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Worship in All Circumstances: Praise

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  1. Good morning.

  2. Oh, that's about as good as the weather.

  3. Good morning.

  4. Good morning.

  5. That's better.

  6. My name's Chris.

  7. For those of you who don't know me, I'm on the pastoral staff here.

  8. And I'm just, it's great for me just seeing people kind of coming back from holiday.

  9. Some of you have been away.

  10. I know some of you are heading off.

  11. But there's something about being part of a church, I think, which, you know this, we don't go to church, right?

  12. We don't go to church.

  13. We are the church.

  14. You know that?

  15. We are the church.

  16. Which means that when we come together, this is only 20% of what we are as a church.

  17. Sunday is only 20% of actually everything we do as a church.

  18. Because there are community groups.

  19. There are things that people are doing throughout the week.

  20. St. Barnabas, connecting with youth.

  21. There's lots of things that are going on in the church.

  22. Because church is not just a meeting.

  23. It's the people.

  24. And it's a people who are gathered in the name of a God who is worthy to be praised.

  25. And today we're going to talk about praise.

  26. And this morning my goal is very simple, really.

  27. I want to lead us to praise.

  28. I want to lead us to praise.

  29. To praise God.

  30. Not to praise me.

  31. Not to praise anybody else.

  32. But to praise the one who is worthy of praise.

  33. Maybe if you just bow your head in prayer for a second.

  34. Father, this for me is a huge topic where I feel inadequate.

  35. I don't have words.

  36. I don't see just how great you are.

  37. But I pray this morning you would open my eyes.

  38. You would open our eyes to see you.

  39. To see your greatness.

  40. To see and to praise the one who is worthy to be praised this morning.

  41. In your name.

  42. Amen.

  43. Amen.

  44. So we're finishing off today.

  45. We've been looking at a series in the Psalms.

  46. And if you've been here, if you've not been here, we've been going for about eight weeks

  47. looking at how we worship in all seasons of life.

  48. Today it seems like we've got one season outside.

  49. There are different seasons that we go through.

  50. And the Psalms kind of take you on this journey.

  51. On this kind of roller coaster of emotions.

  52. Going from happiness that we talked about right at the beginning.

  53. And then going through all this fear, awe, stress, worry.

  54. And it's just this cycle of life that all of us, I think, can relate to.

  55. Particularly in Hong Kong.

  56. Things are constantly changing.

  57. Everything's constantly happening.

  58. We go up and we go down.

  59. The weather goes up and we go down.

  60. And that's what life is like.

  61. And the Psalms are here to teach us in the roller coaster of life how to worship God.

  62. And the really interesting thing about the Psalms is this.

  63. The Psalms are explicitly organized with a trajectory.

  64. There is a direction to the Psalms.

  65. Because they go through all of this stuff in life.

  66. There's 144 Psalms they go through.

  67. And then the last five Psalms end with praise.

  68. And that is deliberate.

  69. It's deliberate.

  70. Because the Psalms are trying to point you to the fact that whatever season you're going through.

  71. Whatever circumstance you're facing.

  72. Whatever is happening moment by moment.

  73. Everything that God brings into your life is ultimately always meant to lead you to praise.

  74. That's the purpose of it all.

  75. And so today I want to look at three just very simple things to kind of talk about this.

  76. I want to talk about we praise greatness.

  77. We praise greatness.

  78. But we often live, secondly, with copy greatness.

  79. We praise greatness.

  80. We live with copy greatness.

  81. And then thirdly, the greatness of God's grace.

  82. Okay?

  83. So that's where we're going.

  84. Three things.

  85. But before we kind of get into this passage, I just want to say something about praise.

  86. Did you know the reason God created you, the reason he chose you, if you're a Christian, the Bible says, is he chose you to praise him.

  87. In Ephesians 1, it says, in love, in love, God predestined you.

  88. That means he thought about you and he chose you.

  89. If you were a Christian, he chose you before he made anything else for adoption as sons.

  90. That means he brought you into his family, into relationship with him through Jesus Christ.

  91. And it then says, according to the purpose of his will.

  92. If you want to know what God's will is, here it is.

  93. The purpose of his will is that you and I and this church is to be for the praise of his glorious grace.

  94. That's the whole deal.

  95. That's why you and I were created.

  96. The reason that you breathe today is to the praise of his glorious grace.

  97. The reason God has given some of you kids is to the praise of his glorious grace.

  98. The reason you have a job, the reason you're single, the reason you're married, the reason we have air conditioning is for the praise of his glorious grace.

  99. That's the deal.

  100. That's why God created us.

  101. Now, I don't know about you, but I've thought about that, and that sounds a little egocentric of God.

  102. I mean, how can a God who says he's so great, he needs nothing, and then turn around and say, well, you've got to praise me, and even creates us to praise him.

