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The Everlasting Father: “Trust Me”

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  1. Good morning, everyone.

  2. Good morning.

  3. My name is Eric.

  4. I'm one of the guys here on staff at Watermark.

  5. How many of you have seen the new Star Wars?

  6. Less than I expected.

  7. If you're a guy, we're having a guy's night to go see it Tuesday night.

  8. Talk to me about details afterwards.

  9. But when I was a kid, I loved Star Wars.

  10. My friends loved Star Wars.

  11. And there's this one scene where I think it's Han Solo

  12. tells someone to shut the professor off in reference to C-3PO.

  13. C-3PO is just spouting out all these facts and numbers.

  14. And Han Solo gets annoyed and he says, shut the professor off.

  15. And some of my friends really loved that line

  16. because they thought that I was a little bit too much like C-3PO.

  17. So whenever I would start sharing fun facts with them

  18. that they didn't think were so fun,

  19. they'd just say, somebody shut the professor off.

  20. And they would try and get me to stop sharing fun facts.

  21. But I enjoy sharing fun facts and weird things like history.

  22. And I want to give you a little bit of historical background this morning

  23. of the passage that we're looking at

  24. so that as we look at the passage,

  25. it can make a little bit more sense to you.

  26. So I have a map to help me do that.

  27. Now this is a map of the ancient Near Eastern world

  28. where I'd say probably 95% of the Bible happens within this map.

  29. You're looking at modern day Egypt, Israel, Saudi Arabia, Syria, Jordan, Iraq, Iran,

  30. a little bit of Turkey.

  31. And this is what we're looking at in the passage today.

  32. This darker area was the extent of the Assyrian Empire

  33. at their greatest expanse,

  34. but they weren't quite this big at this time.

  35. And over on the right-hand side of the screen,

  36. that red circle right there,

  37. is sort of the heart of the Assyrian Empire.

  38. And over on the left-hand side, that blue circle is Egypt.

  39. And as with big world empires,

  40. they wanted to trade with people who were a little bit far away from them.

  41. The people in Assyria wanted goods that were made in Egypt.

  42. And so they wanted to go from the red circle to the blue circle.

  43. And it would seem the easiest way to do that is a straight line, right?

  44. The shortest distance between two places is a straight line.

  45. There's a problem with taking a straight line.

  46. And that yellow circle is a desert.

  47. And so if you try to take the straight line through there,

  48. you're going to burn up and get dehydrated and die.

  49. So what you need to do to get from Assyria over to Egypt,

  50. or anywhere in the ancient Near East to Egypt,

  51. is you need to take a path that follows the rivers.

  52. They've got the Tigris there, the Euphrates there,

  53. and then over in Israel, you've got the Jordan.

  54. And so you follow the rivers

  55. so that you have constant supply of fresh water along the way

  56. so that you don't die during your journey.

  57. And what that means is that this little stretch of land in Israel,

  58. where Israel exists,

  59. is a very, very valuable and strategic piece of land for many reasons.

  60. One, all of the trade routes between Egypt and the rest of the known world

  61. go through this little stretch of land in Israel.

  62. If you own this stretch of land,

  63. you can tax all the traders and make loads of money.

  64. Also, from a military perspective,

  65. any troop movement between Europe and Asia on land

  66. that's trying to get to Africa,

  67. or from Africa trying to get out,

  68. needs to go through you.

  69. And so if you own this little stretch of land,

  70. you have amazing power economically, militarily.

  71. It's kind of like the South China Sea of our day.

  72. And Assyria is like the China of that South China Sea.

  73. And so what you have leading up to this passage

  74. is Assyria over here on the right.

  75. They're like the China.

  76. We can do what we want because we control this area.

  77. And then you've got the green countries are Israel and Syria,

  78. not to be confused with Assyria.

  79. And the yellow one is Judah,

  80. which is the southern couple tribes of Israel

  81. that broke off from the rest of the nation.

  82. And Assyria said,

  83. we want to control this strip of land

  84. because it will give us power,

  85. it will give us control,

  86. it will let us collect taxes instead of paying taxes.

  87. It will give us amazing versatility

  88. when it comes to military movements.

  89. This is an important place.

  90. And they're setting their sights on this strip of land.

  91. And these little guys over here say,

  92. uh-oh, we're in trouble.

  93. We need to band together

  94. so that we can have a fighting chance

  95. of standing up to these guys.

  96. So what happens is these green countries,

  97. Israel and Syria,

  98. get together and form an alliance.

  99. Say, we're going to fight together against Assyria.

  100. We're going to try and hold them off the best we can.

  101. Judah, come join us.

  102. Help us out.

  103. And the king of Judah,

  104. a guy named Ahaz,

  105. says, I don't want to help you out.

  106. I don't know if it was because

  107. he just saw, like,

  108. this is a losing effort,

  109. there's no chance that we're going to survive this,

  110. or if he was just like,

  111. I don't like these guys,

  112. I don't want to be on their side.

  113. Either way,

  114. he's not interested.

  115. And so what Israel and Syria say is,

  116. if you don't join our alliance,

  117. we're going to come in and destroy your country,

  118. A, to encourage you to join us,

  119. and B, because we don't want you coming

  120. and attacking us from behind

  121. as we're trying to fight off this big enemy

  122. from the other side.

  123. And since Judah doesn't join their alliance,

  124. Israel and Syria sweep in

  125. and start wiping out the nation of Judah.

