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Anxiety?

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  1. Father, you know the different things in our hearts, in our minds, in our wills that we are anxious about.

  2. You know if we sort of have a bit of a relief from anxiety right now because we're together,

  3. or if being together has caused more anxiety.

  4. Father, you know what's going on.

  5. And you know how hard it is sometimes, Father, for us to bring these things to you in prayer.

  6. We ask, Father, that the Holy Spirit would move very powerfully in each one of our lives

  7. and bring your word home to us in a very real and personal way.

  8. Bring Jesus more real to us and what he's accomplished for us on the cross.

  9. Make that more real to us.

  10. And we ask this in the name of Jesus, your Son and our Savior. Amen.

  11. Please be seated.

  12. Amen.

  13. We might be one of the first churches to have offered services this week just for a variety of reasons.

  14. We were one of the last churches to actually have a church service as well on the 15th of March.

  15. I don't know how many of you were there for that, but it's good to see you here this morning.

  16. One of the things you can just do for us in the weeks to come is pray that the Lord will help us have wisdom

  17. about how to manage the different things that have to be managed as we just go through this,

  18. the different regulations and all.

  19. I don't know if you can notice, but it's sort of actually really interesting.

  20. This is the stage which was here on the 15th of March because the Ottawa Little Theatre was closed.

  21. So all the posters are about dead, death, actually.

  22. So it's sort of very interesting.

  23. As you're looking at this and you're looking at me,

  24. it's the dark garden, cold secrets, west of death, one last look, five down.

  25. The other thing about this, if you're a guest, this is actually a very classic Anglican setup

  26. because just behind me are bottles of alcohol and a library.

  27. And on one level, nothing says Anglican as much as a library and alcohol while you read the Bible.

  28. So those of you who are just listening to this as an audio,

  29. you just have to imagine that's the stage set up, posters about death,

  30. maker's mark, and books, and the Bible.

  31. Those of you who know me know that I don't do seeker-sensitive things very well.

  32. We don't talk about Mother's Day on Mother's Day.

  33. We don't talk about Father's Day.

  34. If you're going to come here next week for Father's Day,

  35. I'm not going to talk about Father's Day.

  36. I'll just say Happy Father's Day.

  37. That will be about it.

  38. But believe it or not, we're going to talk about anxiety this morning.

  39. And that's just because we're going through the book of Philippians

  40. and we're going to look at a text which is all about anxiety.

  41. And if you're here as a guest or if you're listening to this later on through a podcast

  42. and you don't know much about Christians,

  43. you should know that Christians are very conflicted about anxiety

  44. and they're very conflicted about the biblical teaching on anxiety.

  45. And in fact, ironically, the biblical text like we're going to look at today

  46. often makes Christians more anxious rather than less anxious.

  47. Because if you're listening to Matt read the text,

  48. it sounds as if the Bible is forbidding you to be anxious,

  49. which in an odd way, if that was actually what the Bible was saying,

  50. if you feel anxious and then the Bible says you shouldn't feel anxious,

  51. it would make you more anxious.

  52. So we're going to look at that.

  53. What does the Bible say about anxiety?

  54. You know, some of you maybe are anxious because we're here today.

  55. A bit uneasy about what it's like to be with other people.

  56. And anyway, there's lots of anxiety.

  57. So let's look.

  58. It's Philippians chapter 4, verses 1 to 7.

    Philippians 4:1–7

  59. Philippians chapter 4, verses 1 to 7.

    Philippians 4:1–7

  60. And there's like four or five different topics in these seven little verses that we're going to look at.

  61. There's four or five different topics, any one of which I could make as a sermon.

  62. I don't have that much time to do them all.

  63. And I'm just going to read the text.

  64. But we're really just going to look at two and a half verses.

  65. And I'm going to say it over and over and over again because I want us to really sort of camp and memorize it.

  66. I just don't have time to deal with the other issues.

  67. So look, this is how it begins.

  68. Therefore, my brothers and sisters whom I love and long for, my joy and crown,

  69. stand firm thus in the Lord, my beloved.

  70. And we could talk a little bit about standing firm in the Lord and what it means that Paul talks about them as the beloved.

  71. And it's sort of bringing to a close the stuff that's gone on in the previous three chapters

  72. and entering us into sort of some of the more practical type of exhortations and encouragement that the letter is going to begin.

  73. And then it talks about something which is always relevant,

  74. which is Bill Hybels famously said that whenever two or more are together, there is friction.

  75. And we know that's true in churches.

  76. We know it's true in families.

  77. And we know it's in friendship.

  78. And so the very next part addresses it in a little bit.

  79. And we won't really.

  80. I'll just read it.

  81. Verse two.

  82. I entreat Iodia and I entreat Syntyche to agree in the Lord.

  83. Yes, I ask you also, true companion,

  84. help these women who have labored side by side with me in the gospel,

  85. together with Clement and the rest of my fellow workers,

  86. whose names are in the book of life.

  87. And we could talk about conflict and what it means to have a same mind

  88. and what it means to sort of deal with each other,

  89. knowing that we're all written equally in the book of life.