  103. That sounds a little bit like what C.S. Lewis said, like an old, vain woman seeking compliments.

  104. Doesn't it?

  105. But C.S. Lewis goes on to say, and I'm going to quote along this passage, but this is very, very perceptive.

  106. What C.S. Lewis says,

  107. He says,

  108. He says,

  109. Isn't she lovely?

  110. Wasn't it glorious?

  111. Don't you think that magnificent?

  112. The Psalms, in telling everyone to praise God, are doing what all men do when they speak of what they care about.

  113. Do you get what he's saying?

  114. He's saying this.

  115. He's saying this.

  116. He's saying this.

  117. God made you and me to praise him because he is the most valuable.

  118. He is the most praiseworthy.

  119. He is the greatest, most satisfying joy, and he wants us to find enjoyment in him because that is most satisfying.

  120. Because what is the most great and valuable thing that you can think of in this world?

  121. Because anything you can think of where you put God in the category and he always comes out better.

  122. That's why he says, I want you to praise me.

  123. But what is praise?

  124. What is praise?

  125. Praise is exalting, boasting of, speaking highly of deep down what you think is great.

  126. It's our natural response to greatness.

  127. I don't know what you praise on a regular basis.

  128. You know, this week I've been watching the Olympics.

  129. And there's been a certain amount of praise coming out from my mouth because Britain is second in the medal table.

  130. And my wife is Chinese and we're beating them.

  131. And that's a great source of joy for me.

  132. But we praise what we think is valuable and great.

  133. You know, Usain Bolt, the 100 meter winner, one of the greatest athletes.

  134. Do you know what he said yesterday?

  135. After he won his ninth gold medal, he said, there you go.

  136. I'm the greatest.

  137. Now, what is he doing?

  138. He's praising what he thinks is great himself.

  139. Right?

  140. And that's what we do all the time.

  141. You know, I've been praising Britain for winning the medals.

  142. You know, I'm praising greatness.

  143. When I hear people talking about how many steps they did on their Fitbit,

  144. they're praising their greatness if it's more than 5,000.

  145. But here when we come to this psalm, David, who writes this psalm, is the king of Israel.

  146. He's the greatest king that Israel ever had.

  147. And when you look at this, he could have said, I am the greatest, and everyone would have agreed with him.

  148. But look at the first line.

  149. Take your bulletin out.

  150. Follow along.

  151. I'm not going to go verse by verse, but I want you to pick out some key verses here.

  152. First verse, he says, I will extol you, not me, you, my God and king.

  153. He's saying, I'm not the center of this.

  154. My greatness is not from me.

  155. It is a gift from a king who is greater.

  156. The true king of Israel.

  157. God himself.

  158. That's the true great king.

  159. And godly praise always flows out of this humility of recognizing where you stand before God.

  160. And then, when you do that, praise begins to overflow when you see who God really is.

  161. I mean, just skim over this psalm from me.

  162. Because this psalm, he's not just telling you to praise.

  163. It's like an overflow of praise.

  164. Look at the verbs for the speeches.

  165. He says, verse 1, I will extol you, bless you.

  166. Verse 2, commend your works, declare your mighty acts.

  167. Then, verse 5, meditate on your glorious splendor.

  168. I'll speak of the might of your awesome deeds.

  169. Declare your greatness.

  170. That's verse 6.

  171. Pour forth the fame of your abundant goodness.

  172. Sing aloud of your righteousness.

  173. That's verse 7.

  174. Give thanks to you.

  175. Verse 10, bless you.

  176. Speak of the glory of your kingdom.

  177. Tell of your power.

  178. Verse 11, make known your mighty deeds.

  179. Verse 12, this is joy that is overflowing.

  180. He can't hold his mouth.

  181. It's got to come out.

  182. Now, this isn't a man like me who, you know, I've been in church a while.

  183. And I've been taught certain things about praying.

  184. I don't know if any of you have heard the kind of ACTS acronym for how to pray.

  185. It kind of goes adoration, confession, thanksgiving, supplication.

  186. And so what I have often done, I've kind of tried that.

  187. And I kind of sit down and I go, okay, now I've got to adore God.

  188. And I'm like, okay, God, you're good.

  189. God, you're great.

  190. God, you're kind.

  191. I'm getting hungry.

  192. But God, you're loving.

  193. I think I better go on to confession now.

  194. That's often what praise has looked like in my life.

  195. But the words in verse 7, pour forth,

  196. that word, I will pour forth the fame of your abundant goodness,

  197. that word literally means bubbles up.

  198. It's like, you know when you turn on the shower,

  199. and you hold the shower head,

  200. and if you try and block some of the holes in the shower,

  201. water just gushes out of another hole.

  202. You block another hole, water just kind of comes out.

  203. You just can't stop it.

  204. It's bubbling forth.

  205. It's irrepressible.

  206. It's unstoppable.

  207. There's this cascade of praise, he's saying.

  208. It just bubbles up from within you.

  209. That's a man who is intoxicated with God.

  210. He's captivated by him.

  211. He's not going through some kind of religious ritual,

  212. like I've got to praise.

  213. This is overflowing.

  214. This is from the heart.

  215. Because he's captivated by God, who he is, and what he's done.

  216. I don't know if you noticed how many times he talks about things like wondrous works,

  217. mighty acts, awesome deeds.

  218. I mean, it just repeats it again and again and again.

  219. You think he's like, what are you on?

  220. But because when David thought of mighty acts and awesome deeds, he thought of a couple of things.

  221. Because every Jew would think like this.

  222. God's awesome acts and mighty deeds were shown in creation.

  223. Because God creates and sustains everything.

  224. If you look out when you walk down, and you can't see it well today, but you look out on creation,

  225. you see the handwork of someone awesome.