  126. They're killing tens of thousands of people.

  127. They capture hundreds of thousands of people.

  128. Cities are being wiped out,

  129. and Ahaz, the king of Judah,

  130. does not know what to do.

  131. And in this moment,

  132. God sends a messenger to him,

  133. a guy named Isaiah the prophet.

  134. And Isaiah has a very important,

  135. very simple message

  136. for King Ahaz from God.

  137. Don't worry.

  138. I've got this.

  139. I'm going to take care of this.

  140. I'm going to get rid of Israel and Syria

  141. from your land.

  142. All you have to do is trust me.

  143. And to prove to you that I'm going to do this,

  144. you can ask for any sign,

  145. anything that you want.

  146. It can be as high as heaven

  147. or as deep as the grave.

  148. I will give it to you

  149. to prove to you that I'm going to keep my word.

  150. And King Ahaz says,

  151. I will not put the Lord to the test,

  152. which sounds really noble, right?

  153. That's what Jesus says

  154. when Satan tempts him in the desert.

  155. But actually it's not.

  156. Because what Ahaz is saying is,

  157. I don't trust God.

  158. I don't want to do

  159. what God is telling me to do.

  160. I've got this.

  161. I can handle this.

  162. Leave me alone, God.

  163. And he goes to the temple

  164. where the Israelites would worship God

  165. and he strips down all the gold

  166. and all the valuable metals.

  167. He melts them down

  168. and he sends them with messengers

  169. as a gift to the king of Assyria,

  170. the big bad guys.

  171. And he says,

  172. hey, do me a favor.

  173. Here's a little gift.

  174. Go attack Israel and Syria

  175. and just take them out.

  176. So the king of Assyria says,

  177. okay.

  178. And he marches down

  179. and he takes out Israel.

  180. He takes out Syria.

  181. And then he's like,

  182. while I'm here,

  183. I may as well go take out Judah too.

  184. And he starts marching in

  185. to take out Judah

  186. because Ahaz, the king of Judah,

  187. did not trust God

  188. and wait for God to rescue him.

  189. And now ultimately,

  190. they didn't succeed

  191. in capturing the capital of Judah

  192. at that time.

  193. So the nation survived.

  194. But the nation is a mess.

  195. Their cities are one by one

  196. being taken away

  197. and conquered and destroyed.

  198. And the land is miserable.

  199. And it's a situation

  200. that the end of Isaiah chapter eight

  201. in that last verse,

  202. verse 22 describes as,

  203. behold, distress and darkness,

  204. the gloom of anguish,

  205. and they will be thrust

  206. into deep or thick darkness.

  207. It's a miserable, terrible,

  208. heart-wrenching time

  209. in the nation of Judah.

  210. And it's at this moment

  211. that Isaiah steps in

  212. with Isaiah chapter nine.

  213. And when we see the start,

  214. especially of Isaiah chapter nine,

  215. in the light of this context,

  216. it helps us to understand

  217. Isaiah is saying

  218. something huge right here.

  219. Isaiah steps in

  220. and he says,

  221. there will be no gloom

  222. for her who is in anguish.

  223. In the previous verse,

  224. we have the gloom of anguish

  225. and now we have no gloom

  226. for her who is in anguish.

  227. If you jump down to verse two,

  228. the people who walked in darkness

  229. have seen a great light.

  230. Instead of this deep darkness,

  231. a light is shining on the people.

  232. As we go throughout the passage,

  233. we see in verse five,

  234. the boots of the trampling warrior

  235. and the garments

  236. that are rolled in blood

  237. because it's what they were wearing

  238. when they were fighting,

  239. it will be burned.

  240. Why do you burn your battle equipment?

  241. Because you're done fighting.

  242. Isaiah says,

  243. there is a time coming

  244. when you're going to have peace,

  245. when you're going to have hope,

  246. when you're going to have light

  247. in your land.

  248. It's not here yet,

  249. but it's coming.

  250. And it's not dependent

  251. on your king

  252. doing the right thing right now.

  253. No, it's dependent on,

  254. verse six,

  255. a child who's going to be born.

  256. A child who's going to come

  257. and it says,

  258. the government will be upon his shoulders.

  259. He's going to rule this nation

  260. and he's going to rule with justice

  261. and he's going to bring peace

  262. and his rule is going to expand and expand,

  263. but that's going to be a good thing

  264. because as he rules,

  265. he is good.

  266. And it gives us four descriptions

  267. of what this ruler will be like.

  268. It calls him the wonderful counselor,

  269. the mighty God,

  270. everlasting father,

  271. prince of peace.

  272. If you were here two weeks ago,

  273. Alfie looked at what it means

  274. for Jesus to be our wonderful counselor

  275. and why we need a wonderful counselor.

  276. Last week,

  277. if you were here for the charity walk,

  278. Chris talked about,

  279. a little bit about what it means

  280. for Jesus to be the mighty God

  281. in our lives.

  282. And today we're going to look

  283. at what it means

  284. for Jesus to be

  285. our everlasting father.

  286. And what we're going to see

  287. is that although we often

  288. choose to live

  289. like spiritual orphans,

  290. Jesus is

  291. our everlasting father.

  292. And having a perfect,

  293. everlasting father

  294. gives us freedom

  295. to live as the children of God.

  296. We're going to take three steps

  297. to getting there.

  298. First, we're going to talk about

  299. becoming an orphan.

  300. Second, we're going to talk about

  301. living as an orphan.

