Sermon
How Christmas Heals Division
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Okay, good morning everybody. Great to see you. If you don't know me, my name is Kevin and one of the elders here.
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It's great to be with us together this morning.
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Now, let's see if you can finish this famous Christmas sentence.
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The Christmas sentence goes like this.
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Glory to God in the highest and on earth...
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Okay, sorry, I didn't hear that. Okay, try that again.
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Glory to God in the highest and on earth...
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And you got it. Okay, peace and goodwill to all mankind.
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Glory to God in the highest and on earth, peace and goodwill.
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That means kind-heartedness, bigness of heart, generosity of spirit to all mankind.
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These famous words are spoken by the angels at the time of Jesus' birth.
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There are some shepherds out in the fields outside of Bethlehem.
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And an angel comes and says, I bring good news of great joy.
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Today, in the city of David, the town of Bethlehem, a Savior has been born.
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And he is going to save the world.
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You'll find him lying in a manger.
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And then all these angels burst into song.
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Glory to God in the highest and on earth, peace and goodwill to all mankind.
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We are three days away from Christmas, which is a wonderful thing.
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But we also find ourselves at a time in our city and a time in the history of our city
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when peace and goodwill amongst us as a city seems to be remarkably absent.
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Not only in our streets and our universities, but also in our homes, around dining room tables.
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If there was ever a time when we as a city needed peace and goodwill to all mankind,
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this would be a great time.
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Now this morning, what I want us to do is I want us to look at the book of Philippians,
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which Theo and Janet read to us.
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And I want us to see how Christmas gives us the resources that we need
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to heal the divisions in our hearts and in our lives.
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How Christmas gives us the resources that we need
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to heal the divisions in our hearts and in our lives.
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Okay, so we've got one point this morning.
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That's the one point.
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That's all there is.
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Okay, let's go home.
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No, let's look at the passage and see if we can make sense of this.
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So, Theo and Janet read to us this amazing passage from the book of Philippians.
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And the book of Philippians is written by the Apostle Paul
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while he's under arrest in the city of Rome.
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The Apostle Paul is a missionary.
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He's a preacher.
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He's just left the city of Philippi.
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He's on his way back to Jerusalem.
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And in Jerusalem, he gets arrested because he's preaching the gospel, etc.
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He's disturbing the peace.
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And so he has this trial.
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And while he's on trial, he says,
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I'm a Roman citizen.
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I appeal to Caesar.
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I want Caesar to hear my case.
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And so he gets shipped off to Rome where Caesar is going to hear his case.
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And while he's there, he's under arrest for two years in house arrest.
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And while he's there, he writes these letters to the various churches
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that he started and founded around the world.
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And so he writes this letter to this small church in the city of Philippi
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that he had just visited recently.
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And he writes to encourage them and to strengthen them in their journey.
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Now, in the book of Acts, we actually see how this city,
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how this church in Philippi founded.
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And the way it started was this.
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It was Paul and his companions are traveling in the area,
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and they don't know where to go.
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They try and go up north.
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They can't go there.
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They try and go south.
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They can't go there.
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To the west of them is the sea.
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And so they stuck.
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And one night, Paul has a dream.
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And in his dream, this man from the city of Philippi says,
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Paul, come over and help us.
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And so the next morning, Paul wakes up,
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and he says to his companions,
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I think God wants us to go to Philippi.
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And so they go to Philippi.
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And when they get there, they don't know what to do.
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They don't have any contacts or friends.
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Paul just had this dream.
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And so they go down to the river where they expect to meet a bunch of men praying.
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Generally, the men would go down and pray at this area.
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But they don't find any men praying.
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What they find is a businesswoman, a lady called Lydia.
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And Lydia is a trader.
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She sells cloth and material.
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And she's a businesswoman.
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And so they start to talk to her about the wonder of Jesus and the gospel.
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And she believes.
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She becomes a follower of Jesus.
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And she gets baptized straight away as a sign of her following Jesus.
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And then Paul and his companions spend a few days in Philippi.
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And they are followed by this young lady who's a slave girl.
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She's owned by some other people in town.
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But she is under the controlling influence of a demonic spiritual power.
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She's kind of controlled by the spiritual power.
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And so she follows Paul and his companions everywhere they go.
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And she's calling out saying, these men, they come from the one true God.
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They're telling you how to become Christians, how to get saved.
