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  1. The scripture reading comes from 1 Thessalonians 2, starting in verse 1.

  2. Please follow along in your bulletin or Bible.

  3. For you yourself know, brothers, that our coming to you was not in vain.

  4. But though we had already suffered and been shamefully treated at Philippi, as you know,

  5. we had boldness in our God to declare to you the gospel of God in the midst of much conflict.

  6. For our appeal does not spring from error or impurity or any attempt to deceive.

  7. But just as we have been approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel,

  8. so we speak, not to please men, but to please God who tests our hearts.

  9. For we never came with words of flattery, as you know, nor with pretexts for greed.

  10. God is witness.

  11. Nor did we seek made demands as apostles of Christ.

  12. But we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother taking care of her own children.

  13. So being affectionately desirous of you, we were ready to share with you not only the gospel of God,

  14. but also our own self, because you had become very dear to us.

  15. For you remember, brothers, our labor and toil.

  16. We worked night and day that we might not be a burden to any of you.

  17. While we proclaim to you the gospel of God, you are witnesses and God also.

  18. How holy and righteous and blameless was our conduct toward you, believers.

  19. For you know how, like a father with his children.

  20. We exhorted each of you and encourage you and charge you to walk in a manner worthy of God,

  21. who calls you into his own kingdom and glory.

  22. And we also thank God constantly for this, that when you received the word of God, which you heard from us,

  23. you accepted it not as the word of men, but as what it really is, the word of God,

  24. which is at work in you, believers.

  25. For you, brothers, became imitators to the church of God and Christ Jesus that are in Judea.

  26. For you suffered the same things from your own countrymen as they did from the Jews,

  27. who killed both the Lord Jesus Christ and the prophets,

  28. and drove us out and displeased God and opposed all mankind

  29. by hindering us from speaking to the Gentiles that they might be saved,

  30. so as always to fill up the measure of their sins.

  31. But wrath has come upon them at last.

  32. This is the word of God.

  33. Great. Thank you, Jonah.

  34. Can I invite Al to come up this morning?

  35. One of the great things that being in the city of Hong Kong

  36. and being here amongst some of the other churches

  37. is there is a real sense of churches trying to work together.

  38. We have been so blessed by many churches ourselves,

  39. and we've been able to go and engage with other churches in the city.

  40. And one of the amazing things this morning is to have Al come to be with us from St. Andrews.

  41. Al is the Associate Minister of St. Andrews.

  42. We met, I can't remember when we met, a couple of years ago.

  43. I just had such an encouraging conversation.

  44. Al has just got a real heart for Christ and for his people

  45. and really shepherding people in his congregation there.

  46. And one of the things you need to know about Al is,

  47. apart from the fact that he has a wife, two kids, and one on the way,

  48. he's also spent a lot of time in South Africa,

  49. which growing up in South Africa, so that's okay.

  50. We're used to that, but we'll forgive you.

  51. We'll forgive you for that.

  52. But if you repent of that, that's okay.

  53. No problem.

  54. But Al's going to come and bring,

  55. he's graciously agreed to bring God's word to us this morning.

  56. So can I pray for you this morning?

  57. Father, I just want to thank you

  58. that where brothers dwell together in unity,

  59. there is your blessing.

  60. And I'll thank you that in this city,

  61. there is one church, and it's your church.

  62. And we are not part of our own little kingdoms,

  63. but it's your kingdom.

  64. And Lord, I thank you for Al coming this morning.

  65. I pray that you would speak to him, speak through him,

  66. and speak through him into our hearts,

  67. that we would hear your word,

  68. that we would be challenged and changed through him,

  69. and that we would learn to walk by faith

  70. and to be ministers of the gospel,

  71. as you call us to be.

  72. In Jesus' name, amen.

  73. Amen.

  74. Thank you so much, Chris.

  75. And as Chris has said,

  76. it's a real joy for me to be here with you this morning.

  77. It's great that we do have a network of churches

  78. that work together.

  79. I did spend quite some time in South Africa.

  80. I lived there until I was 15.

  81. But as you can tell,

  82. the accent has become a little bit British.

  83. So forgive me if I'm neither one thing or another thing.

  84. I'm going to suggest,

  85. if you could keep open your booklets,

  86. that would be great,

  87. because we'll be having a look at these verses over here.

  88. Over the recent years,

  89. I don't know if you've noticed,

  90. but there's been a lot of films about con artists,

  91. people who can con,

  92. who can talk their way into kind of any situation

  93. for their own benefit.

  94. So films like The Hustle,

  95. Inception,

  96. Parasite,

  97. Ocean's Eleven,

  98. and the remake,

  99. and all of the sequels.

  100. One film a bit like that,

  101. from a few years ago,

  102. is Catch Me If You Can.

