Sermon
The Everlasting Father: “Trust Me”
Publisher transcript
Transcript
-
Good morning, everyone.
-
Good morning.
-
My name is Eric.
-
I'm one of the guys here on staff at Watermark.
-
How many of you have seen the new Star Wars?
-
Less than I expected.
-
If you're a guy, we're having a guy's night to go see it Tuesday night.
-
Talk to me about details afterwards.
-
But when I was a kid, I loved Star Wars.
-
My friends loved Star Wars.
-
And there's this one scene where I think it's Han Solo
-
tells someone to shut the professor off in reference to C-3PO.
-
C-3PO is just spouting out all these facts and numbers.
-
And Han Solo gets annoyed and he says, shut the professor off.
-
And some of my friends really loved that line
-
because they thought that I was a little bit too much like C-3PO.
-
So whenever I would start sharing fun facts with them
-
that they didn't think were so fun,
-
they'd just say, somebody shut the professor off.
-
And they would try and get me to stop sharing fun facts.
-
But I enjoy sharing fun facts and weird things like history.
-
And I want to give you a little bit of historical background this morning
-
of the passage that we're looking at
-
so that as we look at the passage,
-
it can make a little bit more sense to you.
-
So I have a map to help me do that.
-
Now this is a map of the ancient Near Eastern world
-
where I'd say probably 95% of the Bible happens within this map.
-
You're looking at modern day Egypt, Israel, Saudi Arabia, Syria, Jordan, Iraq, Iran,
-
a little bit of Turkey.
-
And this is what we're looking at in the passage today.
-
This darker area was the extent of the Assyrian Empire
-
at their greatest expanse,
-
but they weren't quite this big at this time.
-
And over on the right-hand side of the screen,
-
that red circle right there,
-
is sort of the heart of the Assyrian Empire.
-
And over on the left-hand side, that blue circle is Egypt.
-
And as with big world empires,
-
they wanted to trade with people who were a little bit far away from them.
-
The people in Assyria wanted goods that were made in Egypt.
-
And so they wanted to go from the red circle to the blue circle.
-
And it would seem the easiest way to do that is a straight line, right?
-
The shortest distance between two places is a straight line.
-
There's a problem with taking a straight line.
-
And that yellow circle is a desert.
-
And so if you try to take the straight line through there,
-
you're going to burn up and get dehydrated and die.
-
So what you need to do to get from Assyria over to Egypt,
-
or anywhere in the ancient Near East to Egypt,
-
is you need to take a path that follows the rivers.
-
They've got the Tigris there, the Euphrates there,
-
and then over in Israel, you've got the Jordan.
-
And so you follow the rivers
-
so that you have constant supply of fresh water along the way
-
so that you don't die during your journey.
-
And what that means is that this little stretch of land in Israel,
-
where Israel exists,
-
is a very, very valuable and strategic piece of land for many reasons.
-
One, all of the trade routes between Egypt and the rest of the known world
-
go through this little stretch of land in Israel.
-
If you own this stretch of land,
-
you can tax all the traders and make loads of money.
-
Also, from a military perspective,
-
any troop movement between Europe and Asia on land
-
that's trying to get to Africa,
-
or from Africa trying to get out,
-
needs to go through you.
-
And so if you own this little stretch of land,
-
you have amazing power economically, militarily.
-
It's kind of like the South China Sea of our day.
-
And Assyria is like the China of that South China Sea.
-
And so what you have leading up to this passage
-
is Assyria over here on the right.
-
They're like the China.
-
We can do what we want because we control this area.
-
And then you've got the green countries are Israel and Syria,
-
not to be confused with Assyria.
-
And the yellow one is Judah,
-
which is the southern couple tribes of Israel
-
that broke off from the rest of the nation.
-
And Assyria said,
-
we want to control this strip of land
-
because it will give us power,
-
it will give us control,
-
it will let us collect taxes instead of paying taxes.
-
It will give us amazing versatility
-
when it comes to military movements.
-
This is an important place.
-
And they're setting their sights on this strip of land.
-
And these little guys over here say,
-
uh-oh, we're in trouble.
-
We need to band together
-
so that we can have a fighting chance
-
of standing up to these guys.
-
So what happens is these green countries,
-
Israel and Syria,
-
get together and form an alliance.
-
Say, we're going to fight together against Assyria.
-
We're going to try and hold them off the best we can.
-
Judah, come join us.
-
Help us out.
-
And the king of Judah,
-
a guy named Ahaz,
-
says, I don't want to help you out.