  302. And third,

  303. we're going to talk about

  304. life with a father.

  305. First up,

  306. becoming an orphan.

  307. So Ahaz,

  308. as the king of Judah,

  309. was basically supposed to be

  310. like a father to the nation.

  311. A king was supposed to be

  312. a protective caregiver,

  313. which is a huge role

  314. of a father.

  315. But Ahaz was a terrible father,

  316. both to the nation

  317. and to his own kids.

  318. And how do we know

  319. that he was a terrible father

  320. to his own kids?

  321. Because he killed them.

  322. The Bible is very clear

  323. that God does not want

  324. his people

  325. worshiping idols.

  326. And a big part of that,

  327. besides the fact that

  328. they're false gods,

  329. is that

  330. the worship of idols,

  331. especially in the Old Testament times,

  332. involved doing

  333. many terrible things.

  334. And one of them

  335. was child sacrifice.

  336. And so it says

  337. that

  338. in

  339. 2 Kings

  340. and 2 Chronicles,

  341. when it's talking about Ahaz,

  342. it says

  343. that he caused his sons

  344. to pass through the fire.

  345. Basically,

  346. they would have this fire burning,

  347. you send in your son,

  348. and then your son burns up,

  349. and it's supposed to be

  350. a pleasing sacrifice to God.

  351. This guy did that

  352. with his kids.

  353. Now,

  354. if he's that terrible

  355. of a father

  356. to his family,

  357. how do you expect him

  358. to lead the nation?

  359. You don't.

  360. And so when you look at

  361. the way that he rules

  362. the nation,

  363. this man who's supposed

  364. to be the protective caregiver

  365. to the nation,

  366. who's supposed to be

  367. this father figure

  368. to the nation,

  369. when his nation

  370. is under distress,

  371. he strips down the temple

  372. from everything valuable,

  373. he sends it away

  374. to the king of Assyria,

  375. and the message

  376. that he sends

  377. to the king of Assyria

  378. is,

  379. I am your son.

  380. Please come rescue me.

  381. That's in 2 Kings 16.

  382. He says,

  383. I am your son.

  384. This man who's supposed

  385. to be like a father

  386. to the nation

  387. just abdicates

  388. that responsibility

  389. and says,

  390. you,

  391. this foreign nation

  392. that God told me

  393. not to interact with,

  394. you're our father now.

  395. Ahaz was not

  396. a good king.

  397. And why does he,

  398. why does he fail

  399. so miserably

  400. as a father

  401. both in his family

  402. and in the nation?

  403. Because he's living

  404. as a spiritual orphan.

  405. And here's what I mean

  406. when I talk about

  407. spiritual orphans.

  408. A spiritual orphan

  409. is someone

  410. who functionally

  411. on a day-to-day level

  412. does not believe

  413. that they have

  414. a perfect heavenly father

  415. who loves them

  416. and provides for them.

  417. So with Ahaz,

  418. he is not trusting God

  419. to provide for him

  420. or his country.

  421. He's taking matters

  422. into his own hands

  423. and he is failing

  424. his people miserably.

  425. And I know

  426. as we talk about

  427. God as a father

  428. and what it means

  429. for God to be a father,

  430. there are probably

  431. a lot of us in here

  432. who when we think

  433. about the idea

  434. of a father,

  435. it's a painful thought

  436. because our fathers

  437. fail us.

  438. And I think

  439. in Hong Kong

  440. that's probably

  441. like accelerated

  442. the rate

  443. at which fathers

  444. fail their children.

  445. And I think

  446. when we,

  447. we each have a tendency

  448. to project

  449. our earthly father's

  450. failures onto God.

  451. God.

  452. And so when we hear

  453. that God's our father

  454. and we know

  455. that our fathers

  456. failed us so miserably,

  457. we think,

  458. well,

  459. if God's a much

  460. bigger father,

  461. then he's gonna fail

  462. us so much more

  463. miserably, right?

  464. And I think

  465. there are three,

  466. probably we can group

  467. the ways that our fathers

  468. fail us into three

  469. big categories.

  470. The first one,

  471. this is huge in Asia,

  472. we'll call the

  473. always could be

  474. better father.

  475. If you come home

  476. with a 99 on your exam,

  477. why didn't you get 100?

  478. If you got accepted

  479. to Harvard,

  480. why didn't they give

  481. you a full ride?

  482. No matter how much

  483. you accomplish,

  484. no matter how much

  485. you do,

  486. it is never good enough.

  487. The always could be

  488. better father

  489. pushes his children

  490. beyond what they

  491. are capable of,

  492. always expects more,

  493. and their children

  494. always live in fear

  495. of disappointing

  496. their father.

  497. Second up,

  498. the angry father.

  499. Anything can make

  500. him go wild.

  501. His kids live in fear

  502. of doing something

  503. to set him off.

  504. Violence or yelling

  505. can come out of this.

  506. I went to university

  507. with a guy

  508. who had an angry father.

  509. He shared with us

  510. about how when he was

  511. a kid,

  512. his dad would beat

  513. his mom,

  514. and he was too small

  515. or powerless

  516. to do anything

  517. to stop it,

  518. so all he would do

  519. is sit there

  520. and watch.

  521. And the thing

  522. that makes this story

  523. even more sad

  524. is that this kid's

  525. parents were missionaries.

  526. So his idea

  527. growing up

  528. of what it means

  529. to be a man

  530. who loves and serves

  531. God is that

  532. you beat your wife.