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And she's causing problems for Paul and his companions.
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Because they're trying to have these real meaningful conversations.
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And while they're trying to have conversations with people,
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here's this lady that's calling out in the background.
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These men are from God.
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They've got a message for you.
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And Paul gets so annoyed that one day he just turns around and he says,
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evil spirit, come out of her.
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And she's automatically brought to her senses.
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She's no longer under the controlling power of this demonic spirit.
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And she's just this normal young lady.
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Now, it's possible that she becomes a follower of Jesus.
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We don't know exactly whether she became a follower of Jesus.
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But the men that owned her are now very upset with Paul.
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Because she used to make a lot of money for them as a fortune teller.
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She would go around town saying,
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here, this is what's going to happen to you.
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And he would give money.
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And they'd say, Ellen, I'll tell you your future if you give me some money.
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And so this lady made a lot of money for her owners.
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And now she can't do that anymore.
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So the owners go to the magistrate and they say,
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these guys, Paul and his friends, are causing trouble in our town.
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We better arrest them quickly.
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And so Paul and his friends get thrown into jail.
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And while they're in jail, they start talking to the jailer.
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And the jailer becomes a Christian.
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And he starts following Jesus.
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And he and his whole family become Christians.
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And they get baptized that very day.
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And so here you have, in this town of Philippi,
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the two founding members of this church,
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and possibly a third one.
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You have this wealthy businesswoman who's a trader,
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and she knows how to make money.
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You have this jailer who's pro-establishment,
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working for the central government.
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Remember, Philippi is a city in the Roman Empire.
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He's working for central government.
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He becomes a follower of Jesus.
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And possibly the third member of the church
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is this slave girl who, until recently,
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had a demonic spirit controlling her.
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Now, I've been thinking quite a lot recently
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about church planting.
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At Watermark, we've spoken about it for a long time.
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And I would love for us as a church
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to plant a church sometime in the next couple of years.
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To take 20 or 30 people from Watermark
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and say, hey, why don't you guys go start
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a new church in Hong Kong somewhere?
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We'll support you and encourage you.
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I love the idea of us planting a new church.
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But one of the things I've been thinking about
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is how do you get the perfect core team together,
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the right team that's going to start off a church,
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the team that you can train them and equip them
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and are on the same page and think the same way.
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Because if you get your core team right,
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you have the most chance of success.
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Think about the core team of this new church in Philippi.
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You have this jailer working for the government.
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You have this businesswoman that's a trader.
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And you possibly have this lady that was just demon-possessed,
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a slave girl, uneducated, who has just been delivered.
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One theologian, a common scholar, put it like this.
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These early converts were the most diverse
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and unlikely group of people with which to ever start a new church.
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And so this is how the church begins.
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Right from day one, the Philippian church is diverse,
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it's multicultural, it's multi-socioeconomic
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from different backgrounds, different cultures, different careers,
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and they've come together because Jesus has worked in their hearts.
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Now, that's a wonderful thing.
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One of the most beautiful things about the local church
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is its diversity and its complexity
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and its multicultural and multi-ethnic component.
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The church family is a family, but we're a diverse family.
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We're an eclectic family.
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And what unifies us as a church is not our personalities or our preferences.
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I like the soccer team.
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You like the soccer team.
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Hey, let's join the same church together.
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What unifies us is that Jesus has worked in our hearts.
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But that diversity does come with its challenges, right?
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There's misunderstanding.
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I think one thing.
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You think a different thing.
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I like this thing.
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You like that thing.
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I think we should do things this way.
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You think we should do things that way.
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So our diversity is a beautiful gift, but it does come with complexity.
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It comes with challenges.
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There can be misunderstanding.
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There can be diverse views on how we should do things.
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Let's be honest.
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It's so much easier just to gather with a group of people
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who think like you and talk like you and act like you
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and dress like you and are just like you.
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But when we come together, diversity brings its challenges.
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Friends, isn't this what we see in Hong Kong a bit at the moment?
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Diverse opinions, diverse political views,
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diverse ways on how the current empire should be handled.
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Diversity brings its challenges.
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And diverse opinions and views can lead to a lack of peace
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and a lack of goodwill amongst all mankind.
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When you look at the book of Philippians that was read to us earlier,
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one of the things we see is that this church is starting to experience
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a little bit of division in the church.