  90. If you think about a conflict right now,

  91. and then you have to think about the fact that you're going to spend eternity with that person,

  92. then maybe you should be trying to deal with it.

  93. And we could talk about that.

  94. We don't because there's other things to do.

  95. And look at the next thing.

  96. A great thing to preach about, but I don't have time.

  97. Verse four.

  98. Rejoice in the Lord always.

  99. Again, I will say rejoice.

  100. Rejoice.

  101. We could talk about that.

  102. This exhortation to rejoice.

  103. I don't have time.

  104. Next bit also, really good stuff, worth meditating upon.

  105. The very next verse, verse five.

  106. It goes, let your reasonableness.

  107. And some of your Bible translations say gentleness.

  108. And some of your Bible translations say forbearance.

  109. And the original language, if you triangulate this idea of forbearance, reasonableness, and gentleness,

  110. it's the three words together sort of encapture this virtue that the Bible says that you should try to pursue.

  111. What does it go again?

  112. It goes, let your reasonableness, forbearance, gentleness be known to everyone.

  113. And that would be a really good thing to talk about because we all need those things.

  114. But we're going to talk about anxiety.

  115. And so verses five, B, six, and seven, a very famous text in the Bible.

  116. And if all that comes out of this sermon is that you desire to memorize this passage of Scripture and meditate upon it,

  117. then I've done a good job.

  118. And in fact, those of you who like to have sermon points, there's no sermon points this morning.

  119. And the reason there's no sermon points is if you all went home and remembered my pithy little saying

  120. and didn't remember the Bible, I failed.

  121. I want you to remember the Bible because that's God's word written

  122. rather than just I come up with a pithy little saying, you know,

  123. that tickles your ears or something like that.

  124. So what is it that the Bible says?

  125. And those of you who listen to it, you'll hear how it is that this verse is often intimidated and depressed Christians.

  126. It doesn't sound wise.

  127. But I'm going to suggest that if you think about the text,

  128. it ends up being extremely wise and very practical.

  129. Here's how it goes.

  130. The Lord is at hand.

  131. Do not be anxious about anything,

  132. but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving,

  133. let your requests be made known to God.

  134. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding,

  135. will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

  136. And just some of you notice this.

  137. It does look almost as if Jesus is saying,

  138. or the Bible is saying one of two things.

  139. It looks almost as if it's saying the Christian shouldn't be anxious.

  140. And the other thing is it almost talks about,

  141. well, maybe you begin like you're a bad Christian like me,

  142. but after you become a better Christian,

  143. you'll be less anxious because the peace of God is going to guard your heart.

  144. And that's just how that normally goes.

  145. And let's read the text again,

  146. and then let's just unpack it a bit.

  147. So is the Bible saying that Christians shouldn't be anxious?

  148. Simple answer, no.

  149. It's not saying that.

  150. If you look at it, it's a big but.

  151. I know I love saying that.

  152. There's a lot of big buts in the Bible.

  153. Let's put it that way.

  154. That's a good thing to get tattooed, I guess, on your arm.

  155. I like the big buts of the Bible.

  156. And this is a big but.

  157. It's not saying that you should never be anxious.

  158. It's talking about where you go with your anxiety.

  159. That's what's going on.

  160. Right?

  161. It's saying the Lord is at hand,

  162. which we're going to get back to in a moment.

  163. Do not be anxious about anything.

  164. But in everything.

  165. So it's anything and everything.

  166. It's saying, you know, it doesn't matter if you're anxious just because,

  167. I don't know, you can't remember your PIN number for your bank machine.

  168. Or it's just something because somebody didn't greet you the right way in church

  169. and now you're getting anxious about it.

  170. Or you just got a cancer diagnosis, a really big thing.

  171. Or you're unemployed and you're maxed out on your credit card.

  172. Those are big things to be anxious about.

  173. Or you're moving.

  174. That's a big thing to be anxious about.

  175. But it's saying, for everything, the smallest thing,

  176. that if you even shared it with your best friend,

  177. they'd go, really?

  178. You're anxious about that?

  179. Like you're too caught up with being a mature adult

  180. to actually want to acknowledge that you're anxious about something so small?

  181. Or something that everybody would recognize, obviously,

  182. is a matter that would cause anxiety.

  183. The big getting a cancer diagnosis.

  184. Something like that.

  185. Like a serious, serious, serious.

  186. I mean, they're all serious.

  187. But it's saying, what do you do with your anxiety?

  188. Because here's the thing.

  189. You can't be human without being anxious.

  190. You cannot be human without being anxious.

  191. And the Bible doesn't tell you to stop being human.

  192. The Bible addresses human realities at the deepest level

  193. in the context of the fact that the triune God actually exists.

  194. And so the Bible is unfailingly realistic

  195. in a way that is compassionate and just and merciful

  196. as it tries to get us to understand who we are as human beings

  197. in a world where the triune God really exists.

  198. And the fact of the matter is, if you think about it for a second,

  199. every human being is an unending torrent of needs.

