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Furious With God

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  1. Father, we know that no one is good enough to warrant going to heaven.

  2. That as the Creed said, in a sense, whatever righteousness we have comes from Jesus, not from ourselves.

  3. And to fulfill your good and perfect will is to put our faith and trust in Jesus, not as a work,

  4. but as a fulfillment of the leading of your Holy Spirit and the desire of your heart,

  5. that we might trust Jesus and him alone as our Savior and Lord.

  6. Father, we ask that you would pour out the Holy Spirit upon us today,

  7. that you would bring your word and touch our hearts,

  8. that we might be disciples of Jesus who are gripped by the gospel, learning to live for your glory.

  9. And this we ask in Jesus' name. Amen.

  10. Please be seated.

  11. So quite a few years ago, it's not one of my kids who are at church today,

  12. but quite a few years ago, one of my children was in the car with my mom and dad,

  13. and they were on the Queensway, and somebody cut my dad off, and my dad said,

  14. what an idiot.

  15. And my son, because it was a son, he piped in, I think he was like eight years old or something at the time,

  16. my son piped in with just the innocence of a child and said, yeah, that guy's a jerk.

  17. And then he continued, there's lots of jerks on the road.

  18. My dad says that all the time.

  19. As we're on the Queensway, he's always talking about all the jerks on the road.

  20. Just complete level innocence.

  21. And I, of course, just, my parents came and told me about it afterwards,

  22. and I just wanted to cringe.

  23. I didn't realize that I said I had an anger problem on the road.

  24. That's a problem that other people have, not me.

  25. But obviously, my children heard differently, and in a sense, it not condemned me.

  26. It really challenged me about how I drove.

  27. Today, we're going to talk about anger, amongst other things, but we're going to talk about anger.

  28. And one of the things about anger is that often people like myself,

  29. who have bouts of anger or maybe even constant low-level anger,

  30. we don't recognize it in ourselves, but we think we see it in others.

  31. It's often a sin or a fault, as I said, that we don't acknowledge ourselves as having,

  32. but we think other people have.

  33. One of the things, and that's actually one of the reasons why,

  34. for old Christians, when they were coming up with ways to try to understand how to live a moral life,

  35. they came up with this idea of the seven deadly sins.

  36. And this is going to be a bit of a surprise to some of you if you are a guest,

  37. but in the list of the seven deadly sins, lust was there,

  38. but lust is the least deadly of the seven deadly sins.

  39. And part of that, of course, is that,

  40. I mean, I've told this story before.

  41. I used to visit a man in a hospital who was 100 years old,

  42. and we got talking about it someday or another,

  43. and he just told me when you hit 100, lust isn't much of an issue in your life anymore,

  44. not compared to when you were a 16-year-old male.

  45. So that's one of the reasons it's a bit of a less deadly sin than some of the others,

  46. because just with your body getting old and tired,

  47. it just becomes a little bit less of an issue.

  48. And the other thing about it is that often people know when they're filled with lust.

  49. But just as one of the things that makes cancer so deadly is not only will it kill you,

  50. but there's many forms of cancer that you don't know you have it

  51. until it's too late to do anything about it.

  52. So it is that anger and pride,

  53. which in fact are the two most deadly of the seven deadly sins, pride and anger,

  54. anger is a deadly sin because it will do great damage to our lives,

  55. but at the same time we often don't recognize that we actually have an anger problem ourselves,

  56. or anger-driven.

  57. So today we're going to look at a famous story about anger in the Bible.

  58. It was read earlier to us by Deborah.

  59. If you don't have a copy of a Bible to look, there'll be a text up on the screen.

  60. But it's always good to bring your own Bible to church

  61. and be able to make little notes on it as we go through and talk about this text.

  62. So we're going to be looking at Jonah chapter 4,

    Jonah 4 chapter mention

  63. and we're going to be looking at,

  64. and for some reason I also have it open to Micah,

  65. we'll turn to Jonah, Jonah chapter 4, just these four verses.

    Jonah 4 chapter mention

  66. And if you're curious about why we're doing this,

  67. one of the things we do at Church of the Messiah is we preach through books of the Bible,

  68. we're preaching through Jonah.

  69. And a good way to understand the book of Jonah

  70. is to compare it to watching a good BBC series on Netflix or Crave

  71. or whatever it is that you happen to subscribe to.

  72. And in a really good BBC series,

  73. what you'll do is it tells you one story,

  74. but it tells you one story by telling maybe four or six or eight or ten stories,

  75. whatever the number is.

  76. In this particular case, there's four separate stories.

  77. Think of them as episodes.

  78. And each episode is a story,

  79. but when you talk all four of them together,

  80. it tells you a very different, like it's nuanced.

  81. And we're not going to look at all of episode 4 today.

  82. We're going to break episode 4 into two parts.

  83. We're just going to look at the first part of episode 4, so to speak,

  84. 4A, and then next week we'll look at 4B.

  85. And just if you're not familiar with the story,

  86. what's happened in episode 1, God shows up and speaks to Jonah

  87. and tells Jonah he has to go to Nineveh and proclaim a message.

  88. And Nineveh was the major power of the ancient Near East at that time.

  89. Israel, which is where Jonah was from, was a vassal state.

  90. They'd been conquered by Assyria and had to pay tribute.

  91. And God says to Jonah,

  92. go to Nineveh, the capital, and proclaim this message against him.

  93. And Jonah reacts by saying, I'm not going to do it.

  94. I'm going to get as far away from God as I can

  95. and as far away from Nineveh as I can.

  96. And of course, the rest of episode 1 is what most people think of

  97. when they think of Jonah.

  98. There's a huge storm,

  99. and he ends up that Jonah gets thrown overboard

  100. to stop the storm by the pagan soldiers with Jonah's permission.

  101. And in a sense, episode 1 ends with a cliffhanger.

  102. The storm stops, so the pagans got it right.

  103. And Jonah's sinking into the water.

  104. Episode 2, that's how you want to watch episode 2.

  105. What happens to Jonah?

  106. Episode 2, God appoints a huge aquatic beast

  107. to show up just as Jonah's about to die in the water.

