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How Christmas Heals Division

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  1. Okay, good morning everybody. Great to see you. If you don't know me, my name is Kevin and one of the elders here.

  2. It's great to be with us together this morning.

  3. Now, let's see if you can finish this famous Christmas sentence.

  4. The Christmas sentence goes like this.

  5. Glory to God in the highest and on earth...

  6. Okay, sorry, I didn't hear that. Okay, try that again.

  7. Glory to God in the highest and on earth...

  8. And you got it. Okay, peace and goodwill to all mankind.

  9. Glory to God in the highest and on earth, peace and goodwill.

  10. That means kind-heartedness, bigness of heart, generosity of spirit to all mankind.

  11. These famous words are spoken by the angels at the time of Jesus' birth.

  12. There are some shepherds out in the fields outside of Bethlehem.

  13. And an angel comes and says, I bring good news of great joy.

  14. Today, in the city of David, the town of Bethlehem, a Savior has been born.

  15. And he is going to save the world.

  16. You'll find him lying in a manger.

  17. And then all these angels burst into song.

  18. Glory to God in the highest and on earth, peace and goodwill to all mankind.

  19. We are three days away from Christmas, which is a wonderful thing.

  20. But we also find ourselves at a time in our city and a time in the history of our city

  21. when peace and goodwill amongst us as a city seems to be remarkably absent.

  22. Not only in our streets and our universities, but also in our homes, around dining room tables.

  23. If there was ever a time when we as a city needed peace and goodwill to all mankind,

  24. this would be a great time.

  25. Now this morning, what I want us to do is I want us to look at the book of Philippians,

  26. which Theo and Janet read to us.

  27. And I want us to see how Christmas gives us the resources that we need

  28. to heal the divisions in our hearts and in our lives.

  29. How Christmas gives us the resources that we need

  30. to heal the divisions in our hearts and in our lives.

  31. Okay, so we've got one point this morning.

  32. That's the one point.

  33. That's all there is.

  34. Okay, let's go home.

  35. No, let's look at the passage and see if we can make sense of this.

  36. So, Theo and Janet read to us this amazing passage from the book of Philippians.

  37. And the book of Philippians is written by the Apostle Paul

  38. while he's under arrest in the city of Rome.

  39. The Apostle Paul is a missionary.

  40. He's a preacher.

  41. He's just left the city of Philippi.

  42. He's on his way back to Jerusalem.

  43. And in Jerusalem, he gets arrested because he's preaching the gospel, etc.

  44. He's disturbing the peace.

  45. And so he has this trial.

  46. And while he's on trial, he says,

  47. I'm a Roman citizen.

  48. I appeal to Caesar.

  49. I want Caesar to hear my case.

  50. And so he gets shipped off to Rome where Caesar is going to hear his case.

  51. And while he's there, he's under arrest for two years in house arrest.

  52. And while he's there, he writes these letters to the various churches

  53. that he started and founded around the world.

  54. And so he writes this letter to this small church in the city of Philippi

  55. that he had just visited recently.

  56. And he writes to encourage them and to strengthen them in their journey.

  57. Now, in the book of Acts, we actually see how this city,

  58. how this church in Philippi founded.

  59. And the way it started was this.

  60. It was Paul and his companions are traveling in the area,

  61. and they don't know where to go.

  62. They try and go up north.

  63. They can't go there.

  64. They try and go south.

  65. They can't go there.

  66. To the west of them is the sea.

  67. And so they stuck.

  68. And one night, Paul has a dream.

  69. And in his dream, this man from the city of Philippi says,

  70. Paul, come over and help us.

  71. And so the next morning, Paul wakes up,

  72. and he says to his companions,

  73. I think God wants us to go to Philippi.

  74. And so they go to Philippi.

  75. And when they get there, they don't know what to do.

  76. They don't have any contacts or friends.

  77. Paul just had this dream.

  78. And so they go down to the river where they expect to meet a bunch of men praying.

  79. Generally, the men would go down and pray at this area.

  80. But they don't find any men praying.

  81. What they find is a businesswoman, a lady called Lydia.

  82. And Lydia is a trader.

  83. She sells cloth and material.

  84. And she's a businesswoman.

  85. And so they start to talk to her about the wonder of Jesus and the gospel.

  86. And she believes.

  87. She becomes a follower of Jesus.

  88. And she gets baptized straight away as a sign of her following Jesus.

  89. And then Paul and his companions spend a few days in Philippi.

  90. And they are followed by this young lady who's a slave girl.

  91. She's owned by some other people in town.

  92. But she is under the controlling influence of a demonic spiritual power.

  93. She's kind of controlled by the spiritual power.

  94. And so she follows Paul and his companions everywhere they go.

  95. And she's calling out saying, these men, they come from the one true God.

  96. They're telling you how to become Christians, how to get saved.

  97. And she's causing problems for Paul and his companions.

  98. Because they're trying to have these real meaningful conversations.

  99. And while they're trying to have conversations with people,

  100. here's this lady that's calling out in the background.