  226. Creation.

  227. Redemption is the other thing that you would see with God's mighty acts.

  228. But I want to just think about creation to start with.

  229. And I thought about this, but I don't have adequate words to describe the greatness of God in creation.

  230. I just don't.

  231. When it says God's greatness is unsearchable,

  232. it means you can't Google it and find the answer.

  233. You have to look at it.

  234. You have to meditate on it.

  235. You have to consider it and just look in wonder.

  236. And so that's what I'd like us to do now for a minute.

  237. There's a great video that Francis Chan has, or pastor, has put together.

  238. And I just want to show you this.

  239. I hope the quality is okay.

  240. I want to show you this.

  241. And I want you just to look at it.

  242. And I want you to think, what does this tell me about God?

  243. What about what you're seeing right now?

  244. First of all, this is the Earth.

  245. Okay?

  246. Then just take it off from the Earth from Southern California.

  247. We're going to rise out for a little bit here.

  248. Okay?

  249. We're going to pull away from it.

  250. We're going to pull higher.

  251. Now this is at about 10 kilometers.

  252. Like if you climb Mount Everest, this is what you'd see.

  253. You'd see the curvature of the Earth from that distance.

  254. Now you're going to climb even higher.

  255. This is at 100 kilometers.

  256. And you're a fourth of the way to the space station now.

  257. This is what you'd see.

  258. If you get to this level, you're going to insert an astronaut.

  259. Get right there.

  260. Okay?

  261. Now we're going 100,000 kilometers.

  262. 100,000 kilometers.

  263. If you're a fourth of the way to the Moon, that's what the Earth will look like.

  264. Now we're going to pull away to a million kilometers.

  265. At a million kilometers, there's the Moon.

  266. Okay?

  267. There's what you'd be really seeing there.

  268. There are a million kilometers now.

  269. You're past the Moon.

  270. And now we're going to go to 100,000,000 kilometers.

  271. 100,000,000 kilometers.

  272. There's still left to the Sun.

  273. The Sun is not in three million kilometers.

  274. Okay?

  275. But now we're going to go to 10,000,000,000 kilometers.

  276. Okay?

  277. There's the Sun.

  278. Okay?

  279. It just passed the Sun.

  280. Now we can see all of the planets.

  281. 10,000,000,000 kilometers.

  282. And now we're at 10 to the 15th power.

  283. I mean, it's 10 to the 15 zeros.

  284. I don't know what I'm saying.

  285. 15 zeros.

  286. And the Sun's like a bright dawn on the other stars.

  287. And now we're going to 10 light years away.

  288. 10 light years away.

  289. And there you go.

  290. 10 light years away.

  291. Now you can see the Sun.

  292. And by the 1100 stars, they're kind of the same person.

  293. You know, that's our Sun.

  294. And now we're going to go a thousand light years away.

  295. A thousand light years away.

  296. You wouldn't see our Sun anymore.

  297. These are just a bunch of stars close to it.

  298. That's a cluster inside the Milky Way.

  299. Now we're going to do now even further.

  300. And that's the Milky Way we live in.

  301. See that cluster of stars?

  302. Those are about 100,000 stars that are closest to us.

  303. We can't serve Sun anymore this morning.

  304. Now it's our Milky Way down.

  305. We forget about here.

  306. Okay, there's our Milky Way galaxy that we live in.

  307. And we're just buried in there somewhere.

  308. And we're going to pull out even further.

  309. And you'll see that our galaxy is actually, it's a big galaxy.

  310. And almost other things that you're seeing now are galaxies.

  311. And we're going to pull away 10 million light years now.

  312. The next thing is 10 million light years.

  313. Those are all galaxies you see.

  314. Amidst our million away.

  315. Several hundred galaxies.

  316. Now we're going to go 100 million light years away.

  317. It's the last one.

  318. And zoom out to 100 million light years.

  319. Those are all clusters of galaxies.

  320. Galaxies and clusters of galaxies.

  321. You wouldn't even see how Milky Way galaxy anymore.

  322. It's that.

  323. We don't have telescopes that go beyond that.

  324. That little sphere there.

  325. What you're seeing right now.

  326. First of all, this is the earth.

  327. Okay?

  328. And then just take it off from the earth.

  329. Southern Cal.

  330. Does that give us a little perspective?

  331. When it says your greatness is unsearchable.

  332. And it says God is the creator.

  333. Do you begin to see why we should praise him?

  334. Because if God is that great,

  335. why is my life not more filled with praise?

  336. I narrow my life down to a very small perspective.

  337. But God is great and greatly to be praised.

  338. When you see that kind of majesty,

  339. and yet that is the God who is our God,

  340. who can create all of that.

  341. And he's not even in the picture.

  342. He's further beyond that.

  343. Doesn't that make you wonder?

  344. Yeah.

  345. So I want to ask us a question.

  346. Why would I ever think that God was my personal assistant

  347. to simply tap on my needs

  348. and supply everything that I want just for me?

