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A Gospel-Shaped Community

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  1. Okay, well, this morning we continue to work through the book of 1 Peter in our series, The Splendor in the Furnace.

  2. Now, if you're new to Watermark this morning, you're joining us in kind of the climax of our series.

  3. We've been working through the book of 1 Peter, and this is the part where we really get to find out about the furnace and affliction and suffering.

  4. And it's around this time that we get to see why we call this series The Splendor in the Furnace,

  5. because Peter is writing to a bunch of Christians who feel like they're being thrown in the furnace of affliction.

  6. They are going through a hard time.

  7. They are being persecuted and maligned for their faith, for following Jesus.

  8. They are being ostracized because they weren't worshipped, the household gods, etc.

  9. And Peter writes them to say, though this may feel like you're being thrown in the fire,

  10. something beautiful and splendid is going to come of it.

  11. God is going to do something majestic and beautiful in the season.

  12. And your faith, which is like gold, is going to be tested in the fire and is going to be purified and fortified and strengthened.

  13. And so this book really is about how walking with God through pain and suffering really does produce something beautiful inside of us.

  14. Now, if you're here this morning and you're not yet a Christian,

  15. I guess you've probably got a whole bunch of questions around pain and suffering and evil and how can God allow these things.

  16. And there's many good, those are good questions and there's many good answers.

  17. The book of 1 Peter is just one of Jesus' answers to us, to this question.

  18. Why does God allow these things?

  19. Well, he does it partly to shape us and to form us and to fashion us.

  20. And so if you're still trying to make sense of the claims of Jesus, we're so glad you're with us this morning.

  21. Now, today's passage follows on closely from last week's passage.

  22. If you're here last week, I felt like I did a very inadequate job of opening up the scriptures and I apologize for that.

  23. So let's hope that we can make more sense of this today.

  24. Summarize briefly last week and then dive into today's passage.

  25. Okay.

  26. So the big idea for today, this sounds very loud.

  27. Is it loud to you?

  28. No?

  29. Okay.

  30. I'll just bear it.

  31. The big idea for today is this.

  32. Watermark, let us not waste our time of suffering, but let suffering drive the gospel deeper into our hearts so that we become a community which is gospel sacrificial rather than self-indulgent.

  33. Okay?

  34. So, Watermark, when suffering comes our way, don't waste the opportunity that suffering produces to drive the gospel deeper into your heart.

  35. Let suffering make us the kind of community which is gospel-saturated, that is gospel sacrificial rather than self-centered and self-indulgent.

  36. And there's four points today.

  37. Okay?

  38. And so let's dive into the first one, which is the splendor of the gospel.

  39. Now, the main idea from last week was this.

  40. 1 Peter 3, verse 9 says,

    1 Peter 3:9

  41. Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but bless those who persecute you.

  42. And the way to bless them is to pray for them.

  43. Someone's giving you a hard time, you pray God's richest blessings on them.

  44. And the motivation for this was found in chapter 3, verse 18, where Peter writes and says,

  45. For Christ suffered for sin, the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God.

  46. And this verse really is a kind of summary of the entire Bible.

  47. Everything from Genesis to Revelation is pointing to this one truth, that Jesus Christ, the righteous one,

  48. suffered for sins, for your sins and my sins, that he might bring us to God.

  49. Christ, the perfect one, died in the place of the imperfect ones.

  50. Christ, the sinless one, died in the place of sinful ones.

  51. Christ, the righteous, died for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God.

  52. You know, there's an amazing verse in the Old Testament in 1 Samuel chapter 14,

    1 Samuel 14 chapter mention

  53. where a lady in Israel comes to King David and says,

  54. We all deserve to die.

  55. Let me just get it for us.

  56. But like water that's been spilt on the ground and cannot be gathered up again.

  57. But God does not take away life.

  58. God goes out of his way to find ways to devise means so that banished ones do not remain estranged from him.

  59. So here's what she's saying.

  60. She's saying, like if you take a bottle of drinking water and it spills on the ground,

  61. on sandy ground, it becomes muddy.

  62. There's no ways you're going to be able to drink that water again.

  63. It's gone, right?

  64. It's unsavable, unsalvageable.

  65. He says, that's how we are in the natural realm.

  66. But God finds a way to save the unsavable.

  67. God goes out of his way to find ways of doing the impossible,

  68. of taking those that are far from him and bring them back to him.

  69. And how did he do it?

  70. Well, Jesus, the righteous one, died for sins,

  71. the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God.

  72. This is the gospel.

  73. And so this is what we've been talking about.

  74. This is what the whole of 1 Peter is all about.

  75. However, that's not all there is to the gospel.

  76. You see, the gospel is magnificent and it's deep and it's beautiful,

  77. but it's not one-dimensional.

  78. There's many aspects to it.

  79. And so consider this.

  80. Consider how Christ's death on the cross was not only the means by which God purchased our forgiveness.

  81. It was that.

  82. But it was so much more.

  83. Christ's death on the cross was the means by which God made his enemies his friends or his children.

  84. Romans chapter 5 says,

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  85. For while we were enemies of God, God reconciled us to himself by the death of his son.