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It's not massive.
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It's not huge.
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But there's people that have got different opinions.
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And Paul writes the book of Philippians to them
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to encourage them to be unified in their faith.
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If you've got your Bible, turn to Philippians,
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and you're going to have to follow with me.
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There's a couple of verses I want us to look at.
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Look at what he says in chapter 1, verse 27.
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He says,
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Paul's emphasis here is on their oneness,
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their oneness of mind, oneness of heart, oneness of unity.
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And he says,
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Don't be fighting against one another.
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It's not me against you.
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I want you to be standing next to each other,
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shoulder to shoulder, united for the cause of Christ.
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He appeals to them to be one.
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Look at chapter 2, verse 1 and 2.
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He says,
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If there's any encouragement in Christ,
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any comfort from love or participation in the Spirit,
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complete my joy by being of the same mind,
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having the same love,
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being in full accord and of one mind.
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So he says,
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My dear brothers and sisters,
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I long to hear that you are unified and one
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in the way that you are operating together.
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Look at chapter 2, verse 14.
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He says,
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Brothers and sisters,
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do all things without grumbling.
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Without disputing.
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I know there's reason to have differences of opinions,
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but try and do things without grumbling
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and disputing together.
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And then look at chapter 4.
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This is a very famous verse.
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In chapter 4, verse 2, he says this,
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I urge Yodia and I urge Sintiki
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to agree in the Lord.
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Yes, I ask you, my true brother,
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to help these two women
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who have contended for the gospel at my side.
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Isn't that a remarkable thing?
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That for some reason,
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God decided to preserve for all time,
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for all cultures,
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for the rest of time on earth,
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these two ladies' names in the Bible
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who couldn't get along together
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and who are disagreeing.
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I'm so glad my name isn't in the Bible.
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I'm so glad my name isn't in Paul.
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Just Kevin and Theo,
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just sort yourselves out
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and get along better, right?
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And for all time,
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everybody's going to know
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these two guys.
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Paul writes,
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and he says,
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Dear ladies,
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I know you've worked with me.
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I urge you to see it out,
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to be of one heart and one mind.
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Paul writes this very warm and loving letter
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to this church
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to help them deal with the divisions
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and to restore the peace
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and the goodwill amongst each other.
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Now, here's the question I want to ask you.
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Paul writes to encourage this unity.
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To what does he appeal?
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What is his argument?
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What is his flow?
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What is his reasoning
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that he gives them
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why they should be unified
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and why they should be humble
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and selfless
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and serving towards one another?
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What's his argument?
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Well, look at chapter 2,
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verse 3 and 4.
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Remarkably,
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Paul appeals to Christmas.
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He appeals to the Christmas story.
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Look at what he says here in verse 3.
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He says,
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Do nothing from selfish ambition
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or conceit,
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but in humility,
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consider one another's
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more significant than yourselves.
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Friends,
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imagine living in a world like that.
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Imagine living in a family
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or an office
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or a city
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in which everybody,
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the prevailing decision of our minds
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was not what's in it for me,
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not how can I advance my cause,
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but how can I advance your cause?
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How can I help you
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succeed in life?
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Verse 4,
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Let each of you look
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not only to his own interests,
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but also to the interests of others.
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That's a remarkable statement.
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Imagine we lived in a world like that
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where everybody thought,
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It's not about me,
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it's about how can I serve your interests?
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Verse 5,
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The reason why I should adopt this
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is because this is the attitude of Christ.
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Verse 5,
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Adopt the same attitude
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as that of Christ Jesus.
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This is what Jesus was like
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and as followers of Jesus
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we are learning to become like him.
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Now Paul,
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what do you mean
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that this is what Jesus was like?
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Do you mean that
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when Jesus was arrested
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he didn't retaliate?
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Is that what you mean?
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Do you mean when Jesus
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was betrayed by Peter
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and denied him
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that you forgave him?
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Is that what you mean?
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Well,
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those things are coming
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but before Paul even gets there
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he starts off
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with the story of Christmas.
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Look at what he says here
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in verse 6.
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For Jesus Christ
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who though he was
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in the form of God,
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now when it says
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the form of God
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that doesn't mean
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he was like God.
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It doesn't mean
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he was similar to God.
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It means he was
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really and truly God.
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The NIV says
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by very nature God.