  349. Why would I ever do that

  350. when that is the God that we serve?

  351. I want to move on to think about why it is that,

  352. if I'm honest,

  353. I often don't live my life with that kind of perspective.

  354. I want to talk about copy greatness.

  355. We praise what we think is great,

  356. but there is something that I call copy greatness.

  357. David says in verse 3,

  358. every day I will bless you.

  359. Every day I will bless you.

  360. On your wondrous works,

  361. I will meditate.

  362. And yet,

  363. how often is that true of me?

  364. Because I don't know if you ever walk down Nathan Road

  365. in Simpshire Joy.

  366. If you walk down there,

  367. you have a load of guys

  368. who every time I walk past

  369. are always saying,

  370. copy watch,

  371. copy watch,

  372. Rolex,

  373. cheap price,

  374. copy watch.

  375. And

  376. I think

  377. every day we are bombarded

  378. by what I call copy greatness.

  379. because copy whatever

  380. is always an inferior version of the real thing.

  381. It's always an inferior version of the real thing.

  382. And I get so focused on copy greatness

  383. because we've forgotten there is an original.

  384. How does this work?

  385. One of the main reasons

  386. I think I don't overflow with praise in my life

  387. is because I think the world revolves around me,

  388. to be honest.

  389. It should do.

  390. I'm great.

  391. At least

  392. I'm so focused in my mind.

  393. I don't know if you get like this.

  394. I do.

  395. I'm just so focused in my mind.

  396. I'm wrapped up in the week.

  397. My mind's going.

  398. All the time revolved around my plans,

  399. the things I want to fix,

  400. the things I want to sort out in my world.

  401. And it kind of,

  402. everything kind of shrinks down

  403. to my little world

  404. that I'm trying to manage.

  405. My little problems,

  406. my things that are going on.

  407. And that's why I stress.

  408. That's why I fear.

  409. That's why I worry.

  410. Because,

  411. I mean,

  412. does anyone know what I'm talking about?

  413. Because this,

  414. the world is kind of this,

  415. and I've got to handle it.

  416. Because I've got to make sure that I'm great.

  417. And I can't even handle my own world.

  418. But I don't know what's been running through your mind this week.

  419. What's been stressing you out this week?

  420. I don't know whether it's deadlines,

  421. whether it's job decisions,

  422. whether it's kids,

  423. whether it's Pokemon Go.

  424. I don't know what it is.

  425. But,

  426. how much of what stresses you out

  427. in the light of a God

  428. who really is eternal,

  429. the Bible says,

  430. everlasting,

  431. His kingdom is from everlasting to everlasting.

  432. That's a long time.

  433. How significant is what I stress about

  434. compared to that?

  435. But I do.

  436. Louis,

  437. Louis XIV,

  438. was the greatest king of France.

  439. He proclaimed,

  440. I am the state.

  441. Everyone had to call him Louis the Great.

  442. He was the greatest celebrity of the time.

  443. He built huge palaces.

  444. I don't know if you've been to Versailles,

  445. any of you.

  446. I studied just outside of there for a year.

  447. It's an extraordinary place.

  448. He constructed monuments in his honor.

  449. He'd have his own TV show if he was here today.

  450. And he wanted his funeral to be as dramatic as his life was.

  451. Do you know what he did?

  452. He ordered,

  453. for his funeral,

  454. he ordered the lights in the cathedral to be dimmed.

  455. Okay?

  456. And one giant candle,

  457. like a shining star,

  458. to be placed on his coffin,

  459. which was made of gold.

  460. His gold coffin,

  461. and his candle to be there,

  462. so that he would be the centerpiece.

  463. He would be the one lighting up the cathedral.

  464. Because he wanted everyone to focus on him.

  465. The funeral came,

  466. the candles there,

  467. thousands were in the cathedral,

  468. all struck at this incredible event.

  469. And the bishop,

  470. Bishop Marion,

  471. stood up

  472. to give the sermon.

  473. And then he did something

  474. which was not in the script.

  475. He went over

  476. to the coffin,

  477. and he snuffed out the candle.

  478. And then he said these words,

  479. As the cathedral was in darkness,

  480. my brothers,

  481. only God is great.

  482. Because you see,

  483. Louis XIV had lived a lifetime

  484. trying to make his self,

  485. his things,

  486. the center of the world.

  487. Trying to make him

  488. the main thing.

  489. And you know,

  490. in the light of true greatness,

  491. it's just snuffed out

  492. in an instant.

  493. So I don't know about you,

  494. how do you try

  495. and make yourself great?

  496. You probably don't even

  497. think about it like that.

  498. But where in your thought life

  499. are you the one

  500. who is the center of attention?

  501. I don't know if you ever

  502. daydream.

  503. But if you daydream

  504. and fantasize

  505. about the kind of

  506. the life you'd like to have,

  507. what you'd like to have,

  508. have you ever noticed

  509. that you're the one

  510. who's usually the hero

  511. of the story?

  512. It's your kingdom

  513. that you're trying to build.

  514. Ever notice that?

  515. I don't daydream about

  516. everyone else getting the glory.

  517. It's always me.

  518. Why?

  519. Because I live with

  520. a copy greatness

  521. where I want the praise

  522. to come to me.