  86. Consider how Christ's death on the cross was the way that God made those that were spiritually dead alive again.

  87. Ephesians chapter 2.

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  88. As for you, as for me, we were dead in our sins, but now we've been made alive with Christ again.

  89. Consider how the cross is the means by which God's unusual way of defeating his enemies.

  90. Colossians chapter 2 says,

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  91. God disarmed the rulers and authorities, put them to open shame, triumphing over them in Christ on the cross.

  92. Well, consider how the cross is the way by which Jesus glorified God the Father.

  93. Remember, just before he dies, he prays and says,

  94. Father, the hour for my death has come.

  95. Now glorify your name.

  96. The cross is the way by which Jesus puts on display the infinite majesty and the holiness and the justice,

  97. as well as the kindness and the compassion and the mercy of God.

  98. Well, consider how not only that, the cross is the means by which God makes a new community.

  99. He takes those that are banished and estranged and individuals, and he brings them back together as a family.

  100. You know, sometimes we think, Jesus loves me, this I know, for the Bible tells me so.

  101. And that's true, but that's not the whole truth.

  102. The truth is also that God makes a new community, a family, a royal nation, a people for his own possession.

  103. Friends, Jesus dying on the cross to take people like you and I and bring us back into his family

  104. is like a great shepherd going after the lost sheep and bringing them back to the fold.

  105. It's like a father who goes to the judge and says,

  106. I'll serve my son's prison sentence so he can be released from jail and reconciled with the family.

  107. Jesus' death on the cross makes a new community.

  108. But not only that, as we saw last week, Jesus' death on the cross, in all its anguish, in all its pain,

  109. is a picture of how living for the will of God, though it will require you to die initially, actually leads to life.

  110. Karen Job said it like this.

  111. Christians know that Christ's death was both purposeful and victorious because death was not the final word.

  112. Christians followed Jesus' footsteps through death to victory and life.

  113. You see, Jesus' death shows us that death is not the final word.

  114. It's part of the journey towards real, eternal life.

  115. And for the Christians, this is the pattern of our lives.

  116. Christ calls us to come and die when we follow him that we may find true life.

  117. And all of this is because Jesus died on the cross, what Christ accomplished for us,

  118. the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God, the splendor of the gospel.

  119. And that leads us to today's passage, chapter 4, verse 1, and to point 2.

  120. And so point 2 is this, the splendor of the gospel and the furnace of affliction.

  121. Okay?

  122. So let's look at verse 1 of 1 Peter, chapter 4.

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  123. Peter starts off like this.

  124. He says,

  125. Since therefore Christ suffered in the flesh, so that's everything we've just spoken about, okay?

  126. Since Jesus died on the cross, the righteous for the unrighteous, to accomplish all of those things and more,

  127. therefore, arm yourselves with the same way of thinking.

  128. Okay?

  129. So Peter's saying this to these Christians that are facing the mill, right?

  130. Things are not very comfortable for them.

  131. And he's saying,

  132. When persecution comes, when you suffer unjustly, when hardship and difficulty comes your way,

  133. remember how Christ suffered unjustly on the cross.

  134. Arm yourself with the same kind of thinking.

  135. And it's interesting that he uses the word arm yourself.

  136. What's he saying there?

  137. He's saying,

  138. Take up your weapons.

  139. Take up your arms, right?

  140. So when unjust suffering comes your way,

  141. when people are persecuting you and ridiculing you and you're going to suffer for following Jesus,

  142. when your boss refuses to give you a promotion because you won't flirt with him or sleep with him,

  143. when your boyfriend breaks up with you because you won't sleep with him,

  144. when your family ridicules you because you won't worship the ancestors or pray to them,

  145. when you lose out on a financial deal because you choose to do the path of integrity rather than dishonesty,

  146. arm yourself.

  147. Take up these weapons.

  148. And what is the weapon we should take up?

  149. Is it swords and spears?

  150. Is it guns and ammunition?

  151. No, no, no.

  152. Take up this weapon, he says,

  153. which is to arm yourself with the thinking of the gospel.

  154. Set your heart and your mind to think about Jesus and how the way he died on the cross.

  155. Because last week Peter said,

  156. well last week I said,

  157. I was trying to say what Peter said,

  158. that one of the ways we respond is to pray for our enemies.

  159. We bless those who persecute us.

  160. And now he gives us a second means,

  161. and that's to arm ourselves with gospel thinking.

  162. Friends, if you're a Christian here today,

  163. and you're suffering,

  164. or maybe if you're suffering because you're a Christian,

  165. that will produce in us one of two responses.

  166. Okay?

  167. One of two responses.

  168. Either opposition to the gospel will tempt us to try and live lives of self-preservation,

  169. of self-centeredness.

  170. It will either tempt us to try and find our joy and happiness in ourselves,

  171. or it will drive the gospel deeper into our hearts.

  172. Okay?

  173. So in Matthew 24,

  174. Jesus says this,

  175. just before he dies on the cross.

  176. He says,

  177. the end of the age is drawing near,

  178. and because wickedness will increase in the world,

  179. the love of many will grow cold.

