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The True Groom

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  1. Good morning. Happy New Year. Good to be here with you today. If you don't know me, my name is Eric.

  2. I'm one of the guys here on staff at Watermark Church, and it's great to see all of you in this year of the dog.

  3. I want to start out today with a story. It's not an amazing story. It's actually a pretty boring story,

  4. but there's a reason I'm going to tell you this story.

  5. It was a little over a year ago. I was at a wedding banquet here in Hong Kong.

  6. The party was going well, and the groom walks up to me, and he says,

  7. Hey, Eric, I need your help. We're running out of wine.

  8. So I called all the waiters together, and I said,

  9. Hey, we need you to fill up some buckets with water, and then we're going to do something really special.

  10. It's not what I did. I grabbed a friend.

  11. We ran across the street to the grocery store.

  12. We picked up 24 more bottles of wine, got some boxes to carry them back, put it on my credit card,

  13. came back, and the party kept going. Very unspectacular.

  14. But I tell you that story to introduce the story of Jesus today,

  15. because I think sometimes we can miss how unspectacular the setting of this story is.

  16. It's a wedding. The fate of the universe does not really hang in the balance in this moment,

  17. and yet Jesus steps in and does something super incredible in this moment,

  18. and I want us to catch that today.

  19. So like Kevin said, the past few weeks we've been looking at who is this man.

  20. We've been looking at Jesus.

  21. We've seen that he is the one who gives the second birth,

  22. the birth in the Spirit, and offers us life.

  23. We've seen that he is a healer who offers us a new way to live.

  24. And today, we're going to see that he offers us more than anything and anyone else.

  25. That he offers us satisfaction that our souls crave for.

  26. That he is the Lord who wants to give us the abundant life in all of life,

  27. from the trivial moments to the most important ones.

  28. And to get there, we're going to see a problem, a solution, and a challenging truth.

  29. But before we jump in, let's pray.

  30. Father, we thank you for today, for this time together to look at your word, to learn about you.

  31. We pray that as we come together today, that we would see Jesus,

  32. that we would see his beauty, and that we would fall in love with you,

  33. and recognize you as the one who truly satisfies,

  34. who truly gives us what our souls are longing for.

  35. In Jesus' name, amen.

  36. So this passage starts out with a problem.

  37. A little context.

  38. In the book of John, John has just finished introducing Jesus,

  39. telling us a little about who he is.

  40. Jesus has called his first five disciples,

  41. and he is now back near the area where he grew up.

  42. And he goes to a wedding, and he gets to bring his disciples with him to this wedding.

  43. He gets a plus five or so, which I think is pretty special.

  44. I've never gotten a plus five at a wedding.

  45. And a little background on the context of this wedding,

  46. because in verse three, John says something that sounds pretty everyday,

  47. when the wine ran out.

  48. It sounds pretty trivial, pretty commonplace.

  49. To help us understand the significance of this comment,

  50. I think we need a little more background on Jewish weddings 2,000 years ago.

  51. In a lot of ways, they were very similar to Hong Kong weddings.

  52. It was a chance to throw a huge party and invite all your friends and extended family,

  53. a massive celebration,

  54. and it was a chance for you to show off your generosity and wealth.

  55. Like in Hong Kong, the groom was expected to pay for everything.

  56. And also like in Hong Kong, there was a lot of honor and shame to be gained or lost,

  57. depending on how good or bad of a celebration it was.

  58. But in some ways, it was a much bigger celebration than your normal Hong Kong wedding.

  59. See, these celebrations could last up to a week,

  60. which means you need a little bit more food than you do for a Hong Kong wedding,

  61. although I think the average Hong Kong wedding probably has about three days worth of food.

  62. So you probably don't need too much more, but a little bit more.

  63. And the stakes were higher in these weddings.

  64. So it's possible that if the wedding ran out of food or wine early,

  65. the bride's family could sue the groom for bringing shame on them.

  66. And it could become this legal dilemma for the groom

  67. if he did not plan or prepare adequately.

  68. To run out of wine in a wedding was a huge deal.

  69. You made sure that you planned enough in advance that you didn't let it happen

  70. because there was not a grocery store across the street

  71. where you could send your groomsmen with a credit card.

  72. And so when he says, when the wine ran out,

  73. it sounds like a fairly commonplace, not a big deal thing, but it was.

  74. It was rare.

  75. It was shameful.

  76. It meant that the groom was either poor or worse,

  77. too stingy to provide adequately for his own wedding celebration.

  78. And it tells us that Mary, Jesus' mother, somehow learns about this dilemma,

  79. comes to Jesus, and tells him they have no wine.