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So Jesus Christ
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who though he was
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by very nature God
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did not count equality with God
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something to be grasped,
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something to be seized,
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something to be exploited
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for his own advantage.
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Remember Paul's writing
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to Philippians here
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and he's encouraging them
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because they're tempted
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to look at life
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through the lens of
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what's in it for me.
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How can I make the most
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of my life?
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How can I make sure
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that I come out
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of this situation on top?
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How can I make sure
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that I don't suffer
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in the decisions
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that I make?
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And Paul writes
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and he says
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remember Jesus.
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Jesus was God
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and Jesus looked
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or approached life
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though he was equal to God,
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though he was God,
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he didn't consider
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how he can grasp
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or seize
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or make the most
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of his godness.
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He didn't hold on
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to or take advantage
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of the fact
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that he is God,
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that which he is entitled to,
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that which was only
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fair and just.
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He didn't exploit that
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but rather,
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verse 7,
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he emptied himself.
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He emptied himself.
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The word empty
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doesn't mean
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he was no longer God.
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It means he deprived himself
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of something
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that he was entitled to.
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Jesus didn't stop
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being God or divine
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when he was born to Mary
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or lying in the manger
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outside of Bethlehem,
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but he put aside
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his glory and his rights
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that intrinsically came
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with being God.
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Remember the wonderful
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Christmas carol?
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Mild he lays
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his glory by,
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born that man
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no more may die.
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And this is Paul's point.
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Jesus,
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in coming to us
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as a man,
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in taking on human form,
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he emptied himself.
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He lay aside
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his glory,
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taking the form
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of a servant
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born in the likeness
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of humanity.
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One theologian
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explained it like this.
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said equality
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with God
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is something
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that was inherent
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to Christ
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before he became
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a man.
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Nevertheless,
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Godness,
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the fact that
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Jesus was God
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didn't mean
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that Christ
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was a grasping,
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seizing being
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as it would
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for the gods
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and the lords
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of the Philippians world.
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It was not something
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to be seized upon
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to his own advantage,
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which is what you
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would normally expect
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from lordly powers.
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Rather,
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his equality
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with God
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found its
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truest expression
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when he emptied
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himself in his
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incarnation,
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becoming a man.
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Friends,
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think of,
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the last couple of weeks
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we've been looking
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at the book of Revelation,
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right?
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And think of the
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emperors in the time
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of the Revelation.
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Domitian,
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one of the things,
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the laws he passed
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was that when he
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comes into town,
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everybody must say,
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Domitian is lord,
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Domitian is god.
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Think of,
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when the emperor
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goes past,
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everybody bows down
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and worships him.
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The lords of that day
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demanded that you
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serve them,
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you honor them,
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you exalt them,
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you lift them up
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and you humble yourself
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before them.
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But what does Jesus do?
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Jesus doesn't exalt himself,
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he humbles himself,
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God becoming man.
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Jesus born in a manger
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with shepherds and cattle
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as his very first observers.
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Friends,
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do you know the feeling,
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what it feels like
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when somebody has been
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condescending towards you.
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Do you know what the word
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condescending means?
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Condescending means
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when somebody treats you
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smaller or less worthy
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than you deserve.
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Somebody speaks down at you.
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Maybe you feel like
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somebody's speaking to you
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and they're treating you
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like a child.
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I had that recently.
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Somebody spoke to me
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and I wanted to say,
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by the way,
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I'm not three years old,
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right?
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I'm not a child.
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You can talk to me as a peer.
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Do you know that feeling
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when someone's been
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condescending towards you?
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They make you feel small
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or inferior
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or unworthy
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or they're disrespectful
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towards you.
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One of the words
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that Bible scholars use
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for Jesus coming to earth
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is his condescension.
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Friends,
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when Jesus was born as man,
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no one was condescending
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towards him.
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Jesus chose
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of his own free will
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to condescend,
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to be made smaller,
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to come down
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to our level.
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Not because he had to
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but because he chose to.
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Or maybe think about
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what it feels like
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to be humiliated.
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Have you ever been humiliated?
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Treated shamefully
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or made to feel
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less worthy
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than you deserve?
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Look at what it says
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here in Philippians.
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It says,
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Jesus embraced
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his humiliation.
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He humbled himself
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taking on the form,
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there's our word again,
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of the very nature
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of a servant.