  200. Every human being is an unending torrent of needs.

  201. If you talk to my friend Jason at the back,

  202. he would talk about, tell you that human beings are contingent,

  203. which is a $153 word, which means we depend on something else.

  204. We depended upon our mother and father for us to be born.

  205. We depended upon our mom to keep us in the womb.

  206. We depended upon our parents to carry us.

  207. We learned language from other people.

  208. We're dependent upon the ozone layer.

  209. We're dependent upon gravity.

  210. Like, we are one, we want to pretend that we're gods,

  211. but we are one unending torrent of needs that will continue until we die.

  212. And if we are an unending torrent of needs,

  213. we will experience anxiety.

  214. What will it be like in the new heaven and the new earth?

  215. Well, that's a whole other thing that we can't talk about

  216. because the Bible doesn't reveal what it will be like

  217. to be in redeemed bodies in a redeemed relationship with God,

  218. the triune God.

  219. But right now we are an unending torrent of needs,

  220. so we will always be anxious.

  221. So the Bible isn't saying if you follow Jesus enough,

  222. you will turn into an angel.

  223. No.

  224. What the Bible does is it helps you to understand

  225. and become more human.

  226. And so there will always be anxiety.

  227. The question is, where do you go with your anxiety?

  228. What do you do with your anxiety?

  229. And that's a big human problem.

  230. It's part of the human experience as to how you deal with anxiety.

  231. For a lot of people, once anxiety gets to a certain level,

  232. they take the Jack Daniels method of dealing with their anxiety

  233. or they go and get some legal marijuana

  234. to help them to deal with their anxiety.

  235. In our culture, it's very common now

  236. to go towards learning a certain meditation technique

  237. from some type of Hinduism or Buddhism

  238. or to learn some type of yoga technique

  239. from some type of Hinduism from Hinduism

  240. or to practice Buddhist mindfulness

  241. as a way of dealing with the anxiety

  242. and the stress that we have in our lives.

  243. But one of the things which is common

  244. to all of those types of things

  245. is that all they do

  246. is they just either numb you

  247. to the anxiety you're feeling,

  248. which is what Jack Daniels does,

  249. or if it's not Jack Daniels, it's shopping

  250. or, I don't know,

  251. some type of adrenaline junkie type of thing.

  252. But it either just numbs you

  253. or helps you to have a bit of a break from it,

  254. but that which causes the anxiety

  255. was there when you began the meditation

  256. and it's still there when you ended it.

  257. And you actually aren't dealing with the anxiety.

  258. You're just taking a break from it.

  259. I don't know if bookstores are open yet,

  260. but once the bookstores are open,

  261. you can go to the Indigo bookstore

  262. and you can see a completely different way

  263. of trying to handle anxiety,

  264. which is the secular method,

  265. often mixed with different spiritual things.

  266. There's a huge section of books,

  267. self-help books,

  268. to basically tell you

  269. how to manage your emotions,

  270. how to manage your job,

  271. how to manage your spouse,

  272. how to manage your kids,

  273. how to manage your money,

  274. how to manage this

  275. and how to manage that

  276. and how to manage this.

  277. It's all ways to try to think through

  278. how we can stop feeling anxiety

  279. and handle it.

  280. And here's two truths

  281. about all those books.

  282. One is, none of them work.

  283. Because if they worked,

  284. there'd only be one book.

  285. And we'd all read it.

  286. Right?

  287. And the other thing about them

  288. is if you read those books like I have,

  289. what do they do?

  290. They almost always,

  291. after the first week,

  292. make you feel more anxious,

  293. not less.

  294. Because you know what?

  295. The author seems to be able to do this.

  296. Why can't I?

  297. Like, what's wrong with me?

  298. And now you have 53 new things

  299. to be anxious and down on yourself about

  300. than you had before

  301. because you can't manage the secret.

  302. You can't manage the process.

  303. No, I'm not saying that you can't learn

  304. certain things that help.

  305. I'm not saying that there's better ways

  306. or worse ways to handle certain situations.

  307. I'm not saying that.

  308. I'm just saying,

  309. the fact of the matter is,

  310. is that we will always have anxiety in our lives.

  311. And the Bible isn't saying

  312. never be anxious.

  313. It's saying,

  314. listen,

  315. all the different things you're anxious,

  316. how do you deal with it?

  317. What does it say?

  318. Listen to what the text says again.

  319. And this whole thing,

  320. it's very, very wise.

  321. This is why it's so wise

  322. to try to memorize this text.

  323. Listen to it.

  324. The Lord is at hand.

  325. Do not be anxious about anything,

  326. but in everything,

  327. by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving,

  328. let your requests be made known to God.

  329. And the peace of God,

  330. which surpasses all understanding,

  331. will guard your hearts and your minds

  332. in Christ Jesus.

  333. So where do you go with your anxiety,

  334. whether it's a small thing or a big thing?

  335. You bring it to Jesus.

  336. You remember that the Lord is near.

  337. You bring it to Jesus.

  338. The smallest thing,

  339. the biggest things,

  340. you bring it to Jesus,

  341. you bring it to other Christians

  342. who can pray about it for you as well.

