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So That It May Go Well With You

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  1. Good morning, Watermark. My name is Graham, and I'm one of the elders here.

  2. Last week, Chris mentioned an expectation when we come to hear God's Word, and I'd like to really continue that expectation that we set when we sit before God and His Word.

  3. We want to hear Him speaking to us. I'd like to pray. I'd like to speak to Him before I speak to you.

  4. Father, we thank You so much that You are a God who is real, who is a Father who wants to have a relationship with us.

  5. Lord, I pray prepare our hearts and our minds for Your Word.

  6. I pray help us to hear what You are saying to us, and Lord, not only to be hearers of the Word, but doers of the Word.

  7. I ask that if there's anything that I say that is not true to Your Word, that You would help us forget it before it does any damage.

  8. But I do pray that if Your truth comes out today, that people will forget me, but they will remember Your Word.

  9. In Jesus' name, Amen.

  10. I want to begin by asking you to imagine with me that I have the means and the power to make you a millionaire.

  11. Well, let's up that a bit.

  12. I have the means and the power to make you a billionaire this morning.

  13. All you need to do is get out of your seat, walk up on the stage, and take it.

  14. Let's up that a little more.

  15. I have the means and the power to make you a trillionaire this morning.

  16. But all you need to do is get out of your chair and come and take it.

  17. Okay, let's test that.

  18. I have the means to make you a trillionaire this morning.

  19. All you need to do is get up and come and take it.

  20. Oh, good.

  21. Lorna was first.

  22. I saw that you moved.

  23. Come.

  24. Well, you have to move.

  25. This is a trillion dollars on offer here.

  26. All right, yeah.

  27. Let's get very clear.

  28. Oh, Lolly, you're too slow.

  29. No, no.

  30. It's just the first one.

  31. Sorry.

  32. Even if you're pregnant, it doesn't count.

  33. Sorry.

  34. Got to go sit down.

  35. All right.

  36. Moment of truth.

  37. Am I true to my word?

  38. Well, you've got to ask for it, Janet.

  39. Okay.

  40. Not only am I going to give Janet a trillion dollars, I'm going to give her $20 trillion.

  41. This is legal tender.

  42. It really is $20 trillion.

  43. Unfortunately, it's Zimbabwean dollars.

  44. Okay.

  45. But it is real and it is legal tender.

  46. So, Janet, there you go.

  47. That's yours.

  48. That's Watermark's first trillionaire.

  49. Before you get too excited, it's only worth about $80 Hong Kong, right?

  50. So, before you start asking her to buy you a car or take you out for lunch or anything like that, a trillion dollars.

  51. But that's exactly the situation the Israelites faced.

  52. God had promised them that a land flowing with milk and honey, a good land,

  53. all they had to do was go in and take what God had promised them.

  54. But they failed.

  55. God had promised them.

  56. They got to the promised land and they said, we're not going in.

  57. We're too scared.

  58. We're not going in.

  59. So, God sent them on a 40-year journey and he said all the adults in that generation would have to die out except for two.

  60. And then we would try again.

  61. And that's where we find ourselves now.

  62. The Israelites are camped on the side of the Jordan, ready to go in to the land of Canaan

  63. and take the land that God had promised them.

  64. And Moses is giving them the book of Deuteronomy.

  65. Okay, now have any of you ever been into a synagogue?

  66. Anybody?

  67. Okay, a couple.

  68. Now, if you go into a synagogue, what you'll see is a cupboard, right?

  69. And in that cupboard, you open it up and there are scrolls.

  70. I have a little miniature copy of what they would look like.

  71. So, they would take out these scrolls.

  72. There were five of them.

  73. They would contain what the Jews called the Torah, the law.

  74. And to make sure they got the right scroll that they were looking for, they would open it a little bit.

  75. Okay?

  76. And they would see what the words were.

  77. The first words that they read, they would just give the name to that book.

  78. So, for Genesis, they would open it up and it would be in the beginning.

  79. And that's what Genesis means, in the beginning.

  80. And with Deuteronomy, you'd open it up in Hebrew.

  81. It means these are the words.

  82. Because that was the first word on the scroll.

  83. But when it came time to translate it from the Hebrew to the Greek, they changed it.

  84. And they took two Greek words, judo, which means second, and numos, which means law.

  85. The second law.

  86. Now, the reason it was called the second law was because, if you know, in Exodus, the law, the covenant, was given the first time.

  87. And now it was being repeated to a new generation.

  88. Because they forget, right?

  89. And Moses was giving them all the encouragement, all the decrees and the commands that they would need to go in and live in the promised land.