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Friends,
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it's remarkable
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to think that the God
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who made all things,
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who brought everything
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into existence,
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the one who thought
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of the molecular structure
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that the wood
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by which the manger
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is created,
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in which he's lying,
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the God who designed
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that and came up with that
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and thought of that
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in the first place,
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this sovereign,
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majestic God,
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the divine,
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infinitely glorious God
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would become a baby,
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a crying,
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helpless,
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dependent,
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nursing baby.
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One Christmas carol
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said it like this,
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Behold within the manger lies
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the one who built
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the starry skies,
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the one who created
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all the universe,
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lying in a manger.
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And the reason why
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is because of his
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profound love for us,
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because of his love for us.
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And friends,
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this is the apostle Paul's
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encouragement.
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Let that soften our hearts.
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Let that produce
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a gentleness,
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a humility in the way
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that we deal with
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and handle one another
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and view our differences.
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But that's not all.
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Look at what he says
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in verse 8.
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Jesus becoming a man,
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what would he do
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with his humanity?
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The fact that Jesus
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is now a human being,
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what would he do?
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Would he use his humanity
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like a Trojan horse
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to crush his enemies?
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You know the story
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of the Trojan horse?
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Some men want to go
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and attack the city of Troy,
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I think it is.
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Is that right?
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And they don't know
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how to get in there.
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And so they build
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this majestic horse
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and they come to
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the city of Troy
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and they say,
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we've got a present for you.
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We have built
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a horse in your honor.
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But they don't know
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that inside this wooden horse
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soldiers are hiding.
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And so the city of Troy
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opens its gates
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to welcome in
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this big majestic horse
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and as they wheel it
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into the city center,
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all the soldiers
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jump out the middle
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and they attack
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and they defeat
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the city of Troy, right?
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Is that what Jesus did?
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Did Jesus say,
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let me hide myself
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in a man
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and then once I'm a man
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I will destroy my enemies.
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What did Jesus do
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when he became a man?
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Look at what verse 9 says.
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Verse 8.
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Being found in human form,
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he humbled himself further,
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becoming obedient
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to the point of death,
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even death on a cross.
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You see friends,
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the Christmas story
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doesn't end
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with three wise men
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bowing down on their knees
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with gold and frankincense
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and myrrh.
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The Christmas story
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doesn't end
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with the wise men
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hearing that Herod
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actually wants to kill Jesus
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and so they sneak off
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a different way.
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The Christmas story
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doesn't end
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with Joseph and Mary
-
evading Herod
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by running off to Egypt.
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Friends,
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the Christmas story
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ends 30 years later
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with Jesus being nailed
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to a cross.
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Jesus dying
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and taking the sins
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of the world,
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your sin and my sin,
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my brokenness
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and my self-centeredness,
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my guilt
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and my shame,
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my self-glory
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and my pride
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and my self-righteousness.
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Jesus took it
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upon the cross.
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Jesus took the very worst
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about me
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and he took it
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on the cross
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and there he cried out
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and he said
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of those that were
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hanging in there
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and he said of us,
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Father,
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forgive them.
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They know not
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what they do.
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Friends,
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Jesus took upon himself
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the sins of the world,
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your sin
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and my sin
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so that we can be forgiven,
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acquitted,
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set free.
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Jesus is in
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a magnificent love
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for us.
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The Christmas story
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ends with him
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dying on the cross.
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Only of Jesus
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can it be said
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the reason he was born,
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he was born in order
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that he may die.
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And friends,
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the degree to which
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we see that
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and understand that
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and feel the graciousness
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and the kindness
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of Jesus towards us
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is the degree
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to which we will offer
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grace
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and compassion
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and tenderness
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to those around us
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when they hurt us
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and they let us down
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or when we have
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differences of opinions.
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Said another way,
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friends,
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the degree to which
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I have anger
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and bitterness
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and animosity
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in my heart
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is the degree
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to which I don't understand
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the kindness
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and the grace of God
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towards me.
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Think about how
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Peter writes this
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in 1 Peter.
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He says,
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he says,
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bless those
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that persecute you.
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Pray for those
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that revile you.
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When someone
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is evil towards you,
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don't be evil back.
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Pray for them
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and bless them
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and love them.
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And what's his reasoning?
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What does he appeal to?
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Why should we do this?
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Look what he says
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in verse 18.
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For Christ suffered
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once and for all
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the righteous
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for the unrighteous
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that he might
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bring us to God.