  523. when you think about

  524. your thoughts

  525. and your plans,

  526. what is the candle

  527. that you are lighting?

  528. Is it a candle

  529. to yourself

  530. or it is a candle

  531. to the one

  532. who is

  533. a floodlight,

  534. not just a little candle?

  535. Because at the end of the day,

  536. copy greatness

  537. always gets exposed

  538. as fake.

  539. Always gets exposed

  540. as fake.

  541. So now,

  542. I just want us

  543. to think about that.

  544. We were made

  545. for the praise

  546. of something great.

  547. We are the ones

  548. who try

  549. and shrink

  550. our world

  551. down to a little

  552. claustrophobic

  553. kind of center

  554. of us

  555. and our little issues.

  556. But I want to talk about,

  557. thirdly,

  558. the greatness

  559. of God's grace.

  560. the passage

  561. that we read

  562. says,

  563. the Lord is gracious

  564. and merciful,

  565. slow to anger

  566. and abounding

  567. in steadfast love.

  568. The second thing

  569. that a Jew

  570. would remember

  571. when they talk

  572. about

  573. the wondrous works

  574. and the splendor

  575. of God

  576. would be

  577. redemption.

  578. God's great deliverance

  579. out of Egypt.

  580. God's setting

  581. people free

  582. by his mercy

  583. and his grace.

  584. That's what a Jew

  585. would remember

  586. when he heard this.

  587. But when we live

  588. with copy greatness

  589. we forget.

  590. We forget

  591. God's greatness

  592. in creation.

  593. We forget

  594. God's mercy

  595. in redemption.

  596. Because

  597. basically

  598. I think

  599. most of life

  600. I don't actually think

  601. I'm trying to make

  602. myself great.

  603. I don't.

  604. I'm just getting on

  605. with life.

  606. Like when I was teaching

  607. I was trying to be

  608. a good teacher.

  609. Okay,

  610. I was doing it

  611. for the student

  612. and I'd love the compliments.

  613. You know,

  614. it kind of strokes your ego

  615. when someone says,

  616. hey then,

  617. you were just the most

  618. amazing teacher ever.

  619. You know,

  620. and I'd like that

  621. and say,

  622. no, no, no,

  623. it's fine.

  624. No, no, no.

  625. But you know,

  626. really say more,

  627. please.

  628. You know,

  629. but you know,

  630. and we all like that,

  631. don't we?

  632. We all like it

  633. when someone approves of you

  634. and someone says,

  635. kind of strokes your back

  636. and gives you a little

  637. tap on the back.

  638. We all like that.

  639. But you know,

  640. I thought I was still

  641. trying to honour God

  642. in my life

  643. and trying to follow him

  644. and I knew the doctrine

  645. of God's grace

  646. and all that kind of stuff.

  647. You know,

  648. but I'm more and more

  649. convinced now

  650. that actually much of

  651. what I do

  652. is actually more

  653. about me

  654. trying to make myself

  655. greater than I am

  656. and less about

  657. just Christ

  658. in things

  659. because I deceive myself

  660. all the time.

  661. Much of what I do

  662. is like this.

  663. Much of what I do

  664. is about showing

  665. how great

  666. my wondrous works are

  667. and wanting the praise

  668. from people around me.

  669. because the thing is

  670. when you find

  671. your identity

  672. and your performance

  673. and that's your

  674. wondrous works,

  675. what happens is

  676. in verse 12

  677. it says,

  678. the eyes of all

  679. look to you

  680. to give them their food

  681. at the proper time

  682. or in due season.

  683. But when you're looking

  684. for your own greatness,

  685. you don't see God

  686. as a source of grace.

  687. God is the source

  688. of the one

  689. who gives you everything.

  690. You think it's your

  691. hard work that got it.

  692. You think it was

  693. your performance

  694. that made it.

  695. You think that

  696. because I've been so busy

  697. I managed to put food

  698. or whatever it is

  699. on the table.

  700. I did it.

  701. I'm not perfect

  702. but I'm kind of great.

  703. And we don't overflow

  704. with constant praise

  705. of God

  706. because we don't see

  707. God's grace

  708. in his provision

  709. and we live

  710. under this delusion

  711. that we are great

  712. until something happens.

  713. Failure.

  714. Failure is one

  715. of God's greatest gifts.

  716. I hate it.

  717. I hate failing.

  718. But failure is one

  719. of God's greatest gifts

  720. to expose

  721. your copy greatness

  722. and to lead you back

  723. to opening your eyes

  724. to seeing what is original

  725. and true

  726. and real greatness.

  727. Because what failure does,

  728. I don't know

  729. if you've experienced

  730. real failure.

  731. But when failure

  732. comes,

  733. it strips away

  734. from you

  735. everything that you

  736. had based your sense

  737. of greatness on.

  738. Right?

  739. You know when you're made

  740. to feel that small

  741. because you've made a mistake,

  742. you've done something

  743. before other people,

  744. you know,

  745. whether it's

  746. you failed in your morality,

  747. you failed in your religiosity,

  748. you failed at your work performance,

  749. you failed at being

  750. a good parent,

  751. you failed at being

  752. the child that you should have been,

  753. whatever it is,

  754. when you get to that

  755. you can feel like

  756. about that big

  757. and it strips you

  758. of that idea

  759. that actually

  760. I was pretty good anyway.

  761. Right?

  762. Anyone know

  763. what I'm talking about here?

