a kid, and he builds a city.

  22. Because family and city mean security and stability.

  23. It's built into our nature as human beings.

  24. You fast forward a couple chapters later,

  25. you're at the city of Babel.

  26. And the people come together and they say,

  27. We need to build a tower into the heavens,

  28. to reach to the heavens,

  29. so that we will not be scattered across the earth.

  30. We want stability.

  31. We want security.

  32. We want to make sure our friends don't leave.

  33. We like them around.

  34. So we need to do what we can to keep them here.

  35. And this craving for security and stability comes down to today.

  36. I messaged a number of people from the church this week

  37. and asked them,

  38. If you think about you and the people you know,

  39. what are the greatest causes of stress in your lives or their lives?

  40. What are the things that keep you awake at night?

  41. And if you listen to their responses,

  42. it shows that we still struggle with these issues today.

  43. One person said,

  44. We lose sleep because we don't feel we're in control of the situation before us.

  45. And we always think the worst will happen,

  46. and any immediate misstep will lead to dire outcomes.

  47. A lot of people said things like,

  48. Providing for your family.

  49. The future, your next job,

  50. contract renewal at your current job,

  51. lack of job security in general,

  52. the thought of losing someone or something that I love,

  53. finding that special someone,

  54. or if you've already found them,

  55. are you on the same page with them?

  56. You listen to this list,

  57. and it comes down to security and stability.

  58. One person said,

  59. You know, the definition of stress

  60. is sitting in a room,

  61. listening to a talk,

  62. knowing that you can't leave,

  63. but there are four Pokemon right outside the door.

  64. Another person said,

  65. You know, everyone at work must have sleepless nights too,

  66. but a big part is just not to show it.

  67. Even when we know

  68. that the world is going crazy

  69. and we can't sleep at night,

  70. we want to put on this show

  71. that we are stable and secure

  72. for everyone else to see

  73. because we crave stability and security.

  74. And it's not just a watermark issue either.

  75. It's going on worldwide.

  76. How do you explain world events like Brexit,

  77. the election of Duterte in the Philippines,

  78. and the rise of Trump in America?

  79. People want stability and security.

  80. They know that the current political system,

  81. or they think the current political system

  82. will not give them the stability and security they want,

  83. and so they feel this need to take drastic measures to get it.

  84. It's a common human condition.

  85. Everyone wants stability and security,

  86. and when we feel like we don't have it,

  87. our natural human response is stress.

  88. And today we're going to continue in our series

  89. looking at the Psalms

  90. and worship for all seasons

  91. and talk about a psalm for when we are stressed.

  92. And what we're going to see

  93. is that God gives his people

  94. all the things we are tempted to stress over

  95. and become anxious about.

  96. We're going to have three steps

  97. that are going to help us see this.

  98. First, our effort.

  99. Second, our sleep.

  100. And third, our hope.

  101. First, our effort.

  102. Psalm 127, verse 1,

    Psalms 127:1

  103. says,

  104. Unless the Lord builds the house,

  105. those who build it labor in vain.

  106. Now if you look throughout the Bible,

  107. it's very clear that God expects us to be working.

  108. You go back to the Garden of Eve,

  109. and what does God tell Adam and Eve?

  110. He says,

  111. Rule the earth.

  112. Have dominion.

  113. Do work.

  114. If you look at the Ten Commandments,

  115. God comes and he says,

  116. You need a day of rest

  117. because all the other days you're going to be working.

  118. He expects us to do work.

  119. He expects us to go to our jobs,

  120. to do our school.

  121. In the church,

  122. he expects us to be making disciples.

  123. But this verse is clear

  124. that unless God is behind our work,

  125. it is in vain.

  126. If you look at the title of this psalm,

  127. it says that it's written by Solomon.

  128. And it says,

  129. Unless the Lord builds the house.

  130. Solomon built a very famous house.

  131. It's called the temple.

  132. It was the place,

  133. the dwelling place of God on earth.

  134. Solomon did lots of work

  135. to take this temple,

  136. make it a beautiful, beautiful building.

  137. They put a lot of time into it,

  138. a lot of money into it.

  139. And that's quite possibly

  140. what he is referring to in this verse.

  141. But what he is saying is,

  142. we built this elaborate,

  143. beautiful, intricate,

  144. expensive building.

  145. We put in our time

  146. and our effort

  147. and our energy,

  148. but if God's not in it,

  149. it's wasted.

  150. It's useless.

  151. This word labor in this verse

  152. isn't just the word

  153. that we would typically think of

  154. when we think of work.

  155. It can actually be translated

  156. more along the lines of toil,

  157. trouble,

  158. work that leaves us

  159. just feeling empty

  160. and exhausted

  161. at the end of the day.

  162. And he's saying that

  163. if we don't have God in our work,

  164. all of our work

  165. is going to be

  166. that kind of work,

  167. the kind of work

  168. that leaves us empty,

  169. the kind of work

  170. that leaves us stressed.