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Friends,
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the reason that we can
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respond to antagonism
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with grace
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and gentleness
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is because
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once upon a time
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Jesus responded
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to my antagonism
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towards him
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with unbelievable
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grace and tenderness
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hanging on the cross
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taking my sin
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and my guilt
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for me
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so that I can
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be reconciled
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to the Father.
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I'm sure many of you
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saw this.
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In the last year,
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there was an amazing story
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that came out of the US.
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September last year,
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September 2018,
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a young African-American man,
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he's 26 years old,
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he's sitting in his apartment block
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in Texas.
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He's watching TV one night
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and a white lady,
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an ex-police officer,
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comes in the apartment
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and shoots him dead.
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And what happened
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is that this lady
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has just come off duty,
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she's tired,
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she's maybe worked all night,
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she comes in the apartment
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and she thinks
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she's on the fourth floor
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of the apartment block
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but she's actually
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on the third floor.
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And so she goes to the door,
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she's surprised
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that it's not locked,
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she walks in
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and she sees this man
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in her house
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and she thinks
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he's a burglar.
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And so her first instinct,
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she reaches for a gun
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and she shoots him dead.
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And as she sees
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what's happened,
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she looks around
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and she realizes
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she's not in her apartment,
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she's actually
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in his apartment.
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And so she's just killed
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this innocent man.
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And she's panicking,
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she phones 911
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while he's busy dying,
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she tries to get
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an ambulance there
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and the ambulance
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doesn't come in time
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and before the ambulance
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gets there,
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this man dies.
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Anyway,
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she's obviously guilty,
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she hands herself in
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and she goes on trial
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and she's sentenced,
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she's convicted
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of manslaughter.
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And before she's sentenced,
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there is a thing
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called a victim impact statement
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which means
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one of the victims,
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someone who's been affected
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by the crime,
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can speak to the jury
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about how this crime
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has affected them
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so that the jury
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can give an adequate sentencing.
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And so the victim's brother,
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this young man,
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he's 23,
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24 years old,
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he makes this victim
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impact statement
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and he goes
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and he's standing
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in the dock
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to speak about
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how this crime
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has affected him
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and how he thinks,
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you know,
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traditionally how the jury
-
should ramp up the charges
-
and the sentencing.
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And this young man,
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he doesn't speak
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for very long
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but he takes the stand
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and this is what he says.
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he looks across the room
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at this police officer
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that's killed his brother
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and he says,
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if you are truly sorry,
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I want you to know
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that I forgive you.
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I can't speak for others
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but speaking for myself,
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I want you to know
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that I still love you
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just the way
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I love any other person.
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I do not hope
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that you rot and die
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like my brother died.
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Right now,
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I want the very best for you.
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He says,
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I wasn't going to say this
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in front of anybody else.
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I don't want to see you
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going to jail.
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In fact,
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I want the very best for you
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because that's what,
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I know that's exactly
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what my brother Botham
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would want for you.
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I think giving your life
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to Christ
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would be the very best thing
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that Botham
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would want you to do.
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He looks her in the eye
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and he says,
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I love you as a person
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and I don't wish
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for anything bad
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to happen to you.
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And then he turns
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to the judge
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and he says,
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am I allowed to get up
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and give this lady a hug?
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And the judge
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doesn't know what to do.
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It's like unprecedented
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and breaking
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all sorts of conventions
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and so there's silence
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for a few moments
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and he asks her again
-
and eventually the judge
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says,
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okay, you can.
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And this man gets up,
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walks across the courtroom
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to this lady
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and he gives her this hug
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and he says,
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there's no bitterness,
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all is forgiven.
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I'm so sorry
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that this has happened
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to you.
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And you can see
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on the video
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the judge pulling out
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some tissues
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and she's just crying
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at what she's witnessing
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before her.
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Now friends,
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what led to that?
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What motivated
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this young man to do it?
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When you see the video,
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he didn't have a script.
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He wasn't premeditated.
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He hadn't written out.
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He's just sitting there
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in the dark
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sharing from his heart.
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And what he says is,
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I don't want anything bad
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to happen for you.
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I want the best for you.
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I love you
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and I forgive you.
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What causes this young man
-
to do this?