  103. I don't know if you remember it.

  104. Tom Hanks,

  105. Leonardo DiCaprio.

  106. And DiCaprio was actually playing a real-life figure

  107. called Frank Abagnale,

  108. who was a notorious con artist from the 60s.

  109. So whilst he was still a teenager,

  110. he managed to convince people

  111. that he was a medical doctor,

  112. and actually practiced for several months.

  113. That's a bit scary.

  114. He also managed to pass the bar exam

  115. and conduct himself as a lawyer for several months.

  116. And he,

  117. as well as all of that,

  118. he convinced people

  119. that he was an aircraft pilot

  120. and took loads of flights,

  121. and at one stage,

  122. allegedly even took the controls

  123. of a passenger airplane

  124. full of people on board.

  125. Well, fortunately,

  126. he has repented of his ways.

  127. He doesn't con people anymore.

  128. He now tries to help firms

  129. to avoid being conned.

  130. But there is something about these con films

  131. that we rather like,

  132. don't we?

  133. We like hearing about con artists.

  134. We probably enjoy less actually meeting con artists,

  135. and it's not impossible

  136. that some of us have met con artists

  137. in the sort of wrong kind of situation.

  138. Now, in One Thessalonians,

  139. that is the allegation

  140. that is being charged against Paul.

  141. That's the background to the whole letter,

  142. in a way,

  143. that Paul is nothing more than a con artist.

  144. Now, we've been enjoying One Thessalonians

  145. at St. Andrews.

  146. We're just wrapping it up, actually, this Sunday.

  147. And so, I hope you don't mind

  148. me sharing a message from a few weeks ago.

  149. And you may remember from the Book of Acts

  150. the situation that Paul,

  151. as was often his situation,

  152. as often his practice,

  153. when he arrived in Thessalonica,

  154. he went to the synagogue there,

  155. and he preached for just three Sundays.

  156. And a few people became Christians.

  157. They accepted Christ.

  158. He planted a little fledgling church.

  159. But then,

  160. a mob was rounded up,

  161. and he had to leave town in a hurry,

  162. all of these angry people.

  163. And afterwards,

  164. they went to those young Christians,

  165. and they said,

  166. well, you can't believe Paul.

  167. Paul is nothing more than a trickster,

  168. a charlatan.

  169. He's nothing more than a con artist.

  170. And this gospel message of his,

  171. well, that's just empty words.

  172. That's just ideology.

  173. That's just a pack of lies.

  174. You don't believe that he actually cares about you.

  175. He's tramping all over the place,

  176. planting churches.

  177. It's one just,

  178. it's just one big ego trip for him.

  179. He's after fame,

  180. and he's after your money.

  181. I mean, look,

  182. he's left town in a hurry.

  183. He's got something to hide.

  184. That's the kind of allegations

  185. that were coming through.

  186. And if you read the letter through,

  187. it's so very clear.

  188. And so,

  189. Paul has to address these.

  190. And in chapter one,

  191. he firstly affirms the gospel

  192. and the faith of the Thessalonian church.

  193. He says,

  194. with this gospel message,

  195. it's not just empty words.

  196. No,

  197. it's God's power to transform you.

  198. And you yourselves

  199. are the evidence of that.

  200. Just see how you've changed.

  201. You've turned from worshipping idols

  202. to worship the Lord Jesus Christ

  203. and wait for him.

  204. Your lives are now marked

  205. by faith and hope and love.

  206. You've even accepted suffering.

  207. You bear all of the hallmarks

  208. of authenticity.

  209. That's chapter one.

  210. And now in chapter two,

  211. with what we're looking at today,

  212. Paul turns to himself

  213. and he says,

  214. and I bear all of the hallmarks

  215. of authenticity as well.

  216. Now,

  217. Paul isn't trying to boast here,

  218. big himself up.

  219. No,

  220. he's doing it

  221. for the sake of the Thessalonians.

  222. He knows that if they reject him,

  223. then chances are

  224. that in the end,

  225. they'll reject the gospel as well.

  226. And so what we have here

  227. is like a little portrait

  228. of faithful gospel ministry.

  229. Now,

  230. Paul isn't saying

  231. that he's perfect.

  232. In other places,

  233. he admits that he's not perfect.

  234. But he is saying

  235. that he ticks these boxes

  236. of basic faithfulness.

  237. And he wanted the Thessalonians

  238. to be able to discern

  239. what counted as faithful gospel ministry

  240. and what wasn't faithful gospel ministry.

  241. And as such,

  242. these verses are very helpful for us.

  243. You know,

  244. we're inundated

  245. by people who claim

  246. to be Christian leaders.

  247. If you go onto the internet,

  248. there's no end of people

  249. who want you to watch their video

  250. and read their blog

  251. and buy their book.