  343. And in a sense,

  344. the text is reminding you

  345. that it's not just that you can pray about this issue,

  346. and I'm going to talk about this more in a moment,

  347. but that you don't have to face it alone

  348. if you're a Christian.

  349. Like Jesus is with me.

  350. I'm anxious because I've had a breakdown

  351. in a relationship with a person

  352. I don't know how to deal with it.

  353. I don't have to deal with it by myself.

  354. Jesus is near.

  355. And who is he?

  356. He's not just Jesus.

  357. He's the Lord.

  358. The Lord is near.

  359. And the Lord is near to them as well.

  360. So you can pray about it,

  361. and there's this remembrance,

  362. this reminding,

  363. remember the Lord is near.

  364. Remember the Lord is near.

  365. Remember the Lord is near.

  366. Have you remembered that the Lord is near?

  367. But some of you might say,

  368. George, though,

  369. doesn't it talk about this,

  370. the peace that surpasses all understanding?

  371. Doesn't that sort of imply,

  372. because I've talked to lots of Christians,

  373. by the way,

  374. who said I used to be very anxious,

  375. but now I know this peace of God.

  376. I don't feel anxiety anymore.

  377. And I've heard testimonies about that.

  378. I've had all sorts of people

  379. say things like that to me over the years.

  380. I no longer feel anxious like I do.

  381. George, you know,

  382. if you really let go and let God,

  383. if you really just are fully surrendered

  384. to the Holy Spirit,

  385. if you really are motivated

  386. in your spiritual disciplines,

  387. if you're really just following Jesus,

  388. you'll have this peace

  389. that surpasses all understanding,

  390. which means that you'll no longer be anxious.

  391. And we listen to these things,

  392. and we want to listen to these things,

  393. because on one level,

  394. we want to actually wish

  395. that there's the day will come

  396. when we're no longer anxious.

  397. Just before I say something about this,

  398. you know one of the things

  399. which is at the heart of this?

  400. Bit of a time out here.

  401. What motivates our desire

  402. to read self-help books

  403. to think that we can learn

  404. some type of method

  405. or set of techniques

  406. by which we will no longer be anxious?

  407. What is it that makes Christians

  408. wish they can,

  409. believe that they can listen

  410. to a testimony

  411. about being fully surrendered

  412. to Jesus

  413. or fully surrendered

  414. to the Holy Spirit

  415. or fully committed

  416. to the Rosary

  417. or fully committed

  418. to Bible memorizing

  419. or whatever it is,

  420. it will mean you no longer

  421. are going to be anxious.

  422. It's actually appealing

  423. to our desire to be God.

  424. It's actually appealing

  425. to our desire to be God.

  426. to refuse to acknowledge

  427. that I am an unending torrent

  428. of needs.

  429. And if I was just

  430. an unending torrent of needs,

  431. that can be depressing,

  432. but the Father and the Son

  433. and the Holy Spirit,

  434. they don't need,

  435. God doesn't need me,

  436. but He loves me,

  437. not with a need love,

  438. but a gift love.

  439. I am an unending torrent of needs

  440. and the triune God

  441. is an unending fount

  442. of blessing and goodness.

  443. But go back to these Christians

  444. who say these things.

  445. I have one word to say to them.

  446. I don't say it to their face.

  447. Inwardly, I say this.

  448. You are in denial.

  449. I don't think you're so holy.

  450. I'm a bad person.

  451. I'm sorry.

  452. I don't want to encourage you

  453. to be...

  454. But the fact of the matter is

  455. that's not true.

  456. I'm going to describe the three reasons

  457. why that's not possibly true.

  458. The first one is that

  459. there's four.

  460. One I've already talked about.

  461. You're in an ending torrent of needs.

  462. So that means there's going to be

  463. anxiety there.

  464. And so people who say...

  465. Christians who say

  466. they're so surrendered

  467. to the Holy Spirit

  468. that they're never anxious anymore,

  469. I say to them,

  470. you are in denial.

  471. How do I know they're in denial?

  472. Because I'm Exhibit A.

  473. Some of you have heard

  474. this story before

  475. and after the service,

  476. we have a doctor in the room.

  477. Maybe he can remind me

  478. what my condition is.

  479. But I...

  480. I...

  481. I...

  482. Quite a few years ago,

  483. I had a racing...

  484. I keep wanting to put my heart here,

  485. which shows how much I know

  486. about medicine.

  487. The heart's closer to this side.

  488. And I had a problem

  489. of racing heart.

  490. My heart was just racing.

  491. And at the same time,

  492. it felt sometimes

  493. as if my heart was pounding

  494. or the odd pound,

  495. almost as if it was going

  496. to pound out of my chest.

  497. And sometimes it would feel

  498. as if I was missing...

  499. My heart would skip a beat.

  500. Now, I was a typical guy.

  501. I still am a typical guy.

  502. So I did what all typical men do.

  503. Don't tell anybody about it,

  504. which is not the right way

  505. to ever handle it.

  506. So eventually,

  507. I got so worried about it

  508. that I told my wife.