  171. Unless the Lord

  172. builds the house,

  173. those who build it

  174. labor in vain.

  175. What does it mean

  176. for a house

  177. to be built in vain?

  178. There's a pastor

  179. in the States

  180. named John Piper

  181. and he lists four ways

  182. that a house

  183. can be built in vain.

  184. He says,

  185. first off,

  186. you can build the house

  187. and you just never

  188. complete the construction.

  189. Sort of like

  190. the Tower of Babel

  191. in the Bible.

  192. You start building,

  193. you never actually

  194. complete the house.

  195. It's built in vain.

  196. It can't be used

  197. like it's meant to be.

  198. Second off,

  199. you build the house,

  200. you get it,

  201. it's beautiful.

  202. You move in,

  203. you live there

  204. for a couple years

  205. and then all of a sudden

  206. the house collapses.

  207. Sort of like

  208. the foolish man

  209. that Jesus talked about

  210. who built his house

  211. on the sand.

  212. The storms came,

  213. they knocked out the house.

  214. If you build your house

  215. and two years later

  216. it collapses,

  217. the house has been built

  218. in vain.

  219. The third way

  220. that the house

  221. can be built in vain

  222. is that you build the house,

  223. it's beautiful,

  224. you oversee it,

  225. the construction finishes

  226. and the day that you're

  227. meant to move in,

  228. you dropped out

  229. of a heart attack

  230. and you never get to enjoy

  231. the fruit of your labor.

  232. The writer of Ecclesiastes

  233. in the Bible

  234. talks about this,

  235. the man who

  236. does all this work

  237. and prepares everything

  238. just for someone else

  239. to enjoy it.

  240. And then finally,

  241. the fourth way

  242. that the house

  243. can be built in vain

  244. and I think this one

  245. is one that is all too

  246. common in our culture.

  247. You build the house,

  248. it's beautiful,

  249. you get everything ready,

  250. you move in

  251. and the house,

  252. once you move into it,

  253. becomes a house

  254. of pain and mourning

  255. filled with broken marriages,

  256. rebellious children,

  257. marble shelves

  258. that hold meaningless trinkets.

  259. and why?

  260. Why?

  261. Why is this type

  262. of building vanity?

  263. Because when we build

  264. a house

  265. or really do any

  266. venture in life,

  267. start a business,

  268. start a church,

  269. start a family,

  270. and we do it

  271. without God in it,

  272. everything involved

  273. in the process

  274. starts and ends

  275. with us.

  276. we toil,

  277. we labor,

  278. we work with power

  279. that comes from us.

  280. We complete a project

  281. and the glory goes to us.

  282. We celebrate

  283. what we have accomplished.

  284. We get consumed

  285. with ourselves

  286. and that's that.

  287. And if we can't enjoy it,

  288. it's over.

  289. We never get to be

  290. a part of something

  291. bigger than ourselves.

  292. But what does it look like

  293. on the flip side

  294. if God is the one

  295. building the house?

  296. Well,

  297. when God is the one

  298. building the house,

  299. the power and energy

  300. to build it

  301. comes from him

  302. and the glory for it

  303. goes to him.

  304. A historical example

  305. of this would be

  306. the temple,

  307. this house that Solomon built.

  308. If you think about

  309. the temple,

  310. they brought in

  311. this team of people

  312. with incredible skills

  313. who contributed

  314. to the work.

  315. They did

  316. incredible,

  317. intricate artwork,

  318. carvings,

  319. sculptures,

  320. architecture

  321. to build

  322. this incredible building

  323. and many of them

  324. never even actually

  325. got to see

  326. the completed fruit

  327. of their labor.

  328. There were rooms

  329. in the temple

  330. that certain people,

  331. only certain people

  332. could go into.

  333. In fact,

  334. in the Holy of Holies,

  335. the most sacred place

  336. in the temple,

  337. only one person

  338. could go in there

  339. one time per year.

  340. Which means

  341. anyone involved

  342. in building that room

  343. never got to take

  344. their wife and their friends

  345. to go say,

  346. check out this work

  347. that I did here.

  348. Isn't this a great carving?

  349. Isn't this a cool sculpture?

  350. No, none of that.

  351. You can never show them

  352. what you had done,

  353. but everyone did it.

  354. Everyone joined in

  355. because they knew

  356. that their work

  357. was going towards

  358. the worship of God.

  359. Their work was not in vain.

  360. Their work was part

  361. of something bigger.

  362. Their work was part

  363. of glorifying

  364. and worshiping God.

  365. And now most of us

  366. won't be involved

  367. in something like

  368. building the temple

  369. in our lifetime.

  370. So what does this look like

  371. in a modern context?

  372. When I was a little kid,

  373. my dad actually built

  374. our house in the States.

  375. He went out to the woods,

  376. chopped down trees,

  377. milled, like literally

  378. milled the wood himself,

  379. brought it back

  380. and built it,

  381. had some friends come over

  382. to help him stand up the walls.