  108. The huge aquatic beast swallows Jonah,

  109. takes him right into the entrails, the intestines.

  110. And chapter 2 is Jonah's, in a sense, reflection and summary

  111. upon what it was like to be in the belly of a great aquatic beast

  112. for that period of time.

  113. And he ends up putting it in the form of a prayer.

  114. And it's really a form of a prayer about how he comes to realize

  115. that the Lord is merciful, slow to anger, filled with compassion,

  116. and that the Lord has delivered him.

  117. And Jonah's filled with gratefulness.

  118. How does episode 2 end?

  119. In a way that humbles Jonah, Jonah is vomited onto the land

  120. by the great aquatic beast.

  121. If you're vomited by a fish, that would be a humbling experience for you.

  122. So, episode 3, what's going to happen next?

  123. Well, in episode 3, we find Jonah actually showing up in Nineveh.

  124. And Jonah goes throughout Nineveh proclaiming,

  125. in 40 days, the Lord is going to overthrow you.

  126. And the word overthrow is the same word that's used about Sodom and Gomorrah,

  127. how they're completely destroyed.

  128. So, Jonah proclaims this message.

  129. And lo and behold, everybody in Nineveh, the capital city, repents.

  130. The king repents.

  131. The nobles repent.

  132. The people repent.

  133. Everybody repents.

  134. And as a result, the Lord sees their repentance,

  135. and he stays his judgment.

  136. Now, here's the question.

  137. We have episode 4.

  138. What on earth could go on in episode 4?

  139. If you think about it, this is the perfect Hollywood movie.

  140. It's the type of Hollywood movie that people like to watch.

  141. Hollywood movie that people like to watch,

  142. it would be as if, from your point of view, it's a J, right?

  143. In a good Hollywood movie, you begin up here.

  144. Some type of crisis happens.

  145. You're all being defeated.

  146. Everything's going.

  147. It looks like it's just going to be disaster and tragedy.

  148. But then, things conclude.

  149. And at the end, you're higher up than when you began.

  150. And in a good Hollywood movie, I just watched Hunter Killer, a not very good movie on Netflix.

  151. How does it end?

  152. Classic American ending of a J story.

  153. Everybody's clapping because the good guys win.

  154. The bad guys die.

  155. High fives, hugs.

  156. Everything's going.

  157. And in a good Hollywood movie, it either ends up that the guy gets the girl,

  158. or the girl gets the guy, and they ride off into the sunset,

  159. or there's applause, or there's both, or there's all of that type of stuff.

  160. Lord of the Rings, it has it all.

  161. The wedding, and of course, the applause and the ceremony.

  162. So you think, Jonah should end with chapter three, but there's episode four,

  163. which we're going to do in two parts.

  164. Why?

  165. Because Jonah is like the movie The Sixth Sense.

  166. And if you haven't seen the movie The Sixth Sense, I'm not going to give you a spoiler.

  167. I did that in another sermon, and a couple of people told me off for it.

  168. What I can tell you is if you watch The Sixth Sense,

  169. something happens in the last three or four minutes of the movie

  170. that makes you reconsider everything that went on in the entire movie.

  171. It completely and utterly blows the whole storyline away.

  172. You have to rethink everything that you saw, and that's what's going to happen in Jonah.

  173. And here is how it begins to happen.

  174. It happens with three questions in terms of what happens to Jonah.

  175. So chapter four, verse one,

  176. But it displeased Jonah exceedingly, and he was angry.

  177. And just sort of pause.

  178. Very, very good translation.

  179. But what it actually says in the original language is far worse.

  180. They can't actually indicate the full depth of what's being communicated in the original language.

  181. It says displeased Jonah exceedingly, and he was angry.

  182. What it says is it was a catastrophe to Jonah what had happened.

  183. A great catastrophe.

  184. And it burned him.

  185. The word for anger there is actually that he's so consumed, he's burning with anger at the great catastrophe which has just happened.

  186. Remember the great catastrophe is that the people of Nineveh listened to his preaching, repented,

  187. called out to the Lord for mercy, to God for mercy, and God stayed his judgment against them.

  188. And to Jonah, this is a huge catastrophe.

  189. And it's such a huge catastrophe that he's completely and utterly burned up with anger.

  190. So, well, why is he so filled with anger?

  191. Well, that's what verse two begins to tell us about.

  192. And look at verse two.

  193. So Jonah prayed to the Lord and said,

  194. Oh Lord, is not this what I said when I was yet in my country?

  195. That's in chapter one.

  196. That is why I made haste to flee to Tarshish.

  197. Chapter one.

  198. For I knew that you are a gracious God and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and relenting from disaster, from catastrophe, from calamity.

  199. That's the different ways that that word disaster could be translated.

  200. So why is he angry?

  201. He's angry that Nineveh was spared.

  202. He's angry that Nineveh was spared.

  203. And all of a sudden, and his great anger shows how much he hated Nineveh.

  204. You see, one of the reasons why anger is considered a bad thing by almost everybody in Canada

  205. is that anger is a very, very, very quick road to hatred.

  206. And not only is anger a very quick road to hatred, anger is a very effective way to maintain and deepen hatred.

  207. And that's amongst other reasons why it's generally viewed as being a bad thing, even in our culture today, that anger is a bad thing.

  208. We're going to talk more about it in a moment.

  209. But all of a sudden, you realize, one moment.

  210. So, in fact, sometimes if you hear people talk about the story of Jonah,

  211. they'll describe that the reason that Jonah left and didn't want to go to Nineveh was because he was afraid.

  212. Because Nineveh would sort of be like going to Tehran and telling the leaders to repent or something like that.

  213. It would be going to the capital of North Korea and telling the leader to repent.

  214. And people will often use those analogies.

  215. But that's not actually what the text says.

  216. He didn't want to...

  217. The reason he ran away from the thing wasn't because he was afraid,

  218. but because he was worried that God would listen, that they would repent and God would listen,

  219. and they wouldn't all die.