  180. Okay?

  181. So think about this.

  182. You've got a massive fire.

  183. Okay?

  184. You've got a barbecue pit.

  185. You're going to barbecue some roast lamb.

  186. Okay?

  187. And busy barbecuing there,

  188. and next to it is a tin of see-through liquid.

  189. And so I say to you,

  190. hey,

  191. what's in this liquid?

  192. And you say,

  193. I don't know.

  194. Let's throw it on the fire and see.

  195. Okay?

  196. Now,

  197. if that liquid is cold water,

  198. let's say it's a big jug of cold water,

  199. you throw it on the fire,

  200. what's going to happen?

  201. It's going to quench it,

  202. right?

  203. It's going to put it out.

  204. It's going to kill the fire.

  205. But if that liquid is paraffin,

  206. or gasoline,

  207. or something like that,

  208. what's going to happen?

  209. You're going to throw it in the fire end?

  210. It's going to be an explosion,

  211. right?

  212. It's going to be a combustion.

  213. Well,

  214. Jesus is saying the same thing.

  215. He's saying,

  216. when persecution comes,

  217. when suffering comes,

  218. there's two ways that you can respond.

  219. The one is it's like throwing cold water

  220. on your affections for Jesus.

  221. It's going to dampen.

  222. It's going to cause the love of many to grow cold.

  223. It's going to tempt you to retreat

  224. into self-preservation.

  225. But the other hand,

  226. if you arm yourself with gospel thinking,

  227. it's like throwing high-octane paraffin on the fire.

  228. It's going to combust with explosion,

  229. right?

  230. Either persecution will make our sinful hearts

  231. and temptations more appealing

  232. and more tempting,

  233. or it will open our eyes to see what sin is

  234. and make sin more disgusting

  235. and the beauty of Jesus more glorious.

  236. And this is what Peter's saying.

  237. Look at how he says it in verse two.

  238. He says,

  239. either suffering will make us feel sorry for ourselves,

  240. and as a result,

  241. we will look for joy and happiness and pleasure.

  242. And what does he use the word here?

  243. He says,

  244. human passions,

  245. okay?

  246. That's self-seeking desires.

  247. That's what makes me happy,

  248. what satisfies my desires.

  249. Or,

  250. he says,

  251. Peter says,

  252. don't let that happen.

  253. Rather,

  254. combat the temptation to feel sorry for yourself

  255. by seeking joy and pleasure and happiness

  256. in what does he say?

  257. In the will of God.

  258. In the will of God.

  259. And so,

  260. look at how he says it here.

  261. He says,

  262. since therefore Christ suffered in the flesh,

  263. arm yourselves with the same way of thinking.

  264. For if anyone has suffered in the flesh,

  265. if they respond with gospel thoughtfulness,

  266. if they respond by reflecting on Jesus and his death,

  267. they have ceased from sin,

  268. so as to live for the rest of their time,

  269. no longer for human passions,

  270. my desires,

  271. and what makes me feel comfortable,

  272. but for the will of God.

  273. You see that?

  274. See that there's two responses here.

  275. So either,

  276. suffering and hardship will drive us

  277. to become more self-focused,

  278. self-aware,

  279. self-centered,

  280. and self-entitled,

  281. as we feel sorry for ourselves,

  282. or,

  283. it will make us selfless,

  284. others-focused,

  285. generous,

  286. and servant-hearted.

  287. Okay?

  288. The reformers used to say it like this,

  289. the same sun that bakes the clay

  290. also melts the ice.

  291. The sun bakes the clay.

  292. In one sense,

  293. it makes you hard,

  294. it can harden your heart

  295. towards God and the gospel.

  296. But the same sun can also melt the ice,

  297. can also soften your heart

  298. towards the gospel.

  299. How do you know which one

  300. it's going to do to you?

  301. Well,

  302. how are you going to respond

  303. when hardship and difficulty

  304. comes your way?

  305. And so this is what Peter's saying.

  306. He's saying,

  307. don't waste your suffering.

  308. Don't waste the opportunity

  309. that opposition brings

  310. to drive the gospel deeper

  311. into your hearts

  312. and to fall more in love with Jesus.

  313. And this is why this book

  314. is called

  315. The Splendor in the Furnace.

  316. When the heat is turned up,

  317. when you feel like you're being thrown

  318. in the furnace of affliction,

  319. when difficulty comes

  320. because you're following Jesus,

  321. not genus,

  322. Jesus,

  323. the furnace will do something

  324. in you and to you

  325. which you'd never have discovered

  326. apart from it

  327. if you arm yourself

  328. with gospel thinking.

  329. Tim Keller,

  330. gee,

  331. I can't speak today.

  332. Tim Keller,

  333. I really do apologize.

  334. Tim Keller

  335. wrote the most incredible book

  336. and I wish I'd brought my copy

  337. to show you.

  338. I really want to encourage you

  339. to buy this.

  340. It's called

  341. Walking with God

  342. Through Pain and Suffering.

  343. Probably one of the best books

  344. I've ever read in my life.

  345. And in it,

  346. he writes this.

  347. It's quite a long quote

  348. and I forgot to put it on the slide

  349. so you're going to have to

  350. listen up carefully.