  764. J.K. Rowling,

  765. Harry Potter,

  766. in a Harvard commencement speech,

  767. she said

  768. of her failed marriage

  769. being a single mother

  770. and living in absolute poverty

  771. because she became famous.

  772. Said,

  773. failure meant

  774. a stripping away

  775. of what was inessential.

  776. I stopped pretending

  777. to myself

  778. that I was anything

  779. other than what I was.

  780. How does this connect

  781. to grace

  782. and God's grace?

  783. Well,

  784. verse 14,

  785. it says,

  786. the Lord upholds

  787. all who fall.

  788. Or as one preacher put it,

  789. those who are apt

  790. to fall.

  791. The Lord upholds,

  792. that means carries,

  793. lifts up,

  794. those who are apt

  795. to fall,

  796. who fall.

  797. Why does David

  798. in a psalm of praise

  799. write that?

  800. Because David knows

  801. what it is

  802. to fail

  803. and to fall.

  804. You know,

  805. he was an adulterer,

  806. a murderer.

  807. He was a failure

  808. as a father.

  809. His whole family

  810. became so broken

  811. that there was rape,

  812. there was murder,

  813. his own son

  814. tried to kill him.

  815. They were just copying

  816. what he had done.

  817. I mean,

  818. he was a failure.

  819. He knew

  820. what it was to fall

  821. and there was

  822. a shame on him.

  823. But just before David,

  824. at the same time of day,

  825. there was another king,

  826. a king called Saul.

  827. Saul also knew failure.

  828. He disobeyed.

  829. In 1 Samuel 15,

  830. God commands him

  831. to go and destroy

  832. an army,

  833. get rid of everything,

  834. don't keep anything

  835. for yourself.

  836. So what Saul does,

  837. he goes down,

  838. he defeats the whole army

  839. but he keeps the best animals

  840. for himself.

  841. And then he goes off

  842. and he builds a little monument

  843. to his own greatness.

  844. And then Samuel comes back

  845. and says,

  846. hey, what's going on here?

  847. And Saul's like,

  848. yeah, it's great,

  849. I've obeyed God,

  850. you know,

  851. I've disfeated the army

  852. and Samuel says,

  853. I'm sorry,

  854. but why have you disobeyed God?

  855. And Saul's kind of

  856. going in denial,

  857. he's saying,

  858. but I did obey God,

  859. I did obey,

  860. the animals here,

  861. they're all for sacrifice

  862. to God.

  863. And Samuel's not having

  864. any of it

  865. and Samuel says to him,

  866. you have disobeyed God

  867. and then Saul's like,

  868. no, no, no,

  869. it wasn't me,

  870. it was all my soldiers,

  871. they took it,

  872. it wasn't me,

  873. they took all the stuff,

  874. it wasn't me

  875. and he blames them.

  876. And then Samuel says to him,

  877. hey, listen,

  878. God's going to snuff out

  879. your candle

  880. and your kingdom

  881. and suddenly Saul

  882. is like,

  883. oops.

  884. And then he becomes,

  885. feels guilty,

  886. he's got caught,

  887. he's like an American swimmer

  888. issuing an apology

  889. and he says,

  890. please forgive me

  891. but now honor me now

  892. so that all the elders

  893. will like kind of,

  894. I won't lose face

  895. in front of everybody else,

  896. kind of,

  897. I want to have respect,

  898. I know I've done something

  899. a bit naughty

  900. but I want to keep face

  901. in front of everybody.

  902. Everything Saul did,

  903. even his own apology

  904. for his own greatness

  905. to make himself look good

  906. in other people's eyes,

  907. what David did

  908. was different.

  909. There is something

  910. that is very different

  911. between David and Saul

  912. because I don't know

  913. if you know,

  914. David throughout the whole

  915. of the rest of the Bible

  916. is called God's man.

  917. He is exalted

  918. actually in the Bible

  919. not because he was great

  920. but because he knew

  921. a God who was great.

  922. Saul is hardly mentioned

  923. anywhere else

  924. in the rest of the Bible.

  925. Hardly anywhere else

  926. in the rest of the Bible.

  927. Why is that?

  928. Well,

  929. when you see

  930. your failure,

  931. your sin,

  932. the mistakes

  933. that you make,

  934. you can respond

  935. in one of two ways.

  936. One will lead you

  937. either to try

  938. and keep making

  939. your own greatness great,

  940. the other will lead you

  941. to seeing the greatness

  942. of God.

  943. It's a key decision.

  944. You're either going

  945. to be like David

  946. or you're going

  947. to be like Saul.

  948. What Saul does,

  949. he denies,

  950. he blames,

  951. he tries to get out of it.

  952. He says,

  953. I'm sorry but,

  954. do you ever do that?

  955. I do that when I get caught.

  956. I say,

  957. oh,

  958. I'm sorry but,

  959. it was,

  960. you know,

  961. I was tired.

  962. You know,

  963. that's not an apology,

  964. okay?