  220. Jonah wanted them to all die.

  221. He wanted God to kill them.

  222. And whoa!

  223. Well, that changes your reading of the first thing.

  224. Like, do the pagans there, who were all, like, sort of trying to be nice to Jonah in that first story,

  225. do they realize how much he hates pagans?

  226. They don't.

  227. And then in chapter 2, where all of a sudden God saves Jonah,

  228. now you go to yourself,

  229. why on earth did God save a guy who's so filled with hate?

  230. And then you go to chapter 3,

  231. and then you think to yourself,

  232. why is it that God used a guy who's so filled with hate so successfully?

  233. Like, if you're a guy like me,

  234. and I, you know, I have some anger issues,

  235. but I, you know, generally I try to fight against him,

  236. I don't have that success.

  237. So, God, why is it that Jonah has this success,

  238. and he's filled with hatred,

  239. and I'm trying to do a good job,

  240. and I don't have anything even remotely close to his success?

  241. Like, what on earth is going on with the whole story?

  242. You see, all of a sudden, it's like the sixth sense.

  243. It changes the way you look at all the earlier stories,

  244. when you see that Jonah

  245. actually did not want to go to Nineveh,

  246. because he was worried

  247. that if he went and did what he was supposed to do,

  248. that God wouldn't kill them all.

  249. And then some of you might think,

  250. some of you have heard me,

  251. if you've been here before,

  252. I like saying that in conversations,

  253. when it can come up with a non-Christian,

  254. I like to tell them that I don't believe in the God of Canadians.

  255. I don't believe the same God that most Canadians believe in.

  256. I believe in a different God altogether,

  257. and then I go and try to describe the difference between the gods.

  258. For many Canadians,

  259. if it's not a deistic God or an impersonal force,

  260. they worry that the God is like bloodthirsty.

  261. I've shared this with you before,

  262. that the God they're afraid of exists,

  263. and they don't want to believe,

  264. is a God who likes to have people die.

  265. He likes to kill people.

  266. He's bloodthirsty.

  267. And I tell them,

  268. the God that I believe exists,

  269. that's revealed by Jesus,

  270. isn't a God that likes to kill people,

  271. but a God who died for people.

  272. The complete opposite.

  273. So maybe that's what's going on here with Jonah.

  274. But no, that's not what's going on with Jonah.

  275. Jonah has a very, very, very, very good

  276. Orthodox Old Testament, New Testament view of God.

  277. Look again at what he says in verse 2.

  278. How does he describe God?

  279. I knew that you are a gracious God and merciful,

  280. slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love

  281. and relenting from disaster.

  282. Like that's bang on.

  283. And it's really puzzling.

  284. If you go back later on and you read Exodus 34,

  285. the same words are used to describe God.

  286. But these very descriptions of God,

  287. that he is gracious, merciful,

  288. slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love,

  289. that's the entire basis of the writer's hope.

  290. Because the nation of Israel,

  291. after they had been delivered out of bondage

  292. and slavery into Egypt,

  293. and they're on the way,

  294. and even though they've done all these terrible things,

  295. they refuse to obey God,

  296. and they create idols.

  297. And the writer, it's Moses, is saying,

  298. the whole reason I have any hope

  299. is because you are gracious, merciful,

  300. slow to anger, abounding in steadfast love,

  301. and relent from disaster.

  302. Go read the book of Lamentations,

  303. a very, very wonderful book.

  304. And if you read at the very heart of Lamentations,

  305. in chapter 3,

  306. for the first 20 verses,

  307. it's our memory verse this week,

  308. it's 21 to 23 in Lamentations 3.

  309. It's a great verse to memorize.

  310. And all these things that the person has done wrong,

  311. and the nation has gone wrong,

  312. and then it comes,

  313. the whole basis of my hope

  314. is that

  315. you are a gracious God,

  316. and merciful,

  317. slow to anger,

  318. and abounding in steadfast love,

  319. and relent from disaster.

  320. But this

  321. is why Jonah

  322. Jonah

  323. is angry at God

  324. and hates him.

  325. In fact,

  326. you know,

  327. there's something

  328. which is going to be really interesting

  329. that happens in the next verse.

  330. Just remember,

  331. this text of Scripture

  332. was probably written

  333. around the year 755 B.C.

  334. 755,

  335. 758 B.C.

  336. So 20,

  337. almost 2,800 years ago.

  338. One of the interesting things about it

  339. is this text

  340. in the story

  341. brings out something

  342. that modern psychology

  343. discovered in quotation marks,

  344. which is the connection

  345. between depression and anger.

  346. Look what happens in verse 3.

  347. So,

  348. Jonah's burning with anger.

  349. Whether he recognizes it or not,

  350. we don't know.

  351. But verse 3,

  352. Therefore now, O Lord,

  353. please take my life from me,

  354. for it is better for me

  355. to die than to live.

  356. That's a perfect description

  357. of depression.

  358. I just want to,

  359. depressed,

  360. I just want to fall asleep

  361. and not wake up.

  362. Many people commit suicide.

  363. They want to die.

  364. They'd rather die than live.

  365. It's a very powerful description

  366. of depression

  367. in this text

  368. written in 755 B.C.

  369. So how does,

  370. how does the Lord respond?

  371. Verse 4,

  372. And the Lord said,

  373. now,

  374. this is very interesting.

  375. It's a good translation.

  376. You know,

  377. one of the things

  378. when you're going

  379. from one language to another,

  380. I know there's people here,

  381. lots of people here

  382. who know multiple languages,

  383. and you know the experience

  384. of trying to translate

  385. from one language to another.

  386. Two summers ago,

  387. I was in Angola,

  388. and I got,

  389. I had this great honor.

  390. I was on the edge

  391. of the Kalahari Desert,

  392. and I got to preach

  393. at a mission statement

  394. to a semi-nomadic tribe

  395. that was just beginning

  396. to hear the gospel,

  397. and I got to preach to them,

  398. and it was a great honor.

  399. When I spoke,

  400. I really had to work on it.

  401. I really tried to pray

  402. about how to make

  403. cultural connections with them,

  404. and I, you know,

  405. how could I do that?