  351. It says this,

  352. No matter what precautions we take,

  353. no matter how well we have put together

  354. a good life,

  355. no matter how hard we've worked

  356. to be healthy, wealthy, and comfortable,

  357. something will inevitably ruin it.

  358. In a secular view,

  359. suffering is never seen as meaningful

  360. but only as an interruption

  361. to my good life.

  362. Christianity teaches

  363. that while suffering is overwhelming,

  364. while it's real,

  365. and contrary to karma,

  366. suffering is often unfair,

  367. it's not without meaning.

  368. There is a purpose to it.

  369. And if faced rightly,

  370. it can drive us like a nail

  371. deep into the love of God,

  372. into more stability,

  373. into spiritual power

  374. you could never imagine.

  375. While other worldviews lead us

  376. to sit in the midst of life's joys,

  377. foreseeing the coming sorrows,

  378. Christianity empowers its people

  379. to sit in the midst of world's sorrows,

  380. tasting the coming joys.

  381. You see that?

  382. The gospel says that suffering

  383. is not without meaning.

  384. It's not always comfortable,

  385. it's not fine,

  386. it's not nice,

  387. it's terrible,

  388. it's overwhelming,

  389. but it's not without meaning.

  390. And so this is what Peter's saying to us.

  391. He's saying don't waste the opportunity.

  392. Friends, don't waste your suffering.

  393. Don't run away from it.

  394. Don't retreat into self-preservation.

  395. Let God use the furnace of affliction

  396. to open your eyes

  397. and to fall more in love with Jesus,

  398. to see the ugliness of sin

  399. and the beauty of Christ

  400. and the splendor of His glory

  401. and to long for heaven.

  402. And so this is what Peter's saying.

  403. When you suffer for the gospel,

  404. arm yourself with gospel thinking.

  405. Fix our eyes on Jesus.

  406. Remember the cross.

  407. Remember what Jesus did for us.

  408. For whoever suffers in the flesh

  409. has ceased from sin

  410. and spends the rest of their time

  411. living for the will of God.

  412. Okay?

  413. So the splendor of the gospel,

  414. the splendor of the gospel,

  415. the furnace of affliction.

  416. Thirdly, a community of self.

  417. Now, what we see in this next section

  418. from verse 3 to 11

  419. is that one of the ways we know

  420. how we will respond to the gospel

  421. or how we will respond to suffering

  422. is by observing the nature of the community

  423. that we are part of

  424. or more specifically,

  425. our view of community life.

  426. Okay?

  427. So how do you know

  428. which way you're going to respond?

  429. More self-entitled

  430. or more other-centered?

  431. Feeling sorry for yourself

  432. or more selfless and sacrificial?

  433. Well, one of the ways you know

  434. is by observing the nature

  435. of the community you're part of

  436. and how you view community.

  437. Because in verse 3 to 4,

  438. we have a picture

  439. of what some people

  440. might consider to be a fun community.

  441. Okay?

  442. Lots of passion.

  443. Lots of excitement.

  444. Maybe it's the kind of community

  445. you want to be part of.

  446. But there's something sinister about it.

  447. And so let's see if we can pick it up.

  448. Look at verse 3 and 4.

  449. He says,

  450. Peter talks about people

  451. that are living in sensuality.

  452. That means just living

  453. for what feels good in the moment.

  454. People who are living for passions.

  455. That's what excites you.

  456. Living for drunkenness.

  457. Okay?

  458. Living without any restraints.

  459. Living for orgies.

  460. Fulfilling all your sexual desires.

  461. Drinking parties.

  462. And lawless idolatry.

  463. Now that may be,

  464. maybe that sounds exciting.

  465. Maybe you think

  466. that's exactly what I'm looking for.

  467. Sign me up.

  468. Where can I join?

  469. Right?

  470. But there's something sinister

  471. about this.

  472. Because the problem is

  473. that this lifestyle,

  474. like a community

  475. that's focused on this,

  476. cannot sustain itself.

  477. It's going to come to an end.

  478. It's going to unravel

  479. at some point in time.

  480. Because look at how Peter

  481. shows us this

  482. in verse 3 and 4.

  483. He says,

  484. this is how you used to live.

  485. Remember,

  486. this is how you,

  487. you were once part

  488. of this community.

  489. But now,

  490. they are surprised

  491. when you do not join them

  492. in the same flood of debauchery.

  493. And they malign you.

  494. They ostracize you.

  495. They persecute you.

  496. Why?

  497. Because a community

  498. that's built

  499. around pleasure seeking,

  500. around self-indulgence,

  501. around fulfilling

  502. humanistic desires,

  503. does not love you

  504. and accept you

  505. for who you are.

  506. It merely loves you

  507. and accepts you

  508. because you join them

  509. in fulfilling

  510. self-gratifying desires.

  511. Does that make sense?

  512. So the community

  513. doesn't say,

  514. hey,

  515. I love you

  516. because I love you.

  517. It says,

  518. you can be part of us

  519. as we both try

  520. and fulfill

  521. our own pleasures together.

  522. Let me see

  523. if I can tell a story

  524. to demonstrate this.

