Sermon
Good News. God Does Not Love You Unconditionally.
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Before we pray, last week, if you were here, I asked you to pray for me because next Sunday,
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I get to speak on one of the favorite topics of Canadians, which is wives be subject to your
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husbands. And so I was asking that you would pray for me. I realized this week that I should have
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asked you to pray for me every, I mean, hopefully you pray for me every week. But this week, I get
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to talk about homosexuality. Next week, wives be subject to your husbands. The next week, slaves,
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slavery and Christianity. And then I get to talk about demons. So I have four really easy sermons
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in a row. And so please pray for me every week. Let's bow our heads in prayer. Father, we ask,
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we give you thanks and praise that you see us as we really are, with perfect clarity,
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and yet you love us. And we give you thanks and praise that every word that you speak that seems
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hard is a word that you speak to us for our good and comes out of your desire that we would connect
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with you and that we would repent and turn to Jesus and receive those far vastly better things
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that you have in mind for each of us. We ask that the Holy Spirit would fall with might and power and
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deep conviction as we think upon your word. Lead us to Jesus. And this we ask in the name of Jesus,
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your Son and our Savior. Amen. So the Bible text is Ephesians chapter 5, verses 1, the following. It
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would be probably helpful to you if you have a Bible. The text will be up on the screen, but it's really
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good to have your own Bible. And I just want to begin, before we start reading, I've sort of already
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let you know a little bit about what's in the text, and we're going to go there very quickly.
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But one of the first things we need to understand is that God does not love you unconditionally.
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For many Christians in Canada today, that sounds like blasphemy. But the fact of the matter is,
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is that God does not love you unconditionally. God loves you with a love that is incomparably better
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than unconditional love. And the more we are gripped by the idea of unconditional love,
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the harder it will be for us to understand the Bible, and the harder it will be for us to understand
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God and Jesus and the gospel. So I'm going to come back to that, why I would say such an odd statement.
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We're not going to begin with verse 1. I'm going to look and just try to bring your attention to
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the actual text in question. So some of you might be wondering, why do I talk about texts like this
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today? Let me tell you this. My hope and prayer is that you'll come to accept the gospel,
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and that you will know Jesus as your Savior and Lord. The Christian walk, to be known by God,
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to know the perfect forgiveness that comes through Jesus, to know the security that when Christ takes
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you as his child, he will never abandon you, he will never abuse you, he will never let you go,
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that you can begin to know the incomparable, inexhaustible love of Jesus is vastly worth it.
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And my hope and prayer is that everyone here and your friends and co-workers and families and
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neighbors will come to know the incomparable, vast, deep, pure love of the triune God. That's my hope.
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And one of the things we do in this church is we preach through books of the Bible.
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And that should be really good news to you if you're here as a seeker, or you're here as a skeptic,
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or you're here just as somebody who's just a bit curious. Because we're never going to hide things
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from you. It's not as if we're going to talk about all these, I can jump around a different text,
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and then you become a Christian, and then you find out there's all these nasty bits you didn't know
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about. You know, this is like taking you through the fine print. But when you go through the fine print
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of the New Testament, you understand even more deeply the boundless, deep, pure love of Jesus.
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So that's why we're looking at this text, not because I have some hang-ups about
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sex or homosexuality or anything like that. It's just because I want you to know Jesus.
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And I don't want to hide anything in the way of you becoming a follower of Christ. And for those of us
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who are Christians, that your walk with Christ will be deeper and freer. So I want to begin with the hard
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part, and then I'm going to look, we're going to jump back up to verse 1 and 2, and so we see how it is
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that the Bible introduces this topic. But I want you to understand some things. Look at verse 3.
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But sexual immorality and all impurity were covetousness,
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covetousness, must not even be named among you as is proper among saints. Let there be no filthiness,
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nor foolish talk, nor crude joking, which are out of place. But instead, let there be thanksgiving.
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Now, just to make sure that you understand this sexual immorality and impurity and covetousness,
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Paul mentions it a second time. Look at verse 5 and 6.
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For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure,
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or who is covetous, that is, an idolater,
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has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.
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Let no one deceive you with empty words.
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For because of these things, the wrath of God comes
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upon the sons and daughters of disobedience.
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Now, it's a very, very hard text in some ways.
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And one of the things, you know, I sometimes joke,
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in fact, I often joke, I look it up on the internet, so it must be true.
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The three words that you see here, sexually immoral, impure, and covetous,
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if I was to be doing a sermon point, and actually,
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if you go on the webpage later and you see my points,
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I have three different points,
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and I use the Greek word porneia,
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which is the word that's being translated here as sexual immorality.