  406. I didn't know them very,

  407. at all,

  408. and I had to preach

  409. simply from the Bible,

  410. and every time I said

  411. a few words,

  412. it would be translated

  413. in Portuguese,

  414. and it would be translated

  415. into the tribal language,

  416. because many of them

  417. spoke Portuguese,

  418. and one of the things

  419. I wanted to do

  420. at the beginning

  421. was just to try

  422. to describe

  423. how different I was

  424. from them,

  425. and I'd looked up

  426. how much snow

  427. we had in Ottawa

  428. the year before,

  429. and so I said to them

  430. that where I come from

  431. last winter,

  432. we had three meters

  433. of snow,

  434. and they translated

  435. into Portuguese,

  436. and then all of a sudden,

  437. there was a five-minute

  438. discussion amongst them,

  439. because, of course,

  440. they had no word

  441. for snow,

  442. and they were trying

  443. to think of what word

  444. they could give for snow,

  445. and they ended up

  446. coming up with ice,

  447. which just made

  448. the whole room look,

  449. how could there be

  450. three meters of ice

  451. that lands on him?

  452. I mean,

  453. it was, anyway,

  454. but so when you translate,

  455. there's some issues.

  456. This is a perfect,

  457. but in the original Hebrew,

  458. it's very powerful.

  459. There's two senses

  460. in the original Hebrew

  461. when it says here,

  462. do you well to be angry?

  463. The one is,

  464. is in a sense,

  465. the Lord asks,

  466. in Hebrew,

  467. it's just three words,

  468. actually,

  469. and what he says is,

  470. is it right for you

  471. to be angry?

  472. Great question.

  473. Is it right that you're

  474. so angry

  475. that I stayed judgment

  476. on this city,

  477. that I didn't do

  478. Sodom and Gomorrah

  479. on this city?

  480. Is it right for you

  481. to be that?

  482. And the other thing is,

  483. it's actually

  484. a searching question.

  485. I remember being really,

  486. really being angry,

  487. short-tempered,

  488. not realizing I was angry

  489. and short-tempered,

  490. and the person I was with

  491. said,

  492. they knew me very well.

  493. They said,

  494. George,

  495. you're grumpy,

  496. angry,

  497. and short-tempered.

  498. We've got to get you

  499. something to eat

  500. because they knew

  501. that if I had something to eat,

  502. I'd be a little bit

  503. less grumpy and angry,

  504. which was true.

  505. I didn't recognize

  506. I was feeling grumpy

  507. and angry.

  508. They did,

  509. and so the other thing,

  510. so the first thing

  511. that God says,

  512. in a sense,

  513. with the Hebrew,

  514. has this wonderful

  515. double sense.

  516. Is it right for you

  517. to be so angry?

  518. And the other thing is,

  519. do you realize

  520. how thoroughly,

  521. deeply,

  522. completely angry

  523. you are?

  524. Do you realize it?

  525. That's the two senses

  526. of this great,

  527. these three words

  528. in history.

  529. So,

  530. let's try to bring

  531. this whole text

  532. home to us,

  533. to you and me,

  534. now that we sort of

  535. understand the story.

  536. So,

  537. here,

  538. I'm going to do

  539. a simple test

  540. because,

  541. remember I said

  542. how one of the problems

  543. with anger

  544. is that we tend

  545. to think of all

  546. the other people

  547. that it applies to.

  548. So,

  549. imagine,

  550. now you guys

  551. have to figure out

  552. which category

  553. you're in,

  554. okay?

  555. You're driving

  556. home today

  557. and whatever it is,

  558. Apple News

  559. or whatever it is,

  560. but somehow,

  561. you're driving

  562. with somebody,

  563. they get a tweet

  564. and they tell you

  565. what's going on

  566. and they tell you

  567. of some terrible,

  568. stupid,

  569. evil decision

  570. that Donald Trump

  571. made

  572. or Doug Ford

  573. just to be Canadian

  574. and they tell you,

  575. did you hear

  576. the terrible,

  577. Doug,

  578. Trump just did this.

  579. Can you believe it?

  580. Or,

  581. the rest of you,

  582. it's Trudeau.

  583. You're driving home

  584. and they just get

  585. some news announcement

  586. of this terrible,

  587. terrible,

  588. terrible thing

  589. that Trudeau just did.

  590. Now,

  591. that's not the test.

  592. The test is tomorrow

  593. in the afternoon,

  594. there's a news item

  595. to say,

  596. we apologize

  597. for that last newscast.

  598. It didn't happen.

  599. Now,

  600. here's the test.

  601. How do you respond?

  602. Do you say,

  603. oh,

  604. thank goodness

  605. Trump didn't do that.

  606. Thank goodness

  607. he's not as bad

  608. as it sounded.

  609. I'm so relieved.

  610. Or,

  611. you say,

  612. thank goodness

  613. Trudeau didn't do that.

  614. I mean,

  615. he's our prime minister.

  616. I'm glad he didn't do

  617. something like that.

  618. I'm so relieved

  619. that he's not as bad

  620. as I thought he was.

  621. Is that how you respond?

  622. Or,

  623. do you not believe

  624. the news report?

  625. Do you want to hang on

  626. to how bad they were?

  627. If you do not respond

  628. with relief,

  629. you have an anger problem.

  630. You and I

  631. have an anger problem.

  632. Because our anger

  633. at these people

  634. wants us,

  635. we rejoice

  636. that they're bad

  637. and we don't want

  638. to let it go.

  639. we have an anger problem.

  640. Our culture

  641. is very conflicted

  642. about anger.

  643. It's a very,

  644. very common thing

  645. if you go into psychology.

  646. They'll talk about

  647. negative emotions

  648. and positive emotions

  649. and anger

  650. is almost always

  651. a negative emotion.