  525. When I was in high school,

  526. so back in South Africa,

  527. in high school,

  528. you finish high school

  529. when most people

  530. turn 18

  531. in their final year

  532. of school.

  533. And in South Africa,

  534. everything happens at 18.

  535. You finish high school,

  536. you also get

  537. your driving license

  538. and you can drink

  539. legally at the age of 18.

  540. So most people

  541. turn 18

  542. in their final year

  543. of high school

  544. except most people

  545. have started drinking

  546. many years before that.

  547. 14,

  548. 15,

  549. et cetera.

  550. And so when I was

  551. at school,

  552. my final three years

  553. of school,

  554. I was in the boarding house

  555. which was the best

  556. three years

  557. of my high school career.

  558. We had a lot of fun.

  559. But I had decided

  560. that I wasn't going

  561. to drink alcohol

  562. before I was 18.

  563. It's just a personal decision.

  564. And so while I had

  565. a lot of friends

  566. in the boarding house,

  567. I was always slightly

  568. on the outside.

  569. I was never really

  570. in the circle

  571. with the guys

  572. because I wouldn't

  573. drink with them

  574. on weekends.

  575. I'd go to the parties

  576. but I would drink soda

  577. and I was a little bit

  578. on the outside.

  579. A bit nerdy.

  580. But when I turned 18,

  581. I had a motorbike

  582. in the boarding house

  583. and so I went

  584. out of the school grounds,

  585. I went to a liquor store

  586. and I bought

  587. a whole case of beers

  588. and I brought them

  589. back to the hostel

  590. and I said to all

  591. the guys in my year,

  592. I said,

  593. listen,

  594. I've turned 18 today,

  595. we're going to go down

  596. to the rugby fields

  597. and we're going

  598. to have beers together.

  599. And so we went

  600. down to the rugby fields

  601. and we all cracked

  602. open these beers

  603. and had a couple

  604. of beers together.

  605. And it was amazing.

  606. For the first time,

  607. I was right in there.

  608. I was part of the crowd.

  609. Maybe that's what happens

  610. if you buy beers

  611. for other guys, right?

  612. But something changed

  613. that day

  614. where I was part

  615. of the crowd.

  616. I was part of the men.

  617. I was welcomed

  618. into the circle, right?

  619. Because I had bought

  620. beers for them.

  621. But the problem is

  622. that the fickleness

  623. or the ease

  624. with which you join

  625. a community

  626. is the same ease

  627. with which you'll be

  628. excluded from the community

  629. when you no longer

  630. participate

  631. or you dress differently

  632. or you no longer

  633. listen to the same kind

  634. of music,

  635. you're out.

  636. And that's exactly

  637. what's happening

  638. to these Christians.

  639. They were excluded

  640. because they no longer

  641. participated in the activities

  642. of the same interest.

  643. You see, friends,

  644. a community which is formed

  645. around similar ideas

  646. of self-indulgence

  647. or personal gratification

  648. or what makes me happy

  649. is self-defeating

  650. because the very thing

  651. that brings them together

  652. is the same thing

  653. that actually undermines

  654. true community.

  655. True community is formed

  656. when you say

  657. we have common commitments,

  658. common convictions

  659. where together

  660. we are united

  661. about a commitment

  662. to something outside of us,

  663. something bigger than us.

  664. And in the Christian context,

  665. it's the person

  666. of Jesus Christ.

  667. Communities form

  668. not just around

  669. common interests

  670. but common convictions

  671. and commitments.

  672. And friends,

  673. one of the challenges

  674. for us as a church

  675. is that a Christian community

  676. can actually be

  677. just as secular

  678. but just around

  679. Christian personal

  680. self-gratification.

  681. So we can pretend

  682. and think we're part

  683. of a Christian community

  684. but it's not because

  685. we actually committed

  686. to loving and serving

  687. one another.

  688. It's because I fulfill

  689. my own religious

  690. self-gratification

  691. and you fulfilling

  692. your religious gratification

  693. and we're doing it together

  694. but as soon as

  695. one of us is different,

  696. as soon as one of us

  697. has a different idea,

  698. what do we do?

  699. We shun the person.

  700. We kick them out.

  701. You're no longer allowed

  702. to be our friend.

  703. And Peter writes and says

  704. that kind of community

  705. is always self-defeating.

  706. And that leads us

  707. to the fourth

  708. and the final point

  709. which is a community

  710. of gospel sacrifice.

  711. And so let's look

  712. at what a community

  713. which is forged

  714. in the furnace of affliction,

  715. which is thought deeply

  716. about the gospel

  717. and Jesus looks like.

  718. Let's read verse 7

  719. to 11 together.

  720. Peter writes this,

  721. The end of all things

  722. is at hand.

  723. Therefore be self-controlled

  724. and sober-minded

  725. for the sake of your prayers.

  726. Now just pause quickly.

  727. It's interesting,

  728. this is the third time

  729. in three weeks

  730. that the passage

  731. of scripture we've looked at

  732. has mentioned

  733. for the sake of your prayers.

  734. It's interesting,

  735. Jesus is telling us

  736. that God takes our obedience

  737. to his word very seriously.