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And if you Google porneia, what does the Greek word porneia mean?
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The very first entry you see to define porneia,
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if you Google it, is a lie.
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It's completely, utterly, thoroughly wrong,
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in case you don't know what my view is on the matter.
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It's completely invented,
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a completely and utterly invented explanation of what porneia is.
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You have to go down to several of the other ones,
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and you get the true answer.
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And what porneia is,
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is this,
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that God created human beings
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so that we would have an interest in sex.
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He made us as male and female,
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and he designed sexual relations,
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and he designed human beings
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that sexual knowledge and sexual stimulation
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is reserved for the holiest state of matrimony
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between one man and one woman.
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That's how God designed male and female,
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man and woman.
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It's how he designed,
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from the very beginning of creation,
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us to know sexual pleasure
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for those of us who are called into it.
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So God designed sexual knowledge
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and sexual stimulation
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to be reserved for those
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who are in a marriage of one man to one woman.
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And anything which is not that
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is porneia.
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Anything which is not that
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is porneia.
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So that would include everything
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from going to a strip club
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to looking at pornography
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to same-sex sexual knowing
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to cheating on your husband or your wife
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or engaging in sexual knowing
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outside of marriage.
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All of those things
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would be described as porneia.
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And that's the Greek word there
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for sexual immorality.
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And the next word,
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which is translated there as impurity,
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that's a bit of an odd word.
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And there's no really good word in English
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to try to describe what the sin is.
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But as I talked about it
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a little bit last week,
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and I don't expect you to remember that.
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I have a hard time remembering
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what I said last week.
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Impurity is referring
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not to sexual matters directly,
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but a relationship with God.
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And at the heart of it,
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what impurity is,
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is the attitude
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and the habit of saying to God,
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God, you're not my boss.
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You're not my boss.
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Now, most of the time,
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we just live in the way
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that God maybe designed us.
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We don't do bad things.
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But at a very, very deep
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and fundamental level,
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in every single human being,
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there is a part of us
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that wants to say to God,
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you're not my boss.
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You're not my boss.
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You can't tell me to do that.
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If I do it,
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it's because I want to do it,
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not because you say I should do it.
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Because I'm the boss of me.
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You're not my boss.
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And the third sin,
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which is mentioned here,
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is covetousness.
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And if you look at some translations,
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it's translated as avarice.
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And the Greek word
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can be translated either way.
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Covetousness is the sin of,
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well, actually,
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what avarice is,
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is just basically greed.
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Just want more, more, more, more, more,
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more, more, more, more, more,
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all the time.
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More possessions,
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more money.
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It's disorder,
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desire for possessions and money.
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And the other word,
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covetous,
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is a similar type of idea.
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It can mean that thing,
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but it also is more competitive.
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So,
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covetousness would mean
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that you not just look at George
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and say, you know,
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George is just a very ordinary guy.
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And if he can be a pastor,
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I think I can be a pastor.
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That's not covetousness.
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Covetousness says,
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I want George's job.
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You know,
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that George will lose his job
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so I can take his job.
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That's the sin of covetousness.
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Although it also includes the idea
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of just wanting more and more
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and more and more.
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And the Bible describes
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both,
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all three of these things
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as sort of categories of sin.
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And the thing you need
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to understand about it,
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there's several things
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you need to understand
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about this,
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which will become very clear
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when we go back
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and read verses one
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and then we see how it is
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that the Bible
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comes to this place.
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The first thing
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you have to understand
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is that this is not
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us versus them language.
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This is not us
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versus them language.
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This is describing
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the persistent
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perennial problems
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of every single
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human being.
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In other words,
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I stand before you
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today as a man
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whose sexuality
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is disordered.
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And I don't mean
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to offend you,
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but I am speaking
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to a room full of people
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whose sexuality
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is disordered.
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I am a man
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whose relationship
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with God
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is disordered.
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There is part of me
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that whether I'm
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conscious of it or not
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wants to at times
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say to God,
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you're not my boss.
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And I speak to a room
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who have the exact
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same problem.
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And I stand before you
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as a man
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who has a disordered
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relationship
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to money and possessions.
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possessions.
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And I stand talking
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to a room full of people
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who have disordered
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relationships
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with money and possessions.
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The Bible text
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is describing
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the human problem
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and the human condition.
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It's not describing
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us versus them,
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the pure versus
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the impure,
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the elite
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versus the rabble.
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It's bringing to light
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the fundamental
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human condition.
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And in every case,
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what the Bible
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is describing
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is that there's
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something in us,
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in our sexuality,
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which is disordered.
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There's something
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about us
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in our relationship
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with God
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that is disordered.