  652. We

  653. have a very,

  654. we have a great problem

  655. about it

  656. because

  657. we want,

  658. if not for ourselves,

  659. if we think

  660. we have an anger problem

  661. or if we have a,

  662. we're married to somebody

  663. who has an anger problem

  664. or a kid has an anger problem

  665. and our boss

  666. has an anger problem

  667. or a co-worker

  668. has an anger problem,

  669. we want them

  670. to go through

  671. some type of therapy

  672. or some counseling,

  673. maybe take up

  674. Buddhist meditation

  675. or something like that

  676. where they can

  677. get rid of their anger,

  678. it can be taken away.

  679. We have a problem

  680. obviously in our culture

  681. which is being talked

  682. about a lot

  683. but we don't know

  684. what to do about it

  685. that it seems

  686. as if our culture

  687. with all of the social media

  688. that in fact

  689. we get into little tribes

  690. and echo chambers

  691. and it furthers anger.

  692. We have a problem

  693. as I maybe

  694. have just shared with you

  695. in terms of not recognizing

  696. we have problems

  697. with anger

  698. as we describe

  699. our opponents

  700. as being anger driven.

  701. The problem

  702. with the Trump people

  703. is that they're all

  704. filled with anger.

  705. The problem

  706. with the social justice warriors

  707. is they're all

  708. filled with anger.

  709. The problem

  710. with the conservatives

  711. is they're all angry.

  712. The problem

  713. with the liberals

  714. is they're angry

  715. and we see it

  716. as other people

  717. but not ourselves

  718. but we're very,

  719. very confused about it.

  720. So just to get us

  721. thinking back to the text

  722. I want to say something.

  723. The day

  724. they discover

  725. a therapy

  726. or a meditation technique

  727. or a drug

  728. that removes

  729. all anger

  730. from human beings

  731. will be the day

  732. that tyrants

  733. throw a party

  734. and dance a jig.

  735. The day

  736. that somebody

  737. invents a drug

  738. or a therapy

  739. or meditation technique

  740. to take away

  741. all anger

  742. from human beings

  743. will be the day

  744. that tyrants

  745. and oppressors

  746. throw a party

  747. and dance a jig.

  748. If you could

  749. help the first point,

  750. Andrew,

  751. we'll go through

  752. these relatively quickly.

  753. It is good

  754. that the Lord

  755. is slow to anger.

  756. It means

  757. that justice matters.

  758. That's why I said

  759. that if there was

  760. something that could

  761. take away

  762. all anger

  763. from human beings,

  764. tyrants and oppressors

  765. would love it

  766. because we would have

  767. lost our ability

  768. to be concerned

  769. about justice.

  770. It is good

  771. that the Lord

  772. is slow to anger.

  773. It means

  774. that justice

  775. matters.

  776. Many Canadians

  777. complain

  778. that the Christian God

  779. is angry,

  780. an angry God.

  781. Actually,

  782. he's a slow

  783. to anger God

  784. and the slow

  785. to anger

  786. is very,

  787. very,

  788. very important.

  789. The emotion

  790. of anger

  791. is connected,

  792. intimately connected

  793. to our experience

  794. of right and wrong.

  795. It's intimately

  796. connected

  797. to our experience

  798. of right and wrong.

  799. If we had

  800. no anger

  801. at all,

  802. it would mean

  803. that we never

  804. thought that we

  805. came across

  806. things in this world

  807. which are just

  808. wrong.

  809. A case in India,

  810. they all got

  811. convicted of a group

  812. of men that raped

  813. an eight-year-old girl.

  814. If you don't think

  815. that's wrong,

  816. you have a problem.

  817. It's very,

  818. very interesting

  819. that in Eastern

  820. religion,

  821. and it's actually

  822. not a very good

  823. thing in our culture.

  824. This isn't just

  825. dissing them,

  826. but in Eastern cultures

  827. at the end of the day

  828. in the overarching

  829. mythology of whether

  830. it's Hinduism

  831. or Buddhism

  832. is this belief

  833. that everything

  834. ultimately

  835. will become one.

  836. The governing metaphor

  837. is the drop of water

  838. returns to the ocean

  839. and when the drop

  840. of water

  841. returns to the ocean,

  842. the drop of water

  843. ceases to exist.

  844. There's just the ocean

  845. and within that,

  846. there's ultimately

  847. no real right or wrong.

  848. And so,

  849. attempts to do

  850. meditation

  851. or other things

  852. to try to calm

  853. our feelings of anger

  854. on one level,

  855. there's obviously

  856. some things in there

  857. that are good,

  858. but the problem

  859. is it's often

  860. connected with

  861. losing a sense

  862. of right and wrong.

  863. So,

  864. I mean,

  865. the fact of the matter

  866. is that,

  867. and this is beyond this,

  868. we'll talk about this

  869. a little bit next week

  870. because anger's

  871. going to return

  872. at the last part

  873. of Jonah 4.

  874. I mean,

  875. the problem with anger

  876. is that our sense

  877. of right and wrong

  878. is wrong

  879. and we get angry

  880. too much,

  881. we get angry

  882. too little,

  883. we get angry

  884. too easy,

  885. we get angry

  886. about the wrong things,

  887. we get angry

  888. too quickly,

  889. we can't get out

  890. of anger.

  891. There's a whole range

  892. of reasons

  893. by which anger

  894. is wrong,

  895. but God can't

  896. remove our sense

  897. of anger

  898. without removing

  899. our sense

  900. of right and wrong.

  901. And so,

  902. the gospel

  903. is going to try

  904. to reorder

  905. and heal

  906. our sense

  907. of right and wrong

  908. as well as give

  909. this other

  910. very powerful

  911. insight

  912. about what it is

  913. that can maintain

  914. a sense

  915. of right and wrong

  916. but not have us

  917. be so anger driven.

  918. If you could put up

  919. the second point,

  920. that would be

  921. very good.

  922. Notice the key

  923. slow to anger

  924. which is very key

  925. in the whole text.

  926. You can have justice

  927. without mercy

  928. but you cannot

  929. have mercy

  930. without justice.

  931. You can have justice

  932. without mercy.

  933. You just can.

  934. And at the end

  935. of the day,

  936. we can't complain

  937. that something

  938. was unjust.