  383. He built it from the ground up

  384. and we moved in there

  385. when I was two years old.

  386. And over the years,

  387. in that house,

  388. my parents have raised

  389. four boys,

  390. constantly pointing us

  391. towards Jesus,

  392. constantly teaching us

  393. to love him

  394. and worship him.

  395. In that house,

  396. over the years,

  397. numerous people

  398. have come over

  399. and talked to my parents

  400. during difficult times

  401. in their life

  402. and found encouragement,

  403. found encouragement

  404. to go back to Christ

  405. in those difficult times.

  406. In that house,

  407. the kitchen has been used

  408. to cook,

  409. I can't even guess

  410. how many meals

  411. for people who are sick,

  412. for people who have

  413. just had babies,

  414. for people who are mourning.

  415. In that house,

  416. when I was about 12,

  417. we had a homeless family

  418. come live with us

  419. for six months.

  420. Literally,

  421. out of the homeless shelter,

  422. they came and took my bedroom

  423. and I had to go stay

  424. with my brothers

  425. in their bedroom.

  426. In that house,

  427. amazing ministry

  428. has happened for God

  429. over the years.

  430. Yes, my dad built the house,

  431. but I believe that God

  432. also built that house

  433. and has used it

  434. to make an impact

  435. that will last

  436. for eternity

  437. for him.

  438. But again,

  439. most of us

  440. aren't actually

  441. going to literally

  442. build our houses

  443. in Hong Kong,

  444. you know?

  445. It just doesn't happen here.

  446. But everyone has a place

  447. that we live.

  448. And what does it look like

  449. for us to use

  450. the places

  451. that God has given us

  452. for this season

  453. in our life

  454. to make

  455. an eternal impact

  456. for him?

  457. You know,

  458. I had some friends,

  459. they used to go out

  460. every Saturday night.

  461. They had a couple kids

  462. from the streets

  463. that they would bring in

  464. and these kids

  465. would spend the night

  466. at their house.

  467. My friends would give them

  468. a healthy meal to eat.

  469. My friends would hang out

  470. with these kids,

  471. teach them life skills

  472. and discipline.

  473. My friends would teach

  474. these kids about Jesus,

  475. give them a safe place

  476. to spend the night.

  477. In the morning,

  478. they would eat breakfast

  479. together,

  480. and then they would bring

  481. the kids to church.

  482. I think God built

  483. that household.

  484. God used it.

  485. Even though they were

  486. only in that apartment

  487. for a couple years,

  488. God used their time

  489. in that household.

  490. He built that house

  491. to make a difference

  492. for eternity.

  493. And the fact is

  494. that if God is not

  495. building our house,

  496. whether it's in our homes,

  497. in our businesses,

  498. in our church,

  499. those who build it

  500. labor in vain.

  501. Like I said,

  502. it's true even in the church.

  503. We can have,

  504. we could save up

  505. lots of money,

  506. build this great building,

  507. have a great speaker,

  508. and gather together

  509. to hear talks

  510. all about how great we are,

  511. and just get focused

  512. on ourselves,

  513. lose our sight

  514. for the gospel,

  515. for helping the world

  516. around us,

  517. and all the work

  518. that's gone into

  519. making this incredible,

  520. beautiful church

  521. is in vain.

  522. I don't think we're there

  523. right now at Watermark,

  524. but it very easily

  525. could happen in the future

  526. if God is not in it.

  527. And it's true

  528. not only in the church,

  529. but in our jobs.

  530. We can go to work,

  531. we can stay up

  532. all night long

  533. trying to get

  534. this deal done,

  535. trying to get

  536. the work done,

  537. anxious.

  538. It can be true

  539. what's said of us

  540. in verse 2,

  541. it's in vain

  542. that you rise up early

  543. and go late to rest

  544. eating the bread

  545. of anxious toil.

  546. How many of us

  547. does that describe

  548. staying up late

  549. because we're stressed

  550. about work

  551. and then waking up

  552. as early as we can

  553. in the morning

  554. because we feel

  555. like everything

  556. is dependent on us,

  557. the power comes

  558. from us,

  559. and the glory

  560. goes to us

  561. for a job

  562. that we're doing

  563. in vain.

  564. It says,

  565. not only unless

  566. the Lord builds

  567. the house,

  568. but unless the Lord

  569. watches over the city,

  570. the watchman

  571. stays awake

  572. in vain.

  573. We're dependent

  574. on God

  575. for getting things

  576. started and built,

  577. but we're dependent

  578. on God

  579. for them maintaining

  580. and sustaining

  581. into the future

  582. as well.

  583. You can get

  584. your house built,

  585. but if God's not

  586. watching over the city,

  587. then an entire

  588. city worth

  589. of houses

  590. can be destroyed

  591. in one night.

  592. Again,

  593. that's true

  594. for the church.

  595. We can have

  596. a healthy church

  597. today,

  598. but if God's

  599. not watching

  600. over it,

  601. giving can stop,

  602. attendance can stop,

  603. the church

  604. no longer exists.