  101. These men are from God.

  102. They've got a message for you.

  103. And Paul gets so annoyed that one day he just turns around and he says,

  104. evil spirit, come out of her.

  105. And she's automatically brought to her senses.

  106. She's no longer under the controlling power of this demonic spirit.

  107. And she's just this normal young lady.

  108. Now, it's possible that she becomes a follower of Jesus.

  109. We don't know exactly whether she became a follower of Jesus.

  110. But the men that owned her are now very upset with Paul.

  111. Because she used to make a lot of money for them as a fortune teller.

  112. She would go around town saying,

  113. here, this is what's going to happen to you.

  114. And he would give money.

  115. And they'd say, Ellen, I'll tell you your future if you give me some money.

  116. And so this lady made a lot of money for her owners.

  117. And now she can't do that anymore.

  118. So the owners go to the magistrate and they say,

  119. these guys, Paul and his friends, are causing trouble in our town.

  120. We better arrest them quickly.

  121. And so Paul and his friends get thrown into jail.

  122. And while they're in jail, they start talking to the jailer.

  123. And the jailer becomes a Christian.

  124. And he starts following Jesus.

  125. And he and his whole family become Christians.

  126. And they get baptized that very day.

  127. And so here you have, in this town of Philippi,

  128. the two founding members of this church,

  129. and possibly a third one.

  130. You have this wealthy businesswoman who's a trader,

  131. and she knows how to make money.

  132. You have this jailer who's pro-establishment,

  133. working for the central government.

  134. Remember, Philippi is a city in the Roman Empire.

  135. He's working for central government.

  136. He becomes a follower of Jesus.

  137. And possibly the third member of the church

  138. is this slave girl who, until recently,

  139. had a demonic spirit controlling her.

  140. Now, I've been thinking quite a lot recently

  141. about church planting.

  142. At Watermark, we've spoken about it for a long time.

  143. And I would love for us as a church

  144. to plant a church sometime in the next couple of years.

  145. To take 20 or 30 people from Watermark

  146. and say, hey, why don't you guys go start

  147. a new church in Hong Kong somewhere?

  148. We'll support you and encourage you.

  149. I love the idea of us planting a new church.

  150. But one of the things I've been thinking about

  151. is how do you get the perfect core team together,

  152. the right team that's going to start off a church,

  153. the team that you can train them and equip them

  154. and are on the same page and think the same way.

  155. Because if you get your core team right,

  156. you have the most chance of success.

  157. Think about the core team of this new church in Philippi.

  158. You have this jailer working for the government.

  159. You have this businesswoman that's a trader.

  160. And you possibly have this lady that was just demon-possessed,

  161. a slave girl, uneducated, who has just been delivered.

  162. One theologian, a common scholar, put it like this.

  163. These early converts were the most diverse

  164. and unlikely group of people with which to ever start a new church.

  165. And so this is how the church begins.

  166. Right from day one, the Philippian church is diverse,

  167. it's multicultural, it's multi-socioeconomic

  168. from different backgrounds, different cultures, different careers,

  169. and they've come together because Jesus has worked in their hearts.

  170. Now, that's a wonderful thing.

  171. One of the most beautiful things about the local church

  172. is its diversity and its complexity

  173. and its multicultural and multi-ethnic component.

  174. The church family is a family, but we're a diverse family.

  175. We're an eclectic family.

  176. And what unifies us as a church is not our personalities or our preferences.

  177. I like the soccer team.

  178. You like the soccer team.

  179. Hey, let's join the same church together.

  180. What unifies us is that Jesus has worked in our hearts.

  181. But that diversity does come with its challenges, right?

  182. There's misunderstanding.

  183. I think one thing.

  184. You think a different thing.

  185. I like this thing.

  186. You like that thing.

  187. I think we should do things this way.

  188. You think we should do things that way.

  189. So our diversity is a beautiful gift, but it does come with complexity.

  190. It comes with challenges.

  191. There can be misunderstanding.

  192. There can be diverse views on how we should do things.

  193. Let's be honest.

  194. It's so much easier just to gather with a group of people

  195. who think like you and talk like you and act like you

  196. and dress like you and are just like you.