  533. When you take

  534. that idea of a father

  535. and project it

  536. onto God,

  537. how do you think

  538. that impacts

  539. the way that you

  540. see God

  541. as a father?

  542. So we have

  543. the always

  544. could be better father,

  545. we have the angry father,

  546. and then third,

  547. we have the absent father.

  548. And this is another one

  549. that's huge in Hong Kong.

  550. Some fathers are absent

  551. because they simply

  552. abandon their families.

  553. Some are absent

  554. in Hong Kong

  555. because they have

  556. a second family

  557. across the border

  558. and they're just

  559. spending their time

  560. with the second family

  561. instead of with

  562. their own family.

  563. Some,

  564. this is a huge way

  565. that fathers are absent

  566. in Hong Kong,

  567. is workaholism.

  568. They spend all their time

  569. at the office,

  570. at their job,

  571. traveling for work,

  572. and never actually

  573. have time to be

  574. with their kids.

  575. And then some fathers

  576. in Hong Kong

  577. spend lots of time

  578. with their families,

  579. spend lots of time

  580. with their kids,

  581. but they're so tired

  582. and stressed

  583. from the time

  584. they've been at work

  585. that during that time

  586. they turn to things

  587. like alcohol

  588. or television to cope.

  589. And even though

  590. they're physically present,

  591. they're mentally

  592. and emotionally absent.

  593. Our fathers fail us

  594. in many ways

  595. and we have a tendency

  596. to project those failures

  597. onto God.

  598. You know,

  599. for me,

  600. I had great parents

  601. growing up.

  602. They're still great parents.

  603. If they listen to the podcast,

  604. hi mom and dad,

  605. you're fantastic.

  606. But they weren't perfect.

  607. My parents,

  608. when I was in school,

  609. always told me,

  610. whatever grades you get,

  611. we're happy

  612. as long as you do your best.

  613. And for me,

  614. my best was straight A's.

  615. And I got straight A's.

  616. But,

  617. even though they were happy

  618. with my grades,

  619. I was always living

  620. a little bit nervous,

  621. a little bit in fear.

  622. Because first off,

  623. if I got a 95 on a project

  624. and I knew that I could have

  625. gotten a 97

  626. by working just a tiny bit harder,

  627. I knew that 95 wasn't my best.

  628. I think I grew up

  629. on the wrong continent.

  630. And I would live in fear

  631. that they would find out

  632. that 95 was not truly my best

  633. and be disappointed with me

  634. for my 95.

  635. 95.

  636. I lived in constant fear

  637. that I would get an assignment back

  638. and that rather than an A,

  639. it would be a C or a B.

  640. Because I knew

  641. that they knew

  642. that I was capable of an A

  643. and I was always afraid

  644. that I would fall short,

  645. that I wouldn't live up

  646. to what they knew

  647. that I was capable of.

  648. And I lived,

  649. these fears were reality to me.

  650. And as I grew up,

  651. I took these fears

  652. and projected them

  653. onto my relationship with God.

  654. Because I knew that for God,

  655. my standard is not do your best,

  656. the standard is perfection.

  657. And so even though

  658. I was one of the best behaved kids

  659. in my school,

  660. one of the best behaved kids

  661. in my church,

  662. I knew on the inside

  663. that I fall short

  664. of that standard.

  665. I knew on the inside

  666. that I have not done enough

  667. to live up to God's standard.

  668. And rather than understanding

  669. the gospel

  670. and seeing that

  671. that's the whole point,

  672. that I can't live up to it,

  673. but he loves me

  674. and accepts me anyways,

  675. I had this feeling of shame

  676. that just followed me everywhere

  677. because I hadn't lived up

  678. to the standard

  679. that I needed to.

  680. And I would put in effort,

  681. trying so hard

  682. to do better

  683. so that God could love me

  684. and accept me.

  685. And rather than enjoying

  686. being God's son

  687. and getting to enjoy

  688. that relationship with him,

  689. I ended up living my life

  690. as a show,

  691. terrified on the inside

  692. that God is out to get me,

  693. but smiling on the outside

  694. because I didn't want

  695. anyone else to know

  696. that that's how I really felt.

  697. and it was because

  698. I had taken

  699. this false understanding

  700. of my relationship

  701. with my earthly parents

  702. and projected it

  703. onto God

  704. as my father.

  705. And I think each of us

  706. does that to some extent

  707. and because of that,

  708. each of us

  709. has a tendency

  710. to live

  711. at least somewhat

  712. as a spiritual orphan.

  713. So what does it look like

  714. to live as an orphan?

  715. I have these friends.

  716. They're adopting

  717. a little kid.

  718. He's like two.

  719. And they had the chance

  720. to go and meet this kid.

  721. They took him out

  722. for dinner

  723. and they're so excited

  724. because like,

  725. this is going to be

  726. our son.

  727. And this is our first chance

  728. to get to know

  729. our son.

  730. And they're at this restaurant

  731. getting ready for dinner

  732. and they've ordered

  733. their food

  734. and they're sitting

  735. there waiting

  736. and as a two-year-old

  737. he sort of gets up

  738. and starts wandering

  739. around the restaurant

  740. because that's what

  741. two-year-olds do.

  742. But as he wanders

  743. around the restaurant

  744. he walks up

  745. to different tables

  746. and just starts staring

  747. and smiling at the people

  748. there,

  749. waving a little bit,

  750. only he's like this tall

  751. so he's looking up

  752. and waving at them.