-
I don't know if it was because
-
he just saw, like,
-
this is a losing effort,
-
there's no chance that we're going to survive this,
-
or if he was just like,
-
I don't like these guys,
-
I don't want to be on their side.
-
Either way,
-
he's not interested.
-
And so what Israel and Syria say is,
-
if you don't join our alliance,
-
we're going to come in and destroy your country,
-
A, to encourage you to join us,
-
and B, because we don't want you coming
-
and attacking us from behind
-
as we're trying to fight off this big enemy
-
from the other side.
-
And since Judah doesn't join their alliance,
-
Israel and Syria sweep in
-
and start wiping out the nation of Judah.
-
They're killing tens of thousands of people.
-
They capture hundreds of thousands of people.
-
Cities are being wiped out,
-
and Ahaz, the king of Judah,
-
does not know what to do.
-
And in this moment,
-
God sends a messenger to him,
-
a guy named Isaiah the prophet.
-
And Isaiah has a very important,
-
very simple message
-
for King Ahaz from God.
-
Don't worry.
-
I've got this.
-
I'm going to take care of this.
-
I'm going to get rid of Israel and Syria
-
from your land.
-
All you have to do is trust me.
-
And to prove to you that I'm going to do this,
-
you can ask for any sign,
-
anything that you want.
-
It can be as high as heaven
-
or as deep as the grave.
-
I will give it to you
-
to prove to you that I'm going to keep my word.
-
And King Ahaz says,
-
I will not put the Lord to the test,
-
which sounds really noble, right?
-
That's what Jesus says
-
when Satan tempts him in the desert.
-
But actually it's not.
-
Because what Ahaz is saying is,
-
I don't trust God.
-
I don't want to do
-
what God is telling me to do.
-
I've got this.
-
I can handle this.
-
Leave me alone, God.
-
And he goes to the temple
-
where the Israelites would worship God
-
and he strips down all the gold
-
and all the valuable metals.
-
He melts them down
-
and he sends them with messengers
-
as a gift to the king of Assyria,
-
the big bad guys.
-
And he says,
-
hey, do me a favor.
-
Here's a little gift.
-
Go attack Israel and Syria
-
and just take them out.
-
So the king of Assyria says,
-
okay.
-
And he marches down
-
and he takes out Israel.
-
He takes out Syria.
-
And then he's like,
-
while I'm here,
-
I may as well go take out Judah too.
-
And he starts marching in
-
to take out Judah
-
because Ahaz, the king of Judah,
-
did not trust God
-
and wait for God to rescue him.
-
And now ultimately,
-
they didn't succeed
-
in capturing the capital of Judah
-
at that time.
-
So the nation survived.
-
But the nation is a mess.
-
Their cities are one by one
-
being taken away
-
and conquered and destroyed.
-
And the land is miserable.
-
And it's a situation
-
that the end of Isaiah chapter eight
-
in that last verse,
-
verse 22 describes as,
-
behold, distress and darkness,
-
the gloom of anguish,
-
and they will be thrust
-
into deep or thick darkness.
-
It's a miserable, terrible,
-
heart-wrenching time
-
in the nation of Judah.
-
And it's at this moment
-
that Isaiah steps in
-
with Isaiah chapter nine.
-
And when we see the start,
-
especially of Isaiah chapter nine,
-
in the light of this context,
-
it helps us to understand
-
Isaiah is saying
-
something huge right here.
-
Isaiah steps in
-
and he says,
-
there will be no gloom
-
for her who is in anguish.
-
In the previous verse,
-
we have the gloom of anguish
-
and now we have no gloom
-
for her who is in anguish.
-
If you jump down to verse two,
-
the people who walked in darkness
-
have seen a great light.
-
Instead of this deep darkness,
-
a light is shining on the people.
-
As we go throughout the passage,
-
we see in verse five,
-
the boots of the trampling warrior
-
and the garments
-
that are rolled in blood
-
because it's what they were wearing
-
when they were fighting,
-
it will be burned.
-
Why do you burn your battle equipment?
-
Because you're done fighting.
-
Isaiah says,
-
there is a time coming
-
when you're going to have peace,
-
when you're going to have hope,
-
when you're going to have light
-
in your land.
-
It's not here yet,
-
but it's coming.
-
And it's not dependent
-
on your king
-
doing the right thing right now.
-
No, it's dependent on,
-
verse six,
-
a child who's going to be born.
-
A child who's going to come
-
and it says,
-
the government will be upon his shoulders.
-
He's going to rule this nation
-
and he's going to rule with justice
-
and he's going to bring peace
-
and his rule is going to expand and expand,
-
but that's going to be a good thing
-
because as he rules,
-
he is good.