  80. Now, John later tells us that this was Jesus' first miracle.

  81. So my assumption is Mary is not expecting Jesus to do what he did.

  82. She is not thinking, ah, if I tell him he's going to find some water,

  83. turn it into wine, party's going to be all set.

  84. No, she's his mom.

  85. She probably knows he's a good problem solver.

  86. I mean, he's God.

  87. He's got to be a good problem solver, right?

  88. And she's just thinking,

  89. how can I avoid this awkward social situation?

  90. I know a guy who's really good at solving problems, my son Jesus.

  91. She just wants to avoid social awkwardness.

  92. She wants some help with what she sees as a trivial situation.

  93. But Jesus hears her comment, and he sees something way deeper going on here.

  94. See, he knows that he is the Messiah,

  95. the Savior that God has promised,

  96. who's coming to save and rescue the world and bring God's kingdom to earth.

  97. And he's read the Old Testament,

  98. and he knows that when the Old Testament talks about God's kingdom,

  99. imagery of abundant wine is everywhere.

  100. If you look at Isaiah chapter 25, verse 6,

    Isaiah 25:6

  101. it says,

  102. On this mountain, the Lord of hosts will make for all people a feast of rich food,

  103. a feast of well-aged wine.

  104. If you look at the prophets Joel and Amos,

  105. they talk about how the mountains during this time will drip sweet wine.

  106. And then in the time between the Old Testament and the New Testament,

  107. this imagery just gets blown up to epic proportions.

  108. There's this Jewish writing from between the Old Testament and the New Testament,

  109. and they say in this writing,

  110. when God's kingdom comes,

  111. on each vine, there will be a thousand branches.

  112. And on each branch, it will produce a thousand clusters.

  113. And guess how many grapes will be on each cluster?

  114. A thousand.

  115. And each grape will produce over 35 gallons of wine.

  116. So if you're a math person, that's 35 billion gallons of wine per vine.

  117. Probably a slight exaggeration, but you get the image.

  118. God's kingdom is a kingdom of abundant wine, an abundant celebration.

  119. And Jesus knows this.

  120. He sees this opportunity to provide wine at this party

  121. as a way of giving a glimpse into the work that he's going to do

  122. and a foretaste of what he's going to accomplish.

  123. So Mary comes looking for a boost to the party,

  124. looking to avoid an awkward social situation,

  125. and Jesus sees an opportunity to display his glory.

  126. He sees spiritual meaning of cosmic importance in the midst of the mundane.

  127. And I think that is why he answers the way that he does in verse 4.

  128. Jesus said to her,

  129. Woman, what does this have to do with me?

  130. My hour has not yet come.

  131. Quick side note,

  132. woman is not as offensive of a way to respond to your mother in that culture

  133. as it is in ours.

  134. It was actually a quite respectful term,

  135. but not really one you would use for your mom.

  136. It would kind of be like me calling my mom Mrs. Scott.

  137. It's not, it's respectful,

  138. but it's not really a way a son talks to his mother, right?

  139. And I think what Jesus is doing here

  140. is Mary has become comfortable around Jesus.

  141. And Mary has this expectation that Jesus is there

  142. to fulfill her desires and make her life easier.

  143. And Jesus is saying,

  144. No, that's not how you come to me,

  145. even if you're my mother.

  146. If you're coming to me,

  147. you have to fit your life into my plans,

  148. not the other way around.

  149. And that's true for all of us here today.

  150. It's a challenge to us that when we come to Jesus,

  151. he's not there to make our lives easier.

  152. He's there for us to fit our lives into his plan.

  153. And that's just something to keep in mind

  154. if anyone ever tells you that we should be praying to Mary.

  155. Now back to Jesus' comment.

  156. He says,

  157. What does this have to do with me?

  158. My hour has not yet come.

  159. Now in the book of John,

  160. when Jesus mentions his hour,

  161. does anyone know what he's talking about?

  162. It's the cross.

  163. Every time, always.

  164. Jesus' hour is referring to the cross.

  165. So Mary comes and says,

  166. Hey, the party needs more wine.

  167. And Jesus is like,

  168. It's not time for me to die.

  169. It seems like an odd response.

  170. But why is Jesus focused so quickly on the cross

  171. when he realizes that the party is out of wine?

  172. It's because Jesus is the one

  173. who's bringing this kingdom of abundant wine.

  174. But because of our sin,

  175. that kingdom has to be purchased at a price.

  176. He knows that if he gives a glimpse

  177. into the kingdom that he's going to bring,

  178. he can't do it without thinking of the price

  179. that it's going to cost him to bring that kingdom.