  90. It was theirs.

  91. God had promised it to them.

  92. But they needed to go in and take it.

  93. And he says, if you go in, there are two areas which you really need to take care in.

  94. These two things are the foundation.

  95. You have to get them right to live how I want you to live in the land.

  96. And that is, you need to get your duty towards God right.

  97. You need to understand your relationship with Him.

  98. That is your foundation.

  99. And then the second thing you want to get right is your duty towards your children.

  100. Because you need to pass on this message to the next generation.

  101. Because they are going to be foundational and live in the land.

  102. Two things.

  103. Your duty towards God and your duty towards your children.

  104. And he tells them, the reason, the reason you need these is so that it may go well with you.

  105. So that it may go well with you.

  106. Have any of you seen a Singaporean movie?

  107. It's quite old now.

  108. It's called, I'm Not Stupid.

  109. Anyone seen it?

  110. It's a good movie.

  111. Quite funny, right?

  112. But there's a scene in it.

  113. I love it.

  114. You constantly get these parents who are forcing their kids to study.

  115. And whenever the kids protest, the parents would say, for your own good, la.

  116. For your own good, la.

  117. And that's exactly what God's saying, right?

  118. It wasn't about studying.

  119. But he's saying, get it right.

  120. It's for your own good, la.

  121. So that it may go well with you.

  122. And God hasn't changed.

  123. He still desires the same thing.

  124. He wishes and desires that it may go well with you.

  125. Now, we might need to readjust what we think well means.

  126. But this year, God wants it to go well with you.

  127. And God wants to do things for you, in you, and through you this year.

  128. So, your duty towards God and your duty towards your children.

  129. But first, before he tells them, he details what he means by that.

  130. He needs to remind them of who he is.

  131. Because the Israelites had this tendency to make God small.

  132. And we tend to do the same thing.

  133. So, he reminds them.

  134. He says, I am the creator.

  135. This little ball that we are on in space, just floating through space at millions of miles an hour.

  136. God made that.

  137. And not only did he make that, he made the heavens and the stars and the moons and the planets and the universe.

  138. He made that.

  139. He's powerful.

  140. He's big.

  141. That's the God who is making this covenant with you.

  142. And he gives them this little prayer, right?

  143. This little saying.

  144. It's probably one of the most famous verses in the Torah.

  145. And it's called the Shema.

  146. And it goes like this.

  147. We read it today.

  148. It says,

  149. Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one.

  150. In English, hear, O Israel, sounds very polite, very proper.

  151. But in the Hebrew, it's a word that's kind of like, listen up, Israel.

  152. Pay attention, Israel.

  153. This is important.

  154. This is the foundation on which we will build and will go forward.

  155. This is it.

  156. The Lord our God, the God who created everything, he is ours.

  157. We belong to him.

  158. He belongs to us.

  159. He's relational.

  160. He cares about you.

  161. He knows you.

  162. He is ours.

  163. And the second thing, the Lord is one.

  164. Meaning he is the only God.

  165. There is no exception.

  166. There is no other choice or add on.

  167. It's God and God alone.

  168. Now, to put that into context,

  169. the Israelites were about to go into the land of Canaan,

  170. which was full of idolatry.

  171. And idolatry always leads to immorality.

  172. And it was the idolatry of many gods.

  173. They worship lots of gods.

  174. And God is saying, don't.

  175. Don't even ask how they serve their gods.

  176. Don't do it.

  177. I am the only one.

  178. I'm the only true God that really exists.

  179. Do not be tempted by what you see.

  180. However good it looks.

  181. However good that sin that leads from their idolatry looks.

  182. Don't do it.

  183. I am the only God before you.

  184. And then he reminds them of who they are.

  185. So first he reminds them of who he is.

  186. And then he reminds them of who they are.

  187. And he says, you were slaves in Egypt.

  188. You were nothing.

  189. You had no power.

  190. You had no place.

  191. You had no influence.

  192. You were nothing.

  193. But God chose you.

  194. There's a lovely verse that says,

  195. I love you because I love you.

  196. Right?

  197. Not because you have anything to offer God and say,

  198. God, look at me.

  199. I'll give you this.

  200. No, you were nothing.

  201. And yet God chose to love the Israelites.

  202. He chose them.

  203. And he made them great.

  204. He made them into a great nation.

  205. Right?

  206. They had nothing to offer him until he came and entered a relationship with them.

  207. And if you look today, they were in the might of Egypt.

  208. Powerful, powerful nations around them.

  209. And yet God has been faithful and he has made the Jews into a powerful nation.

  210. Even today, the Jews, their influence in this world is exceptional.

  211. Right?

  212. In the areas of art, entertainment, culture, finance.

  213. There's Jewish names all over it.

  214. So I read a statistic that in Harvard, they actually had to put a quota on it.

  215. But at Harvard, there were about 25% of their students are Jewish.

  216. But only 2% of the population in America.

  217. Hugely influential.

  218. Because God is faithful to his promises and he's faithful to us today.

  219. Because get this.

  220. Fast forward into the new covenant and we read this.

  221. It comes from 1 Corinthians 1.

  222. It says,

  223. Brothers and sisters, think of what you were when you were called.

  224. Not many of you were wise by human standards.

  225. Not many of you were influential.

  226. Not many of you were of noble birth.

  227. But God chose the foolish things of this world to shame the wise.

  228. God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.

  229. God chose you.

  230. I think it's such a humbling reminder that all the gifts and the talents that we possess,

  231. all the things that we're tempted to become prideful and arrogant about,

  232. are ultimately given by God to you.

  233. So no one can boast.

  234. No one can really say, you know, I'm actually pretty impressive.

  235. The only duty we have is to respond to God.

  236. You gave me the gifts and talents.

  237. Mold me.

  238. Let me use them for your glory.

  239. I think it is a great leveler.

  240. Really helps us to see who we are and just how good God is to us.

  241. So God makes this incredible covenant with his people.

  242. It's a great deal.

  243. So it's kind of like, I want you to imagine again,

  244. it's kind of like a king who has this incredible palace in his kingdom.

  245. There are vineyards and wells and animals and lush green grass.

  246. But outside is absolute poverty and squalor and nothingness.

  247. And the king himself comes out of his palace and he goes in to this poverty

  248. and he sees a boy who is an orphan.

  249. He has nothing.

  250. He is hungry.

  251. He's starving.

  252. And this king comes to him and says,

  253. you, I want you to come and live with me in my palace, in my kingdom.

  254. I will give you things that you did not work for,

  255. but I'm going to give them to you.