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There is something
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about us
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that our relationship
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with money and possessions
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and positions
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of authority
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that is disordered.
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And that's,
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on one hand,
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very bad news,
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but it's also
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very good news.
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Because it means
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that what God
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desires for each of us
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is something better.
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That's what he desires
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for me.
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So let's look
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at this covetousness,
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for instance,
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and possessions.
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Here's one of the things.
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Every single one of us,
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it's normally easier
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for us to recognize
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a disordered relationship
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with money and possessions
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in other people
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than in ourselves.
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I'm just trying to think
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of how many funerals
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I've done.
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Next year,
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I'll have been ordained
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35 years.
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In the first 10 years
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of my ordination,
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maybe even the first 15 years
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of my ordination,
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I did probably
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between 10 to 20 funerals
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a year.
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I was Barry and George.
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And so I don't know.
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I've maybe done
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200 funerals.
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I haven't done very many funerals
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the last 7 or 8 or 9 or 10 years.
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Let me tell you this.
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Let's say I've done
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200 funerals.
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There has been only
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one funeral
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that I have ever done
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where when I'm talking
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to the family before
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and the family and friends
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before and the family
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and friends afterwards,
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there's only been one
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funeral that I've ever done
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where anybody has ever said
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the problem with,
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and I'm going to mention
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his name because it's not
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an embarrassing thing,
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the problem with John
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is he was too generous.
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200 funerals,
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only one person
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has ever said
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about another person
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that the problem they had
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was that they were
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too generous.
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They gave away
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too much money.
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Isn't that interesting?
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Like, I can tell you this.
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They're not going to say
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about me at my funeral,
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at least if I die
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like in the next 10 minutes.
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The problem with George
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is he gave away
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too much money.
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And I don't want
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to offend you.
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I don't know how many
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of you they're going
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to say that about either.
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Now, the funny, funny,
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funny, funny thing
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about John,
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John Pierce, by the way,
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a couple of us know him,
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is that the person
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who said it to me
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that the problem with John
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was he gave away
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too much money.
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When he died,
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he had lots of money
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still in the bank.
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In fact, I said
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to the person who said it,
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I guess you were wrong.
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He gave away
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too much money.
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He didn't have lots of money,
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but he had enough money
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to live every week,
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even though the complaint
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about him was that
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he was way too generous.
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He gave away
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way too much money.
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See, the fact of the matter
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is that we notice
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other people
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that they're cheap,
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that they seem to be
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obsessed with possessions.
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And it doesn't,
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you know,
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a friend of mine said,
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this is in class talk,
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by the way.
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A friend of mine
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once said,
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the poor man
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has three rust buckets
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in his driveway,
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none of which work.
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The rich man
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has a jaguar.
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So it's not the matter
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that the poor man
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is consumed with possessions
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because he has three cars.
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Right?
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It's not a class thing.
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It's something which affects
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every single human being.
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We have a hard time
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giving stuff away.
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We have a hard time
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being generous
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to missions,
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to the poor,
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to the needs of the church.
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We have a hard time
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giving it away.
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We have fixations
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that we can have
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about sunglasses
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or watches
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or shoes
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or purses
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or jackets
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or clothing,
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about a better car,
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a better house.
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And you see,
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what's there
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isn't that we shouldn't desire.
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This isn't saying
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that, you know,
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if you're a young man
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or a young woman here,
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this isn't saying,
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covetousness isn't saying
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you shouldn't have
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any desire
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to try to make more money
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so you can provide
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for your needs
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and the needs of your family
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and the needs of your friends.
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We didn't look at it last week.
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But if you go back
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and read the last bit
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of chapter four,
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you'll see that
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Paul says that
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when the gospel
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hits a thief
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and a thief receives
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the gospel,
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what a thief,
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what the gospel will do
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in a thief's life
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will be eventually
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to make them have
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the desire
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to work very,
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very hard
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so they can provide
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for their own needs
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and be generous.
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That's how Paul says
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the gospel will impact
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somebody who's a thief.
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And so,
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what the Bible is saying
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isn't just that
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if you receive the gospel,
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it's going to take away
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any desire for ambition.
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It's going to take away
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any desire to earn.
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No, it's not that.
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It's just that
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we somehow have
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a way of making
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certain possessions
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and having more
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and having these things,
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they become a key part
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of our identity
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and they never satisfy.
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They never satisfy.
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And then the same thing
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with this thing about God,
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you're not my boss.
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The thing which is
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disordered there,
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it's several.
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It's as if
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unless I,
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at times when it comes up,
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you know,
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shake my fist at God
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and say,
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you're not telling me
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what to do.