  605. Or,

  606. giving can go up,

  607. attendance can go up,

  608. and we lose sight

  609. of the gospel,

  610. and the church

  611. continues on

  612. years and years

  613. to come,

  614. and no one's life

  615. is impacted by it.

  616. Unless the Lord

  617. watches over the city,

  618. the watchman

  619. stays awake

  620. in vain.

  621. So God expects us

  622. to work,

  623. but ultimately,

  624. every endeavor

  625. in our lives

  626. is dependent

  627. on God's work

  628. for its success

  629. or its failure.

  630. That is,

  631. our effort.

  632. Next up,

  633. our sleep.

  634. It says,

  635. in the end

  636. of verse 2,

  637. he gives

  638. to his beloved

  639. sleep.

  640. Sleep comes

  641. from our trust

  642. in God's provision.

  643. If we believe

  644. that God is a good

  645. father who loves us

  646. and takes care of us,

  647. then we will sleep.

  648. And if we don't believe

  649. that God is a good

  650. father who loves us

  651. and takes care of us,

  652. we're going to stay up

  653. all night long

  654. trying to provide

  655. for ourselves

  656. because obviously

  657. God's not going to

  658. provide for us

  659. and everything's

  660. going to go wrong

  661. if I don't.

  662. But God gives

  663. to his beloved

  664. sleep.

  665. I love the movie

  666. Gladiator.

  667. Anyone here love

  668. the movie Gladiator?

  669. Yes?

  670. Thank you.

  671. It's a great movie.

  672. If you haven't seen it,

  673. you should.

  674. In Gladiator,

  675. there's this scene.

  676. It's great.

  677. Commodus is ruling

  678. over the Roman Empire,

  679. but he's stressed.

  680. He's afraid

  681. that all of his work

  682. to take over the country

  683. is going to be in vain,

  684. that it's going to fall apart,

  685. that he's going to lose

  686. his power.

  687. It's late at night.

  688. He's wide awake,

  689. and he's standing

  690. in the doorway

  691. to his nephew's bedroom

  692. watching his nephew sleep.

  693. And his sister

  694. walks up behind him,

  695. and he turns to her,

  696. and he says,

  697. he sleeps so well

  698. because he knows

  699. that he is loved.

  700. He sleeps so well

  701. because he knows

  702. that he is loved.

  703. If we are Christians,

  704. and we have a God

  705. who takes care of us

  706. and provides for us,

  707. that's what the world

  708. should be saying about us.

  709. Those Christians,

  710. they sleep so well

  711. because they know

  712. that they're loved.

  713. If we look at this passage again,

  714. this part that says,

  715. he gives to his beloved sleep,

  716. there's actually

  717. a possible alternate translation

  718. for this line.

  719. It can,

  720. if you look at

  721. the original language,

  722. it could also be translated,

  723. he gives to his beloved

  724. in their sleep.

  725. Slight change,

  726. but a slightly different

  727. meaning as well.

  728. It's not just that

  729. God gives us sleep,

  730. but that as we sleep,

  731. God gives us all the things

  732. that we would have been

  733. stressing over

  734. if we had stayed awake.

  735. We could stay up all night

  736. stressing about

  737. whether the business deal

  738. is going to go through,

  739. or we can go to sleep.

  740. And God is capable

  741. of making that happen

  742. while we are asleep.

  743. Now, it's not going to happen

  744. every single night

  745. that amazing things happen,

  746. but God provides for us

  747. in our sleep,

  748. which is why we are able

  749. to sleep.

  750. A picture of this

  751. happens in the Bible

  752. in the book of Acts.

  753. The apostle Peter,

  754. he's arrested.

  755. He's in prison,

  756. and he's going to be executed

  757. the next day.

  758. I don't know about you,

  759. but I feel like

  760. if I was in prison

  761. about to be executed

  762. the next day,

  763. I would be awake,

  764. plotting,

  765. hey, maybe I could get

  766. this guard's key off of him

  767. while he sleeps

  768. and unlock everything.

  769. Do you think that

  770. would wake them up?

  771. Maybe.

  772. I'm not really sure,

  773. but then there's the other guard

  774. I also have to get past.

  775. What can I do?

  776. What can I do?

  777. Maybe my friends will jump me

  778. while I'm being transported

  779. tomorrow to the execution place.

  780. I'm not really sure.

  781. But Peter sleeps.

  782. The night before his execution,

  783. he is asleep.

  784. And in the middle of the night,

  785. an angel appears,

  786. his chains fall off,

  787. the prison door breaks open,

  788. and he's able to walk right out,

  789. free.

  790. Peter was able to sleep

  791. because in his sleep,

  792. God provided his rescue.

  793. God gives to his beloved

  794. in their sleep.

  795. We can sleep at night

  796. because while we sleep,

  797. God still cares for us,

  798. God still provides for us,

  799. God still takes care of us.

  800. We can stay up,

  801. anxious,

  802. stressed,

  803. worried,

  804. or we can rest,

  805. sleep,

  806. because we have a God

  807. who loves us.