  197. But when we come together, diversity brings its challenges.

  198. Friends, isn't this what we see in Hong Kong a bit at the moment?

  199. Diverse opinions, diverse political views,

  200. diverse ways on how the current empire should be handled.

  201. Diversity brings its challenges.

  202. And diverse opinions and views can lead to a lack of peace

  203. and a lack of goodwill amongst all mankind.

  204. When you look at the book of Philippians that was read to us earlier,

  205. one of the things we see is that this church is starting to experience

  206. a little bit of division in the church.

  207. It's not massive.

  208. It's not huge.

  209. But there's people that have got different opinions.

  210. And Paul writes the book of Philippians to them

  211. to encourage them to be unified in their faith.

  212. If you've got your Bible, turn to Philippians,

  213. and you're going to have to follow with me.

  214. There's a couple of verses I want us to look at.

  215. Look at what he says in chapter 1, verse 27.

  216. He says,

  217. Paul's emphasis here is on their oneness,

  218. their oneness of mind, oneness of heart, oneness of unity.

  219. And he says,

  220. Don't be fighting against one another.

  221. It's not me against you.

  222. I want you to be standing next to each other,

  223. shoulder to shoulder, united for the cause of Christ.

  224. He appeals to them to be one.

  225. Look at chapter 2, verse 1 and 2.

  226. He says,

  227. If there's any encouragement in Christ,

  228. any comfort from love or participation in the Spirit,

  229. complete my joy by being of the same mind,

  230. having the same love,

  231. being in full accord and of one mind.

  232. So he says,

  233. My dear brothers and sisters,

  234. I long to hear that you are unified and one

  235. in the way that you are operating together.

  236. Look at chapter 2, verse 14.

  237. He says,

  238. Brothers and sisters,

  239. do all things without grumbling.

  240. Without disputing.

  241. I know there's reason to have differences of opinions,

  242. but try and do things without grumbling

  243. and disputing together.

  244. And then look at chapter 4.

  245. This is a very famous verse.

  246. In chapter 4, verse 2, he says this,

  247. I urge Yodia and I urge Sintiki

  248. to agree in the Lord.

  249. Yes, I ask you, my true brother,

  250. to help these two women

  251. who have contended for the gospel at my side.

  252. Isn't that a remarkable thing?

  253. That for some reason,

  254. God decided to preserve for all time,

  255. for all cultures,

  256. for the rest of time on earth,

  257. these two ladies' names in the Bible

  258. who couldn't get along together

  259. and who are disagreeing.

  260. I'm so glad my name isn't in the Bible.

  261. I'm so glad my name isn't in Paul.

  262. Just Kevin and Theo,

  263. just sort yourselves out

  264. and get along better, right?

  265. And for all time,

  266. everybody's going to know

  267. these two guys.

  268. Paul writes,

  269. and he says,

  270. Dear ladies,

  271. I know you've worked with me.

  272. I urge you to see it out,

  273. to be of one heart and one mind.

  274. Paul writes this very warm and loving letter

  275. to this church

  276. to help them deal with the divisions

  277. and to restore the peace

  278. and the goodwill amongst each other.

  279. Now, here's the question I want to ask you.

  280. Paul writes to encourage this unity.

  281. To what does he appeal?

  282. What is his argument?

  283. What is his flow?

  284. What is his reasoning

  285. that he gives them

  286. why they should be unified

  287. and why they should be humble

  288. and selfless

  289. and serving towards one another?

  290. What's his argument?

  291. Well, look at chapter 2,

  292. verse 3 and 4.

  293. Remarkably,

  294. Paul appeals to Christmas.

  295. He appeals to the Christmas story.

  296. Look at what he says here in verse 3.

  297. He says,

  298. Do nothing from selfish ambition

  299. or conceit,

  300. but in humility,

  301. consider one another's

  302. more significant than yourselves.

  303. Friends,

  304. imagine living in a world like that.

  305. Imagine living in a family

  306. or an office

  307. or a city

  308. in which everybody,

  309. the prevailing decision of our minds

  310. was not what's in it for me,

  311. not how can I advance my cause,

  312. but how can I advance your cause?

  313. How can I help you

  314. succeed in life?

  315. Verse 4,

  316. Let each of you look

  317. not only to his own interests,

  318. but also to the interests of others.

  319. That's a remarkable statement.

  320. Imagine we lived in a world like that

  321. where everybody thought,

  322. It's not about me,

  323. it's about how can I serve your interests?

  324. Verse 5,

  325. The reason why I should adopt this

  326. is because this is the attitude of Christ.