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I'm going to tell me
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what to do.
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I'm the boss of my life.
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I'm the one
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who's going to pursue that.
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I mean,
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most of the time
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we don't say that,
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but when all of a sudden
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the demands of God,
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well,
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let's just say with money,
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that maybe you should consider
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giving 10% of your money away
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for the furtherance
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of the gospel.
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Whoa,
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you're not my boss, God.
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But at the heart of that
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is this
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disordered understanding
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that God will care for you
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and that you have
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a type of integrity
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and a type of value
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and a type of worth
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that God himself guarantees.
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You see,
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because we have this
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disordered relationship
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with God
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and we think we have
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to assert our place
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that we won't be forgotten,
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that I have autonomy,
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that I have integrity,
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that people can't walk over me,
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and there's not anything wrong
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with some of those desires
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that people can't walk over you,
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they can't just treat you
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with disrespect,
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they can't belittle you,
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they can't do all of those things,
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but it's disordered
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because we feel
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that it's all up to us
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so that it even comes
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in terms of God
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without understanding
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that the very,
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very heart of the gospel
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is that God saw you
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and he loved you so much
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that Jesus comes,
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God,
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the Son of God,
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leaves heaven,
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strips himself
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of his divine prerogatives,
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his authority,
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his glory,
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his majesty,
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but still remaining God,
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takes into himself
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our human nature,
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lives a fully human life,
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dies bearing in himself
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all your sin,
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all your rebellion,
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all your shame,
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all this stuff about you
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that's just not right,
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every accusation
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that could ever be against you,
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he does that
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and he takes it for you
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and dies for you
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because he loves you,
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because he wants
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to restore you
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to the integrity
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and the value
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and the dignity
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that you should have
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in this life
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and that you will have
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into all eternity
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and so our disordered
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relationship with God
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means that we have
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to grasp these things
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and we have to usually
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end up saying them
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at the expense of others
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because if God wants me
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to let's say be more,
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you know,
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to be sexually faithful
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to my wife
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and I end up saying
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I don't want God,
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you're not my boss,
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I'm going to do,
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I'm the boss of my life
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and I end up doing something
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that not only offends
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against God
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but ends up damaging
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my wife and my family
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and my kids
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and the church
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and everybody, right?
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Because that's what happens.
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We're disordered with God
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and it means we end up
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being disordered
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with the creation.
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We're disordered
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around possessions
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and so it fuels
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raping the environment,
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it fuels rage
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against other nations
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and wars,
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it fuels class warfare,
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it fuels all these
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terrible things
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because our relationship
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with money and possessions
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is disordered
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and our relationship
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with God is disordered
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and it fuels this injustice
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that I have to prove
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that you are not my boss, God
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and when I end up
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acting that out,
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people are hurt
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and I am hurt as well.
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The same thing with sexuality.
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The biblical truth is
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that we aren't just
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some random collection
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of atoms
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and we now have to define
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and identify ourselves
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by our own terms
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but God has designed us
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for a purpose
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that fits,
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that has integrity
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and that while the initial words
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of the gospel
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and the Bible
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seem to be very hard,
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if we just always remember
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that everything that is said
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is said because Jesus loves you so much
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he died for you on the cross.
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He tasted death for you.
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He tasted judgment for you.
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He tasted God's wrath,
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just wrath for you.
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That you would be reordered
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as God designed you to be
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in a way that will bring him glory.
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So let's go back.
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I've spent almost the whole sermon
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just trying to get
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those three terms
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into you.
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Let's go back
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and see how
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what I've just been saying
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actually flows out
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of what the Bible says.
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Look at how it's structured.
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Actually,
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excuse me,
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we don't have it up on the text.
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This is the advantage
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of having your own Bible.
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If you look at verse 32,
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the last verse
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of chapter 4 of Ephesians,
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I'll read it to you
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if you don't have your Bibles.
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It says this,
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Be kind to one another,
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tender-hearted,
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forgiving one another,
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as God in Christ
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forgave you.
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And then you look at chapter 5,
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the very next word after it says,
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As God in Christ forgave you,
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therefore,
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therefore,
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be imitators of God.
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Right?
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To be gripped with the idea
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that God in Christ forgave you.
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Remember,
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God in Christ forgave you,
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therefore,
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be imitators of God
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as beloved children
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and walk in love.
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And walk in love.
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As Christ loved us
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and gave himself up for us,
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a fragrant offering
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and sacrifice to God.
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on one level,
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you want to know
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the entire understanding
-
of Christian moral teaching?
-
Walk in love.
-
Walk in love.