  965. If somebody,

  966. if your spouse says to you,

  967. I'm sorry but,

  968. that's not an apology,

  969. okay?

  970. Don't accept it

  971. because what we're trying to do,

  972. we're trying to still

  973. defend ourselves.

  974. I wonder,

  975. have you ever lived

  976. with a fear of failure?

  977. Have you ever messed up

  978. where you're actually

  979. trying to cover up

  980. what you've done

  981. so that other people

  982. don't know?

  983. We can do this,

  984. church people

  985. are so good at this.

  986. We're experts

  987. at covering up

  988. because we've got to

  989. look good on Sunday.

  990. But all of us

  991. have elements

  992. of failure,

  993. of shame,

  994. of things inside of.

  995. There's not one person

  996. in this room

  997. who doesn't.

  998. and if you think

  999. you don't have,

  1000. then I'd suggest

  1001. you're probably

  1002. living in denial

  1003. because we desperately

  1004. want other people

  1005. to see

  1006. that we're actually great

  1007. when the reality

  1008. is exposed

  1009. by our failure.

  1010. It's painful.

  1011. I remember a friend

  1012. once said to me,

  1013. his,

  1014. I think he was

  1015. about three years old,

  1016. his son,

  1017. he told his son,

  1018. there's some cookies

  1019. on the table,

  1020. don't eat the cookies.

  1021. He went upstairs

  1022. to do something,

  1023. comes down

  1024. a few minutes later

  1025. and he sees

  1026. there's one cookie

  1027. gone from the plate

  1028. on the table

  1029. and his son

  1030. has disappeared.

  1031. He spends the next

  1032. 10, 15 minutes

  1033. looking around his house

  1034. trying to find his son,

  1035. can't find him anywhere.

  1036. And then finally,

  1037. he hears this little

  1038. kind of coming

  1039. from behind the sofa

  1040. and behind the curtain

  1041. which was behind the sofa

  1042. and he kind of creeps up

  1043. down round the back,

  1044. round the sofa

  1045. and there,

  1046. curled up on the floor

  1047. was his three-year-old son

  1048. wrapped around the curtain

  1049. hiding behind the sofa

  1050. and my friend

  1051. kind of looked at him

  1052. like a little bit strange

  1053. like,

  1054. what are you up to?

  1055. And,

  1056. I mean,

  1057. he's only three,

  1058. but,

  1059. and he said to him,

  1060. why are you hiding?

  1061. And the son said,

  1062. because I can't face you

  1063. from what you've done.

  1064. And that is actually

  1065. what it's like for us

  1066. before God.

  1067. When you see a God

  1068. who's that great,

  1069. throughout the whole of history,

  1070. every single one of us,

  1071. from Adam and Eve

  1072. all the way till now,

  1073. we always try

  1074. and run and hide

  1075. our shame,

  1076. the things we,

  1077. we always try to wrap

  1078. that curtain around us.

  1079. Because we don't want to know,

  1080. we don't want others to know

  1081. what we're really like

  1082. sometimes inside.

  1083. Failure exposes us.

  1084. We all have a secret,

  1085. just think about this,

  1086. we all have a secret

  1087. that you don't want

  1088. anyone else to know.

  1089. Right?

  1090. If I was to say now,

  1091. tell the person next to you

  1092. the thing that you don't

  1093. want them to know about you.

  1094. Is anything coming to your mind?

  1095. What's your secret?

  1096. Because that's your shame,

  1097. that's the thing

  1098. you want to hide away.

  1099. But David,

  1100. who has such shame,

  1101. how can he come to the point

  1102. where he overflows

  1103. with praise

  1104. praise

  1105. in this psalm

  1106. while Saul

  1107. is just,

  1108. disappears

  1109. and he's left in denial,

  1110. his candle is snuffed out.

  1111. How can that happen?

  1112. Here's the thing.

  1113. David,

  1114. we looked at Psalm 51

  1115. a few weeks ago,

  1116. I think Eric spoke on it.

  1117. David

  1118. realized

  1119. you have a choice.

  1120. You either run from God

  1121. or you run

  1122. to God.

  1123. And David knew something

  1124. about God.

  1125. David knew

  1126. that the Lord

  1127. is gracious

  1128. and merciful,

  1129. slow to anger

  1130. and abounding

  1131. in steadfast love.

  1132. David knew that.

  1133. He knew

  1134. that there was a God

  1135. who was so great

  1136. who could crush him

  1137. in an instant,

  1138. who could just

  1139. turn his back on him.

  1140. He's got the rest

  1141. of the universe

  1142. to play with.

  1143. Why would he care

  1144. about someone

  1145. so insignificantly small

  1146. in the light

  1147. of all of his creation?

  1148. And yet,

  1149. he knew,

  1150. like every single one of us,

  1151. that this God

  1152. is not distant.

  1153. This God is near

  1154. to all who call to him.

  1155. This God

  1156. is the one

  1157. who reaches down.

  1158. Because you know,

  1159. it says,

  1160. that verse says,

  1161. he upholds

  1162. all who fall,

  1163. he raises up

  1164. all who are bowed down.