  252. And some of those teachers

  253. are excellent.

  254. And sadly,

  255. some of those teachers are not.

  256. And we need to be able

  257. to discern

  258. what's faithful teaching

  259. and what isn't.

  260. It's also very helpful

  261. for gospel ministers,

  262. this passage

  263. that we should reflect

  264. on our own ministry

  265. and to think,

  266. am I doing

  267. what the Bible says?

  268. But more than that,

  269. these marks,

  270. these things

  271. that Christian ministers

  272. are meant to do

  273. are for us all.

  274. You see,

  275. the Bible tells us

  276. that we're all the ministers.

  277. We're all the pastors

  278. in the church.

  279. Sadly,

  280. Kevin,

  281. your senior pastor,

  282. has been unwell.

  283. We've been praying for him.

  284. Praise the Lord

  285. that he's on the mend.

  286. But he's not

  287. the only pastor here.

  288. Nor is just Chris

  289. or Henrika

  290. or Jeremy

  291. or the rest of the staff team.

  292. No,

  293. the Bible says

  294. if we're a Christian,

  295. then we're all the pastors.

  296. We're all the ministers.

  297. And so we should all

  298. be doing these things.

  299. So whether we're

  300. in Sunday school

  301. or helping to lead

  302. a community group

  303. or whether we're a parent

  304. teaching our children

  305. or whether we're

  306. just one ordinary Christian

  307. trying to encourage

  308. another ordinary Christian,

  309. these are things

  310. that we should all do.

  311. All aspire to do.

  312. We won't do them perfectly

  313. but these are things

  314. that we should do.

  315. Now we're going to split

  316. our passage up into three.

  317. Forgive me,

  318. I am a kind of

  319. three-point sermon guy.

  320. So we've got

  321. three points this morning.

  322. I'm sorry about that.

  323. Three points.

  324. Firstly,

  325. right motives.

  326. Right motives.

  327. So have a look with me

  328. at verse one.

  329. Paul says,

  330. remember back

  331. to how we lived amongst you.

  332. And he uses this phrase

  333. again and again,

  334. you know.

  335. You know how we lived.

  336. Verse one.

  337. But you yourselves know,

  338. brothers,

  339. that our coming to you

  340. was not in vain.

  341. But though we had

  342. already suffered

  343. and been shamefully

  344. cheated at Philippi,

  345. as you know,

  346. we had boldness

  347. in our God

  348. to declare to you

  349. the gospel of God

  350. in the midst

  351. of much conflict.

  352. So he's saying,

  353. remember back

  354. to what happened.

  355. We arrived in your city

  356. and we'd just come

  357. from Philippi.

  358. In Philippi,

  359. Paul had preached

  360. the gospel

  361. and he'd been opposed.

  362. An angry crowd

  363. tried to take hold

  364. of him.

  365. The city officials,

  366. they arrested Paul

  367. but instead of protecting

  368. him from the crowd,

  369. they unlawfully beat him

  370. and threw him into prison.

  371. Eventually,

  372. he managed to extricate

  373. himself from prison

  374. but that didn't stop him.

  375. Then he went on

  376. to Thessalonica

  377. and he was opposed there.

  378. He had to leave

  379. in a hurry.

  380. Next,

  381. he went to Berea.

  382. Again,

  383. he was opposed

  384. and had to leave

  385. in a hurry.

  386. Then he went on

  387. to Athens.

  388. His message

  389. was mainly rejected.

  390. Eventually,

  391. he found himself

  392. in the city of Corinth

  393. where he was writing

  394. this letter from

  395. and he's saying,

  396. remember

  397. how our lives were.

  398. We weren't doing it

  399. for fame

  400. and glory

  401. and money.

  402. No,

  403. it was highly inconvenient

  404. for us

  405. sharing the gospel

  406. with you

  407. and that shows

  408. that our motives

  409. were right.

  410. See what he goes on

  411. to say

  412. in verses 3

  413. and 4.

  414. For our appeal

  415. does not spring

  416. from error

  417. or impurity

  418. or any attempt

  419. to deceive

  420. but just as we

  421. have been approved

  422. by God

  423. to be entrusted

  424. with the gospel

  425. so we speak

  426. not to please man

  427. but to please God

  428. who tests our hearts.

  429. For we never came

  430. with words of flattery

  431. as you know

  432. nor with a pretext

  433. for greed.

  434. God is our witness.

  435. He's saying,

  436. look,

  437. we never did any

  438. of that con artist stuff.

  439. We never used flattery

  440. to get into your good books.

  441. We never put on a mask

  442. to hide greed

  443. in our hearts

  444. because we were

  445. after your stuff.

  446. No,

  447. we weren't trying

  448. to please ourselves

  449. or to please others

  450. or even really firstly

  451. to please you.