  180. And that price will be the cross.

  181. There's deep, spiritual, loaded meaning

  182. in Jesus' response.

  183. And I think this went right over Mary's head.

  184. Because rather than recognizing

  185. all of this deep, spiritual, cosmic meaning

  186. in Jesus' words,

  187. she simply turns to the servants

  188. and says in verse 5,

  189. Do whatever he tells you.

  190. Which is good advice.

  191. And that brings us to

  192. the solution to the problem.

  193. It tells us here,

  194. there were six stone water jars

  195. for the Jewish rites of purification,

  196. each holding 20 or 30 gallons.

  197. Now, notice what these jars are holding.

  198. It's water.

  199. And if you look through the book of John,

  200. water shows up again and again and again.

  201. So a couple weeks ago,

  202. Kevin talked about Jesus' conversation with Nicodemus,

  203. where Jesus says,

  204. you have to be born of water and the Spirit.

  205. And in John chapter 1,

    John 1 chapter mention

  206. John comes baptizing in water.

  207. In John chapter 4,

    John 4 chapter mention

  208. Jesus has a conversation with a woman at the well

  209. where he asks her to give him some water.

  210. Water is all over the place.

  211. It shows up many more times as well.

  212. And if you look through,

  213. every time water shows up in the book of John,

  214. you notice a theme.

  215. Water in and of itself is never a bad thing.

  216. But it's also never quite enough

  217. to get you what you really want or need.

  218. So when Jesus is talking to Nicodemus,

  219. being born of water isn't a bad thing,

  220. but you need something more.

  221. You need to be born again.

  222. When John comes baptizing in water in John chapter 1,

    John 1 chapter mention

  223. he's baptizing in water.

  224. Why?

  225. So that he can point to the one

  226. who's going to baptize in the Spirit.

  227. When Jesus comes to the woman at the well

  228. in John chapter 4 and asks her for water,

    John 4 chapter mention

  229. he ends up rebuking her

  230. because he says there's something more that you need.

  231. There's a living water that will satisfy you

  232. and quench your thirst forever.

  233. And you should have asked me for that.

  234. The water in and of itself isn't a bad thing,

  235. but you need something more every single time

  236. because the water itself is not enough.

  237. And it's the same at this party.

  238. The water is not a bad thing,

  239. but what the party needs isn't the water in the jars,

  240. but wine.

  241. And why does the party not need the water anymore?

  242. Well, it has to do with why the water is there

  243. in the first place.

  244. It says it's there for ceremonial cleaning.

  245. A little bit of background.

  246. In the Old Testament, God has the Israelites.

  247. They're his chosen people.

  248. They've got promised blessings.

  249. They're supposed to obey God.

  250. And they fail.

  251. Again and again and again.

  252. And eventually, they get sent into exile

  253. as a punishment for their failure.

  254. After 70 years, God sends them back into their own land

  255. and they realize, hmm, when we disobey,

  256. things don't go too well.

  257. So let's obey from now on.

  258. And they realized that if you took all of the commands

  259. that God gives in the Old Testament,

  260. you could create extra commands

  261. to keep you from accidentally breaking any of God's commands.

  262. And so one Jewish teacher realized,

  263. you know, if we just have water

  264. and wipe our hands off with it before meals,

  265. that can keep us from accidentally breaking

  266. these other laws that God has given us.

  267. So it's not something that God explicitly commanded,

  268. but the Jews practiced it in Jesus' day

  269. to help them be more obedient to the other laws

  270. that God did give.

  271. And so they have these jars at this party

  272. to help them wash,

  273. to help them avoid accidentally breaking God's commands.

  274. But here's the thing.

  275. The water can't do that.

  276. The water symbolizes purity,

  277. but guess what?

  278. At this party is the one who is full,

  279. who is pure.

  280. The water symbolizes cleaning from things that defile us,

  281. but Jesus is at this party

  282. and he's the one who's going to bring

  283. the ultimate cleansing from everything that defiles us.

  284. The people at this party have the water

  285. to help them fulfill God's law,

  286. but at the party is the man

  287. who is the fulfillment of God's law.

  288. So the water in and of itself isn't a bad thing,

  289. but it can never achieve the cleansing that it symbolizes.

  290. It's just not enough.

  291. So where have the Old Testament religious systems

  292. gotten this party?

  293. Out of wine?

  294. In danger of being shut down early?

  295. Basically, their reliance on tradition

  296. and their own obedience to achieve blessing

  297. can never give them what their hearts truly desire.