  509. And my wife did

  510. the typical wife thing.

  511. Why haven't you gone

  512. to a doctor about this yet?

  513. Oh, yeah.

  514. There's doctors.

  515. That's when you're supposed to go.

  516. So I went to the doctor.

  517. I was misdiagnosed

  518. and all at first

  519. as if I had a very serious

  520. heart condition

  521. and valve problems

  522. and all this other

  523. really depressing stuff,

  524. which just made my heart

  525. go way worse.

  526. And I finally went

  527. to the Ottawa Heart Institute.

  528. They did a whole barrage

  529. of tests on me.

  530. At the end of it,

  531. he said,

  532. you have this condition.

  533. He gave me the long name.

  534. He said,

  535. you have a condition

  536. when you have too much stress

  537. in your life,

  538. you're going to have

  539. these heart symptoms.

  540. You're young and healthy

  541. and strong.

  542. You don't need drugs.

  543. And I was at the time

  544. I was in a rural church.

  545. He said,

  546. next time you start to have this,

  547. you need to take two weeks off

  548. and go fishing.

  549. That's the solution.

  550. Or you need to go

  551. talk to somebody.

  552. You have too much stress

  553. in your life

  554. and it's showing up

  555. in your body

  556. and you're not handling it right.

  557. And you know what?

  558. I would have said

  559. that I had the peace of Jesus

  560. and wasn't anxious.

  561. It was a huge wake-up call

  562. to me that I

  563. was either not recognizing

  564. my anxiety

  565. or I was numbing

  566. my anxiety

  567. in ways that definitely

  568. were not healthy.

  569. So here's the thing.

  570. One of the reasons

  571. that Christians can say

  572. that they now have

  573. the peace of Jesus

  574. and all of that

  575. and that they no longer

  576. feel anxiety,

  577. sometimes when they say that,

  578. if you're saying that,

  579. it means you're in denial

  580. probably.

  581. There's two other reasons.

  582. One other reason in particular.

  583. And I don't mean

  584. to offend you.

  585. One of the ways

  586. to reduce anxiety

  587. in your life

  588. is to stop doing

  589. hard things for Jesus.

  590. By the way,

  591. that's not a point

  592. to do something.

  593. I'm just telling you

  594. that's what happens.

  595. You know,

  596. so the Holy Spirit

  597. starts to whisper to me

  598. that I should share

  599. the gospel

  600. at some point in time

  601. with the fellow

  602. that I've become friends

  603. with who's gay

  604. and I start to think

  605. maybe I should share

  606. the gospel with them

  607. and I can feel

  608. the Holy Spirit

  609. pressing me on

  610. and say,

  611. no,

  612. I'm not going to do

  613. something like that.

  614. Well,

  615. that's an easy way

  616. to reduce your tension

  617. and anxiety in your life.

  618. Or you're working

  619. in your workplace

  620. and your boss

  621. is doing something

  622. which is just unjust,

  623. unfair,

  624. breaking the rules.

  625. The powerful people

  626. in the company

  627. say you have to go ahead

  628. and do this

  629. and you just feel

  630. the conviction

  631. from within you

  632. that you have to tackle

  633. your boss

  634. and confront them

  635. for the evil

  636. or the wrong

  637. that they're doing

  638. and you decide

  639. you don't do it

  640. and your stress goes down.

  641. Or you get the conviction

  642. of the Holy Spirit

  643. that you have to start

  644. being more financially generous.

  645. I know that when I was

  646. beginning to learn

  647. how to tithe,

  648. there was some real stress

  649. in my life.

  650. All of a sudden

  651. when I had to increase

  652. the amount of giving

  653. that I gave

  654. by $60 every two weeks,

  655. that was a stressful thing.

  656. You do it

  657. and the roof

  658. didn't fall down.

  659. I still ate.

  660. My kids still had clothes.

  661. But you see,

  662. if you stop

  663. doing the hard things

  664. that God is calling you

  665. to do,

  666. you will feel less anxious.

  667. But that's not

  668. a sign of holiness.

  669. It's a sign

  670. that you're no longer

  671. following Jesus.

  672. And the third thing is

  673. is that you're becoming

  674. a sociopath

  675. in a Christian way.

  676. Sorry.

  677. There's a famous actress

  678. who I'm not going to tell you

  679. but it was about

  680. four or five years ago

  681. they had a thing

  682. in the National Post

  683. about the things

  684. that you wish

  685. that you could have

  686. if you could wish

  687. one thing

  688. what it would be.

  689. And one of the things

  690. that this famous actress

  691. said is she wished

  692. that she'd ever feel

  693. any guilt

  694. for the rest of her life.

  695. And I thought to myself

  696. she's just wished

  697. that she becomes

  698. a sociopath.

  699. Why is it that

  700. nobody in the paper

  701. realized she just wished

  702. to become a sociopath

  703. where you feel no guilt?

  704. Because the fact

  705. of the matter is

  706. is if you become

  707. more and more

  708. you don't care

  709. about people

  710. like you really

  711. just don't care

  712. about people at all

  713. and you don't care

  714. about right and wrong

  715. you'll feel less anxiety.