  452. No,

  453. as custodians

  454. of the gospel

  455. firstly we were seeking

  456. to please the Lord

  457. not con artists.

  458. One of the most infamous

  459. con artists

  460. in the animal kingdom

  461. if you can call it that

  462. is the angler fish.

  463. I don't know

  464. if you know

  465. about angler fish.

  466. I'm at the stage

  467. where my oldest daughter

  468. is three years old

  469. so I'm always

  470. showing her pictures

  471. of animals and things

  472. and the angler fish

  473. is this rather grotesque fish

  474. that lives in the murky depths

  475. of the ocean

  476. where there's hardly

  477. any light at all

  478. and it's got this bulbous protrusion

  479. that comes off

  480. that someone's nodding.

  481. You know what I'm talking about

  482. at least.

  483. Or the top of its head

  484. which glows in the light

  485. and the little fish

  486. are attracted to this

  487. and they swim up to it

  488. and then it just swallows them

  489. with one big gulp.

  490. Fortunately,

  491. it's only this big

  492. so you don't have to worry

  493. too much about the angler fish

  494. but there's almost

  495. a sense in which

  496. some gospel ministers

  497. are sadly

  498. a bit like that.

  499. They're holding out

  500. the light of the gospel

  501. in a dark world

  502. and people are attracted

  503. to that

  504. but their intention

  505. all along

  506. is to exploit those people

  507. and so we hear about

  508. ministers

  509. who are after money.

  510. They're stolen

  511. from their church.

  512. They're paying themselves

  513. huge salaries.

  514. They've got luxury cars

  515. and private jets.

  516. Meanwhile,

  517. their congregation

  518. is impoverished

  519. after money

  520. or after fame.

  521. They've turned ministry

  522. into a vehicle

  523. for self-promotion.

  524. It's all about them

  525. and what they're doing

  526. and their latest CD

  527. and their latest book

  528. and Paul here

  529. is defending himself

  530. against that.

  531. He's saying,

  532. look,

  533. I really wasn't

  534. that kind of

  535. con artist

  536. Christian minister.

  537. I really wasn't.

  538. Just remember

  539. to how I lived amongst you.

  540. You know.

  541. It wasn't like that.

  542. It had the right motives.

  543. Right motives.

  544. And I think

  545. this reminder

  546. about having right motives

  547. in what we do

  548. is so important.

  549. It's so easy

  550. if you're anything like me.

  551. It's so easy

  552. to do what seems

  553. to be the right thing

  554. for the wrong reasons.

  555. Now,

  556. we'll never have

  557. perfect motivation

  558. because we have

  559. a sinful nature.

  560. We can't wait

  561. until our motives

  562. are perfect

  563. before we do something

  564. because otherwise

  565. we'll never do it.

  566. But we do need

  567. to work on our motivation

  568. and I need to be reminded

  569. that sometimes

  570. at church

  571. it's so easy

  572. first to be

  573. thinking about

  574. what other people

  575. think about

  576. what we're doing

  577. whether that's

  578. in the music team

  579. or whether we're

  580. serving in kids zone

  581. or Sunday school

  582. to be thinking

  583. about other people

  584. and to want

  585. their affirmation.

  586. It's not wrong

  587. to want to please others

  588. but we need to

  589. remind ourselves

  590. we're doing this

  591. firstly

  592. to serve the Lord

  593. to please Him.

  594. The same is true

  595. in evangelism.

  596. We know that we

  597. should be doing

  598. evangelism

  599. and it's possible

  600. to do that

  601. in a way

  602. to please ourselves

  603. just so that we

  604. get it off our conscience

  605. phew,

  606. I've told them

  607. I can rest now

  608. or to convince

  609. other people

  610. that we're keen

  611. other Christians

  612. can see that

  613. we're bringing

  614. our friends

  615. to church

  616. and that

  617. we're a keen

  618. Christian

  619. but we should be

  620. doing evangelism

  621. firstly to serve

  622. the Lord

  623. and to please Him.

  624. Equally wrong

  625. motivation

  626. can keep us

  627. from service.

  628. For instance

  629. if we firstly

  630. are thinking about

  631. serving our boss

  632. and getting ahead

  633. in our career

  634. then we might be

  635. quite reluctant

  636. to take on

  637. additional responsibility

  638. at church

  639. because it might

  640. get in the way

  641. or if we're seeking

  642. to please ourselves

  643. if someone asks us

  644. to take on a role

  645. on the welcome team

  646. or the AV

  647. we might think

  648. well this is quite

  649. menial and inconvenient

  650. I don't really want

  651. to do it.

  652. Well gospel ministry

  653. wasn't convenient

  654. for Paul

  655. but he was willing

  656. to do it

  657. because he had

  658. the right methods

  659. inspired through

  660. the gospel

  661. and what Jesus

  662. had done for him.