  298. And I think if we look around this room today,

  299. most of us don't try to follow

  300. Old Testament religious systems

  301. as a way of achieving blessing in our lives.

  302. But we do turn to other things.

  303. For many of us, it's our jobs.

  304. We believe that if I can work hard enough

  305. and if I can do well enough,

  306. my job will give me the meaning and the purpose

  307. and the fulfillment in my life

  308. that I truly crave and desire.

  309. And so we pour ourselves into our jobs

  310. and we work insane hours

  311. so we can get what our hearts desire.

  312. Maybe for some of us, it's relationships.

  313. We believe that you're nobody until somebody loves you.

  314. And so we pursue relationship after relationship

  315. because we believe that my identity

  316. and my fulfillment in life,

  317. that the abundant life comes from having someone to love.

  318. and we end up cutting corners

  319. and dating people we know we shouldn't date

  320. and sticking around in relationships

  321. long after it's clear

  322. that this is not a healthy place for us to be

  323. because we believe that that's the path

  324. to the abundant life.

  325. For some of us, it's social media.

  326. If I can get enough likes on this post

  327. and it's going to prove that I'm somebody.

  328. And so we custom build this image of ourselves

  329. that has nothing to do with our real lives

  330. and put it online

  331. because we are chasing those clicks and those likes.

  332. And the more clicks we get,

  333. the more we feel like I've made it

  334. because we believe that getting likes

  335. is more important to true abundant life

  336. than being truly known.

  337. We're just like the Israelites.

  338. We have our own systems.

  339. We believe that these things that we can achieve

  340. are going to fulfill us

  341. but just like the Old Testament law

  342. couldn't bring what their hearts truly desired,

  343. none of the things other than Jesus

  344. that we rely on in life

  345. are ever going to truly satisfy us.

  346. Instead of giving us the abundant life

  347. that we long for,

  348. what do they give us?

  349. They give us stress

  350. because who am I going to be

  351. if I lose my job?

  352. They give us anxiety.

  353. What is it about me

  354. that makes nobody want to date me?

  355. They give us fear.

  356. Why hasn't anybody clicked like on my picture yet?

  357. Does everyone hate me?

  358. The things we long for

  359. cannot be achieved through our efforts.

  360. It's only in Jesus

  361. that we can find the security,

  362. the stability,

  363. and the freedom that our souls crave.

  364. He is the only source

  365. of the truly abundant life.

  366. And he demonstrates this at the party.

  367. He tells the servants,

  368. fill the jars up with water.

  369. Symbolically showing that he is the one

  370. who fulfills completely

  371. the Old Testament law.

  372. But he doesn't just fill them

  373. and leave them full.

  374. He has them fill the jars

  375. and then pull wine from them.

  376. It's almost like he's saying,

  377. by fulfilling the law,

  378. I'm inaugurating the new age

  379. of God's kingdom,

  380. the kingdom of the abundant wine

  381. right here, right now.

  382. The water of the law,

  383. it's not bad,

  384. but it can never get you

  385. what you're longing for.

  386. But my kingdom

  387. will bring you satisfaction.

  388. The other things you long for,

  389. you cling to,

  390. to get you that life

  391. can never satisfy you.

  392. Only I can.

  393. So he has them draw the water,

  394. bring it to the master of the feast,

  395. and that brings us to

  396. a challenging truth.

  397. The master of the feast,

  398. he tastes the wine,

  399. and he realizes this is delicious.

  400. So he calls the groom over

  401. and he says to him,

  402. everyone serves good wine first,

  403. and when people have drunk freely,

  404. then the poor wine.

  405. But you have kept the good wine

  406. until now.

  407. Notice what he's saying here.

  408. Not only had the party

  409. run out of wine,

  410. not only was the party

  411. in danger of being shut down

  412. because this groom

  413. hadn't adequately prepared.

  414. But the wine they were relying on

  415. to fuel their enjoyment

  416. up to this point

  417. was nothing compared

  418. to what Jesus offered them.

  419. How often in our lives

  420. do we try our best

  421. to squeeze every drop

  422. out of the mediocre

  423. that we can provide

  424. when Jesus is ready

  425. to offer us something

  426. so much greater,

  427. something so much better,

  428. if only we would ask.

  429. And something else,

  430. by this point,

  431. literally any wine

  432. would have made them happy.

  433. They were expecting

  434. the boxed stuff at this point.

  435. If Jesus had shown up

  436. and been like,

  437. here's some boxed wine,

  438. I got it on sale

  439. at the supermarket,

  440. they would have been ecstatic

  441. because the party

  442. can keep going.

  443. And what does Jesus

  444. bring them instead?