  808. Looking down at verse 3,

  809. behold,

  810. children are a heritage

  811. from the Lord,

  812. the fruit of the womb,

  813. a reward.

  814. If we think about

  815. what we stress about in life,

  816. so much of it relates

  817. to kids and the future.

  818. How are their grades?

  819. Where are they going to go to school?

  820. Can we afford to have kids?

  821. Can we even have kids?

  822. But then,

  823. in the midst of all our stress,

  824. all our worry,

  825. comes the statement

  826. that God gives us kids.

  827. This happens on a physical level,

  828. that God physically gives children,

  829. and it says here

  830. that he gives them as a gift,

  831. not a burden,

  832. by the way.

  833. I think our culture often

  834. sees them as more of a burden,

  835. but it says here

  836. that they are a gift.

  837. And really,

  838. if God's big enough

  839. to give us children,

  840. then surely he's going

  841. to be big enough

  842. to provide for those children

  843. throughout their life.

  844. God gives children

  845. as a blessing for his people.

  846. If you think about the context

  847. that this was written in,

  848. this is written during

  849. the Old Testament,

  850. which means that it's,

  851. God's promises

  852. at this point in time

  853. were made to the nation of Israel

  854. through Abraham.

  855. Abraham was the founding father

  856. of the nation of Israel,

  857. if you go way,

  858. way back in time.

  859. And God made a promise

  860. to Abraham.

  861. He said that he would

  862. give him three things.

  863. He said that he would

  864. bless him,

  865. said that he would give him

  866. a land for his descendants

  867. to live in,

  868. and he said that he would

  869. give him descendants,

  870. that he would multiply him

  871. and make him into

  872. a great nation.

  873. And this promise

  874. followed the descendants

  875. down the line.

  876. If you were an Israelite

  877. and you had kids,

  878. that meant God

  879. was blessing you.

  880. God loves you.

  881. God has provided you

  882. with children.

  883. God has kept his promise

  884. to Abraham through you.

  885. If you don't have kids,

  886. maybe there's something wrong.

  887. If you don't have kids,

  888. maybe God's withholding

  889. his blessing from you.

  890. And so,

  891. what he's saying here

  892. is that kids were a sign

  893. that God was keeping

  894. his promise.

  895. Kids were a sign

  896. that God was giving

  897. his blessing.

  898. That is why kids

  899. are a heritage

  900. or an inheritance

  901. from the Lord.

  902. But what about people

  903. who can't have kids?

  904. Whether it's a married couple

  905. who's just physically

  906. unable to,

  907. or a single person

  908. who can't have kids

  909. because in obedience

  910. to God,

  911. they're living a celibate life

  912. and they can't have kids.

  913. In the New Testament,

  914. Paul talks about

  915. the advantages

  916. of a single life

  917. for a Christian.

  918. And how can it be

  919. that if children

  920. are a blessing

  921. and single people

  922. living in obedience

  923. God can't have kids,

  924. that that's a good thing?

  925. Well, if you look

  926. at these promises

  927. that God gave

  928. to Old Testament Israel,

  929. what you see

  930. is that in the New Testament,

  931. these promises

  932. are fulfilled in Christ.

  933. That through Christ,

  934. God is forming

  935. a people for himself.

  936. That through Christ,

  937. God has established

  938. a kingdom

  939. that will last forever.

  940. That through Christ,

  941. God has given

  942. his blessing

  943. to the entire world.

  944. Which means

  945. that these promises

  946. that God gave

  947. to Abraham

  948. actually still apply

  949. to Christians today,

  950. but we interpret

  951. them differently

  952. through the lens

  953. of Christ.

  954. Which means

  955. that the family of God

  956. is now

  957. a spiritual family.

  958. Yes, there's a people

  959. of God,

  960. but the thing

  961. that unites us

  962. is not our literal

  963. physical bloodlines,

  964. but the blood of Christ,

  965. our common faith

  966. in him.

  967. And so the Bible

  968. tells us

  969. that if we are Christians,

  970. we are all brothers

  971. and sisters

  972. with one another.

  973. in the book

  974. of Corinthians,

  975. Paul talks about

  976. how he became

  977. their father

  978. in Christ

  979. when he shared

  980. with them about Jesus

  981. and they trusted

  982. in him.

  983. And what the Bible

  984. tells us

  985. is that God,

  986. whether we have

  987. physical children

  988. or not,

  989. whether we're married

  990. or single,

  991. young or old,

  992. that God wants us

  993. and expects us

  994. to be spiritual parents,

  995. to be people

  996. who share his word

  997. with others

  998. so that they can

  999. come to know him,

  1000. so that they can be

  1001. brought into the family

  1002. through us.