  663. Right methods

  664. and secondly

  665. right methods.

  666. So Paul says

  667. well I was an apostle

  668. and I could have

  669. made demands of you

  670. but I didn't live

  671. like that.

  672. Instead

  673. verse 7

  674. have a look with me

  675. he says

  676. but we were gentle

  677. among you

  678. like a nursing mother

  679. taking care

  680. of her own children

  681. so being affectionately

  682. desirous of you

  683. we were ready

  684. to share with you

  685. not only the gospel

  686. of God

  687. but also

  688. our own selves

  689. because you had

  690. become very dear

  691. to us.

  692. Well Paul is making

  693. an analogy here

  694. saying that he's

  695. like a mother

  696. and mothers

  697. I think are really

  698. the epitome of caring

  699. that's true isn't it

  700. and I see that

  701. very much first hand

  702. in my wife

  703. as Chris has said

  704. we've got

  705. a little girl

  706. who's three

  707. and one who's one

  708. and another little girl

  709. who's coming in October

  710. we're absolutely

  711. thrilled by that

  712. it is quite an

  713. exhausting phase

  714. of life

  715. and a lot of that

  716. falls on the mum

  717. now obviously

  718. dads have to do

  719. their part

  720. but there's some

  721. things that dads

  722. can't easily do

  723. and so the mums

  724. are the ones

  725. who end up doing

  726. a lot of it

  727. and they just keep

  728. on giving

  729. and giving

  730. and giving

  731. and I see that

  732. in my wife

  733. just the epitome

  734. of caring

  735. and Paul is making

  736. this comparison here

  737. now I don't think

  738. that we need

  739. to misunderstand him

  740. he isn't trying

  741. to claim motherhood

  742. for himself

  743. he's not trying

  744. to say that he

  745. understands all women

  746. he's just using

  747. an image

  748. that most people

  749. can understand

  750. and he's saying

  751. look we cared for you

  752. we didn't want

  753. to be a burden

  754. at all

  755. we weren't

  756. so often Paul

  757. would get a job

  758. as a tent maker

  759. or repairing tents

  760. and he's saying

  761. look remember

  762. how we lived

  763. amongst you

  764. during the day

  765. we were working hard

  766. repairing and making

  767. those tents

  768. and then in the evening

  769. we'd come

  770. and we'd tell you

  771. about Jesus

  772. and we'd do a bible study

  773. and we'd pray together

  774. and we'd be there

  775. late in the evening

  776. up in the early morning

  777. repairing those tents

  778. and all the while

  779. we were opposed

  780. and sometimes even

  781. fearing for our lives

  782. but through it all

  783. it was worth it

  784. because we really

  785. cared about you

  786. like a mother

  787. and also

  788. like a father

  789. see what he says

  790. in verse 11

  791. for you know

  792. how like a father

  793. with his children

  794. we exalted each of you

  795. and encouraged you

  796. and charged you

  797. to walk in a manner

  798. worthy of God

  799. who calls you

  800. into his own kingdom

  801. and glory

  802. now again

  803. I don't think

  804. Paul is trying to

  805. promote gender stereotypes

  806. he's just saying

  807. that in the average family

  808. so often

  809. the mother

  810. is a bit more gentle

  811. and the father

  812. is often

  813. but not always

  814. a bit more stern

  815. often in a helpful way

  816. and he's saying

  817. we were a bit like

  818. a dad to you

  819. we set you an example

  820. through our conduct

  821. through our speech

  822. and we wanted

  823. the best for you

  824. we didn't pander to you

  825. no we were willing

  826. to have that slightly

  827. more difficult conversation

  828. because we wanted you

  829. to really live

  830. for the Lord Jesus Christ

  831. there's a kind of honesty

  832. and straightforwardness

  833. gentleness

  834. on the one hand

  835. and honesty

  836. and straightforwardness

  837. and sometimes

  838. those things

  839. are lacking

  840. from Christian leadership

  841. there can be

  842. a lack of gentleness

  843. some Christian leaders

  844. are so determined

  845. in their zeal

  846. to build the kingdom

  847. that they become

  848. quite authoritarian

  849. and domineering

  850. in order to get things done

  851. and that might work

  852. in the short term

  853. but in the end

  854. it always leaves

  855. a trail of destruction

  856. and sadly

  857. over recent years

  858. there's been a number

  859. of high profile pastors

  860. who've had to step down

  861. from their ministry

  862. amongst allegations

  863. of bullying

  864. and abuse

  865. now that is

  866. absolutely scandalous

  867. a Christian leader

  868. should not be

  869. a bully

  870. Paul was not a bully