-
That's what Jesus says,
-
the two great commandments,
-
love the Lord your God
-
with all your heart,
-
mind, soul,
-
and love your neighbor
-
as yourself.
-
Walk in love.
-
It's said quite a few places
-
in the New Testament,
-
walk in love.
-
But notice here
-
how what the Bible
-
is talking about
-
is not unconditional love.
-
I don't know
-
if he invented the term,
-
but the one
-
who made the term
-
of unconditional love
-
very, very popular
-
is a man
-
by the name of Carl Rogers
-
who invented
-
a type of therapy
-
called Rogerian therapy.
-
Now,
-
I'm not saying
-
this next thing
-
because anything
-
an atheist says
-
is dumb
-
and it's not that.
-
Obviously,
-
that would be
-
a stupid thing
-
for anybody to say.
-
But it's very interesting
-
that Carl Rogers
-
who invented this term
-
of unconditional love
-
as well as other aspects
-
of his therapy
-
is also the fellow
-
who won the award
-
by the American Humanist Association
-
for the top atheist
-
in 1964.
-
And at the very,
-
very heart
-
of Rogers' endeavor
-
was that he wanted
-
to separate love
-
from a sense of morals.
-
That's what
-
unconditional means.
-
He wants to separate out
-
the idea of right and wrong,
-
the idea of just and unjust.
-
He wants to separate
-
all of that
-
so that all you have
-
is unconditional love
-
and unconditional positive regard.
-
But that is not a wise idea.
-
It's very interesting.
-
One of my favorite authors
-
is a man,
-
Reed,
-
I've had a temporal,
-
Reed Farrell Coleman.
-
And you might not remember it,
-
but several times
-
over the years
-
I've quoted parts
-
of his writings to you.
-
He's an atheist
-
and he's very,
-
very, very articulate
-
in his stories.
-
He often articulates
-
aspects of atheism
-
just so beautifully.
-
Occasionally,
-
I've quoted him to you.
-
I just finished reading
-
a novel of his.
-
And it's an interesting thing
-
because at the heart
-
of the novel
-
is that there's the opioid,
-
I can't pronounce
-
that word very well,
-
the opioid,
-
is that right?
-
Vaguely right?
-
Opioid addiction problem
-
in this community
-
where this fellow
-
is a police chief.
-
And somebody dies
-
as a result
-
of taking this chemical
-
laced with something
-
that kills them.
-
And he tries to figure it out
-
and he ends up discovering
-
that many of the,
-
both some of the poor people,
-
but many of the rich people,
-
that their daughters
-
or their sons,
-
have become addicted
-
to the opioid crisis.
-
And it's very interesting.
-
Remember,
-
the writer's an atheist, right?
-
And the way he,
-
what he does
-
is that he does it
-
very powerfully
-
in the context
-
of the narrative
-
to show that many
-
of the parents,
-
what they did is,
-
in a sense,
-
they showed unconditional love
-
to their daughter and son
-
and ignored their addiction
-
to the kids' great harm.
-
In fact,
-
the young woman
-
that launches the whole story,
-
her parents gave her
-
unconditional love
-
and turned their eye
-
and enabled her addiction,
-
which led to her death
-
by a drug overdose.
-
Remember,
-
the author's an atheist.
-
And as he's going
-
to try to figure this out,
-
he discovers
-
the different parents
-
who love their daughter
-
or their son,
-
but when they find out
-
about the addiction,
-
they take action.
-
If you have a loved one
-
and they're addicted
-
to an opioid
-
and you turn your eyes
-
and just unconditionally
-
love them
-
and don't confront them
-
so they will deal
-
with their addiction,
-
you are not loving your kid.
-
You are not loving your kid
-
or your husband
-
or your wife
-
or your grandparents
-
or your aunt
-
and your uncle.
-
You are not loving them.
-
And it's very powerfully
-
put in this novel
-
by an atheist.
-
You see,
-
the fact of the matter is
-
it's not loving
-
to ignore
-
all sorts of things
-
that are going on
-
in somebody's life
-
that are just bad.
-
You know,
-
if a wife discovers
-
that her husband
-
is going to strip shows,
-
she shouldn't
-
unconditionally love him.
-
She should kick him
-
in the butt
-
and say
-
it's unacceptable.
-
Occasionally,
-
I've had marriage counseling
-
with somebody
-
and at some point in time
-
it starts to dawn on me
-
that there's probably
-
physical abuse
-
going on
-
in the marriage.
-
And so I ask
-
the direct question
-
to the woman.
-
Is this guy hitting you?
-
Long, silent pause.
-
Husband sinks lower
-
in the seat.
-
Finally,
-
she says yes.
-
I don't show the man
-
unconditional love.