  738. There is a correlation

  739. between our obedience

  740. to Christ

  741. and our relationship with him.

  742. Three weeks in a row

  743. the passage has spoken about

  744. obey Christ

  745. for the sake of your prayers.

  746. Then verse 8,

  747. he gives us

  748. four characteristics.

  749. He says,

  750. Above all,

  751. keep loving one another

  752. earnestly

  753. since love covers

  754. a multitude of sins.

  755. Show hospitality

  756. to one another

  757. without grumbling.

  758. As each has received

  759. a gift,

  760. use it to serve one another

  761. as good stewards

  762. of God's varied grace.

  763. Whoever speaks

  764. is one who speaks

  765. the oracles of God.

  766. Whoever serves

  767. is one who serves

  768. by the strength

  769. that God supplies.

  770. In order that in everything

  771. God may be glorified

  772. through Jesus Christ.

  773. To him belong glory

  774. and dominion

  775. forever and ever.

  776. Amen.

  777. Four things that Peter

  778. gives us.

  779. Four marks of a gospel

  780. community that's been

  781. forged in the furnace

  782. of affliction

  783. but has thought deeply

  784. about Christ

  785. and who he is.

  786. First thing is this.

  787. Love one another

  788. for love covers

  789. over a multitude

  790. of sins.

  791. You see,

  792. every community

  793. whether Christian

  794. or secular

  795. is going to have

  796. times of misunderstanding,

  797. miscommunication,

  798. difficulty,

  799. disappointments,

  800. right?

  801. Chris mentioned earlier

  802. this week,

  803. he said,

  804. a lot of people

  805. get disappointed in church

  806. because church

  807. can be disappointing.

  808. And it's true,

  809. right?

  810. As churches

  811. we're not immune

  812. from that.

  813. We're full of sin,

  814. we're full of pride,

  815. we're full of stuff

  816. and we get in the way

  817. and we hurt each other.

  818. What's going to stop us

  819. from distangling

  820. and becoming self-centered

  821. and self-orientated?

  822. The gospel community

  823. is one whose association

  824. is determined

  825. not by self-interest

  826. or what makes me happy,

  827. by a common commitment

  828. to love

  829. and serve one another.

  830. Jesus said,

  831. as I have loved you,

  832. so you love one another.

  833. And how did he love us?

  834. By dying on the cross,

  835. by covering our sin

  836. with his blood.

  837. Christ's love

  838. speaks

  839. to Christian community.

  840. You see friends,

  841. Christian love

  842. is not soft

  843. and mushy.

  844. It's not like,

  845. oh,

  846. rosy

  847. and gentle,

  848. right?

  849. It's robust,

  850. it's strong,

  851. it's healthy,

  852. it covers over sins.

  853. And when someone

  854. hurts you

  855. and maligns you

  856. and does something hurtful,

  857. the Christian community

  858. is able to say,

  859. because Christ suffered

  860. for me,

  861. I can forgive you.

  862. The gospel calls us

  863. to love one another.

  864. Secondly,

  865. verse nine,

  866. he shows that

  867. a community

  868. shaped by Christ's

  869. selfless,

  870. sacrificial death

  871. is one that

  872. is marked

  873. by incredible

  874. hospitality.

  875. In Hong Kong,

  876. because we have

  877. small homes

  878. and because

  879. time is of a,

  880. is a very precious

  881. commodity,

  882. the temptation

  883. is to give in

  884. to our secular culture

  885. and to never have

  886. people in our homes.

  887. Friends,

  888. I want to encourage us

  889. not to go that route.

  890. I want to encourage us

  891. to let the gospel

  892. shape us

  893. and to become

  894. incredibly hospitable,

  895. to open up

  896. not just our homes

  897. but our hearts

  898. to one another.

  899. You see,

  900. opening up our homes

  901. is a way of showing,

  902. of letting people

  903. into the most private

  904. areas of our lives.

  905. It's a way of allowing

  906. people to see the good

  907. and the not so good,

  908. right?

  909. It's allowing people

  910. to see our lives

  911. when we're not putting

  912. our best foot forward

  913. but when our kids

  914. are messy

  915. and there's stuff

  916. in the lounge

  917. and the music

  918. is too loud

  919. and Claire

  920. patiently puts up

  921. with me

  922. and I get frustrated.

  923. When people

  924. in my homes,

  925. they get to see

  926. the real me.

  927. They get to see

  928. all the sin

  929. and all the mess.

  930. Friends,

  931. consider how Jesus

  932. opened up

  933. not only his home

  934. but his heart to us.

  935. Consider how Jesus

  936. suffered in order

  937. to bring us

  938. into the family.

  939. Remember how Jesus

  940. welcomed us

  941. with open arms.

  942. Remember how Jesus

  943. said,

  944. I welcome you

  945. and then you change.

  946. I don't ask you

  947. to change

  948. before I welcome you.

  949. Rosario Butterfield

  950. wrote an incredible book

  951. called

  952. The Gospel Comes

  953. with a House Key.

  954. In this book,

  955. she tells her story.

  956. She was an antagonistic

  957. anti-Christian,

  958. didn't want anything

  959. to do with Christians.