  871. Christian leaders

  872. should be gentle

  873. gentle

  874. but also

  875. honest

  876. and forthright

  877. some Christian leaders

  878. are so scared

  879. about upsetting anyone

  880. that they're not

  881. willing to say

  882. to anyone

  883. hey you're a Christian

  884. you shouldn't be

  885. doing those things

  886. but for Paul

  887. the gentleness

  888. and the forthrightness

  889. went hand in hand

  890. that's how it works

  891. for Christians

  892. gentleness

  893. and forthrightness

  894. go hand in hand

  895. Paul was willing

  896. to get emotionally

  897. involved in the lives

  898. of these individuals

  899. not a kind of

  900. professionalism

  901. keeping them

  902. at arm's length

  903. no he says

  904. we loved you so much

  905. that we were willing

  906. to share our lives

  907. our very selves

  908. getting emotionally

  909. involved

  910. now I think

  911. that's a big challenge

  912. for us here

  913. in Hong Kong

  914. getting emotionally

  915. involved

  916. you know

  917. we lived in a city

  918. that's just packed

  919. with people

  920. and so many of those

  921. people are stressed

  922. and angry

  923. and tired

  924. and don't have

  925. much energy

  926. and we're stressed

  927. and tired

  928. and without much energy

  929. and it's easy for us

  930. to say to ourselves

  931. well if I had more

  932. time and energy

  933. and more emotional

  934. resources

  935. then maybe I could help

  936. but I just

  937. don't have it in me

  938. to deal with

  939. all of the stuff

  940. that's going on

  941. in other people's

  942. lives at the moment

  943. but brothers and sisters

  944. the Christian way

  945. is to get involved

  946. to get emotionally

  947. involved in other

  948. people's lives

  949. now obviously

  950. we all have our limits

  951. in a larger congregation

  952. like this

  953. we can't get to know

  954. everyone

  955. which is why

  956. I think our

  957. small groups

  958. are so important

  959. and at St. Andrews

  960. we're always saying

  961. join

  962. we call them

  963. growth groups

  964. join a growth group

  965. join a growth group

  966. join a growth group

  967. because of course

  968. in these smaller groups

  969. we're able to

  970. study the Bible

  971. and pray

  972. but more than that

  973. to really get to

  974. know each other

  975. and support each other

  976. so that if we hear

  977. that someone in our

  978. community group

  979. is going through

  980. a rough patch

  981. well we pray for them

  982. but more than that

  983. we bring them up

  984. and we say

  985. hey how are you doing

  986. can I take you out

  987. for lunch

  988. can we go out

  989. for coffee

  990. what can I do

  991. to help you

  992. because we really can

  993. and if we hear

  994. that someone

  995. in our community group

  996. is maybe

  997. making a bad decision

  998. or fallen into

  999. some kind of sin

  1000. then we don't ignore it

  1001. we don't bulldoze

  1002. they know we're gentle

  1003. but we don't do

  1004. nothing at all

  1005. instead

  1006. we get in touch

  1007. with them

  1008. and we say

  1009. brother, sister

  1010. I care about you

  1011. very much

  1012. but these are the reasons

  1013. why I think

  1014. this may not be

  1015. the right course

  1016. of action

  1017. and these are the verses

  1018. in the Bible

  1019. that say that

  1020. maybe this is not

  1021. the right thing

  1022. to do

  1023. and we're willing

  1024. to have that conversation

  1025. and the potential pushback

  1026. that we might receive

  1027. in it

  1028. because we care

  1029. about that person

  1030. right motives

  1031. right methods

  1032. and finally

  1033. right message

  1034. well Paul is talking

  1035. about a gospel message

  1036. here

  1037. which is not his own

  1038. look with me

  1039. at verse 13

  1040. and we also

  1041. thank God

  1042. constantly for this

  1043. that when you received

  1044. the word of God

  1045. which you heard

  1046. from us

  1047. you accepted it

  1048. not as the word

  1049. of men

  1050. but as it really is

  1051. the word of God

  1052. which is at work

  1053. in you

  1054. believers

  1055. say

  1056. he repeats

  1057. word, word, word

  1058. it's not his word

  1059. it's the Lord's word

  1060. and it's a word

  1061. which is opposed

  1062. see what he says

  1063. in verse 14

  1064. for you brothers

  1065. became imitators

  1066. of the churches

  1067. of God

  1068. in Christ Jesus

  1069. that are in Judea

  1070. for you suffered

  1071. the same things

  1072. from your own countrymen

  1073. as they did

  1074. from the Jews

  1075. who killed

  1076. both the Lord Jesus

  1077. and the prophets

  1078. and drove us out

  1079. and displeased God