-
I say,
-
you gotta stop
-
hitting your wife.
-
Beginning of the story,
-
middle of the story,
-
end of the story.
-
Unacceptable.
-
And I say to her,
-
I will give you
-
every help I can
-
to make sure
-
he doesn't do it
-
and if you need to,
-
you leave him
-
because it's completely wrong.
-
And so what do we see here?
-
You see,
-
the thing is,
-
is God's love to you
-
is not unconditional.
-
It is unfailing.
-
And God's unfailing love,
-
he is also unfailingly good.
-
He is also unfailingly just.
-
He is unfailing.
-
He is unfailingly merciful.
-
He is unfailingly true.
-
And none of these things
-
are in conflict
-
with each other.
-
And so it is.
-
God doesn't look at us
-
in our condition
-
and say,
-
I'm just gonna
-
unconditionally love George
-
while he goes to hell.
-
I'm not gonna
-
unconditionally love George
-
while he gives me
-
the finger
-
and shakes his fist at me
-
and does wrong things
-
and is all massively
-
screwed up
-
about possessions
-
and money
-
and he's gonna get
-
more screwed up.
-
I'm just gonna
-
unconditionally love him.
-
No!
-
Look at it again.
-
Verse 32 of chapter 4,
-
As God and Christ
-
forgave you.
-
5.1
-
Therefore be imitators
-
of God
-
as beloved children
-
walk in love
-
as Christ loved us
-
and gave himself
-
up for us
-
a fragrant offering
-
and sacrifice
-
to God.
-
Unfailing love
-
pays a price
-
for the good
-
of the other person.
-
Clear eyed
-
about what is right
-
and wrong.
-
Clear eyed
-
about what is
-
destroying their lives.
-
God's love
-
is not unconditional.
-
It is unfailing.
-
It is pure.
-
And it is completely
-
and utterly
-
at one with justice
-
and mercy
-
and the good
-
and the true
-
and the right.
-
And that's what
-
we should aspire to.
-
That's what we should aspire to.
-
So in light of that,
-
let's look at the rest
-
of the text.
-
We'll go through it
-
very quickly.
-
Right?
-
Verse 2
-
And walk in love
-
as Christ loved us
-
and gave himself
-
up for us
-
a fragrant offering
-
and sacrifice
-
to God.
-
But sexual immorality
-
pornea
-
and all
-
telling
-
living your life
-
with this deep attitude
-
that God
-
is not your boss
-
and you have to grasp
-
your own position
-
and your own power
-
not trusting God
-
or not trusting
-
other human beings
-
to love you
-
or covetousness
-
a completely
-
and utterly
-
screwed up
-
relationship
-
with possessions
-
with positions
-
of authority
-
and with money
-
must not even
-
be named among you
-
as is proper
-
among saints
-
and saints here
-
just means
-
the ordinary
-
average Christian.
-
if you've given your life
-
to Jesus
-
you're a saint.
-
Let there be no
-
filthiness
-
nor foolish talk
-
nor crude joking
-
which are out of place
-
but instead
-
let there be thanksgiving.
-
I don't have time
-
to go into it
-
don't understand this
-
in class terms
-
as if it's talking
-
about refined people
-
in Rockcliffe
-
versus how
-
the guy
-
working the jackhammer
-
talks
-
this language
-
refers to both.
-
Okay?
-
This isn't
-
Rockcliffe people
-
I hope
-
I'm not insulting
-
if you live in Rockcliffe
-
I don't mean that way
-
but it's not
-
class-based
-
stuff.
-
Okay?
-
It's not class-based
-
but I don't have time
-
to go into it.
-
Verse 5
-
For you may be sure
-
of this
-
that everyone
-
who is porneia
-
or saying
-
God you're not my boss
-
or who is
-
covetous
-
that is
-
disordered around
-
possessions
-
money
-
and positions
-
of authority
-
that last problem
-
that's the problem
-
of idolatry.
-
They have no
-
inheritance
-
in the kingdom
-
of Christ
-
and God.
-
Let no one
-
deceive you
-
with empty words
-
for because
-
of these things
-
the wrath of God
-
comes upon the
-
sons of disobedience.
-
And by the way
-
you might not know this
-
but we used to be
-
part of the
-
Anglican Church of Canada
-
our congregation
-
is older than
-
the Diocese of Ottawa
-
and in 2008
-
this text is
-
perfectly expressing
-
why we believed
-
we had to separate
-
from the Diocese of Ottawa
-
because the Diocese of Ottawa
-
declared as a doctrine
-
that there is a way
-
of being sexually disordered
-
that is in fact
-
not sexually disordered
-
but is blessed
-
and is something
-
that people
-
should emulate
-
and the Bible
-
says it's the
-
complete opposite.