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Friends,
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it is that his heart
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had been so melted,
-
so softened
-
by the love of Christ
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towards him
-
that he looks the person
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that killed his brother
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in the eye
-
and he says,
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I love you
-
and I want the best for you.
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Now,
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we may say,
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yeah,
-
but if we just go around
-
giving grace
-
and forgiveness to everyone,
-
where's justice?
-
Where's the justice in that?
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Someone once said this,
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mercy and grace
-
is like a stick of dynamite
-
that brings down
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the walls of our hearts.
-
Friends,
-
mercy and grace
-
don't deny justice,
-
but they do rid our hearts
-
of the anger,
-
of the resentment,
-
of the bitterness,
-
of the hardness
-
that causes disagreements
-
and differences of opinions
-
to become divisive
-
and damaging.
-
Friends,
-
Jesus Christ on the cross,
-
we see mercy and justice.
-
Justice because the full weight
-
of my sin
-
and your sin
-
was put upon him.
-
Justice because the full wrath
-
and the anger of God
-
was poured out on him.
-
justice because none of it
-
was swept under the carpet.
-
Every evil thing
-
that was done,
-
every bit of wrong
-
that was done in the world,
-
every bit of pain
-
and wickedness
-
was fully dealt with,
-
fully punished on the cross.
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But on the cross,
-
we also see extravagant mercy
-
because on the cross,
-
God,
-
there Jesus died
-
in our place
-
to take our sin for us
-
so that we don't need to.
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Friends,
-
where there's division
-
and disagreement
-
in the church in Philippi,
-
where brothers and sisters
-
can't see eye to eye
-
and adults couldn't,
-
young adults couldn't see eye to eye
-
with their parents.
-
Paul doesn't write to them
-
and say,
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come on,
-
you Christians now,
-
sort yourselves out.
-
You should be better.
-
Paul doesn't write to them
-
and say,
-
listen here,
-
.3, .2 of the membership document
-
says you shouldn't disagree
-
with one another.
-
Now just pretend to get along.
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What does he do?
-
He reminds them
-
of the humility
-
and the kindness of Jesus.
-
He says,
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Dear brothers and sisters,
-
do nothing from selfish ambition,
-
but in humility
-
count others
-
more significant
-
than yourselves.
-
Lower yourself
-
and lift others up.
-
Let each of you
-
look not only
-
to his own interests
-
but also to the interests
-
of others.
-
Remembering Jesus,
-
remembering his condescension,
-
remembering his humiliation,
-
remember his coming
-
to us at Christmas,
-
remembering his crucifixion
-
on the cross.
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Friends,
-
this year,
-
many of us
-
are going to get
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Christmas cards
-
that say words like
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love and peace
-
and joy and hope
-
and all these good things.
-
Where do we get
-
those words from?
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We get them
-
from the stunning
-
announcement
-
of the angels.
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Glory to God
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in the highest
-
and on earth,
-
peace and goodwill
-
to all mankind.
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Friends,
-
because all this,
-
because God decided
-
to become one of us,
-
to take on human form,
-
to lay his glory aside,
-
born that men
-
no more need to die,
-
and ultimately
-
to go to the cross.
-
Friends,
-
this Christmas
-
and this next year,
-
with all the difficulties
-
going on in our city,
-
may the good news
-
of great joy
-
melt our hearts,
-
bring down the walls,
-
flood us with his grace,
-
that we too
-
can offer peace
-
and joy
-
and love
-
and grace
-
to those around us
-
and those in our city.
-
Let's pray together.
-
Father,
-
oh, heavenly Father,
-
we so desperately
-
need your gospel
-
to come and take root
-
in our hearts.
-
Father,
-
this Christmas,
-
we don't just need
-
to be told
-
what to do
-
or how to be nicer
-
kind of people.
-
God,
-
we need the good news
-
of Jesus
-
to flood our hearts,
-
to flood over us again.
-
God,
-
we need the kindness
-
of God
-
to melt our own hearts.
-
God,
-
to bring down the walls
-
in our lives.
-
Jesus,
-
I pray this Christmas
-
amongst all the festivities,
-
amongst all the food,
-
the presents,
-
the meals,
-
the hanging out
-
with friends,
-
God,
-
may you,
-
in the quiet place
-
of our lives,
-
may you,
-
Jesus,
-
reign supreme,
-
we pray.
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We pray these things
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in your wonderful
-
and your powerful name.
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Amen.