  753. And everyone,

  754. of course,

  755. it's a two-year-old,

  756. they're smiling

  757. and waving back

  758. and he's sort of

  759. looking between them

  760. and the food

  761. and them

  762. and the food

  763. and at a couple tables

  764. they like grabbed

  765. a little piece of food

  766. and gave it to him

  767. as a snack.

  768. And my friends,

  769. they're watching

  770. their son-to-be

  771. and they're like,

  772. this is so cute,

  773. he's so outgoing

  774. and friendly.

  775. They realize

  776. at a couple tables

  777. he would walk up

  778. and if the people

  779. didn't offer him food

  780. he would just reach up

  781. and grab it.

  782. But again,

  783. he's two,

  784. no one's mad about that.

  785. And they thought,

  786. this is so fantastic,

  787. our kid is so outgoing.

  788. And then as they

  789. got home

  790. and started doing

  791. more research

  792. about adoption

  793. they realized,

  794. actually,

  795. this behavior

  796. is an orphan tendency.

  797. Because I,

  798. as a two-year-old,

  799. would never have done that.

  800. Because I,

  801. as a two-year-old,

  802. knew that if I stayed

  803. at my parents' table

  804. I had a meal coming.

  805. But for a two-year-old orphan,

  806. they don't know

  807. that their parents

  808. are going to give them

  809. a meal

  810. because they don't

  811. have parents.

  812. And so they feel

  813. the need

  814. to walk around

  815. and grab scraps

  816. off the tables

  817. of strangers

  818. because they can't rely

  819. on their parents

  820. to provide.

  821. And when we live

  822. as spiritual orphans,

  823. what we do

  824. is we look at God,

  825. our Father,

  826. and we don't trust

  827. Him to provide.

  828. And we feel the need

  829. to provide for ourselves

  830. by going around

  831. and grabbing scraps

  832. off the table

  833. of strangers

  834. in the world.

  835. We choose to live

  836. as an orphan

  837. when we sacrifice

  838. the feast

  839. that our Father

  840. wants to give to us

  841. and trade it in

  842. for scraps

  843. and leftovers.

  844. Like I said before,

  845. the main question

  846. of a spiritual orphan

  847. is do I really believe

  848. that I have

  849. a heavenly dad

  850. who loves me

  851. and cares for me?

  852. And the reality is

  853. as long as we answer

  854. yes to that question,

  855. we're going to be

  856. incredibly loving,

  857. incredibly patient,

  858. incredibly generous people.

  859. But the moment

  860. we start to believe

  861. that the answer

  862. to that question

  863. is no

  864. or maybe,

  865. we start feeling

  866. the need

  867. to fend for ourselves,

  868. to defend ourselves,

  869. to reach out

  870. and grasp

  871. for anything

  872. that we can get

  873. because we are

  874. the only ones

  875. who are going

  876. to care for ourselves.

  877. So living as

  878. a spiritual orphan

  879. means being controlling

  880. and manipulative

  881. at work

  882. because God

  883. might not provide

  884. for my family

  885. so I need to maneuver

  886. for promotions

  887. and for tearing

  888. other people down.

  889. If I make a mistake,

  890. I need to make sure

  891. that it can get pinned

  892. on someone else

  893. so that my job

  894. is not in danger.

  895. spiritual orphans

  896. live incredibly

  897. stressed and anxious

  898. lives.

  899. A parent

  900. who's living

  901. as a spiritual orphan

  902. is going to lose sleep

  903. about whether their kid

  904. can get into

  905. that top university

  906. because I've done

  907. all I can

  908. and I don't know

  909. that God's going

  910. to take care of them.

  911. Actually,

  912. when we looked earlier

  913. at the different ways

  914. that our fathers fail us,

  915. that absent father,

  916. the angry father,

  917. and the always

  918. could be better father,

  919. each of them

  920. responds in those ways

  921. as a father

  922. because of their

  923. orphan tendencies

  924. themselves.

  925. The always

  926. could be better father

  927. feels the need

  928. to constantly

  929. push his children

  930. to excel

  931. beyond their capacity

  932. because he believes

  933. their future

  934. will be ruined

  935. if he doesn't

  936. because he doesn't

  937. believe that he has

  938. a perfect father

  939. who's going to

  940. provide for them.

  941. The angry father

  942. feels the need

  943. to try and grasp

  944. for control

  945. of his world

  946. through anger

  947. because he doesn't

  948. believe that he has

  949. a perfect heavenly father

  950. who's in control

  951. and who's good

  952. with that control.

  953. The absent father

  954. feels the need

  955. to escape

  956. from the realities

  957. of life

  958. because he doesn't

  959. believe that he has

  960. a perfect father

  961. who's going to

  962. bring him

  963. through these realities

  964. to something better.

  965. every time

  966. we choose

  967. to react

  968. in anger

  969. anxiety

  970. stress

  971. fear

  972. grasping for control

  973. defensiveness

  974. the list could go on

  975. what we're doing

  976. is we're showing

  977. symptoms of the fact

  978. that we believe

  979. we are spiritual orphans

  980. who need to look

  981. after ourselves

  982. and grab scraps

  983. from the table

  984. of life

  985. rather than enjoy

  986. the feast

  987. that our father

  988. wants to provide

  989. for us.

  990. So what does it

  991. look like

  992. to start living

  993. as children of God

  994. to start seeing

  995. Jesus as

  996. our everlasting

  997. father?