  1003. And God gives us

  1004. children today,

  1005. physically and spiritually,

  1006. as a blessing,

  1007. as a way of

  1008. building his family,

  1009. that physical children,

  1010. yes,

  1011. but also spiritual children

  1012. are a heritage

  1013. from the Lord

  1014. because God uses us

  1015. to impact

  1016. their eternity.

  1017. and if you look at it,

  1018. it says that children

  1019. are supposed to be

  1020. arrows.

  1021. I don't know if you've

  1022. ever thought much

  1023. about arrows

  1024. and the life

  1025. of an arrow.

  1026. Arrows are made

  1027. to be sent out.

  1028. I know a lot of parents

  1029. who really want

  1030. their kids

  1031. to have a perfectly

  1032. safe life,

  1033. to stay close to home,

  1034. to be comfortable,

  1035. but God says

  1036. children are meant

  1037. to be arrows.

  1038. Arrows are weapons

  1039. used in war

  1040. and hunting.

  1041. The life of an arrow

  1042. is not a safe life.

  1043. If your goal

  1044. for your kids

  1045. is nothing more

  1046. for them to stay safe,

  1047. then I want to ask you today,

  1048. do you have the same plans

  1049. for your kids

  1050. as God does?

  1051. God wants us

  1052. to raise up children,

  1053. physically and spiritually,

  1054. who will make an impact

  1055. for him in the world.

  1056. Children who will go out

  1057. and serve in their communities,

  1058. maybe even go overseas

  1059. as missionaries.

  1060. Children who will be

  1061. lights for him,

  1062. who will be arrows

  1063. that pierce the darkness

  1064. of the world.

  1065. So if you have kids

  1066. here today,

  1067. how are you preparing

  1068. your arrows

  1069. to be released?

  1070. You know,

  1071. the amazing thing

  1072. about an arrow

  1073. is that if it's aimed

  1074. properly,

  1075. it can do great damage

  1076. to the enemy.

  1077. If it's aimed poorly,

  1078. it can do great damage

  1079. to your own side.

  1080. If you're an arrow,

  1081. or if you're a parent

  1082. here today,

  1083. and you put the same

  1084. amount of effort

  1085. into your job

  1086. as you do

  1087. into your parenting,

  1088. would you still

  1089. have a job tomorrow?

  1090. If your friends

  1091. were to watch

  1092. the way that you

  1093. interact with your family

  1094. and the way that

  1095. you lead them,

  1096. would they think

  1097. that you're more concerned

  1098. about where your kids

  1099. go to college

  1100. or where they spend

  1101. eternity?

  1102. God has given us

  1103. children as a blessing,

  1104. but he's also given us

  1105. to them as an incredible

  1106. tool to be used

  1107. for his kingdom.

  1108. And are we using

  1109. them responsibly?

  1110. And again,

  1111. just as with everything

  1112. else in life,

  1113. how our kids turn out

  1114. ultimately is dependent

  1115. on God.

  1116. But he expects us

  1117. to be working

  1118. alongside of him

  1119. to raise them up

  1120. towards him.

  1121. There's a pastor

  1122. in the States

  1123. named Matt Chandler,

  1124. and I love his description

  1125. of their parenting.

  1126. He says,

  1127. you know,

  1128. my wife and I,

  1129. we constantly

  1130. talk to our kids

  1131. about Jesus.

  1132. We bring them

  1133. to church every week,

  1134. we pray with them,

  1135. we read the Bible

  1136. with them,

  1137. but we also try

  1138. to do things

  1139. to remind them

  1140. that God is good

  1141. and that he loves them.

  1142. So when I ask my daughter

  1143. what's her favorite color

  1144. and she says pink,

  1145. I say,

  1146. do you know where

  1147. pink comes from?

  1148. And I tell her,

  1149. God made the color pink

  1150. because he loves

  1151. beautiful things

  1152. and he wants to create

  1153. a beautiful world

  1154. for you to enjoy.

  1155. Or he tells stories

  1156. about how they'd put

  1157. their kids to bed at night,

  1158. get them all settled down,

  1159. and then 10 minutes later

  1160. go back and wake the kids up

  1161. and take them out

  1162. for a late night donut run

  1163. to remind their kids

  1164. that it's not all about rules,

  1165. that we as parents love you

  1166. and even more,

  1167. God as your heavenly father

  1168. loves you.

  1169. But then he says,

  1170. after having done

  1171. everything that I possibly can

  1172. to raise my kids properly

  1173. and point them towards God,

  1174. I put them to bed

  1175. at the end of the night

  1176. and I walk around

  1177. to each of their rooms

  1178. and I beg for God

  1179. to save their souls.

  1180. He mixes his metaphors

  1181. and talks a little bit

  1182. about it like a bonfire.

  1183. He says,

  1184. what I do

  1185. is I take all this kindling

  1186. and I wood

  1187. and I pile it up

  1188. and then I douse it

  1189. with gasoline

  1190. and I pray for God

  1191. to send a spark

  1192. that will light it

  1193. so that,

  1194. but in the meantime

  1195. while I wait,

  1196. I build that pile

  1197. as big as I can

  1198. so that when the spark comes,

  1199. it will burn

  1200. as bright

  1201. and as long

  1202. as possible.