  256. And I just want you to come and I'm going to provide for you.

  257. I'm going to give you food and shelter and clothing and love and care.

  258. But all I want from you is just to remember that I'm the king.

  259. I have the power to execute judgment and punishment.

  260. And I just, I want you to love me.

  261. The love that I've shown you,

  262. I want you to respond to me with that kind of thing.

  263. I mean, can you imagine that kids' eyes,

  264. like, wait, wait, hang on, let me get this right.

  265. So I'm living here.

  266. I got no food.

  267. I'm living in dirt, no clothes.

  268. And you just come up and you say,

  269. can I live there with you?

  270. It's an amazing deal, right?

  271. I mean, if you think about it,

  272. what God is asking of that boy or the king,

  273. sorry, what he's asking of that boy,

  274. it's an incredibly just thing.

  275. He's just saying,

  276. show a little bit of gratitude for what I'm giving you.

  277. It's completely reasonable.

  278. But the benefits, who benefits from it?

  279. The benefits are purely in our favor,

  280. incredibly advantageous to us.

  281. So here it is.

  282. These are the things that God lays out.

  283. It's our duty towards God.

  284. And he gives it in three words.

  285. He says, fear, love, serve.

  286. Fear, love, serve.

  287. The fear of the Lord.

  288. Every day, I meet people who are afraid.

  289. They're afraid of sickness.

  290. They're afraid of financial collapse.

  291. They're afraid of their children

  292. not getting into good schools.

  293. They're afraid of the future.

  294. They're afraid of air pollution.

  295. And ultimately, they're afraid of death.

  296. But I meet very few people

  297. who are genuinely afraid of God.

  298. If you are afraid of God,

  299. you will fear nothing and no one else.

  300. Let me say that again.

  301. If you fear God,

  302. you will fear nothing and no one else.

  303. Here the Israelites were.

  304. They were going to go into the promised land.

  305. And they had every temptation to be afraid.

  306. Their parents' generation had got it wrong.

  307. They walked in and said,

  308. yes, everything God had promised.

  309. Hey, there's grapefruit, everything.

  310. But we're afraid.

  311. We're afraid.

  312. The people there, they're scary.

  313. We're afraid.

  314. And they were going to be tempted

  315. to be afraid again.

  316. And God's saying,

  317. do not fear them.

  318. Do not fear them.

  319. Fear me.

  320. I'm the only one you really need to be afraid of.

  321. Because if you're afraid of me,

  322. you're not going to be afraid of them.

  323. But what is this kind of fear

  324. we are talking about?

  325. Because I really see that

  326. the fear of God

  327. is kind of a controversial thing.

  328. And it's something

  329. we're a little bit uncomfortable with.

  330. So we tend not really to talk about it.

  331. But it's actually incredibly liberating

  332. and powerful

  333. to walk in the fear of the Lord.

  334. So what kind of fear is it?

  335. It's not a phobia

  336. that paralyzes you,

  337. that holds you down.

  338. It's the kind of fear

  339. that will lead you

  340. to the right action.

  341. So let me put the thing.

  342. As a father,

  343. there are times

  344. I need my children

  345. to be afraid of me.

  346. It just sounds weird,

  347. but it's true.

  348. I need my children

  349. to be afraid of me.

  350. So I'll give you an example.

  351. About two weeks ago,

  352. I'm sitting in our living room

  353. and I'm working at the desk

  354. on my computer

  355. and our balcony door is open.

  356. And my three-year-old,

  357. which is quite an adventurous little girl,

  358. she, I look,

  359. and she is now climbing up

  360. the railing of the balcony.

  361. Okay, now you're thinking

  362. bad parent, bad parent.

  363. Okay, I was, yes.

  364. But in that moment,

  365. I just shouted her name

  366. and called her here.

  367. And she obeyed, right?

  368. There was fear in her eyes.

  369. And she came straight to me.

  370. Now, if she hadn't been afraid of me,

  371. afraid that I had power,

  372. she would have just ignored me.

  373. Oh, yeah, who are you?

  374. And carried on doing.

  375. But she didn't.

  376. There was genuine fear

  377. that led to the right action.

  378. The right kind of fear

  379. will lead you to the right action.

  380. If you ever see a snake,

  381. that's a healthy fear.

  382. Okay, the right kind of action

  383. will tell you,

  384. run away.

  385. Run away.

  386. That's not a good idea.

  387. Don't touch the snake.

  388. That's what it is.

  389. The fear of the Lord.

  390. Here's the question for us.

  391. What are you afraid of?

  392. I ask myself this question.

  393. What am I afraid of?

  394. Because how I answer that question

  395. will determine if I'm really fearing God

  396. or am I fearing the circumstances around me

  397. or the people around me.

  398. What are you afraid of?

  399. The second thing God tells them,

  400. He says you are to love

  401. the Lord your God.

  402. Now,

  403. we hear the word so much.

  404. It's everywhere.

  405. Love, love wins.

  406. Love's great.

  407. But the thing with this kind of love,

  408. it's not an emotional love.

  409. It's much more of a devotional love.

  410. It's a love of obedience,

  411. a love of reverence

  412. for who it is

  413. that is speaking to you.

  414. It's a love that

  415. creates in us

  416. a desire

  417. to want to be close

  418. to that person.

  419. And it's a love

  420. that is responsive

  421. to the love

  422. that has been shown in you.

  423. God first loved you

  424. and how we respond to Him

  425. is an expression of that love.

  426. How we live

  427. is proof

  428. of this response.

  429. Jesus said it like this

  430. in John 14.

  431. Jesus replied,

  432. Anyone who loves me

  433. will obey my teaching.