-
And it gives us four descriptions
-
of what this ruler will be like.
-
It calls him the wonderful counselor,
-
the mighty God,
-
everlasting father,
-
prince of peace.
-
If you were here two weeks ago,
-
Alfie looked at what it means
-
for Jesus to be our wonderful counselor
-
and why we need a wonderful counselor.
-
Last week,
-
if you were here for the charity walk,
-
Chris talked about,
-
a little bit about what it means
-
for Jesus to be the mighty God
-
in our lives.
-
And today we're going to look
-
at what it means
-
for Jesus to be
-
our everlasting father.
-
And what we're going to see
-
is that although we often
-
choose to live
-
like spiritual orphans,
-
Jesus is
-
our everlasting father.
-
And having a perfect,
-
everlasting father
-
gives us freedom
-
to live as the children of God.
-
We're going to take three steps
-
to getting there.
-
First, we're going to talk about
-
becoming an orphan.
-
Second, we're going to talk about
-
living as an orphan.
-
And third,
-
we're going to talk about
-
life with a father.
-
First up,
-
becoming an orphan.
-
So Ahaz,
-
as the king of Judah,
-
was basically supposed to be
-
like a father to the nation.
-
A king was supposed to be
-
a protective caregiver,
-
which is a huge role
-
of a father.
-
But Ahaz was a terrible father,
-
both to the nation
-
and to his own kids.
-
And how do we know
-
that he was a terrible father
-
to his own kids?
-
Because he killed them.
-
The Bible is very clear
-
that God does not want
-
his people
-
worshiping idols.
-
And a big part of that,
-
besides the fact that
-
they're false gods,
-
is that
-
the worship of idols,
-
especially in the Old Testament times,
-
involved doing
-
many terrible things.
-
And one of them
-
was child sacrifice.
-
And so it says
-
that
-
in
-
2 Kings
-
and 2 Chronicles,
-
when it's talking about Ahaz,
-
it says
-
that he caused his sons
-
to pass through the fire.
-
Basically,
-
they would have this fire burning,
-
you send in your son,
-
and then your son burns up,
-
and it's supposed to be
-
a pleasing sacrifice to God.
-
This guy did that
-
with his kids.
-
Now,
-
if he's that terrible
-
of a father
-
to his family,
-
how do you expect him
-
to lead the nation?
-
You don't.
-
And so when you look at
-
the way that he rules
-
the nation,
-
this man who's supposed
-
to be the protective caregiver
-
to the nation,
-
who's supposed to be
-
this father figure
-
to the nation,
-
when his nation
-
is under distress,
-
he strips down the temple
-
from everything valuable,
-
he sends it away
-
to the king of Assyria,
-
and the message
-
that he sends
-
to the king of Assyria
-
is,
-
I am your son.
-
Please come rescue me.
-
That's in 2 Kings 16.
-
He says,
-
I am your son.
-
This man who's supposed
-
to be like a father
-
to the nation
-
just abdicates
-
that responsibility
-
and says,
-
you,
-
this foreign nation
-
that God told me
-
not to interact with,
-
you're our father now.
-
Ahaz was not
-
a good king.
-
And why does he,
-
why does he fail
-
so miserably
-
as a father
-
both in his family
-
and in the nation?
-
Because he's living
-
as a spiritual orphan.
-
And here's what I mean
-
when I talk about
-
spiritual orphans.
-
A spiritual orphan
-
is someone
-
who functionally
-
on a day-to-day level
-
does not believe
-
that they have
-
a perfect heavenly father
-
who loves them
-
and provides for them.
-
So with Ahaz,
-
he is not trusting God
-
to provide for him
-
or his country.
-
He's taking matters
-
into his own hands
-
and he is failing
-
his people miserably.
-
And I know
-
as we talk about
-
God as a father
-
and what it means
-
for God to be a father,
-
there are probably
-
a lot of us in here
-
who when we think
-
about the idea
-
of a father,
-
it's a painful thought
-
because our fathers
-
fail us.
-
And I think
-
in Hong Kong
-
that's probably
-
like accelerated
-
the rate
-
at which fathers
-
fail their children.
-
And I think
-
when we,
-
we each have a tendency
-
to project
-
our earthly father's
-
failures onto God.
-
God.
-
And so when we hear
-
that God's our father
-
and we know
-
that our fathers
-
failed us so miserably,
-
we think,
-
well,
-
if God's a much
-
bigger father,
-
then he's gonna fail
-
us so much more
-
miserably, right?
-
And I think
-
there are three,
-
probably we can group
-
the ways that our fathers
-
fail us into three
-
big categories.