  327. Verse 5,

  328. Adopt the same attitude

  329. as that of Christ Jesus.

  330. This is what Jesus was like

  331. and as followers of Jesus

  332. we are learning to become like him.

  333. Now Paul,

  334. what do you mean

  335. that this is what Jesus was like?

  336. Do you mean that

  337. when Jesus was arrested

  338. he didn't retaliate?

  339. Is that what you mean?

  340. Do you mean when Jesus

  341. was betrayed by Peter

  342. and denied him

  343. that you forgave him?

  344. Is that what you mean?

  345. Well,

  346. those things are coming

  347. but before Paul even gets there

  348. he starts off

  349. with the story of Christmas.

  350. Look at what he says here

  351. in verse 6.

  352. For Jesus Christ

  353. who though he was

  354. in the form of God,

  355. now when it says

  356. the form of God

  357. that doesn't mean

  358. he was like God.

  359. It doesn't mean

  360. he was similar to God.

  361. It means he was

  362. really and truly God.

  363. The NIV says

  364. by very nature God.

  365. So Jesus Christ

  366. who though he was

  367. by very nature God

  368. did not count equality with God

  369. something to be grasped,

  370. something to be seized,

  371. something to be exploited

  372. for his own advantage.

  373. Remember Paul's writing

  374. to Philippians here

  375. and he's encouraging them

  376. because they're tempted

  377. to look at life

  378. through the lens of

  379. what's in it for me.

  380. How can I make the most

  381. of my life?

  382. How can I make sure

  383. that I come out

  384. of this situation on top?

  385. How can I make sure

  386. that I don't suffer

  387. in the decisions

  388. that I make?

  389. And Paul writes

  390. and he says

  391. remember Jesus.

  392. Jesus was God

  393. and Jesus looked

  394. or approached life

  395. though he was equal to God,

  396. though he was God,

  397. he didn't consider

  398. how he can grasp

  399. or seize

  400. or make the most

  401. of his godness.

  402. He didn't hold on

  403. to or take advantage

  404. of the fact

  405. that he is God,

  406. that which he is entitled to,

  407. that which was only

  408. fair and just.

  409. He didn't exploit that

  410. but rather,

  411. verse 7,

  412. he emptied himself.

  413. He emptied himself.

  414. The word empty

  415. doesn't mean

  416. he was no longer God.

  417. It means he deprived himself

  418. of something

  419. that he was entitled to.

  420. Jesus didn't stop

  421. being God or divine

  422. when he was born to Mary

  423. or lying in the manger

  424. outside of Bethlehem,

  425. but he put aside

  426. his glory and his rights

  427. that intrinsically came

  428. with being God.

  429. Remember the wonderful

  430. Christmas carol?

  431. Mild he lays

  432. his glory by,

  433. born that man

  434. no more may die.

  435. And this is Paul's point.

  436. Jesus,

  437. in coming to us

  438. as a man,

  439. in taking on human form,

  440. he emptied himself.

  441. He lay aside

  442. his glory,

  443. taking the form

  444. of a servant

  445. born in the likeness

  446. of humanity.

  447. One theologian

  448. explained it like this.

  449. said equality

  450. with God

  451. is something

  452. that was inherent

  453. to Christ

  454. before he became

  455. a man.

  456. Nevertheless,

  457. Godness,

  458. the fact that

  459. Jesus was God

  460. didn't mean

  461. that Christ

  462. was a grasping,

  463. seizing being

  464. as it would

  465. for the gods

  466. and the lords

  467. of the Philippians world.

  468. It was not something

  469. to be seized upon

  470. to his own advantage,

  471. which is what you

  472. would normally expect

  473. from lordly powers.

  474. Rather,

  475. his equality

  476. with God

  477. found its

  478. truest expression

  479. when he emptied

  480. himself in his

  481. incarnation,

  482. becoming a man.

  483. Friends,

  484. think of,

  485. the last couple of weeks

  486. we've been looking

  487. at the book of Revelation,

  488. right?

  489. And think of the

  490. emperors in the time

  491. of the Revelation.

  492. Domitian,

  493. one of the things,

  494. the laws he passed

  495. was that when he

  496. comes into town,

  497. everybody must say,

  498. Domitian is lord,

  499. Domitian is god.

  500. Think of,

  501. when the emperor

  502. goes past,

  503. everybody bows down

  504. and worships him.

  505. The lords of that day

  506. demanded that you

  507. serve them,

  508. you honor them,

  509. you exalt them,

  510. you lift them up

  511. and you humble yourself

  512. before them.