  434. Let me read that again.

  435. Anyone who loves me

  436. will obey my teaching.

  437. I don't know if this

  438. has ever happened to you,

  439. but you meet someone

  440. who is knowingly

  441. and blatantly

  442. living with sin

  443. in their life.

  444. They know it's wrong.

  445. They're living it.

  446. Whatever it is.

  447. Sleeping with your girlfriend,

  448. cheating on your taxes,

  449. whatever it is.

  450. You know it's wrong.

  451. You say,

  452. You know,

  453. I love Jesus.

  454. I still love Jesus.

  455. No, not really.

  456. You love your sin

  457. and you might love Jesus

  458. a little bit,

  459. but you kind of love the sin.

  460. And Jesus is saying,

  461. That's not what I'm about.

  462. Love me.

  463. Love me.

  464. And all this other stuff

  465. will not matter.

  466. Love me

  467. out of a sense of reverence

  468. for Him.

  469. The question we have

  470. to ask ourselves is,

  471. Do we love Jesus

  472. or do we love our sin?

  473. Which one are we holding on to?

  474. And the third thing

  475. it gives Him is this,

  476. Serve Him

  477. with all your heart,

  478. with all your mind,

  479. and with all your strength.

  480. It's about giving God

  481. everything.

  482. Everything that's inside you.

  483. One thing about being a servant,

  484. the very first step in serving

  485. is to imply

  486. that you serve a master.

  487. You serve a Lord.

  488. Right?

  489. There is someone greater than you.

  490. You have to recognize

  491. that He's the Lord

  492. and you're not

  493. and I'm serving someone

  494. greater than myself.

  495. I like sports.

  496. I like watching sports.

  497. At the moment,

  498. it's the Australian Tennis Open.

  499. Anyone a tennis fan?

  500. Okay.

  501. There's about three of you.

  502. The rest of you

  503. just go along with the story.

  504. Okay.

  505. So,

  506. at the moment,

  507. there's the Australian Open

  508. and there's this,

  509. it's actually an Australian

  510. tennis player.

  511. It goes by the name

  512. of Nick Kurgis,

  513. right?

  514. 21-year-old.

  515. Anyone heard of him?

  516. About two months ago,

  517. he was playing in a tournament

  518. where he just gave up

  519. and he wasn't trying anymore.

  520. He was still playing tennis,

  521. but he just gave up

  522. and they actually found him.

  523. You go on YouTube,

  524. type in Nick Kurgis,

  525. just some of the language

  526. he uses is not appropriate,

  527. but he's there, right?

  528. And you see,

  529. you get to this match

  530. and he just gives up.

  531. He's still playing tennis,

  532. but he's not giving his all.

  533. It's just a little part of him,

  534. the little bit of effort

  535. that he puts in.

  536. And God is saying,

  537. I don't want that.

  538. Give me your all.

  539. There is no area of your life

  540. that is not worthy

  541. of service to him.

  542. You serve him in your work,

  543. in your relationships,

  544. in your finances.

  545. Every area of your life,

  546. it is in service to the Lord.

  547. It's not just the sacred Sunday thing

  548. that we're serving the Lord.

  549. It's every moment of every day

  550. you walk and you live your life

  551. in service to him.

  552. And the exact opposite of that

  553. is to test him.

  554. And this is how the Israelites tested him.

  555. It comes from Exodus 17.

  556. Listen carefully.

  557. It says,

  558. they tested the Lord

  559. by asking a question.

  560. Is the Lord among us or not?

  561. Now put that in context, right?

  562. Everything the Israelites

  563. had seen God do,

  564. every time he had provided for them,

  565. he had shown them the miraculous.

  566. And they asked this question,

  567. you know,

  568. is God really amongst us?

  569. Has he gone on holiday

  570. and left us?

  571. It's the ultimate disrespect

  572. and doubt to the Lord.

  573. Yeah, I don't know.

  574. I'm not really sure

  575. if God's here or not.

  576. I just,

  577. as a father,

  578. I just like to think,

  579. if my six-year-old

  580. suddenly got up and down

  581. and said,

  582. you know, Dad,

  583. I'm not really sure

  584. that you're the father

  585. of this house.

  586. I'm not really sure

  587. that you actually care

  588. about our family.

  589. It would hurt.

  590. As a dad,

  591. that would be,

  592. it would hurt me

  593. to know that kind of thing.

  594. And in that moment,

  595. we get a little bit

  596. to see God's heart here

  597. and know that God

  598. has feelings too.

  599. Do you know that?

  600. We're so wrapped up

  601. often in our own feelings,

  602. how we feel about God.

  603. But do you know

  604. that God has feelings?

  605. And he says it here.

  606. He says,

  607. I am a jealous God.

  608. Now, right,

  609. again,

  610. that has lots of

  611. negative connotations.

  612. Oh, jealous,

  613. that's not a good thing.

  614. Let me put it to you

  615. like this, right?

  616. If I saw someone else's wife

  617. that I like more than my own,

  618. which I don't,

  619. honey,

  620. I don't,

  621. but if I did,

  622. that would be envy.

  623. I want something

  624. that's not mine,

  625. which somebody else has.

  626. But if I saw someone

  627. with my wife,

  628. that would be jealousy

  629. because she belongs to me

  630. and I belong to her.

  631. She's mine.

  632. I should be jealous.

  633. If I wasn't,

  634. my wife would be

  635. asking questions.

  636. You know,

  637. that's a bit of a problem

  638. if you do not feel

  639. in a slight bit jealous

  640. that I'm with someone else.

  641. And that's how God's feeling.

  642. He's showing his heart.

  643. He says,

  644. I'm jealous,

  645. guys,

  646. don't you get it?