-
The first one,
-
this is huge in Asia,
-
we'll call the
-
always could be
-
better father.
-
If you come home
-
with a 99 on your exam,
-
why didn't you get 100?
-
If you got accepted
-
to Harvard,
-
why didn't they give
-
you a full ride?
-
No matter how much
-
you accomplish,
-
no matter how much
-
you do,
-
it is never good enough.
-
The always could be
-
better father
-
pushes his children
-
beyond what they
-
are capable of,
-
always expects more,
-
and their children
-
always live in fear
-
of disappointing
-
their father.
-
Second up,
-
the angry father.
-
Anything can make
-
him go wild.
-
His kids live in fear
-
of doing something
-
to set him off.
-
Violence or yelling
-
can come out of this.
-
I went to university
-
with a guy
-
who had an angry father.
-
He shared with us
-
about how when he was
-
a kid,
-
his dad would beat
-
his mom,
-
and he was too small
-
or powerless
-
to do anything
-
to stop it,
-
so all he would do
-
is sit there
-
and watch.
-
And the thing
-
that makes this story
-
even more sad
-
is that this kid's
-
parents were missionaries.
-
So his idea
-
growing up
-
of what it means
-
to be a man
-
who loves and serves
-
God is that
-
you beat your wife.
-
When you take
-
that idea of a father
-
and project it
-
onto God,
-
how do you think
-
that impacts
-
the way that you
-
see God
-
as a father?
-
So we have
-
the always
-
could be better father,
-
we have the angry father,
-
and then third,
-
we have the absent father.
-
And this is another one
-
that's huge in Hong Kong.
-
Some fathers are absent
-
because they simply
-
abandon their families.
-
Some are absent
-
in Hong Kong
-
because they have
-
a second family
-
across the border
-
and they're just
-
spending their time
-
with the second family
-
instead of with
-
their own family.
-
Some,
-
this is a huge way
-
that fathers are absent
-
in Hong Kong,
-
is workaholism.
-
They spend all their time
-
at the office,
-
at their job,
-
traveling for work,
-
and never actually
-
have time to be
-
with their kids.
-
And then some fathers
-
in Hong Kong
-
spend lots of time
-
with their families,
-
spend lots of time
-
with their kids,
-
but they're so tired
-
and stressed
-
from the time
-
they've been at work
-
that during that time
-
they turn to things
-
like alcohol
-
or television to cope.
-
And even though
-
they're physically present,
-
they're mentally
-
and emotionally absent.
-
Our fathers fail us
-
in many ways
-
and we have a tendency
-
to project those failures
-
onto God.
-
You know,
-
for me,
-
I had great parents
-
growing up.
-
They're still great parents.
-
If they listen to the podcast,
-
hi mom and dad,
-
you're fantastic.
-
But they weren't perfect.
-
My parents,
-
when I was in school,
-
always told me,
-
whatever grades you get,
-
we're happy
-
as long as you do your best.
-
And for me,
-
my best was straight A's.
-
And I got straight A's.
-
But,
-
even though they were happy
-
with my grades,
-
I was always living
-
a little bit nervous,
-
a little bit in fear.
-
Because first off,
-
if I got a 95 on a project
-
and I knew that I could have
-
gotten a 97
-
by working just a tiny bit harder,
-
I knew that 95 wasn't my best.
-
I think I grew up
-
on the wrong continent.
-
And I would live in fear
-
that they would find out
-
that 95 was not truly my best
-
and be disappointed with me
-
for my 95.
-
95.
-
I lived in constant fear
-
that I would get an assignment back
-
and that rather than an A,
-
it would be a C or a B.
-
Because I knew
-
that they knew
-
that I was capable of an A
-
and I was always afraid
-
that I would fall short,
-
that I wouldn't live up
-
to what they knew
-
that I was capable of.
-
And I lived,
-
these fears were reality to me.
-
And as I grew up,
-
I took these fears
-
and projected them
-
onto my relationship with God.
-
Because I knew that for God,
-
my standard is not do your best,
-
the standard is perfection.
-
And so even though
-
I was one of the best behaved kids
-
in my school,
-
one of the best behaved kids
-
in my church,
-
I knew on the inside
-
that I fall short
-
of that standard.
-
I knew on the inside
-
that I have not done enough
-
to live up to God's standard.
-
And rather than understanding
-
the gospel
-
and seeing that
-
that's the whole point,
-
that I can't live up to it,
-
but he loves me
-
and accepts me anyways,
-
I had this feeling of shame
-
that just followed me everywhere
-
because I hadn't lived up
-
to the standard
-
that I needed to.