  960. What changed her life

  961. was she met a couple,

  962. an older couple,

  963. that welcomed her

  964. into their home.

  965. For two years,

  966. they would just

  967. welcome her at any time.

  968. They said,

  969. we have dinner

  970. at 5.30 every night.

  971. This is in the States,

  972. not in Hong Kong.

  973. We have dinner

  974. at 5.30 every night

  975. and you're welcome

  976. any time you want.

  977. Just pull in

  978. and there will always

  979. be food for you.

  980. And this hospitality

  981. challenged her.

  982. She says this,

  983. for two years,

  984. I was loved and welcomed

  985. by a Christian community

  986. that I mocked,

  987. despised,

  988. and rejected.

  989. I accepted them

  990. when it worked for me

  991. but all the other times

  992. I rejected them.

  993. But eventually,

  994. this couple won her heart

  995. and she explained

  996. the gospel to her

  997. and she became

  998. a follower of Jesus.

  999. And she writes this

  1000. in a book.

  1001. She says,

  1002. the gospel calls us

  1003. to engage in radical,

  1004. ordinary hospitality,

  1005. which means we provide

  1006. the time necessary

  1007. to build strong relationships

  1008. even with people

  1009. who think differently to us,

  1010. as well as strong relationships

  1011. with people

  1012. within the family of God.

  1013. Of course,

  1014. it takes planning,

  1015. intentionality,

  1016. and sacrifice

  1017. to create margins

  1018. of time and money.

  1019. but it won't take

  1020. anything from you

  1021. that you don't already have

  1022. in Christ

  1023. and the gospel.

  1024. Friends,

  1025. because of what we have

  1026. in the gospel,

  1027. God calls us

  1028. to spend ourselves

  1029. for the sake of others.

  1030. Thirdly,

  1031. Peter says this

  1032. in verse 10,

  1033. that such a community

  1034. born of the gospel,

  1035. shaped by affliction

  1036. and thinking about Jesus,

  1037. will live not for themselves

  1038. but for the well-being

  1039. of others.

  1040. Remember in chapter 3,

  1041. we spoke about this

  1042. two weeks ago,

  1043. in chapter 3,

  1044. Peter says,

  1045. husbands,

  1046. use the strength

  1047. that God has given you

  1048. to serve your wife.

  1049. Whatever strength

  1050. God has given you,

  1051. you use it

  1052. to build up

  1053. and encourage your wife.

  1054. Now,

  1055. Peter says the exact same thing

  1056. to all Christians.

  1057. He says here,

  1058. each of us

  1059. has received a gift.

  1060. So think about

  1061. the gifts you've received.

  1062. Maybe it's your natural talents

  1063. and gifting.

  1064. Maybe it's your resources,

  1065. finances,

  1066. or a house,

  1067. or a car.

  1068. Maybe it's connections

  1069. and contacts that you have.

  1070. He says,

  1071. use the gifts that you've got.

  1072. Each one has received a gift.

  1073. Now use it

  1074. to serve one another

  1075. as stewards

  1076. of God's gracious gift.

  1077. I think one of the best examples

  1078. I can think of

  1079. of this

  1080. is Franklin and Teresa.

  1081. Franklin and Teresa

  1082. have been really blessed

  1083. by God in many ways.

  1084. Good education,

  1085. good family,

  1086. blessings,

  1087. work,

  1088. opportunities.

  1089. Franklin is always

  1090. asking the question,

  1091. how can I use

  1092. the gift that God

  1093. has given me

  1094. to bless and serve others?

  1095. I think of the way

  1096. he even bought a car

  1097. a year ago.

  1098. I mean,

  1099. it's just Franklin and Teresa

  1100. in their home, right?

  1101. There don't have any kids

  1102. staying at home.

  1103. He bought a seven-seater car

  1104. and the thinking was this,

  1105. I'm sure there are going

  1106. to be people

  1107. that are going to need

  1108. lifts to and from things.

  1109. I'll give people lifts.

  1110. So he bought a bigger car

  1111. just to help people out.

  1112. But he's constantly

  1113. asking the question,

  1114. how can I use

  1115. the gifts that God

  1116. has given me

  1117. to love and serve others?

  1118. And then finally,

  1119. Peter gives us

  1120. the fourth,

  1121. I guess,

  1122. proof of gospel community.

  1123. And look at what he says

  1124. in verse 11.

  1125. He says,

  1126. Let him who serves

  1127. serve by the strength

  1128. that God gives

  1129. in order that in everything

  1130. God may be glorified

  1131. through Jesus Christ.

  1132. To him belong glory

  1133. and dominion

  1134. forever and ever.

  1135. Amen.

  1136. Friends,

  1137. if the gospel is true,

  1138. if Jesus Christ

  1139. went to the cross

  1140. to bear our sin

  1141. upon his shoulders,

  1142. if Jesus Christ,

  1143. the righteous one,

  1144. died for unrighteous

  1145. you and me,

  1146. if God does not

  1147. hold our sin against us

  1148. but rather welcomes us

  1149. into his family

  1150. and into our arms,

  1151. friends,

  1152. if God loves us

  1153. and forgives us,

  1154. not because of what

  1155. we've done but because

  1156. of what Jesus did

  1157. on the cross for us,

  1158. is there any room

  1159. left for boasting?