  939. You know,

  940. you did the crime

  941. and you're going

  942. to pay the penalty

  943. and that's just

  944. the way it is.

  945. You did the crime,

  946. you pay the penalty.

  947. But mercy

  948. is also connected

  949. to a sense

  950. of right and wrong.

  951. You see,

  952. what's at heart

  953. of mercy?

  954. There's obviously

  955. sometimes mercy

  956. can just be

  957. shown towards

  958. misfortune,

  959. but primarily,

  960. mercy is shown

  961. when something

  962. wrong has been

  963. done to you

  964. and you know

  965. that it's wrong

  966. and you want

  967. to temper

  968. your response

  969. of justice

  970. with a sense

  971. of mercy

  972. and compassion

  973. for the other person.

  974. See,

  975. that's why

  976. slow to anger

  977. is so important.

  978. It's giving this hint

  979. and if you go back

  980. and look at verse 2 again

  981. when it describes

  982. the Lord

  983. that he's a gracious

  984. God and merciful,

  985. slow to anger

  986. and abounding

  987. in steadfast love,

  988. is that when you

  989. have the steadfast love,

  990. when you have mercy,

  991. when you have grace,

  992. it doesn't mean

  993. that you no longer

  994. see things that are

  995. right and wrong,

  996. but you realize

  997. that reacting

  998. to something

  999. which is wrong,

  1000. there's another response

  1001. other than just justice.

  1002. There is a response

  1003. that involves mercy

  1004. and the more

  1005. that mercy

  1006. and compassion

  1007. become important

  1008. to you,

  1009. it means,

  1010. if it's real mercy

  1011. and real compassion,

  1012. it means that

  1013. it will slow down,

  1014. it will temper

  1015. your response

  1016. of anger

  1017. at the injustice.

  1018. If you could put up

  1019. the third slide,

  1020. to offer mercy

  1021. is to offer

  1022. to personally

  1023. bear a cost.

  1024. To offer mercy

  1025. is to offer

  1026. to personally

  1027. bear a cost.

  1028. And that's very,

  1029. very hard

  1030. for all human beings

  1031. but increasingly hard

  1032. for our culture

  1033. which is so confused

  1034. about anger

  1035. and confused

  1036. about even the way

  1037. to move forward.

  1038. Back,

  1039. my first five kids

  1040. I had two boys,

  1041. a girl,

  1042. two boys

  1043. and my boys

  1044. were boys

  1045. and if they were,

  1046. if we had three of them

  1047. sitting at the back seat

  1048. of the van,

  1049. at some point in time

  1050. one of the boys

  1051. would do this

  1052. or do this

  1053. or move over

  1054. into the other person's space

  1055. and the other boy

  1056. would do this

  1057. or do this

  1058. and before you know it

  1059. you have lots of elbows

  1060. and stuff like that.

  1061. And there's other times

  1062. when you give them a push,

  1063. push, push, push,

  1064. punch, punch,

  1065. whatever,

  1066. you get the picture.

  1067. So one of the things

  1068. I would say to my kids

  1069. all the time

  1070. is I said,

  1071. we have a choice.

  1072. Do we want to live

  1073. in a house

  1074. where we're punching

  1075. each other

  1076. and calling each other names

  1077. or do we want to live

  1078. in a house

  1079. where there's some sense

  1080. of peace?

  1081. And the only way

  1082. there's going to be

  1083. any sense of peace

  1084. is if one of you

  1085. doesn't retaliate.

  1086. If one of you

  1087. lets the other one win.

  1088. Otherwise there's no peace.

  1089. Somebody has to be the one

  1090. who'll just say,

  1091. okay,

  1092. you hit me nine times,

  1093. I hit you eight,

  1094. you win.

  1095. And if there's nobody

  1096. willing to pay that cost,

  1097. then it just keeps going

  1098. and it escalates.

  1099. One of the wonderful things

  1100. about South Africa

  1101. when Nelson Mandela

  1102. became the head

  1103. of that country

  1104. was that Nelson Mandela

  1105. understood the power

  1106. and importance

  1107. of mercy

  1108. and forgiveness.

  1109. And he knew

  1110. that unless

  1111. there were people

  1112. who were willing

  1113. to just say

  1114. we are not going

  1115. to pursue justice

  1116. to the end.

  1117. Doesn't mean

  1118. we're not saying

  1119. what they did

  1120. was right,

  1121. but unless there's mercy

  1122. there will be no peace

  1123. in our society.

  1124. He was a very,

  1125. very great statesman,

  1126. still viewed

  1127. as a great statesman,

  1128. probably one of the

  1129. greatest statesmen

  1130. of the 20th century.

  1131. And he understood

  1132. the importance

  1133. of mercy.

  1134. But you understand,

  1135. and he himself

  1136. was a living embodiment

  1137. of it,

  1138. he wasn't just

  1139. some ivory tower rich guy

  1140. who'd never had

  1141. anything wrong done

  1142. to him,

  1143. and goes off

  1144. and shows mercy

  1145. to people who,

  1146. well,

  1147. these people hurt

  1148. this group,

  1149. I'm going to show you mercy.

  1150. This people hurt

  1151. that group,

  1152. I'm going to show you mercy.

  1153. That's not mercy.

  1154. That's cheap grace.

  1155. That's telling everybody

  1156. else to suck it up.

  1157. Nelson Mandela

  1158. spent time in jail.

  1159. He was oppressed.

  1160. He knew what it was like

  1161. to be oppressed.

  1162. He knew what injustice

  1163. was like.

  1164. And unless you are

  1165. willing to pay

  1166. the cost

  1167. of showing mercy,

  1168. which is going to involve

  1169. something like forgiveness,

  1170. well,

  1171. it's not mercy.

  1172. Now,

  1173. just,

  1174. here's a bit

  1175. of a shocking thing.

  1176. So,

  1177. the story of Jonah,

  1178. in some ways,

  1179. it posits

  1180. a bit of a

  1181. riddle.