  998. We will only

  999. ever begin

  1000. to live

  1001. as children of God

  1002. when we begin

  1003. to see living

  1004. as children of God

  1005. as more beautiful

  1006. than what the world

  1007. can offer us.

  1008. You know

  1009. today's passage

  1010. talks about Jesus

  1011. as an everlasting father

  1012. and if you've been

  1013. in church

  1014. for any amount

  1015. of time

  1016. that might be

  1017. confusing to you

  1018. because in church

  1019. we talk about

  1020. the Trinity

  1021. there's one God

  1022. with three persons

  1023. the Father, Son,

  1024. the Holy Spirit

  1025. and in the Trinity

  1026. Jesus is the Son

  1027. and if you ever

  1028. study the Trinity

  1029. one of the big

  1030. things you learn

  1031. the Father is not

  1032. the Son

  1033. the Son is not

  1034. the Father

  1035. get that drilled

  1036. into your head

  1037. and here

  1038. it's referring to

  1039. Jesus the Son

  1040. and it's calling

  1041. him a Father

  1042. what is going on?

  1043. But what's going on

  1044. here

  1045. is that it's not

  1046. talking about

  1047. how Jesus relates

  1048. to God

  1049. within the Trinity

  1050. it's talking about

  1051. how Jesus relates

  1052. to us

  1053. because to us

  1054. he's a provider

  1055. he's a protector

  1056. he's doing the things

  1057. that a father

  1058. is supposed to do

  1059. and so even though

  1060. in the Trinity

  1061. he's the Son

  1062. it still tells us

  1063. that we can look at him

  1064. as the everlasting

  1065. Father

  1066. and at Christmas season

  1067. we celebrate

  1068. his birth

  1069. which if you ever

  1070. think about it

  1071. is incredible

  1072. that the God

  1073. who made

  1074. the world

  1075. and the stars

  1076. and the entire universe

  1077. by speaking

  1078. would step down

  1079. and wrap himself

  1080. in human flesh

  1081. and live life

  1082. as one of us

  1083. that's mind-boggling

  1084. just sit down

  1085. and spend five minutes

  1086. trying to comprehend it

  1087. and you will have

  1088. a headache

  1089. because Christmas

  1090. is so incredible

  1091. if you look at

  1092. what God did there

  1093. but Christmas

  1094. isn't the full story

  1095. Christmas actually

  1096. has very little power

  1097. for us

  1098. if it's separated

  1099. from Good Friday

  1100. and Easter

  1101. because what we see

  1102. in Good Friday

  1103. and Easter

  1104. is that Jesus

  1105. is the perfect

  1106. everlasting Father

  1107. that we all

  1108. long for

  1109. and need

  1110. in Good Friday

  1111. Jesus

  1112. our Father

  1113. protector

  1114. steps up

  1115. and fights

  1116. the battle for us

  1117. against our two

  1118. greatest enemies

  1119. sin and death

  1120. that we could never

  1121. fight on our own

  1122. and he conquers them

  1123. how do we know

  1124. that he conquers them

  1125. because on Easter

  1126. he rises from the dead

  1127. death cannot hold him

  1128. sin cannot overcome him

  1129. and as he overcomes them

  1130. he sets us free

  1131. he is our Father

  1132. who has stepped down

  1133. who has left

  1134. the comfort

  1135. of his comfy

  1136. lazy boy lounge chair

  1137. in heaven

  1138. and come down

  1139. to enter into

  1140. the mess

  1141. of our world

  1142. and deal

  1143. with every single

  1144. last one

  1145. of our problems

  1146. at the greatest

  1147. possible cost

  1148. to himself

  1149. his life

  1150. through Jesus

  1151. life

  1152. death

  1153. and resurrection

  1154. he sets himself

  1155. apart

  1156. from our earthly

  1157. fathers

  1158. and all the ways

  1159. that they fail us

  1160. see I think

  1161. we have a tendency

  1162. to project

  1163. our earthly

  1164. fathers

  1165. flaws

  1166. onto God

  1167. but the reality

  1168. is

  1169. that our earthly

  1170. fathers

  1171. are flawed

  1172. imitations

  1173. of the true

  1174. perfect father

  1175. that we have

  1176. in Jesus

  1177. and how do we

  1178. know this

  1179. because of the cross

  1180. the cross

  1181. tells us

  1182. that Jesus

  1183. is not

  1184. the always

  1185. could be

  1186. better father

  1187. he's the

  1188. accepting father

  1189. who sees

  1190. every single

  1191. last one

  1192. of our flaws

  1193. and rather than

  1194. judging us

  1195. and despising

  1196. us for it

  1197. steps down

  1198. and pays

  1199. the price

  1200. for our failures

  1201. at the cost

  1202. of his own

  1203. life

  1204. so that we

  1205. can be

  1206. accepted

  1207. and not

  1208. have to live

  1209. in fear

  1210. of letting

  1211. our father

  1212. down

  1213. rather than

  1214. the angry

  1215. father

  1216. he is the

  1217. abounding

  1218. in love

  1219. father

  1220. who although

  1221. he has

  1222. every right