  1160. Is there any room

  1161. left for self-glory?

  1162. Is there any room

  1163. left for arrogance

  1164. or self-sufficiency?

  1165. Peter writes this,

  1166. to him,

  1167. to Christ,

  1168. belongs all the glory

  1169. forever and ever

  1170. and ever

  1171. and ever

  1172. and ever.

  1173. Amen.

  1174. Right?

  1175. A gospel community

  1176. forged and shaped

  1177. by the gospel

  1178. be one that says

  1179. Christ to you

  1180. be all the glory.

  1181. Watermark,

  1182. if there's one prayer

  1183. I've prayed for our church

  1184. the last year,

  1185. there's one prayer

  1186. I've prayed over

  1187. and over and over

  1188. again is this,

  1189. God make us

  1190. a gospel church,

  1191. make us a gospel

  1192. community,

  1193. get the gospel

  1194. deep into our hearts,

  1195. make us a community

  1196. which is formed

  1197. and fashioned

  1198. and shaped

  1199. around the person

  1200. of Jesus Christ

  1201. and what he's did

  1202. on the cross.

  1203. And I've prayed

  1204. that prayer for myself,

  1205. say God,

  1206. I want to be

  1207. a gospel man,

  1208. I want what you did

  1209. on the cross Jesus

  1210. to shape every area

  1211. of my life,

  1212. I want to be

  1213. a gospel man.

  1214. And you know what,

  1215. I think God is starting

  1216. to answer that in my life.

  1217. By 1%,

  1218. very slowly,

  1219. God is doing stuff

  1220. in my life.

  1221. But you know what,

  1222. there's two things

  1223. that are happening.

  1224. One,

  1225. the way that God

  1226. is doing it

  1227. is he's exposing

  1228. all sorts of sin

  1229. and rubbish in my heart.

  1230. I'm seeing things

  1231. that I've never seen before

  1232. and it hasn't been

  1233. very comfortable.

  1234. And secondly,

  1235. he's taken me through

  1236. probably the most

  1237. difficult trialing season

  1238. of my life.

  1239. But God is doing something.

  1240. And friends,

  1241. I think Jesus wants

  1242. to answer that prayer

  1243. for our church.

  1244. I think Jesus wants

  1245. to make us

  1246. a gospel community,

  1247. a gospel church.

  1248. But chances are

  1249. when he does it,

  1250. he's going to expose things.

  1251. The things that are

  1252. hidden under the surface

  1253. that are going to come up.

  1254. But secondly,

  1255. there's chances are

  1256. he's going to do it

  1257. by taking us

  1258. to the furnace of affliction.

  1259. He's going to dial up the heat.

  1260. He's going to allow us

  1261. to suffer a little bit.

  1262. But as he does that,

  1263. let's respond.

  1264. Let's arm ourselves

  1265. with the gospel.

  1266. Let's think about

  1267. Christ on the cross.

  1268. And let's become those

  1269. who don't waste suffering,

  1270. but use it to get

  1271. the gospel deeper

  1272. into our hearts

  1273. so that we're

  1274. a gospel sacrificial community.

  1275. Let's pray together.

  1276. Oh, Heavenly Father,

  1277. these things are good ideas

  1278. and they're nice theory,

  1279. but God, we need you.

  1280. We need a work of your grace

  1281. and a work of your spirit

  1282. to really do this

  1283. in our hearts.

  1284. Jesus, we need you

  1285. to make each one of us here

  1286. a gospel man,

  1287. a gospel woman, God.

  1288. We want to arm ourselves.

  1289. We want to think

  1290. carefully and intentionally

  1291. about you

  1292. and your death

  1293. on the cross

  1294. and what you accomplished

  1295. for us.

  1296. God, won't you

  1297. shape our hearts,

  1298. we pray, God.

  1299. And Father,

  1300. as you do that,

  1301. won't you shape

  1302. our community.

  1303. I pray, God,

  1304. that Watermark

  1305. really will be

  1306. a gospel community, Lord.

  1307. That we will be those

  1308. that love one another

  1309. intensely and deeply.

  1310. We will be those

  1311. that are extravagantly

  1312. hospitable and open.

  1313. We will be those, God,

  1314. that use the gifts

  1315. that you've given us,

  1316. not for our own benefit,

  1317. but for the well-being

  1318. of others.

  1319. And Father,

  1320. you'll make us

  1321. a community

  1322. that lives

  1323. and that the song

  1324. of our heart

  1325. is to the glory

  1326. of Christ,

  1327. the praise

  1328. of your name.

  1329. God, I pray,

  1330. make us different.

  1331. Make us a counter-cultural

  1332. community.

  1333. May we be a light

  1334. in the city, God.

  1335. May we swim upstream.

  1336. May people see

  1337. the wonder

  1338. and the beauty

  1339. of Jesus

  1340. because of what

  1341. you've done in our hearts.

  1342. We pray this

  1343. in your wonderful name.

  1344. Amen.

  1345. Amen.