  647. That you're mine

  648. and I am yours.

  649. Don't flirt with other gods.

  650. Don't test me

  651. and say,

  652. are you really in this or not?

  653. I'm jealous

  654. because you are mine.

  655. Don't flirt with other gods.

  656. They've got nothing

  657. to offer you.

  658. And we do it, right?

  659. We might not have the gods

  660. that the Israelites

  661. were facing

  662. like proper Asher poles

  663. and stuff,

  664. but the gods

  665. of power,

  666. status,

  667. money,

  668. sex,

  669. they're all around us.

  670. And sometimes,

  671. if I'm honest,

  672. I kind of flirt with them

  673. a little bit, right?

  674. Or maybe a lot.

  675. God's saying,

  676. don't do it.

  677. I'm jealous for you.

  678. You're mine.

  679. They're not.

  680. They pale in comparison

  681. to who I am to you.

  682. Fear,

  683. love,

  684. serve the Lord.

  685. That is your foundation.

  686. That is what you are

  687. to live in the land.

  688. And if you live like that,

  689. it will go well with you.

  690. If you live like that,

  691. it will go well with you.

  692. And I want it to go well with you.

  693. But don't just stop there

  694. because you need

  695. to think about your kids.

  696. This is your duty

  697. to your family.

  698. And this is the verse.

  699. It says,

  700. impress them,

  701. the decrees

  702. and the commands of the Lord,

  703. impress them

  704. on your children.

  705. Talk about them

  706. when you sit at home,

  707. when you walk along the road,

  708. when you lie down,

  709. and when you get up.

  710. Now,

  711. to impress

  712. means to make

  713. an impression.

  714. Right?

  715. Like an imprint.

  716. It leaves a mark.

  717. And I don't know

  718. if you've ever been

  719. to a farm

  720. and you've seen

  721. cows being branded.

  722. Right?

  723. They belong to this farm

  724. and they kind of

  725. brand them on the bum.

  726. But they leave this mark.

  727. They leave an impression.

  728. And that's the word here.

  729. Leave an impression

  730. on your kids.

  731. So that's what you to do.

  732. And he says,

  733. like,

  734. when do we do this?

  735. Right?

  736. When you talk,

  737. when you sit,

  738. when you walk,

  739. when you lie down,

  740. when you get up.

  741. Basically,

  742. he's saying

  743. every moment

  744. of every day

  745. is an opportunity

  746. to leave

  747. an impression

  748. on your children.

  749. All of life.

  750. It's not just

  751. quickly send them

  752. to Sunday school.

  753. It's all of life

  754. that leaves

  755. an impression

  756. on your kids.

  757. And kids are going

  758. to learn two ways.

  759. They're going to learn

  760. by what they see

  761. and what they hear.

  762. And they're far more likely

  763. to learn

  764. by what they see.

  765. So,

  766. as I was preparing

  767. this,

  768. my first draft,

  769. I thought,

  770. I'm going to give you

  771. great tips

  772. on how I parent

  773. and how I want

  774. to leave an impression

  775. on my children.

  776. And actually,

  777. it was very short.

  778. So,

  779. I then was reminded

  780. what left

  781. an impression

  782. on me.

  783. What impressed me

  784. as a child?

  785. So,

  786. I'm going to share

  787. a little bit

  788. of my story

  789. with you this morning.

  790. So,

  791. bear with me,

  792. okay?

  793. But,

  794. my parents

  795. got divorced

  796. when I was

  797. three months old.

  798. So,

  799. that left

  800. my mom

  801. with a newborn baby

  802. and my

  803. four-year-old

  804. sister.

  805. And my mom,

  806. who's now

  807. a retired nurse,

  808. was nursing.

  809. And nurses

  810. don't get

  811. that well paid

  812. in South Africa,

  813. so she had to take

  814. a second job,

  815. right?

  816. So,

  817. my mom would

  818. work night duty,

  819. come back,

  820. and then go and work

  821. another job,

  822. and so,

  823. I have huge amounts

  824. of respect

  825. for my mother,

  826. but she didn't know Jesus.

  827. And when you don't know Jesus,

  828. you can't introduce your kids

  829. to Jesus,

  830. right?

  831. So,

  832. at about the age of seven,

  833. we made a critical move

  834. from Johannesburg

  835. to a small little coastal town.

  836. and my sister,

  837. my older sister,

  838. was invited to a birthday party

  839. by one of her classmates,

  840. and we went

  841. to drop her off.

  842. And the family

  843. that she was,

  844. had been invited by,

  845. they were farmers,

  846. they lived on this big farm,

  847. and when we got there,

  848. the couple came out

  849. to meet us,

  850. a couple by the name of

  851. Gary and Heather Cook.

  852. And it turned out

  853. they didn't just have a daughter,

  854. they had three other sons.

  855. And they looked at me

  856. and they said,

  857. would you like to stay too?

  858. And I said,

  859. yes.

  860. And we always joke

  861. that that's kind of the day

  862. they adopted me

  863. as their fifth son.

  864. They didn't realize

  865. what I was saying yes to,

  866. right?

  867. But I kind of became

  868. their fifth child.

  869. And I stayed,

  870. I spent all my weekends

  871. on the farm,

  872. often when my mom

  873. worked night duty,

  874. I would go and sleep over.

  875. So we did life together.

  876. They took me to school,

  877. they took me on holiday

  878. with them.

  879. But Gary was also

  880. a lay Methodist preacher.

  881. He was a farmer

  882. and he was a preacher.

  883. So I'd go to church

  884. with them as well.