  716. But you know what

  717. if you love people

  718. if you love your friends

  719. if you love your nephew

  720. or your niece

  721. you love your kid

  722. there's always

  723. going to be anxiety.

  724. There always will be

  725. because life

  726. can be really hard

  727. and it breaks

  728. your heart

  729. to see what

  730. they're going through.

  731. And the only way

  732. you stop being anxious

  733. is to start

  734. killing love

  735. and killing concern

  736. and killing your conscience

  737. and who wants that?

  738. If you wanted that

  739. coming into the service

  740. hopefully now you don't.

  741. So whatever

  742. the peace that passes

  743. all understanding

  744. means it doesn't mean

  745. thank you Jesus

  746. as a result

  747. of the Holy Spirit

  748. you're now

  749. permanently in denial

  750. permanently stopping

  751. listening to Jesus

  752. and becoming a sociopath.

  753. No!

  754. That's not what

  755. the peace of Christ means

  756. it can't.

  757. Listen to the text again.

  758. The Lord is at hand

  759. do not be anxious

  760. about anything

  761. but in everything

  762. by prayer and supplication

  763. with thanksgiving

  764. let your requests

  765. be made known

  766. to God

  767. and the peace of God

  768. which surpasses

  769. all understanding

  770. will guard your hearts

  771. and your mind

  772. in Christ Jesus.

  773. It's such a beautiful text.

  774. I'm going to read it again

  775. because if all you do

  776. is remember the text

  777. I've done a good work.

  778. If all you do

  779. is you go home

  780. and you start to wrestle

  781. with God

  782. with this text

  783. that's what my job is.

  784. I'm a herald.

  785. I'm a pointer.

  786. Listen to it again.

  787. The Lord is at hand

  788. do not be anxious

  789. about anything

  790. but in everything

  791. by prayer and supplication

  792. with thanksgiving

  793. let your requests

  794. be made known to God

  795. and the peace of God

  796. which surpasses

  797. all understanding

  798. will guard your hearts

  799. and your minds

  800. in Christ Jesus.

  801. So what does this peace mean?

  802. Does it mean it replaces anxiety?

  803. No, it's referring

  804. to something different.

  805. In the Bible

  806. the word peace

  807. primarily refers

  808. to an objective

  809. state of affairs.

  810. not an emotion.

  811. It refers primarily

  812. to an objective

  813. state of affairs

  814. not an emotion.

  815. Now the objective

  816. state of affairs

  817. will start to influence

  818. your emotions.

  819. It will influence

  820. your affections.

  821. It will influence

  822. your plans.

  823. It will influence

  824. your courage.

  825. It will influence

  826. your desires.

  827. state of affairs.

  828. But it's an objective

  829. state of affairs

  830. that starts to influence

  831. how you feel.

  832. It would be as if

  833. you go to a doctor

  834. and they treat

  835. that you go through

  836. some surgery

  837. and you have the drug

  838. treatments

  839. and you're restored

  840. to health.

  841. The health is an objective

  842. thing and it starts

  843. to have other types

  844. of effects.

  845. Right?

  846. You get your health

  847. and all of a sudden

  848. you have energy.

  849. You get your health

  850. and you're in less pain.

  851. You get your health

  852. and you feel like

  853. you can tackle things.

  854. You get health

  855. and you want to go

  856. like you know what I mean

  857. like it's an objective thing

  858. and what it is.

  859. So the way to understand it

  860. is to think of

  861. you know that people

  862. don't make them anymore

  863. and maybe some of you do.

  864. But if you imagine

  865. that as a bit of a project

  866. in somebody's garage

  867. you wanted to make

  868. the world's most elaborate

  869. mobile.

  870. And so you get

  871. the fishing wire

  872. and you get the fine

  873. pieces of wood

  874. and you have it

  875. be really elaborate.

  876. You have different

  877. lengths of wood

  878. some like this

  879. some like this

  880. and you have different

  881. lengths of wire

  882. and you have different

  883. objects of different weight

  884. and the fishing line

  885. some are long like this

  886. and some are short

  887. and you work on it

  888. and you work on it

  889. until it's all completely

  890. balanced and really beautiful

  891. and that's peace.

  892. That's peace.

  893. And at the heart of peace

  894. is peace with God.

  895. At the heart of peace

  896. is peace with God.

  897. If you just turn in your Bibles

  898. with me to John chapter 20

    John 20 chapter mention

  899. John chapter 20

    John 20 chapter mention

  900. there's this very short

  901. three verse narrative

  902. there's more to the narrative

  903. but there's very short

  904. parts of two and a half verses

  905. which at a narrative level

  906. and plant an idea

  907. into your head

  908. that now that I start

  909. to point it out

  910. you go

  911. oh yeah.

  912. That's the way

  913. narrative works, right?

  914. It's planted there

  915. but one of the main ideas

  916. of what happens

  917. as a result of Jesus'

  918. life, death

  919. and resurrection

  920. is that human beings

  921. can now have peace

  922. with God

  923. and you can't get

  924. that mobile right

  925. if you don't have peace

  926. with God.