  1165. Do you know,

  1166. if you're bowed down,

  1167. how do you raise

  1168. somebody else up?

  1169. You have to come down

  1170. to their level

  1171. and pick them up.

  1172. The God who created

  1173. all of that universe,

  1174. who didn't have to care

  1175. a dot about anyone,

  1176. he came down

  1177. to our level.

  1178. level.

  1179. He came down

  1180. to you,

  1181. he knows where

  1182. you're hiding.

  1183. In all of that,

  1184. he knows you.

  1185. And he comes down,

  1186. not with,

  1187. you know,

  1188. normally,

  1189. when you,

  1190. when you do something well

  1191. and other people

  1192. do terribly

  1193. what you want them to do,

  1194. what's your response?

  1195. Normally,

  1196. I think what we do

  1197. is we look down

  1198. on people

  1199. or we try and give them

  1200. advice on how to improve.

  1201. You've got to work hard

  1202. so you can improve

  1203. that skill.

  1204. Do you know,

  1205. if you experience that

  1206. in your office

  1207. or you get scolded

  1208. by somebody.

  1209. Okay,

  1210. you made that mistake,

  1211. you did that wrong,

  1212. don't do it better next time.

  1213. Right?

  1214. That's how we normally

  1215. treat failure.

  1216. We're just critical

  1217. of people.

  1218. But this God,

  1219. this King,

  1220. is so great,

  1221. he's never failed.

  1222. He does everything perfectly.

  1223. He gets 150%

  1224. in the marks,

  1225. not 100.

  1226. He's beyond the scale.

  1227. And here are we,

  1228. insignificant,

  1229. tiny,

  1230. small,

  1231. hiding,

  1232. shameful,

  1233. sinful,

  1234. the Bible will call it.

  1235. And yet,

  1236. this King

  1237. came down to our level,

  1238. saw you and me

  1239. crouching in the shame.

  1240. I don't know what it is

  1241. in your life,

  1242. but he sees it.

  1243. And he's not there

  1244. with a judging hand

  1245. saying,

  1246. you should do better.

  1247. He's there,

  1248. he comes down to our level.

  1249. He dies on a cross.

  1250. The scolding

  1251. that we maybe deserved,

  1252. he took from the Pharisees

  1253. who mocked him.

  1254. The criticalness,

  1255. the shame,

  1256. he was bowed down

  1257. and humiliated

  1258. on a Roman cross.

  1259. For you.

  1260. In the whole universe,

  1261. he sees you.

  1262. Right now.

  1263. He sees you.

  1264. He knows you.

  1265. And his grace

  1266. is calling you,

  1267. come and enjoy

  1268. the fact that

  1269. I'm not a God

  1270. who is distant,

  1271. but I run to you

  1272. and I want you

  1273. to run to me.

  1274. Right now.

  1275. He's lavish

  1276. in grace.

  1277. And he calls us

  1278. who are wrapped up

  1279. in our puny little world

  1280. to see

  1281. that though we stick

  1282. our middle finger

  1283. up at God

  1284. so often in our lives,

  1285. I'd turn away

  1286. if I was there.

  1287. I'd say,

  1288. I'd create another universe.

  1289. But he doesn't.

  1290. He says,

  1291. I am gracious.

  1292. I want you

  1293. to come to me.

  1294. If you get that,

  1295. when you fail,

  1296. if you see

  1297. that God's bringing you to fail,

  1298. this week,

  1299. if you make a mistake,

  1300. you get scolded,

  1301. you go into work,

  1302. things go wrong,

  1303. God is giving you

  1304. an opportunity

  1305. for two choices.

  1306. You can either be like Saul

  1307. and start trying to

  1308. cover up everything

  1309. or you can be amazed

  1310. that in spite of what

  1311. you and I are like,

  1312. you have a God

  1313. who is gracious

  1314. and who says,

  1315. I accept you.

  1316. I delight in you.

  1317. You're mine.

  1318. If you're not a Christian,

  1319. you need to know that

  1320. and you need to run

  1321. to this God.

  1322. God.

  1323. Because you see,

  1324. if you get the greatness

  1325. of God in those two things,

  1326. his creation

  1327. and his grace,

  1328. and it sinks

  1329. from here

  1330. to here,

  1331. you don't have to just

  1332. talk about grace

  1333. as an abstract concept.

  1334. You will know it here

  1335. and it will bubble up

  1336. in praise.

  1337. Just check your prayer life

  1338. now.

  1339. Check your praise life

  1340. now because that will tell you

  1341. if you have really

  1342. seeing the grace

  1343. and the mercy

  1344. and the goodness

  1345. of God in your life

  1346. right now.

  1347. I want to leave you

  1348. with one more video.

  1349. Because I want to leave you

  1350. as David overflows

  1351. with praise,

  1352. I want to show you

  1353. a modern day

  1354. somebody overflowing

  1355. with praise.

  1356. And I want you

  1357. to just look at it.

  1358. And I want you

  1359. to think about

  1360. whatever's going on

  1361. in your week

  1362. in the light

  1363. of who our king

  1364. really is.

  1365. And I want us

  1366. just to respond

  1367. in praise.

  1368. So...