-
It's the complete opposite.
-
Verse 7
-
Therefore do not
-
become partners
-
with them
-
and partner
-
here means
-
it doesn't mean
-
that you shouldn't
-
work with people
-
like that
-
it doesn't mean
-
you shouldn't
-
have neighbors
-
like that
-
it means a deep
-
intimate sharing
-
of purpose
-
and direction
-
with them.
-
For at one time
-
verse 8
-
you were darkness
-
but now you are
-
light in the Lord
-
walk as children
-
of light
-
for the fruit
-
of light
-
is found
-
in all that is good
-
and right
-
and true.
-
In verse 10
-
and this is actually
-
not as good a translation
-
as it is
-
it actually says
-
not try to discern
-
the Bible
-
literally says
-
and discern
-
it implies
-
that you can grow
-
it implies
-
that God
-
is saying
-
I'm giving you
-
your Holy Spirit
-
this is going to happen
-
to you
-
you are going to
-
increase in discernment
-
and discern
-
what is pleasing
-
to the Lord
-
take no part
-
did I
-
oh
-
the next part
-
verse 11
-
sorry yeah
-
verse 11
-
take no part
-
in the unfruitful
-
works of darkness
-
but instead expose them
-
for it is shameful
-
even to speak
-
of the things
-
that they do
-
in secret
-
verse 13
-
but when anything
-
is exposed
-
by the light
-
it becomes visible
-
anything that becomes
-
visible is light
-
therefore it says
-
arise oh sleeper
-
and rise from the dead
-
and Christ
-
will shine on you
-
just a
-
couple of things
-
about this
-
it's a very very
-
compact language
-
here
-
one of the things
-
that we understand
-
is that light
-
and darkness
-
can't coexist
-
and once again
-
when the Bible
-
is describing
-
darkness
-
it's describing
-
the human condition
-
and what happens
-
is in a sense
-
what the Bible
-
is saying
-
is that you have
-
to understand
-
that every human
-
being is characterized
-
by a type of darkness
-
and all the darkness
-
in the world
-
will never create light
-
this is another
-
image of what
-
salvation is
-
that all the darkness
-
in the world
-
will never
-
create light
-
light
-
has to enter
-
darkness
-
from somewhere
-
other than darkness
-
light
-
is light itself
-
and light
-
enters darkness
-
darkness
-
will never
-
create light
-
and so
-
he's giving here
-
this
-
this
-
this simple
-
picture image
-
of what happens
-
and what it means
-
to be a Christian
-
George
-
there is no
-
there's nothing
-
in me
-
that is light
-
that comes
-
from me
-
and the only light
-
is that
-
uncreated light
-
of God
-
and God
-
the Son of God
-
and of the Holy Spirit
-
and that uncreated light
-
enters the darkness
-
and the darkness
-
has not understood it
-
it hasn't been able
-
to comprehend it
-
it hasn't been able
-
to defeat it
-
it hasn't been able
-
to overcome it
-
and all
-
who
-
allow
-
the light
-
to come
-
in them
-
are no longer
-
darkness
-
but are light
-
and the light
-
that I have
-
as a Christian
-
this isn't something
-
I can boast in
-
because the light
-
doesn't come
-
from me
-
it comes from
-
God
-
as a gift
-
of grace
-
and the light
-
that comes
-
to me
-
that's a gift
-
of grace
-
is something
-
that I reflect
-
but does not
-
emerge from me
-
and this language
-
of exposing
-
it's all very
-
technical language
-
if I had time
-
you could try
-
to unpack
-
all of the
-
different technical
-
language
-
but it's basically
-
just saying this
-
that what you do
-
is you share
-
with people
-
their darkness
-
not to depress
-
them
-
but the light
-
bringing the light
-
to them
-
is telling them
-
the gospel
-
and the purpose
-
of telling them
-
the gospel
-
is so they receive
-
the gospel
-
and become light
-
that's what he's saying
-
it's not a matter
-
of us versus them
-
it's not about
-
the fact that
-
I'm so good
-
and I've accomplished
-
all these things
-
and you just suck
-
not like that at all
-
you share the gospel
-
in the hope
-
that they receive it
-
and they become
-
light themselves
-
and the really
-
interesting thing
-
it's just like
-
a couple of chapters
-
ago
-
if you look
-
what Paul does
-
with these scripture
-
texts here
-
awake oh sleep
-
and arise from the dead
-
and Christ will shine
-
on you
-
it's a bit of a mash
-
of part of Isaiah
-
I can't remember
-
if it's 29 or 26
-
and Isaiah 60
-
but the interesting
-
thing is
-
what Paul has done
-
here is he's saying
-
I'm summarizing
-
most of Isaiah
-
with these two quotes
-
and the way the grammar
-
works
-
and it's because
-
God knew
-
what he was going
-
to do with Jesus
-
600 years
-
after Isaiah
-
was written
-
that he had
-
Isaiah written
-
that's what I'm saying
-
God knew
-
he was going to send
-