  513. But what does Jesus do?

  514. Jesus doesn't exalt himself,

  515. he humbles himself,

  516. God becoming man.

  517. Jesus born in a manger

  518. with shepherds and cattle

  519. as his very first observers.

  520. Friends,

  521. do you know the feeling,

  522. what it feels like

  523. when somebody has been

  524. condescending towards you.

  525. Do you know what the word

  526. condescending means?

  527. Condescending means

  528. when somebody treats you

  529. smaller or less worthy

  530. than you deserve.

  531. Somebody speaks down at you.

  532. Maybe you feel like

  533. somebody's speaking to you

  534. and they're treating you

  535. like a child.

  536. I had that recently.

  537. Somebody spoke to me

  538. and I wanted to say,

  539. by the way,

  540. I'm not three years old,

  541. right?

  542. I'm not a child.

  543. You can talk to me as a peer.

  544. Do you know that feeling

  545. when someone's been

  546. condescending towards you?

  547. They make you feel small

  548. or inferior

  549. or unworthy

  550. or they're disrespectful

  551. towards you.

  552. One of the words

  553. that Bible scholars use

  554. for Jesus coming to earth

  555. is his condescension.

  556. Friends,

  557. when Jesus was born as man,

  558. no one was condescending

  559. towards him.

  560. Jesus chose

  561. of his own free will

  562. to condescend,

  563. to be made smaller,

  564. to come down

  565. to our level.

  566. Not because he had to

  567. but because he chose to.

  568. Or maybe think about

  569. what it feels like

  570. to be humiliated.

  571. Have you ever been humiliated?

  572. Treated shamefully

  573. or made to feel

  574. less worthy

  575. than you deserve?

  576. Look at what it says

  577. here in Philippians.

  578. It says,

  579. Jesus embraced

  580. his humiliation.

  581. He humbled himself

  582. taking on the form,

  583. there's our word again,

  584. of the very nature

  585. of a servant.

  586. Friends,

  587. it's remarkable

  588. to think that the God

  589. who made all things,

  590. who brought everything

  591. into existence,

  592. the one who thought

  593. of the molecular structure

  594. that the wood

  595. by which the manger

  596. is created,

  597. in which he's lying,

  598. the God who designed

  599. that and came up with that

  600. and thought of that

  601. in the first place,

  602. this sovereign,

  603. majestic God,

  604. the divine,

  605. infinitely glorious God

  606. would become a baby,

  607. a crying,

  608. helpless,

  609. dependent,

  610. nursing baby.

  611. One Christmas carol

  612. said it like this,

  613. Behold within the manger lies

  614. the one who built

  615. the starry skies,

  616. the one who created

  617. all the universe,

  618. lying in a manger.

  619. And the reason why

  620. is because of his

  621. profound love for us,

  622. because of his love for us.

  623. And friends,

  624. this is the apostle Paul's

  625. encouragement.

  626. Let that soften our hearts.

  627. Let that produce

  628. a gentleness,

  629. a humility in the way

  630. that we deal with

  631. and handle one another

  632. and view our differences.

  633. But that's not all.

  634. Look at what he says

  635. in verse 8.

  636. Jesus becoming a man,

  637. what would he do

  638. with his humanity?

  639. The fact that Jesus

  640. is now a human being,

  641. what would he do?

  642. Would he use his humanity

  643. like a Trojan horse

  644. to crush his enemies?

  645. You know the story

  646. of the Trojan horse?

  647. Some men want to go

  648. and attack the city of Troy,

  649. I think it is.

  650. Is that right?

  651. And they don't know

  652. how to get in there.

  653. And so they build

  654. this majestic horse

  655. and they come to

  656. the city of Troy

  657. and they say,

  658. we've got a present for you.

  659. We have built

  660. a horse in your honor.

  661. But they don't know

  662. that inside this wooden horse

  663. soldiers are hiding.

  664. And so the city of Troy

  665. opens its gates

  666. to welcome in

  667. this big majestic horse

  668. and as they wheel it

  669. into the city center,

  670. all the soldiers

  671. jump out the middle

  672. and they attack

  673. and they defeat

  674. the city of Troy, right?

  675. Is that what Jesus did?

  676. Did Jesus say,

  677. let me hide myself

  678. in a man

  679. and then once I'm a man

  680. I will destroy my enemies.

  681. What did Jesus do

  682. when he became a man?

  683. Look at what verse 9 says.

  684. Verse 8.

  685. Being found in human form,

  686. he humbled himself further,

  687. becoming obedient

  688. to the point of death,

  689. even death on a cross.