  927. You can't get that mobile right

  928. if you don't have peace

  929. with God

  930. and look what happens

  931. so John is an eyewitness

  932. of all of the events

  933. in this

  934. he writes a biography

  935. of Jesus

  936. it's an eyewitness biography

  937. and the very first words

  938. that Jesus speaks

  939. to somebody

  940. after his resurrection

  941. is to Mary Magdalene

  942. we know from other biographies

  943. that Jesus saw other people

  944. but none of the first words

  945. are recorded

  946. these are the first words

  947. of Jesus

  948. other than the words

  949. recorded to Mary Magdalene

  950. these are the first words

  951. recorded by Jesus

  952. that Jesus spoke

  953. that are recorded

  954. when he speaks

  955. to his disciples

  956. in the upper room

  957. look at verse 19

  958. on the evening of that day

  959. so it was in that morning

  960. they discovered

  961. that the grave is empty

  962. the grave clothes

  963. were left behind

  964. and Jesus had risen

  965. from the dead

  966. the first day of the week

  967. the door is being locked

  968. where the disciples were

  969. for fear of the Jewish leaders

  970. Jesus came and stood

  971. among them

  972. and said to them

  973. what's the first thing

  974. he says

  975. peace be with you

  976. and then what does he do

  977. he ties this message

  978. of peace

  979. to his crucifixion

  980. look what he does next

  981. when he had said this

  982. he showed them

  983. his hands

  984. in his side

  985. he shows them

  986. this part of the hand

  987. and he must have

  988. lifted up his jersey

  989. or whatever he was wearing

  990. and showed the

  991. the wound of the spear

  992. that went into his side

  993. that showed that he was dead

  994. and then he says

  995. to them again

  996. peace be with you

  997. he directly connects

  998. his death upon

  999. his life and death

  1000. and resurrection

  1001. to the fact that

  1002. they now have peace

  1003. now the fact of the matter is

  1004. is that

  1005. God doesn't have to have

  1006. Jesus

  1007. God the Father

  1008. doesn't have to have

  1009. Jesus do something

  1010. so that

  1011. you know

  1012. he's no longer

  1013. at war with us

  1014. because God is never

  1015. the Father is never

  1016. I mean how could the Father

  1017. be at war with us

  1018. I mean he doesn't even

  1019. have to blink

  1020. and I just would stop existing

  1021. like that's just

  1022. like

  1023. and the fact of the matter is

  1024. is that God's

  1025. unfailingly good

  1026. he's unfailingly just

  1027. he's unfailingly merciful

  1028. he's unfailingly kind

  1029. he has nothing

  1030. he's not at enmity with us

  1031. but we're at enmity with him

  1032. and we're at enmity with him

  1033. and we can't fix

  1034. our enmity with him

  1035. and if you don't think

  1036. you're at enmity with him

  1037. if the enmity with him

  1038. comes up

  1039. when he

  1040. his presence

  1041. and his sovereignty

  1042. and his rule

  1043. goes against my desire

  1044. would I have to reconcile

  1045. with that person

  1046. would I'm not allowed

  1047. to sleep with that person

  1048. you want me to be generous

  1049. it's not my money

  1050. it's yours

  1051. what do you mean

  1052. it's not my money

  1053. and yours

  1054. I need to actually

  1055. speak up to my boss

  1056. about justice

  1057. I need to repent

  1058. of racism

  1059. like how dare you say that

  1060. like you know

  1061. whoa

  1062. you know

  1063. it's that's when we start

  1064. to realize our enmity

  1065. against God

  1066. and we can't fix it ourselves

  1067. and that's what Jesus does

  1068. the demands of justice

  1069. so that the war

  1070. that our enmity

  1071. can be over

  1072. the demands

  1073. of penitence

  1074. so that

  1075. the war

  1076. could be over

  1077. the demands

  1078. of apologies

  1079. the demands

  1080. of a new life

  1081. the demands

  1082. of a new way

  1083. of living

  1084. all of these demands

  1085. which we could not

  1086. accomplish

  1087. to bring about peace

  1088. Jesus does

  1089. on our behalf

  1090. through his sinless life

  1091. and his sin bearing death

  1092. and his resurrection

  1093. and when we put our faith

  1094. and trust in him

  1095. I have peace with God

  1096. at an objective level

  1097. and now you see

  1098. the power of the teaching

  1099. and how it's all connected

  1100. George

  1101. you have all these anxieties

  1102. and George

  1103. as I've shared

  1104. in some of the last things

  1105. one of the main problems

  1106. that George has

  1107. and if George is all like you

  1108. is I keep getting amnesia

  1109. I walk out of here

  1110. and within minutes

  1111. or hours

  1112. or the next day

  1113. I forget about the fact

  1114. that the Lord is near

  1115. I forget about the fact

  1116. that not only is the Lord near

  1117. in terms of he's present

  1118. with me now

  1119. but that one day

  1120. hopefully soon

  1121. I will see him

  1122. face to face

  1123. and I forget about the fact

  1124. that in Jesus