  1223. to be

  1224. furious

  1225. at us

  1226. steps down

  1227. in love

  1228. and bears

  1229. the consequences

  1230. for our sin

  1231. on himself

  1232. rather than

  1233. the absent

  1234. father

  1235. he is

  1236. the always

  1237. present

  1238. father

  1239. who came

  1240. to earth

  1241. as one

  1242. of us

  1243. living

  1244. as one

  1245. of us

  1246. so that

  1247. we can

  1248. see him

  1249. and know

  1250. him

  1251. and then

  1252. when he

  1253. went back

  1254. to heaven

  1255. sent his

  1256. spirit

  1257. to live

  1258. inside

  1259. of us

  1260. so that

  1261. the bible

  1262. tells us

  1263. that if

  1264. we are

  1265. Christians

  1266. he is

  1267. living

  1268. inside

  1269. of us

  1270. right now

  1271. empowering

  1272. us

  1273. for our

  1274. day to

  1275. day life

  1276. following

  1277. him

  1278. see in

  1279. contrast

  1280. to our

  1281. flawed

  1282. fathers

  1283. he is

  1284. the

  1285. awesome

  1286. father

  1287. he is

  1288. trustworthy

  1289. he is

  1290. reliable

  1291. he is

  1292. everlasting

  1293. he will

  1294. never

  1295. fail us

  1296. and if

  1297. you are

  1298. here today

  1299. and you

  1300. don't

  1301. know

  1302. God

  1303. as a

  1304. father

  1305. this

  1306. talk

  1307. of

  1308. having

  1309. God

  1310. as a

  1311. father

  1312. seems

  1313. confusing

  1314. or foreign

  1315. to you

  1316. I encourage

  1317. you to

  1318. talk to

  1319. me

  1320. or to

  1321. Chris

  1322. or one

  1323. of the

  1324. other

  1325. people

  1326. here at

  1327. Watermark

  1328. and ask

  1329. us

  1330. about

  1331. what

  1332. that

  1333. means

  1334. and how

  1335. you can

  1336. have

  1337. this

  1338. type

  1339. of

  1340. relationship

  1341. with

  1342. God

  1343. because

  1344. it

  1345. is

  1346. life

  1347. changing

  1348. what does

  1349. it look

  1350. like

  1351. when our

  1352. lives

  1353. have been

  1354. so

  1355. transformed

  1356. by our

  1357. understanding

  1358. of God

  1359. seeing him

  1360. as a

  1361. father

  1362. that we

  1363. can live

  1364. as his

  1365. children

  1366. I want

  1367. to share

  1368. a little

  1369. story with

  1370. you

  1371. that I

  1372. think

  1373. illustrates

  1374. this

  1375. really

  1376. well

  1377. I used

  1378. to work

  1379. at a

  1380. summer

  1381. camp

  1382. for

  1383. first

  1384. through

  1385. sixth

  1386. graders

  1387. parents

  1388. would drop

  1389. off

  1390. their

  1391. kids

  1392. on

  1393. Sunday

  1394. afternoon

  1395. and

  1396. we

  1397. would

  1398. have

  1399. them

  1400. until

  1401. Saturday

  1402. afternoon

  1403. so

  1404. you

  1405. got

  1406. to

  1407. see

  1408. a

  1409. lot

  1410. of

  1411. crazy

  1412. stuff

  1413. at

  1414. this

  1415. summer

  1416. camp

  1417. one

  1418. week

  1419. there

  1420. was

  1421. this

  1422. kid

  1423. he

  1424. was

  1425. probably

  1426. seven

  1427. or eight

  1428. years

  1429. old

  1430. at the

  1431. time

  1432. he

  1433. was

  1434. staying

  1435. in the

  1436. cabin

  1437. next

  1438. to

  1439. mine

  1440. his

  1441. dad

  1442. was

  1443. a

  1444. WWE

  1445. wrestler

  1446. so

  1447. you

  1448. know

  1449. they

  1450. like

  1451. pick

  1452. up

  1453. the

  1454. chairs

  1455. and

  1456. smash

  1457. each

  1458. other

  1459. over

  1460. the

  1461. head

  1462. and

  1463. climb

  1464. up

  1465. on

  1466. the

  1467. rails

  1468. and

  1469. jump

  1470. off

  1471. and

  1472. slam

  1473. each

  1474. other

  1475. that

  1476. was

  1477. this

  1478. kid's

  1479. dad's

  1480. job

  1481. and

  1482. this

  1483. kid

  1484. one

  1485. day

  1486. got

  1487. into

  1488. an

  1489. argument

  1490. with

  1491. another

  1492. kid

  1493. in

  1494. his

  1495. cabin

  1496. don't

  1497. know

  1498. what

  1499. the

  1500. argument

  1501. was

  1502. about

  1503. don't

  1504. know

  1505. how

  1506. it

  1507. started

  1508. but

  1509. I

  1510. know

  1511. that

  1512. it

  1513. escalated

  1514. to

  1515. the

  1516. point

  1517. where

  1518. this

  1519. kid

  1520. told

  1521. the

  1522. other

  1523. kid

  1524. oh

  1525. yeah

  1526. well

  1527. my

  1528. dad

  1529. can

  1530. beat

  1531. your

  1532. dad

  1533. up

  1534. and

  1535. the

  1536. counselor

  1537. from

  1538. his

  1539. cabin

  1540. was

  1541. watching

  1542. this

  1543. unfold

  1544. and

  1545. he

  1546. said

  1547. normally

  1548. I

  1549. would

  1550. step

  1551. in

  1552. and

  1553. stop

  1554. this

  1555. argument

  1556. around

  1557. this

  1558. point

  1559. but

  1560. I

  1561. love

  1562. that

  1563. picture