  690. You see friends,

  691. the Christmas story

  692. doesn't end

  693. with three wise men

  694. bowing down on their knees

  695. with gold and frankincense

  696. and myrrh.

  697. The Christmas story

  698. doesn't end

  699. with the wise men

  700. hearing that Herod

  701. actually wants to kill Jesus

  702. and so they sneak off

  703. a different way.

  704. The Christmas story

  705. doesn't end

  706. with Joseph and Mary

  707. evading Herod

  708. by running off to Egypt.

  709. Friends,

  710. the Christmas story

  711. ends 30 years later

  712. with Jesus being nailed

  713. to a cross.

  714. Jesus dying

  715. and taking the sins

  716. of the world,

  717. your sin and my sin,

  718. my brokenness

  719. and my self-centeredness,

  720. my guilt

  721. and my shame,

  722. my self-glory

  723. and my pride

  724. and my self-righteousness.

  725. Jesus took it

  726. upon the cross.

  727. Jesus took the very worst

  728. about me

  729. and he took it

  730. on the cross

  731. and there he cried out

  732. and he said

  733. of those that were

  734. hanging in there

  735. and he said of us,

  736. Father,

  737. forgive them.

  738. They know not

  739. what they do.

  740. Friends,

  741. Jesus took upon himself

  742. the sins of the world,

  743. your sin

  744. and my sin

  745. so that we can be forgiven,

  746. acquitted,

  747. set free.

  748. Jesus is in

  749. a magnificent love

  750. for us.

  751. The Christmas story

  752. ends with him

  753. dying on the cross.

  754. Only of Jesus

  755. can it be said

  756. the reason he was born,

  757. he was born in order

  758. that he may die.

  759. And friends,

  760. the degree to which

  761. we see that

  762. and understand that

  763. and feel the graciousness

  764. and the kindness

  765. of Jesus towards us

  766. is the degree

  767. to which we will offer

  768. grace

  769. and compassion

  770. and tenderness

  771. to those around us

  772. when they hurt us

  773. and they let us down

  774. or when we have

  775. differences of opinions.

  776. Said another way,

  777. friends,

  778. the degree to which

  779. I have anger

  780. and bitterness

  781. and animosity

  782. in my heart

  783. is the degree

  784. to which I don't understand

  785. the kindness

  786. and the grace of God

  787. towards me.

  788. Think about how

  789. Peter writes this

  790. in 1 Peter.

  791. He says,

  792. he says,

  793. bless those

  794. that persecute you.

  795. Pray for those

  796. that revile you.

  797. When someone

  798. is evil towards you,

  799. don't be evil back.

  800. Pray for them

  801. and bless them

  802. and love them.

  803. And what's his reasoning?

  804. What does he appeal to?

  805. Why should we do this?

  806. Look what he says

  807. in verse 18.

  808. For Christ suffered

  809. once and for all

  810. the righteous

  811. for the unrighteous

  812. that he might

  813. bring us to God.

  814. Friends,

  815. the reason that we can

  816. respond to antagonism

  817. with grace

  818. and gentleness

  819. is because

  820. once upon a time

  821. Jesus responded

  822. to my antagonism

  823. towards him

  824. with unbelievable

  825. grace and tenderness

  826. hanging on the cross

  827. taking my sin

  828. and my guilt

  829. for me

  830. so that I can

  831. be reconciled

  832. to the Father.

  833. I'm sure many of you

  834. saw this.

  835. In the last year,

  836. there was an amazing story

  837. that came out of the US.

  838. September last year,

  839. September 2018,

  840. a young African-American man,

  841. he's 26 years old,

  842. he's sitting in his apartment block

  843. in Texas.

  844. He's watching TV one night

  845. and a white lady,

  846. an ex-police officer,

  847. comes in the apartment

  848. and shoots him dead.

  849. And what happened

  850. is that this lady

  851. has just come off duty,

  852. she's tired,

  853. she's maybe worked all night,

  854. she comes in the apartment

  855. and she thinks

  856. she's on the fourth floor

  857. of the apartment block

  858. but she's actually

  859. on the third floor.

  860. And so she goes to the door,

  861. she's surprised

  862. that it's not locked,

  863. she walks in

  864. and she sees this man

  865. in her house

  866. and she thinks

  867. he's a burglar.

  868. And so her first instinct,

  869. she reaches for a gun

  870. and she shoots him dead.

  871. And as she sees

  872. what's happened,

  873. she looks around

  874. and she realizes

  875. she's not in her apartment,

  876. she's actually

  877. in his apartment.

  878. And so she's just killed

  879. this innocent man.