-
And I would put in effort,
-
trying so hard
-
to do better
-
so that God could love me
-
and accept me.
-
And rather than enjoying
-
being God's son
-
and getting to enjoy
-
that relationship with him,
-
I ended up living my life
-
as a show,
-
terrified on the inside
-
that God is out to get me,
-
but smiling on the outside
-
because I didn't want
-
anyone else to know
-
that that's how I really felt.
-
and it was because
-
I had taken
-
this false understanding
-
of my relationship
-
with my earthly parents
-
and projected it
-
onto God
-
as my father.
-
And I think each of us
-
does that to some extent
-
and because of that,
-
each of us
-
has a tendency
-
to live
-
at least somewhat
-
as a spiritual orphan.
-
So what does it look like
-
to live as an orphan?
-
I have these friends.
-
They're adopting
-
a little kid.
-
He's like two.
-
And they had the chance
-
to go and meet this kid.
-
They took him out
-
for dinner
-
and they're so excited
-
because like,
-
this is going to be
-
our son.
-
And this is our first chance
-
to get to know
-
our son.
-
And they're at this restaurant
-
getting ready for dinner
-
and they've ordered
-
their food
-
and they're sitting
-
there waiting
-
and as a two-year-old
-
he sort of gets up
-
and starts wandering
-
around the restaurant
-
because that's what
-
two-year-olds do.
-
But as he wanders
-
around the restaurant
-
he walks up
-
to different tables
-
and just starts staring
-
and smiling at the people
-
there,
-
waving a little bit,
-
only he's like this tall
-
so he's looking up
-
and waving at them.
-
And everyone,
-
of course,
-
it's a two-year-old,
-
they're smiling
-
and waving back
-
and he's sort of
-
looking between them
-
and the food
-
and them
-
and the food
-
and at a couple tables
-
they like grabbed
-
a little piece of food
-
and gave it to him
-
as a snack.
-
And my friends,
-
they're watching
-
their son-to-be
-
and they're like,
-
this is so cute,
-
he's so outgoing
-
and friendly.
-
They realize
-
at a couple tables
-
he would walk up
-
and if the people
-
didn't offer him food
-
he would just reach up
-
and grab it.
-
But again,
-
he's two,
-
no one's mad about that.
-
And they thought,
-
this is so fantastic,
-
our kid is so outgoing.
-
And then as they
-
got home
-
and started doing
-
more research
-
about adoption
-
they realized,
-
actually,
-
this behavior
-
is an orphan tendency.
-
Because I,
-
as a two-year-old,
-
would never have done that.
-
Because I,
-
as a two-year-old,
-
knew that if I stayed
-
at my parents' table
-
I had a meal coming.
-
But for a two-year-old orphan,
-
they don't know
-
that their parents
-
are going to give them
-
a meal
-
because they don't
-
have parents.
-
And so they feel
-
the need
-
to walk around
-
and grab scraps
-
off the tables
-
of strangers
-
because they can't rely
-
on their parents
-
to provide.
-
And when we live
-
as spiritual orphans,
-
what we do
-
is we look at God,
-
our Father,
-
and we don't trust
-
Him to provide.
-
And we feel the need
-
to provide for ourselves
-
by going around
-
and grabbing scraps
-
off the table
-
of strangers
-
in the world.
-
We choose to live
-
as an orphan
-
when we sacrifice
-
the feast
-
that our Father
-
wants to give to us
-
and trade it in
-
for scraps
-
and leftovers.
-
Like I said before,
-
the main question
-
of a spiritual orphan
-
is do I really believe
-
that I have
-
a heavenly dad
-
who loves me
-
and cares for me?
-
And the reality is
-
as long as we answer
-
yes to that question,
-
we're going to be
-
incredibly loving,
-
incredibly patient,
-
incredibly generous people.
-
But the moment
-
we start to believe
-
that the answer
-
to that question
-
is no
-
or maybe,
-
we start feeling
-
the need
-
to fend for ourselves,
-
to defend ourselves,
-
to reach out
-
and grasp
-
for anything
-
that we can get
-
because we are
-
the only ones
-
who are going
-
to care for ourselves.
-
So living as
-
a spiritual orphan
-
means being controlling
-
and manipulative
-
at work
-
because God
-
might not provide
-
for my family
-
so I need to maneuver
-
for promotions
-
and for tearing
-
other people down.
-
If I make a mistake,
-
I need to make sure
-
that it can get pinned
-
on someone else
-
so that my job
-
is not in danger.
-
spiritual orphans
-
live incredibly
-
stressed and anxious
-
lives.