  445. He gives them

  446. the good stuff.

  447. How often in our lives

  448. do we reach a point

  449. where we're so desperate

  450. for anything good

  451. to happen

  452. that we take

  453. the spiritual equivalent

  454. of boxed wine?

  455. And Jesus is showing us

  456. and reminding us

  457. that he doesn't give us

  458. the cheap stuff.

  459. He always gives us

  460. true abundance.

  461. But here's the really

  462. challenging truth.

  463. That abundance

  464. often doesn't look like

  465. what we expect.

  466. We believe that

  467. the true abundant life

  468. comes from fame,

  469. from money,

  470. from power,

  471. from comfort.

  472. But Jesus says,

  473. no,

  474. true abundance

  475. is about a relationship

  476. with me

  477. where you come to me,

  478. you submit to me,

  479. and you trust in me.

  480. It's about a relationship,

  481. not stuff.

  482. If you look back

  483. in verse four,

  484. remember Jesus' comment

  485. where he said,

  486. my hour has not yet come.

  487. In this moment,

  488. his focus is on the cross.

  489. His focus is on the price

  490. that he has to pay

  491. to bring us

  492. this kingdom

  493. of the abundant wine

  494. and to make that

  495. a reality for you

  496. and for me.

  497. And he actually

  498. uses wine

  499. to talk about

  500. the price

  501. that he was going to pay

  502. in another meal.

  503. In the Last Supper,

  504. he sits down

  505. with his disciples.

  506. He pulls out

  507. this glass of wine

  508. and he says,

  509. this cup

  510. is the new covenant

  511. of my blood.

  512. He's saying,

  513. the price

  514. that it's going to cost me

  515. to bring this kingdom

  516. of abundant wine

  517. is the wine

  518. of my blood,

  519. but I'm willing to do it.

  520. Why?

  521. Is it so that we can be famous

  522. and rich and powerful?

  523. No.

  524. It's because it's about

  525. a relationship

  526. and that's the price

  527. that it costs

  528. to have that relationship

  529. with us.

  530. And Jesus

  531. was willing

  532. to pay that

  533. because he

  534. cares about you

  535. and he cares about me

  536. and he loves us.

  537. And here's the second half

  538. of the super challenging truth.

  539. the abundant life

  540. brought Jesus

  541. to the cross

  542. and he says

  543. that if we're going

  544. to have the truly

  545. abundant life,

  546. that we live

  547. that abundant life

  548. on the way

  549. of the cross

  550. as well.

  551. That the way

  552. to abundant life

  553. is not by pursuing

  554. our power

  555. and our fame

  556. and our prestige,

  557. but it's by

  558. laying down

  559. our desires

  560. every single day

  561. and pursuing him

  562. by loving

  563. the people around us.

  564. I don't know about you,

  565. but that's scary to me

  566. because it feels

  567. way easier

  568. to just pour myself

  569. into my job

  570. and believe

  571. that if I can do

  572. really well

  573. and I can achieve success,

  574. that that's going

  575. to give me

  576. true life.

  577. And what Jesus

  578. is saying

  579. is that best case scenario,

  580. that's the boxed wine.

  581. And even if I can

  582. get that boxed wine

  583. for a little bit,

  584. it's going to run out

  585. eventually.

  586. So here's my question

  587. for us today.

  588. What will it take

  589. for us to recognize

  590. that Jesus is so much better

  591. than the other things

  592. that we're relying on

  593. for this abundant life?

  594. I think step one

  595. is recognizing

  596. how powerless

  597. these other things are

  598. to satisfy us.

  599. And I think,

  600. you might call me crazy,

  601. but I think Madonna

  602. expressed this

  603. really well.

  604. In an interview

  605. with Vogue,

  606. she said,

  607. my drive in life

  608. comes from a fear

  609. of being mediocre.

  610. That is always pushing me.

  611. I push past

  612. one spell of it

  613. and discover myself

  614. as a special human being.

  615. But then I feel

  616. I'm still mediocre

  617. and uninteresting

  618. unless I do something else.

  619. Because even though

  620. I've become somebody,

  621. I still have to prove

  622. that I am somebody.

  623. My struggle

  624. has never ended

  625. and I guess

  626. it never will.

  627. She's saying,

  628. I feel this pressure

  629. every day

  630. to wake up

  631. and prove through my efforts

  632. that I am somebody.

  633. And on a really good day,

  634. I get the spiritual equivalent

  635. of boxed wine.

  636. But then I wake up

  637. the next morning

  638. and I realize

  639. I'm out again

  640. and I have to go

  641. produce more

  642. every single day.