  1203. Children are a heritage

  1204. from the Lord,

  1205. a great blessing

  1206. but a great responsibility.

  1207. And again,

  1208. just like anything else,

  1209. our parenting is dependent

  1210. on God's work

  1211. but

  1212. when we've done

  1213. all that we can

  1214. to raise our kids

  1215. and point them

  1216. towards Christ,

  1217. we can go to bed

  1218. at the end of the night

  1219. and sleep

  1220. because we have

  1221. a good Father

  1222. who loves us

  1223. and cares for us

  1224. and provides for us.

  1225. So we've seen our effort,

  1226. we've seen our sleep,

  1227. finally,

  1228. our hope.

  1229. You know,

  1230. this idea of

  1231. being able to sleep

  1232. and not needing

  1233. to be anxious

  1234. and not needing

  1235. to be stressed,

  1236. it's a great idea

  1237. in theory

  1238. but is it practical?

  1239. Can we live it

  1240. in the real world?

  1241. Ultimately,

  1242. that comes down

  1243. to one question.

  1244. Is God for us

  1245. or against us?

  1246. Because if God is for us,

  1247. then we can.

  1248. We can sleep,

  1249. we can rest

  1250. because we know

  1251. that he's going to provide

  1252. and take care of us.

  1253. And if God's against us,

  1254. then we're probably

  1255. not going to succeed,

  1256. definitely won't succeed,

  1257. but we still need

  1258. to try everything

  1259. we anxiously can,

  1260. give up sleep,

  1261. to try,

  1262. try to make it work

  1263. because we don't have

  1264. a Heavenly Father

  1265. who's going to take care of us.

  1266. Is God for us

  1267. or against us?

  1268. And how can we know?

  1269. How can we know for sure

  1270. whether he is for us

  1271. or against us?

  1272. The answer comes

  1273. from the cross.

  1274. See, at the cross,

  1275. Jesus,

  1276. fully God

  1277. and fully man,

  1278. came to earth

  1279. when we were in

  1280. rebellion against God,

  1281. when we had said to God,

  1282. we hate you,

  1283. we want nothing

  1284. to do with you,

  1285. stay away from us,

  1286. let us live our lives

  1287. the way that we want,

  1288. we had declared ourselves

  1289. as enemies against God

  1290. and we were deserving

  1291. of his destruction.

  1292. Jesus came down

  1293. to the earth

  1294. as fully God

  1295. and fully man

  1296. and he bore

  1297. all of the punishment

  1298. that we deserve

  1299. for our rebellion

  1300. at the cost

  1301. of his own life.

  1302. At the cross,

  1303. God provided

  1304. for our greatest need

  1305. at the greatest cost

  1306. possible

  1307. to himself.

  1308. And if God

  1309. is going

  1310. to provide

  1311. for our greatest need

  1312. at the greatest cost

  1313. possible to himself,

  1314. then surely

  1315. he's going to provide

  1316. for all of our other needs

  1317. as well.

  1318. Romans chapter 8

    Romans 8:31

  1319. verses 31

  1320. and 32

  1321. says,

  1322. if God is for us,

  1323. who can be

  1324. against us?

  1325. He who did not

  1326. spare his own son

  1327. but gave him up

  1328. for us all,

  1329. how will he not

  1330. also with him

  1331. graciously give us

  1332. all things?

  1333. Modern translation,

  1334. if God loved us

  1335. enough to give up

  1336. his son for us,

  1337. he's going to love us

  1338. enough to give up

  1339. anything else for us

  1340. that we possibly

  1341. could need.

  1342. If you have kids,

  1343. think about this

  1344. for a second.

  1345. How many people

  1346. on earth are there

  1347. that you would

  1348. sacrifice your

  1349. child's life

  1350. to save?

  1351. I'm guessing

  1352. for most of you

  1353. that list is like

  1354. zero,

  1355. maybe one.

  1356. But you think

  1357. about whoever

  1358. possibly made

  1359. that list

  1360. of people

  1361. that you would

  1362. sacrifice your

  1363. child's life

  1364. to save.

  1365. If that person

  1366. came up to you

  1367. and asked you

  1368. for a meal,

  1369. would you say

  1370. no to them?

  1371. Of course not.

  1372. You love them

  1373. enough to give up

  1374. the most valuable

  1375. thing in the world

  1376. to you,

  1377. you're going to

  1378. give them a meal,

  1379. you're going to

  1380. give them a place

  1381. to stay,

  1382. because you love

  1383. them,

  1384. because you care

  1385. for them.

  1386. God gave up

  1387. his son

  1388. for us.

  1389. He's going to

  1390. provide everything

  1391. else that we

  1392. need.

  1393. And,

  1394. you know,

  1395. I talked earlier

  1396. about if God

  1397. doesn't build

  1398. the church,

  1399. you know,

  1400. in addition,

  1401. God has promised

  1402. to build the

  1403. church as well.