-
A parent
-
who's living
-
as a spiritual orphan
-
is going to lose sleep
-
about whether their kid
-
can get into
-
that top university
-
because I've done
-
all I can
-
and I don't know
-
that God's going
-
to take care of them.
-
Actually,
-
when we looked earlier
-
at the different ways
-
that our fathers fail us,
-
that absent father,
-
the angry father,
-
and the always
-
could be better father,
-
each of them
-
responds in those ways
-
as a father
-
because of their
-
orphan tendencies
-
themselves.
-
The always
-
could be better father
-
feels the need
-
to constantly
-
push his children
-
to excel
-
beyond their capacity
-
because he believes
-
their future
-
will be ruined
-
if he doesn't
-
because he doesn't
-
believe that he has
-
a perfect father
-
who's going to
-
provide for them.
-
The angry father
-
feels the need
-
to try and grasp
-
for control
-
of his world
-
through anger
-
because he doesn't
-
believe that he has
-
a perfect heavenly father
-
who's in control
-
and who's good
-
with that control.
-
The absent father
-
feels the need
-
to escape
-
from the realities
-
of life
-
because he doesn't
-
believe that he has
-
a perfect father
-
who's going to
-
bring him
-
through these realities
-
to something better.
-
every time
-
we choose
-
to react
-
in anger
-
anxiety
-
stress
-
fear
-
grasping for control
-
defensiveness
-
the list could go on
-
what we're doing
-
is we're showing
-
symptoms of the fact
-
that we believe
-
we are spiritual orphans
-
who need to look
-
after ourselves
-
and grab scraps
-
from the table
-
of life
-
rather than enjoy
-
the feast
-
that our father
-
wants to provide
-
for us.
-
So what does it
-
look like
-
to start living
-
as children of God
-
to start seeing
-
Jesus as
-
our everlasting
-
father?
-
We will only
-
ever begin
-
to live
-
as children of God
-
when we begin
-
to see living
-
as children of God
-
as more beautiful
-
than what the world
-
can offer us.
-
You know
-
today's passage
-
talks about Jesus
-
as an everlasting father
-
and if you've been
-
in church
-
for any amount
-
of time
-
that might be
-
confusing to you
-
because in church
-
we talk about
-
the Trinity
-
there's one God
-
with three persons
-
the Father, Son,
-
the Holy Spirit
-
and in the Trinity
-
Jesus is the Son
-
and if you ever
-
study the Trinity
-
one of the big
-
things you learn
-
the Father is not
-
the Son
-
the Son is not
-
the Father
-
get that drilled
-
into your head
-
and here
-
it's referring to
-
Jesus the Son
-
and it's calling
-
him a Father
-
what is going on?
-
But what's going on
-
here
-
is that it's not
-
talking about
-
how Jesus relates
-
to God
-
within the Trinity
-
it's talking about
-
how Jesus relates
-
to us
-
because to us
-
he's a provider
-
he's a protector
-
he's doing the things
-
that a father
-
is supposed to do
-
and so even though
-
in the Trinity
-
he's the Son
-
it still tells us
-
that we can look at him
-
as the everlasting
-
Father
-
and at Christmas season
-
we celebrate
-
his birth
-
which if you ever
-
think about it
-
is incredible
-
that the God
-
who made
-
the world
-
and the stars
-
and the entire universe
-
by speaking
-
would step down
-
and wrap himself
-
in human flesh
-
and live life
-
as one of us
-
that's mind-boggling
-
just sit down
-
and spend five minutes
-
trying to comprehend it
-
and you will have
-
a headache
-
because Christmas
-
is so incredible
-
if you look at
-
what God did there
-
but Christmas
-
isn't the full story
-
Christmas actually
-
has very little power
-
for us
-
if it's separated
-
from Good Friday
-
and Easter
-
because what we see
-
in Good Friday
-
and Easter
-
is that Jesus
-
is the perfect
-
everlasting Father
-
that we all
-
long for
-
and need
-