  1564. not

  1565. because

  1566. I

  1567. think

  1568. we

  1569. should

  1570. be

  1571. cocky

  1572. and

  1573. arrogant

  1574. having

  1575. God

  1576. as

  1577. our

  1578. father

  1579. but

  1580. think

  1581. about

  1582. the

  1583. confidence

  1584. that

  1585. kid

  1586. had

  1587. in

  1588. his

  1589. father

  1590. he

  1591. knew

  1592. that

  1593. my

  1594. father

  1595. is

  1596. strong

  1597. he

  1598. knew

  1599. that

  1600. my

  1601. father

  1602. cares

  1603. about

  1604. me

  1605. my

  1606. father

  1607. cares

  1608. about

  1609. me

  1610. so

  1611. much

  1612. that

  1613. he

  1614. is

  1615. willing

  1616. to

  1617. fight

  1618. my

  1619. battles

  1620. for

  1621. me

  1622. I

  1623. don't

  1624. need

  1625. to

  1626. worry

  1627. about

  1628. being

  1629. the

  1630. strongest

  1631. I

  1632. don't

  1633. and

  1634. so

  1635. this

  1636. kid

  1637. was

  1638. able

  1639. to

  1640. live

  1641. with

  1642. incredible

  1643. confidence

  1644. knowing

  1645. that

  1646. he

  1647. was

  1648. loved

  1649. by

  1650. his

  1651. father

  1652. who

  1653. was

  1654. so

  1655. strong

  1656. and

  1657. if

  1658. we

  1659. have

  1660. God

  1661. as

  1662. our

  1663. father

  1664. who's

  1665. way

  1666. stronger

  1667. than

  1668. this

  1669. kid's

  1670. dad's

  1671. father

  1672. who's

  1673. everlasting

  1674. as

  1675. our

  1676. father

  1677. how

  1678. much

  1679. more

  1680. confident

  1681. should

  1682. we

  1683. be

  1684. in

  1685. him

  1686. in

  1687. a

  1688. father

  1689. who

  1690. has

  1691. proven

  1692. over

  1693. and

  1694. over

  1695. again

  1696. that

  1697. he

  1698. loves

  1699. his

  1700. children

  1701. with

  1702. an

  1703. unstoppable

  1704. love

  1705. that

  1706. cannot

  1707. be

  1708. stopped

  1709. even

  1710. if

  1711. it

  1712. costs

  1713. his

  1714. life

  1715. how

  1716. much

  1717. should

  1718. that

  1719. drive

  1720. us

  1721. to

  1722. love

  1723. others

  1724. to

  1725. be

  1726. patient

  1727. when

  1728. things

  1729. aren't

  1730. going

  1731. our

  1732. way

  1733. to

  1734. be

  1735. willing

  1736. to

  1737. take

  1738. the

  1739. hit

  1740. even

  1741. for

  1742. someone

  1743. else's

  1744. mistakes

  1745. because

  1746. we

  1747. know

  1748. that

  1749. it's

  1750. not

  1751. about

  1752. me

  1753. grasping

  1754. for

  1755. everything

  1756. that I

  1757. can get

  1758. off the

  1759. table

  1760. of strangers

  1761. but it's

  1762. about

  1763. my father

  1764. loving me

  1765. providing for me

  1766. and I know

  1767. that if I

  1768. wait at his

  1769. table

  1770. if I

  1771. trust in him

  1772. if I

  1773. follow him

  1774. there is a

  1775. feast

  1776. being prepared

  1777. for me

  1778. we don't need to fear

  1779. we don't need to grasp

  1780. we don't need to live

  1781. as spiritual orphans

  1782. because we

  1783. we don't need to

  1784. love him

  1785. because we have a

  1786. perfect father who

  1787. loves us and cares

  1788. for us in the way

  1789. that no earthly

  1790. father could

  1791. and that's one of the

  1792. things that we

  1793. celebrate at

  1794. Christmas

  1795. that Jesus came to

  1796. reveal that father

  1797. to us

  1798. to be a father

  1799. to us

  1800. who protects us

  1801. who guards us

  1802. who rescues us

  1803. let's pray

  1804. Jesus we thank you

  1805. that you are a

  1806. perfect father to us

  1807. that you love us

  1808. that you rescue us

  1809. at the cost of your

  1810. own life

  1811. and that because of

  1812. your love

  1813. because of

  1814. you rescuing us

  1815. we don't need to

  1816. live in fear

  1817. we don't need to

  1818. to strive

  1819. and worry

  1820. and be anxious

  1821. and lose sleep

  1822. about the future

  1823. because you have

  1824. got us

  1825. because you're the

  1826. perfect father who

  1827. loves us

  1828. who cares for us

  1829. who never lets us

  1830. go

  1831. never lets us down

  1832. Jesus we pray

  1833. that this week

  1834. that we would see

  1835. the beauty of

  1836. Christmas

  1837. that we would see

  1838. the beauty of you

  1839. that we would fall

  1840. more in love with you

  1841. and that we would

  1842. learn to trust you

  1843. rather than living

  1844. as orphans

  1845. God I confess

  1846. that I

  1847. fail to believe

  1848. this so often

  1849. I pray that you

  1850. would transform my

  1851. heart and give me

  1852. an understanding

  1853. of what it means

  1854. to be

  1855. your son

  1856. to live in joy

  1857. because of that

  1858. to live in peace

  1859. because of that

  1860. in Jesus name

  1861. amen

  1862. amen