  1404. Now,

  1405. it's not a

  1406. categorical promise

  1407. that watermark's

  1408. just going to

  1409. exist forever,

  1410. but it means

  1411. that while we're

  1412. here,

  1413. the things that

  1414. we're doing

  1415. for God's

  1416. kingdom are

  1417. going to have

  1418. an eternal

  1419. impact,

  1420. that God's

  1421. going to use

  1422. the preaching

  1423. of his word

  1424. and the lives

  1425. that we live,

  1426. to spread

  1427. his kingdom

  1428. in the earth.

  1429. So what

  1430. difference does

  1431. this make

  1432. in our lives?

  1433. If you're not

  1434. a Christian,

  1435. trust in Jesus.

  1436. You know,

  1437. these things that

  1438. I've been saying

  1439. about how God

  1440. loves us,

  1441. how God gave

  1442. up his son

  1443. for us,

  1444. how God is

  1445. on our side

  1446. and not against

  1447. us,

  1448. if we are

  1449. still declaring

  1450. ourselves as

  1451. enemies against

  1452. God by refusing

  1453. to trust in

  1454. Jesus,

  1455. then God

  1456. says,

  1457. okay,

  1458. you're still

  1459. enemies.

  1460. But he still

  1461. wants us

  1462. to be his

  1463. children and

  1464. his friends

  1465. and he offers

  1466. us today

  1467. that if you

  1468. have never

  1469. trusted in

  1470. Jesus to

  1471. forgive you

  1472. for your

  1473. rebellion against

  1474. God,

  1475. that you can

  1476. have forgiveness,

  1477. you can have

  1478. new life,

  1479. all you have

  1480. to do is

  1481. ask.

  1482. So if you

  1483. have never

  1484. done that

  1485. before,

  1486. I encourage

  1487. you to do

  1488. that today.

  1489. And if

  1490. you're here

  1491. and you

  1492. are a

  1493. Christian,

  1494. if you

  1495. trust in

  1496. this God

  1497. who is so

  1498. big,

  1499. so loving,

  1500. so powerful,

  1501. what difference

  1502. does this make

  1503. in our lives?

  1504. Let's sleep

  1505. this week.

  1506. You know,

  1507. we say we

  1508. worship a God

  1509. who's all

  1510. powerful,

  1511. who loves

  1512. us,

  1513. who provides

  1514. for us,

  1515. even when

  1516. we sleep,

  1517. and yet for

  1518. so many of

  1519. us,

  1520. we stay up

  1521. late,

  1522. we stay up

  1523. anxious and

  1524. stressed.

  1525. but this

  1526. week,

  1527. let's view

  1528. climbing into

  1529. bed as an

  1530. act of

  1531. worship.

  1532. Probably never

  1533. thought of it

  1534. that way before,

  1535. but let's view

  1536. climbing into

  1537. bed as an

  1538. act of

  1539. worship.

  1540. It's an

  1541. intentional

  1542. step where

  1543. we can say,

  1544. God,

  1545. I know there's

  1546. more I can

  1547. do.

  1548. I know there's

  1549. more I could

  1550. stress out about

  1551. and be anxious

  1552. about.

  1553. I know I could

  1554. stay up later

  1555. and do more

  1556. work,

  1557. but I'm

  1558. trusting in

  1559. you,

  1560. and I'm

  1561. climbing into

  1562. bed.

  1563. I'm going

  1564. to get a

  1565. good night's

  1566. sleep because

  1567. I know,

  1568. God,

  1569. that you are

  1570. a good

  1571. father who

  1572. loves me,

  1573. who cares

  1574. for me,

  1575. who's on

  1576. my side,

  1577. and who

  1578. provides for

  1579. me.

  1580. Let's pray.

  1581. Father,

  1582. we thank you

  1583. that you are

  1584. a good

  1585. father.

  1586. We thank you

  1587. that in the

  1588. times where

  1589. we turn to

  1590. stress,

  1591. when we turn

  1592. to anxiety,

  1593. that you're

  1594. there,

  1595. and you're

  1596. aware of

  1597. everything that's

  1598. going on in

  1599. our hearts,

  1600. in our minds,

  1601. and in the

  1602. world around

  1603. us,

  1604. and that you

  1605. care.

  1606. We thank you

  1607. that you have

  1608. provided for our

  1609. greatest need at

  1610. the greatest

  1611. possible cost to

  1612. yourself that there

  1613. is,

  1614. and that you've

  1615. promised to

  1616. provide for all

  1617. of our other

  1618. needs as well.

  1619. We pray that we

  1620. be a church that

  1621. trusts that,

  1622. that is able to

  1623. sleep,

  1624. sleeping so well

  1625. because we know

  1626. that we are

  1627. loved.

  1628. Thank you that

  1629. you're good.

  1630. We thank you

  1631. that you love

  1632. us.

  1633. In Jesus' name,

  1634. amen.