in Good Friday
-
Jesus
-
our Father
-
protector
-
steps up
-
and fights
-
the battle for us
-
against our two
-
greatest enemies
-
sin and death
-
that we could never
-
fight on our own
-
and he conquers them
-
how do we know
-
that he conquers them
-
because on Easter
-
he rises from the dead
-
death cannot hold him
-
sin cannot overcome him
-
and as he overcomes them
-
he sets us free
-
he is our Father
-
who has stepped down
-
who has left
-
the comfort
-
of his comfy
-
lazy boy lounge chair
-
in heaven
-
and come down
-
to enter into
-
the mess
-
of our world
-
and deal
-
with every single
-
last one
-
of our problems
-
at the greatest
-
possible cost
-
to himself
-
his life
-
through Jesus
-
life
-
death
-
and resurrection
-
he sets himself
-
apart
-
from our earthly
-
fathers
-
and all the ways
-
that they fail us
-
see I think
-
we have a tendency
-
to project
-
our earthly
-
fathers
-
flaws
-
onto God
-
but the reality
-
is
-
that our earthly
-
fathers
-
are flawed
-
imitations
-
of the true
-
perfect father
-
that we have
-
in Jesus
-
and how do we
-
know this
-
because of the cross
-
the cross
-
tells us
-
that Jesus
-
is not
-
the always
-
could be
-
better father
-
he's the
-
accepting father
-
who sees
-
every single
-
last one
-
of our flaws
-
and rather than
-
judging us
-
and despising
-
us for it
-
steps down
-
and pays
-
the price
-
for our failures
-
at the cost
-
of his own
-
life
-
so that we
-
can be
-
accepted
-
and not
-
have to live
-
in fear
-
of letting
-
our father
-
down
-
rather than
-
the angry
-
father
-
he is the
-
abounding
-
in love
-
father
-
who although
-
he has
-
every right
-
to be
-
furious
-
at us
-
steps down
-
in love
-
and bears
-
the consequences
-
for our sin
-
on himself
-
rather than
-
the absent
-
father
-
he is
-
the always
-
present
-
father
-
who came
-
to earth
-
as one
-
of us
-
living
-
as one
-
of us
-
so that
-
we can
-
see him
-
and know
-
him
-
and then
-
when he
-
went back
-
to heaven
-
sent his
-
spirit
-
to live
-
inside
-
of us
-
so that
-
the bible
-
tells us
-
that if
-
we are
-
Christians
-
he is
-
living
-
inside
-
of us
-
right now
-
empowering
-
us
-
for our
-
day to
-
day life
-
following
-
him
-
see in
-
contrast
-
to our
-
flawed
-
fathers
-
he is
-
the
-
awesome
-
father
-
he is
-
trustworthy
-
he is
-
reliable
-
he is
-
everlasting
-
he will
-
never
-
fail us
-
and if
-
you are
-
here today
-
and you
-
don't
-
know
-
God
-
as a
-
father
-
this
-
talk
-
of
-
having
-
God
-
as a
-
father
-
seems
-
confusing
-
or foreign
-
to you
-
I encourage
-
you to
-
talk to
-
me
-
or to
-
Chris
-
or one
-
of the
-
other
-
people
-
here at
-
Watermark
-
and ask
-
us
-
about
-
what
-
that
-
means
-
and how
-
you can
-
have
-
this
-
type
-
of
-
relationship
-
with
-
God
-
because
-
it
-
is
-
life
-
changing
-
what does
-
it look
-
like
-
when our
-
lives
-
have been
-
so
-
transformed
-
by our
-
understanding
-
of God
-
seeing him
-
as a
-
father
-
that we
-
can live
-
as his
-
children
-
I want
-
to share
-
a little
-
story with
-
you
-
that I
-
think
-
illustrates
-
this
-
really
-
well
-
I used
-
to work
-
at a
-
summer
-
camp
-
for
-
first
-
through
-
sixth
-
graders
-
parents
-
would drop
-
off
-
their
-
kids
-
on
-
Sunday
-
afternoon
-
and
-
we
-
would
-
have
-
them
-
until
-
Saturday
-
afternoon
-
so
-
you
-
got
-
to
-
see
-
a
-
lot
-
of
-
crazy
-
stuff
-
at
-
this
-
summer
-
camp
-
one
-
week
-
there
-
was
-
this
-
kid
-
he
-
was
-
probably
-
seven
-
or eight
-
years
-
old
-
at the
-
time
-
he
-
was
-
staying
-
in the
-
cabin
-
next
-
to
-
mine
-
his
-
dad
-
was
-
a
-
WWE
-
wrestler
-
so
-
you
-
know
-
they
-
like
-
pick
-
up
-
the
-
chairs
-
and
-
smash
-
each
-
other
-
over
-
the
-
head
-
and
-
climb
-
up
-
on
-
the