  880. And she's panicking,

  881. she phones 911

  882. while he's busy dying,

  883. she tries to get

  884. an ambulance there

  885. and the ambulance

  886. doesn't come in time

  887. and before the ambulance

  888. gets there,

  889. this man dies.

  890. Anyway,

  891. she's obviously guilty,

  892. she hands herself in

  893. and she goes on trial

  894. and she's sentenced,

  895. she's convicted

  896. of manslaughter.

  897. And before she's sentenced,

  898. there is a thing

  899. called a victim impact statement

  900. which means

  901. one of the victims,

  902. someone who's been affected

  903. by the crime,

  904. can speak to the jury

  905. about how this crime

  906. has affected them

  907. so that the jury

  908. can give an adequate sentencing.

  909. And so the victim's brother,

  910. this young man,

  911. he's 23,

  912. 24 years old,

  913. he makes this victim

  914. impact statement

  915. and he goes

  916. and he's standing

  917. in the dock

  918. to speak about

  919. how this crime

  920. has affected him

  921. and how he thinks,

  922. you know,

  923. traditionally how the jury

  924. should ramp up the charges

  925. and the sentencing.

  926. And this young man,

  927. he doesn't speak

  928. for very long

  929. but he takes the stand

  930. and this is what he says.

  931. he looks across the room

  932. at this police officer

  933. that's killed his brother

  934. and he says,

  935. if you are truly sorry,

  936. I want you to know

  937. that I forgive you.

  938. I can't speak for others

  939. but speaking for myself,

  940. I want you to know

  941. that I still love you

  942. just the way

  943. I love any other person.

  944. I do not hope

  945. that you rot and die

  946. like my brother died.

  947. Right now,

  948. I want the very best for you.

  949. He says,

  950. I wasn't going to say this

  951. in front of anybody else.

  952. I don't want to see you

  953. going to jail.

  954. In fact,

  955. I want the very best for you

  956. because that's what,

  957. I know that's exactly

  958. what my brother Botham

  959. would want for you.

  960. I think giving your life

  961. to Christ

  962. would be the very best thing

  963. that Botham

  964. would want you to do.

  965. He looks her in the eye

  966. and he says,

  967. I love you as a person

  968. and I don't wish

  969. for anything bad

  970. to happen to you.

  971. And then he turns

  972. to the judge

  973. and he says,

  974. am I allowed to get up

  975. and give this lady a hug?

  976. And the judge

  977. doesn't know what to do.

  978. It's like unprecedented

  979. and breaking

  980. all sorts of conventions

  981. and so there's silence

  982. for a few moments

  983. and he asks her again

  984. and eventually the judge

  985. says,

  986. okay, you can.

  987. And this man gets up,

  988. walks across the courtroom

  989. to this lady

  990. and he gives her this hug

  991. and he says,

  992. there's no bitterness,

  993. all is forgiven.

  994. I'm so sorry

  995. that this has happened

  996. to you.

  997. And you can see

  998. on the video

  999. the judge pulling out

  1000. some tissues

  1001. and she's just crying

  1002. at what she's witnessing

  1003. before her.

  1004. Now friends,

  1005. what led to that?

  1006. What motivated

  1007. this young man to do it?

  1008. When you see the video,

  1009. he didn't have a script.

  1010. He wasn't premeditated.

  1011. He hadn't written out.

  1012. He's just sitting there

  1013. in the dark

  1014. sharing from his heart.

  1015. And what he says is,

  1016. I don't want anything bad

  1017. to happen for you.

  1018. I want the best for you.

  1019. I love you

  1020. and I forgive you.

  1021. What causes this young man

  1022. to do this?

  1023. Friends,

  1024. it is that his heart

  1025. had been so melted,

  1026. so softened

  1027. by the love of Christ

  1028. towards him

  1029. that he looks the person

  1030. that killed his brother

  1031. in the eye

  1032. and he says,

  1033. I love you

  1034. and I want the best for you.

  1035. Now,

  1036. we may say,

  1037. yeah,

  1038. but if we just go around

  1039. giving grace

  1040. and forgiveness to everyone,

  1041. where's justice?

  1042. Where's the justice in that?

  1043. Someone once said this,

  1044. mercy and grace

  1045. is like a stick of dynamite

  1046. that brings down

  1047. the walls of our hearts.

  1048. Friends,

  1049. mercy and grace

  1050. don't deny justice,

  1051. but they do rid our hearts

  1052. of the anger,

  1053. of the resentment,

  1054. of the bitterness,

  1055. of the hardness

  1056. that causes disagreements

  1057. and differences of opinions

  1058. to become divisive

  1059. and damaging.