  1125. by faith with him

  1126. I have peace with God

  1127. I forget about the fact

  1128. that the Lord is near

  1129. it means that my destiny

  1130. is secure

  1131. I forget about the fact

  1132. that my identity

  1133. is now rooted

  1134. in the fact that

  1135. Jesus is my Savior and Lord

  1136. he loves me

  1137. and he died for me

  1138. and that's my primary identity

  1139. and I forget his presence

  1140. I forget my destiny

  1141. I forget these things

  1142. I forget

  1143. that the one

  1144. whose judgment

  1145. most matters

  1146. and a lot of our anxiety

  1147. is over judgments

  1148. about ourselves

  1149. and judgments of others

  1150. and senses of what it means

  1151. to be a man

  1152. or a woman

  1153. or to be hip

  1154. or not hip

  1155. or alt-right

  1156. or progressive

  1157. or all those things

  1158. that are so connected to us

  1159. all those judgments

  1160. we impose on ourselves

  1161. and others say

  1162. and all of our fears

  1163. there's only one judgment

  1164. that really matters

  1165. and that is what

  1166. the Father says

  1167. at the end of our life

  1168. and when you put

  1169. your faith and trust

  1170. in Jesus

  1171. you already know

  1172. what he will say

  1173. welcome

  1174. welcome

  1175. I am so glad

  1176. you're here

  1177. I have loved you

  1178. with an eternal

  1179. and unfailing love

  1180. from the moment

  1181. you were conceived

  1182. in your mom's womb

  1183. and I love you so much

  1184. my son died

  1185. and I love you so much

  1186. the Holy Spirit

  1187. I just so love you

  1188. and I am so glad

  1189. you are here

  1190. welcome

  1191. and so that as we

  1192. pour out our hearts

  1193. remembering the Lord

  1194. is near

  1195. and sometimes

  1196. when it says

  1197. the peace that surpasses

  1198. all understanding

  1199. what that means

  1200. is that in every

  1201. Christian's life

  1202. and we will

  1203. in heaven only

  1204. realize it fully

  1205. that there is

  1206. every one of

  1207. in our lives

  1208. times

  1209. that the

  1210. something of the

  1211. supernatural

  1212. about how we have

  1213. responded to anxiety

  1214. and we don't realize

  1215. that it was just

  1216. a surpassing

  1217. of our understanding

  1218. as a gracious gift

  1219. friends

  1220. what does the Bible say

  1221. oh I have the wrong text

  1222. what does the Bible say

  1223. let your

  1224. the Lord is at hand

  1225. do not be anxious

  1226. about anything

  1227. but in everything

  1228. by prayer and supplication

  1229. with thanksgiving

  1230. let your requests

  1231. be made known to God

  1232. and the peace of God

  1233. which surpasses

  1234. all understanding

  1235. will guard your hearts

  1236. and your minds

  1237. in Christ Jesus

  1238. don't be afraid

  1239. of your anxieties

  1240. pour out your heart

  1241. to the Lord

  1242. there's nothing too small

  1243. nothing too big

  1244. and not just for yourself

  1245. as you look around

  1246. your neighbors

  1247. as you look around

  1248. the church

  1249. and you see the anxieties

  1250. that others have

  1251. pour out your heart

  1252. and pray for them as well

  1253. pour out your heart

  1254. and pray that the Lord

  1255. will meet them

  1256. in their anxiety

  1257. and that rather than

  1258. turning to Jack Daniels

  1259. and rather than

  1260. turning to adrenaline

  1261. junky stuff

  1262. or rather than

  1263. turning to excessive shopping

  1264. or rather than

  1265. turning to whatever it is

  1266. pray that they'll

  1267. turn to the Lord

  1268. and pray for me

  1269. a sinner

  1270. who gets amnesia

  1271. like you

  1272. and needs to learn

  1273. to pour out my heart

  1274. to the Lord

  1275. please stand

  1276. Father

  1277. we are

  1278. these things

  1279. that you know us

  1280. perfectly

  1281. and still you love us

  1282. we thank you

  1283. Father

  1284. that you know

  1285. those things about us

  1286. that are really immature

  1287. and childish

  1288. and you know

  1289. those things

  1290. that are mature

  1291. and still you love us

  1292. you know

  1293. those things about us

  1294. that are very shameful

  1295. and you know

  1296. those things

  1297. that are very excellent

  1298. and still you love us

  1299. we give you thanks

  1300. and praise that you do not weigh our merits, but pardon our offenses. We give you thanks and praise

  1301. that Jesus knew everything there was to know about us when he died upon the cross, and still he loved

  1302. us, and still he died for us. And we thank and praise you that when we could not make peace with

  1303. you, because we found you as our enemy, that you still loved us and sent Jesus to be the one

  1304. who makes peace with you, that he is our peace. Father, we ask that you deliver us from amnesia,

  1305. that you help us to remember our identity in Jesus and our destiny in Jesus and his never-failing

  1306. presence in those things in our lives that make us anxious. Father, make us mindful of these things,

  1307. and all these things we ask in the name of Jesus and all God's people said, Amen.