  885. And we just,

  886. I did family with them.

  887. So these are the five imprints

  888. that they left on me.

  889. So I was about seven years old

  890. at this time.

  891. There are many more,

  892. but these are the five

  893. that left a big impression on me.

  894. The first one is

  895. they taught their children

  896. the commands

  897. and the grace of God.

  898. They showed their kids

  899. what the relevance

  900. they have in everyday life.

  901. They taught them

  902. the difference

  903. between what is really right

  904. and what is really wrong.

  905. They modeled

  906. how to honor your parents

  907. by modeling,

  908. by honoring their parents.

  909. They taught their children

  910. the value of telling the truth.

  911. That was imprint number one.

  912. They taught their children

  913. the commands.

  914. And the second imprint

  915. they left was

  916. a desire for learning.

  917. Now, just to put it in context,

  918. two of their children

  919. had learning difficulties.

  920. They were very gifted at sport,

  921. very athletic.

  922. So all they wanted to do

  923. was the sport,

  924. not so much the learning.

  925. The parents said,

  926. no, no, no.

  927. It says to love

  928. the Lord your God

  929. with all your heart,

  930. all your mind,

  931. all your mind.

  932. Okay, don't forget that.

  933. So they encouraged

  934. this development

  935. to love the Lord your God

  936. spiritually

  937. and intellectually,

  938. even when it's difficult

  939. and tough.

  940. And the third thing

  941. they left an imprint on

  942. was this was a family

  943. of prayer.

  944. They prayed naturally

  945. and they prayed all the time.

  946. They prayed at meals.

  947. They prayed before going to bed.

  948. They were a family of prayer.

  949. And it wasn't just ritual prayers.

  950. They were kind of heartfelt prayers,

  951. right?

  952. Not just something that we say.

  953. They were thought about.

  954. I have this memory

  955. imprinted in my head.

  956. They took me on holiday once

  957. and we went fishing and camping.

  958. And we had this great week,

  959. right?

  960. And we packed up the tents.

  961. We were just about to leave.

  962. And Gary says,

  963. let's all gather around

  964. and give thanks to God

  965. for this time.

  966. And we just stood there

  967. and for about three minutes

  968. everyone prayed

  969. giving thanks to God

  970. for a holiday.

  971. It just left

  972. an amazing impression

  973. on my mind.

  974. Fourth imprint

  975. that they left

  976. was this was a family

  977. of repentance

  978. and forgiveness.

  979. They taught their children

  980. that it takes

  981. a big person

  982. to say,

  983. I did it.

  984. It was me.

  985. I'm sorry.

  986. And they did it by

  987. as a husband and wife,

  988. right?

  989. This wasn't a perfect family.

  990. When they fought

  991. or they argued,

  992. they modeled

  993. in front of their kids.

  994. I did it.

  995. It was me.

  996. I'm sorry.

  997. And they taught

  998. their children

  999. to own their stuff.

  1000. You did it.

  1001. It was me.

  1002. Okay?

  1003. I'm sorry.

  1004. You did it.

  1005. It was me.

  1006. No, I did it.

  1007. It was me.

  1008. Okay?

  1009. They taught their children

  1010. to own their stuff.

  1011. Not to play

  1012. the victim card

  1013. but to say,

  1014. I did it.

  1015. And the fifth imprint

  1016. that they really left

  1017. on me

  1018. and this kind of

  1019. involves me

  1020. was their love

  1021. for the outsider.

  1022. And I was that outsider.

  1023. They already had

  1024. a family

  1025. of four kids.

  1026. They already

  1027. were very busy

  1028. being farmers

  1029. and preachers

  1030. and leaders

  1031. in the church.

  1032. And yet,

  1033. they took the time

  1034. to love the outsider.

  1035. Hey,

  1036. let's have a fifth kid

  1037. who's not really ours

  1038. be part of our family.

  1039. And it cost them

  1040. financially, right?

  1041. They paid for me

  1042. when I went on holiday

  1043. with them.

  1044. But they taught me

  1045. what it truly means

  1046. to love the outsider.

  1047. And I want you to notice

  1048. that you might be

  1049. thinking here today,

  1050. okay,

  1051. I don't have kids.

  1052. I'm excused

  1053. from this little bit.

  1054. But,

  1055. hey,

  1056. I wasn't their child

  1057. and they left

  1058. an imprint on me.

  1059. All of us

  1060. sitting here today,

  1061. we will have

  1062. the opportunity,

  1063. the means,

  1064. and the power

  1065. to leave an impression

  1066. not only on our kids

  1067. but all the kids

  1068. out there.

  1069. All those kids

  1070. in Sunday school

  1071. will have an impression

  1072. of you.

  1073. How we live our lives,

  1074. how we relate,

  1075. how we love each other,

  1076. how we do community

  1077. will leave an impression

  1078. on our children.

  1079. We have a very powerful

  1080. responsibility.

  1081. I want to say that

  1082. I only,

  1083. we only lived

  1084. in that little town

  1085. for three years

  1086. and then my sister

  1087. went to high school

  1088. and we moved away.

  1089. So I only had

  1090. basically three years

  1091. of influence

  1092. with this family.

  1093. And,

  1094. but they planted seeds.

  1095. They planted seeds.

  1096. I didn't become

  1097. a believer

  1098. during that time

  1099. but they had

  1100. planted seeds.

  1101. And when I did

  1102. become a Christian

  1103. at the age of 21,

  1104. one of the first

  1105. things I did

  1106. was write a letter

  1107. to this family

  1108. and thank them

  1109. of the models

  1110. they were

  1111. and their love for me.