-
rails
-
and
-
jump
-
off
-
and
-
slam
-
each
-
other
-
that
-
was
-
this
-
kid's
-
dad's
-
job
-
and
-
this
-
kid
-
one
-
day
-
got
-
into
-
an
-
argument
-
with
-
another
-
kid
-
in
-
his
-
cabin
-
don't
-
know
-
what
-
the
-
argument
-
was
-
about
-
don't
-
know
-
how
-
it
-
started
-
but
-
I
-
know
-
that
-
it
-
escalated
-
to
-
the
-
point
-
where
-
this
-
kid
-
told
-
the
-
other
-
kid
-
oh
-
yeah
-
well
-
my
-
dad
-
can
-
beat
-
your
-
dad
-
up
-
and
-
the
-
counselor
-
from
-
his
-
cabin
-
was
-
watching
-
this
-
unfold
-
and
-
he
-
said
-
normally
-
I
-
would
-
step
-
in
-
and
-
stop
-
this
-
argument
-
around
-
this
-
point
-
but
-
I
-
love
-
that
-
picture
-
not
-
because
-
I
-
think
-
we
-
should
-
be
-
cocky
-
and
-
arrogant
-
having
-
God
-
as
-
our
-
father
-
but
-
think
-
about
-
the
-
confidence
-
that
-
kid
-
had
-
in
-
his
-
father
-
he
-
knew
-
that
-
my
-
father
-
is
-
strong
-
he
-
knew
-
that
-
my
-
father
-
cares
-
about
-
me
-
my
-
father
-
cares
-
about
-
me
-
so
-
much
-
that
-
he
-
is
-
willing
-
to
-
fight
-
my
-
battles
-
for
-
me
-
I
-
don't
-
need
-
to
-
worry
-
about
-
being
-
the
-
strongest
-
I
-
don't
-
and
-
so
-
this
-
kid
-
was
-
able
-
to
-
live
-
with
-
incredible
-
confidence
-
knowing
-
that
-
he
-
was
-
loved
-
by
-
his
-
father
-
who
-
was
-
so
-
strong
-
and
-
if
-
we
-
have
-
God
-
as
-
our
-
father
-
who's
-
way
-
stronger
-
than
-
this
-
kid's
-
dad's
-
father
-
who's
-
everlasting
-
as
-
our
-
father
-
how
-
much
-
more
-
confident
-
should
-
we
-
be
-
in
-
him
-
in
-
a
-
father
-
who
-
has
-
proven
-
over
-
and
-
over
-
again
-
that
-
he
-
loves
-
his
-
children
-
with
-
an
-
unstoppable
-
love
-
that
-
cannot
-
be
-
stopped
-
even
-
if
-
it
-
costs
-
his
-
life
-
how
-
much
-
should
-
that
-
drive
-
us
-
to
-
love
-
others
-
to
-
be
-
patient
-
when
-
things
-
aren't
-
going
-
our
-
way
-
to
-
be
-
willing
-
to
-
take
-
the
-
hit
-
even
-
for
-
someone
-
else's
-
mistakes
-
because
-
we
-
know
-
that
-
it's
-
not
-
about
-
me
-
grasping
-
for
-
everything
-
that I
-
can get
-
off the
-
table
-
of strangers
-
but it's
-
about
-
my father
-
loving me
-
providing for me
-
and I know
-
that if I
-
wait at his
-
table
-
if I
-
trust in him
-
if I
-
follow him
-
there is a
-
feast
-
being prepared
-
for me
-
we don't need to fear
-
we don't need to grasp
-
we don't need to live
-
as spiritual orphans
-
because we
-
we don't need to
-
love him
-
because we have a
-
perfect father who
-
loves us and cares
-
for us in the way
-
that no earthly
-
father could
-
and that's one of the
-
things that we
-
celebrate at
-
Christmas
-
that Jesus came to
-
reveal that father
-
to us
-
to be a father
-
to us
-
who protects us
-
who guards us
-
who rescues us
-
let's pray
-
Jesus we thank you
-
that you are a
-
perfect father to us
-
that you love us
-
that you rescue us
-
at the cost of your
-
own life
-
and that because of
-
your love
-
because of
-
you rescuing us
-
we don't need to
-
live in fear
-
we don't need to
-
to strive
-
and worry
-
and be anxious
-
and lose sleep
-
about the future
-
because you have
-
got us
-
because you're the
-
perfect father who
-
loves us
-
who cares for us
-
who never lets us
-
go
-
never lets us down
-
Jesus we pray
-
that this week
-
that we would see
-
the beauty of
-
Christmas
-
that we would see
-
the beauty of you
-
that we would fall
-
more in love with you
-
and that we would
-
learn to trust you
-
rather than living
-
as orphans
-
God I confess
-
that I
-
fail to believe
-
this so often
-
I pray that you
-
would transform my
-
heart and give me
-
an understanding
-
of what it means
-
to be
-
your son
-
to live in joy
-
because of that
-
to live in peace
-
because of that
-
in Jesus name
-
amen
-
amen