  1080. and opposed

  1081. all mankind

  1082. well Paul is making

  1083. the point here

  1084. that from beginning

  1085. to end

  1086. this message

  1087. was opposed

  1088. now he mentions

  1089. the Jews

  1090. not because he's

  1091. anti-semitic

  1092. of course

  1093. he's a Jew

  1094. himself

  1095. he has a deep

  1096. love for the Jewish

  1097. people

  1098. but he's making

  1099. this point

  1100. that from beginning

  1101. to end

  1102. this gospel message

  1103. was opposed

  1104. it was first

  1105. preached in Jerusalem

  1106. and there was

  1107. opposition

  1108. that message

  1109. spread all over

  1110. the place

  1111. and now even

  1112. in Thessalonica

  1113. there was opposition

  1114. even from their

  1115. own countrymen

  1116. that is what

  1117. the Thessalonians

  1118. had experienced

  1119. so opposition

  1120. and suffering

  1121. was intrinsic

  1122. is intrinsic

  1123. to the gospel message

  1124. and isn't that

  1125. what we see

  1126. in the Lord Jesus Christ

  1127. the Lord Jesus Christ

  1128. was opposed

  1129. the Lord Jesus Christ

  1130. suffered and died

  1131. when he bled

  1132. on the cross

  1133. in order to bring

  1134. God's love

  1135. into this broken world

  1136. in order that we might

  1137. receive his forgiveness

  1138. and if you're here

  1139. and you're still exploring

  1140. the Christian faith

  1141. then all you need to do

  1142. to receive God's forgiveness

  1143. for sins

  1144. that our shame

  1145. might be washed away

  1146. is to say

  1147. Lord Jesus

  1148. I'm trusting in you

  1149. I'm trusting in your

  1150. suffering

  1151. in my place

  1152. that's all we have to pray

  1153. and our sins

  1154. are washed away

  1155. but even as we

  1156. receive Christ

  1157. the Bible says

  1158. that we also need

  1159. to submit

  1160. to Christ's authority

  1161. that we need

  1162. to pick up

  1163. our cross daily

  1164. and that leads us

  1165. inevitably

  1166. into a path

  1167. of opposition

  1168. and even of suffering

  1169. but that aspect

  1170. of the gospel

  1171. is often deeply

  1172. unpopular today

  1173. and sometimes

  1174. people want to

  1175. minimize it

  1176. and even to deny it

  1177. so take for instance

  1178. two ways

  1179. in which that

  1180. sometimes happens

  1181. liberal theology

  1182. amongst other things

  1183. I think

  1184. liberal theology

  1185. often says

  1186. well you don't need

  1187. conflict in the Christian life

  1188. the main thing

  1189. is that we're a nice person

  1190. and that we get on

  1191. with everyone else

  1192. and don't worry too much

  1193. about doctrines

  1194. and the miracles

  1195. and other religions

  1196. and the resurrection

  1197. and things like that

  1198. it doesn't matter

  1199. exactly what you believe

  1200. so long as you're

  1201. a nice person

  1202. we don't need conflict

  1203. liberal theology

  1204. or another

  1205. another form of false teaching

  1206. is prosperity gospel

  1207. which in many ways

  1208. says we don't need

  1209. suffering in this world

  1210. that God loves this world

  1211. and he wants to bring

  1212. an end to pain

  1213. which is true

  1214. but that we can have that now

  1215. if we just believe

  1216. and trust

  1217. then he'll give us

  1218. healing

  1219. and he'll give us

  1220. health

  1221. and wealth

  1222. and self-actualization

  1223. and we can receive

  1224. all of our dreams now

  1225. we don't have to have

  1226. suffering

  1227. in this world

  1228. well those two forms

  1229. of teaching

  1230. are at variance

  1231. with the apostle Paul's

  1232. personal experience

  1233. and so clearly

  1234. with the verses

  1235. that we've been looking

  1236. at this morning

  1237. and it's important

  1238. that we as Christians

  1239. are able to discern that

  1240. you know sometimes

  1241. people come up to me

  1242. at St. Andrews

  1243. and they say

  1244. oh Pastor Al

  1245. I was watching YouTube

  1246. last week

  1247. and there was a brilliant

  1248. guy on that

  1249. and I watch him every week

  1250. and you should really

  1251. watch him too

  1252. you'll love him

  1253. and then they mention

  1254. the name of the person

  1255. and my heart sinks

  1256. because it's a well-known

  1257. prosperity gospel preacher

  1258. or liberal theologian

  1259. and just because

  1260. someone holds a bible

  1261. and smiles

  1262. and tells a few nice stories

  1263. and is emotionally engaging

  1264. doesn't make them faithful

  1265. we need to be able

  1266. to discern

  1267. what's faithful

  1268. ministry

  1269. and what's not

  1270. of course

  1271. I'm not talking

  1272. about watermark church

  1273. but the ministry

  1274. here is very faithful

  1275. I mean more

  1276. what's out there