  1112. I now had

  1113. a clearer understanding

  1114. of what motivated them

  1115. but it was one

  1116. of the first things

  1117. I did

  1118. just to honor them

  1119. for the impression

  1120. that they had left

  1121. on my life.

  1122. What impression

  1123. are we leaving

  1124. on our kids?

  1125. Okay,

  1126. now all this

  1127. sounds great,

  1128. right?

  1129. So that it may

  1130. go well with you.

  1131. We do these things,

  1132. we live them

  1133. and it's all

  1134. working wonderfully

  1135. but it doesn't.

  1136. God constantly

  1137. warned them.

  1138. He said,

  1139. don't forget.

  1140. When you've got it

  1141. and it's going well,

  1142. don't forget God

  1143. but they did.

  1144. The Israelites did.

  1145. It's kind of like

  1146. if that analogy

  1147. I gave you

  1148. of the king

  1149. going and rescuing

  1150. that little boy

  1151. from poverty

  1152. and brought him in.

  1153. After a while

  1154. he's clothed,

  1155. he's nice and clean,

  1156. things are going well

  1157. but after a while

  1158. he gets bored.

  1159. He starts thinking

  1160. a lot of himself

  1161. and says,

  1162. you know what,

  1163. I'm going to climb

  1164. over the palace wall again.

  1165. I'm going to go

  1166. and check out

  1167. the dirt

  1168. that I used to play in.

  1169. Maybe I'm going

  1170. to get dirty again

  1171. and I'll kind of

  1172. jump back in

  1173. over the wall.

  1174. You know,

  1175. that king,

  1176. his demand,

  1177. I have to love him.

  1178. That's exactly

  1179. what happened

  1180. to Israel.

  1181. Time and time again

  1182. if you look

  1183. at the history

  1184. of the thing,

  1185. they kind of

  1186. remembered God,

  1187. they forgot him.

  1188. Remembered God,

  1189. they forgot him.

  1190. But here was

  1191. the fundamental problem

  1192. was the law

  1193. because the law

  1194. was an offer

  1195. and a demand.

  1196. It was an offer

  1197. of protection,

  1198. provision,

  1199. blessing,

  1200. but it was

  1201. a demand

  1202. of righteousness.

  1203. I will bless you,

  1204. I will protect you,

  1205. I will be your God,

  1206. but you need

  1207. to be holy,

  1208. you need to live right,

  1209. you need to respond

  1210. to me.

  1211. And they couldn't

  1212. do it.

  1213. They couldn't do it

  1214. because there's

  1215. something fundamentally

  1216. wrong with the human heart.

  1217. The human heart

  1218. is bent towards

  1219. rebellion and sin

  1220. and wanting to do

  1221. our things

  1222. our own way.

  1223. We don't like

  1224. to be told what to do

  1225. and they couldn't

  1226. do it.

  1227. But then the gospel

  1228. comes along

  1229. and the gospel

  1230. is an offer

  1231. and an offer.

  1232. It is an offer

  1233. of blessing,

  1234. adoption,

  1235. sonship,

  1236. provision,

  1237. care,

  1238. love.

  1239. But it's also

  1240. an offer

  1241. of righteousness.

  1242. God's righteousness,

  1243. not your own.

  1244. This is what it says

  1245. in Romans 1.

  1246. For I'm not ashamed

  1247. of the gospel

  1248. because it is

  1249. the power of God

  1250. that brings salvation

  1251. to everyone

  1252. who believes,

  1253. first to the Jew,

  1254. then to the gentle.

  1255. For in the gospel,

  1256. the righteousness

  1257. of God

  1258. is revealed,

  1259. a righteousness

  1260. that is by faith

  1261. from first to last.

  1262. Just as it is written,

  1263. the righteous

  1264. will live by faith.

  1265. And that means

  1266. the righteous

  1267. will live

  1268. by keeping faith.

  1269. It is no longer

  1270. a demand,

  1271. it is an offer.

  1272. God is giving you,

  1273. He's offering you something

  1274. but He is offering you

  1275. even more.

  1276. In the beginning

  1277. when Janet came up

  1278. and collected her

  1279. 20 trillion dollars,

  1280. even if it was

  1281. really 20 trillion

  1282. US dollars,

  1283. it is nothing,

  1284. nothing in comparison

  1285. to what you are

  1286. being offered by God.

  1287. The gospel

  1288. is infinitely greater

  1289. than that.

  1290. When we grasp

  1291. our heads

  1292. how wonderful

  1293. God is

  1294. towards us.

  1295. An offer

  1296. and an offer.

  1297. But we have to go in

  1298. and take it.

  1299. God is offering you

  1300. something.

  1301. Will you accept

  1302. His righteousness?

  1303. So,

  1304. maybe there are people

  1305. here today

  1306. where you have heard

  1307. the gospel

  1308. time and time again,

  1309. but you are sitting

  1310. on the opposite side

  1311. of the Jordan

  1312. and thinking,

  1313. I don't know,

  1314. I'm pretty comfortable,

  1315. I'm pretty happy here,

  1316. it looks like a scary

  1317. place to be.

  1318. Will you go in

  1319. and take

  1320. what God is offering you?

  1321. let's think about that

  1322. individually for us.

  1323. What is it

  1324. that God has

  1325. for you

  1326. this year

  1327. that we

  1328. have the opportunity

  1329. to go in

  1330. and take?

  1331. Maybe

  1332. for some of us

  1333. God is saying,

  1334. I want you to step up,

  1335. I want you to be

  1336. in leadership,

  1337. I want you to serve.

  1338. will you

  1339. take it?