  643. I can't rest.

  644. I can't let it go.

  645. And I recognize

  646. that fame

  647. and money

  648. and success

  649. can never give me

  650. the deep desires

  651. of my soul.

  652. I'm chasing

  653. what I think

  654. is the abundant life

  655. and what I feel like

  656. is the best way

  657. to do it,

  658. but it has me trapped.

  659. I can't stop.

  660. If I ever stop trying,

  661. I'm afraid

  662. that it's all

  663. going to disappear

  664. and be gone.

  665. And how clearly

  666. does that express

  667. what so many of us

  668. feel and experience

  669. when we try

  670. and accomplish

  671. and achieve

  672. the abundant life

  673. on our own?

  674. But Jesus comes to us

  675. and he says,

  676. stop.

  677. Stop striving.

  678. Rest.

  679. The best that you

  680. can accomplish

  681. through your efforts

  682. is mediocrity.

  683. But I've come

  684. to bring abundance.

  685. See my beauty

  686. come to me.

  687. And how can we know

  688. that when we stop

  689. that he's going

  690. to be there

  691. and he's going

  692. to provide for us?

  693. Well, look what happens

  694. in this story.

  695. Look at the drama

  696. that plays out here.

  697. It's actually

  698. a reenactment

  699. of the gospel story.

  700. There's a man

  701. who has this duty

  702. but it's a joyful duty

  703. to provide food

  704. and drink

  705. for his party.

  706. It's a joyful duty

  707. because if he does it well

  708. everyone's going to have

  709. a great time

  710. and they're going to have

  711. the best party possible

  712. and he fails miserably.

  713. And for his failure

  714. he deserves shame

  715. and honor

  716. and punishment.

  717. And in the moment

  718. of his failure

  719. Jesus steps in

  720. and does for this man

  721. what the man

  722. could not do

  723. for himself

  724. provides for him

  725. in a way that the man

  726. cannot provide for himself.

  727. And because of the work

  728. of Jesus

  729. at this party

  730. the groom

  731. who deserves

  732. shame

  733. dishonor

  734. and punishment

  735. instead is given

  736. praise and honor.

  737. That's the story

  738. of the gospel.

  739. We have

  740. a duty

  741. but it's a joyful duty

  742. to obey God.

  743. And God tells us

  744. that when we live

  745. our lives

  746. obediently to him

  747. that's going to be

  748. the most abundant

  749. fruitful

  750. joyful way

  751. to live

  752. and it's a blessing

  753. to have

  754. this responsibility

  755. and yet you and I

  756. every single one of us

  757. fail miserably.

  758. And for our failure

  759. we deserve shame

  760. dishonor

  761. and punishment.

  762. And in the midst

  763. of our failure

  764. Jesus steps in

  765. and does for us

  766. what you and I

  767. cannot do for ourselves.

  768. On the cross

  769. he pays the price

  770. for everything

  771. that we've ever done wrong

  772. and gives us credit

  773. for his perfection

  774. so that although

  775. we have failed

  776. through the work

  777. of Jesus

  778. you and I

  779. can be given

  780. praise and honor

  781. and glory

  782. in God's sight.

  783. See when we

  784. stop striving

  785. that's when Jesus

  786. steps in

  787. and starts fighting

  788. our battles

  789. for us.

  790. He demonstrates

  791. that here

  792. he demonstrates

  793. that on the cross.

  794. and on top

  795. of that

  796. think about this

  797. whose responsibility

  798. is it

  799. to provide

  800. the wine

  801. for the feast?

  802. The groom.

  803. Who does

  804. actually provide

  805. the wine

  806. for the feast?

  807. Jesus.

  808. Do you think

  809. there's significance

  810. to that?

  811. Probably.

  812. In the Old Testament

  813. over and over

  814. and over again

  815. God refers

  816. to the Israelites

  817. his special people

  818. as his bride

  819. and in the New Testament

  820. it calls the church

  821. the bride of Christ.

  822. What's Jesus

  823. showing us

  824. by providing

  825. the wine

  826. at this feast?

  827. He's showing us

  828. that he is

  829. the greater groom.

  830. He is the one

  831. that our souls

  832. are longing for.

  833. It's about

  834. a relationship

  835. with him

  836. and he is going

  837. to do something

  838. that's going

  839. to call a people

  840. to himself

  841. and give us

  842. unite us

  843. to him

  844. in the most

  845. intimate relationship

  846. possible

  847. for eternity.

  848. So as we ask

  849. the question today

  850. who is this man?