  1182. see,

  1183. the fact of the matter

  1184. is,

  1185. is that many of us,

  1186. if we went back in time,

  1187. we would probably

  1188. side with Jonah.

  1189. Because Jonah

  1190. was right

  1191. on one level,

  1192. that what the Lord

  1193. did

  1194. to Nineveh

  1195. wasn't just.

  1196. Because Nineveh

  1197. was terrible.

  1198. They were a terrible,

  1199. oppressive people.

  1200. I think I shared

  1201. with you last week

  1202. or the week before,

  1203. 22 years,

  1204. 23 years

  1205. after this,

  1206. when Nineveh's

  1207. gotten over

  1208. their repentance

  1209. and gone back

  1210. to their old ways,

  1211. they literally,

  1212. literally

  1213. practiced genocide.

  1214. And in

  1215. 722 BC,

  1216. the Assyrians

  1217. invaded

  1218. Israel,

  1219. the northern kingdom

  1220. of Israel,

  1221. and they carried

  1222. all the people

  1223. away.

  1224. Those 10 tribes

  1225. of Israel

  1226. have been lost

  1227. forever from history.

  1228. they literally

  1229. practiced genocide.

  1230. And so the text

  1231. has a bit of a riddle,

  1232. and it has a bit

  1233. of a riddle

  1234. that only the gospel,

  1235. only the rest

  1236. of the revelation

  1237. of the Bible

  1238. can actually start

  1239. to help us

  1240. to understand.

  1241. Just one thing

  1242. is that what Jonah

  1243. didn't know

  1244. is that the Lord,

  1245. he's slow to anchor,

  1246. but he's still

  1247. concerned with justice.

  1248. He stayed

  1249. the judgment

  1250. on Assyria,

  1251. but eventually

  1252. when they returned

  1253. to their evil ways,

  1254. the judgment

  1255. upon them

  1256. for their horrendous

  1257. acts of genocide

  1258. and violence

  1259. were in fact judged

  1260. by him,

  1261. and Assyria

  1262. would later on

  1263. disappear from history.

  1264. But

  1265. what's going on

  1266. in Jonah's heart?

  1267. Well,

  1268. if you could put up

  1269. the next point,

  1270. Andrew,

  1271. that would be

  1272. very helpful.

  1273. your enmity

  1274. to the Lord

  1275. is always present.

  1276. See,

  1277. one of the problems

  1278. with anger,

  1279. one of the many

  1280. problems with anger,

  1281. is that not only

  1282. does it make

  1283. a very,

  1284. very quick road

  1285. to hatred,

  1286. and as I use

  1287. my example

  1288. about whether

  1289. you heard tomorrow

  1290. that Trump

  1291. and or Trudeau

  1292. were not as bad

  1293. as the news reports,

  1294. and we don't want

  1295. to let go

  1296. of our hatred

  1297. and anger

  1298. and desire

  1299. for them

  1300. to be humiliated,

  1301. and we don't want

  1302. to let go of that,

  1303. and it reveals

  1304. we have an anger

  1305. problem,

  1306. is that not only

  1307. does anger

  1308. quickly take us

  1309. to hatred,

  1310. but it deepens

  1311. hatred,

  1312. it nurtures

  1313. hatred,

  1314. it gives oxygen

  1315. to hatred,

  1316. but the other

  1317. thing that it does

  1318. is it creates

  1319. within you

  1320. a sense of

  1321. God-like,

  1322. God-like

  1323. virtue

  1324. and towering

  1325. over others.

  1326. That's what

  1327. anger always does.

  1328. You feel

  1329. God-like,

  1330. and you

  1331. like it.

  1332. I like it.

  1333. The Bible

  1334. describes

  1335. that every

  1336. human being

  1337. is at enmity

  1338. with God.

  1339. In Genesis

    Genesis 3 chapter mention

  1340. chapter 3,

  1341. when we chose

  1342. that we didn't

  1343. like the idea

  1344. that God

  1345. was God

  1346. and we were

  1347. not,

  1348. and we wanted

  1349. to be just

  1350. like him,

  1351. and that's

  1352. the beginning,

  1353. it's the

  1354. ur-sin,

  1355. the root

  1356. of all sin

  1357. is a desire

  1358. to no longer

  1359. love God

  1360. or trust God

  1361. or want to be

  1362. in submission

  1363. to God

  1364. or just

  1365. allow God

  1366. to be God.

  1367. We want to be

  1368. just like God,

  1369. in fact,

  1370. maybe even better,

  1371. and so we resent

  1372. his authority,

  1373. we resent the fact

  1374. that he is the creator,

  1375. we resent the fact

  1376. that he is infant

  1377. and we are finite,

  1378. we resent the fact

  1379. that we live in time

  1380. and he does not

  1381. live in time,

  1382. we resent these things,

  1383. and it is such a

  1384. common thing

  1385. of our experience

  1386. that we often

  1387. don't even realize

  1388. that we have this

  1389. as a low-level

  1390. condition in our lives.

  1391. It's exactly like gravity.

  1392. None of us experience

  1393. gravity right now

  1394. or we don't feel

  1395. like gravity exists,

  1396. yet it's just so common

  1397. to us that we no longer

  1398. think about it.

  1399. And the Bible describes

  1400. that Jonah

  1401. and every human being,

  1402. you and me,

  1403. that we have a problem

  1404. with enmity against God.

  1405. And we are people

  1406. who always need

  1407. God's mercy.

  1408. I am not better

  1409. than anybody else.

  1410. I am one

  1411. who is completely

  1412. and utterly dependent

  1413. upon the mercy of God.

  1414. If you could put up

  1415. this almost last slide,

  1416. Andrew.

  1417. On the cross,

  1418. Jesus bore the full cost

  1419. of the Lord's mercy to you.

  1420. Remember I said,

  1421. all mercy always involves

  1422. bearing a personal cost.

  1423. If you forgive the person

  1424. who ripped you off

  1425. when you bought your vehicle,

  1426. if you show mercy to them,

  1427. it means you're going to have

  1428. to absorb some of the lost money.

  1429. Maybe not all of it,

  1430. but some of it.