  1340. I've given you

  1341. every provision

  1342. you possibly need.

  1343. Will you take it?

  1344. Maybe

  1345. for some of us

  1346. it's

  1347. God's forgiveness.

  1348. Are we holding

  1349. on to a hurt?

  1350. Are we kind of

  1351. holding on?

  1352. We're scared

  1353. to cross over

  1354. and take

  1355. what God

  1356. is freely

  1357. wanting to give you.

  1358. Maybe

  1359. He's asking you

  1360. in the workplace

  1361. to be

  1362. a light

  1363. for Him.

  1364. You're afraid

  1365. to speak out.

  1366. Are you prepared

  1367. to go in

  1368. and take

  1369. what God

  1370. has for you?

  1371. For our children,

  1372. for our children

  1373. guys,

  1374. the next generation,

  1375. are we prepared

  1376. to leave

  1377. an impression?

  1378. It will cost us,

  1379. right?

  1380. When the Israelites

  1381. were promised

  1382. go in and take

  1383. the land,

  1384. it wasn't a walk

  1385. in the park.

  1386. They still had

  1387. to get rid

  1388. of all the enemies

  1389. that were there,

  1390. but God

  1391. would be with them.

  1392. It was still

  1393. an effort.

  1394. Guys,

  1395. to invest

  1396. in the lives

  1397. of others,

  1398. to invest

  1399. in the children

  1400. around you,

  1401. it will be

  1402. a costly thing.

  1403. It will require

  1404. sacrifice,

  1405. but are we

  1406. prepared to do it?

  1407. Are we prepared

  1408. to live lives

  1409. that point them

  1410. to Jesus?

  1411. Are we prepared

  1412. to model truth

  1413. and grace

  1414. to them?

  1415. Guys,

  1416. and finally,

  1417. as a church,

  1418. are we prepared

  1419. to go in

  1420. and take

  1421. what God

  1422. has for us?

  1423. This is really

  1424. something that's

  1425. been burning

  1426. on my heart.

  1427. I look around,

  1428. there's empty chairs,

  1429. guys.

  1430. One of the mission

  1431. of this church

  1432. is to be

  1433. a light

  1434. in this city,

  1435. in this district.

  1436. And the day

  1437. that we don't have

  1438. any empty chairs

  1439. left,

  1440. then we will build

  1441. a bigger place

  1442. or find a bigger

  1443. place to get

  1444. more people in here.

  1445. But that is the heart

  1446. and soul

  1447. of why we exist.

  1448. are we prepared

  1449. to go in

  1450. and take

  1451. what God

  1452. has for us?

  1453. I have to put up

  1454. my hands

  1455. to ask my question.

  1456. God,

  1457. are we prepared

  1458. to take it?

  1459. Because you are offering

  1460. us,

  1461. you've given us

  1462. everything,

  1463. but are we prepared

  1464. to walk in

  1465. your truth,

  1466. your righteousness,

  1467. and be the church

  1468. we're called to be?

  1469. Are we going to take

  1470. hold of God's

  1471. righteousness

  1472. this morning

  1473. so that

  1474. it may

  1475. go well

  1476. with you?

  1477. If we care

  1478. about the city

  1479. out there,

  1480. there are people

  1481. who are desperate

  1482. for the gospel.

  1483. They're living

  1484. in their sin.

  1485. They're bound

  1486. by so many things.

  1487. And we have

  1488. the word of life

  1489. for them.

  1490. We ourselves,

  1491. do we live

  1492. in that gospel?

  1493. Do we live

  1494. in God's righteousness?

  1495. Or do we default

  1496. to our own

  1497. kind of righteousness?

  1498. Or do we just

  1499. blatantly sin?

  1500. Or are we taking

  1501. hold of God's

  1502. righteousness

  1503. and thanking Him

  1504. for it?

  1505. All right,

  1506. I've spoken enough,

  1507. but I really,

  1508. I'd love to pray

  1509. for us.

  1510. Father,

  1511. Father,

  1512. I ask

  1513. for forgiveness

  1514. forgiveness,

  1515. where we've,

  1516. you've given us

  1517. everything,

  1518. your blessing,

  1519. your mercy,

  1520. and we haven't,

  1521. we haven't taken it

  1522. or we've taken it

  1523. for granted.

  1524. But we know

  1525. that you are a God

  1526. who is full of compassion,

  1527. full of grace,

  1528. and freely forgives us.

  1529. Lord,

  1530. you're a God

  1531. who picks us up

  1532. and leads us on

  1533. and wants us

  1534. to take

  1535. and lead others,

  1536. Lord Jesus,

  1537. to a relationship

  1538. with you.

  1539. I pray,

  1540. give us

  1541. that power,

  1542. that joy,

  1543. that desire

  1544. to live for you,

  1545. to serve you

  1546. and you alone,

  1547. to give you

  1548. everything

  1549. that we are.

  1550. Lord,

  1551. I pray that as we

  1552. go out this week,

  1553. Lord,

  1554. bless us

  1555. in such a way

  1556. that there is

  1557. a desire

  1558. in our hearts

  1559. to love you,

  1560. to be with you,

  1561. and to know

  1562. that your desire

  1563. is that it may

  1564. go well

  1565. with us.

  1566. Lord,

  1567. we thank you

  1568. for the death,

  1569. burial,

  1570. and resurrection

  1571. of Jesus Christ.

  1572. And in that,

  1573. in that alone,

  1574. we have our hope,

  1575. we have our future,

  1576. we have our foundation.

  1577. We love you.

  1578. In Jesus' name,

  1579. Amen.