  851. We see that

  852. Jesus is the Savior

  853. who rescues us

  854. through no work

  855. of our own

  856. and offers us

  857. abundance

  858. in the place

  859. of our failure

  860. and Jesus

  861. is the greater groom

  862. who is seeking

  863. a bride

  864. for his own

  865. possession.

  866. John concludes

  867. the story

  868. by saying

  869. that Jesus

  870. displayed his glory

  871. by doing this sign.

  872. We've been discussing

  873. the glory of Christ

  874. lately.

  875. We've been saying

  876. it's sort of like

  877. a diamond.

  878. It's the fullness

  879. of who he is

  880. but when you look

  881. at it from

  882. different angles

  883. you see

  884. different things

  885. and in this story

  886. Jesus shows us

  887. another glimpse

  888. of who he is

  889. and I think

  890. what he's trying

  891. to show us here

  892. is that everything

  893. we're looking for

  894. in all our

  895. religious systems

  896. and all our

  897. self-reliant efforts

  898. is found in him.

  899. We're not going

  900. to find it

  901. anywhere else.

  902. He is the only place

  903. where we're going

  904. to find the truly

  905. abundant life.

  906. Not our jobs,

  907. not our relationships,

  908. not social media,

  909. nothing else

  910. and because of this

  911. it's worthwhile

  912. to forsake

  913. everything else

  914. in order

  915. to pursue him

  916. because that's

  917. the path

  918. to the truly

  919. abundant life.

  920. He did the first

  921. of his signs,

  922. he manifests his glory

  923. and his disciples

  924. believed in him.

  925. I think there are

  926. two closing things

  927. that are super

  928. significant

  929. in this last comment

  930. about the disciples

  931. believing in him.

  932. John tells us

  933. the signs in the book

  934. of John

  935. are recorded

  936. so that we can

  937. believe and have

  938. life by believing.

  939. Jesus does the signs

  940. to lead to believe

  941. and it tells us here

  942. that the disciples

  943. believed.

  944. But what does that

  945. mean?

  946. Everyone at the party

  947. saw the sign

  948. but only the disciples

  949. believed.

  950. And that tells us

  951. it's possible

  952. to see the work

  953. of Jesus

  954. and not believe.

  955. And I think

  956. there are some

  957. of us here today

  958. who are in this place

  959. that we've been

  960. coming to Watermark

  961. for a long time.

  962. We've been hearing

  963. about Jesus,

  964. we've been seeing

  965. the difference

  966. that he makes

  967. in people's lives

  968. and we still

  969. haven't believed.

  970. And God's calling

  971. to you today

  972. if this is you

  973. and saying

  974. Jesus is

  975. the only path

  976. to the abundant

  977. life that you desire.

  978. All your efforts

  979. cannot get you

  980. what he offers.

  981. Stop striving,

  982. stop relying

  983. on yourself

  984. because only Jesus

  985. can give you

  986. what your soul

  987. is craving.

  988. And yes,

  989. pursuing Jesus

  990. it means a path

  991. of letting go

  992. of your self-reliance

  993. and embracing

  994. this path

  995. of the cross

  996. the way of sacrifice

  997. and trust

  998. but it will bring you

  999. the true abundance

  1000. that you have

  1001. always craved.

  1002. So if you're here today

  1003. and you haven't

  1004. trusted in Jesus

  1005. I challenge you today

  1006. trust in him

  1007. he's the only path

  1008. to the truly abundant life.

  1009. But the second thing

  1010. this passage shows us

  1011. it says

  1012. the disciples

  1013. believed in him.

  1014. Now think about this

  1015. they were already

  1016. his disciples.

  1017. To become his disciples

  1018. they had

  1019. to believe

  1020. in him somehow

  1021. and yet it tells us

  1022. that after seeing

  1023. this sign

  1024. they believed in him.

  1025. So what I see here

  1026. is that it's possible

  1027. to believe

  1028. but not believe.

  1029. Or in other words

  1030. there are different

  1031. levels of belief.

  1032. For the disciples

  1033. they probably believed

  1034. that he was

  1035. a good teacher

  1036. maybe that he was

  1037. sent by God

  1038. to teach God's truth

  1039. but they see this

  1040. and they realize

  1041. that he is powerful.

  1042. And the book of John

  1043. is a journey

  1044. of the disciples

  1045. going deeper and deeper

  1046. and coming to see

  1047. more and more

  1048. of who Jesus is

  1049. and growing in their belief

  1050. until they reach

  1051. the point where they recognize

  1052. this is God.

  1053. He is risen from the dead

  1054. and he is the savior

  1055. who is here

  1056. to rescue us.