  1060. Friends,

  1061. Jesus Christ on the cross,

  1062. we see mercy and justice.

  1063. Justice because the full weight

  1064. of my sin

  1065. and your sin

  1066. was put upon him.

  1067. Justice because the full wrath

  1068. and the anger of God

  1069. was poured out on him.

  1070. justice because none of it

  1071. was swept under the carpet.

  1072. Every evil thing

  1073. that was done,

  1074. every bit of wrong

  1075. that was done in the world,

  1076. every bit of pain

  1077. and wickedness

  1078. was fully dealt with,

  1079. fully punished on the cross.

  1080. But on the cross,

  1081. we also see extravagant mercy

  1082. because on the cross,

  1083. God,

  1084. there Jesus died

  1085. in our place

  1086. to take our sin for us

  1087. so that we don't need to.

  1088. Friends,

  1089. where there's division

  1090. and disagreement

  1091. in the church in Philippi,

  1092. where brothers and sisters

  1093. can't see eye to eye

  1094. and adults couldn't,

  1095. young adults couldn't see eye to eye

  1096. with their parents.

  1097. Paul doesn't write to them

  1098. and say,

  1099. come on,

  1100. you Christians now,

  1101. sort yourselves out.

  1102. You should be better.

  1103. Paul doesn't write to them

  1104. and say,

  1105. listen here,

  1106. .3, .2 of the membership document

  1107. says you shouldn't disagree

  1108. with one another.

  1109. Now just pretend to get along.

  1110. What does he do?

  1111. He reminds them

  1112. of the humility

  1113. and the kindness of Jesus.

  1114. He says,

  1115. Dear brothers and sisters,

  1116. do nothing from selfish ambition,

  1117. but in humility

  1118. count others

  1119. more significant

  1120. than yourselves.

  1121. Lower yourself

  1122. and lift others up.

  1123. Let each of you

  1124. look not only

  1125. to his own interests

  1126. but also to the interests

  1127. of others.

  1128. Remembering Jesus,

  1129. remembering his condescension,

  1130. remembering his humiliation,

  1131. remember his coming

  1132. to us at Christmas,

  1133. remembering his crucifixion

  1134. on the cross.

  1135. Friends,

  1136. this year,

  1137. many of us

  1138. are going to get

  1139. Christmas cards

  1140. that say words like

  1141. love and peace

  1142. and joy and hope

  1143. and all these good things.

  1144. Where do we get

  1145. those words from?

  1146. We get them

  1147. from the stunning

  1148. announcement

  1149. of the angels.

  1150. Glory to God

  1151. in the highest

  1152. and on earth,

  1153. peace and goodwill

  1154. to all mankind.

  1155. Friends,

  1156. because all this,

  1157. because God decided

  1158. to become one of us,

  1159. to take on human form,

  1160. to lay his glory aside,

  1161. born that men

  1162. no more need to die,

  1163. and ultimately

  1164. to go to the cross.

  1165. Friends,

  1166. this Christmas

  1167. and this next year,

  1168. with all the difficulties

  1169. going on in our city,

  1170. may the good news

  1171. of great joy

  1172. melt our hearts,

  1173. bring down the walls,

  1174. flood us with his grace,

  1175. that we too

  1176. can offer peace

  1177. and joy

  1178. and love

  1179. and grace

  1180. to those around us

  1181. and those in our city.

  1182. Let's pray together.

  1183. Father,

  1184. oh, heavenly Father,

  1185. we so desperately

  1186. need your gospel

  1187. to come and take root

  1188. in our hearts.

  1189. Father,

  1190. this Christmas,

  1191. we don't just need

  1192. to be told

  1193. what to do

  1194. or how to be nicer

  1195. kind of people.

  1196. God,

  1197. we need the good news

  1198. of Jesus

  1199. to flood our hearts,

  1200. to flood over us again.

  1201. God,

  1202. we need the kindness

  1203. of God

  1204. to melt our own hearts.

  1205. God,

  1206. to bring down the walls

  1207. in our lives.

  1208. Jesus,

  1209. I pray this Christmas

  1210. amongst all the festivities,

  1211. amongst all the food,

  1212. the presents,

  1213. the meals,

  1214. the hanging out

  1215. with friends,

  1216. God,

  1217. may you,

  1218. in the quiet place

  1219. of our lives,

  1220. may you,

  1221. Jesus,

  1222. reign supreme,

  1223. we pray.

  1224. We pray these things

  1225. in your wonderful

  1226. and your powerful name.

  1227. Amen.