Jesus in 600 years
-
so he had Isaiah
-
written
-
and these two
-
bits of quotes
-
of Isaiah
-
summarizing a big part
-
of the whole message
-
of Isaiah
-
that's why he wrote
-
that 600 years ago
-
so people
-
would start to
-
understand and be
-
prepared
-
what it is
-
that Jesus
-
was going to do
-
for you
-
friends
-
there is nothing
-
special
-
about me
-
I am just
-
one beggar
-
born in darkness
-
who received
-
the light
-
who wants to
-
share with you
-
that there is
-
light
-
that can enter
-
your darkness
-
and make you
-
light in such
-
a way
-
that you begin
-
to become
-
more light
-
in your life
-
right now
-
but it is
-
but a small
-
and tiny
-
beginning
-
but the light
-
will never
-
leave you
-
and will prepare
-
you
-
for an eternal
-
weight
-
of glory
-
an eternal
-
weight
-
of glory
-
where we are
-
perfectly
-
ordered
-
by our loving
-
creator
-
and filled
-
with him
-
in light
-
for all
-
eternity
-
with no end
-
invite you to stand
-
if you're here
-
as a guest
-
or you've been
-
here for many
-
many many many
-
years
-
and things
-
just haven't
-
clicked
-
very very
-
simple
-
just say
-
father
-
there is a
-
darkness
-
in me
-
that cannot
-
be defeated
-
my attempts
-
to defeat
-
it are
-
darkness
-
itself
-
you have
-
sent
-
the true
-
light
-
into the
-
world
-
send
-
Jesus
-
the true
-
light
-
into my
-
life
-
that I
-
might be
-
yours
-
that I
-
might be
-
light
-
beginning
-
today
-
for all
-
eternity
-
and in
-
your own
-
words
-
say that
-
to God
-
and he
-
will say
-
yes
-
and for
-
the rest
-
of us
-
there's other
-
prayers we have
-
to pray
-
because we
-
all know
-
there's things
-
within us
-
which are
-
disordered
-
let's pray
-
father we
-
thank you
-
that you
-
saw our
-
disorder
-
you saw
-
how we
-
grasped at
-
possessions
-
and grasped
-
at money
-
and grasped
-
at positions
-
of authority
-
how we
-
grasp
-
in the
-
areas of
-
sexuality
-
how we
-
grasp
-
in terms
-
of maintaining
-
our integrity
-
and our
-
autonomy
-
and our
-
terms
-
at the
-
expense
-
of others
-
while waving
-
our fist
-
at you
-
father you
-
saw all
-
those things
-
and still
-
you loved
-
us
-
and sent
-
jesus
-
to die
-
upon the
-
cross
-
for us
-
the light
-
uncreated
-
light
-
uncreated
-
love
-
eternal
-
light
-
eternal
-
love
-
entered
-
our
-
dark
-
world
-
and died
-
in our
-
place
-
as an
-
act of
-
love
-
that we
-
when we
-
receive the
-
light
-
might be
-
yours
-
forever
-
might become
-
light
-
might become
-
a child
-
of light
-
father grip
-
us with
-
the
-
gospel
-
and father
-
as you
-
help us
-
to be
-
more
-
gripped
-
by the
-
gospel
-
continue
-
to help
-
us to
-
be filled
-
by the
-
holy
-
spirit
-
to walk
-
in love
-
and to
-
walk in
-
thankfulness
-
for all
-
that you
-
have done
-
father
-
you know
-
our
-
deepest
-
need
-
this
-
morning
-
the
-
deepest
-
disorder
-
of our
-
lives
-
right
-
this
-
morning
-
you know
-
the
-
unique
-
deepest
-
disorder
-
of each
-
one
-
who is
-
here
-
and we
-
ask
-
that
-
you
-
would
-
come
-
and bring
-
your
-
healing
-
authoritative
-
light
-
to bear
-
at each
-
of our
-
points
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of deepest
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disorder
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that you
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sovereignly
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know
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we invite
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you to
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do that
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we give
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you permission
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to do
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that
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we long
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for you
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to do
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that
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that we
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might be
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more like
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Jesus
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and all
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God's
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people said
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Amen