  1431. There's a cost to be borne.

  1432. If you don't get the vengeance

  1433. which you desire,

  1434. you have to give up something

  1435. when you do that.

  1436. You have to give up

  1437. your right for vengeance,

  1438. your desire for vengeance.

  1439. You have to bear

  1440. the personal cost.

  1441. And you do it

  1442. because at the end of the day,

  1443. mercy is so worth it.

  1444. Forgiveness is so worth it.

  1445. But there's a cost

  1446. to be borne.

  1447. And it helps us

  1448. to understand why it is

  1449. that Jesus had to die

  1450. on the cross.

  1451. Why it is

  1452. that in Matthew

  1453. and in Luke,

  1454. Jesus is described

  1455. as the true

  1456. and greater Jonah.

  1457. He is the true

  1458. and greater Jonah

  1459. not only because

  1460. he didn't just spend

  1461. three days

  1462. in a great aquatic beast.

  1463. He spent three days

  1464. in death

  1465. and in hell.

  1466. He's a true

  1467. and greater Jonah

  1468. not only because

  1469. he can speak

  1470. the words of God

  1471. but he is the word of God

  1472. and he speaks

  1473. the very, very true

  1474. words of God

  1475. in everything that he does.

  1476. And he's the true

  1477. and greater Jonah

  1478. because in fact

  1479. what he does

  1480. with his life

  1481. is to make real

  1482. to us

  1483. a mercy

  1484. that every single

  1485. human being needs

  1486. because we are

  1487. at enmity with God.

  1488. And he takes that

  1489. when we understand

  1490. that there is a price

  1491. to be paid

  1492. to show mercy

  1493. and if God

  1494. is to show mercy

  1495. to us

  1496. he has to absorb

  1497. the cost of that

  1498. and the cost

  1499. of him showing mercy

  1500. to you and me

  1501. is what we see

  1502. when we see Jesus

  1503. dying on the cross.

  1504. It is the cost

  1505. of mercy

  1506. to you

  1507. and to me.

  1508. If you could put up

  1509. the final point

  1510. which is just a prayer

  1511. I'm going to invite

  1512. you all to stand.

  1513. Every week

  1514. in the mailing

  1515. I do a blog

  1516. I do a growing

  1517. in grace

  1518. and I also try

  1519. to put the scripture

  1520. text to a prayer

  1521. and today

  1522. if you look at this

  1523. you'll see both

  1524. part of Jonah chapter 2

    Jonah 2 chapter mention

  1525. but you'll also

  1526. see James

  1527. as well

  1528. which is a reflection

  1529. upon Jonah

  1530. I mean Jonah chapter 4

    Jonah 4:2

  1531. verse 2

  1532. and I put both

  1533. of those together

  1534. in the form of a prayer.

  1535. You see it's

  1536. it says we're gripped

  1537. with the gospel

  1538. as we come to understand

  1539. that I experience

  1540. enmity towards God

  1541. and enmity towards other

  1542. in my life

  1543. without realizing it

  1544. in the same way

  1545. I experience gravity

  1546. without often thinking about it

  1547. when I begin to understand

  1548. that my whole

  1549. and only standing

  1550. before the Lord

  1551. is because

  1552. at great cost

  1553. to himself

  1554. he showed mercy

  1555. to me

  1556. as that story

  1557. begins to grip me

  1558. that it's not

  1559. as if God

  1560. gave me a pass

  1561. because I'm Canadian

  1562. or because

  1563. I'm nice

  1564. or because I'm me

  1565. but he

  1566. he didn't forsake justice

  1567. but he responded

  1568. in the justice

  1569. that I'm deserved

  1570. in a different way

  1571. he responded

  1572. with mercy

  1573. in such a way

  1574. that justice

  1575. was still maintained

  1576. by paying

  1577. the cost

  1578. of mercy

  1579. and the cost

  1580. of the punishment

  1581. in his own person

  1582. as that story

  1583. grips me

  1584. it helps me

  1585. to understand

  1586. why I need

  1587. to grow

  1588. in mercy

  1589. and compassion

  1590. without losing

  1591. a sense of right

  1592. and wrong

  1593. to temper

  1594. the anger

  1595. of my life

  1596. that it will not

  1597. consume me

  1598. or take me over

  1599. and I've tried

  1600. to put it

  1601. in the words

  1602. of this prayer

  1603. so if the Lord

  1604. has touched your heart

  1605. if you would pray

  1606. this with me

  1607. if you don't pray it

  1608. that's fine

  1609. it's up to you

  1610. but let's pray

  1611. this prayer together

  1612. Lord

  1613. you are full

  1614. of grace

  1615. and mercy

  1616. slow to anger

  1617. and abounding

  1618. in steadfast love

  1619. you take no delight

  1620. in the death

  1621. of a sinner

  1622. but desire

  1623. that we turn

  1624. from our wrongdoing

  1625. and live

  1626. please bring

  1627. the good news

  1628. of who Jesus is

  1629. and what he did

  1630. for me

  1631. deep into my heart

  1632. so that I will be

  1633. slow to speak

  1634. slow to anger

  1635. and quick to listen

  1636. in Jesus' name

  1637. Amen

  1638. Father

  1639. pour out the Holy Spirit

  1640. upon us

  1641. that we might be

  1642. gripped by the gospel

  1643. and so gripped

  1644. by the gospel

  1645. that we learn

  1646. the importance

  1647. of mercy

  1648. and compassion

  1649. and without losing

  1650. a sense of right

  1651. and wrong

  1652. healing our sense

  1653. of right and wrong

  1654. that we would look

  1655. at the world

  1656. with compassion

  1657. and the importance

  1658. to show mercy

  1659. and to be described

  1660. as a person

  1661. of mercy

  1662. deliver us from the lie

  1663. help us to love

  1664. the truth

  1665. and be filled

  1666. with mercy

  1667. and we ask this

  1668. in the name of Jesus

  1669. Amen

  1670. God bless you

  1671. Amen

  1672. amen

  1673. thank you

  1674. thank siz