  1277. on the internet

  1278. and in the books

  1279. that we read

  1280. now Paul was that

  1281. kind of faithful

  1282. minister

  1283. even through the

  1284. opposition

  1285. even through the

  1286. persecution

  1287. he went to Thessalonica

  1288. and the Lord

  1289. used him

  1290. to richly bless

  1291. those Christians

  1292. there

  1293. he told them about

  1294. Jesus

  1295. he led them to Christ

  1296. he nurtured them

  1297. he discipled them

  1298. he wrote to them

  1299. he prayed for them

  1300. he sent other Christians

  1301. to look after them

  1302. and it was a wonderful

  1303. thing

  1304. now we haven't had

  1305. the privilege

  1306. of being led to Christ

  1307. by an apostle

  1308. but if you're a Christian

  1309. here today

  1310. then the Lord

  1311. would have used

  1312. someone in your life

  1313. in order to richly

  1314. bless you

  1315. and I want to ask

  1316. who is that person

  1317. and who are those people

  1318. just think back

  1319. I can think of many people

  1320. in my life

  1321. like that

  1322. take for instance

  1323. a few

  1324. just to mention

  1325. take for instance

  1326. my parents

  1327. my parents

  1328. would describe themselves

  1329. as ordinary people

  1330. and ordinary Christians

  1331. but every single Sunday

  1332. they went to church

  1333. and every single morning

  1334. they got up a little bit early

  1335. in order to read the Bible

  1336. and pray

  1337. and as a young person

  1338. that made an enormous

  1339. impact on me

  1340. or take for instance

  1341. my youth group

  1342. when we immigrated

  1343. from South Africa

  1344. to the UK

  1345. I was a confused

  1346. Christian teenager

  1347. trying to figure out

  1348. what it meant to be a Christian

  1349. in a foreign culture

  1350. and having a youth group

  1351. to journey alongside me

  1352. was profoundly helpful

  1353. during that time

  1354. or when I was at university

  1355. I arrived at university

  1356. not really sure

  1357. what I wanted to do

  1358. with my life

  1359. and it was really

  1360. really really helpful

  1361. when an older Christian

  1362. from the local church

  1363. met up with me

  1364. for about six months

  1365. in order to read the Bible

  1366. and pray

  1367. and that started to change

  1368. the whole trajectory

  1369. of my life

  1370. as I began to think

  1371. more seriously

  1372. about Christian ministry

  1373. now my hunch is

  1374. that you probably

  1375. have people like that

  1376. in your life as well

  1377. everyday people

  1378. ordinary people

  1379. broken people

  1380. sinful people

  1381. but people who

  1382. nevertheless

  1383. the Lord has used

  1384. to bless you

  1385. richly

  1386. and I think

  1387. part of the challenge

  1388. of this passage

  1389. is whether we're willing

  1390. to be that kind

  1391. of person

  1392. to the people

  1393. whom God

  1394. has put in our lives

  1395. and to the people

  1396. whom God

  1397. has put in the room

  1398. around us

  1399. and we might feel

  1400. like we don't have

  1401. much time

  1402. or that we don't

  1403. have much experience

  1404. or that we're the wrong

  1405. kind of character

  1406. remember the apostle Paul

  1407. he was completely

  1408. the wrong kind

  1409. of character

  1410. and the Lord

  1411. turned his life around

  1412. and used him

  1413. to richly bless others

  1414. the Lord can use you

  1415. to richly bless others

  1416. and what we see

  1417. in this passage

  1418. is a little portrait

  1419. of how we go

  1420. about doing that

  1421. right motives

  1422. not seeking to

  1423. please others first

  1424. but seeking to

  1425. please the Lord

  1426. right methods

  1427. being gentle

  1428. but also honest

  1429. right methods

  1430. sticking faithfully

  1431. to that good news

  1432. of Jesus Christ

  1433. despite opposition

  1434. and suffering

  1435. let's pray

  1436. heavenly father

  1437. thank you so much

  1438. for your rich goodness

  1439. to us

  1440. in the Lord Jesus Christ

  1441. thank you

  1442. that he suffered

  1443. and died

  1444. that we might have

  1445. forgiveness

  1446. a new life

  1447. and renewal

  1448. and thank you

  1449. that you bring

  1450. that renewal

  1451. through everyday

  1452. ordinary broken people

  1453. thank you

  1454. for the example

  1455. of the apostle Paul

  1456. and the way

  1457. that you used him

  1458. to bless that church

  1459. in Thessalonica

  1460. thank you

  1461. for the ways

  1462. in which you've used

  1463. people in our lives

  1464. to bless us

  1465. and strengthen us

  1466. in our walk

  1467. and help us

  1468. we pray

  1469. and show us

  1470. how we can do that

  1471. and be used by you

  1472. to bless others

  1473. Amen