  1057. And I think there are

  1058. some of us here today

  1059. who are sort of in this place

  1060. where we believe

  1061. but don't believe.

  1062. And God's calling us today

  1063. to just believe.

  1064. I think there are probably

  1065. some of us here today

  1066. who maybe we say

  1067. I believe that Jesus

  1068. can forgive my sins

  1069. and that he's going to

  1070. give me eternal life

  1071. and that's going to be great

  1072. but I don't really believe

  1073. that he has the power

  1074. and he alone has the power

  1075. to give me the most

  1076. abundant life possible

  1077. here and now

  1078. today.

  1079. And he's showing us

  1080. that yes, he does.

  1081. The call is to believe.

  1082. Jesus is reminding us

  1083. that he cares immensely

  1084. about the everyday moments

  1085. of our lives

  1086. here and now

  1087. and he wants us

  1088. to have the most abundant

  1089. life possible

  1090. right now.

  1091. Think about it.

  1092. Jesus came to earth

  1093. literally to save the world.

  1094. The things that he did

  1095. included raising the dead,

  1096. giving sight to the blind,

  1097. casting out demons,

  1098. things that are really

  1099. big deals

  1100. and he gets dragged

  1101. into providing food

  1102. and beverage

  1103. at a wedding party.

  1104. He has the same conversation

  1105. that I had with a friend.

  1106. If I had the conversation

  1107. it can't be that significant

  1108. of a conversation

  1109. that like the fate

  1110. of the universe

  1111. hangs in the balance

  1112. at it.

  1113. But he still stepped in

  1114. to help in this

  1115. relatively trivial situation.

  1116. Why?

  1117. Because he cares.

  1118. Because he wants us

  1119. to have the most abundant life

  1120. right now.

  1121. And he cares about

  1122. the problems of our lives

  1123. even the trivial ones.

  1124. But it's not just

  1125. the trivial ones.

  1126. In providing for this

  1127. fairly trivial situation

  1128. he gives a picture

  1129. of his provision

  1130. for our greatest problem

  1131. as well.

  1132. Just a reminder

  1133. him caring

  1134. and wanting

  1135. an abundant life

  1136. for us

  1137. doesn't mean

  1138. everything's going

  1139. to work out

  1140. the way that we want

  1141. it to all the time.

  1142. But it does mean

  1143. it's going to work out

  1144. in a way that's

  1145. ultimately best for us.

  1146. So this week

  1147. when we're tempted

  1148. to find our identity

  1149. by pouring ourselves

  1150. into our jobs

  1151. or relationships

  1152. or social media

  1153. remember

  1154. only

  1155. Jesus

  1156. can bring the abundance

  1157. that our souls crave.

  1158. The truly abundant life

  1159. is found in the way

  1160. of the cross

  1161. the way of sacrifice

  1162. service

  1163. and self-denial

  1164. and that Jesus

  1165. is trying to show

  1166. you and me

  1167. the inadequacy

  1168. of everything else

  1169. that we're going to rely on

  1170. instead of him.

  1171. It might be uncomfortable

  1172. but it's the path

  1173. to the abundant life.

  1174. Will you trust

  1175. in him today?

  1176. Will you believe

  1177. and pursue him alone

  1178. for the abundant life?

  1179. Let's pray.

  1180. Jesus

  1181. we thank you

  1182. that you alone

  1183. gives the abundant life.

  1184. We thank you

  1185. that you

  1186. care about

  1187. trivial moments

  1188. and trivial situations

  1189. in our lives

  1190. but that you also

  1191. care about

  1192. the big moments

  1193. and the big situations

  1194. because you care

  1195. about us.

  1196. We thank you

  1197. that you offer us

  1198. the truly abundant life

  1199. not this mediocrity

  1200. but true abundance.

  1201. We thank you

  1202. that by offering us

  1203. true abundance

  1204. you offer us

  1205. the chance

  1206. as well

  1207. to rest.

  1208. You alone

  1209. give us a chance

  1210. to be free

  1211. from our striving

  1212. and our efforts

  1213. to achieve

  1214. what only you can give.

  1215. so I pray

  1216. that this week

  1217. as we go

  1218. throughout our weeks

  1219. that we would

  1220. learn to rest

  1221. in you alone

  1222. that we would

  1223. have freedom

  1224. from our striving

  1225. that we would believe

  1226. that we would find

  1227. our abundance

  1228. in you.

  1229. Thank you

  1230. for your love.

  1231. In Jesus name

  1232. Amen.

  1233. Amen.

  1234. Thank you.

  1235. Thank you.

  1236. Thank you.

  1237. Thank you.